What Is The Most Attractive Height To Women? | Macken Murphy
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Control your controllables boys, go to the gym, get jacked, learn to fight. Be strong another way💪🏼
Vocabulary comes off as intelligence if you guys r smart btw !!!!
Preach!
Or put on the shoes and start running! 🏃♂️💨💨💨
Yep accept ya height. Don’t matter how small or tall you are
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
I'm 6'8". A long time ago when I used internet dating there was no point trying to hide that because anyone would notice within seconds of meeting me! Although I have had a lot of people guess I was about 6'4" so maybe after a certain point people aren't very good at judging how tall someone is.
It's irrelevant for me now, my faithful tactic while on a night out of standing in the middle of a room/dancefloor and looking for tall women paid off. Tall women like tall(er) men, fact of life. I met my 6' wife and we now have 3 giant children. Fun times.
When you see a sky scraper of 50 levels, the impact of 10 more doesn’t really change the wow factor. Fifty, mifty. Same here: Once someone easily clears 6’ not much else matters as regards being taller than that - and estimates are usually wildly out.
This. Even at your height, women would assume it's shorter than it is because they often underestimate their own height.
@@Looper444 Look, I'm sure you're lovely but I'm happily married....
But you should absolutely go for whatever floats your boat. I used to try to chat up tall women though because I was hopeful that my height set me apart from other men. There were plenty of better looking guys than me around but if they didn't meet the height criteria then they were out of luck! I actually remember standing there before going to talk to my now wife. As I was about to do so another guy beat me to it but he was about 5'9" and she was about 6'3" in heels so had to bend down to talk to him. Not an issue for me, had a chat, got her phone number, quick dance and kiss to Barry White and the rest is history.
She has said how much her and her tall friends disliked short women dating tall men though! Apparently they need to leave us for the tall girls!
@@FlatToRentUKBarry White? Lol definitely dated yourself.
And none of them are basketball players or will ever be successful at a sport 😂
For men, weight is more important. Once a woman gets to a BMI of 26, I start losing interest real fast.
So basically the average American woman
What is bmi
I mean full form
@@yashtapase3821It's body mass index and 25 I think is normal weight so 26 is overweight.
@@feelsrestricted832226 is probably low for the average American woman.
@@proboi485120 is normal for women, 18 for men. 22 is overweight and 26 is obese.
I’ll never forget. A girl I used to work with, said she was meeting a guy for lunch one day. She showed me his picture and said he was 6 ft, among other things.
The following day I asked her how lunch went, she said she was pretty disappointed when he stepped out of the car and was 5’8. She at some point asked why he lied, his serious response was ‘People get shorter as they age, don’t they?’
I’m 5’3 and the difference of wearing shoes that make me 3inches taller is EXPONENTIAL. I don’t do it everyday, I just wanted to see the difference and there is a huge difference. I remain as 5’3 wearing “normal” shoes because I just don’t wanna be something I’m not & could never be. I was born and will die as a male with short height DNA.
I’m 6’1”. My brothers are 6’7” and 6’3”. My 6’7” brother said once you’re more than about 6’2”, height becomes more of a pain than a benefit
It depends on which country you live in..im about 6 foot 1.5inch bare foot...and i face numerous amount of problems.. In my country the average height of a male is 5 foot 4 inches
An old granny told me to reach something for her at the grocery aisle never felt taller 5’8 😂
As someone that's also 5'8, I found this hilarious 😂😂
😂😂
Love my 5'8" husband of 15 years. Height was never an issue for me.
first time in my life hearing someone describing a graph by candy cane
As someone who is 6'2 I see this as an absolute win
Same here, I see this as an absolute loss. Women don't even register us as "tall", the bonus starts at 6'3.
@@Planeet-Long cap, I'm 6'1 and completely fine (unless the woman is 6ft+)
@@Planeet-LongI’m 6’1 and every woman I’ve been with has said they love that I’m tall and then feel small and safe around me. So you’re cope
Dude what at 6’ 2” everyone thinks I’m tall 😂 Either you’re lying about your height or you’re in a very tall area
Gimme a tall girl. I want every day to be Shandow of the Colossus.
Dude I’ve been there, some days you don’t 😂
For some women, perception of height is different to actual height. Every man under 6’ describes their height as 6’. So as a 5’9” guy, a lot of women assume I’m around 6’
I just say I'm 6' 1 3/4 don't get why people would have the effort to lie.
its so odd how 5'9 can pass as 6ft but also be seen as a midget depending on the person
I've always been happy with 5'11 but I get a woman seeing 6'1 as more attractive. They're definitely outspoken about it 😅
I have trouble believing that women of normal height are significantly more attracted to 6'1" over 5'11". We're towering over them regardless. This must be solely a distortion of dating apps/sites.
