agreed. but from kelly's video it seems that elliot isn't really a confrontational person. if he had been more transparent with his feelings then maybe this whole issue could've been patched before it bled out.
@@eboliator that’s the thing tho. The people who aren’t confrontational actually bring the issue and make it bigger because they don’t communicate. Anyways
@@nez01 well I believe it’s a good thing that kelly and ashley are shining light on the situation. Elliot is a role model for many with a large following. The things he said about ashley if true, is something the fans deserve to know. He shouldn’t be allowed to get away with it if his plan is to just keep quiet, ignore, and hope kelly and ashley just magically forget what he said.
we've all had drama and miscommunications with our friends. we've all said hurtful things we don't really mean. usually we can reflect and learn from our mistakes to heal our relationships and/or ourselves and become better people. unfortunately for you guys, your situation is online for thousands of people to consume, analyze and berate. unfortunate, but like everything, the drama will pass. hope its sooner than later so you all can move on in peace and learn from the experience to become better people.
Well, I feel that lack of communication among Elliot, Kelly and Ashley lead to misunderstandings and beef, if that's what u call it. Discussing stuff in person and posting it online is better than just doing it without any talk. Also, I'm not on anyone's side. I love them all. Just sad that they didn't end on a good note.
you can't communicate when the other party isn't there, unreachable, or wants to do something else. Elliot says he's leaving 1 month early. K&A say let's leave together.
@@aznantboi clearly you're leaning towards Elliot on this one. Remember, there's two sides to a story. They were gonna upload this news on they're group ( combined channel) not on their individual channel. Again, I've had fights with ample people and the reason in mostly all cases was that we weren't either receptive about each other's thoughts or miscommunication.
Ngl this beef is so interpersonal and no one is truly wrong-wrong. This should’ve stayed inside the group 😭. This is something you guys will recover from in like a year or so.
I wish you all of the best Elliot. As bystanders we(the fans) will never have the full detail of this disagreement, and they often say there are three sides to every story. However I know it can’t be easy to have a conflict of two- versus one ( which is what it is in this scenario). Stay strong, protect your mental peace and know that there are people out there routing for you xx
Most of my friends (and myself) had some sort of friendship/roommate drama in their early 20s. It’s a challenging time, and I’m so beyond grateful that we didn’t have the Internet following our every move as we navigated adulthood. It’s clear from my lens that everyone in the house made mistakes. You’re figuring out who you are as an adult, and it’s completely understandable that you will all take missteps in relationships, life, and business along the way. Growth can be wildly uncomfortable (especially with millions of people watching and commenting). Wishing you and the others a bright future, as you take these lessons learned with you. You’re beyond talented, Elliott, and I’m excited to watch this next chapter unfold!
@@rozzark821 we can turn the argument around and say the same about kashley acting the role of victim. kashley handled it the wrong way posting 40 min video dumping on elliot nonstop plus ashley's mom dumping on elliot too. then there's elliot's 4 min video defending himself against these attacks. elliot is more private as a you tuber than kashley. he's not comfortable airing all the dirty laundry for 40 min from 2nd hand info lesser known you tubers just to get 1/2 to 1 million views. there's no talking it out ever. elliot just wants out of this toxic kashley circle and move on with his life at this point. elliot is more private than kashley. everyone got their 40 min or 4 min of videos in and needs to shut it and go their separate ways.
@@Minato96 i wouldn't say they weren't real. They were legit real and that is why they both are hurt by eachothers actions. It's just that sometimes things don't always work out. We don't always get to keep everyone close. Time happens and life happens. It is so wrong to label it as fake friendship... 2 years or not relationships are complicated
Thanks for your clarifications too, Elliot. Really not easy at your end! I just hope that you will have a good rest during this period and continue to inspire us with your content!!! Looking forward!
Stay strong, Elliot! Friendships falling apart is rough. Cheering you on yo get through this :) I’m not “choosing sides” but just excited for all of you go re-find joy even if it means your friendships won’t be rekindled. A lot of your audience is young and still learning about life. They think talking will just “solve the problem”. Here to remind you that Friendships don’t always have to stay forever. They can end at that chapter and everyone will still be ok!
um? idk but this seems like a comment for Kelly’s channel? He has made two long videos about this making accusations toward Elliot. This is Elliot’s first time addressing the situation in a short 4 minute video. His original video didn’t even mention Kelly or Ashley at all..
@@bazzbash4556 my point is that someone else made a 40 minute video about this, and this video is literally 4 minutes, so why are people commenting on this video to stop talking about it on camera instead of the 40 minute video from Kelly? If you don’t understand that I’m not gonna say you’re dumb as hell because this is stupid internet drama not worth insulting people over, but it doesn’t hurt to look at it from another perspective lol
even things might’ve gotten rough towards the end of the house i will still always support you elliot, and kelly and ashley. you guys are all incredible people and i love all of your videos.
Kinda rubs me the wrong way Elliot acts like he's above it all now when it was his actions that started it. Feels like he's being intentionally dismissive throughout the video - "only equal equity was discussed with the lawyer" yeah probably because cutting out Ashley was only discussed behind her back, "different posting schedules" yeah thats why everyone else was blindsided and Elliot just happened to be the first one to control the narrative
His video wasn't even offensive LMAO. At least the guy didnt spent 38 mins bashing the two of them for a profit with a few "maybe we can be friends down the line" comments to protect himself. At face value Kelly went off the handle from Elliot's first video which was 9 mins of him talking which compromise a breakdown of him in the rain for like 2 mins, him talking about himself for like 3 mins, some old b-roll footage, and him barely saying much about why he moved. Clearly the comments got Kelly into his feelings and instead of being logical decided to make the video. Which tbh was just them bashing him as said with the few fake throw ins of him acting like he gives a shit about Elliot. Even Ashley made the effort to throw shade about AM in the video which btw is a question mark itself since she had instances of not treating AM well considering.
@@karathompson7776 This is true. Kelly was fuming and forgot Elliot was once his friend who boosted him on TH-cam. He plays victim along with Ashley and thats the most frustrating part.
@@karathompson7776 I literally don’t remember her saying shade towards Anne Marie? With this situation, Kelly and Ashley were getting a TON of hate and probably there was a lot of emotion and things that they should have said more properly. As they said it was hard to even get in contact with Elliot. And if someone were to say they HATED my partner I would be extremely upset. There was extreme miscommunication within the house but I’m glad they split and decided to go they’re separate ways
This sounds like a new chapter in life has started. New opportunities, new chances and a lot of new experiences. Obviously it's not always easy but hopefully you have friends and family to support you emotionally on this rollercoaster we call "life". Don't lose hope and don't lose inspiration over conflicts in life. That's completely normal an I'm glad you don't act like everything is beautiful all the time. I really respect your authenticity. Thank you for making Videos - greetings from Germany.
I hate when this happens to TH-cam creators 😭😭. But at the end of the day I’ll still be supporting everyone, you all are strong humans, and deserve the best. 💖
Everyone has their own side. It’s really sad to hear and watch everything dissolve away 😔however I do appreciate everyone keeping us involved and updated
Love you Elliot. Stay strong and know that we are here to support you no matter what was said about you and no matter how ur friends slandered you online. Wishing you healing and peace and I’m looking forward to your future videos❤
Elliot, Kelly, Ashley, Annemarie. Long ago, the four roommates lived together in harmony. Then everything changed when shit hit the fans. Only the Avatar, master of all four roommates, could stop them. But when the world needed him most, he vanished.
Take care, Elliot. It is such a joy to watch your vlogs. Hope you will get some real good rest and come back with great contents. 🍀 Wishing you nothing but the best.
Not on anyone's side I will continue to watch everyone's content because I enjoy it. I persoanlly believe It's just a misunderstanding and communication breakdown between friends. Hope for the best for all of you!!
i hope you are doing ohk dude , love your content and don't let this pull you down or anything , will always be watching your videos and supporting you , its very sad to see ur moms house ending on a rough patch ....
Hope you guys can work it out offline. This ‘beef’ should never have been on the internet, but I get how fast it can get out of control when you all have these platforms. It’s terrible losing your friends, especially if it’s over something like miscommunication or such. Ofc we as the viewers will never really know. It could have been more than that or whatnot but I just wish you guys all the best. Even if someone is to blame or if everyone is partly to blame, *everyone has the chance to grow from this and do better.* Hopefully this new chapter will bring happiness to all of you (even if not together) and hopefully you guys can reconcile one day. *Also Elliot* , I don’t know if you’ve been struggling a bit with your mental health maybe (and I’m really sorry to even touch on that if that’s not the case, or even if it is), but if that’s the case I truly wish that you will have hope in your heart and the strength to get better. I’ve been struggling a little myself lately and I honestly felt a similar vibe coming from you, so sorry if I’m wrong. *But I do believe it’s hard to fix relationships with others if you’re having a hard time with ‘yourself’* (your thoughts, emotions etc.) speaking from a place of experience.
