I admit, I'm guilty - In the bar scene, I used to stand arms crossed VERY often. I implemented your "chest out, shoulders back, and chin up" the other night, and I couldn't believe the difference in just that small shift. I had 3 women keep giving me eye contact, and one even initiated conversation with me - and just kept hanging around after that. Thanks for the tips, coach. Much appreciated.
@@eljefe797 I gotta say I noticed a change. Thing is, you can't just take the posture, you gotta "feel" the posture. What I mean is, you have feel like you're a soldier/king/boss.....give that aura off with the posture & mentality working in union.
@marcusfrazier4923 I 100% agree with you that you have to feel like a soldier or king. You have to believe that about yourself in addition to the posture. The believe is super important
LISTEN TO THIS ADVICE MEN! This truly works. I tried it one time when a local band was playing. Just stood there with my drink at my side, shoulders back and square, and legs spread just a bit. I wanted to see what happened. I had over 10 girls come talk to me, that never happens! It was insane, my buddy was stunned lol
So true. I've been courting this girl i work with for a while now and made some mistakes of over-pursuing early on. Even though i knew she had interest, because she was the first to initiate it, instead of playing it cool i pushed the issue to the point where she rejected my offer for a date by her saying "I have a boyfriend." I had a feeling that was BS and just shrugged it off. Around that same time i had found Corey's channel and his book, "How To Be A 5% Man", and have since turned the situation around by using his principles, to the point where as of 2 days ago she's now chasing me. Whereas before and after i asked her out she was putting me through test after test. At this point, no matter what the outcome is, i am far more confident in myself and even use these principles on women i talk to as a bartender.
Unbelievable. Changing my posture sparked an entire social revolution in a single hour. Usually in a group I'm the guy who doesn't speak unless spoken to, and usually I'm only acknowledged only for approval since it's obvious to people that I'm not gonna socialize. But, changing my posture alone made people happy to see me, and made them very happy to engage in conversation about anything.
Ever since I started walking this way, I noticed almost everyone pull out their phones in order to avoid eye contact as we walk towards each other down the halls in school. I used to do the same shit but now I feel like a boss. Thanks Coach. Even the dudes that are taller than me tend to look down at the ground when we make eye contact.
I mean, he isn't wrong though. Plus, when you start using his principles and getting the positive results, it makes courting women more fun. I actually find the games and tests women give humorous now. That's how you have to be with it. Have a thick skin. Be confident in your masculinity, and just have fun with it. It makes the pay off when you find that one woman that much better and more satisfying. I wish i had learned these principles much earlier in life.
The truly amazing thing about adopting and using this type of body language in your day to day life is that the more you use it the more you will feel more confident. The mind will follow the body. Often called fake it till you make it.
Corey I finally purchased your book on my kindle for my android after months of watching your videos. You have turned me into a one-step-ahead-of-the-rest-alpha-female, i feel powerful and a magnet in my universe. Im currently reading your book on the train on the way to work and it enriches my soul. You are god sent and im sure thousands of others feel the same way. I started to feel insecure about my partner who is still friends with her ex, and I started to push her away, I then watched 4 of your videos and started getting my focus back on track. In 24 hours we did a dramatic turn around from arguing to being all lovey dovey. Theres just something in the words you say that is flawless and full proof. Your number 1 fan.
@bangbangdivine You are correct. However, it is intimidating only to weak and insecure women. I am a high achiever & only date high-achieving/super confident women. I want an equal. Not someone who I can walk all over. He goes after the type of women I have no interest in. I teach authenticity and being real, not being an actor or memorizing some silly routine. You MUST be who you are. I got no time for BS or trying to be something I am not. You should do what YOU feel most comfortable doing :)
While I agree what confident, dominant body language looks like, what's not discussed in this video is how to develop confidence internally, so manifesting it outwardly is natural and congruent. Otherwise, you're just faking it and it'll be hard to sustain that vibe & be authentic. For me, years of martial arts training was the best positive step I took to develop that. It's also something that takes effort to maintain. My instructor has said, "Confidence is like cash. If you don't continually *make* money to offset the money that you spend, you will run out."
Just tried your body language lesson out at a club and it worked. I was dancing with this girl a little bit and at the end the girl and her friend came up to me to say hi. We had a small conversation, but she had to go. I asked for her number, she said no so I said bye and walked away. But I had never had that hot and beautiful of a girl come up to me before. It was pretty cool.
Dude you are the shit. I just recently started viewing your stuff and I must say I like what you're saying. Real shit, in your fuckn face. I love it. Put so you can apply it immediately. Learned a lot with the body language episode. The girl I'm seeing now, failed all of the signs.... But, the bad thing is, is that I really don't care... Keep it up.
You're right. I've tried the tips he stated the very next night and a few women started aligning themselves with me. It's scary how powerful this Alpha body language is.
its pretty easy man, just google RAPID Women Seducer and watch the video on there. It is exactly what I used to get over my shyness mate. Now, a lot more women start noticing me and crave me more. It's actually reasonable if you look at it, since many girls that I personally know relate shyness with low self confidence.
I see zillions of guys trying to be alpha without actually being alpha. Humility is a very important quality most men lack. Take responsibility when you make mistakes.
Humility leads a potential mate to go into the friendzone. That goes without saying that humility should never be used. But in a romantic atmosphere, Humility does not work because he may be in a position where the woman will not be interested in his abilities because he may show that he has no skill on a subject. Humility in some form may be a sign that a person is weak, shy, uninteresting or boring when it comes to leading and making decision skills.
Cpaz Musik I'm talking about a balance of humility and displaying dominance. If someone makes a mistake and a guy bucks up, he's not going to make a good partner. If someone intentionally tries to take advantage of a situation and a guy bucks up, that's a keeper. If a guy can't admit his mistakes, toss him. If he takes a humble approach and admits when he's wrong, he's a keeper. You have to find a balance, compromise without being a pushover.
If being yourself works for you and you're achieving success with women you don't need this video. Start with one or two things, like not putting your hands up over your core or holding an item in front of you, and facing the person you're talking to instead of being sideways.
Your right Holly! IMO- Every man should read and live "If" by Rudyard Kipling. Some men are born Alpha, few become, but most men only think they're alpha.
Dude I literally chased her around the kiosk hahaha she was blushing the entire time! Unfortunately it didn't go much further, I moved like a week after :/
Flare Knux At least you made her spin! haha! Well done man. I was a party just yesterday actually, I used allot of Coreys Advice, you definitely get checked out, and girls start orbiting you. Unfortunately allot of them already had boyfriends, but we still got really well along. It is really a different world when taking Coreys advice to heart.
Your right ON coach! I'm an over 50s male and I have a slight double chin, not tall, but have been told I look much younger. Anyways, last weekend at a local mall, I practiced the Alpha stance, walk, paid attention to attraction signs and locked in the eye contact with as many girls as possible and guess what? I attracted two very young females one average looking but the second one was at least an 8. I was scared shit, but manned up and approached, proof looks don't matter to all girls.
wow..you can tell the original from the copy..started becoming immune to all this body language "experts" talk...but 4 mins i started to smile because you're different. 1000 likes!!! keep it up
Yango Fuent3s1 I post similar content. just starting out and at 199 subscribers. I want to empower men and change the world. years of research on male psychology- check out my content guys. peace
Didn't watch the video but just wanted to say this, there is nothing more important than having confidence in your self. That's it, go find it and watch your life change.
I've been trying this for few weeks now and I'm happy to report that it has been working in my favour when interacting with women. I used to rely on my size (6' 3", and a pretty solid 260 lbs.), but with mixed results. Since I've been doing what CW teaches in this video, people have told me that I seem even larger than I really am, seeming surpised when I told them (after they had asked) that I'm 'only' 6' 3"/ 260lbs. So thanks to CW for the sound advice! However, I hasten to add that while women find this attractive, there is a certain type of male who finds this intimidating and will send off an aggressive vibe when he encounters you (particularly after a few drinks). I have been cornered by small groups of smaller men who want to 'put me back in my place'. I am never one to initiate any type of physical confrontation but I will most certainly defend myself if necessary, even if I hate conflict. So I would add the caveat to CW's advice that one should just be mindful as to when and where you use these powerful techniques because while they are bound to impress women, they seem to provoke certain types of men.
This bit of information was well said. Go out and observe. Make sure your body language is approachable and confident. You'll see the difference and watch how the women you attract look at you. It's all in the eyes.
PoppinDom7 I post similar content. just starting out and at 199 subscribers. I want to empower men and change the world. years of research on male psychology- check out my content guys. peace
This man literally is explaining to me why I am good at attraction games women. I’m not super attractive or anything I just have the natural “game”. But when it comes to women I actually see myself with, I start “caring” too early and fuck it up. Never lose your man frame. It’s that simple
Men are more likely to be attracted to the woman herself. Women are typically attracted to things that indicate what the man can do for her quality of life. Tall, leader, powerful, confident....all those qualities give women protection and provision and raise her social status. It's why a successful man might date a beautiful and sweet pizza delivery girl, and even pizza delivery girls will often scoff at dating a fellow pizza delivery man! I have a position of perceived power. And young adult women that would likely not be attracted to me outside that setting or when I was their age show interest in me constantly. I do not take them up on it due to ethics and career considerations. I was at first flattered but now it is quite sad and predictable. It is as if I am merely my title and position and confident demeanor in those settings. You could take a turd and stick in a suit and put it in my office with a title on the door and it would be getting phone numbers and obvious flirtations.
HooVerb here’s what coach said to another commenter who said something similar to yours. “You found me right on time. What happened, happened and it couldn’t have happened any other way.”
I have a large scar on my left cheek that I've had since 3. It intimidates a lot of people but in reality I'm one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I used to walk around all hunch over and look down as to not intimidate people but now I stand tall and show off my battle scars from life.I have grown to love it because I stand out from everyone else and that's all that matters to me. Oh and it helps with the ladies, women love men with facial scars lol. Thank you, coach.
I just got out the car and decided to make a conscious effort to display this body language. It’s a night and day difference how people look at you. There was a girl that initiated smiled at me first, and I smiled back. It feels awesome!
Great advice, alot of dudes need to stop acting like a bitch. I find that by being confident and a alpha male you do get challenged alot so it can be tiring but its just goes with the territory.
This definitely gets you respect. But it can also make guys jealous of you and sneak diss you. I always keep a strong frame and people notice me when i walk in the room, (I don't even ask for the attention) but some guys who don't have balls and can't keep a strong frame will notice you and start hating on you from a distance with their facial expressions and body language. If you happen to get close to them, they freeze the fuck up.
Naturally exhibit this body language since i have the strong belief that things would always work out for me in the long run.What was missing was the smiling part,it led to most people being intimidated by me without.me having to do anything.This further led to me developing certain weak behaviours such as looking down and not making eye contact to assure people i was not someone whom they should be intimidated by.Thanks guys.Always remember to smile:)
What a great video. I’ve read the paperback book twice and have listened to the audio book several times. Slowly but surely its all sinking in. All this works.
Hey Corey! Just found your video after Maria Hurracaine on a lazy rainy afternoon that I´ve decided to spend it on learning more about Body Languages. Let me say I never imagine I was gonna find something related to attrack woman with your body language. LOVED THIS AND SHARING Hugs from Dominican Republic!
I do have an issue with having a perpetual scowl on my face. My father is the same way. We are not angry or violent people but everyone makes that mistake. Smiling is difficult for me. I really can't do it if its forced. I am an aspie and have trouble controlling my facial expressions. Some people think I have a scary look on my face when in reality, I am one of the most peaceful and easygoing guys you'll meet.
Yeah , I kinda understand what you are saying, I also seemed to have a bored or irritated expression as standard most of the time , even though I am not , just came to know recently and that too after a girl kinda got irritated with this ( among some other mannerisms) . I try to smile more also started wearing glasses that kind of help me soften that expression a lot .