@@DouglasGross6022true there’s no way they could tell the difference unless told
@DouglasGross6022 they can tell.
I'm 5'11 but girls don't know the number. I've had at least 3 girls in my lifetime tell me that I'm either "tall enough" for their ideal male height or that I am the ideal male height, or use me as an example of 'tall enough,' when asked by other women how tall they want a guy to be. This is in the West too. Truth is if you're average height (5'9-6'0) then height isn't helping you but it also isn't hurting you. If you can't get a girl at average height, then it's not because you're "short," it's because of something else. Height in a man, like anything else, is an asset.
@@DouglasGross6022 they’re not attracted to the actual height more, they’re attracted to the number itself more. They wouldn’t even be able to tell the difference between 5’11” and 6’1”. If it weren’t listed on a dating app they would never know the difference unless they were of similar height
Information that no one can do anything with. We already knew women like tall guys.
There are leg lengthening surgeries. Bit drastic though!
Im 5’4” and to me 5’8” feels perfect i still look up to them i feel smaller they feel bigger. If your taller great but if your 5’8” most girls dont wear 4” heals all the time and if she does being 3” or 4” taller is enough 5’4” is an average girl hight. And average hight for men is 5’9” so why is this a big deal in conversations?
Exactly. I'm 5'3".
6'2" would tower over me in a weird way and we would never meet eye to eye.😂
Cuz that’s not at all how y’all act. You don’t care how tall he is relative to you. You care about how tall he is relative to other men.
The average is 5'9", so they want 6 feet and above. If the average was 6'3", they would want 6'4". And so on.
It's not about the number, it's about standing out. Women want guys who are above average in every front. Every women, regardless of the fact they are or aren't above average, they just want all the things.
If it was about standing out then 7 foot guys would be the most attractive. Ask any girl and most would not like their guy to be 7 feet tall. So your statement actually doesn’t make sense.
@@poopoomangioneIt does make sense. Women want men with traits that stand out positively, traits that brings out favourable associations in others. Women generally like men with big arms, but not so large that it looks freakish or unhealthy/weird. You get me?
@@poopoomangione Your first mistake is asking women what they want. If you knew anything about women you'd know you believe their actions, not their words.
@@bluelagoon5 I understand women don’t like the freakish bodybuilder look. But in terms of height, and just responding to the nonsensical statement of the guy I was responding to, he’s still wrong.
@@yaboiavery5986 Their actions also show they don’t often flock towards a freakish 7 foot man. So nothing I said is wrong. You can watch, or ask, same result.
3' 6" about thigh height. With a 10" tongue.
And you can breathe through your ears.
😂😂😂😂
I changed my height from 5'6" to 3'6" on OkCupid and started getting way more likes
6’6 and I think that has had a significant impact on the girls that talk to me. I am not particularly interesting in any area of my life and have what I would consider average looks. I def wish I was shorter too, I have had random people on the street ask how tall I am and for a hug, it’s very awkward and uncomfortable for me to deal with. I hit ceilings when walking, my mind races as I can see every head in a room, I am more identifiable, clothes are harder to find, I also have a disproportionately long wingspan so long sleeve shirts are always 2 sizes too big just to reach my wrists while the actual shirt is baggy. While it is something that can’t be controlled it is still hard to not think about how simple life would be if I was shorter.
Unbelievably the same experience with essentially the same height
I'm the same height as you, always wish I was 2 inches shorter. But I would definitely rather still be 6 ft 6 than like 5 foot 9. I often tell people I'm 4 ft 30 inches.
Btw...American Tall has clothing that's good for tall guys.
6'5 here, completely agree
@@Gabriel-pt6tq oh thank you for the clothing recommendation! I have just been wearing baggy stuff😭 I tell everyone I’m 6’1 to make them second question their own height🤣🤣
Bro says it tapers off then at the end says “you’re better being basketball player tall than 5,10
Im 5'8 and whilst i have come to accept my height for what it is, i must admit that i reckon i probably would feel a bit insecure if i dated a woman the same or an inch or two taller than me. Just got to be good at other stuff like being in shape and having a good character
Same. I am also 5'8
cringe
I am 6’ 3”. I have always said this is the perfect height. I can still buy my clothes at Dillards (a department store near where I live) I am usually the tallest guy in the room, but I’m not “the tall guy”. I still mostly blend in.
