Sameeee I would accidentally swallow a watermelon seed . Thought it was going to grow inside or I was afraid it was never going to come out the other end properly and I would be in pain possibly.
When I was this kids age I was convinced I wanted to be a boy and only played with boys toys, wore boys clothes only and I really thought I was born in the wrong body. It lasted a few years and then I absolutely knew I was born in the right body as a female and I love being female.
Same here. I was such a tom boy growing up. I thought I was a boy as well. Come to find out those were only feelings. I love being female and am married with 4 kids. I'm glad my parents didn't support me when I said I think I am a boy. That was shut down quick.
Good for you. Unfortunately, this child can't live a 100% "normal" life because of all the hate in the world. But she still plays. I don't know where you got this idea that she isn't also a kid and therefor does "kid" things.
She's asking a 7 year old if they would like to legally change their name on their birth certificate like what did the child know about that? Now they're going to keep asking.
Yes. That is because parents in that era did not harp on such phases, which will pass. Instead now parents are crazy, they immediately pump their kids with hormones. Poor kids.
When i was a kid i played with both barbies and toy trucks. Never made me confused about my gender because they're literally just toys, not an indication that i was the opposite sex.
@@dont_ask_y_im_hereijustam3821 she says “in the near future”. But my point is, how can a 7-year-old take seriously such a question? No way she can understand the importance of this document, the parents should know it.
@@claudiaapril258 i know but they asked her if she wants to change it now and she say yea . Then they are gonna ask her again when she’s older for her final answer to see if she wants the same thing or if she changed her mind .she’s a kid so she wants to be what she wants to be if it makes her happy then it’s what ever . My brother wanted to be a princess until he was like 10 and we let him be a princess . My point is , kids have a wild imagination and they wanna be tons of things when they are little but as soon as they wanna be the opposite gender it’s a problem , so what if they change her birth certificate in the *FUTURE* if she changed her mind she has the right to change it back because it’s HER life and HER decision. Plus it’s not like they’re getting her surgery. They are just asking her questions about her future. That yes she might change but it’s still important to ask questions 🤷
@Hubert #DEVELOPAR#HVHER no one is teaching HER to be nothing she said that she wanted to be that way on her own she started acting that way on her own they are just supporting her . When she grows up and she wants to be a women then she’d still be a woman if she wants to be a male that that will be what she decides.people don’t wanna actually try and understand where people are coming from witch is why most people hide they’re children because people are so quick to Judge before they know the whole story . … that child Can be whatever they want , they aren’t hurting / harming anyone and they aren’t abusing the child she actually seems really happy .. if they would tell her to not be herself then Shes be upset … also when a kid is 3 or 2 saying they wanna be the opposite gender without you even saying anything about genders that’s when you know they are serious. I wouldn’t change anything legally about her until she’s 18 but she’s free to be / wear what ever she wants up until that point as long as she’s not harming herself or others 🤷
I don't think they should let her fully transition until she is older and is for sure this is who she is. As a child you want to be so many things that your little mind has many uncertainties.
they’re only letting her socially transition. they said in the video it’s completely her decision on whether to have permanent changes when she grows up.
I understand where your coming from but as her parents say “there are no life altering changes” she can decide if she wants to be a boy or anything in between in the future. But I understand what your saying.
@@jgrennmusic It is harmful to a child's mental health. This is a completetly normal thing all 2 year olds do on a daily basis and treating them like the opposite sex as they are still developing and don't even know what gender is and how it differs from sex is harmful.
They can decide this at any age , it shouldn’t matter bc if they want to be the other gender at sag 5 years old then let them there should be no problem but I see what your saying
@@alpheendominationyou can do anything at any age , it shouldn’t matter , at 2 years old I knew what genders were . Don’t be rude and anyone can be who they want to be
@@2025ishere Please do not accuse me of being rude because I was not. And in actual fact, age does matter, because surprise surprise, you are not born with a fully functioning brain which is still developing until roughly age 25. Genders are different from sex, children at that age understand basic biological differences between male and female, they do not understand what gender social expression is.
Unfortunately this little kid is labeling everything either “boyish” or “girlish” and praises either of them as the society and parents taught. And it sounds sexist. This is the problem of transitioning I think. You start hating your gender and idolize the other.
@@DonFatherTrump Are you suggesting that transitioning should be illegal? I’m sorry but this shows how unsupportive you are; trans people should have the right to transition.
Are you stupid? Transitioning doesn’t mean you’ll hate the gender you were born as and idolize the one you are transitioning to. Also a lot of trans people had the same type of feelings as kids and grew up transitioning.
@@DonFatherTrump Actually trans people who face discrimination,abuse, unacceptance, and can’t transition are more likely to develop depression,anxiety and attempt suicide. You wanting transition to be illegal will help no one, because transitioning is the only way to ease gender dysphoria. It’s obvious you know nothing about gender dysphoria or being trans by that statement.
SO NOW THERE IS A AGE TO BE ALLOWED TO BE YOUR SELF? AND HAPPY? YO WANT WAHT THAT SHE END HER LIFE BEFORE YOU LETS HER BE HERSELF??? CHILD ABUSING MUCH?
@@iamanillussion male to female, or female to male. Is that about right? Also, what does them being cis have anything to do with it? Isn’t ridiculing someone’s personal views based off their sexual orientation kinda hypocritical of you?
@Lotra Cuenta Well, if the brains one of the most important biological organs in your body and the gender area of the brain (limbic system - Stria terminalis) is the same size and contains very similar neurons to that of the persons desired gender. Then they biologically are that gender. Stump that one einstein 🖕. Like people say. Think with your head, not your lower parts you ...lol
Im pretty sure there are many 3 yr old boys who also do girl stuff doesnt mean their parents should straight up encourage that like srsly ? I havent ever parents letting a 4 yr old dyeing their hair , this vid has nothing to do about transgender but their parents encouraging on everything
To the point of enabling. Many parents have been conditioned by society to go softer these days. Say no to less and less or else they're painted as abusive or intolerant smh
At least he loves his kid and as long that kid become a humble person even though they will get shitloads of attitudes from others must feel more heavy and even though no matter he allows to love his kid.
@@scratchking3205 i havent mentioned into this feed about media influences nor cartoon or toy makers involvement but yes that and games apps do that to all of us and the kids.. in this feed i ment above at least the father loves his kid the feed the one who wrote it was about the dad
@@ZacharyC2000 Yeah, I heard that some people have said their children are gender-neutral as default so that they can try out labels and make bigger decisions when their older.
It’s just interesting that if a literal baby shows interest in a toy that’s not specific to their gender, they’re automatically gender nonconforming and pegged as transgender and told that they’re now a boy/girl. I would literally be so confused. This poor kid is going to have identity crisis for the rest of their life.
Exactly, playing with girl stuff or playing with guy stuff doesn’t mean to change gender. It’s just sad that people think if their kid plays with barbies at 5 when they are a boy to transition them to a fake girl
This is an actual transsexual child. She has been exhibiting symptoms of gender non conformity from age 2-7 that’s 5 years. Clearly it’s not a phase. Like the parents said letting her explore her gender isn’t hurting anyone. If she really is trans, this transition is the healthiest thing for her. If she changes her mind later, no major changes have been made. But if she gets to 12-13 that would mean she’s been saying she’s trans her ENTIRE LIFE and could take the next step in the process. Calling her a fake girl doesn’t negate the fact that there are actual trans people in this world who know from a very young age. At the end of her transition, she will be physically and hormonally a girl. She will have a vagina just like a girl, and by that time will have lived her entire life as a girl. Don’t confuse the trendy teen girls who are changing their pronouns with this child who is an actual medical transexual. People like Ella need treatment. Just like someone with any other condition would seek treatment. Forcing this child to “man up” and not letting her do what comes naturally to her would be wrong and I admire and stand by these parents for their strength and bravery. This was not an easy decision for them. Clearly it was a very serious situation if they have allowed her to live and present in the way that makes her happy.
the kid probably spend a lot of time with the mom. you can see them wearing lipstick together. you can see the kid wearing their moms dresses and shoes. he looked up to her!!! kids mimic their parents, thats just what they do. that doesnt mean that this biological boy is now all of a sudden a girl. thats not how that works.
My sister tried to talk to my then 5 year old about homosexuality and said I am intolerant because I don’t wanted it. A little child doesn’t need to know such things.But she talks about this subject just to make me angry,she can’t tolerate my opinions.
@@willd6215 I think it was because when I was a child it wasn’t as public as it is now. Heck I didn’t even know what homosexuality was either back then.
@@teejay8910 Ella should go get a job then, because clearly she is a complete ADULT now. Maybe she can teach her parents a thing or two about life. Then proceed to help her parents out with financial assistance with her new adult job. 🙄
Hey America, please keep your wicked culture to yourself. And stop trying to shove it down the throat of others. We would rather be dignified than developed nation.
When I was 7 I also liked boy things. I wore boy clothing, played with boy toys etc. if my parents would have encouraged it, then obviously I would want it. That’s how it works. Just because a kid likes a certain thing doesn’t mean anything. I love myself. If I would have transitioned at such a young age I wouldn’t have been who I am today. A confident young woman.!
I think you don’t understand that children don’t transition. They just cut their hair and maybe choose a new name. You can’t medically transition until 18 and your identity is proved by a number of doctor, psychologists and psychiatrists. So if your parents encouraged you, you would probably go by he/him for a while and cut your hair, which would grow back and eventually you’d go back to being a woman and live your life as you’re living it now. Maybe it didn’t apply on you but a big majority of trans children don’t go back to their biological gender. What works for you might not work for her.
@@elenkorkmaz4075 No- you don’t understand. Children are highly influenced. Also- no. If your parents encourage you to do something you’ll do it. Where is that logic coming from? That child looks like they’ve been influenced. There’s lab tests on this sort of stuff, and I encourage you to look it up. Also, there’s hormone blockers that you can take at 10- 11 years old. That’s WAY too early , not to mention those pills contain very bad ingredients for your health. Please think of the side effects before accepting all that your child wants.
This is a horribly sad trend. Tragic really...... I wanted to be a boy when I was a kid and called myself Mike. I'm so glad my parents didn't jump on that.
Not a trend as transgender people have existed in some form for thousands of years. Calling it a trend is like saying it's trendy to be bullied. Why would they "choose" to be transgender knowing the stigma behind it. Not a choice not trendy.
@@darthevil9999 it is a trend. Since Obama made this okay, this stuff is everywhere. Check this out, Why are so many going into it then trying to reverse it when they get older? There is a whole video about this issue on real people who transitioned. The video is called I want my gender back. Think about it, really. Then it’s mainly women pushing this stuff. Any transgender video I seen they’re women supporting it. Why aren’t so many men? It’s a delusional concept like how women like to play with Barbie dolls and never get out of the phase of pretending then they move on to playing sims. Really and truly think about it.
@@The_Fat_Fury No, it isn't. What's child abuse is legislation taking away life affirming treatment from transgender children. Threatening doctors with jail time for keeping children alive. Get bent loser.
How is it hurting her? She’s just being herself It’s not supportive to tell a lgbtq member “ no “ and it’s not just allowing to say yes What you saying could be taken very offensively, and it could be considered transphobic/homophobic.
