The greatest flaw in Child Protective services is that in cases like this, they do more harm than good, and with zero accountability to the people they've harmed. I don't care how rare it is, because once is too much. It is simply unjust.
Child services does not remove kids for a story told by one kid at school. It might start an investigation, but that's it. There was other evidence. It is horrible, but I would rather see a child removed by mistake on rate occasions than I would see one left in dangerous situations and end up hurt or worse
He never said why all three kids were removed from the house!! Everyone in the comments saying how terrible this is but how do you know if the kids weren't actually in danger? You don't. Jail is full of innocent people.. just ask them
Exactly, child services is about the most underfunded organization out there. Something like this without any other evidence doesn't result in an emergency removal, there is an investigation. Even if they are removed for emergency reasons, as soon as the investigation is done, if no other evidence is there, they are returned, usually the initial investigation is a couple days. There is more to this story than just a kid with an imagination
Wow, many prayers to this guy and family. I pray that you all have the resources needed to get through this tough time. On a side note… you cleaned up a lot of debt in a very short period! Congrats to that.
TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE ..... That creepy feeling of a knock on the door is so typical. When they come to your home it's like having to invite and play host to a snake. They have been forcibly inspected your home and have over analysed every little move or word you have uttered to them. The feeling never really leaves but it can get easyer. Much love and hope the Glassbrook family.
Something similar happened to me and my siblings when we where younger. My sister told her teacher about a dream and the teacher thought the dream was real and we all had to talk to cps and explain our living situation.
@@wenchefauske6898exactly, they are so under funded that, in my state, 70% of open cases are in home observations and only 30% are removals. If there is no danger to the child physically, the child stays in the home. There is more to this story he isn't admitting
I've seen foster kids ripped from a home because one very troubled child made false accusations all because she didn't want to abide by the rules of the home. No one took the mom seriously when she told them that this girl needs professional help but the moment she made the accusations they were there within minutes. Although all were unfounded the damage was already done they would not give the mom any more kids. Problem is she wasn't getting paid to do this but the treatment is horrible.
TO ALL THE DOUBTING THOMAS'S, BOG OFF. Please don't listen to some of the comments here. Their are many people in a state of stupid denial that it couldnt happen to them. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your pain. Child services have a duty to act first, then investigate. Act first means removal, then investigation is returning them home. This happens, so many times. People don't talk about it because of the stigma. Many family's are just too smashed up and broken down by the experience to ask for support or help afterwards. I am very disappointed at many peoples reactions to the old no smoke without fire. Abusive relationships and family's are hidden in plane sight, they are our friends, family's and neighbors. Bet you people who point to this family's experience, then have made harsh judgement, are the same ones who don't see what's happening to the kids next door either.
It's hard to believe you wouldn't have lots of trauma in your household if you had a tragedy happen like this family. How about gaining some perspective.
@@BAFABA The tragedy IS the children being removed, period end of story. You're not owed an explanation from him. Don't try to invalidate someones grief. You're clearly not a parent if you're gatekeeping.
As a foster parent my heart goes out to you. We do fostering to care for kids in need and love them with every ounce of energy that we have! I am SO encouraged to hear about parents that fought for their kids. Everyone wants the kids to be safe and with the parents where they belong! If it was our family we would have the parents on video calls everyday to tuck those kids in for the night.
Its nothing you cant come back from in time. Your just going to need some time to recoup and get back on you're feet. Your alot stronger than you think, alway's remember that,
So what do you propose instead? My son's life was literally saved by CPS intervention after he overdosed on drugs at 8 months old, and was literally starving.
@@FrankS111 That guy "didn't sound like no engineer". How many engineers have CPS banging on there doors, and they can't articulate there way out of it.
@@djpuplex many of us engineers have a horrendous vocabulary and speaking skills (hence being an engineer hahahahahahaha). I worked with a few engineers from the south that sounded like Cletus from the simpsons but had PhDs
If he cries in front of his wife, she will lose respect for him as a man and her husband. She will then leave him and take his kids from him. Then he will have lost them again
One time when I was like 8-10 years old, I lied to my teacher and said my Dad pushed me down the stairs 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ because I didn’t eat my apple slices! KIDS SAY THE DARNEDEST THINGS!!
... which would have made it much harder to ever get them back. You would have been branded as a man with "anger management issues" which would indicate "potential for abusive behavior". You can't fight these people.
The Government’s constitutional legal authority and boundaries of families’ children needs to be reviewed. As well as parent’s and children’s constitutional rights.
@@IceColdProfessional to be honest though they hardly work in the woman's favor either since you can simply prolong the process.... the only real winners are the layers who charge per the hour
@@georgemendez6760 Yeah you'd think that. But some women get sour after the breakup and they spend years hating the man so much it's all they think about.
He tries so hard to be cool and relatable. He's be cooler and more relatable if he was just himself instead of making rap/hip hop references all the time.
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change kid's to kids.
