00:00 INTRO 00:18 10 Pretending Not To See Someone You Recognize. 01:11 09 Wishing Your Friends Would Cancel Their Plans With You. 02:12 08 Avoiding Phone Calls. 03:08 07 Reading Messages Through The Notifications To Avoid Leaving Them As Seen. 04:06 06 Lying About Having Plans To Get Out Of Making Plans. 05:03 05 Observing People. 05:52 04 Perpetually Keeping The Earphones On. 06:58 03 Not Going Out When The Neighbors Are. 07:52 02 Keeping Special Occasions On The Down-Low. 09:10 01 Absolutely Enjoying Being Alone. Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: th-cam.com/video/HGtqtxJK5hY/w-d-xo.html -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT the notification bell so you won't miss anything! Any Topic In Mind? We will be glad to make them for You! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2NfQyrK Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 WAYS AN INTROVERT CAN TAKE CONTROL OVER THEIR EMOTIONS th-cam.com/video/iGK6Vbk03KU/w-d-xo.html 10 BRAIN EXERCISES TO IMPROVE MEMORY AND CONCENTRATION th-cam.com/video/7rZc7qBPeHU/w-d-xo.html 10 IMPORTANT TIPS TO FIND THE PERFECT SOULMATE th-cam.com/video/QxkpaM9wybQ/w-d-xo.html 10 REASONS WHY HIGHLY INTUITIVE PEOPLE CAN READ ANYONE INSTANTLY th-cam.com/video/9-54MKLZDsE/w-d-xo.html 10 DAILY HABITS OF MENTALLY STRONG PEOPLE th-cam.com/video/YanPYdwlri4/w-d-xo.html 10 DAILY HABITS THAT BOOST YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE th-cam.com/video/2qexnTUkUCs/w-d-xo.html 7 SPECIAL TRAITS OF AN EMPOWERED INTROVERT th-cam.com/video/9YTlLZxSHCA/w-d-xo.html 10 REASONS WHY INTROVERTS ARE THE PERFECT PARTNERS th-cam.com/video/k8yOwqv9m-o/w-d-xo.html 10 THINGS HIGHLY INTUITIVE PEOPLE DON'T DO th-cam.com/video/5ZbE0Bb7YHM/w-d-xo.html 10 OBVIOUS SIGNS YOU'RE EXPERIENCING A SPIRITUAL AWAKENING th-cam.com/video/tkFFBtzL1jA/w-d-xo.html 12 SIGNS YOU'RE DEALING WITH TOXIC NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE th-cam.com/video/kxB4Ng8hRqY/w-d-xo.html 10 REASONS WHY HIGHLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE STRUGGLE TO FIND THEIR SOULMATE th-cam.com/video/j7NJ5t5fYnU/w-d-xo.html
As an introvert, it must be said that I have no friends to cancel plans with them. I do not observe people, nor even have acquaintances. I placed no value on companionship to worry about the social issues mentioned in the video.
💯. Yes, I have my favorites just like most do but I have nothing but incommon with most lyrics! Linkin Park is a biggie for me. Chester's words are basically my life. And their song called Burn it Down I really resonate with because it's been my life story.. I build things up and Burn em back down, I build it all up just to Burn it back down. This has been my life... It's a struggle.
If you clicked this video and watched it until the end, it only means you are really an introvert just like me😊💛 Thanks for the clear explanation about me lol
I only recently learned about introverts and extroverts at the age of 36😅😂 I'm so fascinated by everything because my fiance is an introvert I honestly had no idea jut goes to show I've been living in a cave for a very long time 😂😂😂
Feels good to see I’m not the only one that keeps my birthday to myself. Only family and close friends know it. I don’t talk about to coworkers or put it on social media.
My dog and I walk before dawn in order not to see people; I hate the telephone and prefer texts; at 70 years of age, I've accepted this is my personality and it doesn't mean I don't love others, but it means I only need small doses
Hello. I am 63. I recently connected with an interesting man online. After three weeks of texting, he explained that he is an introvert. He actually mentioned it early on, but I didn't understand. He told me that he missed the passions of a relationship, but did not know if he could return those feelings. I ended the communication because I was afraid. My questions to you: 1. Is it rude to ask a person what type of introvert they are? 2. Do you have a significant other? Do most introverts have spouses/mates/partners? ( Sometimes I wish that I would have continued texting, but I wanted more.) Thanks in advance for your insight.