Lol, you THINK that. I am exactly 6'0". You stand out even to someone my height. But for me I don't notice height unless someone is taller. Even at only 6' that means I don't notice most people's height.
I’m 5’11 1/4 on the dot. I’m satisfied with my height but one more inch would be perfect
Being 6'5", I've always told people I'm glad to be at the edge of "cool tall" because over 6'6" is "freak tall"
Same here haha
😂
Unable to sit in an average car and hitting head on most doorways would be a never ending problem.
I’m 6’ 2” and know someone 6’ 5” and I imagine he’s basically the tallest you can get without looking awkward
I'm 6 ft 6, if I see someone taller than me I kinda freak out because tbh it rarely happens. Don't think I've seen anyone taller than me this entire year amd it's now the end of april
My son is at college. At 6’-7” he says he gets a lot of attention, but the girls are crazy.
being loved for something shallow
@@AC-mp7cx as opposed to men loving for physical attributes in women? Everyone is shallow.
@@kenadams3306 Men generally prioritize things that are in a woman's control, though.
what type of attention. Good or bad
@@yaboiavery5986they do not lol
Height doesn’t matter when you have money
height doesn’t matter in general. you’re just saying the female attracting quality of being tall is the same as being rich. and you’re right. i couldn’t have enough money in the world to get me to play for the lakers though
6'3 we are the light bulb changers and light bringers/givers. XD
I used to do that for my dentist - tennis buddy when he first opened his practice. (I'm 6'7")
Also more prone to head knocks. When I work in my garden, I’m forever trying to avoid my head banging against tree branches and low hung door frames. I can literally only stoop so low. My partner is never surprised when, at the completion of my work, I’ve got at couple of sizeable bloodied bumps on my head and asks with a knowing smile: “Who have you been fighting with today?” My shorter cousins can count themselves lucky they have far fewer head knocks.
@@rodywithers35366ft1, got only a few knocks in my life.
To be honest - the most important part of attraction - is the size of the heart and brain!!
Just a confidence boost for my short kings out there. If a woman loves you she loves you! My husband is the same height as me (5’6”) and I adore him ❤. He’s good to me and we love each other. I hope that he sees himself the way that I do.
Im 5'5, in really good shape and funny as hell. Been with enough women already that im satisfied
@@ZM-dm3jg He already did ("I'm 5'5")
Bro slayed a few slumpbusters who were in a kawk draught and thinks he’s done something
@@Mac-hr9rglol stay mad
Judging someone by how tall they are is so stupid.
Everyone judges each other by appearance. And so do you and I. It’s a sad state of affairs.
@@hilly5488, but you can overcome those judgements. You can choose not to act on those prejudices or even to act in the negative to counter any unconscious bias.
@@flyingphoenix113 What on earth are you talking about. Are you arguing for ignoring basic human attraction because it's unfair? Would you decline a date with scarlett johanson because it's unfair to the less genetically gifted women?
@@hilly5488 Its called character
As someone who is 6'3 it's not stupid. Very logical infact 😉
Work on yourself, body and mind. Be cultured, stoic, confident, well versed, well traveled, read a lot, women are attracted to your character and charisma, mystery, men are attracted to visual representation. The more independent and individualistic you are, the more attractive you become for women.
As a 6'2 male I feel blessed.
I offered to introduce my boyfriend to my friend before he was my boyfriend because she’s taller than me and he is tall. I like when I can look a man in the eye but guess some women don’t care about that.
I'm taller than my husband. There were plenty of tall guys that I liked, but no one else I loved.
5'8 gang
that’s for the information Snow
It’s all a preference too. Not only based on your height but even people with the same height will view it differently. For example I am 5’9 and like girls 1-3 inches shorter. It just doesn’t really click for me when a girl is shorter than that, like I can’t look at her without looking down and this feels strange, I like being more like companions, so closer, idk if u get what I mean. Why I know a lot of the guys like bigger height difference, to feel bigger than the girl and more masculine, and find these girls more feminine to them. I tried girls taller than me too, and I guess 1-3 inches shorter than me is perfect for me. I am still a little taller, but a girl is tall enough for us to be “close” to each other at all times and sorta more “equal”. So no matter your height you will find not only a person that likes your height, but even a person of the height you want that likes your height)
Idc, being short is nice it saves quite some money on food 😂
5" 10 to 6"3 is perfect
now, sit you down with a blank sheet of paper, and seriously think: which traits are _actually_ more important TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP than height? i absolutely acknowledge that guys place a priority on trivialities too, but this does kind of fly in the face of this eMotIoNaL iNtElLigEncE claim that women make.
you ladies making important decisions largely motivated by the desire to be validated as a high value woman... by other women.
