He did do a phenomenal job, his rocking side to side is actually a way of soothing himself in situations where he is normally uncomfortable in, my son does the same thing ❤️
@@dannyfarrow278 i could never do a speech in front of so many people like this, but if i had to i would be doing the same as that kid, and shaking even more. i also think it doesnt have anything to do with being autistic, just nerves
The fact that he said that he can feel really uncomfortable around people but that his sister in law brings him peace is the best compliment she could ever receive 🥺❤️
Groom kept it together until then but started balling as soon as he said those words. Shows how much he cares for his little brother and is happy they all love each other
@@4xmo If a person can be funny, i.e. create and execute a funny speech, then I'd include funny as one of their character descriptors. Just as if someone tends to do nice things or behave kindly toward others, I'd call them nice. What is your weird deal? 😅
I was waiting for his older brother to break down crying, what a great guy to hold it together. Can see the love and compassion in their family, especially between those two brothers.
@@cleonRIP I don't think you can bracket people when it comes to speaking in front of an audience,I've done it twice,hope I never have to do it again.What I would say is in my day,people were branded,backward,stupid,not all there and Thick.So it is better these days
As someone who also has autism and struggles with large crowds. He did it extremely well so well it touched my heart and he didn’t let his worry get to him absolute legend.
probably cause like sucks and seeing something nice in someones life is moving because less is happening in ours the thought of death also becomes stronger as you get older you know
We are living in a rude world these days, and every smile from someone else is just like a gift. When I'm "down" I watch this part and feel a little bit better.
@@lorannamoody7011if we're looking at the same girl (the blonde girl at the far end towards the beginning of the vid whos giggling) idk why you think she's being mocking. she's smiling and laughing like pretty much everyone else.
As the older brother of an autistic brother, I couldn’t help but sob as I watched this. To anybody who knows somebody with autism they are usually the most honest people around. I know he meant every word. What fantastic compliments. Thanks for being an example to all of us Jonah.
So very true...i too have a twin brother who's autistic and after watching Sam, i thought of every autistic person out there and i may not know all of them...but i do know you all have had your own struggles...and im so proud of you... The happiness on his face after everyone applauses is priceless....
"You never looked down on me, you lifted me up, you looked out for me, you always reminded me that being different is a real strength, not a weakness. You were and are patient and kind. You love me just as I am" Damn... this is closer to my life than I can possibly express. I hope my youngest son can say this to my oldest son too one day.
Congratulations to the parents who raised such children. Congratulations to the older brother who became the protector and example to his siblings. And congratulations to the bride who brings peace.
I love how everyone stood up and applauded him at the end. My son has autism and is non verbal. It was so nice to hear this beautiful young man speak so eloquently. I am dying for the day I hear my sons voice and hear mommy for the first time.
Same here, I hate even being in small groups, I tip my hat off to the guy. I wasn't even able to do speeches in front of class as a kid, would choke up to the point I couldn't talk/ breathe properly, or I'd get that overwhelmed I'd start crying. Could tell his pride for his brother over powered the anxiety
@@marccrockett7645 It's not so easy raising an Autistic kid. I at times have to remind myself that his inability to be able to do some house chores aren't his doing but the condition is responsible for this.
@@tjkay1469 If you must know, there are some Autistic children that aren't as excited as other children. By this I mean that chores that ordinarily would excite other children (which is expected of any child of this age) would not have such effects on him. I am encouraging to change.
@@bamidelebamgbopa7219 I have a massive friend group with a couple who have autism, and nobody is excited by house chores, at all.. I think it’s amazing, this speech, if you can’t be bothered to do house chores and you use autism as an excuse that’s disappointing.
Yes its just no less yes its bother me is much the cry’s drips on the floor I know how the is I also have autism. He’s use to be so nervous and I have so much respect for him he’s did it so well. Is a emotional person I had seriously cry’s in my eyes and the funny moment I have laughing ass well
Why? Just because he is autistic? I am autistic. The vast majority of us are more than capable of doing stuff like this. There's no reason to be anymore proud just because they are autistic. This is so ableist and it infantlizes us.
@@lunaloveless7234 I wasn't saying that they should be anymore proud of him because of his autism I am married to someone on the spectrum. I was saying that they should be proud of him for facing his own fears as he himself identified in his speech. I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else that is on the spectrum.
He's adorable to say the least, in every possibile way: using irony as an instrument of coping is telling how many battles he's fought and how strong he's become. Lovely
@@johnfisher8401 some individuals with asd may struggle with figurative language and irony, but high functioning ones are capable of comprehending irony and it seems he does, or at least to me 😉
@@johnfisher8401 What a shameful thing to say😪🤫 . It's pretty clear that you are ignorant. Personally I would be embarrassed if I were you. I kinda wonder if you have low self-esteem or perhaps a bully cause you were bullied, that or there is something spastic that you hate about yourself. Either way human being kind to yourself is being kind to others. Love you love others instead✌
@@johnfisher8401 if your attitude is "who cares anyways" then why watch enough of the video that you even recognized there was irony? just to show the world how and what ugliness looks like? Well if that is the case and you are a decent person then thanks for the literary visual education
@@johnfisher8401 perhaps yes, perhaps nope, I inferred it was his own work and he could use and understand irony because I noticed he was smiling right before saying a funny thing (knowing what it was about to come) and that he was laughing together with others and not after others (which may have meant he was imitating them).. but I agree with you, in the end who cares (although I wonder then why you wrote your first message... I swear, no incitement): this video simply moved me
My Son has Autism too. Seeing their confidence grow is one of the most incredible things. My Son used to not even be able to speak to another child, and while he still hasn't got friends in school, he has overcome a lot and can now make "small talk" with them. Huge congrats to this young man, being so brave and overcoming his struggles and anxiety 💜💜
Teach him how to play chess, If the kid likes it, he should improve by himself growing his convidence. And its another way to learn how to communicate with others people of all kinds and languages. It will also improve his concentration and the results he will get at school.