@@jazzioldchick5696 I don't know what you mean by "what type of introvert." Do you mean MBTI type? I don't know the percentage, but definitely fewer introverts have a partner, mainly because they avoid meeting strangers. I met my wife through a classified ad that I placed. I was yearning for romance at the time. I love her, but I've had regrets at times over not staying single--I miss out on the freedom i would have had. Fortunately we never had children--i could have never dealt with the noise, commotion, and drama. If you are an extrovert, life with an introvert can be challenging. Heck it's challenging enough for us by ourselves.
I go to great lengths to avoid people I recognise when I don't feel ready to interact with them. And when I have to get out of my home and I see my neighbor outside, I wait until they get back in their home before going out.
I to if I see someone I know I usually try to get away without being noticed.Driving is the worst if you stop at a stop light and you know the person in the car next to you. I put my shades on fiddle with the radio or pretend I’m talking on the phone or just look directly out the window screen(front window)
🤣 what! I do all of those things and one day my cousin asked what did the committee say in my other cousin's wedding preparations I told her I don't know coz I wasn't attending, then she said "you've never stopped being evil hearted" I was so hurt bearing in mind that I had no bad intentions nor was i jealous of the wedding but I just felt uncomfortable attending the meetings but in heart I was happy they were planning .most times pple misjudge us saying we are antisocial,shy , evil hearted but not so we are wired that way and we don't require fixing
The part especially where others don’t understand why you like being alone so much is what baffles me…why wouldn’t you wanna be in your zone and do the things you’ve always wanted to do instead of having fleeting moments that don’t last or has no meaning or in general is just small talk…as an introverted infj my batteries run out so I defo enjoy being creative and in my own zone.
As a lifetime introvert...the sooner you accept your behaviour and stop feeling that you have to 'lie' to others to 'save face', the sooner you will feel better about yourself and for others to respect your self awareness.
@@Hahshdhbcbcyoutube That is how my parents are but luckily I am an ambivert so I have no problems greeting people I don’t know. I am just naturally very friendly.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj are you more extrovert or introver? Or maybe 50 -50? Well anyway, I think my parents have a good intention. They want me to be liked by people. Manors y'know?
I do this all the time trying to avoid people I know in the street, hoping people would cancel dates so to avoid the crowd. I seldom answer my phone prefer to read a text
Hello fellow introverts!! Aren’t we just so special…once you learn that being alone is the best, I can find myself immersed into reading, and learning about the things I love doing. I never get bored that much with my own company either. But when I’m around others, I just can’t wait to be by myself, however, there is a time and place to enjoy other people’s company. You all know what I mean 😂 Tomorrow I have to make a bunch of calls, been putting them off for weeks!! 😳
I don't mind responding to emails and usually do that right away. Emails are much easier--you can compose your thoughts and say exactly what you want to say. You can edit it and hone it until it's perfect. On the phone or in person I stumble over my words and often forget things I need to say. I have to rehearse almost every phone call I make.
i have accepted who i am, and now with help from friends i am growing. Also someone came up to me once at school and said "stop being a lone and talk to other", without looking up i said "if you keep getting back stabbed, would you want people to hang out with?"
If I dislike someone I will ignore them as well, but if I know the person and I'm not in the mood of chit-chatting (which is like 75% of the time) I'll pretend I didn't see them or I didn't recognize them, which is easy to do I guess because everyone wears a mask now. I do this all the time even if I actually like the person I'm pretending not to recognize. I don't like to do it but I can't help myself.
@@summerrose8110 I get you. But this has nothing to do with some 'fake shit' or whether you like the person or not. The person we 'ignore' are not necessarily someone we dislike. On the contrary. You ignore someone because you know it will start a whole conversation (chit-chat) that you are not ready to have at the moment. It's really just about how much you can give, according to your own battery.
@@annemoukourka2393I will avoid people I know as I don’t want to start a conversation..done this for as long as I could remember. I thought I learned it from my mother tbh. Actually, I’m a carbon copy of my mother.