Im 5ft7. Wish I was at least average height
I’m 6’7 and trust me they want the BWC
BWC?
@@digitalincomeinsight
Big white 🐔
I got the 7'' BWC the other stats doesn't matter
They want the KFC good ol colonel sanders
That's not how you spell bbc.
I do prefer taller men, taller than me anyway. It’s not about them, it’s about how it makes me feel. I don’t like feeling like the Jolly Green Giant. I am 5’5. So anything over that is fine.
same thing applies to gay men as well. society in general just absolutely do not value short men they way they do tall men, and it absolutely baffles me how a guy can be great in so many categories and yet still be completely disqualified as a potential romantic partner or even a date simply bc of something as vain and superficial as height.
same way it baffles me how i’ve seen and heard ppl, both gay men and straight women, tolerate incompatibility and dark triad personalities and just poor behavior and relationship dynamics w/ a guy simply bc he’s tall. i’ve seen and heard it so many times in my life thus far it makes no sense how we over value tall ppl. i’ve worked w/ so many short male leaders too it’s not like being short male has to be a death sentence in the realm of economic or athletic competition lol. idk. c’est comme ça i guess
Dude if a girl doesn’t like you for your height, just move on. It happens to almost all of us at some point and when you get the first initial sting of it, you get more okay hearing that. I’m 5’9 and was pretty self-conscious about my height up until a year ago (I’m 27 now). It just doesn’t matter even though I understand a 5’11 girl being hesitant, just like I was, it just is what it is. If it’s that big of a deal to people, it’s just vanity and worrying about how it looks socially. It’s not as much about the protective part as it is people, usually women, being concerned with how it looks to others. If the vanity is that important to them, let ‘em go to the next guy. It’s a waste of time to feel self-conscious and to try to make it work
one day your hindsight may catch up to you and from your lonely apartment building at 65 you may question these words. maybe, maybe not. time will tell señor laissez faire
@@stephengamble4872why would it catch up to him - he’s absolutely right, the wisdom is clear: nothing u can do about your height so if someone is vain enough to reject you for it, let them go and just move on to someone who’ll appreciate you instead. no point worrying or ruminating on height
As a gay man... I'm really done hearing about women's preferences.
Im ,5'7 😂. Never had problems with women but then again I don't live in America and never used dating apps.
I find it interesting that makeup on women is perfectly acceptable in society, even though it's purpose is to enhance and hijack attraction triggers in men, but if a man is found out to be wearing height boosting shoes he would very likely be ridiculed by women and men alike.
Something worth noting is that a lot of girls seem to not have a clue how tall is tall. I’m 5’8” and I’ve had girls insist I must be taller. And I’ve also had girls insist I was lying and that I’m actually SHORTER than 5’8”. Something to keep in mind.
Also, my fiancé is 5’3” and I don’t think my height has ever been brought up in all the time I’ve known her. She probably sees me as “tall enough” so no need to give any more energy to the subject.
Yea, they don’t know how to tell heights at all.
i'm in the "too tall" category. 6'7". (and too skinny, with no NBA salary in my future, lol). The funny thing is, usually when I try to approach tall womenI get no-where. I have more success with short or average height women
Idc about height, Why I've never had a problem finding a high value man. Keep it up ladies😂
I observe shorter women tend to prefer taller men. At 5'7, I'm taller average, and I definitely don't like taller men, 5'10/6 ft is the most I'm comfortable with.
But most men lie about their height so most girls don’t really know what 6’ is. Also 6’ is just a nice, whole number.
I don't believe that for most women beeing "basketball player tall" is better than 5'10". And the data from research Ive seen illustrate this. A graph from one study showed the apex of the curve representing preffered height was 6', not 6'1", and sloped down immediately afterward. Thus 5'10" was equal to 6'2" in this regard. Maybe the American popuarity of basketball and "urban" culture has something to do with this erroneous belief. Basketball players, often 6'6" or taller, are actually awkward looking. The study I looked at showed that the most preffered male height fir women is 7 inches taller than themselves. Thus, only if the average female height were about 6' would women prefer "basketball height" over 5'10". But since there are many more women 5'3" tall than 6', more would prefer a man at 5'10".
