When I was in elementary school, there was a boy in my class who was extremely agressive and stupid. He had a personality disorder and everybody hated him. He also lived in my neighborhood. One day during winter he was missing and a lot of people went searching for him. They found him the next day drowned in a cellar of a house that was being built. Later it came out he was playing there with other bad kids and tried to ride the ice in the cellar, the ice gave away and he fell into the stagnant water, he asked his "friends" for help but they ran away, he got hypothermia and eventually lost consciousness and drowned. He was 11 years old. When I got to school again all kids said: "good riddance". I didn't like the guy either but I was still shocked about my classmates remarks. Empathy was not one of their virtues.
What a horrible way to go. Makes you wonder what would have happened if someone took the time to try and help him instead of looking at him as a problem student.
I was definitely considered a bad kid, wasn’t a bully but wasn’t a great person either. I’m so proud to say I joined the military, got my life on track, about to start my own freelance business and earn a degree in computer engineering. Really grateful my life didn’t turn out this way.
Our bully turned out to be a awesome dude. After a few run ins with the law he found love but when his daughter was born they found out she has down syndrome. This man changed his life around to be able to give his daughter the care she needs. He became a trucker, then owner operator and now is the owner of a succesfull business. He dotes on his family and is very pleasant to be around.
My dad told me about a guy he went to high school with. He was voted most likely to go to prison. At the 40 year reunion he finally showed up. Turns out he became a US Marshall.
Well if he’s a Marshall, then he technically has been to prison, just not for the reason people thought he’d go. Marshall’s have jurisdiction for prisoner transfers and escapes.
Some of these posts make my bully’s story sound tame. One girl that used to bully me in elementary school ended up getting arrested for assault just a few years ago. Looking back, there were some warning signs that something was up. When my mom and I were watching my fifth-grade class interview tapes, she said the best day of her life so far was seeing something bad happen to a first grader she really didn’t like.
@@newtfigton8795 It was just a fun thing we could watch at our eighth grade graduations. Y’know, sort of a “Look at where you are now. Look at where you were all those years ago.”
2:24 “She’s a nurse now.” **Sigh** I should’ve expected this when I clicked on this video. A lot of awful bullies like to be in positions of power, so a lot of them have Jobs as Teachers or Nurses or Doctors so they have control of someone else…
I have 3 people at the top of my head: 1. He wasn't really a bully per se, but more of a guy who had difficulty expressing his feelings. Anyway, he's happily married to the girl he used to pick on and both of them are successful chefs with a kid. Don't worry, she wasn't forced to marry him and he has probably apologized for what he did to her in the past. I was also at their wedding as a friend of the groom. 2. I always had a feeling he was gay. Right now he's living abroad, has come out of the closet, and is working as a nurse I believe. He's been regretful of the people he's bullied in the past and has actually made amends with that one kid he punch so hard in the gut multiple times. To my surprise, the kid he bullied is now an attorney. 3. This one is openly gay, but also the worst person I've ever met. He bullied one of my classmates in college so bad that she developed social anxiety and transferred to a new school. Thankfully, she didn't end herself and works as a freelance web designer these days. Anyway, the bully is, sadly, unremorseful for what he did to her. He is working as a manager, from what I recall, for an insurance company.
As for the third dude, gay or not, how come none of the guys at your school didn’t look out for that girl? Why didn’t you for that matter? I’m genuinely curious…Fuck if a dude likes dick that’s still a female
@@deeharris5592, for the third part, I wasn't particularly close with that girl and I only see her once every week on one subject that we had in common. I don't see her a lot around campus despite it being relatively small. A lot of our other classmates who were sympathetic towards her tried to stop him. Worst part is that he would almost always bring the gay card down to the table, justifying his actions. My other gay classmates didn't really hang out with him because of his attitude, but he did have connections to other "influential" and "cool" students and staff in school. It's an overly complicated case overall and I honestly didn't want to get killed back then nor did I want to stick my nose further. Things in our school weren't always black and white. There were also so many rumors in our school involving politicians, law enforcement, lawyers, and other prominent people. The school itself wasn't that corrupt to the point of neglect, but some students knew how to use their connections well. She probably knew these rumors as well and didn't want to get involved any further so she transferred schools. I was able to get in touch with her during the pandemic and she's actually doing well for herself as a home-based web designer.
My highschool was full of the bad type of kids. A lot had children, a few had them in highschool even. I know one who made an onlyfans, a lot of guys joined the military. Lots just seem to party nearly every night. Most I haven't heard about since before graduating
One of the bullies from my high school beat me up for wearing a Nina Hagen t shirt the first week. Turns out, she was bloody mad that I got to travel all over Europe that summer where I purchased a lot of cool things. Mostly clothes and music. This crap continues for the rest of the school year, not physically beating anymore, just tons of verbal crap. Fast forward almost one year. I’m 18 now, looming on 19 and being in the right place at the right time and dressed in an outfit I had made I land a spot in a boutique and started selling my designs. Fast forward another 25 years and Nina Hagen becomes my client and I’m seeing my fascinators on her in concerts, interviews, and publications. Well, the bitch who beat my ass ended up on busted mugs shots and now has several felonies on her record.
A girl who used to pick on me for no reason slept with my best friend at the time, eventually having his child, breaking up, became a single mum, posts "You don't know my life" pictures on Facebook as if she's a martyr and has no idea what a meme is. Like, she reposted an antivax baby grow because she thought it was a meme
disclaimer, I'm from Detroit: ~one guy that used to try robbing me behind the school park died of a cocktail overdose (molly, percs, and heroine) ~another guy got shot in the spine, and died later because he used to drive around and throw eggs at crackheads late night...well, he rolled up on a dealer posted on the corner, and the guy thought he was trying to rob him so he shot him ~this guy used to pick fights all the time with SPECIFIC guys...well, he got caught with a minor on EMU campus, and got 16 years. Another friend on separate charges got housed with him, and says he's turning tricks inside; wears dresses, and a known prostitute inside. ~a guy that WAS actually a friend shot his wife on the front yard as the cops arrived, he plead no contest on trial because the police had him on dashcam pulling the trigger. He's serving a 22 year bid, and won't get out till he's 62, he got NO PAROLE for his offense. ~an ex that cheated on me was sleeping with this dude in highschool...everyone knew, and told me to dump her, I eventually did, it wasn't easy because I did like her. Well, fast forward 20 years later, and she's in my inbox telling me how we're gonna get back together, and have a family, etc. I kept telling her that I just want to be friends (she's visibly a mess). On further probing, I find out that she is still with the guy from highschool who's forty, and still trying to launch his rap career, and she's realized that he's not an earner. Still up to old shenanigans, on the 400th no to her advances, she fb messaged my best friend and tried to sleep with him....of course he told me; last I heard, she's settled with marrying the rap dude from highschool lol ~all the rest are B R O K E, most dropped out to hustle, but never went pass selling weed, and with it being legal now, a lot of them are out of a hustle....you see them online complaining about how bad life is, and no one cares.
