I cried to God last night for help and direction. This message was first thing that popped up on my phone this morning. I’ve listened to it over and over all day. God sent this to me right on time❤
I was set free when I read the book especially took a weekend by myself to go through the Boundaties WebKit. . I saw so much in my life with selfish people even my extremely verbally, emotionally abusive ex-husband, who I still suffer emotional issues. The whole time I was raised in church and told that you should not get a divorce,that if I only believed and had enough faith, God would answer all my prayers. Whatever you ask, I will do. After I was such a mess, and my children. I faced my disappointment in the church, why God would allow this. I had tried to love this person all this time, prayed for, fasted for. That’s what I was taught raised in church that if you just love enough this was the 70s 80s 90s. It took me a long time to realize that he chose his behavior, had no intention of changing, and that no matter how much faith I had. It wasn’t going to change some who doesn’t want to change. I was never taught that.
I needed to listen to this! I am struggling to set boundaries with my adult daughter. I feel obligated to “help” her as she is currently dealing with severe anxiety. Sometimes I feel like my “help“ is continuing to enable her and not allow her to get better and stand on her own 😢
You can not ever know how much what Dr. Cloud said about the child brain hit me!!! Although I wasn't physically abused as a child, my mother had mental/emotional issues that, in effect, worked in the same way that Joyce's experience worked in her life. It is no wonder I feel the deepest closeness to Joyce Meyer, even though I have never met her. She has made a PROFOUND impact on my life. Thank you, Joyce! Thank you Dr. Cloud!
The perspective on the LOVE------------Line I'll do this for you- - - - - - -Line I find myself sharing with other's on the perspective on Discipline We LOVE our children--------------Line We discipline our children- - - - -Line I also liked what you said, what we do for other's has 'a return' This Podcast was helpful
Joyce Meyer is so funny at times 😅.i Watched a lot of the videos on the island of Aruba years ago in the morning early before i went to work and her Withnessing and Trying to show us Jesus His Way Trough the Word with backing up with Scripture were helpfull ,she was funny than in her comments and is still .The Joy of the Lord is my Strength There is a time to laugh and a time to cry and a time to Heal to and i pray that for everybody to Heal ,the whole world ,i pray it also for those who have falsely accused me ,some people do and say hurtfull things because they are hurt all they need to do is open their hearts for the Love of God and Jesus and The Holy Spirit the Comforter .💪🖐️♥️🙏📖
I have to giggle to myself how wonderfully God gives the answers I've been asking for.... I've been journaling about setting boundaries in my life because I've let people do things in my life, too afraid to say something (my fault) but today I came across this video, and now I'm ordering the book. but you gave the answers I've been looking for. Thank You such a blessing.
I just found this TH-cam podcast recently and I am so grateful! I really, really, really hope that you will have Dr. Cloud as a guest on a regular basis. Boundaries are SOOOO needed in this world today! An even more desperately in the Christian community and church arenas!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for presenting this topic and clarifying it for Christians. It is so very needed!❤❤❤❤❤
Think there were past extreme boundaries/disciplining in church & believing fam that hurt the imperfect ....great that love, healthy manner/relationship & given purpose is involved in the setting/chat
I love what Dr. Cloud said about binding on earth and binding in heaven. I connect that to what was said earlier about the fear of saying no to people - fear of how they’ll respond, which is ultimately fear of what they think. When we put God first and are true to our hearts we will be the part of the body we were created to be and have healthier relationships. The enemy is keeping us stuck by needing others to agree.
God bless you, Mama Joyce. Dr. Cloud is correct in saying that you are helping a lot of people. You have helped me so much with emotional healing. Dr. Cloud is helping me with drawing boundaries around my life and building emotionally healthy relationships.
This was SO good and perfect timing! Dr. Cloud is awesome! JMM always gives me so much peace, comfort and knowledge! Love you guys! ❤️ God Bless you all!
As always, y’all don’t disappoint! 🥰 Excellent podcast. One learns something new every day and setting boundaries is something I find myself struggling with because people get upset with me for setting them 🤦🏼♀️ Now I have a better understanding on the subject… BTW, my husband loves watching Talk it Out too!!