Coach Corey you are spot on in this Video. One of the directors in a company I used to work for his body language is exactly as you described. His wife is super beautiful and many of the female colleagues in the company wanted a taste of him. Even close a female colleague in the company often told me how attractive and charismatic he is. So every man should walk with is head up, chest out and have the kind of self believe that you are a king or boss or military captain. Even if you feel you are worthless, fake it until you make it. It is all in the way you carry yourself. When you carry yourself like that, you get noticed. Also dress nice and clean
I laughed my ass off Coach! You're amazing! Thank you for every single video! I just bought your book and I am in the process of reading it for the first time! Keep it up
The actor James Caan told a funny story about body language when he was first starting out acting. He entered a club in all these different styles to see what the reaction was, and there were huge differences. Great acting practice and very funny, too. Cheers Corey and keep up the good work.
I have really enjoyed your video's, but this one is the best. I was able to see a lot of me in the way you say to walk and move. I have always been that guy who walks tall and, if you like, takes up more room than he needs, even if I am having a really bad day, and I can back you up on how big an impact with women this has. I suppose I don't know any different, I have always moved and carried myself that way. I am 51 now and I still feel I make an impact when I enter a room, I have to feel it, its in me. Sure, I know I am good looking and a great guy that any woman, or man, should want to know, but that is how I have lived my life. I'm not so sure someone can just take that on if they have never fealt that way about themselves before, but I would love to think it they could and it would be interesting to find out. Great work Corey, I bet your a riot to be out with.
This was the first video I saw, and the next day I put your techniques to use. The very next day this girl I work with who I think is really cute, but never thought she would go for me, asked me out for a drink. We got along pretty well and I ended up going back to her place and making out with her for awhile, she wasn't down for sex but I didn't push it. Gotta love results, the only bad thing is I think my conversation subjects could of been better, and now I'm anxious because I hope she wants to hang out again and this wasn't just a one night thing.I know I have to read your book 10, 20 times for maximum effect, but for now I'll watch your videos. I want to thank you Corey, your the man.
taylor dwyer you can't get hung up on her buddy. You can't be worried about her not getting back to you, because if you are it will show in your actions, and you'll come off needy.
"10 to 20 times for maximum effect..." You can read it once and have desired effects. -reading retention- most if this stuff is coaching for insecure dudes. I haven't read any of his tips that are ground breaking or different than the next "pick up artist."
I like that his take on it is not so cynical...just explaining human nature...its dog eat dog but he still has a positive and healthy outlook on life. He says in his book "every relationship is an opportunity for growth" I feel this applies to all human interaction period. Knowing the fundamental differences between the sexes and also paying attention to subtle body language cues means so much. He's not a PUA rather one who helps with human relations.
@@bigislander72 I completely agree. Corey explains things in such a natural way and really tells it how it is. It doesn't come off as manipulation or a game.
I always walk into the gym and carry my bag at my side and walk with purpose to where I need to be because Ive got my workout planned that's why women look at me at the gym. Thanks Mr. Wayne
My Favorite Corey Wayne Line: “It’s Her Fucking Loss” lmfao you’re the man coach! I recommend your material to so many family and friends of mine as well as other good self help books in my arsenal but yours is definitely the top on the list! 👍🏼
The more and more i get better at this stuff the more and more I realize how fucking great my teenage years could have been. Just thinking about so many things I was doing wrong that should have been common sense. Many opportunities I had totally blown. Haha grateful for the info now and all it has helped me improve. Life changing no doubt. Thanks coach you the man, pleasure studying your work.
That's silly. Men are direct and get to the point. Forget that PUA nonsense. Read/google my article titled: "3 Ways To Seduce Women" for the best methods to use
Here's something interesting about body language and which gender notices what. I'm a bodybuilder. When I'm massive from eating a caloric surplus to build mass I get lots acknowledgement from men. Lots of nods and light conversation like "hey bro, how much you bench, squat" whatever. Men seem to respond more to a huge dude than a ripped one because when I diet down ripped acknowledgment from men drops off and I start getting acknowledgement from women. Mostly in the form of eye contact and smiles. Rarely does a women ever initiate a conversation with me like men do but that's normal. It's always interesting for me see this phenomenon transpire over the 3 months it takes to drop the excess weight, which has been up to 60 pounds before. Women definitely don't go for massively huge guys but if you're really ripped, they notice that.,
I'm not a very big guy. In fact you could call me skinny. I don't get a lot of attention with my shirt on. But, when I take my shirt off, I have abs, because I don't have a lot of body fat. Suddenly, women pay attention. Women love abs. LOL If you want abs, either go on a keto or carnivore diet. I got rid of my beer gut and had abs within just a few weeks of eating nothing but meat.
I love your work so much. Bought your book and i'm about to read it for the 3rd time. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us. I'm really looking forward to book number 2
I walk into a place and at least a few people look. Until just now I thought it was just cuz I'm a big guy. But the thing about presence really hit home, and you can either shy away from it or own it
I do the chest holding beer thing. But then i dont get girls. But when i get drunk, my arms and confidence get different. And I am able to pick up girls. Thanks Coach!
@Coach Corey Wayne,you're talking about the beast within,this is how some people have perceived me to be as if I was gonna beat someone's ass,but that's just the way the military molded me,and I'm confident in my own self that I can go anywhere anytime with no problems,and talk to anyone and everyone.
I agree and it's rewarding to experience how most of what you mentioned comes naturally when you have self confidence. Very good tips and vid... I will check on ther others!!!
My whole life people who dont even know me ask if I'm in the military or law enforcement. You cant fake this stuff though, you really have to feel as though you aren't afraid or intimidated by anyone. Even if I get my ass kicked I'm not going out without a fight.
Hello Corey! I am really impressed with your teachings and would love to have the chance to translate your ebook into the Portuguese language so we could help a lot of people here in Brazil and other Portuguese speaking countries to improve their relationships ;)
My only question is, you need to learn how to fight, if you're looking like ur ready to fight. That's true inner confidence. If you aren't ready to fight and you're acting like you are then it's fake and not internal right?
Superb! Also just by watching you in this video you come across as a really sympathetic and positiv guy which even for men. So you know your stuff. Hence you have a new subscriber from Sweden today!
