its tradition that the foreigner gives money to the family. As long as he money does not run out she wont budge. Plus after 10 years surely her family has invested in property and or businesses with the money he gifts them every so often...
@jamelladrayton834 YES, you're absolutely RIGHT. 💯 They/She's just having fun. They're just (🧌) TROLLING the people that's laughing and making nasty content and jokes of their relationship/reality. Point is, They're genuinely in love with one another! ON THE OTHER HAND: I look at and also think and respect different 🤔 opinions; I'm a very unbias person. I see situations on both sides and respect both. For the sake of the folks in this comment section who don't agree. I'm also looking at this situation as in: If THEY don't like/or respect others not recognizing YOU'RE situation it's your right not to. If you don't want folks opinions DON'T post or put your business out there for people to speak on YOUR lifestyle 😮. PEOPLE COMMENTS SHOULDN'T BOTHER Y'ALL OR HAVE A NEGATIVE REFLECTION ON Y'ALL DECISION-MAKING. BE BLESSED 🙌 😇
This is a long con bro, 10 years they been together. Idk man, that's a long ass time to wait for a green card. They don't even live in the states, they live in Thailand, what use is a u.s. green card in Thailand? America isn't that great like how the the try to make it seem like it is. They gonna live way better off his money in Thailand than in the u.s. I believe her rapping is trolling, she's being facetious imo.
And yet nobody knows what the kids mother situation is like. That man made a decision. Has a family now. Most of yall who stay waiting for a woman in the US wait decades for a good woman. I guarantee it didn't take as long for him.
The mama could be at fault too. If she divorced him, that's on her. I didn't grow up with my dad either my mom divorced him at around 8. We started to build our relationship when I was in my 20's. He has to work on forgiving his father, he's holding onto resentment, and it's not healthy. I been where he is, he gotta let go of that anger.
U saying maybe but none of that was mentioned. What was mentioned is he found a woman in a different country when he was 28 and he left America. I'm not tripping on him for finding someone but I understand the son too. Also, why do some of u always have to put the mother in something even if it wasn't mentioned? @@adim00lah
I’ve been in this situation.. I divorced my son’s mother when he was 11 and I got remarried ironically to a Filipina.. My son lived in Italy with his mother while I lived in Spain and then the United States.. He harbored bad feelings towards me because he felt I abandoned him.. That’s what his son is still feeling.. My son and I worked it out by having a real heart to heart conversation just the two of us.. There was a lot of crying between the both of us and I listened and reassured my son that love him and always have..
The part with his son is sad. He left him for this woman at 8 or 9. Started a whole nother family and then just want him to be okay with everything smhhh
@@allie_w he didn't abandon him, he has wanted his son there this whole time. We always think we know everything when we are young, but the reality is we really don't. Why should his dad not go on with his life just because his son doesn't agree?? Looks to me like the son is going to be living with regrets.
@@CherylAnnTompkinshe left him at 8. You don’t go on with you life without your young child. That’s what parents don’t get. I get to be happy even if I have to leave you behind doesn’t work. Sacrifice or don’t have them.
@@doxoxo779 I was playing with my grandbaby when I watch that it was a big chunk I obviously missed. I totally agree with you. I will pay closer attention before commenting on something. Thank you for bringing that to my attention. With that said the situation is a sad one. I would hate for them both to give up on their relationship. He doesn't have to forget, but maybe just maybe forgive and try to work on their relationship. Time is something you can never get back. Sounds like Dad needs to make the first move and apologize for making an obviously poor choice.
The son is a whole grown man now. He needs to stop acting like a female and get over it by now! He should be thankful for example his father set to find love and create his own family.
@DJTosReturns: Obviously I miss your point. Would you say the same if he had found another woman nearby? Why makes the long distance the difference? Also: Clearly I can understand the son but you can see the father is willing to build a better relationship with his son now. Anybody can turn the time. Isn't it better to try to look forwards?
@@andreaschellknecht3600 I think the point is that he left his son when his son needed a dad the most. And I do think long distance is a problem as it hinders your ability to go back and forth
How is he respectful, he's calling his wife a gold digger soley based on race, which is racist. A gold digger can be in any race or nationality. We black, people stereotype us all the time, it's not cool, he need to stop. Even if she is a gold digger, what that gotta do with your relationship with your dad? That's between her and him. I was with my wife for over 10 years, and her parents kept judging me too, because I'm black, mess is just ridiculous, I feel sorry for the dad. He's over here crying, and that son don't even care, that's not respectful, that's resentful.
I know people who are married to rich partners longer than ten years and admitted it was for the money. Time doesn’t mean anything when it’s a transaction
The conversation about the son going to the vowel renewal the dad told him "for one I want you to be there cuz your my son" but it's like ok well he wanted you to be there for him growing up cuz you are his dad but you left !
He left yes, but didn't abandon him. He been begging him for 8-9 year for him to visit. I wish my mom would beg me to visit her, I haven't spoken to her at all in 9 years. She won't take my calls, emails nothing. That is abandonment. He's over there judging that woman,and that's the problem, his judgements, because he was not abandoned. 10 years later, what she need a green card for, they live in Thailand? A woman doesn't need a green card to use a man, plenty women divorce their huband out in the states and end up getting alimony and child support. She's guilty until proven innocent,which is not right at all. He's sterotyping her, just like they do to us as black folks. We're all criminals and thugs to some people. His son is racist.
