Hm, Elliot said he hates her, because she was involved in every part of his friendship with Kelly. And I had this friends too and can understand Elliot that its absolut destroying friendships when you are suddenly the third wheel in your friendship. It changes dynamics and friendships rapidly.
“Without Ashley really pushing forward and being enthusiastic about it, it wouldn’t have happened” quote on quote what Elliot said in their very first podcast. And yet he doesn’t believe she deserves equity. And I’ve only watched the other roommates because of Ashley 😐😵💫 this has been extremely disappointing.
True. I started watching everyone because Ashley joined them and I have been a supporter for a long time. It just hurts that she was used like this. She is one of the most genuine creators I've watched along with her family members and also Isa Sung 🥺
Ashley is an amazing person I feel so sad that she got the short end of the stick. Out of all of the housemates I love Ashley the most and her and Kelly's relationship didn't destroy Ur mom's house.
ever since i watched this video i kept thinking about THAT part of the pod episode. everyone was vital to this house, but can we please not act like the name is literally UR MOMS house like ://///
he tried to convince her boyfriend (!) to basically exploit her. it sounds like short term thinking and egoistic or resentful behaviour. i wouldn‘t consider it as a smart business move
Ashley was the reason why I knew who any of you guys were, and I know that goes for a lot of people too. For him to say she doesn’t deserve equity is embarrassing because just like everyone she put in effort on the house and probably even more.
kashley didn’t break ur moms house up. what broke it was the dishonesty amongst so called friends. now that ashley has mentioned already being honest with them about her and kelly before signing the lease puts so much in to perspective. ashley even said she could’ve moved in on her own had they mentioned feeling uncomfortable. i feel sorry for ashley first of all because it just feels like she’s just been used and put in the dark the whole time just to get the most hate out of this. y’all are quick to judge and it makes me so mad for ashley especially to have been painted as the bad guy.
I agree now that we know the real full story, Kelly and Ashely don't deserve hate but of course people are going to speculate and make assumptions based on what they know when they aren't being told the full truth about the start up of the house and everything that went on. Kelly and Ashely painted this whole narrative that their relationship began to develop shortly after living together in the house when in reality they had been talking and thinking about dating before. This mislead fans to think no one in the house was prepared for their relationship and just had to adjust to that change when in reality everyone knew the deal and was ok with taking the risk of them dating. Kellys initial video of "leaving ur moms house" was extremely misleading bc fans were again left in the dark and had no idea the timeline and series of events that lead up to the ending of the house. All Kelly said was he viewed Elliots video (where he never mentioned Kelly or Ashely once) as an attack which again, was VERY CONFUSING and made no sense why he was taking the video personally and creating drama out of what appeared to be a simple video of Elliot explaining his struggles and why he was moving on. Bottom Line: Kelly and especially Ashely are both people who don't like to address sticky situations with their viewers which makes sense for somethings but not for something as big as this. And if you're not gonna be upfront how can you not expect backlash in these circumstances. If they hadn't gotten hate they'd feel no need to be transparent about the whole thing and none of us would have gotten the full story. Glad they cleared it up.
Tbh once Kelly and Ashley started dating you could tell the house wasn't going to work out cause it's hard to do group content when 2 people in the group will almost always agree with each other also you don't date your coworkers cause that never ends well, especially when you also live with your coworkers.
This whole situation really made me understand why as a kid I’ve always heard these 2 rules 1. Never start a business with friends and family 2. Never move in with your best friend This just proves that if you do any of these two things then you risk losing your relationship with your friend *remember that this is a general statement and obviously doesn’t apply to all friend groups, every friend group is different
i agree with the first one but YOU ALWAYS MOVE IN WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND (if youre a guy, i dont know how it is to be a girlbest fren so cant say about that)
The only reason why I even watched your mom’s house in the first place was BECAUSE of Ashley so to hear Elliot tell others that she didn’t deserve equity in the LLC is beyond belief. If anything she was the one that brought in the most viewers, she deserves the equity rightfully so. It also seems like Elliot can’t seem to put his friends & work separately, the line between friendships & business/ work partners became blurred. Like he didn’t know his boundaries & expected everyone to drop everything for him.
coming from a braille days kelly viewer and discovering the other roommates, i can say for me ashley definitely carried the content house through most of their time together. either through her solo vids or her appearances in group/duo vids. to say she deserves no equity is mind boggling. her brand was the biggest.
@wlndbeach in this video they mentioned someone else told them the equity situation and then they talked to elliott about it. its not just the three of them that know the equity situation someone else out there knows about this. if you want to believe its a he said/she said situation full of lies go for it. i find it crazier to think they would make this video without receipts but im not the one asking for receipts.
@@ad8775 Luke’s been friends with Kelly for a longer time if you watched Kelly’s vids they’ve known each other since they were teens. Kelly even mentions in this video how he’s known Luke for 8 years. And there’s so much more than being left for a girl if we watch this video, but hey, we’re just sharing our thoughts here based on what they are telling us but we really don’t know what 100% happened. 😊 so respect for everyone 😊
@@ad8775 he’s called Luke his best friend multiple times as well on his other videos :) seems like he’s a lot of best friends. I wish I was as outgoing. 😅
not elliot saying Ashley doesn’t deserve any equity in the house…i genuinely feel like the house wouldn’t have gone nearly as far without her. literally only watched the other roommates for her…..love herrrrr she deserves the world and nothing less♥️y’all owe HER her flowers
Ashley came into the house with the largest platform. To say she doesn’t deserve equal share is insane. I had never heard of anyone else involved in the house before she posted her first video with them in it. They benefited from her and it suck’s she’s having to deal with this when she didn’t need the house for exposure to begin with. I’m glad Kelly is protective and supportive of her.
Another thing I’d like to just say, if it weren’t for Ashley there would not be as many viewers as your moms house would’ve had. I only watched this content for her, as I’ve been following her for YEARS and it’s really really gross that he would try to just cut her out like that when she is such a core member. Like I don’t understand why he acted out like that (talking behind peoples back) very childish and disappointing.
@@annaquino3320 wow ur right I forgot she paid the most rent, and brought all of her furniture over to share with everyone. But she didn’t deserve equity?? Like the nerve. Ur moms house wouldn’t have happened without her fr.
Wow I feel so bad that it’s spiraled into this. Kelly and Ashley don’t deserve this, but I also understand what might’ve caused Elliot to act like this bc I think I’m similar in this way. It sounds like he might’ve formed a false reality in his head and become paranoid and fearful about potentially being abandoned by his friends. Definitely a sign that Elliot needs to work on himself more bc it’s affecting his friendships super negatively.
I know what it's like to have a great friend find someone new, and I'm an instantly replaced. But feelings are feeling and if kashley love each other, it's going to happen.
Yeah :( I get both sides where kelly had to be with his family and elliot felt alone when they left. The timing was so bad. I hope they get to talk things out
My heart goes out to Ashley the most. She exudes to be a very kind and beautiful person (inside and out) and was undeserving of the prejudice she received. I hope you all overcome this shortcoming, learn to understand each other and develop an unbreakable friendship again.
I feel like this is a common “in your 20s” friendship problem. Some friends expect much more from a friendship than the other person simply because they are two very different people. The person who expects more (usually a routine and scheduled person) starts to resent the person who doesn’t need as much from the friendship (usually the more casual person who plans things on the fly). What they expect from a friendship just doesn’t line up.
Agreed they're in the age group where friendships are challenged bc everyone's lives are going differently & I believe it didn't matter that Ashley is here currently, even if Kelly had a different gf, Elliott would not like her. . . Like imagine Ashley never living in the house, the end result would still be the same. Elliot would inevitably hate the gf
Ashley was the reason I started watching ur mom's house. Ur mom's house is even named after ashley's username. So, she was a really big part of it all and the growth the house got
It’s truly sad because Ashley had the best intentions for everyone… she did little things that a lot people don’t do for their friends. People honestly get upset when you get into a relationship and Ashley is still being so nice about it wow.
The last part about how Ashley could tell that Elliot didn’t like her and gave off vibes that he didn’t like spending time with her broke my heart. I know what that’s like and it’s absolutely terrible to feel like the cause of the off vibes and second guessing if it’s all in your head. You can just tell from how Elliot talked behind their backs and the timing of the video that he’s really manipulative and wants to control the narrative publicly and privately. I honestly think it’s a good thing you all parted ways
I'm normally a quiet watcher but just wanted to say thank you so much Kelly and Ashley for sharing your side of the story and giving viewers clarity when you didn't have to. It saves a lot of people from making inaccurate assumptions which can cause hate too which none of you deserve. It really gives a lot of perspective when Ashley mentioned her and kelly being a thing before the house and it was such a commendable thing to clarify before the lease. I'm sure there were moments where everyone made mistakes but I hope Elliot reaches out to you guys again to understand the hurt he himself caused while he was hurting also. Such a sad ending to your mom's house but I hope your next chapters are much more positive. Lots of love all the way from New Zealand
To be honest, when I have seen how free-spirited and laisses-faire attitude from Kelly I didn’t expect this depth and it was something I was concerned about for Ashley and your relationship but you have incredible depth Kelly. It’s wonderful to see. I also knew this would happen so this did not surprise me. You’re all still very young, finding your way through life, relationships and business. I think what Ashley said is true, that you will all learn from this in how to handle business and relationships with clearer boundaries in the future. It’s something I’m still trying to understand myself. Also Ashley’s is such a loving mediator, always seeking peace with compassion. You both have very sincere hearts and I see how your pairing is so good now. I wish every one of you success and I concur that one day soon, you’ll all be able to have some friendship together again. Keep dreaming guys 🙏
i feel sick to my stomach watching ashley continuously empathize with elliot after he fully undermined her as a woman and a girlfriend, woman have always had to take more hurt and get less reward and just to see her continue to support him and speak about how she understands his point of view hurts because it seems elliot never did and would never do that for her. the amount of hate i've seen for ashley has been unparalleled compared to the other members and i just know she's incredibly strong but she shouldn't have to be and thats the bottom line
She’s such a sweetheart she didn’t deserve any of the mistreatment from E or his supporters. She contributed so much - her viewers, her furniture, cooking for everyone, helping E sell his merch!? - and he wanted to shut her out of equity? He’s such a disgusting misogynist and user
i appreciated this so much just to clear up confusion. I’ve supported Ashley for so long and so to see her get so much hate for something that she didn’t mean to cause made me so upset. im glad that the air has been cleared at least from your side. I think the hard part is people always say moving in with your best friends is hard and not a good idea but for content I think it varies. Also, I think these things with Elliot stem from trauma and family issues and they were projected towards you.
