How To Successfully Approach Girls | Creating Instant Attraction | PART 2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 เม.ย. 2019
- We are back with Part 2 of “How To Successfully Approach Girls “ in a way that creates instant attraction
In this new we have a new student working with the models and Brian. Brian breaks down the student approaches on what’s working for them or working against them as far as connecting with the model and creating instant attraction while talking to a girl.
We all want to be the guy who can approach any girl you like, but the excuse most guys give is they don’t know how to talk to girls. Here’s a tip, best pick up line is just go say “hi” you’ll be surprised you’ll be surprised.
But any at Fearless we really don’t focus on what to say to girls or how to pick up girls tricks, rather what can you do as a man when you approach a woman. How can you successfully approach a woman and not be creepy, or needy or nervous.
We cover all that in this series - so enjoy and leave a comment below on what you learn or what you’d like to see more of.
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"Make the connection to her more important than your fear." That hit home.
Take his advice as if you were in the students shoes and it will be world changing when you put it in action. Every person I see or met (today was day one) I practice (lead with love, open heart, talk from my gut) and I only pernitrate women I find attractive and their reactions are priceless. Some girls fold and start acting goofy, others can hold their own and then you can start to play and have fun... LIFE CHANGING.
Addressing the aggression was my favorite part. Very honest
This is truly gold guys. I have watched the other videos of this series and they are absolutely fantastic. Sure it is quite a bit more difficult to understand the difference in a video format as opposed to real life but you do get it. What i would recomend is use two cameras frome behind each participant, close to their face and see at the same time what the other one is feeling in real time in split screen. That should make it a bit easier to convey the feelings of the participants to the audience that are watching the video.
Made some mistakes getting in my head on Sunday, this helped me see exactly that. She sensed me close off and immediately walked away after answering. Fascinating realizing exactly what happened after the fact.
Thank you.
Truly saw the difference between the first approach and the second approach at the end part of the video.
But I feel like viewers wouldn’t really truly understand that until they experience it fully with you.
Great work as always
I’m heading on holiday to Greece on my own tomorrow, I’ll be using these techniques to chat to the ladies. Wish me luck.
how did it went? eager to hear your story
And any succes?
How did it went bro?
Wdym
Being calm and confident is key to approaching girls 🔥
Yes, but you also need not to care about the outcome. That's the really difficult part.
calm is the confidence
you can be calm confident and still have needy energy like this guy...
@@afonsodeportugal deadass
"uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh- Hi."
brilliant
I really liked the liberation and letting go that happened at the end, it was real. I’d like to see more of it in future videos! Keep it up
After watching the videos I can see and feel where I have trapped energy and suppressed feeling I need to let go. The part of having the student say he is pissed and expressed his anger and loneliness was very helpful. You are the guy to train with! 👍🏻
9:43, say hi to girls with that energy and that sincere smile and you will find out you had it in you all this time... best wishes man and thanks to all.
Yeah thats the way!
"You did not know where to put it" ooh that hurt 😬😅
Guys it is not a criminal to be anxious and nervous. The master of all the women "Zan Perrion" said once "just go to the girl you like and just admit to her that you are nervous but you had come over and say hi". She will love you and respect you for your honesty. We are human beings and not approaching machines. The woman in this video is adorable and sweet by the way!
I can show you two news articles what happened to a young man that tried exactly that.
Lets just say being anxious and nervous were indeed crimes in his case.
I'm so thankful you're doing this energy work with the guys. I've sent many guys to this YT channel so I don't have to do it, or "nope them" any more. I give them space and the tools(ur channel) and see if they rise to the occasion. Best of luck fellas! We're rooting for you! #Boundaries #Healing
This is such an amazing series, keep it up!
I'm glad that you call out the incongruence. When you tell him to narrow his gaze, I'm still not sure what you mean or how he's supposed to do that. Great video, I wanna see more :)
That was helpful man, thanks from heart. Dating coaches like you man actually liberates men who die inside, hopeless with opposite gender, fear ending alone rest of the life etc... thanks once again to the team.