I’ve always been an observer I people watch all the time😌 and usually only listen in to conversations if they are about an interesting topic such a science and technology not interested in general chit chat and prefer small groups 3-4 or I just get overwhelmed especially if there is a narcissist in the group they just suck the energy out of me😴
Yep. 💜💟👍🌺😎 As an introvert with P.T.S.D. I totally agree [and understand]. My solitude is sacred. I actually schedule 2 - 3 days each week for "solitude & quiet time." I don't do "the earphone thing" as I am hyper - vigilant.
I recently learned there is a British (I believe? Certainly not American) phrase (perhaps obsolete today?) for pretending not to see someone you know: to cut that person. I saw it in some story by a British author from a century or so ago, and had to look it up to understand that usage of the word 'cut'.
Not going to a mall unless i need to do something important like groceries but if i have nothing important to do just lying in my bed most of the time during day off/ rest days
For me it's spending time with my family. I hate that. I ended up with the flu this past Christmas and couldn't be happier not to have to go to the party. The phone call is so spot on. I usually text or email everyone.
I can identify with everything in this video! How many times I've waited for the neighbours to go in before I can leave the house! 😂 And as far as my plans, to everyone around me I'm the busiest person they know! 😂 It is crazy, the lengths we will go to to avoid people 🙃
Keeping the blinds 50 cm above ground, although the sun shines brightly, so that noone can look into my place. Don't own a curtain and I am living on streetlevel.
OMG! This video describes me in every way possible 🙈 I just don’t like dealing with people..there again I’m a social butterfly, and my best friend is myself who I just love spending time with. 😂
I’m a life long introvert and this whole clip is my life to a T. I avoid going in the same aisle as someone else and I hate going to restaurants on the weekend, because it gets very crowded and loud. Having people talk loud and hearing very young kids screaming and crying. These places stress me out a lot to the point that I feel overwhelmed and dizzy.😵💫 😅
The "Pretending Not To See Someone You Recognize" lol! I thought I was the only one and I thought I am so mean doing this, because I can't explain why I do it, then I learned, it's because I do hate small talk, which I also thought was so mean, because small talk seems to be the right thing to do when bumping into someone by chance. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks to the internet, I learned that I am an introvert and that I am just being a normal introvert, just that this extroverted world was so good at guilt tripping introverts. Not fair! 😤
Everyone wants your mobile phone number. Getting people to understand that you have the phone only for outbound emergency calls and google maps seems to go over their heads. The inventor of the cellphone didn't have one himself. He had a phone in his office and at home so no need for a cellphone.
The reason why my introvert ass observes other people: To observe their behaviour, learn about it and keep it in mind for the right moment when I have to socialise with others. Smiling, calling other people by their name, laughing, talking some smack, robbing a poor dude in the streets, helping grandma across the street... All thanks to the observers keen eye 😉
yeah for phone interviews makes me nervous so much i would prefer passive exchange of message but although i am too nervous i need to stay in controll and poised while i respond luckily i get to finish it in a good way sometimes
I don't like giving people my phone number,so i just say that i don't have a phone...it feels good to say it though,since i don't got to deal with phone calls,small talks and socializing with others...we not trying to be rude, awakening it's complicated...😔😔
Guess I 'm certified, glad I adapt by being a bit more extrovert when necessary, served in the Army, not much privacy and time alone at work, partially extrovert during the week and introvert on weekends.
I always have something to do. I get bored with other peoples' company. People know introverts don't share their secrets. I always know what they want when they call. It's better for me to get back to them when I have the time to listen and respond accordingly. I'm perfectly fine with how others choose to categorize me because by being myself, I meet their expectations. And I get to go my own way.
Great information 👍 I personally hate the places where I'll find alot of people in it with load music There alot of things I doing similar to what mentioned here Keep up the great content 👏
Most of the things discussed here is... Me! I don't pick up fone calls and I only talk to people I know. Better to communicate on text or email. But I'm learning to socialize in social media. 😊 Crowd and parties makes me anxious...I want to flee right away. I don't lie when invited I just say no, I'm not available. I love being alone most of the time draw, paint, cook etc. and do things on my own. I always have my headfones with me to listen to my fave music. Yup sometimes I'm misunderstood and even accused of "are you autistic?" 😂 I just want to be alone but I'm not lonely. 😊 I can still adapt to people and social situations. I wave to people I know and still be kinda friendly with neighbors. 😊 But don't talk much.
