I took myself out today on a date. I bought myself a movie ticket and traveled the way that I wanted to. It felt good to be able to treat myself to this day. I forgot how important it is to take yourself out on a date and treat you how you wanted to be treated.
I’ve been waiting for a new post so I can write a comment that will be seen, because I wanted to say that THIS SHIT WORKS! Just do exactly what Dylan says, watch as many videos as you need to, keep affirming to yourself, you can be obsessed with this process as long as you’re following the instructions, and being the CHANGE. No matter how much you doubt yourself, no matter how many times you cry, no matter how many times you feel defeated and wake up with that sinking heart, just keep on believing, keep on persisting, keep practicing it and you will see results. I know it can feel impossible, but ignore it, impossible means I AM POSSIBLE. Go work out, do your breathwork, have patience, ignore reality, focus on YOU and everything you ever dreamed of will come ❤ if I can do it, you can too
Ahhh this is something I need to hear, my heart sinks here and there but I can turn it around ✨ I don’t have to do anything external to force an outcome bc everything works out in my favor and I get everything I want 🤷🏽♀️
This is what I needed Dylan, my boyfriend and I separated just recently and it was mainly bc of my insecurities and lack of attention from him but if we r being honest I was not taking care of myself which made me lash out. He also just wasn't taking accountability and I knew I deserved better. I do want to apologize for my actions as well but not yet and I want to do it out of a place from peace and not desperation like "omg pls take me back." while it's still fresh, im not planning to contact him anytime soon since he wanted space so right now I am waking up everyday choosing to not identify as someone who is needy, worthless, and has no self worth. Though there are moments where I miss him and want him back, I know in the end we will find our way back to each other and it'll be better. But for now, I am choosing to work on myself :)
this was basically my situation about 4 weeks ago. now he’s been back since around 5 days ago apologizing to ME and wants to work on us and give us another shot and treating me better than ever. just persisting till commitment. he said i love you to me last night tho🫣. j do what dylan teaches and u will get it! u seem to be going in the right direction bc that’s v much how i felt! once u get into the knowing and ur beliefs shift, everything unfolds effortlessly!
No Dylan not anymore. I am no longer obsessed with him,, or anyone. I am no longer waiting. I cried to this. I will be the change I want to see. I will give myself what I want.
This video made me feel like my dad was talking to me because he always gave me the best advice on how a man should treat me from a very young age. Thank you for this reminder Dylan. ❤
This content is so important on so many levels regardless someone intent to manifest or not. Dylan is teaching us how to be in a healthy relationship and most importantly having healthy self concept.
May sound silly but i take the butterfly 🦋 as a sign i will be with my sp. Started when i heard of the quote about not chasing butterflies but making the garden beautiful which would attract the butterflies.
I went through a breakup 3 months ago and while the first month felt like hell, watching this video reminds me that NOPE, I'm not going to put my life on hold for this person nor affirm for them. If anything, I should be the person he's affirming for (because he hurt me), not the other way around. But it takes a lot of idngaf energy that comes after or during processing grief.
I already listened to this 4 times . I will continue to listen to as much as I need it . I did tear up but I do need to remember how f***ing amazing I am . Thank you for the tough love .
This work takes time, after two years of listening to Dylan, wondering, practising etc, finally i am getting it. My take is, you don't have to be 100% disciplined or beat yourself up when you skip working out or eat a shit meal once or twice, it's all okay, the most important thing is, ask yourself what is your intent, if your intent is to move on with life and prioritise yourself, you will get there some day, this work is hard and which is why this is not meant for anyone who doesn't want to face defeat and put in hard work, but when you succeed, you know you are a badass and nothing can stop you.
This has been on repeat the last 12 hours. No lie. Going thru it. Such high highs and then poof, it - the manifestations are gone. I’m practicing zero attachment and trusting that whatever I’m making space for is in alignment with greatness!! Endings still suck. What part of me still feels it’s a lose?
