Learn How To Resolve Conflict & Restore Relationships with Rick Warren
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- saddleback.com/blessedlife-- Learn how to resolve conflict & how to restore broken relationships with Pastor Rick Warren of Saddleback Church. In this message, Pastor Rick talks about the seventh Beatitude-how God blesses peacemakers. Learn what the Bible says about the importance of conflict resolution and discover seven ways to restore broken relationships in your life.
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How To Resolve Conflict & Restore Relationships:
1. Make the first move
2. Ask God for wisdom
3. Begin with what's my fault
4. Listen for their hurt & perspective
5. Speak the truth tactfully
6. Fix the problem, not the blame
7. Focus on reconciliation, not resolution
Harsono Setiono screen shot this to remember. My family sucks but I’ll continuously be looking at this!
we can not solve our conflict without God . Pastor is wrong he says solve the problem and than come to GOd .
Jenny D what a way to twist his words.
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This is one of the best sermons I’ve ever heard. It’s long but very rich and wise.
Tell me, did you ever inform yourself about the so-called 'Satanic Panic'?
If not, how about 'Prism of the Past; Satanic Panic' of 'Illuminatinaughtii' tells you about it real quick?
Totally agree 👍👍👍
I'm not a Christian but I gotta hand it to this guy he's the kind of Christian we need more of. I totally receive his message.
Glad you received this message. There is always room for more good Christians. Please keep an open mind and I hope you find Christ in your life at some point.
Yeah! This is only God speaking through him. It's Jesus that you received the message from. That's awesome! God is amazing. I used to watch sermons and testimonies way before I came to Christ! In the back of my head I always thought about God because little did I know he was slowly pulling me out of the world. I pray he does the same with you :)
OriLOK2 this is the kind of guy you get when you follow scripture and what it actually says. The meaning behind it in the truth behind it. This is what true Christianity is not what people have made it out to be today. That's why so many people have problems with modern-day Christianity. Because people have made it their own instead of leaving it to God.
If only it is that simple. Make the first move and everything will be hugs and kisses.
I want to be a peacemaker this week. GOD please help me and give me the courage and humility to begin to clear all the darkness between those I have lived in conflict with. May you give me the right words and let my heart find peace thru honoring you and my soul find rest. Amen
Pray i can be the peacemaker between my brother and me.
It's been 40 years of my addictions that separated me from him. He is a strong Christian, i wasn't!
I have 3 years of sobriety now and listening to know how to reconcile our relationship.
BTW... I also have accepted Christ as my savior.
Praise the Lord!
Go ahead and speak to God about it then HE will touch your brother's heart and everything will be fine.remain blessed in christ Jesus 🙏 ❤
Your testimony will speak volumes to your brother. Make the move. Hugs!
You go, Marlin! Remember that no matter what happens it's God's perfect will at work in your life. And also remember, this life is just the beginning. If your attempts to reconcile don't bear fruit now, they will on the other side. So go for it, in faith, and don't hold back!
May Jesus be the light and strength of your life, through your relationships and your fears, and all that life can sometimes bring. I pray that reconciliation be upon you and your brother, in Jesus’s name Amen!
Resolving Conflict is far more rewarding than dissolving a relationship
I'm sorry I was thinking about myself.
Thank you pastor Rick
I'm sorry I was thinking about myself.
Thank you pastor Rick
I'm sorry I was thinking about myself.
Thank you pastor Rick
I'm sorry I was thinking about myself.
Thank you pastor Rick
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (Mrs JUlIANA
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
(+234701 441 0841) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
This only works if you are married to a reasonable spouse.
powerful convicting message. before I sent a message to my offender, they miraculously showed up on my door! we had a restoration time! Glory to the name of JESUS!
Annah Kaaria Amen! that is the power of god!
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@@martincastro6194 god is good all the time
I'm glad it worked out for you but this world is not like an episode of "Little house on the Prairie" where everybody is happy and lessons are learned. In reality we have to endure difficulties that are not just a case of saying sorry and everything will be ok.
