From experience, they have a rebound and are making them the priority we once were. They are scared to reach out because the very people who coerced them (family and friends) to break the relationship would be disappointed in them if they did. They, as you say are scared that we might reject them now which now makes them the dumpee.
Your ex has not reached out??!! Have a party!!, go to the movies, watch something good on TV. Cook an amazing meal. They don’t care remember that!!! And if they do give you a second thought, they won’t do anything about it. SO!!! Let it go. I made it 7 months now. I’m to the point I have to make myself think about her. You can make it too!!!
@@ninajohnson8389 yes my point. Plus do you want them back? I just found out they don’t bond to you. They lack the chemicals in the brain to do so it makes a lot of sense. I had no idea this is what was going on. It’s how they make your relationship into a business transaction. Is it worth it? Is it not? They only want to deal with it if they get something out of it.
@@peternall6566 Don’t get me wrong I had a great 6 months. It was wild. But man when they shut down and run. Wow!!! That girl ran off a cliff!!! And never looked back. I would a least look back once. Not them. They are only in it for themselves. Amen brother.
It does not matter if you believe it is about you or not . The act of staying silent on their part ,is meant to avoid you at all cost ,they simply do not care about your feeling and the impact their shunning you is affecting your psyche. The problem I have is despite all the indifference, I have experianced that has been directed toward me , I still love them .Time is supposedly going to erease those feelings but that is. bullshit,, You may want to get rid of your love by becoming angry but for me that is not the case .I could never be angry, bitter or resentful.I wish I could but it is not my nature, so I try to accept that life is full off pain and hurt and thats that !! You need to try and live with it the best you can which is not easy to say the least...
Coach i did send her a risky text , i admitted my fault on taking her for granted , i didn't asked for another chance 😢. I said i will be better on my next relationship and i hope she will on her rebound 😢
@@Conefone hey man, we’re all on here trying to figure things out. You’re doing the best you can. I don’t think it’s screwed up. We are all out here hanging on by a thread.. just go back to no contact. Hell she might contact you.
@@Conefone dude!!! I’m at 7 months no contact. She blocked my phone from day one. I have nothing. A girl I wanted to marry. I made it!!! I’m still alive. You’ll be okay . 6 months from now you’ll be fine. Right now you’re hurting bad. Hey she might come back. For me I think it’s over. My girl was a beautiful redhead. I have worked with her for years. I knew her when she was married. I thought here’s my chance! Turns out she’s a DA. A hardcore DA. She was married to a guy that was a alcoholic and drug abuser. I never could figure out why she was married to him for 15 years. It’s because he was a DA also he use the drugs and alcohol to avoid. So remember they are sick. In my opinion to some extent they are sick. With a DA you’re kind of walking in a mind field and when your arms and legs get blown off, they don’t care they just figured you weren’t the right person.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
From experience, they have a rebound and are making them the priority we once were. They are scared to reach out because the very people who coerced them (family and friends) to break the relationship would be disappointed in them if they did. They, as you say are scared that we might reject them now which now makes them the dumpee.
Your ex has not reached out??!! Have a party!!, go to the movies, watch something good on TV. Cook an amazing meal. They don’t care remember that!!! And if they do give you a second thought, they won’t do anything about it. SO!!! Let it go. I made it 7 months now. I’m to the point I have to make myself think about her. You can make it too!!!
Exactly, if they cared, they would
@@ninajohnson8389 yes my point. Plus do you want them back? I just found out they don’t bond to you. They lack the chemicals in the brain to do so it makes a lot of sense. I had no idea this is what was going on. It’s how they make your relationship into a business transaction. Is it worth it? Is it not? They only want to deal with it if they get something out of it.
Thank you. I needed to hear your comment.
@@peternall6566 Don’t get me wrong I had a great 6 months. It was wild. But man when they shut down and run. Wow!!! That girl ran off a cliff!!! And never looked back. I would a least look back once. Not them. They are only in it for themselves. Amen brother.
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Them unblocking you without reaching out is the most confusing thing.
... And three days later block again. Then two weeks later unblocked again. Then repeat. Lol.
It's been 3 weeks and this just came out at the perfect time
It does not matter if you believe it is about you or not . The act of staying silent on their part ,is meant to avoid you at all cost ,they simply do not care about your feeling and the impact their shunning you is affecting your psyche. The problem I have is despite all the indifference, I have experianced that has been directed toward me , I still love them .Time is supposedly going to erease those feelings but that is. bullshit,, You may want to get rid of your love by becoming angry but for me that is not the case .I could never be angry, bitter or resentful.I wish I could but it is not my nature, so I try to accept that life is full off pain and hurt and thats that !! You need to try and live with it the best you can which is not easy to say the least...
Correct
Happy New Year! Thank you very informative video. 👍❤️🩹❤️
Great! 😊 ty
I’d like a video on why they reach out especially after monkey branching or ghosting
What if they reach out once then silence?
it depends, I would need to look at the exchange (this is why I coach most of my clients on WhatsApp)
@AlexisFriedlander like you said I don't want to date potential!
Coach i did send her a risky text , i admitted my fault on taking her for granted , i didn't asked for another chance 😢. I said i will be better on my next relationship and i hope she will on her rebound 😢
Coach sorry for disappointing you 😢
@@Conefone hey man, we’re all on here trying to figure things out. You’re doing the best you can. I don’t think it’s screwed up. We are all out here hanging on by a thread.. just go back to no contact. Hell she might contact you.
@@MadMaxMan2008 im depressed 😭 its been 2weeks of NC but then i reachout and send that
@@Conefone dude!!! I’m at 7 months no contact. She blocked my phone from day one. I have nothing. A girl I wanted to marry. I made it!!! I’m still alive. You’ll be okay . 6 months from now you’ll be fine. Right now you’re hurting bad. Hey she might come back. For me I think it’s over. My girl was a beautiful redhead. I have worked with her for years. I knew her when she was married. I thought here’s my chance! Turns out she’s a DA. A hardcore DA. She was married to a guy that was a alcoholic and drug abuser. I never could figure out why she was married to him for 15 years. It’s because he was a DA also he use the drugs and alcohol to avoid. So remember they are sick. In my opinion to some extent they are sick. With a DA you’re kind of walking in a mind field and when your arms and legs get blown off, they don’t care they just figured you weren’t the right person.
@MadMaxMan2008 i hope this will be over soon , im shaking inside 😭
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Prophetess Regina Kuma,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive