[Full-Saga] Mom Offered College $100k To Deny My Admission Bc She Couldn't Stand Me Doing Better
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Op has just finished high school and is looking forward to going to college.
She is also going at the same time as her younger brother, who skipped a
grade. Her mom treats her brother better than her and mistreats her. Op
then finds out that her mother paid $100,000 to an admissions officer so
that she would reject Op and accept her brother. Op moves out and stays
with her friend Annie’s parents. They reported her mom, but nothing can
be proven. So Op decides to do an internship in IT so that she can have a
stable job. Within that time, she looks for her biological dad, who ends up
being an abusive criminal who is in a foreign prison. He treats her badly and
wishes that she was never born. But then his sister reaches out and starts
taking care of her, and he eventually gets the opportunity to move in with
her. As Op’s life is improving, her mom finally gets arrested for bribing the
admissions officer. She gets a month in jail and a fine. She then loses her
job and tries to end her life. Instead, she ends up crippled and alone
because Op’s brother disowns her.
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As a survivor of toxic family and a decade deep in therepy, I can tell you one thing I learned: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH CUTTING TOXIC FAMILY OUT OF YOUR LIFE, FOR YOUR MENTAL, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH.
Amen 🙌 only been free for two years now but it's a blessing
15 years for me so far, I agree life definitely became a lot easier to enjoy without the toxic relatives .. wish I'd done it years earlier.. 😊
Nta. Have her arrested for assault. Plz put her in the worst home. In fact let her live in a homeless shelter
There is no way OP should give up her life to care for her bio mom. She does not deserve it and truthfully I don’t think a regular house would be equipped to care for her. It would take multiple people to move her and 24 hour care. Op should just spend time and energy on the people who love and care about her. It’s nobodies fault but her mom’s all that has happened to her. Some bad parents refuse to pay for collage even if they can,but to actually spent that much money to keep her out, that’s evil.
The mother rejected under ops name. That is fraud. I hope op throws her mother to the wolves
Jail time for fraud/Identity theft. OP can also sue for emotional damages due to the lost opportunity to get admitted to college.
What's funny is OP's brother took care of that. He sold her house and used the money to ship her off to a nursing home. I couldn't help but grin upon hearing that. She'll probably be stuck in a wheelchair watching the pills cart roll by every day for the rest of her life...
@@largol33t1 Hopefully a short, miserible, lonely life.
With "friends" like those mother, WHO NEEDS ENEMAS... I MEAN ENEMIES!
You spent a 100 grand on trying to ruining your child's future 😒TF?!!
Imagine how confused the admissions office were.
She probably would have paid less than that just letting OP attend college!
That is pure evil and vindictive.
OP needed to sue her mother and the college
This mother was/is the epitome of f**kedupness. She had this daughter by an abusive criminal and took out her frustrations for OP's father's on her. Then she managed to (I assume) marry and have her son just a year later. I'm side eyeing that. Karma ripped this woman a new one when her beloved son sold her home and put her in an assisted living home and then does not visit her. She doled out cruelty in both her work and personal life and when it caught up with her she tried to end her life, which just made things all the worse for her. She did all these things to herself and now SHE has the miserable life she intended for her daughter.
The admission officer who took the money needs to be imprisoned bc they took a bride. Didn't aunt Becky get in trouble for such things
I believe it was said that the admissions officer got jailed too.
Here mother is selfish and put her self in this situation. She messed up so bad that if she ever wanted to apologize it would not even be possible. It’s terrible when parents put the hatred they have for one another onto the children
Forgiveness is not a must. No one HAS to forgive. And in this case, OP would be enmeshed in mom’s crappy karma. Better that she keep her distance. Mom is in a SNF, that’s good enough for her.
As a therapist says, recovery from narcissistic abuse is like a train, and forgiveness is like a caboose (last rail car), which is optional. Cabooses are not widely used.
@@markarca6360 My mom is a narcissist, I take care of her, she’s 100 years old , but have not forgiven her for my horrific younger life. Your metaphor is perfect!! That caboose is still in the rail yard. 😆
Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing. As long as OP holds on to her anger and resentment, she is allowing her mother to keep hurting her.