When I was in high school, I remember constantly feeling like my BF or SO at the time would dump me. I swore something was wrong with me because who wants to constantly feel like they are about to be dumped? It took me until I was 27 to learn that it was because I didn’t feel good enough. So thankful that I have found your content because I no longer think this way and I know that I am worthy of love! Thank you Dylan for helping me realize I could heal my past traumas and be the woman/human I want to be in the present/future! ❤
I’m done with nonsense and closed those doors respectfully today! I’m working on loving myself and revaluing myself. I wasn’t shown how to love, value or respect myself but I’m learning. Ty Dylan! Sending much love to you ❤️❤️
I didn’t even ask once I just pulled back once I saw the pattern … I love myself too much for someone to treat me Like a option.I don’t pay the 3d any attention lol😂
You don’t know what you do for me. I think it’s your delivery and male perspective that allows it to sink in for me. You’re sassy, but firm. And I live for it. ❤❤❤
First thing, where can I get that sweatshirt?!? 😍I appreciate an open, honest, straightforward kind of person. I listen to you quite a bit, at night, most mornings and sometimes throughout the day. I have a lot to "undo" let's just say and you're helping in that process. Thank you for reminding me who the f*ck I am when I forget and if I fall, thank you for helping me get back up. I know one day, I will have all this automatically in my head, until then, thank you for the reminders and teachings
Sometimes I need these proper reads! I woke up dreaming about someone I’m on no contact with and i just prayed saying this is just my feeling right now I’m not sure why… then i see your video and it’s like yeah. This is why we no contact
6:40 Ugh, Dylan! I LOVE the way you phrase this self love/self preservation statement. I want it to stick in my head. Soooo much mental energy wasted on the shitty way other people behave in different areas of life. Thank you for showing us what a Baddie is! 💚🥰
I’ve watched this a few times, so true and it’s really helped me respond appropriately to a really uncomfortable situation. I love this. And I love Dylan’s direct, sincere, honest, and compassionate approach. Thank you Dylan for teaching us how we need to view ourselves and treat ourselves to have what we deserve.
I have been ignroring bullshit since i was 14 , i never dated because the dating pool was a mess now am 23 and still single... its sucks as hell but better safe than sorry
@@itsme2434 You'll find him irrespective of where you are in the physical realm. You manifest 'what you are', the idea is to become the one that has your affluent dream man
I love this message, and I have been feeling this in my core too recently.. so the timing is bang on. The thing I struggle with is- how do I do this? I am listening to affirmations track, and what else? I just find myself stuck and in a negative spiral at times, and I just want to feel good
Love and Blessings babe❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 YOU have been a huge catalysts for major transformations in my life, THANK YOU SO MUCH❤. May you and everyone else get all the success your heart desires.
and if your SP is someone who abused you, which would have been a series of intentional choices over and over to cause you pain, and if they have continued to negate any responsibility for their actions, and if you continue to wanna win them over, then please you need to watch this video again and again until you see what you are doing to yourself 🙏
This is good to think of when that saying or law goes that what you focus on grows. So taking focus off $@!+ and focus on how we feel as an ongoing “state” of deserved-ness is the main attraction 🎉
Hey Dylan Can you please make a go-to video for people suffering from retroactive jealousy and can’t stop comparing themselves with their partner’s ex?
I hope someone sees this comment and can take something away from it. I’ve been listening to Dylan’s “I am the best” nightly affirmations for probably a month now, if not very close. Initially, when I first started listening to that tape, my confidence and security within myself SKYROCKETED. Everyday, I would move about my day calm, cool, confident, and collected. Not much would get me off center. Then, I hit a period last week for like 4 days in a row where I felt like complete SHIT. All day, everyday. I had no idea what I was doing wrong. This was specifically in relation to the woman whom I’m in a relationship with. A bunch of my old insecurities and old ways of operating started coming to the surface again and it felt super uncomfortable as I felt secure the whole damn month of Sept lol. I just learned that there’s a such thing as a “purging period” basically where your old self and new self are fighting against each other. Please, if this happens to you too, keep persisting as Dylan says. Bro I’ve cried like 3 times within the last 4 days lmao I’m not a crier. I feel so much better now though. Thank you Dylan, always ❤
I’ve been listening to limitless love currently in a relationship. One minute I feel confident and then the next I feel a pit in my stomach and on the verge of anxiety attack. It definitely feels like two different self concepts fighting
@@emilyg145 it certainly is! Especially if you’ve been so used to living in a particular state. Those feel good moments will become your primary state of being after going through the storm a bit. Good luck on your journey and best of luck in your relationship as well :)
Anyone who just kept wondering that the clouds in the background are real?😅.....for 1st 5 mins I didn't listen to what dylan is saying......but I'm to watch this vdo again.
