I would first and foremost like to thank Mark amd the entire SWU team for the priveledge of sharing my story in active alcoholism but most importantly active Recovery. Tales of alcoholism/addiction are a tragic familiarity as old as Man himself. The turnaround tale is one that in my opinion we all seek out the most and are warm-stricken when we hear it. It's been an arduous period of my life but I wouldn't change anything. After all, I need to be grateful for all that Life has given me. Especially the introspection which no doubt allow for more emotional growth/maturity. I am actively liking looking for employment around the West Los Angeles / Santa Monica area. Here is my info for anyone to reach out to me, even if juat to talk f the struggle you might be having that we both have shared.
Man you are so well versed and seem like you'd be the MOST successful person. I think you got this brother, one moment at a time. Keep liftin too, lookin great!
I appreciate your interview full of wisdom. Your mindset applies to anyone struggling to make peace with their suffering, whatever that may be. You spoke the difficult truth we need to improve our quality of lives. I know I have to stop my negative thoughts before I let them take over. I’m happy you’ve stopped looking at your reflection in a, carnival funhouse mirror. ❤ I hope you’ll come back for another interview to catch us up on your new life. Many blessings to you from Michigan. ❤❤❤
It's because of SWU and people like Charile's story that motivated me to free myself from fen, and have 9 months under my belt. Thanks for your great work, Mark.
That’s awesome you just never know what or who my make it just click one day and you tell yourself I’m worth more than what people say I am congratulations it’s a daily struggle but it does get better 7 yrs clean here love and light
My sober date is November 27th, i just crossed 3 years... Thanks to SWU and a good hobby i have actually been able to sustain!!!! You got this Charlie!!!
Thank you for ALWAYS allowing your guest to talk and share their stories without interrupting them 200 times like most content creators. Blessings Mark 🙏 ❤
Guy looks super healthy. From a lot of the comments, this is a beautiful thing you're documenting, Mark. You're changing lives. Resepct to you Charlie. 180 degree turnaround. Be there for your daughter and keep going, bro!
I had the pleasure of meeting Charlie last year while doing medical street outreach. He is such an amazing human, so positive and full of light. One of the things that’s stuck out was his beautiful smile. He didn’t have a phone at the time and his only request was to call his mom and let her know he was still alive. Unfortunately, we couldn’t reach her and was unable to find him again. I am so happy to see he’s doing well, I knew he could do it. Seeing Charlie brings tears to my eyes. He is special and I pray he continues to thrive. Charlie if you get this message, we are rooting for you! 🙏🏽🩵
"I placed myself in a position to be hurt." That's accountability. He's an amazing person and someone with a high potential of being able to be helped. He's wonderful, and I hope he continues to do well. I wonder if he's ever heard 'Comparison is the thief of joy'? I kept thinking about that phrase while listening to his story.
Proud of you Charlie. Your level of self realization is incredible, I think that is a huge factor in sobriety. I can’t believe it’s been 2 years since your last interview, I remember seeing your first interview thinking that is one good looking man, I wish nothing but the best for you sir.
I’ve been happily enjoying sobriety for 30 years without relapsing Charlie you can do this too you have the right mindset. Kicking herion is a massive achievement you should be proud of yourself. My motto is to be kind to one another and to love yourself.
You know what's truly bad ass? Someone that's kicked those bad habits like Charlie and so many others of you!!! Very inspirational and motivational!!! Thanks for sharing these stories!!!!
Go Charlie! For what it’s worth, I thought you looked familiar, but when Mark inserted the flashback to your previous video, it was like WHOA. You’ve come so far and achieved so much. You’ve got this! And I love your philosophy of “I’m not bored…I’m just not living up to my full potential.” Awesome approach to curbing self-destructive tendencies. I’m going to remember your words the next time I’m tempted to deviate from my goals.
I'm 14 years sober of being a hardcore junkie. I found my sobriety through faith and self-discipline. I can see your character and healthy well-being, honesty & transparency. I understand you think it's because of synchronicity in getting clean. But i see an aura around you and it's a God given gift. You are definetly called to give all the grace & glory to God. Father God is revealing himself through your testimony. My brother in Christ run with that
As he spoke so eloquently I remembered him from his last video . Such a beautiful spirit . Congratulations ❤ and wish nothing but the best for you and your family . 👊🏼👍🏻💪🏻
That's awesome!! Keep it up, even if You fall, just get back up, brush yourself off and try again. You can do it and I promise You it's worth it!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@johnfernandez2060 So You are still keeping it up!! Good!! The gym is a great idea, it helps to keep yourself occupied. I've been clean since Apr 8th 2020. The first 6 months were rough at times. I'm really glad you are doing well. It always makes me happy to hear of someone else choosing to live.
Keep it up bro. Keep like minded people around, workout and focus on eating healthy. do all that and you won't go back. Reach out if you need a group ;)
You’ve got this Charlie! So much of what you said is true! Emotional sobriety, self love and respect, kindness most of all. Keep at it, you’re a great guy!
This was extremely inspiring. Thank you Charlie for sharing your recovery journey with us. I myself am not even an addict but I too fall under the umbrella of self-sabotage and not living up to my full potential. It's so easy to think these negative thoughts about ourselves when we would never speak this way about the people we love. Self love is important for growth, we are all worthy of a good life. All the best to you Charlie keep putting the work in for yourself, you're worth it.