I am married with my husband for almost 3 years now, we met 2019 and he proposed to me on December 2019. I moved here in the US last 2022. I am also from the Philippines. We heard alot of this kind of things, I will just use him for green card and all, I will leave him when I get my GC. I heard also some hurtful words from my father in law, his step dad in law, his cousin that we never seen again lol. but I just brushed it off and go on in our lives. Right now, I'm working as a nurse here in US helping my husband to pay bills. I dont heard them saying negative things about me. Probably because I can provide now for our little family, and I have my own money. Most of the americans I noticed they will always have a doubt, not until you prove it to them. And I prove them I will never ever be using their son, I love him dearly, instead I will help him and build our family together.
If the son is really having an issue trusting the relationship is real and she isn't angling to get a green card, it probably hurts to see them doing tiktoks with her saying she's doing it for a green card. It must feel invalidating to see your dad pick a new family and make jokes about your fears.
Most likely because the boy Was raised by a single mom so his ability to trust women has been limited. I know I've been going to therapy.And my therapist is now who specializing in men who were raised by single mothers. It's not that he doesn't trust her. He probably has an issue trusting any women.
@@stetonwalters574wait.. so his father chose another woman… he made that choice.. but somehow it’s still a woman’s fault? What? A single mom, you mean the parent that chose him, and stayed? It’s her fault? How?
@stetonwalters574 asking from genuine curiosity - can you explain why son's raised by single mothers find it difficult to trust women? I'm a single mom raising a boy, he goes to his dad's every weekend we have a good coparent relationship and he wasn't pulled through a divorce or anything. Just want all the knowledge I can get to set him up for success in life and relationships.
His son feels abandoned by him, he says it's 24 hour flight but that's not the same as dropping by your parents house when you need them which could be daily🤷♀
His son needs to grow tf up. Hes not abandoned because the dad is there/present. Not only present but attempting to bond. Couldnt be my homeboy, i'd tell him to quit being a bytch
I agree with mikey, his son is immature. He talks to him all the time on the phone. That's not abandonment. My mom hasn't spoken to me in 9 years, won't take my calls, texts, emails nothing. I never hear from her on my b-day, c-mas nothing! That is abandonment. The man has been begging him for years to come out to visit, and he refuses, what part of this is abandonment? I WISH my mom would call me and invite me to come visit, I'd be there in a ny minute. He doens't know how good he has it honestly. Everybody doesn't live around their parents. For years I lived in california and my dad was in florida, that's life!
They’ve been together for 10 years. At this point, I don’t think you can say she is just with him for a green card, especially since they’re not even living in the United States. When I was around the same age as his son, my dad remarried a much younger Asian woman as well. I didn’t care because she was nice and all I wanted was to have a relationship with my dad. If they had asked me at any moment to visit them, I would’ve done it in a heartbeat just so I could see my dad. However, I will say that them making TikTok videos is just asking for negative attention. They need to stop that.
I literally said the same thing, 10 years later, and he still treating her like she's scamming him? Idk, it seems racist to me. He's only judging her like that because she's foreign. Like how some white folks jusdge me because I'm black. They don't even live in the u.s. as you mentioned, she doesn't even need a green card. Americans we really believe it's so great here. I would love to live in Thailand, bump living here, can't even afford anything, even though I'm making 6 figures a year, not to mention all the crime. I got a buddy that is ex-patriated living in Vietnam, and he never has to worry about gun violence, the way I do living her in Atlanta. I'm worried about the thugs and the police putting me in the dirt.
@BREASHONTELL No. What's naive is that these poor brothers think that they're going to find good women in the West. That man got off the plantation he ain't coming back.
@@lareinelester685 Not in the US. My sister got her American green card through marriage. First two years she got a temporary visa, then she was able to switch to a 10 year visa. After being married for 5 years she can apply for citizenship.
Her goal was to move to America and marry and settle down. The end. She's way more feminine than most western women anyway. Her beliefs are very traditional And the son is just mad because he hasn't got a girl yet. When he gets a girl he wouldn't care less about what his dad does
My word they are adorable together. I mean they have been together 10 years and have a child together. Who ever is saying that mess about a green card you all need to cut out those toxic people out of your life. She looks youthful i think the height will give her that look and the age is only 9 years so who cares. I have been with my honey since i was 21 and i am 51 now we have been married come February will be 25 years. You all keep doing you and being happy .