I’veay downloadeday thisay anday I amay playing it on loop with Accessibility > Background sounds to listen to whilst I’m sleep. This is like a subconscious hoover going into all the nooks and crannies in my subconscious mind.
Hi Dylan, My boyfriend is so loving and caring towards me but what approach should I take when I’m feeling retroactive jealousy just because IN HIS PAST he called a girl “pretty” to his friend . Idk why I just feel so butthurt over it.
You know it took me an incredibly long time to heal from the relationship I had! Long story short, as we change, we see the versions of who we were & can’t even relate to getting that person anymore. Those who want to come back have no choice but to also change as we overcame limiting beliefs we weren’t aware of before, moved on and won’t accept the behaviors we did before we can’t even relate to the version of us that accepted those behaviors. People will change they have no choice as they too do love you but must conform to have you. Start steering believe in yourselves and trust and know it always works out ALWAYS! @dylanjames Thank You you are such a blessing you helped me so much and I am so grateful you are helping humanity become their very best version of themselves ❤
I took myself out today on a date. I bought myself a movie ticket and traveled the way that I wanted to. It felt good to be able to treat myself to this day. I forgot how important it is to take yourself out on a date and treat you how you wanted to be treated.
Yes! I would honestly take myself out to get a manicure and enjoy the movies by myself.❤
When you see videos of little boys giving notes, presents and flowers to their crush, you realise guys know how they should behave.
Exactly they know treat people as a prize.
I’ve been waiting for a new post so I can write a comment that will be seen, because I wanted to say that THIS SHIT WORKS!
Just do exactly what Dylan says, watch as many videos as you need to, keep affirming to yourself, you can be obsessed with this process as long as you’re following the instructions, and being the CHANGE. No matter how much you doubt yourself, no matter how many times you cry, no matter how many times you feel defeated and wake up with that sinking heart, just keep on believing, keep on persisting, keep practicing it and you will see results. I know it can feel impossible, but ignore it, impossible means I AM POSSIBLE. Go work out, do your breathwork, have patience, ignore reality, focus on YOU and everything you ever dreamed of will come ❤ if I can do it, you can too
Thank you for this comment 🙏 WE WILL NOT GIVE UP. We all owe ourselves that.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ahhh this is something I need to hear, my heart sinks here and there but I can turn it around ✨ I don’t have to do anything external to force an outcome bc everything works out in my favor and I get everything I want 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you for this ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
“Sucks for you ‘cause I’m pretty f*cking amazing…” ❤
It really takes self love. Everything he’s saying won’t click until you love yourself and have respect for yourself.
This is that “I’m not mad I’m just disappointed” energy 😅
This is what I needed Dylan, my boyfriend and I separated just recently and it was mainly bc of my insecurities and lack of attention from him but if we r being honest I was not taking care of myself which made me lash out. He also just wasn't taking accountability and I knew I deserved better. I do want to apologize for my actions as well but not yet and I want to do it out of a place from peace and not desperation like "omg pls take me back." while it's still fresh, im not planning to contact him anytime soon since he wanted space so right now I am waking up everyday choosing to not identify as someone who is needy, worthless, and has no self worth. Though there are moments where I miss him and want him back, I know in the end we will find our way back to each other and it'll be better. But for now, I am choosing to work on myself :)
this was basically my situation about 4 weeks ago. now he’s been back since around 5 days ago apologizing to ME and wants to work on us and give us another shot and treating me better than ever. just persisting till commitment. he said i love you to me last night tho🫣. j do what dylan teaches and u will get it! u seem to be going in the right direction bc that’s v much how i felt! once u get into the knowing and ur beliefs shift, everything unfolds effortlessly!