Brian you and your girlfriends are like angels. I always believe there is always good compassionate people in this amazing world.
Thank you! They're not my "girlfriends" but the models are pretty awesome women for sure
Incredibly helpful, please get even deeper with that, more models from both sides
More of these types of videos, they help so much!
something about aria makes my heart melt looking at her and watching her smile. shes adorable
This was a rollercoaster of tension and depth. Thanks for sharing this work
It's great to see you used a more masculine man to see what it looks like with a variety of people
Brian’s “Skulled Angel/Devil shirt” & him stepping in & out of the purple + red lighting on either side of his face; is literally like he is on this guys shoulders!😱😱🔥 “I am your conscious” 🤣😂🔥✊🏾 fckn’ gnarly!
Yes we want to see more of this!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
So glad I found this channel
Good job, Brian
Dat first girl is fiiiit 😍
This is good stuff
old mcdonald had a farm lol best pick up line in the book
Since when does vin diesel need approaching lessons ?😂
Just kidding, super props to the guy actually 😉
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russel brand seems to be attractive as hell, but his energy is all over the place, fast and opposite of calm and grounded.. can you explain that?
That was interesting I could feel how nervous he was which I can relate too but good job.. I'm learning a lot from this
I feel like the guy is too serious in his approach. A smirk or at least a smile would have made the girl melt there.
We are unleashing the beast on how to say "Hi". Stay tooned for Part 3 on how to ask "where are you from."
Yep we have to see the eyes in the moment of approaching. i didnt understand the narrow look
The comparisons I felt too
Really like what your doing as we don't realize how we don't clear are aura/ head / upon a potential aproch in the real world I think we should do a meditation before approaches let me know what you guys think I'm an older male and never really and truly learned game / approach techniches
Can anyone expand on "enjoying her presence"? I'm a singer, and I always feel nervous when singing in public, but as the song goes on, I begin to enjoy the song and I start to feel my legs again, and the nervousness goes away.
I've been trying to connect that feeling with talking to a pretty girl, but I can't make the connection.
Hey there. I am not a pro but I had a thought. Perhaps the feeling you warm up during singing is the "flow state".
Perhaps you could warm up socially with a tension journal excercise and building social momentum by doing small things like saying hello or asking for directions while feeling centered and grounded.
One of the short tension journal videos - th-cam.com/video/GdZ7KN3q520/w-d-xo.html
My interpretation is that it's about getting out of the thoughts in your head and trying to focus on the sensations that you're feeling. More specifically, focusing on the sensation that you feel when you're looking at her.
The next time you see an attractive girl (it works better in real life, but you can do it from a video as well), really tune in to the feeling that you get. What does your body feel like? Maybe you feel a sense of warmth. Maybe your heart feels a particular way.
Enjoying her presence is really settling into that feeling and carrying that energy into the interaction. You, as a masculine being, are being appreciative of her feminine energy that's invigorating you.
It can all sound really "new age" and strange if you're not used to it, but it's just about being recognizing what you're feeling.
In other videos Brian teaches this other guy to feel his legs. Maybe find that other mini-series.
I don't know why but in this video i release the same fellings that Daniel did. Thanks for your intervention!
Hey ! Thank you so much for this series !!!
You talked a lot about opening the heart like a window...
But I'm afraid that if we begin to focus on the heart we lose connection with the person we are talking to...
And it seems so hard to do it in reality...
Is there a simple way to improve that ?
One more question, is focusing on opening the heart enough to be able to relax the body ?
poaplo7 i struggle to do both too but it’s because I’m not that good yet, opening up. But I’m better now than I was before and It gets easier with practice
Find an attractive friend that you don’t particularly have feelings for and see if they will let you use them to practice your comfortability doing these exercises ...luckily I have a good one...we are close...we had sex a couple times like 5 years ago ...so Old feelings have been stirring up the couple times we have been practicing certain things ...but seriously I will get more value out of practice with her than being fully intimate again.. She enjoys these videos as well.
