feeling lost in my 20s: reflecting on my goals

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  • @tofugoob
    @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    HOWDY!!!! I appreciate you ALL and hope you have a healthy start to the new year. Click here bit.ly/48m4NlN to take the quiz and use my code TOFU50 for 50% off your first Care/of subscription order!

  • @susanharkema2888
    @susanharkema2888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    “I trust myself to make big moves!” That is an awesome mantra. It feels grounding and free! Enjoy the journey!

  • @haunanitomas8540
    @haunanitomas8540 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    yes to the book club please! 🩵

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YAS I am hopefully gonna post some info about it today!

  • @Christina24life
    @Christina24life 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You’re good at talking. I wish I could talk as naturally as you do to the camera.

  • @alejandracastillo6327
    @alejandracastillo6327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you for talking about not being able to open your shop yet when you had plans to do so. I’ve also been wanting to open a sticker shop for a whole year now but everything is just so overwhelming 😣 and that doubt of “ohhh but what if no one likes them”.

  • @tahteescreations
    @tahteescreations 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In 2022 I didn't do any art and my mental health was trash. In 2023 when I got into art again my mental health has been great. Art is so therapeutic to me🙃

  • @kyiexxbu5586
    @kyiexxbu5586 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve been struggling so so much as an artist and my progress but I’ve realized that it’s my life & my
    journey so I’m gonna be me the whole way. And it makes it even harder as a woman I feel so I’m so grateful for your vulnerability bc it makes me feel heard and like damn there are other women who are just as confused but so strong ❤❤

  • @kristengalazka5057
    @kristengalazka5057 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello, I just wanted to tell you that you inspired me to create my own painting. I did mine a bit different, but I loved you chose affirmations for yourself. Instead, I ended up writing a message to myself (or future self) from a friend perspective. I feel like writing in this way was easier to write from a place of love. I absolutely loved how it turned out and I am so proud. It's been waaaayyyy too long since I created a piece from my soul! Thank you for inspiring me! :)

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      oohhh I love the idea of writing a letter to yourself from a friend. That's so sweet :)

  • @Heyitsphoenixrae
    @Heyitsphoenixrae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You are so courageous and inspiring. I’m going to Improve in my art and launch my art shop this year. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. I’d love a video on tips for new TH-camrs that are interested in art and lifestyle content

  • @divinencounters
    @divinencounters 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the idea of an affirmation board/canvas!

  • @thepetiteotaku
    @thepetiteotaku 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    using old socks for cleaning, brilliant!

  • @yulissaargueta9939
    @yulissaargueta9939 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Having a safe journal 😿😿 thinking of it that way as an artist damn just woke my ass up

  • @jenwebbcreates
    @jenwebbcreates 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    leaving space at the top of the painting also means you could add more to if new things come up ☺
    awesome idea! I'm always focused on specific goals and tasks, but this is making me want to take a step back and think about some more general intentions and mantras

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      SUCH A GOOD POINT!! That would be a fun project to keep adding to. Yeah honestly I highly recommend some general kindness towards yourself it felt so nice :)

  • @sadfairy1761
    @sadfairy1761 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this inspired me to continue working on my own vision

  • @TimothyJohnLukeSmithPSA
    @TimothyJohnLukeSmithPSA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a fellow artist, I believe you are doing so very well. You are actively on the path and that is what its all about, the journey. I know it is cliche but that does not make it less true. I love the freedom that you express in your art and your passion for it shines through. Have you ever thought of adding airbrush to your work? I know you would excel in it.

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aw thank you! No i haven't really considered it but maybe in the future!!!

    • @TimothyJohnLukeSmithPSA
      @TimothyJohnLukeSmithPSA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you would excel in any medium you choose. @@tofugoob

  • @johnfisher9594
    @johnfisher9594 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Perfection is always so far away, but there is always beauty in simplicity!

  • @fredcrossing
    @fredcrossing 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m just one little Aussie .. but came to say you’re my favourite TH-camr and every time I watch your videos, I feel so happy and inspired. Even in ways you may not realise - like finding a cute new hairstyle! ❤ adore you, super keen for book club!

  • @wandguardnoodle
    @wandguardnoodle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the leftie smudge struggles is the most relatable content xD I wrote with an ink pen through most of my school + university years and the side of my hand was just always blue. Also I love the chaotic/ugly sketch book idea. I'm not an ARtist TM but I do dabble sometimes and often get frustrated when what comes out on paper doesn't match my vision. Maybe I'll try to draw with the explicit goal that it should look messy.

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesss try it out its so fun! Reminds me so much of drawing as a kid

  • @emilysloan1025
    @emilysloan1025 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so happy I found your account today. As an artist who’s starting from scratch this year after almost a year off, your views and critical thinking have really helped me frame my intentions!

  • @elliscristina3431
    @elliscristina3431 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just the title made me feel better,thank you❤

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      aw yay I am so glad :)

  • @gabbbyle
    @gabbbyle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    just found your channel!! it's crazy we have the same name different spelling!! LOL love your content 💌keep up the amazing work!!

  • @michaelmccoy-z7g
    @michaelmccoy-z7g 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Picasso and Degas both had sketchbooks that were a mix of drawings on one page that were so realistic, and then a few lines and smudges filling up the next page - the important thing is to just keep drawing - btw Julia Cameron has a new book called Living the Artist's Way - but I think I still like the original one better - and i love the high school art! - you're a natural - I have to work so hard at it - good thing it's fun for me - happy 2024!