You guys will find your way back to each other. Keep persisting
I’m in the same exact boat as you. I’m so exciting to love on myself. I have no doubt we’ll be back and better than ever. It’s done ❤
what happened you guys okay ?
Are we all going through the exact same thing?
No Dylan not anymore. I am no longer obsessed with him,, or anyone. I am no longer waiting. I cried to this. I will be the change I want to see. I will give myself what I want.
This video made me feel like my dad was talking to me because he always gave me the best advice on how a man should treat me from a very young age. Thank you for this reminder Dylan. ❤
amazing dad
No walking on eggshells for me. Already did that in my marriage. Divorce was my second chance to be me and value myself.
This content is so important on so many levels regardless someone intent to manifest or not. Dylan is teaching us how to be in a healthy relationship and most importantly having healthy self concept.
May sound silly but i take the butterfly 🦋 as a sign i will be with my sp. Started when i heard of the quote about not chasing butterflies but making the garden beautiful which would attract the butterflies.
I went through a breakup 3 months ago and while the first month felt like hell, watching this video reminds me that NOPE, I'm not going to put my life on hold for this person nor affirm for them. If anything, I should be the person he's affirming for (because he hurt me), not the other way around. But it takes a lot of idngaf energy that comes after or during processing grief.
This is why I will forever fuck with you Dylan ❤
I already listened to this 4 times . I will continue to listen to as much as I need it . I did tear up but I do need to remember how f***ing amazing I am . Thank you for the tough love .
This work takes time, after two years of listening to Dylan, wondering, practising etc, finally i am getting it. My take is, you don't have to be 100% disciplined or beat yourself up when you skip working out or eat a shit meal once or twice, it's all okay, the most important thing is, ask yourself what is your intent, if your intent is to move on with life and prioritise yourself, you will get there some day, this work is hard and which is why this is not meant for anyone who doesn't want to face defeat and put in hard work, but when you succeed, you know you are a badass and nothing can stop you.
This has been on repeat the last 12 hours. No lie.
Going thru it. Such high highs and then poof, it - the manifestations are gone. I’m practicing zero attachment and trusting that whatever I’m making space for is in alignment with greatness!!
Endings still suck. What part of me still feels it’s a lose?
11:32 "and if you can't do that, SUCKS FOR YOU, BECAUSE I'M PRETTY FUCKING AMAZING... next question" mic drop. love your directness in this one Dylan.
It feels so good seeing you regularly pop up on my feed again🎉❤ 😊
When I was in high school, I remember constantly feeling like my BF or SO at the time would dump me. I swore something was wrong with me because who wants to constantly feel like they are about to be dumped? It took me until I was 27 to learn that it was because I didn’t feel good enough. So thankful that I have found your content because I no longer think this way and I know that I am worthy of love! Thank you Dylan for helping me realize I could heal my past traumas and be the woman/human I want to be in the present/future! ❤
I’m done with nonsense and closed those doors respectfully today! I’m working on loving myself and revaluing myself. I wasn’t shown how to love, value or respect myself but I’m learning. Ty Dylan! Sending much love to you ❤️❤️
I didn’t even ask once I just pulled back once I saw the pattern … I love myself too much for someone to treat me Like a option.I don’t pay the 3d any attention lol😂
Dylan this triggered the fuck out of me and made me so angry at my SP for giving me such bull! But it can only be a good thing right
Yesterday's video is I believe my turning point❤ you've changed my life, Dylan!
Perfect timing! I had just messaged him asking why he hadn't 😅 Thank you for this .
So blessed to have found you Daddy Dylan! Thank you for constantly reminding us of our worth and value! 💕✨
You don’t know what you do for me. I think it’s your delivery and male perspective that allows it to sink in for me. You’re sassy, but firm. And I live for it. ❤❤❤
First thing, where can I get that sweatshirt?!? 😍I appreciate an open, honest, straightforward kind of person. I listen to you quite a bit, at night, most mornings and sometimes throughout the day. I have a lot to "undo" let's just say and you're helping in that process. Thank you for reminding me who the f*ck I am when I forget and if I fall, thank you for helping me get back up. I know one day, I will have all this automatically in my head, until then, thank you for the reminders and teachings
Coming back with a vengeance, Dylan….message after message!! Content overload. I’m loving it!! I missed it! Thank you.