I love you girls!❤️ Joyce, I love you! Great topic, I was just praying to have more clarity on this regard in same areas of my life 🙏 and wisdom and strength… Greetings from Amsterdam
Much love to you as well from all of us here at Joyce Meyer Ministries! We're so glad to hear that this blessed you. Our prayers are with you! -Team JMM
Yea the breaking of friendship hurts because of boundaries. Learning to secure a cheer team first. Hee from controlling person to frust😅 Appreciate Scripture reference for adulthood ref
We're so glad to hear that this blessed you! You can catch up on past episodes at joycemeyer.org/TIO or wherever you listen to podcasts! God bless. -Team JMM
I love you Joyce so much but you’re so blessed to have wonderful kids grown children that love you and David so much and have the upmost respect both of you. My son is the same way if he calls me and I don’t answer he might wait and call me again and if I don’t, he’s wanting to know what’s going on and he’ll come over if he needs to to make sure I am OK he’s very overprotective with me and I am very grateful and thank God that I have him for my son, not all parents have that in their children and I know you know that I just wanted to throw that out. ❤
Would you kindly let me know how and where to access Joyce's complete message that was shared in this video? I would appreciate it VERY much! These messages and podcasts are exactly why I have been a JMM partner for so many years.
Love you Joyce. Love his book boundaries. It really helped me a lot. And ALL OF JOYCES BOOKS HELPED ME I LOVED LOVE REVALUTION. LOVED BATTLEFEILD OF THE MIND. JUST BOUGHT LOVING PEOPLE WHO ARE HARD TO TO LOVE. My mom is very hard to love. She hurtful and mean with her words and very jelouse and critical of me. And just says the meanest things about me to other people. Please pray for me I go to a wonderful plugged in church. 3 OAKS IN GALLITEN TENN. I loove. It. I've been with the same pastor for years. I love him and his wife very mutch. I'm going to start going wensday night as well I've invited people to go my friend has gone with me several xs. Please pray for her she is a baby Christian. She makes excuses about everything. I told her that what will YOU SAY TO THE LORD when you go to heaven and he says WHT didn't you read my word ??? She just dosent really care about it so I'll just keep on praying for. Her and ask others to go. Too I love taking people to church. I've had to confront people in a Christian way. I've had to set boundaries with my first friend J. AND. I have had to tell her look I don't mind giving you a ride to say the store. But not 12 other places. We've had to discuss the wear and tear on my car. And GAS. if she wants a ride. She has to put gas in my car and she does but I've had to learn BOUNDRIES WITH MY MOTHER. TOO EVEN THOUGH SHE GETS VERY ANGRY AT MY TACTICKS I have to say if you speak to me this way then. I can't be around you for awile until you can respect me. I help my daughter take care of her she is elderly and has a heart condition. As well. So my daughter has a place and she lives they're. My daughter is wonderful. And we get along very well but it always gives me bad anxiety around my mom beacause she abused me mentally and verbally and physically as a child I forgave her so reading these wonderful books. Have all helped me. Tremendously THANK YOU JOYCE AND DR CLOUD. 😊❤ LOVE FROM TENNESSE MOST OF ALL. GOD AND JESUS HELPED ME THE MOST. I GAVE MY HEART TO HIM WHEN I WAS 8 YEARS OLD. I LOVE THE LORD AND JESUS. I PRAY ALL THE TIME STUDY THE BIBLE AND. MY DEVOTINALS. I LOVE TO STUDY AND LEARN ABOUT GOD AND JESUS. ITS WONDERFUL. GOD BLESS YOU ALL BE SAFE LOVE YOURESELF. LOVE YOU JOYCE. HUGE FAN HAVE WATCHED YOU FOR. YEARS. LEARNED SO MUTCH. FROM YOU AND YOU HAVE HELPED ME SOO MUTCH. GOD BLESS YOU YOURE FAMILY.
I have found that there are some people who will not accept and respect boundries being set for them - no matter how carefully you word it. I was told I’m selfish, I only care about what I can get for me, I’m a control freak. This is from a sibling so I don’t want to cut ties but I have to say it has been very challanging to deal with. They have a what’s yours should be mine mentality, your home, your things, your money - everything. I am so tired of feeling guilty for having whatever I have - which is nothing fancy. I’m understanding why my husband just wanted to keep everybody out. I don’t want to do that but it might be easier and more peaceful if I did.
I had to cut ties with my sister a couple of years ago. I was tired of decades of strife. I was her emotional release valve. My family couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t talk to her. We live hundreds of miles apart. I could not be around her or talk to her because I required peace in my life. After 15 months of no communication she came to a family dinner at my house and did not try to cause strife. I had to commit to and work hard to establish that boundary. I still cannot be around her for long periods of time. I just walk away rather than engage in volatile topics. The rest of my family has come to realize that my motive was self preservation. You can do it and your peace will be enhanced.
