The irony of somebody using the “giga-Chad” meme to criticize LGBT+ people for “being proud of getting laid”, when having sex with women is the only thing alpha males ever talk about… Huh.
12:33 I think it's called Schrödinger's D-Bag, where someone will say some phobic s**t and then go "It's just a joke, bro" when called out for it, but will keep going if not called out
yessssssss its like the folks on youtube and tik tok who destroy property (I honestly dont care if you then hand them a new iphone or not that does not excuse the fact that you just destroyed their android phone.) and then scream "it was just a prank bro!" as they are arrested. A prank is a practical joke. It has to be funny to the victim as well for it to be a prank. A prank is like a whoopee cushion..... a prank is NOT coming close to smacking people in the face with a basket ball. a lot of these "prank" channels are actually commiting literal crimes and trying to get away with it by calling it a prank. Bigots " I think (horrid and disturbing acts) should happen to gay people! wait why are you leaving? it was just a joke bro!" like..... theres never a punch line even in those "jokes" . They just want to be able to say horrible things and not be called an a hole.
I recently watched El Dorado on Netflix and it speaks on homophobia and transphobia before and during Hitler’s rise to power. The medical institute for transgender people was burned by the Nazis, destroying over 20k books. 100k people were charged with homosexuality, 50k were incarcerated with it, and an estimated 5-15k died in concentration camps. There was a notable tennis player charged with it, but criminality wasn’t ever repealed during his career so he was barred from competing internationally, where it counted. That’s one of many reasons for pride.
I have never been shown a progress flag by any teacher in my time in the English education system, the most I have seen is pride pins on student uniforms
I'm a straight (cis) man and I honestly feel the same about gay couples that I feel about other couples. I usually find them cute. People in love are beautiful and should be cherished!
Yes! (though I am aroace + agender [aka barely existing, haha]) Whenever I see a couple holding hands or being generally lovey-dovey with each other, it always puts a smile on my face. Doesn't matter what gender any of them are. I see love, I feel happy.
I mean when Al Bundy is a more inclusive person than they are they need help. Al has said on episodes of MWC that gays should be allowed to get married because "they deserve to be just as miserable as the rest of us". And is Al inclusive of trans people? Well, he once hot his HS football buddies together for one last game and found that one had changed genders. Al thought it was a joke till he looked up her skirt. And what happened after? Al kept her on hos team and she was even invited to join the guys in a post game drink at the bar. (Yes her character is played for laughs mostly but she isn't the punching bag of the episode, though she is deadnamed thru theepisode. Hell Marcy even supports her and Marcy is so hardcore feminist one might've expected her to be a TERF)
The heterochromia is a play on words of how straight people are also referred to as hetero. But what’s ironic is how many of these homophobes are so right wing they would hate on the people with heterochromia.
I think the second one at least might just be a translation error cause the comment has been translated and facebook translations are really weird sometimes
My understanding of the cat one was that because the cat had two different colored eyes, it represents the eyes being 'straight' and therefore people who are gay must be upset about it, so therefore gay people would call the cat's eyes homophobic. So in a sense the people who agree with that meme are on the side of the cat. The creator was trying to make fun of LGBTQ people for being dramatic/oversensitive (which is obviously not true lol, it was a bad attempt at a joke.) Or maybe I'm reading too much into this lol
@@_ductape_471I think it's because the prefix homo means the same. Ain't specifically for attractions and phobia can mean either discrimination or it can mean an irrational fear so the eyes have different colours because they're scared of being identical making them homophobic it's stupid, but that's what I got out of it I don't know what the meme actually was tryna say
"Without straight people, you wouldn't be here!" Me, a pregnant bisexual: I beg your pardon? ETA: it's a test tube baby too so the idea that "WOMAN HAVE BABY. CAN'T HAVE BABY NO WOMAN" is especially aggravating to me. Plenty of cis women, myself included, struggle to get pregnant and I know at least two trans guys who got pregnant on the first try. But I'm sure those bearded dudes are more women than I am, right? 🙄
@@Pozorrogo that’s literally the point. doesn’t matter how a baby is made, gay & trans people can have children. not every person on earth was made by a straight person
Its very annoying when I read comments saying it's everywhere or I dont want it in my face...it really shows what kind of people they are if it annoys them that much. Honestly its not just prode but anything that shows people to be proud of themselves and they'll take it as an attack of some sort of annoyance its very disheartening
When there's a whole month dedicated to it, flags designed for it, modern movies focused more on pride than on actual storytelling, and some people centering their entire identity around their sexual orientation, it certainly feels like it's everywhere.
To be fair, Netflix sucks at portraying LGBT+ characters. One Netflix show I watched has a bi character, which is nice... except she's portrayed as a cheater.
Honestly, I think that's fine as long as it's not the only representation. Not all LGBT+ characters should be good people, they should just be LGBT+. It is nice to see good characters though.
I reccomend Arcane The writers thought of the idea that "what if this world never had a reason to differentiate between sexuality, would they even use words for it?"
The PRIDEMONTH > DEMON graphic was actually created by a queer artist (Art By Veya), went viral "thanks" to 'phobes and was then reclaimed by The Queers (R).
My answer to the person who wants to know how to punish their son for having a boyfriend: "Well, he already has you as a parent, that's more than enough punishment".
If you look up on the rules to abide by for the American flag, burning is indeed protected by the first amendment as a form of protest against the government. (And there are rules that it’s illegal to use the American flag as clothing, swim wear, plates, napkins, and in political campaigns. So every day especially in summer and during election year, people are breaking that rule and should be punished. Lmao!) The Pride flag is to represent a minority group that gets a lot of hate and attacks. So burning the Pride flag is indeed a form of hate crime to a minority community. Other flags such as the nazi flag and the confederate flag, as far as I know, has no protections and can be burned in protest towards a hateful group of people that should no longer exist in our modern society. Hate groups are not protected.
So, the thing about using the flag as clothing: you are allowed to reproduce the flag's pattern on a piece of clothing. That is a picture of a flag which is not considered a flag. What you may *not* do, is take an actual flag and make it into a garment. I.e. if you get given a flag, say because your loved one was killed in combat, you cannot later make a shirt out of it. However, if the fabric was not ever a flag to begin with, but merely features a pattern similar to the flag, that is fine. Also, an actual flag has to be made of fabric and specifically wool or cotton. If it is made of paper or plastic it is also, not a flag. An actual flag also has to be saluted, but a picture of a flag does not need to be. The other weird thing you can't do to flags is walk on them. Flag burning however, is considered a respectful protest. Red white and blue bunting is also, not a flag.
@@golwenlothlindel Also burning a flag is the one of the only ways to properly dispose of a flag that is no longer fit to be flown (due to wear and tear of use and age).
the flag is also not allowed to be flown higher than any other (allied) nation's flag on neighboring poles during times of peace, nor should it be laid down and flown horizontally/flat (think like, 20 people carrying a flat flag out for the superbowl like it's a blanket and they all have a corner/side to cover the field with it. like, they really don't give a crap about the flag code or disrespecting it. they just want to be bigots
Thank you! I knew there was a reason why I was looking at that meme and thinking "But... I don't get it, what point they're trying to make here...?" Wasn't there an episode of 'Seinfeld' back in the day where they got into HUGE trouble for a scene where Kramer accidentally burned the Portuguese flag? It was played as a total accident, for which he got a load of flack in the scene from the Portuguese characters around him - but there were loads of complaints, simply for the fact that it was used as a cheap gag in the show at all.
Good LGBTQ+ joke: What do you call a non-binary person who can’t have milk? Non-biDairy. Bad LGBTQ+ joke: haha my pronouns are U/S/A and I’m an attack helicopter.
One day, I wore a shirt that said "Hello, my pronouns are They/Them" to school, then an administrator read it and said, " *I'm* not a bit fan of pronouns, cuz *they* don't make sense to *me.* " He... He used a solid 3 pronouns in that sentence. *They* make perfect sense to *him.*
I think the confusion lies in the fact that people will use gender neutral pronouns when they dont know what the person they are talking about, looks like so when you ask them to keep doing it in person and their mind is looking at your physical form, it creates a disconnect that confuses the hell outta them. Its not that they arent a fan of pronouns, its that they dont understand why some people want the pronouns that indicate you've never met and know nothing about them kinda thing. It's a weird one for sure.
@@starscreamthecruel8026 sure, I can see that argument. But on the other hand, it's what the person SAID they wanted, so you could just... do it anyway
@@ekrtznekrtz5229 Firstly, missing the point. The point was that this “grammatically incorrect” pronoun is very much grammatically correct. If you’d like more evidence, how about the fact that singular they is older than singular you? Secondly, we already do talk like Shakespeare, considering how many of our words and phrases he just invented
Tbh I *do* think that homophobes/transphobes are, on a deep emotional level, scared. The visibility/acceptance of LGBT+ people makes them feel threatened because of their own insecurities and fears, and that's what drives them to aggression. So yes, "phobia" is a 100% correct term in this case.
If they were as confident and secure as they want us to think, they wouldn't be so homophobic (or lgbt+ phobic in general). So yes, I think there is fear involved. Fear of change if nothing else. Besides, "phobia" means aversion more than fear, so it still works either way.
I am so annoyed when oppressor classes try to equate jokes at their expense, with jokes at the expense of the oppressed. Come on people, this is not a hard concept to grasp; punching UP in comedy is GOOD, punching DOWN in comedy is BAD. 🤦♀
Similarly with dark humour. A lot of people mistake dark humour with being an ashole and/or plain sadistic. Dark humour is finding irony and absurdity etc in dark situations and topics to laugh at. Not laughing for the situation.
