That makes a lot of sense to me. I'm 46 and one of those INFJs that loves being one... I just wish I'd known about it sooner so I didn't have to spend so much of my life feeling like I was broken.
I agree, Well done. I also feel that life’s experiences can expedite our evolution aka some of your stages, rather sink or swim, integrate the lesson quickly and adapt. Or sink..and that’s not an option, ever. For better, for worse, nothing lost, if you gleaned something from it. I’m 47, well in the acceptance / healing stage, if I was to compare myself to your video. I too like being in my INFJ skin, maybe not when I was younger, but we learned right? Stay well, and be the best version of ur self always.
Man, I love comments like this. I am 56, and spent the first half of my life feeling alone and "wrong", but now? Although every day brings its struggles, I feel good in that I actually know how I am. Because if a label? No, but the label helped me begin the process of understanding what was happening to me. My early life felt like a nightmare, and I just thought I was defective. But after years of work, and many tears shed, I know better now. It has been grueling, but well worth it.
Marty, I wrote this down. Cripes, I now understand my life. I'm 60's. I see the expansion, and contraction years. Tears come. Profound understanding of self. Thank you for this video.. I watch a lot of yours, as you go where no one does. Deeper. As much as I try to make me simpler, I can't. I have shared so little of self through my life, for others don't see the way I do. I have felt misunderstood, labeled, filed, to where I quit allowing most of me out. Now my husband of 14 wonderful years, passed 6 years ago, and I am living alone in peace. He accepted and loved everything about me. Put me on a pedestal for the first time in my life, and I blossomed with his trust. That gave a freedom I had not experienced. I will miss him always. I am grateful I recueved that time. I walk my days happier now. This video has clearned up my mind, in a way I did not see. Thank you
Hi Christine. Thank you for the kind words and finding the love is always a great thing. I will expand on this video later as many others found it great for a start but wanted more details.i have the details but time is hard to find these. Get back in there as I think you might have a few more times around the block left in you. LOL I am happy you found it worthy of your time. Awesome! TYWC - Marty
I'm seeing this episode 3 years after you posted, lol. Thank you for this valuable information, and as an INFJ this feels so spot on. Being in my 5th decade, I look forward to maturing into the wizard! This totally makes sense. 🦋
It just feels so good 2 see another INFJ thinking, feeling & behaving - and the fact that you have got so many years of experience in this life, i can absorb now, makes self-comprehension for me so much easier 🙏❤ thank you!
I'm in my 3rd decade, and i have stopped hating being an infj. The only struggle now, is knowing that most people are to blind to wake up to the reality of this world. I feel like i have to step up and guide them; I'm just not sure that I'm ready, because i also want to be lazy lol
Im one of those who is proud to be an INFJ, flaws and all. That is who I am and the powers that I have is pretty awesome. A major flaw is paralysis in starting new things but funny once I do start it almost always ends well. INFJ’s just need a push sometimes.
We must have something masterful within. It’s so many years of compiled learning and aiding others. I have a constant hunger for learning and negotiation for profit or justice. I’ve always felt I’ve dabbled in the supernatural with a tingling intuition. Now I can aspire to be a warlock. Kudos.
Wow Marty, the beauty of stumbling into you after you've already posted a bunch is I get to just dive in and get lost in thought in no particular order! I think at 45yrs of age youre the first mature ACTUAL INFJ that I can feel is speaking from personal life experience and not just the textbook breakdown of my cognitive stack. Which I enjoy the science, sure, but the heart brings so much more depth to it all
If I can cast a spell to keep people away I guess it'll be worth the wait hah Just found your channel and great job. Speech tone and rhythm as well as the board to illustrate points and ideas are great. Professional and laid back all in the same persona. Also you have to write in reverse to have your points visible to the viewer. That took some practice. Seems like you really care about your message and your subscribers. I see you respond to everybody that's awesome. You got a new sub today, and i just wanted to say you are appreciated and you do a good job. Until next time
I see this as an INFJ male ("I feel" age is irrelevant due to it being a construct for INFJ's.) I immediately think of Gandalf the "Wizard" in the LotR movies. He is always present and helping, however it's only when he needs to be there, and is seemingly weaving all of the purpose together (never there just to be there for the obvious.) HOWEVER, he always arrives alone, or with a solution to the situations problem. He leaves alone as well. Point is, he separates himself quite often and continues his own journey to and from place to place alone, all while tying the threads of fate together for the best outcome for all, not himself. I see your theory Marty, and think you might be two steps ahead of most. Don't forget to look back to tie the connections' knot. Best wishes. -M
Funny you should say this... "Don't forget to look back to tie the connections' knot." You are smart. I know exactly what you are talking about. What I am doing is trying to get as many videos out with substance and topics and then pull it all together. Right now each video is just scratching a topic and then finishes but, as you said, lacking in the final connections of knots. I will. One issue is the length of time and the knowledge and understanding of the topics and the depths. I am even too deep for most INFJ's. Look at my early videos and see the views vs the videos and view counts of others. TYWC - Marty.
Thank you for that. I’m very happy to be an INFJ. Peace came when I actually found out that was one and it explained why I did and thought differently to a lot of people around me. Now I understand myself better I wouldn’t change things. It’s definitely not an ego thing though.
That's pretty accurate. Many confusing and traumatic events to experience and it seems there's not really any way around them but the insights and understanding that come because of it is a gift not given to very many and an overwhelming unexplainable responsibility to those whose lives you are thrust into- arghhhh wizard sounds better than .. I dont know how I know, I just do. In the end is all the blunt trauma and soul bleeding worth the knowing and gained wisdom? I guess it all depends on how much time has passed until the next scourge.
I love this, especially the notion of spending the 20s and 30s in the Fog. What I'd change is to say that your apprenticeship as the wizard begins when acceptance begins. Certainly in the spiritual life this is how it feels to me.
I am going to really work on this and add the comments and what I actually see happening in real life with ages and what is being said. I can see it within the comments. TYWC - Marty
As you went on with your explanation of the decades and how we can squish as we want, it gave me a thought. We can also see this and now just in physical age but in mental age. Or as in your age in personal development as and INFJ, phases of you will. I love this theory so much and thank you for sharing as well All that you do for us. I used to be in that wanting to be rare mindset, even though that contradicted my desire to be understood. I could be an INFJ or an INTJ. I’ll probably figure that out officially as I continue to grow and heal. Either way I will embrace it and use the knowledge to my advantage in how I can cope and reach my highest potential. Thank you again for your work and much Love to you and everyone watching this! 💚
I'm sure glad I stumbled upon your channel! I don't know if your spiritual, but in the spiritual world we're known as the soul seers. When We've have been around anyone long enough we can see through their bullshit!! A narcissist can't stand that!!! They go insane and start stabbing Us in the back!
I agree with your theory. Look at the sensible grandfather of modern psychology, Carl Gustav Young the creator of 16 personality types. Carl Gustav Young was an infj! And listening to his interviews from later in his life, he was a very deep wizard!!!
Wow. I'm turning 30 in October, and I have been reviewing my life-- well, looking ahead mostly, and I break it down a lot like this. Even telling my husband I wanted to live to be 100 at least and then maybe by the end of it all I would have wisdom for the world and peace within myself. Wow. John and I have talked about how we will be late bloomers pretty much because of this exact process. I want to really kicking ass by my mid 40's and 50's, but as long as I'm alive I will be hurtling myself toward that wizardry.
The fact you know and you have only just turned 30 will probably have you kicking ass earlier. Nothing was really clear to me until around 40 and feel like someone slapped me and woke me up from my slumber and now at 45 i feel incredible and a lot more at peace. I wih I had that self awareness when I was a lot younger when i walked through life like a bull in a china shop but maybe its all part of the journey?
Hi Marty. Another excellent video and elegant presentation of your theory. Can concur as a 32 year old INFJ. It is of course extremely hard to differentiate 'nature' from 'nurture' when constructing a timeline such as this one, so very well done. I am thinking that integrating some generally consistent aspects of 'nature' could expand it further in the second column that you kept external here (e.g. schooling, work place, family, as these aspects of nature typically correlate with age). Great work, thanks!
Yes. You get it and it all matters but just be careful that you do not bring too much into it. It might start to become too much and sway the objective into way to much subjective thoughts. But good thoughts. TYWC - Marty
Your really Marty in the time machine arn't you...I recognise you lol Such good content as always. The wizard imo is one i.e. has mastery over 8 functions, is the magician and the spinning woman and is a container for all the content. I love your chart and the stages of evolution. From my own path I can say that certain unsavoury experiences fast forwarded many of those decades and I was like marty in back to the future for a long time. I'm caught up now lol I flat lined. What a trip.
...please note: how Marty did not feel the need to apologize for his spelling. He explained a fact about it, but he DID NOT apologize for it. Please do as he does - and STOP apologizing for your wonderful foibles. And start embracing them openly so that you can empower other people to do the same! And, Thanks Again Marty, for being you!! ❤️
An odd trait that is well known in the field; engineers can't spell. In general, that is true. Why? Because as long as I can clearly convey a complex thought from my mind to yours, the details are trivial. So, spelling nerds are just petty and totally missing the point. That said, many thanks to the folks that came up with spell check algorithms... ; )
I have been thinking some more on this because it is all really kind of a brand new concept to me too, to be honest. This whole "vibes" thing. I say a lot that I don't have any friends. Which is not completely true. In the physical appearance of life I have no one, literally. The only physical vibe I have in my life is with my mother, which goes without saying, because that is a natural vibe to have. However, in the non physical world I have a few people I "vibe well with". I have actually "vibed with" many along the way and have had to cut off certain people because their vibe was dragging me down destructive paths… For me. But for every good connection I am thankful. Every one that is a level of wanting to learn and grow together, rather than manipulate others to get them to follow a given perception. All of life is subject for review if you ask me, because it SHOULD be. Not people… That is another way we have gone wrong, if you as me. Made it about the behaviors that are CAUSED by the vibes rather than the vibes that are CAUSING the behavior. I believe truthfully that to an extent we were designed to BE self taught. The whole concept of education I believe was derived from the idea of mass manipulation. Because the truth about life is that it really does reveal itself TO you. It cannot BE taught, because they are things meant to be learned through a natural process, just like the model you gave, WITHOUT the extensive timeline… Which was created again… To manipulate the masses… A brain that has not suffered trauma is going to work through this process naturally much quicker than a brain that has had trauma introduced to it. Which disrupts important emotional connections we need to make in order to reach a place of personal emotional stability. So they start the "teaching" process young, through "education" AND introducing trauma into the lives of… Well now… 🤔 Pretty much everyone on some level wouldn't you say?