My son had autism and i love him to bits. Videos like this make me feel a lot better and with the hope that my son will grow just as independent and healthy.
My oldest son is autistic and this made me cry. The definition of bravery is to do something that scares you. You are a brave young man (and clearly the most handsome in the family!)
I am sorry that your son is Autistic and I offer my condolences and sympathy for that. I just curious what you think of the theory that some people have that Autism is caused by Vaccines? Your response would be greatly appreciated. Thank You,.
@@HoldenNY22 you don't have to offer condolences for other people having a son with autism. My son has autism and he is truly a blessing. He teaches me everyday more than I teach him. I heard that theory but in my case, everyone saw something different on my son since he was months old. So... It's a no for me.
Revelation 13:10 King James Version 10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
I’m a man and this brought me to tears. What a strong young man. His strength is so encouraging. Kudos to his supporting family to raise such an inspirational young man.
@@crazyass1234567890 because most men are afraid to show their emotions. It was frowned upon. Now I for one am a 51 year old man and was bawling like a little baby teething watching this
@VVoOꟻF It's hard to say. Clapping and cheering I can manage but if I'm outside and a motorcycle starts up near me or loud music coming from a car I get a little perturbed. When you're autistic the older you get, the less of an effect loud noises have on you. Bring ina crowded environment is still hard though
@@koltonhavas6724 hi, my son is 9 and has autism. He used to have to leave the weekly family assembly at school, where merits were handed out, because of all the clapping and cheering. I’ve often wondered if things like this would get easier for him as he gets older. Thanks for sharing. My son is also quite terrified of babies and toddlers because he associates them with crying. If he sees someone crying, he says himself that it starts a “chain reaction” and he just can’t help but cry himself. He gets so distressed when it happens. I hope this is also something that he can learn to cope with as he gets older. 😊
My son is 23 and has autism. He’s on the higher functioning side of the spectrum, like this young man. This fact that he can do this is amazing. My son was 20 before he told me he loved me without me saying it first. So the fact that he is able to stand up in front of people and say this, shows how amazing he is
My grandson is 5 and has autism and we are thinking he is on the higher end of the spectrum as well! He doesn’t put words together as of yet but he does have a big vocabulary! His mother and of course I can’t wait til he says those three precious words that many throw around carelessly!
I am sorry that your son is Autistic and I offer my condolences and sympathy for that. I just curious what you think of the theory that some people have that Autism is caused by Vaccines? Your response would be greatly appreciated. Thank You,.
@@ldlink3935 no it doesn't, he was offering a compliment that shows his approval, that he gets along well with her. That she seems to understand him and accept him, which is surely important to the brother. Sometimes, some autistic people feel like they need to try and "mask" when they're around strangers to fit in, but this was a way of saying that she is a person he can exist comfortably around and be himself. With my experience, people with autism are some of the most genuine in their words, and I think he was saying everything in the kindest, more heartfelt way possible to honor his brother's day. There were no other intentions behind his words
Hello! Sister to an autistic brother here. I work with special needs adults all the time and they rarely seem to have trouble comprehending jokes. They do, however, struggle with social cues. Just wanted to clear that up, have a nice day!
Went from laughing to crying and back to laughing, well done man, you did so well. So happy for your family on such a special day and man you were like the Sun
@@daveduck4315 most people, with or without Autism, don't bring anything to society, just a handful of scientists, maybe couple of surgeons do, etc. Both me and you probably wont contribute in any way as well, so I suggest rethinking about reality a bit more before typing.
@@nikolastarcevic5866 I'm merly pointing out that just cos this young man was stood awkwardly and hands shaking doesn't make him an amazing person,I would probably be the same as he if speaking Infront of a bathing,people mean well by say thinks like that,but it's a condosending TBH
@@daveduck4315 Speaking in front of hundreds of people is a big accomplishment and most people could not do it. At least admire the kids guts. I would love to see you do get on stage and do something better than this kid, otherwise your opinion does not matter.
@@comet6740 my opinion matters to me,I've been best man twice,and hated doing it,your comment merley backs up my point, doesn't matter if your on the autism spectrum or not,it's hard for for a large amount of people
I'm an 28 year old autistic guy and I could easily sense his stress and sense the place he was coming from with every single word he spoke, which was from the heart. Even the choice of words and stuff is exactly like how I would have done it too. My attentiveness went straight to his shaking and pacing and I instantly knew what he was going through but he had a loving and supportive upbringing that it counters (positively) the things he goes through on a daily basis to this day!
@@sanjaykarthik6180 They can obviously "improve" their situation whether it be communicating or levels of anxiety but yep the autism will not go away it is part of them
@@sanjaykarthik6180 as a self diagnosed aspie (working on maybe getting a diagnosis), you can improve on what you personally find difficult eg social situations, our individual difficulties are different. but social development doesn’t just develop naturally at the same pace as everyone else. But yeah our brains are physically less developed in certain areas I think which is why we are not as socially developed as neurotypicals the same age as us. It’s one of the hardest things to live with imo in a society that revolves a lot around social communication but it’s ok. Just my opinion pls don’t take it as science
Watching this makes me feel proud as I’m autistic and did a speech for my mum and stepdad’s wedding and there wasn’t a dry eye in the room and I can’t be any prouder of myself for it, I was crying after as I needed a moment to myself
Bless you. Well done. Any speech is hard for most people but you overcame any fears to do what am I sure was a great speech to those you love. Stay well and stay safe. And thank you for sharing your story.