Or, a radical concept that might not make sense, maybe we don't need to be punching people at all under the guise of comedy. The only people I tease are the people who are my friends, know that I'm joking, and know that I will listen if they ever have a problem with me or something I say. When you don't have that relationship with someone, because they're a group of people or a stranger, you can easily just not make jokes at their expense.
@@illithiddynobolt5613 criticized existing power structures via humor is not a bad thing. It's Good and necessary. And pacifism is a cowards ideology.
I thought that with the slur slip joke since I know so many gay people use them, but it's definitely a "used the wrong joke with the wrong friend group" vibe
I’m in high school and the first time I ever saw a teacher acknowledge anyone besides the Jewish (lgbtq, the disabled, Romani, etc) being harmed in the holocaust was in my dual enrollment history class this year. It took until I was 16 and taking a college class to see this (although I had educated myself already so I knew it wasn’t just the Jewish). Since when was school all about the lgbtq community?
It took me until 8th grade history class. Which is kinda when you start getting into the WW2 things but yeah before that you only really hear of Jewish people getting killed
@@ttintagelmy dad taught me about those, my teacher didn't like when I asked when we were going to talk about that part in the unit on ww2. I was honestly just trying to learn, but I got in trouble for "being argumentative". I wasn't trying to argue anything or make a statement, or cause any kind of problem, just curious if we were gonna talk about it. My teachers didn't k ow at the time that I an autistic and didn't realize it was taboo to talk about.
If someone is so stupid that they rely on ai art to make their propaganda cartoons now instead of paying actual artists, it’s safe to say these “people” will never listen to reason.
I am not sure why Woke has become a political slur either. It is an an African/American word from the early 40s that is referred to respecting minority groups culture, communities and justice.
In the USA at least right wing political people have occasionally been very successful at co-opting terminology and taking ownership over it. Take for instance "fake news". That wasn't originally a Trump thing as everyone seems to think it is now. In 2016 when Trump was running against Hillary Clinton, it was first a term used by the Hillary camp in referring to a wave of what can only be described as fake news stories. There were these websites mimicking legitimate news websites but hosting completely false stories. They called them fake news, but Trump adopted the term and now the political right effectively owns it. It's a powerful political move because owning a term in that way can deny the opposition from using it. There are a lot of fake stories out there spread by right-wing sources but progressive people can't call them fake news anymore because people assume people who use that term are conservatives. Something like that is going on with "woke". I'm told the original definition was that it means one is aware of racial injustice. Racists can't have that. So they took the term and they mutated it beyond all recognition and turned it into a content free phrase the basically means nothing which they can map all kinds of meaning onto.
It became a slur because it's scary for the non- oppressed groups potentially being held accountable for their actions towards poc and minorities. So they try to associate the word with what they perceive as negative connotations in order to discredit the movement itself.
Weird story about homophobes, but in my chemistry class a kid asked other if they'd rather be gay or a pedophile. The only people who didn't either struggle or just choose the wrong answer was a group of girls in the back. I wasn't asked by them, I just overheard, but if they did asked I would've answered and just told them straight up that they aren't good people.
@science_bear Congratulations, you’ve established that *some* straight people, and in fact more specifically just some homophobes are in fact pædophiles. My question is, how does that equate to all straight people being pædophiles in your mind?
Even with that thumbnail i have things to say, there's a difference between destroying a flag representing imperialism and genocide and destroying a flag of a minority
exactly, the american flag represents a country and what the country does, meanwhile the pride flag represents, as you said, a minority of people who have been hate crimed and discriminated throughout history
Or- a flag representing an ideological collection of segmented areas (states) and an abstract identity for a nation that doesn't represent any individual person Vs. A flag that represents PEOPLE. And the identities of those minority people. Created by those people to represent who they are and the oppression they they've conquered. So it's hate speech when you're burning a flag that represents a minority and actual individuals but not when you're burning an abstract concept of a collective.
@@xRollermaniacx 🤣 more-like homo-phobic-phobic? both sides repelling each-other, rather than just one repelling the other, so it's like... SUPER-Repulsion... like Star Trek/Star Wars repulsors... or Magnets... and nobody knows how THOSE work! 🤣
the creator of the rainbow seatbelts meme CLEARLY didn't see the bit in jurassic park where alan only had 2 female seatbelts and he just tied them together in a knot to make it work. so in reality it doesn't matter what's on the ends of your seatbelt, they ALL fit together in some way or another because LIFE FINDS A WAY.
Heterochromia runs in my family. My uncle was born with one blue eye and one brown eye. Both eyes eventually turned brown. His mother (my grandmother) had brown eyes nearly all her life, but they turned blue when she was about 80. Genes are wild.
14:30 the "mental illness" take is not the own they think it is. Setting aside the obvious incorrectness, there's the very substantial fact that being prejudiced against people with mental illness is NOT BETTER.
Also, it doesn’t make sense logically either, when treating someone who is acutely psychotic, you don’t attack them or their psychosis. You let them know you are trying to help them and that they are safe. You may gently challenge some parts of the psychosis, e.g. “I am not spying on you for the government, I’m here to ask you what you want for dinner “ but you don’t say “yo your crazy and stupid because you’re different than me”. Like WTF?
I love the logic about the two pieces fitting together meaning they are "meant for each other"..... Like golf balls and a human mouth. Just because they can go in there, does not mean they are the ONLY thing that CAN go in there by divine decree.
You could expand on it too. Change it to a lightbulb. Just because you can fit it in your mouth doesn’t mean you should. Unless your goal is to go to the ER.
@@Star1412s well, I was going to talk about how some people claim that how a banana fits easily in the human hand is a sign that they believe that it is intelligent design and was created by a loving God. Well, male genitalia fits in someone's rectum just as well but other people are not claiming it is a sign of divine intervention.
@@8bitjoystickthe funny part is bananas are not at all natural. They are created by humans. To my knowledge natural bananas are extinct, I don't think they were preserved like other plants. The original was rounded, kind of like an egg or melon shape, rough skin compared to what has now, and quite little of it was the soft edible flesh, not to mention it wasn't nearly as sweet. This is why banana medicine tastes so wrong. That flavour is closer to what bananas originally tasted like than what they taste like now.
@@velvetbutterfly there used to be FAR more varieties of bananas. but because of human intervention and selectively breeding them to correct shape and reduce the amount of seeds and whatnot, the bananas of old became very susceptible to blight, and as a result, died off en masse so these days, it's pretty much just the one or two species of banana that are grown and sold worldwide. i think Cavendish bananas account for about half of them, and in the US, Cavendish bananas make up 95% of the bananas sold and eaten.
0:54 There was a movement to change the ‘phobia’/‘phobic’ to ‘misia’/‘misic’ to change from ‘fear’ to ‘hate’. Of course I didn’t see widespread acceptance of the term.
If someone brings up "phobia means scared" you can retort with "hydrophobia". Phobia can also mean "repels", like how hydrophobic items repel water from themselves.
@@Justapikachu577 There are multiple terms with -phobic you can use as example. Water is lipophobic (repels fat) and your eyes can be photophobic (sensitive to light). Another proof that bigoted people peaked in high school and only know very veeery basic biology, chemistry and terminology.
@@Justapikachu577 the aversion fits all categories Fear is an aversion Hate is an aversion Repulsion is an aversion Arachnophobia Homophobia Hydrophobia
I went out to eat with my mom for Mother's Day, and I wore my little black dress, my pearl necklace, my hair in a bun, and a bow in my hair. Glad to see a video from you.
@@queenboss7 I asked a Christian online that if God allegedly made everyone the way they are, why would he create a sub sect of people in an orientation that is specifically demonized by the bible? The guy said, because God needs enemies for his chosen people to fight and some just drew the short straw. In other words, in his eyes and those that believe this, we simply exist to be ridculed, bullied, converted, fought against and obliterated by the chosen ones. The warriors of God must ALWAYS have an external enemy to fight lest they turn on each other. Its another reason not to follow such a narrow minded, territorial. hateful death cult.
13:49 i once made a attack-hellicopter like joke to my(then NB, now trans girl) friend that if i saw someone making fun of her pronouns, I would "identify as a FLUCKING PROBLEM!" and i believe this is the only type of attack helicopter joke that's acceptable.
It’s also acceptable to respond to someone saying “so you identify as an attack helicopter” with “yes I do”, as long as you make sure to specify which one. It can just be any attack helicopter, just make sure to yes and their sad attempt at a joke
We as the queer community have fought for so long and so hard to get to a point where lots of us are comfortable being out and lots of us are comfortable coming out, which wouldn't have happened years ago. I just think straight people need to stop and thank their lucky stars that they've never had to, nor will they ever have to, go through what we've gone through to get to this point and we still have a long way to go. Straight people need to show respect for the struggles we've faced as a community instead of being a bunch of homophobic assholes. Of course, not all straight people are, I'm referring to those that are. It's hard enough that members of our own community turn on each other. Such a shame.
What I have never understood as a cis-straight-white-male is how some people have the mental space to give a s*it about what others are doing, so long as it isn’t HARMING someone. *** I am 100 percent an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community, but say I wasn’t. I have way more than enough of my own problems to care about what someone else is doing behind closed doors.
These people have too much free time on their hands and nothing to fill it with. This is what happens when you demonise people having hobbies past the age of 10.
