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Is it me or have relationships gottten so much more complicated and fickle? My parents have been married for over 40 years and relationships weren't some kind of calculus problem.
Its usually 1 of two scenarios. The two parents either stay together because their love was built on the expectation that not everything will always be perfect, and they continuously grow and have fun together. Or the two parents stay together because they’re absolutely toxic, and insane, like mine are. 😆
I look at grandparents, 60 plus years of marriage, they fought, but all this ghosting, ultimatums, stonewalling, mindreading, hinting, damn....it's so much harder now.
I was searching for "Craig Kenneth Dating Again" last week and didn't quite come up with what I was looking for. This is perfect I'm 7 months out of the breakup, 5 months of no contact, just moved to a new town in a new state, and I'm enjoying the opportunity I'm having right now getting back to myself without the thought I might run into my ex. I feel so much more at ease, and I'm getting clear with what I'm wanting to find in a partner, not settling on anything less, which means I'm not in a rush to find someone. I'm not saying life is great but it is good and it's getting better everyday now. THANKS Coach Craig & Coach Victoria (and always Coach Margaret). I'm going to be revisiting a lot of videos just to check back in with how I'm doing. I know I feel I'm ready for dating and meeting people but I'm still a work in progress and I want to protect myself and be choosy with who I spend my time with.
One of your videos said, “what if you find someone better?” I always said, impossible! Then, I did. But, I still couldn’t get her out of my head. Wish me luck!
I told myself that if I got broken up by my ex, I would spend at least 6-8 months grieving, healing, and rediscovering myself. I got broken up with last month, 33 days ago, and I decided to completely go off the grid. I only keep in contact with a select few and completely use this time to rediscover myself, and I threw away the keys to my social media. My plan is to return to social media in 2024, but right now, I need to go on this journey even if it means that I need to be alone for a while
Married 17 yrs wife tells me out of the blue I want divorce 3 hours later she leaves...Stunned.we lived a amazing life...Im a physician, she a chemist. few months after I see her with her new man.. She moves away.....never heard from her ...4 yrs gone by. I have so many chances girls literally give me their numbers I'm pretty handsome in shape wealthy...but I just feel like if that great section of my life went down the toilet...why even start up another....seems like a waste.....I just keep moving on working and hobbies.
I knew a girl for 20 years, very good friend (or so i thought), we have been in a relationship for about 7 years in two rounds (first was 20 years ago). The breakup was more than 2 years ago now. She has completely disappeared, and moved out 100 km away with her new bf. Break up was friendly but she acts as she never knew me, as if we never were friends and never met. Not a single word from her, absolutely nothing I've been dating since. But i am emotionless, numb, i can't love and feel love. I tried but it is impossible. I am now 41 years old and i feel i won't love again (at least not like i loved her).
The timing of this video, OMG! TYSM CK and Vicky ❤ I have just recently started dating someone casually and this is a great reminder for me to implement the skills that I have learned from your other videos. You both are heaven sent!
Hey coaches... This is very, very good! Youuuuu 😁 guys hit a lot of pointers that the dater can't come outright and say without offending them. Thank you!
Coach Victoria, I feel like I know ewe after watching so many of the videos but truly I don't really know ewe but... I LOVE EWEEEEE 🥰😍🥰😍 Great job to the both of you! Once again I learned a lot. Thank ewe both from the bottom of my heart.
I'm a guy...I don't have other "connections"...rarely can I even get ONE date or have enough energy to talk to more than one at a time ffs. Plus, it's the same fkn conversation...same damn questions. I honestly don't know how to do that anymore. Besides, I'm average and plain in every conceivable way...from character and socioeconomic status onward. Doesn't matter how cognizant I am about my flaws, this material, etc...it still doesn't matter. It's just not worth getting fkn hurt again either.
I know the feeling getting one simple date, get a phone number, some interest, then get ghosted or they fade away, for a guy it needs to be a grand performance. It's why break ups are usually so much painful for guys, trying to get a connection when getting one date it hard enough is miserable.
Hey Craig an Vic, thanks for the video. I would like to suggest a future video. It is happening to me but I might not be the only one. I am already dating a way better person than my ex and I have worked on myself prior to this but recently my ex contacted me and I replied but nothing happened after that. I ended up confused but still committed to the new person. It's a struggle but you guys might enlighten people.