Okay I just got to the LLC part and first that’s so disrespectful in terms of you & Anne Marie being involved as well as you basically came into the house w such a large fan base you carried part of the popularity.
@@nathanngyn she doesn't know for sure, that's why she said "I think".... but honestly, I feel the same. in his episode of the podcast he mentioned not having a good relationship with his family, and you can clearly see that his family values are completely different from Kelly and Ashley's
it's so unfortunate to see your mom's house fall apart, although it's for the best it's just sad to see how it ruined the friendships between them. I just have to say i rlly respect Kelly for standing up for Ashley, and for putting his family first when they were going through hard times. i hope everything works out for everyone that was a part of the house and although they were hurt by each other i hope they can all heal with time and one day be friends again
I swear Ashley is the kindest soul ever. Even after all the shit Eliot said about her she is still being so understanding and sorry for him. It just goes to show how caring and understanding Ashley is.
Omg yes. I was just thinking the same thing. I went through a very similar situation a long time ago & I couldn’t handle the pressure if I knew millions of people were watching the whole thing…
it's no one's fault entirely but there were actions that resulted in the snowball effect of what happened. but it was unfair for some people in the community to place the blame entirely on you and Ashley. I've been following and watching Ashley's videos for around 3 to 4 years now and I know how genuine her intentions always are so I was taken aback when I saw people attacking her. I do hope that everyone from UMH finds what they're looking for and resolves this conflict over some period of time
They clearly said in the video everyone was okay with their relationship before they even moved in. It just seems that Elliot liked control and when he didn’t have it for the house his reaction was to disband it. Sucks but it happens. Elliot personality is to go, go, go.
@Don Yaya they literally explained in the video that ashley brought up them seeing eachother before they even signed the lease they knew the outcome and still wanted ashley to come live with them…
@@billythao8669 then that should’ve been said before getting a house ? a question possibly or even tried to compromise to make ts work ? even ashley said “i’ll find a place for myself if they didn’t want the relationship in the house”
Having seen you guys since before the house and watching the house come together and fall apart, this is quite painful, but also completely understandable from all perspectives. Hope everyone heals and feels better at some point in time ❤️
I remember when Ashley went to a different shop to get Elliot’s favorite drink I know it’s probably seen as a small gesture but that truly makes me believe she loves keeping things that people she cares about in mind to give the little happy moments back now I haven’t watch every single video but now hearing that he doesn’t think Ashley deserves equity is so awful I don’t hate him or anything but that’s an awful fucking thing to say to someone that genuinely saw you as a friend
i have been under elliot’s position before coming from a similar experience with friends to dating relationships. Unfortunately, i definitely felt the same feelings that elliot felt; disliking the significant other and felt uncomfortable about their relationship, and it would bring me down because it felt like i lost a friend to another person or i felt replaced. but i learned that rather than being afraid of losing someone, being able to make the best of the time we can get together is what helped me accept the fact. i wish nothing but the best for both of you and a slow regrowth !!
I recently had the same experience. I’m not good with change so it took me a while to adjust and just accept that my friendships will look differently but we can still maintain our friendship through small acts of effort
elliots own insecurities should not have affected them though. u can feel sad and upset but ultimately if u let it result in hatred and bitterness *you* are ultimately in the wrong. no matter what elliot felt, it is no excuse for the abhorrent things he said about ashley, and he should be held accountable for it.
i’ve been following ashley for so long now & i can definitely tell she’s hurt by the situation. i went through a similar situation with my ex best friend and i related so much to this. i wanted to do everything i can to fix the friendship between us bc i cared for my ex best friend & i loved them. she went behind my back telling my current best friend that she resents me and she hates me. i tried talking it out with them but they never wanted to. so ashley & kelly, my hearts r with u both. im so sorry u have to go through this , i can’t imagine how u both feel!! love u guys so much, everything will be okay in the long run :)💌🫶🏼💞
It’s really sad to see a friendship crumble like this especially over things that could’ve been resolved if talked out with each other. I feel especially sad for Ashley because even though i’ve been a long time subscriber and tuned in to umh because of her, watching elliot’s recent video did plant some seeds of doubt over my original impression of her (sorry ashley! i shouldn’t have!). I can sympathize with elliot seeing that his actions obviously come from a place of hurt, but it was really disappointing to hear about wanting to leave out ashley for the llc. Like what they said in the video, the house wouldn’t have existed without all the members. And i even remember in the very early videos that ashley contributed to the house not only in content, but by providing most of their furniture (which all of the roomies acknowledged and were grateful for btw). I know it’s too much to hope that they’ll go back to being friends again, but I hope they can resolve this matter and move on leaving any bitter emotions they have from staying in the house. I also want to point out that no one person really is to blame here so y’all shouldn’t hate on any of them. The fact that they shared this with us does not make it any of our business and we should leave it to them to resolve the matter between themselves. As viewers, let’s just continue to support their channels individually.
Thank you guys so much for your honesty and patience with this situation. I really admire you for being willing to speak so openly about this, and for being so understanding of everyone involved! I hope things start to go better!
It's fucking stupid about the fact that someone is threatening to kill a random ass person after not being friends with someone that's not even really in their lives.
Exactly. It doesn’t make sense how people get so much hatred for people they see online. Like, why? Just watch somebody else if you’re that bothered 😅😂
Yea I really didn’t understand that, like i was so confused as to why ppl would just assume, like I get that Elliot’s video was trying to portray that message but I saw right through it. I knew there was more to the story and it’s so disappointing to see him act out like that… it’s not a good friend move.
@@ArtIsYourWeapon Elliot’s video didn’t portray them negatively, he simply said it didn’t work out anymore and the creator house lost its original purpose - to create content together. Short and simple. Making a 38 minute long bashing video is not a good friend move.
I feel so bad for Ashley, I have been subbed to her for the longest time and I know how sweet she is so this is so painful to hear about :( I hope you guys can find some peace outside of the house! Good luck moving forward
Best friends living together is not a bad thing but it does put strain even on a friendship when you're seeing them 24/7. I'm glad that you guys decided to mutually give your friendship some space because space is much needed.
my heart hurts so much for ashley and kelly, i know exactly what it’s like to consider someone a friend just to find out they “hated” me and were talking bad about me behind my back. i understand elliot feeling hurt about being left alone when he needed support but unless he voices his issues he can’t expect them to know what’s going on. ): really sad situation overall and ily both
I respect both of you so much for doing this, i know both of you are not the type to broadcast personal matters online, and that's okay. Viewers need to understand that being a lifestyle vlogger also has its limits, it's literally a human right to have privacy, we cannot demand too much from them. I admire how you two can compartmentalize being a youtuber and being just Ashley/ Kelly doing other normal human things even though there's a thin line in between. And I really appreciate you guys talking about this even though it's hard for you. Thank you for taking us along with you in this roller coaster ride 🥺. I'm excited for what's to come. Sending big hugs to you Ashley and Kelly! 🤗🤗💕
Appreciate the context and insights! What I personally learnt from my life experiences is sometimes people subconsciously project their unworthiness and unhappiness onto surrounding people. We cannot fill their holes on the inside, only they can do it for themselves. We should not lose ourselves trying to fill someone up in the process. Make sure that we are not saying no to ourselves in the process of saying yes to the others. Lastly, an idea is only an idea. You need the right people and dynamics to carry through. For that, Ashley is equally well deserving of her equity to the LLC.
I'm always impressed with how mature Ashley is and how she tries to do her best to make everything work out, but not always everything works out, some things are to learn, after all, you both gave your best.❤
KELLY, I’m so sad that the house ended but I’m so so so excited to see what’s next for your future. Your videos bring me so much joy and I love your content so much. They inspire me and push me in the right direction. I love the phrase “do what excites” and go by it all the time now thanks to you. I’m so sorry that this whole situation has been kinda of hard and I wish you best as you go into your next chapter
I really applaud you guys for being this open like i really respect that .. shit happens and I really hope you guys get through it after whatever happens ... Time shall heal everything. Love you guys 🤍
Hearing they way you talk about Elliot I can tell you genuinely care about him.the fact that you acknowledge where he is coming from is so classy. I pray for healing where there is hurt.
