Effective Questioning Techniques That Build Human Connection

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  • EFFECTIVE QUESTIONING TECHNIQUES that build human connection! // Want to ask better questions? This video shares effective questioning techniques that get people to open up, plus get ideas for asking follow-up questions. You will learn how to frame your curiosity for asking deeper questions and understand the best types of stories to ask about that build rapport.
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  • @RiazMeghji
    @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for watching! Let me know your favourite questions that either break the ice or that have created breakthrough moments for you.

    • @ZainMeghji
      @ZainMeghji 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Since you presented it at Creative Mornings, my new favourite go to question - is one that's been apparent to us all (because it's Facebook's status question): WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND?
      It's not about 'what you did' or 'what you're going to do', but rather asks what is going on in the here and now at THIS present moment.

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zain Meghji you can get answers you never expected by that one simple question.

    • @ZainMeghji
      @ZainMeghji 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RiazMeghji And sometimes you're like, I'm sorry I asked. TMI.

    • @colindoylend
      @colindoylend 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like asking these questions that help to uncover how I may help others (in no particular order):
      1. Where have you always wanted to travel to?
      2. Who did you last meet? Following-up with why if needed.
      3. Who are you meeting next? Following-up with your do you want to meet right now?
      4. What are you working on right now?
      5. What do you want to be working on?
      6. How do you (or your company) help others?

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These are great Colin. Really digging #4 to understand if people are living their potential right now.

  • @FearlessDreams
    @FearlessDreams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think another very important thing is to ask questions to yourself. And being honest with yourself.

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zlatin, this is a good point. No time better than the present for that type of self-reflection.

  • @jennifergopinath
    @jennifergopinath 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, Rombaa Nalla Irrkku,unnudey samsaram,

  • @KeyraFord
    @KeyraFord 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being a realtor this is golden!! Thanks for the great information!

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keyra, glad it helps especially in a time like this.

  • @jossbiggins
    @jossbiggins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some notes! The Basic’s:
    Be Brief
    Ask Open Ended Questions
    Make it About the Other Person.
    Before the questioning starts we need to develop a few things:
    * Do you care about me?
    * Can you help me?
    * Do I trust you?
    How do you do this? Go First. Share with something real, raw and vulnerable
    Five Keys to Effective Questioning
    1. Simplify your ask
    * One sentence questions.
    * EX: Whats on your mind?
    * What is your ideal scenario look like here?
    2. Dig deeper on second question
    * The first answer you get is the worst.
    * Forget about your next question and have the courage to step into uncertainty with the follow up. This does a few things: This shows you listened, that you care, that you want to learn more. The interviewee will feel heard and respected. This builds ground work
    * EX: Can you elaborate on that?
    * So is what you're saying… (recap)
    * Just ask why,
    3. Ask for stories, nor just answers
    * Stories are filled with emotion, answers are filled with logic.
    * Consider these three theme’s when asking a story question:
    * Trails
    * When is the last time you did something for the first time? When did you suck?
    * Transitions
    * How did you change?
    * Triumphs
    * What was the blueprint, what was the strategy to become so successful. Where they shine and share their moment of glory
    4. Don’t Assume the Answer
    * Don’t assume the answer. Don’t create context, keep things open so the person you're interviewing can think for them selves
    5. Silence is a killer!
    * Can be great if the interviewee is really thinking about the question. Throw out the question, be silent, watch magic happen.

  • @zenlifetv4837
    @zenlifetv4837 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey 👋🏽 Riaz I love your channel. All the videos I have watched has brought so much value. I enjoy how you get right to the point and give helpful tips!

  • @prasadpabolu
    @prasadpabolu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the great video

  • @larrystoner5529
    @larrystoner5529 ปีที่แล้ว

    thankyou sir

  • @vekhonienu7980
    @vekhonienu7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it 😆
    Love from Nagaland, India 🇮🇳

  • @carlosmethodfitness
    @carlosmethodfitness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great channel Riaz - love this video! Really great questions - thank you for sharing.

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it helped. Keep us moving Carlos!

  • @nandoism
    @nandoism 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey boss! 👀👀👀Thanks for the awesome video. I’ll be asking great questions for sure! 💥👍🏽💥👍🏽💥💥

  • @tecplannet8527
    @tecplannet8527 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great

  • @theswcoaching
    @theswcoaching 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These are absolutely fabulous! Thank you!

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Stephen. Got any favourites that work for you?

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your tip about leading with vulnerability!

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! Any good tips you swear by?

  • @ElizabethSampson
    @ElizabethSampson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such great questions! Don't assume the answers! I am so guilty of this. Silence is key!

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We should just ask questions while doodling. Everyone would be calmer!

    • @FearlessDreams
      @FearlessDreams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was reading silently this comment. :D

  • @viktoriagalitsi6406
    @viktoriagalitsi6406 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great video, thank you Riaz!

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Viktoria

  • @LucyGriffithsdotcom
    @LucyGriffithsdotcom 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing a great video content...

  • @nandoism
    @nandoism 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaas. Don’t overwhelm your audience! 🥰🎯🥰🎯

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We can all use simplicity right now. Thanks Nando

  • @FionaFlyte
    @FionaFlyte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful, thank you. It can be really hard to be the one to start that conversation.

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Truth. But the one that does can transform the relationship dynamic. Thanks Fiona

  • @cococha
    @cococha 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative and useful video, keep it up

    • @RiazMeghji
      @RiazMeghji  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear it helped Vivian

  • @LeahKimBrighton
    @LeahKimBrighton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, this is so incredibly important right now.

  • @williamsee7611
    @williamsee7611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Riaz, check out some videos on vocal sibilance. It is easily controllable with a little effort :)