The worst thing about these kids faking mental disorders is that people that actually have them are afraid to tell anybody because they're scared other people won't believe them, or even they themselves think that it's all in their imagination
as a person with anxiety and depression and have since I was 16 this trend is disgusting. kids faking this for attention and views whyyyy for funsies. congrats on passing the test. also love stormy in the video so adorable 🥰
Fr it's so digusting, so many people at my school say they have anxiety, depression, ocd, adhd, and autism when they really don't they just thinks its quirky and different when actually it's really disturbing that they would lie about something like that.
I know this isn't what about what you are talking about but I hate when people at my school make fun of people that have actual mental disorders is so rude and disgusting that they would do that to someone that has a mental disability.
No that’s disgusting as some who got diagnosed with anxiety at 12 I find it disgusting how someone fakes it because it is disabling in some ways and it’s different for everyone
Same I have some disabilitys and hate this trend its basically making fun of disabilities and making other people think that those disabilities are cringe and it's so bad:(
As a teacher, I had a 2nd grade girl who was diagnosed with Tourette’s mid-year. It was debilitating and I felt so bad for her. She worked really hard to cover her ticks during class because she got so embarrassed. I *cannot* imagine people faking this disorder. It’s sick.
My friend in my class said I’m mental disorder (which what fake )She was 10 .so she was all ways pop in and slime and more .she said I’m her friend .then she left everyone else was happy.she liked she thought she cool.she was not.people need stop this it’s not funny.
I dont have Tourette's but a hyperactivity disorder that gives me tics and it's so embarrassing ticcing infront of people when I have a "tic attack". I'm really disgusted..
Agreed it's disgusting I used to feel numb and have mood swings and suicide thoughts but never got tested for depression since I was too scared to tell anyone
My son has Tourette's. He started having symptoms when he was about 3 or 4. His tics got their worst when he was going through puberty and have lessened considerably since then. I can't imagine him wanting to use his tics as a means of attention. If anything, he wishes they weren't there. It's sad how society has made problems/disorders into social currency. Oh, and I can send you a couple cats. I have 10 (yikes, I know), so I clearly am suffering from tencatism. I had 2 cats pass away over the last year, so I was down to 6. Then we took in a litter of kittens that lost their mom when they were about 3 wks old. I couldn't part with the 3 sisters that are so cute and sweet. Then we also got another litter at about the same time that had 2 kittens, but one died. My daughter wanted to keep the other one, so I gave in cuz I'm a softy. So yep, 10 cats now. It's a bit much, but they are all so cute and I love their little personalities.
Miss K! thank you for sharing your story with me Give your son a hug from me and im glad to see someone else struggling with tencatism,send some of them my way.
I am 14 I have toretts as well idk how long I have hade them for I was maybe 11/12 when my dad saw the it started with a pop like sound I made without thinking with my mouth and not Is a uncontrollable giggle and taping/hitting my head and arms some times thighs to and throwing my hands around it is hared to go in front of others cause I don't notice when I'm doing then and if I get anxious the increase with how quickly they repeat as well as getting louder for me personally it is caused by stress from my mother and the living environment at my mom's house (my parents are divorced and CPS is crap dad is amazing) sorry for this being long just wanted to share my experience with having toretts ( ◜‿◝ )♡btw layze love your videos
I absolutely agree! I have tics due to pots and anxiety. Tics are so annoying and embarrassing. These kids disgust me. I hate that people like this exist.
I was diagnosed with major depression as a child, which later developed into bipolar depressive disorder. My whole childhood I got accused of faking it, especially by other kids who were OBVIOUSLY faking themselves and it irked my soul. It was extra sucky when those same people would get all this sympathy, clout, attention and get defended at the drop of a hat just for SAYING “i feel so depressed” at the smallest inconvenience, meanwhile I, with years of medical records to prove my case, was treated almost like a villain if I simply acknowledged what I have which i NEVER understood. Its so backwards! When youre a legit case, everyone thinks youre faking it. But when someone fakes it everyone elses falls for it!
YES !! YES YES YES!!!! ITS SO INSANE 😭😭😭 like obviously some diagnoses are pretty difficult to get or take years to get, and some people don't have access to the doctors who could diagnose them, but don't think for a SECOND that is the same as having a diagnosis. just fucking lead with the fact that you're not diagnosed with depression. bc it's so crazy to me. my entire middle school and high school life i had people who talked over me or always complained about being depressed in order to get out of responsibilities on group projects (for example) BUT THEY WERENT EVEN DIAGNOSED WITH DEPRESSION WHICH IS SO ???? like maybe i've just been depressed for so long that i can't imagine my life without it but literally like... how un-depressed do you have to be to not get a diagnosis of depression it's an incredibly easy diagnosis to get as far as diagnoses go. i get "diagnosed" with it every time i meet a new doctor for any health issue. and i have to be like "yea i know :/" . but yeah like ppl that don't have depression faking it are so ??? like it's so fucking easy to get a depression diagnosis if you have it. a mental health doctor can tell. like they can jsut tell bitch 😭 stop fucking LARPing and like cosplaying/role-playing as being mentally ill. it doesn't make you unique or special bruh ur just making those of ur who really DO have dx'ed borderline or somethign seem less credible and make people less likely to believe us. sorry for the rant i just hate tiktok 😭😭
I’m a retired clinical psychologist & I’m really concerned about the trend of people conducting self assessment with an online quiz - impartiality & absence of bias are critical elements of conducting rigorous assessments. It takes weeks, sometimes months to determine whether a person has a specific condition.
tbh i only do that when im very sure about something and just wanna check. and even then i dont say anything about it unless i am able to go to the doctors about it
@@Sim0n_Wasmad and yet now the comunity most taen over by self dxers is the autism community. in autism spaces nowadays you cant say a peep against self diagnosis or your banned.
My brother is suffering from depression and anxiety. It’s very disgusting that people fake it when depression and anxiety is REAL. My brother had social anxiety for 6 DAMN YEARS. AND PEOPLE FAKING IT IS VERY DISGUSTING. THOSE WHO HAVE DEPRESSION AND ADHD AND TOURETTES SHOULD HAVE RESPECT. NOT GETTING MOCKED AT BY OTHERS! THIS DIGUST ME. THAT PEOPLE FAKE THESE THINGS!
My boyfriends roommate has severe adhd and he is the funniest and most loving person I know! He always stutters uncontrollably when he’s excited, forgets his laundry is in the washer for a couple day (happens every time he does laundry) because a new game came out, stops in the middles of a parking lot to watch tictok because he saw a bird, goes to the gym forget why he’s there so he comes back just to say he going to gym 😭, starts dancing when he hears a song in the distance, eats multiple meals almost at once because he forgot where he put his food, and maybe he sometimes forgets he’s cooking and almost burns down the house…yes. But we love him!
I was diagnosed when I was born with autism and ADHD 6:06 and I promise you I don’t move a lot when I’m just doing it. It’s based on the mind bro. It’s like a mental disorder or something smt like that I don’t even know about my own mental disorder much😭😭😭😭😭
As someone who’s had bad anxiety my whole life, it pisses me off when I see people faking these disorders and saying anxiety isn’t a big deal. It’s horrible. It’s not something you want or think is quirky, it’s not something I’d wish on my worst enemy.
I hate this generation cause they are facking mental disorders for clout. Im experiencing hallucinations due to a weird thing (im not sure the cause since im not diagnosed with any mental disorders) bu i think it was due to stuff at school with the hard basketballs or me just developing a mental disorders idk. Btw i hate it. Its causing me to sleep less.
The thing that guy was chewing on 8:10 - That's a stimulation toy. As someone with autism, I have a few. There used for helping to calm down when I get to over stimulated, or just need to do something. My teachers allow me to have it in class since it's something I used to help keep focus. But it's still sad to see people acting this way. Autism, depression, ADHD, D.I.D, and more, are not fun! Having a meltdown if the lights are to bright, or freaking out if the texture of a food is uncomfortable- is not fun! Honestly, I hope these people understand how hurtful it is to others who really have to go through this
I love my crystal chewies! I don't use them as much anymore, but when my anxiety was at it's height, or during particularly bad bouts of RLS, they do the trick :) It definitely helps me to focus
Especially seeing people say “ugh I hate my anxiety” just because one thing made them nervous. I suffer from anxiety and have done since I was very young (prob 8-10) and it is not fun and it’s not acceptable to pretend to have it. Most people who “have anxiety” don’t have it and it annoys me sm. just because you got nervous doesn’t mean you have anxiety.
I have social anxiety and maybe maybe ADHD maybe I don't really know and I have a friend that has depression I don't really like how they disrespect people that actually have the mental illnesses by faking to have them
Yeah it’s really wrong. I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 11 and i hate it when people fake it for attention. Like it’s really hard to live with it and they don’t understand it at all.
My friend developed Tourette’s a couple of years ago, getting bad enough that she had to leave college temporarily. Seeing these people fake it when I’ve seen how it’s affected her - especially because she has other health issues prior that it can affect - just annoys me. It’s not a trend but something that actually affects people and their lives.
As someone with ADHD, OCD, Autism, And Anxiety, I was born very fucked and im still not over here shaking, screaming, filming it for tiktok, and tweaking or shi for attention.. .
I am almost 15 and I’ve been professionally diagnosed with a lot of crap, and I feel embarrassed just to tell people because of people who fake. The fact that people want disorders is just disgusting, like yesss I love spreading misinformation about something I know nothing about, and romanticize others struggles! Especially making stimming/ fidgeting quirky, which makes fidget stuff banned from schools (and schools are already ableist enough). Don’t get me started on the misinformation about OCD. Long story short, when my OCD was bad, I was in a constant state of paranoia, and now I have to take medication for it. Whenever I talk about my experience people are like “isn’t that when you want everything to be perfect?” “Everyone’s a little OCD”. I just- I don’t even know what to say. I should just sell my problems to the people that want them (I wish).
First off I want to say you aren't alone, dealing with things like that is really hard. When terms are generalized it can feel hard to connect. Where you experience the definition of OCD Brittney over here likes to keep her desk tidy and everyone can't relate to Brittney making it very isolated. Terms like, meltdown, panic attack, trauma, traumatized, disassociation, and OCD are all terms that haven't been so generalized I have a hard time saying them in my life because I don't want to be "just another TikTok kid" I have struggled with my mental health severely I've been to the psych hospital at least 13 times from ages 11-15 Secondly your experiences are valid and just because some one else uses a term improper doesn't take away from your experience. I hope you can find your place in this world and yeah TikTok fakers are really hurting people right now Stay strong bromine 💜💙🦋
I'm not diagnosed with anything but I feel like I should probably get myself checked. I remember seeing something at my window every night when I was TWELVE TO THIRTEEN and I slept next to my parents' bed on the floor and cry myself to sleep... I was one wierd kid. I also remember having some kind of paranoia about getting followed or bugs around me. It was horrifying tbh and I still sometimes feel this way. AGAIN no claim on diagnosis or whatever, just wanna know from anyone who actually knows stuff to do with mental health and wellbeing. Not anyone who isn't a "know it all" spreading misinformation just because they know one thing about depression or whatever.
im so sorry you go through that, im the same age i dont even realise that this is a person my age who is dealing with all this, i hope you recover, your not alone
This is so sad and triggering. Living as a prisoner in your own body and mind is not fun at all. People with actual mental disorders struggle and get embarrassed with their disorders. It's hard to share and these kids think it's cool to show off and fake it
@@dianaaa2524 I don’t know I don’t think having mental problems is cool, I show actual signs of it (not yt shorts ‘signs’) But I diagnosed myself because I’m scared to ask my parent to bring me to therapy
@@Koala_Kawaii311 Well, you can’t diagnose yourself. You need a doctor to do so. I know it’s hard to tell your parents about this stuff but if you feel like you have it please ask them for help💗 Things can get alot harder if you keep stuff to yourself.