Great communication advice! Thank you for sharing this comment ! I was even inspired to start my own Christian communication channel 🙏🏾
I am nearly seventy years old. If I only understood this early in my life. Such wise teaching! But now I will recommend this to family, friends and enemies.
Thank you Pastor Rick
I am so glad I turned in this site. I am suffering my children also and don't know how to solve not face this old conflict.
I need someone to help us.
I so agree with you, if only I had known all this. Pastor Warren is wise and fun too.
I have had a conflict with my son in law and it has grown to include the wife and my other daughter and her husband. I left it 2 long and my sister who was also involved passed away and I feel lost on how to resolve it. May God help me since my conflict is as long as Esau and Jacob
Forgive and believe it is resolved without doubt and fear. Simple
Excellent Sermon
This was THE best talk on Conflict Resolution that I have seen. God's timing is perfect because I needed this right now. Thank you Rick and Saddleback for sharing!
Thanks 😊
I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS MESSAGE THANK YOU PASTOR RICK GOD BLESS YOU
Yes very good lesson
Praise God. I need to hear this message again and again . Thank you Pastor Rick and Saddleback church . Amen
This sermon sure spoke to me today. I have no love for my partners daughter-in-law. I have said how many times how I hate her. Wrong, wrong, wrong. I have been a Christian for 40 years, one never stops learning and growing. I take back my words and pray for a resolution. I am not one to hold a grudge but with her I have. I no longer hold the grudge. I will pray for us both .
@Mr Mrs Thank you nice thinking.
I completely understand ❤
Your confession encouraged me to rethink about my relationship with my sister-in-law. I have very difficult time loving her and understanding her when she talks back to me with hurtful words and keeps telling me that i am too sensitive. I wish and pray that we both get to know how to love them no matter what. It is still hard for me to swallow what she often says to me, but it really helps me to know there are ppl like me struggling in ‘-in-law relationship. Thank you.
I am praying and trying to reconcile with my 34 year old daughter who never speaks 😢 to me
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I'm overwhelmed with raw emotion because this message is the answer to my prayers! I didn't realize that the resolved conflict was the reason why my prayers weren't being answered and marriage was under extreme attack. Pastor Warren bless you for allowing God to use you....you just saved my marriage! God, I want to thank you!
He's wonderful.
Great communication advice! Thank you for sharing this comment ! I was even inspired to start my own Christian communication channel 🙏🏾
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy you. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with a tangible amount and give to this motherless foundation (GOLDEN MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) New York, USA before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the Managing Director in charge of the orphanage to get their details on WhatsApp on +1 (442)201-0913 tell the MD I sent you. For it is not by might nor by power but by my spirit, saith the lord of hosts (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy you. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with a tangible amount and give to this motherless foundation (GOLDEN MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) New York, USA before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the Managing Director in charge of the orphanage to get their details on WhatsApp on +1 (442)201-0913 tell the MD I sent you. For it is not by might nor by power but by my spirit, saith the lord of hosts (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (OSOMOIGHO
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
+2349058384543) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
Listening to him is changing my life!
Ask for scripture!! If not he's not a therapist
Listening to God hun
Amen
Ppppppl
Your statement is so true 👏👏👏
I never get tired of hearing Pastor Rick speak, preach, lecture, joke, etc. I thank the Lord for delievering His words through this amazing man. God Bless the Warrens and Saddleback church.
Spot on preach pastor
How do you resolve conflict with family...people in your life that are still hurting you...still crossing boundaries?
Pastor Rick Warren, where have you been my whole life?
Kola Olanipekun Amen!
Its always more rewarding to resolve a conflict then dissolve a relationship👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
I’m here because I’m tired.
I seem to have conflict constantly in my friendships based on hurt feelings. I get to the point where I don’t even want friends. I can honestly say I have avoided conflict at the expense of others feelings or just thinking it will be better over time. This is helpful
@Art Garfunkle
Relateable in relationship s..