OMG I just died of laughter. These are the things I do word to word except for earphones, but that is just because I travel mostly by car. Until now, I used to think that something is wrong with me and that these are the consequences of life traumas, bi Ut now, I see that this is just who we introverts are. Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
It’s like a copy and paste of me here 🤣 all the 10. I even exited an online social media group because of birthday parties and I always read messages when the airplane mode is on in order not to be seen onlin🤣e
Introvert don’t necessarily feel anxious when being with people. They just don’t see the point or get anything beneficial out of it. Feeling anxious would be social anxiety which some introverts also have but they aren’t the same thing. Also “crazy” is subjective. Misunderstood would be a better way to put this. Because these things that are listed aren’t crazy.
Omg. Yes. This is me. I went to a concert last week. Heart! And I really was excited. But part of me just wanted to cancel. I’m glad I didn’t but by the end of the show I was spent. And I won’t be doing it again anytime soon.
Gotta add, that, as an introvert, I have a great neighborhood, and usually plan the annual block party, it's great to see everyone having a good time, but mainly, I just do a touch and go "How's everything?". However, I will wait inside when the UPS person drops off a package, then grab it off the stoop when they're gone. Oddly, though, I can banter with someone behind me in the checkout line at the grocery store. Maybe because it's just momentary, and there's no real sharing. I just like to make people laugh for a bit. ...then it's off to home to recharge.
Lying about having plans requires the introvert to first have friends enough who want to include them in their plans. Any introvert who has to do this is not a hardcore introvert :-P
I'm very introverted. However I hate the term anxious or having anxiety. That term is thrown around too much. Having slight feelings if unease doesn't mean you're having an anxiety attack. I hate crowds and socializing on a daily basis. But to say "we" get crippling anxiety is a little much.
I'd rather be deep in a forest with my cats on my birthday than to be around people. Birthday parties are just a chance for other people to hang out and have food or whatnot. In the woods with my cats is far more rewarding.
I have done most of the things on this list but I thought I would clarify two points for you extraverts. 1. There are many flavors of introvert that vary in "introvertedness". Some of the things listed here are only true of one or two sub- sets of introverts. 2. Introverts do enjoy very small group interactions. There is a common misconception that they only like to spend time alone but this is not true. If you make a one on one plan and have slightly deeper conversations, they probably will enjoy it.
Just play Diablo 1 / Hellfire, Prehistorik 2 and Solitaire in Windows, you’ll feel much better. Books program the human brain in the wrong direction, and ghosts come through gates when you read the lines in ancient literature. These ghosts keep you hostage, and they can’t understand today’s challenges, such as pairing wifi or bluetooth.
00:00 INTRO
00:18 10 Pretending Not To See Someone You Recognize.
01:11 09 Wishing Your Friends Would Cancel Their Plans With You.
02:12 08 Avoiding Phone Calls.
03:08 07 Reading Messages Through The Notifications To Avoid Leaving Them As Seen.
04:06 06 Lying About Having Plans To Get Out Of Making Plans.
05:03 05 Observing People.
05:52 04 Perpetually Keeping The Earphones On.
06:58 03 Not Going Out When The Neighbors Are.
07:52 02 Keeping Special Occasions On The Down-Low.
09:10 01 Absolutely Enjoying Being Alone.
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As an introvert, it must be said that I have no friends to cancel plans with them. I do not observe people, nor even have acquaintances. I placed no value on companionship to worry about the social issues mentioned in the video.
You have some amazing work! I hope that some of the people who think I hate them come across it.🙂
Pretending to not recognize and reading message via notification is my daily routine 😂
Me too...hehehe
Music is introvert's bestfriend I can say ... and yes they are not going out when the neighbors are, this is accurate 😂😂
You are totally correct, the only thing I have as a best friend is music
I love my music 🎶
For me music would be second to audiobooks.
💯. Yes, I have my favorites just like most do but I have nothing but incommon with most lyrics! Linkin Park is a biggie for me. Chester's words are basically my life. And their song called Burn it Down I really resonate with because it's been my life story.. I build things up and Burn em back down, I build it all up just to Burn it back down. This has been my life... It's a struggle.
If you clicked this video and watched it until the end, it only means you are really an introvert just like me😊💛 Thanks for the clear explanation about me lol
If I didn't know that it was impossible for someone to have watched me long enough to get this much info. It would be creepy!