I just wanted to let you know that also. K i d s with no apostrophe. Thanks guys
The greatest flaw in Child Protective services is that in cases like this, they do more harm than good, and with zero accountability to the people they've harmed. I don't care how rare it is, because once is too much. It is simply unjust.
Child services does not remove kids for a story told by one kid at school. It might start an investigation, but that's it. There was other evidence. It is horrible, but I would rather see a child removed by mistake on rate occasions than I would see one left in dangerous situations and end up hurt or worse
He never said why all three kids were removed from the house!! Everyone in the comments saying how terrible this is but how do you know if the kids weren't actually in danger? You don't.
Jail is full of innocent people.. just ask them
Caller said one of the kids made up a story and then the kids were taken.
@@DoctorSmartyPants exactly
Exactly. There's more to this story than one of the children being imaginative.
Exactly, child services is about the most underfunded organization out there. Something like this without any other evidence doesn't result in an emergency removal, there is an investigation. Even if they are removed for emergency reasons, as soon as the investigation is done, if no other evidence is there, they are returned, usually the initial investigation is a couple days. There is more to this story than just a kid with an imagination
Wow, many prayers to this guy and family. I pray that you all have the resources needed to get through this tough time.
On a side note… you cleaned up a lot of debt in a very short period! Congrats to that.
Absolutely. 🙏🏼💕
TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE ..... That creepy feeling of a knock on the door is so typical. When they come to your home it's like having to invite and play host to a snake. They have been forcibly inspected your home and have over analysed every little move or word you have uttered to them. The feeling never really leaves but it can get easyer. Much love and hope the Glassbrook family.
The worst part is if the allegation is FALSE. And that happens a lot...
They're there to do their jobs.
You should never let them in without a warrant.
@@hannahhowell7849 you must legally
Something similar happened to me and my siblings when we where younger. My sister told her teacher about a dream and the teacher thought the dream was real and we all had to talk to cps and explain our living situation.
I just came on to say I love Dr. John. Such a kind, skilled, and understanding person. May God replenish you 100-fold! 🤗
Brilliant analysis John, appreciate it.
Bless this family. 💕 May the adversity they have encountered bring them closer and make them stronger
Thanks John for helping. Prayers for that family.
Dr D handled that soo well! Great advice!
The person who typed up this title needs to learn basic English rules. Plural of kid is kids. Possessive for one child is kid's.
Child protective services took my neighbor's kid away from them and the kid kept going back
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Keep your kids out of public schools. There are monsters that are looking for a chance to call CPS on anyone they can.
CPS isn’t there to protect kids anymore
Let them call. If there isn't anything wrong at home they do not do anything
@@wenchefauske6898exactly, they are so under funded that, in my state, 70% of open cases are in home observations and only 30% are removals. If there is no danger to the child physically, the child stays in the home. There is more to this story he isn't admitting
I've seen foster kids ripped from a home because one very troubled child made false accusations all because she didn't want to abide by the rules of the home. No one took the mom seriously when she told them that this girl needs professional help but the moment she made the accusations they were there within minutes. Although all were unfounded the damage was already done they would not give the mom any more kids. Problem is she wasn't getting paid to do this but the treatment is horrible.
TO ALL THE DOUBTING THOMAS'S, BOG OFF. Please don't listen to some of the comments here. Their are many people in a state of stupid denial that it couldnt happen to them. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your pain.
Child services have a duty to act first, then investigate. Act first means removal, then investigation is returning them home.
This happens, so many times. People don't talk about it because of the stigma. Many family's are just too smashed up and broken down by the experience to ask for support or help afterwards.
I am very disappointed at many peoples reactions to the old no smoke without fire. Abusive relationships and family's are hidden in plane sight, they are our friends, family's and neighbors. Bet you people who point to this family's experience, then have made harsh judgement, are the same ones who don't see what's happening to the kids next door either.
Way to go Dr John. Thank you for that explanation. That helps me so much for my own past
This is such a crazy situation
Between the anger, "shutting down" his wife's crying and the kids being taken, I'm concerned about what's going on in that household
It's hard to believe you wouldn't have lots of trauma in your household if you had a tragedy happen like this family. How about gaining some perspective.
@@porcelaindolli3 and exactly what is the tragedy that lead to their children being removed?
@@BAFABA The tragedy IS the children being removed, period end of story. You're not owed an explanation from him. Don't try to invalidate someones grief. You're clearly not a parent if you're gatekeeping.
They just need to tighten up and work together, and they will get their kids back.
So let's just take the absolute least charitable position we possibly can with this struggling family..
I was searching for a video I can relate to and was giving up than this came up. Thank you.
Prayer for this family! Praying praying for you! This was a beautiful call. Praying for this beautiful family! God be with them!! God is a healer!
Be careful what your kids consume.
As a foster parent my heart goes out to you. We do fostering to care for kids in need and love them with every ounce of energy that we have! I am SO encouraged to hear about parents that fought for their kids. Everyone wants the kids to be safe and with the parents where they belong! If it was our family we would have the parents on video calls everyday to tuck those kids in for the night.
The title of this video has an unnecessary apostrophe and now I've lost my motivation.