Wasn’t expecting the mother to do that. Glad op was able to connect with her aunt and is happy now.
My mother was like this. Everything was like a competition with me. I was dating a guy once and she asked if I had slept with him. When I said no, she said good because she had already. As a mother myself now I can't imagine treating my child that way
Your mom is a very insecure person
Was the guy underage?
@@luvsavengedsevenfold no, I was 18 at the time and the guy was 24. Much younger than her and my boyfriend, but trash people will be trash people
You go live you best life and leave you toxic mom to stew in her bitterness.
Out in the trash with both of them.
Could OP still sue the school for accepting the bribe regardless of the apology and admission offer?
Unfortunately, no. The school offering to make things right wasn't just the morally right thing to do, it was to cover their asses, as you need to prove that a party you're suing made no effort to make things right. To be fair, she *could* sue, but it wouldn't go very far, especially with her refusing the offer.
She could still sue the person who accepted the bribe personally. Be quick tho...that person was fired.🤷♀️
I heard where OP visited her mother, but I never heard where the mother apologized to OP. This woman lived a sad, self-destructive life. Do you know how bad, unfortunately, a manager has to be to get fired for treatment of employees in most companies, other than sexual harassment. To spend 100K to destroy her daughter's life is just sadistic. I am not 100% sure, given all her life choices, that she wasn't trying to destroy her daughter's life with her act. I can only imagine that she would be pleased to force her daughter to give up her life to serve her. OP should go NC and never look back. I pray that both OP and her brother get the therapy they so desperately need. None of it is either of their fault.
I hope that OP goes on to live a loving and happy life. Her egg donor is just that, an egg donor. That thing called her mother, did everything she could to Saba to he OP’s life, why should OP now play nurse and maid to her, after all the horrible things that her egg donor did? Mother has brought all of this onto herself. OP should not have to go back to let herself be sucked into a vortex of misery with that creature, who will only suck out her very soul.
The mom in this story reminded me EXACTLY of my own. This should have just been a straight to a lawyer with the information and to court for a payday from both the mom and college for damages
I'm so sorry you went through that.😔
I feel bad for op she had two people who clearly did not want her if they didn't want her there so just put her up for adoption.
Why would they do that? They would lose a punching bag and stress ball.
That's why they keep the unwanted: to take the anger of their lives out on them because in their minds it makes sense. It's a "justified" punishment. (It isn't).
Mom made her bed and must lie in it. She has no right to try to burden her daughter whose life she tried to take away. Unfortunately her choices have been her downfall. I sincerely hope that she can get her life together and become a better person.
I wouldn't even have visited her once. OP doesn't need to forgive her. I'm a patient person but if someone has proven to me, that he/she really tries to harm me and has a rotten character, this person is dead to me, and nothing will ever change that.
I would have visited her, just to show her that despite how she treated her that she is thriving and has a very bright future.
You don't forgive people for the ones who harm you. You forgive them for yourself so that it does not fester and become something that drags YOU down. After that, you delete everything associated with them. Now you live your BEST life.
well, if ever karma served a deserved justice this was it. The mother in this story was pure nasty, and in the end she had nothing.
She deserves more time in jail
@@thiccredgyal3404 an Eternity in jail…she should rot in hell
@@AnneKirk453 Oh,I could not agree with you more! Hell,when the people around her,was trying to help her,ATTACKED THEM FOR IT, SHE FRANKLY Deserved to go down to you-know-where! Her MOM`S A MONSTER!!!!!
@@waynec38 👍😊❤️😘
Annie’s family are all angels.
Unfortunately for the mother karma always comes for its dues
This is very sad story the mom is getting karma
Haha 😂 I loved the flies over the prison toilet…such attention to little details goes a long way! Totally love poor OP…I am so happy she found her paternal aunt. OP’s mom doesn’t deserve to be in OP’s life for the toxic way she treated her own daughter!
OP didn’t chose to be born to such scumbags!
