welcome back to ur mom's house nyc podcast! episode 6 the roomies: @KellyWakasa @urmomashley @ELLIOTCHOY a podcast with Ur Mom Ashley, Elliot Choy and Kelly Wakasa
Hey guys! We noticed some negative comments and just want to say that they truly hurt each and everyone of us associated with the house. There are some comments speculating about Annemarie’s decision to leave UMH and it’s truly unnecessary to make assumptions. It’s brings us immense sadness to see comments slandering Ashley or Annemarie or Kelly or Elliot. Not everything we do is shown online. Please be kind to all of the roommates and everyone associated w the house. All we are trying to do is spread positivity and this comment section should never be a place for negativity. We love you guys and can’t wait to make more content. This is just the beginning!
As someone who has watched all of you separately for years before you came together, it’s crazy to see the amount of negativity and hate people are putting out there and using that to base your whole personality off of. The way people are stating things as if they are fact is insane, when really it’s just internalized misogyny under the pretext of wanting to defend one person over the other. You all make fun videos for us to watch and enjoy. That’s it. That’s all it ever should be. Ashley, Kelly, Elliot, Annemarie, your true fans are all still here to support you in whatever you choose to do moving forward!!
I don’t know about other people but I know thatI love ur moms house no matter who’s in it. People come and go fo a reason and everything happens for the better. I understand how u guys feel and I’m so sorry that you are receiving these impolite comments which some times don’t even have anything to do with you guys. So don’t be sad or disheartened guys, there are still lots of people out there like me who are supporting you and will always be here. And I would love if Am would come and join a podcast sometime or even other TH-camrs. Do what excites!! And don’t let the hate comments bring you guys down and please don’t stop this channel. its a very precious channel to all of us. Love u guys always 💖 To past, present, and future ur moms house members.
It seems that many of you did not truly listen to the full episode. Yes, it lacks organization. Yes we miss AM. Yes this is different. Many of us expected for them to address more of the AM situation. However, they DONT OWE us that. Of course, we can all make our own assumptions but not to the point that we say hurtful things that are possibly not even true. They're humans. Most of them are our age. It is clear that they are all going through a hard time. Kelly and Elliot just lost someone. Ashley is taking a lot of the backlash for AM leaving. AM is also receiving a great amount of hate on her TH-cam channel. Come on, put yourselves in their shoes. Cut them some slack and give them a sec to heal. Overall, we all feel that maybe they should have addressed and handled things differently. But what even is the right way to go about this? They could have done it a million different ways ,and everyone would still find a way to come-up with their own narratives. Stop with the hate. There's ways to give constructive feedback without calling people names.
I feel like Ashley and Kelly don’t have as much emotional depth as Elliot does (not a bad thing). Their upbringing seems to be much different than Elliot and I couldn’t help but notice the disconnect between the three as Elliot spoke about his mom. To Elliot, opening up on the podcast as you did was incredibly impressive and showed a lot of your character. Don’t be afraid to share more, your experiences are valid and not weird. Tips to Kelly and Ashley, sometimes relating to someone and sharing your own experience in response to someone else’s isn’t how you respond to someone’s traumatic or “deep” experience. I urge you two to listen and ask informative questions, develop that conversation into something more for all of you to learn. Be genuine towards one another. I’m not sure what the goal of your podcast is, but to make it a podcast that creates a safe space for you three that are involved requires work. Surface level conversation and automatic responses aren’t enough. Peoples experiences are more than a story or someone’s past, recognize that in Elliot’s case. Explore together, utilize this podcast as a place to grow rather than content to please the masses.
I agree, I think Ashley’s advice was a bit superficial to just “talk to them about it more”. Based on her origin story, she seems to have had a different relationship with her parents that may not have involved as much emotional charge as Elliot did. Wish there was a little more empathy rather than them just comparing to how their situations are “good” while Elliots clearly wasn’t
Very well said tip I think for this podcast to keep its audience and become something to constantly come back to and listen each eps and even in a way different make this podcast stand out from the vast many there are
@@christophercho2496 which is why I questioned what they want from the podcast. Even when someone opens up about something vulnerable, being a proactive listener is important. I think your comment is misguided in defense of them.
It would pretty nice to have colt do a podcast with you guys even though he isn’t a roommate he already there long enough and it gives a different perspective.
So excited to see the three of you forging ahead! Enjoy the chill energy and this episode really shows the synergy that led the three of you to decide in the Hamptons to give this idea a go. Condolences to Elliot and Kelly and your families for your loss. Glad you took time off to rest during such hard weeks.
The best life advice I ever had was from my dad "Stop stressing over things you can't control" and also even tho he never told me that but I learned by watching him "enjoy the little stuff you don't need much in life"
At 22:09 when Ashley said to just talk to parents more to fix issues, I feel like it was a rly privileged thing to say bc not everyone’s parents are down to talk and not everyone’s parents are as loving as hers
I don’t usually watch full long podcasts like this but I actually reallyyy enjoyed it. I like the vulnerable moments as well as the fun/funny ones. I hope you guys aren’t getting too overwhelmed by all the negativity. Try and focus on everyone who love and support you no matter what and recognize that you’re just young creators figuring everything out. Sending love to you all💞💞💞
Elliot, I just wanted to thank you for sharing the story between you and your mom, and how that continues to be a source of pain. I think sometimes there are many layers to why these things happen, such as generational, cultural differences. I think many of us have our own unique experiences with similar underlying themes, and can relate to each other through how we felt from that. I, personally, can empathize with your sentiment about being emotionally charged or "different" from the family. My heart goes out to anyone experiencing or having experienced that.