@@meowbuckett Alice Dreger is a bioethicist and professor at Northwestern University's Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago. She calls herself an (im)patient advocate who prefers evidence to ideology. She is a strong supporter of transgender rights. But she thinks the pendulum has swung too far. One reason is that social norms have dramatically changed. It is now fashionable to embrace your diverse child. Parents who encourage their kids to change gender "are socially rewarded as wonderful and accepting," while parents who try to take it slow "are seen as unaccepting, lacking in affection and conservative," she says. These days, parents who don't like the slow-and-careful answer can shop for another one. Ms. Dreger is highly critical of what she calls the "hasty clinics," which are happy to help a kid transition right away. "Parents don't like uncertainty," she says. "They'd rather be told, 'Here's the diagnosis, and it's all gonna turn out fine.'" Teenagers can find fast help, too. Plenty of doctors are happy to help them out with hormone treatments just for the asking.
I think he's traumatised somehow by the very masculine dad and his older brother who don't seem to have been capable of connecting with him on his level. And I also think the mother really wanted a girl at least for her second child. I think she was majorly disappointed in him turning out as a boy, but jumped at the moment he showed a first interest in feminine stuff. The way he got overly excited about the pink hair colour in particular raised some red flags. Girls don't normally change their hair colour like that on a whim. It's a very intimate thing for a girl, her hair. Girls don't feel comfortable suddenly popping up all bright pink like that. So there IS something the matter definitely. I don't see true femininity. I see a feminised male instict.
@@marioluigi9599 #1: SHE* You misspelled that #2: She isn't traumatized by her father and brother. Clearly it shows that for a while she's been a girl, and is very happy the way she is now. Seen as a girl #3: I don't think the mother is pushing this bc she wants a girl. She's making her kid happy. #4: Girls are all different. And as a kid, my sister used to get very VERY excited over pink and purple hair colors. Especially when she was able to dye her hair. She was extremely excited. Are you a Male or female? #5: I see true femininity, and even if she wasn't overly feminine doesn't mean she isn't female.
What does that mean? 7 years old- this is pre-puberty, the sexuality is not developed yet. Why sexualise a child?! The child has no way of knowing he/she is "trans" unless their parents put these ideas in the child's mind. This is totally perverse and wrong. I know this comment is unpopular in 2021, but facts, biology and the objective Truth are timeless. Stop hurting children for your own egoistic gains [social credit etc.].
These parents, and i use that term loosely, should be in prison. Age four is when the human brain begins to gain the ability to make memories not gain the ability to make life changing decisions.
There are some things that the whole world doesn’t need to know. Especially right now your child is young. This might effect her later in life. Whatever you decided keep it in your family. You post it and complain when you get criticism
@@hellobot67 she’s literally a girl, if she changes her mind later on then she can change. she’s not doing anything that’s permanent. if she even wants to go on hormone therapy she has to talk to a therapist for months and have to wait til she’s 15.
@@abimbolaaku2709 I agree. Either that kid was being molested and it’s confused or they wanted a girl from birth and didn’t get one so they poisoned the child’s mind.
@@ladydeanna3775 if you tell a child that he/she is a wolf since birth. The kids going to think it’s a fking wolf😂 These parents 1000% played a major role in why this kid is thinking this was. And yah, molestation is probably a factor
@@abimbolaaku2709 yeah no sorry that’s not how it works my mom always taught me that there’s things for boys and girls she taught me the toxic heteronormativity that you come from and since I was kid I always knew I was a girl so don’t even talk about what you don’t know
*When I was 7, I wanted to be a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle. My parents didn't throw me in a sewer and force me to do kung fu with a talking giant smelly old rat...* 🐀 🐢 🐢 🐢 🐢 🍕
Good for you. Unfortunately, this child can't live a 100% "normal" life because of all the hate in the world. But she still plays. I don't know where you got this idea that she isn't also a kid and therefor does "kid" things.
This definitely is a difficult subject, I think if I was the parent I would just let them express themselves the way they want to(wear dresses etc) as a child, and if by the time they hit puberty(around 12) and would still want to change gender I'd just let them and support them fully in the process.
I'm not encouraging anything though, they'd choose that themselves. I'd just want to make sure its a permanent thing. If they'd want to wear girls clothes I'd react the same as if they'd want to wear boys clothes, whatever makes them happy.
@@Daisyflower25 you are encouraging them weather they choose it or not back to the they are children and don’t know better but u as the parent does , kids are confused they don’t know what they want at that age that why you as the parent as supposed to teach them and guide them point blank
Child cater to adult and get their reaction to form the identity. It is a feedback system to enlarge what the initial thought. The initial thought might come from his mother, a TV show or a coversation.
@@lautoby9165 it seems like the narrative went from people saying toys shouldn't have gender, like a boy can play with dolls and girl toys and it's fine, to a boy playing with girl toys so he must be trans.
Not really we're still mild compared to the ancient Japanese or Roman's it actually sad how little people know about the history of Transgendered and how far back it dates. Also how it use to be more socially acceptable until Christianity came about but even then the original Christianity was more accepting until others started adding there own thoughts and opinions to the Bible to fit there political needs or Belief Systems and those were mostly Royal and Noble families that add stuff that fit what they wanted and messed with our history. Most ancient cultures were really accepting too it and modern times is were most the hate is.
The fact that he realized that he's a girl at the age of 4 is very suspicious. The parents should have let him explore his identity until he's older. And then he would ultimately decide if he really wants to be a girl or remain as a boy. A boy having interests in feminine things doesn't automatically make him a girl. When I was his age, I always like things that are meant for boys because I hang out with my older brother a lot but I still remained as a girl till this day. This is something that should be called a "phase", not a "transition".
all these people think having pink things is being a girl. i am a girl and i still dont feel the need to own pink things. you can still be a boy and like pink things.
Regardless of what he does he will ALWAYS be male, literally nobody can be the opposite to what they are and if you claim otherwise you might as well believe in stopping time and that there are time machines, sooo. Can you return back into the womb that you came out from? No? Soooo?
1:50 oh so thts how it began? The child told you, THE PARENT wht to do.... the child's being coached, idc seems like the mom wanted a girl so she liked tht her son told her what she wanted to hear
I don't care if they want to be transgender but 7 years old thats 2 years older than 5 ! A 5 year old can't even pick their favorite TV show let alone their sexuality
Nah this was def mom. I have a trans kid and she didnt start having any feeling of trans or being different until puberty. Many other real trans mom have the same story i have. It starts during puberty.
I 100% agree with your statement kids don't come up with this crap on their own they don't think sexually without adults putting it there and I truly don't appreciate them trying to normalize it
Uh did you happen to tell “her” that it’s ok for boys to like pink and purple and long hair isn’t just for girls? The language this 6 year old is NOT normal that language comes from being coached and yes I have looked into the process pretty extensively tbh. WHY ARE YOU ASKING A SIX YEAR OLD IF THEY WANT TO CHANGE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE 🤯🤯🤯🤯 A SIX YEAR OLD!!!!!!!
First off love how you said six when she's seven get it right, it's not the parents who said and did that she wanted it not them and I don't get your dumbass point if there's nothing wrong with boys likening pink you going to such a horrible parent and if you already are just know your kid might be hiding stuff from you
"We support our daughter's transition" - She is not transitioning - you are transitioning your child. Please don't inject her with hormones and let her decide after she matures.
she's 7? haven't even watched the video yet, but kids can't have hormones until they are at the stage of puberty. she's not gonna get anything medically until puberty starts, if she still wants to go with it
@@StSmore *she is not medically transitioning currently you people would really do anything to make other people feel terrible for being themselves, huh?
When HE is already an adult, at least 18 years of age, he can do whatever he wants with his body, but since he is a child and doesn't have the capacity to tell between right and wrong, his parents MUST guide him and help him to accept that he was born a male not a female. Blessings to you!
they are literally doing nothing wrong or permanent. Just let her be a kid. If she grows out of it, let her grow out of it. If she doesn’t, just let her transition
I believe kids can be trans, but I believe it should be a slow gradual process… Gender dysmorphia is real, and I do believe it can happen in young children, and it should be taken seriously… but it must be understood you gotta take it slow… Either way, I hope the best for Ella
Trust me it is a slow process, when she is 12-14 she could start using hormon blockers to have mire time to think about it. Theb you have ti go to sevrel people to make sure your realy trans. Di you realy think a doctor can make a Transition on a 7 year old
exactly, people are judging this family of an 8 year old who tried to cut off her pp at age 3 and I believe that her family are going slow with her transition too, these people judge stories before seeing the bigger picture, I also know that gender dysphoria is a real condition (I'm cis female but very supportive even of nb people). I wish families who transition the best
she looks like a girl and sounds like 1. honestly i wouldnt of been able to tell. just hope she does what makes her happy and cheers to her parents for supporting her not all parents are like that
@HeyThatsAlex816 bruh, Ik that, but why the heck would you let your little kid do this before they are physically and mentally matured, wait till they're adults and can make a healthy choice on their own and not having all the emotions and not being completely developed get in the way.
People out here thinking that kids under the age of 16 are allowed to have surgery and hormonal therapy. Even when their 16 they have to wait years for these things. Please do some research before commenting!
oh boy, a video showing a family loving their child for who they are rather than doing the typical method of disowning them and trying to abuse the trans out of them! I sure am excited to take a look at the lovely commentors and what lovely opinions they have to share about this.
@xolisani zar my replies keep getting deleted oh my god. please just stop with the "PARENTS ARE TRANSING OUR YOUTH!!!1111" fearmongering. the reason they didn't accept their "real" child was because...you know...maybe the child doesn't want to live that way? especially considering that being boxed into an identity you don't subscribe to tends to increase suicidal likelihood? and, you know, maybe some parents actually care about their own children's happiness instead of treating them like property? like I can't imagine actually wanting your kid to be happy and getting treated as if you're the reincarnation of Adolf Hitler himself. I genuinely can't.
Yeah, of these people spent as much time researching the trans issues as they spend mocking them online, they wouldn't be slapping themselves in the forehead all the time feeling so smug with themselves.
Like the mom said: "letting her explore her gender right now is not hurting anybody". If she later on realizes that she isn't a girl after all then that's totally okay and there's no harm done. But what would hurt her right now is if the parents denied her right to explore her gender and to express it in a way she wants to. And what is also hurting her is all these people in the comments denying her the right to be who she is. She is not bothering you in any way and neither are the parents so please let them be. To the parents, you're doing an amazing job and you have such a sweet and smart child :) Keep being you!!
There is no such thing as "being who she is at age 7 and trans". These are your formulating years. You are learning manners, math, how to interact with people and being taught moral lessons. No one is truly who they are until your later teens. Until than, its a journey of learning for formulation. Not getting hooked on who your pressured to be for the sake of attention. Seven is too young, because you will say many things to have that extra attention and to feel special. So now, the child feels that in order to keep feeling this way, they must conform to being trans. Its wrong, it happens all too often. It costs nothing to wait till the later teen years. Do this too soon and you create a crises from which some children never return from.
Supporting the parents as they do all of this damage to their child by forcing adult ideals onto them well before they can understand what any of it means is part of the problem. People patting each other on the back for how woke they are causes nothing but more problems.
