It’s because all the responsibility and forgiveness is put on you. Whether they deserve it or not. It’s not like they are going to take the initiative.
Solve all...grab their phone and look thru it..why not..if you're in an aquanticeship w/one...just do it..then leave .there is zero debating of what someone did..leave
that's exactly what happened to me. had a long term relationship when I was 19 for 3 years. 15 years later she's hitting me up with notes on my car window and within a week was pushing waayy too hard and fast for a meet up. They completely love bombed me despite the fact that she was married with a new born. I was like, "mmm no thanks. It'd be too awkward for me to meet your husband and the kid you two now have. (I just assumed that she told him about me) but I'm glad we can get a little closure and respect each other as adults without the bad blood" and the love bombs were dropped. Convinced me that her marriage was on the rocks. She doesn't love her husband anymore and they practically live in separate corners of the house. etc.. Put me on a pedestal. Practically forced me into a habitual texting routine despite telling her multiple times that I don't do text messaging. Not even with my friends. You want to speak to me you call me. I'm not spending all day on a conversation that never ends.
I built a sophisticated and adaptive model to predict human behavior to include narcissism. It is extremely accurate with exception of the space that occupies the vulnerable/vulnerable (inward/inward) narcissism spectrum. A user can plug-in almost any situation, select a time frame, and it will predict the outcome. Your friendly neighborhood narc can have any combination of inward/inward, inward/outward, outward/inward, and outward/outward which was problematic for my model; and, also why people resonate with some videos and others not at all. Anyway, I woke up to this on my feed and realized the missing component. Not closure specifically, but the underlying loop that prevents closure and forces the phenomenon you are experiencing. I acknowledge this comment sounds crazy, but the Universe is crazy ... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO.
This exactly happened with me. I am still recovering from trauma bond . And that person is still not letting me go even after "clear closure communication" from my side. Neither that person letting me recover and forget the things. I don't know how to get rid. I have blocked the person.
It’s because all the responsibility and forgiveness is put on you. Whether they deserve it or not. It’s not like they are going to take the initiative.
If they abuse you they do not love you.
Give yourself all the closure you need... this relationship is complete!
The only closure is what you give to yourself.
They caused all the damage thats why they canť give you closure cause you will find out its all them and not you😊.
Solve all...grab their phone and look thru it..why not..if you're in an aquanticeship w/one...just do it..then leave .there is zero debating of what someone did..leave
Spot on. We must close the relationship and move on. The narcissist lives a parasitic lifestyle and it’s not in their interest to cut off their hosts.
that's exactly what happened to me. had a long term relationship when I was 19 for 3 years. 15 years later she's hitting me up with notes on my car window and within a week was pushing waayy too hard and fast for a meet up. They completely love bombed me despite the fact that she was married with a new born.
I was like, "mmm no thanks. It'd be too awkward for me to meet your husband and the kid you two now have. (I just assumed that she told him about me) but I'm glad we can get a little closure and respect each other as adults without the bad blood"
and the love bombs were dropped. Convinced me that her marriage was on the rocks. She doesn't love her husband anymore and they practically live in separate corners of the house. etc.. Put me on a pedestal. Practically forced me into a habitual texting routine despite telling her multiple times that I don't do text messaging. Not even with my friends. You want to speak to me you call me. I'm not spending all day on a conversation that never ends.
Don't talk to her. You're risking an insane husband freaking out on you. Do not be deceived: she will lie about you to him. Keep away, man.
@@redpilljesus no worries. I haven't spoken to her in about 5 years now
Forward and moving way past it. 🙏
Make a closure deep within yourself.
The narcissist doesn't even know the meaning of ''rest in peace''.
Wise words. I know this from my personal experience with a likely NPD sufferer.
You're absolutely right 👍❤💐🌺⚘️💯
Yes mam Ms R...the second is that they have human traits..
No truer words ever spoken.
I built a sophisticated and adaptive model to predict human behavior to include narcissism. It is extremely accurate with exception of the space that occupies the vulnerable/vulnerable (inward/inward) narcissism spectrum. A user can plug-in almost any situation, select a time frame, and it will predict the outcome. Your friendly neighborhood narc can have any combination of inward/inward, inward/outward, outward/inward, and outward/outward which was problematic for my model; and, also why people resonate with some videos and others not at all.
Anyway, I woke up to this on my feed and realized the missing component. Not closure specifically, but the underlying loop that prevents closure and forces the phenomenon you are experiencing. I acknowledge this comment sounds crazy, but the Universe is crazy ... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO.
This exactly happened with me. I am still recovering from trauma bond . And that person is still not letting me go even after "clear closure communication" from my side. Neither that person letting me recover and forget the things. I don't know how to get rid. I have blocked the person.
all leaves 🍃 & no fruit
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