10 Reasons why I don't drink alcohol

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  • I haven't had alcohol in almost three years, I had many reasons for quitting drinking but the sober journey has thrown up many other strong reasons to remain alcohol-free forever.
    These 10 reasons why I don't drink alcohol are powerful and my hope is that they will inspire you to question your own relationship with alcohol too.
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  • @cynthiafortier2540
    @cynthiafortier2540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Now I feel like drinking poison for fun is pure insanity!! Glad I am out of that trap, its awful!!

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is definitely a poison. And we feel so much better when we quit. Well done!

  • @markg.4246
    @markg.4246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Your wife and son are getting a "consistent version" of you. THAT ladies and gentlemen, is called "sobriety"! Physical sobriety, followed by emotional sobriety. I was a hopeless, chronic alcoholic who stood at the turning point in May of 1994. Three things happened...I went to meetings, (still do) cleared away the wreckage of my past, and tried to carry the message of hope to others.
    I now have more than 27 years of "reasons" to stay sober. It has been the greatest adventure of my life! All the best to you Simon, and family! Mark

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Mark! I appreciate you actively commenting on my channel. You've got great insights.

  • @casper1240
    @casper1240 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As Allen Carr said we were never really in control .we were controlled

  • @user-ff4wb7ph8o
    @user-ff4wb7ph8o ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My name is Jim. I’ve been sober for 16 days now I was about ready to lose my wife to start sleeping upstairs. Losing all my grandkids no contact with them but I know I need help. I can’t do this on my own so I’ve been listening to your TH-cam on podcasts and it’s out and I am going to AA meetings when my wife is not very ill.

    • @jonnylons1
      @jonnylons1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hang in there Jim, hope it’s going well for you!

    • @user-ff4wb7ph8o
      @user-ff4wb7ph8o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jonnylons1 it only took you 10 months to reply. It’s been horrible. I’ve had no help now I’m back drinking again like I said, and horrible.

    • @jonnylons1
      @jonnylons1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry to hear that Jim, I just discovered the video today and I’m going through something similar. Try your best to make a plan and make a start at giving up. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.

  • @michaelmadsen6145
    @michaelmadsen6145 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm almost 3 months in. Blood pressure went from 160+/90 to a pretty consistent 110 or less/67....heart rate from 120 resting to around 70 or less....cut my BP medicine slowly and is pretty much off it now....I love it!

  • @genuinsanity
    @genuinsanity 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This year I noticed things that used to work have run their course , and no longer work . Alcohol is on the top of the list, it brings problems .

  • @natascha.anastasia
    @natascha.anastasia ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for this honest story, stories like this motivate me to walk away from toxic substances for good. I just turned 32 and I really thought it was 31, a friend had to remind me. My God I lost a whole year to depression, alcohol and smoking. I want to change. Thank you again for your honesty.

    • @beatrixbrennan1545
      @beatrixbrennan1545 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's pretty bad. I hope you're in a better place now

    • @beatrixbrennan1545
      @beatrixbrennan1545 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you doing now? Did you manage to get sober?

    • @barbcarpenter5016
      @barbcarpenter5016 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can do this bc I quit drinking 4 months ago after 10 years of heavy dranking. I'm 28

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm grateful to be sober !!! ❤❤

  • @cherellewhyte9546
    @cherellewhyte9546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So glad i found you! 1 month sober and counting!

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fantastic!!! Have you joined my sober community on FB? Lots of support there to help you on your sober journey.

  • @Mobsy-bw7yj
    @Mobsy-bw7yj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nailed it. Everything you’ve said in this video rings true to me. 5 months in and happier than ever, more consistent for my children, etc, etc. Not turning back to the jerk I was.
    Thank you for making this video.

  • @ianwilson2394
    @ianwilson2394 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been off alchol for a year qnd a half and relast for the last 4 days sat now feeling worthless this has helped me thankyou

  • @stellawoo72
    @stellawoo72 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This channel and Simon made me realise what I already knew but pushed me forward to quit,it’s only been a month but my anxiety has gone and that is a gift in itself, knowing the choices I have I choose to stop putting this poison in my body and finally getting my life,personality and zest for life back.
    Keep up the good work

  • @elijahdunmore7526
    @elijahdunmore7526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Simon I just want to thank you for making another great SOBRIETY youtube I just have to let everyone know I have been sober for 1 year and 2 month being alcohol free for that long is a blessing 🙏 I have been able to save money feel better no more hangovers I can communicate better with my friends and family I feel like working out every day loose weight look better SIMON don't feel bad about how that alcohol made you feel I am still taking it one day at a time THANKS AGAIN STAY SOBER AND LISTEN TO SIMON HE IS A TRUE TESTIMONY ABOUT BEING ALCOHOL FREE THANKS AGAIN SIMON STAY SAFE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS 🙏

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a great comment to read! Thank you! Well done for your 14 months of sobriety! CONGRATULATIONS!