@Laaiba I just think that in order for you to decide on being a bird or a bee, you have to become of age by nature and have a "bird or a bee". Matured. My 8 year old neighbor growing up hated being a boy, but once he hit puberty and grew several inches and filled out, he got lots more attention as a young man and couldn't be more thrilled.
@@gwhite7136 children are pressured to be cis rather than trans because cis is the norm. Trans kids have to overcome a lot of discrimination and bullying just based on their gender identity which is society trying to stop them from being trans.
@@CaffeineFox56 Parents don't exist just to agree with their kids and give in to any whim, only be their 'friends'. Part of the dumbing down of America. No discipline, proper childrearing or doing what's best with a little adult wisdom thrown in. This is often the case in modern society; the same ting takes place too with parents buying their spoiled kids anything and everything they demand, and they are scared not to go along with it cause the little tike might get upset. That is a modern cultural reality and it happens all the time, but it shouldn't.
His parents are broken for going along with this. This is complete child abuse. Why aren't authorities doing something about this??? Doctor - "you have a boy"!!! Parents - "we will see about that....."
@@limenaidpunch7331HE IS 7.................................................... Next thing you're going to say is. "lets change our babies gender in the womb. This is insanity.
Well my 4 year old son likes to paint his nails with my daughter and I, he loves his baby doll, and he likes to pretend to put makeup on like I do. But he also loves Spider-Man, martial arts, and wants to be “cool” like daddy, too. My daughter is a massive tomboy and likes wearing her big brother’s clothes, playing with toys marketed to boys, but also loves pink and babies and “girlie” things. Moral of the story: let kids be kids. They are exploring the world, discovering likes and dislikes, constantly evolving and changing. It would be so easy to latch onto a comment one of my kids have made once or twice and plant seeds in their minds & foster some passing thought. They are getting to know themselves. My kids have learned about their bodies and know their genders according to them. If my son tries on his sister’s dress up clothes he asks me, “do I look like a girl?” I tell him “you look like a boy who is wearing a dress. And some boys wear dresses.” They have no concept of that it means to be masculine or feminine, even if they talk like they do. It boggles my mind how parents can make permanent decisions based on what a child says who barely known the alphabet. They don’t know themselves, but they’re learning. Give them a loving and supportive environment to be able to be themselves, no matter what that means.
@@mikeRedMDK2032 does ella look like she’s changing her identity “every other week” 🤨 she’s felt like this since the age of two 🤨 if you’re transphobic just say that 🤨
@@darthevil9999 you don't have kids do you. Lol hahaha. Kids can't make adult choices thats why they have parents who make choices for them. They have young brains 🧠 that haven't fully developed. When you grow up and have children you will know what I am talking about. My son wanted to play with dolls when he was younger, now he wants to play sports. Kids change and so do adults. Changing your gender is a very big life altering choice that takes time to make. Kids just want to make mom and dad happy at the age of 7. This Kid sees how happy it makes his parents so thats why he is doing it. Parents are getting some internet clout from it. Truly evil parents
@Laaiba Oh, good for you! Still doesn't make you right. You're just one of the sad adults not giving children the credit they deserve. They are a lot smarter and wise than you give them credit. Later hater!
I don't believe this for one second five-year-olds don't know what they want I've had four of them... You're not about to tell me that a miniature person who has the attention span of a gnat knows their sexuality which they should not even be experienced or informed on... Stop sexualizing children
@@teejay8910 the only thing abrasive and unapologetic about you is the fact that you use your child as a pawn to get attention on social media. And I'm pretty sure their parents are just fine and proud of who they are if that person is speaking of God then that means it was installed in them as a child. No sense you make 🤷🏼♀️
@@teejay8910 being in favour in god's eyes is all I need, sorry not sorry. find god for you and your child and I prey he forgives you for being decieved
I agree that some girls and boys are just ‘tomboys’ or girly boys. You can like barbies and cars and be a girl. Or the otherway around. But some girls or boys really feel like they are not born in the right body. The ‘tomboys’ and born in the wrong body boys both excist
wow! Nice! She's still a kid tho, so I doubt she isn't still.. acting like a kid? Shes just trans on top of that, and people hate that for some reason :|
@@2025ishereOkay?? Not everyone's gonna live the same life you do! And obviously you wouldn't feel that way if you aren't trans so, that's probably why !!
It looks like they're trying to be supportive, while still figuring things out themselves. I don't think they're forcing this onto her. Of they were they'd be acting less unsure about it.
@@djjahhz1037 How is it wrong that she became a girl? One of my best friends was a girl and then he changed to a boy. Its amazing and inspiring to see people like this.
I grew up with 6 brothers and yes at that age I want to be a boy ..I even have short hair like my brothers. I still wanted to be a boy around 15 because everything seems to be easier 😆. But with time ... I understood that it was just because of my brought up.
Thank God your parents didn't change your birth certificate, get you surgery and push non regulated hormones in you like these child abuser parents are doing to their beautiful son.
That's why i think it's healthier to WAIT and marinate on it. It's a big decision. There's no convincing me that any child fully grasps what all this means. When they do, have at it i say
@@4jesuschrist782 This is filled with ignorance. You obviously have no idea how difficult it is to do any of these things. "Yeah, my parents went and 'got' me surgery and hormones, it only involved me being over 16 years old and be on a waiting list for at least 5 years". And how exactly are these hormones unregulated? They are medicines prescribed by doctors and GPs, and are the same medication used as hormone replacement therapy for women experiencing menopause, in the case of trans women. But you don't really care for the facts, you just want to ignore how the child feels and misgender them, for some reason.
true, but she is a bit further than that, i am sure you never went to your mom and said, " i am a girl/boy and i was born incorectly" this is to another level
@@zach1210 no, zach, she she is a girl, she can go by she/her pronouns if she wishes. (quick pop quiz, when can you use they/them pronouns, why do you say that, and what do other people think about this?)
I think this is fine just don’t do any permanent changes yet just let your child express until they feel the need when they are in their later teen years to make those permanent changes.
Take from a trans person who's went through the wrong puberty and wishes they were dead multiple times day have almost potentially offed themselves more than once puberty blockers are a must no deserves this kind of torment I just hope some things start moving along soon regards to my waiting on hrt and surgeries.
@@nbmoleminer5051children are brought up thinking pink and dresses are girl things and football and blue are boy things, this CHILD will grow out of child hood and may like things like playing video games with their guy friends and do “boy” things, people change and blocking your child from choice is criminal and just disgusting
@@nbmoleminer5051being a man or woman is more then what you liked playing with when you were younger and what type of music you like, I preferred “boy things” thank God my mum didn’t make the mistake of calling me a boy, and now I am very much girly
The "when I was 7" commands r kinda offensive. Playing in ur yard and eating dirt doesnt have anything to do with gender. She probably still does those things lol. She's not all about her gender, she's still a child so she'll still be playing. The real transition will begin when she hits puberty. She'll just have a happier childhood looking back now.
Every parent wants a child who has absolutely no struggles, is perfect in school, doesn’t have any issues with mental health or physical disabilities. That is just fantasy. We all have to do what is right by our own children, not what our neighbors or another person who isn’t raising them would think. There are plenty of studies showing the brain is different in these children, that it is not just some phase they go through. Who the hell is anyone else to judge what this family is going through? Who cares what you think, and how does it affect you? We all want the same thing as parents....for our children to live happy successful lives, filled with love and acceptance. That begins with self acceptance.
The issue is that children change their minds all the time. There are already several comments on here from people who said they used to think they were a different gender as a child, and they are glad their parents didn’t go thru the process to change their gender because they feel differently as an adult now. This child is way too young to be making such a permanent decision. If they use puberty blockers and the child happens to change their mind later in life, it will be too late.
@@kyliCatherine1 nothing they do at that age is irreversible. Only at 10 or so you start with hormone blockers to delay the onset of natural puberty - again: reversible. So everything up to ~15yo does not harm the child if he/she decides to stop the process of transitioning.
@@jemma-joon it’s actually not a fake claim. I am a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist and the latest research in PeT scans and MRI imaging proves otherwise. Please research before opening your mouth, it it’s embarrassing and insulting to the other intelligent commentators of this thread.
I honestly do not know what to think about all this. But.. I will say, they appear to be caring parents spending time with there kids. A lot of kids don't have that.
@@ssdkilla where? this is a video about gender. how do you know? and why would they teach her how "important it is to be a man" when shes a girl? and why would they teach her about raising a son WHEN SHES A CHILD.
lol 😂 here’s the colors I like: 1: neon green 2: neon pink 3: teal 4: purple 5: blue 6: orange 7: red And that’s all I know 🤣 I’m still thinking of the rest 😂
@@theappleciderresistance4925 some parents arent meant to be parents and most dont support all of this!I agree thats a very young ages but I dont think there is a need for parents permission
The parents seem loving and caring, but they should also be strict and wise. What makes your child happy now, will most likely cause a lot of pain, anger, and frustration in the future. At the end of the day, this is still a child with a child’s mind that doesn’t fully comprehend the consequences of his actions.
She is a girl- i was like that as a kid bro i knew i was supposed to be a boy and look at me now. Im 18 years old i came out when i was like 10 to my online friends and i came out when i was 15 to my family. She knows who she is and im sorry you feel the need to misgender a child but we ain't hurting you so please mind your own business.
There's no consequences. There is nothing wrong with any child "acting" like a girl or a boy or whatever. It doesn't matter. YOU are the one pushing societal normatives on her, not her parents. Why do you care so much about a child's genitals? That's disgusting.
Way back in the 60's when I was young, I had friends that were not gender conforming. They grew out of it, and turned out just fine. Do not tell him he is a girl when he is NOT! You are lying to him. He's in for a difficult life because you parents will not accept reality and you give in to his childish notions. When he gets older he may very well regret his decision and you too!
Yeppp. They are making it worse by telling him it's normal. And Kids usually grow out of it, so once he's a teenager and mentally confused, and not sure what reality is, and his PARENTS won't even tell him, it'll be tough..
Yes exactly. Don’t change genders until your 18 or older because at that age you don’t know much about it and if you change that young you will regret your decision when your older . It’s also to hard and technically he isn’t a girl fully until he gets…. You know…. So he technically can’t be a girl till he is 21 because you can’t get the operation to get …. You know (what all women have between there legs) till your 21 so. There’s no point changing at that age. Because you have to wait anyway to get the operation. So he is still a boy till he is 21 so just wait till you’re 21 because if you wait till you’re 21 you can become the gender fully. It’s like eating half a dish of lasagna and waiting 14 years to eat the other half. Like why can’t you just eat all of it at once.
there’s no puberty blockers until 13, hormones are given at 17 or 18 and you need recommendation from a therapist, and gender affirmation surgery is given a few years after hormones with recommendation from a therapist and they need to be eligible for it. So yes, you heard it right.
exactly what @WhyDidIPickTheName? said! When children transition, it's a change of names, clothes, pronouns. And Hormone blockers are available at 13, and even those are reversable, HRT can be started at 15 in specific circumstances WITH parental consent, psychaiatrist + doctor referrals etc. But it is most often started at 16-18. And then surgeries are not avaliable untili you're an adult UNLESS in some circumstances where your parents give consent nd all of the doctors and psychiatrists etc etc etc.
yeah. the only changes being made to trans kids transitioning at 7 are their clothes, hair length, and some stuff in their room. you can't even get anything related to hormones until you're 11-13, puberty blockers, and that's completely reversible. you can get hormones at 16, but only if your therapist and parents agree that this is the best choice for you. surgeries are 18+.
i mean good for her, ya'll comments really being overdramatic bout her not understanding gender and all. Legit it's fine, plus I doubt she's on hormones or anything, and if she was it'd be her choice to take them.
