Monkey Branching: Unveiling the Psychology and Mindset Behind It
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 มิ.ย. 2024
- Understanding the mindset of someone who engages in monkey branching can be complex. Here are the motivations, psychological and emotional state, behavioral patterns, reasons behind it, and ways to ease your mind:
Motivations:
1. Emotional Immaturity
2. Bypassing Emotional Processing
3. Fear of Being Alone
4. Desire for Excitement and Novelty
5. Insecurity and Validation
6. Lack of Commitment
Psychological and Emotional State:
1. Confusion and Conflict
2. Guilt and Rationalization
3. Anxiety and Uncertainty
Behavioral Patterns:
1. Inability to Deal with Stressful Situations
2. Seeking Emotional Fulfillment
3. Avoidance of Conflict
Reasons Behind It:
1. Perceived Incompatibility
2. Desire for Something Better
3. Emotional Disconnect
Ways to Ease Your Mind:
1. Understanding Their Mindset
2. Self-Reflection and Growth
3. Focus on Healing
4. Avoid Blame
5. Moving Forward
Understanding these complex reasons can be a step towards healing and finding peace. Focus on your well-being and take the time you need to recover emotionally.
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Hi from luxembourg 🤗
I just got monkey branched.
She is a coworker, i was feeling that something was not right. He denied everything. We live in the same town, he took a walk with her and her dog and i saw them by chance!
Very short version...
She moved in right away, met his daughter, family,... i never did. Bc he was coming out of a very long realionship of 15 years i did not want to rush into this and thought primary of his daughter who was processing the break up of her parents.
Thank you for your words, your words touch my soul ❤
And most of breakup are happening because of monkey branching.
And they absolutely feel no guilt about it. They even brag telling how powerful they feel with "finally i find that person" or "you can heal only by consuming new and fresh".
@@yannisdontas745 BPD women are somewhat like that, no joke
A lot of women actually openly promote this behavior with pride, saying "not to waste time".
That's because women are *different* than men and therefore have different mating strategy.
Women windows to secure a man that she *really* wants (an untold truth about modern dating is that the vast majority of women end up settlling for men that they don't really want or fancy that much) and start a familiy with is actually really short compare to a men. That's why they use monkey branching as a strategy to _"not waste time"_
@@nono114499that's why living in this word sucks
Hi ! I love your content. You are the only coach that says never go back , all
Others enable to go back once they rebound, in reality the relationship has been stained and it will never be the same . Thank you ! I keep listening to stays in control
You are exactly talking about her.
@@Fkkhan100 Thank you for your transparency my dear friend !
I’m not only relieved, I thank God and praise him that he got me away from this person! As devastating as it was when he ran off two weeks later with a girl friend that was texting him and he gaslighted me that nothing was going because she was in a relationship too, I am thankful that I am away from a man like him. Praise the Lord and thank God you no longer are with a person who treats others like this!!🙏
Broke up in February. She monkey branched and it lasted with the new guy for 2 months. I feel relieved now in late June. I'm glad I don't have to deal with her being an emotional island.
The island is gone and I'm dating again. I also lost 25 lbs while hitting the gym. I'm now at 165 lbs. Feeling good and just feel bad for her now.
Yeah, I went through this and my ex’s emotions towards the end were crazy. I could do nothing right. My breathing would set him off. Suddenly everything he liked about me previously was exactly what was wrong with me. It was awful. It destroyed my self confidence for the longest time. I’m still recovering. . .
It is very hard to be living 300 meters away from them.. i want to take my distance but feel stuck bc i have new pictures every day.
I’m noticing a few people in the comments that are mad lol because they are the monkey brancher! And you can see themselves explaining it 😂
Can you talk about someone who is separated but not divorced and getting into a relationship very quickly.
Yes my friend! I will ! 🤍🙏🏽
@@PazGoldmanOfficial
I’m looking forward to it.
