I bet EVERYTHING on LOVE and this is what happened (LDR goodbye)

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    EMOTIONAL ENDING
    HELLO to my favorite hoomans in the world!
    Guys, we have finally reached the end of Jinju's LDR adventures season 2. Hopefully season 3 will be on its way soon! 🤞🏼 I just wanna take the time to thank every single person for the privilege of being able to share this journey online. Every comment, DM, and support is NOT GOING UNNOTICED. I truly feel so honored to have all you BEAUTIFUL girlies as my bestie! ₊˚⊹♡
    Also I'm way too excited for this, but let's celebrate our 10K milestone soon!
    Luv you guys so much. ᡣ𐭩ᡣ𐭩ᡣ𐭩
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  • @shach_19
    @shach_19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +265

    My parents were LDR for 4 years... in the 90s... they SENT ACTUAL LETTERS TO EACH OTHER. AND 35 YEARS LATER, THEY STILL KEEP THEM.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      HAND WRITTEN LETTERS? Okay. They’re actually the OG LDR couple

  • @leezapatel3569
    @leezapatel3569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +865

    People don't realize how rare finding love is to begin with, its the rarest luxury ESPECIALLY in today's times! I'm glad you guys are working on it, wish you the best!! Much love 💕💕💕

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      it's truly... a journey... a lot of ups and downs, but I truly appreciate this comment so much! Thank you ᡣ𐭩ᡣ𐭩ᡣ𐭩

    • @leezapatel3569
      @leezapatel3569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@JinjuLee14 There are many hearts rooting for you guys!! Some are probably re-living beautiful moments vicariously through you!

    • @k1ngk0k0knut4
      @k1ngk0k0knut4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      People make it seem rare because they don't try for true love. Its not that rare just trust in it. Its inevitable for all of us when we want the true thing.

    • @leezapatel3569
      @leezapatel3569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@k1ngk0k0knut4Considering the statistics on marriage, single parents, and the number of apps for hookups, and the need that people feel to actually have to say that they’re exclusive during phases of dating doesn’t really agree with your judgment or facts. You’re commenting just to comment, lacking substance.

    • @LovelyCheckeredFlags-ne8fi
      @LovelyCheckeredFlags-ne8fi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think so your bf is jk 😂

  • @gyuberryz
    @gyuberryz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1300

    CRYING SO HARD MY CONTACTS FELL OUT. but girl the title made me think yall were breaking up and i about had a stroke the whole video😭😭😭

    • @kitajett8573
      @kitajett8573 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Same i thought that based on the title

    • @Mariam_isinlov
      @Mariam_isinlov 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      IKR

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

      OMG LOOOOOOL I feel like I baited a lot of people😭 OOPTHIE SO SORRY (๑>؂•̀๑)

    • @Devi_Seona
      @Devi_Seona 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thats what we call clickbait.

    • @Giminy
      @Giminy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I feel like you're waaay too invested...

  • @cathystussi7165
    @cathystussi7165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +288

    Your relationship CAN WORK. It may take work but hang in there. I never understand when people break up because “work” and “other” things made it hard. That BS. If you both truly love each other make it work no matter what. There’s FaceTime, email, texts and everything else to stay connected. DO NOT give up. You have come so far! I want to see his face!!!!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      This is truly a "if you wanted to, you would" statement. I LOVE IT.

    • @cathystussi7165
      @cathystussi7165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@JinjuLee14 ❤️absolutely. And nobody will say it’s easy. Your man is a keeper and so are you. MAKE IT WORK. I’ll be thinking and sending good positive thoughts, love and energy”.

    • @Lolo-bk3ul
      @Lolo-bk3ul 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯 it can work. It worked for my parents and it worked for me.💖 Love is to sacrifice. To lose is to gain.

    • @taliw7736
      @taliw7736 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True true it's a sacrifice and difficult but it's truly amazing although I've never been romantically involved 😂❤

  • @AaronFu
    @AaronFu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +285

    This channel randomly popped up on my feed, and I started watching it. Before I knew it, the video was over. LDR's are hard, I was in one for 2 years when my gf had to go back to her home country when Covid struck. I ended up moving to her home country and now we've been together for 6.5 years. You guys can do this.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      I'm so thankful that you could resonate with this video! Also that is amazing! 2 years apart must've been so difficult, but it makes me so hopeful at the same time. I hope you guys are happy together and thriving (๑>◡

  • @Ayi429
    @Ayi429 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +286

    I havent even experienced love but man do i cry for people in love on the internet
    ill be praying yall get to meet soon again

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      love... is such a strange thing isn't it?
      but thank you so much

    • @duckyfam9012
      @duckyfam9012 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oops, I read the comment and instinctively clicked off the video. Okay bye again

  • @koinrueli
    @koinrueli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    I AM LITERALLY CRYING😭😭😭
    I don’t understand how you’re so strong
    I don’t know what you went through when you said goodbye and shocked that you also had the strength to make a video
    really worried about you. eat well, sleep a lot and I hope you feel normal
    thank you for sharing with us your sincere emotions😪❤️‍🩹

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      it was so hard for me while editing because I kept reliving that moment, but seeing all the encouragement from everybody really made me feel better! I had a hard time getting out of bed, but thanks to you guys, I was able to have a good day. 🥺🥺🥺
      I swear you guys have superpowers or something.. Also I remember you said you weren't feeling that good, are you doing okay?