A Milestone for you and your Beloved, Oliver! 🙌 I have some Aspie Characteristics and I was "forced" by the circumstances in life to go out of "my shell". It's been an up-and-down journey and I wish others wouldn't have to suffer for being belittled. Keep being Strong & remain United with Vulnerable People! Take it as "kind of a Mission". Be Resourceful to others. Be the Change you want to see made. Just in case if you'd like to listen/watch "Oldies" Music Vid's (especially from 80's), I created some time ago a PlayList: Music (assorted) Keep Safe (May 12 2023, Argentina) #LetsSupportVictimsofBullying #LetsNotNaturalizeBullying
you should be proud of yourself!! and i’ll bet your parents were proud of you too. that took a lot of courage and strength, and you did it. commanding the attention of an audience and keeping it is such an incredible thing. i’ll bet it you deserved it
That was beautiful. He was obviously nervous but he did a lot better than a lot of Best Man speeches. He’d practiced for that. Jonah, Maddie, Leo and Clair have a great brother.
There are not enough superlatives to describe this young man and his family. Incredible speech given by an amazing young man... If this moment does not tug at your heart strings, you are one callous SOB, that I can tell you.
As someone autistic I feel so full watching this, i also saw in his hand that he was anxious and trembling tremendously but he kept going even when ppl started clapping wich can be really difficult for an autistic person cuz some are really sensitive to sound (i am ).I am proud of you !!
This is probably one of the best wedding speeches I’ve ever heard. I laughed and cried. I could tell this young man has always felt love by his big brother and rest of the family.
Hats off to the little brother delivering a heart felt speech against his fears with autism .You can sense the strong bond and love between then and yep I've shed a tear lol.Fantastic job done and thank you this has made my day.
I hope he understands how much joy he brought to his brother, his new sister and law, and the millions of people who have watched this clip. No wonder he was homecoming king...dude is a walking source of sunshine.
Well done! I have a ten year old autistic nephew. And yes; being different is a strength! He's intelligent in school, and is now learning to play the sax!
Is he Autistic or does he have more Aspberger's. I am not tht knowledable about Autism, but I heard that Aspberger's is now considered part of the Autism Spectrum.
If you dislike this... Go see a doctor. Or throw away your phone, laptop, desktop or anything else that can stream TH-cam. Amazing content. Wonderful. Faith in humanity restord!
Definitely had me in tears if only for his brother's reaction. My youngest son is high functioning autistic, but it took 16 years for us to finally have him evaluated and diagnosed because he doesn't fit with the "typical" autistic child. He is EXTREMELY social and we discovered when he was 15 that theater is his jam. He's wanted to be a film maker since he was very young, but we found out he's an amazing actor who can memorize with ease and never gets stage fright. Does he have other issues due to his autism? Yes. He can still get overwhelmed. He decided on his own to go get counseling (super proud of him for that). He's getting A's at the community college and is involved in their theater program. And he's one of the sweetest and most compassionate people I've ever known.
It's a spectrum disorder, so they always show in different ways. One of my best mates is on the spectrum, he's a neuroscientist, married, with kids. He's just a real character, which is why we all love him.
it must mean so much to the older brother knowing how scared that kid is of public speaking, but he did it for him anyway and made a really meaningful and loving speech.
gosh this hits deep as I have a younger brother who is autistic but I wasn't the older brother I should've been (too focused on myself, sports, girls and fitting in)...I carry that every day and own it but the pain is always there. We aren't close today but we do talk more and hopefully one day he forgives me so I can forgive myself...I love you Brother!
Loving someone with special needs like they deserve can be so hard when you're young and you have your own needs. It's never too late though and there's nothing in the world like being loved by them and getting to see a bit of the world the way they do. Praying your bond only grows. 🙏
This brought me to tears. I had a brother Ricky (R.I.P.) that NEVER treated me as being different due to my having Polio. He was my strength. He taught me that if I thought of myself as handicapped I would be crippling myself more than the Polio ever had. Your brother sounds like my brother. Your speech was awesome. Congratulations to your brother and wife.
You are so very lucky to have had the brother you had! I’m so very sorry to hear of his passing. I’m sure he’s looking at you, rooting for you to be your best. Seems like he succeeded in his efforts. He SURPASSED them. Best of luck to you and yours. Love & Light from Miami Shores🦚 Stay safe mate✌🏼🌎
This is the best heartfelt best man's speech I've ever heard. And what a fantastic loving family, but most of all what a bunch of great loving brothers. Well done Sam, well done!
Sobbing. My daughter is autistic and still very young, only 3 but pretty much non-verbal. The way her big sister sticks up for her even if it’s just me telling my younger daughter that it’s bed time, is so comforting to me. I really hope they grow up to have a relationship like this. The way the presence of his brother and sister in law comfort him is so sweet.
His hands are shaking and the way he's rocking side to side.... his anxiety is visible. He did he fantastic job. Just phenomenal.
He did do a phenomenal job, his rocking side to side is actually a way of soothing himself in situations where he is normally uncomfortable in, my son does the same thing ❤️
Honestly, I am not autistic and I would do this giving a speech. Just nerves, doesn’t really have anything to do with being autistic in my opinion
@@dannyfarrow278 you brought up autism mate
@@dannyfarrow278 i could never do a speech in front of so many people like this, but if i had to i would be doing the same as that kid, and shaking even more. i also think it doesnt have anything to do with being autistic, just nerves
@@cazbutterfly4229 people are saying the rocking is something people with autism do to soothe
I'm not autistic and I could never give a speech as confident, funny and honest as this man.
I am autistic and I'm better than most people at public speaking. Autistic people aren't automatically limited in this field.
It was a compliment Rachel not a criticism
@@jibberjabber2957 i know, but saying “I’m not autistic” before the compliment implies that it wouldn’t be remarkable were he not autistic
@@jibberjabber2957 😭😭
factssss
The fact that he said that he can feel really uncomfortable around people but that his sister in law brings him peace is the best compliment she could ever receive 🥺❤️
IKR LIKE 😭😭😭
Groom kept it together until then but started balling as soon as he said those words.