I mean….. if my supposed best friend left on a family trip for his dead grandmother with his girlfriend to support his mother I wouldn’t take it personally as abandonment, then talk smack about him to all his other long time friends calling him whipped and saying how I hate his girlfriend… but that’s just me🤷🏻♂️😂 For a “non-confrontational” person, Elliot seems to have gotten his mental release from being a snake instead😀 I know everybody’s young, but damn Kelly and Ashley’s response was very mature while staying real.. this video is clearly Elliot attempting to do damage control, and that’s why he’s emphasizing how he’s not obligated to clarify anything to the audience, but had no problem pointing fingers in his original video or talking mounds of shit about Kelly behind his back… y i k e s
Cheer-up Elliot. Things happen for a reason. We all make mistakes, and learned along the way. Do what you love, move on....Can't wait for your next chapter.
I don't think anyone is to blame just miscommunication. We've all been there, all there is to do is remember the good times and move on yk? love you Elliot!
you guys are young adults navigating life and miscommunication will happen. i hope you guys can learn from this situation and move forward without ill intentions towards each other ❤️ you guys can still all prosper in life even if you're not together making content.
i am just saying but you were the first one to make the "situation" public... And said that things should have been kept private only after their response...
I’m not on either side, but I hope everyone can take some time to evaluate everything in depth and when both of y’all are ready, can do a reunion video❤️❤️❤️
Elliot, been watching you since 2018. Love your videos, hang in there, everything will work itself out over time! Hope you’re doing all right, wishing you all the best 🙌
Although the house may have not ended the way everyone expected it, as long as y’all are transparent I just really hope you all will be okay with each other, ur mom’s house really gave me something to look forward to every week, I love you original 4 as well as all the friends that came along after, and I appreciate all of your guy’s filming styles! Here’s to new beginnings and to hoping that everyone will move past from this, thanks to you Elliot and all of you bcus you guys always give the best quality content 🙌
I've been following all of you guys since last year and I really enjoyed each and everyone's content. It's just sad things had to end in a bad way. I hope you guys eventually let things go and rekindle your friendship. 😓
I hope all the people involved step back from this situation and take a deep breath…. All of you are extremely talented and I’m confident you’ll find your way through this. I hope you find a way to use your talents to help society as a whole, the bubble you’ve been living in is great, but there’s other opportunities that can utilize your skills. Breathe, breathe, breathe
I think there were different feelings and disagreements which leads to a blurred line of communication. It happens when you live with people. Its a normal thing. We loved this content house. But it didn’t work out. There were somethings that were said and done but at the end of the day its nothing too serious. Don’t overthink it. You live and you learn. One chapter ends and another one begins. All love and blessings to everyone!
I agree, I feel like the equity clarification (which is not really clarified but just 'he said she said') was the only thing in this video that needed to be said. Clearly 2 people (a couple) aren't going to keep UMH alive and I don't think that's what people were really upset about. It was the claims about equity and hating Ashley.
@@anonygirly He also clarfied that they didn't intend to post at the same time, which was a big issue to K&A in their video, so that needed o be clarified too. I also think Elliot thought that UMH is gonna continue and new people were going to join, that's why it was shocking for him to hear that kashley are leaving too. At first I was siding with kashley on this but then I watched Elliot's last video about leaving UMH and realised the situation isn't as black and white as it seemed at first
@@heyyou3609 yeah both good points but also not necessarily clarifications, just his word against K&A's (prob just multiple misunderstandings). I don't think it's black and white either - most relationship issues aren't. Even if his intention wasn't to hurt Ashley (whatever was said), he can still apologize for impact. Perhaps he's handling interpersonal stuff offline, but he brought interpersonal stuff into the public with his first video... Also clearly K&A can (and did) invite other ppl to live with them, but keeping the brand of UMH would've realistically been weird considering the terms the original 2 other members left on. It's not Real World lol
sad UMH ended like this, i hope you guys get everything sorted out off cam/privately. wishing all the roomates peace and sending lots of love esp to you elliot, take care !!
Two things come to mind. Immaturity on all parties involved, and two NEVER mix business with friendship, because it will always end up in such a precarious scenario.
Mostly immaturity from a dude who openly told his “best friend” he hated his gf. This guy gave phony/fake/ flake-y vibes since day 1. This is the type of dude who will promise you he’ll be there then flake out last second
Fighting Elliot. We love you. Take a rest as much as you need. Leave and forget that make you feel uncomfortable. Do what you make you feel happy. Build quality time. May be do business offline to be success ...changing mood and make your mind busy with another job. After all, when you think you have enough time for yourself, come back. we would be so grateful and supportive as usual when you come back . You are talented creater. You can't imagine how much you are amazing. You are still so much loved Elliot.
"I never once suggested that there should be anything than a complete even split of equity at Ur Mom's House." Sly choice of wording. I think the allegation was that you didn't *THINK* that Ashley deserved equity. Not that you suggested it.
You are entitled to how you felt … your last video made sense to explain the early exit from Ur Mom House. It’s sadness. Outsiders like us shouldn’t take sides or comment whose faults. The issues are between you and Keashly. Hope there’re lessons learned and everyone comes out to be a better person. I was concerned about you seeing the other two people have already moved on with new house mates. Wish you well.
I got to meet you on the streets of New York a week ago, and it was inspiring to see you in person and see what makes Elliot Elliot despite all that's happening at that time. Please take care of yourself, we are all just humans trying to live our best lives, and know that we will be in support for you. I hope nothing but the best to you, to Kelly, to Ashley, and everyone involved. Looking forward to seeing you guys on the other side, and Elliot, I look forward to seeing wherever the future takes you to! Take care bro!
Regardless, it's PRIVATE matter between 3 of y'all..all these all other stuff is no one's business..love message don't spread hate you are advocating...keep being authentic as you are..stay positive and get yourself in good mental headspace..your true friends and loyal subscribers will stick with ya no matter what..stay blessed❣❣
well, the crazy part is.. he didn't start or bring up anything(kept private).. but is taking responsibility and going forward. Best anyone can do in a tough situation.
How dors he take responsibility when he denies everyting in this video and does not own up to other stuff, like the Elliot hates Ashley stuff. He doesnt even say anything about it. Not one this was he taken responsibility for..
He said he wouldn’t talk about certain things(could be anything you consider left out or entitled to hear), probably cause video format isn’t the time or place for it?? Responsibility is what is in his control and not what is in others.
Guys be careful of your words!! When someone is struggling with problems please don't just assume things and comment your opinions. Keep them to yourself. Because your simple words can hurt someone so bad. You never know what's going on other people's lives because they obviously can't say everything and anything.
Watched Kelly's Addressing the End (ATE) video & rewatched Elliot's I'm Leaving (IL) video. I still think Elliot did not throw shade at Kelly or Ashley. The mistake was made when Kelly posted "The Truth" (TT) video which then started this drama. It was excerbated when Kelly humiliated Elliot with the ATE video, I will be surprised if the friendship can be salvaged after the ATE video. It would have been better if Kelly gave Elliot time to heal & save the friendship. I am not looking at this from a business perspective, I am looking at this from a place of compassion for someone who isn't as lucky, as Kelly & Ashley, who was unable to deal & adapt to new situations as easily. I forget sometimes, but Elliot is just 22 and this is his first real job, so it is understandable that he struggles with this. Both Kelly & Ashley knew Elliot had been having a hard time processing all that has happened & is quite a sensitive person. You two have each other in this and should have been the bigger person & let time heal. Kelly & Elliot seemed to have a deep connection & joy together, sad it is lost over an over-reaction on Kelly's end when he responsed with his TT video. Again, I strongly believe there was nothing to response to, Elliot was just being soppy & confused about his life & future. All this either shows the egotistical & political side of Kashley or the lack of foresight & maturity at Kelly's end on how to handle this problem. Kelly's TT video & ATE video have bigger ramifications & damage as it was an expose video on Elliot. Elliot with his IL video & this video was not an expose and did not create any public humiliation on anyone like Kelly's ATE did. Kelly, please be the bigger person, talk to a more mature impartial person & do damage control.
💯💯💯 exactly! even if it was not his intention, kelly's videos are a big blow to the reputation of a guy he once considered (and confusingly, pretends to still consider) his bestfriend. and even if elliot's IL video did throw shade at kashley (arguably), at least he had the decorum to not mention names (and show people' faces and channels/platforms). that way, only UMH's true viewers wud've known who he was referring to in his video. if he was even throwing shade at all or intended to. heck, at this point, i'm just curious to know how things fare several months or a year from now at the new creator house kashley have put together. and also, how things are with kashley by then. wonder what they'll do with all their couple videos once or if they eventually break up. and what kelly's gonna do then and what his reflections on his past words, deeds, and decisions will be like.
it’s hard to be a bigger person when the other person isn’t answering your private texts to reach out and elliot’s video might not have seemed like a diss but they were on an agreement to post their vids at the same time to avoid backlash but elliot didn’t uphold said agreement exposing kelly amd ashley to loads of backlash
What Elliot did does not warrant a public humiliation like this. Not all friendships lasts, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose, it is called integrity. When Annemarie left, tongues started wagging too. That is the life of a public figure, people are always going to speculate. The way I see it, Kashley is thriving in a new house with roommates who were mutual friends with Elliot, that alone says enough about them being fine friends, but fearing backlash over Elliot's IL video, they over reacted. If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. TH-camrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game.