I remember my first experience with this ,I was in line at a concert by a group of women I started to talk them for a minute then after I talked them more women started staring at me for at least 5-10 seconds as soon I got into the concert people felt my strong alpha presence. as I walked through the crowd people cleared my path (you would think this was some movie type shit ) I was already in my shoulder width stance standing tall with my chin up . a hour went past women kept staring , smiling at me and giving me signals (this was from the alpha body language I was using ) then there were two hot big booty beautiful women that approached me asking can they stand next to me one was standing close to my crotch and one was on the side of me women was giving me signals from left to right but the only thing that was wrong was phone battery was on 15 percent and story goes on and on ...but the body language works it keeps criminals away from you and it helps in so many ways this was the best change I have ever made (the crazy part about it I just turned 18 when this happened now I'm 21 and still that man👏👏👍💪🙌)but what it boils down to is preselection ,direct approach,indirect approach and body language💯💯💯.
it's weird, i've always been shy (getting rid of that though) but i've always had a strong body language. i used to think girls just weren't into me. but then i found out many were, but found me intimidating. i think my shyness mixed in with appearing strong gave the illusion of arrogance. since i've started breaking out of my shell though and not caring as much about what people think, girls don't seem intimidated anymore.
Hey Corey, I just bought your audio book and so far so good. But I had to comment about the stance where mention that when you tend to stand side way a bit it’s because of being insecure. I need to tell you that as a peace officer, we are thought to be in that stance with every one as it minimizes the target area. We also always keeps our hands above the waistline which reduce the reaction time required to act in any situation. So do that with everyone I meet, do you think woman will think that I am intimidated by them?
how did I not watch this video before! I've literally watched some of your videos probably 5 times I can't believe I haven't seen this one yet. very helpful thank you for your advice and work mr. Wayne
Like INTERMITTENTLY using CAPSLOCK? I believe that it is not only intimidating to weak and insecure women but to the majority of them, irregardless of their self-image, confidence etc. but there's not a thing wrong with a difference of opinion. ALL the BEST coach.
Actually, most people will be intimidated and can not be fully present standing face to face with another human being without feeling weakness and discomfort in their core. This makes them turn to the side in submission. Men move for no one. We are the mountain. If others feel shame around you, that's their problem. Why? Because every once in a while you will encounter a super alpha female who will look at you face 2 face & she won't be intimidated; a man who's worthy will stare back & take her.
Little tip out there for getting good posture. Plank. Plank, plank, plank. 60 Seconds, then go again. At my dance class all the women comment on my good posture because I plank on a regular basis. Google bodybuilding planking for posture and watch some videos on how to plank properly. It will straighten out your back and align your spinal cord when done properly. Its a health AND confidence booster. I plank for 60 seconds and 3 sets every other day. It works! Try it!!!
Yep planks are great. I started exercising for health reasons specifically because of my spine, bad posture, and bad confidence. A year ago I started planking every other day. I started doing 30secX2 and now I can do 60secX5. I still don't have a nice body but it's much better than before. I'm in the ideal weight range for my height for the first time since I was a teen and I got some confidence back. Planks were the hardest thing when I started but now squats take that trophy.
That's why mothers are always telling their sons to stand up straight. They know how important it is for a man to display confident physiology.
Hahahah I hear thar every time I see my mother😂😂
I tell my daughters the same!
Yoooooo makes sense now
I admit, I'm guilty - In the bar scene, I used to stand arms crossed VERY often.
I implemented your "chest out, shoulders back, and chin up" the other night, and I couldn't believe the difference in just that small shift. I had 3 women keep giving me eye contact, and one even initiated conversation with me - and just kept hanging around after that.
Thanks for the tips, coach.
Much appreciated.
Damn so this stuff does work?
@@eljefe797 I gotta say I noticed a change. Thing is, you can't just take the posture, you gotta "feel" the posture. What I mean is, you have feel like you're a soldier/king/boss.....give that aura off with the posture & mentality working in union.
@marcusfrazier4923 I 100% agree with you that you have to feel like a soldier or king. You have to believe that about yourself in addition to the posture. The believe is super important
13 years later and this video is still 100% legit
LISTEN TO THIS ADVICE MEN! This truly works. I tried it one time when a local band was playing. Just stood there with my drink at my side, shoulders back and square, and legs spread just a bit. I wanted to see what happened. I had over 10 girls come talk to me, that never happens! It was insane, my buddy was stunned lol
What if im ugly (my mom says im handsome tho)
So true. I've been courting this girl i work with for a while now and made some mistakes of over-pursuing early on. Even though i knew she had interest, because she was the first to initiate it, instead of playing it cool i pushed the issue to the point where she rejected my offer for a date by her saying "I have a boyfriend." I had a feeling that was BS and just shrugged it off. Around that same time i had found Corey's channel and his book, "How To Be A 5% Man", and have since turned the situation around by using his principles, to the point where as of 2 days ago she's now chasing me. Whereas before and after i asked her out she was putting me through test after test. At this point, no matter what the outcome is, i am far more confident in myself and even use these principles on women i talk to as a bartender.
the 80's called they want their intro back. just fucking with you man love the advice.
hahahaha
He looks like a prisoner in this episode. LOL
That´s probably the best pulling technique !!!! HAHAHA !!
The bad boy haha
I was just about to sneeze when I read this. Laughed, lost the sneeze.
"Brother" Wayne
I disagree. I think he looks like a total bad ass.. and you're mad because girls don't want to have any part of you.
Unbelievable.
Changing my posture sparked an entire social revolution in a single hour. Usually in a group I'm the guy who doesn't speak unless spoken to, and usually I'm only acknowledged only for approval since it's obvious to people that I'm not gonna socialize. But, changing my posture alone made people happy to see me, and made them very happy to engage in conversation about anything.
Ever since I started walking this way, I noticed almost everyone pull out their phones in order to avoid eye contact as we walk towards each other down the halls in school. I used to do the same shit but now I feel like a boss. Thanks Coach. Even the dudes that are taller than me tend to look down at the ground when we make eye contact.
Alex Mendoza Thats what its all about ! Awesome!
Alex Mendoza phones are for beta male simps looking for an easy comfort zone. its pathetic
James Dean Agree!!