THANK YOU for sharing...
Conflict is normal, but can you resolve it?
THIS IS SO GOOD. WOW. I took more notes in this sermon than I ever have in any sermon
MacKenzie Nixon same here
Made me cry 😭 "the make the first move part " convicted right there👏🏼👏🏼
Don't worry Jesus Christ able to reconcile you
Ricks sermons always make me cry. His sermons remind me how imperfect I am and how much more work I have to do. I just love to listen to him. He makes me happy
What do I Do, IF the person I want to reconcile with, WON'T Talk with me????
Go to the only one that can set up a meeting for you. GOD. Just keep praying that He will work in the situation so that the issue can be fixed/settled.
These messages have saved my life, my marriage and my sanity. Thank you God for pastor Warren. Funny thing is I don't even know him or have been to his church.
Martin Trejo that is awesome! What happened that made you change?
He is a great pastor I dont know where is church is but he has came to our church in Albuquerque Legacy church.
Wisdom from God is very powerful.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy you. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with a tangible amount and give to this motherless foundation (GOLDEN MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) New York, USA before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the Managing Director in charge of the orphanage to get their details on WhatsApp on +1 (442)201-0913 tell the MD I sent you. For it is not by might nor by power but by my spirit, saith the lord of hosts (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
@@angelicsanchez27 Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy you. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with a tangible amount and give to this motherless foundation (GOLDEN MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) New York, USA before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the Managing Director in charge of the orphanage to get their details on WhatsApp on +1 (442)201-0913 tell the MD I sent you. For it is not by might nor by power but by my spirit, saith the lord of hosts (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.
This is amazing! I’m not a Christian but for some reason this video came to me in my time of need! Thank you for passing along the good word. Words I needed to hear today and at this moment in life.
Tell me, did you ever inform yourself about the so-called 'Satanic Panic'?
If not, how about 'Prism of the Past; Satanic Panic' of 'Illuminatinaughtii' tells you about it real quick?
Gods word (Bible) has all the answers for life. When we are saved He gives us the ability to follow His word. Salvation is as simple as asking God to forgive our sins, believing Gods son Jesus died on the cross for our sins and He has risen...and we are forgiven when we ask/repent, and telling Him we will follow Him...with His help. So simple, and He turned my whole life around. No fear. Peace and joy, even in these end days. He gives us a life we can't even imagine...and an eternity with Him in heaven. He is real. His word is true. God bless.🙏🕊
Kathy, be careful of other comments...some that will try to mislead you. Gods word (Bible) is only truth. Jesus is the only way to heaven. Follow true teachings, like this preacher on this video.
Hi Kathy. We are in the end days. It will be devastating for those who are not saved (read Revelation in the Bible). Time is short. Many, many things that are mentioned in the Bible are happening. I pray for your repentance (we all must repent) and salvation through the cross of Calvary. If there is a good Pentecostal church around, its important in these days to join with believers. Mario Murillo, Tim Sheets, Lance Sheets are good to watch online. So is At The Crossroads Church in Trenton, Ontario. Reading Matthew on in the Bible is a good place to start...and John 3:16. May you find Jesus, and His amazing Love, Joy and Peace.❤🕊
There’s one he preaches it’s in finding the love of your life.
It’s so good. I think young adults need to watch it. ❤
Hi. I want to start by saying thank you from the bottom of my heart and may God bless you always! I'm a new subscriber to your channel. To give some history here, I have been struggling as a parent of three wonderful children who all have very strong wills. I have been praying for a breakthrough with my oldest daughter particularly and I happened upon your video on honoring your parents. I forced my know it all bullheaded teen to watch it and I am very pleased to announce that she has asked me to start watching your videos with her and even asked if you have new ones each Sunday! Finally this was the breakthrough I've been praying for!!!! This was only yesterday and I have witnessed a drastic change in her virtually overnight! Your messages are so easy to listen to and really hit home and are being incorporated even as I write this! Thank you so much for bringing THE WORD OF GOD to every location on earth with an Internet connection!!!!! Praise be to Jesus!!!!!