@@starscreamthecruel8026 oh yea, and then it's also no surprise that women are involved in transphobia a lot. not saying that it's justified for them to be transphobic, but it's logical they often don't really have a hobby when demonising hobbies most often happens to girls/women past the age of 10! "shopping/clubbing/kpop/makeup/... ain't a hobby, those are obsessions/deception (in the case of make-up)/hysteria!", men say, while they literally have a man cave where they act like they're 5, with their "no girls allowed!" signs on the door, just with fancier toys than back when they actually were 5. or when they see women go crazy over kpop or taylor swift, that's not valid, that's "hysteria". i remember how it was back in the day when justin bieber/1D was a thing, same thing. but when men literally fight each other in the streets before/after a football game, or even in the stadium, that's all fine, because "they're just passionate about something". sorry for the long comment, but i've always hated that double standard and your comment reminded me of it
@@KrimsonKattYT no it was a short I saw about how some lady lit a restaurants pride flag on fire and how the owner got an even bigger one after that, the video was nice but the comments were flooded with people calling the woman that burned the flag a hero, saying that she should get a medal and other things like that
@@CosmicRabbitX3Of course the homophobes are encouraging literal crimes (the destruction of public property). And they wonder why everyone calls them bigots
The person who got LGBTQ+ content offered on spotify despite listening to "homophobic rap" was probably listening to Tyler, the Creator's early albums lmao. Wait until they they get to Igor and Flower Boy. On the 'I just assumed Jesus is gay" thing, someone should do a movie or series about Jesus in a bi love triangle with Judas and Mary Magdalene. Jesus Christ Superstar is the closest thing (especially the 200 tv version) but still.
Trying my best to translate while paraphrasing to prevent TH-cam shadow banning my comment: “I don’t get the point of pride. Why should you be proud just because of who you sleep with”
2:28 If, say, a flat earther happens to be gay, I'll still make fun of them for being a flat earther. Like, cool, you're gay, I support that, doesn't change that the earth is round.
I learned about both taxes and LGBTQ+ stuff. My government teacher taught about when the US legalized gay marriages, but other than that the LGBTQ+ stuff was from GSA, which I'm incredibly glad they offered
2:44 I've had this happen to me so much in the past week. I was getting called the f slur repeatedly by someone who was saying it was "just a joke". At first i was angry, then i decided to play dumb and ask "what's so funny?" And I kept doing that till she looked so mortified that she left me alone. Once you ask them to explain the joke they get so embarrassed and they shut their mouths.
Then the bigots should stay indoors every time the sun comes out :D Live in the dark and become moles. With no offence to real moles(the animal) of course.
Phobia is butchered these days. Its overuse has always irked me. To keep things simple I prefer the technical definition. "A phobia is a persistent, excessive, unrealistic fear of an object, person, animal, activity, or situation. It is a type of anxiety disorder. A person with a phobia either tries to avoid the thing that triggers the fear, or endures it with great anxiety and distress." - Definition from Harvard Health.
@@kdog3908 to add to that, both homophobia and xenophobia are medically recognized phobias. And the list of phobias can be expanded as new types emerge
@@jayfalcon-rw3qc Agreed. The difference being a phobia is a significant, diagnosable and treatable condition. Conversely, someone who doesn't like Muslims might be a bigot but it doesn't necessarily make them an Islamophobe. Not liking something, for whatever reason, does not a phobia make.
@@kdog3908 well, here's a kind of hot take. Bigotry and mental illness are not mutually exclusive. So, there's bound to be overlap. I have a bad habit of talking to bigots, and for a lot of them, you can back them into a corner logically, and then the irrationality comes out, and it makes less and less sense. I'm not a mental health professional, but I suspect there's something like that going on, especially with homophobia and xenophobia. The things they tell me to justify their stance sound like it's deeply rooted in their personal psychology and emotions. But I'm not an expert by any means. The most common type I've met: cishet white men who have trouble maintaining relationships and seem to think that if they can't hold onto a woman, the world will think they're gay. The question is, where does the opinion end and the psychological problem begin? I think it's a grey area that we only notice when it becomes extreme and uncontrollable, as in when it gets violent
Kinda just looks like a good cover for a romance novel about a farmer and a traveling solar-panel repairman, if I'm being honest. Call it Sunrise of the Heart or something.
Cool thing happening down here in Melbourne, Australia! I have officially become a consultant for the church on LGBTQIA+ matters and how to make our church a safe space for the queer Christian community! I'm non binary and asexual, and I'm really excited that after years of talking and planning, they're actually taking steps! Just wanted to share some good news of progress happening down here 😊🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
They've cancelled pride in my local town this year and its apparently because the event organisers are just charging too much money for the event to happen. Greed ruins things for everyone!
Saying that LGBT people aren't treated equally because you can't make jokes about them is like saying white people are oppressed because you can't make racist jokes.
17:58 this reminds me of the backlash memes to people pointing out various hints that Gwen Stacy may be trans, one of which being her color scheme being the same as the flag. They involved the same punchline with the same horrible symbol, but it was also dragging Miles Morales into it too like if one character is trans because of a flag color scheme, then this other character must be a notZ. Apparently.
@@Lizard_Ri the thing is, it was wasn’t the only or biggest clue. That was the “protect trans kids” trans flag above her door. The color schemes matching wasn’t something that would make or break the theory, but some people were mad and were willing to call someone who was helped by anarchist (who categorically don’t like NotZs) a NotZ just to prove it was silly when it was just a neat detail that fit well with a pre-established theory, not the basis of it.
I'm still a little puzzled about that one because typically they are committed to arguing that being gay is a choice, and that comic positions it as being effectively predestined. If the person who posted it is a Christian they were implying that their God is a malicious God. These are all things that they're typically committed to opposing. Not understanding satire is one thing, but posting a meme that implies that your God is a vicious monster unworthy of praise is quite something else.
@@teshlafreeman4040 I detect a hint of sarcasm. Is it safe to assume that you don't get it? That's fine. Until you start getting snarky and speaking for everyone (based on a misunderstanding). Or are you one of the homophobic, etymological pedants that this is aimed at (in which case you just got beat at your own game)?
@@teshlafreeman4040 Rhetorical: they aren’t actually asking a question, it’s just to make a point Etymological: relating to the study of words and their origins Pedant: someone who makes big deals about slightly incorrect phrasing choices to be annoying and shut down arguments
13:47 the only version of this joke I’ve ever liked is “I identify as none of your business, do not perceive me, my pronouns are is/not”. And that’s just because it was a trans person saying it as a rebuttal.
1:44 Yessss. Our identities being boiled down to sex is such a huge problem because a lot of homophobes stop children from learning about orientation and stop gay people from being outwardly gay because they see it as inherently sexual and I wish we could just get through to them that it’s the same, that our relationships are just like theirs, and thus aren’t inherently sexual as their relationships aren’t.
Man LGBTQ stuff isn't even that complicated I'm pretty sure, its just thinking a bit and realizing "Damn I'm gay as fuck before planning and deciding when to come back, its just stressful but I don't know if its complicated enough for a lesson. Also is math fun? No, is it useful to know? Yes, so why is taxes not being fun to learn relevant talking about if we should learn on them
@@Thesigmaone747 I understand I could have been a bit more clear on the learning about taxes part. I meant that the people that say “we should learn about taxes” probably wouldn’t listen if they did. Yes it’s useful and so is math but not everyone listens in those classes. It’s also an excuse for homophobes to make fun of the lgbtq+ community like “I would rather learn about taxes”
That "Sorry I made you gay" one with Jesus hugging the gay person before sending him to hell doesn't come across to me as homophobic or accidental ally. It must be satirical.
I think the question is what the intent of the comic is. Is it meant to be in support of homophobia or is it meant to criticize it? I think it's clearly meant to criticize it. The Christian God is supposed to be an all-loving entity who is all good all the time. But the comic depicts him choosing to make people gay knowing that that will cause them to suffer eternal torment. A god of pure goodness would not do such a thing, which is why I think it's meant to ridicule the idea that God cares about people's sexuality. You could say that it depicts homophobia, but it depicts it to mock it. It depicts a homophobic Jesus or God because such an depiction makes a mockery out of what Christians generally believe their deity to be. If the comic was meant to be anti-gay, it would never have depicted God as making people gay at birth. They generally rely upon the argument that people choose to be gay therefore it's okay to treat them hatefully. They can't say that their God makes people gay because then they would be hating people for their god-given natures.
@@draalttom844 but only recently. According to translations of the bible from Norway and Sweden, that commandment originally says *No Man Will Lie With A Child As He Would A Woman* but got updated in 1980 or something to read Another Man. So originally it was pedophiles will go to hell, not Gays. Makes me wonder, what else from the original txt has been altered to reflect modern thinking?
Did the people making the seatbelt analogy not see the bit in Jurassic Park where Grant tied the two "female" ends of the seatbelt together? Love finds a way.
The thing is, I make a lot of offensive and downright awful jokes with my friends, the difference is, it stops at a joke, and isn't a reflection of my actual opinion, like it is for many bigots. The difference is that it isn't JUST a joke for them, cuz it doesn't stop at the joke
@@94DeathAngelI believe it started out as a population fact. A larger % of the world is asexual than there are in Denmark, so if they wanted to, they could invade. It was similar to something like pigs could invade the Uk since they vastly out number people
I can remember when homosexually was illegal in the UK. Things ebb & flow but over mylife time things have got better for gay people with things like gay marriage. Now it's trans and non binary people who need the most support. Both the Conservatives and the Labour parties are being very transphobic and it feels like it is getting worse, the UK is now institutionally transphobic and in light of the Cass report that includes the NHS. 💐🦕💃👗😌🐈⬛😼♥️☕🥖🧀🇪🇺🇺🇦🌈🏳️⚧️💐
The thing about Netflix shows is that I often feel like they throw in the diversity just to get brownie points, but put very little effort in good quality writing, etc. And then interesting shows (with diversity in them) get canceled after one season as soon as the hype dies down, leaving everyone hanging and jumping to the next mediocre project.