Shows how much he cares for his little brother and is happy they all love each other
@@dobelweg7563 ok Nazi Germany
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Such a lovely compliment to his brother and his sis in law...and what a lovely young man he is.
I love him. He's brilliant and positively hilarious. What a wonderful soul. This is so touching! This brought a tear to my eyes.
his speech was halirious, not him
@@4xmo If a person can be funny, i.e. create and execute a funny speech, then I'd include funny as one of their character descriptors. Just as if someone tends to do nice things or behave kindly toward others, I'd call them nice. What is your weird deal? 😅
@@elizabethhoover4672 let him hate on an innocent young guy. :)
you get wiser
@@4xmo Every thread has at least one douchebag. Congrats to you for winning the prize in this thread.
The way the groom is staring at his little brother with so much pride 😭
I was waiting for his older brother to break down crying, what a great guy to hold it together. Can see the love and compassion in their family, especially between those two brothers.
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@@Outdoorsguy1212 sad fool
@@Outdoorsguy1212 what's up your ass buddy?
I’m crying enough for all of us ! ❤️😭❤️
The definition of sense of duty. Anxious but willing to get through his speech. Great guy.
I agree! He spoke slowly, when most would be stuttering and speeding through it! I did in my own best man speech 🤦🏾♂️
@@cleonRIP I don't think you can bracket people when it comes to speaking in front of an audience,I've done it twice,hope I never have to do it again.What I would say is in my day,people were branded,backward,stupid,not all there and Thick.So it is better these days
@@daveduck4315 don't worry about what I bracket, Sport
they say bravery is actually fear with prayers already said😊
Even though he was physically shaking at the idea of doing this, his voice never wavered. This was so great to see!
It did
He is doing something called Stimming, it helps him regulate himself, but yest he's shaking too
I would be shaking like a leaf on a tree bud
@@cassatakissana9382 me too wouldn’t have handled it as well. I would have got my word mixed up
Ive had to do this twice in my life, he did a great job
As someone who also has autism and struggles with large crowds. He did it extremely well so well it touched my heart and he didn’t let his worry get to him absolute legend.
I got it to
Me too!
How did you manage to make this about yourself?
Shut up @@TheStarvingEntrepreneur
Why is it the older I get the more things like this make me shed a tear? That was some amazing amount of love right there.
because you’re maturing and realizing what life is really about. LOVE ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m asking the same thing now I’m 29
probably cause like sucks and seeing something nice in someones life is moving because less is happening in ours
the thought of death also becomes stronger as you get older you know
We are living in a rude world these days, and every smile from someone else is just like a gift. When I'm "down" I watch this part and feel a little bit better.
Same here, just about crying 20 seconds in
The way his sister-in-law cried from the very start of his speech.. she loves him just as much
Did you see the snotty gal a few seats down. Mocking. The camera left her quickly.
@@lorannamoody7011where?
@@r0uleetee I don’t remember now but I watched the vid 3 times to make sure I was right. If it was you and I made a mistake. Sorry 😁
@@lorannamoody7011if we're looking at the same girl (the blonde girl at the far end towards the beginning of the vid whos giggling) idk why you think she's being mocking. she's smiling and laughing like pretty much everyone else.
As the older brother of an autistic brother, I couldn’t help but sob as I watched this. To anybody who knows somebody with autism they are usually the most honest people around. I know he meant every word. What fantastic compliments. Thanks for being an example to all of us Jonah.
Thats so true i've got a little brother who got autistic too and i really cried when i saw that ...
All of my siblings and me are autistic, I totally agree.
I am autistic and so is my son! I can tell you now that would have been so hard for him to do! He’s absolutely smashed that and an inspiration to me
i have autism i am 15
So very true...i too have a twin brother who's autistic and after watching Sam, i thought of every autistic person out there and i may not know all of them...but i do know you all have had your own struggles...and im so proud of you... The happiness on his face after everyone applauses is priceless....
You can see how nervous he is with him shaking the paper, but he still pulled through with an amazing speech
It's the huge crowd, thats what it is.
"You are a great soccer player, scoring 100 goals, or whatever."
Amazing line
😂😂
Football
@@G_unit25 give it up loser.
😀😁😀 whatever.
@@G_unit25 who cares
The groom's expression of joy & pride for his baby brother is the mother of all tear jerkers!
"You never looked down on me, you lifted me up, you looked out for me, you always reminded me that being different is a real strength, not a weakness. You were and are patient and kind. You love me just as I am" Damn... this is closer to my life than I can possibly express. I hope my youngest son can say this to my oldest son too one day.
Me too
Me three 💓
I swear autistic people are freaking smart
@@Christina1Love 4 me
I hope you all can 😭❤️🥰
Congratulations to the parents who raised such children. Congratulations to the older brother who became the protector and example to his siblings. And congratulations to the bride who brings peace.
I love how everyone stood up and applauded him at the end. My son has autism and is non verbal. It was so nice to hear this beautiful young man speak so eloquently. I am dying for the day I hear my sons voice and hear mommy for the first time.
I pray that you get to hear your son speak in the near future.. Big hugs
You have alot to look forward to sweetie. He will teach you a lot as he grows. Cherish each day. Sending love and strength.❤️🙏
It can happen ! Believe me it can! My experience tells me so.
Focus on his strengths
Sending my prayers..I am also in the same wheel
I'm a 30 year old autistic guy, I'm proud of this young man!!
Same here, I hate even being in small groups, I tip my hat off to the guy. I wasn't even able to do speeches in front of class as a kid, would choke up to the point I couldn't talk/ breathe properly, or I'd get that overwhelmed I'd start crying. Could tell his pride for his brother over powered the anxiety
@@marccrockett7645 It's not so easy raising an Autistic kid. I at times have to remind myself that his inability to be able to do some house chores aren't his doing but the condition is responsible for this.