You should sue the schools and the admins that took the money. Let them pay for your college. And get them out of there before they do that to other innocent students
I'm not surprised that the egg donor slapped op and demanded an apology despite that she tried to sabotage her own kid's future. People like her are prime examples that that toxic people like that shouldn't ever have kids. Not surprised that when she didn't get the apology and found out op left she disowns op. There we go, not having the same dad and I'm betting since egg donor despises the bio dad in turn despises op. I understand what egg donor went through was beyond traumatizing but that doesn't excuse hating op because of the sperm donor and trying to sabotage her future just because of what the sperm donor has done. Op didn't cause any of that, she just wants someone to hate. Karma bit the egg donor and now she's all alone. Not surprised that she tried to end her life after she lost everything due to her own actions. The nerve and audacity to ask op to take care of her after everything she's done. She couldn't ask her precious boy since he disowned her. She deserves to be alone and miserable. It's on her that she was in jail for trying to sabotage her own kid's future and went down hill from there to the point of suicide.
Wait. They’re only a year apart but have different fathers? Quick move on. Oh, wait. Got it.
OP's mom basically said Op would probably end up as a hooker. Seeing how mom had 2 children 1 year apart from 2 different men I guess she was trying to get OP into the family business.
This one should have come with a trigger warning for me. So many aspects of my mother's personality and hatred for me. At least when I was little, she took really good care of me, because like OP'S little brother, I was a frail baby. When I got older and stronger, she seemed to be mad at me for it. At least I had a supportive father and extended family. That comment that OP told us, about how her mom said that she would end up a hooker.....my mom didn't think that I had the wear withal to even do that. Not that I would ever want to do that, but to think that my mother had that low of an opinion of me....that hurt.
Ngl I kinda had a thought that OPs dad did care about OP but becouse of his lifestyle and where he was in life he thought it better to scare OP away by being cruel to her then get his sister, who he knew would love and take OP in, in contact with OP.
at least she found real family and true love and living her life ❤❤❤ glad to hear it and found what she was good at and went for it 🎉🎉🎉 and didn't let her mom or dad destroy her . karma have a way of getting back at people who treat people like that ake her mom so forgiveness is a must and distance and nc is in order
Forgiving does not mean resubmitting one’s self for abuse.
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Op’s mom deserve it for what she did to op
A lot of women can be haters even when it comes to their daughters. Some women view everyone as competition.
Her mom wasted 100 grand to keep her out of college when that money could of been spent sending her to college.
Im glad im not the only one who thinks this way, everyone blames men for being abusive but never the women who are guilty of being horrible toward their child over some petty and stupid reasons just the same. And i agree that women see other females as competition and the will fo anything to knock the competition off the face of the earth to be #1. I have been a victim of abuse from many women and girls who hate me or no reason other than being competition.
A revenge idea: Did that admissions official pay the taxes on that bribe? Ill-gotten gains are taxable.
Wish my someone in my family had adopted OP- she would have been treated with kindness and dignity.
Oh good a happy ending and karma was probably waiting for her
Forgiveness is never about the other person/people it's all for yourself n your own well-being. Also forgiving someone does not mean that you have to have that person in your life again. For many it's better for your mental emotional n possibly physical health not to have them in your life. So forgive even if it takes a while but don't let her back in your life.
This is so true. I had an extremely bad ex husband and it took me ten years to forgive him. On the other hand, I want nothing to do with him because he is nothing more than a drug addict mooch. Not forgiving only hurts you. They don't care. Let it go and move on.
I had a similar upbringing where i was the black sheep of the family that adopted me.. unlike op who has her loving brother i had no one. I ended up disowning them all
Sad to say
You don’t get to pick your family
No, you don't get to pick your blood relatives.
You can, however, choose who you want to be a part of your life.
The difference in opinions about the mom after the injury, could be the difference between who was raised with a toxic mom and who wasn't .
Forgiveness would be for OP's benefit, but she is in no way obligated to care for her.
OP's mom was taking her hate for OP's Dad on her and in the end, what goes around comes around. I'm glad OP took the high road, I don't know if I would've been as kind. The thought crossed my mind that if I were OP I would've taken her in after all she owes 18 years of psychological abuse and her being in her final condition is a low-hanging fruit.
Its so crazy, part of me thinks the mother deserved what happened to her in the old relationship
OP would never have been happy until she found her father. At least now she can move forward with her life without her toxic mother hurting her. OP will be fine as she moves forward. She has the support of her aunt and she doesn't iwe her mother anything. I am not sorry for OP's mother. She hated OP and made her life miserable. Nobody forced her to jump if the building so she must face the consequences of her actions.