10:43 - As somebody who’s just now finishing up my years of education, I can confirm I never once learned about jobs, taxes or housing. The closest we got was teachers screaming “you need to know this for a career” and not elaborating. But we were also never taught ANYTHING even remotely not-straight. I learned about the community from seeing gay in The Owl House and wanting to know more. In fact, I don’t think I learned ANY important life skills in the school I went to. I’m coming out of school with a few qualifications and the social/living skills of a soggy loaf of bread. So in other words, schools aren’t being useful either way, whether it is for or against their bigotry :D
10:43 I saw a wonderful post on Tumblr the other day, about a bunch of electricians taking the crappy "plug and socket" metaphor and saying "Um. Actually." and it was all the ways that that metaphor was completely terrible and inaccurate, purely based on different types of electrical chords. Awesome stuff going down.
the seatbelt "metaphor" is very interesting to me because, like... it's assuming one side is a peen and one is a vaj. but the reason seatbelts work is that they lock. and people don't "lock" during intercourse. so really, the seatbelt metaphor isn't about peen-in-vaj sex: it's about knotting.
7:24 Honestly, that might be an intentional ally taking the p- out of the idea that being gay - something that can't be helped - is somehow a sin. Then again, Poe's law is a thing.
Something I do when I hear some one tell me a homophobic or bigoted joke is to tell them " i dont get it." and then sit back and watch their head spin as they try to explain the "joke" with out admitting their own bigotry.
The hetrochromia thing seems like an honest mistake, a person may not make it but if they mis-spell hetrochromia then autocorrect will likely go for the more commonly used word that looks like that. Well at least the first time, I seem to remember that becoming a small meme on a gay subreddit a while ago after the first pic surfaced.
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You should make trans fans
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@@ShadowtheEdgehog01 HIIIII
Perhaps you should consider becoming a 🦄 wrangler, although I've heard they can be quite ✨horny✨ though😅
Clicky and Jamie on the same day, On my birthday???? best day everrr
"how can someone be proud for their own orientation in getting laid" my asexuality just flew out the window damn
Same brother, same
My thoughts exactly. I’m so tired of pride being reduced to something I don’t even engage in.
Oops, I guess I'm not Ace anymore
You need someone to catch that for you two?
my orientation is NOT "in getting laid" 😎
...not because i'm ace, i just can't get laid
The irony of somebody using the “giga-Chad” meme to criticize LGBT+ people for “being proud of getting laid”, when having sex with women is the only thing alpha males ever talk about… Huh.
“”””””“Alpha”””””””
@@Znerpznarpythey're alpha because they -come- first
@velvetbutterfly 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@velvetbutterfly And just like alpha radiation, they have low penetration levels
@@Dr_Mortis_SCPYou beat me to it, fellow chemistry/physics fan
Are they ever OK if we're being honest with ourselves?
No.... They're not. And it's kinda sad
They really aren't
Well, they wouldn't be 'phobes if they were ok
By definition they aren’t. If a homophobe were ever “OK”, they’d stop being a homophobe.
Queerphobic People can't be okay😔
12:33 I think it's called Schrödinger's D-Bag, where someone will say some phobic s**t and then go "It's just a joke, bro" when called out for it, but will keep going if not called out
They want plausible deniability so if you call them on their shit they can try to turn things around by making you look 'sensitive' or 'unreasonable'
yessssssss its like the folks on youtube and tik tok who destroy property (I honestly dont care if you then hand them a new iphone or not that does not excuse the fact that you just destroyed their android phone.) and then scream "it was just a prank bro!" as they are arrested. A prank is a practical joke. It has to be funny to the victim as well for it to be a prank. A prank is like a whoopee cushion..... a prank is NOT coming close to smacking people in the face with a basket ball. a lot of these "prank" channels are actually commiting literal crimes and trying to get away with it by calling it a prank.
Bigots " I think (horrid and disturbing acts) should happen to gay people! wait why are you leaving? it was just a joke bro!" like..... theres never a punch line even in those "jokes" . They just want to be able to say horrible things and not be called an a hole.
Right wing "joke": *Pepper sprays baby*
-"What is wrong with you?!"
-"It's just a joke, bro!"
-"WHAT is the joke?!"
-"... kid is gay."
"why do you need pride just for being LGBT?" idk fam maybe 515 anti-LGBT bills nationwide in the first half of this year alone is why?
Cite a few examples please. Anything related to "transition" doesn't count.
@@ohmisterbelpit2457 why not?
I recently watched El Dorado on Netflix and it speaks on homophobia and transphobia before and during Hitler’s rise to power. The medical institute for transgender people was burned by the Nazis, destroying over 20k books. 100k people were charged with homosexuality, 50k were incarcerated with it, and an estimated 5-15k died in concentration camps.
There was a notable tennis player charged with it, but criminality wasn’t ever repealed during his career so he was barred from competing internationally, where it counted.
That’s one of many reasons for pride.
@@ohmisterbelpit2457 "cite some examples, but any examples don't count"
@@QuikVidGuy because that's self mutilation
I have never been shown a progress flag by any teacher in my time in the English education system, the most I have seen is pride pins on student uniforms
Fun animal fact:
If a lead female clownfish dies, a male in the colleny will become female and take her place
Edit: thanks for all the likes ❤
i can't believe they made nature woke 🤬🤬🤬🤬
THEY'RE MAKING THE FISH TRANS, ITS THE CHEMICALS IN THE WATER
@@prageruwu69 lol
Blasphemy
Wow, the left made nature woke!! 😢🤬😡
I'm a straight (cis) man and I honestly feel the same about gay couples that I feel about other couples. I usually find them cute. People in love are beautiful and should be cherished!
Yes! (though I am aroace + agender [aka barely existing, haha])
Whenever I see a couple holding hands or being generally lovey-dovey with each other, it always puts a smile on my face. Doesn't matter what gender any of them are. I see love, I feel happy.
Amen king🔥🔥💯💯
Damn right! 🎉🎉
I mean when Al Bundy is a more inclusive person than they are they need help.
Al has said on episodes of MWC that gays should be allowed to get married because "they deserve to be just as miserable as the rest of us". And is Al inclusive of trans people? Well, he once hot his HS football buddies together for one last game and found that one had changed genders. Al thought it was a joke till he looked up her skirt. And what happened after? Al kept her on hos team and she was even invited to join the guys in a post game drink at the bar.
(Yes her character is played for laughs mostly but she isn't the punching bag of the episode, though she is deadnamed thru theepisode. Hell Marcy even supports her and Marcy is so hardcore feminist one might've expected her to be a TERF)
@@borealernadelwald As a fellow aro-ace I very much feel the same way. It's people showing affection and it's beautiful.
The heterochromia is a play on words of how straight people are also referred to as hetero. But what’s ironic is how many of these homophobes are so right wing they would hate on the people with heterochromia.
I think the second one at least might just be a translation error cause the comment has been translated and facebook translations are really weird sometimes
My understanding of the cat one was that because the cat had two different colored eyes, it represents the eyes being 'straight' and therefore people who are gay must be upset about it, so therefore gay people would call the cat's eyes homophobic. So in a sense the people who agree with that meme are on the side of the cat. The creator was trying to make fun of LGBTQ people for being dramatic/oversensitive (which is obviously not true lol, it was a bad attempt at a joke.)
Or maybe I'm reading too much into this lol
and they also don't know how to spell lol
@@_ductape_471I think it's because the prefix homo means the same. Ain't specifically for attractions
and phobia can mean either discrimination or it can mean an irrational fear
so the eyes have different colours because they're scared of being identical
making them homophobic
it's stupid, but that's what I got out of it
I don't know what the meme actually was tryna say
It's literally a joke from tumblr
"Without straight people, you wouldn't be here!"
Me, a pregnant bisexual: I beg your pardon?
ETA: it's a test tube baby too so the idea that "WOMAN HAVE BABY. CAN'T HAVE BABY NO WOMAN" is especially aggravating to me. Plenty of cis women, myself included, struggle to get pregnant and I know at least two trans guys who got pregnant on the first try. But I'm sure those bearded dudes are more women than I am, right? 🙄
"without straight people you wouldn't be here!"
Me a pregnant trans man who is pan :🎉
@@yakuzaman5074 Still takes a sperm and an egg babe. Whether the sauce gets there naturally or in a turkey baster it takes both genders to make a baby
Congrats!!!
@@Pozorrogo that’s literally the point. doesn’t matter how a baby is made, gay & trans people can have children. not every person on earth was made by a straight person
Congratulations!
"They just think it's everywhere because they're not used to seeing it anywhere." Well said, Jamie.
Its very annoying when I read comments saying it's everywhere or I dont want it in my face...it really shows what kind of people they are if it annoys them that much. Honestly its not just prode but anything that shows people to be proud of themselves and they'll take it as an attack of some sort of annoyance its very disheartening
When there's a whole month dedicated to it, flags designed for it, modern movies focused more on pride than on actual storytelling, and some people centering their entire identity around their sexual orientation, it certainly feels like it's everywhere.
To be fair, Netflix sucks at portraying LGBT+ characters. One Netflix show I watched has a bi character, which is nice... except she's portrayed as a cheater.
Yeah, that moment you remember Luz Noceda was on Disney.
Honestly, I think that's fine as long as it's not the only representation. Not all LGBT+ characters should be good people, they should just be LGBT+. It is nice to see good characters though.
@@TheAlmacias cheating specifically is a bi stereotype. I'd rather not have a bi character portrayed as a cheater.
Did you forget She-Ra already?
I reccomend Arcane
The writers thought of the idea that "what if this world never had a reason to differentiate between sexuality, would they even use words for it?"
The PRIDEMONTH > DEMON graphic was actually created by a queer artist (Art By Veya), went viral "thanks" to 'phobes and was then reclaimed by The Queers (R).
I did not know that. Thanks for the fun fact!
its an anti semetic flag. ANYTHING to do with demons and leftists and rainbow people is anti semetism
I love it though, they wanna call us demons? Why not? :>
@@cozzalozza9089 emotional support ones?