This guy has his data wrong.
I’m 5 foot 9.685 inches (177cm) and never had problems with attracting girls and I look average in face. But I’m from Central Asia maybe that’s the reason.
It's all relative. My two sisters are tall, one is 6ft. I'm a 6.1ft man. Both of their boyfriends are taller than me. Women will always want a man that is taller than them but not too tall that it's awkward.
yeah but the confidence being 6ft8... will get you girls for sure... it's also an easy opener for a girl to chat you up
A pinch above 6' and I've never had a complaint. Everyone likes what they like. I won't date a woman with blue eyes so there's that.
What? Why? That's just WEIRD.
@@JediNiyte No, it's my preference. People have prferences about skin color, height and hair color, why not eye color as well?
A steep bell curve is now called a candy cane. Interesting.
6” 6’ 6$
6’7 and I can assure you that I flattened tinder.
What
What can I do about my height?
Oh I know
Absolutely nothing
depends on what you’re actually trying to solve. you don’t just want to be tall, you just want what quality of life comes from being tall. if you could get all the same qualities of life as someone who’s 6’5 you wouldn’t give a shit how tall you are. so yes, there probably is something you could do about it
Just the people on his app have these preferences
So, in short 6.3 / 1,90m is the best. My height.
I’m 6’1 and literally nobody’s ever said man you’re tall! The good part is I can look straight at my buddy’s who’s 6’3 when taking and I can tell he’s taller but from far distances it’s like damn this dude looks big. Yeah well 6 foot I am and can’t change it. The midget I will always be.
5 ft 11 to 6 ft 1 seems the ideal range. The world isn’t made for tall tall
I had a hard time wanting to date women under 5'5". Preferred 5'7-5'9".
Men have height preferences, too.
I'm 5'9" and I prefer guys that are 5'7" and 5'10", always have
As someone who's 5'11 I'm not quite sure where I stand
Same 5’11 exactly
And 5’11 7/8 in the morning
6'7" here. All good, no complaints from me, or anyone else. :-D
Maybe it is all arbitrary when you are old and hunched over. Maybe love for ok there and intellect is the most provocative thing
I’m 6'2 sweet spot 😂
Right? I love it here
Diminishing returns per inch.
Lads, lift more.. read more.. the rest will fall into place.
Idk man, most women I know don't really care about height that much. I think it is true though that most women want a guy who's at least as tall as they are
They want tall, but not too tall just the right tall.
Im 5'5 sucks being screwed but guess i wont be distracted lol
Bro 6’7 is a bit too tall outside of sports and even in dating unless you date a 6 ft woman then it’s fine, I’m 6’1 and my wife is 5’7 and to her anything over 6’2 is too tall.
The average is 6’1” on dating apps not only because of height inflation but because short guys probably use apps less because they work against them.
Basketball player tall is better than average? Maybe in the short term, and maybe not for the man overall. Being 6’9” just sounds laughably impractical. Like, compact and semi-compact cars are not an option. You may not want a sedan at all. Doorways are too low, maybe too narrow. Not only the average woman but almost all women are awkward to kiss while standing. I don’t date more than a foot away from my height (and I’d rather date within half a foot), and 3/4 or more of women are shorter than 5’9”. And that’s without addressing the probably increased risk of endowment compatibility.
I don’t care how tall they are as long as there isn’t a huge difference either shorter or taller than me. I don’t wanna be either stooping down or straining up on my toes to kiss you. Very inconvenient.
My boyfriend is 5 feet 8 he never got called short but got rejected for being not interesting enough for these women who dated ex jail guys, that is pretty dumb as well
Women mostly just like men who are strong.
There’s not a lot of women who wouldn’t date someone with a Mike Tyson body just because he wasn’t 6 feet tall.
I knew a short guy who was hugely bulky from constant gym. He still looked like a muscled up dwarf.
@@cattysplatexactly, even getting buff it’s still goofy lookin. There’s no winning
Facial features and height are more important than muscles.
dating someone taller is never optimal
Where my 6’1 boys at
Here. No complaints, I don't feel ridiculous next to 6ft3 men, and I'm often the tallest one in the tram.
A very tall man who’s not very tall. Got it
Women date taller men, and women above 6’1 is very very uncommon. I believe this is the correlated measure that Best encapsulates female dating patterns
Women are getting taller though, especially now they play more sports at school and do more physical exercise and gym.