We had quite a few “bad boys” in our school. I haven’t stayed in touch with many people I went to school with but from what has managed to get to me is pretty pitiful. Many of those kids were dead or in prison by 25. What I think was worse was how everyone rallied around their deaths and acted like they were good people. I didn’t want them to die, but let’s not treat them like saints either. Most of those guys would have robbed you for $1.
Most of them work construction or are nurses/social workers now. But one that stands out is a kid who I went to school between the ages of 4 and 16. He smashed the same glass door twice, destroyed school property, and mercilessly bullied a trans girl who I was friends with. He now claims to be in the army, even though everyone knows that he dropped out during training and has been unemployed for the last three years. He still comments transphobic crap on the trans girl's Facebook even though her account has been inactive since high school. He also loves to post homophobic stuff on his social media. He has a daughter as well but him and his girlfriend have to live with his mum because, again, he doesn't actually have a job.
The bad kids all became wealthy, married and have kids. Their personalities did not change one bit and they still have affairs and talk thrash about others but would otherwise be defined as successful. They are also the most likely to virtue signal incessantly on their social media profiles and/or flaunt their wealth/drunkness. The 'nice' kids ended up in lower paid jobs, overworked and underappreciated and their kids ( if they have had any..) end up being bullied by the children of their former bullies. They tend to ignore this and try to suck up the grown up 'bad kids' hoping to hoover up crumbs of clout or favours. The misc remainder either die early from disease/accident or end in a poverty trap by being too alturistic or 'spiritual' or get involved with drugs, cults etc.
I had this childhood friend, he was my daycare provider’s kid and we got on pretty well. Grew apart by middle school age, just had different interests and stuff, and we hadn’t been that close in elementary anyway. I had my friend group, he had his. Fast forwards to highschool, and one day I see him smoking from across the crosswalk on the way to school. That afternoon I walk to his place to tell his mom, because if he’s gonna be doing illegal stuff and get addicted to things, I want her to know. Couple months later I heard that he got kicked out of school for trying to smuggle in alcohol in his water bottle. Some time around then gunshots were heard on his street too, and some thugs threw a rock at their back window. Naturally his mom can’t run her daycare if he’s got probably-armed gangsters coming around at odd hours, so she sends him to live with his dad. Last I heard he got into a special program for troubled kids and did pretty well there, and now can visit his mom from time to time, but man I was freaked out for him.
Honestly it seems like if you hadn't told on him for I assume smoke pot he would not have gone down that path, I didn't the the kid but I've know a few that only smoked weed and then one of their "friends" told his dad and after that he went downhill. Sometimes we smoke weed to chill out, while yes it can be addictive it's not nearly as harmful as alcohol and other hard drugs
@@highschoolstoner8862 I was very private about the situation - she was the only person I told, and I made sure to do so in private. I also made sure she knew that I wasn’t certain about what I saw (because I wasn’t, and really hoped that I was wrong). I don’t know what he was smoking, but I would assume either weed or a regular cigarette - either way he was under the legal smoking age, and this was before recreational marijuana was legalized in my country. Do remember that she ran a daycare, and while I was primarily concerned for her son, I was also concerned for her job and the kids in her daycare. I recognize that weed doesn’t really have any long-term negative side affects aside from the actual addiction if you are over the rough age of 25 (and that it was only made illegal due to a deliberate racist smear campaign), but I was also a teenager who was quite literally terrified of anything and everything psychotropic or addictive (still am somewhat, it’s a clinical phobia). I felt like he was in serious danger for being involved. I don’t know if/how his mom confronted him about what I told her. I don’t know if that made it worse, or if he was already going down that path all on his own. I do know that things for their family got worse before they got better, but I don’t know if I had any impact on that trajectory. I don’t regret telling her, because I knew he would get in serious trouble if he was found out at school, and I gave them an opportunity to settle the issue privately. He already had a reputation as ‘being trouble’ even without anyone knowing that he had been smoking. Unfortunately it didn’t end up working out that way, but I suppose that was just something he needed to experience in order to figure himself out. Last I saw him he is much more mature than he used to be.
I was a longhaired freak in high school, smoked weed, and grew up to be an engine builder, restored English cars, was a lead tech at a Jaguar dealership then a Harley-Davidson dealership, forced retirement due to a head injury (violently attacked by an ex con) now have been in a 1% motorcycle club for past ten years, everyone in high school can't believe my girlfriend from then and I have been together for forty three years and are still best friends
The girl who bullied me joined MS-13 and seems to still be acting out in school. She likes to brag about the gang a lot and what they do so I won't be surpised if somebody jumped her. Another girl was charged as an adult and is currently 15 years old in a womens prison, after she planned to kill a girl who was flirting with her bf, and proceeded to go to her house and try to shoot it up, luckily no one died, but the other girls mom was shot in the leg and needed serious medical attention.
I’m not out of school yet but nearly every “loser” in school is running a betting pool on which super popular person is gonna fail at life, the person with the most bets on him failing is the swimming captain, practically is a junior alcoholic.
Graduated in 05, moved to another part of the country, only talk to my one bestie from high school. Happy to leave HS and my bullies in 05. Never felt the need to look them up
Been sitting here counting dead bullies on my fingers. Eight dead so far. I went to school with some really mean violent kids. A few others are still alive. One did OK. He made enough money to have a nice Harley.
There were several. One who brought a knife to school and chased a classmate with it after school(idk the details) and was rumoured to have brought a gun at some point. After graduation he slept with a 13yo. (Said she claimed to be 17). Served 3 years (must of had evedence that she said so). Got out, came out as gay. Don't know after that. Another guy, 3 years after kidnapped a 11year old. He got 20 And my worst bully in middle school got addicted and arrested for cocaine. She went through rehab and is married with kids. I am happy for her. But I laughed my ass off at her mugshot
I looked up all the people who bullied me all through middle school and high school all of them never graduated and served jail time for weapons, drug, assault, burglary charges none of them turned their life around. I live 1,300 miles away from them now.