Real😭😭😭 Wouldn't scream at people or start shaking because all the energy I had is mainly just for laying and rotting in bed all day and crying myself to sleep instead💀💀
3:25 I actually laughed at this one because I have adhd and I’m like “dang you definitely don’t know how it works” 😂 gen z and gen alpha kids drink like 5 cups of coffee per day and say they have adhd because they think it’s cool and quirky. I am embarrassed that I am *breathing the same air* as these people.
Oh my- finally someone not commenting : i have depression social anxiety and adhd and im sad about it and i don’t share to the world💀💀 They pretend to have disorders just cause of their symptoms without being diagnosed Since you are diagnosed and it has a higher chance to be true, do ppl like this that say : I have adhd depression social anxiety Make you angry?
Not diagnosed with anything, but on the diagnostic pathway for ADHD and ASD, personally, I find it hard to feel bad for people, but I hate that someone sits down, and decides ‘yes let’s be QUIRKY and AMAZING by faking so many serious disorders’ (0-0) like, help? People STRUGGLE WITH THAT!
As a kid who was severely bullied. and was DIAGNOSED with anxiety, severe depression, and more this trend is disgusting considering I had to work through all of that so dam hardly and kids at my school are just like “oh I’m depressed I haven’t been diagnosed but TikTok told me I was” LIKE MAAM you have NO IDEA how hard it was to make it out alive so STOP. (Yes I am getting better)
@@kawaiicat2424 thank you and its because i dont know, i just dont have control i genuinely get so hungry after eating like a billion pounds and then binge eat when im sad or stress it and i dont know hos to stop it maybe not an ed but still a problem
Nothing Quirky about any of these conditions... ive had bi polar, severe anxiety and depression, Adhd and other neurological issues my whole life. Im 56 now. This is a fuc&ing waking nightmare. We who suffer with these issues are so miserable inside... You, layze, are an angel in helping me and others to enjoy a smile and a laugh in the middle of all the pain ❤❤❤🙏
I know kids/teenagers are still young and most people did stupid embarrassing things growing up but those who were faking it publicly will have these embarrassing memories/history follow them forever...
As someone who's mentally unstable, it's quite enjoyable seeing people faking their disorders because we all know it's all fun and games till they actually realise the sad reality we all live in and eventually become adults who do nothing but work and earn money just to pay their taxes and debts. I love life y'all.
I’m sorry but I’m litterally sitting here on a Sunday night, 19 yrs old about to go to bed so I can get up tmrw for work and to earn money for my tax and debts is just sad
As a 12 year old who has been recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety this is sick. I think it’s gross because they are basically mocking people who do have severe conditions. I haves siblings with autism and ADHD and when my mom found out (for each of my siblings) she felt like it it was her fault that they were born like that. When I got recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety she cried in front of the doctors. I just don’t like this whole thing and it’s just strange and very concerning…
i had a friend who has adhd and very distant family friend who also had adhd. one is a girl, the other is a boy, and i know i can’t speak for everyone as i do not have adhd, but i can definitely tell you they were not like this. the girl literally couldn’t focus in class, but instead would draw or make things out of paper while not listening to me or the teacher. the guy was very hyper active, always jumping around, and he couldn’t sit still, but you would never know he had ADHD unless he told you.
As a person who actually has anxiety IED and paranoia(Ik I have these disorders because I go to a therapist and got diagnosed), I can say it’s DISGUSTING for the fact that they are acting like they have a ACTUAL SERIOUS Mental Disorder is absolutely DISGUSTING! They don’t even know how hard it is everyday to live!!!!!
The sad thing about today's world -- at least here in the US, is that kids and teenagers are being taught to be *proud* of these type of things. They're taught that having mental illness or disabilities give you a free pass to get away with crap and not suffer consequences. They don't know that other kids and people actually struggle on a day to day basis with these type of things. What they're taught nowadays is completely out of tune with the reality of what it means to have these disorders. Keep in mind that these are not things to be ashamed of, but they're nothing to be showing off like a kid with a toy in kindergarten. If you suffer from any mental illness or disorder, you *know* how hard it is to trust other people with that knowledge because you worry about how they'll look at you and what they'll think of you once they know.
LITERALLY! I knew a girl who had autism and blamed PULLING DOWN A BOYS PANTS ON IT. Mind you this wasn’t severe autism. She could still communicate just fine. She could make eye contact and everything. The counselors told me since she was different I had to be friends with her. I stopped going to that camp the next year lol.
As a kid in the US, am I faking if I don’t trust anyone because of past experiences and I start crying and saying sorry a million trillion times because I think every person is out to actively hurt me and I have nightmares every night abt the people who hurt me but if someone asks me if I have mental disorders then I say I have some form of anxiety/ ptsd?
exactly...i dont know how kids and teenagers my age can sit here and do this.. and maybe its just because im not like that, but its so disgusting and ridiculous, i've been struggling in school and still have to get a diagnosis because it went unoticed when i was younger, i homeschooled for a reason..and to see kids act like thiese disorders are fun...and cute... is just...horrible, and its very offensive to those who actually struggle
As someone with ADHD and anxiety this is infuriating I do use a chewing thing in class sometimes but like I don't use fidgets like huh? Before I was diagnosed I just shook my leg. My hand barley shakes. It just shakes naturally like everyone else
I’m a teen with anxiety, ocd, tourette’s, and mild depression. it’s absolutely disgusting seeing people actually fake these things, and act innocent afterward. tourette’s is by far my hardest one, having them since i was 5. i was incredibly embarrassed and half the things i did when i was younger i didnt know what was happening. it’s like someone in my head telling me to do stuff i didn’t want to. i would try to hide them, and in 3rd grade i was EXTREMELY embarrassed, especially because at that time, the kids would think it was weird because they couldn’t comprehend what tourette’s was. even some of my closest friends thougth it was fake. depression is also horrible, i’m not going to get into “why” for personal reasons, but at one point you’ll cry yourself to sleep. i was never really at this point, and my depression isn’t too bad. anxiety is bad as well because you second guess everything you do, and think everyone’s staring. one small thing and your leg will start shaking. some of my friends have to start playing games during class and get in trouble for it, even though they’re just trying to control it. this is why teachers need to allow fidgets, or some type of toys or other triggers that will help control it. ocd isn’t too bad, but it ties with tourette’s. i have to keep doing my tics until i do it just the right way for my mind to be happy. it’s not just one movement, it’s multiple until it’s perfect. other than that, not too bad. these are the troubles people like us have to face. if you still have the guts to fake it, then that’s your problem. something obviously happened during your childhood. it’s not okay and not an excuse, it’s absolutely disgusting. this comment is a free vent if anyone needs it. stay safe guys ❤
i have ocd, chronic anxiety, and depression. it is not fun. life with a chronic anxiety disorder is so much worse than people believe it is. sleep does not come easily, you doubt everything you do and are constantly on edge, panic attacks that just rise all of a sudden from nowhere, and nightmares that cause fatigue. i do have an oral fixation and seeing these people just make it even more stigmatized. i feel a need to have something between my molars to release pent up energy from panic attacks. ocd and trich are not fun, you get was made fun of for compulsions and missing eyelashes, eyebrows, or having a bald spot. i’m so sorry you were treated so bad for something you couldn’t control, tourettes is still so stigmatized. wishing you a good life
@@_.z33._ you as well! the same things happen to me, in fact today i had a horrible panic attack after getting an argument with one of my closest friends. it got really deep. stay safe. if you ever need to talk i’m open
My sister had such bad anxiety that she had to go to the hospital several times, and had to have her heart stopped twice. I think people who fake severe anxiety is disgusting. Cause they’ll never know what people like my sister go through.
I relate to, I have real bad anxiety. Most think anxiety only affects you mentally and that’s just objectively false. It affects everything. It affects your heart (I have a heart problem now), you get constant headaches, blood pressure gets high, hell! Even your own bowels get affected because your brain is producing hormones and endorphins that it shouldn’t- you can tell who is faking it because I’m ashamed of having it… just celebrate that you are mentally healthy kids- don’t take it for granted 😭
Why did she have to have her heart stopped?! I have anxiety and went to the hospital a couple times because it really does feel like you’re dying. Both times I went they just said it’s anxiety & there’s not much to do about it besides taking an SSRI or as needed anxiety med. I’ve also tried therapy
i have adhd,OCD, and anxiety issues but like who the fuck would want to fake having mental disorders when they dont know how it feels for other people who acually have it.
i have 15 disorders (no literally im not kidding) and it fussing sucks people do this, its disgusting, rude, mocking and its the reason people with *actual* disorders or mental health problems don't get treated right :/
7:54 the chewing thing is called a chewable and some people like to chew things like pencils, pens etc or then I was little, like my Barbies hands, or nails, so to prevent harming your gums and teeth while stimming they use chewable jewellery
As a person with depression and anxiety since 10 And been diagnosed with tics and adhd since 9, what the actual hell is that hand movment in the adhd video 😭😭🙏. I also am so mad that people have taught kids that disorders are rlly quirky and funny. Btw im looking back at this video bc this is how I found layze
@@ThatLightSkinntedPrincess Yeah I feel like ots not really the kids fault since if they are seeking attention they probably need it, I'd just advise to maybe NOT fake things gor views and learn some skills
As someone with anxiety since 9, depression since 11 and has been diagnosed for ADHD, this makes me sick that these little kids think this is quirky and funny. But not to defend them, this was likely taught to them by social media or lack of parental attention. People at school always made fun of depression and ADHD and it made me feel worse about it. Their parents really need to act on this. They’re not going to grow up right.
As someone with psychotic depression and a high possibility of having asd and bipolar, this entire trend boils my blood so much. I struggled alot with mental illness and abuse, and it's so disgusting to see that this shit has now become not only a trend but a competition for who is more "uwu quirky" or something. Mental Illness is NOT something that should be aestheticized or romanticized. It is serious and debilitating. The worst part about all of this is that this trend has so many reprecussions for EVERYONE. For example, folks who may suspect that they might have a certain mental disorder will feel invalidated or scared to seek help because they will be seen as these disgusting ppl faking it for attention. Or the ppl who already have a full diagnosis would have their needed resources taken away b/c these assholes are using it for attention. This is coming from a personal place because I suspect myself to possibly have something, but I'm not flaunting around like I'm happy about it, I only brlieve that I might have it so I can find the correct resources to help me with dealing with this bullshit. If I could trade it in for a neurotypical brain, I would do so in a heartbeat. But of course, its SOOOO quirky to be unable to communicate properly despite trying, and get overstimulated in social situations, and to feel like you're a sociopath for not understanding/empathizing with others emotions no matter how hard you try, and for having barely controllable emotions that are grossly out of proportion that can hurt others, and for feeling like you're just as terrible as these ppl even though you only want help for yourself because this shit is very difficult to handle alone. So. Fucking. Quirky. Fucking pricks.
This is so true! As someone who actually has mental issues, it makes my blood boil to see kids pretending to have issues to get likes or sympathy. I was scared to seek help, even from my parents-and still am- because I’m afraid people like this will call ME out and say I’M faking when I’m not. Mental health is not a fun game. It’s real life, and if you’re neurotypical, I envy you.
