There is a common belief here in Tunisia that an old person or handicapped person brings Baraka (benediction) to the house she or he lives in.. Even if it is hard sometimes to take care of them and satisfy them.. Our parents are our saviors in this life and in the hereafter..
Milka Rimel Take care of your parents is heartfelt. I place nothing above Jesus! When you have him first, all other things fall into place!! Because he is not the Author of confusion!!
@@kristopherkelton8 Greetings from Florida. I'm a Christian believer yet I have become confused lately about the identity of Jesus the Christ as revealed in the New Testament. Therefore I find myself with doubts. I do agree with you that Jesus is "not the Author of confusion." I hope God guides me to a better understanding. Peace
AllahuAkbar! SubhanAllah I'm at this position where I have elderly and frail parents in India waiting for me to come so that I can get them operated but the law in England is not allowing me to take my son for an extra couple of weeks after Easter holidays so that I can stay on and get them operated. I cannot leave my son and go and neither can I come back in 2 weeks. Flight itself takes 12+ hours. I thank Allah swt for guiding brother Paul to upload this video at the right time. I now know what to do InshaAllah!! Thank you Paul for putting in this video
I shall have to be more loving and respectful to my mother and more loving and kind to my sons. In sha Allah, I shall bring some flowers home for my wife to show my appreciation of her being in my life. I must learn to be a better Muslim. May Allah swt forgive me for any of my past misbehaviours with them. Aameen. A much inspiring video this is, Sir! JazakAllahu khayr.
We go over this book in our sisters circle! It’s very needed and I love the commentary and practical applications in our daily lives. I very good read. Very good video!👍 I have the hardback copy it was probably more expensive but I don’t regret the purchase!
MashaAllah Alhamdulillah.. Salam alaikum sir.. thank you soo much sir.. lots and lots of Duas for you and your family.. be blessed with all goodness and happiness and good health forever ❤️
Your comments on the situation of the elderly is on point. It breaks my heart that when people grow old, they're hidden away from the eyes of the inconvenienced...sometimes i come across the elderly, and the sadness in their eyes tells me they feel abandoned.
I'm so blessed to be living close to my elderly parents so I can reap the rewards of looking after them when they need my help. Jzk for reminder brother Paul 🌹
I have recently finished reading the whole book in arabic, Imam Bukhari started his book with collection of hadiths about honoring our parents, a very beautiful and Insightful way to start a book about manners and morality
This is actually an excellent translation from Adil Salahi. I’ve got several of his translated works may Allah bless his hard work in translating these books into English
Both my parents passed many years back. May Allah have mercy on their souls and place them among the Mukminun. I wish I could've been a much better son to them, a more caring son and done much more for them. I can only make du'a for them now. To those who still have parents, keep being and striving to be the best children to your parents (and siblings and the elderlies too) before it's too late and live to regret it.
7. Hadith Narrated by Abu Dawud “O Rasulullah, is there still a way of devotion to parents after they die?” He replied, “Yes, by praying, asking for forgiveness for them, carrying out their will, connecting relationships that can not be connected except their way and glorifying their friends.”
Being in my 70's myself, I appreciate these words of respect. However, much as we loved our father, my sister, brother and myself, were unable to care for my father once he was fitted with a catheter for his bladder, and his creeping senility. He kept pulling it out, and bleeding as a result (in the wee hours of the morning, causing problems for my sister and her daughter). We all worked, and very much needed that income, whereas my father needed full-time care. It was hard to enroll him in a home for the elderly, but we didn't think we had any other choice. (Mother having passed the year before.) He did allow as how he rather expected it. In an ideal world, sure, elderly parents should remain at home if at all possible.
Thanks for sharing. My mom had the beginning stages of Alzheimer's and I was working full time. One day I came home from work and my mom had fallen to the floor. I had no idea how many hours she lay in that position. It was difficult for me both physically and mentally. Eventually I also had to place my mom in a home for the elderly. My mom passed away in 2009 and I'm 68 now. Now I have my own health issues to live with. I appreciate your sharing. Peace to you...
the promised neverland of materialism 😑, let the mothers work, let the wives work, let everyone work, just go work, work, work and keep making stuff and happiness will eventually come. In the end no one have time for keeping proper families, because taking care of family don't make money and the elite needs to control everything like a big farm.
Exactly. We need to work and our parents can't be left alone and with my salary I could never affoard to have someone to be with my mom(altzheimer) all day while I work!!
Absolutely love you and your channel brother. you’re a wonderful voice representing our Ummah. Huge fan! Also a fan of your new camera framing. Lovely Golden Ratio you’ve got going on. Keep up the amazing work and may Allah reward you for all your sincere efforts.
Assalamu Alaykum thank you very much brother Paul for reading to us Hadiith and to reminding to us to act good behaviour and respect upon elder people despite of colour or religion .Islam teach us to be kind the elder people without conditions if they are Muslims or other people Islam say respect old people and other vulnerable.
I almost cried watching this video thinking about my parents n my young ones. May Allah protect u from evil n may Allah reward u immensely brother Paul!