Thank you for all the wonderful content, Dylan. Have a beautiful weekend ahead!
Sometimes I need these proper reads! I woke up dreaming about someone I’m on no contact with and i just prayed saying this is just my feeling right now I’m not sure why… then i see your video and it’s like yeah. This is why we no contact
Your talks always help me SO much by helping me remember who I am. Thank you ❤
6:40 Ugh, Dylan! I LOVE the way you phrase this self love/self preservation statement. I want it to stick in my head. Soooo much mental energy wasted on the shitty way other people behave in different areas of life. Thank you for showing us what a Baddie is! 💚🥰
You are a breath of fresh air Dylan 💕
I’ve watched this a few times, so true and it’s really helped me respond appropriately to a really uncomfortable situation. I love this. And I love Dylan’s direct, sincere, honest, and compassionate approach. Thank you Dylan for teaching us how we need to view ourselves and treat ourselves to have what we deserve.
You are so honest and true. Bless you!❤
I have been ignroring bullshit since i was 14 , i never dated because the dating pool was a mess now am 23 and still single... its sucks as hell but better safe than sorry
@@kobra4422 am from north africa and i will be moving to europe soon omg girl i was thinking i might attract my affluent dream men
@@itsme2434 You'll find him irrespective of where you are in the physical realm. You manifest 'what you are', the idea is to become the one that has your affluent dream man
Same 25 live your life tbh if it happens then okay
this was so powerful🙏
Out of all the awesomely empowering videos Dylan has made, this is by far the best. Thank you, Dylan ❤
I love this message, and I have been feeling this in my core too recently.. so the timing is bang on. The thing I struggle with is- how do I do this? I am listening to affirmations track, and what else? I just find myself stuck and in a negative spiral at times, and I just want to feel good
God I needed to hear this so bad.....thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
Thank u! This video helped me immensely ❤ reminded me also of the book; Why Men Love Bitches, that I read years ago. 😂
Thank you Dylan, thank you so much.
Ily DJ ❤
Damn this video got home. Really changed my perspective
STOP CARING ABOUT THEM!
Love and Blessings babe❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 YOU have been a huge catalysts for major transformations in my life, THANK YOU SO MUCH❤. May you and everyone else get all the success your heart desires.
I blocked him I don’t care anymore I’m way way way out of his league to be even in a situation with him ew
Me too blocked and done
Right on time with this vid ❤
Thank you for the daily reminder of loving myself.
Your videos are really helpful! ❤ thank you
LMAO ily the first minute and 30 sec had me dying cause i know he’s so serious 😭😭😭 why do we do ourselves like this
and if your SP is someone who abused you, which would have been a series of intentional choices over and over to cause you pain, and if they have continued to negate any responsibility for their actions, and if you continue to wanna win them over, then please you need to watch this video again and again until you see what you are doing to yourself 🙏
Thanks a million Dylan❤❤ all the way from Bze 🇧🇿🇧🇿
Needed to hear this. Thank you 💜
Our favorite Papi is back ❤
This one was deep the revere quedtion and answer I love it wow really moved ❤❤❤
Wow you’re dope ! Everything you’re saying is true
As always great video Dylan!
Thank you Dylan!
Thank you Dylan 🦋🌞💛
Needed this today ❤
Thank you 💖
I love your voice Dylan. I sleep with your videos every night. :)
This is good to think of when that saying or law goes that what you focus on grows. So taking focus off $@!+ and focus on how we feel as an ongoing “state” of deserved-ness is the main attraction 🎉
THANKYOU for this important msg!! I so needed this!!!
Hi Dylan! Only saw today you are making content again. Thank you so much!!!! Will be watching everyday!