One of them started conversation with me in a store. After I pretended not to remember her or know her name she almost slipped up and brought up the fact she used to bully me. She quickly moved on and seemed pretty bothered that she didn’t affect me as much as she thought she had. Like literally who almost brings that up in conversation unless you feel guilty as hell!😅
She got together with a drug dealer turned evidence against him, and he turned on her. Her house got kicked in at 4 a.m., lol. Her front door was in smithereens as far as I got told.
5:51 I was in the special needs and gifted classes so I feel that SO HARD. Although I was bullied by all the gifted kids while the special needs ones were my friends
Majority of the bad kids from my Highschool are “wannabe gang members” especially in the working class neighborhoods they live in, one has a child though (graduated before me back in 2018). My middle school idk what most of them are doing, however, for one of them, they dropped out the 8th grade.
Got my Paramedic certification about 2 yrs after high school and have worked on many of the kids I graduated with. The worst was this kid Brett who went beyond all means to prove he was better, richer, and smarter than the rest of us. He somehow became one of my city's most problematic homeless druggies. I will never forget being dispatched to a call for someone being hit by a train in the local train yard one night. It was Brett. It was pretty sad. He was conscious the whole time it took to get him stabilized and to the hospital. He apologized to me and my partner who also graduated with us repeatedly for all the razzing (teasing) and bullying he did to us back in school. He died a few hours later in the ER that night. This kid, even though a complete nob, had the world at his feet, but he got involved with drugs after his mom died.
Oddly enough my high school didn't really have any bullies. Our "bad kids" were the people who lived in the trailer park, did drugs, and yelled a lot. But they weren't bullies and really only fought among themselves. Most of them are doing fine, but two got arrested for robbing someone for heroin, and one OD'd. The only people that could be considered bullies were the overly aggressive football players, but they were mostly just annoying and didn't really pick on anyone. Most of them are doing landscaping or construction jobs, have families, and seem to be doing just fine.
I was considered a "bad kid" at school apparently, didn't find out until a bit over 2 years after graduation. I remember this as I'm pulling laundry out of the dryer at gf, now wife's, apartment and he came up and apologized to me out of nowhere about how he treated me and didn't like me before. I guess I'm just dense cause I had no idea he didn't like me. I did think it was funny though, as most of the things said about me were laughably false. Heck, the actual "bad" things I DID do weren't known outside my group of friends. Drinking? Yupp, less for fun and more because I had a problem after a while. Had to get alcohol poisoning before I actually stopped. Days of feeling absolutely f***ing horrible, seriously thought I was gonna die for a while. I could barely move without vomiting, didn't eat/drink for days short of a few sips my friend gave me of water, middle of summer and I'd be under his blankets, and unable to stay awake for any long period. Recovering from gall bladder surgery was less awful than that week. Smoking? Check, more of a social thing. Climbing onto or B&E to explore buildings? Did that too (I liked exploring "out of bounds" places) None of these things was I known for. Apparently, I was known for partying (I went to ONE party, ever, after highschool, and left after 40 minutes to go play WoW with a roommate), sleeping with different girls (I'm not nor ever have I been charismatic or brave enough to hit on women like what was suggested), and getting into fights. I asked some coworkers at the time about it, same school in a smaller town, and this was a general view of who I was somehow. Personally, I think it was a case of mistaken identity. There were like 4 ginger guys at our school that I remember, and one guy and I were confused several times (we didn't look THAT similar, but it happened more than a few times still). When I talked to him he'd talk about "all the p***y he was slaying" (I've said many of dumb things, this though, I can gladly say is not something I ever said at any age) and he was also known to party, so I think somehow stories about him got mixed up with me. I could be wrong and people were just making stuff up, but that's my belief on it. Now I work from home, make more money than my parents ever thought could be made from an actual job (which is not a lot in all fairness, but in the midwest starting jobs are, as of 2021, 11ish. I make considerably more than this and I don't know anyone else without a degree who makes near what I do at this point), and I've gotten good enough at it I can read these sorts of TH-cam videos in between. :D
Not bad kids, but bad teachers. The one - Nobby Clarke - who gave me a nasty nickname that made me bullied by the whole school - he one day tried to sexually assault one of the boys and got thrown out the school. the other - Mr du Plessis the biology teacher, who used to speak to me with sneering distain- finally jumped on the boy he'd fancied for several years and the guy beat him. Sadly I had left the school by then and my life had improved. But I was pleased to know the outcomes ...And a pretty vile school, right? This was in South Africa in the late 1960s. Shit time, shit place.
Oh,honey.my high school was actually FOR bad azz kids .and learning disorders. My one bully ..after i put her through a pool table,left the state.long record of extreme violence.her parents were the "not MY child" type.
Not sure if I was a "Bad" kid growing up. I have a lot of issues and had anger issues as a child. Towards highschool I turned emoish and got really depressed. The guy I used to bully who was a quiet nerdy kid that was in a DND club and obessed with Star Wars is now one of my best friends. I was kind of jealous of him. I constantly was compared to him cause we looked a like and both were into books/ really quiet which was stupid. He seemed happy with his life but I kinda sucked at bullying. He was the patient quiet type often just ignored my bullcrap till I left him alone which worked well. I was the person who didnt think twice about anything and only realized what I did weeks later after people told me and then felt bad. I think he knew I was a bit off. I was and still am friends with several stoners. They are all fairly nice people. My best friend has a child now and is basically the qoute "Street mom" And lets friends of friends just use her house to sleep in when its cold or they need to escape bad homes and feeds them. Her husband has MS but is no longer wheelchair bound. My other best friend who we used to call a puppy cause he was so kind and hugged everybody wound up molesting her from what I heard and Ive not heard from him since. Still shocked he did that. My other good friend wasnt a bad type he was more the weird one but hes a musican now and moved out we still text each other a lot about our lives. I graduated but am still struggling to get my life going and mostly stay at home with my mom who has limited mobility issues I help out with. I have attempted to end my life a few times faurly recently. But now am just kind of numb to it. One of my bullies growing up in elementray middle apologized to me in highschool. Havent heard from her but dont plan to. She was one of the many reasons I tried to do that. My parents have given up helping me with my disorders and depression. But shockingly my friends are the only ones who are trying. Im not quite sure if ill ever have a good life.
My high school bullies got alot of Karma after high school, Alot peaked and went down hill. One I recently found out died of covid which is Ironic cause this person told me to kill my self and got away with it due to being a military school. I basically am doing better and out lived some of them
I was bullied at church, but I don’t know where they are now because I stopped going to church and have only talked to some of my mom’s friends who we’d met at church.