This one helped. I like when he expressed his anger
She felt it
I can see it all. Maybe thats because ive done hypnotherapy myself for four years. regardless i want to see more of this
Amazing stuff
Seems to be drawing from the findings of neuroscience. I recall in this connection what Daniel Siegel has to say about presence, attunement, resonance and trust.
can i learn the same things through The Brotherhood
membership? for me its not possible to participate in the live events at the moment
This was beautiful
That could be you bro :) - Andrew, TFM Team
bruh girls actually can feel my feelings that shit is crazy
Can totally see the change on video and the subtleties-- this was actually my favorite segment so far.
17:10 Okay, now this is epic
One question I have: could all of this (feeling into your body, narrowing your focus, staying grounded and present, opening your heart, etc.) just simply be described as mindfulness?
I dont know man, but this is very important to make you more confident, he's really chipping down on their fear mostly is what i feel. What you call it wont matter
Hmmm, I felt the first girl, although incredibly sexy was less approachable by the guys. I know she was merely providing feedback, but it felt as if the guy was being criticized by her and you and I think it was overwhelming while with Aria, the feedback felt less critical and just her personal observation. I feel as if the more serious and involved women are harder to work with from the male student's perspective. Women who giggle and relax are less intimidating.
I applaud
One thing I don't like about this is that people call it a skill set or skills, because I like to feel that it's only men who need skills
so basically let your emotions speak thru your words
Awesome
girls judging guys here, well lets see how successfully can they approach guys?
lmao
Just be yourself, say hi however you want to but don't be disrespectful with it.. Other than that great video
Listen I need help bad. I do not need help so much as approach but its closing. I always get turned down and when I do go o dates it never amount to a second one.
Old McDonald was hilarious
So lost in some of this but I would like to be there. When is the next training?
Take a look at the website in the months to come. We should have some updates posted.
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Landon
So I have a crush on my manager and I want to do these techniques to her but is it worth the risk? I'm 19 she's like 27 but I can tell she likes me and I like her. I don't know if I should go on with it or not. Any advice would be nice
Don't get laid where you get paid, less so with your boss man. If you have the courage to hit on your manager then find a hottie in the street or anywhere else. The odds of you not regretting this later are way against you.
Thanks I kinda thought so. I've been getting that a lot recently. Future over a relationship.
@Justin Draxx you make a lot of sense and I appreciate you taking the time to tell me this. I understand we're your coming from and I really needed that to open my head a little bit. The guy in the video needed validation from that girl and I feel the same way about my manager. This video opened me up to what was happening and I realized that. So I'm trying to make the feeling go away. Thank you for helping me realize the better choice. So many things could happen if I decide to go through this and I don't think I would be ready for the repercussions.
she maybe attractive to you now, but soon you will want younger girls lol. Teach/boss fantasy going on.
@Justin Draxx it's just for some reason she's just different. I don't know why I think it may be infatuation. I've also never felt like this toward older women before. As a matter of fact I thought dating a girl that was just even slightly older than me was just obsured then I met her and then shit hit the fan. She's just different and it makes me feel good but I can't as we work together and to be honest like I said I don't think I'm emotionally ready for this. I'll hit you up tomorrow as I need to sleep
I’m wondering, why don’t these guys that I see in these demo videos ever seem like they’re having fun? Seems like a do-or-die kind of energy.
That being said, the interaction with Aria was much lighter and sweeter than the first. Don’t y’all just love girls?
They're nervous because they are standing in front of a beautiful woman with Brian there to point out the details of how their internal crap is showing up, and knowing it's going to be watched thousands of times on TH-cam. - Andrew, TFM Staff
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@@TheFearlessMan fair enough :D
I Had done this today..
