Emotional manipulation.

Manipulation is a form of emotional abuse causing the person who has been harmed to question reality. In this talk we will look at how this works and ways to move on from being victims. Gaslighting is an aspect of this. A manipulative person claims the frame, controls the timeline, and distorts the truth, all in an effort to manipulate things for their own gain and in an attempt to save face.
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Your a star keep up the good work 🙌

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your positive feedback 😊.

[@user-hj7oi7ih9x]

This makes a lot of sense I used to be manipulated by my brother and sister, and used to just accept it, up until our parents passed some year back, we all feel out over money. It was then I saw them both for what they were.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your comments, it is extremely difficult to see this at times, thank you for sharing your experience.

[@ZeynepKocaman-dl3ys]

Thanks for sharing this with us 🇺🇸

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

I am glad that you appreciate this , do stay turned in .

[@ToryHarrelson]

Thank you Yinka its a great follow up on your last talk.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your positive feedback, keep watching 👀 🙂

[@user-mr7se1gf4x]

My dad all day long, thanks for sharing 👍

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your feedback 😊

[@EmrahKocayurek]

👌🏾

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your feedback.

[@IkraOz-sl7om]

I have a lot to say on this my ex used to do , I told you so to me all the time. O never knew if I was coming or going. Thank you for sharing hopefully people will listen and understand.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for sharing your personal experience, I am sure this will help others, I hope that you're in a better place.

[@user-te8jr3pm1v]

Nice talk sir very thoughtful 👏🏿

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

I am glad that you liked this 👌🏾.

[@DynaJean-tj7ol]

When we grow up we are not really educated about stuff like this, and learning on the j

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thanks for the feedback, we really don’t learn about this short of thing growing up, keep tuning in take care.

[@EqualTwentig]

Nice talk mister

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your comments.

[@IremAydn-zu9ku]

I have been unlucky to have had to different relationships where I have felt a lot of the stuff that you have mentioned here, its not been down to my childhood either, just bad choices 😢.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Good morning it can happen to anyone, it's when we see the patterns then we have the opportunity to change, take care.

[@caseyKetolilo]

You certainly know your stuff , I had no idea where the word Gaslighting came from, but did the research like you suggested and yes it is from a movie, in 1940, top marks 😉.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your positive feedback, it nice to hear that you actually checked out, the orgian of gaslighting. Do take care and keep watching.

[@RodneyStewart0001]

I totally get this s..t my girlfriend is a first class manipulator

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for sharing your experience, are you still together?

[@Aybukkkkkkk]

This happened to me at uni, a tutor of all people 😐

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for sharing.

[@BirsenBirBenTeker]

You certainly come across well

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your feedback 😊.

[@TelifYoksunu]

My boss has this trait towards me.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@HonoratoWhitehead]

The manipulator may use silence or ignorance to punish the victim or make them feel guilty.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your feedback, a good example of how a manipulator can operate

[@HonoratoWhitehead]

@@laserbertmohammedbakare2243 Thanks for feedback!

[@EmreDemir-ho2rd]

Hi there just a quick note, we can see red flags everywhere, but when do we take action, I was married for 16 years before I took back my life, kids and old school thinking 🤔.

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for sharing, I agree with you, that it can be extremely difficult to leave a marriage or long term relationship when this is taking place, especially when the are children present, but if we stay what are we teaching them, take care.

[@yildizEsra003]

Can you do on how to pick yourself up after being abused in this way?

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your comments, I will look into doing something like that.

[@user-wb1dc9os1u]

Could you do a follow up on the same subject but in a family 👪

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

I will attempt to do a follow up in the near future.

[@DilanSevgi-fe4df]

Have you thought of doing a course on emotional regulation codependent tendencies,?

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

I have not, but it does sound like a good idea to. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

[@ElvisAlem]

What is the importance of confronting a person like this

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for your comments. It is important as for us to have a chance of a true peace of mind, we need to be free to be ourselves.

[@MeteOnder-uo8mr]

Did you know the numbers that this affects in England? As I am g

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Good morning, I am not sure of the numbers on this subject.

[@SophiaMia-nk1ry]

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[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you 😊

[@MattMatty-tq5nt]

Can you say if men do this more than women,?

[@laserbertmohammedbakare2243]

Thank you for this important question, I don't know, what do you think 🤔, if you do some research let us know, take care.