My friends call it "spirit fingers". It's a nervous thing which worsens when I drink coffee. You should see me on the gym while on pre-workout. Lol. Great observation though. But no, I'm proud to say that I'm sober. I deliberately didn't drink more than one cup of coffee that morning.
I love seeing the recovery videos. Charlie looks so well! Much love and support to your channel for highlighting others journeys. It truly is changing lives.
The way he looks....handsome, and so physically attractive...and so well spoken...how could he think poorly of himself, I thought. God bless his sweet little girl, Iris....asking him such a profound question....where he had to think.... and not delude himself....then really discovering the truth....that he was never empty inside...even though he'd used that as an excuse in explaining his substance abuse.
I am an alcohol and can relate I'm finding it really hard in the uk to get help I would love to tell my story I honestly think it would help i have seen how many people you have helped thank you Mark it's so nice to see people doing well
I'm so happy for you Charlie 🤗. I'll have 4 years in June and I didn't get clean till I was 50 and do I wish it was sooner of course but it has to be when your ready. You can't do it for your brother mother sister,, you have to do it for yourself and even though it's selfish it's so worth it when you get clean. My family never gave up on me and I never knew why but so grateful they didn't and now my sister and I are best friends . Is my life all unicorns and rainbows no not at all but is my life better absolutely and I don't want to ever use again and I know the longer I stay clean little by little my life will get even better. Just wanted to share a little bit of my story but Charlie is clearly doing amazing and it's so refreshing to see and hear. Mark as always another great interview
So happy to see him again 🥹Absolutely one of my favourite people on the channel. My father was the same a heroin addict/drunk, people do change and it is something that they will fight their whole lives but it can be done. Love you man i hope you keep staying strong and keep seeing how amazing you truly are, youre daughter deserves to have her dad around 🩷
Charlie thank you so much for sharing. I was going to make a different comment altogether and then you mentioned GRATITUDE. You are spot on with what you said at the end. Keep that gratitude in your heart and help others as I know you know and you will remain sober and thrive. Be well Charlie.
Thank you for sharing. I REALLY needed to hear this . I'm in a bad head space right now but working on it. I have a complex congenital heart condition I've had to address over the years while maintaining a productive life. Post trauma is real. Thank you for reminding me how powerful and valuable gratitude, self love , self worth & meditation is . Meditation really does rewire the brain to a more cohesive one. Everything you said resonated w me as I watched the whole thing here on my second day at the gym after a longer hiatus then I would care to admit. Ground zero again. You are inspiring . Thank you Sir❤
So proud of you Charlie. I’m going on 15 months sober and it’s great. Your and other stories on this awesome man Mark’s SWU inspired me to stay on track and keep going strong to conquer this addiction. Wish you the best always. Love you man!
I am so proud of those commenting on here that are in recovery and have sought sobriety! Keep it up! You all are showing the world how much you love and value yourselves.
Charlie, you have so much wisdom and goodness inside of you. You are a truly inspiring human being and I am so glad to learn about your recovery. Warm greetings from Sweden
There is a saying "Comparison is the road to misery." I'm glad you stopped being so cruel to yourself Charlie! Wishing you great sober times ahead. You are very well spoken. Go chase a dream.
Such a raw and real presentation of an addict’s life. Charlie is a testimony to the mental and physical mettle it takes/ it took to get him to this level of self resolve and inner peace. I respect his determination and purpose… stay strong, Charlie. You’ve got this❤
Beautiful story. I’m the mother of an only child and I can’t imagine the pain your mom went through. I’m so happy to hear of your journey to recovery and hope you can stay on the right path. Your mom and most importantly your daughter deserve it ❤
Charlie! I must say you are such a charismatic, spiritual, amazing, intelligent man. You have an aura about you that people are drawn to. Youre intelligent and captivating. You remind me of my cousin Carlos who is also in LA and 10 years sober. We called him "Chito" and positive and well spoken just like you. Never seen the guy mad or angry, saw the good in everyone and was the kindest soul. It gave me chills watching this because you two look so much alike and talk alike. Congrats to you! I truly enjoy hearing you speak. You are such an inspiration to many. I hope you continue and learn to love yourself a little more each day as you have a light that can shine upon others!
So so awesome Charlie!!! Glad to see you again! This is what makes my heart happy of those that do decide to get clean! It’s all worth it! Thanks Mark!!!!! Saving one person at a time! ❤
This is your best video. He is speaking coherently and comprehensively. By far the most articulate and insightful person you've had on, including all the so-called 'experts'. He drills down into his own psyche and mine, being plagued by the same problems of low self-worth, which you have touched upon with many people, but they tend to dismiss it or have no real thoughts about it other than agreement. This guy gets the devil in the details and understands the dynamics at play. One thing I would say though, being estranged from a biological parent is a big factor, and being a latch-key kid. If parents don't fill you with enough due care and attention, make you grow up too quick, not enough nurturing, encouragement, guidance, discipline, organisation because of absence - that's the core right there. Charlie's mum had to do what she had to do as the breadwinner, but I don't doubt not having enough contact with her and his dad plays into the low self-worth and emptiness he's been feeling his whole adult life until recently.
