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Try being an introvert and being drained by being a sole carer for thirty years, then having the DWP and social security harranging you because you desperately need a proportionate amount of time to recharge, which is probably at least a year of overdue holiday - or even longer - because your health has reached a mental/physical breakdown point and you can't handle any more. Also the bills keep piling up and all your mind is screaming "LEAVE ME ALONE!" but that is something that they can't grasy because of the machine that is vibrating itself to pieces whilst wilfully driving itself towards a crumbling cliff's edge. My mental siege walls are collapsing and my benign user interface with the world is disintegrating.
As an introvert....the most precious advice I can give to others is.. Never break out trust....because once broken you will be out of our lives forever no matter how much you ask for forgiveness. We don't give anyone any second chance.
Yes but it's a little different for me. I'll forgive you, but you can't just *say* Sorry. You can say literally whatever you want, It doesn't matter unless you *show* me sorry. That's the only way I'll know you care. What's the point of apologizing and asking for forgiveness if your just gonna turn around and do the same thing that made me dislike you in the first place? Like I don't have time that, goodbye.
Yes, when I say this it usually means I don't want to share with them what I am doing. Depending on who is asking, I feel it's none of their business or I already know that the other person won't appreciate the thing that I am doing or won't find it interesting enough to talk about it indepth.
I am becoming very introverted because of the circumstances in my life. Being around crowds is mentally and emotionally draining. At this age, drama is exhausting..
Bossy show-offs are my pet peeve. I lose all respect for someone who wants to be in charge of everything all of the time and acts like they think they are most important. It drives me crazy and I don't want to be around them!
As an introvert, people who are consumed with fame, attention seeking and popularity always drain me. This is the first video ive seen that mentions this.
I can definitely relate to aspects of all of them, as a lifelong introvert. One that particularly annoys and irritates the hell out of me is an attention-seeker. There's at least one loud mouth and show-off in every crowd, regardless of where you go. The type that thinks every single word they utter is gospel, but has everyone discreetly rolling their eyes whenever they start talking. Those types hit me like nails on a chalkboard x3.
I'm an introvert and I never knew all this attributes were part of me being an introvert. No. 10, 9, and 8 especially irritate me. I sometimes go out with my mom, sister, and her kids on my days off and will get burned out quickly to the point that i sometimes drive a separate car in case I want to go home and finish some college work or anything else I have planned.
The spotlight thing: It's the big reason why most people don't know when my birthday is! If someone asks, I won't lie, but I'm not putting it out there! I always take the day off, go shopping to claim my birthday rewards, and enjoy lunch alone at a food court or Panera. Years ago a bunch of friends wanted to take me out for my birthday after church. I wanted Panera, but I heard excuses about parking and we ended up at a sit-down restaurant nearby. One of them just HAD to tell the hostess it was my birthday, so of course when the food came a bunch from the wait staff came out & sang this loud birthday song with the stomping & handclaps. It was Sunday, the place was crowded, & I wanted to die. The worst part: The friend who drove me home said there would've been ample parking at Panera, but the others wanted to take me to a "nicer" restaurant! I am still friends with them, but it was the last time I went out with others for my birthday!
Yeah it's a nightmare to be put on the spot and unexpected schedule 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Does anyone like me who don't celebrate much on their birthday? Or scared to be teased on their bdays.
Yes when I turned 50 I didn't want a party or any attention just like any other birthday, so chose to have a close family dinner. Some friends and co-workers decided to organise a separate party at large venue as a surprise. While I appreciated the sentiment I was also disappointed that none understood me well enough to know that it was the last thing I wanted and I did not deal with surprises well. Then there is the internal conflict of not wanting to disappoint people while not enjoying the experience. It can be so hard sometimes.
Crowds, loud people drain me. Don't interrupt a private conversation. I hate drama just font involve me. No confrontations for me, I prefer to be civilised. I let everybody speak and I hate gossip. Find a subject Iike I get passionate. I divulge nothing personal. No surprises and don't make a fuss and draw attention to makes me cringe. All points are spot on for me. Thank you.
