So your birthday is a week before your brother's and they still can't remember? Yeah I call BS. Even bad parents would make it a shared party every year. This screams parents didn't want OP.
My mom definitely remembers my birthday. My aunts and uncles all insisted she couldn't possibly be in labor. I'm the youngest. It wasn't her first rodeo.
No they don't narcissistic parents do this kind of crap it's clear brother is the golden child, but parents will still end up in a nursing home because golden child won't be bothered to take care of them in their old age
This whole story could be summed up in one line: stuck up entitled parents and siblings suffer the consequences of their actions but don't know how to process those consequences.
No kidding, I have a feeling like the others said, They wanted male children and not female. I think this is the case the male child gets their lion share and the female gets none.
They can whine and cry all they want. The parents never forgot Ops birthday. They knew what they were doing and just don’t want to be held accountable.
Good for you to walk away. I’m proud of you for doing what is best for you and you didn’t wait until your 50’s to realize how toxic your family treats you poorly.
Last birthday my own mother didn't wish me a happy birthday, only my sister did and I didn't get a cake or cards, nothing, like my existence is easily forgotten
If anyone ever told me “you’re an adult now, birthdays shouldn’t matter so much to you anymore” I’d slap them for every year of my age. I’m turning 32 this year and I still get excited. I may not get a full out party, but I still go out to dinner with the fam and sometimes there’s a cake involved. And I now take solo birthday trips to just do stuff I know I’m excited about. Age doesn’t mean you stop getting excited about your birthday
OP was deliberately neglected on her birthday. I would be more sympathetic towards her family if her birthday fell on a bad point of the year, like a huge bill: rent/mortgage, car note, etc. But nope! They were being straight up neglectful. Good for OP!
It seems like it wasn't really about the big event itself, it was about the recognition and appreciation OP was longing to for years. I don't need huge parties for my birthdays either, though if I felt something like OP one day I would go WILD😅
If one of your better birthdays -before you threw that big one without your family-was when your aunt got a cupcake and candle and left it at that that’s a sign you did the right thing by not inviting them because they are a-holes
If it weren't for my godparents my parents would have never thrown me a party. They forced them to. When we lived 2 states away for 3 years I didn't get one party. My sister's parties were held at venues, mine were at home. My 18th birthday my godparents threw me my dream party and my parents were MAD that everyone commented how it was the most beautiful party ever.
She says "siblings" but then never erally talks about the other siblings. What was their roles in all this? What did they think? She only ever mentions her younger brother, so what about the others?
I would have gone scorched earth: publishing the letter I wrote them on social medias, assemble a pictured timeline of the brother’s birthday, each year a few pictures, and dare anyone telling me I'm tearing my family apart to find even one picture of as much as a real birthday cake for me over 25 years, publishing the gaslighting messages and angry texts, openly ask why they expected to be k vited when they pbviously don’t see me as family, and ask what exactly they did for me that would lead me to forget 26 years of neglect and favoritism. Food, clothes and a roof? The bare minimum, without that they would have gone to jail for child neglect, and maybe a foster family would have at least bought me a cake.
This is so hurtful heartless selfish that your family not even your siblings botheed to celebrate or bring up your birthday 😢 i would have a birthday party too on my own if nobody cared ❤
This is really, really bad. Screams fourth tier watt pad fic. FIVE “my family may never understand”… WE GET IT. YOU ARE CINDERELLA AND ONLY YOU ARE HAVIGN A BAD TIME.
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Mom/Dad/siblings; " How can you tear the family apart ?!?"
Me; "... how? Easy! I learned it from all of you! Shouldn't you be proud of me?"
Underrated
Haha, right? They taught OP well! It's sad but true-sometimes family drama is the best teacher. 🙃
Kinda true
„You‘ll regret this“ why? Gonna forget my birthdays?
So your birthday is a week before your brother's and they still can't remember? Yeah I call BS. Even bad parents would make it a shared party every year. This screams parents didn't want OP.
My mom definitely remembers my birthday. My aunts and uncles all insisted she couldn't possibly be in labor. I'm the youngest. It wasn't her first rodeo.
No they don't narcissistic parents do this kind of crap it's clear brother is the golden child, but parents will still end up in a nursing home because golden child won't be bothered to take care of them in their old age
My mom definetely remembers my birthday.
Sad but true unfortunately 😔
I call BS, too. This is clearly Chat GPT with prompts input by a teen who didn’t get the latest iPhone she wanted.
This whole story could be summed up in one line: stuck up entitled parents and siblings suffer the consequences of their actions but don't know how to process those consequences.
Don't forget the narcissism from parents and brother. They probably threw "Lavish birthday parties" just to get attention on the internet for clout.