Paul as an ex Londoner brought up in the 60s I remember the remnants of Christian values being taught even by those perhaps not religious but sympathetic to the British Christian traditions The permissive society women's liberation which certain has its place and the Godless society driven my the new age scripture of TV and radio and the new house of worship the shopping centre have turned GB into Godless Britain... Muslims need to lead by example and some do. Now it seems that it is Muslims who will offer a seat to my wife on a bus and even me. Further more Muslims are well placed to lead by example. If ever we need some form of moral anchor it is now
@@somatotrophin1535 why stop there, why don't you go on and tell me Mohammad was a pedophhile. I love earth shattering news. Don't know why you even bother looking at the videos seeing as your simply a troll, So glad to have made your day lol
Assalamu’aliakum Dear Sir.. You are able to discuss subjects with great importance with such clarity. You are a shining example of what today’s Dawah should aspire to be like. Your position is to represent on the board of British Muslim Council or as a Principal for the next generation of highly intelligent scholars to convey the Ocean of knowledge for those seeking the Truth in the Quran & Sunnah. Alhamdulilah! May Allah azawajal reward you for your efforts.
The Qur’an Verses of Respecting Parents 1. Surah Al-Isra “And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Wheter one or both of them reach old age (while) with you, say not to them (so much as), “uff”, and do not repel them but speak to them a noble world.” (QS. Al-Isra : 23) “And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, “My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up (when i was) small.” (QS. Al-Isra : 24)
The young and the old. The young will learn compassion if their parents and teachers practice compassion. That's us. Placing our parents in nursing homes is a, relatively, modern practice within western society. To the point that some grandparents don't want to be a burden to their children and even ask for it. I bet most would love to live to their end within their families. I know I would. Even gypsies find that shameful and mind their old ones at home, till death. Great, fantastic, profound Hadith. What a reminder. 👍🏽😘
I would love to have my mom live with me, as she is old and have Alzheimer. But, I don't have money enough to stop working, to be home with her all day. I found a wonderful old-age home for her, where I would like to live once I get old! I visit her every weekend. Even if I win on lottery I could not anymore take her home, as she don't sleep in the nights, she needs diapers, she walks out and gets lost if I turn my head. I would need a string to be attached to her 24/7 and I need to sleep in the nights to be able to care for her in the days.
@@mrsTraveller64 dear friend, my comment was only a general view of society as a whole, our attitude, how it has changed over time... My opinion is not a rule... I'm sure that you are doing what, in your situation is best for your beloved mother. Please forgive me for not having considered cases like yours when I spoke. Really hope you and your mother are blessed by Allah. 👍🏽😘
@@mrsTraveller64 I know, I'm a nurse... I was just generalising, I understand the few choices many people have in this and other matters. Please accept my apologies for being so rude with my words, to those that can't choose... May God bless you and your mother❤ 👍🏽😘
"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour. And, out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: "My Lord! bestow on them thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood." Israa 23-24
May Allah SWt bless you for shining the light on the morals and ethics of Islamic teachings towards the elderly. The west significantly lacks this and hoping as the years go by, the west invests in granny flats and incorporating families to make a place for there elderly loved ones. We need to show patience and love for our parents because one day we will be in there place.
Salaam alaikum brother Paul, nice reading Masha-Allah I like the explanation. Brother Paul just a kind word of reminder, please when you mention the name of the prophet Muhammad ﷺ to send salutations upon him. Jazak Allahu khayran. Since you know how to say it in Arabic, please mention it it'll be more pleasing to Allah that you remember his Messenger so Allah may bless you 10 times, your salutation reach the prophet Muhammad ﷺ and so we Muslims who follow you, be comforted and pleased by your salutations coming from you showing love to the Messenger of Allah as it is an obligation from every Muslim upon hearing the name of our blessed prophet being mentioned to send salutations of peace and blessings upon him. Salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh wa Maghfiratu.
. Surah Luqman “And We have enjoined upon man (care) for his parents. His mother carried him, (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents, to Me is the (final) destination.” (QS. Luqman : 14) “But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in (this) world with apporiate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me (in repentance). Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.” (QS. Luqman : 15) [AdSense-B]
In the holy book of shahihain by Abu Hurairah, there is a man asked the Prophet: “O Rasulullah, who are among all human beings should I interact more properly?” Rasulullah replied, “Your mother” He asked again: “Then who else?” The Prophet said : “Your mother” The man repeats his question: “Then who else?” The Prophet replied: “Your mother” He repeated the question again: “Then who?” Rasulullah SAW answered: “Your father”. From that story, it is very clear right that the command to respecting parents, especially mothers has been ordered since a long time ago by Rasulullah. For so many of their struggles that we can not repay even with the entire earth and its contents.
I was taught from when I was small to respect old people and to never make fun of disabled people. My parents treated their parents with love and respect and I learned from them that olde people should be taken care of. I grew up in Scandinavia, no religion but following christian traditions. Still I was taught to care and feel compassion and sympathy for people,especially old people. I took care of my moms relative until she died at 99 years, and I take care of my mom now. I can't have her live with me as I must go to work(she can't be left alone)but I go to see her every single weekend. I didn't need religion to learn about respect and care and love, I just had great parents to look at and to learn from.