@@karolkaz "Not all friendships last, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose; it is called integrity. xxx If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. TH-camrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game." exactly! 💯💯💯
I really haven’t watched many of your videos for a while. In fact I’ve seen most of your early college videos. That said, I have no idea what’s going on but I do feel for you man. You overcame a lot and will continue to stride. Keep your head up.
From what I get after this video is that he wanted to do a video where they show him leaving ur moms house because he did not want to be a part of it much longer. But kelly and ashley did not want that. They wanted to keep it lighthearted and pretend that everything was fine which definitely wasn’t . The same thing happened when Annemarie left. But I guess elliot was not having any of that and he posted early. The video did not throw any shade towards kashley but that is what miscommunication does between people. If kashley really cared about elliot’s feeling like they claimed in their video, that video would not have been 40 mins long. Getting that personal was a low blow coming from them, they could have taken some accountability but all they did was blame Elliot, this is what happens when the power dynamic changes and its better ur moms house ended because eventually there would be two parties in that agreement kashley and elliot, when there should be three to have better decision making in place. I hope Elliot is fine❤
This! 💯💯💯 Annemarie just posted an ig story with Elliot, Nic and some other friends hanging out. I'm glad they're all there for Elliot, he'll need as much support as he can get rn.
People in the comments are blaming him for posting early and betraying them. But even if he would have discussed with them about his narrative, they wouldn’t have agreed for sure. It’s clearly 2 against 1
@@nehalarora1495 Exactly. It's obvious Kashley's decision prevails among them three. They wanted the situation to appear as if everything was cool and they're just moving on to the next great chapter of their lives, just keep doing what excites and all that stuff. Elliot wanted transparency and I salute him for that. I'm so glad he didn't go along with Kashley's fake narrative and posted his video first, acknowledging where they all went wrong with the house and the group. It's his right to share his truth to his audience. I think it's very selfish of Kashley to hinder him from doing that, throwing tantrums on the internet after things didn't go their way. The entitlement 🙄
Completely agree. Kelly could have just left it with one video but since that backfired on him, he made another 40 minute confrontation video which is just plain weird
The equity part: I think "formally" elliot never suggested anything less of an equal split. I do think that he "informally" or off the record talked how ashley didn't deserve any along with the other things he said about ashley. just my opinion tho
Hey, Elliot. I started to watch your videos since you were at Vandy. I am sorry for what happened. Take care of yourself. You are such a smart and talented kid and very mature. You will be great!! Go commodore!!
Regardless of what really went down off camera, found your channel before the UMH era and loved your college contents back then and will forever be rooting for you and Anne Marie! Will just be here waiting for when you two finally go back to posting regularly and are in a much happier place, respectively. Although I know Anne Marie's already there (if not getting there). So cheer up, Elliot! You're young, you're successful, you got this!!! We're all rooting for you! ♥♥♥
Elliot, never take anything for granted in your journal through life , human relationships are complex but the real friend should learn from each other shoulder to shoulder and grow in wisdom together, but the reality they are different in front of the camera and behind the door, We need to keep moving ahead , learning to adapt and finding our wisdom Be yourself and believe in that Elliot within you👍👍 we all love you ❤
Damn...this was kinda pathetic and a low effort attempt to have the last say in the situation without adding anything of value and it doesn't really change anything.
Hey Elliot , I'm really sorry how everything ended but for this new chapter we will all be here with you . Sending you lots of love and hugs and hope to see more of your videos
this gave a whole lot of nothing 😭we only know bits and pieces of the story but as a college student living with 4 other roommates communication is KEY and i feel like UMH didn't have solid communication at all. it doesnt help that u guys have platforms so ofc it blew up...i'm just saying it all could've been handled privately and its sad to see the end of genuine friendships (at least i think they were) :(
right? it just seems like nobody’s really saying exactly how they feel and tip toeing around each other to avoid it, while also silently pointing fingers about who’s not saying what. this whole situation is quite bizarre for that reason imo. i just hope they can work this out in private 😭
Seems like there’s been a lot of misunderstandings, hopefully y’all can get together and talk about it, these videos just gonna add more fuel to the fire 😢
Elliot shouldnt have ruined the friendship by taking it to the next level. Now he's upset he got friendzoned by Kelly who doesnt reciprocate the same romantic feelings.
@@SteveJobIess Kelly is a sell out and a child. Two people get into a romantic relationship. Of course that's gona affect the business deal. And then he has the nerve to attack Elliot when he's been staying professional. Kelly is a loser. Watch him start attacking Ashley when they break up.
@@jayrollo1352 annemarie posted then later deleted her sharing it was actually elliot causing her to leave. But even then, wanting to keep a good relationship with him so continued to appear in videos with him. As well, teddy who is a business partner with elliot on a totally separate business venture has shared on his channel about parting ways due to difficult work culture. Keep fanboying all you want, but more people are speaking out.
@@SteveJobIess The fact that Annmarie recanted her story doesn't help her case. It's one thing to be scared to come out, but it's another thing to take it back after it's put out there. And this whole "trying to be friendly" with the guy who supposedly is toxic makes no sense. Normal people do not do that. And Teddy parting ways doesn't mean that Elliot is to blame by any means. Co-founders separate all the time for various reasons. The fact that no one seems to even see Kelly and Ashley's surprise relationship as resulting in any sort of rift with ur mom's house leads me to question their thought processes. Workplace relationships are frowned upon for a reason. But everyone for some reason is championing this happy-go-lucky, everythings-gona-be-okay notion. It's plain and obvious that Kelly lacks deep understand of the situation and instead took offense to a reasonable concern. Now he's using Ashely as the scapegoat by making it seem like Elliot was attacking her.
Ngl, Ive been with Elliot since the Day in the Life videos, but something just seems off man. No hate, but if Kelly and Ashley wanted to end the house altogether, what’s wrong with that? That pivot doesn’t paint anyone in a bad light, unless you wanted to upload your video regardless of what narrative it created for them. Hoping that you can make some new dope stuff tho, live and learn yanno
Elliot you’ve been inspiring and I love your vlog. I also love Annemarie, Kelly & Ashley too. Your personal situation among your friends is your own personal affair. It takes courage and bravery (forgive for poor English of mine) to speak today to all your viewers. However I am excited to see new journey new life new Elliot soon. #hwaiting 💜
I think what Elliot was upset about is that kelly and ashley made it seem like ur moms house broke up when (at that time) Elliot just left. At their last day elliot thought they were going to make an elliot leaving Ur moms house video but then he just found out that they were all leaving
Sure, in public on legal terms Elliot wanted proportional equity. What I gathered from Kelly’s video is that behind closed doors Elliot didn’t actually believe that. If Elliot quit ur moms house a month before lease ended then I understand there’s no agreement when to post but as friends it seems disrespectful to completely negate ur friends’ wishes for the ending of the house you guys put together.
Guess you missed the part when Elliot said, there wasnt any agreement to post in the same timeline and that he left a month before this all happened hence, his right to post his own video. Kashley only felt disrespected because they did not expect they will be bashed. But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley.
@@hooramoher5980 "But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley." -> 💯💯💯
Not gonna lie, this video was confusing and didn’t really clarify anything lol. But it’s yalls business and ofcourse you shouldn’t feel obligated to speak your entire truth onto the internet. It is a personal matter. I hope everyone becomes healed and grows from this experience either way.
just let it go eliot! just let it be we all are not fool we can figure out same we can realize who's are what going through! just forget all shits whatever happened! we love you and we purple you! let it be from your life all negative people’s.....
what irks me is that everything he said in this video doesn’t at all match up w what kashley said in theirs but the fact that the entire friend group (excluding Elliot’s gf ofc) is living together now w them just further makes me believe kashley more. either way I’m beyond sad about this bc I’ve watched Elliot for years :( still think I’m gonna watch and support but it’ll be hard to see him the same idk
@@chuchi9935 he is saying so because he already knew that all of them except for him are moving in together in a different apartment, which is equivalent to just him leaving
I mean if y’all never had a “set date” to post the videos then why ignore Kelly when he tried contacting you? It’s just kinda weird. And his whole “you not being a good friend and talking shit” you not addressing it kinda makes it seem real… kinda sad how everything went down tbh but oh well you live and you learn
Bro was you were there when Kelly called Elliot? And why would he wait it’s his channel his discussion.How can you say he is not a good frnd are you a god or what . See his video I can say he is a mature grown up man he handle it very professionally and that Kinda video or TH-cam you should definitely follow.
