My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history. How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities. Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic. The above are just a few missing from the topic. JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
@@sp-leaks7935This is the United States of America. A significant percentage of Muslim women were not reared in Muslim households. Reversion to Islam is the greatest gift Allah can give to a woman other than Jinnah. InshaAllah, you will remember this going forward.
SubhanAllah ,this was an excellent lecture. Learned much. Jazak Allah Khayern Akhi . May Allah (SWT) reward you with what is good in this world and the next. Ameen Ya Rabb
Masha'Allah 😍, this was a beautiful, beneficial and inspirational lecture! Jazakallahu khair for delivering this reminder of how to regain this often overlooked superpower back.
I agree with everything he just said. Subhana'Allah I have been going through challenges since 2001 so along the way I ended up taping into my survive skills to protect and provide for myself. Hence, I just don't know how to develop all of these if your environment is not set for it.
keep doing what life and God requires of you- dont set yourself up for abuse. Just be balanced and dont start fitting yourself into the feminine definition a man gives
Be gentle with yourself. If you are making time to read/ listen to information about this subject, it means you are already following your intuition and tapping into/ honoring your femininity💓 If you are open to a suggestion, I will share. When I felt in this energy of survival, it felt like I never had time to “be myself” as a woman. One thing that helped was I requested time off from my employer for Jummah. It started small, but it shifted my energy. Making the request, set a boundary, and taking the weekly time to self-care spiritually offered me the other things mentioned by the brother in this talk- Compassion, empathy, self value, meaningful relationship space, and time to be receptive which opened my creative channels as well. Eventually, I placed the same requests within my household (w/ my children), weekly time to connect with my myself w/o being disturbed. My circumstances (demands of work and home) did not change immediately, but how I felt changed and I slowly was able to shift back into more of feminine energy which made it less overwhelming. Side note, without me asking, others began to offer me help and assistance more. May Allah guide you to what dims best for you at this time. 🤲🏿
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history. How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities. Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic. The above are just a few missing from the topic. JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history. How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities. Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic. The above are just a few missing from the topic. JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
You don't get to set the stage for unfeminizing Women by your decades of your absence, then pretend to return to masculinize yourself by ignoring those decades.
Why do all women need to hear this? All women will not agree neither will all men agree. It’s always the ones who does all the above and still gets mistreated. Usually a woman reminds a man she was there with him from the beginning because people often forget who was there for them and leave them hung and dry. If you give so much energy to someone it should be reciprocated not abused.
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history. How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities. Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic. The above are just a few missing from the topic. JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
Yeah that got me too. Not sure if that’s true. And the part where he said dancing to be creative. not sure what he means by that.. agree with most points but some points sound secular and western ideas of femininity.
8:23 it is not an excuse. it is trauma. please speak with more precaution brother. Allahu Alim. I speak for myself. your words are harsh my brother in Islam. It isn't an excuse.
1. Intuitive
2. Empathetic
3. Compassionate
4. Nurturing
5. Receptive
6. Creative
7. Not afraid to be vulnerable
8. Have meaningful relationships
9. Graceful
10. Have boundaries
Real MVP 😊
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history.
How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities.
Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic.
The above are just a few missing from the topic.
JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
@@sp-leaks7935This is the United States of America. A significant percentage of Muslim women were not reared in Muslim households. Reversion to Islam is the greatest gift Allah can give to a woman other than Jinnah. InshaAllah, you will remember this going forward.
SubhanAllah ,this was an excellent lecture. Learned much. Jazak Allah Khayern Akhi . May Allah (SWT) reward you with what is good in this world and the next. Ameen Ya Rabb
can u please summarize this lec as i have exams and i will listen sometime in future
jazak ALLAH khair
Masha'Allah 😍, this was a beautiful, beneficial and inspirational lecture! Jazakallahu khair for delivering this reminder of how to regain this often overlooked superpower back.
Mashallah tabarakallah very rich lecture
Double speak for: women who will accept my cheating without complaint.