This video is great but doesn't apply to my situation. I'm done dating. I realised I can't do better than my ex. I've tried and failed hard. Too many superficial, emotionally immature people online with delusional standards and dealbreakers as long as the line to get into a Taylor Swift concert smh.
Have better standards. Nature forces you to date, maybe not now but in the long run it will. Might as well practice in the meantime with a lot of women until you finally find the one.
6 years relationship, begged one week after breakup and then 5 months no contact and improving,she wished me happy birtday 2 months ago and that was all, we were friend only on Facebook and she unfriended me some days ago, sign that maybe she s moving on and I should start dating again when I m ready
I have a question. In this video you state that many people are hooking people in by saying things like “I am going to marry you” and stuff like that, early on. Are you suggesting that these people have attachment issues and are, therefore, maybe, not good partners? Because this sounds a LOT like my ex, and I’m still trying to figure some things out.
I like your coaching and videos. I do find it odd how it is generally kind of geared towards heterosexual relationships and often talks about men and women. Do you feel in your personal or professional opinion that all relationships and guidelines around relationships also extend to gay people as well? I don't hear much about gay people on your channel. I realize you guys are heterosexual but I was just curious. Thanks. Great content and advice!
I'll get there. I'd be better off renting women by the hour. I get to have fun, mama-san doesn't beat her in the alley for lack of money... It's a mutually beneficial arrangement.
The more you work on yourself after the breakup, the better your results will be with dating. Do The Knowledge and Creative Healing Course 30 minutes a day… You'll be miles a head of your competitors
Is it me or have relationships gottten so much more complicated and fickle? My parents have been married for over 40 years and relationships weren't some kind of calculus problem.
40 years of pain
Its usually 1 of two scenarios. The two parents either stay together because their love was built on the expectation that not everything will always be perfect, and they continuously grow and have fun together. Or the two parents stay together because they’re absolutely toxic, and insane, like mine are. 😆
People aren’t settling anymore. And roles aren’t clear so it’s harder for couples to gage their boundaries and expectations. Pros and cons to both.
I look at grandparents, 60 plus years of marriage, they fought, but all this ghosting, ultimatums, stonewalling, mindreading, hinting, damn....it's so much harder now.
I was searching for "Craig Kenneth Dating Again" last week and didn't quite come up with what I was looking for. This is perfect I'm 7 months out of the breakup, 5 months of no contact, just moved to a new town in a new state, and I'm enjoying the opportunity I'm having right now getting back to myself without the thought I might run into my ex. I feel so much more at ease, and I'm getting clear with what I'm wanting to find in a partner, not settling on anything less, which means I'm not in a rush to find someone. I'm not saying life is great but it is good and it's getting better everyday now. THANKS Coach Craig & Coach Victoria (and always Coach Margaret).
I'm going to be revisiting a lot of videos just to check back in with how I'm doing. I know I feel I'm ready for dating and meeting people but I'm still a work in progress and I want to protect myself and be choosy with who I spend my time with.
One of your videos said, “what if you find someone better?” I always said, impossible!
Then, I did.
But, I still couldn’t get her out of my head. Wish me luck!
Same situation here. Good luck!!
I wish you blessings
I told myself that if I got broken up by my ex, I would spend at least 6-8 months grieving, healing, and rediscovering myself.
I got broken up with last month, 33 days ago, and I decided to completely go off the grid. I only keep in contact with a select few and completely use this time to rediscover myself, and I threw away the keys to my social media. My plan is to return to social media in 2024, but right now, I need to go on this journey even if it means that I need to be alone for a while
Married 17 yrs wife tells me out of the blue I want divorce 3 hours later she leaves...Stunned.we lived a amazing life...Im a physician, she a chemist. few months after I see her with her new man.. She moves away.....never heard from her ...4 yrs gone by. I have so many chances girls literally give me their numbers I'm pretty handsome in shape wealthy...but I just feel like if that great section of my life went down the toilet...why even start up another....seems like a waste.....I just keep moving on working and hobbies.
I knew a girl for 20 years, very good friend (or so i thought), we have been in a relationship for about 7 years in two rounds (first was 20 years ago). The breakup was more than 2 years ago now. She has completely disappeared, and moved out 100 km away with her new bf. Break up was friendly but she acts as she never knew me, as if we never were friends and never met. Not a single word from her, absolutely nothing
I've been dating since. But i am emotionless, numb, i can't love and feel love. I tried but it is impossible. I am now 41 years old and i feel i won't love again (at least not like i loved her).