Wizards also carry a staff. Poor Se. and they are old. I always grabbed a stick, like a staff, while in the woods. I actually have a stick/staff that I grabbed last time I was in the woods. I carved into it. I then padded and wrapped the top and also added symbolic decorations to it. I guess I'll use it when I hit 80-100 yrs. old.
HaHa. That is funny Bruce. Very poor Se in deed. And to be honest I do not think the Si works very well either. How many times have you been to the Dr.? TYWC - Marty
!!! Yes. “When have you not seen a wizard walking alone?” says it all. While I like your videos, like your mind, when you speak the essence, life clicks and I can no longer find the alone in the alone, for connection (with all) prevails. Kinda weird to be naming this. Not sure who I am naming it for bcs I wouldn’t need to say anything for likely either myself nor would I expect for you, Marry. Perhaps for my future self, then, so that I can include some solidity from having been in this moment. Hello future me, what is it like to be loves by the younger me in such a way as to have known you and captured that (this) moment so as to give birth to you before you were born?... Such are the ponderings of young wizards, I suppose.
Yay this video made me so happy! 😍 I've been an apprentice wizard for sometime, although I would say witch only the witch has been given a lot negative connotations:( maybe the female equivalent is the priestess ☺️😋yeah priestess holds the same level of respect and sageness of a wizard but female version. ☺️
Truth!! 🤣 Everytime you laugh, I tend to laugh at the same moments. We are so alike.. and I would say, I'm way more mature than the typical still.. I'm 22, and I've hit my calm stages early. Wizard do walk alone, and I got 400 more videos to go. Lol
I realized later that I don't have enough life experience, therefor may have over spoken on calmness and wizardry. Living in a chaotic world. All I can do is observe, and know myself. I can't overextend myself where I don't belong. I do not know it all, nor the best ways life should be lived. What I do know, is that your words really changed my approach to life.
Marty... 🍄🍄 .... Fkn awesome! I bet you were the biggest trip in your circles....the INFJ intel i-3300 mega core processor blitzing people into oblivion...love the vids...in my early 40's - already seen some of the peace and acceptance.
Lets just say that I think I scare people when I walk into the room. My life is one of wonder and complexity. Can you imagine meeting people and talking about life's work and then I start talking and asking questions or getting involved in their life's work and they are talking about something i should know nothing about but... If I take this experience and this experience and this experience and take small parts of all of them I can reverse engineer the knowledge I need to have a conversation with this person. So goes my life. I will explain this within a video and give some examples. Well said Richard. TYWC - Marty
HI 80's... It might be but even if I am wrong and I am, it is a good theory and tell me I am not close? Go ahead. I dare you. :) I am not close? How do you feel about my theory on the journey? TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn I don't completely understand your questions but yes as an INFJ it does make sense to me. It's just painful to think that it could possibly take us that long to master ourselves and possibly find our place in the world. Yes it got me thinking that's for sure. 😁
What does it mean to be a Wizard? I've always looked towards a form of sentience that I believe to be slowly maturing over the years, wonder if there is any correlation? As I am in the 3rd decade of the INFJ spectrum I guess you could say the fog is quite dense. Much love to all that you do Marty, your perspective has helped me quite a lot as of recent.
Hi lil... This is what I mean.... Ready because it is really complicated.. When you no longer feel that on the inside of not wanting to be an INFJ. ;)) TYWC - Marty
Emotionally stable are the words I would use to describe the "end stage" of this. Because honestly speaking, until we can achieve emotional stability in our life we have not a leg to stand on in life. We get tossed to and fro with every new thought, idea, question that shakes up how we have interpreted life so far, sending us on a whole new path to either finding out who we are, or running away from who we are. By blaming who we are on our circumstances or the people in our life that it feels like are causing those circumstances. But how DOES that happen? How can feelings be SO intense that it can override our logic, common sense, and actual nature as a nurturing individual, causing us to overreact in a truly immature way. Such as punching someone in the face. Cussing them out. Having a temper tantrum, or the majority of what we see happening in the world today actually. 🤣 Social media is nothing short of a nursery with little to no supervision or rules, no nap time, no real direction for any individual participating because everyone is yelling so loud they can't hear anyone BUT themselves anymore. 🤷♀️ So, this is where it gets tricky, because our "physical make up" plays a role in all of this and I believe that IS the missing link for many. We as human beings are LITERALLY 60% water. A fact I have known my whole life, but not understood in fullness. It is hard to process how 60% of a body that FEELS quite "solid" is 10% MORE liquid than actual solid. 😳 But it is very important to understand that, because we are literally affected by things we don't realize, and once we do understand that we can reach that place of emotional stability by learning to control our environment. Which is WHY a "wizard" walks alone. Because they have learned to control their environment rather than letting their environment control them. So think about water… What "moves" water? What makes a still puddle "show life", rather than just the calmness found in the reflection it displays? Vibration, which has many different forms of showing up. A dinosaur stepping down close by will cause a vibration on the ground enough to cause a vibrational pattern on a once still puddle… Now since we don't have dinosaurs around we need to be looking for less likely suspects to interrupt our vibrational flow as a being that is 60% water right? 🤣 Music IS the key for human beings. I fully believe that because that is exactly how I control my own environment. Because as humans we are physically affected by frequency and vibrations that we get from the world around us. And if you are an empath too… LOOK OUT. I am the empath of all empaths. I "feel" things from people on a level I have yet to find the words to explain. Only that I have figured out finally it is all tied to this somehow. I can" feel" things, and or "catch a vibe" from a variety of ways… Looking at a person's profile, reading a comment they wrote, listening to a song they like, being spoken to directly, whether that be in person or over the internet. Because a "vibe", concerning humans, is actually the "feeling" that is attached to that song, words, or actions… As an example... I have never EVER been able to listen to "angry" music. The frequency those messages are carried on has always just "felt" destructive to me emotionally. In other words, somehow I instinctively understood that an angry "vibe" was only going to INTENSIFY my own "angry vibe". Just as a "sad vibe" intensifies my own "sad vibe" and has carried me unnecessarily into the depths of emotional despair. But the problem with vibrations is the way to combat them is not to just swing all the way to the other side of the pendulum by blasting "If your happy and you know it clap your hands". There are times that can and will work, but the truth is if I get pulled in an emotional direction I don't want to go, in essence I have to walk myself back out, not just flip a magic switch to be "ok" again. Which means discovering what brought me down this path… What scar or still bleeding wound was touched by this particular vibe in this particular moment that is wanting to trigger an unwanted emotional reaction, rather than an emotionally stable response. Once I can discover that I am able to process what it is "I" need to let go if to move forward. Because life is supposed to be more of an individual journey than a corporate one, because we are all unique. We have all walked different paths, and even though the experiences may have been similar, even causing similar reactions… The emotional and physical chemistry of that experience is still different for each individual. And each individual has to learn to manage their own vibrational pulls and pushes in life in order to master being able to remain emotionally stable in a situation that would normally call for full on panic. But this is really not age related. It is emotional development related, and our society by large has been stunted in emotional growth through… Ok… I am going to say this… But I am going to prelude it with this statement… This has nothing to do whatsoever with wanting to be or feeling I or we are more "intelligent " than anyone else. This is just my brain, which seems completely determined in its path in trying to discover where we ALL went wrong in our world to end up in such a pathetic place as a whole. And I honestly believe the answer to that is found in this "personality typing". I believe it was used against us to keep the truly intelligent personality type, INFJ suppressed, while the other personalities learned to manipulate all the things I am talking about… To bring society itself into a place of being helpless to help themselves because none of us know what exactly is wrong with us or where it is coming from. So we all look for a "savior" instead of realizing WE have the ability to tread water, to swim, to pull ourselves back up to a place of standing on something solid. Our individuality AS a compassionate, loving, human being. *whew* Told ya that was gonna be lengthy… 😳 Hope it at least makes some sense… 🤣 I might fully get it after reading it about 10 more times… 🤣 Welcome to my world. 🤷♀️
Simple is key. Some INFJ's I read do not keep it simple and I think that might be something for you. I did get this: "Which is WHY a "wizard" walks alone. Because they have learned to control their environment rather than letting their environment control them." Well said. TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn OK, I get what you are saying... However, consider this please... It is not about it being "complicated" as much as it is the terms that are being used, and how. 🤔 I'm not a complicate it intentionally kinda girl, but I have a difficult time keeping it simple. No Joke. 👍 Because this to "me" is simple thinking. Where as the world I have to interpret for myself around me is quite complicated. So in trying to interpret anything, whether it is, the world, others, or myself, I will often reread a concept several times. Relisten to a video or song several times. UNTIL I "get it"... Because that is how the curiosity side of my brain works to solve problems. It probes at the information until an answer of some sense comes out of it for me, because I know whoever said it, wrote it, sang it, understood what they meant, which tells me I can too, if I can find a way to see their perspective. Because what we in essence have to do is reprogram our own brains. Our brains ARE THE MODEL they used for computers and AI. For the doctrines that are taught, for the education that is taught. All of that is "programmed information" into our brains from life experience, as well as schooling, religious upbringing, political up bringing... All of it is has an effect on our perspective of ourself, others, and the world we live in. And how we interact with ourselves and each other. I hope I succeeded in being a little more simple that time... 😬 Ummm... Yeah... I'm trying man. 🤣
@@marty_glenn Ok... * hands on hips * To put it simple... I am everything BUT simple...😳 No matter how hard I seem to try.... So please bear with me and I will try to help you understand me if that is even possible... 😁 🤣
* hands on hips * ( Good one ) You just keep doing you and I will keep doing me. You keep commenting and I will keep commenting. How does that sound... lol :) - M
You son of a gun...had me hooked start to finish and I’m currently in my mid 20’s and does explain a bit about where I’m at in my life’s path, but I do have a question. These phases or whatever you want to call them, they don’t last ten years do they? It could be longer or shorter depending on the individual and where they are in life
Wizard or Jedi master,tough call,I've always resonated with the original Obi-Wan or maybe it's because I'm a Scorpio rising INFJ whos whole life more or less has been spent chasing UFOS Cryptids and the need to know,I found my answers btw but they're top secret. 😨😱👽
I took MBTI in my late teens, early twenties, mid twenties and now in late twenties, every time I was tested INFJ positive, however as much as I feel proud to call myself an INFJ, somewhere inside I feel like I want to be an INTP. Don’t ask why cause I ‘feel’ like it
I want to be an entp and I too have taken this test in high school , college and as an adult and I am always and infj. I know I am one in my bones besides that my mother constantly calls me in an enigma.