    • @koinrueli
      @koinrueli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@JinjuLee14 YEAH, I’M REALLY FINE🥹
      thank you so much for worrying😭❣️

  • @BeeeHonest
    @BeeeHonest หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm in my 50s, I was in a long-distance relationship, and my ex of 10 years lives in China and I live in Canada. We started growing apart because our lifestyles and values grew different as we grew older. I am alone again. I cried many nights alone in my bed but displayed "ok' in front of my friends. Take the risk, and fall in love. I wish you and your BF all the best.

  • @Helloooooooooo131
    @Helloooooooooo131 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    You look young. I’m in my early 40’s. Found my first love in my late teens. We endured long distance relationship for a year, in the end he moved to me and we ended up getting married. Almost 20 years later, I am now divorced and the one thing I am SO glad I never gave up on is my career. A lot of people will come and go in your life, but the skills you acquired in your career will stay with you as long as you stay healthy. So, don’t bet everything on love for another person, but for yourself. You are your own best bet ladies.

    • @simoz78
      @simoz78 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      spoken like a true cat mom

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      THIS!!!! Although we ended up on different paths in life, I truly appreciate seeing life from your perspective. I do think this is a very valuable message for everyone. NEVER LOSE YOURSELF IN A RELATIONSHIP! You are always #1

  • @maxlai4
    @maxlai4 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I went through the same thing. Put all my chips into an LDR across the globe. From one Ocean to another, loving through the distance really amplified the emotions I felt when we were together. Only seeing each other every 4 or 5 months meant that you really had to treasure the time you could spend with your partner. A never ending cycle of adjusting to being alone, and adjusting to being around them all day. Though, through the ups and downs, I wouldn't trade the experience for anything else. You learn to love yourself, and to love your partner, to a degree you wouldn't otherwise.
    Unfortunately my relationship ended a month ago, but the time I spent with her will always be something I look back on, smiling without regret.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You have perfectly worded what an LDR experience is like. In the end, you grew a lot from it, but also gave it your all. There is no regret left! I truly hope your healing journey is going well though! I know some days are tougher than others, but seeing how emotionally intuned you are, I feel that you'll heal in a healthy way (which is the best way!)

  • @Star4u.x
    @Star4u.x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    PLEASEE THE FACT IM IN LONG DISTANCE RN TOO HITS ME DEEP 😭😭 the intro was so sad pls AHHHHHHHH

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I noticed the LDR girlies are going through it 😭😭😭 but SAMe

    • @Princessm1320
      @Princessm1320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same and I haven’t met mine yet but we call and video chat a lot. We plan on seeing each other in September or October

    • @takik.2220
      @takik.2220 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nah das crazy cause im doing the same thing 😭has youtube been going through my text history or sum 😭

    • @Star4u.x
      @Star4u.x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Princessm1320 ohhh I wish u guys the best of luck !!

    • @Star4u.x
      @Star4u.x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@takik.2220 HAHAHAHAH long distance is lowk hard but if both of the ppl has the intention then it's gonna work out no matter what 🤞🤞

  • @Xthetic_mandu_
    @Xthetic_mandu_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I could feel the pain in you and your bf's eyes.🥺 I hate to see you two getting into long distance again, but hopefully, one day, you two will settle together permanently 🥹

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      that's the dream!! but until then we're both going to be working hard... so I NEED YOU TO HANG ON FOR ME TOO!! ( ๑ ˃̵ᴗ˂̵)و ♡

    • @Xthetic_mandu_
      @Xthetic_mandu_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JinjuLee14 Yes, I will 😌

  • @nnneeooooo
    @nnneeooooo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    your relationship is really so touching :(( i hope you have an amazing future together

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      thank you for the encouraging words... It gives me so much strength! ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ

  • @dilnadaneen-u1z
    @dilnadaneen-u1z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    THE EDITING MADE IT EVEN SADDERRRR :'] It's like watching a VERY SAD moviee

    • @tkobsidia9500
      @tkobsidia9500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ikr😢😢😢

    • @dilnadaneen-u1z
      @dilnadaneen-u1z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tkobsidia9500 can't wait to see them tgt again

    • @tkobsidia9500
      @tkobsidia9500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dilnadaneen-u1z sameee

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      LOOOOL I must admit.. the music did make me feel some type of way

    • @dilnadaneen-u1z
      @dilnadaneen-u1z 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JinjuLee14 ikrr but zon't u worry gurliee we are with u until he comes backk.we will be better bf than him(jk no bf is better that himm)

  • @thecottagegamer
    @thecottagegamer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    From a former LDR American girlie to another, 화이팅!!! It get's better! You are both putting your all into it

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      고마워요! ( > 〰 < )♡ and oh my GOOOODNESSSS congratulations! Your daughter is going to be soooo beautiful! I'm excited for you!