Kids shouldn’t be making that decision. They can’t determine what they can eat for breakfast, lunch, or dinner but yet it’s cool for them to decide what gender they want to be or if they want hormones or be sterilized? If that’s not creepy to you, then you need help
@@cosmokramer179 They can only really be on hormones when they go through puberty, not when they're 7 bruh. When you're put on hormones, you don't just magically get them, you have to talk to someone to get them. It isn't like some doctor will see a kid and suddenly put them on irreversible hormone treatment, or sterilize them. It's not that black and white. When they're not old enough to get hormone treatment, what's wrong with just, growing your hair out, or wearing feminine clothes? To really be on irreversible treatment, the person would already be at old enough age to know what right and whats not right for them.
I'm all for trans rights but this is a horrible thing to do. Young children can't understand these type of things. Next they're going to say that since children can apparently consent to this, why aren't they considered mature? You know what's next right? Pedophiles will rationalize that "since children can apparently understand gender and sex, why can't they consent to a relationship?" If you're an adult and want to change your gender that's fine. Your body not mine. I'll call you whichever pronouns you want. But children can't comprehend this. Gender to them is playing with action figures vs dolls.
When I was 7 I was worried about growing an apple tree out my stomach after eating the seed
Rugrats og
Sameeee I would accidentally swallow a watermelon seed . Thought it was going to grow inside or I was afraid it was never going to come out the other end properly and I would be in pain possibly.
Here the same
@@willie5301 over your head .?
Omg I did the same with an orange seed in year 2 😂
When I was this kids age I was convinced I wanted to be a boy and only played with boys toys, wore boys clothes only and I really thought I was born in the wrong body. It lasted a few years and then I absolutely knew I was born in the right body as a female and I love being female.
Same here. I was such a tom boy growing up. I thought I was a boy as well. Come to find out those were only feelings. I love being female and am married with 4 kids. I'm glad my parents didn't support me when I said I think I am a boy. That was shut down quick.
And I hope your parents supported you being you. That's what these parents are doing and they even said if she changes her mind that's fine too.
Same here!!!! I wish these parents would just let them do what they want but don’t label it. Nearly all will outgrow the phase.
@@jenniferatwell9698 Pumping these children with hormones isn't supporting them
@@boogerboy2420 they said that isn't happening they aren't doing anything medical
When I was 7, I was playing "Minecraft" with a bamboo stick in my yard
Why hello there fellow Minecraft player :-)
Same
Weren't most of us though lol
same bro
Good for you. Unfortunately, this child can't live a 100% "normal" life because of all the hate in the world.
But she still plays. I don't know where you got this idea that she isn't also a kid and therefor does "kid" things.
My daughter thought she could fly, doesn't mean I let her jump off the roof.
I used to think that i was bat man damn i love my parents so much more after i saw this video 😂
😂😂😂😂 facts . I thought I had ice powers but my mom and dad didn’t make me live in the freezer
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She Has Every Right To Jump Off The GodDam Roof If She Wants To 🤣
She's asking a 7 year old if they would like to legally change their name on their birth certificate like what did the child know about that? Now they're going to keep asking.
When I was 7, I was eating dirt lol
Finally. I found someone who doesn’t think it’s weird. I still eat dirt to this day!
@@yy19aos “werid addictions”
When i was 2, i eat limes from the trash can
Back when I was 7 I was eating sand
I'm 7 and I did nothing
When I was her age I played with barbies with my cousin, it was great, but no way I had any idea of genders
ur a girl lmao
Yes. That is because parents in that era did not harp on such phases, which will pass. Instead now parents are crazy, they immediately pump their kids with hormones. Poor kids.
Exactly
@@deneshbhaskar3944 Nah, kids love any kind of toys, girl toy or boy girl. they wont deicde your gender, or your 5 years old brain will
Well are you her?
At age 7 i was trying to see the light inside the fridge without completely closing it
Omg same 😂
SAME
But did you know your gender?
SAMEEE-
I still try to do that
I want to hear this child again in ten years. Because many have regrets and are depressed because of there transition.
Literally Never happens.
@@MelaninMoetSure. Whatever you want to delude yourself into believing.
Regret rates are literally 1-3% and half of them detransition because of unsupportive environment!
@@MelaninMoetky$
@@missmar6799it's not even half....it's actually 82.5% because of unsupportive environments, recent studies show.
When i was a kid i played with both barbies and toy trucks. Never made me confused about my gender because they're literally just toys, not an indication that i was the opposite sex.
@Frog boi he. He's a boy and you people are perverts
its not about toys, she doesn’t feel comfortable in the body and gender stereotypes she was put in.
Bruh its not about the toys, she said that she feels like a girl thats what the point of this is
Did I ask?
@@_404shcats_ its a public comment section why would i ask some shitty furry "artist" if i can comment something 😂
“Would you want to change your birth certificate?” Is this a question to make to a 7-year-old???
Seriously. What kind of question is that? Lmao
They said in the future -
@@dont_ask_y_im_hereijustam3821 she says “in the near future”. But my point is, how can a 7-year-old take seriously such a question? No way she can understand the importance of this document, the parents should know it.
@@claudiaapril258 i know but they asked her if she wants to change it now and she say yea . Then they are gonna ask her again when she’s older for her final answer to see if she wants the same thing or if she changed her mind .she’s a kid so she wants to be what she wants to be if it makes her happy then it’s what ever . My brother wanted to be a princess until he was like 10 and we let him be a princess . My point is , kids have a wild imagination and they wanna be tons of things when they are little but as soon as they wanna be the opposite gender it’s a problem , so what if they change her birth certificate in the *FUTURE* if she changed her mind she has the right to change it back because it’s HER life and HER decision. Plus it’s not like they’re getting her surgery. They are just asking her questions about her future. That yes she might change but it’s still important to ask questions 🤷
@Hubert #DEVELOPAR#HVHER no one is teaching HER to be nothing she said that she wanted to be that way on her own she started acting that way on her own they are just supporting her . When she grows up and she wants to be a women then she’d still be a woman if she wants to be a male that that will be what she decides.people don’t wanna actually try and understand where people are coming from witch is why most people hide they’re children because people are so quick to Judge before they know the whole story . … that child Can be whatever they want , they aren’t hurting / harming anyone and they aren’t abusing the child she actually seems really happy .. if they would tell her to not be herself then Shes be upset … also when a kid is 3 or 2 saying they wanna be the opposite gender without you even saying anything about genders that’s when you know they are serious. I wouldn’t change anything legally about her until she’s 18 but she’s free to be / wear what ever she wants up until that point as long as she’s not harming herself or others 🤷
I don't think they should let her fully transition until she is older and is for sure this is who she is. As a child you want to be so many things that your little mind has many uncertainties.
they’re only letting her socially transition. they said in the video it’s completely her decision on whether to have permanent changes when she grows up.
We meet again.
You literally can't medically transition when your a kid
she is only socially transitioning, educate yourself a little
Ya and i think she is sure she is a girl
I feel like Ella should decide this when she is older, cause there’s are loads of kids that can go through these phases and end up regretting it
I understand where your coming from but as her parents say “there are no life altering changes” she can decide if she wants to be a boy or anything in between in the future. But I understand what your saying.
@@jgrennmusic It is harmful to a child's mental health. This is a completetly normal thing all 2 year olds do on a daily basis and treating them like the opposite sex as they are still developing and don't even know what gender is and how it differs from sex is harmful.
They can decide this at any age , it shouldn’t matter bc if they want to be the other gender at sag 5 years old then let them there should be no problem but I see what your saying
@@alpheendominationyou can do anything at any age , it shouldn’t matter , at 2 years old I knew what genders were . Don’t be rude and anyone can be who they want to be
@@2025ishere Please do not accuse me of being rude because I was not. And in actual fact, age does matter, because surprise surprise, you are not born with a fully functioning brain which is still developing until roughly age 25.
Genders are different from sex, children at that age understand basic biological differences between male and female, they do not understand what gender social expression is.
I'd like to see like-dislike ratio.
That would hurt somebodys feelings you know, and opinions and facts are forbidden in 2021.
Where’s the mistake done by the parents?
@@sultankebab1587 it’s a video about a kid. Tbh, I don’t even think this video should be posted
@@sultankebab1587 bro let go of the victim complex and go back to ben shapiro
Same
When I was 7, I wanted to be a dinosaur.
Step brothers lol
when i was 8 i started questioning about my gender
Ayo same
Obviously that's not the same thing though is it? jesus christ
Yea
Unfortunately this little kid is labeling everything either “boyish” or “girlish” and praises either of them as the society and parents taught. And it sounds sexist. This is the problem of transitioning I think. You start hating your gender and idolize the other.
The problem with transitioning is that it's not illegal.
If my mom bought me girl section when I was 2-5 years old, I'd call myself a girl too.
@@DonFatherTrump Are you suggesting that transitioning should be illegal? I’m sorry but this shows how unsupportive you are; trans people should have the right to transition.
Are you stupid? Transitioning doesn’t mean you’ll hate the gender you were born as and idolize the one you are transitioning to. Also a lot of trans people had the same type of feelings as kids and grew up transitioning.
@@DonFatherTrump Actually trans people who face discrimination,abuse, unacceptance, and can’t transition are more likely to develop depression,anxiety and attempt suicide. You wanting transition to be illegal will help no one, because transitioning is the only way to ease gender dysphoria. It’s obvious you know nothing about gender dysphoria or being trans by that statement.
Who else things 7 is way too young to make huge decisions like this?
Def
SO NOW THERE IS A AGE TO BE ALLOWED TO BE YOUR SELF? AND HAPPY? YO WANT WAHT THAT SHE END HER LIFE BEFORE YOU LETS HER BE HERSELF???
CHILD ABUSING MUCH?
@@stacygirard647 I'm all for transgender people, but such decisions at such a young age is just too much
I regret decisions I made as an adult, and this is a 7-year-old kid. God bless everyone, I hope no regrets arise later
you are a cis person stop thinking like you know how trans mean
@@iamanillussion male to female, or female to male. Is that about right? Also, what does them being cis have anything to do with it? Isn’t ridiculing someone’s personal views based off their sexual orientation kinda hypocritical of you?
Most trans people don’t have regrets about transitioning.
@@lexdraws1729 are most trans people kids?
@@lexdraws1729 is that why the detrains community exists
Gender dysphoria does exist. Also gender non conforming is acceptable it doesn't mean you have to change your gender to male/female.
Huh ? Gender exists buuuut it doesn't mean u have to change to male to female ? Huh? Atleast make it make sense please . LMAO
@Lotra Cuenta that's transphobic
3rd gender is the best. She can be the girl and the boy at the same time.
@Lotra Cuenta facts
@Lotra Cuenta Well, if the brains one of the most important biological organs in your body and the gender area of the brain (limbic system - Stria terminalis) is the same size and contains very similar neurons to that of the persons desired gender. Then they biologically are that gender. Stump that one einstein 🖕.