I couldn't have said it better myself. What's not important is ruminating on the family I didn't have. What's important is working towards creating the family I wish to have. ❤
Great job, Charlie! 🎉I am so happy to see you doing so well. You are an inspiration! I love being sober, I have just over 18 months and it’s the best decision I ever (finally) made!
I’ve been clean and sober since September 11th 1986. Please slow down. You’re still very new to recovery Charlie, don’t get ahead of yourself and think you’ve got it all figured out. It’s one day at a time and the 12 steps which I haven’t heard you talk about are going to be the tools that keep you grounded and sober. Good job getting clean. It’s very hard in the beginning. Pat yourself on the back for making a great begining
I watched your first one man. You’re a cool dude. I relate to your thinking too. Gods working in a lot of our lives. Man. I’m gonna listen to this before work. Thank god.
I’m an addict. My addiction and the choices I’ve made have cost me everything. In Charlie’s first video, I related to his story and his words. I’m in the beginning of my recovery (2 weeks) and I’m hopeful that I can begin to reclaim my life. And then do what I can, to try and repair all the damage I’ve done. Thank you for sharing your story Charlie. I hope peace finds you on your journey. Thank you for your strength in recovery, and the inspiration you’ve given me. Thank you SWU for sharing his story, and so many others stories too. The work your doing is admirable, honorable and much needed. Health first Happiness always
I can recognize myself thinking like this my whole life too. I love to hear you talk. I’ve never been addicted to anything but can empathize with your words and story.
The movie bliss with Owen Wilson gave me a different look on ppl who do drugs .. also this channel it’s so crazy how it works. I’m glad he has found his way out. Seems like he’s doing better. always makes my day to see someone get out. Good work mark.
Yeah, Charlie. You're inspirational, kind, and have an incredible amount of strength. Prayers for your continued sobriety success! With your insight, you seem like you'd be a great peer counselor.
So grateful to see you again. And taking ownership thats so important. Wish my sister could..I'm 60 now and she's still on that ride..Happy for you! Keep going! 💙🌎🌙
Keep loving her. It’s horribly difficult but you can find a way. My niece is still made at me for refusing to lie to her probation officer. I had to tell the truth or she would have counted on me to tell more lies. No way to help anybody get sober.
Charlie, you are strong, you are worthy! Keep up the work, for you, your daughter, your mom, your family. Show yourself and them what you are so capable of. Loved what Mark said, "Im proud of you!"
What Charlie is saying about thinking you're empty when you really aren't hits home for me. I've dealt with anxiety and depression most of my life. I've been diagnosed, then re-diagnosed, and I've taken so many anti depressants and even anti-seizure meds. Everything just always got worse, and most of the time, I felt like I didn't want to live. One day, my therapist asked me to write down 4 people I could count on and I couldn't think of one. In that one question and answer, I started a dialog with myself about why I thought I had no one. I had to be honest in the fact that I had so many people right there, waiting for me to open my eyes and see it. This made me realize that the only thing standing in my way was my negative self-worth and outlook. I still have my days, and I'm not saying that I just cured my mind with a different thought process... I also finally got a new diagnosis, and that also brought a lot of clarity about my feelings. I came to a point where I truly believed I deserved to be happy and to have good times, and I came to recognize the bad times for what they were and let them go. I'm not perfect, but I'm awesome. Every day is a chance to change things for the better. You just can't quit on yourself. Everyone is important to someone and for that alone the least we can do is show up and try. Even if we can't try for ourselves at the moment. I hope everyone has an amazing day today and I'm sending you all some love 💜💜💜
I also find the question very important to reflect: Can I count on myself? Because often we don't even trust ourselves anymore. I think this is a relationship that's crucial to fix! 😄
We definitely have feelings of insecurity, doubt, inadequacy and a bleak "present" at times. But they're just thoughts. I'm not responsible for my first thought, but I am over my second. Along with that I reframe those negatives and look around amd see the realities of my life. Good luck. ❤
Charlie, you have a beautiful soul. And you are an inspiration to more ppl than you can even imagine. We all fall from grace from time to time. I personally struggle with alcohol myself. I do good for months and then someone hurts me and I’m back drinking again for a few days. Then I realize I am only harming myself. And, I stop. It’s only harming me. I have never done heroine, it scares me simply because I have an addictive personality. I’m older and wiser now, yet you have more insight than I ever could. I am very self aware it is up to me and only me to take charge of my life. Thank you for sharing with us all. And thank you Mark for giving ppl a voice. You are also an inspiration to us all. You never judge ppl by their life choices and what they are currently doing or what they have done in the past. I personally have no trauma from my childhood, only that I am the youngest and was bullied by my older sister. Whom still scares me at times. I have recently in the last few years stood up for myself and she does not like it. I was the “fall girl” for many things that she did, but, I was blamed for. Like my parents finding weed in our room, and I got blamed. I never even liked weed. EVER. I just took the fall because she was the “golden child”. I am a daddy’s girl and have only recently told him that the things I was blamed for, was not me. Daddy and I are very close. Only a 3 minute drive away. He is going to be 91 in August and I thank God every day that I am the only child that lives near him. It sounds selfish, I know, but my sister is mean to him still. She flits in and out of his life and then starts her demands. I now can tell her to stop and have no regrets about it. (Sorry for the rant, I guess I needed it) I wish you both the very best that life can offer. God Bless You Both. 🙏🏼 Mark, you are an amazing man. Thank you for the people that feel comfortable enough to share with you. And, the people you have helped over the years. This is only my second time commenting on your channel, I do watch almost all of your videos. ❤️ thank you for listening. ( reading, if you do, that is💕)
Stick with it Charlie! Life can be beyond your wildest imagination! I have been clean and sober for 33 years and I never thought I'd become the person I am.