As someone who used to NOT be diagnosed with OCD when I was younger I used to get bullied. I wasn’t a neat freak, I had many thoughts of accidentally hurting someone or just worrying about dirty waters or contaminated things. People said half the time that I was faking it due to the fact that if a saw a pen in the wrong place I wouldn’t go into a full ‘mental breakdown’…
7:44 it’s a silicone necklace that is made to be chewed on. It’s meant to stop you from destructive behaviors (for example nail biting). I used to have one since I bit my nails a lot as a kid.
my sister has OCD, and watching all these people faking disorders literally gets my blood boiling. i don’t have a disorder, but by the amount of times I’ve had to comfort her i know it’s hard. people really can’t learn any way than the hard way these days…
I have ocd and the worst thing is when people say “I’m SOOO ocd, like a went to the store and saw a box on the floor, AND I PICKED IT UP.OMG IM SO QUIRKY
@@Sophiepolk It’s genuinely the worst. Sure, I’m often irked by simple things, but that doesn’t mean I’m neurodivergent. People just want attention from these videos, and they get it, but people who actually *have* the disorder are often bullied in real life. If I get so triggered by such videos, i can’t imagine how it would be for you.
I'm 50 years young babe and literally you have me laughing so crazy. Thank you sweetie for allll your videos and mostly thank you for being so f.. funny!!!!!!!
“😊We have severe anxiety, depression, ADHD and Tourette’s and we loveee to fidget✨” actually does piss me off since I actually have 3/4 of those and it’s made life pretty difficult to the point I’m starting therapy for said severe anxiety bc it really effects my day to day and I fidget bc my nerves are bad and these kids making it up all for views is sickening and they need their phones taken
As someone who’s been diagnosed with anxiety for 10 years (since I was 3) these people faking mental illness are straight up crazy. These 10-11 year olds are faking it because their doing what these older people are doing because they thing it’s cool
@@combi0078 i would constantly be shaking in fear for no reason, would never be alone, have panic attacks when even the slightest thing went wrong, etc. So I went to a therapist and got diagnosed. Luckily it’s gotten a lot better throughout the years.
lol I think they're confusing having tic attacks and adhd with having Parkinson's. people really need to get out more, climb trees, plant flowers, something to just get out of the house!! Pretending to have serious debilitating mental disorders IS NO JOKE!! people struggle every minute of every day, and it's people like these ridiculous tik tokers that are making a mockery of them, THIS is why there is STILL such stigma towards those that ACTUALLY struggle. so infuriating!!
Same! I've been trying to get screened but I feel like an imposter because of how "trendy" having mental conditions has become. And the misinformation being spread by the fakers doesn't help either, it just confuses people who don't have it into thinking they do, and people who do have it into thinking they don't. While having a condition should be something we accept, it should not be portrayed as something we want to have.
@@wolvie1618depending on what you’re trying to get screened for there are neuropsychological tests done through neurology offices, those are the most legit and definitive i know of. Takes a good 4hrs one on one with the neuro - at least an hour of the test was staring at a computer screen doing different instructed tasks while the dr watched.. it is very expensive even with insurance, not gonna sugar coat that - but if you truly want to know 100% if you have adhd/anxiety/processing/memory issues then i would recommend you try going that route. A regular doctor diagnosing people with no testing is beyond is reckless imo.
Oh and btw the computer had cameras and sensors tracking all eye and finger movements throughout the tasks, ended up with like a 30 page diagnostic report a week later breaking down all diagnostic categories/scores reaction times, short & longterm memory health, etc
Me too, I'm concerned for myself yet i don't know how to ask/get help because i heard it's really difficult to get one because it might take weeks, months, even years or so! Well my mom says i don't need a diagnosis because it's not that severe and it "won't change anything" but still I'd want a diagnosis to make sure and get help on how to deal with it
@ she definitely doesn’t have it😅it’s sad really how these tiktokers fake mental illness when there are people (me included) who struggle with ADHD, actual severe anxiety and depression… bc of them, we can’t be taken seriously… also there was a dude with schizophrenia that was just recording a video of his dog until he thought someone was in there and told his dog to greet them but the dog was trained and it lets him know if he’s having an episode
this is so disgusting..the nerve to fake having disorders that are actually painful to have. as someone who has overcome depression, this is disgusting and awful. these kids need to get manners and respect ppl with these conditions.
As somebody with autism and *severe Adhd* I don't like having it- I get these random shivers down my back randomly, and get told off for figeting and get detentions 24/7 I also used chew toys in primary, it helped my Adhd but after having it in my mouth for abt 5 secs I felt nauseous. The trend of kids faking is disgusting😢
As a person with both ADHD and tourettes syndrome: we👏🏻are👏🏻NORMAL👏🏻 NOR-MAL! We are not a bunch of wierdos sitting in a corner chewing a fidget toy while we spasm to the beat of a tiktok sound. Thank you.
Well, when you have ADHD you aren't completly normal. (This is comming from someone who has ADHD btw!) Usually you can't sit still, need to fidged/play with something and it's harder to focus on certain stuff you don't have much intrest in. Slight disclaimer: This is just how I experience having ADHD, not all people experience the same thing having ADHD.
@@Rultanbus funny how you try to educate me about my own diagnosis 💀 we are still normal human beings. Not some wierd over the top parody character that knows no social code.
Yeah I’m dxed with adhd and autism and if I don’t have something in my hands I will wring my hands really aggressively without even knowing it and it starts to hurt really bad after a while. I use the fidgets to prevent it from getting to the pain point.
As a person with very severe ADHD and Bipolar Disorder, I feel as if I'm being downgraded because of my disorders and disabilities. Every day, I struggle to wake up or even get out of bed, practice my basic hygiene and even complete simple tasks like cleaning my room, washing my face and eating. I had a cousin who told me she had ADHD. I got so excited because I felt as if I finally had someone who would understand my struggles and pain, but when I asked her what type she had and where she got diagnosed, she told me it was a self-diagnoses. Every day, she would try to do things to get attention and "prove" that she had ADHD, and as I looked at the things she faked (e.g., pacing around or stimming) I looked at myself in distraught. I felt as if she was mocking me, and I felt so disgusted thinking "is this really how I act on a daily basis?"... I constantly tried to cover my disorders up to make me seem "normal", but I would never believe that I would be like the others my age. I can't believe people could take someone's mental or physical struggles and throw it onto themselves for attention and pity.
I dont know the whole logic behind faking conditions? As someone who has suffered with depression for most of life...i wish i can take some of these some if these people and make them feel how exactly a life changing illness can be and that what they are doing us not only direspectful but also hurts the credibility of the disorders themselves. O....and I am sending you lots of cats!!! Thanx Layze gor your vids, they are truly the highlight of my day!😊❤
I actually have severe adhd, major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder and these greatly negativity affected my life. I find it absolutely disgusting that people fake disorders, especially when they are faking a disorder that I personally struggle from. This is why people like me are absolutely terrified of asking for help because people will just think we are faking it. Those who battle mental health and aren’t faking it; I see u, u are a brave and strong person and u will always have ppl for u
as a person that only just got diagnosed at 18 with asd, adhd, anxiety and depression and i’m currently staring at all my medication im actually dying of laughter. bro this gave me such imposter syndrome when i was younger watching these videos as it wasn’t visible enough like these. man i wish i could fake this shi it’s not a quirky personality. it literally screws you over with yourself and friends. wouldn’t wish any of this nor would i romanticise it. dark humour is the only way i live
As a female with adhd and anxiety, I am offended by these people faking adhd and anxiety. I am 20 and have adhd ever since I was a child. With the song part of her emotions changing, that does not happen honestly, well as far as I know others with adhd doesn't have that happen. But with me, if I listen to music that is new and sounds really good, I would just get goosebumps and go on with my listening experience lol. Music helps me to clear my mind anyways so.
I have Schizophrenia plus a severe Social Anxiety disorder, like being in public is really something hard for me because people are well, stressing me out way too much. And seeing kids, teenagers faking disorders for attention, like come on. After this, people with real disorders like me get judge and get tell that we're faking it. So I have one thing to say: "Stop Faking freaking Disorders!!" But aside from that Layze I love your videos ❤
You ate that up I'm so sorry you have to deal with that and the fact people fake having disorders sucks I have ADHD and anxiety and it makes me angry when people fake it
@@RemiEverson thank you because honestly people take it badly whenever I tell them about my condition. I'm glad people like you understands that, much appreciated 🙏❤
@Lunaria456 i may be still a child but I was raised to respect and understand and darlin you got my understandings and appreciation for telling us about yourself it's brave to come out and tell about your condition knowing people are out there faking it and when I get older those fakes are gonna be brought to justice ♥️
8:15 pretending DID is crazy, DID is a rare disorder and i think a few of the symptoms were like having different identities and suicidal thoughts, so i feel bad for people who have DID.
It‘s having different selfs. Like, a person with DID can be one person one minute and a completely different one the next (sry if the explanation isn’t clear, English isn’t my first language 😅)
I have adhd, autism, anxiety and depression, and people faking it PISS ME OFF LIKE- They make me so mad. Because they don’t know how hard it is to have actual mental illnesses.
As someone who’s had adhd and RAD ( due from early childhood abuse and neglect ) diagnosed at the age of 4 , with the diagnosis of manic depression at the age of 15 , I would never wish mental health on anyone . This life is exhausting, the struggle to do day to day tasks is overwhelming. Checking and re checking the same thing because of constant fear something bad would happen is not something I choose to live with , faking mental disorders is disgusting and I feel sorry for you .
As someone who has dyslexia, Autism and severe anxiety and had to deal with so many of these things in my life it really disgusts me that people fake the things ive struggled with for my whole life.
I’ve got autism and anxiety and I’m about to get tested for dyslexia (not saying i have it) but I just wanted to say ur the first person I’ve seen with those 3 specific things :D Hope things get better ❤
As someone with spd , autism, adhd , odd ( anger issues) , and anxiety this is very sad that people actually want to have these issues as it is helll for me and makes your life way harder and they are just pretending for views to be cool
As a thirteen year old I am severely disappointed with these people. My friend has severe ADHD and it’s awful for her. And as someone who has OCD it’s really not fun or quirky. I get like awful thoughts all the time about one of my loved ones dying if I don’t do something. I’m ashamed of people my age for doing this. There’s one girl at my school who lies about having OCD and she makes it her whole personality. She’s like “I had to organize this in rainbow order because my OCD told me to!” Like oh my freaking gosh she’s so annoying. Anyways that’s my experience on it. Have a great day and don’t fake mental illness❤
I have adhd and it’s an everyday challenge that has affected my results really badly. And people are out here going “I actually have severe adhd uwu” it makes me sick
i have just a little bit of both ADHD and OCD. My OCD isn’t really bad, but sometimes it makes me contemplate life, as in “OMG IF I DONT PASS THAT CAR DOWN THE HILL ONE OF MY CATS WILL DIE!!” or something like that and if i don’t pass the car i start to worry and cry. but i get over it knowing its not real. i understand your ocd thing and i hope it gets better for you. ❤
bang on. I am 27, and also diagnosed with OCD and get beyond upset when I open up to people about it, and they start talking about how they have to keep their house clean or make their bed in a specific way. That is not OCD at all, it can be just as you described. It makes me feel ashamed to tell people why I was in therapy for so long. Because ive gotten comments like "what? but your house looks normal and not OCD clean!!" It hurts..