"And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], “uff,” and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, “My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.” Your Lord is most knowing of what is within yourselves. If you should be righteous [in intention] - then indeed He is ever, to the often returning [to Him], Forgiving." Surah Al-Isra
A short while ago, there was a case in the Saudi courts that a brother brought against his brother in order for his elderly mother to live with him. Everyone wants to honor their mother The Saudi judge chose the brother who between them would be better able to take care of his mother
Assalaamu alaikum my brother Paul. Thank you for all your beneficial videos. I just want to point out that Adabul Mufrad is not all authentic. Imam Bukhari didn't mandate strict authenticity with this collection as he did with his Sahih. May Allah bless you.
Hadith Narrated by Snad Jayyid Someone asked to Rasulullah, “O Rasulullah, I want to perform jihad but I can not do it.” He replied: “Are your parents still alive?” He replied, “Yes, my mother is.” He said: “Meet Allah in state of devotion to parents, when you do that, its equal with you have performed hajj, umrah and jihad.”
. Surah Al-‘Ankabut “And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.” (QS. Al-‘Ankabut : 8)
Salam alaykum dear brother, I love that you chose this topic. Elderly should be cared for and respected. Allah sends barakah (blessings) to communities where elderly are respected and cared for. Sahih Muslim 2569 Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Verily, Allah, the Exalted and Glorious, would say on the Day of Resurrection: O son of Adam, I was sick but you did not visit Me. He would say: O my Lord; how could I visit Thee whereas Thou art the Lord of the worlds? Thereupon He would say: Didn't you know that such and such servant of Mine was sick but you did not visit him and were you not aware of this that if you had visited him, you would have found Me by him? O son of Adam, I asked food from you but you did not feed Me. He would say: My Lord, how could I feed Thee whereas Thou art the Lord of the worlds? He said: Didn't you know that such and such servant of Mine asked food from you but you did not feed him, and were you not aware that if you had fed him you would have found him by My side? (The Lord would again say: ) O son of Adam, I asked drink from you but you did not provide Me. He would say: My Lord, how could I provide Thee whereas Thou art the Lord of the worlds? Thereupon He would say: Such and such of servant of Mine asked you for a drink but you did not provide him, and had you provided him drink you would have found him near Me. - I love how Islam teaches us to do good and watch our toungues. For example, there is a sahih hadith where the prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Aisha (may Allah have mercy on her) that her word would have polluted a sea when she said that one woman was very short. I love how he (peace be upon him) was very passionate about making people think about their words. There are many hadiths about it. He (peace be upon him) said that one woman would go to hell because people around her did not have peace because of her tongue even though she prayed regularly and fasted even more than shs was obliged to and gave charity. May Allah unite us upon The Truth.
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things: Sadaqah Jariyah (ceaseless charity); a knowledge which is beneficial, or a virtuous descendant who prays for him (for the deceased)." [Sahih Muslim]. for any Muslim whose parents have passed away, pray for them.
“Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful.” (QS. An-Nisa : 36)
. Surah Al-Baqarah “They ask you, (O Muhammad), what they should spend. Say, “Whatever you spend of goods is (to be) for parents and relatives and orphans and the needy and the traveler. And whatever you do of good - indeed, Allah is Knowing of it.” (QS. Al-Baqarah : 215)
Shahihain Holy Book of Abdullah bin Mas’ud “I asked the Prophet,” What is the main deeds? “He replied,” Praying in time. “I asked again:” Then what else? “He replied,” Devote toward parents. “I asked again,” Then what else? “He replied,” Jihad in the way of Allah.”
Kitab Al adab al mofrad, meaning the separated or dedicated manners book, it is called separated to avoid confusion with the book of manners in the Sahih, Imam al Bukahri in this collection didn't commit himself to the same degree of rigorous scrutiny of hadith as in the Sahih book, since tolarating weak evidence for details of manners that have Quranic of Sahih basis wouldn't have impact on halal and haram or basis of faith, so the book contains some weak hadiths, still it is highly valuble source of knowledge in general.
Shahihain Holy Book of Asma’ binti Abu Bakar ra In this holy book explained that when Abu Bakar ra asked to Rasulullah about his mother who is idolatry (polytheism), but he want to connect with her. “O Rasulullah, my mother came and want to connect with my daughter, whether I can connect a relation back with my mother?” Rasulullah replied “Yes connect it.”