Elliott you got it!!!!! Don't make it harder for yourself and go on with your life. You don't have to be sorry or anything for your feelings and your decisions! You did what you thought was correct. Though I'm really excited for your next chapter ☺️
Never do business with friends or family. All that will do is create tension. My parents taught me this when I started out, so I thought I’d share with others.
YES nothing needs to be brought online nobody in ur moms house has an obligation to share personal problems. I am disappointed in the way the house ended completely. Keep going strong Elliot, much love ❤️
But we know about all these personal problems because, wait for it... everyone in ur moms house posted publicly about it. They are the ones making this public, then posting videos about not making it public.
@@Daboyricco man you sound like a child typing (if you are an adult it’s embarrassing) If you bother to watch his last video, Elliot never attacked anyone within the house. He expressed his discontent without attacking Kelly and Ashley. Things within the last 6 months had been snowballing (Annemarie leaving & followers of UMH tired of the oversaturated Kashley content.) although it was right for Kashley to explain their part (because of the comments they were getting), they literally painted Elliot to be the wrong one without Kashley not claiming a part of the responsibility to the downfall of their friendship and UMH.
@@shinyeee1709 watch Kelly’s video. He has receipts you delusional elliot fanboy😂😂😂. Why you think his other friends left him behind as well and moved in with Kelly and Ashley? You’re really slow honestly. If you can’t see Elliot’s manipulation and deceivable actions throughout his video just shows you how delusional you are.
@@henloworld514 so many people get into relationships and things change, but for him to bitch and cry about it and then hate her while she is being kind to him is just immaturity at it’s finest, like cmon he needs to grow up, I think he’s upset that he’s stuck and can’t make great content, I think he wanted to move in with Kelly and make videos with him, but then Kelly ended up making videos on his own and with Ashley, so he’s looking at Ashley as the thing that is getting in his way, it’s all business for him, it’s not about friendship, friends don’t act like this, he’s off
@@mynameis11111 does it matter though. His feelings are valid, and he must hate them even more for airing their dirty laundry like that . I even unsubscribed from them cause why did they need to bring their drama online. We didn’t need to know their arguments. Some people say things in the heat of the moment and he was explicit when he said he started to resent his friends so he need to move out. I would resent friends like that as well.
Well, let this be an opportunity of growth for both parties and be a lesson on communication. They'll be doing their own stuff, you'll be doing your own. And hey, we first followed you on your college journey. I felt that solo content was more genuine and quite more relatable.
I thought this was going to be a life update I didn't think there was something going on? But it's nice seeing Elliot and it felt forever! stay strong elliot!
It’s all in the past bleh bleh All I would like to say to you is that you’ve got loadsss of amazing amazing experiences ahead of you, I’ve been watching your channel from the first video, you’ve come so far because of being this insanely driven talented chill guy you are so enjoy the ride elly choi boi 🤜🏻🤛🏻
@@hafren_ bro I’ve been trying to reply to u but my reply isn’t appearing. Check the urmomashley subreddit, the ss is there. Imma keep this reply short bc youtube is trying to silence me LOL
@@hafren_ let’s see if this comment shows up. But basically amber agreed to a hate post towards Elliot that was by a burner account called “Bob” that is said to be obviously one of the family members if not amber herself.
Honestly I never found your "im leaving ur moms house" shading Kelly and Ashley. You obviously noticed you were resenting your bestfriends and you needed time for yourself and thats good. mental health is a real thing. I think what made this whole situation to be public was Kelly's clip of him reacting to you posting. This all could've been avoided publicly if Kelly didn't include that clip. Then Kelly then posts a video of him and Ashley addressing the 'ur moms house' and says something along the lines of "I just wish that it wouldn't have to come to posting this video and having to address it public" in the video. When really Kelly's clip was the one who caused all speculation and forced them to explain.
@Mathe Jone ive never sent him a nasty comment 💀 or attacked him ever. but I agree he has every right to defend himself but im just saying this could've been handled privately
@Mathe Jone its seriously not dramatic and I dont think elliot meant to post it knowingly how people will react. If elliot did know his friends would get hate, he wouldn't purposely post it. In the end its the "fans" who make up their own narrative about the situation based on their own opinion. In my comment im saying, since people were already making up assumptions, like it was kellys and Ashleys fault, Kelly shouldn't have posted that clip because it would then make it public. When its really just between Kelly, Ashley and elliot. But again I agree he has a right to defend himself.
no matter who did what, who said what, who instigated what, it’s just sad the house ended on a sour note with drama
exactly
all houses end it like this, I was already expecting it
@@nkft1 nah a few have not ended with drama
Bruhhh!!! 💔😔
Agreed 💯💯
The lesson here is never mix business with friendship
fax
100%. Say it louder so that those in the back can hear!
but what about good mythical morning
I think the lesson here is don't fall in love with your best friend. 🙊
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The takeaway from this is: communicate, don’t just assume the others know what you’re thinking.
100%
agreed. but from kelly's video it seems that elliot isn't really a confrontational person. if he had been more transparent with his feelings then maybe this whole issue could've been patched before it bled out.
@@eboliator that’s the thing tho. The people who aren’t confrontational actually bring the issue and make it bigger because they don’t communicate. Anyways
@@nez01 well I believe it’s a good thing that kelly and ashley are shining light on the situation. Elliot is a role model for many with a large following. The things he said about ashley if true, is something the fans deserve to know. He shouldn’t be allowed to get away with it if his plan is to just keep quiet, ignore, and hope kelly and ashley just magically forget what he said.
Exactly.
we've all had drama and miscommunications with our friends. we've all said hurtful things we don't really mean. usually we can reflect and learn from our mistakes to heal our relationships and/or ourselves and become better people. unfortunately for you guys, your situation is online for thousands of people to consume, analyze and berate. unfortunate, but like everything, the drama will pass. hope its sooner than later so you all can move on in peace and learn from the experience to become better people.
Well, I feel that lack of communication among Elliot, Kelly and Ashley lead to misunderstandings and beef, if that's what u call it. Discussing stuff in person and posting it online is better than just doing it without any talk.
Also, I'm not on anyone's side. I love them all.
Just sad that they didn't end on a good note.
Couldn’t agree more
you can't communicate when the other party isn't there, unreachable, or wants to do something else. Elliot says he's leaving 1 month early. K&A say let's leave together.
I agree, and same. I loved watching their content and I’m sad how things ended.
@@aznantboi clearly you're leaning towards Elliot on this one. Remember, there's two sides to a story. They were gonna upload this news on they're group ( combined channel) not on their individual channel. Again, I've had fights with ample people and the reason in mostly all cases was that we weren't either receptive about each other's thoughts or miscommunication.
I feel like he's only addressing it so briefly is because he cannot damage control the other stuff without straight up capping and denying them
Ngl this beef is so interpersonal and no one is truly wrong-wrong. This should’ve stayed inside the group 😭. This is something you guys will recover from in like a year or so.
Completely agree
agree as well
agree
They will never be the same, once you mix business with friendship its over
Bro hated his roommate and his best friends girlfriend, that’s wild 😂😂
I wish you all of the best Elliot. As bystanders we(the fans) will never have the full detail of this disagreement, and they often say there are three sides to every story. However I know it can’t be easy to have a conflict of two- versus one ( which is what it is in this scenario). Stay strong, protect your mental peace and know that there are people out there routing for you xx
Most of my friends (and myself) had some sort of friendship/roommate drama in their early 20s. It’s a challenging time, and I’m so beyond grateful that we didn’t have the Internet following our every move as we navigated adulthood.
It’s clear from my lens that everyone in the house made mistakes. You’re figuring out who you are as an adult, and it’s completely understandable that you will all take missteps in relationships, life, and business along the way. Growth can be wildly uncomfortable (especially with millions of people watching and commenting).
Wishing you and the others a bright future, as you take these lessons learned with you. You’re beyond talented, Elliott, and I’m excited to watch this next chapter unfold!
I don't want to take anyone's side but I wish everything gets sorted asap :(
you dont have to you dont know them they dont know you you can appreciate their content but dont get parasocial with taking someones side
impossible for ashley when he treated her like that
Sorting it asap could be rough. Time heals all wounds. As big as this is now in 6 months, a year or five, it might not matter near as much.
yes this
@@rozzark821 we can turn the argument around and say the same about kashley acting the role of victim. kashley handled it the wrong way posting 40 min video dumping on elliot nonstop plus ashley's mom dumping on elliot too. then there's elliot's 4 min video defending himself against these attacks. elliot is more private as a you tuber than kashley. he's not comfortable airing all the dirty laundry for 40 min from 2nd hand info lesser known you tubers just to get 1/2 to 1 million views. there's no talking it out ever. elliot just wants out of this toxic kashley circle and move on with his life at this point. elliot is more private than kashley. everyone got their 40 min or 4 min of videos in and needs to shut it and go their separate ways.