I feel so bad for Ashley because she got invited by Elliot to join the house and then was left in the dark about Elliot’s hatred. She even got attacked so much by his viewers and she didn’t deserve any of it. Elliot literally created that video and basically framed y’all about being the problem when he’s been the problem all along… He knew what he was doing when he was making that video, if he wanted to protect y’all’s friendship he wouldn’t have done that. I hope you guys can heal from this and thank you for making this video and being transparent (even though you guys didn’t have to). Looking forward to your next journey! Also I’m so sorry Kelly that you had to go through all of this, especially because it’s so obvious how much you valued your friendship with Elliot. Losing a best friend is so tough, especially over non-transparency and misunderstandings. You honestly deserved better!
@@Yutsyumi you would want to tell people the truth when you’re getting death threats and people are soiling your character constantly on social media. Ashley and Kelly wanted to post normal videos to say goodbye, Elliot posted a vague video and his viewers started to attack them a lot, especially Ashley. They deserve every right to put this information out after what they’ve been through.
When this house first started I was so excited to see the content for all of them and now seeing the drama that went behind it makes me sad because things happen with friends. I genuinely hope this gets sorted out with you guys and everyone gets the help they need 💗. And I'm so sorry you guys got a bunch of hate for no reason because nobody deserves that.
ashley my heart is aching for u. i love you so so much, you are the kindest soul i know. you deserve everything and i don't understand how someone could hate you with no particular reason.
No hurt feelings or bad blood for any of Ur Mom’s House family. Life happens. Relationships progress. Work evolves. Home life is a balancing act for anyone who has lived with roommates. It’s not easy. You guys gave the viewers great content and enjoyed the ride. It is what it is. Time takes over and y’all will get past this. Rooting for each and every one of you and your futures! ❤
I absolutely believe this entire explanation. The youtube aspect aside I've totally been there more than once where a friend could not understand or deal with another friends', my own, relationship dynamic etc. The reasons could be different but the story is the same. And then the friend who feels on the out just gets in their head and there's little to no reconcilation. They just give up and don't want to hear it. It's happened to me like 3 separate times in the course of my life and the people who feel the resentment still haven't gotten over it to the point where our friendship could actually be rebuilt. It's a shame. Sticking around to support you two!
Elliot reminds me of my ex best friend lol. Like some people just have this separation anxiety, they're scared of being left alone and abandunt. If that energy doesn't match yours and Ashley's amazing dynamic then y'all need to put some healthy distance. You can't change how he feels, only he can do that. Y'all have done enough, now just live and keep making amazing content, people come and go and if y'all mean something to him, he'll come back and make things right again.
i feel really bad for you guys because it has to be so hard to respond to dram without causing more drama. i feel like you guys have to super carefully watch what your saying because if you say anything wrong you're instantly cancelled it's not fair to you guys.❤❤
Because of Ashley I start watching the boys.. I don't care about them all I care about Ashley videos and her cooking as long as she didn't kill anyone 😅 no one will cancel the shit.. People should know that shit happen they're not watching a serie or a movie but its real life.. And in a real life always shit happens.. Always people try to turn something stupid to something big and it ain't worth it..
35:39 Ashley I understand that you’re sorry and you feel like you needed to reach out more. But friendships are a 2 way street, if Elliot doesn’t respond or reach out about how he’s feeling there isn’t a whole lot you and do, you can’t read his mind…To have a friend you need to be a friend. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself and feel like it’s your fault he feels and acts the way he does. Thank you to both of you for shedding light on the situation, I know it’s not easy.
Aw I'm so sorry for everything you both have had to deal with. Friendship drama sucks and I can't imagine the stress of having to explain everything to an audience and the dread you must've felt when Elliot posted his video early
I’m so sorry everybody involved had to get involved in this situation and I really do hope that everybody understands both sides are understandable and reasonable. I hope both u and Ashley will hopefully recover from this as unscathed as possible❤️❤️❤️ All of my love goes to you guys❤
Thank you for being open and mindful during this video. A friend breakup is almost worse than breaking up with a partner in my opinion. I hope you guys get the chance to talk and that comes with peace. I'm sorry you had to go through this. I wish you guys the best. Take care of yourselves *hugs*
Love you guys! I can see how hurt you both are and that breaks my heart. It'll get better with time. Thanks for giving us a little more insight into the issues. Looking forward to see what you both get up to next!
Honestly I can relate to this so much, I lived with my Boyfriend in a share house with mates and his best friend treated me the exact same as Ashley, told my partner he hated me, he would gossip about me and consistently made me feel very uncomfortable towards the end of our lease, I respect you so much Ashley your empathy and willingness to want to fix your relationship with him despite the difficulty of the situation and how he had made you feel! much love!
Ashley - you absolutely deserve equity & equal say in what goes on. I can’t believe that even has to be said. You have as much right to be compensated as everyone else involved. To say otherwise is completely ludicrous. Just wanted to make it clear to you that your efforts & contributions are valid & recognized
I'm so sorry you're going through this. What Elliot did seems pretty hurtful. The fact that you guys still try to look at things from Elliot's perspective and explain that you understand where his hurt feelings came from, makes me really respect you guys. You're good people. It's always rough when friendships turn sour.. I had to end a friendship a few times and it hurts man. I hope Elliot will communicate with you soon so you can either fix the burning bridge or at least gain some positive closure :) Love all you guys and will continue to support!
the right thing to do is post a video and expose your best friend and acted all innocent, oh by the way i'm Kelly i'm so perfect i like to throw my best friend under the bus.
if you hadn't released this video, Ashley would've straight up received the Yoko Ono treatment (being blamed for "breaking UMH" up). thank you for telling your side of the story. i've been subbed to Ashley for 4 years now(?), and she's one of the only creators i've been watching for so long this consistently because she genuinely emanates such warmth and kindness that i think few creators - people, even - possess. she's inspirational and makes me want to work towards my dreams and goals with as much passion and enthusiasm. to think she's been disrespected like this - especially when she so objectively contributed so much, if not the most, to UMH (viewership, subscriptions, etc.) - makes me sick to my stomach. people's actions/behavior toward you are rarely ever a reflection of who you are; if anything, it says more about them.
She did though. What you listened are only their view… so are you entitled to believe them? Elliot didnt tell really anything at all. They made a big deal out of it. Makes me guess just why… :D maybe to give the narrative.
@@bewatter3014 If they are really lying they won't mention others people's who told them about elliot behaviour and the big question is why can't he came and defend himself!
This is so sad. I told my daughter several years ago that to never, ever share a home with her best friends because it will destroy their friendship. Unfortunately, these guys are good example of what can happen.
Hang in there you two....love ur mom's house ...got connected with great influencers. Thanks for being brave and reaching out to the community. It was really neat to see all of you all. Things will heal between the group! I love you two together...keep being happy and there for each other.
I love seeing Kashley even after Ur Moms house 🥹 even though change is hard I just know you guys are going to be on to bigger and better things. It really is unfortunate that it had to end this way but I’m so happy you guys took the time to fully explain everything. We will always support you guys ❤
It’s unfortunate that it happened and really sad especially for the both of you. I also feel bad that Elliot went through what he did but he should have dealt with it better. I hope all of you find new beginnings and be happier wherever you are with whoever you are. Ashley, you deserve the world with the heart of gold that you have. Im sorry you had to go through all of that. And no one should be sending death threats to anyone ever!!! Kelly, you do not deserve that. I hope everything turns out well for the better for both of you!!! ❤️
Damn I'm really feeling for you too and Elliot. I hope you guys are able to sort this out and eventually come back together and grow from this. I've been in the same position as Elliot and I feel that he needs to express himself more. Cause its easy to say that everythings fine when really it's not and we all know bottling your feelings isn't a good thing. Ashley and Kelly you guys are so strong for making this video and explaining everything to us. I appreciate you guys and the content everyone makes. Sending positive and healing vibes to you all 💫
thank you so much for being transparent with us. this is so hard. it's hard to watch something we loved end but i'm beyond excited to see how you guys grow from here. we love you kelly and ashley. do what excites.
Sad to see the best buddies departing their ways. Really loved seeing Elliot and Kelly's bonding it was the most wholesome thing in UMH. Hope you guys sort out and have healthy relationship one's again.
It’s never a good idea to put any ‘beef’ between/among friends public cos that was supposed to be something personal. When you put it on social media, it’s messier and the collateral damage is just uncontrollable.
Ghosh The pain and hurt in their eyes and in their words, just breaks my heart. There might be a small group of people who might not believe your side of the story, no matter how truthful it might be. But that doesn’t matter because I can feel that your guys were so genuine. You really did try your very best to fix this, and I appreciate you guys for doing that. Even through these turbulent times one thing that still remains is that you both had each other to lean on, and that only makes your relationship stronger. You guys should be super proud of how far you have come… together… I will always support you two… Go Team Kashley!
man i love kelly wakasa. started watching this man when he made videos with braile and still watch him to this day. this man deserves the best actually a genuinely a good person. i love kelly wakasa so much.
It’s just sad when a situation occurs and a close friend isn’t able to communicate and deal with the issue in a healthy manner and end ups using that emotion to fuel hate and resentment when an honest conversation and humility could fix the problem. I think this type of situation is sadly natural in life and in adult relationships and I just hope everyone can grow from this and create positive ways to deal with their emotions.