I feel bad saying this but I turned off episode after 15 minutes (and I LOVE this podcast). I have found Talk it Out can deal with good topics but make it somewhat "light". I felt this was somewhat monotone. Oh well, everyone else seems to have enjoyed it so that's good!!
Hi everyone , my question has nothing to do with this podcast, I am fairly new to this podcast, and my last podcast I just finished watching JAI leaving , any chance of of you inviting her and giving us an update on her journey, so will miss her in the other podcast that I am still catching up with . Would love to see her and hear her catchy laugh and know how her life is going , PLEASE!🙏🩵🙏💛🙏🩵🙏💛🙏🩵
If you love my Yes,, Do you love my No too? I said No to him for the 1st time and he got mad at me,,I guess I'm single now but that's ok,,,I'm only 26 💔😂😂.
How and where I can have help and shelter against this evil person in my senior housing,is getting worst for me,he went also to sores nearby telling them that I been stealing in those stores showing my photo that he steamed from my apartment with his phone,he is the maintenance man that have all the apartment keys.
That's soo terrible I'd report him to the apartment maneger that's invasion of you're privacy. Pray for him. And tell him TO STOP LIEING ABOUT YOU AND TELLING THIS VICIOUS THINGS I HATE GOSSIP. GOD BLESS YOU KEEP. URE CHIN UP 😊😮
We're sorry to hear all that you are going through. We are lifting you up in our prayers! If you'd like, you can call our prayer line at 866-349-3300. We’re available M-F, 7 a.m.- 4 p.m. (CT). One of our team members will be happy to pray with you. -Team JMM
Put a different lock on your door* he could let himself in at Night,, Pray on what to do.. mean time go to hardware store there is a Lock that goes over out side knob Lock you have the Key ,, Notify in writing Owner& Manager* also advise them in writing You request. To be notified if any work needs done in your apartment so you can be present* always have a friend or. Neighbor president, He Is over stepping his boundaries ,, Not Normal behavior TAKE HIS BAD BEHAVIOR SERIOUSLY.. it's very dangerous when Hs Able to have Access to Your apartment .. Be aware any lies or verbal contacts tell people till some one dose some things,, Also His Verbal Lies To others can file in court Deformation Of Your Character* it's civil law May God Give You courage to Do Something To Stop His bad behavior and Keep you Safe🤔💪👮🛑📷🗝️🔐🔒🔒
Thank you for your content! I get a lot out of what you preach. I do feel it necessary to point this out… I would be a little more careful when it comes to joking around about drug addiction/substance abuse… I realize that it’s probably not how you intend to come across, but people who are actually on drugs or alcohol, might take it really hard depending on their state of mind. It might be funny to joke about one of your friends being on heroin and having an intervention… just don’t forget that for way too many people that’s real life, sadly. Just throwing this out there to give you a different perspective! Have a wonderful day! 🤍
But with Dr. Cloud's reasoning about setting boundaries with an addict, for example in choosing not to be around them until they get help, what if your addict family member keeps using, choosing not to get help, this means you never see them again?! Because of your boundry of choosing to not be around them? What if its yr parent or child? So 5, 10, 20 yrs will pass with no contact with them because “you are choosing not to be around them“ comments appreciated. This seems very UN Christian to me.
Please bring Dr Cloud for more conversations on Boundaries 😊
Turning 69 end of 2024, And I'm just now learning to set boundaries It's a freeing and magnificent gift from God 💕🕊️
Amen ✝️ I thought I was alone. I'm just now learning them too 😊
Same, 58 here, figured this as well
🙋♀️ 64
76 and learning them also
Me too! I'm 62. Why did it take me so long to learn this?
This was like arrows shot by the Holy Spirit straight to my heart and mind to bring freedom. "My people perish for lack of knowledge"
I cried to God last night for help and direction. This message was first thing that popped up on my phone this morning. I’ve listened to it over and over all day. God sent this to me right on time❤
Praying 🙏
We will keep you lifted up in our prayers! God always knows just what we need to hear and when we need to hear it. God bless you! -Team JMM
Yes the same thing happened to me!!!