I'd like to share these reminders from surat Al-Isra, Ayah 22-38: "22. Do not set up another god with God, lest you become condemned and damned. 23. Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you be good to your parents. If either of them or both of them reach old age with you, do not say to them a word of disrespect, nor scold them, but say to them kind words. 24. And lower to them the wing of humility, out of mercy, and say, “My Lord, have mercy on them, as they raised me when I was a child.” 25. Your Lord knows best what is in your minds. If you are righteous-He is Forgiving to the obedient. 26. And give the relative his rights, and the poor, and the wayfarer, and do not squander wastefully. 27. The extravagant are brethren of the devils, and the devil is ever ungrateful to his Lord. 28. But if you turn away from them, seeking mercy from your Lord which you hope for, then say to them words of comfort. 29. And do not keep your hand tied to your neck, nor spread it out fully, lest you end up liable and regretful. 30. Your Lord expands the provision for whomever He wills, and restricts it. He is fully Informed, Observant of His servants. 31. And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them, and for you. Killing them is a grave sin. 32. And do not come near adultery. It is immoral, and an evil way. 33. And do not kill the soul which God has made sacred, except in the course of justice. If someone is killed unjustly, We have given his next of kin certain authority. But he should not be excessive in killing, for he will be supported. 34. And do not go near the orphan’s property, except with the best of intentions, until he has reached his maturity. And honor your pledge, because the pledge involves responsibility. 35. And give full measure when you measure, and weigh with accurate scales. That is fair, and the best determination. 36. And do not occupy yourself with what you have no knowledge of. The hearing, and the sight, and the brains-all these will be questioned. 37. And do not walk proudly on earth. You can neither pierce the earth, nor can you match the mountains in height. 38. The evil of all these is disliked by your Lord." * the clear Quran 17:22-38 *
Surah Al-Ahqaf “And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hadrship and gave birth to him with hardship, and this gestation and weaning (period) is thirty months. (He grows) until, when he reaches maturity and reaches (the age of) forty years, he says, “My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to work righteousness of which You will approve and make righteous for me my offspring. Indeed, I have repented to You, and indeed, I am of the Muslims.” (QS. Al-Ahqaf : 15) “Those are the ones from whom We will accept the best of what they did and overlook their misdeeds, (their being) among the companions of Paradise. (That is) the promise of truth which they had been promised.” (QS. Al-Ahqaf : 16) [AdSense-A] “But one who says to his parents, “Uff to you, do you promise me that I will be brought forth (from the earth) when generations before me have already passed on (into oblivion)?” while they call to Allah for help and said, “Woe to you! Believe! Indeed, the promise of Allah is truth, “But he says, “This is not but legends of the former people.” (QS. Al-Ahqaf : 17)
Salam Paul May I suggest that you moderate a discussion between Bart Erhman and Ali Ataie on the topic of crucifixion. Bart vehemently believes in crucifixion of Jesus and Ali goes with the Quranic narrative. It would be good to discuss this from a historical perspective.
brother Paul , did you say at the end of this clip “ all authentic “ , if you did then I would say : the authentic collection is inside the “sahih” , this book is separate that is why it is called “ almufrad ” , not all of it is authentic..
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There is a common belief here in Tunisia that an old person or handicapped person brings Baraka (benediction) to the house she or he lives in.. Even if it is hard sometimes to take care of them and satisfy them.. Our parents are our saviors in this life and in the hereafter..
Milka Rimel
Take care of your parents is heartfelt. I place nothing above Jesus! When you have him first, all other things fall into place!! Because he is not the Author of confusion!!
@@kristopherkelton8 Greetings from Florida. I'm a Christian believer yet I have become confused lately about the identity of Jesus the Christ as revealed in the New Testament. Therefore I find myself with doubts. I do agree with you that Jesus is "not the Author of confusion." I hope God guides me to a better understanding. Peace
Same here in South Asia.
When you have doubts look for the right answers be honnest and ask God for guidance then certainly truth wilk come to your heart
@@johnbrzykcy3076 Whatever you want to ask Jesus for, I would fast for 3 days and come humbly as a child, to him! Then afterwards (Micha 6:8)!!!
I get this strange feeling Paul, that you have found a treasure of Islam in your heart, may Allah bless you💚
AllahuAkbar! SubhanAllah I'm at this position where I have elderly and frail parents in India waiting for me to come so that I can get them operated but the law in England is not allowing me to take my son for an extra couple of weeks after Easter holidays so that I can stay on and get them operated. I cannot leave my son and go and neither can I come back in 2 weeks. Flight itself takes 12+ hours. I thank Allah swt for guiding brother Paul to upload this video at the right time. I now know what to do InshaAllah!!
Thank you Paul for putting in this video
Alhamdulillah.
I want the list of all of the books in your library.
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@@Dr.Rwiena ?
I shall have to be more loving and respectful to my mother and more loving and kind to my sons. In sha Allah, I shall bring some flowers home for my wife to show my appreciation of her being in my life. I must learn to be a better Muslim. May Allah swt forgive me for any of my past misbehaviours with them. Aameen.
A much inspiring video this is, Sir! JazakAllahu khayr.
same ..
indeed we all should reflect
@@mostafasherif9209 fuck reflecting. Get money fuck bitches
@@sklw2449 Mind your words.
@@angoorpalayamfarm8431 get wealthy and make love with ladies all fricking day long
@@sklw2449 Astagfurillah, doing this will only lead to you living a very miserable life.
We go over this book in our sisters circle! It’s very needed and I love the commentary and practical applications in our daily lives. I very good read.
Very good video!👍
I have the hardback copy it was probably more expensive but I don’t regret the purchase!
What is the name of the book and where can I purchase?
MashaAllah Alhamdulillah.. Salam alaikum sir.. thank you soo much sir.. lots and lots of Duas for you and your family.. be blessed with all goodness and happiness and good health forever ❤️
Wa alaykumu s-salam!