I was the bad kid. But people didn't realise it was me acting out because i was being severely abused at home. I used to skip school and do drugs, was in fights a lot, beat the crap out of any kids who tried to bully me, threw chairs through windows and was always in trouble. When i left school i left home too. Lived on a bench for a while and showered at the hotel i cleaned at. Sofa surfed for a bit and worked 4 jobs. Saved up and got a tiny dindgy gross flat with some fellow baddies, one a drug dealer, one a gambling addict, the other a bum who wouldn't work and pretty sure sold herself for cash and was an alcoholic. I saw the state of them, 4 of us crammed in a 1 bed shitty flat, and i decided i didn't want to be that. So i worked my arse off, got promoted at the bar i worked at, took every training opportunity they offered, moved to a different bar on a holiday park and moved into a decent flat in a nice area. Had a son with my boyfriend we had been together 2 yrs before we had him. Started my own business while on maternity leave made enough that i had a decent car and was reasonably well off. Continued working my way up the ladder. Was head hunted as my reputation for being an absolute work horse and getting shit done got round. Became commercial manager of a holiday park in charge of retail, restaurant and bars, activities, arcade, entertainment and events. Had a daughter (partner and i together for 15 yrs now) moved to a nice 3 bed with a large garden in a really lovely neighbourhood 😊 left the holiday park for an upmarket restaurant which i managed for 2 years and did really well but didn't feel i could take it further after we won all the awards for great food, great service and excellent beer. So i left the industry during lock down and now work in social services youth support helping "bad kids" who are actually just traumatised kids acting out like i did, to become upstanding members of society. I have never been out of work aside from furlough when the pubs all got shut and not working but being paid felt like a scam to me hence the career change 🙃 always worked for my money and wasn't about to sit on my arse through lock down
21:36 Dude freely gives strangers compliments, talks about his well-worn truck and gets a nice tip. Other dude holds on to resentment. Someone looks bad in this scenario and it’s not the grocery guy.
Out "bad kid" was sure he'd become a movie star. Last I knew he moved out to California to start his acting career and ended up doing gay-for-pay movies.
I wasn't a bad kid at all. I was quiet and pretty shy and modest, got decent grades and never got in trouble and went to church 3 times a week and I ended up becoming a meth and heroin addict 4 months after I graduated from high-school and got myself into several seriously "bad" situations also lived in a trap house/homeless livingout of my car. Spent a brief period allegedly working for a pisa in a alleged mexican cartel moving unlabeled packages up and down the west coast. Had a baby with a POS that is 10 years older than me that robbed me and my parents then dipped out when i told him i was pregnant and got clean at 22 and now am a 23year old single mom trying to get my feet on the ground again. I was the last person people expected to be in those situations. When I started hanging out in the drug scene everyone thought I was an undercover cop because of how nerdy, quiet and out of place I was. Especially since I had since a modest background compared to everyone else. It's wild how much life can change.
The most notorious gangster in middle school had gone to juvie and missed two years, he was forced to repeat 7th grade and that's where we met him. Within a year or so he got my crush and one of the hottest girls in school pregnant. I never saw her again but he got his crap together during the rest of high school presumably thanks to his daughter. Today he owns three barber and has two homes.
My bullies got pregnant or became mumble rappers yet I'm graduating next year because I was forced to stay back because I was bullied because I couldn't pay attention in online school thanks to the bs. When I graduate I'm becoming a successful businessman and probably laugh in the face of the flaming hot cheeto girls who got pregnant.
Isn't it amazing how many bullies end up with multiple kids, mainly out of wedlock. Being bullies wasn't enough for them, they had to be sluts as well.
The one I knew the most, who was in theater with me in middle and high school, ended up becoming a tax accountant, and she's pretty passionate about it. Came across her online a few months ago and she was genuinely glad to find someone from high school all those years ago. In hindsight, I think she acted the way she did when she was younger because of my "hidden" mental disorders that I was trying to cope with. Of course, only the higher-ups and teachers knew what I was going through, so she had reacted assuming I was neurotypical. Wishing her the best! :) (As for a lot of the other bullies, they were expelled or chose to drop out before senior year. Never found out what they were up to now though.)
I was the "bad kid". as for how I'm doing and shit? I calmed down significantly, found out I was transgender (and chilled out even more when I started hormone therapy), and I now live in an RV and work for Raising Cane's. Life is good.
Most of the really bad kids from my school are dead or jailed for various reasons. Varying from petty legal problems like theft all the way up to pedo rings.
Ran into my bully who I had actually punched in the face and screwed up his jaw. He saw me at a bar and said, "hey do you remember me?" I said, "yes weren't you a dick?" He told me yes and he was very sorry and asked to buy me a drink. I told him to keep them coming, which he did and then I left. He ended up working at the sprouts at the mall I did security for and ran out the door all the time to wave to me.
Told my mom's boyfriend that I was getting bullied by this kid and he made fun of me for it and told me not to worry about that kid. Few years later the kid and a couple of his friends went to look at a ring that was posted on Craigslist, he killed the dude's son in front of the dude after tying everybody up and robbing them. He laughed at the family in court...
It's lovely to read how many bullies died or got their comeuppance one way or another. I wonder what happened to the kids who picked on me during my adolescence. Very bad things, I hope.
There was a boy who lived in our neighborhood. Son of a single mom, his home life wasn't good. She wasn't a good mother. He's probably 14 now. Has a hearing problem, but didn't wear hearing aids, I imagine because the other kids teased him. So the teachers probably thought he was stupid. He's really very smart, from what little interaction I ever had with him. He was always hanging out with a sketchy crowd. My car was vandalized on the 4th of July last year. I suspect it was him. They moved away last year. I heard he's in juvenile detention. I don't know how he'll turn out, but he's not doing well so far.
Dead, prison, alcoholics, parolees. At one point, I could take the yearbook, get on IDOC’s website, and just type in names. At first it was funny (karma’s a mf). Then it was OMG, really? Then it was sad. It’s been almost 30 years since high school, now folks are dying from illnesses (which is also very sad).
3:35 Wonder if she was an inspiration for Brooke shields character on the show The Middle. The only difference is on the show its three crappy kids instead of one.
I knew nobody when I went to secondary school. I knew the faces of the bad ones. But, I never bothered to learn anybody's names, whether good person or bad person. Why bother to learn the names of anybody that you will only know for four school years? That is only 36 months with enormous gaps of not seeing the other students. Nobody keeps contact with secondary school students that were students while they were in school. I knew I would never see any of the other students once out of secondary school. I am glad I never bothered to know anybody.
@@mvb88 Yeah, I've seen a few different prison systems in different countries. Switzerland I think was like traveling to a fancy hotel for a business meeting.