I LOVE seeing this side of you guys, this is so valuable for me. I just turned 18 and am so grateful for having you guys speak about things living life a few years ahead of me.
I will admit the video feels a bit empty without anne marie but change happens and hope all works out smoothly with whatever may come next for you all. sending love from mexico
elliot, i can see how much you value your family/mom. as someone with a very similar experience, it is still nice to see you out there still enjoying your life to the fullest, without putting so much of that regret on yourself everyday. one day you will repair your relationship with your mom, and im sure she is deep down happy that you're doing the best you can. ive never heard a youtuber talk about being the "outcast" of their family but still love/respect their parents (our cultures have similar values of parents) and its nice to see someone i genuinely enjoy talking about this.
Hearing Elliot talk abt his relationship w his mom n family.. was quite emotional.. But Elliot something special and we all do have a nd for that mom child relationship.. It's never too late to form that.. There's definitely pple u can ask for advice.. be open and communicate with your mom/family.. You'll be happy you did..
I don't usually comment on videos but I do want to say this after seeing some comments on their recent videos - I know that everyone is allowed to have their opinions, but it feels icky to see people comment things that are just speculative or aren't constructive! Early 20's are still so impressionable and here these young adults are, sharing their lives and creating content while also navigating transitions. I hope we can spread love, give grace, and give back to them as a community too so that they can grow, instead of us just consuming their content and having opinions on them. Anyway ❤️ much love to ya
Paiently waited for this episode, I love it. I love when you all go on tangents cause we get to hear stories we wouldn't hear otherwise. Also RIP to Kelly's grandma, I remember her from your videos Kelly, of telling about going to college🙏 It was pretty sweet how you wanted her to meet Ashley ❤️ At least, she talked to her facetime, and I'm sure she would happy if you all are happy. Also, RIP to Elliot's grandfather. And yeah, you all definitely need to go trips with campfires and eat some smores 😅 You guys haven't even started yet (in life) and is already doing great. Change needs to happen to see growth, excited to watch you guys in the next 100 years 🍻
And as of today, anne marie is the only roommate to have addressed the mean comments ON VIDEO (intro of her latest vid). She talked about how tolling it is for someone to read mean comments about them and she's kindly asking everyone TO STOP SPEAKING ON HER BEHALF. Thank you for those who are defending annemarie but it came from her that we should stop and move on.
did u not read Ashley’s and Kelly’s comments to a kpop Stan acc? Especially Ashley’s bc everyone keeps on pointing her way bc they addressed it also. An I agree everyone should move on and stop nitpicking
@@standoutsidekick8324 yea but saying they didn’t even address it when they literally did in the comments should already be enough. It’s not that hard to look for a acc that wrote a whole assumptions essay then look at the replies on the 2 creators that cleared the air already addressing it
@@juliannaceralde Standout Sidekick didn't say they didn't address it, they said that Anne-Marie is the only person who has done it in a video. Addressing the offensive comments in a video is much different than doing it in a comment, barely anyone is stalking these comments to see what Ashley or Kelly respond. Addressing the issue in a video has a much larger reach, if you don't get why those two are different, I don't know what else to tell you. You missed the entire point of Standout Sidekick's comment and just had to mention Ashley and Kelly because you favor them. Expecting people to be that obsessed with Ashley and Kelly and saying "it's not that hard to look for their replies" tells me that you spend a lot of time stalking these comments. Not to mention, Kelly and Ashley didn't really address the situation AT ALL. They commented to defend themselves, not to tell people to stop hating on Anne-Marie.
Everyone saying negative things needs to stop. Kelly, Elliot, Ashley and Annemarie deserve their privacy and they only need to tell us stuff if and when they feel like it. They are HUMANS and they have feelings too. It doesn't matter about your personal opinion, just keep things to yourselves if it's not positive. Clearly all of them are still friends and it was Annemarie's choice to move out. And to Kelly, Ashley and Elliot: stay strong, and just ignore the hate comments!!
Yes, it’s sad that AM left. I’m appalled at the hate Ashley is getting, let her be however she is? Calling her a pick me doesn’t do anything but hurt people. She’s a real person lol some of y’all just decided to turn your empathy off 😳. Let her grow and mature at her own pace, she is a human being. Maybe her sibs ground her in a diff way, and these roommates bring out a diff side to her energy. She’s allowed to show different sides to her. This is their first ep without AM so sure it’s gonna be different. The “lack of depth” might just be people wanting to get to know K, A and E better? AM provided substantial questions so maybe that’s the real reason for the comments. Curious to see how the podcast evolves. The drama in the comments is ridiculous lol why are y’all taking it so personally when it’s literally their lives. It’s okay to have ur own opinion but why give energy to hate on someone? All the comments replying to the hate saying that they’re jobless, jealous, etc I get that y’all are trying to defend but you’re also spewing negativity in the comments. Hope all of this dies down soon, the drama is annoying 🥴 I hope everyone in the house can just reflect on themselves and this experience w AM leaving. Maybe another video clearing things up would help? Idk, but this transition is rough. I wish people were more loving and encouraging of positive change instead of hating and forcing people to change. It’s just sad to see, when the intention of this house was for positive reasons and the people left living there are trying their best too.