As a Person with adhd( a cousin with touretts) and we all have mental health issues, it’s really sad to see people faking it. It’s not easy to always have to be reminded and feel like a burden and an annoyance to everyone else around you
As someone who’s been diagnosed with adhd depression and anxiety, seeing these people fake having mental disorders makes me sick. It’s almost like they’re making fun of us for not being “normal”. They should consider themselves lucky to not actually have these issues.
as someone who’s like 14 and I have adhd, anxiety, mild depression, anger issues, and possible autism, I am severely infuriated by this. Not you, but the kids. When I saw that *look how much my hand shakes* video I tried it. Only fidgeted with the hand I wasn’t recording. Occasionally fidgeted with like my shorts or smth with my other hand.
YES!! i don’t understand what they saw to come to the conclusion they can’t just keep their hand still (coming from a person who can’t sit still and fidgets a lot) mustve been ,, idk😭
I'm 13 and I have really bad childhood trauma. I am believed to have depression, adhd, bipolar disorder, and anxiety as product of it. It makes me feel really bad and almost invalidated to see children my age or older faking this kind of stuff.
me too I’m 16 and I have depression since I’m 8 I did selfh4rm with 9-10 (not with a knife) I got a bit OCD (not really hard but still it’s there) i also have anxiety I hope you’re gonna get better :) ❤️🩹
It’s a biting necklace 7:44 people with biting tics use it for biting if they have biting tics like me but I’m not over here making puppy eyes and aggressively biting it
The fact that they are faking this is crazy because I had adhd for my whole entire life and I have depression and anxiety and they are just pretending to have all those things is insane.😭😭
As a person who has had anxiety and depression since the age of 13 and actually was diagnosed by a professional. This trend is the worst thing that could exist. It completely cancels out those who actually have these disorders and makes it seem like they’re lying when they’re not. Mental health disorders are not funny, and they’re definitely not cool to have. There’s so much more to these disorders then people think.
I joke abt my anxiety and depression bc idk how to rlly talk abt it but that doesnt mean its funny!! Living with mental disorders or any disorder rlly is so damn hard and these ppl thinking its cool and romanticizing our struggles is disgusting.
As someone who does have anxiety, ADHD, and depression (which later became bipolar 2), it’s awful and downright ridiculous how *kids* think it’s cool to fake disorders. They think it’s quirky and cute, but it gives others a bad name, and I’m tired of being told that I “don’t have all those” just because CHILDREN are giving me a bad name.
I have been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, ADD, and POTS, watching this video was pretty infuriating. ADHD isn't, "quirky" or "fun", it's something I struggle with on the daily, impacts my relationships, and makes it practically impossible to focus. The thing with ADHD is that, I don't really miss people, because how my brain works is if I can't see someone/thing physically in front of me, I forget it exists. I've lost many friends because I don't reach out as much as I should, and it's hard for me to keep relationships with more than a few people at a time. And people who fake ADD really annoy me. "oMg iT's hArD fOr mE tO fOcUs oN tHiS oNe tHiNg, i mUsT hAvE aDd i'M sO qUiRkY!!1!!111!" SHHHH STFU STFU STFUUU
I really feel this. I have ADHD too and these past couple weeks it's being worse than usual. It's so hard. I could never imagine pretending I have it. Why would I want ADHD when it's so difficult to live with? And if these kids knew how it really is to have it, they would not be faking it. Also, thanks for mentioning how you have a hard time keeping friends. I always wondered why I struggled with that and that really makes sense!
The chew thing in his mouth is a chew necklace. As a person who sometimes needs to use it for anxiety, this is really harmful and false. I’m not chewing on it at all times like a rogue animal. Some people do need to tho.
I'd just like to say, as a person with severe anxiety and autism since 5, I'd just like to say that this trend is absolutely making me sick to the stomach and faking disorders for attention/cloud is just wrong.
The worst part is that so many fakers trick docs into giving them meds that people that are really suffering get nothing & are considered drug seekers!
Let's just say that the doctors said that there was absolutely nothing wrong with me. Even though, my pediatrician gave me at least 12 of the same shots every time I went there (minimal amount she gave me) because apparently, I didn't take those shots. My teacher had to force them to test me for ADHD and now I am finally diagnosed with severe ADHD and can now get medication to help me with it.There are also many undiagnosed issues with me that pass down through generations and medical records to prove it. Those shots severely effected my health. The pediatrician was fired for her give ONLY ME repeated shots. They refuse to diagnose me and say I'm only say these things for attention. Luckily, I'm getting a better doctor now so maybe I'll get those diagnosed to so I can get help. It makes me sick that because of these immature children, I have to force my doctors to let me get refills on my medication. They still insist there is nothing wrong with me even though there clearly is. I'm not the only person with this problem in my town. These children disgust me.
The worst thing about these kids faking mental disorders is that people that actually have them are afraid to tell anybody because they're scared other people won't believe them, or even they themselves think that it's all in their imagination
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I have 3 disorders but I tell my friends in school and my family,
Exactly, they cant tell whats real and fake. Most likely a real doctor does probably
Yeah I don’t even know if I have ADHD or not, probably not
as a person with anxiety and depression and have since I was 16 this trend is disgusting. kids faking this for attention and views whyyyy for funsies. congrats on passing the test. also love stormy in the video so adorable 🥰
Fr it's so digusting, so many people at my school say they have anxiety, depression, ocd, adhd, and autism when they really don't they just thinks its quirky and different when actually it's really disturbing that they would lie about something like that.
I know this isn't what about what you are talking about but I hate when people at my school make fun of people that have actual mental disorders is so rude and disgusting that they would do that to someone that has a mental disability.
No that’s disgusting as some who got diagnosed with anxiety at 12 I find it disgusting how someone fakes it because it is disabling in some ways and it’s different for everyone
Haha same, they say it like it's something to be happy about XDD
Same I have some disabilitys and hate this trend its basically making fun of disabilities and making other people think that those disabilities are cringe and it's so bad:(
As a teacher, I had a 2nd grade girl who was diagnosed with Tourette’s mid-year. It was debilitating and I felt so bad for her. She worked really hard to cover her ticks during class because she got so embarrassed. I *cannot* imagine people faking this disorder.
It’s sick.
My friend in my class said I’m mental disorder (which what fake )She was 10 .so she was all ways pop in and slime and more .she said I’m her friend .then she left everyone else was happy.she liked she thought she cool.she was not.people need stop this it’s not funny.
I dont have Tourette's but a hyperactivity disorder that gives me tics and it's so embarrassing ticcing infront of people when I have a "tic attack". I'm really disgusted..
@@LiamHRivers Not diagnosed? Then why aren't you trying to get diagnosed? Not trying to be mean, just curious
3:21 as a person with adhd this made me *SO* mad this is so disrespectful my jaw dropped
@@nell8003 SAME I LITERALLY WANTED TO CRY TGUS WAS AWFUL OMFG
As a person who had depression, because of bullies. I- i- - have no words. This is disgraceful, disturbing, and disgusting.
Agreed it's disgusting I used to feel numb and have mood swings and suicide thoughts but never got tested for depression since I was too scared to tell anyone
The other I isn’t capital
i agree
That keyboard stuttering is why you have bullies lmao
@noahwillstar wild 😭😭😭
Tiktok is literally social media asylum at this point.
Don't watch lste night on the weekend, you will see some scary stuff. People!!
Also Chinese spies on toktok
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@@AlfredFJones-USA76YES ITS TRUE
Agreed idk who to believe at this point
My son has Tourette's. He started having symptoms when he was about 3 or 4. His tics got their worst when he was going through puberty and have lessened considerably since then. I can't imagine him wanting to use his tics as a means of attention. If anything, he wishes they weren't there. It's sad how society has made problems/disorders into social currency.
Oh, and I can send you a couple cats. I have 10 (yikes, I know), so I clearly am suffering from tencatism. I had 2 cats pass away over the last year, so I was down to 6. Then we took in a litter of kittens that lost their mom when they were about 3 wks old. I couldn't part with the 3 sisters that are so cute and sweet. Then we also got another litter at about the same time that had 2 kittens, but one died. My daughter wanted to keep the other one, so I gave in cuz I'm a softy. So yep, 10 cats now. It's a bit much, but they are all so cute and I love their little personalities.
Miss K!
thank you for sharing your story with me
Give your son a hug from me and im glad to see someone else struggling with tencatism,send some of them my way.
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I am 14 I have toretts as well idk how long I have hade them for I was maybe 11/12 when my dad saw the it started with a pop like sound I made without thinking with my mouth and not Is a uncontrollable giggle and taping/hitting my head and arms some times thighs to and throwing my hands around it is hared to go in front of others cause I don't notice when I'm doing then and if I get anxious the increase with how quickly they repeat as well as getting louder for me personally it is caused by stress from my mother and the living environment at my mom's house (my parents are divorced and CPS is crap dad is amazing) sorry for this being long just wanted to share my experience with having toretts ( ◜‿◝ )♡btw layze love your videos
After gen z is gen alpha
I absolutely agree! I have tics due to pots and anxiety. Tics are so annoying and embarrassing. These kids disgust me. I hate that people like this exist.
I was diagnosed with major depression as a child, which later developed into bipolar depressive disorder. My whole childhood I got accused of faking it, especially by other kids who were OBVIOUSLY faking themselves and it irked my soul. It was extra sucky when those same people would get all this sympathy, clout, attention and get defended at the drop of a hat just for SAYING “i feel so depressed” at the smallest inconvenience, meanwhile I, with years of medical records to prove my case, was treated almost like a villain if I simply acknowledged what I have which i NEVER understood. Its so backwards! When youre a legit case, everyone thinks youre faking it. But when someone fakes it everyone elses falls for it!
I really relate to this but I also think that I'm autistic
Same I have MDD and it makes me angry that people are doing this
@@mikuenjoyerXDDon’t self diagnose, check with your doctor (or whoever treats mental illnesses)
I've had the same issue for years and im so sorry to you and others that have experienced this as well
YES !! YES YES YES!!!! ITS SO INSANE 😭😭😭 like obviously some diagnoses are pretty difficult to get or take years to get, and some people don't have access to the doctors who could diagnose them, but don't think for a SECOND that is the same as having a diagnosis. just fucking lead with the fact that you're not diagnosed with depression. bc it's so crazy to me. my entire middle school and high school life i had people who talked over me or always complained about being depressed in order to get out of responsibilities on group projects (for example) BUT THEY WERENT EVEN DIAGNOSED WITH DEPRESSION WHICH IS SO ???? like maybe i've just been depressed for so long that i can't imagine my life without it but literally like... how un-depressed do you have to be to not get a diagnosis of depression it's an incredibly easy diagnosis to get as far as diagnoses go. i get "diagnosed" with it every time i meet a new doctor for any health issue. and i have to be like "yea i know :/" . but yeah like ppl that don't have depression faking it are so ??? like it's so fucking easy to get a depression diagnosis if you have it. a mental health doctor can tell. like they can jsut tell bitch 😭 stop fucking LARPing and like cosplaying/role-playing as being mentally ill. it doesn't make you unique or special bruh ur just making those of ur who really DO have dx'ed borderline or somethign seem less credible and make people less likely to believe us. sorry for the rant i just hate tiktok 😭😭
0:28 ON WEDNESDAY WE WEAR PINKKKKK
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U beat me to it brah
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I WAS THINKING THAT LOL
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It’s so invalidating for people with actual disorders. They want the label but not the struggles.