Another thing. .....am not always okay with attention.....like having a kind of party with all the attention on me........everyone looking at me......it drives me crazy.......
At my work, there was a team leader who would interrupt a conversation about the work I would be having with another co-worker. Only to say "what's going on here". That happened so many times. The leader had since been fired.
I am an introvert at heart. I spend a lot of time as a stay at home wife and while I’m alone I’m not lonely. I recharge, meditate, read things that teach me new knowledge or theories. When necessary I can “play” the extrovert exceptionally well but not for a long period of time. I’m not totally isolated…I talk to my grown kids every day and my mom. And of course my husband when he comes home and he calls me all day lol. I am very private, assumed it was a Scorpio trait. Drama is only good for attracting negative energy and slipping away from positive mindset and spreading joy.
My way of seeing friendship is that if someone is my friend, I will stand by them and fight with them until the bitter end. If they fall, so do I. That kind of commitment is a lot of work and is reserved for people I can truly trust. By the nature of the level of commitment, I can only handle having a few friends. I am not picky about who I have as a friend because I am better that others. Far from it. I just have to be careful with how I use my social energy.
Something that pisses me right off, usually elderly people, saying im quiet before they've even spoken to me for more than a minute. Dont even know them and theyre already making assumptions. The other day an elderly women who sees me randomly had a few small conversations, out of no where asks me "so do you ever talk much?" I was so confused, i was like "yeh..." no idea what to even say to that. Like what kind of a weird question is that? It actually really annoyed me that someone would ask something like. Such a weird thing to say. Old people are weird asf sometimes. I used to be pretty quiet, still am kinda quiet I guess but noone else says anything and I end up getting along fine with almost everyone. People who comment on it just lose my respect completely and I dont even want to talk to them after that. Its like me going up to someone and saying "So are you always weird as fuck like this?" Wtf... EDIT: Also this happened while I was working alone, so have noone to talk to at all... Of course im just gonna focus on my job. Distractions are pretty annoying unless its the client asking something about the job or just being friendly thats fine but not to ask me stupid questions.
No my roommate like to come into my room, even if the door is closed, to ask me or talk about a point of view he has with a show or book. Then if I don’t agree with him it some how leads to him storming away slamming the front door shut. I now give generic sounds as if I’m listening, but I’m just waiting for the conversation to end.
I’m a conservative introvert, spending most of my life to survive on my own and have complete autonomy. Imagine my shock when my extrovert, liberal brother called and said he needed a place to stay because he failed to pay his own rent so he made himself my responsibility. I swear the mainly extrovert world will not leave me alone until I’m dead.
I lose respect for people who talk filthy ..think they know it all.. those who believe what they have to say is more important than anything you can say and who monopolize every conversstion with senseless drivel..
On drama and gossip. A married acquaintance told me, during an unrelated conversation, "I had breakfast with Tiffany and her husband and my wife know about it." Later I asked him why the hell he would tell such a thing and to not put that kind of stuff in my ears. I lost a lot of respect for this guy when he told a group of people about the same. Why?
Hello I see your point in a way , sometimes people don't realise how important things can be to us ,,I don't have many people I consider true friend s ,she probably didn't mean to be indifferent ,take her for a drive in it picnic maybe , after all what can it hurt ,if it doesn't work out well ,put me on the list of strangers you can't stand I'll cope ,if you are like me your few friends are something very valuable ,have a nice day , Jeff
This introvert could also probably do without this countdown employing the word "hate" so much. It demonstrates a misunderstanding of why a feeling type may not become friends with just anyone.
No lies....introverts don't really have courage to speak up most times......and its hurtful when they are being shut down when they finally bussed up their mind to speak out
Many 'younger' introverts don't have the courage to speak up...we 'mature' introverts have no problem 'speaking up' when we deem it appropriate to do so.