No kidding, I have a feeling like the others said, They wanted male children and not female. I think this is the case the male child gets their lion share and the female gets none.
Yeah OPs parents definitely wanted sons not daughters based on how they prioritized her brother over her.
Ya and it's def not that she was born as a mistake cuz she is older and they had more kids afterwards
The only thing OP has to ask the family group is to ask family members how many birthdays of hers that they've been to?
They can whine and cry all they want. The parents never forgot Ops birthday. They knew what they were doing and just don’t want to be held accountable.
Good for you to walk away.
I’m proud of you for doing what is best for you and you didn’t wait until your 50’s to realize how toxic your family treats you poorly.
So it's ok for OP to be forgotten about but not the parents.
The hypocrisy in this story is insane!
Last birthday my own mother didn't wish me a happy birthday, only my sister did and I didn't get a cake or cards, nothing, like my existence is easily forgotten
If anyone ever told me “you’re an adult now, birthdays shouldn’t matter so much to you anymore” I’d slap them for every year of my age. I’m turning 32 this year and I still get excited. I may not get a full out party, but I still go out to dinner with the fam and sometimes there’s a cake involved. And I now take solo birthday trips to just do stuff I know I’m excited about. Age doesn’t mean you stop getting excited about your birthday
Your family stopped belonging in your life when you stopped needing them
it's so unfair how they always had an excuse but never forgot your siblings' birthdays! You deserve better
OP was deliberately neglected on her birthday. I would be more sympathetic towards her family if her birthday fell on a bad point of the year, like a huge bill: rent/mortgage, car note, etc. But nope! They were being straight up neglectful. Good for OP!
If they did that to her siblings too I could forgive them, but doing that to her and only her is just evil.
@@TranswealthyTrillionaire very
😂 glad you are doing this for you!
My bdays are coffee and cake. Totally fine for me.
It seems like it wasn't really about the big event itself, it was about the recognition and appreciation OP was longing to for years. I don't need huge parties for my birthdays either, though if I felt something like OP one day I would go WILD😅
it's almost as if not everyone is the same person and what you like doesn't dictate what others like.
FYI op you can sue the first venue contract law is serious.
If one of your better birthdays -before you threw that big one without your family-was when your aunt got a cupcake and candle and left it at that that’s a sign you did the right thing by not inviting them because they are a-holes
Ok, fam. If you want to disprove what I'm saying, just post some pics of the parties you have thrown for me in the past.
If it weren't for my godparents my parents would have never thrown me a party. They forced them to. When we lived 2 states away for 3 years I didn't get one party. My sister's parties were held at venues, mine were at home. My 18th birthday my godparents threw me my dream party and my parents were MAD that everyone commented how it was the most beautiful party ever.
You should have hired security honey
Well, he did, didn't he?
She did. Did you hear her say a security guard came to tell her her family was trying to get into the party. And the venue owners kicked them out?
@@Marion_Neeman
It was a her not a him
@Yaya2214CJ it was hard to hear while doing chores, but thank you ☺️
What would she have to be grateful for
From short: 0:58
thanks
The elder sister is just a chill girl 😂❤ 19:24
She says "siblings" but then never erally talks about the other siblings. What was their roles in all this? What did they think? She only ever mentions her younger brother, so what about the others?
She already had enough characters to keep track of, you can’t expect her to give anyone else a personality.
Spoke too soon Smart Cookie
What happened to the older sister? She is not mentioned in the story.
Me personally, I feel she went a little too big, but considering her past, I can't blame her for letting herself have a good time
I would have gone scorched earth: publishing the letter I wrote them on social medias, assemble a pictured timeline of the brother’s birthday, each year a few pictures, and dare anyone telling me I'm tearing my family apart to find even one picture of as much as a real birthday cake for me over 25 years, publishing the gaslighting messages and angry texts, openly ask why they expected to be k vited when they pbviously don’t see me as family, and ask what exactly they did for me that would lead me to forget 26 years of neglect and favoritism. Food, clothes and a roof? The bare minimum, without that they would have gone to jail for child neglect, and maybe a foster family would have at least bought me a cake.
This is so hurtful heartless selfish that your family not even your siblings botheed to celebrate or bring up your birthday 😢 i would have a birthday party too on my own if nobody cared ❤
Good for OP!
Great
Favoritism much??
Second no way Hii!
…😭🤯
This is really, really bad. Screams fourth tier watt pad fic.
FIVE “my family may never understand”… WE GET IT. YOU ARE CINDERELLA AND ONLY YOU ARE HAVIGN A BAD TIME.
4th yahoooooooooo
First !!!! Can i get pinned
Grow up
Pre-school out for the day?
@@Yaya2214CJ yeah and that's why you're here