@@barrylangille3523CLICK MENTIONED!
My answer to the person who wants to know how to punish their son for having a boyfriend:
"Well, he already has you as a parent, that's more than enough punishment".
Oof, well that explains my parents 😅😓
LOLLLLL THATS CLASSIC, I am using that one
no thats good parenting besides why dont you help disabled people hmm? like veterans people who are born blind people who are born with autism
@@derautisadrianos7050 punishing a kid for not being straight is good to you?
DAMNNNNN
If you look up on the rules to abide by for the American flag, burning is indeed protected by the first amendment as a form of protest against the government. (And there are rules that it’s illegal to use the American flag as clothing, swim wear, plates, napkins, and in political campaigns. So every day especially in summer and during election year, people are breaking that rule and should be punished. Lmao!)
The Pride flag is to represent a minority group that gets a lot of hate and attacks. So burning the Pride flag is indeed a form of hate crime to a minority community.
Other flags such as the nazi flag and the confederate flag, as far as I know, has no protections and can be burned in protest towards a hateful group of people that should no longer exist in our modern society. Hate groups are not protected.
So, the thing about using the flag as clothing: you are allowed to reproduce the flag's pattern on a piece of clothing. That is a picture of a flag which is not considered a flag. What you may *not* do, is take an actual flag and make it into a garment. I.e. if you get given a flag, say because your loved one was killed in combat, you cannot later make a shirt out of it. However, if the fabric was not ever a flag to begin with, but merely features a pattern similar to the flag, that is fine. Also, an actual flag has to be made of fabric and specifically wool or cotton. If it is made of paper or plastic it is also, not a flag. An actual flag also has to be saluted, but a picture of a flag does not need to be. The other weird thing you can't do to flags is walk on them. Flag burning however, is considered a respectful protest. Red white and blue bunting is also, not a flag.
But national flag when burned, it should be worse than burning lgbtq flag! People should honoring the national flag than lgbtq flag!
@@golwenlothlindel Also burning a flag is the one of the only ways to properly dispose of a flag that is no longer fit to be flown (due to wear and tear of use and age).
the flag is also not allowed to be flown higher than any other (allied) nation's flag on neighboring poles during times of peace, nor should it be laid down and flown horizontally/flat (think like, 20 people carrying a flat flag out for the superbowl like it's a blanket and they all have a corner/side to cover the field with it.
like, they really don't give a crap about the flag code or disrespecting it. they just want to be bigots
Thank you! I knew there was a reason why I was looking at that meme and thinking "But... I don't get it, what point they're trying to make here...?"
Wasn't there an episode of 'Seinfeld' back in the day where they got into HUGE trouble for a scene where Kramer accidentally burned the Portuguese flag? It was played as a total accident, for which he got a load of flack in the scene from the Portuguese characters around him - but there were loads of complaints, simply for the fact that it was used as a cheap gag in the show at all.
Technically the dinosaurs didn’t go fully extinct, as there are plenty of avian dinosaurs still around today.
True, but they don't need dentists. Still not a good business model.
Crocodiles, alligators, turtles and tortoises were also around when dinosaurs were alive
@@AutisticKittyStar don't forget sharks
@@AutisticKittyStaror are we just talking reptiles?
@@Sarisjackoviak1815 Yes, Sharks too, I forgot about those
My cats name is Frank and the little bit about Mr Homophobic Frank made me laugh so hard because his ears perked up like, "Yes? That me?"
Lol 😂
that’s adorable!
Sounds like you need to have a long, stern talk with Mr. Homophobic Frank the cat about being accepting of others' beliefs
That is so cute!🐱
Good LGBTQ+ joke: What do you call a non-binary person who can’t have milk? Non-biDairy.
Bad LGBTQ+ joke: haha my pronouns are U/S/A and I’m an attack helicopter.
Good shitte
Das a good lgbt joke as a Lactose intolerant enby lol
My personal favorite is a post saying "I texted a trans girl and I asked her what video games she's into. It's been 2 hours and she's still typing."
I hate both
@@lonesavior yoooooooooooooo
One day, I wore a shirt that said "Hello, my pronouns are They/Them" to school, then an administrator read it and said, " *I'm* not a bit fan of pronouns, cuz *they* don't make sense to *me.* " He... He used a solid 3 pronouns in that sentence. *They* make perfect sense to *him.*
yeah, they sound REAL stupid when they say they don't use pronouns AT ALL. like fam, did you even PASS the 2nd grade?
I think the confusion lies in the fact that people will use gender neutral pronouns when they dont know what the person they are talking about, looks like so when you ask them to keep doing it in person and their mind is looking at your physical form, it creates a disconnect that confuses the hell outta them. Its not that they arent a fan of pronouns, its that they dont understand why some people want the pronouns that indicate you've never met and know nothing about them kinda thing. It's a weird one for sure.
@@ekrtznekrtz5229 Singular they was used by Shakespeare
@@starscreamthecruel8026 sure, I can see that argument. But on the other hand, it's what the person SAID they wanted, so you could just... do it anyway
@@ekrtznekrtz5229 Firstly, missing the point. The point was that this “grammatically incorrect” pronoun is very much grammatically correct. If you’d like more evidence, how about the fact that singular they is older than singular you?
Secondly, we already do talk like Shakespeare, considering how many of our words and phrases he just invented
Tbh I *do* think that homophobes/transphobes are, on a deep emotional level, scared. The visibility/acceptance of LGBT+ people makes them feel threatened because of their own insecurities and fears, and that's what drives them to aggression. So yes, "phobia" is a 100% correct term in this case.
If it's not profit-driven, that's ALL bigotry is.
If they were as confident and secure as they want us to think, they wouldn't be so homophobic (or lgbt+ phobic in general). So yes, I think there is fear involved. Fear of change if nothing else. Besides, "phobia" means aversion more than fear, so it still works either way.
Yes, irrational aversions are often based in some kind of fear.
Everything in this subreddit confirms they have a literal fear of gayness. Just confront them with the fact, and they'll admit it...
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We are proud because we refuse to be ashamed.
This is, of course, the point. And the phobes complain because they want us to hide.
Words to live by
^This. It's about resilience. And about turning the shaming from some people into a celebration, into something positive for us.
why should I have to pick either?
Super straight pride
I am so annoyed when oppressor classes try to equate jokes at their expense, with jokes at the expense of the oppressed. Come on people, this is not a hard concept to grasp; punching UP in comedy is GOOD, punching DOWN in comedy is BAD. 🤦♀
Similarly with dark humour. A lot of people mistake dark humour with being an ashole and/or plain sadistic.
Dark humour is finding irony and absurdity etc in dark situations and topics to laugh at. Not laughing for the situation.
It’s because they want to be oppressed so bad for the attention, and they’re mad when someone else has the spotlight.
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Or, a radical concept that might not make sense, maybe we don't need to be punching people at all under the guise of comedy. The only people I tease are the people who are my friends, know that I'm joking, and know that I will listen if they ever have a problem with me or something I say. When you don't have that relationship with someone, because they're a group of people or a stranger, you can easily just not make jokes at their expense.
@@illithiddynobolt5613 criticized existing power structures via humor is not a bad thing.
It's Good and necessary.
And pacifism is a cowards ideology.
Ok, I'm just gonna say it... I've seen the "I identify as danger" thing used by lgbt people and it's hilarious when used by someone that's not bigoted
I may be a transman but If someone asks for my gender im imitately responding with menace, rascal or problem
yeah that honesty feels like a joke that would be made by a queer person lol
@@AstronomicalJellysarcasm I'd say and I bet they'll take it serious too
Same, it's pretty funny when used in the right way
I thought that with the slur slip joke since I know so many gay people use them, but it's definitely a "used the wrong joke with the wrong friend group" vibe
I’m in high school and the first time I ever saw a teacher acknowledge anyone besides the Jewish (lgbtq, the disabled, Romani, etc) being harmed in the holocaust was in my dual enrollment history class this year. It took until I was 16 and taking a college class to see this (although I had educated myself already so I knew it wasn’t just the Jewish). Since when was school all about the lgbtq community?
It's really telling that the phobes don't like anything that tells people that 1) diversity actually exists, and 2) it's okay to be who you are.
At no point during my formal education in the U.S. was I taught about the internment camps Japanese-Americans were sent to during WWII.
@@ttintagel I had actually learned about those in middle school. I’m in Alabama so that’s really surprising.
It took me until 8th grade history class. Which is kinda when you start getting into the WW2 things but yeah before that you only really hear of Jewish people getting killed
@@ttintagelmy dad taught me about those, my teacher didn't like when I asked when we were going to talk about that part in the unit on ww2. I was honestly just trying to learn, but I got in trouble for "being argumentative". I wasn't trying to argue anything or make a statement, or cause any kind of problem, just curious if we were gonna talk about it. My teachers didn't k ow at the time that I an autistic and didn't realize it was taboo to talk about.
If someone is so stupid that they rely on ai art to make their propaganda cartoons now instead of paying actual artists, it’s safe to say these “people” will never listen to reason.
Honestly it's on brand for them, they don't respect vulnerable communities 💀🤚
Its because artists will tell them to fuck of lol
They be like; see, this happens every time, proceeds to show ai images because they have no fucking real life examples
I am not sure why Woke has become a political slur either. It is an an African/American word from the early 40s that is referred to respecting minority groups culture, communities and justice.
bigots are bigoting
Unfortunately, that is exactly why it's become a bad idea.