Amen.. Amen
Your comments on the situation of the elderly is on point. It breaks my heart that when people grow old, they're hidden away from the eyes of the inconvenienced...sometimes i come across the elderly, and the sadness in their eyes tells me they feel abandoned.
I go see my mom each and every weekend, sve is not a andoned but she needs help 24/7 wich I can't give her as I can't affoard to quit my job.
I'm so blessed to be living close to my elderly parents so I can reap the rewards of looking after them when they need my help. Jzk for reminder brother Paul 🌹
I have recently finished reading the whole book in arabic, Imam Bukhari started his book with collection of hadiths about honoring our parents, a very beautiful and Insightful way to start a book about manners and morality
These are my favorites! Étiquettes and manner, thanks😊
And be humble with them (parents) out of mercy, and pray, “My Lord! Be merciful to them as they raised me when I was young.
Surah Isra' (17:24)
Words of Gold, jazaka Allah khayran
This is actually an excellent translation from Adil Salahi. I’ve got several of his translated works may Allah bless his hard work in translating these books into English
Thank you Paul for sharing this topic with us.
Both my parents passed many years back. May Allah have mercy on their souls and place them among the Mukminun. I wish I could've been a much better son to them, a more caring son and done much more for them. I can only make du'a for them now. To those who still have parents, keep being and striving to be the best children to your parents (and siblings and the elderlies too) before it's too late and live to regret it.
Alhamdulillah, I read adabul mufrad one day one hadits, every day after subuh for my kids
Another beneficial video. May Allah bless you.
7. Hadith Narrated by Abu Dawud
“O Rasulullah, is there still a way of devotion to parents after they die?” He replied, “Yes, by praying, asking for forgiveness for them, carrying out their will, connecting relationships that can not be connected except their way and glorifying their friends.”
Alhamdulillah for the Islamic family values. Thank you dear brother Paul 🙏.
Being in my 70's myself, I appreciate these words of respect.
However, much as we loved our father, my sister, brother and myself, were unable to care for my father once he was fitted with a catheter for his bladder, and his creeping senility. He kept pulling it out, and bleeding as a result (in the wee hours of the morning, causing problems for my sister and her daughter). We all worked, and very much needed that income, whereas my father needed full-time care. It was hard to enroll him in a home for the elderly, but we didn't think we had any other choice. (Mother having passed the year before.) He did allow as how he rather expected it.
In an ideal world, sure, elderly parents should remain at home if at all possible.
Thanks for sharing. My mom had the beginning stages of Alzheimer's and I was working full time. One day I came home from work and my mom had fallen to the floor. I had no idea how many hours she lay in that position. It was difficult for me both physically and mentally. Eventually I also had to place my mom in a home for the elderly.
My mom passed away in 2009 and I'm 68 now. Now I have my own health issues to live with. I appreciate your sharing. Peace to you...
the promised neverland of materialism 😑,
let the mothers work, let the wives work, let everyone work, just go work, work, work and keep making stuff and happiness will eventually come.
In the end no one have time for keeping proper families, because taking care of family don't make money and the elite needs to control everything like a big farm.
Exactly. We need to work and our parents can't be left alone and with my salary I could never affoard to have someone to be with my mom(altzheimer) all day while I work!!
Much awaited topic. Appreciate your efforts. Thank you
Keep up the wonderful work, Paul!
Absolutely love you and your channel brother. you’re a wonderful voice representing our Ummah. Huge fan! Also a fan of your new camera framing. Lovely Golden Ratio you’ve got going on. Keep up the amazing work and may Allah reward you for all your sincere efforts.
Assalamu Alaykum thank you very much brother Paul for reading to us Hadiith and to reminding to us to act good behaviour and respect upon elder people despite of colour or religion .Islam teach us to be kind the elder people without conditions if they are Muslims or other people Islam say respect old people and other vulnerable.
Would love for you to invite Dr. Umar Faruq Abd-Allah an Islamic American theologian who has a wealth of knowledge in Islamic tradition.
I almost cried watching this video thinking about my parents n my young ones. May Allah protect u from evil n may Allah reward u immensely brother Paul!
Thanks brother Paul. Absolutely love your videos. May Allah Reward you.
Always enjoy your fruitful videos.
Paul as an ex Londoner brought up in the 60s I remember the remnants of Christian values being taught even by those perhaps not religious but sympathetic to the British Christian traditions
The permissive society women's liberation which certain has its place and the Godless society driven my the new age scripture of TV and radio and the new house of worship the shopping centre have turned GB into Godless Britain...
Muslims need to lead by example and some do.
Now it seems that it is Muslims who will offer a seat to my wife on a bus and even me.
Further more Muslims are well placed to lead by example.
If ever we need some form of moral anchor it is now
@@somatotrophin1535 why stop there, why don't you go on and tell me Mohammad was a pedophhile.
I love earth shattering news.
Don't know why you even bother looking at the videos seeing as your simply a troll,
So glad to have made your day lol
Thank you Paul May Allah grant you Jannatul Firdaus.
Heart rendering indeed. Jazaak Allah Khair for bringing this to us brother.
Many thanks Sarfraaz Khan!
Salam'aleykum, it's a deep subject indeed.
Wa alaykumu s-salam
Assalamu’aliakum Dear Sir..
You are able to discuss subjects with great importance with such clarity. You are a shining example of what today’s Dawah should aspire to be like. Your position is to represent on the board of British Muslim Council or as a Principal for the next generation of highly intelligent scholars to convey the Ocean of knowledge for those seeking the Truth in the Quran & Sunnah.
Alhamdulilah! May Allah azawajal reward you for your efforts.
Assalamualaikum...masha Allah..jazak Allah...alhamdulillah...may Allah bless you in dunia n akhirat n keep healthy brother👍🙏
Sad that I only found about that book only recently. They should put that in the school curriculum.
Excellent!!! Doesn’t need any more words for it.
Couldn’t be said better.
Jazak Allah Khirn brother Paul.
me as muslim even have never triggered when someone said "you've hit 30 and still live with your parents?"
Assalam o Alaikum brother paul
How are you?
You are doing Great job
Wa alaykumu s-salam !
when I seen elderly people I feel very sad because they are lonely and sad and I asked them if they needed some help 😔 😪
The Qur’an Verses of Respecting Parents
1. Surah Al-Isra
“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Wheter one or both of them reach old age (while) with you, say not to them (so much as), “uff”, and do not repel them but speak to them a noble world.” (QS. Al-Isra : 23)
“And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, “My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up (when i was) small.” (QS. Al-Isra : 24)
Eagerly waiting for next parts of it.
All the best bro from Libya
The young and the old.
The young will learn compassion if their parents and teachers practice compassion.
That's us.
Placing our parents in nursing homes is a, relatively, modern practice within western society.
To the point that some grandparents don't want to be a burden to their children and even ask for it. I bet most would love to live to their end within their families.
I know I would.
Even gypsies find that shameful and mind their old ones at home, till death.
Great, fantastic, profound Hadith.
What a reminder.
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I would love to have my mom live with me, as she is old and have Alzheimer. But, I don't have money enough to stop working, to be home with her all day. I found a wonderful old-age home for her, where I would like to live once I get old! I visit her every weekend. Even if I win on lottery I could not anymore take her home, as she don't sleep in the nights, she needs diapers, she walks out and gets lost if I turn my head. I would need a string to be attached to her 24/7 and I need to sleep in the nights to be able to care for her in the days.
@@mrsTraveller64 dear friend, my comment was only a general view of society as a whole, our attitude, how it has changed over time...
My opinion is not a rule...
I'm sure that you are doing what, in your situation is best for your beloved mother.
Please forgive me for not having considered cases like yours when I spoke.
Really hope you and your mother are blessed by Allah.
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@@ckotty thankyou, yes,my point was just that in these days when everyone works there is no way to have an old sick person living with us🙁
@@mrsTraveller64 I know, I'm a nurse...
I was just generalising, I understand the few choices many people have in this and other matters.
Please accept my apologies for being so rude with my words, to those that can't choose...
May God bless you and your mother❤
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"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour. And, out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: "My Lord! bestow on them thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood." Israa 23-24
May Allah SWt bless you for shining the light on the morals and ethics of Islamic teachings towards the elderly. The west significantly lacks this and hoping as the years go by, the west invests in granny flats and incorporating families to make a place for there elderly loved ones. We need to show patience and love for our parents because one day we will be in there place.
Assalamualaikum brother Paul, may Allah protect u then n now, and grant u Firdaus.
Wa alaykumu s-salam
I myself is taking care my old folk, yes indeed it's tiring
Salaam alaikum brother Paul, nice reading Masha-Allah I like the explanation. Brother Paul just a kind word of reminder, please when you mention the name of the prophet Muhammad ﷺ to send salutations upon him. Jazak Allahu khayran. Since you know how to say it in Arabic, please mention it it'll be more pleasing to Allah that you remember his Messenger so Allah may bless you 10 times, your salutation reach the prophet Muhammad ﷺ and so we Muslims who follow you, be comforted and pleased by your salutations coming from you showing love to the Messenger of Allah as it is an obligation from every Muslim upon hearing the name of our blessed prophet being mentioned to send salutations of peace and blessings upon him.
Salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh wa Maghfiratu.
. Surah Luqman
“And We have enjoined upon man (care) for his parents. His mother carried him, (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents, to Me is the (final) destination.” (QS. Luqman : 14)
“But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in (this) world with apporiate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me (in repentance). Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.” (QS. Luqman : 15)
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that was wonderful Mr Paul 🌹🌺
In the holy book of shahihain by Abu Hurairah, there is a man asked the Prophet:
“O Rasulullah, who are among all human beings should I interact more properly?” Rasulullah replied, “Your mother” He asked again: “Then who else?” The Prophet said : “Your mother” The man repeats his question: “Then who else?” The Prophet replied: “Your mother” He repeated the question again: “Then who?” Rasulullah SAW answered: “Your father”.
From that story, it is very clear right that the command to respecting parents, especially mothers has been ordered since a long time ago by Rasulullah. For so many of their struggles that we can not repay even with the entire earth and its contents.
Notifications on!
Subhan Allah just 2 days ago I bought Al adab and Al musnad
JazakAllah khair for the reminder
I was taught from when I was small to respect old people and to never make fun of disabled people. My parents treated their parents with love and respect and I learned from them that olde people should be taken care of. I grew up in Scandinavia, no religion but following christian traditions. Still I was taught to care and feel compassion and sympathy for people,especially old people. I took care of my moms relative until she died at 99 years, and I take care of my mom now. I can't have her live with me as I must go to work(she can't be left alone)but I go to see her every single weekend. I didn't need religion to learn about respect and care and love, I just had great parents to look at and to learn from.
Exception, that's what u are sir
"And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], “uff,” and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, “My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.”
Your Lord is most knowing of what is within yourselves. If you should be righteous [in intention] - then indeed He is ever, to the often returning [to Him], Forgiving."
Surah Al-Isra
Al-Adab al-Mufrad
Imam Bukhari
Translation and commentary by Adil Salahi
A short while ago, there was a case in the Saudi courts that a brother brought against his brother in order for his elderly mother to live with him.
Everyone wants to honor their mother
The Saudi judge chose the brother who between them would be better able to take care of his mother
Paul, many muslims are still fall short of those sunnah,unfortunately
Assalaamu alaikum my brother Paul. Thank you for all your beneficial videos. I just want to point out that Adabul Mufrad is not all authentic. Imam Bukhari didn't mandate strict authenticity with this collection as he did with his Sahih.
May Allah bless you.
Interesting. 😁
Another 💎, THANX Paul !
Alhamdulillah
wonderfull book👏❤️
The relationship continues even after their death. We keep asking mercy for all our grand parents!
Hadith Narrated by Snad Jayyid
Someone asked to Rasulullah,
“O Rasulullah, I want to perform jihad but I can not do it.” He replied: “Are your parents still alive?” He replied, “Yes, my mother is.” He said: “Meet Allah in state of devotion to parents, when you do that, its equal with you have performed hajj, umrah and jihad.”
This clip is so informative mashaa Allah, been bro #Paul , amen
. Surah Al-‘Ankabut
“And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do.” (QS. Al-‘Ankabut : 8)
Salam alaykum dear brother,
I love that you chose this topic. Elderly should be cared for and respected. Allah sends barakah (blessings) to communities where elderly are respected and cared for.
Sahih Muslim 2569
Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
Verily, Allah, the Exalted and Glorious, would say on the Day of Resurrection: O son of Adam, I was sick but you did not visit Me. He would say: O my Lord; how could I visit Thee whereas Thou art the Lord of the worlds? Thereupon He would say: Didn't you know that such and such servant of Mine was sick but you did not visit him and were you not aware of this that if you had visited him, you would have found Me by him? O son of Adam, I asked food from you but you did not feed Me. He would say: My Lord, how could I feed Thee whereas Thou art the Lord of the worlds? He said: Didn't you know that such and such servant of Mine asked food from you but you did not feed him, and were you not aware that if you had fed him you would have found him by My side?
(The Lord would again say: ) O son of Adam, I asked drink from you but you did not provide Me. He would say: My Lord, how could I provide Thee whereas Thou art the Lord of the worlds? Thereupon He would say: Such and such of servant of Mine asked you for a drink but you did not provide him, and had you provided him drink you would have found him near Me.
- I love how Islam teaches us to do good and watch our toungues. For example, there is a sahih hadith where the prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Aisha (may Allah have mercy on her) that her word would have polluted a sea when she said that one woman was very short. I love how he (peace be upon him) was very passionate about making people think about their words. There are many hadiths about it. He (peace be upon him) said that one woman would go to hell because people around her did not have peace because of her tongue even though she prayed regularly and fasted even more than shs was obliged to and gave charity.
May Allah unite us upon The Truth.
@@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388 I like your name.
You should stick by it.
May Allah guide you.
@@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388 You followed Allah? What kind of statement is that?
@@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388 Islam is The Truth.
Jesus (peace be upon him) is a messenger of Allah (The God).
May Allah guide you.
@@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388 Isa is the Arabic for "Jesus" (peace be upon him).
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things: Sadaqah Jariyah (ceaseless charity); a knowledge which is beneficial, or a virtuous descendant who prays for him (for the deceased)."
[Sahih Muslim].
for any Muslim whose parents have passed away, pray for them.
God bless you brother 🤲
Jazak Allah Khairan!
“Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful.” (QS. An-Nisa : 36)
. Surah Al-Baqarah
“They ask you, (O Muhammad), what they should spend. Say, “Whatever you spend of goods is (to be) for parents and relatives and orphans and the needy and the traveler. And whatever you do of good - indeed, Allah is Knowing of it.” (QS. Al-Baqarah : 215)
Shahihain Holy Book of Abdullah bin Mas’ud
“I asked the Prophet,” What is the main deeds? “He replied,” Praying in time. “I asked again:” Then what else? “He replied,” Devote toward parents. “I asked again,” Then what else? “He replied,” Jihad in the way of Allah.”