I love all of your contents. This podcast also makes me chance to learn English and helps me gain more knowledge about the American life. Look forward to watching your newest podcasts
I don't normally comment, but I think I should make an exception today just to shed some light on how I think y'all should continue what y'all do, no matter what other people think. So many toxic views and people thinking it's cool to bring up the same negative things to hurt others is not cool. I hope y'all keep up the amazing work that you all have been doing at UMH!
I don’t get the comments on this video. At first, people kept on shipping Kashley. And now that they’re dating, they ruined the group, the dynamic??? What???
Kelly I use to work in the hair transplant industry and the best advice I can give is prevention but it does come with some costs. Get an idea of when your grandfather started balding and the pattern of his hair loss. Whether it’s receding or crown loss. It will give you a good indication of where it may go. Using your brothers does not help too much. I always found that if you look more like your mother or father then that’s generally the family path you will follow. Hope that helps 😊
very nice episode, it kinda shows that yours relationships with parents affected yours perspective on life and that helped u guys beceome strong and full of energy. i feel that most of your viewers (at least me) love you because you have this helathy relation with life and its pleasure to think that we might be as you someday. You are big inspiration for me and i wanted to thanks for being here.
To everyone making assumptions sitting in your house.. that's easy but imagine yourself in their shoes ..their life is already tensed and we are further aggravating it . Let's just spread love ❤️
I think disabling the comment section would be healthier for the roommates at this point. It’s important to set boundaries and protect your mental wellbeing & also your relationships with one another. I love every single content you guys have been putting out but lately I feel pretty stressed looking at all the unwarranted hate and speculations and negativity thrown out towards you guys. Hoping that you guys will prioritise your emotional wellbeing above everything else, and thank you for all the content y’all have been putting out!
Hey ur mom's house! I just want to say that I'm so proud of you guys for still pushing through despite all the backlash, trials, and transitions. It shows how passionate you guys are when it comes to your craft. And this is something no one can ever take away from you guys. Please take care of each other's mental health. 🙏🙏 Don't ever let the hate get into you guys. Let's ignore the trolls and starve them.
22:20 the way Kelly comforted Elliot after he told them his stories about the relationship between he and his mom litterally makes me cry… After all, no matter who is right or wrong, the saddest thing is that they ended their friendship after a long time of being best friends..
man, i can relate to kelly being not the perfect child but the child that gives excitement and fun to his parents lol love the podcast!! keep making videos, guys!!
It’s clear some of you have never had roommates or are not even old enough to move out of your parent’s house because it’s normal to not be best friends with all your roommates. If you don’t hang out with them, it doesn’t mean there’s drama. People have different personalities and lifestyles, and that’s okay. All the negativity is unnecessary.
This is so true, I had a roommate back in college for four years and I never really got to know her deeply, we were just coexisting in the same room, it's because we don't have the same interests and vibe 🙈,
I don’t think a content house and having randomly assigned roommates is comparable though. AM, Elliot and Kelly were close friends before this content house came together. They all came together for the same reason initially, to create content together. For some reason, that didn’t happen even though they all had a common goal. It’s normal to not be friends with your roommates, but what are the odds that things didn’t work out when one more person became apart of the equation? AM, Elliot and Kelly had a very comfortable and close dynamic before this content house came about. Now, it seems like Kelly and AM aren’t as close as they used to be when it was just the three (AM, Elliot, Kelly) of them.
I actually challenging thought for you guys ! In Dr. Brene Brown’s “Atlas of the Heart”, she says “ a life without regret is a life without reflection”. I think regret can be interpreted by different people. I think you guys saying that you have no regrets shows that you guys have reflected internally already and learned from it and don’t let regret define you 🙌🏼❤️ love your guys content have a great week!!
On that note also thank you for sharing your story about your relationship with your mom ❤️ I think you should cut yourself some slack. Like Ashley said, being a teenager is a hard time in life, and developmentally your at a different place and not fully developed yet.
would love to hear a podcast going deep on existential/universal topics since having existential crisis and questioning the meaning of life is on the minds of a lot of young adults I feel like
hope you guys still continue with this podcast!! i know there’s a lot of negative comments but there’s also a bunch of us who really enjoy this podcast 💕 just take it easy and remember to have fun with the episodes! i think it would also be cool to bring some guests into future episodes too!! love you guys
Hey guys!! I have been trying to get merch so bad but copyright is always sold out and so is kelly's "love you" merch, just know you got so many supporters that love your stuff!! 😅😁 love y'all!!!
I like how you guys have a deep conversation about life in general. Those topics are not often spoken out and discussed with people. I enjoy listening to the conversation of you guys and those conversation motivates me to work harder to go back to the United States. also relieve my stress of living in South Korea with my parents and make me miss living in the states.