Hey Marty! Love the video. Can you explain the concept of the wizard to me please? I have my ideas, but I want to make sure I clearly understand what mean by it.
The wizard walks alone and is always very old and wise and for the INFJ I think the end result of all that it takes in and has to deal with creates a very wise and old soul. It tales decades to get there. Right? TYWC - Marty
Thank you for sharing Marty, th-cam.com/video/gfyCzLbcAvk/w-d-xo.html I don't like linking other videos, but I watched this last night and it complimented your video so much. I watched this the night before, a lot of INFJ's are focused heavily on knowledge and psychology. Nietzsche talked about how a few would dive into the mind to find more, I know when I share some insights I am looked at like I am on drugs, or I will sometimes scare people with insights. I was talking to my one friend he's a truck driver, he was explaining where he was, said his hour when, so I knew he was near the tunnel in PA, which I told him don't cross the middle line! (he was like wtf?) lol, then sure enough like 5 minutes later he was kinda silent on the phone, like wtf?(just a silly example cause I keep ppl's personal shit private). I think we can get stuck on a lot of these steps when we want to follow culture(we want to be harmonious) and your friends or family shove that down your throat. The major issue I find within myself and living this journey is I need other people to give me a key, even if found in stupid ass shit, to unlock the depths of my mind even farther(gain knowledge). Yet, finding these friends while 80% live on surface-level things in life, is rather challenging, let alone keeping them and keeping the closeness. Amazing insight Marty, I hope you know you are appreciated.
Hey Ryan. I agree with you and see your points and experience the same. But I cannot watch the video Ryan for I want 100% of everything I do , right or wrong - insane or sane, to be mine. But THANK YOU for sending my way; I appreciate the effort and the thought. TYWC - Marty
You might find this interesting... A viewer with this screen name and a comment from them: Nietzsche • 11 minutes ago (3:56PST 01-26-2022) You had a deadbeat mother which explains your personality. I sincerely apologize for my insensitive words. Take care Marty My response in kind ( This same person actually commented another time that was just as shitty) Marty Glenn • 1 minute ago (3:56PST 01-26-2022) With pleasure.... you are projecting and now I know what is wrong. Have a nice life and you can keep commenting and I will approve them. Sometimes venting helps the inner-child express itself when it has been abused for so long. I am happy to help. But with that said, I will react in kind... Fuck You! My Mom is second to none and I truly am sorry that yours failed you. I am lucky beyond words that mine, when it mattered most, did not fail me. It is a tragedy when a mother fails a child and unfortunately unless that inner-child finds peace; it will last until you take your last breath. The way you are going - you will see that day. I hope you change your ways and find a healthier path as the one you are on is going to crush your life to the floor and everybody that you come into contact with. TYWC - Marty Odd right? - Marty
Ryan. I will be doing a video this week and it will name you within it and will also explain or should I say, answer a question I have been asking for years. Within your recommended video was the answer and you were right all along and I was wrong. I am glad that, at THAT time, I did not watch the video. I just watched it, NOW is the right time, and you were right then and you are right now. My hat is off to you and thank you for sending this my way. I can only ask why you then and why that person now and when I searched that name, the other commenter did not come up but you and your comment did. I clicked the link and here we are. What say you now? :) Well done Ryan,. Please do not ever let anybody tell you that you have not or cannot chang a life. You have. You did. Mine. - M
For you Ryan and the content of the video. Well done. Written on January 25, 2022 4:50PST 01-26-2022 Can you believe I was, a year ago and still am, so into my own path and not wanting to change for fear that I get beat down away from the depths that I want to go and explore that I missed this a year ago. The answer to a question that has caused me much stress and unhappiness. That is the answer. How the INFJ is and became so rare along with other Introverted Feelers. (This is not the same as empathy) There are a higher level of persons within us and the Introverted Intutition is a product of that. The MBTI types that have a higher level of inner personal awareness are actually more advanced with the INFJ being the most advanced. Carl Jung, I believe knew of this and it influenced his beliefs. Freud and Adler spoke of today and Mother and Father. Nietzsche spoke of history and understanding the ways of past cultures and experiments live within us and to understand ourselves we must understand our history. Could this be why our history is now being taken from us or why history of wars and other hateful events are what we are taught in school? Many scholars and philosophers who have been influenced by Nietzsche have claimed that in communicating the death of god to the masses, Nietzsche should be characterized as a modern day prophet. What is it about his message that qualifies him for such an honorable title? Had his beliefs come to reality. From 1900 - 2022 we would not be living the life we live for no wars would have been had since each and every war is based on the foundation of the men who start them and their religious differences. As long as your belief in God continues you will continue to look out ward toward God and those who give you site of what you are to become and what you should be, not who you truly are. For as long as you look outward, you will be lost. That is the conspiracy of control that is hidden beneath the shadows of today’s modern Conspiracies of the illuminate and the darkness of money and power. It is not the control through money or through government but the control that God and those that preach the word of God keep you looking outward and not inward and the find against control is not money or power or government but the souls search for ‘ Who I am ‘. The soul is fighting to know ‘Self’ and the only voice we have is to look at our past and to look at our present and to know that the ‘Self’ and ‘Who am I’ is fighting and tearing at the human mind to find the answer. Money and Government stand in the way of this adventure and the ‘Soul’, using the past of humanity and the present of today, knows that it is bound by the same chains of God and the teaches of those who are truly scared to know ‘Self’ or to know, the truth: Who I am. - M
I hope you are happy; my head is about to explode. lol You will have to wait for the videos to follow for the rest; you are deserving of my first words on the subject. Well done Ryan. :) January 25, 2022 5:37PST The Gay Science, Friedrich Nietzsche They killed this by calling the name: Gay (Who is they? More on that later) It means to love the same sex and in reality it means to love self. The creation of the low self esteem is created by religion that proclaim to love one’s self is akin to loving another of the same sex. Modern times has created the ‘do not love self’ for to love self is to not love God and he who does not love god first cannot love thy self for the creator himself is the only being that deserves our love; self and who I am is too imperfect and flaud to receive self love for we are made in the image of God himself. “So although he claimed ‘god is dead’, he admitted that in fact a true world in some form or another could indeed exist.” The use of the words, ‘True World’ describes a world in which we know that God does or does not exist and the questions of life to be answered in truth. The reason for humanity answered without question. HERE IS THE ANSWER: “By believing a better life is awaiting one following death, the individual escapes from the responsibility and burden of having to make the most of this life. Thus in discarding faith in true world theories, an individual is left alone in this world with the choice of either making the most of it or spending their days in a state of guilt and self-pity over what could have been. Therefore, for more than any other reason, Nietzsche proclaimed the death of god because he felt that a world composed of individuals who did not believe in true world theories would be a much better world.” Nihilism One must, in today society start with the belief in ‘God’ and a higher power. Thus finding the boundary to self outside of one’s self. When this boundary has been found the soul will reach out and touch it with distain. This self anger and self hate that fights against the boundary of the soul to find self ‘ Who I am ‘ lays the battle ground for the discovery of self. Without such boundaries you are lost in a sea of ‘ I am nothing without Self ‘ and ‘ I am everything without self ‘. These two apoosing views give rise to the trational stage of escaping the stranghle hold of thiose too weak to search for self (I am everything without self) and the giving up or inihalation of ‘I am nothing without self’ for it those that are the warriors against the Anti-Gay I am everything without self. The traditional stage of the Human Psyche that is called “Nihilism”. Essential Meaning of nihilism formal 1 : the belief that traditional morals, ideas, beliefs, etc., have no worth or value 2 : the belief that a society's political and social institutions are so bad that they should be destroyed Nietzsche didn’t think everyone in a state of nihilism was capable of curing themselves. He in fact differentiated between two types of nihilists; those who have the strength to overcome it, and those who do not. The former he called ‘active nihilists’, while the latter he called ‘passive nihilists’. “Nihilism. It is ambiguous: A. Nihilism as a sign of increased power of the spirit: as active nihilism. B. Nihilism as decline and recession of the power of the spirit: as passive nihilism.” (The Will to Power, Friedrich Nietzsche) The passive nihilist is the individual, who when confronted with nihilism, sees it as an endpoint or a sign to stop the search for meaning. In short, this type of individual lacks the strength to make anything of their life, and unfortunately many who reach this stage will, as we discussed earlier, out of sheer desperation attach themselves to some form of mass movement in a final attempt to find an objective purpose to life. Eric Hoffer, in his book The True Believer, provides an intriguing analysis of such an individual. “To the frustrated a mass movement offers substitutes either for the whole self or for the elements which make life bearable and which they cannot evoke out of their individual resources.” (The True Believer, Eric Hoffer) Like the passive nihilist, the active nihilist experiences the existential confusion and disorientation which accompanies the feeling that life is utterly futile and meaningless. However, instead of succumbing to this despair or diving blindly into a mass movement in order to soothe one’s fears, as the passive nihilist does, Nietzsche envisioned the active nihilist as an individual who charges forward and consciously destroys all the beliefs which previously gave meaning to their lives. “[Nihilism] reaches its maximum of relative strength as a violent force of destruction - as active nihilism.” (The Will to Power, Friedrich Nietzsche) After ridding one’ self of all the beliefs and attachments which previously gave their life meaning, the active nihilist stands alone in the universe, a true independent free spirit able to create meaning instead of having it imposed on him by an authority figure. In Thus Spoke Zarathustra Nietzsche poetically emphasizes this point: “A new pride my ego taught