Luke bro. Taking in the advice from even a few of your vids I’ve made a massive change in how I look at myself and other people- now I don’t act so awkwardly- and just not myself at all- around people my age, and I’m starting to feel like I actually can deal with situations without being extremely anxious and go into my actual personality without having a fear of being judged for it. I’m more present + more relaxed in general because I answer my pessimistic af thoughts now instead of just letting them take over my life. You’re the only guy I’ve seen that’s realises it all comes from childhood beliefs, and who actually gets to the root cause of it instead of giving you these bullshit ‘act like a confident man, have a good posture, speak clearly’ advice. I appreciate you man:)
@@blakemwi thank you for the kind comment bro, it means a lot to see you changing your life. Absolutely great effort man, I can’t wait to see where your habit of action takes you🤙
@@Luke_Grenoble I swear your kinda personality is one the best people out there in this world have. There’s not many people these days who genuinely just want to help others man- and who don’t want ANY profit from it at all, especially to take time outta their day to create these vids for people like me. There’s not millions of subs to your channel for a reason- most of the world never had to go through endless bullying and other experiences to get them to the level of social anxiety and low confidence that I was at for so long.. so please never stop making these vids even if they don’t get massive views. You’re helping so many 🤝🏼
@@Wet.Lethal1664 I’ll likely sell at course at some point when I have something worth the value to give, but I hope it’s clear that that isn’t the reason I make videos. Thank you for your support bro🤙
@Luke_Grenoble I wouldn't make a course because people will see you as just another self help guru even if you do everything correctly if you want to make a brand do something else like sponsors, but hey I'm just a 15 year old listening to your advice what do I know just something that I'm suggesting
The tricky thing about highschool (I am in one BTW) is that you don't get very many shots at making friends. Of all the students a smaller number of people are compatible with you. If you mess one interaction up, then news will spread like wildfire and everyone will avoid you. And whatever impression you make, it's very hard to change that. It is not do or die but rather, win or die. There is no abundance of people like we get outside of school.
@@DesertedBerries it’s true that HS is a bubble and you see a lot of the same groups, but people are always changing, you may vibe with someone this year you never would have last year. It can be a self-fulfilling prophecy to think messing up once can have the whole school avoiding you. Ultimately most people don’t care so much about others as they are just thinking about themselves. Hope that helps my guy, thank you for your thoughts
I'm going to a concert with this girl im feeling. This video was just the confidence boost i needed. I really appreciate this content man, please dont stop😁.
I’ve had perhaps the most difficult year I’ve ever, and probably will ever, have in my life. I’ve become so isolated from not only friends, but myself. You just GET me and you’re videos are simply giving me the basic but deep advise I so desperately need, making me accept what’s wrong, but also telling me how to fix that. I really appreciate what you’re doing, and I think just reflecting on how you’re really feeling for 5-10 minutes a day really helps to pull yourself out of a cycle of self doubt and anxiety. Keep it up, and thanks again. 👊
@@Astro_Ptolemy thanks for sharing your story man, and your kind words mean a lot, I have no doubt there’s some big progress to see from you soon as long as your taking action. Keep up the great work bro🤝
I just love that in most of your videos you mention the excuses that I have for not being social, and, in a way, it sets me free and motivates me to try harder :)) keep up the good work!
@@Charizzyourmama ofc bro, limiting beliefs are usually what holds people back, much more than not knowing the “top 10 social hacks”. Keep making progress bro, I’d love to see you around some more👍
-in everything you do you will always be given negative feedback - its not your fault you shut down from negative feedback, in childhood youve been given an excess of it. but it doesnt serve you anymore. now you can use it as a signal to course correct instead of stopping completely. - only take feedback from people you want to be more like
I resonate with your words bro! Lately I have been doing more writing. Creative and Journaling. I love writing songs and im a professional overthinker. That has been a tool for me to maintain confidence lately by getting that shit out of my head and reflecting
@@JediGuy1000 hahah professional overthinker is real bro. Journaling was a huge step for me to get out of it too, you get lots of insights and no longer feel like your mind is running all the time. Keep it up💪
You point out such good points. And the first one is why i found your words different from others, because it sounds so real and truly speaking. Most of the people i see these days feel like they're trying to achieve some profit out of you. And subconsciously we feel their mask. And you mentioned this openly
I’m still struggling with holding a full conversation with people, but I have recently started greeting people more. Luke you have helped me out so much with my social skills so far keep making more vids!