The fact that best friends are having beef online is sad. I really hope their friendship and misunderstanding ends. It's heartbreaking to see this 😭
This shows that they weren’t real best friends to begin with. Understandable tho, they’ve been friends for only 2years?
that's what happens when business get mixed with friendship
@@Minato96 lmao that’s now how it works. Relationships are complicated.
I’m the 666 like : )
@@Minato96 i wouldn't say they weren't real. They were legit real and that is why they both are hurt by eachothers actions. It's just that sometimes things don't always work out. We don't always get to keep everyone close. Time happens and life happens. It is so wrong to label it as fake friendship... 2 years or not relationships are complicated
Thanks for your clarifications too, Elliot. Really not easy at your end! I just hope that you will have a good rest during this period and continue to inspire us with your content!!! Looking forward!
Stay strong, Elliot! Friendships falling apart is rough. Cheering you on yo get through this :) I’m not “choosing sides” but just excited for all of you go re-find joy even if it means your friendships won’t be rekindled. A lot of your audience is young and still learning about life. They think talking will just “solve the problem”. Here to remind you that Friendships don’t always have to stay forever. They can end at that chapter and everyone will still be ok!
This is a situation between grown adults and I hope they can finish whatever they need to off camera.
@@anonymousabc9157 agree 100% what a brat man.
they're kids
um? idk but this seems like a comment for Kelly’s channel? He has made two long videos about this making accusations toward Elliot. This is Elliot’s first time addressing the situation in a short 4 minute video. His original video didn’t even mention Kelly or Ashley at all..
@@cristina1071 if you can't connect 2 and 2 together then u either don't really follow them or you're dumb as hell.
@@bazzbash4556 my point is that someone else made a 40 minute video about this, and this video is literally 4 minutes, so why are people commenting on this video to stop talking about it on camera instead of the 40 minute video from Kelly? If you don’t understand that I’m not gonna say you’re dumb as hell because this is stupid internet drama not worth insulting people over, but it doesn’t hurt to look at it from another perspective lol
I can't take it seriously when its called ur mom's house
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it’s because imong mama
Fr 😂
@@tiffanymari1771 bro chill, balay lang sa ilang mama
BAHAHAHAHAHAHHA
even things might’ve gotten rough towards the end of the house i will still always support you elliot, and kelly and ashley. you guys are all incredible people and i love all of your videos.
Kinda rubs me the wrong way Elliot acts like he's above it all now when it was his actions that started it. Feels like he's being intentionally dismissive throughout the video - "only equal equity was discussed with the lawyer" yeah probably because cutting out Ashley was only discussed behind her back, "different posting schedules" yeah thats why everyone else was blindsided and Elliot just happened to be the first one to control the narrative
His video wasn't even offensive LMAO. At least the guy didnt spent 38 mins bashing the two of them for a profit with a few "maybe we can be friends down the line" comments to protect himself. At face value Kelly went off the handle from Elliot's first video which was 9 mins of him talking which compromise a breakdown of him in the rain for like 2 mins, him talking about himself for like 3 mins, some old b-roll footage, and him barely saying much about why he moved. Clearly the comments got Kelly into his feelings and instead of being logical decided to make the video. Which tbh was just them bashing him as said with the few fake throw ins of him acting like he gives a shit about Elliot. Even Ashley made the effort to throw shade about AM in the video which btw is a question mark itself since she had instances of not treating AM well considering.
@@karathompson7776 where's the shade about AM? Timestamp pls. Maybe I kinda missed it. It's so long video. Wanna know
@@karathompson7776 This is true. Kelly was fuming and forgot Elliot was once his friend who boosted him on TH-cam. He plays victim along with Ashley and thats the most frustrating part.
@@karathompson7776 I literally don’t remember her saying shade towards Anne Marie? With this situation, Kelly and Ashley were getting a TON of hate and probably there was a lot of emotion and things that they should have said more properly. As they said it was hard to even get in contact with Elliot. And if someone were to say they HATED my partner I would be extremely upset. There was extreme miscommunication within the house but I’m glad they split and decided to go they’re separate ways
This sounds like a new chapter in life has started. New opportunities, new chances and a lot of new experiences. Obviously it's not always easy but hopefully you have friends and family to support you emotionally on this rollercoaster we call "life". Don't lose hope and don't lose inspiration over conflicts in life. That's completely normal an I'm glad you don't act like everything is beautiful all the time. I really respect your authenticity. Thank you for making Videos - greetings from Germany.
I hate when this happens to TH-cam creators 😭😭. But at the end of the day I’ll still be supporting everyone, you all are strong humans, and deserve the best. 💖
Everyone has their own side. It’s really sad to hear and watch everything dissolve away 😔however I do appreciate everyone keeping us involved and updated
Love you Elliot. Stay strong and know that we are here to support you no matter what was said about you and no matter how ur friends slandered you online. Wishing you healing and peace and I’m looking forward to your future videos❤
@Mathe Jone maybe he just didn't want to add to the drama? or stoop to their level? ever thought of that?
Elliot, Kelly, Ashley, Annemarie.
Long ago, the four roommates lived together in harmony. Then everything changed when shit hit the fans.
Only the Avatar, master of all four roommates, could stop them. But when the world needed him most, he vanished.
Everything changed when Kelly and Ashley started f*cking.
Luke was the avatar
best comment yet
Corny ass comment.
no more words needed.
The fact that i dropped everything I was doing when I saw this notification 💀
Same lol
Lol same
same lol
Exact same thing 😂😂😂
same😭
Take care, Elliot. It is such a joy to watch your vlogs. Hope you will get some real good rest and come back with great contents. 🍀 Wishing you nothing but the best.
no matter what happens between you guys, this video is 4:20 minutes long and that brings me joy
same
what's the meaning of 420
I was gonna like but it was at 420 likes
Happy 420 🥳
@@Ken-ij3ic 20th of April = Smoke Weed day
Not on anyone's side I will continue to watch everyone's content because I enjoy it. I persoanlly believe It's just a misunderstanding and communication breakdown between friends. Hope for the best for all of you!!
i hope you are doing ohk dude , love your content and don't let this pull you down or anything , will always be watching your videos and supporting you , its very sad to see ur moms house ending on a rough patch ....
Hope you guys can work it out offline. This ‘beef’ should never have been on the internet, but I get how fast it can get out of control when you all have these platforms. It’s terrible losing your friends, especially if it’s over something like miscommunication or such. Ofc we as the viewers will never really know. It could have been more than that or whatnot but I just wish you guys all the best. Even if someone is to blame or if everyone is partly to blame, *everyone has the chance to grow from this and do better.* Hopefully this new chapter will bring happiness to all of you (even if not together) and hopefully you guys can reconcile one day.
*Also Elliot* , I don’t know if you’ve been struggling a bit with your mental health maybe (and I’m really sorry to even touch on that if that’s not the case, or even if it is), but if that’s the case I truly wish that you will have hope in your heart and the strength to get better. I’ve been struggling a little myself lately and I honestly felt a similar vibe coming from you, so sorry if I’m wrong. *But I do believe it’s hard to fix relationships with others if you’re having a hard time with ‘yourself’* (your thoughts, emotions etc.) speaking from a place of experience.
How do you know he's struggling with his mental health
I mean….. if my supposed best friend left on a family trip for his dead grandmother with his girlfriend to support his mother I wouldn’t take it personally as abandonment, then talk smack about him to all his other long time friends calling him whipped and saying how I hate his girlfriend… but that’s just me🤷🏻♂️😂
For a “non-confrontational” person, Elliot seems to have gotten his mental release from being a snake instead😀
I know everybody’s young, but damn Kelly and Ashley’s response was very mature while staying real.. this video is clearly Elliot attempting to do damage control, and that’s why he’s emphasizing how he’s not obligated to clarify anything to the audience, but had no problem pointing fingers in his original video or talking mounds of shit about Kelly behind his back… y i k e s
@@AleksanderLydkunst elliot just being dramatic, he really needs to work on himself. Or this will bite his ass again.
Cheer-up Elliot. Things happen for a reason. We all make mistakes, and learned along the way. Do what you love, move on....Can't wait for your next chapter.
sending love to you and all the roommates, can’t believe everything’s ending this way
I don't think anyone is to blame just miscommunication. We've all been there, all there is to do is remember the good times and move on yk? love you Elliot!
you guys are young adults navigating life and miscommunication will happen. i hope you guys can learn from this situation and move forward without ill intentions towards each other ❤️ you guys can still all prosper in life even if you're not together making content.
Yes facts!
"Most content houses end in disaster." - Colin and Samir (after interviewing ur moms house) 04/26/22
i am just saying but you were the first one to make the "situation" public...