Agree! Too many people downplay hypocrisy, incongruency, liars...and this is anathema to 'real' introverts causing many, like myself, to put people that behave that way in the, 'they are dead to me' box...people to be avoided.
00:00 INTRO
00:13 10 Always Waiting Until The Last Minute.
01:05 09 Interrupting.
01:54 08 Not Respecting Their Free Time.
02:45 07 Butting In On Private Conversations.
03:27 06 Attention-Seeking Attitude.
04:17 05 Involving Them In Drama.
05:12 04 Turning A Dialogue Into A Monologue.
06:02 03 Gossipping.
06:51 02 Disrespecting Personal Boundaries.
07:40 01 Putting Them In The Spotlight.
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Try being an introvert and being drained by being a sole carer for thirty years, then having the DWP and social security harranging you because you desperately need a proportionate amount of time to recharge, which is probably at least a year of overdue holiday - or even longer - because your health has reached a mental/physical breakdown point and you can't handle any more. Also the bills keep piling up and all your mind is screaming "LEAVE ME ALONE!" but that is something that they can't grasy because of the machine that is vibrating itself to pieces whilst wilfully driving itself towards a crumbling cliff's edge. My mental siege walls are collapsing and my benign user interface with the world is disintegrating.
As an introvert....the most precious advice I can give to others is..
Never break out trust....because once broken you will be out of our lives forever no matter how much you ask for forgiveness. We don't give anyone any second chance.
Yes but it's a little different for me.
I'll forgive you, but you can't just *say* Sorry. You can say literally whatever you want, It doesn't matter unless you *show* me sorry. That's the only way I'll know you care.
What's the point of apologizing and asking for forgiveness if your just gonna turn around and do the same thing that made me dislike you in the first place? Like I don't have time that, goodbye.
That applies to everyone not just introverts!
Forgive is key in life as a Christian but trusting someone not to repeat same thing is what I don't know.
I think they are special people in universe
I'm an introvert. I am so happy to watch all these videos that help me be unashamed of who I am.
When I say “I’m not doing anything.” It doesn’t mean I’m bored or looking for something to so.
Yes!
AMEN
Yes, when I say this it usually means I don't want to share with them what I am doing. Depending on who is asking, I feel it's none of their business or I already know that the other person won't appreciate the thing that I am doing or won't find it interesting enough to talk about it indepth.
I get asked if I have any plans.
If I say I don't, the other person commences to make plans for me.
I am becoming very introverted because of the circumstances in my life. Being around crowds is mentally and emotionally draining. At this age, drama is exhausting..
We hate being disturbed when we choose to have a little piece of time for ourselves.....this is the time we have to think
Thanks
As a Reserved Introvert, interrupting us when we finally say something, is the worst thing you can do.
Yes it is
Agreed. And it can get ya a good ole country ass whuppin.
Bossy show-offs are my pet peeve. I lose all respect for someone who wants to be in charge of everything all of the time and acts like they think they are most important. It drives me crazy and I don't want to be around them!
As an introvert, people who are consumed with fame, attention seeking and popularity always drain me. This is the first video ive seen that mentions this.
Introverts also hates distractions.........don't interrupt me while am working or having a skill at hand
I can definitely relate to aspects of all of them, as a lifelong introvert. One that particularly annoys and irritates the hell out of me is an attention-seeker. There's at least one loud mouth and show-off in every crowd, regardless of where you go. The type that thinks every single word they utter is gospel, but has everyone discreetly rolling their eyes whenever they start talking. Those types hit me like nails on a chalkboard x3.
💯💯💯💯‼️
I'm an introvert and I never knew all this attributes were part of me being an introvert. No. 10, 9, and 8 especially irritate me. I sometimes go out with my mom, sister, and her kids on my days off and will get burned out quickly to the point that i sometimes drive a separate car in case I want to go home and finish some college work or anything else I have planned.