, I
I was set free when I read the book especially took a weekend by myself to go through the Boundaties WebKit. . I saw so much in my life with selfish people even my extremely verbally, emotionally abusive ex-husband, who I still suffer emotional issues. The whole time I was raised in church and told that you should not get a divorce,that if I only believed and had enough faith, God would answer all my prayers. Whatever you ask, I will do. After I was such a mess, and my children. I faced my disappointment in the church, why God would allow this. I had tried to love this person all this time, prayed for, fasted for. That’s what I was taught raised in church that if you just love enough this was the 70s 80s 90s. It took me a long time to realize that he chose his behavior, had no intention of changing, and that no matter how much faith I had. It wasn’t going to change some who doesn’t want to change. I was never taught that.
I feel as long as boundaries are not out of selfishness but of love, grace and goodness 💜
This is such a much needed teaching. Thanks so much Joyce Meyer ministries ❤❤
It's for freedom that Christ as set free. Amen
🙌 Amen! -Team JMM
So happy to have you all back. ❤
We're so glad to be back! Blessings! -Team JMM
I needed to listen to this! I am struggling to set boundaries with my adult daughter. I feel obligated to “help” her as she is currently dealing with severe anxiety. Sometimes I feel like my “help“ is continuing to enable her and not allow her to get better and stand on her own 😢
I’m so glad you’re back! Love the new set, too 🤍
Thank you! We're so glad to be back as well!! God bless you. -Team JMM
I love, love, love having Erins perspective and her questions/comments are so relatable....even with the dog! LOL!!
She is cute ❤
Thank you for your word Lord, FREEDOM🙌🏾
You can not ever know how much what Dr. Cloud said about the child brain hit me!!! Although I wasn't physically abused as a child, my mother had mental/emotional issues that, in effect, worked in the same way that Joyce's experience worked in her life. It is no wonder I feel the deepest closeness to Joyce Meyer, even though I have never met her. She has made a PROFOUND impact on my life. Thank you, Joyce! Thank you Dr. Cloud!
What a blessed episode...thank you, thank you, thank you!!
I was just thinking how much I would like to watch this again ,sat down turned on TH-cam and there you are
The perspective on the LOVE------------Line
I'll do this for you- - - - - - -Line
I find myself sharing with other's on the perspective on Discipline
We LOVE our children--------------Line
We discipline our children- - - - -Line
I also liked what you said, what we do for other's has 'a return'
This Podcast was helpful
I love this video and shared it everywhere I can. It is so helpful.
Excellence video! I am so grateful for Joyce Meyer Ministries and Dr Henry Cloud for his wisdom ! I am going to get his book!
We're grateful to hear that this blessed you today! God is so good! -Team JMM
I wish I could double like this. This was such a blessing. Thank you❤
Thank you Dr Cloud, so helpful. Thank you my beautiful Mama Joyce 😘💕💕💕
Right after I left my comment, the clip of Joyce talking about boundries popped up. 😊 Gods timing is amazing - God is so good ❤️
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Would love a series on Boundaries (or reboot of previous series).
I love Talk it Out, so glad its back! 🥰
Hi good morning. I need help to set boundaries. I'm glad I'm listening to " Joyce Myers.
Our prayers are with you! We are so glad that this is going to be helpful for you. -Team JMM
@@joycemeyer Thank you Joyce Meyer.
Joyce Meyer is so funny at times 😅.i Watched a lot of the videos on the island of Aruba years ago in the morning early before i went to work and her Withnessing and Trying to show us Jesus His Way Trough the Word with backing up with Scripture were helpfull ,she was funny than in her comments and is still .The Joy of the Lord is my Strength There is a time to laugh and a time to cry and a time to Heal to and i pray that for everybody to Heal ,the whole world ,i pray it also for those who have falsely accused me ,some people do and say hurtfull things because they are hurt all they need to do is open their hearts for the Love of God and Jesus and The Holy Spirit the Comforter .💪🖐️♥️🙏📖
I have to giggle to myself how wonderfully God gives the answers I've been asking for.... I've been journaling about setting boundaries in my life because I've let people do things in my life, too afraid to say something (my fault) but today I came across this video, and now I'm ordering the book. but you gave the answers I've been looking for. Thank You such a blessing.