In the USA at least right wing political people have occasionally been very successful at co-opting terminology and taking ownership over it. Take for instance "fake news". That wasn't originally a Trump thing as everyone seems to think it is now. In 2016 when Trump was running against Hillary Clinton, it was first a term used by the Hillary camp in referring to a wave of what can only be described as fake news stories. There were these websites mimicking legitimate news websites but hosting completely false stories. They called them fake news, but Trump adopted the term and now the political right effectively owns it. It's a powerful political move because owning a term in that way can deny the opposition from using it. There are a lot of fake stories out there spread by right-wing sources but progressive people can't call them fake news anymore because people assume people who use that term are conservatives.
Something like that is going on with "woke". I'm told the original definition was that it means one is aware of racial injustice.
Racists can't have that. So they took the term and they mutated it beyond all recognition and turned it into a content free phrase the basically means nothing which they can map all kinds of meaning onto.
It became a slur because it's scary for the non- oppressed groups potentially being held accountable for their actions towards poc and minorities. So they try to associate the word with what they perceive as negative connotations in order to discredit the movement itself.
Because they think respecting minority groups is bad. And to many people slur=bad words.
Weird story about homophobes, but in my chemistry class a kid asked other if they'd rather be gay or a pedophile. The only people who didn't either struggle or just choose the wrong answer was a group of girls in the back. I wasn't asked by them, I just overheard, but if they did asked I would've answered and just told them straight up that they aren't good people.
@science_bear How was that your takeaway from this?
@science_bear Congratulations, you’ve established that *some* straight people, and in fact more specifically just some homophobes are in fact pædophiles. My question is, how does that equate to all straight people being pædophiles in your mind?
Even with that thumbnail i have things to say, there's a difference between destroying a flag representing imperialism and genocide and destroying a flag of a minority
exactly, the american flag represents a country and what the country does, meanwhile the pride flag represents, as you said, a minority of people who have been hate crimed and discriminated throughout history
Or- a flag representing an ideological collection of segmented areas (states) and an abstract identity for a nation that doesn't represent any individual person
Vs.
A flag that represents PEOPLE. And the identities of those minority people. Created by those people to represent who they are and the oppression they they've conquered.
So it's hate speech when you're burning a flag that represents a minority and actual individuals but not when you're burning an abstract concept of a collective.
To add to that, who has gotten into more legal trouble for burning which flag in the US?
@@shiny_cheyenne There's an argument to be made that the American flag represents the American people, and nationality is a part of one's identity.
Flag of LGBTQ+ is flag of opressed, while yes, there are bad queer people, but even then they are outed and avoided
"phobic" also means 'repellant'. materials that repel water, like wax, are called "hydrophobic". They find us "repellant", regardless of fear level.
I find them pretty repellant, too. Wait, does that make me heterophobic???
@@xRollermaniacx 🤣 more-like homo-phobic-phobic?
both sides repelling each-other, rather than just one repelling the other, so it's like... SUPER-Repulsion... like Star Trek/Star Wars repulsors... or Magnets... and nobody knows how THOSE work! 🤣
@@xRollermaniacx or would it be homophobicphobic?
@waffles3629 If thats the case then there will be some people in the world who are homophobophobophobic
@@RandomPersonOnTH-cam-vh3yp lol, it's matryoshka repulsions! 🤣
Repulsception!
I am liberal and lgbtq+ and I used to get PragerU ads on Spotify:
I used to have to report these things all the time. Now I'm fortunate enough to only have to weed once a month.
it’s also down to the algorithm as well. if you watch videos like this it’ll suggest those to you too annoyingly
I'd suggest you deactivate all targeted ads from everyewhere you can
@@Giuliana-w1f I don’t get them anymore but thank you
Spotify ads are annoying
I hope everyone with a homophobic mother does something for yourself today. I'm not a mother but I send you the love you deserve ❤
the creator of the rainbow seatbelts meme CLEARLY didn't see the bit in jurassic park where alan only had 2 female seatbelts and he just tied them together in a knot to make it work. so in reality it doesn't matter what's on the ends of your seatbelt, they ALL fit together in some way or another because LIFE FINDS A WAY.
Idk abt ‘not ok’ because at this point, you can see them rotting in front of your eyes when they open their mouth.
The heterorochromia will always make me laugh. It just goes to prove how little the bigots know about anything
Heterochromia runs in my family. My uncle was born with one blue eye and one brown eye. Both eyes eventually turned brown. His mother (my grandmother) had brown eyes nearly all her life, but they turned blue when she was about 80. Genes are wild.
@@susannairisastarte5192 Oh wow
Wait ‘til they learn about Catra.
@@DillonExner What's that?
Especially since one of the most famous people with it was David Bowie!
As someone with heterochromia, it devastates me to know that my eyes are homophobic.
Maybe you'll have to wear one coloured contact lens to show support 😆
your new job could be running a salon for hermit crabs and other sea creatures, i think they'd like their nails painted.
I was thinking a similar thing with centipedes and pedicures. Or maybe selling shoes, they need so many.
Their pincers you mean :) Thats kinda cool actually.
14:30 the "mental illness" take is not the own they think it is. Setting aside the obvious incorrectness, there's the very substantial fact that being prejudiced against people with mental illness is NOT BETTER.
Also, it doesn’t make sense logically either, when treating someone who is acutely psychotic, you don’t attack them or their psychosis. You let them know you are trying to help them and that they are safe. You may gently challenge some parts of the psychosis, e.g. “I am not spying on you for the government, I’m here to ask you what you want for dinner “ but you don’t say “yo your crazy and stupid because you’re different than me”. Like WTF?
I love the logic about the two pieces fitting together meaning they are "meant for each other"..... Like golf balls and a human mouth. Just because they can go in there, does not mean they are the ONLY thing that CAN go in there by divine decree.
You could expand on it too. Change it to a lightbulb. Just because you can fit it in your mouth doesn’t mean you should. Unless your goal is to go to the ER.
@@Star1412s well, I was going to talk about how some people claim that how a banana fits easily in the human hand is a sign that they believe that it is intelligent design and was created by a loving God. Well, male genitalia fits in someone's rectum just as well but other people are not claiming it is a sign of divine intervention.
@@8bitjoystickthe funny part is bananas are not at all natural. They are created by humans.
To my knowledge natural bananas are extinct, I don't think they were preserved like other plants.
The original was rounded, kind of like an egg or melon shape, rough skin compared to what has now, and quite little of it was the soft edible flesh, not to mention it wasn't nearly as sweet.
This is why banana medicine tastes so wrong. That flavour is closer to what bananas originally tasted like than what they taste like now.
i mean, by that logic, you'd think they'd be more accepting of gay dudes, cuz it DOES fit pretty well. just saying
@@velvetbutterfly there used to be FAR more varieties of bananas. but because of human intervention and selectively breeding them to correct shape and reduce the amount of seeds and whatnot, the bananas of old became very susceptible to blight, and as a result, died off en masse
so these days, it's pretty much just the one or two species of banana that are grown and sold worldwide. i think Cavendish bananas account for about half of them, and in the US, Cavendish bananas make up 95% of the bananas sold and eaten.
0:54 There was a movement to change the ‘phobia’/‘phobic’ to ‘misia’/‘misic’ to change from ‘fear’ to ‘hate’. Of course I didn’t see widespread acceptance of the term.
never understood the "-misia" thing lol, it's really pointless
If someone brings up "phobia means scared" you can retort with "hydrophobia". Phobia can also mean "repels", like how hydrophobic items repel water from themselves.
@@Justapikachu577 There are multiple terms with -phobic you can use as example. Water is lipophobic (repels fat) and your eyes can be photophobic (sensitive to light).
Another proof that bigoted people peaked in high school and only know very veeery basic biology, chemistry and terminology.
Phobia doesn't only mean fear
It means aversion
@@Justapikachu577 the aversion fits all categories
Fear is an aversion
Hate is an aversion
Repulsion is an aversion
Arachnophobia
Homophobia
Hydrophobia
Oh so Bert and Ernie are actually gay?! I thought they were but I never knew if it was confirmed, good for them
The "phobia" in homophobia is the same as in xenophobia. It's not being intimidated by the other - it's a mix of disgust, contempt and fear
isn't xenophopia fear of the unkknown kinda?
@@Jupue It's a fear of the outsider. There may be an element of fear of unknown, but often the ignorance about the other is willful
I went out to eat with my mom for Mother's Day, and I wore my little black dress, my pearl necklace, my hair in a bun, and a bow in my hair. Glad to see a video from you.
I like your Rarity profile pic :)
The Netflix one is so stupid bc Netflix cancels LGBTQ shows after 1 or 2 seasons....
Also the Jesus meme is a joke calling out religious logic
@@queenboss7 yup
I will never forgive netflix for cancelling julie and the phantoms and first kill
@@queenboss7 I asked a Christian online that if God allegedly made everyone the way they are, why would he create a sub sect of people in an orientation that is specifically demonized by the bible? The guy said, because God needs enemies for his chosen people to fight and some just drew the short straw. In other words, in his eyes and those that believe this, we simply exist to be ridculed, bullied, converted, fought against and obliterated by the chosen ones. The warriors of God must ALWAYS have an external enemy to fight lest they turn on each other. Its another reason not to follow such a narrow minded, territorial. hateful death cult.
Dead End: Paranormal Park…😔
13:49
i once made a attack-hellicopter like joke to my(then NB, now trans girl) friend that if i saw someone making fun of her pronouns, I would "identify as a FLUCKING PROBLEM!" and i believe this is the only type of attack helicopter joke that's acceptable.
I heard it as a kid and thought it was just someone being silly and laughed at it
That's hilarious lol, I'm so stealing it
Did she laugh?