How do you deal with someone who never omits to wrong
Open the door and say here is the way out 😂
I want to make the first step in resolve my conflict w/ my husband. I am asking God for wisdom. I've been asking God how to do.
K I will pray too about it and my own weaknesses
Unless you married a narcissist. That person will not resolve conflict. Period.
Thank you so much, Saddleback Church, for sharing Pastor Rick's message for FREE..
It's always frustrating for me when I go to the websites of some so-called great men of God giving messages whose video clip will be cut early on and will be advised that in order to hear the message you will be asked for a donation of this much so and so... Do you know how that feels? What if I don't have the money to buy a DVD or a credit card so I can avail of one?
God bless you Pastor Rick Warren for sharing your blessings to us through your FREE video clips on you tube.
Thank you so much for being part of our community. We always want to offer our resources for FREE and we would love to encourage you to share them with as many people as you can. We hope this message helped!
Saddleback Church Thank you kindly.
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yes, messages from the Lord should not be withheld for the sake of making money, may as well go back to selling turtle doves, lambs and goats again ehh ? :P Isn't that what made Jesus mad in the temple long ago when they were trying to make money off the people of God for worshipping in the temple?
How grateful am I for this thorough and holy spirit-filled teaching. There is nothing that can ever compare to God's word and his teachings! So blessed to know God and Jesus🙏
If you read this Rick, I just want to say that you are one of my absolutly best preacher and teacher. Thank you so much, and may God bless you with all the blessings from heaven. Lots of Love!!💖
The problem is when the others don't want to reconcile and continue to do hurtful action
Amen
true..just like my husband☺️
Yes but we just have to do our part. We have no control over others. But it is very sad though when it's not received.
What you do in this situtation?
@@roshniperumal5672 I personally would distance myself from that person and give it to God.
There are some people that you cannot reconcile with the best thing to do is the no contact rule but that is being the bigger person by not needing closer. Knowing that they have a disorder and you can forgive them and pray for them but its too dangerous to contact them.):
I agree with you
I agree. I think people who are able to regulate their emotions and regulate their thoughts and words are safe enough to reconcile with. Some people are so unhinged, abusive, manipulative, or unreachable that it is best and healthiest to not allow further contact. I think discernment about who and when to reconcile directly with someone is important. Sometimes reconciling has to just be inner work at a distance.
I believe that God will make a way if we would be willing! Sometimes you have to be distant, and wait for God's timing.. but our hear should always be wanting to reconcile.. because God's heart is just like that. And we should aim to be like Jesus!
That's why we should ask God for wisdom!
This thread of replies is spot on. We cannot just use his message as a fix all for all situations. We have to take the leading of the Holy Spirit. Respect to you guys!
@@ivonavuk2949 sometimes we have to be content with no reconciliation because the other person has no desire for resolution. In this case we can hand it over to God and move on with our lives in peace and joy.
Nobody has mastered the art of keeping a perfect relationship because all of us aren't perfect in the first place. Most of us commit mistakes, but the important is we take responsibilities and learned from it.
@@geenonar Tell me, did you ever inform yourself about the so-called 'Satanic Panic'?
If not, how about 'Prism of the Past; Satanic Panic' of 'Illuminatinaughtii' tells you about it real quick?
And grace and forgiveness for others when they mess up
This was so beautiful. I shared this with a couple of friends this morning, has had me crying off & on. I plan to watch/listen again when I can & take notes. I have so much work to do on myself but have never been sure where or how to start.