🔥🌹🌹🌹😻🙏✝️thank you for sharing your story Dr Cloud and Ministry’s
Thank y’all for being sooo vulnerable. I loved this message. Thank you
Amen Joyce❤
I just found this TH-cam podcast recently and I am so grateful! I really, really, really hope that you will have Dr. Cloud as a guest on a regular basis. Boundaries are SOOOO needed in this world today! An even more desperately in the Christian community and church arenas!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you for presenting this topic and clarifying it for Christians. It is so very needed!❤❤❤❤❤
🌻Thank you!💎May God Bless Everyone!✝️🌻🕊
Think there were past extreme boundaries/disciplining in church & believing fam that hurt the imperfect
....great that love, healthy manner/relationship & given purpose is involved in the setting/chat
" Healthy Godly boundaries " yes that is Treu in agreement with the Teachings of Jesus and the Commandmends of God .🖐️♥️💪📖
46:48 Hello from Brazil 💚💛
I praise our God for your life choices, Joice! I’ve been transformed by Jesus through your words!
🇺🇸🇮🇱🇧🇷✝️🧎🏽♀️
I love what Dr. Cloud said about binding on earth and binding in heaven. I connect that to what was said earlier about the fear of saying no to people - fear of how they’ll respond, which is ultimately fear of what they think. When we put God first and are true to our hearts we will be the part of the body we were created to be and have healthier relationships. The enemy is keeping us stuck by needing others to agree.
Been asking for help on my monthly JMM prayer cards!! Thank you, Mama J,!!!!
God bless you, Mama Joyce. Dr. Cloud is correct in saying that you are helping a lot of people. You have helped me so much with emotional healing. Dr. Cloud is helping me with drawing boundaries around my life and building emotionally healthy relationships.
Yes mama joyce!! Thank you god bless you!!
Thank you all for this episode! I want to read this book about safe people ❤ total god shot
Thank you so much for the insights. God bless you and your families!! I love you all ❤
Wow! Thank you so much for this talk/interview! Excellent ❤
Loved this one Natalie. Keeping it real.. All things and that is all things work together for good for those who love the Lord. Amen. xxx
I did not realize this was a podcast! I used to not really like podcasts but I really do enjoy these TALK IT OUT episodes :D Thank you ladies
This was so full of wisdom lessons peace . Thank you ❤
This was SO good and perfect timing! Dr. Cloud is awesome!
JMM always gives me so much peace, comfort and knowledge! Love you guys! ❤️ God Bless you all!
As always, y’all don’t disappoint! 🥰 Excellent podcast. One learns something new every day and setting boundaries is something I find myself struggling with because people get upset with me for setting them 🤦🏼♀️ Now I have a better understanding on the subject… BTW, my husband loves watching Talk it Out too!!
That's so great to hear! God bless you! -Team JMM
❤❤❤Amen,love you
Fantastic. Thank you.
This is such good wise teaching❤
Glad you wonderful ladies are back❤…LOVE the new set….very calming and not as “fussy” as last one.
Thank you so much Mother Joyce and team + Dr Cloud
I love you girls!❤️ Joyce, I love you! Great topic, I was just praying to have more clarity on this regard in same areas of my life 🙏 and wisdom and strength… Greetings from Amsterdam
Much love to you as well from all of us here at Joyce Meyer Ministries! We're so glad to hear that this blessed you. Our prayers are with you! -Team JMM
May God shower all of you with blessings. Wonderful message for me. I would to see you all embrace each other. Mamma Joyce love you.
We're so glad to hear that this message blessed you! -Team JMM
So good! Thank you God bless!
Great sharing on boundaries encouraged God bless
GOD is GOD of second third fourth chance, so helping somebody may require certain consistency
Yea the breaking of friendship hurts because of boundaries.
Learning to secure a cheer team first.
Hee from controlling person to frust😅
Appreciate Scripture reference for adulthood ref
I’m so glad I started watching! This message really helped me today! Thank you so much!
We're so glad to hear that this blessed you! You can catch up on past episodes at joycemeyer.org/TIO or wherever you listen to podcasts! God bless. -Team JMM
2 Cor. 9:7 is the scripture Dr. Cloud was speaking of about the purpose of your heart
Love this combo!!
Joyce is legendary and iconic
I like his voice!!
Phenomenal episode! Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️
Amen
So excited y’all are back ! This helped me SO much today! ❤
Yay! We're so excited to be back too! God bless. -Team JMM
Timely for me. Thank you.
Boy I’m glad this podcast is back!!!!! …finally.