Great conversation from someone being honest with there self. Lots to Learn from this human that is constantly thinking about his actions. ❤ All of us humans want to heal & the government will continue to watch and do nothing. Fully focus on you ❤
So are so well spoken and intelligent Charlie, as see you being an attorney, ceo or some high paying job. go back to school you got this, you are strong. prayers, hugs and love
Charlie is such a special person! It’s easy to see how he has so many friends and people who love him. He’s an inspiration to any addict looking to change. Charlie, you would make a great motivational speaker and should consider doing a Ted Talk. With your positive spirit, motivation, grateful attitude and kind heart, you will be a success wherever you go! Blessings to you, your mom and daughter.
Can‘t believe he was an addict. A calm and lovely person. Funny and clever…Good looking… One wrong decision and life can change so fast from normal to very bad. Unbelievable.
I would first and foremost like to thank Mark amd the entire SWU team for the priveledge of sharing my story in active alcoholism but most importantly active Recovery. Tales of alcoholism/addiction are a tragic familiarity as old as Man himself. The turnaround tale is one that in my opinion we all seek out the most and are warm-stricken when we hear it. It's been an arduous period of my life but I wouldn't change anything. After all, I need to be grateful for all that Life has given me. Especially the introspection which no doubt allow for more emotional growth/maturity. I am actively liking looking for employment around the West Los Angeles / Santa Monica area. Here is my info for anyone to reach out to me, even if juat to talk f the struggle you might be having that we both have shared.
Good for you that you’re doing better on the road of recovery, very encouraging! ❤
Man you are so well versed and seem like you'd be the MOST successful person. I think you got this brother, one moment at a time. Keep liftin too, lookin great!
You got this Charlie ❤
@@SpoonSurvivor I wouldn't know where or how to begin. But I wouldn't be opposed.
I appreciate your interview full of wisdom. Your mindset applies to anyone struggling to make peace with their suffering, whatever that may be. You spoke the difficult truth we need to improve our quality of lives. I know I have to stop my negative thoughts before I let them take over.
I’m happy you’ve stopped looking at your reflection in a, carnival funhouse mirror. ❤
I hope you’ll come back for another interview to catch us up on your new life.
Many blessings to you from Michigan. ❤❤❤
It's because of SWU and people like Charile's story that motivated me to free myself from fen, and have 9 months under my belt. Thanks for your great work, Mark.
I'm so proud of you ❤
That’s awesome you just never know what or who my make it just click one day and you tell yourself I’m worth more than what people say I am congratulations it’s a daily struggle but it does get better 7 yrs clean here love and light
That's incredible!
No way that could've been easy!! That's awesome
Keep up the outstanding progress you’ve made. So proud of you!
My sober date is November 27th, i just crossed 3 years... Thanks to SWU and a good hobby i have actually been able to sustain!!!! You got this Charlie!!!
Thank yourself and willpower. Nobody done it but you! 💪
I've been seeing your comments from the beginning.... years ago (you and Wesley). proud of you, congrats.
Happy belated Birthday, brother! I’m glad you are still here. I’m sending some California love your way, Gram!! ❤️🕊️
@@Rochelle721 thanks sweetie, right back at you my friend!!!
@@lisapizza6494 thank you very much, that's very kind of you!!! Have a great day!!!!
My goodness, what a transformation. Charlie looks amazing and so sharp of mind. Major respect to him for coming back from something so harrowing.
Thank you for ALWAYS allowing your guest to talk and share their stories without interrupting them 200 times like most content creators. Blessings Mark 🙏 ❤
Exactly!
It gets easier as time goes on. I am 20+ years clean. Keep on doing what youre doing mate.
20+ here as well. Thanks to therapy and Bill W.
Guy looks super healthy. From a lot of the comments, this is a beautiful thing you're documenting, Mark. You're changing lives. Resepct to you Charlie. 180 degree turnaround. Be there for your daughter and keep going, bro!
I had the pleasure of meeting Charlie last year while doing medical street outreach. He is such an amazing human, so positive and full of light. One of the things that’s stuck out was his beautiful smile. He didn’t have a phone at the time and his only request was to call his mom and let her know he was still alive. Unfortunately, we couldn’t reach her and was unable to find him again. I am so happy to see he’s doing well, I knew he could do it. Seeing Charlie brings tears to my eyes. He is special and I pray he continues to thrive. Charlie if you get this message, we are rooting for you! 🙏🏽🩵
Hey there! Thank you so much for your kind words. You are and have been appreciated for all you and your team do.