OP could forgive her mum, yet never speak to her again. Forgiving does not mean forgetting. Her mum made her bed, and now she gets to lie in it. OP’s mum has no one to blame but herself for the actions she chose.
You are not a coward, you are grieving and you are dissolutioned. Don't give up, you have an awareness that will save you more from making the whole of who you are. Your parents never grew up, just older. Maintain those relationships that are non toxic; cut ties with the toxic ones. Best of luck and blessings on you
Why do I feel the mother turned in ops stuff under the sons name?
Narc parents are EVIl especially to their daughters. It’s jealousy 💯 I’d absolutely publicly out her rotten behavior. Embarks and shame the narcs it’s their only Kryptonite
She could try to forgive her mom because forgiveness is for you👈 She's had years of mistreatment from her mother. Her mother never bonded with her in a positive way. But no way should she "come back" to "take care" of her. The daughter now has a job that she likes and someone to care for her.If she decides and can afford to do it later, she could hire an aide to assist her mother. That's the most "taking care of" she could do.
It is sad for what this mother did. She should have been in JAIL!
The only thing I'm going to say that Op had horrible bio-parents.
If at first you don't succeed. Try, try again
😂 it's funny Op's mom always belittled her letting her know of her inadequacy🤔🧐then jumps off a building and couldn't even k☠️ll yourself😄🤣
Forgiveness is not for the one who did the wrong, it is for the person who says "I forgive you". And until YOU are ready to forgive, you don't have to. Forgiveness is very freeing for the YOU.
I forgave my father 9 days before he passed away. I did not do that for him but I did it for me. I had carried that anger for 37 years so when I told him I forgave him that weight of anger lifted from me. So if OP wants to forgive her mother, it is in her own time. I hope she can get to that place, it doesn't change anything, her mother still is paying for her messed up life and her choices.
She owes her mother nothing. The mom tried to ruin her life her entire life. I think that the mom was more upset that her son stopped talking to her..
I'm on her side 😢 I can relate with her on so many things. She may forgive her mother one day as I did my own. But, maybe not yet. I'm still treated as if I'm not good enough to be in the same family by my remaining siblings 😕 but, mom and I are solid now. She has apologized for her treatment of me growing up and not protecting me from her brother. She always had kept the truth from my dad and made me feel like being molested was a normal thing! I confronted her when I was 34 and suicidal because of the abuse, both mental and physical. Her reply left me speechless 😢 "better you than me" she said 😢 She grew up being molested by her brothers and her parents were the same way. I forgive her and I love her without dwelling on the past. But, my sisters still treat me as...out of sight out of mind. They even did not want me to be a good Aunt to their children 😔 came as a group and asked me to stop buying gifts for their kids because they didn't want to feel obligated to do for mine! Truth is a bitch and very bitter. But, I have my lord and savior 🙏 and ask god to help them 🙏. It does no good to force them to be a part of this life. My children are loving adults now, theirs are not so much. They are selfish and entitled for the most part. Sad. But I still love them all...from afar!😊
The mother was a monster, and she had it coming!
OP would continue to be on the receiving end of the mother's vitriol. Nothing would be gained, other that the mother would again control her, OP's, life. The mother's bitterness is somewhat understandable, but none of this is OP's fault or responsibility.
I am glad that karma came to OPs mother! After the mother was hurt; she had the nerve to ask OP to move back to take care of her! After the way she was treated! I am glad that OPs brother overcame his fear of his mom and decided to go no contact permanently! OP and brother are better off without that toxic woman in their life! Mother made her bed; now she can lie and sleep in it.
That mom did everything she could to ruin her daughter, karma ruined her instead, well deserved.