I only recently learned about introverts and extroverts at the age of 36😅😂
I'm so fascinated by everything because my fiance is an introvert I honestly had no idea jut goes to show I've been living in a cave for a very long time 😂😂😂
Feels good to see I’m not the only one that keeps my birthday to myself. Only family and close friends know it. I don’t talk about to coworkers or put it on social media.
Same here… Glad it’s not just me.
My dog and I walk before dawn in order not to see people; I hate the telephone and prefer texts; at 70 years of age, I've accepted this is my personality and it doesn't mean I don't love others, but it means I only need small doses
I completely understand your comment!! I hope you have a peaceful day 🌟
Hello. I am 63. I recently connected with an interesting man online. After three weeks of texting, he explained that he is an introvert. He actually mentioned it early on, but I didn't understand. He told me that he missed the passions of a relationship, but did not know if he could return those feelings. I ended the communication because I was afraid. My questions to you: 1. Is it rude to ask a person what type of introvert they are? 2. Do you have a significant other? Do most introverts have spouses/mates/partners? ( Sometimes I wish that I would have continued texting, but I wanted more.) Thanks in advance for your insight.
@@beentherebefore050 that is me 100%
@@beentherebefore050 I believe in two things trust or true and honor or honesty.
I smiled through the whole message
@@jazzioldchick5696 I don't know what you mean by "what type of introvert." Do you mean MBTI type? I don't know the percentage, but definitely fewer introverts have a partner, mainly because they avoid meeting strangers. I met my wife through a classified ad that I placed. I was yearning for romance at the time. I love her, but I've had regrets at times over not staying single--I miss out on the freedom i would have had. Fortunately we never had children--i could have never dealt with the noise, commotion, and drama. If you are an extrovert, life with an introvert can be challenging. Heck it's challenging enough for us by ourselves.
I go to great lengths to avoid people I recognise when I don't feel ready to interact with them. And when I have to get out of my home and I see my neighbor outside, I wait until they get back in their home before going out.
I to if I see someone I know I usually try to get away without being noticed.Driving is the worst if you stop at a stop light and you know the person in the car next to you. I put my shades on fiddle with the radio or pretend I’m talking on the phone or just look directly out the window screen(front window)
I totally agree
my habit is Same to you I avoid to interact peoples even we are close freind sometimes I behave like I don't know him.
holy fk i do that lol
😂
I feel...attacked. Looool. Hit every nail on the head for me. I absolutely loathe small talk.
Me too .. lol
I don't understand what you want to say
🤣 what! I do all of those things and one day my cousin asked what did the committee say in my other cousin's wedding preparations I told her I don't know coz I wasn't attending, then she said "you've never stopped being evil hearted" I was so hurt bearing in mind that I had no bad intentions nor was i jealous of the wedding but I just felt uncomfortable attending the meetings but in heart I was happy they were planning .most times pple misjudge us saying we are antisocial,shy , evil hearted but not so we are wired that way and we don't require fixing
The part especially where others don’t understand why you like being alone so much is what baffles me…why wouldn’t you wanna be in your zone and do the things you’ve always wanted to do instead of having fleeting moments that don’t last or has no meaning or in general is just small talk…as an introverted infj my batteries run out so I defo enjoy being creative and in my own zone.
I wish I had someone in my life that understood all the things that were just stated in this video, because each point is exactly how I feel.
As a lifetime introvert...the sooner you accept your behaviour and stop feeling that you have to 'lie' to others to 'save face', the sooner you will feel better about yourself and for others to respect your self awareness.
My parents call me "rude" And "ubeducated" When I avoid talking to people or greet them I don't even know them
@@Hahshdhbcbcyoutube That is how my parents are but luckily I am an ambivert so I have no problems greeting people I don’t know. I am just naturally very friendly.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj are you more extrovert or introver? Or maybe 50 -50?
Well anyway, I think my parents have a good intention. They want me to be liked by people. Manors y'know?
Thank you for this. It sucks feeling alone while alienating your friends and family at the same time..