As one of your mature subscribers (started with Ashley), I instantly connected to your roommate content bcuz it took me back to precious past times and so I could relate to my young adult children & their lives in today’s world. My heart broke for all of you but time will heal and I’ve taught my kids to see friendships like a 3 tier cake. Those on top you cherish like family for life (very few make it on top) 2nd tier friends are around for varied reasons to have fun, share interests & do life events with. Last tier you may wanna throw away or discard cuz u feel are these friends even worth the time or energy or you no longer want to deal with the toxicity level or your past hurts & resentments dropped these people to this level. But at the end people brought to our lives are there for a reason, a season & a lifetime. Deciding where relationships should go in this lifetime is key. 3 tiers on a cake looks more inviting & amazing but if only 2 or just 1 tier is healthier for some then less is more. Valuing people and friendships will constantly shift and look different but staying real and true to your own worth which you guys are thriving at will definitely get you wiser with time. Thanks for sharing your lives & inspiring your older subscribers to feel young again ;) Enjoy every moment. It goes by quickly! 😇
not it literally being called YOUR MOM’s house and Elliot saying Ashley doesn’t deserve equity - you guys are such genuine and kind people and your community definitely sees that 💛
In my opinion this video was VERY needed. I get that you guys have done your best to not post any drama for privacy sake, but we as viewers could feel a lot of tension and a change in dynamic with the relationship in the group. It’s sad but I think a lot of blame was put on kashley even by myself but this is a good reminder there’s always TWO sides to every story. I’m rooting for everyone involved and seriously wishing the best for yall
It has been so fun to see ur moms house and all that yall have been through, and how much each and everyone of you have grown. Yeah its sad that its all ending, but im sure you will all grow and go on to better things. We all support, and love you. And remember to Do what excites!
thank you guys for being open and giving more context! It was weird to watch Eliotts video, when all i expected was a "hi guys we are not going to renew our lease bc we are ready to open new chapters" It was really nice to hear your thoughts. I have really enjoyed all of the ur moms house content you guys have made! I hope you can rekindle your friendships at some point in the future. Its hard to live together and maintain friendships as such a big group who all have such hectic schedules. And its even harder to say goodbye to something good when you have difference rhetorics and perspectives on how and why it should end. Again: thank you for being open and for all the great videos!
I remember being so happy about the first video of them being in a house together. This really sucks but I kinda already expected it. That’s why I was scared for Ashley to join this house.( I’ve been subscribed to her for years so I’m very protective of her as a creator) I didn’t want her to get hurt by others, so seeing this really makes me upset. I hope you two stay strong bc ( again I also followed Kelly for years) it was like fate for two of my fave TH-camrs to come together😂 I really love you both and can’t wait to see more content and you growing together:)
This is so sad 😭😭😭 I can totally feel for your friend group. I hope you guys can figure it out and grow from this in the future. Sending lots of love 💖
also don't get why it's a bad thing that kelly is spending more time with ashley like she's literally his girlfriend. really struggling to understand when people are afraid of their friends being “stolen”.. is this a game or something? in what universe would your secure interpersonal friendships be shattered because of a girl.
It wouldn’t be a bad thing if they weren’t business partners. From Elliot’s perspective Kelly prioritizing Ashley doesn’t just affect their friendship it also affects his TH-cam content. Regardless of blame a working partnership of 3 with 2 being a couple is doomed to fail. The third person will always be outnumbered and you can’t expect the couple to be objective about one another
If as Kelly mentioned, Issa was a member for a bit, then it would be a 4 way partnership, Elliot could have been more communicative with the how he felt. That’s what business partners do in mainstream buisness no reason it would be different
He’s genuinely a pussy if he’s crying that one of his friends got a girl and the fact Kelly had to put time aside to just hang out with him it’s pathetic Kelly isn’t his baby sitter
What I learned trought the years just with life and teraphy it's that you can't control what others do and you can't (and shouldn't) be responsable for anyone, even if they are your friends, family or relatives, you don't own a person that. You do own respect and you can have empathy, try to ger in their shoes and see were they coming from,try to wish them the best but that's it. Try you best and see where things are leading to. Also, I learned that communication and time heals, so wishing you not just to you guys but to everyone who were part of this the best! 💗🤲🏻
I’m glad you guys made this video! Throughout this journey everyone else has always made videos “addressing things” or “talking about their feelings” but you both always kept quiet and focused on making videos and just live your lives. Despite the fact that you both have received the most hate through everything. I think the right people notice these things, and I’m glad to hear your sides. But, life goes on - I’m 28 and I’ve learned friends come and go and only a small portion stick around - I have friends I’ve met 20 years ago. Sometimes people may try to blame us for things the reality is they have internal issues that they need to work out for themselves.
i feel like elliot’s lowkey possessive of kelly and that’s where a lot of the resentment towards ashley came from. he’s gotta work on understanding other people and their priorities and not expecting others to go with his flow
Kelly you’re a Phenomenal youtuber! You inspired me in so many ways to be a TH-camrs and do what you do! Because of you I have tons of stuff planned out! Both you and Ashley are wonderful people! I have your back till the end! Been watching you since you started
Honestly i’m really glad that you guys finally broke the silence about this issue and for us to finally know what happened in ur mom’s house. I’ll be waiting for Elliot’s response hopefully we also hear his side of the story. Thank you for enlightening us in what took place in umh. I hope you guys can resolve this with Elliot and good luck to your future videos.
The equity part is just sick, from the start ashley was and still is the most successful youtuber out of the 4 of them, has the most subscribers, and brought so many new subs and views to their personal channels. Not to mention that the house is literally called URMOMS HOUSE which is ashleys brend and name, and yet still no equity for her???? disgusting
We’re all going through life learning bits by bits, maybe Elliot’s reaction was not the best but it happens. I hope we, as viewers, won’t go around spreading hate against anyone. It’s not our story and we don’t know how the other party felt. I don’t think it’s our place to be disappointed or angry at someone we know only through the videos they are posting. I’m sending everybody love and I’m wishing you peace ❤
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elliot straight up telling kelly that he hates his girlfriend and doesn't deserve the equity is crazy
his insta gives off weird vibes
Wait when did he say that?
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Hm, Elliot said he hates her, because she was involved in every part of his friendship with Kelly. And I had this friends too and can understand Elliot that its absolut destroying friendships when you are suddenly the third wheel in your friendship. It changes dynamics and friendships rapidly.
And you now this happened? Or are you just blindly buying what Kelly’s telling?
“Without Ashley really pushing forward and being enthusiastic about it, it wouldn’t have happened” quote on quote what Elliot said in their very first podcast. And yet he doesn’t believe she deserves equity. And I’ve only watched the other roommates because of Ashley 😐😵💫 this has been extremely disappointing.
it’s a complete slap in the face and it also says a lot about how much of a child he is.
True. I started watching everyone because Ashley joined them and I have been a supporter for a long time. It just hurts that she was used like this. She is one of the most genuine creators I've watched along with her family members and also Isa Sung 🥺
Ashley is an amazing person I feel so sad that she got the short end of the stick. Out of all of the housemates I love Ashley the most and her and Kelly's relationship didn't destroy Ur mom's house.
Same I watched them only because of her
ever since i watched this video i kept thinking about THAT part of the pod episode. everyone was vital to this house, but can we please not act like the name is literally UR MOMS house like ://///
the fact that elliot agreed to calling it UR MOM’S house and then had the audacity to say that ashley deserved no equity 💀💀
he kinda seems like a business man in that regard
@@tink6225 business man? more like a snake
Dude fr💀
he tried to convince her boyfriend (!) to basically exploit her. it sounds like short term thinking and egoistic or resentful behaviour. i wouldn‘t consider it as a smart business move
@@chuotlyn idk man im just put off by all of this.. i cant watch any of their old videos anymore cuz everything he does seems put on for show
Ashley was the reason why I knew who any of you guys were, and I know that goes for a lot of people too. For him to say she doesn’t deserve equity is embarrassing because just like everyone she put in effort on the house and probably even more.
When did he say it?
I completely agree
Brooo same
@@A2Square he didnt say it... they said he said it.
How on earth will he say a roommate shouldn't have equity 🤦🏾♂️
kashley didn’t break ur moms house up. what broke it was the dishonesty amongst so called friends. now that ashley has mentioned already being honest with them about her and kelly before signing the lease puts so much in to perspective. ashley even said she could’ve moved in on her own had they mentioned feeling uncomfortable. i feel sorry for ashley first of all because it just feels like she’s just been used and put in the dark the whole time just to get the most hate out of this. y’all are quick to judge and it makes me so mad for ashley especially to have been painted as the bad guy.
i literally don't even understand why ashley is being hated
I agree now that we know the real full story, Kelly and Ashely don't deserve hate but of course people are going to speculate and make assumptions based on what they know when they aren't being told the full truth about the start up of the house and everything that went on. Kelly and Ashely painted this whole narrative that their relationship began to develop shortly after living together in the house when in reality they had been talking and thinking about dating before. This mislead fans to think no one in the house was prepared for their relationship and just had to adjust to that change when in reality everyone knew the deal and was ok with taking the risk of them dating. Kellys initial video of "leaving ur moms house" was extremely misleading bc fans were again left in the dark and had no idea the timeline and series of events that lead up to the ending of the house. All Kelly said was he viewed Elliots video (where he never mentioned Kelly or Ashely once) as an attack which again, was VERY CONFUSING and made no sense why he was taking the video personally and creating drama out of what appeared to be a simple video of Elliot explaining his struggles and why he was moving on. Bottom Line: Kelly and especially Ashely are both people who don't like to address sticky situations with their viewers which makes sense for somethings but not for something as big as this. And if you're not gonna be upfront how can you not expect backlash in these circumstances. If they hadn't gotten hate they'd feel no need to be transparent about the whole thing and none of us would have gotten the full story. Glad they cleared it up.