Thank you very much Paul
Kitab Al adab al mofrad, meaning the separated or dedicated manners book, it is called separated to avoid confusion with the book of manners in the Sahih,
Imam al Bukahri in this collection didn't commit himself to the same degree of rigorous scrutiny of hadith as in the Sahih book, since tolarating weak evidence for details of manners that have Quranic of Sahih basis wouldn't have impact on halal and haram or basis of faith, so the book contains some weak hadiths, still it is highly valuble source of knowledge in general.
There’s a saheeh of adab almufrad by imam albani where he verified all the authentic hadeeths in bukharis book
Shahihain Holy Book of Asma’ binti Abu Bakar ra
In this holy book explained that when Abu Bakar ra asked to Rasulullah about his mother who is idolatry (polytheism), but he want to connect with her.
“O Rasulullah, my mother came and want to connect with my daughter, whether I can connect a relation back with my mother?” Rasulullah replied “Yes connect it.”
I'd like to share these reminders from surat Al-Isra, Ayah 22-38:
"22. Do not set up another god with God, lest you become condemned and damned.
23. Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you be good to your parents. If either of them or both of them reach old age with you, do not say to them a word of disrespect, nor scold them, but say to them kind words.
24. And lower to them the wing of humility, out of mercy, and say, “My Lord, have mercy on them, as they raised me when I was a child.”
25. Your Lord knows best what is in your minds. If you are righteous-He is Forgiving to the obedient.
26. And give the relative his rights, and the poor, and the wayfarer, and do not squander wastefully.
27. The extravagant are brethren of the devils, and the devil is ever ungrateful to his Lord.
28. But if you turn away from them, seeking mercy from your Lord which you hope for, then say to them words of comfort.
29. And do not keep your hand tied to your neck, nor spread it out fully, lest you end up liable and regretful.
30. Your Lord expands the provision for whomever He wills, and restricts it. He is fully Informed, Observant of His servants.
31. And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them, and for you. Killing them is a grave sin.
32. And do not come near adultery. It is immoral, and an evil way.
33. And do not kill the soul which God has made sacred, except in the course of justice. If someone is killed unjustly, We have given his next of kin certain authority. But he should not be excessive in killing, for he will be supported.
34. And do not go near the orphan’s property, except with the best of intentions, until he has reached his maturity. And honor your pledge, because the pledge involves responsibility.
35. And give full measure when you measure, and weigh with accurate scales. That is fair, and the best determination.
36. And do not occupy yourself with what you have no knowledge of. The hearing, and the sight, and the brains-all these will be questioned.
37. And do not walk proudly on earth. You can neither pierce the earth, nor can you match the mountains in height.
38. The evil of all these is disliked by your Lord."
* the clear Quran 17:22-38 *
Arabic language and calligraphy
Is special and unic
You can see in this example
تفقا ----( this is the word (A TUNNEL
Isn't it the two tube tunnel ?
Islam is indeed the perfect religion for the whole world.
Surah Al-Ahqaf
“And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hadrship and gave birth to him with hardship, and this gestation and weaning (period) is thirty months. (He grows) until, when he reaches maturity and reaches (the age of) forty years, he says, “My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to work righteousness of which You will approve and make righteous for me my offspring. Indeed, I have repented to You, and indeed, I am of the Muslims.” (QS. Al-Ahqaf : 15)
“Those are the ones from whom We will accept the best of what they did and overlook their misdeeds, (their being) among the companions of Paradise. (That is) the promise of truth which they had been promised.” (QS. Al-Ahqaf : 16)
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“But one who says to his parents, “Uff to you, do you promise me that I will be brought forth (from the earth) when generations before me have already passed on (into oblivion)?” while they call to Allah for help and said, “Woe to you! Believe! Indeed, the promise of Allah is truth, “But he says, “This is not but legends of the former people.” (QS. Al-Ahqaf : 17)
Thanks a lot!! 💗
Salam Paul
May I suggest that you moderate a discussion between Bart Erhman and Ali Ataie on the topic of crucifixion. Bart vehemently believes in crucifixion of Jesus and Ali goes with the Quranic narrative. It would be good to discuss this from a historical perspective.
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ISLAM has true values and true guidance for all humanity and all their needs……
Assalam alikum warahmatullah
Paul do you have a pdf or ebook ? If you have wound you kindly share with me ?
Jajakumullah khairan
May, ALLAH-(SWT - AJ) BLESS AND "BE" PLEASED With You, Yours & And ALL Of Your Honorable Efforts!! Ameen!
Where can I purchase this book from? I cannot find it online anywhere
Mashallah soo amazing 🔥🔥
brother Paul , did you say at the end of this clip “ all authentic “ , if you did then I would say : the authentic collection is inside the “sahih” , this book is separate that is why it is called “ almufrad ” , not all of it is authentic..
My humble request to all please watch Change of Heart series by Ustadh Ali Hammuda.
Thank you so much for this. :)
Ive just orderd the book
My father is old his hemoglobin is not in normal range,means his compassion has lowered,mine is normal,
Thank you!
Mister,Can I take this video to translate in Indonesian is there a copy right or not?
I need your permission.
Can you please share the title and the translator's name for this edition?
Alfatihah to all deceased parents..may allah swt enter them into paradise..aamiin
Could someone please share a purchase link?
masha Allah Alhamdulillah Sobhanallah Allah hu Akber