The father did not bond with the son, he is hurting and that’s make the situation awkward. I am 58 years old , with both parents alive , can’t be close with them . They didn’t raise me. Bonding is very important .🤔
I mean yeah I’d be mad too if I’m 9 years old and my dad moves across the world for someone almost 10 years younger than him leaving me behind making it harder to have a relationship
I met my wife in dominican republic and we been married for years. Have 2 sons 20 and 21 years old, and people said the same thing to me about the green card thing. My wife is a USA citizen and we still together
A 28 year old dating a 19 year old is so suspect. Just because they have been together for a long time doesn't mean the relationship is not transactional. She even said he "makes her" wear sexy clothes when that's not her personal taste in fashion. I think the son's intuition is correct on some level but that doesn't mean Monami isn't taking advantage of her too. He probably had to sacrifice a healthy relationship with his son to be with this woman. It's not good to bring someone into the family when your kids are still young and clearly uncomfortable with your new partner.
Many women in some Asian cultures, they do marry for a better life. I understand but I feel perhaps the son and Dad didn't have a good foundation. Now the Dad has a new life, he feels left out. My Dad is older, educated and trying to marry someone half his age, smh. There are other things but many men feel Asian women are more submissive. Life goes on.
My husband is Black African American too Iam from Philippines, Iam his 3rd marriage, we are 28yrs.age gap, we got two kids now and been married for 16yrs. and counting, alot of people said that Iam after for greencard even to his family here in America but I proved it to them that they were all wrong....hahaha! Sorry judgemental people. Goodluck!!!!😅😅
At least he ain't dating in America, and he is living way above cost of living, afford living, dating where women are reasonable, prob making 3k usd and afford something that's looks like you would pay 5k in us. The man is literally living the dreams most man wants.
The son’s problem is less the relationship, but rather the Dad’s betrayal to MOVE AWAY and de facto ABANDONING his son for a 19-year-old “hot chick”. Dad and wife are extremely self-absorbed. The son doesn’t owe them anything.
How did he abandon him, when they have stayed in contact, and he invited him for years to come visit and he refuses. That boy don't know what true abandonment is. My mom hasn't spoken to me in 9 years. She never answer my calls nor responds to my emails. I don't hear from her on my b-day, c-mas nothing, that is abandonment, and I still forgive her. He has some serious growing up to do. The son doesn't owe him anything, but he has to let go of that resenemetn. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, it's not about that dad.
@ Forgiveness does not mean he has to cater to the Dad’s show. And yes; there is always worse. I am sorry your Mom abandoned you, it’s definitely not normal and speaks for her mental state. Of course you deserve to have a caring Mom. The son also has not abandoned his Dad either, but is in contact with him. He just doesn’t wanna fake excitement about his Dad’s new family that he chose over his original family.
@@raya9283 He doens't have to fake excitement, I don't really like my dad's new wife, but I'm not going out there to visit or judge her, I go out there for my father. If you love your father, and you see he wants you there, and it's hurting him, that's not a kind nor loving to to do is to refuse to come. I'm not sorry about what happened between me and my mom, without her abandoning me, I wouldn't be the man I am today. I wouldn't have had the relationship with God that I do now, which gave me the power to forgive her. I regret nothing honestly, it helped me be a better stronger man. Sure I would like her to be here in my life, but I don't want to erase what happened, as it was a huge spring board to my relationship with love (God).
@@raya9283 He's not catering to the dad. If you love your dad, and you see he wants to see you, why shoulnd't you visit him? Because of his wife? That doesn't make sense. I don't like my wife's dad, but when I go there I'm there to see him, I could care less if she's there tbh. Ain't nobody asking him to be fake excited, just go see your father. And I'm not sorry what happened between me and my mom, it helped me mature spiritually as a man, and become closer to God. I wouldn't be the man I am today if that didn't happen. Some of the toughest lessons of my life helped me grow the most.
@@adim00lah Everyone has their own family drama or childhood trauma. Just because your story is more painful than someone else's doesn't make their experiences any less valid, nor does it diminish their feelings. His father has a son to take care of, but instead he up and moved to a different country - sure they talked on the phone, but the son has the right to feel abandoned by him when the father wasn't around growing up.
I love that you don’t allow the opinions of other’s who look at you and make snap judgments to impact your lives. After ten years of together you’ve shown you’re in this marriage because you want to be and I pray your son will make an effort to get to know his sister and your wife. Wishing all the blessings and joy as a family. Praying 🙏🏾 ❤
She's very beauitful. I would married her too if i was a man. She seems very kind, down to earth, sweet & understanding, got a great attitude & of course she's very pretty & young looking.
they are super adorable wish them nothing but positive stuff moving forward. big respect also for both of them I am sure they fight over a lot of challenges. yet they seems to have a good life now.
I think their love is genuine! There is nothing to worry about! Besides, they look so well together! They make a beautiful couple! 😄 I support their love! 😊
What a beautiful couple👌♥️. Keep loving and respecting each other folks. I love your energy and your woman is Gold. She is a beautiful filipina with heart of Gold. Negativity and judgement come from the same source....fear of the new and unknown. What is true with you though, is that you are in a safe relationship. Parental alienation and the consequences of divorce are painful, especially when your kids dont support you, but put your best foot forward and put your positive relationship first. People will always talk about the green card as if America is the land of dreams. America is dying and many filipinas don't mind staying locally and close to their families. Keep up the good work and i salute you👌
I personally think it's beautiful. I don't know many people who will endure 9 years of marriage if they don't truly love the person. If that was the case then as soon as she got her papers she would have been gone. She is happy. He is happy. Leave them be. 💯
Everytime you hear someone say or ask if that's your daughter etc. They are envious and jealous. And sometimes insecure. After trying to find a good partner after 20 years of no success I'm thinking about going over seas to look for a good wife.