I do this all the time trying to avoid people I know in the street, hoping people would cancel dates so to avoid the crowd. I seldom answer my phone prefer to read a text
Hello fellow introverts!! Aren’t we just so special…once you learn that being alone is the best, I can find myself immersed into reading, and learning about the things I love doing. I never get bored that much with my own company either. But when I’m around others, I just can’t wait to be by myself, however, there is a time and place to enjoy other people’s company. You all know what I mean 😂 Tomorrow I have to make a bunch of calls, been putting them off for weeks!! 😳
Can relate to every single point 😅
"A Loner, aloof, too shy?" Yes. This is who I am and I've been fighting it for all these years.
Every single 1 of these resonate with me. I love music but never had the idea to wear headphones without music. Life hack!!!
I definitely will go in another direction if I see someone before they see me
As an INFP i can relate to this, some of them big time and some of them just a little, but I can relate to all of them.
So true😅.....this is totally wat I do on daily basis.....which is kinda crazy
I don't mind responding to emails and usually do that right away. Emails are much easier--you can compose your thoughts and say exactly what you want to say. You can edit it and hone it until it's perfect. On the phone or in person I stumble over my words and often forget things I need to say. I have to rehearse almost every phone call I make.
i have accepted who i am, and now with help from friends i am growing. Also someone came up to me once at school and said "stop being a lone and talk to other", without looking up i said "if you keep getting back stabbed, would you want people to hang out with?"
the number 5 really got me 🤣😂 everything well said... everything you said is me .. Soo Mee 🤣
I don't pretend like I don't recognize someone. If I dislike you, I will purposely ignore you. You got that wrong.
If I dislike someone I will ignore them as well, but if I know the person and I'm not in the mood of chit-chatting (which is like 75% of the time) I'll pretend I didn't see them or I didn't recognize them, which is easy to do I guess because everyone wears a mask now. I do this all the time even if I actually like the person I'm pretending not to recognize. I don't like to do it but I can't help myself.
@@Mslepe_8374 I never liked the bullshit mind games that some people play. If I dislike someone, I just won't speak to that person. I hate fake shit.
@@summerrose8110 I get you. But this has nothing to do with some 'fake shit' or whether you like the person or not. The person we 'ignore' are not necessarily someone we dislike. On the contrary. You ignore someone because you know it will start a whole conversation (chit-chat) that you are not ready to have at the moment. It's really just about how much you can give, according to your own battery.
@@annemoukourka2393I will avoid people I know as I don’t want to start a conversation..done this for as long as I could remember. I thought I learned it from my mother tbh. Actually, I’m a carbon copy of my mother.
Yup and many introverts are very straight forward and blunt.
This is me and I've been struggling... and adjusting just to avoid conflicts.
100% true!
I need friends first though to be cancelled on 😭
This video describes my way of life 100%.
I’ve always been an observer I people watch all the time😌 and usually only listen in to conversations if they are about an interesting topic such a science and technology not interested in general chit chat and prefer small groups 3-4 or I just get overwhelmed especially if there is a narcissist in the group they just suck the energy out of me😴
Yep. 💜💟👍🌺😎
As an introvert with P.T.S.D. I totally agree [and understand].
My solitude is sacred.
I actually schedule 2 - 3 days each week for "solitude & quiet time."
I don't do "the earphone thing" as I am hyper - vigilant.
I love being left to my own devices.
I recently learned there is a British (I believe? Certainly not American) phrase (perhaps obsolete today?) for pretending not to see someone you know: to cut that person. I saw it in some story by a British author from a century or so ago, and had to look it up to understand that usage of the word 'cut'.
Not going to a mall unless i need to do something important like groceries but if i have nothing important to do just lying in my bed most of the time during day off/ rest days
For me it's spending time with my family. I hate that. I ended up with the flu this past Christmas and couldn't be happier not to have to go to the party. The phone call is so spot on. I usually text or email everyone.
I can identify with everything in this video! How many times I've waited for the neighbours to go in before I can leave the house! 😂 And as far as my plans, to everyone around me I'm the busiest person they know! 😂
It is crazy, the lengths we will go to to avoid people 🙃
Keeping the blinds 50 cm above ground, although the sun shines brightly, so that noone can look into my place. Don't own a curtain and I am living on streetlevel.