Never look back.. you got this
So well-spoken and so smart. Charlie you got this.
so artookalit!
@@jjonez787what?
"I placed myself in a position to be hurt." That's accountability. He's an amazing person and someone with a high potential of being able to be helped. He's wonderful, and I hope he continues to do well. I wonder if he's ever heard 'Comparison is the thief of joy'? I kept thinking about that phrase while listening to his story.
The fact that people who watch SWU and get inspired to change their lives for the better, is a tribute to the work that Mark is doing!!!
Proud of you Charlie. Your level of self realization is incredible, I think that is a huge factor in sobriety. I can’t believe it’s been 2 years since your last interview, I remember seeing your first interview thinking that is one good looking man, I wish nothing but the best for you sir.
Under a year actually. But thank you.
You look so good Charlie. We are all so proud of you. One day at a time. 🙏
I’ve been happily enjoying sobriety for 30 years without relapsing Charlie you can do this too you have the right mindset. Kicking herion is a massive achievement you should be proud of yourself. My motto is to be kind to one another and to love yourself.
Congratulations! That is quite an achievement. I have hope Charlie will continue to thrive.
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@@johnarhodes3748Tha k you kindly.
Made my night to see how much better he looks from the first one. Keep up the good work brother proud of you man
You have a few super powers: being positive, charismatic and eloquent are just some of them. You‘re an inspiration. All the best for your path.
You know what's truly bad ass? Someone that's kicked those bad habits like Charlie and so many others of you!!! Very inspirational and motivational!!! Thanks for sharing these stories!!!!
Thanks bro
Go Charlie! For what it’s worth, I thought you looked familiar, but when Mark inserted the flashback to your previous video, it was like WHOA. You’ve come so far and achieved so much. You’ve got this! And I love your philosophy of “I’m not bored…I’m just not living up to my full potential.” Awesome approach to curbing self-destructive tendencies. I’m going to remember your words the next time I’m tempted to deviate from my goals.
All actions are born in thought. Let's reframe our thinking!
Looking good there Charlie! Good job on getting clean. Praying for your continued recovery and success!
Congratulations! Your mother must be so relieved and happy.
I'm 14 years sober of being a hardcore junkie. I found my sobriety through faith and self-discipline. I can see your character and healthy well-being, honesty & transparency. I understand you think it's because of synchronicity in getting clean. But i see an aura around you and it's a God given gift. You are definetly called to give all the grace & glory to God. Father God is revealing himself through your testimony. My brother in Christ run with that
I felt that. Praying salvation to him . ❤
As he spoke so eloquently I remembered him from his last video . Such a beautiful spirit . Congratulations ❤ and wish nothing but the best for you and your family . 👊🏼👍🏻💪🏻
I’m 3 days clean let’s get it!
That's awesome!! Keep it up, even if You fall, just get back up, brush yourself off and try again. You can do it and I promise You it's worth it!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@valethewolf49 thank you for your kind words.ive been clean and even got back into the gym yesterday. It feels great
@@johnfernandez2060 So You are still keeping it up!! Good!! The gym is a great idea, it helps to keep yourself occupied. I've been clean since Apr 8th 2020. The first 6 months were rough at times. I'm really glad you are doing well. It always makes me happy to hear of someone else choosing to live.
Keep it up bro. Keep like minded people around, workout and focus on eating healthy. do all that and you won't go back. Reach out if you need a group ;)
Keep going bro it’s worth it trust me
Very compelling interview. Glad Mark chose to meet with Charlie again.🙂
You’ve got this Charlie! So much of what you said is true! Emotional sobriety, self love and respect, kindness most of all. Keep at it, you’re a great guy!
This was extremely inspiring. Thank you Charlie for sharing your recovery journey with us. I myself am not even an addict but I too fall under the umbrella of self-sabotage and not living up to my full potential. It's so easy to think these negative thoughts about ourselves when we would never speak this way about the people we love. Self love is important for growth, we are all worthy of a good life. All the best to you Charlie keep putting the work in for yourself, you're worth it.
Charlie I’m proud of you. This interview is so great. It’s nice to see positive.
I hope not. He sounds great. @shaunnal2560
@shaunnal2560Could it be nerves?
My friends call it "spirit fingers". It's a nervous thing which worsens when I drink coffee. You should see me on the gym while on pre-workout. Lol. Great observation though. But no, I'm proud to say that I'm sober. I deliberately didn't drink more than one cup of coffee that morning.
@@xharlielara 👍😂
@@xharlielara Charlie I believe in you. It was a great interview. Don’t let downer people bother you. Good luck always.
I love seeing the recovery videos. Charlie looks so well! Much love and support to your channel for highlighting others journeys. It truly is changing lives.
Thank you, Mark. Great interview. Much love and respect to you, Charlie. You are an inspiration to all of us struggling with life.
The way he looks....handsome, and so physically attractive...and so well spoken...how could he think poorly of himself, I thought. God bless his sweet little girl, Iris....asking him such a profound question....where he had to think.... and not delude himself....then really discovering the truth....that he was never empty inside...even though he'd used that as an excuse in explaining his substance abuse.
5 months clean myself brother! SWU and stories like this help me stay sober!