  • @barbarahermannster
    @barbarahermannster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You do look fantastic! Your skin and eyes have that health glow.

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you.

  • @rickm6232
    @rickm6232 ปีที่แล้ว

    Video #3 Simon! :) This was your purpose in life. Brilliant & true!

  • @sleeplessinstockwell
    @sleeplessinstockwell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truly excellent video bro much obliged. Inspirational

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true !!! Love this

  • @brittweir8844
    @brittweir8844 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my gosh, that was so spot on, thanks for the Hope and encouragement 😊

  • @mdavis2703
    @mdavis2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for all your great videos. They really help. Im on day 4.

  • @CharlotteBrown-bh1cd
    @CharlotteBrown-bh1cd ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much !

  • @myhtcevo4g
    @myhtcevo4g ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your vids mate

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to take a leave of absence from work to focus on recovery. Best thing I could do for my self . Alcoholics anonymous works but it takes effort and it's a dailey reprieve . But its 100 percent the effort. I'm a alcoholic and I've come to realize I cannot do any drugs or alcohol

  • @williamalexander1863
    @williamalexander1863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Day 8 for me. Feel great physically but the emotional mood swings are killing me

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you're doing better this week.

    • @williamalexander1863
      @williamalexander1863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@besober 2 weeks now. Feel great! Thank you!

  • @kerrymilne2494
    @kerrymilne2494 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this

  • @AP-nx6xo
    @AP-nx6xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re awesome and a daily inspiration for me👍🏻

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated. Thank you!

  • @126185thst
    @126185thst 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    a great video well said . very helpful..

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @juliauren1338
    @juliauren1338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations simon your videos are fantastic. I'm 100 days tomorrow.
    Thank you for this

    • @AP-nx6xo
      @AP-nx6xo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍🏻

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      100 Days! CONGRATULATIONS! That's a huge milestone. Well done!

  • @michaelquinn8618
    @michaelquinn8618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Drinking ruins your life for sure. I drank for 50 years and finally quit 5 years ago. I’m 70 now and glad I did quit I really couldn’t handle the hangovers after a night of drinking. I was a binge drinker and didn’t drink everyday but on the weekends or vacations I always drank heavy. I wish o had quit when I was 25 , quit now if you want a great life.

  • @petercarney9146
    @petercarney9146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fantastic Simon inspired me it’s been 65 days now and I’m experiencing every good thing you experienced getting better all the time (cheers oops 🙄) thank you simon

    • @besober
      @besober  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome Peter, it sounds like you are doing great, keep it up! Simon

  • @jeffreyjohnmann
    @jeffreyjohnmann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I spend so much money if I'm drinking, you really explain it

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you.

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I almost got fired this last time . The company made me go to treatment . They could of fired me

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel so much better and feel better .

  • @suzannemclaughlin3173
    @suzannemclaughlin3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Simon tomorrow I’ll rest I’ve been sober one year before but struggling to get day one again xx

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You might find my new book helpful - it's a 50 day programme that includes tips, strategies, how to turn set backs into comebacks and questions for journaling. How to Quit Alcohol in 50 Days - it's available on Amazon.

  • @davidnightingale8390
    @davidnightingale8390 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I didn’t like being a nasty person and that’s what I had become.

  • @gtron7692
    @gtron7692 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dismissive, grumpy and snappy is my spouse in a nutshell and boy am I sick of it.

  • @Grrrrrrr123
    @Grrrrrrr123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sober a week thank you

    • @besober
      @besober  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well done, stay close and let me know how you are doing.

  • @AudreyOrourke-n1j
    @AudreyOrourke-n1j 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Two weeks 🎉

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sobriety is 1 for me

  • @georgemarsilio5122
    @georgemarsilio5122 ปีที่แล้ว

    yu!!!! are absolutely right!!!!! punn intended

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a month sobriety no alcohol and no cannabis.

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alcohol is so bad for your whole body . Health . My life became unmanageable

  • @suzannemclaughlin3173
    @suzannemclaughlin3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need your help Simon

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you joined my sober community on FB? It's a great place to start. Be Sober - Quit Drinking & Enjoy Life. You might also want to try my programme for free for 14 Days. Many people find it a great way to kick start their sober journey. Help is there for you!

  • @Robe_Hernandez
    @Robe_Hernandez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1 week today

    • @kingtonza9711
      @kingtonza9711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same for me

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FANTASTIC!

    • @besober
      @besober  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      AWESOME!

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    I look better and more energy.

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    No more relapsing for me .