Why Confidence Is The Secret To Great Leaders At Work & Home | Dr. Karyn Gordon | TEDxRyersonU

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  • @RayMainBagpiper
    @RayMainBagpiper 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm in awe at the passion and conviction of her speach... You can almost see the tears of passion as she talks. So inspiring.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very kind of you Ray! Thrilled you enjoyed it:)

  • @michaelmorris6538
    @michaelmorris6538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Thank you so very much. I see what's happening with my wife now. We've been together over seven years. About 5 years ago We both got really heavy into personal development content like Tony Robbins, Joe Dispenza, Napoleon Hill. I moved from the left seat where we were both sitting to the center seat and havnt gone back. However she stayed in the left seat and continues to have a negative self image and a feeling of inadequacies. So her natural inclination is to find someone in her set or the right seat. Me bringing up solutions makes her upset. She wants me to dwell in despair with her and because I don't she acts like I don't understand. The thing is that I am not going back to that dark place. No matter what. This has really helped clarify things so much. I hope I can use this video to help my wife and in turn make her a better role model for our 2 daughters. Break the cycle of negativity. Thank you again.

    • @julianasell6107
      @julianasell6107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm so happy you moved to the middle chair. Take care of her and make her fell confident each day. Maybe it can soud a little bit hard, but you wont regret in the future!

    • @BobQuigley
      @BobQuigley 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Personal development industry nothing more than another American ponzi scheme. Bernie Madoff in a different costume. Pyramid scheme for the pushers. BTW left seat is just a different point of view

    • @kelvinreis8145
      @kelvinreis8145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So, tell us. Did get that?

    • @evh892
      @evh892 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish you a great patience and positivity in this tough situation! It is hard to change anyones perspective who already got that conviction in them self’s also some pple just prefer/ love that dark self pity,drama mode - maybe the best bet is to see a psychologist and find out the reason …

    • @mosescross163
      @mosescross163 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there before.

  • @Iphonmm
    @Iphonmm ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She spoke with amazing energy and inspiration to really stimulate people making conscientious attitude for themselves.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Viroon for your kind words:)

  • @donachille3351
    @donachille3351 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is by far the best Talk on confidence/leadership topic that I have come across.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for those kind words! Glad you found it helpful!

  • @charlesegbulefu7709
    @charlesegbulefu7709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Dr. Karyn Gordon . God bless you

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So kind Charles! Thank you - I feel very blessed to do this kind of meaningful work!

  • @boutainaeljaouhari5338
    @boutainaeljaouhari5338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One of my best TEDx talks! I repeated the video many times and i can't get enough.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you so much Boutaina - thrilled to hear you enjoyed it!

  • @glorianekabat9444
    @glorianekabat9444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so clear and apparent. Confidence is everything. Be willing to make a decision and do not others take your power. You are amazing.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thrilled to hear you found it clear and easy to understand - thats the power of The Three Chairs ... its so simple - yet extremely impactful!

  • @rachelmoss1967
    @rachelmoss1967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was very powerful, and brilliant timing for me when I landed on it. Thanks Karyn.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much Rachel! Thrilled you enjoyed:)

    • @rachelmoss1967
      @rachelmoss1967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not only enjoyed it but you are powerful to listen to. I loved how you got emotional even in your own story (toward the end). So glad to have found you. Greetings from South West England. @@drkaryngordon

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rachelmoss1967Greatly appreciate your kind words Rachel! Love how people all over the world are able to watch it:) Greetings from Canada!

  • @MarcosLopez-oc5qg
    @MarcosLopez-oc5qg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best TED talk i have ever heard. Thank you Karyn.
    🥰

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow thanks so much Marcos. Thrilled to know that you found it helpful!

    • @Ahmad-os3si
      @Ahmad-os3si ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@drkaryngordonI realised that I am in the middle but when it communication I am not why because I prefer to not speak about idle topic I lost my communication skills i lost a friendship because I refused to solve the issues thank you the best ted talk really

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ahmad-os3si Thanks Ahmad! And YES thats great insight! Often people will "see" themselves in 1 chair for parts of their life - and in another chair for other parts / decisions that they make. The fact that you can see yourself in the middle chair for most parts - but that "you lost communication skills" - is amazing self-awareness. Now the next step is to ask yourself - "If I was in in the middle chair when I communicate / problem-solve - what words / tone / body language / phrases would I use - so that I am respecting myself AND the other person". So glad you enjoyed my TED:) I LOVE seeing it make a difference / impact - that was the goal!