🎉Congratulations brother. We never do know who might be the voice that plants the seed that'll give birth to our new lives.
@@xharlielara thanks brother !! You never know how one persons strength and hope can help another’s !
I am an alcohol and can relate I'm finding it really hard in the uk to get help I would love to tell my story I honestly think it would help i have seen how many people you have helped thank you Mark it's so nice to see people doing well
I'm so happy for you Charlie 🤗. I'll have 4 years in June and I didn't get clean till I was 50 and do I wish it was sooner of course but it has to be when your ready. You can't do it for your brother mother sister,, you have to do it for yourself and even though it's selfish it's so worth it when you get clean. My family never gave up on me and I never knew why but so grateful they didn't and now my sister and I are best friends . Is my life all unicorns and rainbows no not at all but is my life better absolutely and I don't want to ever use again and I know the longer I stay clean little by little my life will get even better. Just wanted to share a little bit of my story but Charlie is clearly doing amazing and it's so refreshing to see and hear. Mark as always another great interview
I’m so happy you’re enjoying your life. ❤❤❤
@marylougeorge9890 awe thank you so much,, it means a lot ♥️🌹
@rachelrae860 thank you so much
@@xharlielara you are so very welcome 🌟
So happy to see him again 🥹Absolutely one of my favourite people on the channel. My father was the same a heroin addict/drunk, people do change and it is something that they will fight their whole lives but it can be done. Love you man i hope you keep staying strong and keep seeing how amazing you truly are, youre daughter deserves to have her dad around 🩷
Charlie thank you so much for sharing. I was going to make a different comment altogether and then you mentioned GRATITUDE. You are spot on with what you said at the end. Keep that gratitude in your heart and help others as I know you know and you will remain sober and thrive. Be well Charlie.
He seems like such a likeable guy. I’m so happy for him that he’s in recovery. Well done to him and I wish all the best for him and his family =)
Thank you for sharing. I REALLY needed to hear this . I'm in a bad head space right now but working on it. I have a complex congenital heart condition I've had to address over the years while maintaining a productive life. Post trauma is real. Thank you for reminding me how powerful and valuable gratitude, self love , self worth & meditation is . Meditation really does rewire the brain to a more cohesive one. Everything you said resonated w me as I watched the whole thing here on my second day at the gym after a longer hiatus then I would care to admit. Ground zero again. You are inspiring . Thank you Sir❤
So proud of you Charlie. I’m going on 15 months sober and it’s great. Your and other stories on this awesome man Mark’s SWU inspired me to stay on track and keep going strong to conquer this addiction. Wish you the best always. Love you man!
I am so proud of those commenting on here that are in recovery and have sought sobriety! Keep it up! You all are showing the world how much you love and value yourselves.
Wonderful to see you back again! You look so healthy and at peace. God Bless ❤
I use these videos for groups in a treatment center. Thank you for sharing these stories, and for the people who are brave enough to share!
So proud of you, Charlie!! Always remember you are more than any mess you could possibly make!!! You are MORE. Keep up the amazing work!!
Excellent words of encouragement. ❤❤❤
Charlie, you have so much wisdom and goodness inside of you.
You are a truly inspiring human being and I am so glad to learn about your recovery.
Warm greetings from Sweden
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Charlie looks great! Keep it up, my man!
I am extremely moved by Charlie’s before and after. Thank you for your vulnerability. You ARE redemption, love, and inspiration in its purest form.😢
There is a saying "Comparison is the road to misery." I'm glad you stopped being so cruel to yourself Charlie! Wishing you great sober times ahead. You are very well spoken. Go chase a dream.
Such a raw and real presentation of an addict’s life. Charlie is a testimony to the mental and physical mettle it takes/ it took to get him to this level of self resolve and inner peace. I respect his determination and purpose… stay strong, Charlie. You’ve got this❤
Thank you kindly, Stella.
Beautiful story. I’m the mother of an only child and I can’t imagine the pain your mom went through. I’m so happy to hear of your journey to recovery and hope you can stay on the right path. Your mom and most importantly your daughter deserve it ❤
I have a living amends to my daughter and mother. And also will be a pillar to the wife I may have one day.
I'll be 4 years clean this october! great interview! Ive really been enjoying listening to SWU interviews lately.
Charlie! I must say you are such a charismatic, spiritual, amazing, intelligent man. You have an aura about you that people are drawn to. Youre intelligent and captivating. You remind me of my cousin Carlos who is also in LA and 10 years sober. We called him "Chito" and positive and well spoken just like you. Never seen the guy mad or angry, saw the good in everyone and was the kindest soul. It gave me chills watching this because you two look so much alike and talk alike. Congrats to you! I truly enjoy hearing you speak. You are such an inspiration to many. I hope you continue and learn to love yourself a little more each day as you have a light that can shine upon others!
So so awesome Charlie!!! Glad to see you again! This is what makes my heart happy of those that do decide to get clean! It’s all worth it! Thanks Mark!!!!! Saving one person at a time! ❤
Life IS beautiful, Charlie & so is your story of recovery & sobriety!! From a random person in South Texas- I am so damn proud of you!!! 🖤
This is your best video. He is speaking coherently and comprehensively. By far the most articulate and insightful person you've had on, including all the so-called 'experts'. He drills down into his own psyche and mine, being plagued by the same problems of low self-worth, which you have touched upon with many people, but they tend to dismiss it or have no real thoughts about it other than agreement. This guy gets the devil in the details and understands the dynamics at play.