OMG! This video describes me in every way possible 🙈 I just don’t like dealing with people..there again I’m a social butterfly, and my best friend is myself who I just love spending time with. 😂
I’m a life long introvert and this whole clip is my life to a T. I avoid going in the same aisle as someone else and I hate going to restaurants on the weekend, because it gets very crowded and loud. Having people talk loud and hearing very young kids screaming and crying. These places stress me out a lot to the point that I feel overwhelmed and dizzy.😵💫 😅
The "Pretending Not To See Someone You Recognize" lol! I thought I was the only one and I thought I am so mean doing this, because I can't explain why I do it, then I learned, it's because I do hate small talk, which I also thought was so mean, because small talk seems to be the right thing to do when bumping into someone by chance. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks to the internet, I learned that I am an introvert and that I am just being a normal introvert, just that this extroverted world was so good at guilt tripping introverts. Not fair! 😤
Why do I love wearing earphones without music or something?
I do the same thing. That's how I ward off small talk and conversations.
Everyone wants your mobile phone number. Getting people to understand that you have the phone only for outbound emergency calls and google maps seems to go over their heads. The inventor of the cellphone didn't have one himself. He had a phone in his office and at home so no need for a cellphone.
I’m an introvert and I noticed I’m very private about myself. So If I open up to someone that’s a good sign I feel comfortable and trust you.
This is scary accurate for me WOW
The reason why my introvert ass observes other people: To observe their behaviour, learn about it and keep it in mind for the right moment when I have to socialise with others.
Smiling, calling other people by their name, laughing, talking some smack, robbing a poor dude in the streets, helping grandma across the street... All thanks to the observers keen eye 😉
Exactly me...if I see someone I know, I will quickly move away to avoid talking to them.
yeah for phone interviews makes me nervous so much i would prefer passive exchange of message but although i am too nervous i need to stay in controll and poised while i respond luckily i get to finish it in a good way sometimes
I don't like giving people my phone number,so i just say that i don't have a phone...it feels good to say it though,since i don't got to deal with phone calls,small talks and socializing with others...we not trying to be rude, awakening it's complicated...😔😔
Guess I 'm certified, glad I adapt by being a bit more extrovert when necessary, served in the Army, not much privacy and time alone at work, partially extrovert during the week and introvert on weekends.
I always have something to do. I get bored with other peoples' company. People know introverts don't share their secrets. I always know what they want when they call. It's better for me to get back to them when I have the time to listen and respond accordingly. I'm perfectly fine with how others choose to categorize me because by being myself, I meet their expectations. And I get to go my own way.
Great information 👍
I personally hate the places where I'll find alot of people in it with load music
There alot of things I doing similar to what mentioned here
Keep up the great content 👏
This video is amazingly accurate and describes me very well
Most of the things discussed here is... Me! I don't pick up fone calls and I only talk to people I know. Better to communicate on text or email. But I'm learning to socialize in social media. 😊 Crowd and parties makes me anxious...I want to flee right away. I don't lie when invited I just say no, I'm not available. I love being alone most of the time draw, paint, cook etc. and do things on my own. I always have my headfones with me to listen to my fave music. Yup sometimes I'm misunderstood and even accused of "are you autistic?" 😂 I just want to be alone but I'm not lonely. 😊 I can still adapt to people and social situations. I wave to people I know and still be kinda friendly with neighbors. 😊 But don't talk much.
OMG I just died of laughter. These are the things I do word to word except for earphones, but that is just because I travel mostly by car. Until now, I used to think that something is wrong with me and that these are the consequences of life traumas, bi
Ut now, I see that this is just who we introverts are. Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
Sometimes I find myself talking to myself when watching videos or a show/movie. Like making comments without actually posting a comment
It’s like a copy and paste of me here 🤣 all the 10. I even exited an online social media group because of birthday parties and I always read messages when the airplane mode is on in order not to be seen onlin🤣e
I have all of them ,thank you i feel beter cause i thought i had psyhologie problems many years now.
These videos are SO FUNNY. Not totally accurate, but a job well done.🤣👍🏼
Number one alone hits me right..😄😄
Yea I even do it to relatives sometimes.
I bet no one here has the “READ” turned on iMessages 😂
this video is ridiculously accurate
Introvert don’t necessarily feel anxious when being with people. They just don’t see the point or get anything beneficial out of it. Feeling anxious would be social anxiety which some introverts also have but they aren’t the same thing. Also “crazy” is subjective. Misunderstood would be a better way to put this. Because these things that are listed aren’t crazy.