Thank you for this ❤️
@Rick Warren I’ve began a couple of letters to you but never finish them. I discovered you shortly after I lost my 15 yr old son to suicide in September 2020. You have no idea how much you’ve helped me, not only on my grief journey but my spiritual journey as well. I listen to your daily podcast, you’ve been a huge part of my growth. Thank you for all you do 💕
Thank you for your message. My husband & I are wanting to restore with our daughter this weekend. We really need to willing to listen to her. If any of you are reading my message, please pray for restoration 🙏🙏
I pray that all is well and you restore your relationship with your daughter!
We definitely need to work out our own weaknesses before we can help other people. We can not expect other people to have a certain attitude if we do not have it.
Need prayer for my lady to be healed from diabetes and from dialysis in Jesus name we pray amen
Amen amen and amen
Would you please upload this again w/ caption option so my Mexican friends can understand this sermon? Thank you!!
I pray for the restoration of my friend and I. It’s been a year and half since speaking with her. I’ve done everything to make it right, but couldn’t nudge her. Please pray for my friendship. She was a great sister in Christ. I love her
Same situation with me, did something change ?
This just completely changed my life! When you look for the skills to be a better person. You find it. Great self development!
This was really helpful. Needed to hear this for my relationship. Glory to God alone!
So amazing this message, it helped me a lot... Glory to Jesus!!!
This sermon is so powerful...to beg to reunite with Christ.
Thank you for your love so strong for us.
Thank you Lord Jesus ✝️
I wish I had heard this and applied it when I was married. But I know that this works for all relationships. It has helped me improve my other relationships in my family and my circle of friends.
+Delores Mackey Me too.
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You are very awesome
This really hit home. Especially the part about saying “sorry I was just thinking about myself” I’m engaged and soon to be married and I let jealousy and insecurity control me. I let the past direct my future and that takes the hands of God away from me. I never had a strong parent figure around me and I never saw conflict getting resolved but I’m tired of letting that be a barrier in my relationship because I want to be the change so my future kids don’t have to grow up and fall into the same way of thinking I have. God bless you pastor Warren
I say, AMEN ×1000! N AGAIN I SAY AMEN!
Thank you Jesus, thank you Jesus.
Good
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (OSOMOIGHO
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
+2349058384543) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
The only bit I disagree with is where he said time does not heal.
Time heals emotional wounds of course it doesn't heal gaping wounds in our actual flesh but time can heal the emotional body definitely.
Contact me personally on arissdavidd@gmail.com for advice and more. And don't forget to follow the prophetic instruction to give to the motherless orphanage
I need to keep this on replay! Very informative!
I was just praying to God earlier on how I resolve a conflict with someone. Then suddenly, for some reason, I left my phone beside and when I go back I'm on this video. So I think this is God's answer to my question.
I guess it's time. May God guide me through. Easy or not I hope I have the strength to pull through and re-establish my relationships with those I love. ❤
Feel so blessed by this. Thank you Saddleback. Glory to God!
This is a powerful message that greatly needs to be taught and shared within the body of Christ. Thanks for breaking down the meaning of being a peacemaker, how to handle conflict, and what’s needed for restoring relationships in a God-honoring way.
This one was hard for me to watch because I'm always going to others to try and make things right. I've always apologised for my part of things. And most of the time they didn't apologize back, so I'm starting to wonder if it's sending them the wrong message because they seem to think they were never in the wrong and then the same stuff happened with them all over again. I just recently changed my phone number to keep someone from contacting me and then i see this message. There's not really conflict because I just decided to set boundaries and I ended things because the situation was wrong. So that's when I changed my phone number. Now I don't know what to do because I don't think this is so much conflict but more of setting safe boundaries. Does that make sense?
I appeal to you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them. For such persons do not serve our Lord Christ, but their own appetites, and by smooth talk and flattery they deceive the hearts of the naive.
Romans 16:17-18
Good word.
Like my grandma always said, "kill em with kindness".