Tbh once Kelly and Ashley started dating you could tell the house wasn't going to work out cause it's hard to do group content when 2 people in the group will almost always agree with each other also you don't date your coworkers cause that never ends well, especially when you also live with your coworkers.
@@nimrabhutto6768 some people are just plain insecured
@Mathe Jone never said anyone should do that, just said that this house thing was a terrible idea and was never going to work.
This whole situation really made me understand why as a kid I’ve always heard these 2 rules
1. Never start a business with friends and family
2. Never move in with your best friend
This just proves that if you do any of these two things then you risk losing your relationship with your friend
*remember that this is a general statement and obviously doesn’t apply to all friend groups, every friend group is different
i agree with the first one but YOU ALWAYS MOVE IN WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND (if youre a guy, i dont know how it is to be a girlbest fren so cant say about that)
FR!
Naaaa
Also don't be in a relationship with your roomate
this is rlly like a 50/50 as in getting in a relationship there's no way to see If it'll work until you try
The only reason why I even watched your mom’s house in the first place was BECAUSE of Ashley so to hear Elliot tell others that she didn’t deserve equity in the LLC is beyond belief. If anything she was the one that brought in the most viewers, she deserves the equity rightfully so. It also seems like Elliot can’t seem to put his friends & work separately, the line between friendships & business/ work partners became blurred. Like he didn’t know his boundaries & expected everyone to drop everything for him.
Same here
@Mathe Jone he would probably apologize to ashley
Samee!!
@@juliannaceralde he should apologize? But they shouldn’t. Just say you pick and choose and go
Did you hear him or it's what they said?
coming from a braille days kelly viewer and discovering the other roommates, i can say for me ashley definitely carried the content house through most of their time together. either through her solo vids or her appearances in group/duo vids. to say she deserves no equity is mind boggling. her brand was the biggest.
Fr she had a really big following which lead her followers to also follow the other members. It was kinda sad how he said that 😢
he was blind?
@wlndbeach in this video they mentioned someone else told them the equity situation and then they talked to elliott about it. its not just the three of them that know the equity situation someone else out there knows about this. if you want to believe its a he said/she said situation full of lies go for it. i find it crazier to think they would make this video without receipts but im not the one asking for receipts.
Wow. I appreciate Luke more because he’s been there and he remains by Kelly’s side even when Ashley entered Kelly’s life. 😊
Luke is the real G
Luke is matured friend. He’s know to socialize with other than kelly
@@ad8775 Luke’s been friends with Kelly for a longer time if you watched Kelly’s vids they’ve known each other since they were teens. Kelly even mentions in this video how he’s known Luke for 8 years. And there’s so much more than being left for a girl if we watch this video, but hey, we’re just sharing our thoughts here based on what they are telling us but we really don’t know what 100% happened. 😊 so respect for everyone 😊
@@ft_ph he did say that hes known luke for longer but he said elliot was his best friend multiple times
@@ad8775 he’s called Luke his best friend multiple times as well on his other videos :) seems like he’s a lot of best friends. I wish I was as outgoing. 😅
not elliot saying Ashley doesn’t deserve any equity in the house…i genuinely feel like the house wouldn’t have gone nearly as far without her. literally only watched the other roommates for her…..love herrrrr she deserves the world and nothing less♥️y’all owe HER her flowers
true
I agree
Same
just so disrespectful
YEP and ashley created soo much content and went out of her way to do things for the others so much
Ashley came into the house with the largest platform. To say she doesn’t deserve equal share is insane. I had never heard of anyone else involved in the house before she posted her first video with them in it. They benefited from her and it suck’s she’s having to deal with this when she didn’t need the house for exposure to begin with. I’m glad Kelly is protective and supportive of her.
The fact that Ashley is still trying to be so understanding and considerate is amazing . She’s an amazing human being and she deserves the world
to say ashley didn’t deserve equity makes me so mad on her behalf, like never mind a lot of this it actually just is crazy to me to even process.
Anne marie too, dont forget
Another thing I’d like to just say, if it weren’t for Ashley there would not be as many viewers as your moms house would’ve had. I only watched this content for her, as I’ve been following her for YEARS and it’s really really gross that he would try to just cut her out like that when she is such a core member. Like I don’t understand why he acted out like that (talking behind peoples back) very childish and disappointing.
Exactly
TRUE
me
I mean she has the biggest sub count when they started right? 🤷♀️ Pays the biggest rent too 🙈
@@annaquino3320 wow ur right I forgot she paid the most rent, and brought all of her furniture over to share with everyone. But she didn’t deserve equity?? Like the nerve. Ur moms house wouldn’t have happened without her fr.
Wow I feel so bad that it’s spiraled into this. Kelly and Ashley don’t deserve this, but I also understand what might’ve caused Elliot to act like this bc I think I’m similar in this way. It sounds like he might’ve formed a false reality in his head and become paranoid and fearful about potentially being abandoned by his friends. Definitely a sign that Elliot needs to work on himself more bc it’s affecting his friendships super negatively.
This is exactly what i’m realizing right now.
No.
@@YujinKwon Yes!
I know what it's like to have a great friend find someone new, and I'm an instantly replaced. But feelings are feeling and if kashley love each other, it's going to happen.
this i agree too!
You can literally feel Kelly’s pain knowing how much he loved Elliot and misses his best friend
Yeah :( I get both sides where kelly had to be with his family and elliot felt alone when they left. The timing was so bad. I hope they get to talk things out
@Mathe Jone Right lol they all can't be lying.
My heart goes out to Ashley the most. She exudes to be a very kind and beautiful person (inside and out) and was undeserving of the prejudice she received.
I hope you all overcome this shortcoming, learn to understand each other and develop an unbreakable friendship again.
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I feel like this is a common “in your 20s” friendship problem. Some friends expect much more from a friendship than the other person simply because they are two very different people. The person who expects more (usually a routine and scheduled person) starts to resent the person who doesn’t need as much from the friendship (usually the more casual person who plans things on the fly). What they expect from a friendship just doesn’t line up.
I agree. I had these kind of problems and drama when i was in my early twenties and living with friends. Without the youtube thing.
yes same ive come to this realization with my own friends
Agreed they're in the age group where friendships are challenged bc everyone's lives are going differently & I believe it didn't matter that Ashley is here currently, even if Kelly had a different gf, Elliott would not like her. . . Like imagine Ashley never living in the house, the end result would still be the same. Elliot would inevitably hate the gf
Ashley was the reason I started watching ur mom's house. Ur mom's house is even named after ashley's username. So, she was a really big part of it all and the growth the house got
plus we always see her organizing group stuff and being nice to evry1
OOF GREAT POINT!
It’s truly sad because Ashley had the best intentions for everyone… she did little things that a lot people don’t do for their friends. People honestly get upset when you get into a relationship and Ashley is still being so nice about it wow.
The last part about how Ashley could tell that Elliot didn’t like her and gave off vibes that he didn’t like spending time with her broke my heart. I know what that’s like and it’s absolutely terrible to feel like the cause of the off vibes and second guessing if it’s all in your head.
You can just tell from how Elliot talked behind their backs and the timing of the video that he’s really manipulative and wants to control the narrative publicly and privately. I honestly think it’s a good thing you all parted ways
His video was not manipulative at all. Rewatch it.
@@YujinKwon 😴🥴
thank you for being so transparent with us and taking us along for the ride :’) can’t wait for what’s in store for you guys! DWE!
I knew there was more to the story and I’m so happy they took the time to explain everything
It's just a prank bro. They trying to get more views.
@@khalilahd. yeah that’s why Kelly got offended for no reason 😄 he literally cried and made the video a big deal but it wasn’t
@@olinafan4459 there leaving ur moms house tho wdym
I'm normally a quiet watcher but just wanted to say thank you so much Kelly and Ashley for sharing your side of the story and giving viewers clarity when you didn't have to. It saves a lot of people from making inaccurate assumptions which can cause hate too which none of you deserve. It really gives a lot of perspective when Ashley mentioned her and kelly being a thing before the house and it was such a commendable thing to clarify before the lease. I'm sure there were moments where everyone made mistakes but I hope Elliot reaches out to you guys again to understand the hurt he himself caused while he was hurting also. Such a sad ending to your mom's house but I hope your next chapters are much more positive. Lots of love all the way from New Zealand
To be honest, when I have seen how free-spirited and laisses-faire attitude from Kelly I didn’t expect this depth and it was something I was concerned about for Ashley and your relationship but you have incredible depth Kelly. It’s wonderful to see.