Ok heres something funny i was a kid not knowing much stuff and back then i had gfs when i was young which idk what was going on with that lol but kids called me gay because i was nice and did stuff that was stupid like kids do and as soon as high school started i got one in trouble with his probation officer one was r*d and had a kid with another kid on the way and the rest became outcasts and moved i think i never see them i just know people stopped trying to start drama nearly forgot to mention i got rock n roll actually in my blood so that does help people see I'm straight but since i had nowhere to go i hung out with the "losers" weebs furies and the ones i got along the best with the emos and idk what the hate is about its just the people that act like they are one you gotta worry about like i hate anime but the weebs still accept me my bestest friend which i see as my sister is a weeb like that proves they are good humans the popular kids now they are the ones you gotta be scared of tbh and the people that are like OH look they got scars or they want to yk that people should do they wont do it its the quiet one's that will do that stuff
HalfNatty is saying that this guy's Regina George was the sister of his best friend, and didn't think to mention that to the guy that best friend introduced to him? Seems fishy.
TW: church, CSA The uptight, holier than thou, golden child I went to youth group with ended up going to jail for having relations with a minor. Bet his parents don’t worship him anymore.
We all knew he was a terrible person (especially his brother who was actually a decent guy but constantly ignored/berated by his parents), but he knew Bible verses and wanted to go into ministry so he was obviously flawless and the rest of us were heathens.
One of the lads who bullied me at school is a sex offender. And not for pissing in public but for the worst kinda stuff against children. The other is a murder in prison he claims to be a cereal killer. The school hot girl is now ugly and school ugly girls now hot. I was one of the bad kids but turned my life around.
That was exactly like a high school buddy of mine. Smoked himself to the point of glimpsed heaven itself, but aced every test he ever took, to include the SAT and ASVAB. Goon could not hold a job to save his life. To be honest, one could probably count the number of days he worked in his life on one hand. All I know is that he's on welfare (No surprises here) and has four kids. Meanwhile, I was always the "good son", did my chores, homework, and gotten decent grades. Yet, had to take the SAT twice, just to break 1,000 for a score, and work my entire life. What a world we life in.
Well after the gun shoot out in the meth lab they are all dead or in jail. The 2 that did not go to jail or die from that encounter with police there is also the black girl and her boyfriend who shot a police officer and stole a police car and slammed the police car into a police station all while using racist slurs against white people and then she tried to attack the judge and threatened to kill the judge and his family and was sentenced the 3,000 years in prison for her acts of racism and blatant murder and attacking a police station. In middle school there was a Hispanic kid who attacked a girl with a knife when she refused to have sex with him which they were in 7th grade so it was already stupid. Then when the police came to arrest the kid the mother of the Hispanic kid who was a teacher at the school pulled one of the cops guns out of the holster and shot at police and other students before she got shot by police. No one died but the girl had to go to the hospital because her throat was cut open but she lived. Apparently during the trial the mother who was a teacher went bat shit crazy and had to be put into a well the secure strap system that Hannibal Lector was put in when he was arrested so that she would stop trying to bite people. She was sentenced to 36,000 years in prison and her son was given a bit lighter of a sentence of 158 years in prison. A wise idea is to not threaten to kill the families of the judge, jury, and everyone else. Also it is wise to not attack your own defense lawyer. If you are stupid enough to attack your defense lawyer you may not be able to get another lawyer and if no lawyer wants to defend you then you basically get max sentences and are more likely to be put in the worst place possible for much longer than if you do not go threw a violent actions.
One of them was shot in a grocery store parking lot by a guy he was trying to pick a fight with. Ruled self defense, no charges filed.
Wow
One bad kid i know works at McDonald's as a janitor and drives a 1999 Honda civic witch he bought for 500$
@@xxboonisbadfortnitexx1549 That's what happens when you don't study.
When I was in elementary school, there was a boy in my class who was extremely agressive and stupid. He had a personality disorder and everybody hated him. He also lived in my neighborhood. One day during winter he was missing and a lot of people went searching for him. They found him the next day drowned in a cellar of a house that was being built. Later it came out he was playing there with other bad kids and tried to ride the ice in the cellar, the ice gave away and he fell into the stagnant water, he asked his "friends" for help but they ran away, he got hypothermia and eventually lost consciousness and drowned. He was 11 years old. When I got to school again all kids said: "good riddance". I didn't like the guy either but I was still shocked about my classmates remarks. Empathy was not one of their virtues.
Well it doesnt seem he could control it,actually kinda sad if thats the case
What a horrible way to go. Makes you wonder what would have happened if someone took the time to try and help him instead of looking at him as a problem student.
Thats sickening
He was bad and didn't deserve empathy.
@@catherinebirch2399 i mean if it was a personality disorder and he couldnt control that its not really his fault...
I was definitely considered a bad kid, wasn’t a bully but wasn’t a great person either. I’m so proud to say I joined the military, got my life on track, about to start my own freelance business and earn a degree in computer engineering. Really grateful my life didn’t turn out this way.
what a way to completely turn it around 👍🏽 thank you for your service and congratulations and good luck with your business
Our bully turned out to be a awesome dude. After a few run ins with the law he found love but when his daughter was born they found out she has down syndrome. This man changed his life around to be able to give his daughter the care she needs. He became a trucker, then owner operator and now is the owner of a succesfull business. He dotes on his family and is very pleasant to be around.
If he ever bullied the "special" kids like school bullies tend to, maybe he saw his daughter as his redemption. Glad he's doing well for himself.
My dad told me about a guy he went to high school with. He was voted most likely to go to prison. At the 40 year reunion he finally showed up. Turns out he became a US Marshall.
I bet that was his plan.
Well if he’s a Marshall, then he technically has been to prison, just not for the reason people thought he’d go.
Marshall’s have jurisdiction for prisoner transfers and escapes.
Some of these posts make my bully’s story sound tame. One girl that used to bully me in elementary school ended up getting arrested for assault just a few years ago. Looking back, there were some warning signs that something was up. When my mom and I were watching my fifth-grade class interview tapes, she said the best day of her life so far was seeing something bad happen to a first grader she really didn’t like.
Can I ask what the context for these interview tapes was? My schools did nothing like that.
@@newtfigton8795 It was just a fun thing we could watch at our eighth grade graduations. Y’know, sort of a “Look at where you are now. Look at where you were all those years ago.”