Corey”read my book 10-15 times”Wayne
Haha
15 or more
Works tho
I mean, he isn't wrong though. Plus, when you start using his principles and getting the positive results, it makes courting women more fun. I actually find the games and tests women give humorous now. That's how you have to be with it. Have a thick skin. Be confident in your masculinity, and just have fun with it. It makes the pay off when you find that one woman that much better and more satisfying. I wish i had learned these principles much earlier in life.
@@jhamilton1007good 👍
The truly amazing thing about adopting and using this type of body language in your day to day life is that the more you use it the more you will feel more confident. The mind will follow the body. Often called fake it till you make it.
Corey I finally purchased your book on my kindle for my android after months of watching your videos. You have turned me into a one-step-ahead-of-the-rest-alpha-female, i feel powerful and a magnet in my universe. Im currently reading your book on the train on the way to work and it enriches my soul. You are god sent and im sure thousands of others feel the same way. I started to feel insecure about my partner who is still friends with her ex, and I started to push her away, I then watched 4 of your videos and started getting my focus back on track. In 24 hours we did a dramatic turn around from arguing to being all lovey dovey. Theres just something in the words you say that is flawless and full proof. Your number 1 fan.
Awesome! Good job!
@bangbangdivine You are correct. However, it is intimidating only to weak and insecure women. I am a high achiever & only date high-achieving/super confident women. I want an equal. Not someone who I can walk all over. He goes after the type of women I have no interest in. I teach authenticity and being real, not being an actor or memorizing some silly routine. You MUST be who you are. I got no time for BS or trying to be something I am not. You should do what YOU feel most comfortable doing :)
While I agree what confident, dominant body language looks like, what's not discussed in this video is how to develop confidence internally, so manifesting it outwardly is natural and congruent. Otherwise, you're just faking it and it'll be hard to sustain that vibe & be authentic. For me, years of martial arts training was the best positive step I took to develop that. It's also something that takes effort to maintain. My instructor has said, "Confidence is like cash. If you don't continually *make* money to offset the money that you spend, you will run out."
Just tried your body language lesson out at a club and it worked. I was dancing with this girl a little bit and at the end the girl and her friend came up to me to say hi. We had a small conversation, but she had to go. I asked for her number, she said no so I said bye and walked away. But I had never had that hot and beautiful of a girl come up to me before. It was pretty cool.
vaibhaV Sharma you racist piece of shit
Leave them alone.You know,China and India have been having their issues for decades,lolol..
Hey buddy. How’s your game now?
Dude you are the shit. I just recently started viewing your stuff and I must say I like what you're saying. Real shit, in your fuckn face. I love it. Put so you can apply it immediately. Learned a lot with the body language episode. The girl I'm seeing now, failed all of the signs.... But, the bad thing is, is that I really don't care... Keep it up.
You're right.
I've tried the tips he stated the very next night and a few women started aligning themselves with me. It's scary how powerful this Alpha body language is.
Macus Frazier True that
+Mark Delaraga k
+Coach Corey Wayne Word ^^
its pretty easy man, just google RAPID Women Seducer and watch the video on there. It is exactly what I used to get over my shyness mate. Now, a lot more women start noticing me and crave me more. It's actually reasonable if you look at it, since many girls that I personally know relate shyness with low self confidence.
I see zillions of guys trying to be alpha without actually being alpha. Humility is a very important quality most men lack. Take responsibility when you make mistakes.
Humility leads a potential mate to go into the friendzone. That goes without saying that humility should never be used. But in a romantic atmosphere, Humility does not work because he may be in a position where the woman will not be interested in his abilities because he may show that he has no skill on a subject. Humility in some form may be a sign that a person is weak, shy, uninteresting or boring when it comes to leading and making decision skills.
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I'm talking about a balance of humility and displaying dominance. If someone makes a mistake and a guy bucks up, he's not going to make a good partner. If someone intentionally tries to take advantage of a situation and a guy bucks up, that's a keeper. If a guy can't admit his mistakes, toss him. If he takes a humble approach and admits when he's wrong, he's a keeper. You have to find a balance, compromise without being a pushover.
If being yourself works for you and you're achieving success with women you don't need this video. Start with one or two things, like not putting your hands up over your core or holding an item in front of you, and facing the person you're talking to instead of being sideways.
Your right Holly! IMO- Every man should read and live "If" by Rudyard Kipling. Some men are born Alpha, few become, but most men only think they're alpha.
Haha, got that right about "think they're alpha".
interesting! there's a girl at my work that turns when I talk to her, I'm going to try to make her do a circle today hahaha
Did it work? : D
Dude I literally chased her around the kiosk hahaha she was blushing the entire time! Unfortunately it didn't go much further, I moved like a week after :/
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At least you made her spin! haha! Well done man. I was a party just yesterday actually, I used allot of Coreys Advice, you definitely get checked out, and girls start orbiting you. Unfortunately allot of them already had boyfriends, but we still got really well along. It is really a different world when taking Coreys advice to heart.
For sure! And that extra attention makes you want to stand tall and even more juiced up haha
Then ask her to roll over lol jk
YUP! The caged beast ...
Very well put. Always be ready, but be cool at the same time.
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Your right ON coach! I'm an over 50s male and I have a slight double chin, not tall, but have been told I look much younger. Anyways, last weekend at a local mall, I practiced the Alpha stance, walk, paid attention to attraction signs and locked in the eye contact with as many girls as possible and guess what? I attracted two very young females one average looking but the second one was at least an 8. I was scared shit, but manned up and approached, proof looks don't matter to all girls.
I’m reading your book now Corey brother, I already see and feel a shift in my life and I’m just getting started
wow..you can tell the original from the copy..started becoming immune to all this body language "experts" talk...but 4 mins i started to smile because you're different. 1000 likes!!! keep it up
you just earned yourself a subscriber, god i should have found you earlier.
You found me right on time. What happened, happened and it couldn't have happened any other way.
Coach Corey Wayne ok.. morpheus
Yango Fuent3s1 I post similar content. just starting out and at 199 subscribers. I want to empower men and change the world. years of research on male psychology- check out my content guys. peace
Didn't watch the video but just wanted to say this, there is nothing more important than having confidence in your self. That's it, go find it and watch your life change.