I also knew this would happen so this did not surprise me. You’re all still very young, finding your way through life, relationships and business. I think what Ashley said is true, that you will all learn from this in how to handle business and relationships with clearer boundaries in the future. It’s something I’m still trying to understand myself.
Also Ashley’s is such a loving mediator, always seeking peace with compassion. You both have very sincere hearts and I see how your pairing is so good now.
I wish every one of you success and I concur that one day soon, you’ll all be able to have some friendship together again.
Keep dreaming guys 🙏
i feel sick to my stomach watching ashley continuously empathize with elliot after he fully undermined her as a woman and a girlfriend, woman have always had to take more hurt and get less reward and just to see her continue to support him and speak about how she understands his point of view hurts because it seems elliot never did and would never do that for her. the amount of hate i've seen for ashley has been unparalleled compared to the other members and i just know she's incredibly strong but she shouldn't have to be and thats the bottom line
Omg this!!!!
She’s such a sweetheart she didn’t deserve any of the mistreatment from E or his supporters. She contributed so much - her viewers, her furniture, cooking for everyone, helping E sell his merch!? - and he wanted to shut her out of equity? He’s such a disgusting misogynist and user
IKRRR
this.
True
i appreciated this so much just to clear up confusion. I’ve supported Ashley for so long and so to see her get so much hate for something that she didn’t mean to cause made me so upset. im glad that the air has been cleared at least from your side. I think the hard part is people always say moving in with your best friends is hard and not a good idea but for content I think it varies. Also, I think these things with Elliot stem from trauma and family issues and they were projected towards you.
Okay I just got to the LLC part and first that’s so disrespectful in terms of you & Anne Marie being involved as well as you basically came into the house w such a large fan base you carried part of the popularity.
how do you know Elliot has family issues?
@@nathanngyn she doesn't know for sure, that's why she said "I think".... but honestly, I feel the same. in his episode of the podcast he mentioned not having a good relationship with his family, and you can clearly see that his family values are completely different from Kelly and Ashley's
it's so unfortunate to see your mom's house fall apart, although it's for the best it's just sad to see how it ruined the friendships between them. I just have to say i rlly respect Kelly for standing up for Ashley, and for putting his family first when they were going through hard times. i hope everything works out for everyone that was a part of the house and although they were hurt by each other i hope they can all heal with time and one day be friends again
I swear Ashley is the kindest soul ever. Even after all the shit Eliot said about her she is still being so understanding and sorry for him. It just goes to show how caring and understanding Ashley is.
As someone who’s had friendship fallouts happen multiple times from living together I’m just so sorry y’all have to deal with this so publicly
Omg yes. I was just thinking the same thing. I went through a very similar situation a long time ago & I couldn’t handle the pressure if I knew millions of people were watching the whole thing…
It can happen to anyone but it seems like a big deal because how public it is indeed :(
Friends aren't meant to live together. It's just going to make things complicated. Like the show F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is such a scam
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it's no one's fault entirely but there were actions that resulted in the snowball effect of what happened. but it was unfair for some people in the community to place the blame entirely on you and Ashley. I've been following and watching Ashley's videos for around 3 to 4 years now and I know how genuine her intentions always are so I was taken aback when I saw people attacking her. I do hope that everyone from UMH finds what they're looking for and resolves this conflict over some period of time
They clearly said in the video everyone was okay with their relationship before they even moved in. It just seems that Elliot liked control and when he didn’t have it for the house his reaction was to disband it. Sucks but it happens. Elliot personality is to go, go, go.
@Don Yaya they literally explained in the video that ashley brought up them seeing eachother before they even signed the lease they knew the outcome and still wanted ashley to come live with them…
living with couples just feels uncomfortable in general
@@billythao8669 then that should’ve been said before getting a house ? a question possibly or even tried to compromise to make ts work ? even ashley said “i’ll find a place for myself if they didn’t want the relationship in the house”
@@billythao8669 But why hate your bestfriend gf!
Having seen you guys since before the house and watching the house come together and fall apart, this is quite painful, but also completely understandable from all perspectives. Hope everyone heals and feels better at some point in time ❤️
I remember when Ashley went to a different shop to get Elliot’s favorite drink I know it’s probably seen as a small gesture but that truly makes me believe she loves keeping things that people she cares about in mind to give the little happy moments back now I haven’t watch every single video but now hearing that he doesn’t think Ashley deserves equity is so awful I don’t hate him or anything but that’s an awful fucking thing to say to someone that genuinely saw you as a friend
i have been under elliot’s position before coming from a similar experience with friends to dating relationships. Unfortunately, i definitely felt the same feelings that elliot felt; disliking the significant other and felt uncomfortable about their relationship, and it would bring me down because it felt like i lost a friend to another person or i felt replaced. but i learned that rather than being afraid of losing someone, being able to make the best of the time we can get together is what helped me accept the fact. i wish nothing but the best for both of you and a slow regrowth !!
you’re really mature for that
@@sophiamaryn5232 took some time for sure and had many ups and downs but thankfully me and my friend’s relationship pieced back tgt !!
I recently had the same experience. I’m not good with change so it took me a while to adjust and just accept that my friendships will look differently but we can still maintain our friendship through small acts of effort
elliots own insecurities should not have affected them though. u can feel sad and upset but ultimately if u let it result in hatred and bitterness *you* are ultimately in the wrong. no matter what elliot felt, it is no excuse for the abhorrent things he said about ashley, and he should be held accountable for it.
@@kookpage exactly 👍🏽👍🏽
i’ve been following ashley for so long now & i can definitely tell she’s hurt by the situation. i went through a similar situation with my ex best friend and i related so much to this. i wanted to do everything i can to fix the friendship between us bc i cared for my ex best friend & i loved them. she went behind my back telling my current best friend that she resents me and she hates me. i tried talking it out with them but they never wanted to. so ashley & kelly, my hearts r with u both. im so sorry u have to go through this , i can’t imagine how u both feel!! love u guys so much, everything will be okay in the long run :)💌🫶🏼💞
It’s really sad to see a friendship crumble like this especially over things that could’ve been resolved if talked out with each other. I feel especially sad for Ashley because even though i’ve been a long time subscriber and tuned in to umh because of her, watching elliot’s recent video did plant some seeds of doubt over my original impression of her (sorry ashley! i shouldn’t have!). I can sympathize with elliot seeing that his actions obviously come from a place of hurt, but it was really disappointing to hear about wanting to leave out ashley for the llc. Like what they said in the video, the house wouldn’t have existed without all the members. And i even remember in the very early videos that ashley contributed to the house not only in content, but by providing most of their furniture (which all of the roomies acknowledged and were grateful for btw). I know it’s too much to hope that they’ll go back to being friends again, but I hope they can resolve this matter and move on leaving any bitter emotions they have from staying in the house.
I also want to point out that no one person really is to blame here so y’all shouldn’t hate on any of them. The fact that they shared this with us does not make it any of our business and we should leave it to them to resolve the matter between themselves. As viewers, let’s just continue to support their channels individually.
Thank you guys so much for your honesty and patience with this situation. I really admire you for being willing to speak so openly about this, and for being so understanding of everyone involved! I hope things start to go better!
It's fucking stupid about the fact that someone is threatening to kill a random ass person after not being friends with someone that's not even really in their lives.
@@chriszhu960 Watch the video bruh
people think people on the internet that they have never met are their friends
That's internet for you
Exactly. It doesn’t make sense how people get so much hatred for people they see online. Like, why? Just watch somebody else if you’re that bothered 😅😂
their brain evolves backwards man
I just hate that it was so easy for the UMH community to just blame the end of it on kashley and easily just assumed that it was their fault
I was expecting this to happen when ur mom's house was made.
Yea I really didn’t understand that, like i was so confused as to why ppl would just assume, like I get that Elliot’s video was trying to portray that message but I saw right through it. I knew there was more to the story and it’s so disappointing to see him act out like that… it’s not a good friend move.
exactly
Ikr, like some people were really mean for no good reason
@@ArtIsYourWeapon Elliot’s video didn’t portray them negatively, he simply said it didn’t work out anymore and the creator house lost its original purpose - to create content together. Short and simple. Making a 38 minute long bashing video is not a good friend move.
I feel so bad for Ashley, I have been subbed to her for the longest time and I know how sweet she is so this is so painful to hear about :( I hope you guys can find some peace outside of the house! Good luck moving forward
Best friends living together is not a bad thing but it does put strain even on a friendship when you're seeing them 24/7. I'm glad that you guys decided to mutually give your friendship some space because space is much needed.
my heart hurts so much for ashley and kelly, i know exactly what it’s like to consider someone a friend just to find out they “hated” me and were talking bad about me behind my back. i understand elliot feeling hurt about being left alone when he needed support but unless he voices his issues he can’t expect them to know what’s going on. ): really sad situation overall and ily both
I respect both of you so much for doing this, i know both of you are not the type to broadcast personal matters online, and that's okay. Viewers need to understand that being a lifestyle vlogger also has its limits, it's literally a human right to have privacy, we cannot demand too much from them. I admire how you two can compartmentalize being a youtuber and being just Ashley/ Kelly doing other normal human things even though there's a thin line in between. And I really appreciate you guys talking about this even though it's hard for you. Thank you for taking us along with you in this roller coaster ride 🥺. I'm excited for what's to come. Sending big hugs to you Ashley and Kelly! 🤗🤗💕
you both adressed this so graciously and maturely, honestly you both are the two most wholesome and caring
youtubers out there
Appreciate the context and insights! What I personally learnt from my life experiences is sometimes people subconsciously project their unworthiness and unhappiness onto surrounding people. We cannot fill their holes on the inside, only they can do it for themselves. We should not lose ourselves trying to fill someone up in the process. Make sure that we are not saying no to ourselves in the process of saying yes to the others.