I used to be 6’1”, but a lower back condition has shrunken me to 5’11” :(
Im 5'4 its the brest height if you ask me 😅
Being 6’6 and watching this 😅
So be 6 foot 1. Got it.
Women like a male to be taller than them, thats all. Stop complicating it.
6 foot and over isn't good for optimum health.
The goldilocks zone for height for human beings and their organs is around 5'6-5'10, the taller you go,vthe more stress gets placed on organs.
Intimacy intensity and quality, requires heights to be closer together.
Sex life intensity and quality increases when heights are closer together.
Relationship intensity and quality increases when heights are closer together.
And so on.
Sickkk tatts
Yo i just caught a stray at the end for no reason ☠️
Over here at 5 Foot 4 Inches.
Same here my guy😅
Sucks man, I get it
Same. At least I built up muscle fairly quickly. Would recommend daily bicep curls to all the short kings out there. It has got to make a huge difference.
Next ask: what is the most attractive weight to men?
Only short dudes think about height. Any guy who's normal height doesn't think about this
I’d loved to get an evolutionary biologist’s reasoning for why height hasn’t been eliminated as an issue for modern men by the decisions of previous generations of women. E.g. ear size and shape variability is not a huge deal for women, why didn’t height become the same thing?
Because it's still a statistical social proof of success. Society rewards taller men with higher positions with better pay. In laywoman's terms, big man is safe hands.
@@cattysplati always suspected women understood or acted on their height preferences before they ever realized the actual existential/sociological implications of tall height. i worry there’s something else more to it
Everyone I know always says they’re an inch taller than they are
Not me. I'm 6ft1, and think 6ft2 is too tall anyway. Not in absolute terms but I would get knocks and risk getting lower back issues.
It honestly doesn't matter. I'm 5'10 and last girl I was with was 6'2.
is that potentially because guys lie on dating apps about their heights?
And why do you think guys would potentially be lying on dating apps about their heights?
@@Firstname_Surnameshort guys round up to as close as they can to 6’. Actually 6’ guys don’t get recognition because 6’ is the standard. They round to 6’1, above average, and still a reasonable claim. I’m 6’2 and then some. But I don’t say I’m 6’3. I don’t need to round up, and neither do the rest of the 6’2+ guys. All that does is make me look like a liar, and for what benefit? If we rounded up too, the average dating app height or whatever he said would be much more than 6’1.
As a 5’8” woman I’ve dated men my height or slightly shorter and they tend to be self conscious they aren’t taller than me and hate me wearing heels. I end up modifying what I wear to not trigger their insecurities, which isn’t healthy.
I’ve learned it’s much easier just to date men 5’10” or taller.
I almost wish I’d stoped growing at 5’6” as it’d be easier to date.
I am 5’6 and I don’t care. Just wear what make you feel beautiful
I'm 5'6" and my bf is 5'4". I've dated plenty of six footers, and the problem was they were small as people. So I felt wrong with them. Diminished. I don't even feel my bf's height. For real. The difference is his lovely self confidence, and good self esteem, and the wonderful way he treats me. I feel perfect as I am. And he's the best I've ever had. There's ZERO correlation between height and size 😁
Yup - I'm a tall girl too. Dated shorter guys & even married a man shorter than myself. Lots of guys "say" they don't mind if you're taller than them, but after the novelty period wears off - their insecurities come out. Like this scenario: No - I'm not gonna wear flip flops with a nice dress to a wedding just so that you'll feel better 🙄
@@Art_Enthusiast I like to wear what feels good, the problem occurs when I date a man who doesn’t like me to because it makes me taller than him
@@miateacher123 I have to disagree. It’s great you’ve found a shorter man that’s not bothered by being shorter. I’ve had men tell me not to wear certain shoes (and I’m only talking about 2” heal pumps, not tramp stilettos) just because they don’t like me being taller than them.
6'5" and I do not approach women because due to my size I'm worried about intimidating them. What that means for me though is that I only go on dates with girls from apps because we can talk first but I haven't met anyone in my area I like. Now I've had problems staying in shape because I feel like I have no reason to with no potential partners and I've gotten overweight. Being tall definitely doesn't always help.
Stay in shape because it keeps you healthy and more likely to live a long and active life. Any cosmetic improvements are a bonus.
6 ft 5 is not that tall if you date a slightly taller girl.
You must visit the Netherlands.
I think most women want a man who is about 6 to 8 inches taller than them