@@bamidelebamgbopa7219 how can autism stop someone doing house chores? That’s a poor excuse
@@tjkay1469 If you must know, there are some Autistic children that aren't as excited as other children. By this I mean that chores that ordinarily would excite other children (which is expected of any child of this age) would not have such effects on him.
I am encouraging to change.
@@bamidelebamgbopa7219 I have a massive friend group with a couple who have autism, and nobody is excited by house chores, at all.. I think it’s amazing, this speech, if you can’t be bothered to do house chores and you use autism as an excuse that’s disappointing.
“His favorite brother because he’s known him longer.” What loving honest words. Such a beautiful speech! Made me laugh and cry.
Lies again? Allah Tuhan
Yes its just no less yes its bother me is much the cry’s drips on the floor I know how the is I also have autism. He’s use to be so nervous and I have so much respect for him he’s did it so well. Is a emotional person I had seriously cry’s in my eyes and the funny moment I have laughing ass well
Great job, brother! What a memory you have given your new sister.
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"Why do we need video at our wedding?" This. This is why. And as a wedding filmmaker, I can say this will NEVER get old!
I totally agree. A video editor lost my one and only wedding video copy. It feels like a part of my life lost.
I LOVE watching wedding videos, especially speeches! Ones like these just make them even sweeter🥰
Frfr💯!!! Truth 😊
You can say that, but wait until you film a Chief Keef music video. much better bro
@@denzmo1139 😂
The way the groom Jonah looks at his brother when he's speaking... so much love there. How touching! Well I am a damn mess ❤❤
Me too
Me three!🥲😊
Omg how beautiful is this 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
Me 4.
Me too 😭
the bride and groom crying before be even got to the sweet parts just proves that this is the best wedding gift that they got
You can see the love between Brothers here. What a beautiful moment in both of their lives.
As a mom who has a son with autism, this had me in tears. What an incredible brotherly bond ❤️
On the Spectrum as well, and this really hits every emotion
@@jonathanroberts6434 ❤️
You're doing an amazing job. Sending love and light to you mummy.🤗🌸🤗
@@thutonnena3092 this 🥺❤️
Same thing, send all my support and love for all the parents who has child with autism
“You give me peace” is the best compliment ever
Scared of people, uncomfortable with speeches and gave the best best man speech ever!! Even I teared up
Fantastic emotional intelligence.
me too!
HONESTLY! It really was THE BEST best man speech I ever heard!
Swaying nervously from foot to foot, hand shaking, but with sincerity and great courage- what a man!
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
He's so brave. You can tell he's anxious and scared, but he powered through.
He did great, didn’t he?!?
That's probably because of his brother.
Love his brutal honesty and comedic timing with his brother. His family must be so incredibly proud of him
Why? Just because he is autistic? I am autistic. The vast majority of us are more than capable of doing stuff like this. There's no reason to be anymore proud just because they are autistic. This is so ableist and it infantlizes us.
@@lunaloveless7234 I wasn't saying that they should be anymore proud of him because of his autism I am married to someone on the spectrum. I was saying that they should be proud of him for facing his own fears as he himself identified in his speech. I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else that is on the spectrum.
The courage it took for the "best looking Waldron"to stand up and make that speech was amazing,but he was surrounded by love and that helped him.
Hi Catherine,how are you doing and your family,how is the weather condition over there?
This kid has been loved dearly throughout his life. THIS is what REAL FAMILY LOVE looks like. THIS IS WHAT REAL FAMILY LOVE DOES FOR A HUMAN.🙏
Hands down my absolute favourite best man speech on entire TH-cam. This young man wasn’t born to fit in, he was born to stand out. ❤️❤️❤️
Holly. Beautiful sentiment. Thank you
Oh that is such a lovely thing to day, but oh so true 💖
What a wonderful way to put it, gave me goosebumps :)
I've worked with children & adults on the spectrum for almost 30 years, and your comment says it all!
Yes ☺
this kid just took me on a roller coaster ride of emotions man, from laughing so hard, to cballing my eyes out. wish him the best
I haven't cried, yet my throat is sore
He's adorable to say the least, in every possibile way: using irony as an instrument of coping is telling how many battles he's fought and how strong he's become. Lovely
@@johnfisher8401 some individuals with asd may struggle with figurative language and irony, but high functioning ones are capable of comprehending irony and it seems he does, or at least to me 😉
Why make a comment like that?
@@johnfisher8401
What a shameful thing to say😪🤫 . It's pretty clear that you are ignorant. Personally I would be embarrassed if I were you.
I kinda wonder if you have low self-esteem or perhaps a bully cause you were bullied, that or there is something spastic that you hate about yourself. Either way human being kind to yourself is being kind to others. Love you love others instead✌
@@johnfisher8401 if your attitude is "who cares anyways" then why watch enough of the video that you even recognized there was irony? just to show the world how and what ugliness looks like? Well if that is the case and you are a decent person then thanks for the literary visual education
@@johnfisher8401 perhaps yes, perhaps nope, I inferred it was his own work and he could use and understand irony because I noticed he was smiling right before saying a funny thing (knowing what it was about to come) and that he was laughing together with others and not after others (which may have meant he was imitating them).. but I agree with you, in the end who cares (although I wonder then why you wrote your first message... I swear, no incitement): this video simply moved me
What a sweet kid. Can feel the brothers love.
My Son has Autism too. Seeing their confidence grow is one of the most incredible things. My Son used to not even be able to speak to another child, and while he still hasn't got friends in school, he has overcome a lot and can now make "small talk" with them. Huge congrats to this young man, being so brave and overcoming his struggles and anxiety 💜💜
Teach him how to play chess, If the kid likes it, he should improve by himself growing his convidence. And its another way to learn how to communicate with others people of all kinds and languages. It will also improve his concentration and the results he will get at school.