It’s also acceptable to respond to someone saying “so you identify as an attack helicopter” with “yes I do”, as long as you make sure to specify which one. It can just be any attack helicopter, just make sure to yes and their sad attempt at a joke
We as the queer community have fought for so long and so hard to get to a point where lots of us are comfortable being out and lots of us are comfortable coming out, which wouldn't have happened years ago. I just think straight people need to stop and thank their lucky stars that they've never had to, nor will they ever have to, go through what we've gone through to get to this point and we still have a long way to go. Straight people need to show respect for the struggles we've faced as a community instead of being a bunch of homophobic assholes. Of course, not all straight people are, I'm referring to those that are. It's hard enough that members of our own community turn on each other. Such a shame.
🎵I, I went to Hell and back, to find myself on track. I broke the code, whoa-oh-oh🎵
WE BREAKIN OUTTA THE CODE WITH THIS ONE !!!!!!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣✴✴✴✴✴
WHOA OH OH
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Really liked the song, also a small middle finger for the transphobes 😎
Ngl there were better songs but it’s still fire and the homophobes are hating on it so I gotta support it 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥
7:33 Roly was right: Jesus was a bottom and we should do squats in his honour.
he was a gay, trans powerbottom, no wonder he was a carpenter
Jesus Waterwalker
Angels are the litteray existing definizion in the Bible of Bisessual, Nonbinary and Trans people. Whe are canon now!!!
@@HexDrone9637 bisessual
Loving my powerbottom (jesus) moving on from their toxic ex bf (judas) /hj
What I have never understood as a cis-straight-white-male is how some people have the mental space to give a s*it about what others are doing, so long as it isn’t HARMING someone.
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I am 100 percent an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community, but say I wasn’t. I have way more than enough of my own problems to care about what someone else is doing behind closed doors.
These people have too much free time on their hands and nothing to fill it with. This is what happens when you demonise people having hobbies past the age of 10.
Yep, trans aroace white enby and I don't get it either. As long as no one is being harmed and it doesn't involve me, it's none of my business.
@@starscreamthecruel8026 oh yea, and then it's also no surprise that women are involved in transphobia a lot. not saying that it's justified for them to be transphobic, but it's logical they often don't really have a hobby when demonising hobbies most often happens to girls/women past the age of 10!
"shopping/clubbing/kpop/makeup/... ain't a hobby, those are obsessions/deception (in the case of make-up)/hysteria!", men say, while they literally have a man cave where they act like they're 5, with their "no girls allowed!" signs on the door, just with fancier toys than back when they actually were 5. or when they see women go crazy over kpop or taylor swift, that's not valid, that's "hysteria".
i remember how it was back in the day when justin bieber/1D was a thing, same thing. but when men literally fight each other in the streets before/after a football game, or even in the stadium, that's all fine, because "they're just passionate about something". sorry for the long comment, but i've always hated that double standard and your comment reminded me of it
Welcome all queers to a safe space. Thanks Jamie🥰
I love your pfp!!
Mostly safe*
The people who use that seatbelt analogy must have never watched Jurassic Park! XD
Damn I was thinking that when I saw that pic :D
nah but fr netflix keeps removing or randomly cancelling BANGERS and im gutted
I agree 😔
Nice to see after a scrolling through a really homophobic comment section
youtube, am I right
Ughhh youtube sucks like that sometimes lmao- ur safe here tho
@@KrimsonKattYT no it was a short I saw about how some lady lit a restaurants pride flag on fire and how the owner got an even bigger one after that, the video was nice but the comments were flooded with people calling the woman that burned the flag a hero, saying that she should get a medal and other things like that
@@CosmicRabbitX3Of course the homophobes are encouraging literal crimes (the destruction of public property). And they wonder why everyone calls them bigots
The person who got LGBTQ+ content offered on spotify despite listening to "homophobic rap" was probably listening to Tyler, the Creator's early albums lmao. Wait until they they get to Igor and Flower Boy. On the 'I just assumed Jesus is gay" thing, someone should do a movie or series about Jesus in a bi love triangle with Judas and Mary Magdalene. Jesus Christ Superstar is the closest thing (especially the 200 tv version) but still.
Jesus was also trans or intersex, so hell yeah, lgbtq Jesus
1:18 Homophobes are trying so hard to be offensive but I have no idea what they are trying to say 😭
I don't blame you with the "how come can" 😂
I sometimes wonder if the homophobes know.
Trying my best to translate while paraphrasing to prevent TH-cam shadow banning my comment: “I don’t get the point of pride. Why should you be proud just because of who you sleep with”
The seatbelt one reminded me of the first Jurassic park scene where he ties the belts together
2:28 If, say, a flat earther happens to be gay, I'll still make fun of them for being a flat earther.
Like, cool, you're gay, I support that, doesn't change that the earth is round.
I agree, you're obviously wrong tho, the earth is table shaped :)
@@Lizard_Ri Obviously it’s a disk on the back of a turtle
@@Dr_Mortis_SCP ofc ofc, my bad, but don't forget the buffalo holding it all together
@@Lizard_Ri Buffalo? Don’t be absurd, there’s four elephants
@@Dr_Mortis_SCP nah, its pi^e
I learned about both taxes and LGBTQ+ stuff. My government teacher taught about when the US legalized gay marriages, but other than that the LGBTQ+ stuff was from GSA, which I'm incredibly glad they offered
- ‘The folks think they’re doctors now’ 😂👏🏽
2:44 I've had this happen to me so much in the past week. I was getting called the f slur repeatedly by someone who was saying it was "just a joke". At first i was angry, then i decided to play dumb and ask "what's so funny?" And I kept doing that till she looked so mortified that she left me alone. Once you ask them to explain the joke they get so embarrassed and they shut their mouths.
3:32 Solar Energy is better than exploiting miners so yay? Bonus points for gay rep
Idk If you wanted to say minors or miners or minor miners, but they all work lol
Then the bigots should stay indoors every time the sun comes out :D Live in the dark and become moles. With no offence to real moles(the animal) of course.
I don't think it's very easy to exploit 'miners'. They could just quit
Hi Jamie!
Also yeah, I was gonna say "phobic" doesnt always mean fear.
Yep, these people seem to forget words like “hydrophobic” exist. Phobic also means you have an aversion to something, not just a fear of it.
Phobia is butchered these days. Its overuse has always irked me. To keep things simple I prefer the technical definition.
"A phobia is a persistent, excessive, unrealistic fear of an object, person, animal, activity, or situation. It is a type of anxiety disorder. A person with a phobia either tries to avoid the thing that triggers the fear, or endures it with great anxiety and distress." - Definition from Harvard Health.
@@kdog3908 to add to that, both homophobia and xenophobia are medically recognized phobias. And the list of phobias can be expanded as new types emerge
@@jayfalcon-rw3qc Agreed. The difference being a phobia is a significant, diagnosable and treatable condition. Conversely, someone who doesn't like Muslims might be a bigot but it doesn't necessarily make them an Islamophobe. Not liking something, for whatever reason, does not a phobia make.
@@kdog3908 well, here's a kind of hot take. Bigotry and mental illness are not mutually exclusive. So, there's bound to be overlap. I have a bad habit of talking to bigots, and for a lot of them, you can back them into a corner logically, and then the irrationality comes out, and it makes less and less sense. I'm not a mental health professional, but I suspect there's something like that going on, especially with homophobia and xenophobia. The things they tell me to justify their stance sound like it's deeply rooted in their personal psychology and emotions. But I'm not an expert by any means. The most common type I've met: cishet white men who have trouble maintaining relationships and seem to think that if they can't hold onto a woman, the world will think they're gay. The question is, where does the opinion end and the psychological problem begin? I think it's a grey area that we only notice when it becomes extreme and uncontrollable, as in when it gets violent
Kinda just looks like a good cover for a romance novel about a farmer and a traveling solar-panel repairman, if I'm being honest. Call it Sunrise of the Heart or something.
Sunny heart? Farming love? Could be really cool tbh
Cool thing happening down here in Melbourne, Australia! I have officially become a consultant for the church on LGBTQIA+ matters and how to make our church a safe space for the queer Christian community! I'm non binary and asexual, and I'm really excited that after years of talking and planning, they're actually taking steps! Just wanted to share some good news of progress happening down here 😊🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
That's super cool, congrats!
That last political cartoon was made by Hans Kristian Graebener, a Holocaust denier who lives in Spring, Texas.
They've cancelled pride in my local town this year and its apparently because the event organisers are just charging too much money for the event to happen. Greed ruins things for everyone!
Saying that LGBT people aren't treated equally because you can't make jokes about them is like saying white people are oppressed because you can't make racist jokes.
Exactly!
They priotized them but most them are white! It's dangerous and alarming!
You joke, but that's literally their argument sometimes.
But straight white males are the most oppressed group in the US. And progressives think you can't be ray cyst towards whites. Another lie.
Straight white males are the most oppressed group in the US
11:01 In my school, only homophobia and transphobia curriculum was followed lol
At this point the homophobes need to be put in jail
Agreed
Here's a thumbs up in approval: 👍
...No... That's ridiculous.
We just wanted to protect kids and teens for not having traditional straight white family with too many kids 😡😡😡😡😡
@@gearscore349 counterpoint: unless it's not
1:19 Omg I remember seeing this in a video and the comments were clearly self-hating and ‘Not Like Other Gays’.
Which video and what did the comments say? I genuinely curious for context.
17:58 this reminds me of the backlash memes to people pointing out various hints that Gwen Stacy may be trans, one of which being her color scheme being the same as the flag. They involved the same punchline with the same horrible symbol, but it was also dragging Miles Morales into it too like if one character is trans because of a flag color scheme, then this other character must be a notZ. Apparently.
I think the miles one might have been made to show the problem in the gwen assumption
@@Lizard_Ri the thing is, it was wasn’t the only or biggest clue. That was the “protect trans kids” trans flag above her door. The color schemes matching wasn’t something that would make or break the theory, but some people were mad and were willing to call someone who was helped by anarchist (who categorically don’t like NotZs) a NotZ just to prove it was silly when it was just a neat detail that fit well with a pre-established theory, not the basis of it.