Also my uncle married a woman in the Philippines 20 years ago who was much younger, he past away over 10 years ago and the had a son (my cousin) she was there by his side until the end. She been had citizenship and still hasn't came to America. She never was even interested in coming here. We want her to but she loves her country so much. Maybe she will come next summer. I want to meet finally in person. But we are always in communication
It is your life and you only live once! So enjoy it together and you both deserve to be happy with your decisions. I must commend you for your patience with your son. You are a good dad to your kids and good husband to your wife. Naysayers be damned.
Ok I understand now back when they first met at 19 she looked alot younger which I understand when I was 18 ppl thought I was younger than what I was as well
Amazing couple! I mean for god sake it’s been 10 years. Obviously this is true love. I can’t imagine somebody would stick around that long if they didn’t really love the person.
At this point after 10 years she deserves all the colored cards in America 😁😁😁
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its tradition that the foreigner gives money to the family. As long as he money does not run out she wont budge. Plus after 10 years surely her family has invested in property and or businesses with the money he gifts them every so often...
I mean, you can't be frustrated at people saying she wants a green card when shes online making videos and TikToks about it 😂😂😂
I would assume she is trolling.
Right@@jamelladrayton834
You have to feed the masses what they want to hear .. I would tell them the same
@jamelladrayton834 YES, you're absolutely RIGHT. 💯 They/She's just having fun. They're just (🧌) TROLLING the people that's laughing and making nasty content and jokes of their relationship/reality. Point is, They're genuinely in love with one another!
ON THE OTHER HAND:
I look at and also think and respect different 🤔 opinions; I'm a very unbias person. I see situations on both sides and respect both.
For the sake of the folks in this comment section who don't agree.
I'm also looking at this situation as in: If THEY don't like/or respect others not recognizing YOU'RE situation it's your right not to. If you don't want folks opinions DON'T post or put your business out there for people to speak on YOUR lifestyle 😮.
PEOPLE COMMENTS SHOULDN'T BOTHER Y'ALL OR HAVE A NEGATIVE REFLECTION ON Y'ALL DECISION-MAKING.
BE BLESSED 🙌 😇
This is a long con bro, 10 years they been together. Idk man, that's a long ass time to wait for a green card. They don't even live in the states, they live in Thailand, what use is a u.s. green card in Thailand? America isn't that great like how the the try to make it seem like it is. They gonna live way better off his money in Thailand than in the u.s.
I believe her rapping is trolling, she's being facetious imo.
The son is upset because his dad left him for this woman. He doesn't get to hang out witg his dad
No upset but sad because he left him at a young age who wouldn’t be
And yet nobody knows what the kids mother situation is like. That man made a decision. Has a family now. Most of yall who stay waiting for a woman in the US wait decades for a good woman. I guarantee it didn't take as long for him.
The mama could be at fault too. If she divorced him, that's on her. I didn't grow up with my dad either my mom divorced him at around 8. We started to build our relationship when I was in my 20's. He has to work on forgiving his father, he's holding onto resentment, and it's not healthy. I been where he is, he gotta let go of that anger.
U saying maybe but none of that was mentioned. What was mentioned is he found a woman in a different country when he was 28 and he left America. I'm not tripping on him for finding someone but I understand the son too. Also, why do some of u always have to put the mother in something even if it wasn't mentioned? @@adim00lah
I’ve been in this situation.. I divorced my son’s mother when he was 11 and I got remarried ironically to a Filipina.. My son lived in Italy with his mother while I lived in Spain and then the United States.. He harbored bad feelings towards me because he felt I abandoned him.. That’s what his son is still feeling.. My son and I worked it out by having a real heart to heart conversation just the two of us.. There was a lot of crying between the both of us and I listened and reassured my son that love him and always have..
She doesn’t look that young why do they keep saying that 😭 she looks her age but with ponytails
Naw she does look kind of young or youthful maybe that’s a better word….youthful
Ikr. She looks every bit of her age.
@@bellladonna2071 Stop it, no she doesn’t
The part with his son is sad. He left him for this woman at 8 or 9. Started a whole nother family and then just want him to be okay with everything smhhh
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U must be a woman u dont think his mom move on with someone else and no one gets to choose who someone loves
That's a huge betrayal to his son, his son is hurt because he move to another country just to be with her not caring to be with him
His son was still very respectful, notwithstanding how much his father had betrayed and abandoned him. Respect this man's son.
@@allie_w he didn't abandon him, he has wanted his son there this whole time. We always think we know everything when we are young, but the reality is we really don't. Why should his dad not go on with his life just because his son doesn't agree?? Looks to me like the son is going to be living with regrets.
@@CherylAnnTompkinsthank you for common sense
@@CherylAnnTompkinshe left him at 8. You don’t go on with you life without your young child. That’s what parents don’t get. I get to be happy even if I have to leave you behind doesn’t work. Sacrifice or don’t have them.