Don’t go back on the socials, life is better without it
“They can usually hold it together for about 5-6 months before all their issues come out”
That hit deep
The timing of this video, OMG! TYSM CK and Vicky ❤ I have just recently started dating someone casually and this is a great reminder for me to implement the skills that I have learned from your other videos. You both are heaven sent!
So true 😂 all these promises at the beginning and once you fall for them they peace out. Every. Time.
19years being married,2years since we break up,I think I'm not ready yet
Hey coaches... This is very, very good! Youuuuu 😁 guys hit a lot of pointers that the dater can't come outright and say without offending them. Thank you!
What a beautiful message Victoria! Thank you for the great advice! You guys are hilarious! 😂😂
Thank you Graig and Victoria
Coach Victoria, I feel like I know ewe after watching so many of the videos but truly I don't really know ewe but... I LOVE EWEEEEE 🥰😍🥰😍 Great job to the both of you! Once again I learned a lot. Thank ewe both from the bottom of my heart.
I'm a guy...I don't have other "connections"...rarely can I even get ONE date or have enough energy to talk to more than one at a time ffs. Plus, it's the same fkn conversation...same damn questions. I honestly don't know how to do that anymore. Besides, I'm average and plain in every conceivable way...from character and socioeconomic status onward. Doesn't matter how cognizant I am about my flaws, this material, etc...it still doesn't matter. It's just not worth getting fkn hurt again either.
I know the feeling getting one simple date, get a phone number, some interest, then get ghosted or they fade away, for a guy it needs to be a grand performance. It's why break ups are usually so much painful for guys, trying to get a connection when getting one date it hard enough is miserable.
Trying to see if Victoria has a ring on that finger 👀
I was wondering something like that myself ☺☺
My ex and I somewhat talking and yesterday she wished me a happy 4th of july she made a little joke but then didn't respond after that.
Jumping around dating is setting yourself up again
Hey Craig an Vic, thanks for the video. I would like to suggest a future video. It is happening to me but I might not be the only one. I am already dating a way better person than my ex and I have worked on myself prior to this but recently my ex contacted me and I replied but nothing happened after that. I ended up confused but still committed to the new person. It's a struggle but you guys might enlighten people.
This video is great but doesn't apply to my situation. I'm done dating. I realised I can't do better than my ex. I've tried and failed hard. Too many superficial, emotionally immature people online with delusional standards and dealbreakers as long as the line to get into a Taylor Swift concert smh.
Meet people in public online dating is a dead-end trap.
Have better standards. Nature forces you to date, maybe not now but in the long run it will. Might as well practice in the meantime with a lot of women until you finally find the one.
@@mariotibbrine1no....its the same
6 years relationship, begged one week after breakup and then 5 months no contact and improving,she wished me happy birtday 2 months ago and that was all, we were friend only on Facebook and she unfriended me some days ago, sign that maybe she s moving on and I should start dating again when I m ready
How you feeling now? Hope u ok
Y’all are the best. Thanks for all you do.
I have a question. In this video you state that many people are hooking people in by saying things like “I am going to marry you” and stuff like that, early on. Are you suggesting that these people have attachment issues and are, therefore, maybe, not good partners? Because this sounds a LOT like my ex, and I’m still trying to figure some things out.
"sliding versus deciding," sounds like my ex.
Wow this video was very relevant
Is it bad if your ex sees you on dating apps?
😅😅😅😅no
"How do I get out of my house???" 😱😱😱 😂
Thanks thanks thanks
I like your coaching and videos. I do find it odd how it is generally kind of geared towards heterosexual relationships and often talks about men and women. Do you feel in your personal or professional opinion that all relationships and guidelines around relationships also extend to gay people as well? I don't hear much about gay people on your channel. I realize you guys are heterosexual but I was just curious. Thanks. Great content and advice!
Work a holic on their profile? NEXT
Hello, from Idaho🥔😂
I'll get there.
I'd be better off renting women by the hour.
I get to have fun, mama-san doesn't beat her in the alley for lack of money...
It's a mutually beneficial arrangement.