  • @meganlreilly
    @meganlreilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant insight from Dr Karyn Gordon! She is a wealth of info and this Tedtalk is well worth your time!

  • @jennyjer
    @jennyjer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Confident leaders are humble and they lift others up…so wise, inspiring & true!

  • @wadeintowealth2500
    @wadeintowealth2500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a FANTASTIC video. Dr. Karyn is SPOT ON.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Wade Into Wealth ... and yes the research shows a correlation between confidence and how much people earn ... confidence is a skill we can ALL learn!

  • @naseerkachery2793
    @naseerkachery2793 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great speech!!!
    Everyone should have ‘Don’t give up’ attitude to succeed in work and home

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      YES Naseer - that was the purpose of my TED - to give everyone HOPE - that ALL of us can be successful!

  • @susankingston8654
    @susankingston8654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much to ponder over. Thank You!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Susan for sharing:) YES many people have messaged me saying they had to watch it a few times to take it all in. Its ALOT of info to pack into 17 minutes.

  • @nhungry9213
    @nhungry9213 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. I saw this video when I was so nagative about myself. Her words inspired me a lot of power. I think I can sit 'the middle chair' too 💪

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      Nhung - YES - you can sit in the middle chair. All of us can:) That's WHY I am passionate about this topic. I'm so glad to hear you felt inspired!!

  • @ikaimelda7906
    @ikaimelda7906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the formula, Dr. Karyn Gordon. So powerful! Not seeking perfection, because I am enough and it's inevitably boosting your confidence.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES Ika - you got it!! Do not seek perfection ... strive for excellence because you are ENOUGH:)

  • @lauriewintonick6670
    @lauriewintonick6670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A brilliant representation of the 3 prevailing attitudes and how we can work towards spending more time in the ideal one. How through using confidence in all aspects of life we can learn to believe in ourselves, shed the toxic self talk and keep our ego in check. This TEDx Talk is a must watch for all ages!! This is a human problem. Thank you Dr. Gordon for sharing your chairs, time and knowledge with us!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Laurie! YES this is a human problem - but thankfully one that we can do so much about to improve it! Glad you found this helpful:)

  • @zoesparrow2348
    @zoesparrow2348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the 3 chairs analogy. An excellent TED talk for any kind of leader!

  • @tinabarlow453
    @tinabarlow453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent advice! Karyn shares a simple model (using 3 chairs) to help us understand confidence and how we can improve in this area. It's well worth a listen!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Tina - glad you found it helpful!!

    • @marilousales329
      @marilousales329 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for the inspiring message😊 God bless!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marilousales329 So welcome Marilou I'm thrilled to hear you found it inspiring! That was the goal!

  • @11vaishnavigaud48
    @11vaishnavigaud48 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of the most empowering TED talk I have watched.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow - thank you Vaishnavi for your kind words! The goal was to make sure that everyone feels HOPEFUL and EQUIPPED by the end of it!

  • @xusophie5885
    @xusophie5885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Dr. Karyn. Just bump into this video, wow a huge surpise. Really inspired by your speech! I'm a person who would fear and personalize feedback from others, but now I realize focusing on what I can control and believe in oneself will make you feel so great and powerful.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you XU for your kind words! So glad you are understanding the POWER of feedback - its just data to help us improve:)

  • @hakuna2695
    @hakuna2695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for one of the most inspiring videos I have ever watched.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hakuna - thank you for your kind words! Thrilled to hear you found it inspiring!

  • @KLAKLAWES
    @KLAKLAWES 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    UR PERSONALITY
    * Never enough mindset
    * Anorexia in feelings
    * Addicted to cruelty
    * Love gossip
    * Coke and smoke
    * Behave like a secretary
    * Some passions like yoga or "steps"
    * Did a ditme like animator or selfdistructive (like everyone= cok and so on)
    * Addiction to dark, or darkness
    * If u point on someone, mangy to the extreme
    * It means u are always right without a strategy/sense

  • @evav8331
    @evav8331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So interesting and engaging! I love the three chairs analogy.