Amazing how God works. He spoke to my heart last night about being a stumbling block in my husband's life & others lives by using my anger/frustration for hurt rather than healing. Then I happen to search for verses for my husband & your site came up. I then searched "Rick Warren" here on TH-cam & this was the first video I watched. I agree with comments below...thank you for sharing this as it's helping so many including me! :)
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (Mrs JUlIANA
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
(+234701 441 0841) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
I work with someone that keeps insulting me. I quietly don’t like her. We’ve resolved past arguments but she keeps insulting and making my job harder by talking to my boss on how she thinks I should do my job. How do I resolve that? Can I? Some people are just mean. Do I resolve that?I feel like I just need to avoid her or be a pushover to keep the peace.
I am listening while work and when I get home 🏡 I will review it again and take the notes to send them to my grandson. Thanks pastor blessing for you and the church. Thanks Lord for your son
Thank You for this message, It gave me the answers that I was looking for tonight. Thank you for being so direct and not trying to sugar coat anything. I can tell it was a sincere message
I commited to christ
A few months ago my partner accepted Jesus and we are getting married, thank you Jesus
Skunks always marries Turtles 🤣
Hiding and hurling done together
Excellent sermon 😘
What do you mean?
@@siadawn you have to listen too the sermon..
@@Leo881971 I don't get the hiding and hurling part?
This was absolutely incredible, I was researching on conflict resolution for my business and found this. Thanks for sharing ❤
Welp I’m about to go have a talk with my mother in law. When I clicked this video, I didn’t know you’d be exposing me so much!
This comment was sent to me from a business partner / friend that we lost touch for a few months. Ironically, he sent me this as there was a huge conflict that I’ve been processing and just literally began praying over then this message pops up.
Proverbs 13:10 - pride only leads to arguments.
This message answered everything I needed know. Main point where to start and how to process it. Thank you, so much Rick Warren. I do miss coming to your amazing church. Thank you for the message clearing past occurrences that are coming to surface and making clarity.
Quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. Thank you again. God Bless!
I want to approach the person whom I have conflict with but they avoid me. Though we are aware she is the cause of the conflict, I’ve put blame aside. We haven’t seen eachother since her verbal attacks on me and now she just avoids me. I want to speak with her but how can I do so if she’s not willing to even see me? I’m losing faith by the minute. I don’t know if this is an instance where I just need to pray, try to move on and hope for the best in the future. Please let me know your thoughts. Much appreciated.
Sarah Socarras send a message, tell her you hope she well. And you apologise if there was anything you did or said that hurt her. You just need her to know you hold nothing against her.
Thank you Jesus
Thank you saddlebackchurch
I literally prayed to find this to help me understand wats going on why so mad questing now I understand .
Thank you for this message Ptr.Rick. For years I had a fear of settling conflict that leads to unresolved issue and resentment, and worse it creates more insecurity in my relationship. Truly It’s the love of God that will going to eliminate the fear in our hearts and we make the first move as peacemakers.
Thank you pastor Rick, i finaly understand being a peacemaker is a good thing :) its a real thing that Jesus himself wants us to be
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (Mrs JUlIANA
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
(+234701 441 0841) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
This is EXTREMELY VALUABLE,Thank You!! I am literally taking notes I sent this to myself through a message very very excellent information this is the best conflict resolution video so far of ever seen in Jesus name
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I’m not a Christian but It all goes in line with whats is in the heart. Wishing you all the blessings, love and peace.
How To Resolve Conflict & Restore Relationships:
1. Make the first move 11:21
2. Ask God for wisdom
3. Begin with what's my fault
4. Listen for their hurt & perspective
5. Speak the truth tactfully
6. Fix the problem, not the blame
7. Focus on reconciliation, not resolution
@ Sharon Lai
Sounds like some psychological advice taken from the pagan world.
Pastor Rick's sermons really resonate with me. Thank God for pastors like Pastor Rick.
It is INSANE how accurate this was. I can’t thank you enough, thank you Jesus for this. Thank you pastor for speaking about this 😢🙌🏼
This is excellent. Thank you, Pastor Rick!