Lastly, an idea is only an idea. You need the right people and dynamics to carry through. For that, Ashley is equally well deserving of her equity to the LLC.
I'm always impressed with how mature Ashley is and how she tries to do her best to make everything work out, but not always everything works out, some things are to learn, after all, you both gave your best.❤
KELLY, I’m so sad that the house ended but I’m so so so excited to see what’s next for your future. Your videos bring me so much joy and I love your content so much. They inspire me and push me in the right direction. I love the phrase “do what excites” and go by it all the time now thanks to you. I’m so sorry that this whole situation has been kinda of hard and I wish you best as you go into your next chapter
Couldn’t agree more ❤
@@khalilahd. Yeah
I really applaud you guys for being this open like i really respect that .. shit happens and I really hope you guys get through it after whatever happens ... Time shall heal everything. Love you guys 🤍
Hearing they way you talk about Elliot I can tell you genuinely care about him.the fact that you acknowledge where he is coming from is so classy. I pray for healing where there is hurt.
I feel so bad for Ashley because she got invited by Elliot to join the house and then was left in the dark about Elliot’s hatred. She even got attacked so much by his viewers and she didn’t deserve any of it. Elliot literally created that video and basically framed y’all about being the problem when he’s been the problem all along… He knew what he was doing when he was making that video, if he wanted to protect y’all’s friendship he wouldn’t have done that. I hope you guys can heal from this and thank you for making this video and being transparent (even though you guys didn’t have to). Looking forward to your next journey!
Also I’m so sorry Kelly that you had to go through all of this, especially because it’s so obvious how much you valued your friendship with Elliot. Losing a best friend is so tough, especially over non-transparency and misunderstandings. You honestly deserved better!
Exactly!!! I can’t believe he asked her so many times to join them and then still tried to give her zero equity?!
it makes me so mad for ashley, like i’m pissed.
@@modernluvr1109 she’s a better person than me because I personally would not have let it slide
Fr misogyny is so ugly
@@Yutsyumi you would want to tell people the truth when you’re getting death threats and people are soiling your character constantly on social media. Ashley and Kelly wanted to post normal videos to say goodbye, Elliot posted a vague video and his viewers started to attack them a lot, especially Ashley. They deserve every right to put this information out after what they’ve been through.
When this house first started I was so excited to see the content for all of them and now seeing the drama that went behind it makes me sad because things happen with friends. I genuinely hope this gets sorted out with you guys and everyone gets the help they need 💗. And I'm so sorry you guys got a bunch of hate for no reason because nobody deserves that.
This breaks my heart 😔🫶🏻 so much love and positivity your way! 💓💓💓
ashley my heart is aching for u. i love you so so much, you are the kindest soul i know. you deserve everything and i don't understand how someone could hate you with no particular reason.
No hurt feelings or bad blood for any of Ur Mom’s House family. Life happens. Relationships progress. Work evolves. Home life is a balancing act for anyone who has lived with roommates. It’s not easy. You guys gave the viewers great content and enjoyed the ride. It is what it is. Time takes over and y’all will get past this. Rooting for each and every one of you and your futures! ❤
Thank you for addressing and not just shrugging it 🤗 still will support even after the house excited for the next chapter! ❤
I absolutely believe this entire explanation. The youtube aspect aside I've totally been there more than once where a friend could not understand or deal with another friends', my own, relationship dynamic etc. The reasons could be different but the story is the same. And then the friend who feels on the out just gets in their head and there's little to no reconcilation. They just give up and don't want to hear it. It's happened to me like 3 separate times in the course of my life and the people who feel the resentment still haven't gotten over it to the point where our friendship could actually be rebuilt. It's a shame. Sticking around to support you two!
Elliot reminds me of my ex best friend lol. Like some people just have this separation anxiety, they're scared of being left alone and abandunt. If that energy doesn't match yours and Ashley's amazing dynamic then y'all need to put some healthy distance. You can't change how he feels, only he can do that. Y'all have done enough, now just live and keep making amazing content, people come and go and if y'all mean something to him, he'll come back and make things right again.
i feel really bad for you guys because it has to be so hard to respond to dram without causing more drama. i feel like you guys have to super carefully watch what your saying because if you say anything wrong you're instantly cancelled it's not fair to you guys.❤❤
Facts
Because of Ashley I start watching the boys.. I don't care about them all I care about Ashley videos and her cooking as long as she didn't kill anyone 😅 no one will cancel the shit.. People should know that shit happen they're not watching a serie or a movie but its real life.. And in a real life always shit happens.. Always people try to turn something stupid to something big and it ain't worth it..
Couldnt agree more. They handled this so well ❤
wow this got a lot more likes than i thought it would
Love you guys and I’m so happy you are starting a new chapter to your lives. I’ll always be with you!
Really glad Ashley has a protective boyfriend that has her back no matter what💜 that’s what she deserves!
Didn’t Elliot have a girlfriend? Confused why he would be against kelly in a relationship if he was in one too.
Both of your guys' channels have been helping me so much recently THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME SMILE 💗💗💓
35:39 Ashley I understand that you’re sorry and you feel like you needed to reach out more. But friendships are a 2 way street, if Elliot doesn’t respond or reach out about how he’s feeling there isn’t a whole lot you and do, you can’t read his mind…To have a friend you need to be a friend. Try not to put so much pressure on yourself and feel like it’s your fault he feels and acts the way he does. Thank you to both of you for shedding light on the situation, I know it’s not easy.
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yup
yeah shes too empathetic
@@tink6225 yeah so empathic lol
She is egoistical but definitively not empathic
@@bewatter3014 how
Aw I'm so sorry for everything you both have had to deal with. Friendship drama sucks and I can't imagine the stress of having to explain everything to an audience and the dread you must've felt when Elliot posted his video early
I’m so sorry everybody involved had to get involved in this situation and I really do hope that everybody understands both sides are understandable and reasonable. I hope both u and Ashley will hopefully recover from this as unscathed as possible❤️❤️❤️ All of my love goes to you guys❤
Even before I knew what both of you were gonna say but it’s just so satisfying that you guys posted it so more people would understand 😭❤️
Thank you for being open and mindful during this video. A friend breakup is almost worse than breaking up with a partner in my opinion. I hope you guys get the chance to talk and that comes with peace. I'm sorry you had to go through this. I wish you guys the best. Take care of yourselves *hugs*
Love you guys! I can see how hurt you both are and that breaks my heart. It'll get better with time. Thanks for giving us a little more insight into the issues. Looking forward to see what you both get up to next!
Honestly I can relate to this so much, I lived with my Boyfriend in a share house with mates and his best friend treated me the exact same as Ashley, told my partner he hated me, he would gossip about me and consistently made me feel very uncomfortable towards the end of our lease, I respect you so much Ashley your empathy and willingness to want to fix your relationship with him despite the difficulty of the situation and how he had made you feel! much love!
Ashley - you absolutely deserve equity & equal say in what goes on. I can’t believe that even has to be said. You have as much right to be compensated as everyone else involved. To say otherwise is completely ludicrous. Just wanted to make it clear to you that your efforts & contributions are valid & recognized
hey! can you tell me where was said that part of equity? i cant find anywhere
@@HelenaSilva-ni6hi Just watch whole video😏
I'm so sorry you're going through this. What Elliot did seems pretty hurtful. The fact that you guys still try to look at things from Elliot's perspective and explain that you understand where his hurt feelings came from, makes me really respect you guys. You're good people. It's always rough when friendships turn sour.. I had to end a friendship a few times and it hurts man. I hope Elliot will communicate with you soon so you can either fix the burning bridge or at least gain some positive closure :) Love all you guys and will continue to support!
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the right thing to do is post a video and expose your best friend and acted all innocent, oh by the way i'm Kelly i'm so perfect i like to throw my best friend under the bus.
@@summerlandwb Kelly has done right thing because toxic fans like you keep attacking them😏
@wlndbeach Ya they believed poor you!lol
@@summerlandwb I agree with you 100%
if you hadn't released this video, Ashley would've straight up received the Yoko Ono treatment (being blamed for "breaking UMH" up). thank you for telling your side of the story. i've been subbed to Ashley for 4 years now(?), and she's one of the only creators i've been watching for so long this consistently because she genuinely emanates such warmth and kindness that i think few creators - people, even - possess. she's inspirational and makes me want to work towards my dreams and goals with as much passion and enthusiasm. to think she's been disrespected like this - especially when she so objectively contributed so much, if not the most, to UMH (viewership, subscriptions, etc.) - makes me sick to my stomach. people's actions/behavior toward you are rarely ever a reflection of who you are; if anything, it says more about them.
She did though. What you listened are only their view… so are you entitled to believe them? Elliot didnt tell really anything at all. They made a big deal out of it. Makes me guess just why… :D maybe to give the narrative.
@@bewatter3014 Go back to Elliot!!!🤡
@@bewatter3014 If they are really lying they won't mention others people's who told them about elliot behaviour and the big question is why can't he came and defend himself!