Smiling and genuinely having a good feeling makes a man approachable.
I've been trying this for few weeks now and I'm happy to report that it has been working in my favour when interacting with women. I used to rely on my size (6' 3", and a pretty solid 260 lbs.), but with mixed results. Since I've been doing what CW teaches in this video, people have told me that I seem even larger than I really am, seeming surpised when I told them (after they had asked) that I'm 'only' 6' 3"/ 260lbs. So thanks to CW for the sound advice! However, I hasten to add that while women find this attractive, there is a certain type of male who finds this intimidating and will send off an aggressive vibe when he encounters you (particularly after a few drinks). I have been cornered by small groups of smaller men who want to 'put me back in my place'. I am never one to initiate any type of physical confrontation but I will most certainly defend myself if necessary, even if I hate conflict. So I would add the caveat to CW's advice that one should just be mindful as to when and where you use these powerful techniques because while they are bound to impress women, they seem to provoke certain types of men.
I’m reading 3% man the 2 nd time and following through the article that’s mentioned in the book now. Wish me best, gentlemen.
This bit of information was well said. Go out and observe. Make sure your body language is approachable and confident. You'll see the difference and watch how the women you attract look at you. It's all in the eyes.
PoppinDom7 I post similar content. just starting out and at 199 subscribers. I want to empower men and change the world. years of research on male psychology- check out my content guys. peace
This man literally is explaining to me why I am good at attraction games women. I’m not super attractive or anything I just have the natural “game”. But when it comes to women I actually see myself with, I start “caring” too early and fuck it up. Never lose your man frame. It’s that simple
Box women out of convos they love that shit
If you smirk at her
Men are more likely to be attracted to the woman herself. Women are typically attracted to things that indicate what the man can do for her quality of life. Tall, leader, powerful, confident....all those qualities give women protection and provision and raise her social status.
It's why a successful man might date a beautiful and sweet pizza delivery girl, and even pizza delivery girls will often scoff at dating a fellow pizza delivery man!
I have a position of perceived power. And young adult women that would likely not be attracted to me outside that setting or when I was their age show interest in me constantly. I do not take them up on it due to ethics and career considerations. I was at first flattered but now it is quite sad and predictable. It is as if I am merely my title and position and confident demeanor in those settings. You could take a turd and stick in a suit and put it in my office with a title on the door and it would be getting phone numbers and obvious flirtations.
true that.
MrShysterme So damn true. Your point can't be argued as anything but the reality of women.
MrShysterme fuck you
this is all shit ive had to learn painfully , i wish i wouldve seen this 5 years ago wtf. he laid out the ground rules so well
HooVerb here’s what coach said to another commenter who said something similar to yours. “You found me right on time. What happened, happened and it couldn’t have happened any other way.”
I have a large scar on my left cheek that I've had since 3. It intimidates a lot of people but in reality I'm one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I used to walk around all hunch over and look down as to not intimidate people but now I stand tall and show off my battle scars from life.I have grown to love it because I stand out from everyone else and that's all that matters to me. Oh and it helps with the ladies, women love men with facial scars lol. Thank you, coach.
Rugged good looks and standing tall
Lol...just walk in and pretend you're Wolverine.
“Sup fuckers!!”😂
Okay, but lose the scowl.
Corey your little smile really is like sunshine! Just started reading your book.. great writer too!
you are the man! always providing value thx corey
I just got out the car and decided to make a conscious effort to display this body language. It’s a night and day difference how people look at you. There was a girl that initiated smiled at me first, and I smiled back. It feels awesome!
Great advice, alot of dudes need to stop acting like a bitch.
I find that by being confident and a alpha male you do get challenged alot so it can be tiring but its just goes with the territory.
Stay outta my territory
Johnny was that a breaking bad reference I seee???😂
Highly useful video to develop attractive habits. How to be a 3% Man is an incredible book that every man should read 10-15 times. Thank you Corey.
I actually feel your energy through the video, it's a vibe of complete certainty, & clarity. I must say, it's Very motivating. Thanks Coach.
This definitely gets you respect. But it can also make guys jealous of you and sneak diss you. I always keep a strong frame and people notice me when i walk in the room, (I don't even ask for the attention) but some guys who don't have balls and can't keep a strong frame will notice you and start hating on you from a distance with their facial expressions and body language. If you happen to get close to them, they freeze the fuck up.
Facts
I get a lot of that at work...
Got girls saying that I walk as if I own the world..
Got to love the smirk on his face. He's cracked the code and knows it.
Naturally exhibit this body language since i have the strong belief that things would always work out for me in the long run.What was missing was the smiling part,it led to most people being intimidated by me without.me having to do anything.This further led to me developing certain weak behaviours such as looking down and not making eye contact to assure people i was not someone whom they should be intimidated by.Thanks guys.Always remember to smile:)
What a great video. I’ve read the paperback book twice and have listened to the audio book several times. Slowly but surely its all sinking in. All this works.
you have got the talent to put your ideas into words perfectly.
5:39 His beer is all over the place.
That's how chads drink beer tbh
Hey Corey! Just found your video after Maria Hurracaine on a lazy rainy afternoon that I´ve decided to spend it on learning more about Body Languages. Let me say I never imagine I was gonna find something related to attrack woman with your body language. LOVED THIS AND SHARING
Hugs from Dominican Republic!
I do have an issue with having a perpetual scowl on my face. My father is the same way. We are not angry or violent people but everyone makes that mistake. Smiling is difficult for me. I really can't do it if its forced. I am an aspie and have trouble controlling my facial expressions. Some people think I have a scary look on my face when in reality, I am one of the most peaceful and easygoing guys you'll meet.
When people tell you to cheer up you reply: "That's just my face"
Yeah , I kinda understand what you are saying, I also seemed to have a bored or irritated expression as standard most of the time , even though I am not , just came to know recently and that too after a girl kinda got irritated with this ( among some other mannerisms) . I try to smile more also started wearing glasses that kind of help me soften that expression a lot .