  • @Airia16
    @Airia16 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I saw the comments saying "I'm bawling," and thought this was just another youtube video. It's not. I'm crying too. 4:57

  • @RachelBerbdueau
    @RachelBerbdueau 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    DON'T GIVE UP!! I had a LDR and now we have been married for 18 years

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      AHHHHHH 18 years? 😭😭😭 oh my goodness what a journey! I hope you guys are doing well :)

  • @cnaj
    @cnaj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just discovered your channel now. This made me cry! I had been in LDR back in my 20s and it was the hardest relationship I had. I can empathize with you on so many levels, especially during the times when you guys are about to part...oh it reminded me of my own goodbyes. While my own LDR did not work out, I truly hope yours do succeed!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!! Also although that relationship didn't work out, doesn't mean your other relationships won't flourish! I'm so excited for you :)

  • @shonen84
    @shonen84 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for sharing. I had an LDR between 2018 and 2023. We went through a lot. I have good memories, we are still friends. Wishing you guys all the best. Knowing your other half is there, despite thousands of miles between is atbthe same time heartbreaking yet strengthening. It makes you appreciate every time you have together, on the phone and even moreso in reality. Good luck ❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think even if the relationship doesn’t work out in the end, it’s all memories that’ll always stick around! 🥹 thank you for such kind sweet words. It means a lot 🥹

    • @shonen84
      @shonen84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JinjuLee14 🫶

  • @ikhebzoeenhonger
    @ikhebzoeenhonger 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    GIRL I’m crying so hard 😭 I’ve been a LDR in for 2 years. I’m in Korea and he’s in Europe, and every part of the video hit me hard.
    The first few months were really really tough for me, but I’ve been trying to see this whole thing as a time for both of us to grow. This LDR taught me a lot, now I'm grateful for everything I once took for granted. It still hurts sometimes, but I believe it’s worth it.
    Wishing you both the best, and I’m rooting for everyone in LDR!
    And thanks for making this video💕 It really meant a lot to me.

  • @myspanishdiary
    @myspanishdiary 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is beautifully made! With so much love 🥹 Just hang in there! I know plenty of couples who got through a LDR and they’re happily married now. LDR is not for the faint of heart. It will really test your patience. Have more faith! Sending hugs!❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      omg first thank you for the hugs ( · ❛ ֊ ❛) and second, YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL! AHHHH thank you so much for this warm message

  • @jennyo7218
    @jennyo7218 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    omg i started crying so hard. all of this stuff i have building up. cuz im in an LDR too and idk if its even working out anymore, but that same feeling of knowing how much i love him and miss him is there in this video. i can relate so much to just brightening up when you see them, like the MOMENT you see them...and it just feels like an unbelievable high every single time. idk if my situation will work out, but i think ill always have strong feelings for him like this, because of the way our LDR relationship has been. over the 10+ years we've both known each other, it still feels like magic when we both come back into actual real life contact again.
    i really am rooting for you two. your love is so clear in this. and so beautiful.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for sharing your story! and I am always here rooting for you :) No matter where you are in life

  • @Emily-js4mk
    @Emily-js4mk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    WHEN I TELL U I BALWED MY EYES OUT FOR 11MINS STRAIGHT 😭😭😭

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It's day 124.... I'm still crying 😭😭😭😭😭 but omg you guys are so funny stop

  • @lohtzeyingmoe
    @lohtzeyingmoe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Finding love is one of the hardest things ever. Once you’ve settled in and is very comfortable, the unexpected happens. Life starts with goods and ends with bads. It’s the same cycle over and over again. I’m truly rooting for y’all ❤

  • @lizzz723
    @lizzz723 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I literally bawled my eyes out watching this video😭😭😭 ALSO JINJU your editing skills are so good I felt like watching a documentary!!!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I HOPE I'M GETTING BETTER EACH VIDEO! (੭ ˊ^ˋ)੭ ♡ That's my only wish

  • @joeross9688
    @joeross9688 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow - this video is exactly mirroring what may be starting to happen in my life. I'm developing a pretty deep connection with someone that lives far away. I want to pursue it because I value love more than anything else in life, but I also don't know if I could take the hardship that would come with such a long distance relationship. That sounds so hard, I hope for the best for you!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Joe! I really appreciate it :)

    • @StridingCloud
      @StridingCloud 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh damn my name is Joe too and I'm going through the exact same thing lol

  • @rizzecca
    @rizzecca หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for 2 years before we finally moved in together, and it's HARD. Watching this video made me tear up remembering what we had to go through to get where we are now, and how every goodbye gets harder and harder. But I also think there's something extra special about long distance relationships. They teach you to appreciate the other person even more and treasure their presence when you're with them. Wishing the best for you guys!