You owe nothing to your mother. I’m glad she is being taken care of. You have family who love you. Your best friend parents, love you. I understand your desire to look for your father. OMG I didn’t expect him to be worst than your mom. You need to go to counseling with a therapist that specializes in trauma. Now you must decide if you truly want to give up or fight. Sweetie you are a fighter!!!! You raised yourself. That’s something to be proud of. I hope you win the fight for college and your despicable mother gets her due. Don’t ever give up! You are a great kid. You are worth it. Pat yourself on the back because everything you’ve done have been on your own merits. Congratulations on being a survivor and a warrior. Your dad is the scum of the earth. He could have been kind but chose to be himself. Now you know. Family doesn’t have to be blood. You already have a family. Treasure them and thank God for them. Wish you the best as you carve yourself a life. 💐 many hugs sent your way from this internet stranger.
She just seemed to forget about her maternal aunt who was kind to her.
Your aunt is a great person and she cares about you and wonderfully thing for you so happy for you 😃🥰😄🤠😀😅👍🤭
OP should forgive her mother. For her own sanity, she needs to let go of her grief and anger. That said she has no obligation to let her mother continue to ruin her life.
Whose to say if Op "forgave" abusive mama, that mama wouldn't run her mouth off mentally emotionally and verbally abusing Op further if she did something dumb enough like take care of her bio mom.
Forgive or not, Stay away for your own wellbeing.
Rule #1 Never use the kids to get back at your spouse or ex-spouse. Rule #2 Never blame the kids for what your spouse or ex-spouse has done.
OP's mom blamed her daughter for her ex-husband's actions, and then continuously punished her for what her father did to her. OP is blaming her mother for her mother's actions against her. Her mother's actions both in keeping her daughter from going to college as well as how she treated her employees, are not her daughter's fault. She chose to do those things and ruined her own life. This is what lead to her depression and jumping off the building. Her mother is in a place where she is cared for and that's really all OP can do for her.
OP and her brother shouldn't have to ruin their lives by spending the rest of their lives caring for a mother who made extremely poor choices.
Forgiveness heals the forgiver. It doesn’t mean that you let them hurt you again. You can forgive and cut ties.
I'd get the person at that college who took the bribe fired and arrested.
Thank God your brother stuck by you.
I would have gone straight to attorney General of that state file a fraud complaint file charges period
All I can say is KARMA!
It’s funny nobody realised OP’s dad was the hero of the story; he most likely was happy to see but didn’t want to get involved due to his lifestyle, so instead he called his sister and told her to find his daughter which is the only thing he could do for her.
This sucks for all of them... i i hope the daughter forgives her parents
$100k would pay for an entire college career. ... and it should not take that much money to bribe someone to REJECT an admission applicant.
Her mother deserved and got the karma she had created for herself.
Hey Mr. Reddito! I truly agree with you one this one!
I'm so glad that OP and her brother got out of the bad relationship with their toxic mother. OP'S mom was the worst of the worst! OP'S mom deserves nothing for the cruelty and hatred that she caused to both of her children. She lied , manipulated, and having no empathy whatsoever towards her own daughter.
What kind of mother has that kind of hate for her daughter when she needed love, guidance and direction in life? OP didn't ask to come in this world and get treated horribly! It's like OP said her mother should've given her up for adoption.
You don't play favoritism with children. As parents we supposed to love our children unconditionally and equally.
If OP'S mom knew about her baby's daddy and how he truly was, she should've told her OP right from the get-go but instead she was hated and resented her daughter and took it out on her because she was physically abused.
She should've went to the police with this and pressed charges.
OP'S mom should've went to counseling and got herself some help. I'm so glad that OP and her brother went on with their new lives and cut ties with their ungrateful and toxic mother. I don't feel sad for OP'S mother because Karma came and bit her in the ass in the end. What comes around goes around. My word of encouragement to OP and her brother. OP, you and your brother continue to build everlasting bond with each other. This will bring the both of you closer than ever.
OP was not the reason her mom got arrested. Bribery is an offense against the whole system not just the individual who was harmed by it. After the word of her mother's actions got out, OP had no control over the consequences.
Forgive the mother? Hell no!
So you got the best revenge by living a better life and you don't owe that POS anything but pure hatred
A common thread I'm seeing in all of these stories is how - delicate - the female OPs are
Seriously - these stories read like amateur versions of the romance novels my grandmother used to read in the 80s. The heroine was always soooo "delicate" and needing a big strong man to rescue her.
I always thought they were little more than 2-dimensional paper doll cut outs.