Like people say. Think with your head, not your lower parts you ...lol
Why is it impossible for a boy to like “girly” things without having to change their whole identity into something they’re not? Ridiculous.
Thats not how it works, hun
@@LyntzbartzkyPerez Why not?
Not sure how this video implies that it’s impossible..
Thank you. Seriously. I literally don't care if this child wants to wear dresses. Fine by me. But I do not have to accept them as a female.
Taylor, transgender and tomboy/femboy are different
“Happy and healthy” 0:31
If children decide what makes them happy and healthy they would sit watching sponge bob and eating marshmallows
Yea
Im pretty sure there are many 3 yr old boys who also do girl stuff doesnt mean their parents should straight up encourage that like srsly ? I havent ever parents letting a 4 yr old dyeing their hair , this vid has nothing to do about transgender but their parents encouraging on everything
so what? they are saying, i think that you can decide, if you change your mind, this is not perminent.
To the point of enabling. Many parents have been conditioned by society to go softer these days. Say no to less and less or else they're painted as abusive or intolerant smh
@@lucycassidy2709 permanent? Its not a small task to change gender 2 times
@@CyberRacer i am saying hormone blockers, at her current age, it is not legal to actually do the oppisite hormone, so yea
hormone blockers are not perminient
The dad says positive/nice/promising/etc words BUT looks ABSOLUTELY DEFEATED
No, he looks high and he's laughing on the inside. He's like, Whatever...😂
@@kellywilliamson8670 I disagree....he looks absolutely dead and defeated
At least he loves his kid and as long that kid become a humble person even though they will get shitloads of attitudes from others must feel more heavy and even though no matter he allows to love his kid.
@@mintpastill kids are impressionable which is why it is a travesty that cartoons and commercials force feed this to the youth.
@@scratchking3205 i havent mentioned into this feed about media influences nor cartoon or toy makers involvement but yes that and games apps do that to all of us and the kids.. in this feed i ment above at least the father loves his kid the feed the one who wrote it was about the dad
When I was 7 I wanted to be an architect.
So did you become one? 🤔
Art Vandalay?
I wanted to be a koala bear
@@rosebud6485 no, I’m a WH manager now.
@@pipuriponpon what's WH?
I think it’s great to let your kid express themselves but NOT okay to jump to labels. That’s when it can get dangerous.
Exactly
But don't we do that already just by default? Why is it suddenly different when you're talking about trans people
@@ZacharyC2000 Yeah, I heard that some people have said their children are gender-neutral as default so that they can try out labels and make bigger decisions when their older.
@@canvas4708 I think that should be the standard honestly, ultimately just let people be themselves
It’s just interesting that if a literal baby shows interest in a toy that’s not specific to their gender, they’re automatically gender nonconforming and pegged as transgender and told that they’re now a boy/girl. I would literally be so confused. This poor kid is going to have identity crisis for the rest of their life.
Exactly, playing with girl stuff or playing with guy stuff doesn’t mean to change gender. It’s just sad that people think if their kid plays with barbies at 5 when they are a boy to transition them to a fake girl
This is an actual transsexual child. She has been exhibiting symptoms of gender non conformity from age 2-7 that’s 5 years. Clearly it’s not a phase. Like the parents said letting her explore her gender isn’t hurting anyone. If she really is trans, this transition is the healthiest thing for her. If she changes her mind later, no major changes have been made. But if she gets to 12-13 that would mean she’s been saying she’s trans her ENTIRE LIFE and could take the next step in the process. Calling her a fake girl doesn’t negate the fact that there are actual trans people in this world who know from a very young age. At the end of her transition, she will be physically and hormonally a girl. She will have a vagina just like a girl, and by that time will have lived her entire life as a girl. Don’t confuse the trendy teen girls who are changing their pronouns with this child who is an actual medical transexual. People like Ella need treatment. Just like someone with any other condition would seek treatment. Forcing this child to “man up” and not letting her do what comes naturally to her would be wrong and I admire and stand by these parents for their strength and bravery. This was not an easy decision for them. Clearly it was a very serious situation if they have allowed her to live and present in the way that makes her happy.
the kid probably spend a lot of time with the mom. you can see them wearing lipstick together. you can see the kid wearing their moms dresses and shoes. he looked up to her!!! kids mimic their parents, thats just what they do. that doesnt mean that this biological boy is now all of a sudden a girl. thats not how that works.
No she not
If you're cis you have no right to talk on this im a trans kid ik who I am I never felt like a girl as this little girl doesn't feel like a boy
When I was 6 I thought I was a unicorn 🦄....thank goodness my parents didn't install a horn in my head 😅
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This whole comment section is so dumb
@@moonstxr4026 ikr, the stupid comparisons
So true!
When I was 7 I don't even know what transgender mean
Same
My sister tried to talk to my then 5 year old about homosexuality and said I am intolerant because I don’t wanted it. A little child doesn’t need to know such things.But she talks about this subject just to make me angry,she can’t tolerate my opinions.
That's because you didn't have gender issues
@@willd6215 I think it was because when I was a child it wasn’t as public as it is now. Heck I didn’t even know what homosexuality was either back then.
@@willd6215 ok.
A two year old shows signs of “gender nonconformity?” Ridiculous. Yet when asked when he knew he wanted to be a girl he said 4. He’s only 7.
The fact that the interviewer is even asking for a 7-year-old opinion on the judgement on being transgender is hilarious to me!
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@@teejay8910 Ella should go get a job then, because clearly she is a complete ADULT now. Maybe she can teach her parents a thing or two about life. Then proceed to help her parents out with financial assistance with her new adult job. 🙄
@@teejay8910 Yep, "the world" that is run by the prince of darkness. I can't wait for the madness to end. And it will.
@@TrustNJesusChrist Exactly! Because it's WAY more to living than JUST dressing drag.
@@teejay8910 My mom is dead and my Dad is in a nursing home.
Hey America, please keep your wicked culture to yourself. And stop trying to shove it down the throat of others. We would rather be dignified than developed nation.
When I was 7 I also liked boy things. I wore boy clothing, played with boy toys etc. if my parents would have encouraged it, then obviously I would want it. That’s how it works. Just because a kid likes a certain thing doesn’t mean anything. I love myself. If I would have transitioned at such a young age I wouldn’t have been who I am today. A confident young woman.!
I think you don’t understand that children don’t transition. They just cut their hair and maybe choose a new name. You can’t medically transition until 18 and your identity is proved by a number of doctor, psychologists and psychiatrists. So if your parents encouraged you, you would probably go by he/him for a while and cut your hair, which would grow back and eventually you’d go back to being a woman and live your life as you’re living it now. Maybe it didn’t apply on you but a big majority of trans children don’t go back to their biological gender. What works for you might not work for her.
@@elenkorkmaz4075 No- you don’t understand. Children are highly influenced. Also- no. If your parents encourage you to do something you’ll do it. Where is that logic coming from? That child looks like they’ve been influenced. There’s lab tests on this sort of stuff, and I encourage you to look it up. Also, there’s hormone blockers that you can take at 10- 11 years old. That’s WAY too early , not to mention those pills contain very bad ingredients for your health. Please think of the side effects before accepting all that your child wants.
@@elenkorkmaz4075 just because you don’t medically transition doesn’t mean you can’t be trans
@@cocoaheart8402 I didn’t say anything like that.
@@elenkorkmaz4075 That is exactly what you just said
This is a horribly sad trend. Tragic really...... I wanted to be a boy when I was a kid and called myself Mike. I'm so glad my parents didn't jump on that.
Not a trend as transgender people have existed in some form for thousands of years. Calling it a trend is like saying it's trendy to be bullied. Why would they "choose" to be transgender knowing the stigma behind it. Not a choice not trendy.
Thank God you didn’t have insane parents
@@darthevil9999 it is a trend. Since Obama made this okay, this stuff is everywhere. Check this out, Why are so many going into it then trying to reverse it when they get older? There is a whole video about this issue on real people who transitioned. The video is called I want my gender back. Think about it, really. Then it’s mainly women pushing this stuff. Any transgender video I seen they’re women supporting it. Why aren’t so many men? It’s a delusional concept like how women like to play with Barbie dolls and never get out of the phase of pretending then they move on to playing sims. Really and truly think about it.
@@darthevil9999 It is a trend. And its child abuse.
@@The_Fat_Fury No, it isn't. What's child abuse is legislation taking away life affirming treatment from transgender children. Threatening doctors with jail time for keeping children alive. Get bent loser.
Can't he just be a boy with long hair? Doesn't telling him he's a girl just reinforce gender stereotypes? He is male, anything else is a lie.
Parents confuse "supporting" with "allowing". Most of the times you are the most supportive by just saying no
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How is it hurting her? She’s just being herself
It’s not supportive to tell a lgbtq member “ no “ and it’s not just allowing to say yes
What you saying could be taken very offensively, and it could be considered transphobic/homophobic.
@@meowbuckett Alice Dreger is a bioethicist and professor at Northwestern University's Feinberg School of Medicine in Chicago. She calls herself an (im)patient advocate who prefers evidence to ideology. She is a strong supporter of transgender rights. But she thinks the pendulum has swung too far.
One reason is that social norms have dramatically changed. It is now fashionable to embrace your diverse child. Parents who encourage their kids to change gender "are socially rewarded as wonderful and accepting," while parents who try to take it slow "are seen as unaccepting, lacking in affection and conservative," she says.
These days, parents who don't like the slow-and-careful answer can shop for another one. Ms. Dreger is highly critical of what she calls the "hasty clinics," which are happy to help a kid transition right away. "Parents don't like uncertainty," she says. "They'd rather be told, 'Here's the diagnosis, and it's all gonna turn out fine.'" Teenagers can find fast help, too. Plenty of doctors are happy to help them out with hormone treatments just for the asking.
I feel bad for this kid. I can't imagine going through something like this as a kid.
I think he's traumatised somehow by the very masculine dad and his older brother who don't seem to have been capable of connecting with him on his level. And I also think the mother really wanted a girl at least for her second child. I think she was majorly disappointed in him turning out as a boy, but jumped at the moment he showed a first interest in feminine stuff.
The way he got overly excited about the pink hair colour in particular raised some red flags. Girls don't normally change their hair colour like that on a whim. It's a very intimate thing for a girl, her hair. Girls don't feel comfortable suddenly popping up all bright pink like that. So there IS something the matter definitely. I don't see true femininity. I see a feminised male instict.
@@marioluigi9599 #1: SHE* You misspelled that
#2: She isn't traumatized by her father and brother. Clearly it shows that for a while she's been a girl, and is very happy the way she is now. Seen as a girl
#3: I don't think the mother is pushing this bc she wants a girl. She's making her kid happy.
#4: Girls are all different. And as a kid, my sister used to get very VERY excited over pink and purple hair colors. Especially when she was able to dye her hair. She was extremely excited. Are you a Male or female?
#5: I see true femininity, and even if she wasn't overly feminine doesn't mean she isn't female.
@@azraellockhart6484 You're blind
Go through what? A happy childhood?
@@azraellockhart6484 #1: HE* You misspelled that
What does that mean? 7 years old- this is pre-puberty, the sexuality is not developed yet. Why sexualise a child?! The child has no way of knowing he/she is "trans" unless their parents put these ideas in the child's mind. This is totally perverse and wrong. I know this comment is unpopular in 2021, but facts, biology and the objective Truth are timeless. Stop hurting children for your own egoistic gains [social credit etc.].