  • @iamjuliew
    @iamjuliew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you so much for posting this

  • @sinussufferer
    @sinussufferer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video randomly showed up on my recommendations and made me emotional haha. I was in a long distance relationship for almost 6 years. We broke up 2 years ago, but she was the best thing that happened in my life. I wish the both of you the best!

  • @davelong4131
    @davelong4131 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I feel your pain. I’m in a LDR and it’s painful being so far apart, so I understand the difficulty and loneliness. We FaceTime everyday but it’s still hard. Couldn’t understand why it took me traveling to a foreign country to find love, but that’s how it happened.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This comment definitely hits home 😔 it’s like it is what it is…. But I hope you’re holding on tight and going strong! We’re in this together 🙂‍↕️

  • @rev4rie
    @rev4rie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Crying for a TH-cam I've never seen before and loved instantly 😭😭

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm just here to make sure you still have feeelingsss hehe

  • @alexisorozco7719
    @alexisorozco7719 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Literally this video brought me so many memories and feelings again watching this as someone who is going through a LDR right now. I do have hope and I do have faith, truly one of the hardest things ever! I wish this on non of my enemies bc truly it is one of the hardest things that I have done. Is it worth it?! Yes if you truly love them and communicate. We all got this through thick and thin!!! thank you for this video!! and the editing was amazing! ❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so honored that you could relate to this video! The LDR community is honestly such a loving and welcoming community... I cry (*꒦ິ꒳꒦ີ)

  • @RiceOfTheThirdWorld
    @RiceOfTheThirdWorld 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    that airport saying goodbye scene is me... I cry everytime i say goodbye to her at the airport. i would even stare at her back as she was walking away from the airport for at least couple of minutes while crying. it will always tear me apart. it was a 3 year long distance relationship (i always visit her every year). 3 years of tearful goodbyes. next month will be different because finally I am able to get her to come here in australia. it's all worth it. it wasn't an easy ride but as long as you are faithful to each other it will all workout. now it's no longer tears. it's all plans for the future now☺☺☺

  • @beomgyulover911
    @beomgyulover911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wanted to let you know that I found your channel, 4 months ago and you've become my favorite comfort youtuber. you have such a beautiful way of editing and how to express your feelings with your words. I can truly say that I could feel how much you love your boyfriend through this video and how genuine of a person you are. what you guys have is rlly special and cute ^^ thank you for sharing this part of ur life with us & I hope you're not too hard on urself during these times! stay safe jinjuuu

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      hold on... (*꒦ິ꒳꒦ີ) I need tissues
      This was so sweet of you to say... Truly... I really thank you from the bottom of my heart for this.

    • @beomgyulover911
      @beomgyulover911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JinjuLee14 waah thank u for responding ㅠㅠ i appreciate it sm and congrats on 10k, so proud of u!!

  • @Outis_48
    @Outis_48 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is really beautiful and sad TT, I hope you guys experience even more amazing things together and get to see each other more often, I love how you describe how your guys love 2:20 - 2:41 it felt so realistic and nice seeing people stick together.

  • @ayushijain1117
    @ayushijain1117 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'M CRYING SO HARD 😭😭You're so strong girl !!! Hopefully time flies and you guys see each other again sooner

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AHHHHHHHHH ( > 〰 < )♡ my sweet angelll thank you

  • @huyentrang8389
    @huyentrang8389 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't think I ever related so much to a video than I did to this. I am in a LDR since two years now and I kid you not I still cry every time we have to say goodbye at the airport. Reuniting and parting again doesn't get easier but it is always worth to go through for your loved one. I wish you all the best, stay strong!! ❤❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think I'll ever get used to saying goodbye ૮ ⸝⸝o̴̶̷᷄ ·̭ o̴̶̷̥᷅⸝⸝ ྀིა but if it's what I have to do, I'll do it ᴖ̈

  • @SonampalmuBhutia
    @SonampalmuBhutia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The editing is so cute I can’t 🥹.
    You guysss stay blessed & happy❤
    🪬

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much -`♡´- you make me so happyyy!

