Why Your Ex's Rebound Will Never Measure Up

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  • @marguskiis7711
    @marguskiis7711 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Women hold their rebounds very long to show to their ex they are more successful.

    • @robertsaunders9267
      @robertsaunders9267 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      If they heal no issues, if they rebound no chance. That shows me weakness.

  • @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh
    @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    If shes left,its because of her ,not you,stop giving patience and control to a person who never cared.

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex came back to me few days
      ❤ago got help from a
      Relationship Restore Dr Wilson
      who was able to mend back my
      broken relationship and make my
      ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *@✛37282247778👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的*决定*令人高兴。

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Massage him from help right away📲

  • @Yvette-s1z
    @Yvette-s1z 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Broke up he texted her that night. They were waiting 4 yrs to get together. I’m pretty sure it’s gonna last if they can wait for each other that long. Two months and I’m still hurt. He was so sweet and kind to me so it came out of no where. The next day he was cold and mean and ignored me. Pray for me to get over him.

  • @nickyj2657
    @nickyj2657 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    My ex been with her rebound for 15 months, it must be working ok

    • @KenuDRoger
      @KenuDRoger 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And how have you been on those 15 months, bro? Did you improve? If not, you should move on and work on yourself. You don't know what's happening in their daily life, so we don't know if they are in a good relationship. Focus on your self bro, keep praying and find someone better if you haven't yet. I'm watching this not to get my ex back, but I want to know if she will also feel what i felt when she shattered my soul

    • @nickyj2657
      @nickyj2657 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KenuDRoger trying to improve for myself. Sort of moving on but still want her back

    • @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh
      @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You may not have to improve yourself,you was good enough for her then,you just have to decipher,if she's just using you to get over a past trauma.

    • @nickyj2657
      @nickyj2657 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh together nearly 6 years, long time to try and get over her past trauma

    • @LionKing-ue2zd
      @LionKing-ue2zd หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nickyj2657She s not deserve you!Go on fix your head bro!

  • @andrewball1168
    @andrewball1168 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow I’m rehab doing a lot of reflecting and this helped me a lot

  • @bmore9088
    @bmore9088 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Been with my wife 17 yrs married for 4. Affair in the marriage. I couldn't get past it. Our relationship became toxic and we were up and down but more down because she wasnt putting in any effort. She made me out to be the problem all the time. Now were separated going to divorce. She was already talking to someone months before she ended it and junped right into a relationship with this dude. Shes hiding it but i already know what it is

    • @bmore9088
      @bmore9088 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Two daughters and a home together. Separated all of our accounts as well. I'm going through all the pain and heart ache and she's out here living it up

    • @inspiringwomenscornerpodcast
      @inspiringwomenscornerpodcast 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's how it always is.

    • @bruhman562
      @bruhman562 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Man, did you see any of the red flags prior to marriage?

    • @bmore9088
      @bmore9088 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@bruhman562 I seen a shit load of red flags and I called her out every time. This is before I knew about monkey branching. I realized it later when I started watching all these videos. Taught me a lot about her. Opened up my eyes that's for damn sure

  • @IKTXIII
    @IKTXIII 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Think it will last, not a happy one, probably will be toxic but it will last, probably a few years give or take, she (29) rebounded after 10 yrs together with me to a guy she met for just 2 weeks (June 2024), 1+ month later she's already pregnant, so the guy technically cannot just go and leave her since they already made sure their family know about each other with in a month. Here in the PH your life would be in danger if you just got up and leave, so yeah she's now his problem. Dodged a bullet.

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex came back to me few days
      ❤ago got help from a
      Relationship Restore Dr Wilson
      who was able to mend back my
      broken relationship and make my
      ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *@✛37282247778👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的*决定*令人高兴。

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Massage him from help right away📲

    • @bruhman562
      @bruhman562 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stop keeping up with her

  • @RobertJones-et7gh
    @RobertJones-et7gh หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Dear friends. Videos that assure you, that ALL rebounds will eventually fail, are lying to you, and are giving you false hope. There are plenty of rebounds that do work. Apparently most don’t. But “most” is not “all.”
    If you were dumped by your ex, and are hoping that their rebound relationship fails, that’s understandable. But don’t count on it. Sometimes, in the eyes of the rebounder, the rebound is a genuine upgrade from their previous mate.

    • @Yeahyouheardme
      @Yeahyouheardme 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What this poster said. Also, I caught myself hoping my ex's rebound would fail and I immediately felt a ton of shame and realized that's not what I want at all. I love my ex unconditionally and if they are more compatible and find happiness with the new person then I'm happy for them even if it brings me pain and I'll move on while trying to better myself.

    • @OcTVids
      @OcTVids 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Facts. I was the rebound and we lasted a fairly long time because I was an upgrade on many levels. Ex lived at home, drank a lot, gambling problem, etc. However the age gap supposedly made it impossible for her to continue on with me. She is 9 years older than me.
      A week later she’s dating someone her age now. He’s not as fit and put together as I am, but an upgrade in the sense that she doesn’t feel insecure being seen with him as they are the same age so I suspect they will last.

  • @DavidCoertzen-o2u
    @DavidCoertzen-o2u หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ex went into rebound 6 days after the breakup. They are moving in together after 10 weeks or knowing each other.