The spotlight thing: It's the big reason why most people don't know when my birthday is! If someone asks, I won't lie, but I'm not putting it out there! I always take the day off, go shopping to claim my birthday rewards, and enjoy lunch alone at a food court or Panera.
Years ago a bunch of friends wanted to take me out for my birthday after church. I wanted Panera, but I heard excuses about parking and we ended up at a sit-down restaurant nearby. One of them just HAD to tell the hostess it was my birthday, so of course when the food came a bunch from the wait staff came out & sang this loud birthday song with the stomping & handclaps. It was Sunday, the place was crowded, & I wanted to die. The worst part: The friend who drove me home said there would've been ample parking at Panera, but the others wanted to take me to a "nicer" restaurant! I am still friends with them, but it was the last time I went out with others for my birthday!
I had that happen to me once at a red Robins. Didn't enjoy that.
Yeah it's a nightmare to be put on the spot and unexpected schedule 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.
Does anyone like me who don't celebrate much on their birthday? Or scared to be teased on their bdays.
Yes when I turned 50 I didn't want a party or any attention just like any other birthday, so chose to have a close family dinner. Some friends and co-workers decided to organise a separate party at large venue as a surprise. While I appreciated the sentiment I was also disappointed that none understood me well enough to know that it was the last thing I wanted and I did not deal with surprises well. Then there is the internal conflict of not wanting to disappoint people while not enjoying the experience. It can be so hard sometimes.
Crowds, loud people drain me. Don't interrupt a private conversation. I hate drama just font involve me. No confrontations for me, I prefer to be civilised. I let everybody speak and I hate gossip.
Find a subject Iike I get passionate. I divulge nothing personal. No surprises and don't make a fuss and draw attention to makes me cringe. All points are spot on for me.
Thank you.
You just described me very well and I am glad someone understand me thank you.
All the behavior mentioned resonates with me. I’m definitely an introvert!
I hate it when people interrupt me when I read and when a family member forces me to dance.
I, an introvert, do not respect nor disrespect others. They ignore me. I ignore them. I know nobody. Thus, there is nobody to respect or disrespect.
This reads me like a book.This is my "iam."
Great descriptions that really fit me. All ten was right on the money. I am truly an introvert, always been.
Another thing. .....am not always okay with attention.....like having a kind of party with all the attention on me........everyone looking at me......it drives me crazy.......
I wish my co-workers would read this.
I have nothing to add Sr you've achieved perfection on this topic 👏🏽 in my opinion.
At my work, there was a team leader who would interrupt a conversation about the work I would be having with another co-worker. Only to say "what's going on here". That happened so many times. The leader had since been fired.
We respect everyone as we would respect a stranger. Everyone is a, stranger to us.
This is a very good video. Thank you for uploading it.
Most introverts are really nice haha just don't cross our boundaries
I am an introvert at heart. I spend a lot of time as a stay at home wife and while I’m alone I’m not lonely. I recharge, meditate, read things that teach me new knowledge or theories. When necessary I can “play” the extrovert exceptionally well but not for a long period of time. I’m not totally isolated…I talk to my grown kids every day and my mom. And of course my husband when he comes home and he calls me all day lol. I am very private, assumed it was a Scorpio trait.
Drama is only good for attracting negative energy and slipping away from positive mindset and spreading joy.
My way of seeing friendship is that if someone is my friend, I will stand by them and fight with them until the bitter end. If they fall, so do I.
That kind of commitment is a lot of work and is reserved for people I can truly trust. By the nature of the level of commitment, I can only handle having a few friends.
I am not picky about who I have as a friend because I am better that others. Far from it. I just have to be careful with how I use my social energy.
Spot on, thanks! 🤔❤🇺🇸
You can't force me to do something.....leave me alone to do it myself.....don't shout at me.....it disturbs my brain
Broken trust is something that I have no patience for.
Yes I am an introvert so I am told and I believe it. Like my own company can't stand small talks and slow people buy like a good joke at times.