2:24 “She’s a nurse now.” **Sigh** I should’ve expected this when I clicked on this video. A lot of awful bullies like to be in positions of power, so a lot of them have Jobs as Teachers or Nurses or Doctors so they have control of someone else…
I have 3 people at the top of my head:
1. He wasn't really a bully per se, but more of a guy who had difficulty expressing his feelings. Anyway, he's happily married to the girl he used to pick on and both of them are successful chefs with a kid. Don't worry, she wasn't forced to marry him and he has probably apologized for what he did to her in the past. I was also at their wedding as a friend of the groom.
2. I always had a feeling he was gay. Right now he's living abroad, has come out of the closet, and is working as a nurse I believe. He's been regretful of the people he's bullied in the past and has actually made amends with that one kid he punch so hard in the gut multiple times. To my surprise, the kid he bullied is now an attorney.
3. This one is openly gay, but also the worst person I've ever met. He bullied one of my classmates in college so bad that she developed social anxiety and transferred to a new school. Thankfully, she didn't end herself and works as a freelance web designer these days. Anyway, the bully is, sadly, unremorseful for what he did to her. He is working as a manager, from what I recall, for an insurance company.
As for the third dude, gay or not, how come none of the guys at your school didn’t look out for that girl? Why didn’t you for that matter? I’m genuinely curious…Fuck if a dude likes dick that’s still a female
@@deeharris5592, for the third part, I wasn't particularly close with that girl and I only see her once every week on one subject that we had in common. I don't see her a lot around campus despite it being relatively small. A lot of our other classmates who were sympathetic towards her tried to stop him. Worst part is that he would almost always bring the gay card down to the table, justifying his actions. My other gay classmates didn't really hang out with him because of his attitude, but he did have connections to other "influential" and "cool" students and staff in school. It's an overly complicated case overall and I honestly didn't want to get killed back then nor did I want to stick my nose further. Things in our school weren't always black and white. There were also so many rumors in our school involving politicians, law enforcement, lawyers, and other prominent people. The school itself wasn't that corrupt to the point of neglect, but some students knew how to use their connections well. She probably knew these rumors as well and didn't want to get involved any further so she transferred schools. I was able to get in touch with her during the pandemic and she's actually doing well for herself as a home-based web designer.
My highschool was full of the bad type of kids. A lot had children, a few had them in highschool even. I know one who made an onlyfans, a lot of guys joined the military. Lots just seem to party nearly every night. Most I haven't heard about since before graduating
One of the bullies from my high school beat me up for wearing a Nina Hagen t shirt the first week. Turns out, she was bloody mad that I got to travel all over Europe that summer where I purchased a lot of cool things. Mostly clothes and music. This crap continues for the rest of the school year, not physically beating anymore, just tons of verbal crap. Fast forward almost one year. I’m 18 now, looming on 19 and being in the right place at the right time and dressed in an outfit I had made I land a spot in a boutique and started selling my designs. Fast forward another 25 years and Nina Hagen becomes my client and I’m seeing my fascinators on her in concerts, interviews, and publications. Well, the bitch who beat my ass ended up on busted mugs shots and now has several felonies on her record.
A girl who used to pick on me for no reason slept with my best friend at the time, eventually having his child, breaking up, became a single mum, posts "You don't know my life" pictures on Facebook as if she's a martyr and has no idea what a meme is. Like, she reposted an antivax baby grow because she thought it was a meme
disclaimer, I'm from Detroit:
~one guy that used to try robbing me behind the school park died of a cocktail overdose
(molly, percs, and heroine)
~another guy got shot in the spine, and died later because he used to drive around and
throw eggs at crackheads late night...well, he rolled up on a dealer posted on the corner,
and the guy thought he was trying to rob him so he shot him
~this guy used to pick fights all the time with SPECIFIC guys...well, he got caught with
a minor on EMU campus, and got 16 years. Another friend on separate charges got
housed with him, and says he's turning tricks inside; wears dresses, and a known
prostitute inside.
~a guy that WAS actually a friend shot his wife on the front yard as the cops arrived, he plead
no contest on trial because the police had him on dashcam pulling the trigger. He's
serving a 22 year bid, and won't get out till he's 62, he got NO PAROLE for his offense.
~an ex that cheated on me was sleeping with this dude in highschool...everyone knew, and told me to dump her,
I eventually did, it wasn't easy because I did like her. Well, fast forward 20 years later, and she's
in my inbox telling me how we're gonna get back together, and have a family, etc. I kept telling her
that I just want to be friends (she's visibly a mess). On further probing, I find out that she is still
with the guy from highschool who's forty, and still trying to launch his rap career, and she's realized
that he's not an earner. Still up to old shenanigans, on the 400th no to her advances, she fb
messaged my best friend and tried to sleep with him....of course he told me; last I heard, she's
settled with marrying the rap dude from highschool lol
~all the rest are B R O K E, most dropped out to hustle, but never went pass selling weed, and
with it being legal now, a lot of them are out of a hustle....you see them online complaining about
how bad life is, and no one cares.
We had quite a few “bad boys” in our school. I haven’t stayed in touch with many people I went to school with but from what has managed to get to me is pretty pitiful. Many of those kids were dead or in prison by 25. What I think was worse was how everyone rallied around their deaths and acted like they were good people. I didn’t want them to die, but let’s not treat them like saints either. Most of those guys would have robbed you for $1.
All of them got several baby moma's still talking and acting like their in highschool
Most of them work construction or are nurses/social workers now. But one that stands out is a kid who I went to school between the ages of 4 and 16. He smashed the same glass door twice, destroyed school property, and mercilessly bullied a trans girl who I was friends with. He now claims to be in the army, even though everyone knows that he dropped out during training and has been unemployed for the last three years. He still comments transphobic crap on the trans girl's Facebook even though her account has been inactive since high school. He also loves to post homophobic stuff on his social media. He has a daughter as well but him and his girlfriend have to live with his mum because, again, he doesn't actually have a job.
I was one of the rebellious ones. I grew up. I'm happily married to a pastor, I lead worship, have 2 daughters and a baby on the way.
Congratulations!
The bad kids all became wealthy, married and have kids. Their personalities did not change one bit and they still have affairs and talk thrash about others but would otherwise be defined as successful. They are also the most likely to virtue signal incessantly on their social media profiles and/or flaunt their wealth/drunkness.
The 'nice' kids ended up in lower paid jobs, overworked and underappreciated and their kids ( if they have had any..) end up being bullied by the children of their former bullies. They tend to ignore this and try to suck up the grown up 'bad kids' hoping to hoover up crumbs of clout or favours.
The misc remainder either die early from disease/accident or end in a poverty trap by being too alturistic or 'spiritual' or get involved with drugs, cults etc.