One thing I would say though, being estranged from a biological parent is a big factor, and being a latch-key kid. If parents don't fill you with enough due care and attention, make you grow up too quick, not enough nurturing, encouragement, guidance, discipline, organisation because of absence - that's the core right there. Charlie's mum had to do what she had to do as the breadwinner, but I don't doubt not having enough contact with her and his dad plays into the low self-worth and emptiness he's been feeling his whole adult life until recently.
I couldn't have said it better myself. What's not important is ruminating on the family I didn't have. What's important is working towards creating the family I wish to have. ❤
@@xharlielara Exactly right, mate. Good luck to you. It doesn't have to be a life sentence, once we understand it we're in control. Much love.
Beautiful interview, so full of hope and grace
Tears in my eyes. What a absolutely lovely guy
Great job, Charlie! 🎉I am so happy to see you doing so well. You are an inspiration! I love being sober, I have just over 18 months and it’s the best decision I ever (finally) made!
I’ve been clean and sober since September 11th 1986. Please slow down. You’re still very new to recovery Charlie, don’t get ahead of yourself and think you’ve got it all figured out. It’s one day at a time and the 12 steps which I haven’t heard you talk about are going to be the tools that keep you grounded and sober. Good job getting clean. It’s very hard in the beginning. Pat yourself on the back for making a great begining
I watched your first one man. You’re a cool dude. I relate to your thinking too. Gods working in a lot of our lives. Man. I’m gonna listen to this before work. Thank god.
Amen!❤❤❤
I’m an addict. My addiction and the choices I’ve made have cost me everything.
In Charlie’s first video, I related to his story and his words.
I’m in the beginning of my recovery (2 weeks) and I’m hopeful that I can begin to reclaim my life. And then do what I can, to try and repair all the damage I’ve done.
Thank you for sharing your story Charlie. I hope peace finds you on your journey. Thank you for your strength in recovery, and the inspiration you’ve given me.
Thank you SWU for sharing his story, and so many others stories too.
The work your doing is admirable, honorable and much needed.
Health first
Happiness always
What a lovely story. Go Charlie. Live however you feel makes you mentally happy and healthy.
Happy and Healthy!
What an inspiring interview…thank you Charlie, thank you SWU.
I can recognize myself thinking like this my whole life too. I love to hear you talk. I’ve never been addicted to anything but can empathize with your words and story.
Thanks for being here, Charlie. Keep moving forward ❤
Such a wise and articulate man, what a life journey he is on. I see him helping others in the future. All the best to you Charlie!
You look way healthier than tge previous video dude! Youre doing great and one day at a time is a great way!
The movie bliss with Owen Wilson gave me a different look on ppl who do drugs .. also this channel it’s so crazy how it works. I’m glad he has found his way out. Seems like he’s doing better. always makes my day to see someone get out. Good work mark.
Wonderful movie and a decent dipiction of the delusion active addiction serves.
A great interview Mark, with Charlie, keep on keeping on. God Bless 🙏😊
I’m going on my 3rd month of sobriety and just dealing with my self and my thoughts. SWU has definitely been an inspiration.
Congratulations on your 3 months.
It's awesome that you're walking the walk.
Keep it up!
Congratulations, Charlie🎉 Keep up the GREAT work, excited for your future!
You are so raw - your heart is showing. Start your own channel because we need more connection. Brilliant interview!
What a wonderful story! You are such a kind person and have so much to give! All the best to you for a successful life!
Yeah, Charlie.
You're inspirational, kind, and have an incredible amount of strength.
Prayers for your continued sobriety success!
With your insight, you seem like you'd be a great peer counselor.
What a powerful story, thank you for sharing Charlie.
SO happy to see Charlie again. God bless
Sending you the very best, Charlie!
Best story I’ve seen in a long time. Congratulations
So grateful to see you again. And taking ownership thats so important. Wish my sister could..I'm 60 now and she's still on that ride..Happy for you! Keep going! 💙🌎🌙
Keep loving her. It’s horribly difficult but you can find a way. My niece is still made at me for refusing to lie to her probation officer. I had to tell the truth or she would have counted on me to tell more lies. No way to help anybody get sober.
Thank you Connie.
Preach brother, keep up the hard work!
that's real growth in such a short amount of time. Keep it up!
It's a culmination of my life's experiences.
@@xharlielara and it goes on and on. To new heights! Cheers.
Thanks Charlie, what an inspiring interview! you are a very fine person. I wish you and your loved ones the best.
Charlie, you are strong, you are worthy! Keep up the work, for you, your daughter, your mom, your family. Show yourself and them what you are so capable of. Loved what Mark said, "Im proud of you!"