@@doxoxo779 I was playing with my grandbaby when I watch that it was a big chunk I obviously missed. I totally agree with you. I will pay closer attention before commenting on something. Thank you for bringing that to my attention. With that said the situation is a sad one. I would hate for them both to give up on their relationship. He doesn't have to forget, but maybe just maybe forgive and try to work on their relationship. Time is something you can never get back. Sounds like Dad needs to make the first move and apologize for making an obviously poor choice.
Doesn't seem abandoned the way he's keeping in contact with him. We don't know the whole story, maybe the mother divorced or left him.
So this man up and moved half way across the world for a woman and left his son here to fend for himself?? WOOF!
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The son is a whole grown man now. He needs to stop acting like a female and get over it by now! He should be thankful for example his father set to find love and create his own family.
@@daniellearmstrong5372 did we watch the same clip? I swore he left him 10 years ago when he was a mere pre teen. Idk tho.
@DJTosReturns: Obviously I miss your point. Would you say the same if he had found another woman nearby? Why makes the long distance the difference?
Also: Clearly I can understand the son but you can see the father is willing to build a better relationship with his son now. Anybody can turn the time. Isn't it better to try to look forwards?
@@andreaschellknecht3600 I think the point is that he left his son when his son needed a dad the most.
And I do think long distance is a problem as it hinders your ability to go back and forth
This son is very respectful...dad you need to work on that relationship with your son. All the best!
How is he respectful, he's calling his wife a gold digger soley based on race, which is racist. A gold digger can be in any race or nationality. We black, people stereotype us all the time, it's not cool, he need to stop. Even if she is a gold digger, what that gotta do with your relationship with your dad? That's between her and him.
I was with my wife for over 10 years, and her parents kept judging me too, because I'm black, mess is just ridiculous, I feel sorry for the dad. He's over here crying, and that son don't even care, that's not respectful, that's resentful.
They're a cute couple but I still feel horribly for the son.
Son needs to Kickstart his life and find a gf
Its been TEN YEARS!! At what point will people say they were wrong about them? 30?
People need to stop. She's not using him if she's been with him for 10 yrs, come on, dummies.
Right I agree
I know people who are married to rich partners longer than ten years and admitted it was for the money. Time doesn’t mean anything when it’s a transaction
You, you don't know women.
you’re crazy if you genuinely think that 😂😂
Maybe not. But he's fucked up for leaving his child for some international punani.
The conversation about the son going to the vowel renewal the dad told him "for one I want you to be there cuz your my son" but it's like ok well he wanted you to be there for him growing up cuz you are his dad but you left !
He left yes, but didn't abandon him. He been begging him for 8-9 year for him to visit. I wish my mom would beg me to visit her, I haven't spoken to her at all in 9 years. She won't take my calls, emails nothing. That is abandonment.
He's over there judging that woman,and that's the problem, his judgements, because he was not abandoned. 10 years later, what she need a green card for, they live in Thailand?
A woman doesn't need a green card to use a man, plenty women divorce their huband out in the states and end up getting alimony and child support. She's guilty until proven innocent,which is not right at all.
He's sterotyping her, just like they do to us as black folks. We're all criminals and thugs to some people. His son is racist.
I am married with my husband for almost 3 years now, we met 2019 and he proposed to me on December 2019. I moved here in the US last 2022. I am also from the Philippines. We heard alot of this kind of things, I will just use him for green card and all, I will leave him when I get my GC. I heard also some hurtful words from my father in law, his step dad in law, his cousin that we never seen again lol. but I just brushed it off and go on in our lives. Right now, I'm working as a nurse here in US helping my husband to pay bills. I dont heard them saying negative things about me. Probably because I can provide now for our little family, and I have my own money. Most of the americans I noticed they will always have a doubt, not until you prove it to them. And I prove them I will never ever be using their son, I love him dearly, instead I will help him and build our family together.
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Many women are hating on you.
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Wish you both the best. And please do your best for your kids.
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If the son is really having an issue trusting the relationship is real and she isn't angling to get a green card, it probably hurts to see them doing tiktoks with her saying she's doing it for a green card. It must feel invalidating to see your dad pick a new family and make jokes about your fears.
Most likely because the boy Was raised by a single mom so his ability to trust women has been limited. I know I've been going to therapy.And my therapist is now who specializing in men who were raised by single mothers. It's not that he doesn't trust her. He probably has an issue trusting any women.
@@stetonwalters574I'm curious, why would being raised by a single mom, make someone not trust women? Is the single mom abusive or normal?
Honestly I feel like she's singing that song to be sarcastic since that's the stereotype.
@@stetonwalters574wait.. so his father chose another woman… he made that choice.. but somehow it’s still a woman’s fault? What? A single mom, you mean the parent that chose him, and stayed? It’s her fault? How?
@stetonwalters574 asking from genuine curiosity - can you explain why son's raised by single mothers find it difficult to trust women? I'm a single mom raising a boy, he goes to his dad's every weekend we have a good coparent relationship and he wasn't pulled through a divorce or anything. Just want all the knowledge I can get to set him up for success in life and relationships.