Too spiritual 😆
I had this childhood friend, he was my daycare provider’s kid and we got on pretty well. Grew apart by middle school age, just had different interests and stuff, and we hadn’t been that close in elementary anyway. I had my friend group, he had his. Fast forwards to highschool, and one day I see him smoking from across the crosswalk on the way to school. That afternoon I walk to his place to tell his mom, because if he’s gonna be doing illegal stuff and get addicted to things, I want her to know. Couple months later I heard that he got kicked out of school for trying to smuggle in alcohol in his water bottle. Some time around then gunshots were heard on his street too, and some thugs threw a rock at their back window. Naturally his mom can’t run her daycare if he’s got probably-armed gangsters coming around at odd hours, so she sends him to live with his dad. Last I heard he got into a special program for troubled kids and did pretty well there, and now can visit his mom from time to time, but man I was freaked out for him.
Honestly it seems like if you hadn't told on him for I assume smoke pot he would not have gone down that path, I didn't the the kid but I've know a few that only smoked weed and then one of their "friends" told his dad and after that he went downhill. Sometimes we smoke weed to chill out, while yes it can be addictive it's not nearly as harmful as alcohol and other hard drugs
@@highschoolstoner8862 I was very private about the situation - she was the only person I told, and I made sure to do so in private. I also made sure she knew that I wasn’t certain about what I saw (because I wasn’t, and really hoped that I was wrong). I don’t know what he was smoking, but I would assume either weed or a regular cigarette - either way he was under the legal smoking age, and this was before recreational marijuana was legalized in my country. Do remember that she ran a daycare, and while I was primarily concerned for her son, I was also concerned for her job and the kids in her daycare.
I recognize that weed doesn’t really have any long-term negative side affects aside from the actual addiction if you are over the rough age of 25 (and that it was only made illegal due to a deliberate racist smear campaign), but I was also a teenager who was quite literally terrified of anything and everything psychotropic or addictive (still am somewhat, it’s a clinical phobia). I felt like he was in serious danger for being involved.
I don’t know if/how his mom confronted him about what I told her. I don’t know if that made it worse, or if he was already going down that path all on his own. I do know that things for their family got worse before they got better, but I don’t know if I had any impact on that trajectory. I don’t regret telling her, because I knew he would get in serious trouble if he was found out at school, and I gave them an opportunity to settle the issue privately. He already had a reputation as ‘being trouble’ even without anyone knowing that he had been smoking. Unfortunately it didn’t end up working out that way, but I suppose that was just something he needed to experience in order to figure himself out. Last I saw him he is much more mature than he used to be.
I was a longhaired freak in high school, smoked weed, and grew up to be an engine builder, restored English cars, was a lead tech at a Jaguar dealership then a Harley-Davidson dealership, forced retirement due to a head injury (violently attacked by an ex con) now have been in a 1% motorcycle club for past ten years, everyone in high school can't believe my girlfriend from then and I have been together for forty three years and are still best friends
The girl who bullied me joined MS-13 and seems to still be acting out in school. She likes to brag about the gang a lot and what they do so I won't be surpised if somebody jumped her. Another girl was charged as an adult and is currently 15 years old in a womens prison, after she planned to kill a girl who was flirting with her bf, and proceeded to go to her house and try to shoot it up, luckily no one died, but the other girls mom was shot in the leg and needed serious medical attention.
She gotta be careful
@@emmybammy3393 Eh, thats the life she chose unfortunately. I don't wish death or any harm upon her, but I won't lose sleep over her
They either ended up dead, in prison, hooked on drugs, or became teenage parents by age 16
I’m not out of school yet but nearly every “loser” in school is running a betting pool on which super popular person is gonna fail at life, the person with the most bets on him failing is the swimming captain, practically is a junior alcoholic.
... I think I'm gonna bet on bet on him, too...
Graduated in 05, moved to another part of the country, only talk to my one bestie from high school. Happy to leave HS and my bullies in 05. Never felt the need to look them up
Been sitting here counting dead bullies on my fingers. Eight dead so far. I went to school with some really mean violent kids. A few others are still alive. One did OK. He made enough money to have a nice Harley.
There were several. One who brought a knife to school and chased a classmate with it after school(idk the details) and was rumoured to have brought a gun at some point. After graduation he slept with a 13yo. (Said she claimed to be 17). Served 3 years (must of had evedence that she said so). Got out, came out as gay. Don't know after that.
Another guy, 3 years after kidnapped a 11year old. He got 20
And my worst bully in middle school got addicted and arrested for cocaine. She went through rehab and is married with kids.
I am happy for her. But I laughed my ass off at her mugshot
I looked up all the people who bullied me all through middle school and high school all of them never graduated and served jail time for weapons, drug, assault, burglary charges none of them turned their life around. I live 1,300 miles away from them now.
One of them started conversation with me in a store. After I pretended not to remember her or know her name she almost slipped up and brought up the fact she used to bully me. She quickly moved on and seemed pretty bothered that she didn’t affect me as much as she thought she had. Like literally who almost brings that up in conversation unless you feel guilty as hell!😅
You should have told her to go to hell.
She got together with a drug dealer turned evidence against him, and he turned on her. Her house got kicked in at 4 a.m., lol. Her front door was in smithereens as far as I got told.
A bully at my high school was murdered a couple years ago. You reap what you sow.
They're still in our hometown, doing heroin in their parents basement
One is on trial for 1st degree murder/evading police and the other who wasn’t bad is on trial for evading police/accessory to murder.
A lot of them work in grocery stores and those sorts of jobs. As far as I know only one has gone to prison for killing her child.
my bully throughout school is in jail for life after he beat his pregnant wife to death
They either settled down, got lost to drugs or suicide, are rotting in jail or on probation. I would strongly suggest settling down.
5:51 I was in the special needs and gifted classes so I feel that SO HARD. Although I was bullied by all the gifted kids while the special needs ones were my friends
Bad kids I remember grew up to be in criminal justice, police, working in prison, etc.
Majority of the bad kids from my Highschool are “wannabe gang members” especially in the working class neighborhoods they live in, one has a child though (graduated before me back in 2018). My middle school idk what most of them are doing, however, for one of them, they dropped out the 8th grade.
Got my Paramedic certification about 2 yrs after high school and have worked on many of the kids I graduated with. The worst was this kid Brett who went beyond all means to prove he was better, richer, and smarter than the rest of us. He somehow became one of my city's most problematic homeless druggies. I will never forget being dispatched to a call for someone being hit by a train in the local train yard one night. It was Brett. It was pretty sad. He was conscious the whole time it took to get him stabilized and to the hospital. He apologized to me and my partner who also graduated with us repeatedly for all the razzing (teasing) and bullying he did to us back in school. He died a few hours later in the ER that night. This kid, even though a complete nob, had the world at his feet, but he got involved with drugs after his mom died.