True.
Well said
As a person with ACTUAL ADHD, Anxiety, and Insomnia, because of those kids, a lot of people don’t trust me
(I forgot to add I agree 100,000,000%)
𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘰𝘺𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘭𝘢𝘴𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘴𝘮 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘤𝘬 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘳. 𝘠𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘳, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘨𝘶𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘤𝘶𝘻 𝘐'𝘮 𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘳𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘴𝘢𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘱𝘱𝘭 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴
yeah i was just thinking today how healthy people are so lucky to be healthy. cue this video. guess they don’t consider themselves lucky😂
i remember people in elementary school would bully me until i cried, then said I had anger issues when i stood up for myself lmao
hope that now you are in middle/high/college things are better
And they wonder why U have anger issues 😂😂😂😂
That's why I'm glad not to be a kid anymore
@@anayareyit doesn't stop at adulthood.
@@LucyFerr000 You can choose the people you're around though, you have more autonomy.
I’m a retired clinical psychologist & I’m really concerned about the trend of people conducting self assessment with an online quiz - impartiality & absence of bias are critical elements of conducting rigorous assessments. It takes weeks, sometimes months to determine whether a person has a specific condition.
Or even years to determine it- (Autism testing) :'D
tbh i only do that when im very sure about something and just wanna check. and even then i dont say anything about it unless i am able to go to the doctors about it
@@Sim0n_Wasmad and yet now the comunity most taen over by self dxers is the autism community. in autism spaces nowadays you cant say a peep against self diagnosis or your banned.
My brother is suffering from depression and anxiety. It’s very disgusting that people fake it when depression and anxiety is REAL. My brother had social anxiety for 6 DAMN YEARS. AND PEOPLE FAKING IT IS VERY DISGUSTING. THOSE WHO HAVE DEPRESSION AND ADHD AND TOURETTES SHOULD HAVE RESPECT. NOT GETTING MOCKED AT BY OTHERS! THIS DIGUST ME. THAT PEOPLE FAKE THESE THINGS!
I have ADHD, depression and social anxiety and I'm not over here being proud of it or shaking aggressively with multiple mood swings 💀💀
Bruh fr
Fr
Exactly 👏🏼
omg i laughed so hard because its true
Same but with out ADHD
They say they are 13 because that's the minimum age to have an account
i was like WHAT bc they sound like 10
THEY SOUND LIKE 8 BROTHER
Some kids fake their age to use tiktok
They had baby hands
@@ShadowsandCityLightsfrfr😂
My boyfriends roommate has severe adhd and he is the funniest and most loving person I know!
He always stutters uncontrollably when he’s excited, forgets his laundry is in the washer for a couple day (happens every time he does laundry) because a new game came out, stops in the middles of a parking lot to watch tictok because he saw a bird, goes to the gym forget why he’s there so he comes back just to say he going to gym 😭, starts dancing when he hears a song in the distance, eats multiple meals almost at once because he forgot where he put his food, and maybe he sometimes forgets he’s cooking and almost burns down the house…yes. But we love him!
Oof let’s hope he doesn’t burn the house down ㅠㅠ
That sounds very debilitating for him, I hope he's alright
I was diagnosed when I was born with autism and ADHD 6:06 and I promise you I don’t move a lot when I’m just doing it. It’s based on the mind bro. It’s like a mental disorder or something smt like that I don’t even know about my own mental disorder much😭😭😭😭😭
As someone who’s had bad anxiety my whole life, it pisses me off when I see people faking these disorders and saying anxiety isn’t a big deal. It’s horrible. It’s not something you want or think is quirky, it’s not something I’d wish on my worst enemy.
I hate this generation cause they are facking mental disorders for clout.
Im experiencing hallucinations due to a weird thing (im not sure the cause since im not diagnosed with any mental disorders) bu i think it was due to stuff at school with the hard basketballs or me just developing a mental disorders idk. Btw i hate it. Its causing me to sleep less.
The thing that guy was chewing on 8:10 - That's a stimulation toy. As someone with autism, I have a few. There used for helping to calm down when I get to over stimulated, or just need to do something. My teachers allow me to have it in class since it's something I used to help keep focus. But it's still sad to see people acting this way. Autism, depression, ADHD, D.I.D, and more, are not fun! Having a meltdown if the lights are to bright, or freaking out if the texture of a food is uncomfortable- is not fun! Honestly, I hope these people understand how hurtful it is to others who really have to go through this
my best friend is autistic and i have adhd
we can confirm is isn’t fun
Fr. I hate my autism. You’ll get judged by people all the time because you’re different and things will be harder for you.
It sucks. It’s not fun.
I have autism and hate it so much
It is not fun.
I love my crystal chewies! I don't use them as much anymore, but when my anxiety was at it's height, or during particularly bad bouts of RLS, they do the trick :) It definitely helps me to focus
Especially seeing people say “ugh I hate my anxiety” just because one thing made them nervous. I suffer from anxiety and have done since I was very young (prob 8-10) and it is not fun and it’s not acceptable to pretend to have it. Most people who “have anxiety” don’t have it and it annoys me sm. just because you got nervous doesn’t mean you have anxiety.
As someone with diagnosed ADHD and Anxiety and friends with diagnosed Depression what these people are doing is wrong in all the ways possible
I have social anxiety and maybe maybe ADHD maybe I don't really know and I have a friend that has depression I don't really like how they disrespect people that actually have the mental illnesses by faking to have them
@@LeBerryzz js bc a quiz said that it was 97% likely doesn't mean that you have it, you have to get it diagnosed
@@elevenxeggosxElMax oh, sorry. :(
Yeah it’s really wrong. I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 11 and i hate it when people fake it for attention. Like it’s really hard to live with it and they don’t understand it at all.
IKR???
LMAO THE REVERB FART😭💀 9:16
You flipped THE BIRD at a cat….Of course your kitty came to investigate 🤨 They love birds 😂
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Love this comment so much! 😂
Very clever word-play 😊
This is comment gold
Yeah, they're the reason why in many countries some species of birds are endangered. So cute
That is clever!
My friend developed Tourette’s a couple of years ago, getting bad enough that she had to leave college temporarily. Seeing these people fake it when I’ve seen how it’s affected her - especially because she has other health issues prior that it can affect - just annoys me. It’s not a trend but something that actually affects people and their lives.
My sister has anger issues, and seeing these kids faking it is messed up, having disorders isn't fun, it's torture.
As someone with ADHD, OCD, Autism, And Anxiety, I was born very fucked and im still not over here shaking, screaming, filming it for tiktok, and tweaking or shi for attention.. .
I am almost 15 and I’ve been professionally diagnosed with a lot of crap, and I feel embarrassed just to tell people because of people who fake. The fact that people want disorders is just disgusting, like yesss I love spreading misinformation about something I know nothing about, and romanticize others struggles! Especially making stimming/ fidgeting quirky, which makes fidget stuff banned from schools (and schools are already ableist enough). Don’t get me started on the misinformation about OCD. Long story short, when my OCD was bad, I was in a constant state of paranoia, and now I have to take medication for it. Whenever I talk about my experience people are like “isn’t that when you want everything to be perfect?” “Everyone’s a little OCD”. I just- I don’t even know what to say.
I should just sell my problems to the people that want them (I wish).
First off I want to say you aren't alone, dealing with things like that is really hard. When terms are generalized it can feel hard to connect. Where you experience the definition of OCD Brittney over here likes to keep her desk tidy and everyone can't relate to Brittney making it very isolated.
Terms like, meltdown, panic attack, trauma, traumatized, disassociation, and OCD are all terms that haven't been so generalized I have a hard time saying them in my life because I don't want to be "just another TikTok kid"
I have struggled with my mental health severely I've been to the psych hospital at least 13 times from ages 11-15
Secondly your experiences are valid and just because some one else uses a term improper doesn't take away from your experience. I hope you can find your place in this world and yeah TikTok fakers are really hurting people right now
Stay strong bromine 💜💙🦋
I'm not diagnosed with anything but I feel like I should probably get myself checked. I remember seeing something at my window every night when I was TWELVE TO THIRTEEN and I slept next to my parents' bed on the floor and cry myself to sleep... I was one wierd kid. I also remember having some kind of paranoia about getting followed or bugs around me. It was horrifying tbh and I still sometimes feel this way. AGAIN no claim on diagnosis or whatever, just wanna know from anyone who actually knows stuff to do with mental health and wellbeing. Not anyone who isn't a "know it all" spreading misinformation just because they know one thing about depression or whatever.
Agreed. It’s not ‘fun’ or ‘quirky’ and faking something people actually struggle with for clout is honestly disgusting
@W1LDB0NETHEIR LICENSED THERAPISTS? HOW DID THEY EVEN GET THAT JOB IF THEY ARE LIKE THAT
im so sorry you go through that, im the same age i dont even realise that this is a person my age who is dealing with all this, i hope you recover, your not alone
This is so sad and triggering. Living as a prisoner in your own body and mind is not fun at all. People with actual mental disorders struggle and get embarrassed with their disorders. It's hard to share and these kids think it's cool to show off and fake it
Am I faking ptsd?
@@Koala_Kawaii311 What?
@@dianaaa2524 I don’t know I don’t think having mental problems is cool, I show actual signs of it (not yt shorts ‘signs’)
But I diagnosed myself because I’m scared to ask my parent to bring me to therapy
@@Koala_Kawaii311 Well, you can’t diagnose yourself. You need a doctor to do so. I know it’s hard to tell your parents about this stuff but if you feel like you have it please ask them for help💗 Things can get alot harder if you keep stuff to yourself.
@@dianaaa2524 I know:( my parents don’t believe in therapy or mental illness so it’s even harder😭
As someone with depression and anxiety and anger issues I am not shaking like an earthquake and screaming at people 💀 💀
Real😭😭😭 Wouldn't scream at people or start shaking because all the energy I had is mainly just for laying and rotting in bed all day and crying myself to sleep instead💀💀
I have anger issues,anxiety and a little depression too and I ain’t rocking the whole planet earth
Same☕️
frr 💀💀
frr- i do get random outbursts tho-
3:25 I actually laughed at this one because I have adhd and I’m like “dang you definitely don’t know how it works” 😂 gen z and gen alpha kids drink like 5 cups of coffee per day and say they have adhd because they think it’s cool and quirky. I am embarrassed that I am *breathing the same air* as these people.
As a person who is diagnosed with autism, I don’t like when people fake disorders because it hurts people who actually have disorders
Oh my- finally someone not commenting : i have depression social anxiety and adhd and im sad about it and i don’t share to the world💀💀
They pretend to have disorders just cause of their symptoms without being diagnosed
Since you are diagnosed and it has a higher chance to be true, do ppl like this that say : I have adhd depression social anxiety
Make you angry?
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk.i also have diagnosed autism and to answer your question no it doesnt
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk. why does it make you angry? it's not like it's impossible to have 3 disorders.
Not diagnosed with anything, but on the diagnostic pathway for ADHD and ASD, personally, I find it hard to feel bad for people, but I hate that someone sits down, and decides ‘yes let’s be QUIRKY and AMAZING by faking so many serious disorders’ (0-0) like, help? People STRUGGLE WITH THAT!
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk. It's actually much more common to have more than one diagnoses. I for example have Autism, ADHD, BPD and GAD.