  • @bunbun503
    @bunbun503 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi love, please don’t give up. I know exactly what it feels like, for two years I left my house on and off so that I could go visit my home. Long distance does not last forever. I am truly hopeful for you.

  • @IsabellaPhotograph
    @IsabellaPhotograph หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video really hit me! I didn’t expect to relate so much to an 11-minute video. It gave me hope in so many ways-love will come and go until you find the one. All I truly want is someone I can hang out with and trust completely. I’m so glad you found that person! Patience is the main key in life, and if you can find them, I believe I can too. Thanks for this video-it really gave me a new perspective.❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This makes my heart so happy!! 💖💖💖

  • @smoh-gm3dj
    @smoh-gm3dj หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad that TH-cam recommended this video to me, 2 months in a LDR with my girlfriend and damn it's hard, wishing for you guys the best

  • @Azari_D
    @Azari_D 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your relationship is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing your feelings and atmosphere, incredible video. I thought northern to southern california long distance was hard, this is just in a whole other universe of difficulty. Stay strong, never lose your passion, whether it's this relationship or any other, your feelings are truly something special.

  • @n0vae9
    @n0vae9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not really someone into love and these thing, i don’t feel empathy because i have wounds that i'm struggling to heal.
    This video made me want to open a bit to Love. So thank you for this genuine video, it was really beautiful and helped me a lot.
    Take care.

  • @thalitacosta4468
    @thalitacosta4468 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    😢😭 That's so sad.. I am also in a long distance relationship and I know what you are feeling 😭 Let's give our best and be patient. time will pass 😢😢

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      YES! a fellow long distance friend! we have to remain strong .·°՞(¯□¯)՞°·. don't feel like you're aloneee. We're in this together

  • @Prioiya
    @Prioiya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ill be rooting for you guys , i have never been in a relationship but seeing you i know its worth giving a try . i want to remind u to not loose yourself too! you are you're first love no matter what ! make sure to love and fullfill yourself too. i dont mean it in a bad way , just a gentle reminder :)

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "you are you're first love" even if you've never been in a relationship, I can tell that you're very self aware and in tune with your feelings! this is so so so important. I love this comment so much! Thank you ૮ ⸝⸝o̴̶̷᷄ ·̭ o̴̶̷̥᷅⸝⸝ ྀིა

    • @Prioiya
      @Prioiya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JinjuLee14 love you

  • @xixi_is_watching
    @xixi_is_watching 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AHHH my heart... that was SO heartwarming, i even teared up. i hope you guys can be a family someday

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you heheee 🩷🩷🩷

  • @dontmindme5347
    @dontmindme5347 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    im crying my heart out but i do know that every challenge leads to good things, so dont worry and its okay to be sad. were here for you and your bf for the future you two holds!!!
    ( 0:53 fate really is funny)

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I never believed in fate... like I thought I had to build out my whole life on my own, but some things... some things do happen unexpectedly

  • @mysterious.527
    @mysterious.527 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ohh God!I felt like Im watching a movie. When I saw u crying I felt that girll🥺 I hope u guy's can see each other soon again. U are so strong. Fighting💜💪

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We'll meet sooner or later! Thank you for such encouraging words ⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡ I truly appreciate it

  • @weizenyang
    @weizenyang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hope for the best for y'all. I'm in a LDR with my girlfriend for 2.5 years and just this weekend we might be ending things... watching your video had me teared up of the similar things we went through, absolutely got me bawling

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s definitely so hard… I feel you 🥺 but just know that you have such a supportive group of people here & me!!

  • @pilarf
    @pilarf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The storytelling here was immaculate, I hope you can be together forever soon

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ahhhhh I’m just waiting for the distance to come to an end too 😭😭

  • @HopaDopa-
    @HopaDopa- 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This made the sob like a baby 😭

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nooooo don't cryyyy! but *wipes tear*

  • @imaweirdthing
    @imaweirdthing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm in a current relationship, (I'm a teen and we both live near each other) and I teared up watching you cry😭 I kind of relate to not meeting often, even if we don't live that far away from each other. School and family take up a lot of time in my calendar and watching this made me realize I'm most likely taking our relationship status for granted, I'll definitely try making more time for her. LYSM BTW❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so happy you took something away from this video!! :) hehe

  • @jackargese895
    @jackargese895 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your story really touched me😢
    I am much older and started a new ldr. I am from USA and she is from China. I only speak very little mandarin and she very little English so it's not easy, but we both feel like we are soulmates. Like you I never felt for any woman as I do for her. She has some difficultys in China and it hurts that I can't help her, but I tell her I am there with her in spirit. I hope we could be together soon.
    Love is amazing! Good luck and God bless🙏

  • @7im-v9r
    @7im-v9r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    im crying. please god this is the way i wanna be loved ...

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the right person will come for you when you least expect it!

  • @saranelli
    @saranelli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    jinju.......
    this video was so emotional like your love story was so romantic and lovely and brilliant
    you too are couple goals fr fr
    please take care of yourself in america, dont skip meals, sleep well etc.
    i wish the best for the two of you❤
    ~ms 파이팅
    💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      OHHH I see we're Ms. 파이팅 today! 𐙚⋆°。⋆♡
      I'm HANGING ON BY A THREAD, but we're doing out best ❤︎❤︎❤︎
      I wish all the best for you too.... but in 10X

  • @denika871
    @denika871 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm crying so hard girl😭 I hate when these type of things happen in LDR, but don't worry, one day or the other you'll get to live with each other forever in a single house❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      THAT'S THE GOAALLL! ° ᡣ𐭩 . ° .

  • @strawberrycrown2374
    @strawberrycrown2374 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i truly get you. being in a ldr is hard. not being able to see each other as much as we want is so hard. i cried during the goodbye parts because it's the worst feeling ever. im rooting for everyone no matter if theyre single or not

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love a supportive queen 🩷

  • @nuriousy
    @nuriousy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's exactly what I'm going through right now. It's very hard for me every day. After watching your video, I realized that I'm not the only one. Thank you very much! I watched your video with tears in my eyes...

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      noooooo don't cry! but if you are... we can cry together :')

  • @getsomeeep
    @getsomeeep 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I resonate so much with this video, and it’s beautifully constructed. The love of my life is also in a far away country, and currently it isn’t feasible both with our schedules and financially to see each other more than a couple times a year. The moments apart weigh so heavy on my heart, and even though I fill my time with work and other things there’s still a void. I am reminded of him in so many things all the time. Never has one person brought me so much happiness and sadness. But even then, it couldn’t have been anyone else- somehow it feels like we were made for each other. You guys are lovely together and I can see how strong the connection is - long distance is really hard but you’re definitely not alone. I wish so much for happiness for the both of you in the future. Take time to be sad but know that this is just one chapter in your guys’ story. Stay strong!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know exactly what you mean... no matter how busy I keep myself, there's always this small feeling in my heart. This comment was so beautifully written! Thank you for taking the time for sharing your side. 🥺🥺🥺

  • @beggerstager
    @beggerstager หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad someone out there is experiencing love ❤

  • @SM-kc9ue
    @SM-kc9ue 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You both are so lucky to have each other and have support from parents. Unfortunately my LDR with my girl ended abruptly because my parents wouldn’t support it. My heart sank when you mentioned that you got to meet your partner’s parents and they were accepting of you. I wish my parents were as sweet. My ex and I met October 2023 online and met up a few weeks ago in HK. She was amazing, so loving, caring and gorgeous it felt unreal. I miss her heaps but she’s definitely gone from my life now.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know what you mean... it's been over a year, but my mom is still very lukewarm about my relationship with my bf. It's difficult because you want the people closest to you to be supportive of the person you love... I hope you're in a better spot right now. I'm rooting for you..!

  • @Theveganlaowai
    @Theveganlaowai 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    my fiancé is from china we've been together over 7 years now raised my son together and he finally is getting his green card and we can go back to see his family soon in china and get married yay. it has been very hard at points but very special and so meaningful. were so strong together for being long distance at first and we appreciate each other so much even after living together 5 years. I run like a puppy when he arrives home, always thankful to see his smiling face walk into the door. I hope one day you'll look back at the hard times and realize how precious the pain made the moments together. you've got this

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much! also I love your username :) so creativeeeeee ♡♡

    • @Theveganlaowai
      @Theveganlaowai 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JinjuLee14 haha thanks 🥰

  • @cupcakelove3258
    @cupcakelove3258 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    BYEEE THIS IS SO CUTE I WANT TO EXPERIENCE THAT TOO HOPEFULLY ONE DAY, WISHING U GUYS REUNITE FOREVER

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you bbyyyy ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹♡

  • @ai-nhunguyen7160
    @ai-nhunguyen7160 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ugh didn't think i'd be bawling (and sweating) this early on a monday morning! Love you two, and his dad showing so much affection and taking time off work was the icing on the cake, what a special connection

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      JJAJANGMYUN TOMMOROW THOUGHHHH HEH (づ๑•ᴗ•๑)づ♡

  • @NotATwig
    @NotATwig 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GIRLLL UGH ur videos are so heartfelt and beautiful. Don’t be sad it’s over but grateful for the good times! I’m excited to see what’s in the future for you guys ❤❤❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel this way now! I'm excited for my next upcoming adventures (˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)

  • @elialan
    @elialan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Girllll I’m gonna cry for y’all rn 😭😭😭

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      NO. NO CRYING. If I see you cry, I will 99.9% cry with you then

  • @ching2406
    @ching2406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m also doing LDR, haven’t hug my boyfriend for 7 months now. The first three months was the worst, especially being alone in wintertime in a new country. I literally cried my eyes out every day. But slowly I get used to it:) message my boyfriend everyday and feel like he is with me all the time;)

  • @mikehawkins9678
    @mikehawkins9678 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think all of our hearts felt broken for you and I can't wait tosee where all this ends up. I'm hooked!!!