Love your message. However there are people who wont listen to you no matter what. So i use tact and respect (friendship from a distance).
Great message...problem is sometimes you do have to divorce when your partner falls victim to addiction. If you stay you will drown with them.
Yes def been there! The reason I divorced was the same drug addiction
What Rick taught us today on conflict resolution was in fact worth thousands of dollars!
This was not accidental, me listening to this message. It was amazing. Amen!
please pray for me .i can't get along well with my eldest daughter &her 12 years old son ,& we're living in the same roof.i'm a prayerful woman ,but no matter how i prayed & tried to bring peace in my house,theirs seems someone is blocking my prayer.conflicts ,arguing almost everyday.pls i need help.pray for me & my family members.♥️♥️♥️
I have tried to mend ways with several people in my life. They have no problem with it and cannot explain it nor care to mend it... I've spent years crying and finally realized I cannot hang on to things that long...I have to realese it and fix me and love my life...
Sometimes you need to cut the relationship. For fifteen years people have tried to kill me twice, lied to everyone about me, and finally denied that I did anything when I teached them and showed everything I know. Sometimes you need to run from people.
This is brilliant and insightful.Thank God for your life Pastor Rick...
May your lecture make crooked people become upright people.
Its true about being afraid and defensive. I'm terrified of my family because when I'm with them and there's conflict it brings out the worst in me when I get upset and say things or shout. It doesn't happen around friends as there is respect between us. There's a lot of hurt that's happened in our past that terrifies me that they could do it again. I've forgiven it, but sometimes my family members justify what they did to me again and I then get scared and angry about it all. It's like a sleeping volcano that could reappear.
What about the guy at work who is demon oppressed and he hates god and anyone else who profess's beliefs in God's ways. .....especially the god says don't eat pig meat and the real sabbath day and the other moedim.......and that God's word says no to Christmas. ...jeremiah 10...... he/they just plain hate gods ways
Best 76 minutes I've spent in a while. Great lesson.
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (Mrs JUlIANA
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
(+234701 441 0841) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
I know I’m years late as much as I’d love to have someone see my comment I doubt that will happen but need advice . I’m a Christian but yes I struggle with mental illness being quite severe depression anxiety loneliness & worse the last six years because my older son hasn’t spoken to me . It’s devastated me absolutely devastated me and plays a massive part in this sadness. But without going into all my life problems which WOULD explain why I am the way I am I can assure you I DO NOT have a grudge holding um forgiveness bone in my body!!! I cry daily and I do struggle with punishing ME ME ME ALL THE TIME. I would welcome ANYONE back in my life . I write letters I reach out I always look at my own faults & downfalls. I’m well aware of my past Mistakes that I punish myself for daily….which has to stop. I also am well aware of the things done to me HOWEVER all I want is for people to know how much I love them and I’m no way hold grudges for anything we ALL make mistakes some small some huge but I repent & pray for forgiveness & look at me not others .
I guess I’m asking???? if you have tried to resolve conflicts with true love in your heart but are rejected how do you just accept that even though you’ve tried . ???? I’m very soft hearted The lord has done an incredible work in me but I also still do have fear though……because I do want peace and resolve things people ARE JUST NOT INTERESTED I’m doing so with me .