As a kid who was severely bullied. and was DIAGNOSED with anxiety, severe depression, and more this trend is disgusting considering I had to work through all of that so dam hardly and kids at my school are just like “oh I’m depressed I haven’t been diagnosed but TikTok told me I was” LIKE MAAM you have NO IDEA how hard it was to make it out alive so STOP. (Yes I am getting better)
as a 13 year old with anxiety and an ed, i would give anything not to have them. they affect my daily life so much and this "trend" is disgusting
Same im not self diagnosing whatsoever but i might have a ed? Doubt it tho i have anxiety/stress and adhd, i agree
@@kawaiicat2424 im saying i have anxiety and stress issues
@@NailsByAura why do you think you have an Ed?
I hope you get help if you need something and it gets better
@@kawaiicat2424 thank you and its because i dont know, i just dont have control i genuinely get so hungry after eating like a billion pounds and then binge eat when im sad or stress it and i dont know hos to stop it maybe not an ed but still a problem
Same my anxiety is so bad and I get myself sick and it is very bad and this is not okay.
Nothing Quirky about any of these conditions... ive had bi polar, severe anxiety and depression, Adhd and other neurological issues my whole life. Im 56 now.
This is a fuc&ing waking nightmare. We who suffer with these issues are so miserable inside...
You, layze, are an angel in helping me and others to enjoy a smile and a laugh in the middle of all the pain ❤❤❤🙏
I know kids/teenagers are still young and most people did stupid embarrassing things growing up but those who were faking it publicly will have these embarrassing memories/history follow them forever...
FR like image their mom saw there vids😂😂😂
I am 11 and people in my class do stuff so much worse
As someone who's mentally unstable, it's quite enjoyable seeing people faking their disorders because we all know it's all fun and games till they actually realise the sad reality we all live in and eventually become adults who do nothing but work and earn money just to pay their taxes and debts.
I love life y'all.
Ikr. It's kinda entertaining to watch
@@SweettardI hate to agree, but it still makes my mood boil that all of the things I was bullied for are trendy now 😔
Well what if faking a disorder is my CoPinG mEcHanIsm for ExIStIng. #transabledisvalid!!!
/j
I’m sorry but I’m litterally sitting here on a Sunday night, 19 yrs old about to go to bed so I can get up tmrw for work and to earn money for my tax and debts is just sad
@@Hurricane.L3n1x that's our reality 😭
As a 12 year old who has been recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety this is sick. I think it’s gross because they are basically mocking people who do have severe conditions. I haves siblings with autism and ADHD and when my mom found out (for each of my siblings) she felt like it it was her fault that they were born like that. When I got recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety she cried in front of the doctors. I just don’t like this whole thing and it’s just strange and very concerning…
YES I am so mad having these things are so annoying
fr like theres nothing cool about it let us be
as an undiagnosed 12 year old, this comment breaks my heart
It is mean, and unfair to the people who go through these things, so... Ya know.. Its not cool to fake people :(
I have really bad social anxiety and everyone I know just thinks anxiety is a default thing..
i had a friend who has adhd and very distant family friend who also had adhd. one is a girl, the other is a boy, and i know i can’t speak for everyone as i do not have adhd, but i can definitely tell you they were not like this. the girl literally couldn’t focus in class, but instead would draw or make things out of paper while not listening to me or the teacher. the guy was very hyper active, always jumping around, and he couldn’t sit still, but you would never know he had ADHD unless he told you.
The fact that people fake mental illnesses is just disgusting and disgraceful… I love this video!
Yeah. Mild depression, misophonia, possible bipolar, and adhd speaking here, this sickens me.
As a person who actually has anxiety IED and paranoia(Ik I have these disorders because I go to a therapist and got diagnosed), I can say it’s DISGUSTING for the fact that they are acting like they have a ACTUAL SERIOUS Mental Disorder is absolutely DISGUSTING! They don’t even know how hard it is everyday to live!!!!!
EXACTLY!! They dont know how hard it is to stay alive. Theyve never felt as if basic everyday things literal mountains to get over
@@iismaxyt EXACTLY. THANK YOU🥰
The sad thing about today's world -- at least here in the US, is that kids and teenagers are being taught to be *proud* of these type of things. They're taught that having mental illness or disabilities give you a free pass to get away with crap and not suffer consequences. They don't know that other kids and people actually struggle on a day to day basis with these type of things. What they're taught nowadays is completely out of tune with the reality of what it means to have these disorders.
Keep in mind that these are not things to be ashamed of, but they're nothing to be showing off like a kid with a toy in kindergarten. If you suffer from any mental illness or disorder, you *know* how hard it is to trust other people with that knowledge because you worry about how they'll look at you and what they'll think of you once they know.
Oh, it's here in Australia, too.
LITERALLY! I knew a girl who had autism and blamed PULLING DOWN A BOYS PANTS ON IT. Mind you this wasn’t severe autism. She could still communicate just fine. She could make eye contact and everything. The counselors told me since she was different I had to be friends with her. I stopped going to that camp the next year lol.
@SunshinePIRRATAif that guy SA'd his family member, you've got to tell someone, maybe that irl friend. Someone's safety is at risk
As a kid in the US, am I faking if I don’t trust anyone because of past experiences and I start crying and saying sorry a million trillion times because I think every person is out to actively hurt me and I have nightmares every night abt the people who hurt me but if someone asks me if I have mental disorders then I say I have some form of anxiety/ ptsd?
exactly...i dont know how kids and teenagers my age can sit here and do this.. and maybe its just because im not like that, but its so disgusting and ridiculous, i've been struggling in school and still have to get a diagnosis because it went unoticed when i was younger, i homeschooled for a reason..and to see kids act like thiese disorders are fun...and cute... is just...horrible, and its very offensive to those who actually struggle
As someone with ADHD and anxiety this is infuriating
I do use a chewing thing in class sometimes but like I don't use fidgets like huh? Before I was diagnosed I just shook my leg. My hand barley shakes. It just shakes naturally like everyone else
I love your pfp
I shake my leg sometimes
Me top
Your pfp is gorgeous ❤❤❤
Literally meee
I’m a teen with anxiety, ocd, tourette’s, and mild depression. it’s absolutely disgusting seeing people actually fake these things, and act innocent afterward. tourette’s is by far my hardest one, having them since i was 5. i was incredibly embarrassed and half the things i did when i was younger i didnt know what was happening. it’s like someone in my head telling me to do stuff i didn’t want to. i would try to hide them, and in 3rd grade i was EXTREMELY embarrassed, especially because at that time, the kids would think it was weird because they couldn’t comprehend what tourette’s was. even some of my closest friends thougth it was fake.
depression is also horrible, i’m not going to get into “why” for personal reasons, but at one point you’ll cry yourself to sleep. i was never really at this point, and my depression isn’t too bad.
anxiety is bad as well because you second guess everything you do, and think everyone’s staring. one small thing and your leg will start shaking. some of my friends have to start playing games during class and get in trouble for it, even though they’re just trying to control it. this is why teachers need to allow fidgets, or some type of toys or other triggers that will help control it.
ocd isn’t too bad, but it ties with tourette’s. i have to keep doing my tics until i do it just the right way for my mind to be happy. it’s not just one movement, it’s multiple until it’s perfect. other than that, not too bad.
these are the troubles people like us have to face. if you still have the guts to fake it, then that’s your problem. something obviously happened during your childhood. it’s not okay and not an excuse, it’s absolutely disgusting. this comment is a free vent if anyone needs it.
stay safe guys ❤
I've had tourettes since I was 2 and I was alienated by my family until I was 11
i have ocd, chronic anxiety, and depression. it is not fun. life with a chronic anxiety disorder is so much worse than people believe it is. sleep does not come easily, you doubt everything you do and are constantly on edge, panic attacks that just rise all of a sudden from nowhere, and nightmares that cause fatigue. i do have an oral fixation and seeing these people just make it even more stigmatized. i feel a need to have something between my molars to release pent up energy from panic attacks. ocd and trich are not fun, you get was made fun of for compulsions and missing eyelashes, eyebrows, or having a bald spot. i’m so sorry you were treated so bad for something you couldn’t control, tourettes is still so stigmatized. wishing you a good life
@@_.z33._ you as well! the same things happen to me, in fact today i had a horrible panic attack after getting an argument with one of my closest friends. it got really deep. stay safe. if you ever need to talk i’m open
@@Micahticah that’s disgusting. i hope you’re recovering.
And the thing is then people like you that have actual issues are told that you're faking it, even though you are diagnosed.
My sister had such bad anxiety that she had to go to the hospital several times, and had to have her heart stopped twice. I think people who fake severe anxiety is disgusting. Cause they’ll never know what people like my sister go through.
I relate to, I have real bad anxiety. Most think anxiety only affects you mentally and that’s just objectively false. It affects everything. It affects your heart (I have a heart problem now), you get constant headaches, blood pressure gets high, hell! Even your own bowels get affected because your brain is producing hormones and endorphins that it shouldn’t- you can tell who is faking it because I’m ashamed of having it… just celebrate that you are mentally healthy kids- don’t take it for granted 😭
@@SphericalNervousSystempropranolol can help with your heart. I have issues with a racing heart for other reasons and it's helped me a lot
Why did she have to have her heart stopped?! I have anxiety and went to the hospital a couple times because it really does feel like you’re dying. Both times I went they just said it’s anxiety & there’s not much to do about it besides taking an SSRI or as needed anxiety med. I’ve also tried therapy
I don’t get anxiety that much anymore but when I do get it I sometimes $h to get rid of it
Hope your sister gets better soon💜
@uniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiihope you feel better soon💜
i have adhd,OCD, and anxiety issues but like who the fuck would want to fake having mental disorders when they dont know how it feels for other people who acually have it.
As someone who has adhd and childhood trauma this so so disgusting
i have 15 disorders (no literally im not kidding) and it fussing sucks people do this, its disgusting, rude, mocking and its the reason people with *actual* disorders or mental health problems don't get treated right :/
7:54 the chewing thing is called a chewable and some people like to chew things like pencils, pens etc or then I was little, like my Barbies hands, or nails, so to prevent harming your gums and teeth while stimming they use chewable jewellery
Nah because I didn't know other people chewed on Barbie hands too
As someone with Cancer,ADHD, depression,anxiety, and is dead. I do not claim these ppl 💀
HEEEELEPSPSOOAPWS
@@whatthefreakboibro hr profile picture💀
@@fatimabelkhir8962 it’s gorgeous ik
But do you have ticks though?
I genuinely got so sad at the cancer part before I got to the end
I *actually* have ADHD, Anxiety, and Tourette, and I constantly worry that if I tell people they’ll think I’m faking
She could've been trying to fake late stage Parkinson's and still come off as a fake
@@TechDeviceFixerCZ The checkmark just means I'm a Layze fan what are you on about
@@TechDeviceFixerCZ Weird but alright
@@TechDeviceFixerCZ They know it already though
@@Cristina-Ortizwhen they deleted their comments so you can’t see what they were going on about lol the check mark is cool
@altounedited3 no, you're cool 😎 😎
This bugs the hell out of me!! Like wtf!! I wanted to not watch this so bad, but I need to give my king the views he deserves.
As a person with ADHD I can confirm we cannot keep our hands still at all, they are always constantly spazzing out 🙃
These girls are faking it!
Like hand tremors?
@@Chiller-pc1dvIt was sarcastic
Yes, as someone with severe ADHD I can confirm my hands are definitely always spazzing out😮
/j
ah, yes. Ye ole jazzin spazzin hands
Lots of people are now also fake diagnosing people with adhd and depression as well.