Coach Corey you are spot on in this Video. One of the directors in a company I used to work for his body language is exactly as you described. His wife is super beautiful and many of the female colleagues in the company wanted a taste of him. Even close a female colleague in the company often told me how attractive and charismatic he is. So every man should walk with is head up, chest out and have the kind of self believe that you are a king or boss or military captain. Even if you feel you are worthless, fake it until you make it. It is all in the way you carry yourself. When you carry yourself like that, you get noticed. Also dress nice and clean
That's why I say all the time, apply what I teach. It will work for you.
Super helpful video. Keep sharing! How many videos have you made to this point? I’m inspired by your steadfast commitment to serving our human fam
You know you've come to the right place when you thumbs up before you even watched it.
I didn't realize this until I became a Security officer, it's all about your projection of Control and giving respect to others as well.
I laughed my ass off Coach! You're amazing! Thank you for every single video! I just bought your book and I am in the process of reading it for the first time! Keep it up
LORD COREY WHERE ARE ALL THE MEN LIKE YOU ???
TANNYRAW I'm one, but taken.
Hmmmmm you might have a chance with me. Where so you live ?
TANNYRAW When you click on a youtube clip and see someone from another channel and its like Heeeeeyyy what u doin here ? :-) Dan the man
only 3% of the world population
right here.
true about body language, I used be a bouncer, we learned to read people, and the more you learn about it, the better you become at anything you do.
The actor James Caan told a funny story about body language when he was first starting out acting. He entered a club in all these different styles to see what the reaction was, and there were huge differences. Great acting practice and very funny, too. Cheers Corey and keep up the good work.
I’m really enjoying your book and these videos you mix into your book. This is great stuff you are so valuable to men
I have really enjoyed your video's, but this one is the best. I was able to see a lot of me in the way you say to walk and move. I have always been that guy who walks tall and, if you like, takes up more room than he needs, even if I am having a really bad day, and I can back you up on how big an impact with women this has. I suppose I don't know any different, I have always moved and carried myself that way. I am 51 now and I still feel I make an impact when I enter a room, I have to feel it, its in me.
Sure, I know I am good looking and a great guy that any woman, or man, should want to know, but that is how I have lived my life. I'm not so sure someone can just take that on if they have never fealt that way about themselves before, but I would love to think it they could and it would be interesting to find out. Great work Corey, I bet your a riot to be out with.
After applying this guys knowledge i can say he knows what his talking about thank you Corey
I love it. I always wondered why people would come up to me over everyone else that walks by.
You remind me of my super cool college professor, he gives advice like you do. You are definitely my go-to-guy.
Dude u are funny af and very informative at the same time
Jason stathom + Brett farve = Corey Wayne
Jason Statham. A learn to spell
omg haha yes!!
If they had a nerdy kid who learned how to kill it with women
This was the first video I saw, and the next day I put your techniques to use. The very next day this girl I work with who I think is really cute, but never thought she would go for me, asked me out for a drink. We got along pretty well and I ended up going back to her place and making out with her for awhile, she wasn't down for sex but I didn't push it. Gotta love results, the only bad thing is I think my conversation subjects could of been better, and now I'm anxious because I hope she wants to hang out again and this wasn't just a one night thing.I know I have to read your book 10, 20 times for maximum effect, but for now I'll watch your videos. I want to thank you Corey, your the man.
taylor dwyer you can't get hung up on her buddy. You can't be worried about her not getting back to you, because if you are it will show in your actions, and you'll come off needy.
"10 to 20 times for maximum effect..."
You can read it once and have desired effects.
-reading retention-
most if this stuff is coaching for insecure dudes. I haven't read any of his tips that are ground breaking or different than the next "pick up artist."
I like that his take on it is not so cynical...just explaining human nature...its dog eat dog but he still has a positive and healthy outlook on life.
He says in his book "every relationship is an opportunity for growth" I feel this applies to all human interaction period. Knowing the fundamental differences between the sexes and also paying attention to subtle body language cues means so much.
He's not a PUA rather one who helps with human relations.
@@bigislander72 I completely agree. Corey explains things in such a natural way and really tells it how it is. It doesn't come off as manipulation or a game.
I always walk into the gym and carry my bag at my side and walk with purpose to where I need to be because Ive got my workout planned that's why women look at me at the gym. Thanks Mr. Wayne
This video will apply forever
Awesome how you put this into words with nice visualization too. Great job!
My Favorite Corey Wayne Line: “It’s Her Fucking Loss” lmfao you’re the man coach! I recommend your material to so many family and friends of mine as well as other good self help books in my arsenal but yours is definitely the top on the list! 👍🏼
The more and more i get better at this stuff the more and more I realize how fucking great my teenage years could have been. Just thinking about so many things I was doing wrong that should have been common sense. Many opportunities I had totally blown. Haha grateful for the info now and all it has helped me improve. Life changing no doubt. Thanks coach you the man, pleasure studying your work.
That's silly. Men are direct and get to the point. Forget that PUA nonsense. Read/google my article titled: "3 Ways To Seduce Women" for the best methods to use
Coach Corey Wayne hii coach how can we hide sad emotion during conversation?
Here's something interesting about body language and which gender notices what. I'm a bodybuilder. When I'm massive from eating a caloric surplus to build mass I get lots acknowledgement from men. Lots of nods and light conversation like "hey bro, how much you bench, squat" whatever. Men seem to respond more to a huge dude than a ripped one because when I diet down ripped acknowledgment from men drops off and I start getting acknowledgement from women. Mostly in the form of eye contact and smiles. Rarely does a women ever initiate a conversation with me like men do but that's normal. It's always interesting for me see this phenomenon transpire over the 3 months it takes to drop the excess weight, which has been up to 60 pounds before. Women definitely don't go for massively huge guys but if you're really ripped, they notice that.,
Bigger thicker girls like big stocky Buffy men as well
How big are you when lean?
Do you still bodybuild WHat is your diet for getting shredded
I'm not a very big guy. In fact you could call me skinny. I don't get a lot of attention with my shirt on. But, when I take my shirt off, I have abs, because I don't have a lot of body fat. Suddenly, women pay attention. Women love abs. LOL
If you want abs, either go on a keto or carnivore diet. I got rid of my beer gut and had abs within just a few weeks of eating nothing but meat.