@@silkiar6297 what would be a good title for this video? (I want to get your point of view as a subscriber that is looking for this specific content)
@@PazGoldmanOfficial Relationships while separated but not divorced 📝
A little context on my situation, I’m 10 months separated but not divorced. My “ex” was already emotionally involved with someone before he left and less than a couple of weeks was already with her. I didn’t any of this till a couple of months after we separated. I was emotionally messed up after our separation but I guess he wasn’t. We’ve been married for 18 years and two kids. More to this story……..
I hope you can shed a light of this topic because I just don’t understand how can u just switch to another person just like that.
I’ve been moving on and doing my healing journey. 💪🏻
What is it like for the new woman, the one he monkey branched over to? She knows this is what happened and that he is still in touch with me and always will be(no children involved).
Unfortunately such relationships do last. The reason is that they emotionally checked out for a long time ago, you just was blindsided or they blindsided you on purpose. Monkey branching is not rebound, it is a full-fledged relationship because this action was planned. This is disgusting and much much much worse than cheating.
I hope haShem will hit those people with karma very hard.
But from the point of view of consumerism there is no surprise they even brag about what they did and flaunt their new supply, cause this is like boasting that they got a "better deal" in their life.
Those diagnosed with BPD can even say "I know I did wrong. But I don't feel remorse or guilt".
Wrong! I’ve seen for myself in many relationships that monkey branching never last long being in denial only prolongs the inevitable.
I agree. They just detached mentally before going into their next relationship. It's why it lasts longer.
@@papitokuts1491my ex monkey branched and they are still together a year later. It absolutely can work
@@papitokuts1491 i hope that i am wrong and you are right. However my BPD ex in more than one year with new long distance supply she monkey branched to. .
No not relieved, we have 2 children together under 5. Was together 5 plus years. 😢
Monkey branching, rebound, break up. In the end, once you healed you will realise it was always you and never her that was in the wrong. The fact that she monkey branched means she is in control, and you let her do it. Ofc, she wont ask permissoin, but mentally she had the freedom, meaning she was never yours. TBH, these days i get the shivers when bumpin into new women, you never know whats in the box of chocolates
Not ur fault if a girl is a 304
How is it my fault? Bro shut up about shit you don’t understand.
No im not happy not even a little bit not 1 argument in 12 years had no idea anything was wrong and we have kids, monkey branched to a friend she had known for 10 years, I want her back family means everything to me end of story I don’t agree with broken homes, yes she rationalised it by saying my mum left my dad at 4 and I turned out fine 😂
@@rscholey85 so sorry that she did this to you. But also, if not arguments in 12 years it suggests problems with communication and a reluctance to surface issues. This is often the case with teenagers and younger relationships. In those situations resentment can build up over time and can end with being blindsided and monkey branching. Good luck!
@@pitchforks1826 I’m 36 there was nothing to argue about , iv never argued in any of my relationships arguing solves no problems, when everything is going fine what’s their to argue about ? Why argue in the first place if theirs something wrong you talk, how can you fix something if they don’t tell you theirs an issue 😂 usually you see a break up coming you grow apart I was still in love with my ex still am tbf it’s been 5 month and it sucks
@rscholey85 are you doing anything to move on? I'm sorry, it does suck. It's just sad. I called it a tragedy, but you don't want to be with someone that would do this to you. Plus your only 36. I'm 40 after she left our 9 yr relationship. Work on yourself. Learn how to let her go. Good luck brother.
@@parkerberlin4410 when your 4 year old cries for you and it’s our job to keep the family together … no I’m not doing much to move on tbh
@rscholey85 I believe its our job to keep the household provided for, bur the woman keeps the family together. That's only my opinion and I don't know your circumstances. She chose to leave. All we can do is provide that for them. Women that do that will always regret it if we keep improving. The women that left me is getting all the space from me that I can provide. And I'm doing my best to improve
It feels like everytime you make a monkeybranch or rebound video people just comment how this relationships do last…. Are you making enough research?
They last more times than not in my experience but rarely do they last long. All of my ex’s monkey branched and they all failed. But it took way longer than 6
Months. One took a year, the other took 9 months and the most recent one is around the one year mark. They do fail every-time but it takes forever
@@Bloodsport1337 so it be. Amen.