I agree with everything he just said. Subhana'Allah I have been going through challenges since 2001 so along the way I ended up taping into my survive skills to protect and provide for myself. Hence, I just don't know how to develop all of these if your environment is not set for it.
keep doing what life and God requires of you- dont set yourself up for abuse. Just be balanced and dont start fitting yourself into the feminine definition a man gives
Be gentle with yourself. If you are making time to read/ listen to information about this subject, it means you are already following your intuition and tapping into/ honoring your femininity💓
If you are open to a suggestion, I will share. When I felt in this energy of survival, it felt like I never had time to “be myself” as a woman. One thing that helped was I requested time off from my employer for Jummah. It started small, but it shifted my energy. Making the request, set a boundary, and taking the weekly time to self-care spiritually offered me the other things mentioned by the brother in this talk- Compassion, empathy, self value, meaningful relationship space, and time to be receptive which opened my creative channels as well. Eventually, I placed the same requests within my household (w/ my children), weekly time to connect with my myself w/o being disturbed. My circumstances (demands of work and home) did not change immediately, but how I felt changed and I slowly was able to shift back into more of feminine energy which made it less overwhelming. Side note, without me asking, others began to offer me help and assistance more.
May Allah guide you to what dims best for you at this time. 🤲🏿
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history.
How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities.
Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic.
The above are just a few missing from the topic.
JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
MashaAllah! I enjoyed this
Thank you !!!! Agreed
Wait, so are you saying Khadijah (RA) wasn’t a boss babe?
How can women become creative, you said about dancing I can't understand
MashaAllah , very true indeed
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history.
How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities.
Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic.
The above are just a few missing from the topic.
JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
So passionate putting woman down till he forgot what he was talking about.
Yes .yes.yes.
Very Interesting video and good Points but he basically used every bad experience in his marriage as an example 😂😂😂
Asc from 🇸🇴
Why would the prophet saw parents go to hell?
👉🌄energy 😲👉🌑🕵️😀
What about a masculine man? Is he supposed to have all the opposite qualities?
You don't get to set the stage for unfeminizing Women by your decades of your absence, then pretend to return to masculinize yourself by ignoring those decades.
He's giving all the qualities then he throws salt also? Hmmm he's confusion
What time?
All women need to hear this. SubhanAllah
Why do all women need to hear this?
All women will not agree neither will all men agree.
It’s always the ones who does all the above and still gets mistreated. Usually a woman reminds a man she was there with him from the beginning because people often forget who was there for them and leave them hung and dry. If you give so much energy to someone it should be reciprocated not abused.
that woman not only attracted a narcissist but fed all her energy and now lesson learned
My beloved Brother Shadeed, Allaah bless & preserve you, Aameen...the qualities you mentioned are very secular to some extent & devoid of foundational key spiritual points, which is very odd & these have not at all mentioned primary qualities of her connection and relationship with Allaah, has she truly modelled herself on the best feminine examples of well raised & nurtured women of God consciousness throughout history.
How her parents have raised & nurtured these qualities successfully, a holistic blueprint which has been seriously lacking post 1950's, parents have utterly failed to successfully pass on these key blueprint characteristics of well raised and nurtured feminine qualities.
Was she raised in a truly islamic household, environment & culture, how solid was that foundation throughout her upbringing and not just assuming because she dresses islamic she now is somehow islamic.
The above are just a few missing from the topic.
JazaakAllaah khairan 🤲🏾
I didn't know the prophets' mother and father were going to hell 😮
extreme wahhabi sunni lies
Yeah that got me too. Not sure if that’s true. And the part where he said dancing to be creative. not sure what he means by that.. agree with most points but some points sound secular and western ideas of femininity.
Alhumdullilah
8:23 it is not an excuse. it is trauma. please speak with more precaution brother. Allahu Alim. I speak for myself. your words are harsh my brother in Islam. It isn't an excuse.
يا الله شو غليظ وكلامك بلا طعمة
He is describing the perfect woman with zero flaws . Bless him
Redpill incel?
Always putting women whenever they get a chance, they don't even say "ila maraxima rabii"