@@jaapbleekveld5068 agreed
@@jaapbleekveld5068 Agreed, it's important that children with Autism find a community outside of school
He is coming enjoy watching him grow
My son had autism and i love him to bits. Videos like this make me feel a lot better and with the hope that my son will grow just as independent and healthy.
My oldest son is autistic and this made me cry. The definition of bravery is to do something that scares you. You are a brave young man (and clearly the most handsome in the family!)
I am sorry that your son is Autistic and I offer my condolences and sympathy for that. I just curious what you think of the theory that some people have that Autism is caused by Vaccines? Your response would be greatly appreciated. Thank You,.
@@HoldenNY22 you don't have to offer condolences for other people having a son with autism. My son has autism and he is truly a blessing. He teaches me everyday more than I teach him. I heard that theory but in my case, everyone saw something different on my son since he was months old. So... It's a no for me.
@@floppyferrucci Thank You for your response. I wish and your son The Best.
My son is also autistic and when I watched this I started crying. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Also he teaches me new things everyday and I love him to the moon and back
My son is autistic and this made me cry.
Did I last 10 seconds without crying? No, no I did not. This was awesome.
Revelation 13:10
King James Version
10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
@@TheKendra1423 Only KJV!
I didn't last either!!!😁😪
tribore?
I got to about 20 because I’m a tough guy.
I didn't just tear up, I almost sobbed. What an amazing speech, full of humour, honesty, and most importantly, love ❤️
I can't see anything but my tears - so powerful
Oh Luke. 😘
Sending you hugs luke
I’m a man and this brought me to tears. What a strong young man. His strength is so encouraging. Kudos to his supporting family to raise such an inspirational young man.
What does being a man have anything to do with the ability to cry
Absolutely!
This man is a legend.
Boys dont cry. But men do.
@@crazyass1234567890 because most men are afraid to show their emotions. It was frowned upon. Now I for one am a 51 year old man and was bawling like a little baby teething watching this
I'm autistic and this is extraordinary. It's so hard talking in public and for him to speak in front of that many people is awesome
You can do it to man! I believe in you.
@VVoOꟻF It's hard to say. Clapping and cheering I can manage but if I'm outside and a motorcycle starts up near me or loud music coming from a car I get a little perturbed. When you're autistic the older you get, the less of an effect loud noises have on you. Bring ina crowded environment is still hard though
@VVoOꟻF no problem. I enjoy people asking. It brings more awareness to us
@@ObzTicle I appreciate the encouragement. Take as much as I can
@@koltonhavas6724 hi, my son is 9 and has autism. He used to have to leave the weekly family assembly at school, where merits were handed out, because of all the clapping and cheering. I’ve often wondered if things like this would get easier for him as he gets older. Thanks for sharing.
My son is also quite terrified of babies and toddlers because he associates them with crying. If he sees someone crying, he says himself that it starts a “chain reaction” and he just can’t help but cry himself. He gets so distressed when it happens. I hope this is also something that he can learn to cope with as he gets older. 😊
"Maddie, you bring me peace. Welcome to our sweet, nutty family." made me tear up. His brother looks at him with so much love.
This speech says so much about that entire family...the love kindness and respect they clearly have for each other just shines through this young man.
My son is 23 and has autism. He’s on the higher functioning side of the spectrum, like this young man. This fact that he can do this is amazing. My son was 20 before he told me he loved me without me saying it first. So the fact that he is able to stand up in front of people and say this, shows how amazing he is
❤
My grandson is 5 and has autism and we are thinking he is on the higher end of the spectrum as well! He doesn’t put words together as of yet but he does have a big vocabulary! His mother and of course I can’t wait til he says those three precious words that many throw around carelessly!
I am sorry that your son is Autistic and I offer my condolences and sympathy for that. I just curious what you think of the theory that some people have that Autism is caused by Vaccines? Your response would be greatly appreciated. Thank You,.
My daughter is almost 8 and she is autistic. This makes me so hopeful for her future. This is amazing! I love this ❤️❤️
@@HoldenNY22 really dude didn’t you ask this question already and get it answered?? It’s not the time or place.
The way he's terribly trembling and when he says Maddie gives him peace....I only hope my kids love each other this much one day
@@ldlink3935 no it doesn't, he was offering a compliment that shows his approval, that he gets along well with her. That she seems to understand him and accept him, which is surely important to the brother. Sometimes, some autistic people feel like they need to try and "mask" when they're around strangers to fit in, but this was a way of saying that she is a person he can exist comfortably around and be himself. With my experience, people with autism are some of the most genuine in their words, and I think he was saying everything in the kindest, more heartfelt way possible to honor his brother's day. There were no other intentions behind his words
@@deb.almoli well said.
Shaking the entire time, yet delivered one of the best best man speeches I’ve ever heard. Cheers mate, you should be a public speaker.
Dont sugar coat it
@@koophuisNdbaa
"You give me peace" what an amazing compliment ❤
What a beautiful soul, a real credit to himself, his family and friends. And an inspiration to people with Autism....... he shines.
He is more than an inspiration to people with autism. He is an inspiration to all.
This is beautiful.
You can see Jonah's love for his brother in his face. That love is a true gift for both of them as well as their friends and family.
No one mentions how sweet it is to see Jonah's emotional connection to his brother. It's so powerful.
This young man humbles me. An outstanding Best Man’s speech.
His comment about his future sister-in-law is exactly why he is marrying her. This definitely made me shed a tear, beautiful.
He’s marrying her because her head game is on point. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@@NicoleKe yikes. Grow up
@@NicoleKe why do you have two first names lel
The groom is a wonderful person. His expressions and emotions make this a very special video.