That last part is very true and a good pt
This is so sad. I told my daughter several years ago that to never, ever share a home with her best friends because it will destroy their friendship. Unfortunately, these guys are good example of what can happen.
Hang in there you two....love ur mom's house ...got connected with great influencers. Thanks for being brave and reaching out to the community. It was really neat to see all of you all. Things will heal between the group! I love you two together...keep being happy and there for each other.
I love seeing Kashley even after Ur Moms house 🥹 even though change is hard I just know you guys are going to be on to bigger and better things. It really is unfortunate that it had to end this way but I’m so happy you guys took the time to fully explain everything. We will always support you guys ❤
Did they break up?
@@cateIeya no
It’s unfortunate that it happened and really sad especially for the both of you. I also feel bad that Elliot went through what he did but he should have dealt with it better. I hope all of you find new beginnings and be happier wherever you are with whoever you are. Ashley, you deserve the world with the heart of gold that you have. Im sorry you had to go through all of that. And no one should be sending death threats to anyone ever!!! Kelly, you do not deserve that. I hope everything turns out well for the better for both of you!!! ❤️
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Damn I'm really feeling for you too and Elliot. I hope you guys are able to sort this out and eventually come back together and grow from this. I've been in the same position as Elliot and I feel that he needs to express himself more. Cause its easy to say that everythings fine when really it's not and we all know bottling your feelings isn't a good thing. Ashley and Kelly you guys are so strong for making this video and explaining everything to us. I appreciate you guys and the content everyone makes. Sending positive and healing vibes to you all 💫
thank you so much for being transparent with us. this is so hard. it's hard to watch something we loved end but i'm beyond excited to see how you guys grow from here. we love you kelly and ashley. do what excites.
Sad to see the best buddies departing their ways. Really loved seeing Elliot and Kelly's bonding it was the most wholesome thing in UMH. Hope you guys sort out and have healthy relationship one's again.
It’s never a good idea to put any ‘beef’ between/among friends public cos that was supposed to be something personal. When you put it on social media, it’s messier and the collateral damage is just uncontrollable.
Ghosh The pain and hurt in their eyes and in their words, just breaks my heart. There might be a small group of people who might not believe your side of the story, no matter how truthful it might be. But that doesn’t matter because I can feel that your guys were so genuine. You really did try your very best to fix this, and I appreciate you guys for doing that. Even through these turbulent times one thing that still remains is that you both had each other to lean on, and that only makes your relationship stronger. You guys should be super proud of how far you have come… together… I will always support you two… Go Team Kashley!
man i love kelly wakasa. started watching this man when he made videos with braile and still watch him to this day. this man deserves the best actually a genuinely a good person. i love kelly wakasa so much.
It’s just sad when a situation occurs and a close friend isn’t able to communicate and deal with the issue in a healthy manner and end ups using that emotion to fuel hate and resentment when an honest conversation and humility could fix the problem. I think this type of situation is sadly natural in life and in adult relationships and I just hope everyone can grow from this and create positive ways to deal with their emotions.
As one of your mature subscribers (started with Ashley), I instantly connected to your roommate content bcuz it took me back to precious past times and so I could relate to my young adult children & their lives in today’s world. My heart broke for all of you but time will heal and I’ve taught my kids to see friendships like a 3 tier cake. Those on top you cherish like family for life (very few make it on top) 2nd tier friends are around for varied reasons to have fun, share interests & do life events with. Last tier you may wanna throw away or discard cuz u feel are these friends even worth the time or energy or you no longer want to deal with the toxicity level or your past hurts & resentments dropped these people to this level. But at the end people brought to our lives are there for a reason, a season & a lifetime. Deciding where relationships should go in this lifetime is key. 3 tiers on a cake looks more inviting & amazing but if only 2 or just 1 tier is healthier for some then less is more. Valuing people and friendships will constantly shift and look different but staying real and true to your own worth which you guys are thriving at will definitely get you wiser with time. Thanks for sharing your lives & inspiring your older subscribers to feel young again ;) Enjoy every moment. It goes by quickly! 😇
not it literally being called YOUR MOM’s house and Elliot saying Ashley doesn’t deserve equity - you guys are such genuine and kind people and your community definitely sees that 💛
Seriously
In my opinion this video was VERY needed. I get that you guys have done your best to not post any drama for privacy sake, but we as viewers could feel a lot of tension and a change in dynamic with the relationship in the group. It’s sad but I think a lot of blame was put on kashley even by myself but this is a good reminder there’s always TWO sides to every story. I’m rooting for everyone involved and seriously wishing the best for yall
It has been so fun to see ur moms house and all that yall have been through, and how much each and everyone of you have grown. Yeah its sad that its all ending, but im sure you will all grow and go on to better things. We all support, and love you. And remember to Do what excites!
thank you guys for being open and giving more context!
It was weird to watch Eliotts video, when all i expected was a "hi guys we are not going to renew our lease bc we are ready to open new chapters"
It was really nice to hear your thoughts. I have really enjoyed all of the ur moms house content you guys have made! I hope you can rekindle your friendships at some point in the future. Its hard to live together and maintain friendships as such a big group who all have such hectic schedules. And its even harder to say goodbye to something good when you have difference rhetorics and perspectives on how and why it should end.
Again: thank you for being open and for all the great videos!
I remember being so happy about the first video of them being in a house together. This really sucks but I kinda already expected it. That’s why I was scared for Ashley to join this house.( I’ve been subscribed to her for years so I’m very protective of her as a creator) I didn’t want her to get hurt by others, so seeing this really makes me upset. I hope you two stay strong bc ( again I also followed Kelly for years) it was like fate for two of my fave TH-camrs to come together😂 I really love you both and can’t wait to see more content and you growing together:)
This is so sad 😭😭😭 I can totally feel for your friend group. I hope you guys can figure it out and grow from this in the future. Sending lots of love 💖
also don't get why it's a bad thing that kelly is spending more time with ashley like she's literally his girlfriend. really struggling to understand when people are afraid of their friends being “stolen”.. is this a game or something? in what universe would your secure interpersonal friendships be shattered because of a girl.
this some middle school energy lol elliot needs to grow up
It wouldn’t be a bad thing if they weren’t business partners. From Elliot’s perspective Kelly prioritizing Ashley doesn’t just affect their friendship it also affects his TH-cam content. Regardless of blame a working partnership of 3 with 2 being a couple is doomed to fail. The third person will always be outnumbered and you can’t expect the couple to be objective about one another
If as Kelly mentioned, Issa was a member for a bit, then it would be a 4 way partnership, Elliot could have been more communicative with the how he felt. That’s what business partners do in mainstream buisness no reason it would be different
@@skyvader1998 they tried to make it work but elliot gave up
He’s genuinely a pussy if he’s crying that one of his friends got a girl and the fact Kelly had to put time aside to just hang out with him it’s pathetic Kelly isn’t his baby sitter
What I learned trought the years just with life and teraphy it's that you can't control what others do and you can't (and shouldn't) be responsable for anyone, even if they are your friends, family or relatives, you don't own a person that. You do own respect and you can have empathy, try to ger in their shoes and see were they coming from,try to wish them the best but that's it. Try you best and see where things are leading to. Also, I learned that communication and time heals, so wishing you not just to you guys but to everyone who were part of this the best! 💗🤲🏻
This is so honest it is beautiful - wishing all the best for you both!
This group might be the only group that is so open to their fans. Wishing you guys the best of luck on this journey ❤
I’m glad you guys made this video! Throughout this journey everyone else has always made videos “addressing things” or “talking about their feelings” but you both always kept quiet and focused on making videos and just live your lives. Despite the fact that you both have received the most hate through everything. I think the right people notice these things, and I’m glad to hear your sides. But, life goes on - I’m 28 and I’ve learned friends come and go and only a small portion stick around - I have friends I’ve met 20 years ago. Sometimes people may try to blame us for things the reality is they have internal issues that they need to work out for themselves.
i feel like elliot’s lowkey possessive of kelly and that’s where a lot of the resentment towards ashley came from. he’s gotta work on understanding other people and their priorities and not expecting others to go with his flow
I admire Ashley so much more than I already did. She is so mature beyond her years
Kelly you’re a Phenomenal youtuber! You inspired me in so many ways to be a TH-camrs and do what you do! Because of you I have tons of stuff planned out! Both you and Ashley are wonderful people! I have your back till the end! Been watching you since you started
Honestly i’m really glad that you guys finally broke the silence about this issue and for us to finally know what happened in ur mom’s house. I’ll be waiting for Elliot’s response hopefully we also hear his side of the story. Thank you for enlightening us in what took place in umh. I hope you guys can resolve this with Elliot and good luck to your future videos.
The equity part is just sick, from the start ashley was and still is the most successful youtuber out of the 4 of them, has the most subscribers, and brought so many new subs and views to their personal channels. Not to mention that the house is literally called URMOMS HOUSE which is ashleys brend and name, and yet still no equity for her???? disgusting
sexist even
We’re all going through life learning bits by bits, maybe Elliot’s reaction was not the best but it happens. I hope we, as viewers, won’t go around spreading hate against anyone. It’s not our story and we don’t know how the other party felt. I don’t think it’s our place to be disappointed or angry at someone we know only through the videos they are posting. I’m sending everybody love and I’m wishing you peace ❤