  • @FrankyboyFloyd
    @FrankyboyFloyd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    An avoidant should be happy with a rebound, no? Is it not a superficial relationship without intimacy they want?

    • @blackcatdaily1774
      @blackcatdaily1774 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m an avoidant and I got into a rebound relationship and it was great at first because it was superficial but after a while, i didn’t want it to be superficial anymore and that’s where things turn bad because I didn’t realise it didn’t actually like that person but i idealised them

    • @whiggygirl
      @whiggygirl หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@blackcatdaily1774 thanks for explaining. How long roughly did it take, before you realised?

    • @blackcatdaily1774
      @blackcatdaily1774 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@whiggygirlVery typical of a rebound, 6 month honeymoon phase until I wanted to grow and when I suggested growth, we both quickly realised we don’t have the same goals. By 7th month it was a mutual chore to keep the relationship alive.

    • @whiggygirl
      @whiggygirl หลายเดือนก่อน

      @blackcatdaily1774 thank you. I don't want him back, but I do want him to realise what he's done, and hurt the way he hurt me. It's only fair

  • @user-es6px6rd9d
    @user-es6px6rd9d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is this still true if the ex said they were disconnected and lost attraction months before the breakup? Also we had a really toxic multiple day breakup where I learned they already rebounded before the breakup and lied to me i kept calling them a liar cheater and whore and they kept telling me everything I did wrong and how they never loved me

    • @user-es6px6rd9d
      @user-es6px6rd9d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel like we had a meaningful relationship but apparently they didn’t feel that way they told me I was just a keychain idk if they meant it or was just the breakup talking

    • @Goopoo231
      @Goopoo231 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@user-es6px6rd9d this guys is basing his analysis on many assumptions. For example, he’s assuming the relationship was a good deep one. But some people rebound from one shallow experience to another because they don’t want a deep connection. Don’t take counseling from this guy.

  • @cmbbfan78
    @cmbbfan78 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if the new partner of the ex (rebound relationship) is a pathological narcissist? How do this fact can change the story?

  • @uno5976
    @uno5976 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I reached out 2 time in 2 week post BU to my DA ex. Am I doomed?

    • @youtubeaccountserio2633
      @youtubeaccountserio2633 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Never reach out when then turn on DA, no contact

    • @uno5976
      @uno5976 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@youtubeaccountserio2633 I will not reach out again, but the seconde discard when she told me she was working on herself to not doing that again was crazier then the first time

  • @TheIrishRossonero
    @TheIrishRossonero 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if your ex started dating their best friend?

    • @nickyj2657
      @nickyj2657 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TheIrishRossonero mine was a co worker so sort of a friend but dating your best friend is low

    • @TheIrishRossonero
      @TheIrishRossonero 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nickyj2657 you think man? im interested in your point? im trying to figure things out, im a little like this is fucked haha

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If he's narcissist, he will eventually discard her too when he finds a new supply.

    • @TheUnderdogg666
      @TheUnderdogg666 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Identify her in you head like a cheater because she hided thing from you that she though about dating him while you where together and you trusted her. Second option it will break after the honeymood period because she didn't process or grieve the old relationship correctly

  • @Gawdmannyy
    @Gawdmannyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My gf for 4 years left me a month later she dating a new guy. She says she's really happy and in peace now.she doesn’t care about me anymore. She blocked me. How do you move on from a 4 year relationship that fast? She's now getting high, she thinks this man is perfect he's Dominican too I know he giving her drugs and her new friends too. I'm worried about her because she's a good girl. But she changed a lot. I work out im in last year of college plus I work for a business company I go to church. everyone is telling me she will regret it but time will tell I guess..even her own dad. I pray for her to be safe & be happy. I messed up before in the past but I changed to be a better man for her. I got karma maybe I deserve it.. but it broke my heart she found someone already..
    a good friend of mine told me “ she believes you’re not the one for her when you are in your bad moments. So she doesn’t deserve you at your best.”
    how do you feel about this?

    • @ItsJustAdrean
      @ItsJustAdrean 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You stop worrying about her and count her as lost. Give it a few months to a year of working on yourself. It sounds like she is no good for you anyway.
      Mine left me for a 36 year old ex military possible alcoholic with a dead wife who looks like her and started smoking weed with her friends. I'm not sure which is worse

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My ex came back to me few days
      ❤ago got help from a
      Relationship Restore Dr Wilson
      who was able to mend back my
      broken relationship and make my
      ex to come back and beg. for a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *@✛37282247778👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的*决定*令人高兴。

    • @AnthoniaElijah
      @AnthoniaElijah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Massage him from help right away📲

    • @Gawdmannyy
      @Gawdmannyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AnthoniaElijah how??

  • @scarecrowjuniper9054
    @scarecrowjuniper9054 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is for incels and men who think walking the trash out is worth praising

  • @TS-zl7wl
    @TS-zl7wl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What if the rebound is a years long friendship they've had? Still failing?

    • @TheUnderdogg666
      @TheUnderdogg666 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Identify her in you head like a cheater because she hided thing from you that she though about dating him while you where together and you trusted her.Second it option will break after the honeymood period because she didn't process or grieve the old relationship correctly

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    @shaneschnyer7817 หลายเดือนก่อน

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