  • @Okayguysurm
    @Okayguysurm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    STOOOP THIS IS THE MOST EMOTIONAL IVE BEEN 😔 hopefully time flies and y’all see each other soon Pookie 🙁🫶🏾

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you my luvvvv ❤️❤️ almost a month has passed! Just trying to remain patient :)

  • @yiddzin7318
    @yiddzin7318 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The cinematography is darn good

  • @Kdrama_lover_
    @Kdrama_lover_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video made me cried!! As i always saay you guyz are cute but so passionate and i am really suprised how you guyz understand each other..how guyz have bond with each other and listen unnie you don't look good when you cry so don't cry..ikr how it feels when you miss him.. its okay believe in yourself that one day younguyz will together with each other❤ and im always here to comfort you!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay comfort has ⬆️ 300% after reading this
      Thank you my pretty girlie 𐙚⋆°。⋆♡

    • @Kdrama_lover_
      @Kdrama_lover_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JinjuLee14 aww ilyysm!

  • @anauskadutta
    @anauskadutta 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m crying so bad watching this…. Being in one, I know and understand how it feels.. I’m rooting for you too❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you my luv ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀི you know when it feels a little easier because there are people who understand you? 🥺

  • @josuedejesus21
    @josuedejesus21 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man, ngl i never experienced a relationship myself , especially in an LDR, but it warms my heart when two people who are thousands and thousands of miles away finally meet. im happy for you, buddy ❤️

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 🥹🥹🥹 means a lot man

    • @josuedejesus21
      @josuedejesus21 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JinjuLee14 no worries 👍 buddy

  • @Asian_Boii
    @Asian_Boii 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First video I’ve seen of this channel (popped up on my fyp), and already subscribed because the editing, the videography, the angles, everything of the video is top tier quality. Keep up the work, enjoying it so far!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I truly appreciate this sir 🫡 it feels nice to see something related to the actual video editing itself. I guess there has been improvement than when I first started... THANK YOU

  • @belerinah
    @belerinah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How lucky to be able to experience such a relationship

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I REALLY appreciate this comment! Thank you. Whether this relationship is forever or not, I'm just happy to have something to look back on in the future :)

  • @Leila_isthebest
    @Leila_isthebest 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This hit hard i cried so much and then at the end “now i can take a shit in peace” made me die laughing 😭

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A GIRL HAS TO SPEAK HER TRUTH (*꒦ິ꒳꒦ີ)

  • @boredmanify
    @boredmanify 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video reminded me of feelings I haven't felt in a long time
    In a way, the video's heartbreakingly beautiful in showing the how high the highs are and how bad the lows get
    I hope the tears of pain turn into tears of joy soon :)

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s coming in less than a month! I’m so excited :) heh thank you for such encouraging words 🥹

  • @IsabelG73
    @IsabelG73 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know why TH-cam brought me here, but I find myself crying for a couple I don't know. Maybe it's because I see something I would have wanted, someone who loves me. I've been alone for many years and now it's normal for me, but I hope and wish that you can reach the point of never having to separate again and that you are immensely happy. Now I need to know how your relationship is going so I'm subscribing. ❤

  • @k.c153
    @k.c153 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I cried my soul out. Stay strong.🫶🏽

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you my luv ♡♡♡

  • @m0nst3r.81
    @m0nst3r.81 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LITERALLY CRYING THIS IS THE CUTEST AND I WISH THE BEST FOR YOU GUYS’ RELATIONSHIP 😭💗💗

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      NO CRY. ONLY SMILE!

  • @phong1990puppy
    @phong1990puppy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is so sad but I wish you guys the best!

  • @GonzalezS777
    @GonzalezS777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Random video on my feed and wow. Is someone watching my life? I am currently in a similar life and it truly hurts. I am not going to steal your thunder as this is you and about your life so I wish the best for you both hoping the end is both living together permanently. Remain happy and hopeful, good things will come.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! We're all in this together! :) You're not alone... I promise

  • @lukang72
    @lukang72 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Young love, so sweet and all consuming. Good luck!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ooooff I love the world all consuming 🥹🥹🥹 thank you so much!