And said that things should have been kept private only after their response...
I’m not on either side, but I hope everyone can take some time to evaluate everything in depth and when both of y’all are ready, can do a reunion video❤️❤️❤️
Nah, once a snake always a snake
@@localbrownboy agreed
@@localbrownboy who
@@localbrownboy WHO THE FK IS THE SNAKE BRUH
@@jagicyooo2007 Viewers.
Elliot, been watching you since 2018. Love your videos, hang in there, everything will work itself out over time! Hope you’re doing all right, wishing you all the best 🙌
You’ll get through this, no worries. Lets move forward, will keep on supporting you 🎉
Although the house may have not ended the way everyone expected it, as long as y’all are transparent I just really hope you all will be okay with each other, ur mom’s house really gave me something to look forward to every week, I love you original 4 as well as all the friends that came along after, and I appreciate all of your guy’s filming styles! Here’s to new beginnings and to hoping that everyone will move past from this, thanks to you Elliot and all of you bcus you guys always give the best quality content 🙌
I've been following all of you guys since last year and I really enjoyed each and everyone's content. It's just sad things had to end in a bad way. I hope you guys eventually let things go and rekindle your friendship. 😓
힘내세요. 이번일은 본인의 인생에 큰 자산이 될거에요. 계속 응원하겠습니다! 앨리엇님은 정말 창의적인 사람이에요.
I hope all the people involved step back from this situation and take a deep breath…. All of you are extremely talented and I’m confident you’ll find your way through this. I hope you find a way to use your talents to help society as a whole, the bubble you’ve been living in is great, but there’s other opportunities that can utilize your skills.
Breathe, breathe, breathe
I think there were different feelings and disagreements which leads to a blurred line of communication. It happens when you live with people. Its a normal thing. We loved this content house. But it didn’t work out. There were somethings that were said and done but at the end of the day its nothing too serious. Don’t overthink it. You live and you learn. One chapter ends and another one begins. All love and blessings to everyone!
I agree on this people have had worst roomie stories LOL
Why does it matter if they are ending the house if you already gave up your rights and stepped away from it?
I agree, I feel like the equity clarification (which is not really clarified but just 'he said she said') was the only thing in this video that needed to be said. Clearly 2 people (a couple) aren't going to keep UMH alive and I don't think that's what people were really upset about. It was the claims about equity and hating Ashley.
@@anonygirly He also clarfied that they didn't intend to post at the same time, which was a big issue to K&A in their video, so that needed o be clarified too. I also think Elliot thought that UMH is gonna continue and new people were going to join, that's why it was shocking for him to hear that kashley are leaving too. At first I was siding with kashley on this but then I watched Elliot's last video about leaving UMH and realised the situation isn't as black and white as it seemed at first
@@heyyou3609 yeah both good points but also not necessarily clarifications, just his word against K&A's (prob just multiple misunderstandings). I don't think it's black and white either - most relationship issues aren't. Even if his intention wasn't to hurt Ashley (whatever was said), he can still apologize for impact. Perhaps he's handling interpersonal stuff offline, but he brought interpersonal stuff into the public with his first video...
Also clearly K&A can (and did) invite other ppl to live with them, but keeping the brand of UMH would've realistically been weird considering the terms the original 2 other members left on. It's not Real World lol
right
So true!
sad UMH ended like this, i hope you guys get everything sorted out off cam/privately. wishing all the roomates peace and sending lots of love esp to you elliot, take care !!
Two things come to mind. Immaturity on all parties involved, and two NEVER mix business with friendship, because it will always end up in such a precarious scenario.
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Mostly immaturity from a dude who openly told his “best friend” he hated his gf. This guy gave phony/fake/ flake-y vibes since day 1. This is the type of dude who will promise you he’ll be there then flake out last second
I think u can mix business and friendship but u have to be business partners first u feel?
Much admiration for how you're handling this. Clear skies ahead my friend! Much love
Wait, I saw your videos dude!
Since the day the Colin&Samir video came out months ago I knew they were gonna end badly. Soon later Marie left and it all came crumbling down
What's that video about ?
@@DAMfoxygrampa they did an episode on the group “ur moms house”
@@BigAkwes Went and watched it, thanks for the suggestion! Definitely had a foreshadowing air of "this might not work out"
@@DAMfoxygrampa facts
Fighting Elliot. We love you. Take a rest as much as you need. Leave and forget that make you feel uncomfortable. Do what you make you feel happy. Build quality time. May be do business offline to be success ...changing mood and make your mind busy with another job. After all, when you think you have enough time for yourself, come back. we would be so grateful and supportive as usual when you come back . You are talented creater. You can't imagine how much you are amazing. You are still so much loved Elliot.
Awww Elliot sorry that things ended this way. You have such a big heart.
"I never once suggested that there should be anything than a complete even split of equity at Ur Mom's House." Sly choice of wording. I think the allegation was that you didn't *THINK* that Ashley deserved equity. Not that you suggested it.
so he's the snake
exactly lol..
Didnt Kelly say that Elliot was suggesting it to him, too?
!!!
i noticed that too
You are entitled to how you felt … your last video made sense to explain the early exit from Ur Mom House. It’s sadness. Outsiders like us shouldn’t take sides or comment whose faults. The issues are between you and Keashly. Hope there’re lessons learned and everyone comes out to be a better person. I was concerned about you seeing the other two people have already moved on with new house mates. Wish you well.
Can't wait to watch the next chapter in your life. Come back stronger Elliot. Lots of love. ❤️
I got to meet you on the streets of New York a week ago, and it was inspiring to see you in person and see what makes Elliot Elliot despite all that's happening at that time. Please take care of yourself, we are all just humans trying to live our best lives, and know that we will be in support for you. I hope nothing but the best to you, to Kelly, to Ashley, and everyone involved. Looking forward to seeing you guys on the other side, and Elliot, I look forward to seeing wherever the future takes you to! Take care bro!
Regardless, it's PRIVATE matter between 3 of y'all..all these all other stuff is no one's business..love message don't spread hate you are advocating...keep being authentic as you are..stay positive and get yourself in good mental headspace..your true friends and loyal subscribers will stick with ya no matter what..stay blessed❣❣
best way to address issues! shows how mature you are elliot proud of u!
well, the crazy part is.. he didn't start or bring up anything(kept private).. but is taking responsibility and going forward. Best anyone can do in a tough situation.
Yes i think he did the best thing...he respected to others privacy and didn't blame anybody
How dors he take responsibility when he denies everyting in this video and does not own up to other stuff, like the Elliot hates Ashley stuff. He doesnt even say anything about it. Not one this was he taken responsibility for..
He said he wouldn’t talk about certain things(could be anything you consider left out or entitled to hear), probably cause video format isn’t the time or place for it?? Responsibility is what is in his control and not what is in others.
@@cew138 okay Elliot hate Ashley he must have his reason or we don't know if it's true.
@@cew138 So what? I thought you are free to hate, as long as you done and said no harm to the individual? No?
♥️ you dont need to but thank you for clarify your side of the story, it's just really sad that the house ended this way.
Once everything is sorted and you feel better, im expecting great content! Sending strength your waaay ❤
Guys be careful of your words!! When someone is struggling with problems please don't just assume things and comment your opinions. Keep them to yourself. Because your simple words can hurt someone so bad. You never know what's going on other people's lives because they obviously can't say everything and anything.
Facts
That is si true
absolutely. Well said!
A lot of words coming from someone advising others to "Keep them to yourself"
Watched Kelly's Addressing the End (ATE) video & rewatched Elliot's I'm Leaving (IL) video. I still think Elliot did not throw shade at Kelly or Ashley. The mistake was made when Kelly posted "The Truth" (TT) video which then started this drama. It was excerbated when Kelly humiliated Elliot with the ATE video, I will be surprised if the friendship can be salvaged after the ATE video. It would have been better if Kelly gave Elliot time to heal & save the friendship.
I am not looking at this from a business perspective, I am looking at this from a place of compassion for someone who isn't as lucky, as Kelly & Ashley, who was unable to deal & adapt to new situations as easily. I forget sometimes, but Elliot is just 22 and this is his first real job, so it is understandable that he struggles with this. Both Kelly & Ashley knew Elliot had been having a hard time processing all that has happened & is quite a sensitive person. You two have each other in this and should have been the bigger person & let time heal.
Kelly & Elliot seemed to have a deep connection & joy together, sad it is lost over an over-reaction on Kelly's end when he responsed with his TT video. Again, I strongly believe there was nothing to response to, Elliot was just being soppy & confused about his life & future.
All this either shows the egotistical & political side of Kashley or the lack of foresight & maturity at Kelly's end on how to handle this problem. Kelly's TT video & ATE video have bigger ramifications & damage as it was an expose video on Elliot. Elliot with his IL video & this video was not an expose and did not create any public humiliation on anyone like Kelly's ATE did.