100% agree with you!!!
This is child abuse. Period
She said she wants to be a girl the parents didn’t influence it.
It’s not child abuse,it’s called supporting your child.
Totally agree!
Ella voice is look alot like a girl.voice .....
These parents, and i use that term loosely, should be in prison. Age four is when the human brain begins to gain the ability to make memories not gain the ability to make life changing decisions.
Why are you mad that this little girl is happy?
There are some things that the whole world doesn’t need to know. Especially right now your child is young. This might effect her later in life. Whatever you decided keep it in your family. You post it and complain when you get criticism
I think they are spreading awareness and making parents with young transgender kids at ease or feel relief
when did they complain
Exactly. They’re creating this.
@@CS-yq8hp wdym
*him
my daughter is 7 and she wants to be a dinosaur!!! when did we stop children being children?
We didn't! Ella is a girl who wants to play with dolls and have fun, just like any other kid!
@@GreenCorgiQueen he's a 🍓 🍵 fruit cup
@@GreenCorgiQueen boy*
@@rokigang3681 take your transphobic somewhere else
@@hellobot67 she’s literally a girl, if she changes her mind later on then she can change. she’s not doing anything that’s permanent. if she even wants to go on hormone therapy she has to talk to a therapist for months and have to wait til she’s 15.
It seems like the parents aren't really into it. Only because their child is so much.
It seems like they're being trying to be supportive.
They did a whole gender reveal photo shoot for her. I think they're just fine.
No… this is forced onto the kid, the child is brainwashed. Parents are just acting
@@abimbolaaku2709 I agree. Either that kid was being molested and it’s confused or they wanted a girl from birth and didn’t get one so they poisoned the child’s mind.
@@ladydeanna3775 if you tell a child that he/she is a wolf since birth. The kids going to think it’s a fking wolf😂 These parents 1000% played a major role in why this kid is thinking this was. And yah, molestation is probably a factor
@@abimbolaaku2709 yeah no sorry that’s not how it works my mom always taught me that there’s things for boys and girls she taught me the toxic heteronormativity that you come from and since I was kid I always knew I was a girl so don’t even talk about what you don’t know
*When I was 7, I wanted to be a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle. My parents didn't throw me in a sewer and force me to do kung fu with a talking giant smelly old rat...* 🐀 🐢 🐢 🐢 🐢 🍕
When I was 7 i wanted to be a cheetah. A FAST PREDATOR WITH LIGHTING SPEED 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
And your parents didn't make you a cheatah 😮wow how unsupportive
Your trans species 💛
Hahahha
ure embarrassing
Species dysphoria!
When i was 7 i wanted to go to the digital world that doesn't even exist.
😂
word
@@hannie4200 typo. There. Happy now?
@@Jesauce. huh? your comment is confusing
Good for you. Unfortunately, this child can't live a 100% "normal" life because of all the hate in the world.
But she still plays. I don't know where you got this idea that she isn't also a kid and therefor does "kid" things.
This definitely is a difficult subject, I think if I was the parent I would just let them express themselves the way they want to(wear dresses etc) as a child, and if by the time they hit puberty(around 12) and would still want to change gender I'd just let them and support them fully in the process.
But if you do that you are encouraging them to be that way THEY ARE CHILDREN THEY DONT KNOW ANY BETTER THATS WHY YOU ARE THE PARENT YOU KNOW BETTER
I'm not encouraging anything though, they'd choose that themselves. I'd just want to make sure its a permanent thing. If they'd want to wear girls clothes I'd react the same as if they'd want to wear boys clothes, whatever makes them happy.
So if your child decided to be promiscuous or a murder ? You’ll support that too 🙃 what happened to parenting
@@Daisyflower25 you are encouraging them weather they choose it or not back to the they are children and don’t know better but u as the parent does , kids are confused they don’t know what they want at that age that why you as the parent as supposed to teach them and guide them point blank
@@olivetv1558 You think someone wanting to change their own gender to be happy is as bad as murder?
when I was 7 I didn't even know what a gender was
Yeah i just new that i liked spinny dresses
@@shannonohagan3337 When I was 5 I didn't know I lived on Earth.
@@aliasella488 lol fr
Sounds like a you probably
Same lol
Let me guess, the mother wanted a little girl from the start... horrible.
wow 🤨 it’s almost like 🤨 she said 🤨 herself 🤨 that she felt like a girl since she was two years old 🤨
Child cater to adult and get their reaction to form the identity. It is a feedback system to enlarge what the initial thought. The initial thought might come from his mother, a TV show or a coversation.
@@lautoby9165 it seems like the narrative went from people saying toys shouldn't have gender, like a boy can play with dolls and girl toys and it's fine, to a boy playing with girl toys so he must be trans.
I'm shocked they left the comments enabled!
My opposing comment was removed. So was some other opposing comments. They are only allowing the comments mostly that agree with the video.
@@TrustNJesusChrist they have removed all the inappropriate comments and they should of been disabled in the first place
As soon as I clicked I said to myself I know the comments are off...I came straight to them and was like nvm!
Same. I am sure they have their moderating army working on comment section though.
deleting comments is typical centries old behaviour, you'd think in 2021 we'd be more civilised, but censorship is just around the corner
society is wild these days
facts 😐
@@saraharper we'll know in a couple of years to be fair
Not really we're still mild compared to the ancient Japanese or Roman's it actually sad how little people know about the history of Transgendered and how far back it dates. Also how it use to be more socially acceptable until Christianity came about but even then the original Christianity was more accepting until others started adding there own thoughts and opinions to the Bible to fit there political needs or Belief Systems and those were mostly Royal and Noble families that add stuff that fit what they wanted and messed with our history. Most ancient cultures were really accepting too it and modern times is were most the hate is.
U said it son
@@saraharper it sure is
The fact that he realized that he's a girl at the age of 4 is very suspicious. The parents should have let him explore his identity until he's older. And then he would ultimately decide if he really wants to be a girl or remain as a boy. A boy having interests in feminine things doesn't automatically make him a girl. When I was his age, I always like things that are meant for boys because I hang out with my older brother a lot but I still remained as a girl till this day. This is something that should be called a "phase", not a "transition".
all these people think having pink things is being a girl. i am a girl and i still dont feel the need to own pink things. you can still be a boy and like pink things.
@@timelyferry yes exactly!
Regardless of what he does he will ALWAYS be male, literally nobody can be the opposite to what they are and if you claim otherwise you might as well believe in stopping time and that there are time machines, sooo.
Can you return back into the womb that you came out from? No? Soooo?
1:50 oh so thts how it began? The child told you, THE PARENT wht to do.... the child's being coached, idc seems like the mom wanted a girl so she liked tht her son told her what she wanted to hear
I don't care if they want to be transgender but 7 years old thats 2 years older than 5 ! A 5 year old can't even pick their favorite TV show let alone their sexuality
Nah this was def mom. I have a trans kid and she didnt start having any feeling of trans or being different until puberty. Many other real trans mom have the same story i have. It starts during puberty.
@@rileyraquel844 thats right. This mom just wanted a daughter.
I 100% agree with your statement kids don't come up with this crap on their own they don't think sexually without adults putting it there and I truly don't appreciate them trying to normalize it
@@e.v6134 see now this is straight facts, I wish I could like this 100x.
Bro he doesn’t even know what transgender means and comprehends the idea of it . This is getting worse as it’s been shoved down media
you don’t want her to be happy? 🤨
Uh did you happen to tell “her” that it’s ok for boys to like pink and purple and long hair isn’t just for girls? The language this 6 year old is NOT normal that language comes from being coached and yes I have looked into the process pretty extensively tbh. WHY ARE YOU ASKING A SIX YEAR OLD IF THEY WANT TO CHANGE THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE 🤯🤯🤯🤯 A SIX YEAR OLD!!!!!!!
First off love how you said six when she's seven get it right, it's not the parents who said and did that she wanted it not them and I don't get your dumbass point if there's nothing wrong with boys likening pink you going to such a horrible parent and if you already are just know your kid might be hiding stuff from you
@Natalia Ramos let’s call them, they.
@Natalia Ramos you keep calling the a him
@Natalia Ramos yeah so let’s compromise and call them a they
@Natalia Ramos okay :)
kid didn't know his abcs, but he knew he was the wrong gender
@Lily Beth ☃️🎄 it means grooming
@Lily Beth ☃️🎄 idk but it's a thing that p3dos do to kids
Wow
@lilybeth1484it’s manipulating a child into thinking that doing sick things are ok
Haha
"We support our daughter's transition" - She is not transitioning - you are transitioning your child. Please don't inject her with hormones and let her decide after she matures.
she's 7? haven't even watched the video yet, but kids can't have hormones until they are at the stage of puberty. she's not gonna get anything medically until puberty starts, if she still wants to go with it
*he is not transitioning...
@@StSmore *she is not medically transitioning currently
you people would really do anything to make other people feel terrible for being themselves, huh?
When HE is already an adult, at least 18 years of age, he can do whatever he wants with his body, but since he is a child and doesn't have the capacity to tell between right and wrong, his parents MUST guide him and help him to accept that he was born a male not a female. Blessings to you!
@@livisunshine3700 that's not how being transgender works. you can't accept it, and trying makes you depressed
When I was 7, I wanted to be the opposite gender. _Now wait a damn second-_
same o.o
yo im trans now btw
You're not the only one.
But transactivists would call that "interalized cis-genderism"
Ever heard of gender dysphoria?
@@isheeppol8761 I’ve heard cis people call it a “the LGBTQ+ disease” or “transgenderism” which is the mostly the same as what you’re saying.
@@jaceclark4904 well it’s called transgenderism because it’s a fallacy it’s not scientifically fact. It’s essentially taking a preference way to far
Ruined your kids life by giving them ideas. That is exactly what happned
they are literally doing nothing wrong or permanent. Just let her be a kid. If she grows out of it, let her grow out of it. If she doesn’t, just let her transition
How do you know that the kid didn’t realize this on her own?
She’s clearly happy that’s all that ever matters
When I was 7 I thought that if I buried a sesame seed in the ground it would from burgers…💀
I believe kids can be trans, but I believe it should be a slow gradual process… Gender dysmorphia is real, and I do believe it can happen in young children, and it should be taken seriously… but it must be understood you gotta take it slow…
Either way, I hope the best for Ella
I hope you're in prison by next year
kids can be trans you either are born male or female
Trust me it is a slow process, when she is 12-14 she could start using hormon blockers to have mire time to think about it. Theb you have ti go to sevrel people to make sure your realy trans. Di you realy think a doctor can make a Transition on a 7 year old
@悪魔 She grew out her hair, wears girls clothes, and plays with dolls, what exactly is "HORRRIBLE" about it? lmao
exactly, people are judging this family of an 8 year old who tried to cut off her pp at age 3 and I believe that her family are going slow with her transition too, these people judge stories before seeing the bigger picture, I also know that gender dysphoria is a real condition (I'm cis female but very supportive even of nb people). I wish families who transition the best
she looks like a girl and sounds like 1. honestly i wouldnt of been able to tell. just hope she does what makes her happy and cheers to her parents for supporting her not all parents are like that
But she's a little kid, they can't grasp the idea of genders🤷♀️
@Cupid Olympia sure
@@bellasayo4948 *he
@@zach1210 honestly tho😂😂 I just didn't want to offend everyone.