What Charlie is saying about thinking you're empty when you really aren't hits home for me. I've dealt with anxiety and depression most of my life. I've been diagnosed, then re-diagnosed, and I've taken so many anti depressants and even anti-seizure meds. Everything just always got worse, and most of the time, I felt like I didn't want to live. One day, my therapist asked me to write down 4 people I could count on and I couldn't think of one. In that one question and answer, I started a dialog with myself about why I thought I had no one. I had to be honest in the fact that I had so many people right there, waiting for me to open my eyes and see it. This made me realize that the only thing standing in my way was my negative self-worth and outlook. I still have my days, and I'm not saying that I just cured my mind with a different thought process... I also finally got a new diagnosis, and that also brought a lot of clarity about my feelings. I came to a point where I truly believed I deserved to be happy and to have good times, and I came to recognize the bad times for what they were and let them go. I'm not perfect, but I'm awesome. Every day is a chance to change things for the better. You just can't quit on yourself. Everyone is important to someone and for that alone the least we can do is show up and try. Even if we can't try for ourselves at the moment. I hope everyone has an amazing day today and I'm sending you all some love 💜💜💜
Thanks for sharing your story Meli! God bless you
I also find the question very important to reflect: Can I count on myself? Because often we don't even trust ourselves anymore. I think this is a relationship that's crucial to fix! 😄
We definitely have feelings of insecurity, doubt, inadequacy and a bleak "present" at times. But they're just thoughts. I'm not responsible for my first thought, but I am over my second. Along with that I reframe those negatives and look around amd see the realities of my life. Good luck. ❤
@@xharlielara Thank you for sharing your story 💜💜💜
I really needed to read your comment today. Thank you
You look great, Charlie. Don’t give up.
Thanks for sharing, Charlie.
This interview is great.
I hope he stays on the right path.
I'm not going to run away from Life and it's beautiful ups and beautiful downs. I wouldn't want to miss another second of it.
@@xharlielara best wishes to you!!
Well done! Keep going… Your honesty, openness and level of accountability it respected 💛
Massive respect 🙏 keep up the good work , much love to everyone of us who struggle with addiction 💙
Charlie, you have a beautiful soul. And you are an inspiration to more ppl than you can even imagine. We all fall from grace from time to time. I personally struggle with alcohol myself. I do good for months and then someone hurts me and I’m back drinking again for a few days. Then I realize I am only harming myself. And, I stop. It’s only harming me. I have never done heroine, it scares me simply because I have an addictive personality. I’m older and wiser now, yet you have more insight than I ever could. I am very self aware it is up to me and only me to take charge of my life. Thank you for sharing with us all. And thank you Mark for giving ppl a voice. You are also an inspiration to us all. You never judge ppl by their life choices and what they are currently doing or what they have done in the past. I personally have no trauma from my childhood, only that I am the youngest and was bullied by my older sister. Whom still scares me at times. I have recently in the last few years stood up for myself and she does not like it. I was the “fall girl” for many things that she did, but, I was blamed for. Like my parents finding weed in our room, and I got blamed. I never even liked weed. EVER. I just took the fall because she was the “golden child”. I am a daddy’s girl and have only recently told him that the things I was blamed for, was not me. Daddy and I are very close. Only a 3 minute drive away. He is going to be 91 in August and I thank God every day that I am the only child that lives near him. It sounds selfish, I know, but my sister is mean to him still. She flits in and out of his life and then starts her demands. I now can tell her to stop and have no regrets about it. (Sorry for the rant, I guess I needed it) I wish you both the very best that life can offer. God Bless You Both. 🙏🏼 Mark, you are an amazing man. Thank you for the people that feel comfortable enough to share with you. And, the people you have helped over the years. This is only my second time commenting on your channel, I do watch almost all of your videos. ❤️ thank you for listening. ( reading, if you do, that is💕)
Good for you, Charlie! Keep on keeping on ❤
Stick with it Charlie! Life can be beyond your wildest imagination! I have been clean and sober for 33 years and I never thought I'd become the person I am.
You look good, Charlie. Stay the course, brother!
Great conversation from someone being honest with there self.
Lots to Learn from this human that is constantly thinking about his actions. ❤
All of us humans want to heal & the government will continue to watch and do nothing.
Fully focus on you ❤
So are so well spoken and intelligent Charlie, as see you being an attorney, ceo or some high paying job. go back to school you got this, you are strong. prayers, hugs and love
Im actively looking for work. I dropped out of high school my senior year unfortunately. You are very kind. Thank you.
@JonathanArmstrong-to5gj Your words are strongl uplifting. I appreciate your support.
this is really well put, you’re a great soul charlie keep pushing forward. loved your insight on depression and self accountability.
Damn man this interview moved me to tears. Not sure why but maybe his relationship w his mom. Thanks for sharing tho
Congrats! Keep it up, looking great
Charlie is such a special person! It’s easy to see how he has so many friends and people who love him. He’s an inspiration to any addict looking to change. Charlie, you would make a great motivational speaker and should consider doing a Ted Talk. With your positive spirit, motivation, grateful attitude and kind heart, you will be a success wherever you go! Blessings to you, your mom and daughter.
So good to see you doing well Charlie!!! Keep going!!!
Can‘t believe he was an addict. A calm and lovely person. Funny and clever…Good looking…
One wrong decision and life can change so fast from normal to very bad. Unbelievable.
Oh my looks so much better it’s amazing.All the best from the uk
Greetings, Mary, amd thank you.