  • @loopaal
    @loopaal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    American people usually sit at the middle seat. Throughout my 25 year residence in the US, it still surprises me how most people, regardless of their profession, social status, etc, are extremely balanced, they know how to talk to people, they know how to communicate in various environments, how to carry confidence that is not arrogance. The upbringing is unmatched here in the US. At the age of 34, I am still working on my personality and trying to build confidence so that i can progress in my life.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TY loopaal! Although many people may appear in the middle chair, come across very confident, based on research we find 70% connect / identify in the back 2 chairs. The great news is we can all learn how to sit in the middle chair:)

  • @tiffy1324
    @tiffy1324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an amazing & powerful TEDx Talk!! A must-watch for everyone.

  • @geetakumar2845
    @geetakumar2845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Excellent! I really enjoyed this TED talk. Beautifully simple and empowering.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So kind thank you Geeta for sharing!

  • @alancheng6206
    @alancheng6206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great concise model. Loved that idea of bringing others up rather than shutting others or yourself down.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Alan - YES- leaders in the middle chair LIFT others - and also hold them accountable - a tricky balance!

  • @TheLeoPoint
    @TheLeoPoint ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👌 I belong 80 % in red chair, 19 % right 1 arrogance chair ,1 % left chair, I'm focus n working on 20 % ... Best presentation 👌 ,agree chase 4 excellence

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES - chase for excellence!!! We all can control that:)

  • @ariwulanbunga5348
    @ariwulanbunga5348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the best TED talk I've ever watched

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow thank you so much Ariwulanbunga!

  • @monicagibbs1723
    @monicagibbs1723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great TEDx talk! I will be sharing this with others. Thank you!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Monica - YES spread the word. As I shared in the Ted Talk - the key message is HOPE - that all of us can learn to sit in the middle chair:)

  • @th3gughy
    @th3gughy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This explains why I feel out of place when people appoint me as leading figure. I often feel inadequate, but all I do is bring "the pros" together, and I sit with them and I absorb from them.. and, well, this is a very important point of the lesson. But my favourite statement here is: strive for excellence, not perfection. Again I think it reflects a lot of myself. Thank you for this very important video and lesson!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow Guglielmo - this is powerful reflection. YES often when people see The Three Chairs - they can see themselves in the different seats in different parts of their life. It helps many people understand WHY they have made certain choices - WHY they have set goals too high or too low - WHY they have chosen certain partners / friends in their life ... the first step is awareness - the second set is taking action - and yes having the mindset of excellence not perfection is the secret!

  • @fidanpasayeva8289
    @fidanpasayeva8289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is the greatest inspirational speech I have ever listened!! Wooow❤️❤️

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you too much Fidan!!!

  • @dopelumimusic
    @dopelumimusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you - I'm glad you found it helpful!

  • @arafama52
    @arafama52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is Brilliant! Thank you for your wonderful talk👏👏❤️💐

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Arafa:)

  • @mlaytonturner
    @mlaytonturner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a clear and simple concept for how we all behave. Kudos!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY!! The goal was simple and easy to understand for ALL ages!

  • @wtv60
    @wtv60 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true! Enjoyed this so much. Confidence is empowering..

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! YES confidence IS empowering!

  • @chelfisrianastasya3598
    @chelfisrianastasya3598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you for shareing this things, it’s clearly delivered and so inspiring. appreciate for all the insights in this content, wish i can practice it in my daily basis at work 🙋🏼‍♀️

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Chelfisri - so glad to hear you enjoyed it!

  • @sXnjh
    @sXnjh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't know about this earlier but went through same phase and improving myself the same way. And I improved alot in 3 years. This gave me a bit positivity. Thank you so much mam.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very welcome Sanjana!

    • @sXnjh
      @sXnjh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@drkaryngordon Glad to receive a reply from you 💝

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sXnjh Way to go for taking the time to improve yourself Sanjana - your story is a beautiful one that all of us can make changes:)

  • @lisahuie6825
    @lisahuie6825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    heartfelt story and content. thanks for the simple framework to inspire great leaders and leadership for ourselves, our teams, our families and friends. watch the talk, practice the skills ... your future self will be grateful.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Lisa for your kind words - AGREED - a message for all of us!