Been a while since I've looked at this video and Corey's still right! sometimes I even get people buying me drinks, lol.
I love your work so much. Bought your book and i'm about to read it for the 3rd time. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us. I'm really looking forward to book number 2
Superb video, keep up the great work man!
I walk into a place and at least a few people look. Until just now I thought it was just cuz I'm a big guy. But the thing about presence really hit home, and you can either shy away from it or own it
I do the chest holding beer thing. But then i dont get girls.
But when i get drunk, my arms and confidence get different. And I am able to pick up girls. Thanks Coach!
Really good I now understand why I have been able to attract women so easily that’s just how I am naturally truly 😊
@Coach Corey Wayne,you're talking about the beast within,this is how some people have perceived me to be as if I was gonna beat someone's ass,but that's just the way the military molded me,and I'm confident in my own self that I can go anywhere anytime with no problems,and talk to anyone and everyone.
Your amazing bro, I’m watching all your videos.
Bought the book as well
Even I can’t help but fall in love with Corey Wayne in this video.
This is Gabriel from São Paulo, Brazil, and I would like to say this is awesome!!! My best regards man!!!
I agree and it's rewarding to experience how most of what you mentioned comes naturally when you have self confidence. Very good tips and vid... I will check on ther others!!!
Great points! Don't listen to the haters. They don't have anything better to do.
My whole life people who dont even know me ask if I'm in the military or law enforcement. You cant fake this stuff though, you really have to feel as though you aren't afraid or intimidated by anyone. Even if I get my ass kicked I'm not going out without a fight.
Way to go! Yeah you pretty much summed it up Corey, it's all in the attitude, like attracts like.
Hello Corey! I am really impressed with your teachings and would love to have the chance to translate your ebook into the Portuguese language so we could help a lot of people here in Brazil and other Portuguese speaking countries to improve their relationships ;)
My only question is, you need to learn how to fight, if you're looking like ur ready to fight. That's true inner confidence. If you aren't ready to fight and you're acting like you are then it's fake and not internal right?
Nah its enough to convey that you'll walk circles around another guy in a verbal joust
Superb! Also just by watching you in this video you come across as a really sympathetic and positiv guy which even for men. So you know your stuff. Hence you have a new subscriber from Sweden today!
Thanks bro, very helpful info we can all use to improve as men!
I remember my first experience with this ,I was in line at a concert by a group of women I started to talk them for a minute then after I talked them more women started staring at me for at least 5-10 seconds as soon I got into the concert people felt my strong alpha presence. as I walked through the crowd people cleared my path (you would think this was some movie type shit ) I was already in my shoulder width stance standing tall with my chin up . a hour went past women kept staring , smiling at me and giving me signals (this was from the alpha body language I was using ) then there were two hot big booty beautiful women that approached me asking can they stand next to me one was standing close to my crotch and one was on the side of me women was giving me signals from left to right but the only thing that was wrong was phone battery was on 15 percent and story goes on and on ...but the body language works it keeps criminals away from you and it helps in so many ways this was the best change I have ever made (the crazy part about it I just turned 18 when this happened now I'm 21 and still that man👏👏👍💪🙌)but what it boils down to is preselection ,direct approach,indirect approach and body language💯💯💯.
I had similar experiences with people moving out of my way (on train station platforms ) and even inside the train station
it's weird, i've always been shy (getting rid of that though) but i've always had a strong body language. i used to think girls just weren't into me. but then i found out many were, but found me intimidating. i think my shyness mixed in with appearing strong gave the illusion of arrogance. since i've started breaking out of my shell though and not caring as much about what people think, girls don't seem intimidated anymore.
I felt embarrassed and like a fool grinning to the girl I like when asking her out the other day. Well, lesson learned. Thanks Cory.
Hey Corey, I just bought your audio book and so far so good. But I had to comment about the stance where mention that when you tend to stand side way a bit it’s because of being insecure. I need to tell you that as a peace officer, we are thought to be in that stance with every one as it minimizes the target area. We also always keeps our hands above the waistline which reduce the reaction time required to act in any situation. So do that with everyone I meet, do you think woman will think that I am intimidated by them?
how did I not watch this video before! I've literally watched some of your videos probably 5 times I can't believe I haven't seen this one yet. very helpful thank you for your advice and work mr. Wayne
thanks for the clip man. constructive critics:have your whole body in frame
thanks man that was really helpful, the second you started swearing i fucking smashed that subscribe button
Like INTERMITTENTLY using CAPSLOCK? I believe that it is not only intimidating to weak and insecure women but to the majority of them, irregardless of their self-image, confidence etc. but there's not a thing wrong with a difference of opinion. ALL the BEST coach.
Hey bro, I have done this and it's true you're right. I just didn't put it into the consciousness. Thanks for putting it into words.
Actually, most people will be intimidated and can not be fully present standing face to face with another human being without feeling weakness and discomfort in their core. This makes them turn to the side in submission. Men move for no one. We are the mountain. If others feel shame around you, that's their problem. Why? Because every once in a while you will encounter a super alpha female who will look at you face 2 face & she won't be intimidated; a man who's worthy will stare back & take her.
4:40 I’m going to leave this here to always be able to go back to it as a fresh reminder
Little tip out there for getting good posture. Plank.
Plank, plank, plank. 60 Seconds, then go again. At my dance class all the women comment on my good posture because I plank on a regular basis. Google bodybuilding planking for posture and watch some videos on how to plank properly. It will straighten out your back and align your spinal cord when done properly.
Its a health AND confidence booster. I plank for 60 seconds and 3 sets every other day. It works! Try it!!!
Yep planks are great. I started exercising for health reasons specifically because of my spine, bad posture, and bad confidence. A year ago I started planking every other day. I started doing 30secX2 and now I can do 60secX5. I still don't have a nice body but it's much better than before. I'm in the ideal weight range for my height for the first time since I was a teen and I got some confidence back. Planks were the hardest thing when I started but now squats take that trophy.