I was amazed at how much I could relate to what you were saying and it's very hard to make right with someone that doesn't have the understanding of the word of God but that doesn't really matter to God .He will Make a Way if you put an effort to make right any conflict you have with anybody I assure you God Will Make a Way just trust in his words and if his words tell you to do this know that he's got your back . And I'm still being transformed and learning how to walk in his ways I'm not perfect I've stumbled a lot but I just want to thank my God for where I am now and I know he's transforming me minute by minute day by day and then when I meet him my transformation will be complete but I'm enjoying it every step of the way. It can be very difficult I myself am disconnect with some members of my family, I have made every effort but no one response to my calls or my text messages and it's really hard and it hurts it makes it very hard to love somebody that rejects you and it's not kind to you that was one of the hardest things for me to deal with cuz I'm very tender-hearted and I'm a very loving person and forgiving person since I gave my life to Christ December 23rd 2020 I always knew who Jesus was I grew up in church but this was totally different and experience like I can't even describe but I know he changed every aspect of my heart so even though they reject me and don't want to speak with me I don't stop I don't give upI still send my good morning texts I still send little jokes to them and I make sure I say in my messages I love you guys I'm praying for you I always do that and I still haven't gotten a response and it's been 5years but I know that all things are possible through Christ and there's a reason behind everything God is in control and it's his timing not my timing and I have to look at this as God knows what he's doing I trust him with my life so if it hasn't happened it's not time yet there's a season for everything so when I feel like giving up get discouraged with trying I go to the word of God and he always pulls me through. So try to remember to trust in him when there's hurtful situations arise God bless all
Awesome Message. I used it for my Small Group.
This video add up so much values in my life today. I am so grateful to come across to this sharing. May God bless the pastor and the team behind this channel and program.
So I think that God always hears our prayers 🙏 it's not him not hearing us but our resentments blocks us from hearing him
I love this message! Wish I’d had my ex boyfriend listen to it, cause he wouldn’t shut up long enough to listen.
I appreciate the message in this sermon. I want to know what do we do when we find ourselves in constant conflict with the same people? We are constantly patience and made to be the bigger person. We try time and time again and it just isn’t working?
Awesome 👌. This can literally help EVERYBODY with someone in their lives 🙏
I used this to begin the mending process between my son and myself. Thank you Rick.
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (OSOMOIGHO
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
+2349058384543) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you
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The best talk I have ever EVER heard.
Lot of good stuff obviously, and thanks for taking the stand on what's right regardless of what the liberal media wants us to say. One thing I would like to note though, Jesus sent out the disciples with the message "Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand." Also: From that time Jesus began to preach, saying, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” When you said what Jesus would say, I understood you to say he would say "we've all messed up, I don't live up to God's standards" but obviously Jesus lived a sinless life. Not trying to bring up a nitpicky item in the midst of a lot of teaching, but the issue was a big one. Your point was to preach truth in love which is a good point. However, I would think hostility to the gospel couldn't be avoided if the whole gospel is preached (the disciples weren't martyred for just talking about love). If people hear only that Jesus forgives them before they understand their sin, they have only heard half the gospel (and then the gospel would sound like a nice offer instead of the only hope for escaping eternal punishment).
This was so good. I need to rewatch and take notes!
You are so right about the blame game. When my husband say something that hurt my feelings, he criticizes a lot, I will stop him by pointing out his issues. But I think it's time for me to stop letting those things bother me. He's getting older and will just say things, I think, because his health issues bother him so much. I need to stop defending myself and found ways to comfort him.
What do you do when the person you love misunderstood your actions due to bipolar disorder and blocked you completely from communication? Do you still try to make the first move by circumventing their block? What words to use? This is tearing me up inside...I'm seen as a bad guy now when I tried my best to be good to her.
My partner has called for a time-out in our 5-year old relationship. I wish I seen this earlier. I have been hurt and I have hurt my loved ones as a result. She gave me so much love yet I continued to be self-centered. I have learned so much from this video and I can only pray we can get back together gain. I will take this time to be a better person.
Same here... I pray God will restore it for me too to explore the better version of the new me in christ...
Me too ,
hmmmm. im a holy ghost filled believer. This specific teaching from the bible...
is great.
but l disagree..DONT GO AROUND TO PPL TRYING TO MAKE PEACE..DO IT IN SPIRIT THENNNNN.
ASK GOD IF YOU SHOULD ACTUALLY GO TO THAT PERSON.
Demonic ppl will use this very teaching to abuse you.
forgive..
but going to some people is just foolish