As a person with depression and anxiety since 10 And been diagnosed with tics and adhd since 9, what the actual hell is that hand movment in the adhd video 😭😭🙏. I also am so mad that people have taught kids that disorders are rlly quirky and funny. Btw im looking back at this video bc this is how I found layze
Looking back at this paragraph that msde no sense
@@Onyx-tz5wffr lol
I’m so glad that you’re recognizing that this is wrong but you’re also recognizing that they are kids and not treating them like criminals😭🙏🏽
@@ThatLightSkinntedPrincess Yeah I feel like ots not really the kids fault since if they are seeking attention they probably need it, I'd just advise to maybe NOT fake things gor views and learn some skills
As someone with anxiety since 9, depression since 11 and has been diagnosed for ADHD, this makes me sick that these little kids think this is quirky and funny. But not to defend them, this was likely taught to them by social media or lack of parental attention. People at school always made fun of depression and ADHD and it made me feel worse about it. Their parents really need to act on this. They’re not going to grow up right.
You're seriously the best 😅 "oh they're adults" when they said they're 13 haya
@jasonhoops2169
So?
As someone with psychotic depression and a high possibility of having asd and bipolar, this entire trend boils my blood so much. I struggled alot with mental illness and abuse, and it's so disgusting to see that this shit has now become not only a trend but a competition for who is more "uwu quirky" or something. Mental Illness is NOT something that should be aestheticized or romanticized. It is serious and debilitating. The worst part about all of this is that this trend has so many reprecussions for EVERYONE. For example, folks who may suspect that they might have a certain mental disorder will feel invalidated or scared to seek help because they will be seen as these disgusting ppl faking it for attention. Or the ppl who already have a full diagnosis would have their needed resources taken away b/c these assholes are using it for attention. This is coming from a personal place because I suspect myself to possibly have something, but I'm not flaunting around like I'm happy about it, I only brlieve that I might have it so I can find the correct resources to help me with dealing with this bullshit. If I could trade it in for a neurotypical brain, I would do so in a heartbeat. But of course, its SOOOO quirky to be unable to communicate properly despite trying, and get overstimulated in social situations, and to feel like you're a sociopath for not understanding/empathizing with others emotions no matter how hard you try, and for having barely controllable emotions that are grossly out of proportion that can hurt others, and for feeling like you're just as terrible as these ppl even though you only want help for yourself because this shit is very difficult to handle alone. So. Fucking. Quirky.
Fucking pricks.
This is so true! As someone who actually has mental issues, it makes my blood boil to see kids pretending to have issues to get likes or sympathy. I was scared to seek help, even from my parents-and still am- because I’m afraid people like this will call ME out and say I’M faking when I’m not. Mental health is not a fun game. It’s real life, and if you’re neurotypical, I envy you.
As someone who used to NOT be diagnosed with OCD when I was younger I used to get bullied. I wasn’t a neat freak, I had many thoughts of accidentally hurting someone or just worrying about dirty waters or contaminated things. People said half the time that I was faking it due to the fact that if a saw a pen in the wrong place I wouldn’t go into a full ‘mental breakdown’…
7:44 it’s a silicone necklace that is made to be chewed on. It’s meant to stop you from destructive behaviors (for example nail biting). I used to have one since I bit my nails a lot as a kid.
my sister has OCD, and watching all these people faking disorders literally gets my blood boiling. i don’t have a disorder, but by the amount of times I’ve had to comfort her i know it’s hard. people really can’t learn any way than the hard way these days…
I have ocd and the worst thing is when people say “I’m SOOO ocd, like a went to the store and saw a box on the floor, AND I PICKED IT UP.OMG IM SO QUIRKY
@@Sophiepolk It’s genuinely the worst. Sure, I’m often irked by simple things, but that doesn’t mean I’m neurodivergent. People just want attention from these videos, and they get it, but people who actually *have* the disorder are often bullied in real life. If I get so triggered by such videos, i can’t imagine how it would be for you.
I'm 50 years young babe and literally you have me laughing so crazy. Thank you sweetie for allll your videos and mostly thank you for being so f.. funny!!!!!!!
You go girl!
“😊We have severe anxiety, depression, ADHD and Tourette’s and we loveee to fidget✨” actually does piss me off since I actually have 3/4 of those and it’s made life pretty difficult to the point I’m starting therapy for said severe anxiety bc it really effects my day to day and I fidget bc my nerves are bad and these kids making it up all for views is sickening and they need their phones taken
As someone who’s been diagnosed with anxiety for 10 years (since I was 3) these people faking mental illness are straight up crazy. These 10-11 year olds are faking it because their doing what these older people are doing because they thing it’s cool
I turned 12 yesterday, am I faking my mental problems?
@@Koala_Kawaii311 I’m just saying the majority, idk about specific people
@@kyliegymnastics oh ok
I'm sorry, how do you diagnose a three year old with anxiety?
@@combi0078 i would constantly be shaking in fear for no reason, would never be alone, have panic attacks when even the slightest thing went wrong, etc. So I went to a therapist and got diagnosed. Luckily it’s gotten a lot better throughout the years.
lol I think they're confusing having tic attacks and adhd with having Parkinson's. people really need to get out more, climb trees, plant flowers, something to just get out of the house!! Pretending to have serious debilitating mental disorders IS NO JOKE!! people struggle every minute of every day, and it's people like these ridiculous tik tokers that are making a mockery of them, THIS is why there is STILL such stigma towards those that ACTUALLY struggle. so infuriating!!
I have ADHD and I deal with tics due to my medications, it's not uncommon. And I also deal with hand tremors, I do not have Parkinson's.
My anti psychotic meds make me have uncontrollable movements.
And this is one of the reasons I can never believe I actually might have something because of all the people who fake disorders.
Same! I've been trying to get screened but I feel like an imposter because of how "trendy" having mental conditions has become. And the misinformation being spread by the fakers doesn't help either, it just confuses people who don't have it into thinking they do, and people who do have it into thinking they don't. While having a condition should be something we accept, it should not be portrayed as something we want to have.
@@wolvie1618depending on what you’re trying to get screened for there are neuropsychological tests done through neurology offices, those are the most legit and definitive i know of. Takes a good 4hrs one on one with the neuro - at least an hour of the test was staring at a computer screen doing different instructed tasks while the dr watched.. it is very expensive even with insurance, not gonna sugar coat that - but if you truly want to know 100% if you have adhd/anxiety/processing/memory issues then i would recommend you try going that route. A regular doctor diagnosing people with no testing is beyond is reckless imo.
Oh and btw the computer had cameras and sensors tracking all eye and finger movements throughout the tasks, ended up with like a 30 page diagnostic report a week later breaking down all diagnostic categories/scores reaction times, short & longterm memory health, etc
Me too, I'm concerned for myself yet i don't know how to ask/get help because i heard it's really difficult to get one because it might take weeks, months, even years or so! Well my mom says i don't need a diagnosis because it's not that severe and it "won't change anything" but still I'd want a diagnosis to make sure and get help on how to deal with it
To that lady faking Tourette’s, I met someone with it and they actually hate their tics and would rather we ignored them
How does she rhyme her tics perfectly to rhymes as someone who has TS we don’t tic in sync and we like and laugh at it 🙏
@ she definitely doesn’t have it😅it’s sad really how these tiktokers fake mental illness when there are people (me included) who struggle with ADHD, actual severe anxiety and depression… bc of them, we can’t be taken seriously… also there was a dude with schizophrenia that was just recording a video of his dog until he thought someone was in there and told his dog to greet them but the dog was trained and it lets him know if he’s having an episode
this is so disgusting..the nerve to fake having disorders that are actually painful to have. as someone who has overcome depression, this is disgusting and awful. these kids need to get manners and respect ppl with these conditions.
1:05 I can’t with the happy voice and saying severe depression lol 💀💀💀
We have severe depression 😃✨🧚♀️
And anxiety 😎😎🥳🌸✨🎉🐬
As somebody with autism and *severe Adhd* I don't like having it- I get these random shivers down my back randomly, and get told off for figeting and get detentions 24/7 I also used chew toys in primary, it helped my Adhd but after having it in my mouth for abt 5 secs I felt nauseous. The trend of kids faking is disgusting😢
I have autism and Anxiety, but i dont go flaunting it around as if it was a £1000 bag 💀
As a person with both ADHD and tourettes syndrome: we👏🏻are👏🏻NORMAL👏🏻 NOR-MAL!
We are not a bunch of wierdos sitting in a corner chewing a fidget toy while we spasm to the beat of a tiktok sound.
Thank you.
But sometimes we do need fidgets
To focus NOT TO LIVE
Well, when you have ADHD you aren't completly normal.
(This is comming from someone who has ADHD btw!)
Usually you can't sit still, need to fidged/play with something and it's harder to focus on certain stuff you don't have much intrest in.
Slight disclaimer: This is just how I experience having ADHD, not all people experience the same thing having ADHD.
@@Rultanbus funny how you try to educate me about my own diagnosis 💀 we are still normal human beings. Not some wierd over the top parody character that knows no social code.
as someone with adhd i think kids miss understand it. we don’t fidget for fun. like sure we do fidget quite a lot but we fidget for focus
Yeah I’m dxed with adhd and autism and if I don’t have something in my hands I will wring my hands really aggressively without even knowing it and it starts to hurt really bad after a while. I use the fidgets to prevent it from getting to the pain point.
As a person with very severe ADHD and Bipolar Disorder, I feel as if I'm being downgraded because of my disorders and disabilities. Every day, I struggle to wake up or even get out of bed, practice my basic hygiene and even complete simple tasks like cleaning my room, washing my face and eating. I had a cousin who told me she had ADHD. I got so excited because I felt as if I finally had someone who would understand my struggles and pain, but when I asked her what type she had and where she got diagnosed, she told me it was a self-diagnoses. Every day, she would try to do things to get attention and "prove" that she had ADHD, and as I looked at the things she faked (e.g., pacing around or stimming) I looked at myself in distraught. I felt as if she was mocking me, and I felt so disgusted thinking "is this really how I act on a daily basis?"... I constantly tried to cover my disorders up to make me seem "normal", but I would never believe that I would be like the others my age. I can't believe people could take someone's mental or physical struggles and throw it onto themselves for attention and pity.
I dont know the whole logic behind faking conditions? As someone who has suffered with depression for most of life...i wish i can take some of these some if these people and make them feel how exactly a life changing illness can be and that what they are doing us not only direspectful but also hurts the credibility of the disorders themselves. O....and I am sending you lots of cats!!! Thanx Layze gor your vids, they are truly the highlight of my day!😊❤
The people who fake disorders are probably attention seekers.
I actually have severe adhd, major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder and these greatly negativity affected my life. I find it absolutely disgusting that people fake disorders, especially when they are faking a disorder that I personally struggle from. This is why people like me are absolutely terrified of asking for help because people will just think we are faking it. Those who battle mental health and aren’t faking it; I see u, u are a brave and strong person and u will always have ppl for u
as a person that only just got diagnosed at 18 with asd, adhd, anxiety and depression and i’m currently staring at all my medication im actually dying of laughter. bro this gave me such imposter syndrome when i was younger watching these videos as it wasn’t visible enough like these. man i wish i could fake this shi it’s not a quirky personality. it literally screws you over with yourself and friends. wouldn’t wish any of this nor would i romanticise it. dark humour is the only way i live
As a female with adhd and anxiety, I am offended by these people faking adhd and anxiety.