  • @OrcjaEnglish
    @OrcjaEnglish 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's inspiring. I would prefer to the confident than over-confident.

  • @suewigston31
    @suewigston31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Such a great metaphor that truly does impact all of us! Love the practical tools!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Sue:) Love taking research - and making it practical:)

  • @jenna_rem
    @jenna_rem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely amazing explanation of confidence and actions

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Jenna - so glad you enjoyed it!

  • @abhishekrai4731
    @abhishekrai4731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolute 💯 true categorization of people

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So kind Abhishek - its a great simple model to understand people!

  • @anthonybrum2399
    @anthonybrum2399 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That talk deserved a rousing applause to finish.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words! The audience was actually instructed not to applause for the filming:)

  • @amirbeknurillayev6805
    @amirbeknurillayev6805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your clear voice i loved it 🥰💕🥰🥰🥰💕🥰

  • @nawressuhaib6615
    @nawressuhaib6615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @jpjp7298
    @jpjp7298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Starting a career at 43, I tend to sit in the left chair, but every now and again, I have a cheek in the middle chair as well. It’s split. 😂 I’m a female in a male dominated field, having to balance leadership/confidence with humility can be challenging.

  • @preewilliams521
    @preewilliams521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was awesome!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Pree! Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @yourfinancialcoach_ph
    @yourfinancialcoach_ph ปีที่แล้ว +1

    super love this

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad to hear you enjoyed it!

  • @Samira-me3re
    @Samira-me3re ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @bellisimashomesteam
    @bellisimashomesteam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agree!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Bella for sharing your thoughts:)

  • @fatemaalajoom2633
    @fatemaalajoom2633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can someone provide the date, time and where this took place? I have an assignment and I chose this video.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a wonderful idea! Yes we filmed it it Feb. 2022 - and it was published 1 month ago:)

  • @rebeccaguerrier1007
    @rebeccaguerrier1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Talk! Love the three chairs concept. The book is so enlightening as well.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Rebecca - its such a simple concept - and thrilled to hear you enjoyed my book as well:)

  • @1001zaki
    @1001zaki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely wonderful 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @دعاءاحمد-ق8ض
    @دعاءاحمد-ق8ض 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is strong enough ❤

  • @natashamorgan9911
    @natashamorgan9911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was sooo good 🙌

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thrilled to hear you enjoyed it Natasha!

  • @saitmatovsuhrobjon6351
    @saitmatovsuhrobjon6351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for advise

  • @saraiflores8026
    @saraiflores8026 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing.. I am happy for listen this

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear this Sarai!

  • @melinamarques3997
    @melinamarques3997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome 🤩

  • @blairdolphin6847
    @blairdolphin6847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative and relatable.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful Blair! That was the goal - to make it easy to understand and relatable!

  • @gowreswarythayaparan2105
    @gowreswarythayaparan2105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great talk ❤

  • @jenneferrabado6942
    @jenneferrabado6942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent

  • @tomjohnswan
    @tomjohnswan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing talk!!

  • @shubhamsingla7048
    @shubhamsingla7048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Initially, by looking at the thumbnail I thought the speaker is Lisa Kudrow (Phoebe from FRIENDS).

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope - nope Lisa:) Not sure how they decide the thumbnail pic:)

  • @bassamsroujy9083
    @bassamsroujy9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are really great

  • @sreejamalka2863
    @sreejamalka2863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    11:40

  • @katherandefy
    @katherandefy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And nobody claps? Great concept!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Katherandefy! Ha - the audience was told not to clap until the recording stopped:) So glad you enjoyed it!

  • @neliswajokweni5872
    @neliswajokweni5872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Soo good.

  • @jasleenksaluja
    @jasleenksaluja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Talk❤️

  • @na7430
    @na7430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5:25

  • @dallasjames9381
    @dallasjames9381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    fantastic content clearly delivered!