Are you guys ever gonna upload to Spotify :/, this is the only pod I know that doesn't. Just asking since I like to list to pods while I do things passively while moving around, or in the car, and I can't really do that with this one
It takes more work to configure podcasts for audio, you have to manage the hosting separately, and in TH-cam it is automatic. Maybe they have been positioning that process
@@danielab332 barely any extra work, all you need to do is sign up for a podcast host platform and they distribute it to all platforms for you. Some kids from my school run a podcast with almost no listeners are all able to do it just fine, I don't see why fulltime youtubers wouldn't be able too. There's nothing unique they'd have to do for the audio.
I can’t with this comment section likeee I just can’t why can’t we as fans just live and let them live their life and then people will get offended if you would speak even a word against them how can they expect y’all to stay put. I just feel like lashing out at everyone idk how y’all must be feeling about this and controlling yourselves from not saying anything. Also to the people saying Ashley is a pick me like where how in the world is she like everyone was happy when they were all there everyone loved Ashley supported everyone and all and now that they need this support why is everyone being so rude. As it’s not easy to move out of somewhere it’s not easy for the others left behind either. So just get over it people or just don’t come over here to just hate comment.
why do u keep saying about “depth”? 😅 this is a podcast of 3 young creators, they’re talking about their own experiences and they’re on insughts. it’s not like there’s a requirement in a podcast..
Wow! Can't believe I just sat through the entire 1 hour. Thanks for keeping it real guys! Looking forward to your videos. And yes, do what EXCITES!!! :P
Speaking of campfire, why don’t you guys go camping this summer? That would be a really fun vlog. And can you please make the video longer than 10 minutes? Your vlogs are so short guys then we have to wait another week for the next one?!😅
Even if there were negative situations to have taken place in ur moms house, why is it necessary to drag it out and milk it on as much as possible. strife and imbalance are bound to exist anywhere, this doesnt mean you need to be part of the collateral damage of dragging it out. smh @ all these people who have nothing more to say than something that makes everyone feel down (including themselves, cause surely spreading hate doesnt make ya feel good)
I don't think that Annemarie would necessarily change the conversation drastically, remember that this is the first full podcast there wasn't a backstory for any member, so there wasn't a one big topic connecting everything. I loved it, cannot wait for more!
WOW this comment section. Yes, the podcast isn’t the same without AM BUT if you are here, you should be supportive of the other three (now that doesn’t mean you can’t be constructively critical!). I am sending love to all of you💞💞
other than for my purpose of entertainment this is also another way 2 practice my communication n english skills by listening to them and how they construct their sentences
I like Isabelle Sung’s personality and her cooking skills. She would be a great addition to the house. Though with the drama/fallout from Annemarie’s departure, I imagine a lot of potential roommates might be reluctant to move in.
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Hey guys! We noticed some negative comments and just want to say that they truly hurt each and everyone of us associated with the house. There are some comments speculating about Annemarie’s decision to leave UMH and it’s truly unnecessary to make assumptions. It’s brings us immense sadness to see comments slandering Ashley or Annemarie or Kelly or Elliot. Not everything we do is shown online. Please be kind to all of the roommates and everyone associated w the house. All we are trying to do is spread positivity and this comment section should never be a place for negativity. We love you guys and can’t wait to make more content. This is just the beginning!
As someone who has watched all of you separately for years before you came together, it’s crazy to see the amount of negativity and hate people are putting out there and using that to base your whole personality off of. The way people are stating things as if they are fact is insane, when really it’s just internalized misogyny under the pretext of wanting to defend one person over the other. You all make fun videos for us to watch and enjoy. That’s it. That’s all it ever should be. Ashley, Kelly, Elliot, Annemarie, your true fans are all still here to support you in whatever you choose to do moving forward!!
Positivity for the win!!! 😁☀️👍😂
i thought the podcast was good. just a little awkwardness since anne marie left but it’ll mellow out
I don’t know about other people but I know thatI love ur moms house no matter who’s in it. People come and go fo a reason and everything happens for the better. I understand how u guys feel and I’m so sorry that you are receiving these impolite comments which some times don’t even have anything to do with you guys. So don’t be sad or disheartened guys, there are still lots of people out there like me who are supporting you and will always be here. And I would love if Am would come and join a podcast sometime or even other TH-camrs. Do what excites!! And don’t let the hate comments bring you guys down and please don’t stop this channel. its a very precious channel to all of us. Love u guys always 💖
To past, present, and future ur moms house members.
Let things flow and be happy guys!
“Daddy, why are uncle Kelly's kids so crazy”, this is the warmest and most hilarious moment of this episode, cant wait to see that day comes! 🤣🤣
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When was that said
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The way that kelly casually dropped the fact that his gran had passed (rest in peace gran) made me speechless
oh no. wait wtf this is actually so upsetting 🥺
is it his mom or dad side? that's so sad
What about Elliot’s grandpa huh?
@@cowlemin8613 We're connected to Kelly's grannies cus we have seen both of em in Kelly's vids and they both are so cool and chill
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Elliot being so honest about his mom was so real … their best episode i feel like this podcast can make it
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That part was so raw. I hope he will forgive himself and his mom. Forgiveness is so tough. But it can move them forward. 🙏🏽
Agreed I love the raw content
It seems that many of you did not truly listen to the full episode. Yes, it lacks organization. Yes we miss AM. Yes this is different. Many of us expected for them to address more of the AM situation. However, they DONT OWE us that. Of course, we can all make our own assumptions but not to the point that we say hurtful things that are possibly not even true. They're humans. Most of them are our age. It is clear that they are all going through a hard time. Kelly and Elliot just lost someone. Ashley is taking a lot of the backlash for AM leaving. AM is also receiving a great amount of hate on her TH-cam channel. Come on, put yourselves in their shoes. Cut them some slack and give them a sec to heal.