  • @alaskacpu
    @alaskacpu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A beautiful relationship has ups & downs 😂 but it takes two special people to understand what commitment really is. Hoping the best for you two 💝

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! So far we're still going strong!! :)

  • @dannyv-gx9gx
    @dannyv-gx9gx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    man this video so heartwarming, wishing you guys the best!!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much Danny! :)

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for sharing this vulnerable vlog / conversation and for your lessons learned that you have shared

  • @arisildasheplo7559
    @arisildasheplo7559 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everytime you post, it immediately brightens my day!! I’ll forever be grateful to the day your video randomly came into my feed!💗 REMINDER: we love you jinju and stay strong!!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I should be the one saying this!!! >ᴗ< you guys bring me so much happiness, it's actually crazy

  • @fatimaperez5383
    @fatimaperez5383 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video randomly popped on my recommendations and I am going through so much lately, and it's stressing me and making me go to a darker place. I don't know how I still have some hope. Seeing the beginning of your video made me relate and comment. I always thought I never wanted to be with someone again because I don't feel enough, too much mentally that I have to work on and physically. My fear is opening up to someone to get hurt and so I don't let anyone near me and nobody approaches me anyways.. but lately I've felt like I wanna give love a try again and feel that excitement to meet that person and confide and have someone support me in my lowest times and be there and love me but it seems so hard to find someone genuine or someone at all. I pray that you guys get to meet soon and enjoy more beautiful moments together. You guys are so cute.

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for leaving such a thoughtful comment! Love is such a strange thing isn't it? I'm a year and a half into my relationship, but I catch myself avoiding being vulnerable with my boyfriend sometimes because I get scared of getting hurt. However, I realized the only way our relationship can flourish is by being fully transparent, even if it gets hard. If in the end, I end up getting hurt, it'll only be a matter of time before I get back up, so don't stop yourself from sharing a meaningful connection with someone! I'm rooting for you Fatima! :)

  • @cerealkillo2813
    @cerealkillo2813 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like watching a mini series.. nice editing and I hope your relationship stays strong.

  • @VivekChhetri-l1w
    @VivekChhetri-l1w 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hope every ldr out there works perfectly and God bless all with love and paitence

  • @vikramjakhar70
    @vikramjakhar70 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Omgggg who is cutting the onions now...🤧😢😭

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LOOOOL *me cutting onions* 👁👄👁 🔪🧅

  • @AcidGlow
    @AcidGlow 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it can be hard, i know. but at least you have someone to wake up and have text messages to. if youre happy with that person then wait. as you might not find the same happiness elsewhere.
    take care

  • @smoothjazzYT
    @smoothjazzYT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is no hope without love, there is no life without you

  • @Jake39278
    @Jake39278 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Jinju! My girlfriend is from Singapore/Chinese. She came to the states and now lives in Boston. We met by accident. She sent me a text thinking I was somebody else. Since then, we continued to communicate everyday by text and face time. Over time our bond and feelings grew even stronger everyday. We both fell in love with each other. I am in Texas so even though we aren’t as far away as you and your man are we are still separated by distance. But we remain strong and communicate everyday! Communication is key in a LDR! I have made arrangements to go see her and spend time with her in November for 10 days. But like you said, reality kicks in and it will be time for me to leave her again. We have talked about me possibly moving to Boston in the near future. Your video is very touching and makes me realize just how hard being in a LDR can be. But just gotta be strong! ❤

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this oh my goodness!! Thank you for sharing your perspective 🥹

  • @GumballBeRich
    @GumballBeRich หลายเดือนก่อน

    The feeling of separation at the airport was very emotional

  • @jaybebi
    @jaybebi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope you two stay in love and together for a very long time. And I hope to see future videos of you two finally living together as a family. Rooting for y'all!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you so much for your support and kind words heheee (੭ ˊ^ˋ)੭ ♡

  • @justcomehome702
    @justcomehome702 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im gonna cry, you two are so heartwarming❤‍🩹

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t cryyyy :-) ALL IS GOOD! 🩷

  • @BeniteNdagijimana
    @BeniteNdagijimana 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m not crying your crying 😭

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was heartwarming yet sad thanks for sharing this ❤

  • @JasonHsuisindathouse
    @JasonHsuisindathouse 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I also had the same LDR experience. We used to FaceTime everyday and send pics sharing life. We would meet approximately 1 to 2 weeks for every 3 to 4 months. I still remember when we met in the first day after a certain period, we kinda feel like a familiar stranger. This rly brought back lots of memories with her. Since we decided to end this relationships 2 months ago after a sequence of discussions (In terms of our life path, it seems like there’s no connection between us in the future.) To be honest, I still don’t know how to tackle with it. I’m still telling myself life is unpredictable. Maybe we will meet again, who knows? Wish u guys all the best!

    • @JinjuLee14
      @JinjuLee14  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think that’s the beauty of life! Everything is so unknown (and it could be scary at times), but I am working on shifting my mindset to just… take each day one step at a time