me, and this I teach men: no longer to bury one’s head in the sand of heavenly things, but to bear it freely, an earthly head, which creates a meaning for the earth.” (The Will to Power, Friedrich Nietzsche) In the next lecture, the final of this series, we will investigate some of the ideas Nietzsche thought could help one overcome nihilism and thus allow them to create a fulfilling and meaningful life. We will investigate such fascinating topics as Nietzsche’s attempt to ‘revalue suffering’. What is suffering? I am everything without self. How could those who are in the know be so cruel as to understand the human psyche yet withdraw the tools toward happiness and living a true world or better said, a true self living within a true world. What has happened to our society is this: The world has been created into two groups. The Religious who believe in “ I am everything without self “ and the other group, which believes, “ I am nothing without self “ but is passive and walks miserable and lost without ever having the knowledge to find self since we are a product of our historical views and experiments and that of todays social views and social experiments. This is why Social Media is so dangerous. Through social media the self is moved into any direction based on the idea to belong to a movement or group. The passive Nihilist, like a sailboat without a sail will easily sail into the abysss unlike the active Nihilist who will destroy the chains binding his soul to take on the adventure of finding the true world that sets sail toward ‘ I am nothing without self ‘. This person in modern times, is seen as weak or without faith when reality they are weak. Once again within society the weak control the strong for the weak cannot grow and will fight against the strong. Within all of humanity our teachings and true world teaches us and has taught us that the weak will always control the strong for it takes great strength to dive deep into the depths of self to find the true world. - M
My theory is a bit different... that we... INFJs have lived the most points of view, carry the most practical knowledge of each point of perception of our reality, and as such... once we accept that as fact... and learn to work with it... ie magic... then we get to fully play with the toys god gave us. All with the purpose (Purpose: meaning: a geometrical pattern, set at our time of birth into the 3D - which must be fulfilled or you repeat - AKA karma cycle of rebirth) of eventually accessing the 9th gate, where the act of self-actualization turns you into a god. 🥳
Okay. So you went way left but I gotta say, Shit! you did that with such IQ and professionalism that I cannot do or say anything but... Well done. You even tossed in religion and I was like: " I like this comment " TYWC - Marty
Marty Glenn once I learned quantum mechanics, I realized religion is science... only, a science most cultures have hidden from the masses. Just ask Tesla - who was one of the authors of the Kabbalah. Everything is consciousness. And light frequencies. So, it’s science... not religion... really. 😃
It's like yer saying I can't call myself a Crone until I'm 90. :P I chose not to have kids so I skipped Mother, but I don't want to be an old Maiden. It may be premature, but I'm declaring myself a Crone, dammit :P
This progression somewhat matches my own experiences in terms of decades (The Fog of 20 - 30 was a rough time man), though I cannot say whether it's specific for INFJs or not. In fact it seems like the model would fit the personality development progression for people of many different types as most people flounder about in a kind of fog in their 20s, though I guess the discovery of "wrongness" or a sense of self awareness beyond that of a child of their age might be somewhat unique to INFJs. What do you mean by "wizard" though? Is this akin to the colloquial terms "wise sage" and "alchemist" for INFJs or something completely different? And why three different levels, what's the distinctions between the three? I apologize if I missed the explanation, but I can't seem to find it in this video or anywhere else. Anyway, interesting take on the subject - from what I've seen on the internet, it seems INFJs generally tend to be "late bloomers" in terms of personal happiness and "spiritual prosperity" (for lack of a better term), so it does match those observations.
Hi Kristian... Did you see the video I did on the 1% vs the 99% on wanting to be or not be an IFNJ? What I meant by the 'Wizard' is the 1% fades away completely. Now try to imagine that inner turmoil gone and replaced with complete acceptance...' Wizard ' ( I will be expanding on that and developing it more and really diving into what I truly meant. That was just my first attempt and only like an hour or so of time so please excuse me on that ) What would you do with yourself at that point? How would you feel about you? How would you interact with others and enter each relationship? Now, ask yourself a question about how the 1% affects you and how it holds you back or keeps you from being TRULY happy! TYWC - Marty
oh and by the wa im10 years ahead of your scale but i do not disagreee with your scale. im a son of an infg mother. she had no quams about accepting me as i was. my father as a completely different story
Basically it is the end result of the life of an INFJ with wisdom and the ability to be happy with how life has gone and accept it. Most wizards walk alone and so do most INFJ's. TYWC - Marty
No amd yes. What is means is that the 1% that plagues the INFJ and the level of happiness will be solved. I will be doing more on this later. Promise... TYWC - Marty
I don’t understand? When is the last time that I saw an 80 year-old or older walking alone? I suppose that includes wheelchairs? I believe you are onto something, but it needs more flesh on the bones before we’ll know what it is. Every time you say; “Wait for it”, I end up waiting forever.
Hey Walter... I know. I need to put more thought into it but come on... I thought about it for like an hour before I did the video. Okay lets say a few hours from one single comment. I know, there are no excuses but I am also dealing with haters. I am not crying but my word, what is it with people? Nooooo. When I say ' Wait for it ' ( maybe that is a bad habit of mine ) I give the answer but I think you are looking for the deeper explanations or more of something...? Videos would be so long Walter. What do you suggest? I know you see it and see the problem. TYWC - Marty
Marty Glenn you need someone to help you screen your videos in person. They seem a lot like writing articles. I always need a day or two of word tweaking. Perhaps only put out one or two videos a week. Maybe for some of them you need to reshoot. I don’t know. You know.
Hi Walter. screen your videos in person? What do you mean? They are only starts? Right? Not with body and finish? Correct? They would be hours and hours long... Not sure what to do but I will be expanding on each topic. I have the details. It is just a lot of information. Point well made. ;) TYWC - Marty
Oh so the obsessive language police or criticizing you for your spelling punctuation or grammar, that happens to me too but I don't put up with their crap!!!! This is not school this is not a report, or lab setting this is just TH-cam and people talking!!!! Somebody has a pretty sad life and is picking on you because you're spelling and punctuation and grammar, they need to look in the mirror and make some adjustments in their life and stop nitpicking things that are irrelevant!!!
Yep. I agree. I see both sides but in the end if your head is on straight your comment will always be truth. Appreciate the supportive words. TYWC - Marty
That makes a lot of sense to me. I'm 46 and one of those INFJs that loves being one... I just wish I'd known about it sooner so I didn't have to spend so much of my life feeling like I was broken.
Hi Chris. Yes. I know. I think we all can say the same thing. So true! TYWC - Marty
Chris J
I got there at 40. Hey at least we got it!
I agree, Well done. I also feel that life’s experiences can expedite our evolution aka some of your stages, rather sink or swim, integrate the lesson quickly and adapt. Or sink..and that’s not an option, ever. For better, for worse, nothing lost, if you gleaned something from it. I’m 47, well in the acceptance / healing stage, if I was to compare myself to your video. I too like being in my INFJ skin, maybe not when I was younger, but we learned right? Stay well, and be the best version of ur self always.
Man, I love comments like this. I am 56, and spent the first half of my life feeling alone and "wrong", but now? Although every day brings its struggles, I feel good in that I actually know how I am. Because if a label? No, but the label helped me begin the process of understanding what was happening to me. My early life felt like a nightmare, and I just thought I was defective. But after years of work, and many tears shed, I know better now. It has been grueling, but well worth it.
Marty,
I wrote this down. Cripes, I now understand my life. I'm 60's. I see the expansion, and contraction years. Tears come. Profound understanding of self. Thank you for this video.. I watch a lot of yours, as you go where no one does. Deeper. As much as I try to make me simpler, I can't. I have shared so little of self through my life, for others don't see the way I do. I have felt misunderstood, labeled, filed, to where I quit allowing most of me out. Now my husband of 14 wonderful years, passed 6 years ago, and I am living alone in peace. He accepted and loved everything about me. Put me on a pedestal for the first time in my life, and I blossomed with his trust. That gave a freedom I had not experienced. I will miss him always. I am grateful I recueved that time. I walk my days happier now.
This video has clearned up my mind, in a way I did not see. Thank you
Hi Christine. Thank you for the kind words and finding the love is always a great thing. I will expand on this video later as many others found it great for a start but wanted more details.i have the details but time is hard to find these. Get back in there as I think you might have a few more times around the block left in you. LOL I am happy you found it worthy of your time. Awesome! TYWC - Marty
What MBTI type was your husband?
I'm seeing this episode 3 years after you posted, lol. Thank you for this valuable information, and as an INFJ this feels so spot on. Being in my 5th decade, I look forward to maturing into the wizard! This totally makes sense. 🦋
Always on point. Bless you Marty.
Wow. Older video. Yes... One of my earlier favorites. Glad you found it worthy of your time. TYWC - Marty
It just feels so good 2 see another INFJ thinking, feeling & behaving - and the fact that you have got so many years of experience in this life, i can absorb now, makes self-comprehension for me so much easier 🙏❤ thank you!
Glad it helps on my back of pain.So Kidding.. lol TYWC - Marty
Absolutely loved the video , was hooked from start to end !
Hi Nana. Thank you. At least I know one person who watched the whole thing. lol TYWC - Marty
The "FOG" is the perfect description of my 20's and 30's.
HI RPD75. It is right. I needed one word and that is the one that kept hitting me in the face. TYWC - Marty
I'm in my 3rd decade, and i have stopped hating being an infj. The only struggle now, is knowing that most people are to blind to wake up to the reality of this world. I feel like i have to step up and guide them; I'm just not sure that I'm ready, because i also want to be lazy lol
Hi moon... Hmmmm. Are you sure you have stopped hating being an INFJ? ;)) TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn maybe i displaced my self hatred for those who are low iq assholes. When i see you rant about "fucktards" i relate so hard lol
Hi moon. Great word, right? ;) TYWC - Marty
I’m a 22 year old INFJ and I can’t even explain how this has helped me, so I won’t:) Thanks, Marty.