@HeyThatsAlex816 bruh, Ik that, but why the heck would you let your little kid do this before they are physically and mentally matured, wait till they're adults and can make a healthy choice on their own and not having all the emotions and not being completely developed get in the way.
When i was 7 years old i always wanted to be transformers
great! now shut up :)
Yeah, I also want to change my name to Michael Knight.
Thank god I didn't do that.
😂 we all did
Or a power ranger
I knew a girl in school whose little brother wanted to be a blue whale when he grew up. Fast forward, he's an actor now 🤷
People out here thinking that kids under the age of 16 are allowed to have surgery and hormonal therapy. Even when their 16 they have to wait years for these things. Please do some research before commenting!
Democrats want to make it legal
Still disgusting
oh boy, a video showing a family loving their child for who they are rather than doing the typical method of disowning them and trying to abuse the trans out of them!
I sure am excited to take a look at the lovely commentors and what lovely opinions they have to share about this.
@xolisani zar
my replies keep getting deleted oh my god.
please just stop with the "PARENTS ARE TRANSING OUR YOUTH!!!1111" fearmongering. the reason they didn't accept their "real" child was because...you know...maybe the child doesn't want to live that way? especially considering that being boxed into an identity you don't subscribe to tends to increase suicidal likelihood?
and, you know, maybe some parents actually care about their own children's happiness instead of treating them like property?
like I can't imagine actually wanting your kid to be happy and getting treated as if you're the reincarnation of Adolf Hitler himself. I genuinely can't.
Yeah, of these people spent as much time researching the trans issues as they spend mocking them online, they wouldn't be slapping themselves in the forehead all the time feeling so smug with themselves.
Tis is so stupid
this is literally the exact thought that went through my brain when i saw this on my recommended page.
Seethe more
Those who judge will be judged
Like the mom said: "letting her explore her gender right now is not hurting anybody". If she later on realizes that she isn't a girl after all then that's totally okay and there's no harm done. But what would hurt her right now is if the parents denied her right to explore her gender and to express it in a way she wants to. And what is also hurting her is all these people in the comments denying her the right to be who she is. She is not bothering you in any way and neither are the parents so please let them be. To the parents, you're doing an amazing job and you have such a sweet and smart child :) Keep being you!!
There is no such thing as "being who she is at age 7 and trans". These are your formulating years. You are learning manners, math, how to interact with people and being taught moral lessons. No one is truly who they are until your later teens. Until than, its a journey of learning for formulation. Not getting hooked on who your pressured to be for the sake of attention. Seven is too young, because you will say many things to have that extra attention and to feel special. So now, the child feels that in order to keep feeling this way, they must conform to being trans. Its wrong, it happens all too often. It costs nothing to wait till the later teen years. Do this too soon and you create a crises from which some children never return from.
Supporting the parents as they do all of this damage to their child by forcing adult ideals onto them well before they can understand what any of it means is part of the problem. People patting each other on the back for how woke they are causes nothing but more problems.
@Laaiba I just think that in order for you to decide on being a bird or a bee, you have to become of age by nature and have a "bird or a bee". Matured. My 8 year old neighbor growing up hated being a boy, but once he hit puberty and grew several inches and filled out, he got lots more attention as a young man and couldn't be more thrilled.
This is actually a him/boy not a "her" exploring what a lot of society deems wrong for a boy/man to do.
@@gwhite7136 children are pressured to be cis rather than trans because cis is the norm. Trans kids have to overcome a lot of discrimination and bullying just based on their gender identity which is society trying to stop them from being trans.
Asking a 7 year old if they want to change their birth certificate is deranged.
Yes ur right
they are just trying to make their daughter happy
@@CaffeineFox56 lol 🇳🇿🇶🇦✝️🤜🏳️🌈
It should be pretty clear that isn't their decision to make.
@@CaffeineFox56 Parents don't exist just to agree with their kids and give in to any whim, only be their 'friends'. Part of the dumbing down of America. No discipline, proper childrearing or doing what's best with a little adult wisdom thrown in. This is often the case in modern society; the same ting takes place too with parents buying their spoiled kids anything and everything they demand, and they are scared not to go along with it cause the little tike might get upset. That is a modern cultural reality and it happens all the time, but it shouldn't.
His parents are broken for going along with this. This is complete child abuse. Why aren't authorities doing something about this???
Doctor - "you have a boy"!!!
Parents - "we will see about that....."
Bruh what’s wrong with you. She said she wanted to be a girl and she’s happy and you say that bad?
@@limenaidpunch7331HE IS 7.................................................... Next thing you're going to say is. "lets change our babies gender in the womb. This is insanity.
Well my 4 year old son likes to paint his nails with my daughter and I, he loves his baby doll, and he likes to pretend to put makeup on like I do. But he also loves Spider-Man, martial arts, and wants to be “cool” like daddy, too. My daughter is a massive tomboy and likes wearing her big brother’s clothes, playing with toys marketed to boys, but also loves pink and babies and “girlie” things. Moral of the story: let kids be kids. They are exploring the world, discovering likes and dislikes, constantly evolving and changing. It would be so easy to latch onto a comment one of my kids have made once or twice and plant seeds in their minds & foster some passing thought. They are getting to know themselves. My kids have learned about their bodies and know their genders according to them. If my son tries on his sister’s dress up clothes he asks me, “do I look like a girl?” I tell him “you look like a boy who is wearing a dress. And some boys wear dresses.” They have no concept of that it means to be masculine or feminine, even if they talk like they do. It boggles my mind how parents can make permanent decisions based on what a child says who barely known the alphabet. They don’t know themselves, but they’re learning. Give them a loving and supportive environment to be able to be themselves, no matter what that means.
Thanks for your insight. If only this was the common consensus message that got pushed all of the time instead of this destructive craziness.
but if your kids came up to you and said “i’m a boy, not a girl” would you support them?
THIS. Let them first mature past the stage of identifying as something new every other week
@@mikeRedMDK2032 does ella look like she’s changing her identity “every other week” 🤨 she’s felt like this since the age of two 🤨 if you’re transphobic just say that 🤨
When I was 7 I wanted to be a race car driver. I grew up and changed because I WAS A KID. KIDS ARE TO YOUNG TO MAKE ADULT CHOICES.
Being transgender is not a job, it's who they are. They know. Adults give children no credit at all and it's ignorant and maddening.
@@darthevil9999 you don't have kids do you. Lol hahaha. Kids can't make adult choices thats why they have parents who make choices for them. They have young brains 🧠 that haven't fully developed. When you grow up and have children you will know what I am talking about. My son wanted to play with dolls when he was younger, now he wants to play sports. Kids change and so do adults. Changing your gender is a very big life altering choice that takes time to make. Kids just want to make mom and dad happy at the age of 7. This Kid sees how happy it makes his parents so thats why he is doing it. Parents are getting some internet clout from it. Truly evil parents
@Laaiba You don't know some of the kids I know. They are wise beyond their years. You couldn't be more wrong.
@Laaiba Sorry, you don't know the kids I know. You couldn't be more wrong. It's not how I see it. Stop being so damn intellectual.
@Laaiba Oh, good for you! Still doesn't make you right. You're just one of the sad adults not giving children the credit they deserve. They are a lot smarter and wise than you give them credit. Later hater!
At 7 I couldn decide what lego set i wanted to get for christmas and not my gender.
My daughter was born male and knew she wanted to be a girl by the age 5,but didn't change until she was 18.
I don't believe this for one second five-year-olds don't know what they want I've had four of them... You're not about to tell me that a miniature person who has the attention span of a gnat knows their sexuality which they should not even be experienced or informed on... Stop sexualizing children
But it's still wrong but a mother'sers love is a mother's love, but god tumpd all and he's disgusted ..sorry not sorry
@@teejay8910 the only thing abrasive and unapologetic about you is the fact that you use your child as a pawn to get attention on social media. And I'm pretty sure their parents are just fine and proud of who they are if that person is speaking of God then that means it was installed in them as a child.
No sense you make 🤷🏼♀️
@@teejay8910 being in favour in god's eyes is all I need, sorry not sorry. find god for you and your child and I prey he forgives you for being decieved
@@DevoseSecret well said
girl playing with robot doest mean she a boy. A boy playing dress up doest mean he a girl.
but you *heard* her. she literally said she *felt* like a girl. she just happens to also be feminine. it’s not your child.
She said she felt like a girl,she wants to be a girl.
It’s not just dressing up. And clothes does not have a gender
They Actually said that they want to be a girl
I agree that some girls and boys are just ‘tomboys’ or girly boys. You can like barbies and cars and be a girl. Or the otherway around. But some girls or boys really feel like they are not born in the right body. The ‘tomboys’ and born in the wrong body boys both excist
When I was seven I wanted to be spider man 😂
wow! Nice! She's still a kid tho, so I doubt she isn't still.. acting like a kid? Shes just trans on top of that, and people hate that for some reason :|
But did you know your gender?
@@VictorMatthieu I’m a boy
Okay and? Just because she is trans doesn’t mean she doesn’t do regular kid stuff like that
@@twinkiedinkskating851 ok this was meant to be a joke you don’t need to take it so seriously
Also how does this child know
"Mommy I felt like I should have been a girl in your tummy"
No 7 year old talks like that
How do you know?
I never felt like that when I was a little girl . I didn’t know what gender was until my first day at school when I walked into the wrong bathroom 🤣
@@mikeveis6269because I never felt like that
@@2025ishereOkay?? Not everyone's gonna live the same life you do! And obviously you wouldn't feel that way if you aren't trans so, that's probably why !!
@@pinballvancehopper yea but I just don’t agree with lgbtq .
When I was seven, all I thought about was growing a watermelon tree in my stomach bc I ate a water melon seed, and Ella actually understands genders
Did you know you were a girl?
@@ghrndez obviously not
But did you know your gender?
@@patriot8242 That's...not an argument.
Gender isn't a thing
These comments are going to be interesting 👀
They’re deleting anything bad
IKR 😂😂
The minute I saw the title I just went straight into the comments 🤣
I’m surprised they didn’t turn them off lol
Eeew
When I was 4 I considered my mom and dad as role models. Kids are brought up by the way they are taught whether it's right or wrong
It looks like they're trying to be supportive, while still figuring things out themselves. I don't think they're forcing this onto her. Of they were they'd be acting less unsure about it.
And this was wrong
So so true
@@djjahhz1037 How is it wrong that she became a girl? One of my best friends was a girl and then he changed to a boy. Its amazing and inspiring to see people like this.
@@-crescent-6462 if the kid wants to have one limb rem oved should the parents be supportive?
These are the worst parents ever
Children are never born in the "wrong body."
Exactly!
Then why was a born in the wrong body
Then how come transgender people exist? Weren't they also children?
@@random.-person Yes, all adults were children once, that's basic biology.
@@Bonobo3D You only answered one question. How do transgender people exist if children aren't born in the wrong body?
I grew up with 6 brothers and yes at that age I want to be a boy ..I even have short hair like my brothers. I still wanted to be a boy around 15 because everything seems to be easier 😆. But with time ... I understood that it was just because of my brought up.