Kelly, please be the bigger person, talk to a more mature impartial person & do damage control.
💯💯💯 exactly! even if it was not his intention, kelly's videos are a big blow to the reputation of a guy he once considered (and confusingly, pretends to still consider) his bestfriend. and even if elliot's IL video did throw shade at kashley (arguably), at least he had the decorum to not mention names (and show people' faces and channels/platforms). that way, only UMH's true viewers wud've known who he was referring to in his video. if he was even throwing shade at all or intended to.
heck, at this point, i'm just curious to know how things fare several months or a year from now at the new creator house kashley have put together. and also, how things are with kashley by then. wonder what they'll do with all their couple videos once or if they eventually break up. and what kelly's gonna do then and what his reflections on his past words, deeds, and decisions will be like.
it’s hard to be a bigger person when the other person isn’t answering your private texts to reach out and elliot’s video might not have seemed like a diss but they were on an agreement to post their vids at the same time to avoid backlash but elliot didn’t uphold said agreement exposing kelly amd ashley to loads of backlash
What Elliot did does not warrant a public humiliation like this. Not all friendships lasts, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose, it is called integrity. When Annemarie left, tongues started wagging too. That is the life of a public figure, people are always going to speculate.
The way I see it, Kashley is thriving in a new house with roommates who were mutual friends with Elliot, that alone says enough about them being fine friends, but fearing backlash over Elliot's IL video, they over reacted. If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. TH-camrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game.
@@karolkaz "Not all friendships last, but when there is a fall out, we don't do an expose; it is called integrity. xxx If I were their new roommates, I'll be very worried about stepping on their toes. TH-camrs are more vengeful & vicious than Hollywood celebrities when things turn sour, cos their livelihood is a numbers game."
exactly! 💯💯💯
I feel so sorry that you 've been through and I love the way you talk about the fact. You are a good person and good luck♡
My definition of friendship Elliot and Kelly 🥺 ...sad to witness all this ..I just hope and pray everything gets sorted out and they become friends 🥺
Kelly always felt like a sell out. Look how he attacked Eliot in his first video about the situation when Elliot didn't even say anything about him.
usually it‘s bros before ho*s
I just find it kinda weird how he ignored Kelly’s calls and sent him a whole ass letter. This situation is just weird
This
right like how are they expected to keep stuff offline like he says, if he wouldnt even pick up kelly’s calls 😭😭
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I think he preferred that way so that he can collect his thoughts together
@@nimrode couldn’t agree more🤣💀
elliot, you were very mature about this.
I really haven’t watched many of your videos for a while. In fact I’ve seen most of your early college videos. That said, I have no idea what’s going on but I do feel for you man. You overcame a lot and will continue to stride. Keep your head up.
From what I get after this video is that he wanted to do a video where they show him leaving ur moms house because he did not want to be a part of it much longer. But kelly and ashley did not want that. They wanted to keep it lighthearted and pretend that everything was fine which definitely wasn’t . The same thing happened when Annemarie left. But I guess elliot was not having any of that and he posted early. The video did not throw any shade towards kashley but that is what miscommunication does between people. If kashley really cared about elliot’s feeling like they claimed in their video, that video would not have been 40 mins long. Getting that personal was a low blow coming from them, they could have taken some accountability but all they did was blame Elliot, this is what happens when the power dynamic changes and its better ur moms house ended because eventually there would be two parties in that agreement kashley and elliot, when there should be three to have better decision making in place. I hope Elliot is fine❤
This! 💯💯💯 Annemarie just posted an ig story with Elliot, Nic and some other friends hanging out. I'm glad they're all there for Elliot, he'll need as much support as he can get rn.
Yes, I saw her stories 🥰
People in the comments are blaming him for posting early and betraying them. But even if he would have discussed with them about his narrative, they wouldn’t have agreed for sure. It’s clearly 2 against 1
@@nehalarora1495 Exactly. It's obvious Kashley's decision prevails among them three. They wanted the situation to appear as if everything was cool and they're just moving on to the next great chapter of their lives, just keep doing what excites and all that stuff. Elliot wanted transparency and I salute him for that. I'm so glad he didn't go along with Kashley's fake narrative and posted his video first, acknowledging where they all went wrong with the house and the group. It's his right to share his truth to his audience. I think it's very selfish of Kashley to hinder him from doing that, throwing tantrums on the internet after things didn't go their way. The entitlement 🙄
Completely agree. Kelly could have just left it with one video but since that backfired on him, he made another 40 minute confrontation video which is just plain weird
The equity part: I think "formally" elliot never suggested anything less of an equal split. I do think that he "informally" or off the record talked how ashley didn't deserve any along with the other things he said about ashley. just my opinion tho
yes, good point!
Yeah you were there right?
@@faizanhusain7845 they said “I think” hahah
Most likely
Hey, Elliot. I started to watch your videos since you were at Vandy. I am sorry for what happened. Take care of yourself. You are such a smart and talented kid and very mature. You will be great!! Go commodore!!
Regardless of what really went down off camera, found your channel before the UMH era and loved your college contents back then and will forever be rooting for you and Anne Marie! Will just be here waiting for when you two finally go back to posting regularly and are in a much happier place, respectively. Although I know Anne Marie's already there (if not getting there). So cheer up, Elliot! You're young, you're successful, you got this!!! We're all rooting for you! ♥♥♥
Sadly friendships that turn into business relations are hard to manage. Hoping things will get better
it doesn't matter who did, said, confronted, and whatever else to whoever, if you guys are truly best friends u will hash things out
Best friends ? Kelly stabbed him in the back. You dont need to be friends with everyone. Furthermore with a pathetic friend like kelly
some relationships just aren’t worth saving
Elliot, never take anything for granted in your journal through life , human relationships are complex but the real friend should learn from each other shoulder to shoulder and grow in wisdom together, but the reality they are different in front of the camera and behind the door, We need to keep moving ahead , learning to adapt and finding our wisdom Be yourself and believe in that Elliot within you👍👍 we all love you ❤
Damn...this was kinda pathetic and a low effort attempt to have the last say in the situation without adding anything of value and it doesn't really change anything.
Hey Elliot , I'm really sorry how everything ended but for this new chapter we will all be here with you . Sending you lots of love and hugs and hope to see more of your videos
this gave a whole lot of nothing 😭we only know bits and pieces of the story but as a college student living with 4 other roommates communication is KEY and i feel like UMH didn't have solid communication at all. it doesnt help that u guys have platforms so ofc it blew up...i'm just saying it all could've been handled privately and its sad to see the end of genuine friendships (at least i think they were) :(
right? it just seems like nobody’s really saying exactly how they feel and tip toeing around each other to avoid it, while also silently pointing fingers about who’s not saying what. this whole situation is quite bizarre for that reason imo. i just hope they can work this out in private 😭
Yeah people started to talk and giving hate comments about the “beef” when elliot posted about hating his bestfriends 🥲
I've been following your videos right from when you were still in college & that's not gonna change. ❤
Seems like there’s been a lot of misunderstandings, hopefully y’all can get together and talk about it, these videos just gonna add more fuel to the fire 😢
Elliot shouldnt have ruined the friendship by taking it to the next level. Now he's upset he got friendzoned by Kelly who doesnt reciprocate the same romantic feelings.
@@SteveJobIess Kelly is a sell out and a child. Two people get into a romantic relationship. Of course that's gona affect the business deal. And then he has the nerve to attack Elliot when he's been staying professional. Kelly is a loser. Watch him start attacking Ashley when they break up.
@@jayrollo1352 annemarie posted then later deleted her sharing it was actually elliot causing her to leave. But even then, wanting to keep a good relationship with him so continued to appear in videos with him. As well, teddy who is a business partner with elliot on a totally separate business venture has shared on his channel about parting ways due to difficult work culture.
Keep fanboying all you want, but more people are speaking out.
@@SteveJobIess The fact that Annmarie recanted her story doesn't help her case. It's one thing to be scared to come out, but it's another thing to take it back after it's put out there. And this whole "trying to be friendly" with the guy who supposedly is toxic makes no sense. Normal people do not do that. And Teddy parting ways doesn't mean that Elliot is to blame by any means. Co-founders separate all the time for various reasons.