Overall, we all feel that maybe they should have addressed and handled things differently. But what even is the right way to go about this? They could have done it a million different ways ,and everyone would still find a way to come-up with their own narratives. Stop with the hate. There's ways to give constructive feedback without calling people names.
I feel like Ashley and Kelly don’t have as much emotional depth as Elliot does (not a bad thing). Their upbringing seems to be much different than Elliot and I couldn’t help but notice the disconnect between the three as Elliot spoke about his mom. To Elliot, opening up on the podcast as you did was incredibly impressive and showed a lot of your character. Don’t be afraid to share more, your experiences are valid and not weird. Tips to Kelly and Ashley, sometimes relating to someone and sharing your own experience in response to someone else’s isn’t how you respond to someone’s traumatic or “deep” experience. I urge you two to listen and ask informative questions, develop that conversation into something more for all of you to learn. Be genuine towards one another. I’m not sure what the goal of your podcast is, but to make it a podcast that creates a safe space for you three that are involved requires work. Surface level conversation and automatic responses aren’t enough. Peoples experiences are more than a story or someone’s past, recognize that in Elliot’s case. Explore together, utilize this podcast as a place to grow rather than content to please the masses.
I agree, I think Ashley’s advice was a bit superficial to just “talk to them about it more”. Based on her origin story, she seems to have had a different relationship with her parents that may not have involved as much emotional charge as Elliot did. Wish there was a little more empathy rather than them just comparing to how their situations are “good” while Elliots clearly wasn’t
Very well said tip I think for this podcast to keep its audience and become something to constantly come back to and listen each eps and even in a way different make this podcast stand out from the vast many there are
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They arent therapists you dont need to tell someone how to have empathy its just a podcast
@@christophercho2496 which is why I questioned what they want from the podcast. Even when someone opens up about something vulnerable, being a proactive listener is important. I think your comment is misguided in defense of them.
To add some positivity in the comments, I am really excited to see what ur moms house will have in store for the future. Love this podcast
Thankyou for the positivity 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🥺
just the beginning!
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Let's go 🤘
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@@theywereroommates3552 of the end.
i loved when kelly said i wished my grandma would have met ashley they r soo cute
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It would pretty nice to have colt do a podcast with you guys even though he isn’t a roommate he already there long enough and it gives a different perspective.
So excited to see the three of you forging ahead! Enjoy the chill energy and this episode really shows the synergy that led the three of you to decide in the Hamptons to give this idea a go.
Condolences to Elliot and Kelly and your families for your loss. Glad you took time off to rest during such hard weeks.
The best life advice I ever had was from my dad "Stop stressing over things you can't control" and also even tho he never told me that but I learned by watching him "enjoy the little stuff you don't need much in life"
That's great advice 👍
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At 22:09 when Ashley said to just talk to parents more to fix issues, I feel like it was a rly privileged thing to say bc not everyone’s parents are down to talk and not everyone’s parents are as loving as hers
I don’t usually watch full long podcasts like this but I actually reallyyy enjoyed it. I like the vulnerable moments as well as the fun/funny ones. I hope you guys aren’t getting too overwhelmed by all the negativity. Try and focus on everyone who love and support you no matter what and recognize that you’re just young creators figuring everything out. Sending love to you all💞💞💞
Elliot, I just wanted to thank you for sharing the story between you and your mom, and how that continues to be a source of pain. I think sometimes there are many layers to why these things happen, such as generational, cultural differences. I think many of us have our own unique experiences with similar underlying themes, and can relate to each other through how we felt from that. I, personally, can empathize with your sentiment about being emotionally charged or "different" from the family. My heart goes out to anyone experiencing or having experienced that.
I LOVE seeing this side of you guys, this is so valuable for me. I just turned 18 and am so grateful for having you guys speak about things living life a few years ahead of me.
I will admit the video feels a bit empty without anne marie but change happens and hope all works out smoothly with whatever may come next for you all. sending love from mexico
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I miss her too but it's okay ig. Everyone have their own priorities
anne marie is what made them
she's great with conversation & filling up dead air but yeah change isn't always so smoothe. hopefully everything works out ok
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elliot, i can see how much you value your family/mom. as someone with a very similar experience, it is still nice to see you out there still enjoying your life to the fullest, without putting so much of that regret on yourself everyday. one day you will repair your relationship with your mom, and im sure she is deep down happy that you're doing the best you can.
ive never heard a youtuber talk about being the "outcast" of their family but still love/respect their parents (our cultures have similar values of parents) and its nice to see someone i genuinely enjoy talking about this.
Hearing Elliot talk abt his relationship w his mom n family.. was quite emotional.. But Elliot something special and we all do have a nd for that mom child relationship.. It's never too late to form that.. There's definitely pple u can ask for advice.. be open and communicate with your mom/family.. You'll be happy you did..