I am struggeling with the past.
(Abuse sexuell).
The people are confused about the Ambivalenz.
Thiemo X same here, I have anger issues with women and I adore them at the same time. I’m slowly working out my anger issues out day by day
@@saul6836 how do You do this?
guru.
Seems like the 1st girl just agrees with whatever the speaker says to her.
And the second girl noticed and overcompensated
Nice
Many demons were destroyed with this video. If you are patient enough to watch all the video you can notice his gradual improvement. More relaxed, not giving a fuck about the outcome, thinking less and enjoying more, and finally being more curious than nervous.
Alexandra, my name is Matt, but you can call me... anytime!
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This could be more helpful if you could show us what the guys are doing right and wrong from the girls perspective. Anyway you could put a camera on the girl facing the guy?
There is actually a reason we don't overly focus on the model. She is part of the situation but equally important to other parts. Guys with nice guy syndrome patterns have the strong urge to focus on the woman as an a measurement of their success or failure. We are hoping to get a free pass from her to not feel our feelings. There are few things women hate more than this. - Andrew, TFM Team
@@TheFearlessMan I think you misunderstood me. I didn't mean to focus on the model (the girl), I meant focus on the guy (from the girls perspective) so when you are correcting him we can see what he's doing right and wrong. It's kind of hard to see that from the side view.
@@DaLeSy. Ah ok thanks for clarifying. - Andrew, TFM
I like very much these videos, but it looks like the woman as nothing to improve, she's perfect! Are they perfect Goddess?
No certainly not. They all have things they’re working on too. But they are not the focus here. The men are.
I really wish I was getting trained like that.
Hey Santosh, Where do you live? We have events in the US and Europe. We have workshops where clients do a lot of model work with coaching and we also have seminar events that give a big introduction to our coaching work for people to learn more. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@@TheFearlessMan I am based out of India. I am not sure the material that you teach will be that effective in India as the dating scene is not as advanced as in US and Europe. Nevertheless your material is just too good. This video took approaching girls to a whole new level. I regularly watch your videos. Love them. Keep up the good work.
@@MrBlackjack456 Nah bhai :) Sab Fearless principle fully relevant hai lol. There are some different expectations in India vs. the West but these principles are very basic to all man/woman interactions. Dating is different but men are still men and women are still women. Even if you are not talking to women on the street, when you do talk to them, you can make a stronger impression with these principles. Also, revealing and releasing is completely universal. You can say that this goes back to Vedanta, etc. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@@TheFearlessMan Wow man! I am impressed by your Hindi. I agree with you fully on this culturally we are different but basic principles remain the same. Can't wait to see you in India. We badly need great dating coaches like you. We are way behind in the dating game. cheers!
@@MrBlackjack456 Hope to see you in India too bhaisahab. Main Bhaarat se bahut pyaar karta hoon.
That guy was very uptight, looks like he’s gonna need a lot of work
There is value to these practices, but the setting is so unnatural. Plus, the participants are in a totally different state of mind than in the natural world.
The point is to keep this state of mind in any setting.
@@SeizedaJay lmao it's not a state of mind it's a state of being
I really think part of the issue is the first girl just didn’t like dude.
I like Aria's name. I couldn't resist but make tons of Mass Effect references then feeling like a dope because she never heard of Mass effect or even a played a video game before.
1 % increments all helps
Arya is kind of girl, you fall in love with even if you don't want to.
Fuck... She is so beautiful.. I wish I could meet her someday..
thats not fair ally was already in to him
how tall is alexandra?
Hi.😉
Aria's Instagram?
I think youtube is trying to turn me from an eater to a breeder.
Ok! This one's weird!
HOw To AppRoaCH a WomAn LiKe You WaNt to Make A LampShaDe OuT of HEr
Cringe to watch but i think it could be really useful….
Is she Russian?
I think they're both hungarian.
cringe af