That is good enough. ;) TYWC - Marty
Im one of those who is proud to be an INFJ, flaws and all. That is who I am and the powers that I have is pretty awesome. A major flaw is paralysis in starting new things but funny once I do start it almost always ends well. INFJ’s just need a push sometimes.
That is interesting. How come you have trouble to launch? TYWC- Marty
We must have something masterful within. It’s so many years of compiled learning and aiding others. I have a constant hunger for learning and negotiation for profit or justice. I’ve always felt I’ve dabbled in the supernatural with a tingling intuition. Now I can aspire to be a warlock. Kudos.
I can 100% relate. Well said. TYWC - Marty
Wow Marty, the beauty of stumbling into you after you've already posted a bunch is I get to just dive in and get lost in thought in no particular order! I think at 45yrs of age youre the first mature ACTUAL INFJ that I can feel is speaking from personal life experience and not just the textbook breakdown of my cognitive stack. Which I enjoy the science, sure, but the heart brings so much more depth to it all
Hi Shawn. I know like Netflix dropping a whole season. Did you say textbook? What in the fuck is a text book? ;) TYWC - Marty
If I can cast a spell to keep people away I guess it'll be worth the wait hah
Just found your channel and great job. Speech tone and rhythm as well as the board to illustrate points and ideas are great.
Professional and laid back all in the same persona.
Also you have to write in reverse to have your points visible to the viewer. That took some practice. Seems like you really care about your message and your subscribers. I see you respond to everybody that's awesome.
You got a new sub today, and i just wanted to say you are appreciated and you do a good job.
Until next time
Thank you Nick and yes to all this comment. TYWC - Marty
I see this as an INFJ male ("I feel" age is irrelevant due to it being a construct for INFJ's.) I immediately think of Gandalf the "Wizard" in the LotR movies. He is always present and helping, however it's only when he needs to be there, and is seemingly weaving all of the purpose together (never there just to be there for the obvious.) HOWEVER, he always arrives alone, or with a solution to the situations problem. He leaves alone as well. Point is, he separates himself quite often and continues his own journey to and from place to place alone, all while tying the threads of fate together for the best outcome for all, not himself. I see your theory Marty, and think you might be two steps ahead of most. Don't forget to look back to tie the connections' knot. Best wishes.
-M
Funny you should say this... "Don't forget to look back to tie the connections' knot." You are smart. I know exactly what you are talking about. What I am doing is trying to get as many videos out with substance and topics and then pull it all together. Right now each video is just scratching a topic and then finishes but, as you said, lacking in the final connections of knots. I will. One issue is the length of time and the knowledge and understanding of the topics and the depths. I am even too deep for most INFJ's. Look at my early videos and see the views vs the videos and view counts of others. TYWC - Marty.
Was totally focused on the video from start to end. Was able to think and feel what you want to convey. You earned my subscribe Sir.
Thank you. TYWC - Marty
Thank you for that. I’m very happy to be an INFJ. Peace came when I actually found out that was one and it explained why I did and thought differently to a lot of people around me. Now I understand myself better I wouldn’t change things. It’s definitely not an ego thing though.
Yep. Good for you. TYWC - Marty
That's pretty accurate. Many confusing and traumatic events to experience and it seems there's not really any way around them but the insights and understanding that come because of it is a gift not given to very many and an overwhelming unexplainable responsibility to those whose lives you are thrust into- arghhhh wizard sounds better than .. I dont know how I know, I just do.
In the end is all the blunt trauma and soul bleeding worth the knowing and gained wisdom? I guess it all depends on how much time has passed until the next scourge.
...that would be tomorrow. TYWC - Marty
I love this, especially the notion of spending the 20s and 30s in the Fog. What I'd change is to say that your apprenticeship as the wizard begins when acceptance begins. Certainly in the spiritual life this is how it feels to me.
I am going to really work on this and add the comments and what I actually see happening in real life with ages and what is being said. I can see it within the comments. TYWC - Marty
As you went on with your explanation of the decades and how we can squish as we want, it gave me a thought. We can also see this and now just in physical age but in mental age. Or as in your age in personal development as and INFJ, phases of you will. I love this theory so much and thank you for sharing as well All that you do for us. I used to be in that wanting to be rare mindset, even though that contradicted my desire to be understood. I could be an INFJ or an INTJ. I’ll probably figure that out officially as I continue to grow and heal. Either way I will embrace it and use the knowledge to my advantage in how I can cope and reach my highest potential. Thank you again for your work and much Love to you and everyone watching this! 💚
As I continue the video you immediate just brought up my point sooooo. 😂. Stay Awesome man
And then I finished it.... man.... that just made me smile and feel so content with myself in a new way... This is was truly Amazing.
Good for you Matt. Thank you for the kind words. TYWC - Marty
I'm sure glad I stumbled upon your channel! I don't know if your spiritual, but in the spiritual world we're known as the soul seers. When We've have been around anyone long enough we can see through their bullshit!! A narcissist can't stand that!!! They go insane and start stabbing Us in the back!
Watch some of my videos on the subject and I think you will enjoy them. See the playlist on the subject. TYWC - Marty
I agree with your theory. Look at the sensible grandfather of modern psychology, Carl Gustav Young the creator of 16 personality types. Carl Gustav Young was an infj! And listening to his interviews from later in his life, he was a very deep wizard!!!
;) TYWC - Marty
Thanks Marti. Im 51 and the fog is clearing. This makes so much sense.
Great. Always doing my best. Not always right or perfect. TYWC - Marty
Wow. I'm turning 30 in October, and I have been reviewing my life-- well, looking ahead mostly, and I break it down a lot like this. Even telling my husband I wanted to live to be 100 at least and then maybe by the end of it all I would have wisdom for the world and peace within myself. Wow. John and I have talked about how we will be late bloomers pretty much because of this exact process. I want to really kicking ass by my mid 40's and 50's, but as long as I'm alive I will be hurtling myself toward that wizardry.
The fact you know and you have only just turned 30 will probably have you kicking ass earlier. Nothing was really clear to me until around 40 and feel like someone slapped me and woke me up from my slumber and now at 45 i feel incredible and a lot more at peace. I wih I had that self awareness when I was a lot younger when i walked through life like a bull in a china shop but maybe its all part of the journey?
RPD... I feel the same. TYWC - Marty
Hi Crystalline. You are doing better then you think you are. Keep up the self discovery. You are doing great. TYWC - Marty
Hi Marty. Another excellent video and elegant presentation of your theory. Can concur as a 32 year old INFJ. It is of course extremely hard to differentiate 'nature' from 'nurture' when constructing a timeline such as this one, so very well done. I am thinking that integrating some generally consistent aspects of 'nature' could expand it further in the second column that you kept external here (e.g. schooling, work place, family, as these aspects of nature typically correlate with age). Great work, thanks!
Yes. You get it and it all matters but just be careful that you do not bring too much into it. It might start to become too much and sway the objective into way to much subjective thoughts. But good thoughts. TYWC - Marty
Your really Marty in the time machine arn't you...I recognise you lol
Such good content as always.
The wizard imo is one i.e. has mastery over 8 functions, is the magician and the spinning woman and is a container for all the content.
I love your chart and the stages of evolution.
From my own path I can say that certain unsavoury experiences fast forwarded many of those decades and I was like marty in back to the future for a long time. I'm caught up now lol I flat lined. What a trip.
Hi Emma. Glad you liked it and I love Marty in Back...Future. Amazing movie. TYWC - Marty
...please note: how Marty did not feel the need to apologize for his spelling. He explained a fact about it, but he DID NOT apologize for it. Please do as he does - and STOP apologizing for your wonderful foibles. And start embracing them openly so that you can empower other people to do the same! And, Thanks Again Marty, for being you!! ❤️
You are welcome and thank you for pointing something out to me I did not see. Well done. TYWC - Marty
An odd trait that is well known in the field; engineers can't spell. In general, that is true. Why? Because as long as I can clearly convey a complex thought from my mind to yours, the details are trivial. So, spelling nerds are just petty and totally missing the point. That said, many thanks to the folks that came up with spell check algorithms... ; )
I have been thinking some more on this because it is all really kind of a brand new concept to me too, to be honest.
This whole "vibes" thing.
I say a lot that I don't have any friends. Which is not completely true. In the physical appearance of life I have no one, literally.
The only physical vibe I have in my life is with my mother, which goes without saying, because that is a natural vibe to have.
However, in the non physical world I have a few people I "vibe well with".
I have actually "vibed with" many along the way and have had to cut off certain people because their vibe was dragging me down destructive paths…
For me.
But for every good connection I am thankful. Every one that is a level of wanting to learn and grow together, rather than manipulate others to get them to follow a given perception.
All of life is subject for review if you ask me, because it SHOULD be.
Not people…
That is another way we have gone wrong, if you as me.
Made it about the behaviors that are CAUSED by the vibes rather than the vibes that are CAUSING the behavior.
I believe truthfully that to an extent we were designed to BE self taught. The whole concept of education I believe was derived from the idea of mass manipulation.
Because the truth about life is that it really does reveal itself TO you.
It cannot BE taught, because they are things meant to be learned through a natural process, just like the model you gave, WITHOUT the extensive timeline…
Which was created again…
To manipulate the masses…
A brain that has not suffered trauma is going to work through this process naturally much quicker than a brain that has had trauma introduced to it.
Which disrupts important emotional connections we need to make in order to reach a place of personal emotional stability.
So they start the "teaching" process young, through "education" AND introducing trauma into the lives of…
Well now… 🤔
Pretty much everyone on some level wouldn't you say?
Yes. On some level... 80/20 rule applies here I think for sure. TYWC - Marty
Wizards also carry a staff. Poor Se. and they are old. I always grabbed a stick, like a staff, while in the woods. I actually have a stick/staff that I grabbed last time I was in the woods. I carved into it. I then padded and wrapped the top and also added symbolic decorations to it. I guess I'll use it when I hit 80-100 yrs. old.