But at least those stories were well written.
I dislike this Mother immensely, she sounds like my mother.
The reason her mother hated her because she reminded her mother of her father.
Op is so lucky to be away from her mother
Since there was a trail of the payment she could get a lawyer and sue the college
Wow. OP needs to forgive her mom fot her own healing and move on. There is nothing wrong with loving family from afar.......right where they are. The mother chose her destination.
Sometimes you just have to know when to stop loving someone. I know that it's hard, but it's for your own sanity. You can't let yourself keep being treated like trash just because it's your family.
I know the father is an awful human being but there must have been something there when he called up his sister to tell him about OP. He didnt have to do that. The brother and sister havent talked to each other in years. He didnt get anything out of it. So why did he do it? The aunt did say she always wanted to know about OP and whether or not she was alive. Did the father do it on purpose to hopefully bring OP and the aunt together? Dont know but the father did something right 👍
Coming from a child of an abusive parent who did the same thing as the mom. I am there for anybody that struggles with mental illness I MYSELF struggle with mental illness. But when it came to the day that he attempted or even threatened, which was multiple times, I became so numb from the abuse that I really didn’t care. It might sound selfish, but in my head, it felt like good riddance. In my heart, it felt empty and numb,. So, I have to side with OP. I don’t think she had to go back to her mom to help take care of her. I’m happy that she had her brother and that they were close. It’s more of a pity that her mom had to be such an evil person and probably hated her just because of who her dad was and how her dad was to her and that’s not OP’s fault.
Op's mom is one of the most toxic narcissists I ever heard of, plus if there was any evidence of that bribe the school could face a MASSIVE scandal
I think it was enough that the son sold the house to pay for the mom’s care. That was reasonable. Other then that, the son and daughter don’t owe her anything and have a right to try to make a better life for themselves.
I don't feel bad for the mother. She got what she deserved. She mistreated her daughter for her entire life because she hated the father. She should have given her to someone that would have taken care of and loved her. She didn't want her daughter loved because she hated her daughter too much. She should have given her up instead of keeping her to mistreat her. It just proves she is evil. She got what she deserved because, Karma will bite you hard when you deserve to be bitten really hard. I'm glad that OP didn't go to help her evilness. It would not have been appreciated by the mother. The mother would have just spewed more hate and vileness on OP. If the son doesn't hardly have anything to do with her and is just there a little bit, why should OP go and see her. He's the one that reaped her love and care, not Opie. OP doesn't owe her anything but the son does.
I pray that she can find a way to forgive her mother just because it will relieve her of a burden. Forgiving someone is not for them it's for yourself. But, I do not blame her one bit for not wanting to take care of her mother.
I knew it was different daddies at beginning. Have family members that act like this 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽 she should open case against school and get her education anyway. Ahe has the proof and whoever took bribe will go to jail like the laura woman. College admissions is regulated big time💯❗‼️
Upon learning that your mother deliberately sabotaged your future, let that college know that your mother didn't discuss that decision with you and ask the college to reconsider that decision, with that decision sent directly to your phone.
Take hers what she deserves and get what she deserves for it
Do not forgive others for them. Forgive others for YOURSELF. Don't allow it to turn ugly in you, forgive them and then forget them. You will find it easier to forget them when you have nothing to tie them to you. Angry and hates ties you to people. Live your BEST life after knowing that you are free of them. 💙😄
Great story💖
Hmm, forgiveness is a good thing. It is to remove from your mind that which has caused you to lose love for your neighbor. It does NOT require the notice or participation of the one being forgiven, only the wish that things will work out. So many people fall into the trap that forgiveness means going back to toxic relationship or helping out someone whose just desserts have made a difficult situation. Forgiveness sets you FREE of bad feelings in your own mind where such feelings are not good neighbors, and allows you to evict them. Failure to forgive OP's father made OP's mother evil to OP when she was capable of kindness (as she was to OP's brother). By all means, forgive but don't return.
her mom is effed up and instead of addressing the matter peppery the mother projected these issues onto her doughtier. living her failure through her child a very bad move in all honesty.
Op just contact the school and tell them it was a typo and live your life
My mom doesn't hate me and she could go months without checking up on me.