@@Outdoorsguy1212 a soy boy with a wife? Makes perfect sense
@@jackkelly8226 don't feed the trolls
I love that put jokes in his speech even though he probably has a hard time understanding jokes. Much love brother.
Hello! Sister to an autistic brother here. I work with special needs adults all the time and they rarely seem to have trouble comprehending jokes. They do, however, struggle with social cues. Just wanted to clear that up, have a nice day!
He definitely understands the jokes if he wrote them in the speech
he looks so anxious, but when everyone smiles and laughs, he smiles which makes me smile :) his smile is contagious 😌
My brother died at the age of 4 with autism, and this just had me in tears, especially when I think of what would life be like, if he was still there.
My sister died at 6 and she had autism, I relate completely ❤️
So SORRY I AM SURE HE WATCHES OVER YOU EVERYDAY; BLESSINGS
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad he was in your life
May I ask what autism has to do with it?
@@smallapples1205 Nothing but they wanted to tell the world
Went from laughing to crying and back to laughing, well done man, you did so well. So happy for your family on such a special day and man you were like the Sun
I'm not crying....YOU'RE CRYING! That was outstanding. What a wonderful young man. ❤
I love that his hands are visibly shaking and his standing posture is unbalanced, shows he is human with amazing qualities.
@@daveduck4315 most people, with or without Autism, don't bring anything to society, just a handful of scientists, maybe couple of surgeons do, etc. Both me and you probably wont contribute in any way as well, so I suggest rethinking about reality a bit more before typing.
@@daveduck4315 Also, how does ones human qualities get disregarded with being Autistic, please explain?
@@nikolastarcevic5866 I'm merly pointing out that just cos this young man was stood awkwardly and hands shaking doesn't make him an amazing person,I would probably be the same as he if speaking Infront of a bathing,people mean well by say thinks like that,but it's a condosending TBH
@@daveduck4315 Speaking in front of hundreds of people is a big accomplishment and most people could not do it. At least admire the kids guts. I would love to see you do get on stage and do something better than this kid, otherwise your opinion does not matter.
@@comet6740 my opinion matters to me,I've been best man twice,and hated doing it,your comment merley backs up my point, doesn't matter if your on the autism spectrum or not,it's hard for for a large amount of people
Who's cutting onions? That was AWESOME. Blessings to the entire family.
Hello Vivian
@@markaralvin5545 Hi!
@@viviandowning9923 Nice to meet you where are you from?
@@markaralvin5545 Chicago and You?
@@viviandowning9923 Atlanta Georgia. Are you married?
I'm an 28 year old autistic guy and I could easily sense his stress and sense the place he was coming from with every single word he spoke, which was from the heart. Even the choice of words and stuff is exactly like how I would have done it too. My attentiveness went straight to his shaking and pacing and I instantly knew what he was going through but he had a loving and supportive upbringing that it counters (positively) the things he goes through on a daily basis to this day!
Love your analysis! Hope you are well and have a wonderful weekend! Thanks for your insights
No offense or anything, I’m very curious. Do autistic people get over autism or do they just mature a little bit slower. Sorry if this is offense.
@@sanjaykarthik6180 It's something they are born into and live with their entire lives.
@@sanjaykarthik6180 They can obviously "improve" their situation whether it be communicating or levels of anxiety but yep the autism will not go away it is part of them
@@sanjaykarthik6180 as a self diagnosed aspie (working on maybe getting a diagnosis), you can improve on what you personally find difficult eg social situations, our individual difficulties are different. but social development doesn’t just develop naturally at the same pace as everyone else. But yeah our brains are physically less developed in certain areas I think which is why we are not as socially developed as neurotypicals the same age as us. It’s one of the hardest things to live with imo in a society that revolves a lot around social communication but it’s ok. Just my opinion pls don’t take it as science
She gives him Peace. How wonderful that someone would say that about you. She is a keeper for sure!!
What a brave young man. For the love of his brother, he did what he’s most afraid of. 💜
Watching this makes me feel proud as I’m autistic and did a speech for my mum and stepdad’s wedding and there wasn’t a dry eye in the room and I can’t be any prouder of myself for it, I was crying after as I needed a moment to myself
Bless you. Well done. Any speech is hard for most people but you overcame any fears to do what am I sure was a great speech to those you love. Stay well and stay safe. And thank you for sharing your story.
❤️ My boys are autistic and I wouldn't have them any other way. ❤️
Keep going Oliver and take care of yourself! 😀
A Milestone for you and your Beloved, Oliver! 🙌
I have some Aspie Characteristics and I was "forced" by the circumstances in life to go out of "my shell". It's been an
up-and-down journey and I wish others wouldn't have to suffer for being belittled.
Keep being Strong & remain United with Vulnerable People!
Take it as "kind of a Mission".
Be Resourceful to others.
Be the Change you want to see made.
Just in case if you'd like to listen/watch "Oldies" Music Vid's (especially from 80's), I created some time ago a PlayList:
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#LetsSupportVictimsofBullying
#LetsNotNaturalizeBullying
you should be proud of yourself!! and i’ll bet your parents were proud of you too. that took a lot of courage and strength, and you did it. commanding the attention of an audience and keeping it is such an incredible thing. i’ll bet it you deserved it
That was beautiful. He was obviously nervous but he did a lot better than a lot of Best Man speeches. He’d practiced for that. Jonah, Maddie, Leo and Clair have a great brother.
This is how people should treat each other period. Kudos 🎉
He just nailed it. Pace, delivery, humour and love, made his whole family proud - top job well done Sam.
As an autism mom I know how unbelievable this was, what a special moment for the family! I need a box of tissues
You mean a mom of an autistic child?
Little brother is an absolute legend. 10 out of 10 that was amazing.
Well done that man for standing up and giving such a moving speech to so many.