His son is hurting 😢
That should’ve been a private convo with the son and dad not with the wife and not with cameras
He’s actually respectful considering his valid hurt
It’s been 10 years. I see the genuineness. Let this couple LOVE! Love wins in this case. To many more!! 🥂
His son feels abandoned by him, he says it's 24 hour flight but that's not the same as dropping by your parents house when you need them which could be daily🤷♀
His son needs to grow tf up. Hes not abandoned because the dad is there/present. Not only present but attempting to bond. Couldnt be my homeboy, i'd tell him to quit being a bytch
I agree with mikey, his son is immature. He talks to him all the time on the phone. That's not abandonment.
My mom hasn't spoken to me in 9 years, won't take my calls, texts, emails nothing. I never hear from her on my b-day, c-mas nothing! That is abandonment. The man has been begging him for years to come out to visit, and he refuses, what part of this is abandonment?
I WISH my mom would call me and invite me to come visit, I'd be there in a ny minute. He doens't know how good he has it honestly.
Everybody doesn't live around their parents. For years I lived in california and my dad was in florida, that's life!
They’ve been together for 10 years. At this point, I don’t think you can say she is just with him for a green card, especially since they’re not even living in the United States.
When I was around the same age as his son, my dad remarried a much younger Asian woman as well. I didn’t care because she was nice and all I wanted was to have a relationship with my dad. If they had asked me at any moment to visit them, I would’ve done it in a heartbeat just so I could see my dad.
However, I will say that them making TikTok videos is just asking for negative attention. They need to stop that.
I literally said the same thing, 10 years later, and he still treating her like she's scamming him? Idk, it seems racist to me. He's only judging her like that because she's foreign. Like how some white folks jusdge me because I'm black.
They don't even live in the u.s. as you mentioned, she doesn't even need a green card. Americans we really believe it's so great here. I would love to live in Thailand, bump living here, can't even afford anything, even though I'm making 6 figures a year, not to mention all the crime.
I got a buddy that is ex-patriated living in Vietnam, and he never has to worry about gun violence, the way I do living her in Atlanta. I'm worried about the thugs and the police putting me in the dirt.
Asking a neighbor to get your son’s perspective is weird as shit.
He's a tall, good looking.Looks like he's a successful man.I'm pretty sure she's not in for the green card.
Your so naive
@BREASHONTELL No.
What's naive is that these poor brothers think that they're going to find good women in the West. That man got off the plantation he ain't coming back.
Plus they’ve been married for 10 years. After 2 years of marriage she could have left him if she just wanted the green card.
@@Chels-fl5hf Some places you have to be married 10 yrs for it to seem valid. That may not be their situation js
@@lareinelester685 Not in the US. My sister got her American green card through marriage. First two years she got a temporary visa, then she was able to switch to a 10 year visa. After being married for 5 years she can apply for citizenship.
It's been 10 years. She's not after a green card at this point. 💜💛
That’s what I’m saying
Once I heard the 10 years
I’m like she ain’t doing the long game 🤣
Exactly 💯 💯 💯
10 years is way too long for any game unless he is a multimillionaire.
Her goal was to move to America and marry and settle down. The end.
She's way more feminine than most western women anyway. Her beliefs are very traditional
And the son is just mad because he hasn't got a girl yet.
When he gets a girl he wouldn't care less about what his dad does
Their love seems genuine!! Wishing them a lifetime of happiness & that he will work hard to improve the relationship with his son ❤
son needs to grow tf up. What if his father quit talking to him bc he was gay/happy (we see that often)? Its the same thing
Bruh, every time you pick her up I dial 911 to report a kidnapping.
Soooo he's was a passport bro before it even became a thing? Got it
There's absolutely nothing new about being a "passport bro". Sleazy men been going overseas to find women for a long time or buying mail order brides.
This is exactly what it is.
“Married to short Asian” lol surely there’s more to her than that
it's clear that she has more than proven herself in this relationship.
We never had this conversation so now we have to have it right now in front of millions of people. Makes sense.
He is good looking. She also does not look too young to be with him so 🙄
My word they are adorable together. I mean they have been together 10 years and have a child together. Who ever is saying that mess about a green card you all need to cut out those toxic people out of your life. She looks youthful i think the height will give her that look and the age is only 9 years so who cares. I have been with my honey since i was 21 and i am 51 now we have been married come February will be 25 years. You all keep doing you and being happy .
The dad saying it’s a short flight but then that it takes him 24hrs to get there.💀
The father did not bond with the son, he is hurting and that’s make the situation awkward. I am 58 years old , with both parents alive , can’t be close with them . They didn’t raise me. Bonding is very important .🤔
Plot twist. Son visit dad and found himself a wife also. Dad and son now live oversea.
They truly love each other
I mean yeah I’d be mad too if I’m 9 years old and my dad moves across the world for someone almost 10 years younger than him leaving me behind making it harder to have a relationship
I dont think she wants to go to America. His money goes farther in the east.
that part
10 yrs, let them be.