Sorry, you ladies aren’t allowed to have anymore months off lol 😂
As always great podcast ❤
😄 We're so glad to be back too!! God bless you! -Team JMM
Soooo excited you all are back! 👏🥰❤️🥳
We're so glad to be back too! 🤩 God bless! -Team JMM
I'm putting a boundary on my eating and relationships
I love you Joyce so much but you’re so blessed to have wonderful kids grown children that love you and David so much and have the upmost respect both of you. My son is the same way if he calls me and I don’t answer he might wait and call me again and if I don’t, he’s wanting to know what’s going on and he’ll come over if he needs to to make sure I am OK he’s very overprotective with me and I am very grateful and thank God that I have him for my son, not all parents have that in their children and I know you know that I just wanted to throw that out. ❤
Really good broadcast ❤
God bless you all and JMM🙏🏾
Thank you! ❤
Ginger, beautiful shirt!❤
Would you kindly let me know how and where to access Joyce's complete message that was shared in this video? I would appreciate it VERY much! These messages and podcasts are exactly why I have been a JMM partner for so many years.
Thanks God Amen by the name of Jesus Chris Amen Alfa- OMG thanks
Love you Joyce. Love his book boundaries. It really helped me a lot. And ALL OF JOYCES BOOKS HELPED ME I LOVED LOVE REVALUTION. LOVED BATTLEFEILD OF THE MIND. JUST BOUGHT LOVING PEOPLE WHO ARE HARD TO TO LOVE. My mom is very hard to love. She hurtful and mean with her words and very jelouse and critical of me. And just says the meanest things about me to other people. Please pray for me I go to a wonderful plugged in church. 3 OAKS IN GALLITEN TENN. I loove. It. I've been with the same pastor for years. I love him and his wife very mutch. I'm going to start going wensday night as well I've invited people to go my friend has gone with me several xs. Please pray for her she is a baby Christian. She makes excuses about everything. I told her that what will YOU SAY TO THE LORD when you go to heaven and he says WHT didn't you read my word ??? She just dosent really care about it so I'll just keep on praying for. Her and ask others to go. Too I love taking people to church. I've had to confront people in a Christian way. I've had to set boundaries with my first friend J. AND. I have had to tell her look I don't mind giving you a ride to say the store. But not 12 other places. We've had to discuss the wear and tear on my car. And GAS. if she wants a ride. She has to put gas in my car and she does but I've had to learn BOUNDRIES WITH MY MOTHER. TOO EVEN THOUGH SHE GETS VERY ANGRY AT MY TACTICKS I have to say if you speak to me this way then. I can't be around you for awile until you can respect me. I help my daughter take care of her she is elderly and has a heart condition. As well. So my daughter has a place and she lives they're. My daughter is wonderful. And we get along very well but it always gives me bad anxiety around my mom beacause she abused me mentally and verbally and physically as a child I forgave her so reading these wonderful books. Have all helped me. Tremendously THANK YOU JOYCE AND DR CLOUD. 😊❤ LOVE FROM TENNESSE MOST OF ALL. GOD AND JESUS HELPED ME THE MOST. I GAVE MY HEART TO HIM WHEN I WAS 8 YEARS OLD. I LOVE THE LORD AND JESUS. I PRAY ALL THE TIME STUDY THE BIBLE AND. MY DEVOTINALS. I LOVE TO STUDY AND LEARN ABOUT GOD AND JESUS. ITS WONDERFUL. GOD BLESS YOU ALL BE SAFE LOVE YOURESELF. LOVE YOU JOYCE. HUGE FAN HAVE WATCHED YOU FOR. YEARS. LEARNED SO MUTCH. FROM YOU AND YOU HAVE HELPED ME SOO MUTCH. GOD BLESS YOU YOURE FAMILY.
We will keep you lifted up in our prayers! Know that the Lord is with you and is working on your behalf now and always. God bless you! -Team JMM
❤
I have found that there are some people who will not accept and respect boundries being set for them - no matter how carefully you word it. I was told I’m selfish, I only care about what I can get for me, I’m a control freak. This is from a sibling so I don’t want to cut ties but I have to say it has been very challanging to deal with. They have a what’s yours should be mine mentality, your home, your things, your money - everything. I am so tired of feeling guilty for having whatever I have - which is nothing fancy. I’m understanding why my husband just wanted to keep everybody out. I don’t want to do that but it might be easier and more peaceful if I did.