I am 20 and have adhd ever since I was a child. With the song part of her emotions changing, that does not happen honestly, well as far as I know others with adhd doesn't have that happen. But with me, if I listen to music that is new and sounds really good, I would just get goosebumps and go on with my listening experience lol. Music helps me to clear my mind anyways so.
I have Schizophrenia plus a severe Social Anxiety disorder, like being in public is really something hard for me because people are well, stressing me out way too much. And seeing kids, teenagers faking disorders for attention, like come on. After this, people with real disorders like me get judge and get tell that we're faking it. So I have one thing to say: "Stop Faking freaking Disorders!!"
But aside from that Layze I love your videos ❤
You ate that up I'm so sorry you have to deal with that and the fact people fake having disorders sucks I have ADHD and anxiety and it makes me angry when people fake it
@@RemiEverson thank you because honestly people take it badly whenever I tell them about my condition. I'm glad people like you understands that, much appreciated 🙏❤
@Lunaria456 i may be still a child but I was raised to respect and understand and darlin you got my understandings and appreciation for telling us about yourself it's brave to come out and tell about your condition knowing people are out there faking it and when I get older those fakes are gonna be brought to justice ♥️
@@RemiEverson oh don't worry I'm a child myself, well logically 15 but I appreciate your support, love ❤
@Lunaria456 oh shoot nvm u a child to me bruv I'm about to be 17
10:03 THIS HAD ME WEEZING HOW CONTROLLED THE MOVES WERE
8:15 pretending DID is crazy, DID is a rare disorder and i think a few of the symptoms were like having different identities and suicidal thoughts, so i feel bad for people who have DID.
It‘s having different selfs. Like, a person with DID can be one person one minute and a completely different one the next (sry if the explanation isn’t clear, English isn’t my first language 😅)
I have DID sadly and yeah yall explained it pretty well. Ur some smart cookies.
9:35 his scream just jump scared me not the fart
I have adhd, autism, anxiety and depression, and people faking it PISS ME OFF LIKE- They make me so mad. Because they don’t know how hard it is to have actual mental illnesses.
I have anxiety and one girl in my class pretends she has anxiety whenever she’s faking it i get so mad on the inside
Same!!!! Mental illness is a shitty thing to have. I and it pisses me off-
I have autism n anxiety too-
It sucks :(
@@ThatArtLover it does suck. :(
@@M0TH_CL4WZhello i have asd too and adhd and this is not how we are its actual funny but disgusting to watch lol btw i hate fidgets they lie
i have adhd and atisum
as someone with ADHD and anger issues these kids faking disorders are disgusting
7:37 it's a chew necklace for stimming or if you have a problem with nail biting 😬
@@SelahRea i plan on buyin one too
i have a plastic spoon 💀
I have a bit of everything
(Ex: paper towels, gum, blankets, shirts, etc)
@@MaxIsEatingLegos HELP REAL
@@MaxIsEatingLegos your name explains it all
As someone who’s had adhd and RAD ( due from early childhood abuse and neglect ) diagnosed at the age of 4 , with the diagnosis of manic depression at the age of 15 , I would never wish mental health on anyone . This life is exhausting, the struggle to do day to day tasks is overwhelming. Checking and re checking the same thing because of constant fear something bad would happen is not something I choose to live with , faking mental disorders is disgusting and I feel sorry for you .
Your..rad? Like..."YEAH THATS RADICAL BRO!" cuz...idk
As someone who has dyslexia, Autism and severe anxiety and had to deal with so many of these things in my life it really disgusts me that people fake the things ive struggled with for my whole life.
I’ve got autism and anxiety and I’m about to get tested for dyslexia (not saying i have it) but I just wanted to say ur the first person I’ve seen with those 3 specific things :D
Hope things get better ❤
As someone with spd , autism, adhd , odd ( anger issues) , and anxiety this is very sad that people actually want to have these issues as it is helll for me and makes your life way harder and they are just pretending for views to be cool
As a thirteen year old I am severely disappointed with these people. My friend has severe ADHD and it’s awful for her. And as someone who has OCD it’s really not fun or quirky. I get like awful thoughts all the time about one of my loved ones dying if I don’t do something. I’m ashamed of people my age for doing this. There’s one girl at my school who lies about having OCD and she makes it her whole personality. She’s like “I had to organize this in rainbow order because my OCD told me to!” Like oh my freaking gosh she’s so annoying. Anyways that’s my experience on it. Have a great day and don’t fake mental illness❤
I have adhd and it’s an everyday challenge that has affected my results really badly. And people are out here going “I actually have severe adhd uwu” it makes me sick
i have just a little bit of both ADHD and OCD. My OCD isn’t really bad, but sometimes it makes me contemplate life, as in “OMG IF I DONT PASS THAT CAR DOWN THE HILL ONE OF MY CATS WILL DIE!!” or something like that and if i don’t pass the car i start to worry and cry. but i get over it knowing its not real. i understand your ocd thing and i hope it gets better for you. ❤
bang on. I am 27, and also diagnosed with OCD and get beyond upset when I open up to people about it, and they start talking about how they have to keep their house clean or make their bed in a specific way. That is not OCD at all, it can be just as you described. It makes me feel ashamed to tell people why I was in therapy for so long. Because ive gotten comments like "what? but your house looks normal and not OCD clean!!" It hurts..
As a Person with adhd( a cousin with touretts) and we all have mental health issues, it’s really sad to see people faking it. It’s not easy to always have to be reminded and feel like a burden and an annoyance to everyone else around you
Also I lost my chewing/sucking thumb thing in 4th grade which is when most kids(even with adhd do
As someone who’s been diagnosed with adhd depression and anxiety, seeing these people fake having mental disorders makes me sick. It’s almost like they’re making fun of us for not being “normal”. They should consider themselves lucky to not actually have these issues.
As someone who actually has depression this is very disrespectful and disgusting
as someone who’s like 14 and I have adhd, anxiety, mild depression, anger issues, and possible autism, I am severely infuriated by this. Not you, but the kids. When I saw that *look how much my hand shakes* video I tried it. Only fidgeted with the hand I wasn’t recording. Occasionally fidgeted with like my shorts or smth with my other hand.
I salute and support you fellow autistic. May luck be brought your way!
@ Why thank you!
YES!! i don’t understand what they saw to come to the conclusion they can’t just keep their hand still (coming from a person who can’t sit still and fidgets a lot) mustve been ,, idk😭
OMG ARE YOU ME ?! It's exactly the same except that I'm 15 !
To the people who actually have these disorders, I want to apologize 😞
You don’t have to :D
👍
Thanks
Thanks but it’s not you making these awful TikTok’s about faking a disorder 😢
You don't have to dw❤
I'm 13 and I have really bad childhood trauma. I am believed to have depression, adhd, bipolar disorder, and anxiety as product of it. It makes me feel really bad and almost invalidated to see children my age or older faking this kind of stuff.
im 12 and i have quite a traumatic childhood too, its partially the reason im depressed
I hope this trend stops for everyone who has a mental disorder ❤
me too I’m 16 and I have depression since I’m 8 I did selfh4rm with 9-10 (not with a knife) I got a bit OCD (not really hard but still it’s there) i also have anxiety
I hope you’re gonna get better :) ❤️🩹
It’s a biting necklace 7:44 people with biting tics use it for biting if they have biting tics like me but I’m not over here making puppy eyes and aggressively biting it
I love the fact that stormy lets u do anything with her, absolutely love it layze!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Congratulations Layze !! 😊 Hope you get to be a citizen soon
i’ve had anxiety, adhd, depression, and tourette’s my whole life and seeing people fake them, is SO upsetting bc it is NOT easy.
The fact that they are faking this is crazy because I had adhd for my whole entire life and I have depression and anxiety and they are just pretending to have all those things is insane.😭😭
As a person who has had anxiety and depression since the age of 13 and actually was diagnosed by a professional. This trend is the worst thing that could exist. It completely cancels out those who actually have these disorders and makes it seem like they’re lying when they’re not.
Mental health disorders are not funny, and they’re definitely not cool to have.
There’s so much more to these disorders then people think.
I’m so sorry u have it,my friend has it and I can tell it isn’t anything to be funny about I’m so sorry. I hope u get better
@@Dedb1mb0l-ve i’m working everyday to better it, and i’ve come so far compared to where i was at last year, thank you though. i appreciate it🫶🏻
I joke abt my anxiety and depression bc idk how to rlly talk abt it but that doesnt mean its funny!! Living with mental disorders or any disorder rlly is so damn hard and these ppl thinking its cool and romanticizing our struggles is disgusting.
Exactly..this is just gross @@iismaxyt
😂😂😂😂😂
As someone who does have anxiety, ADHD, and depression (which later became bipolar 2), it’s awful and downright ridiculous how *kids* think it’s cool to fake disorders. They think it’s quirky and cute, but it gives others a bad name, and I’m tired of being told that I “don’t have all those” just because CHILDREN are giving me a bad name.
Same, this is basically discriminating us
I have been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, ADD, and POTS, watching this video was pretty infuriating. ADHD isn't, "quirky" or "fun", it's something I struggle with on the daily, impacts my relationships, and makes it practically impossible to focus. The thing with ADHD is that, I don't really miss people, because how my brain works is if I can't see someone/thing physically in front of me, I forget it exists. I've lost many friends because I don't reach out as much as I should, and it's hard for me to keep relationships with more than a few people at a time. And people who fake ADD really annoy me. "oMg iT's hArD fOr mE tO fOcUs oN tHiS oNe tHiNg, i mUsT hAvE aDd i'M sO qUiRkY!!1!!111!" SHHHH STFU STFU STFUUU
Fr I took a test and I have rlly bad ADHD I take pills on like lvl 30 or 20
I really feel this. I have ADHD too and these past couple weeks it's being worse than usual. It's so hard. I could never imagine pretending I have it. Why would I want ADHD when it's so difficult to live with? And if these kids knew how it really is to have it, they would not be faking it. Also, thanks for mentioning how you have a hard time keeping friends. I always wondered why I struggled with that and that really makes sense!
The chew thing in his mouth is a chew necklace. As a person who sometimes needs to use it for anxiety, this is really harmful and false. I’m not chewing on it at all times like a rogue animal. Some people do need to tho.
I'd just like to say, as a person with severe anxiety and autism since 5, I'd just like to say that this trend is absolutely making me sick to the stomach and faking disorders for attention/cloud is just wrong.
The worst part is that so many fakers trick docs into giving them meds that people that are really suffering get nothing & are considered drug seekers!
Let's just say that the doctors said that there was absolutely nothing wrong with me. Even though, my pediatrician gave me at least 12 of the same shots every time I went there (minimal amount she gave me) because apparently, I didn't take those shots. My teacher had to force them to test me for ADHD and now I am finally diagnosed with severe ADHD and can now get medication to help me with it.There are also many undiagnosed issues with me that pass down through generations and medical records to prove it. Those shots severely effected my health. The pediatrician was fired for her give ONLY ME repeated shots. They refuse to diagnose me and say I'm only say these things for attention. Luckily, I'm getting a better doctor now so maybe I'll get those diagnosed to so I can get help. It makes me sick that because of these immature children, I have to force my doctors to let me get refills on my medication. They still insist there is nothing wrong with me even though there clearly is. I'm not the only person with this problem in my town. These children disgust me.
Same! These people are the reason that real diagnosed people with anxiety are called”attention seekers”
I have adhd and let's be honest, they might be in need of therapy
ur a great liar! keep it up!