HaHa. That is funny Bruce. Very poor Se in deed. And to be honest I do not think the Si works very well either. How many times have you been to the Dr.? TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn Dr., what's a doctor? Lol!
!!! Yes.
“When have you not seen a wizard walking alone?” says it all.
While I like your videos, like your mind, when you speak the essence, life clicks and I can no longer find the alone in the alone, for connection (with all) prevails.
Kinda weird to be naming this. Not sure who I am naming it for bcs I wouldn’t need to say anything for likely either myself nor would I expect for you, Marry.
Perhaps for my future self, then, so that I can include some solidity from having been in this moment.
Hello future me, what is it like to be loves by the younger me in such a way as to have known you and captured that (this) moment so as to give birth to you before you were born?...
Such are the ponderings of young wizards, I suppose.
Nice comment. Yep that Wizard always alone and never seeing him / sad. Just there and alone. TYWC - Marty
I agreed till 6 th decade : a cancer diagnosis shattered the peace and calm
Hi Catherine. Apricot Seeds. :))
And yes, not at all on the same page as you, but the AN surgery really did a number on me. TYWC - Marty
Totally agree. I can identify with each stage up to 60,....because...today, I turned 60. Looking SO forward to those 'wizard' years. Thx. 😎🔥❤🌷
Hi Still... That theory is a work in progress but glad you liked it. I will work on it more in the future. TYWC - Marty
Yay this video made me so happy! 😍 I've been an apprentice wizard for sometime, although I would say witch only the witch has been given a lot negative connotations:( maybe the female equivalent is the priestess ☺️😋yeah priestess holds the same level of respect and sageness of a wizard but female version. ☺️
Hi Jessica. Good for you. I am glad you saw the theory and think it has merit. I will be doing more on it later TYWC - Marty
Very illuminating. I agree completely again. Would you ever do a video in regards to people using alcohol/substances and why it can affect us so much?
Hi Spiders. I can touch on that in time. ;)) TYWC - Marty
Truth!! 🤣
Everytime you laugh, I tend to laugh at the same moments. We are so alike.. and I would say, I'm way more mature than the typical still.. I'm 22, and I've hit my calm stages early.
Wizard do walk alone, and I got 400 more videos to go. Lol
Lots to do. TYWC - Marty
I realized later that I don't have enough life experience, therefor may have over spoken on calmness and wizardry.
Living in a chaotic world. All I can do is observe, and know myself. I can't overextend myself where I don't belong. I do not know it all, nor the best ways life should be lived.
What I do know, is that your words really changed my approach to life.
Marty... 🍄🍄 .... Fkn awesome! I bet you were the biggest trip in your circles....the INFJ intel i-3300 mega core processor blitzing people into oblivion...love the vids...in my early 40's - already seen some of the peace and acceptance.
Lets just say that I think I scare people when I walk into the room. My life is one of wonder and complexity. Can you imagine meeting people and talking about life's work and then I start talking and asking questions or getting involved in their life's work and they are talking about something i should know nothing about but...
If I take this experience and this experience and this experience and take small parts of all of them I can reverse engineer the knowledge I need to have a conversation with this person. So goes my life. I will explain this within a video and give some examples. Well said Richard. TYWC - Marty
Holy crap it's a long journey 😲 more than half of our life is wasted on waiting for something to blossom
HI 80's... It might be but even if I am wrong and I am, it is a good theory and tell me I am not close? Go ahead. I dare you. :) I am not close? How do you feel about my theory on the journey? TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn I don't completely understand your questions but yes as an INFJ it does make sense to me. It's just painful to think that it could possibly take us that long to master ourselves and possibly find our place in the world. Yes it got me thinking that's for sure. 😁
Hi 80... That was my point. It is just a work in progress. Version 2 will be better and more accurate. TYWC - Marty
What does it mean to be a Wizard? I've always looked towards a form of sentience that I believe to be slowly maturing over the years, wonder if there is any correlation? As I am in the 3rd decade of the INFJ spectrum I guess you could say the fog is quite dense. Much love to all that you do Marty, your perspective has helped me quite a lot as of recent.
Hi lil... This is what I mean.... Ready because it is really complicated..
When you no longer feel that on the inside of not wanting to be an INFJ. ;)) TYWC - Marty
I had the question and the fog hand in hand in the 2nd decade.
I prefer the concept of priesthood mentality lol
Ya 'priest' and my life, ya, I am not sure about that for me. But for you? Sounds good to me. TYWC - Marty
O $hit O $hite I get it , dude I just found your Channel and you just Fuk my head up and thats not easy , WOW thank you man thank you , so crazy .
Very cool. Thank you for the compliment. TYWC - Marty
I freakin knew it!😂
Emotionally stable are the words I would use to describe the "end stage" of this.
Because honestly speaking, until we can achieve emotional stability in our life we have not a leg to stand on in life.
We get tossed to and fro with every new thought, idea, question that shakes up how we have interpreted life so far, sending us on a whole new path to either finding out who we are, or running away from who we are.
By blaming who we are on our circumstances or the people in our life that it feels like are causing those circumstances.
But how DOES that happen? How can feelings be SO intense that it can override our logic, common sense, and actual nature as a nurturing individual, causing us to overreact in a truly immature way.
Such as punching someone in the face. Cussing them out. Having a temper tantrum, or the majority of what we see happening in the world today actually. 🤣
Social media is nothing short of a nursery with little to no supervision or rules, no nap time, no real direction for any individual participating because everyone is yelling so loud they can't hear anyone BUT themselves anymore. 🤷♀️
So, this is where it gets tricky, because our "physical make up" plays a role in all of this and I believe that IS the missing link for many.
We as human beings are LITERALLY 60% water. A fact I have known my whole life, but not understood in fullness. It is hard to process how 60% of a body that FEELS quite "solid" is 10% MORE liquid than actual solid. 😳
But it is very important to understand that, because we are literally affected by things we don't realize, and once we do understand that we can reach that place of emotional stability by learning to control our environment.
Which is WHY a "wizard" walks alone. Because they have learned to control their environment rather than letting their environment control them.
So think about water… What "moves" water? What makes a still puddle "show life", rather than just the calmness found in the reflection it displays?
Vibration, which has many different forms of showing up. A dinosaur stepping down close by will cause a vibration on the ground enough to cause a vibrational pattern on a once still puddle…
Now since we don't have dinosaurs around we need to be looking for less likely suspects to interrupt our vibrational flow as a being that is 60% water right? 🤣
Music IS the key for human beings. I fully believe that because that is exactly how I control my own environment.
Because as humans we are physically affected by frequency and vibrations that we get from the world around us.
And if you are an empath too…
LOOK OUT.
I am the empath of all empaths.
I "feel" things from people on a level I have yet to find the words to explain. Only that I have figured out finally it is all tied to this somehow.
I can" feel" things, and or "catch a vibe" from a variety of ways…
Looking at a person's profile, reading a comment they wrote, listening to a song they like, being spoken to directly, whether that be in person or over the internet.
Because a "vibe", concerning humans, is actually the "feeling" that is attached to that song, words, or actions…
As an example...
I have never EVER been able to listen to "angry" music. The frequency those messages are carried on has always just "felt" destructive to me emotionally.
In other words, somehow I instinctively understood that an angry "vibe" was only going to INTENSIFY my own "angry vibe". Just as a "sad vibe" intensifies my own "sad vibe" and has carried me unnecessarily into the depths of emotional despair.
But the problem with vibrations is the way to combat them is not to just swing all the way to the other side of the pendulum by blasting "If your happy and you know it clap your hands".
There are times that can and will work, but the truth is if I get pulled in an emotional direction I don't want to go, in essence I have to walk myself back out, not just flip a magic switch to be "ok" again.
Which means discovering what brought me down this path… What scar or still bleeding wound was touched by this particular vibe in this particular moment that is wanting to trigger an unwanted emotional reaction, rather than an emotionally stable response.
Once I can discover that I am able to process what it is "I" need to let go if to move forward.
Because life is supposed to be more of an individual journey than a corporate one, because we are all unique.
We have all walked different paths, and even though the experiences may have been similar, even causing similar reactions…
The emotional and physical chemistry of that experience is still different for each individual.
And each individual has to learn to manage their own vibrational pulls and pushes in life in order to master being able to remain emotionally stable in a situation that would normally call for full on panic.
But this is really not age related. It is emotional development related, and our society by large has been stunted in emotional growth through…
Ok… I am going to say this… But I am going to prelude it with this statement…
This has nothing to do whatsoever with wanting to be or feeling I or we are more "intelligent " than anyone else.
This is just my brain, which seems completely determined in its path in trying to discover where we ALL went wrong in our world to end up in such a pathetic place as a whole.
And I honestly believe the answer to that is found in this "personality typing".
I believe it was used against us to keep the truly intelligent personality type, INFJ suppressed, while the other personalities learned to manipulate all the things I am talking about…
To bring society itself into a place of being helpless to help themselves because none of us know what exactly is wrong with us or where it is coming from.
So we all look for a "savior" instead of realizing WE have the ability to tread water, to swim, to pull ourselves back up to a place of standing on something solid.
Our individuality AS a compassionate, loving, human being.
*whew*
Told ya that was gonna be lengthy… 😳
Hope it at least makes some sense… 🤣
I might fully get it after reading it about 10 more times… 🤣
Welcome to my world. 🤷♀️
Simple is key. Some INFJ's I read do not keep it simple and I think that might be something for you. I did get this: "Which is WHY a "wizard" walks alone. Because they have learned to control their environment rather than letting their environment control them." Well said. TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn OK, I get what you are saying...
However, consider this please...
It is not about it being "complicated" as much as it is the terms that are being used, and how.
🤔
I'm not a complicate it intentionally kinda girl, but I have a difficult time keeping it simple. No Joke. 👍
Because this to "me" is simple thinking.
Where as the world I have to interpret for myself around me is quite complicated.