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I don't usually comment on videos but I do want to say this after seeing some comments on their recent videos - I know that everyone is allowed to have their opinions, but it feels icky to see people comment things that are just speculative or aren't constructive! Early 20's are still so impressionable and here these young adults are, sharing their lives and creating content while also navigating transitions. I hope we can spread love, give grace, and give back to them as a community too so that they can grow, instead of us just consuming their content and having opinions on them. Anyway ❤️ much love to ya
Nice seeing the podcast again! Excited for more to come(:
This is such a great podcast! I love everyone’s personality and how you draw us in to your lives! Keep up the great work!
I felt the sadness from Kelly when he said that his nana will no longer be able to meet ashley :((
Paiently waited for this episode, I love it.
I love when you all go on tangents cause we get to hear stories we wouldn't hear otherwise. Also RIP to Kelly's grandma, I remember her from your videos Kelly, of telling about going to college🙏 It was pretty sweet how you wanted her to meet Ashley ❤️ At least, she talked to her facetime, and I'm sure she would happy if you all are happy. Also, RIP to Elliot's grandfather. And yeah, you all definitely need to go trips with campfires and eat some smores 😅 You guys haven't even started yet (in life) and is already doing great. Change needs to happen to see growth, excited to watch you guys in the next 100 years 🍻
I totally relate with Ashley on being the oldest child! You also pave the way for your siblings 🖤
I love you all and sending love your way. Watching/listening to your brightens my day. And also inspires to keep going. Thank you! Hugs to all of you.
Y’all always make me smile! Keep on doing what you’re doing and keep up the great work and I love y’all! Will keep on watching and supporting y’all 💛💛
And as of today, anne marie is the only roommate to have addressed the mean comments ON VIDEO (intro of her latest vid). She talked about how tolling it is for someone to read mean comments about them and she's kindly asking everyone TO STOP SPEAKING ON HER BEHALF. Thank you for those who are defending annemarie but it came from her that we should stop and move on.
did u not read Ashley’s and Kelly’s comments to a kpop Stan acc? Especially Ashley’s bc everyone keeps on pointing her way bc they addressed it also. An I agree everyone should move on and stop nitpicking
@@juliannaceralde Video has a very different reach compared to a simple comment. Not everyone has the time to scroll down all these...
@@standoutsidekick8324 yea but saying they didn’t even address it when they literally did in the comments should already be enough. It’s not that hard to look for a acc that wrote a whole assumptions essay then look at the replies on the 2 creators that cleared the air already addressing it
@@juliannaceralde Standout Sidekick didn't say they didn't address it, they said that Anne-Marie is the only person who has done it in a video. Addressing the offensive comments in a video is much different than doing it in a comment, barely anyone is stalking these comments to see what Ashley or Kelly respond. Addressing the issue in a video has a much larger reach, if you don't get why those two are different, I don't know what else to tell you. You missed the entire point of Standout Sidekick's comment and just had to mention Ashley and Kelly because you favor them. Expecting people to be that obsessed with Ashley and Kelly and saying "it's not that hard to look for their replies" tells me that you spend a lot of time stalking these comments. Not to mention, Kelly and Ashley didn't really address the situation AT ALL. They commented to defend themselves, not to tell people to stop hating on Anne-Marie.
@@hiidiots820adding onto that, the comment ashley left was condescending anyways
Everyone saying negative things needs to stop. Kelly, Elliot, Ashley and Annemarie deserve their privacy and they only need to tell us stuff if and when they feel like it. They are HUMANS and they have feelings too. It doesn't matter about your personal opinion, just keep things to yourselves if it's not positive. Clearly all of them are still friends and it was Annemarie's choice to move out. And to Kelly, Ashley and Elliot: stay strong, and just ignore the hate comments!!
Did anyone asked you?
I did
@@jenill8952 thanks!! 😊
@@emiliay5636 ;)
@@jenill8952 me too
So glad to see you guys all back! Honestly was a little sad for a while, picks me up seeing your faces! You all deserve best!
Yes, it’s sad that AM left. I’m appalled at the hate Ashley is getting, let her be however she is? Calling her a pick me doesn’t do anything but hurt people. She’s a real person lol some of y’all just decided to turn your empathy off 😳. Let her grow and mature at her own pace, she is a human being. Maybe her sibs ground her in a diff way, and these roommates bring out a diff side to her energy. She’s allowed to show different sides to her.
This is their first ep without AM so sure it’s gonna be different. The “lack of depth” might just be people wanting to get to know K, A and E better? AM provided substantial questions so maybe that’s the real reason for the comments. Curious to see how the podcast evolves.
The drama in the comments is ridiculous lol why are y’all taking it so personally when it’s literally their lives. It’s okay to have ur own opinion but why give energy to hate on someone?
All the comments replying to the hate saying that they’re jobless, jealous, etc I get that y’all are trying to defend but you’re also spewing negativity in the comments. Hope all of this dies down soon, the drama is annoying 🥴
I hope everyone in the house can just reflect on themselves and this experience w AM leaving. Maybe another video clearing things up would help? Idk, but this transition is rough. I wish people were more loving and encouraging of positive change instead of hating and forcing people to change. It’s just sad to see, when the intention of this house was for positive reasons and the people left living there are trying their best too.