@@starlydonati2008 that sucks, didn't know it
I'm pretty sure that the "sorry I made you gay" God meme was a pro LGBT meme that got picked up by the phobes because they didn't understand
I'm still a little puzzled about that one because typically they are committed to arguing that being gay is a choice, and that comic positions it as being effectively predestined. If the person who posted it is a Christian they were implying that their God is a malicious God. These are all things that they're typically committed to opposing. Not understanding satire is one thing, but posting a meme that implies that your God is a vicious monster unworthy of praise is quite something else.
Is hydrophobic sand afraid of water? Rhetorical question for etymological pedants.
😑 your brain words impress all of us
@@teshlafreeman4040 I detect a hint of sarcasm.
Is it safe to assume that you don't get it? That's fine. Until you start getting snarky and speaking for everyone (based on a misunderstanding).
Or are you one of the homophobic, etymological pedants that this is aimed at (in which case you just got beat at your own game)?
@@teshlafreeman4040 Rhetorical: they aren’t actually asking a question, it’s just to make a point
Etymological: relating to the study of words and their origins
Pedant: someone who makes big deals about slightly incorrect phrasing choices to be annoying and shut down arguments
NGL. If you made LGBTQIA+ Dinosaur themed teeth cleaning supplies. Id buy it. Give me an ace colored T-rex tooth brush
You should do Elephant Pedicures.
13:47 the only version of this joke I’ve ever liked is “I identify as none of your business, do not perceive me, my pronouns are is/not”. And that’s just because it was a trans person saying it as a rebuttal.
1:44 Yessss. Our identities being boiled down to sex is such a huge problem because a lot of homophobes stop children from learning about orientation and stop gay people from being outwardly gay because they see it as inherently sexual and I wish we could just get through to them that it’s the same, that our relationships are just like theirs, and thus aren’t inherently sexual as their relationships aren’t.
I’ve never understood the “we should be being taught taxes not LGBTQ+ stuff”.
They act like learning about taxes is the most fun shit ever.
It is useful though, but I see both points.
Man LGBTQ stuff isn't even that complicated I'm pretty sure, its just thinking a bit and realizing "Damn I'm gay as fuck before planning and deciding when to come back, its just stressful but I don't know if its complicated enough for a lesson.
Also is math fun? No, is it useful to know? Yes, so why is taxes not being fun to learn relevant talking about if we should learn on them
@@Thesigmaone747 I understand I could have been a bit more clear on the learning about taxes part. I meant that the people that say “we should learn about taxes” probably wouldn’t listen if they did. Yes it’s useful and so is math but not everyone listens in those classes. It’s also an excuse for homophobes to make fun of the lgbtq+ community like “I would rather learn about taxes”
That "Sorry I made you gay" one with Jesus hugging the gay person before sending him to hell doesn't come across to me as homophobic or accidental ally. It must be satirical.
Its definitely homophobic, they see being gay as bad. Even with a good goal, the image is meant to represent homophobia
I think the question is what the intent of the comic is. Is it meant to be in support of homophobia or is it meant to criticize it? I think it's clearly meant to criticize it. The Christian God is supposed to be an all-loving entity who is all good all the time. But the comic depicts him choosing to make people gay knowing that that will cause them to suffer eternal torment. A god of pure goodness would not do such a thing, which is why I think it's meant to ridicule the idea that God cares about people's sexuality.
You could say that it depicts homophobia, but it depicts it to mock it. It depicts a homophobic Jesus or God because such an depiction makes a mockery out of what Christians generally believe their deity to be.
If the comic was meant to be anti-gay, it would never have depicted God as making people gay at birth. They generally rely upon the argument that people choose to be gay therefore it's okay to treat them hatefully. They can't say that their God makes people gay because then they would be hating people for their god-given natures.
@@draalttom844 but only recently. According to translations of the bible from Norway and Sweden, that commandment originally says *No Man Will Lie With A Child As He Would A Woman* but got updated in 1980 or something to read Another Man. So originally it was pedophiles will go to hell, not Gays. Makes me wonder, what else from the original txt has been altered to reflect modern thinking?
@starscreamthecruel8026 thats not the part I was thinking about, thats old news. More the part about marriage is between a man and a woman .
@@starscreamthecruel8026 it was changed somewhere around 1946, by an American group of bible revisionists. I guess p*d*ph*l** is okay but gay isn't
Okay but I'm my queer group of friends we do say "gayly forward" instead of straight when giving directions 😂😂
Sounds fun
Y'all heterophobic😂
@@Occ881huh??? 😂😂
Did the people making the seatbelt analogy not see the bit in Jurassic Park where Grant tied the two "female" ends of the seatbelt together? Love finds a way.
That’s a terrible analogy. Grant having to think quickly doesn’t justify the seatbelts being wrong.
I hate people who try to get away with their bigotry by saying “it’s just a joke.” It’s disgusting.
The thing is, I make a lot of offensive and downright awful jokes with my friends, the difference is, it stops at a joke, and isn't a reflection of my actual opinion, like it is for many bigots. The difference is that it isn't JUST a joke for them, cuz it doesn't stop at the joke
You could be an Otter Optometrist and sell the cutest glasses for these aquatic mammals
Clearly, what that means is that LGBTQIA+ people should have our own country the size of the US for all things to be equal.
Ah, so is that why the asexuals want to invade Denmark? (I'm ace but wasn't sure why that's a meme)
@@94DeathAngelI believe it started out as a population fact. A larger % of the world is asexual than there are in Denmark, so if they wanted to, they could invade.
It was similar to something like pigs could invade the Uk since they vastly out number people
I say let's help the asexuals, and make denmark our lgbtq country where everyone gets a free blahaj and frogs😎
@@94DeathAngel The meme has some unfortunate implications though. The Ace Couple did a video explaining why.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 really? I'll have to check that out, thanks.
I have scoliosis, I've never been straight.
This made me happy
Tbf, a fully str8 spine isn't healthy either
@@aleksabanjevic8316 True enough! Mine looks like a drunk snake held together with hooks and rods thougha, no normal it ain't! 😂
I’ll never understand homophobes. They’re constantly coming up with excuses to not leave people alone.
Not all
"Trust me bro, the verse Joe mama:69 where godzilla says his father and brother jesus HATE and despise gay people is definitely true and real!"
@@Thesigmaone747 ok but it's literally in the Bible so many times
@@Alastor-. the bible is fiction.
@@NoxBVansyn in your opinion.
I can remember when homosexually was illegal in the UK. Things ebb & flow but over mylife time things have got better for gay people with things like gay marriage. Now it's trans and non binary people who need the most support. Both the Conservatives and the Labour parties are being very transphobic and it feels like it is getting worse, the UK is now institutionally transphobic and in light of the Cass report that includes the NHS.
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“it’s just a joke” is one of my favorite lines cause as soon as you make a joke at the oppressor’s expense, they’ll have a full on breakdown
The title of this video feels equivalent to saying “the sky is blue” or “humans breathe air” 😂
The thing about Netflix shows is that I often feel like they throw in the diversity just to get brownie points, but put very little effort in good quality writing, etc. And then interesting shows (with diversity in them) get canceled after one season as soon as the hype dies down, leaving everyone hanging and jumping to the next mediocre project.
10:43 - As somebody who’s just now finishing up my years of education, I can confirm I never once learned about jobs, taxes or housing. The closest we got was teachers screaming “you need to know this for a career” and not elaborating. But we were also never taught ANYTHING even remotely not-straight. I learned about the community from seeing gay in The Owl House and wanting to know more. In fact, I don’t think I learned ANY important life skills in the school I went to. I’m coming out of school with a few qualifications and the social/living skills of a soggy loaf of bread.
So in other words, schools aren’t being useful either way, whether it is for or against their bigotry :D
Selling the good word of the crab messiah.
Thank you Crab Mesiah, very cool 👍
10:43 I saw a wonderful post on Tumblr the other day, about a bunch of electricians taking the crappy "plug and socket" metaphor and saying "Um. Actually." and it was all the ways that that metaphor was completely terrible and inaccurate, purely based on different types of electrical chords. Awesome stuff going down.
I think it was here once, I love it so much!
the seatbelt "metaphor" is very interesting to me because, like... it's assuming one side is a peen and one is a vaj. but the reason seatbelts work is that they lock. and people don't "lock" during intercourse. so really, the seatbelt metaphor isn't about peen-in-vaj sex: it's about knotting.
The second I read "lock" I knew where you were going with that...
Also, added humor is how many of them talk about being alphas.
Conclusion: homophobes are closeted furries
I knew exactly where this was going, and I still got hit by whiplash
homophobia apart, I loved the "orientation in getting laid" way to say it and will use it from now on
7:24 Honestly, that might be an intentional ally taking the p- out of the idea that being gay - something that can't be helped - is somehow a sin. Then again, Poe's law is a thing.
Is mint toothpaste technically leaf flavoured?
Something I do when I hear some one tell me a homophobic or bigoted joke is to tell them " i dont get it." and then sit back and watch their head spin as they try to explain the "joke" with out admitting their own bigotry.
The hetrochromia thing seems like an honest mistake, a person may not make it but if they mis-spell hetrochromia then autocorrect will likely go for the more commonly used word that looks like that. Well at least the first time, I seem to remember that becoming a small meme on a gay subreddit a while ago after the first pic surfaced.
Autocorrect doesn’t like the words heterochromia and heterochromic, it doesn’t recognize them as correctly spelled words 😭
I love when people misspell heterochromia and it is so damn funny with animals, like "This cat has homophobia in its eyes"