Thank you - needed this
Wow Dylan ❤ im speechless and that’s not always the case you keep it real and it gets through every timeeee
❤ this message
I am the prize. ❤ thank you Dylan
So grateful for these videos
Hey Dylan
Can you please make a go-to video for people suffering from retroactive jealousy and can’t stop comparing themselves with their partner’s ex?
Thank you, Dylan, for all you do🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
Love you Dylan 😘💖
Thank you so much Dylan u are amazing n adorable...🏅🏳️⚧️🏅🌈
Perfect timing ❤ This pepped me up instantly... love you Dylan.. ur amazing 💗
I hope someone sees this comment and can take something away from it. I’ve been listening to Dylan’s “I am the best” nightly affirmations for probably a month now, if not very close. Initially, when I first started listening to that tape, my confidence and security within myself SKYROCKETED. Everyday, I would move about my day calm, cool, confident, and collected. Not much would get me off center. Then, I hit a period last week for like 4 days in a row where I felt like complete SHIT. All day, everyday. I had no idea what I was doing wrong. This was specifically in relation to the woman whom I’m in a relationship with. A bunch of my old insecurities and old ways of operating started coming to the surface again and it felt super uncomfortable as I felt secure the whole damn month of Sept lol. I just learned that there’s a such thing as a “purging period” basically where your old self and new self are fighting against each other. Please, if this happens to you too, keep persisting as Dylan says. Bro I’ve cried like 3 times within the last 4 days lmao I’m not a crier. I feel so much better now though. Thank you Dylan, always ❤
I’ve been listening to limitless love currently in a relationship. One minute I feel confident and then the next I feel a pit in my stomach and on the verge of anxiety attack. It definitely feels like two different self concepts fighting
@@emilyg145 it certainly is! Especially if you’ve been so used to living in a particular state. Those feel good moments will become your primary state of being after going through the storm a bit. Good luck on your journey and best of luck in your relationship as well :)
The 🦋 effect!! ❤
Best advice
Deeply effective lesson
Tysm Dylan ❤
9:58 - 11:36 listening to this on repeat.
Anyone who just kept wondering that the clouds in the background are real?😅.....for 1st 5 mins I didn't listen to what dylan is saying......but I'm to watch this vdo again.
Was just thinking the same 😂
They’re real :) I live in Hawaii and the clouds are like that here. I post little reels of them on my Instagram all the time 😊
Love the Dylan ! Title made me click lol 😂😂😂 love from the UK london hun ❤❤
As always amazing and helpful ❤️
Ghost you ? It is not your loss
How do you always know 🙏
9:03 🖤💜
Yesss Dylan❤
omg these questions 🔥🔥
I’veay downloadeday thisay anday I amay playing it on loop with Accessibility > Background sounds to listen to whilst I’m sleep. This is like a subconscious hoover going into all the nooks and crannies in my subconscious mind.
I love your content❤
❤❤❤ yesss daddy save the day 😅😊
What about everyone is you pushed out? Shouldn’t who you want reciprocate if you have a good self concept
Exactly that’s why you should focus on yourself.
Become a person that I like. Easy. Done.
Hi Dylan, My boyfriend is so loving and caring towards me but what approach should I take when I’m feeling retroactive jealousy just because IN HIS PAST he called a girl “pretty” to his friend . Idk why I just feel so butthurt over it.
You know it took me an incredibly long time to heal from the relationship I had! Long story short, as we change, we see the versions of who we were & can’t even relate to getting that person anymore. Those who want to come back have no choice but to also change as we overcame limiting beliefs we weren’t aware of before, moved on and won’t accept the behaviors we did before we can’t even relate to the version of us that accepted those behaviors. People will change they have no choice as they too do love you but must conform to have you. Start steering believe in yourselves and trust and know it always works out ALWAYS! @dylanjames Thank You you are such a blessing you helped me so much and I am so grateful you are helping humanity become their very best version of themselves ❤
Love this 🙌🏾✨💯
Should i focuse also on myself if sp is depressed and we are in no contact because of the illness?
Dylan your thoughts on manifesting my sp but still going on dating app