Thank you so much! Your videos have a unique level of authenticity that just makes getting advice relatable and comfortable. Based on this video, I really want to implement many of these strategies to attempt to make improvements in my mental health/well being for the month of November. I personally have dealt with so many bouts of anxiety, depression, suicidal periods and heavy intrusive thoughts, as soon as I found this channel it seemed as if this was not the only option and that I can fix things! I owe so much gratitude to you and I hope to report back on December 1 with good news! Thanks once again!
Thank you, I’ve watched countless self improvement videos but have never changed. Your videos are different, and I’m ready to take a leap of faith into a new life. Today I started speaking louder, and it’s crazy how people listen more. You mentioned giving immediate answers, and when I do that I don’t have time to consciously speak boldly. Is this something that will get better as I speak boldly every day?
@@starkproductions6201 it’s not so much giving immediate answers as just saying the first thing in your mind. It can be good to pause even for a few seconds before responding so you have time to think. It shows you’re present and listening. Just make sure when you do speak, it’s bold. You’re on the right track man, even noticing when you aren’t speaking boldly is the first step to changing that, great work💪
How can I take advantage of the personality I possess. As a person. Ive always been known to be naturally attractive, to relate to people, and to click with most of the people that I get to genuinely speak to. Yet I still struggle to have interesting conversations with people when I want to. I always repeat the same dialogue like “what class are you going to” or “what are you doing” Overall most of my conversations aren’t as interesting if id like them to be. Even when I don’t overthink it. Theres always something blocking my mind. It’s genuinely so hard for me to show my true self. Because I just cant access it. Id greatly appreciate your help. Id love to continue through out my sophomore in a more interesting way.
@@crazyanimz1471 great question bro, I was stuck in this phase for a hot minute where I was being polite and a great listener, but not super interesting. What helped me is actually doing interesting things in my life, I started working out, pursuing content creation, I started working in the coffee industry and learning how to be a barista. Not only did this put me around other people interested in things I genuinely found interesting, but I was actually getting out and doing things now. I had things to talk about. Another thing that hugely helps is presence. Realizing the thoughts you’re having, recognizing the interesting details in your day and letting people into your inner dialogue. If someone is wearing shoes you think are sick, just saying it. If someone reminds you of a movie character, saying it. Great job so far man, hope that helps🤙
@@crasnicul3371 I’d love to give you some tricks or hacks to make it happen bro, but I’ll always give you truth. Those are the main things that set you up with a jawline. Mewing is just having proper tongue positioning and helping you breathe correctly. Losing weight just means that you have less body fat. It’s a myth that you can tone one part of your body without the others. To lose face fat, you have to lose fat. Sorry if that’s not the answer you’re looking for, but putting work into those two areas will help you improve, you just have to do the work. Hope this helps👍
I’m 18 and currently on a gap year after high school. I rarely see my friends and my job isn’t very socially stimulating. I want to improve myself and my social skills before college but I don’t know how and feel like there is no opportunities for me to do so. Any advice for my situation?
@@Mahdxrk8273 get outside. As much as possible. There are so many people around you and you don’t even realize. Become a regular at a coffee shop, start going to events around town or the nearest city around you and just start talking to people. Every conversation you have is the chance to make someone’s day. Give compliments, say random shit, whatever is genuine and on your mind. You will start to learn social skills extremely fast when you just put yourself out there over and over again, but you have to commit the time to do so. You got this bro, keep me updated👍
@@derstock4791 good question bro, if you want a trait that person has, look at what they do to give off that trait. If you want a result that person has (social friend group, business, etc.), what steps did they take to get there?
Im sorry i needed to be more specific myself. My question was based on who to cut off in life. I cant just cut off every person because of every little things that bother me about them, right?
@@tv.annexpert not everyone will like you bro and that’s okay, the goal is to find the right people, not to please everyone. The action steps in this video are a good start👍
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Luke bro. Taking in the advice from even a few of your vids I’ve made a massive change in how I look at myself and other people- now I don’t act so awkwardly- and just not myself at all- around people my age, and I’m starting to feel like I actually can deal with situations without being extremely anxious and go into my actual personality without having a fear of being judged for it. I’m more present + more relaxed in general because I answer my pessimistic af thoughts now instead of just letting them take over my life. You’re the only guy I’ve seen that’s realises it all comes from childhood beliefs, and who actually gets to the root cause of it instead of giving you these bullshit ‘act like a confident man, have a good posture, speak clearly’ advice. I appreciate you man:)
@@blakemwi thank you for the kind comment bro, it means a lot to see you changing your life.