There are not enough superlatives to describe this young man and his family. Incredible speech given by an amazing young man... If this moment does not tug at your heart strings, you are one callous SOB, that I can tell you.
This moment did not tug on my heart strings. I may need to find more videos for my heart to feel something.
This didnt tug on my hear strings. But i am not a callous SOB, that i can tell you.
HB if im completely balling my eyes out :'(
There's no need to insult people like that. Some individuals naturally have harder hearts and they can't control it
I am crying my eyes out... the big brother has a heart of gold and it shows.
I laughed and cried, what a testament to that whole family!
As someone autistic I feel so full watching this, i also saw in his hand that he was anxious and trembling tremendously but he kept going even when ppl started clapping wich can be really difficult for an autistic person cuz some are really sensitive to sound (i am ).I am proud of you !!
Being a mother of a high-functioning autism child this speech made my Heart smile.!
This is probably one of the best wedding speeches I’ve ever heard. I laughed and cried. I could tell this young man has always felt love by his big brother and rest of the family.
Hats off to the little brother delivering a heart felt speech against his fears with autism .You can sense the strong bond and love between then and yep I've shed a tear lol.Fantastic job done and thank you this has made my day.
I hope he understands how much joy he brought to his brother, his new sister and law, and the millions of people who have watched this clip. No wonder he was homecoming king...dude is a walking source of sunshine.
Well done! I have a ten year old autistic nephew. And yes; being different is a strength! He's intelligent in school, and is now learning to play the sax!
Hello Diane
Is he Autistic or does he have more Aspberger's. I am not tht knowledable about Autism, but I heard that Aspberger's is now considered part of the Autism Spectrum.
One of THE BEST 'Best man's ' speeches I've ever hea!!
Hello how are you doing?
The way the groom is admired by his bro speaks volumes about the grooms character. That’s beautiful!!!
So sweet, very emotional. Very proud of this man
I lost a tear 💧can we get to know each other and share thoughts?
This is the absolute best wedding speech I've ever heard (and I'm a preacher's daughter who has been to many many weddings in my day).
Couldn't help but cry. What a beautiful family
Girl me too 😭
If you dislike this... Go see a doctor. Or throw away your phone, laptop, desktop or anything else that can stream TH-cam. Amazing content. Wonderful. Faith in humanity restord!
As an oldest brother this had me bawling.
A speech straight from the heart! Best wedding gift ever.
The big brother started crying immediately 😭 what a blessing ❤️
Definitely had me in tears if only for his brother's reaction. My youngest son is high functioning autistic, but it took 16 years for us to finally have him evaluated and diagnosed because he doesn't fit with the "typical" autistic child. He is EXTREMELY social and we discovered when he was 15 that theater is his jam. He's wanted to be a film maker since he was very young, but we found out he's an amazing actor who can memorize with ease and never gets stage fright. Does he have other issues due to his autism? Yes. He can still get overwhelmed. He decided on his own to go get counseling (super proud of him for that). He's getting A's at the community college and is involved in their theater program. And he's one of the sweetest and most compassionate people I've ever known.
Your son seems to be a wonderful person. I wish him the very best! I know he will do great things.
@@yourmajestytheinternetuser brother?? she said son
@@Alzoryne Thank you for pointing out, I was sleepy when I wrote this comment.
my friends little brother is also on the spectrum & thoroughly enjoys theater.
It's a spectrum disorder, so they always show in different ways. One of my best mates is on the spectrum, he's a neuroscientist, married, with kids. He's just a real character, which is why we all love him.
it must mean so much to the older brother knowing how scared that kid is of public speaking, but he did it for him anyway and made a really meaningful and loving speech.
gosh this hits deep as I have a younger brother who is autistic but I wasn't the older brother I should've been (too focused on myself, sports, girls and fitting in)...I carry that every day and own it but the pain is always there. We aren't close today but we do talk more and hopefully one day he forgives me so I can forgive myself...I love you Brother!
Never to late to make things right keep at it man.
Please keep reaching out to him. I'm sure it means alot
Loving someone with special needs like they deserve can be so hard when you're young and you have your own needs. It's never too late though and there's nothing in the world like being loved by them and getting to see a bit of the world the way they do. Praying your bond only grows. 🙏
Go on lad
Same for me I have an autistic younger brother and I carry the fact that I am still to focused on myself everyday too.
OMG. I’ve never cried at a Best Man speech. This is so lovingly sincere.
This brought me to tears. I had a brother Ricky (R.I.P.) that NEVER treated me as being different due to my having Polio. He was my strength. He taught me that if I thought of myself as handicapped I would be crippling myself more than the Polio ever had. Your brother sounds like my brother.
Your speech was awesome. Congratulations to your brother and wife.
Hello Sheila
How are you doing today?
You are so very lucky to have had the brother you had!
I’m so very sorry to hear of his passing.
I’m sure he’s looking at you, rooting for you to be your best.
Seems like he succeeded in his efforts.
He SURPASSED them.
Best of luck to you and yours.
Love & Light from Miami Shores🦚
Stay safe mate✌🏼🌎
That was beautiful what he did for his brother I’m sure him and his wife will remember not only that day but that for rest of their life
This is the best heartfelt best man's speech I've ever heard. And what a fantastic loving family, but most of all what a bunch of great loving brothers. Well done Sam, well done!
What a beautiful speech i am happy he was included and so many people accepted him people with special needs will bring our world together ❤
Yes!!!! 💯🙏🏻❤️
Your brother is right you're different in a beautiful and unique way.
Hello Deborah
Sobbing. My daughter is autistic and still very young, only 3 but pretty much non-verbal. The way her big sister sticks up for her even if it’s just me telling my younger daughter that it’s bed time, is so comforting to me. I really hope they grow up to have a relationship like this. The way the presence of his brother and sister in law comfort him is so sweet.