Nooo I can't unsee it now:(
@@justinecamille7426 You and me both 😅
Ramsey team - please learn the difference between plural and possessive.
Its nothing you cant come back from in time. Your just going to need some time to recoup and get back on you're feet. Your alot stronger than you think, alway's remember that,
@@NeededGR13F Thank you for your thoughts and prayers 🙏🤣
I'm so sorry❤️ Blessings❣️
This guy should've called John's show!!
Maybe but at least he called in. We’re humans so not perfect.
I am so sad listening to how the poor babies are dealing :(
Fix the title. Kids doesn't need an apostrophe.
Ugh. The typo in the title irritates me so much
This isn’t the first time. Whoever runs the TH-cam channel didn’t pass fourth grade grammar
You forgot to end your sentence with a period.
Dr. John is da goat, this is amazing work
Child protective services is basically a child kidnapping ring.
So what do you propose instead? My son's life was literally saved by CPS intervention after he overdosed on drugs at 8 months old, and was literally starving.
How did this guy make $100k a year. That's more than most teachers, nurse that's like TO pay?
The trades pay quite well. Self employment in the trades can make one a multimillionaire, if the business is run correctly.
@@Rick_Kn exactly I use to own a tree service made great money but had no clue how to run a business
I’m an engineer in my mid 30s. That salary is quite possible.
@@FrankS111 That guy "didn't sound like no engineer". How many engineers have CPS banging on there doors, and they can't articulate there way out of it.
@@djpuplex many of us engineers have a horrendous vocabulary and speaking skills (hence being an engineer hahahahahahaha). I worked with a few engineers from the south that sounded like Cletus from the simpsons but had PhDs
If he cries in front of his wife, she will lose respect for him as a man and her husband. She will then leave him and take his kids from him. Then he will have lost them again
It should be ‘Kids’ not ‘Kid’s’
These episode titles have been eye catching lately
Dr John,
Your skill and empathy are incredible. Tremendous addition to the show.
You guys need to start proofreading your video titles.
This is a financial channel not a therapist jeez people dave Ramsey is not a therapist 🙄
Such great advice
One time when I was like 8-10 years old, I lied to my teacher and said my Dad pushed me down the stairs 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
because I didn’t eat my apple slices!
KIDS SAY THE DARNEDEST THINGS!!
if I had kids and someone tried to take my kids from me it would get... let's say disturbing.
... which would have made it much harder to ever get them back. You would have been branded as a man with "anger management issues" which would indicate "potential for abusive behavior". You can't fight these people.
And then you would have gone to jail, and likely had no chance to see your kids again.
Kids, not kid's.
The Government’s constitutional legal authority and boundaries of families’ children needs to be reviewed. As well as parent’s and children’s constitutional rights.
This is not a free country where children can be taken away from parents for no reason.
Ok boomer
@@brooklynleads9333 maybe you should teach your kids not to go around saying they're being abused.
@@nunyabidnes6010its now what children say, its the system that allows this to happen
This is scary stuff. Unfortunately in protecting the children adults are guilty and have to prove their innocence.
I suspect we don’t know all the story.
Maybe the upbeat music overlayed on such a heavy topic was a massive fail of the sound engineer. Just a thought
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Best wishes😘
How do I call in im now here
Pain
before even clicking i knew it was a guy
Of course. The courts don't work in a man's favor. It's the nation's way of bringing balance.
@@IceColdProfessional to be honest though they hardly work in the woman's favor either since you can simply prolong the process.... the only real winners are the layers who charge per the hour
@@IceColdProfessional instead of fighting for custody of our kids we should be putting that time & money to invest into their college fund
@@georgemendez6760 Yeah you'd think that. But some women get sour after the breakup and they spend years hating the man so much it's all they think about.
What’s that music
The new guy has NOTHING to add to the conversation.
I still don't get what this new guy is bringing to the table. Is he supposed to be like a Dave Jr or?
I don't like him on the program either, he's nice but way too young to bring any useful perspective to any of these calls.
Why is he “always expecting another call from DSS” if he didn’t do anything wrong? Something seems suspect.
Because a man doesn't have to do anything wrong to be a suspect.
Ever heard of trauma? Trauma responses (fear) aren't always rational fears.
It's another way of saying "expecting DSS to come knocking". It already happened to him once, why wouldn't he be worried it would happen again?
Because that is what happens after you have experienced a traumatic event.
*kids (no apostrophe)
Lord 😰
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“That’s what’s up”. Dr John? Seriously.
What?
He tries so hard to be cool and relatable. He's be cooler and more relatable if he was just himself instead of making rap/hip hop references all the time.
I'm just waiting for him to ride in on a skateboard someday.
@@nunyabidnes6010 I get your point but did it ever cross your mind that he listens to rap??
@@JohnDoe-gc1kt that’s literally him😂😂 I’ve met a bunch of people like him
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YOU LOST MOTIVATION WHEN YOUR KIDS WERE TAKEN, THATS WHY THEY WERE TAKEN