Absolutely great effort man, I can’t wait to see where your habit of action takes you🤙
@@Luke_Grenoble I swear your kinda personality is one the best people out there in this world have. There’s not many people these days who genuinely just want to help others man- and who don’t want ANY profit from it at all, especially to take time outta their day to create these vids for people like me. There’s not millions of subs to your channel for a reason- most of the world never had to go through endless bullying and other experiences to get them to the level of social anxiety and low confidence that I was at for so long.. so please never stop making these vids even if they don’t get massive views. You’re helping so many 🤝🏼
Finally someone who isn't trying to sell me something, but instead actually giving advice.
@@Wet.Lethal1664 I’ll likely sell at course at some point when I have something worth the value to give, but I hope it’s clear that that isn’t the reason I make videos.
Thank you for your support bro🤙
I mean selling something is still valid but i get your point
@Luke_Grenoble I wouldn't make a course because people will see you as just another self help guru even if you do everything correctly if you want to make a brand do something else like sponsors, but hey I'm just a 15 year old listening to your advice what do I know just something that I'm suggesting
The tricky thing about highschool (I am in one BTW) is that you don't get very many shots at making friends. Of all the students a smaller number of people are compatible with you. If you mess one interaction up, then news will spread like wildfire and everyone will avoid you. And whatever impression you make, it's very hard to change that. It is not do or die but rather, win or die. There is no abundance of people like we get outside of school.
@@DesertedBerries it’s true that HS is a bubble and you see a lot of the same groups, but people are always changing, you may vibe with someone this year you never would have last year.
It can be a self-fulfilling prophecy to think messing up once can have the whole school avoiding you. Ultimately most people don’t care so much about others as they are just thinking about themselves.
Hope that helps my guy, thank you for your thoughts
I'm going to a concert with this girl im feeling. This video was just the confidence boost i needed. I really appreciate this content man, please dont stop😁.
@@keithevanz3645 bro, how’d it go??
I’ve had perhaps the most difficult year I’ve ever, and probably will ever, have in my life. I’ve become so isolated from not only friends, but myself. You just GET me and you’re videos are simply giving me the basic but deep advise I so desperately need, making me accept what’s wrong, but also telling me how to fix that. I really appreciate what you’re doing, and I think just reflecting on how you’re really feeling for 5-10 minutes a day really helps to pull yourself out of a cycle of self doubt and anxiety.
Keep it up, and thanks again. 👊
@@Astro_Ptolemy thanks for sharing your story man, and your kind words mean a lot, I have no doubt there’s some big progress to see from you soon as long as your taking action.
Keep up the great work bro🤝
Bro is using his maxxxed out Speech and Charm to help you heal childhood trauma ❤
@@cheekyclappe4935 hahah fr bro
I just love that in most of your videos you mention the excuses that I have for not being social, and, in a way, it sets me free and motivates me to try harder :)) keep up the good work!
@@Charizzyourmama ofc bro, limiting beliefs are usually what holds people back, much more than not knowing the “top 10 social hacks”.
Keep making progress bro, I’d love to see you around some more👍
-in everything you do you will always be given negative feedback
- its not your fault you shut down from negative feedback, in childhood youve been given an excess of it. but it doesnt serve you anymore. now you can use it as a signal to course correct instead of stopping completely.
- only take feedback from people you want to be more like
@@eline7214 great notes, these are big takeaways right here^^
Greetings from France.. Wise words indeed.. Thanks for the meditation app.. Blessings.. Peace
almost cried here...this was exactly what I needed
@@krembryle glad to hear it could help my man🤝
i'm still struggling but your content helps so much, thank you bro
@@noahfanson4040 thank you for the support Noah, keep acting and I have no doubt you’re see some change🤜💥🤛
I resonate with your words bro! Lately I have been doing more writing. Creative and Journaling. I love writing songs and im a professional overthinker. That has been a tool for me to maintain confidence lately by getting that shit out of my head and reflecting
@@JediGuy1000 hahah professional overthinker is real bro. Journaling was a huge step for me to get out of it too, you get lots of insights and no longer feel like your mind is running all the time. Keep it up💪
You point out such good points. And the first one is why i found your words different from others, because it sounds so real and truly speaking. Most of the people i see these days feel like they're trying to achieve some profit out of you. And subconsciously we feel their mask. And you mentioned this openly
MUCH LOVE MAN!
@@boazwatne right back at you bro
I’m still struggling with holding a full conversation with people, but I have recently started greeting people more. Luke you have helped me out so much with my social skills so far keep making more vids!
@@brennantodd I can give the info but that progress is all because of you my guy. Great work, keep it up🤝
bro marching band and my senior buddies leaving is so real. this is actually super relatable.