Thank God your parents didn't change your birth certificate, get you surgery and push non regulated hormones in you like these child abuser parents are doing to their beautiful son.
@@4jesuschrist782 now they are pressuring me to get married 😂. Also my parents were broke
Good for you. But for transgender kids who get body dismorphia and depression for it, we should not ignore their needs
That's why i think it's healthier to WAIT and marinate on it. It's a big decision. There's no convincing me that any child fully grasps what all this means. When they do, have at it i say
@@4jesuschrist782 This is filled with ignorance. You obviously have no idea how difficult it is to do any of these things. "Yeah, my parents went and 'got' me surgery and hormones, it only involved me being over 16 years old and be on a waiting list for at least 5 years".
And how exactly are these hormones unregulated? They are medicines prescribed by doctors and GPs, and are the same medication used as hormone replacement therapy for women experiencing menopause, in the case of trans women. But you don't really care for the facts, you just want to ignore how the child feels and misgender them, for some reason.
Growing up I would wear boy clothes more then girl clothes but Im still a girl to this day and that didn't change my gender.
true, but she is a bit further than that, i am sure you never went to your mom and said, " i am a girl/boy and i was born incorectly" this is to another level
did you ever feel like you were supposed to be a boy though? did you hate that your body was female? because that’s what being trans is.
That’s because you didn’t want to
@@lucycassidy2709 *he
@@zach1210 no, zach, she she is a girl, she can go by she/her pronouns if she wishes. (quick pop quiz, when can you use they/them pronouns, why do you say that, and what do other people think about this?)
I think this is fine just don’t do any permanent changes yet just let your child express until they feel the need when they are in their later teen years to make those permanent changes.
Take from a trans person who's went through the wrong puberty and wishes they were dead multiple times day have almost potentially offed themselves more than once puberty blockers are a must no deserves this kind of torment I just hope some things start moving along soon regards to my waiting on hrt and surgeries.
@@nbmoleminer5051children are brought up thinking pink and dresses are girl things and football and blue are boy things, this CHILD will grow out of child hood and may like things like playing video games with their guy friends and do “boy” things, people change and blocking your child from choice is criminal and just disgusting
@@nbmoleminer5051being a man or woman is more then what you liked playing with when you were younger and what type of music you like, I preferred “boy things” thank God my mum didn’t make the mistake of calling me a boy, and now I am very much girly
When I was 7 I want to play at Burber king playground every day.
But did you know your gender?
Burber
was it yesterday ?
they say we support, but what they really mean is promote and here is where I have a problem with it
literally how 🤨
They are supporting they aren’t promoting anything
@@finnosaurusrex you get urself a kid and you'll quickly learn the difference
@@alex_the_esl_master promoting what though, being supportive
@@alex_the_esl_master it's better having a loving child who they are than a suicidal child who hates you 😩🥺😍✨💞
Get well soon xoxox
The "when I was 7" commands r kinda offensive. Playing in ur yard and eating dirt doesnt have anything to do with gender. She probably still does those things lol. She's not all about her gender, she's still a child so she'll still be playing. The real transition will begin when she hits puberty. She'll just have a happier childhood looking back now.
Let people comment what they want.
“My favourite colour is rainbow”
“This is my favourite skirt” [it’s blue]
Lol! Just noticed
that kid literally changes favorite colors like i change my underwear 🤣💀
“There are no life altering changes being made right now”.
“The next step is to change (his) birth certificate in the very near future”.
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Every parent wants a child who has absolutely no struggles, is perfect in school, doesn’t have any issues with mental health or physical disabilities. That is just fantasy. We all have to do what is right by our own children, not what our neighbors or another person who isn’t raising them would think. There are plenty of studies showing the brain is different in these children, that it is not just some phase they go through. Who the hell is anyone else to judge what this family is going through? Who cares what you think, and how does it affect you? We all want the same thing as parents....for our children to live happy successful lives, filled with love and acceptance. That begins with self acceptance.
Agree !!!!!!!
The issue is that children change their minds all the time. There are already several comments on here from people who said they used to think they were a different gender as a child, and they are glad their parents didn’t go thru the process to change their gender because they feel differently as an adult now. This child is way too young to be making such a permanent decision. If they use puberty blockers and the child happens to change their mind later in life, it will be too late.
@@kyliCatherine1 nothing they do at that age is irreversible. Only at 10 or so you start with hormone blockers to delay the onset of natural puberty - again: reversible. So everything up to ~15yo does not harm the child if he/she decides to stop the process of transitioning.
the fake claims that these children have different brains is laughable. plz stop spreading this fake news
@@jemma-joon it’s actually not a fake claim. I am a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist and the latest research in PeT scans and MRI imaging proves otherwise. Please research before opening your mouth, it it’s embarrassing and insulting to the other intelligent commentators of this thread.
I honestly do not know what to think about all this. But.. I will say, they appear to be caring parents spending time with there kids. A lot of kids don't have that.
@@ssdkilla where? this is a video about gender. how do you know? and why would they teach her how "important it is to be a man" when shes a girl? and why would they teach her about raising a son WHEN SHES A CHILD.
“It has gray which is my 10th favorite color”
Girl I don’t even know what my 1RST favorite color is 🤣
lol 😂 here’s the colors I like:
1: neon green
2: neon pink
3: teal
4: purple
5: blue
6: orange
7: red
And that’s all I know 🤣 I’m still thinking of the rest 😂
I’m fine with letting a kid dress the way they want.. but I hope they don’t inject that child with hormones.
I don’t think that’s how transitioning works
You can’t inject hormones until your 18
@@Wolftamer-gp3bp schools in Washington are letting Kids at 12 have hormone pills without parents permission.
@@theappleciderresistance4925 some parents arent meant to be parents and most dont support all of this!I agree thats a very young ages but I dont think there is a need for parents permission
The parents seem loving and caring, but they should also be strict and wise. What makes your child happy now, will most likely cause a lot of pain, anger, and frustration in the future. At the end of the day, this is still a child with a child’s mind that doesn’t fully comprehend the consequences of his actions.
She is a girl- i was like that as a kid bro i knew i was supposed to be a boy and look at me now. Im 18 years old i came out when i was like 10 to my online friends and i came out when i was 15 to my family. She knows who she is and im sorry you feel the need to misgender a child but we ain't hurting you so please mind your own business.
Her not his. It's called respect.
There's no consequences. There is nothing wrong with any child "acting" like a girl or a boy or whatever. It doesn't matter. YOU are the one pushing societal normatives on her, not her parents. Why do you care so much about a child's genitals? That's disgusting.
None of the changes they made to the child’s room and toys are permanent and their pronouns currently are she/her!
*her*, NOT him
Way back in the 60's when I was young, I had friends that were not gender conforming. They grew out of it, and turned out just fine. Do not tell him he is a girl when he is NOT! You are lying to him. He's in for a difficult life because you parents will not accept reality and you give in to his childish notions. When he gets older he may very well regret his decision and you too!
Yeppp. They are making it worse by telling him it's normal.
And Kids usually grow out of it, so once he's a teenager and mentally confused, and not sure what reality is, and his PARENTS won't even tell him, it'll be tough..
Let kids be kids weirdo aren’t you a grown man/woman?
Yes exactly. Don’t change genders until your 18 or older because at that age you don’t know much about it and if you change that young you will regret your decision when your older . It’s also to hard and technically he isn’t a girl fully until he gets…. You know…. So he technically can’t be a girl till he is 21 because you can’t get the operation to get …. You know (what all women have between there legs) till your 21 so. There’s no point changing at that age. Because you have to wait anyway to get the operation. So he is still a boy till he is 21 so just wait till you’re 21 because if you wait till you’re 21 you can become the gender fully. It’s like eating half a dish of lasagna and waiting 14 years to eat the other half. Like why can’t you just eat all of it at once.
@@hazsmoothwalker7458yes your right
'Make me a girl mom, I wanna be a girl!' Wow, and the parents just happily obliged! 😂😂😂
When I was 7 I was eating newspaper.
Lmao
I would rip up paper and pretend the little pieces were candy, eat it then proceed to spit it out
😂
💀🤣🤣🤣
@@idkanymore2710LOLLLL
"There are no life-altering changes going on right now."
Did... did I hear that right?
it’s true though
Yes you did
there’s no puberty blockers until 13, hormones are given at 17 or 18 and you need recommendation from a therapist, and gender affirmation surgery is given a few years after hormones with recommendation from a therapist and they need to be eligible for it. So yes, you heard it right.
exactly what @WhyDidIPickTheName? said! When children transition, it's a change of names, clothes, pronouns. And Hormone blockers are available at 13, and even those are reversable, HRT can be started at 15 in specific circumstances WITH parental consent, psychaiatrist + doctor referrals etc. But it is most often started at 16-18. And then surgeries are not avaliable untili you're an adult UNLESS in some circumstances where your parents give consent nd all of the doctors and psychiatrists etc etc etc.
yeah. the only changes being made to trans kids transitioning at 7 are their clothes, hair length, and some stuff in their room. you can't even get anything related to hormones until you're 11-13, puberty blockers, and that's completely reversible. you can get hormones at 16, but only if your therapist and parents agree that this is the best choice for you. surgeries are 18+.
4:08 that backflip tho
I accidentally read Backflip into Blackfip
Lol, guys you can beat it.😎
Because, at this age I finally understood that in "Mumu" the main character was the rich woman, and not the deaf man.🙄
When i was seven i wanted to go through a big mirror to another word in my grandma's room)))
Same! I used to play this game called Mickey's Mouse magical mirror 🪞 that's where I get the idea from lol 😂
i mean good for her, ya'll comments really being overdramatic bout her not understanding gender and all. Legit it's fine, plus I doubt she's on hormones or anything, and if she was it'd be her choice to take them.
Kids shouldn’t be making that decision. They can’t determine what they can eat for breakfast, lunch, or dinner but yet it’s cool for them to decide what gender they want to be or if they want hormones or be sterilized? If that’s not creepy to you, then you need help
@@cosmokramer179 They can only really be on hormones when they go through puberty, not when they're 7 bruh. When you're put on hormones, you don't just magically get them, you have to talk to someone to get them. It isn't like some doctor will see a kid and suddenly put them on irreversible hormone treatment, or sterilize them. It's not that black and white.
When they're not old enough to get hormone treatment, what's wrong with just, growing your hair out, or wearing feminine clothes? To really be on irreversible treatment, the person would already be at old enough age to know what right and whats not right for them.
@@cosmokramer179 another transphobic excuse.
@@JustCallMe_Zay ooh!!
@@JustCallMe_Zay not really just another statistical Fact snowflake
When I was 7 I would follow my mom around the house trying to convince her to let me have a play date with my friend
I read "7 I" as 71 🥲
@@itslittlemissgachacloversame
I'm all for trans rights but this is a horrible thing to do. Young children can't understand these type of things. Next they're going to say that since children can apparently consent to this, why aren't they considered mature? You know what's next right? Pedophiles will rationalize that "since children can apparently understand gender and sex, why can't they consent to a relationship?"
If you're an adult and want to change your gender that's fine. Your body not mine. I'll call you whichever pronouns you want. But children can't comprehend this. Gender to them is playing with action figures vs dolls.