The fact that no one seems to even see Kelly and Ashley's surprise relationship as resulting in any sort of rift with ur mom's house leads me to question their thought processes. Workplace relationships are frowned upon for a reason. But everyone for some reason is championing this happy-go-lucky, everythings-gona-be-okay notion. It's plain and obvious that Kelly lacks deep understand of the situation and instead took offense to a reasonable concern. Now he's using Ashely as the scapegoat by making it seem like Elliot was attacking her.
imo his careful choices of words make him more sus
disagree. It just means that he’s not the type of person to say whatever incendiary words that come to his head to escalate the situation
@@lizard1438 " i start to resent my best friends" ........bbbruh
Ngl, Ive been with Elliot since the Day in the Life videos, but something just seems off man. No hate, but if Kelly and Ashley wanted to end the house altogether, what’s wrong with that? That pivot doesn’t paint anyone in a bad light, unless you wanted to upload your video regardless of what narrative it created for them. Hoping that you can make some new dope stuff tho, live and learn yanno
Elliot you’ve been inspiring and I love your vlog. I also love Annemarie, Kelly & Ashley too. Your personal situation among your friends is your own personal affair. It takes courage and bravery (forgive for poor English of mine) to speak today to all your viewers. However I am excited to see new journey new life new Elliot soon. #hwaiting 💜
I think what Elliot was upset about is that kelly and ashley made it seem like ur moms house broke up when (at that time) Elliot just left. At their last day elliot thought they were going to make an elliot leaving Ur moms house video but then he just found out that they were all leaving
Sure, in public on legal terms Elliot wanted proportional equity. What I gathered from Kelly’s video is that behind closed doors Elliot didn’t actually believe that. If Elliot quit ur moms house a month before lease ended then I understand there’s no agreement when to post but as friends it seems disrespectful to completely negate ur friends’ wishes for the ending of the house you guys put together.
But they are no longer friends hence moving out early 😅
Guess you missed the part when Elliot said, there wasnt any agreement to post in the same timeline and that he left a month before this all happened hence, his right to post his own video. Kashley only felt disrespected because they did not expect they will be bashed.
But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley.
@@hooramoher5980 "But look, who always try to be so defensive and pour scorn on someone else? Guess what its your kiddo Kelly and his puppy love Ashley." -> 💯💯💯
Not gonna lie, this video was confusing and didn’t really clarify anything lol. But it’s yalls business and ofcourse you shouldn’t feel obligated to speak your entire truth onto the internet. It is a personal matter. I hope everyone becomes healed and grows from this experience either way.
Thank you for this video Elliot, I hope you are doing well and keep going we will always support you. 😀
just let it go eliot! just let it be we all are not fool we can figure out same we can realize who's are what going through! just forget all shits whatever happened! we love you and we purple you! let it be from your life all negative people’s.....
what irks me is that everything he said in this video doesn’t at all match up w what kashley said in theirs but the fact that the entire friend group (excluding Elliot’s gf ofc) is living together now w them just further makes me believe kashley more. either way I’m beyond sad about this bc I’ve watched Elliot for years :( still think I’m gonna watch and support but it’ll be hard to see him the same idk
sameeee :0
I kinda agree he also keeps saying how I left Left the house how I I I when like the lease was ending so the whole house was ending kinda weird
Whos Elliots gf
Again like his last vid it still feels vague. I just hope all is handled off camera
@@chuchi9935 he is saying so because he already knew that all of them except for him are moving in together in a different apartment, which is equivalent to just him leaving
Wish everything just stayed private, hate seeing friends argue like this online and so public
I’m sorry Elliot. It must be hard having to go through this. 100% supporting you through this all, can’t wait for your new chapter to start!
Sad how it ended but we're thankful for the good times more than anything
I mean if y’all never had a “set date” to post the videos then why ignore Kelly when he tried contacting you? It’s just kinda weird. And his whole “you not being a good friend and talking shit” you not addressing it kinda makes it seem real… kinda sad how everything went down tbh but oh well you live and you learn
Bro was you were there when Kelly called Elliot? And why would he wait it’s his channel his discussion.How can you say he is not a good frnd are you a god or what . See his video I can say he is a mature grown up man he handle it very professionally and that Kinda video or TH-cam you should definitely follow.
Elliott you got it!!!!! Don't make it harder for yourself and go on with your life. You don't have to be sorry or anything for your feelings and your decisions! You did what you thought was correct. Though I'm really excited for your next chapter ☺️
I wish you all talk this out. It gets better with communication, promise. Love you, Elliot. Here to support u always. ♡
Never do business with friends or family. All that will do is create tension. My parents taught me this when I started out, so I thought I’d share with others.
YES nothing needs to be brought online nobody in ur moms house has an obligation to share personal problems. I am disappointed in the way the house ended completely. Keep going strong Elliot, much love ❤️
But we know about all these personal problems because, wait for it... everyone in ur moms house posted publicly about it. They are the ones making this public, then posting videos about not making it public.
Hes the one who posted first and literally talking shi behind their back 😂😂😂😂. Why you think even his own friends left him behind
@@Daboyricco man you sound like a child typing (if you are an adult it’s embarrassing) If you bother to watch his last video, Elliot never attacked anyone within the house. He expressed his discontent without attacking Kelly and Ashley. Things within the last 6 months had been snowballing (Annemarie leaving & followers of UMH tired of the oversaturated Kashley content.) although it was right for Kashley to explain their part (because of the comments they were getting), they literally painted Elliot to be the wrong one without Kashley not claiming a part of the responsibility to the downfall of their friendship and UMH.
@@shinyeee1709 watch Kelly’s video. He has receipts you delusional elliot fanboy😂😂😂. Why you think his other friends left him behind as well and moved in with Kelly and Ashley? You’re really slow honestly. If you can’t see Elliot’s manipulation and deceivable actions throughout his video just shows you how delusional you are.
The biggest thing that he could have addressed was his behavior and hateful feelings towards Ashley but he chose not to which kinda confirms it
tbh I feel like his feelings are kinda understandable. It’s hard to watch your best friends slowly drift away from you.
@@henloworld514 so many people get into relationships and things change, but for him to bitch and cry about it and then hate her while she is being kind to him is just immaturity at it’s finest, like cmon he needs to grow up, I think he’s upset that he’s stuck and can’t make great content, I think he wanted to move in with Kelly and make videos with him, but then Kelly ended up making videos on his own and with Ashley, so he’s looking at Ashley as the thing that is getting in his way, it’s all business for him, it’s not about friendship, friends don’t act like this, he’s off
the irony that he brought ashley up into the house too
@@mynameis11111 does it matter though. His feelings are valid, and he must hate them even more for airing their dirty laundry like that . I even unsubscribed from them cause why did they need to bring their drama online. We didn’t need to know their arguments. Some people say things in the heat of the moment and he was explicit when he said he started to resent his friends so he need to move out. I would resent friends like that as well.
Very much doesn't confirm it
Well, let this be an opportunity of growth for both parties and be a lesson on communication. They'll be doing their own stuff, you'll be doing your own. And hey, we first followed you on your college journey. I felt that solo content was more genuine and quite more relatable.
I thought this was going to be a life update I didn't think there was something going on? But it's nice seeing Elliot and it felt forever! stay strong elliot!
It’s all in the past bleh bleh
All I would like to say to you is that you’ve got loadsss of amazing amazing experiences ahead of you, I’ve been watching your channel from the first video, you’ve come so far because of being this insanely driven talented chill guy you are so enjoy the ride elly choi boi 🤜🏻🤛🏻
Not amber still in his comments ☠️ Ashley’s family is embarrassing why do they wanna keep dragging this on
Where did Amber comment? What did she say?
@@hafren_ bro I’ve been trying to reply to u but my reply isn’t appearing. Check the urmomashley subreddit, the ss is there. Imma keep this reply short bc youtube is trying to silence me LOL
@@hafren_ let’s see if this comment shows up. But basically amber agreed to a hate post towards Elliot that was by a burner account called “Bob” that is said to be obviously one of the family members if not amber herself.
@@emmatoris3555 dang.. thank youu for your effort to keep replying 🤣🤟
their mom is embarrassing and toxic af. i unsuscribed from amber as soon as i saw it
really respect the way you handled this situation. hope your new chapter brings you a lot of joy and happiness.
Honestly I never found your "im leaving ur moms house" shading Kelly and Ashley. You obviously noticed you were resenting your bestfriends and you needed time for yourself and thats good. mental health is a real thing. I think what made this whole situation to be public was Kelly's clip of him reacting to you posting. This all could've been avoided publicly if Kelly didn't include that clip. Then Kelly then posts a video of him and Ashley addressing the 'ur moms house' and says something along the lines of "I just wish that it wouldn't have to come to posting this video and having to address it public" in the video. When really Kelly's clip was the one who caused all speculation and forced them to explain.
@Mathe Jone ive never sent him a nasty comment 💀 or attacked him ever. but I agree he has every right to defend himself but im just saying this could've been handled privately
@Mathe Jone its seriously not dramatic and I dont think elliot meant to post it knowingly how people will react. If elliot did know his friends would get hate, he wouldn't purposely post it. In the end its the "fans" who make up their own narrative about the situation based on their own opinion. In my comment im saying, since people were already making up assumptions, like it was kellys and Ashleys fault, Kelly shouldn't have posted that clip because it would then make it public. When its really just between Kelly, Ashley and elliot. But again I agree he has a right to defend himself.
@Mathe Jone okie dokie