@@GuhBae for sure bro. It’s a crime, just don’t graduate
Thank you so much! Your videos have a unique level of authenticity that just makes getting advice relatable and comfortable. Based on this video, I really want to implement many of these strategies to attempt to make improvements in my mental health/well being for the month of November. I personally have dealt with so many bouts of anxiety, depression, suicidal periods and heavy intrusive thoughts, as soon as I found this channel it seemed as if this was not the only option and that I can fix things! I owe so much gratitude to you and I hope to report back on December 1 with good news! Thanks once again!
@@j.w.hamilton thank you bro, I’ll be looking out for you Dec 1💪
Thank you, I’ve watched countless self improvement videos but have never changed. Your videos are different, and I’m ready to take a leap of faith into a new life. Today I started speaking louder, and it’s crazy how people listen more. You mentioned giving immediate answers, and when I do that I don’t have time to consciously speak boldly. Is this something that will get better as I speak boldly every day?
@@starkproductions6201 it’s not so much giving immediate answers as just saying the first thing in your mind.
It can be good to pause even for a few seconds before responding so you have time to think. It shows you’re present and listening. Just make sure when you do speak, it’s bold.
You’re on the right track man, even noticing when you aren’t speaking boldly is the first step to changing that, great work💪
Congrats on hitting your goal man
@@karasu_tengu14 thank you for being a part of the journey, Kara’s
Thank you so much for such helpful tips. I’m really grateful I found this channel!
@@Onerose-yu7dxq grateful for you
you're awesome !
@@kurtgo no u
bro what is ur skincare routine i need it rn
@@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq keep it simple, moisturizer and cleanser👍
5000 LETS GO!!!!!!!!!!
@@gmoney8071 let’s GOO!
How can I take advantage of the personality I possess. As a person. Ive always been known to be naturally attractive, to relate to people, and to click with most of the people that I get to genuinely speak to. Yet I still struggle to have interesting conversations with people when I want to. I always repeat the same dialogue like “what class are you going to” or “what are you doing” Overall most of my conversations aren’t as interesting if id like them to be. Even when I don’t overthink it. Theres always something blocking my mind. It’s genuinely so hard for me to show my true self. Because I just cant access it. Id greatly appreciate your help. Id love to continue through out my sophomore in a more interesting way.
@@crazyanimz1471 great question bro, I was stuck in this phase for a hot minute where I was being polite and a great listener, but not super interesting. What helped me is actually doing interesting things in my life, I started working out, pursuing content creation, I started working in the coffee industry and learning how to be a barista. Not only did this put me around other people interested in things I genuinely found interesting, but I was actually getting out and doing things now. I had things to talk about.
Another thing that hugely helps is presence. Realizing the thoughts you’re having, recognizing the interesting details in your day and letting people into your inner dialogue. If someone is wearing shoes you think are sick, just saying it. If someone reminds you of a movie character, saying it.
Great job so far man, hope that helps🤙
can you do a video on toning your face? other than losing weight and mewing
@@crasnicul3371 I’d love to give you some tricks or hacks to make it happen bro, but I’ll always give you truth.
Those are the main things that set you up with a jawline. Mewing is just having proper tongue positioning and helping you breathe correctly. Losing weight just means that you have less body fat.
It’s a myth that you can tone one part of your body without the others. To lose face fat, you have to lose fat.
Sorry if that’s not the answer you’re looking for, but putting work into those two areas will help you improve, you just have to do the work. Hope this helps👍
How often do you meditate and for how long?
@@Bennnj10 daily, I do it for 10 minutes, I find that gives me the best bang for my buck. Good question bro👍
I’m 18 and currently on a gap year after high school. I rarely see my friends and my job isn’t very socially stimulating. I want to improve myself and my social skills before college but I don’t know how and feel like there is no opportunities for me to do so. Any advice for my situation?
@@Mahdxrk8273 get outside. As much as possible. There are so many people around you and you don’t even realize. Become a regular at a coffee shop, start going to events around town or the nearest city around you and just start talking to people.
Every conversation you have is the chance to make someone’s day. Give compliments, say random shit, whatever is genuine and on your mind. You will start to learn social skills extremely fast when you just put yourself out there over and over again, but you have to commit the time to do so.
You got this bro, keep me updated👍
Can you specify what you mean by "do i want to be more like them?"
Because every person is gonna have traits that you probably wont like.
@@derstock4791 good question bro, if you want a trait that person has, look at what they do to give off that trait.
If you want a result that person has (social friend group, business, etc.), what steps did they take to get there?
Im sorry i needed to be more specific myself. My question was based on who to cut off in life. I cant just cut off every person because of every little things that bother me about them, right?
i wanna be a person that everyone try talk to and and likes to be around me how to do that
@@tv.annexpert not everyone will like you bro and that’s okay, the goal is to find the right people, not to please everyone. The action steps in this video are a good start👍