So in trying to interpret anything, whether it is, the world, others, or myself, I will often reread a concept several times. Relisten to a video or song several times.
UNTIL I "get it"... Because that is how the curiosity side of my brain works to solve problems.
It probes at the information until an answer of some sense comes out of it for me, because I know whoever said it, wrote it, sang it, understood what they meant, which tells me I can too, if I can find a way to see their perspective.
Because what we in essence have to do is reprogram our own brains.
Our brains ARE THE MODEL they used for computers and AI. For the doctrines that are taught, for the education that is taught.
All of that is "programmed information" into our brains from life experience, as well as schooling, religious upbringing, political up bringing...
All of it is has an effect on our perspective of ourself, others, and the world we live in.
And how we interact with ourselves and each other.
I hope I succeeded in being a little more simple that time... 😬
Ummm...
Yeah... I'm trying man. 🤣
HaHa. I get it. This is simple? That would be a nope. But I do understand and from your first comment. I do get it. TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn Ok...
* hands on hips *
To put it simple...
I am everything BUT simple...😳
No matter how hard I seem to try....
So please bear with me and I will try to help you understand me if that is even possible... 😁 🤣
* hands on hips * ( Good one )
You just keep doing you and I will keep doing me. You keep commenting and I will keep commenting. How does that sound... lol :) - M
You son of a gun...had me hooked start to finish and I’m currently in my mid 20’s and does explain a bit about where I’m at in my life’s path, but I do have a question. These phases or whatever you want to call them, they don’t last ten years do they? It could be longer or shorter depending on the individual and where they are in life
Yes. I think so. I am going to re do them and the video. I did that video on the fly so it needs a lot of work but glad you liked it TYWC - Marty
The only thing to desire is enlightenment
Yep. To be aware and understood. TYWC - Marty
Wizard or Jedi master,tough call,I've always resonated with the original Obi-Wan or maybe it's because I'm a Scorpio rising INFJ whos whole life more or less has been spent chasing UFOS Cryptids and the need to know,I found my answers btw but they're top secret. 😨😱👽
HaHa ok. TYWC - Marty
I took MBTI in my late teens, early twenties, mid twenties and now in late twenties, every time I was tested INFJ positive, however as much as I feel proud to call myself an INFJ, somewhere inside I feel like I want to be an INTP. Don’t ask why cause I ‘feel’ like it
Hi Keer... okay I wont. LOL ;) TYWC - Marty
I want to be an entp and I too have taken this test in high school , college and as an adult and I am always and infj. I know I am one in my bones besides that my mother constantly calls me in an enigma.
Hey Marty! Love the video. Can you explain the concept of the wizard to me please? I have my ideas, but I want to make sure I clearly understand what mean by it.
The wizard walks alone and is always very old and wise and for the INFJ I think the end result of all that it takes in and has to deal with creates a very wise and old soul. It tales decades to get there. Right? TYWC - Marty
Thank you for sharing Marty, th-cam.com/video/gfyCzLbcAvk/w-d-xo.html I don't like linking other videos, but I watched this last night and it complimented your video so much. I watched this the night before, a lot of INFJ's are focused heavily on knowledge and psychology. Nietzsche talked about how a few would dive into the mind to find more, I know when I share some insights I am looked at like I am on drugs, or I will sometimes scare people with insights. I was talking to my one friend he's a truck driver, he was explaining where he was, said his hour when, so I knew he was near the tunnel in PA, which I told him don't cross the middle line! (he was like wtf?) lol, then sure enough like 5 minutes later he was kinda silent on the phone, like wtf?(just a silly example cause I keep ppl's personal shit private). I think we can get stuck on a lot of these steps when we want to follow culture(we want to be harmonious) and your friends or family shove that down your throat. The major issue I find within myself and living this journey is I need other people to give me a key, even if found in stupid ass shit, to unlock the depths of my mind even farther(gain knowledge). Yet, finding these friends while 80% live on surface-level things in life, is rather challenging, let alone keeping them and keeping the closeness. Amazing insight Marty, I hope you know you are appreciated.
Hey Ryan. I agree with you and see your points and experience the same. But I cannot watch the video Ryan for I want 100% of everything I do , right or wrong - insane or sane, to be mine. But THANK YOU for sending my way; I appreciate the effort and the thought. TYWC - Marty
You might find this interesting...
A viewer with this screen name and a comment from them:
Nietzsche
• 11 minutes ago (3:56PST 01-26-2022)
You had a deadbeat mother which explains your personality. I sincerely apologize for my insensitive words. Take care Marty
My response in kind ( This same person actually commented another time that was just as shitty)
Marty Glenn
• 1 minute ago (3:56PST 01-26-2022)
With pleasure.... you are projecting and now I know what is wrong. Have a nice life and you can keep commenting and I will approve them. Sometimes venting helps the inner-child express itself when it has been abused for so long. I am happy to help. But with that said, I will react in kind... Fuck You! My Mom is second to none and I truly am sorry that yours failed you. I am lucky beyond words that mine, when it mattered most, did not fail me. It is a tragedy when a mother fails a child and unfortunately unless that inner-child finds peace; it will last until you take your last breath. The way you are going - you will see that day. I hope you change your ways and find a healthier path as the one you are on is going to crush your life to the floor and everybody that you come into contact with. TYWC - Marty
Odd right? - Marty
Ryan. I will be doing a video this week and it will name you within it and will also explain or should I say, answer a question I have been asking for years. Within your recommended video was the answer and you were right all along and I was wrong. I am glad that, at THAT time, I did not watch the video. I just watched it, NOW is the right time, and you were right then and you are right now. My hat is off to you and thank you for sending this my way. I can only ask why you then and why that person now and when I searched that name, the other commenter did not come up but you and your comment did. I clicked the link and here we are. What say you now? :) Well done Ryan,. Please do not ever let anybody tell you that you have not or cannot chang a life. You have. You did. Mine. - M
For you Ryan and the content of the video. Well done.
Written on January 25, 2022 4:50PST
01-26-2022
Can you believe I was, a year ago and still am, so into my own path and not wanting to change for fear that I get beat down away from the depths that I want to go and explore that I missed this a year ago. The answer to a question that has caused me much stress and unhappiness.
That is the answer.
How the INFJ is and became so rare along with other Introverted Feelers. (This is not the same as empathy)
There are a higher level of persons within us and the Introverted Intutition is a product of that. The MBTI types that have a higher level of inner personal awareness are actually more advanced with the INFJ being the most advanced.
Carl Jung, I believe knew of this and it influenced his beliefs.
Freud and Adler spoke of today and Mother and Father. Nietzsche spoke of history and understanding the ways of past cultures and experiments live within us and to understand ourselves we must understand our history.
Could this be why our history is now being taken from us or why history of wars and other hateful events are what we are taught in school?
Many scholars and philosophers who have been influenced by Nietzsche have claimed that in communicating the death of god to the masses, Nietzsche should be characterized as a modern day prophet. What is it about his message that qualifies him for such an honorable title?
Had his beliefs come to reality. From 1900 - 2022 we would not be living the life we live for no wars would have been had since each and every war is based on the foundation of the men who start them and their religious differences.
As long as your belief in God continues you will continue to look out ward toward God and those who give you site of what you are to become and what you should be, not who you truly are. For as long as you look outward, you will be lost.
That is the conspiracy of control that is hidden beneath the shadows of today’s modern Conspiracies of the illuminate and the darkness of money and power. It is not the control through money or through government but the control that God and those that preach the word of God keep you looking outward and not inward and the find against control is not money or power or government but the souls search for ‘ Who I am ‘.
The soul is fighting to know ‘Self’ and the only voice we have is to look at our past and to look at our present and to know that the ‘Self’ and ‘Who am I’ is fighting and tearing at the human mind to find the answer. Money and Government stand in the way of this adventure and the ‘Soul’, using the past of humanity and the present of today, knows that it is bound by the same chains of God and the teaches of those who are truly scared to know ‘Self’ or to know, the truth: Who I am.
- M
I hope you are happy; my head is about to explode. lol You will have to wait for the videos to follow for the rest; you are deserving of my first words on the subject. Well done Ryan. :)
January 25, 2022 5:37PST
The Gay Science, Friedrich Nietzsche
They killed this by calling the name: Gay (Who is they? More on that later)
It means to love the same sex and in reality it means to love self. The creation of the low self esteem is created by religion that proclaim to love one’s self is akin to loving another of the same sex. Modern times has created the ‘do not love self’ for to love self is to not love God and he who does not love god first cannot love thy self for the creator himself is the only being that deserves our love; self and who I am is too imperfect and flaud to receive self love for we are made in the image of God himself.
“So although he claimed ‘god is dead’, he admitted that in fact a true world in some form or another could indeed exist.” The use of the words, ‘True World’ describes a world in which we know that God does or does not exist and the questions of life to be answered in truth. The reason for humanity answered without question.
HERE IS THE ANSWER:
“By believing a better life is awaiting one following death, the individual escapes from the responsibility and burden of having to make the most of this life. Thus in discarding faith in true world theories, an individual is left alone in this world with the choice of either making the most of it or spending their days in a state of guilt and self-pity over what could have been.
Therefore, for more than any other reason, Nietzsche proclaimed the death of god because he felt that a world composed of individuals who did not believe in true world theories would be a much better world.”
Nihilism
One must, in today society start with the belief in ‘God’ and a higher power. Thus finding the boundary to self outside of one’s self. When this boundary has been found the soul will reach out and touch it with distain. This self anger and self hate that fights against the boundary of the soul to find self ‘ Who I am ‘ lays the battle ground for the discovery of self. Without such boundaries you are lost in a sea of ‘ I am nothing without Self ‘ and ‘ I am everything without self ‘. These two apoosing views give rise to the trational stage of escaping the stranghle hold of thiose too weak to search for self (I am everything without self) and the giving up or inihalation of ‘I am nothing without self’ for it those that are the warriors against the Anti-Gay I am everything without self.
The traditional stage of the Human Psyche that is called “Nihilism”.