I love all of your contents. This podcast also makes me chance to learn English and helps me gain more knowledge about the American life. Look forward to watching your newest podcasts
I have been waiting for this upload. Was a little scared they wouldn’t keep it going
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Love you guys! Always real and genuine in your videos.
it's great to see that you guys are branching out and trying new things. awesome podcast and keep up the good work! 🎉🎉
soo happy to see them together
love this episode! very chill and cozy. excited for the future of ur mom's house 😄
I don't normally comment, but I think I should make an exception today just to shed some light on how I think y'all should continue what y'all do, no matter what other people think. So many toxic views and people thinking it's cool to bring up the same negative things to hurt others is not cool. I hope y'all keep up the amazing work that you all have been doing at UMH!
I don’t get the comments on this video. At first, people kept on shipping Kashley. And now that they’re dating, they ruined the group, the dynamic??? What???
So true lol
I think the talk in this episode was really great. I love the reflections.
The fact that Elliot got a little excited about sharing secrets they’ve kept from their parents 😂 bless
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This episode was very chill and i loved it! Keep it up guys and can’t wait for the new episodes and the new chapter :)
Kelly I use to work in the hair transplant industry and the best advice I can give is prevention but it does come with some costs.
Get an idea of when your grandfather started balding and the pattern of his hair loss. Whether it’s receding or crown loss. It will give you a good indication of where it may go. Using your brothers does not help too much. I always found that if you look more like your mother or father then that’s generally the family path you will follow. Hope that helps 😊
Ashley stay strong we are always with you no matter what❣️
I knew you was gonna say “ do what excites”lmaooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
very nice episode, it kinda shows that yours relationships with parents affected yours perspective on life and that helped u guys beceome strong and full of energy. i feel that most of your viewers (at least me) love you because you have this helathy relation with life and its pleasure to think that we might be as you someday. You are big inspiration for me and i wanted to thanks for being here.
🤍 excited for the new changes , can’t wait and see what’s in store for Ur mom’s house
To everyone making assumptions sitting in your house.. that's easy but imagine yourself in their shoes ..their life is already tensed and we are further aggravating it . Let's just spread love ❤️
They are like the Good kid's with style, creativity, kindness etc etc etc 😁 in this kind generation.....
😁 Love you guy's ❤️
ashleys morning is literally my goal
Rest In Peace to the kids and teachers in Texas
I love this episode! Such a chill vibe!
This was a really enjoyable episode
I love you guysss, you help me see things further and with more positivity. Can’t wait for the future whatever that may be :)
Really excited to see whats to come, and all the summer fun!
i enjoyed this episode. looking forward to the next one! 💗
I think disabling the comment section would be healthier for the roommates at this point. It’s important to set boundaries and protect your mental wellbeing & also your relationships with one another. I love every single content you guys have been putting out but lately I feel pretty stressed looking at all the unwarranted hate and speculations and negativity thrown out towards you guys. Hoping that you guys will prioritise your emotional wellbeing above everything else, and thank you for all the content y’all have been putting out!
Hey ur mom's house! I just want to say that I'm so proud of you guys for still pushing through despite all the backlash, trials, and transitions. It shows how passionate you guys are when it comes to your craft. And this is something no one can ever take away from you guys. Please take care of each other's mental health. 🙏🙏 Don't ever let the hate get into you guys. Let's ignore the trolls and starve them.
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I love ur podcasts! I cant wait for more
22:20 the way Kelly comforted Elliot after he told them his stories about the relationship between he and his mom litterally makes me cry… After all, no matter who is right or wrong, the saddest thing is that they ended their friendship after a long time of being best friends..
man, i can relate to kelly being not the perfect child but the child that gives excitement and fun to his parents lol love the podcast!! keep making videos, guys!!
It’s clear some of you have never had roommates or are not even old enough to move out of your parent’s house because it’s normal to not be best friends with all your roommates. If you don’t hang out with them, it doesn’t mean there’s drama. People have different personalities and lifestyles, and that’s okay. All the negativity is unnecessary.
exactly!!!!!!
This is so true, I had a roommate back in college for four years and I never really got to know her deeply, we were just coexisting in the same room, it's because we don't have the same interests and vibe 🙈,
I don’t think a content house and having randomly assigned roommates is comparable though. AM, Elliot and Kelly were close friends before this content house came together. They all came together for the same reason initially, to create content together. For some reason, that didn’t happen even though they all had a common goal. It’s normal to not be friends with your roommates, but what are the odds that things didn’t work out when one more person became apart of the equation? AM, Elliot and Kelly had a very comfortable and close dynamic before this content house came about. Now, it seems like Kelly and AM aren’t as close as they used to be when it was just the three (AM, Elliot, Kelly) of them.
I actually challenging thought for you guys ! In Dr. Brene Brown’s “Atlas of the Heart”, she says “ a life without regret is a life without reflection”. I think regret can be interpreted by different people. I think you guys saying that you have no regrets shows that you guys have reflected internally already and learned from it and don’t let regret define you 🙌🏼❤️ love your guys content have a great week!!
On that note also thank you for sharing your story about your relationship with your mom ❤️ I think you should cut yourself some slack. Like Ashley said, being a teenager is a hard time in life, and developmentally your at a different place and not fully developed yet.
Love u guys, excited for your next journey :)
lmao elliot's 5pm alarm is so me. i have an alarm almost every hour
Ashley's mic cover should have been green. 💚
I feel like the best nominees for roommates right now are Luke Eich and Issa Sung
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not issa
@@celine9230 did she do something bad to make you say that? or is she already settled herself?