I had to cut ties with my sister a couple of years ago. I was tired of decades of strife. I was her emotional release valve. My family couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t talk to her. We live hundreds of miles apart. I could not be around her or talk to her because I required peace in my life. After 15 months of no communication she came to a family dinner at my house and did not try to cause strife. I had to commit to and work hard to establish that boundary. I still cannot be around her for long periods of time. I just walk away rather than engage in volatile topics. The rest of my family has come to realize that my motive was self preservation. You can do it and your peace will be enhanced.
Wow deep!!
I feel bad saying this but I turned off episode after 15 minutes (and I LOVE this podcast). I have found Talk it Out can deal with good topics but make it somewhat "light". I felt this was somewhat monotone. Oh well, everyone else seems to have enjoyed it so that's good!!
There was some really good stuff in the second half - just in case you are considering going back
How I can get this book from Henry Cloud?
Amazon just got it
It's on line
Amazon. I bought 2 already! ,"Changes that Heal" and "Never Go Back"
Hi everyone , my question has nothing to do with this podcast, I am fairly new to this podcast, and my last podcast I just finished watching JAI leaving , any chance of of you inviting her and giving us an update on her journey, so will miss her in the other podcast that I am still catching up with . Would love to see her and hear her catchy laugh and know how her life is going , PLEASE!🙏🩵🙏💛🙏🩵🙏💛🙏🩵
Google-search her name. New ministry leader in either NC/SC.
Submit yourself to God!!
If you love my Yes,,
Do you love my No too?
I said No to him for the 1st time and he got mad at me,,I guess I'm single now but that's ok,,,I'm only 26 💔😂😂.
That was the best quote and it works! Good for you! God has a good man for you!
If they cannot take a 'no' one time, they will probably never find a good wife unless they change.
@@abc1979k Amen sis,,thank you.
@@reginafields9851 You right Ma'am,,hope they will realize it soon and change.
That’s really a blessing that you saw that before you said, “I do”.
What if the boundary with is your spouse and they leave?
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How and where I can have help and shelter against this evil person in my senior housing,is getting worst for me,he went also to sores nearby telling them that I been stealing in those stores showing my photo that he steamed from my apartment with his phone,he is the maintenance man that have all the apartment keys.
That's soo terrible I'd report him to the apartment maneger that's invasion of you're privacy. Pray for him. And tell him TO STOP LIEING ABOUT YOU AND TELLING THIS VICIOUS THINGS I HATE GOSSIP. GOD BLESS YOU KEEP. URE CHIN UP 😊😮
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@@mandycolley5852 I spoke to the manager,she doesn't believe me,I need to move quikly to a better place,help me Lord🙏😭🕊️
Put a different lock on your door* he could let himself in at Night,, Pray on what to do.. mean time go to hardware store there is a Lock that goes over out side knob Lock you have the Key ,, Notify in writing Owner& Manager* also advise them in writing You request. To be notified if any work needs done in your apartment so you can be present* always have a friend or. Neighbor president, He Is over stepping his boundaries ,, Not Normal behavior TAKE HIS BAD BEHAVIOR SERIOUSLY.. it's very dangerous when Hs Able to have Access to Your apartment .. Be aware any lies or verbal contacts tell people till some one dose some things,, Also His Verbal Lies To others can file in court Deformation Of Your Character* it's civil law May God Give You courage to Do Something To Stop His bad behavior and Keep you Safe🤔💪👮🛑📷🗝️🔐🔒🔒
Call the police.
Thank you for your content! I get a lot out of what you preach. I do feel it necessary to point this out… I would be a little more careful when it comes to joking around about drug addiction/substance abuse… I realize that it’s probably not how you intend to come across, but people who are actually on drugs or alcohol, might take it really hard depending on their state of mind. It might be funny to joke about one of your friends being on heroin and having an intervention… just don’t forget that for way too many people that’s real life, sadly.
Just throwing this out there to give you a different perspective! Have a wonderful day! 🤍
Agree
I stopped watching pornography. I’ve never been happier!
Amen❤
But with Dr. Cloud's reasoning about setting boundaries with an addict, for example in choosing not to be around them until they get help, what if your addict family member keeps using, choosing not to get help, this means you never see them again?! Because of your boundry of choosing to not be around them? What if its yr parent or child? So 5, 10, 20 yrs will pass with no contact with them because “you are choosing not to be around them“ comments appreciated. This seems very UN Christian to me.
Why oops. Lol