I met my wife in dominican republic and we been married for years. Have 2 sons 20 and 21 years old, and people said the same thing to me about the green card thing. My wife is a USA citizen and we still together
Sounds like they love each other, and ppl want to put their five cents in where it ain’t needed. Let them live love and enjoy. Best to them.
Is this another one of these passport bros?
yes
Absolutely
What difference it makes?
it’s your mom
They've been together for 10years... You know that most of your family member who got married don't even last over 3years...
At first I also thought that he only got married for the green card... but since they've been together for 10 years, that's out of the question.
He’s a handsome man. I don’t think she’s with him for only the papers
Asians generally don't like blacks.
I like them 🥰 so cuteee
A 28 year old dating a 19 year old is so suspect. Just because they have been together for a long time doesn't mean the relationship is not transactional. She even said he "makes her" wear sexy clothes when that's not her personal taste in fashion. I think the son's intuition is correct on some level but that doesn't mean Monami isn't taking advantage of her too. He probably had to sacrifice a healthy relationship with his son to be with this woman. It's not good to bring someone into the family when your kids are still young and clearly uncomfortable with your new partner.
I'm 44 if I date a 33 year old is that suspicious too?
I’m confused because to me she looks way older than 19 tho she looks 30 to me
@@Lolo-m5o that's what I'm saying she's just petite!!
@@Lolo-m5oshe was 19 when they met 10 years ago so that’s why she looks almost 30 lol
@@JohnSmith-in9msNot same
At least she's loving him truly
Many women in some Asian cultures, they do marry for a better life. I understand but I feel perhaps the son and Dad didn't have a good foundation. Now the Dad has a new life, he feels left out. My Dad is older, educated and trying to marry someone half his age, smh. There are other things but many men feel Asian women are more submissive. Life goes on.
What woman/person on earth doesnt marry in hopes of a better life?
Like you said Tasha...life goes on. Father's live their lives as they want but they never think of the cost until it's effectively too late.
"absolutely.. you are both good heart ❤️ .. follow your heart ❤️
My husband is Black African American too Iam from Philippines, Iam his 3rd marriage, we are 28yrs.age gap, we got two kids now and been married for 16yrs. and counting, alot of people said that Iam after for greencard even to his family here in America but I proved it to them that they were all wrong....hahaha! Sorry judgemental people. Goodluck!!!!😅😅
I love this couple real love exist 💖💖😍 love you mama mia 💋
Aww that was hard for his son. Hes so realistic about it all. That took alot for him to say yes.
His son needs to grow tf up.
Beautiful story
At least he ain't dating in America, and he is living way above cost of living, afford living, dating where women are reasonable, prob making 3k usd and afford something that's looks like you would pay 5k in us. The man is literally living the dreams most man wants.
And women😩
🙏🙏🙏🙏"Mental Healing Journey" for his son... U never abandon ur kid and or kids for any partner... PERIOD jus my opinion only
age gap ain’t bad here. God bless them. Wish them every happiness 🎉
19 & almost a 30 year old?
@@Heyitschy03 yes, nothing wrong with that, they're both adults
@ yes it is. I was in her position, i had nothing in common with a 30 year old man.
@ and i have multiple experiences, which is why i only date within three years instead of 9+.
@Heyitschy03 no she was 19 when they met 10 yrs ago she 29 now and he's 38 or 39
He’s just another passport bro
Finally, one that's not so weird just different!
The son’s problem is less the relationship, but rather the Dad’s betrayal to MOVE AWAY and de facto ABANDONING his son for a 19-year-old “hot chick”. Dad and wife are extremely self-absorbed. The son doesn’t owe them anything.
How did he abandon him, when they have stayed in contact, and he invited him for years to come visit and he refuses.
That boy don't know what true abandonment is. My mom hasn't spoken to me in 9 years. She never answer my calls nor responds to my emails. I don't hear from her on my b-day, c-mas nothing, that is abandonment, and I still forgive her. He has some serious growing up to do.
The son doesn't owe him anything, but he has to let go of that resenemetn. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, it's not about that dad.
@ Forgiveness does not mean he has to cater to the Dad’s show. And yes; there is always worse. I am sorry your Mom abandoned you, it’s definitely not normal and speaks for her mental state. Of course you deserve to have a caring Mom.
The son also has not abandoned his Dad either, but is in contact with him. He just doesn’t wanna fake excitement about his Dad’s new family that he chose over his original family.
@@raya9283 He doens't have to fake excitement, I don't really like my dad's new wife, but I'm not going out there to visit or judge her, I go out there for my father.
If you love your father, and you see he wants you there, and it's hurting him, that's not a kind nor loving to to do is to refuse to come.
I'm not sorry about what happened between me and my mom, without her abandoning me, I wouldn't be the man I am today. I wouldn't have had the relationship with God that I do now, which gave me the power to forgive her.
I regret nothing honestly, it helped me be a better stronger man. Sure I would like her to be here in my life, but I don't want to erase what happened, as it was a huge spring board to my relationship with love (God).
@@raya9283 He's not catering to the dad. If you love your dad, and you see he wants to see you, why shoulnd't you visit him? Because of his wife? That doesn't make sense. I don't like my wife's dad, but when I go there I'm there to see him, I could care less if she's there tbh.