@@hillarymirindi5718 who
@@celine9230 it doesn't matter wtf you think.
Rip to Kelly’s grandma and Elliot’s grandpa
would love to hear a podcast going deep on existential/universal topics since having existential crisis and questioning the meaning of life is on the minds of a lot of young adults I feel like
💜💜💜 one heart for each
I listened to this episode while cooking & eating, I thought it was chill & fun!
Love these videos
hope you guys still continue with this podcast!! i know there’s a lot of negative comments but there’s also a bunch of us who really enjoy this podcast 💕 just take it easy and remember to have fun with the episodes! i think it would also be cool to bring some guests into future episodes too!! love you guys
great episode🥰
love you guys!
Hey guys!! I have been trying to get merch so bad but copyright is always sold out and so is kelly's "love you" merch, just know you got so many supporters that love your stuff!! 😅😁 love y'all!!!
I think you guys should shoot a podcast contemplating existential topics
31:17 I feel like Elliot was sending a signal that he isn’t thinking about living together with them for more years.
I’ve been watching your videos for the past 2 hours…🤣
Ashley’s fit 🔥🔥
it was fun wonderful and amazing, can't wait for other videos.
sending love to yall!!
NEW EPISODEEE LETSS GOOO!!
I like how you guys have a deep conversation about life in general. Those topics are not often spoken out and discussed with people. I enjoy listening to the conversation of you guys and those conversation motivates me to work harder to go back to the United States. also relieve my stress of living in South Korea with my parents and make me miss living in the states.
Are you guys ever gonna upload to Spotify :/, this is the only pod I know that doesn't. Just asking since I like to list to pods while I do things passively while moving around, or in the car, and I can't really do that with this one
thats a good question :) i would like to listen to you on spotify!
Idk I don’t tbink the podcast is very professional or a very top priority of theirs. They go without uploading for weeks idk
It takes more work to configure podcasts for audio, you have to manage the hosting separately, and in TH-cam it is automatic. Maybe they have been positioning that process
@@danielab332 barely any extra work, all you need to do is sign up for a podcast host platform and they distribute it to all platforms for you. Some kids from my school run a podcast with almost no listeners are all able to do it just fine, I don't see why fulltime youtubers wouldn't be able too.
There's nothing unique they'd have to do for the audio.
We will be on all platforms soon!
I can’t with this comment section likeee I just can’t why can’t we as fans just live and let them live their life and then people will get offended if you would speak even a word against them how can they expect y’all to stay put. I just feel like lashing out at everyone idk how y’all must be feeling about this and controlling yourselves from not saying anything. Also to the people saying Ashley is a pick me like where how in the world is she like everyone was happy when they were all there everyone loved Ashley supported everyone and all and now that they need this support why is everyone being so rude. As it’s not easy to move out of somewhere it’s not easy for the others left behind either. So just get over it people or just don’t come over here to just hate comment.
why do u keep saying about “depth”? 😅 this is a podcast of 3 young creators, they’re talking about their own experiences and they’re on insughts. it’s not like there’s a requirement in a podcast..
You guys are so cool I've never been this early wow, have a nice day!!
the 5pm part literally came on as the clock hit 5pm
Wow! Can't believe I just sat through the entire 1 hour. Thanks for keeping it real guys! Looking forward to your videos. And yes, do what EXCITES!!! :P
Bring Luke back. He fits the vibe!
Speaking of campfire, why don’t you guys go camping this summer? That would be a really fun vlog. And can you please make the video longer than 10 minutes? Your vlogs are so short guys then we have to wait another week for the next one?!😅
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Last comment but oh my goodness my condolences go out to you Kelly and Elliot ❤️
Even if there were negative situations to have taken place in ur moms house, why is it necessary to drag it out and milk it on as much as possible. strife and imbalance are bound to exist anywhere, this doesnt mean you need to be part of the collateral damage of dragging it out. smh @ all these people who have nothing more to say than something that makes everyone feel down (including themselves, cause surely spreading hate doesnt make ya feel good)
everyone commenting hate about each roommate just sounds like a 14-year old speculating about internet beef that wasn't even there tbh
I don't think that Annemarie would necessarily change the conversation drastically, remember that this is the first full podcast there wasn't a backstory for any member, so there wasn't a one big topic connecting everything.
I loved it, cannot wait for more!
FACTS
WOW this comment section. Yes, the podcast isn’t the same without AM BUT if you are here, you should be supportive of the other three (now that doesn’t mean you can’t be constructively critical!). I am sending love to all of you💞💞
Why do I fall more inlove with Elliot every episode
other than for my purpose of entertainment this is also another way 2 practice my communication n english skills by listening to them and how they construct their sentences
I like Isabelle Sung’s personality and her cooking skills. She would be a great addition to the house. Though with the drama/fallout from Annemarie’s departure, I imagine a lot of potential roommates might be reluctant to move in.
AM added so much more in-depth and interesting info/questions for others
That’s so true. She really was the backbone of this group.
@@bangtanboys0290 yes unfortunately the talk seems so shallow without her depth 😢
@@bangtanboys0290 she definitely grounded the group
She was the most insightful and asked thoughtful questions to be inclusive of everyone. Now idk
@@bangtanboys0290 lol