Essential Meaning of nihilism
formal
1 : the belief that traditional morals, ideas, beliefs, etc., have no worth or value
2 : the belief that a society's political and social institutions are so bad that they should be destroyed
Nietzsche didn’t think everyone in a state of nihilism was capable of curing themselves. He in fact differentiated between two types of nihilists; those who have the strength to overcome it, and those who do not. The former he called ‘active nihilists’, while the latter he called ‘passive nihilists’.
“Nihilism. It is ambiguous: A. Nihilism as a sign of increased power of the spirit: as active nihilism. B. Nihilism as decline and recession of the power of the spirit: as passive nihilism.” (The Will to Power, Friedrich Nietzsche)
The passive nihilist is the individual, who when confronted with nihilism, sees it as an endpoint or a sign to stop the search for meaning. In short, this type of individual lacks the strength to make anything of their life, and unfortunately many who reach this stage will, as we discussed earlier, out of sheer desperation attach themselves to some form of mass movement in a final attempt to find an objective purpose to life.
Eric Hoffer, in his book The True Believer, provides an intriguing analysis of such an individual.
“To the frustrated a mass movement offers substitutes either for the whole self or for the elements which make life bearable and which they cannot evoke out of their individual resources.” (The True Believer, Eric Hoffer)
Like the passive nihilist, the active nihilist experiences the existential confusion and disorientation which accompanies the feeling that life is utterly futile and meaningless. However, instead of succumbing to this despair or diving blindly into a mass movement in order to soothe one’s fears, as the passive nihilist does, Nietzsche envisioned the active nihilist as an individual who charges forward and consciously destroys all the beliefs which previously gave meaning to their lives.
“[Nihilism] reaches its maximum of relative strength as a violent force of destruction - as active nihilism.” (The Will to Power, Friedrich Nietzsche)
After ridding one’ self of all the beliefs and attachments which previously gave their life meaning, the active nihilist stands alone in the universe, a true independent free spirit able to create meaning instead of having it imposed on him by an authority figure.
In Thus Spoke Zarathustra Nietzsche poetically emphasizes this point:
“A new pride my ego taught me, and this I teach men: no longer to bury one’s head in the sand of heavenly things, but to bear it freely, an earthly head, which creates a meaning for the earth.” (The Will to Power, Friedrich Nietzsche)
In the next lecture, the final of this series, we will investigate some of the ideas Nietzsche thought could help one overcome nihilism and thus allow them to create a fulfilling and meaningful life. We will investigate such fascinating topics as Nietzsche’s attempt to ‘revalue suffering’.
What is suffering? I am everything without self. How could those who are in the know be so cruel as to understand the human psyche yet withdraw the tools toward happiness and living a true world or better said, a true self living within a true world.
What has happened to our society is this: The world has been created into two groups. The Religious who believe in “ I am everything without self “ and the other group, which believes, “ I am nothing without self “ but is passive and walks miserable and lost without ever having the knowledge to find self since we are a product of our historical views and experiments and that of todays social views and social experiments.
This is why Social Media is so dangerous. Through social media the self is moved into any direction based on the idea to belong to a movement or group. The passive Nihilist, like a sailboat without a sail will easily sail into the abysss unlike the active Nihilist who will destroy the chains binding his soul to take on the adventure of finding the true world that sets sail toward ‘ I am nothing without self ‘. This person in modern times, is seen as weak or without faith when reality they are weak.
Once again within society the weak control the strong for the weak cannot grow and will fight against the strong. Within all of humanity our teachings and true world teaches us and has taught us that the weak will always control the strong for it takes great strength to dive deep into the depths of self to find the true world. - M
I m not an infj but i love these videos
HaHa You know that it doesn't matter on this channel and soon it will really not matter. Okay Fatema. :) TYWC _ Marty
@@marty_glenn glad i found this channel
Good job fits well
I think so too. Needs another revision. TYWC - Marty
My theory is a bit different... that we... INFJs have lived the most points of view, carry the most practical knowledge of each point of perception of our reality, and as such... once we accept that as fact... and learn to work with it... ie magic... then we get to fully play with the toys god gave us. All with the purpose (Purpose: meaning: a geometrical pattern, set at our time of birth into the 3D - which must be fulfilled or you repeat - AKA karma cycle of rebirth) of eventually accessing the 9th gate, where the act of self-actualization turns you into a god. 🥳
Okay. So you went way left but I gotta say, Shit! you did that with such IQ and professionalism that I cannot do or say anything but...
Well done. You even tossed in religion and I was like: " I like this comment " TYWC - Marty
Marty Glenn once I learned quantum mechanics, I realized religion is science... only, a science most cultures have hidden from the masses. Just ask Tesla - who was one of the authors of the Kabbalah. Everything is consciousness. And light frequencies. So, it’s science... not religion... really. 😃
In Harry Potter they're always in groups ;^)
Hi Acer... Yep. Well said and here you go and the comment section. ;) TYWC - Marty
It's like yer saying I can't call myself a Crone until I'm 90. :P I chose not to have kids so I skipped Mother, but I don't want to be an old Maiden. It may be premature, but I'm declaring myself a Crone, dammit :P
Hi Mau... That chart needs work. I will be addressing it further in the future for sure. TYWC - Marty
I got my calling at 31.
🧙♂️
Good for you. TYWC - Marty
This progression somewhat matches my own experiences in terms of decades (The Fog of 20 - 30 was a rough time man), though I cannot say whether it's specific for INFJs or not.
In fact it seems like the model would fit the personality development progression for people of many different types as most people flounder about in a kind of fog in their 20s, though I guess the discovery of "wrongness" or a sense of self awareness beyond that of a child of their age might be somewhat unique to INFJs.
What do you mean by "wizard" though? Is this akin to the colloquial terms "wise sage" and "alchemist" for INFJs or something completely different?
And why three different levels, what's the distinctions between the three?
I apologize if I missed the explanation, but I can't seem to find it in this video or anywhere else.
Anyway, interesting take on the subject - from what I've seen on the internet, it seems INFJs generally tend to be "late bloomers" in terms of personal happiness and "spiritual prosperity" (for lack of a better term), so it does match those observations.
Hi Kristian... Did you see the video I did on the 1% vs the 99% on wanting to be or not be an IFNJ? What I meant by the 'Wizard' is the 1% fades away completely. Now try to imagine that inner turmoil gone and replaced with complete acceptance...' Wizard '
( I will be expanding on that and developing it more and really diving into what I truly meant. That was just my first attempt and only like an hour or so of time so please excuse me on that )
What would you do with yourself at that point? How would you feel about you? How would you interact with others and enter each relationship? Now, ask yourself a question about how the 1% affects you and how it holds you back or keeps you from being TRULY happy! TYWC - Marty
@@marty_glenn I see, thanks for elaborating on the concept Marty.
Can't wait to take some Hobbits to Mt. Doom. :D ;)
lol - M
Any of you INFJers get ASMR?
Hi Caroline. It bugs the FUCK out of me but I cannot stop listening to it for what the next sound it going to be. TYWC - Marty
oh and by the wa im10 years ahead of your scale but i do not disagreee with your scale. im a son of an infg mother. she had no quams about accepting me as i was. my father as a completely different story
Great comment and I am happy for you. Mom is close and Dad is what it is; that is perfect. TYWC - Marty
What does being a wizard mean? I am confused :/
Basically it is the end result of the life of an INFJ with wisdom and the ability to be happy with how life has gone and accept it. Most wizards walk alone and so do most INFJ's. TYWC - Marty
Yup 100%
Oh... and... wizards might walk alone... but us witches... never-ever do. 🥰
HaHa Nope. That is funny. TYWC - Marty
F ing yes yes yes
Hi Steph... Still needs work but I think it is a great theory. Just needs work.. ;) TYWC - Marty
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😊🏆👍 TYWC - Marty
Can someone please explain to me what he meant by the wizard
HI Abdal... I will explain in a video to come. Would you like to take a guess? TYWC - Marty
Marty Glenn and does this main that when we became wizards we will be alone at the end 🤔
No amd yes. What is means is that the 1% that plagues the INFJ and the level of happiness will be solved. I will be doing more on this later. Promise... TYWC - Marty
I Don't want to B Either 😂...
Huh... I just asked you a question about this topic... strange.
;) - M
What is the wizard??
HI 80's... I am going to do a video on it. The Wizard is.... wait for it. lol - M
@@marty_glenn ok look forward to watching it 😁
;) - M
I don’t understand? When is the last time that I saw an 80 year-old or older walking alone? I suppose that includes wheelchairs? I believe you are onto something, but it needs more flesh on the bones before we’ll know what it is. Every time you say; “Wait for it”, I end up waiting forever.
Hey Walter... I know. I need to put more thought into it but come on... I thought about it for like an hour before I did the video. Okay lets say a few hours from one single comment. I know, there are no excuses but I am also dealing with haters. I am not crying but my word, what is it with people?
Nooooo. When I say ' Wait for it ' ( maybe that is a bad habit of mine ) I give the answer but I think you are looking for the deeper explanations or more of something...? Videos would be so long Walter. What do you suggest? I know you see it and see the problem. TYWC - Marty
Marty Glenn you need someone to help you screen your videos in person. They seem a lot like writing articles. I always need a day or two of word tweaking. Perhaps only put out one or two videos a week. Maybe for some of them you need to reshoot. I don’t know. You know.
Hi Walter. screen your videos in person? What do you mean?
They are only starts? Right? Not with body and finish? Correct?
They would be hours and hours long... Not sure what to do but I will be expanding on each topic. I have the details. It is just a lot of information.
Point well made. ;) TYWC - Marty
Oh so the obsessive language police or criticizing you for your spelling punctuation or grammar, that happens to me too but I don't put up with their crap!!!! This is not school this is not a report, or lab setting this is just TH-cam and people talking!!!! Somebody has a pretty sad life and is picking on you because you're spelling and punctuation and grammar, they need to look in the mirror and make some adjustments in their life and stop nitpicking things that are irrelevant!!!
Yep. I agree. I see both sides but in the end if your head is on straight your comment will always be truth. Appreciate the supportive words. TYWC - Marty