Ain't nobody asking him to be fake excited, just go see your father. And I'm not sorry what happened between me and my mom, it helped me mature spiritually as a man, and become closer to God. I wouldn't be the man I am today if that didn't happen.
Some of the toughest lessons of my life helped me grow the most.
@@adim00lah Everyone has their own family drama or childhood trauma. Just because your story is more painful than someone else's doesn't make their experiences any less valid, nor does it diminish their feelings.
His father has a son to take care of, but instead he up and moved to a different country - sure they talked on the phone, but the son has the right to feel abandoned by him when the father wasn't around growing up.
I love that you don’t allow the opinions of other’s who look at you and make snap judgments to impact your lives. After ten years of together you’ve shown you’re in this marriage because you want to be and I pray your son will make an effort to get to know his sister and your wife. Wishing all the blessings and joy as a family. Praying 🙏🏾 ❤
Man, that’s crazy y’all live your life and be happy. Your son was listening to his mother and he’s now continuing what she felt.
She's very beauitful. I would married her too if i was a man. She seems very kind, down to earth, sweet & understanding, got a great attitude & of course she's very pretty & young looking.
T h e 2 ponytails are creepy more than height differences
Live ya life, young king. Ignore the haters. Nobody is asking what (hell) your son's mom probably put you through. Keep pushing. ~Red
they are super adorable wish them nothing but positive stuff moving forward. big respect also for both of them I am sure they fight over a lot of challenges. yet they seems to have a good life now.
I think their love is genuine! There is nothing to worry about! Besides, they look so well together! They make a beautiful couple! 😄 I support their love! 😊
What a beautiful couple👌♥️. Keep loving and respecting each other folks. I love your energy and your woman is Gold. She is a beautiful filipina with heart of Gold. Negativity and judgement come from the same source....fear of the new and unknown. What is true with you though, is that you are in a safe relationship. Parental alienation and the consequences of divorce are painful, especially when your kids dont support you, but put your best foot forward and put your positive relationship first. People will always talk about the green card as if America is the land of dreams. America is dying and many filipinas don't mind staying locally and close to their families. Keep up the good work and i salute you👌
For me if my dad has a wife and he is happy I'm happy for him as well ...
❤❤❤
Her culture has the best genes.
Short and dimunitive?
I wonder if there is any living thing on earth who does NOT USE EACH OTHER
The wife is not that much older than the son. Omg umm.
shes much older, stop reachin
I personally think it's beautiful. I don't know many people who will endure 9 years of marriage if they don't truly love the person. If that was the case then as soon as she got her papers she would have been gone. She is happy. He is happy. Leave them be. 💯
If he up and left his first family, what's stopping him from doing the same to her?
Everytime you hear someone say or ask if that's your daughter etc. They are envious and jealous. And sometimes insecure. After trying to find a good partner after 20 years of no success I'm thinking about going over seas to look for a good wife.
Please live your life. You have a beautiful wife and family. God bless you and your family. ❤
Also my uncle married a woman in the Philippines 20 years ago who was much younger, he past away over 10 years ago and the had a son (my cousin) she was there by his side until the end. She been had citizenship and still hasn't came to America. She never was even interested in coming here. We want her to but she loves her country so much. Maybe she will come next summer. I want to meet finally in person. But we are always in communication
I feel sad for the son. He’s heart broken. His dad left him and started a whole other family.
Y'all just racist if u say she only there for the green card cause shes asian... dafuq (also they've been together for a decade)
it’s about leaving your SON!
She said he looked "ok" wow
Mom,,know everyting,,,,,say check she's birth Day 😅😅😅😅
She is very beautiful
The grass have never been greener 😂😂
It is your life and you only live once! So enjoy it together and you both deserve to be happy with your decisions.
I must commend you for your patience with your son. You are a good dad to your kids and good husband to your wife.
Naysayers be damned.
❤ love this for you guys keep doing what makes you happy
Damn she a little cutie
Beautiful story 😍
Ok I understand now back when they first met at 19 she looked alot younger which I understand when I was 18 ppl thought I was younger than what I was as well
Even if it’s true, 3 times a day. Mandatory. No protection ever.
They been together 10 years. Good for them. ❤
Shes actually a decent and intelligent woman . Who cares who disapprove? I wouldnt care
Passport bro
There relationship is dope i don't think she's with him for papers but her Instagram is WILDDDDD LOL. I wonder if thats her idea or his 😅
They look happy together
It appears that he’s providing her with a Luxurious lifestyle.. I think anyone would stay. Lol
He still needs to make time for his son alone and once he does that his son will definitely come visit looks like he wants some alone time with dad
Love the Vid, I am subscribing!!!
The son is rude and disrespectful, just ignore him.
10yrs married? she can get a pink green yellow white black and transparent card. thats love.
They are very nice. Life in the Philippines is very nice. I wish them the best.❤
Amazing couple! I mean for god sake it’s been 10 years. Obviously this is true love. I can’t imagine somebody would stick around that long if they didn’t really love the person.