First one was a bullseye for me lol. I do that every single time. Few times I weren't able to avoid, and got called out. Im like yea yeah uhh ha.
I thought l was a psychopath this makes me feel that I'm not alone and it's normal ♥️
If some one forces me to talk i always getting drained it makes me to leave the person alone and i go any where
Most of this things are matching with my choices.
😂 my social media can never show you wether I'm online or off😏
My friends cut me off because I would miss days of hangout. That was about 5 years ago.
Omg. Yes. This is me. I went to a concert last week. Heart! And I really was excited. But part of me just wanted to cancel. I’m glad I didn’t but by the end of the show I was spent. And I won’t be doing it again anytime soon.
1st one is sooo true my relatives came to my mom and said your son is pretending not to seen me and just leaving (it gives akward feeling to us
I can't stand talking to someone I know. I always keep to myself!.
Closest to hitting the nail square on the head for me. I have done or do most of these things
I am an introvert and I don't have a profile picture on social media for the the last 10 years that's make me weird???
I have no problem to order food, I know what I wanna eat, some point a bit exaggerated, some fall in anti social, introvert do not anti social
4 & 8 exactly what I does an I hate parties or going out
Oh my God she is describing me ! So I’m normal😅
OMG 😁😁 Each and every point is soo trueee😅😅😂
Am an introvert and i never stop talking in my head😂😂😂
You just explained me in 10 mins lol
Gotta add, that, as an introvert, I have a great neighborhood, and usually plan the annual block party, it's great to see everyone having a good time, but mainly, I just do a touch and go "How's everything?".
However, I will wait inside when the UPS person drops off a package, then grab it off the stoop when they're gone.
Oddly, though, I can banter with someone behind me in the checkout line at the grocery store. Maybe because it's just momentary, and there's no real sharing. I just like to make people laugh for a bit.
...then it's off to home to recharge.
As an INFJ, just had a chat with an INFP I've know for some time, and our Venn Diagram was like, "Yep. I getcha."
Number one to 10 is totally true about me
I haven't had a birthday since about 1993, just don't like it, a person complained about my gift to my niece was to cheap so I avoid Christmas
It's annoying when I have to take an Uber ride or get a haircut and they want to make small talk the whole time.
Why are you talking about me like this? 😆🤣😂
Lying about having plans requires the introvert to first have friends enough who want to include them in their plans. Any introvert who has to do this is not a hardcore introvert :-P
Lmao, I fit all 10 of these.
I seldom wear earphones because I am too afraid of being sneaked up on and being pranked.
OMG!! how you know all this about me 😂😂
I'm very introverted. However I hate the term anxious or having anxiety. That term is thrown around too much. Having slight feelings if unease doesn't mean you're having an anxiety attack. I hate crowds and socializing on a daily basis. But to say "we" get crippling anxiety is a little much.
I'd rather be deep in a forest with my cats on my birthday than to be around people.
Birthday parties are just a chance for other people to hang out and have food or whatnot.
In the woods with my cats is far more rewarding.
Laughed at every single point cus I could relate 😂😂😂😂😂😅
I have done most of the things on this list but I thought I would clarify two points for you extraverts.
1. There are many flavors of introvert that vary in "introvertedness". Some of the things listed here are only true of one or two sub- sets of introverts.
2. Introverts do enjoy very small group interactions. There is a common misconception that they only like to spend time alone but this is not true. If you make a one on one plan and have slightly deeper conversations, they probably will enjoy it.
Watching a video about intravert with a head set so i dont have to speak to people lol
Totally me😅🙏🏻
Just play Diablo 1 / Hellfire, Prehistorik 2 and Solitaire in Windows, you’ll feel much better. Books program the human brain in the wrong direction, and ghosts come through gates when you read the lines in ancient literature. These ghosts keep you hostage, and they can’t understand today’s challenges, such as pairing wifi or bluetooth.
After watching this. I now believe people are watching me lol
Love being alone it is so Amazing
This is hilarious..its all the things I do
This is me!
Bulls-eye 💯💯💯💯💯
Answer to question 9, I can't say always, but I can't remember a time when I wasn't. 🤗
7) uuhhh -- yeeeah 😑
5) Suuure
3) Uhum
Just like cats it seems.