  • @emmiecosyart
    @emmiecosyart 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly as a small artist myself, having an affrimations board would be so useful to me. I struggle so much mentally especially with imposter syndrome soo im gonma do myself a board too, so thanks for the idea

  • @ljlopez9470
    @ljlopez9470 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm in the same place as you too🫂

  • @lauradutrisac3743
    @lauradutrisac3743 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hair looks so good omg

  • @micaela.herrera
    @micaela.herrera 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Making a vision board is such a helpful way to set goals (especially for me as a visual person). Maybe that could help?

  • @MerediddyS
    @MerediddyS 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this! Hope you're staying warm in this wild Chicago weather!

  • @vltvt8745
    @vltvt8745 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You inspire me to re-deco my home!! And i love your tagline ‘an artist with 2 non art-job’. I think i will do the same ❤

  • @lauradutrisac3743
    @lauradutrisac3743 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    omg retiring! so proud of you whatever you do!!!! :,)

  • @LettersfromLex
    @LettersfromLex 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love a book club! I already have the book but I just have never used it.. it might also be fun to log my progress too!

  • @ChantelleArts
    @ChantelleArts 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a shag cut too and I love it so much, I'm never going back to a normal cut haha 😂

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AGREE I loveeee it!!!

  • @rabbitandbug
    @rabbitandbug 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congrats on finishing the artist's way! I have an ugly sketchbook and a pretty sketchbook one is for idea brainstorms and the other is for instagram LOL

  • @ch64321
    @ch64321 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this idea of a mantra board via a canvas !!! … might try my hand with this in the new year 💙🥳

  • @BennettYancey
    @BennettYancey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m in week 6 of the Artist’s Way. Definitely an amazing book! Great video as usual!

  • @emiliehugues4945
    @emiliehugues4945 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I match your vibe so much, thank you for sharing that sincerely

  • @rachael275
    @rachael275 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have inspired me a lot!!! I don't think I can thank you enough :3

  • @CeceLove08
    @CeceLove08 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOURE HAIR LOOKS SOOOOOO GOOOOD!

  • @jimjam2065
    @jimjam2065 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hi!! i only found your channel a couple days ago but i love it!! your videos inspire me so much to try and do the things i love even when im busy. i love your energy so much!!! sending hugs for this new year

  • @twinmom5138
    @twinmom5138 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best wishes to you in the new year!

  • @QueenXKnit
    @QueenXKnit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy new year to the old you ❤❤❤❤

  • @swearbearco
    @swearbearco 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can I just say your hair looks amazing?

  • @PlantDad215
    @PlantDad215 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing this. I was wondering if you could link to where you about the artist way? There are so many versions on amazon. Thank you!

  • @salehag7255
    @salehag7255 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this vlog! You have a wonderful voice

  • @fuzzydragons
    @fuzzydragons 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    all my sketchbooks are 'ugly'sketchbooks lol
    Same about the spelling, lol i have a masters in Litt but cant spell lol😝

  • @QueenXKnit
    @QueenXKnit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loooove the new pfp ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yaminogame7805
    @yaminogame7805 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congrats on your decision to give yourself more time. Quitting the NBA possibly sounds a little scary for you, but I think you'll like having a bit more room to breathe with just the two jobs. TH-cam being one (yes it is work ;) ) and your other one. You'll be just fine.

  • @ffern-re8hx
    @ffern-re8hx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hehe your new hair fits you so much! A quick question, which handheld mini mic are you using?

  • @ChelsSpiceArt
    @ChelsSpiceArt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lefty club!

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YEAHHHH!!!!

  • @DQ_ArtGroupie
    @DQ_ArtGroupie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You seemed uncertain as to whether you were saying "gesso" correctly. I believe you are. The "G" in "gesso" sounds like the "J" in "Jell-o". I think instead of calling them "ugly" sketchbooks, we should borrow a term from AuthorTube and call them "zero-draft" sketchbooks, where the first draft is a first attempt to put something together how we want it to look and feel, the zero draft is the "no pressure", "no expectations", "get all your ideas out there", "doesn't have to look pretty" draft, just like you were saying, aimed at capturing our ideas however rough, more so than our desired aesthetics.

  • @DragonBlood-he8ul
    @DragonBlood-he8ul 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did you just gesso an gesso'd canvas?

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lmao I have no idea but if so that's pretty funny

  • @Shallow-o1o
    @Shallow-o1o 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve always loved your content . Your are a an influencer , living your life without mentioning what is going in Palestine is a shame on you !you have an audience and not using for the sake of humanity is a big big shame ! What is going there is a genocide ! Women are 💣 , children are cutting into parts , houses are falling , hospitals are literally going down , churches and mosques are going down as well ! Kids crying for families and journalist have being attacking as well ! Here’s one of the tragic stories : a Palestinian journalists received a news on his work , 22 of his family members are gone ! What more should those people should go through in order for the people around the entire world to wake up from their silence and speak , 😢😢😢😢😢 do not be like that 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

  • @Dalenacreates
    @Dalenacreates 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos always inspire me so much to just get up and paint 🥹💙
    I’ve really enjoyed watching you grow as an artist and human being. Thank you for sharing your journey with the world

    • @tofugoob
      @tofugoob  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      UGH yay that makes me so happy!!!! thank u for watching!