Something that pisses me right off, usually elderly people, saying im quiet before they've even spoken to me for more than a minute. Dont even know them and theyre already making assumptions. The other day an elderly women who sees me randomly had a few small conversations, out of no where asks me "so do you ever talk much?" I was so confused, i was like "yeh..." no idea what to even say to that. Like what kind of a weird question is that? It actually really annoyed me that someone would ask something like. Such a weird thing to say. Old people are weird asf sometimes. I used to be pretty quiet, still am kinda quiet I guess but noone else says anything and I end up getting along fine with almost everyone. People who comment on it just lose my respect completely and I dont even want to talk to them after that. Its like me going up to someone and saying "So are you always weird as fuck like this?" Wtf...
EDIT: Also this happened while I was working alone, so have noone to talk to at all... Of course im just gonna focus on my job. Distractions are pretty annoying unless its the client asking something about the job or just being friendly thats fine but not to ask me stupid questions.
As an old introvert, I find this post to be offensive.
Stop asking me what I'm thinking about. If I want to disclose my every innermost thought I will do so...on my terms.
No my roommate like to come into my room, even if the door is closed, to ask me or talk about a point of view he has with a show or book. Then if I don’t agree with him it some how leads to him storming away slamming the front door shut. I now give generic sounds as if I’m listening, but I’m just waiting for the conversation to end.
Definitely true for me.
I can't stand the spot light, true..
Prefer the quiet dinner for two thing for sure, and yes the movies love those..
I’m a conservative introvert, spending most of my life to survive on my own and have complete autonomy. Imagine my shock when my extrovert, liberal brother called and said he needed a place to stay because he failed to pay his own rent so he made himself my responsibility. I swear the mainly extrovert world will not leave me alone until I’m dead.
Tell him “tough shiskitsky, bro.”
...when you are respectful....you would always be...
hightide or lowtide/in season or out of season...
I lose respect for people who talk filthy ..think they know it all.. those who believe what they have to say is more important than anything you can say and who monopolize every conversstion with senseless drivel..
At least i know that am not weird and now i can freely be me
Some think they can drag you into their group and measure you with yardstick used for others
On drama and gossip. A married acquaintance told me, during an unrelated conversation, "I had breakfast with Tiffany and her husband and my wife know about it." Later I asked him why the hell he would tell such a thing and to not put that kind of stuff in my ears. I lost a lot of respect for this guy when he told a group of people about the same. Why?
Are you a Certified Introvert? Yes, I am!
09 Amen!
Well I want to say do people still understand us? No ... but we have to move on ourselves,
I respect to everyone to anyone but i never tell anything about me please try to understand me .one time my heart broke from then i disappeared
I was so happy to buy my first truck after having compact cars.
My best friend didn’t acknowledge it.
She’s dead to me.
Hello I see your point in a way , sometimes people don't realise how important things can be to us ,,I don't have many people I consider true friend s ,she probably didn't mean to be indifferent ,take her for a drive in it picnic maybe , after all what can it hurt ,if it doesn't work out well ,put me on the list of strangers you can't stand I'll cope ,if you are like me your few friends are something very valuable ,have a nice day , Jeff
If you break my trust once i will forget you easyly but i will give you a second chance if i deem it so
This introvert could also probably do without this countdown employing the word "hate" so much. It demonstrates a misunderstanding of why a feeling type may not become friends with just anyone.
No lies....introverts don't really have courage to speak up most times......and its hurtful when they are being shut down when they finally bussed up their mind to speak out
Many 'younger' introverts don't have the courage to speak up...we 'mature' introverts have no problem 'speaking up' when we deem it appropriate to do so.
face the world? i think not!!!
❤️❤️
Lying and proven to be fakes
Agree! Too many people downplay hypocrisy, incongruency, liars...and this is anathema to 'real' introverts causing many, like myself, to put people that behave that way in the, 'they are dead to me' box...people to be avoided.
Just turn women down