  • @bassamsroujy9083
    @bassamsroujy9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am enough😍😍

  • @عبدالرحمن-ض6ص5ظ
    @عبدالرحمن-ض6ص5ظ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great

  • @hanmai5885
    @hanmai5885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very useful

  • @darknessarives
    @darknessarives 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if we are laying across all 3 chairs? I feel like I do all of these for most situations in phases starting with the stage the self doubt then feeling like I'm not reacting correctly let me to over confident and cocky into no I need to reign it in and then finally reach the center

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes - many people would relate to your comment:) Remember no one sits in 1 chair 100% of the time - we are all moving around the 3 chairs. The key question is what chair do you see yourself sit in the majority of the time - and how does it impact your life? Next ask yourself, what healthy action steps can you make to help yourself sit more often in the middle chair?

  • @themistoclesnelson2163
    @themistoclesnelson2163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much - glad you enjoyed it!

  • @bothinaal_amdy3288
    @bothinaal_amdy3288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am enough. Thanks so much

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES - you are enough. Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @annamed1697
    @annamed1697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❣❣

  • @dineshmishra4710
    @dineshmishra4710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are a lot of people with a lots of confidence floating around now-a-days... Companies are going to value talent more for leadership roles because employees have high expectations from their leadership than just empty words...

  • @g.c.4642
    @g.c.4642 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Microphone is bad in this video 😢

  • @pierremartinetto
    @pierremartinetto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    interesting

  • @sajikg8140
    @sajikg8140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yaa... Confidence is the reflection of EQ (Emotional Quotient)
    Over-Confidence is the reflection of IQ.. 😊😩

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Saji - YES confidence is part of EQ ... someone can have high IQ and low EQ ... when someone is overly confident (arrogant) - its a sign of low EQ. Make sense?

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😊

  • @russellhelms5436
    @russellhelms5436 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m in the first chair

  • @heyitsiya5249
    @heyitsiya5249 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "I know a lot, but I don't know everything."

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YES YES YES!

  • @xornam3009
    @xornam3009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My takeaway! Unconsciously we're attracted to people who think the same way we do.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      TY Maxwell - yes - many people find that part on relationships very interesting! So important to help ourselves sit in the middle chair - so we are attracted to others also in the middle chair (and vice versa)!

  • @roneljesus
    @roneljesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    U are enough. Say it. Say it again. Beleive it.

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES you are enough - PERIOD! So glad this part connected with you - its the heart of the message!

  • @russellhelms5436
    @russellhelms5436 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s something that I don’t have

  • @Nicolelie123
    @Nicolelie123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok relationship is a important example but organization lifestyle ok

  • @febequezada5292
    @febequezada5292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know a lot. But I don't know everything.

  • @Ma7yrka
    @Ma7yrka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    если вы заметили это видео в просмотре но не смотрели его то знайте!!!
    на данное видео накручивают просмотры и лайки!!! вероятнее всего Ваш аккаунт взломали!! срочно поменяйте пароль!!

  • @vadergrd
    @vadergrd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the 999th like ... i am enough

  • @ginawagner6956
    @ginawagner6956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am Enough...? Love the chairs. But the ' I am enough ' affirmation has been around for decades. Ya ain't teaching me anything new here aside from the 5 minutes of the different personality types.

  • @kawsarhosen4017
    @kawsarhosen4017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She speaks Faster ...don't understand properly

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing! Yes agreed - I do speak fast - so much I want to share in 18 minutes:)

    • @scottfalkirk714
      @scottfalkirk714 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's a bit over exasperated, I'm watching at 2x speed and I understand it.

  • @anniep855
    @anniep855 ปีที่แล้ว

    TRUMP 2024 🇺🇸

  • @sehamalanisi4530
    @sehamalanisi4530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    u speak v fast I barely figured it out

    • @drkaryngordon
      @drkaryngordon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha - yes! So much to share in 18 minutes:)

  • @kevinscott168
    @kevinscott168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Think this must e an American thing.
    So shallow

  • @marieschmidt9416
    @marieschmidt9416 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whoa. The speaker talked so fast and raised her voiced so much that I got irritated. Please, just a second to breath so that the listener can assimilate what is said. Just a pregnant pause.

  • @JovanGarcia-f6u
    @JovanGarcia-f6u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ugh I can’t take her screaming!