Oddly enough my high school didn't really have any bullies. Our "bad kids" were the people who lived in the trailer park, did drugs, and yelled a lot. But they weren't bullies and really only fought among themselves. Most of them are doing fine, but two got arrested for robbing someone for heroin, and one OD'd. The only people that could be considered bullies were the overly aggressive football players, but they were mostly just annoying and didn't really pick on anyone. Most of them are doing landscaping or construction jobs, have families, and seem to be doing just fine.
I was considered a "bad kid" at school apparently, didn't find out until a bit over 2 years after graduation. I remember this as I'm pulling laundry out of the dryer at gf, now wife's, apartment and he came up and apologized to me out of nowhere about how he treated me and didn't like me before. I guess I'm just dense cause I had no idea he didn't like me. I did think it was funny though, as most of the things said about me were laughably false. Heck, the actual "bad" things I DID do weren't known outside my group of friends.
Drinking? Yupp, less for fun and more because I had a problem after a while. Had to get alcohol poisoning before I actually stopped. Days of feeling absolutely f***ing horrible, seriously thought I was gonna die for a while. I could barely move without vomiting, didn't eat/drink for days short of a few sips my friend gave me of water, middle of summer and I'd be under his blankets, and unable to stay awake for any long period. Recovering from gall bladder surgery was less awful than that week.
Smoking? Check, more of a social thing.
Climbing onto or B&E to explore buildings? Did that too (I liked exploring "out of bounds" places)
None of these things was I known for. Apparently, I was known for partying (I went to ONE party, ever, after highschool, and left after 40 minutes to go play WoW with a roommate), sleeping with different girls (I'm not nor ever have I been charismatic or brave enough to hit on women like what was suggested), and getting into fights. I asked some coworkers at the time about it, same school in a smaller town, and this was a general view of who I was somehow.
Personally, I think it was a case of mistaken identity. There were like 4 ginger guys at our school that I remember, and one guy and I were confused several times (we didn't look THAT similar, but it happened more than a few times still). When I talked to him he'd talk about "all the p***y he was slaying" (I've said many of dumb things, this though, I can gladly say is not something I ever said at any age) and he was also known to party, so I think somehow stories about him got mixed up with me. I could be wrong and people were just making stuff up, but that's my belief on it.
Now I work from home, make more money than my parents ever thought could be made from an actual job (which is not a lot in all fairness, but in the midwest starting jobs are, as of 2021, 11ish. I make considerably more than this and I don't know anyone else without a degree who makes near what I do at this point), and I've gotten good enough at it I can read these sorts of TH-cam videos in between. :D
Not bad kids, but bad teachers. The one - Nobby Clarke - who gave me a nasty nickname that made me bullied by the whole school - he one day tried to sexually assault one of the boys and got thrown out the school. the other - Mr du Plessis the biology teacher, who used to speak to me with sneering distain- finally jumped on the boy he'd fancied for several years and the guy beat him. Sadly I had left the school by then and my life had improved. But I was pleased to know the outcomes ...And a pretty vile school, right? This was in South Africa in the late 1960s. Shit time, shit place.
Oh,honey.my high school was actually FOR bad azz kids .and learning disorders.
My one bully ..after i put her through a pool table,left the state.long record of extreme violence.her parents were the "not MY child" type.
One became homeless and was murdered. Another has been in and out of prison.
Not sure if I was a "Bad" kid growing up. I have a lot of issues and had anger issues as a child. Towards highschool I turned emoish and got really depressed.
The guy I used to bully who was a quiet nerdy kid that was in a DND club and obessed with Star Wars is now one of my best friends. I was kind of jealous of him. I constantly was compared to him cause we looked a like and both were into books/ really quiet which was stupid. He seemed happy with his life but I kinda sucked at bullying. He was the patient quiet type often just ignored my bullcrap till I left him alone which worked well.
I was the person who didnt think twice about anything and only realized what I did weeks later after people told me and then felt bad. I think he knew I was a bit off.
I was and still am friends with several stoners. They are all fairly nice people.
My best friend has a child now and is basically the qoute "Street mom" And lets friends of friends just use her house to sleep in when its cold or they need to escape bad homes and feeds them. Her husband has MS but is no longer wheelchair bound.
My other best friend who we used to call a puppy cause he was so kind and hugged everybody wound up molesting her from what I heard and Ive not heard from him since. Still shocked he did that.
My other good friend wasnt a bad type he was more the weird one but hes a musican now and moved out we still text each other a lot about our lives.
I graduated but am still struggling to get my life going and mostly stay at home with my mom who has limited mobility issues I help out with. I have attempted to end my life a few times faurly recently. But now am just kind of numb to it.
One of my bullies growing up in elementray middle apologized to me in highschool. Havent heard from her but dont plan to. She was one of the many reasons I tried to do that.
My parents have given up helping me with my disorders and depression. But shockingly my friends are the only ones who are trying.
Im not quite sure if ill ever have a good life.
My high school bullies got alot of Karma after high school, Alot peaked and went down hill. One I recently found out died of covid which is Ironic cause this person told me to kill my self and got away with it due to being a military school. I basically am doing better and out lived some of them
I was bullied at church, but I don’t know where they are now because I stopped going to church and have only talked to some of my mom’s friends who we’d met at church.
Gosh, someone doesn’t keep in touch with anyone from elementary, middle OR high school?!?!? Damn that has to be sad !
I was the bad kid. But people didn't realise it was me acting out because i was being severely abused at home. I used to skip school and do drugs, was in fights a lot, beat the crap out of any kids who tried to bully me, threw chairs through windows and was always in trouble. When i left school i left home too. Lived on a bench for a while and showered at the hotel i cleaned at. Sofa surfed for a bit and worked 4 jobs. Saved up and got a tiny dindgy gross flat with some fellow baddies, one a drug dealer, one a gambling addict, the other a bum who wouldn't work and pretty sure sold herself for cash and was an alcoholic. I saw the state of them, 4 of us crammed in a 1 bed shitty flat, and i decided i didn't want to be that. So i worked my arse off, got promoted at the bar i worked at, took every training opportunity they offered, moved to a different bar on a holiday park and moved into a decent flat in a nice area. Had a son with my boyfriend we had been together 2 yrs before we had him. Started my own business while on maternity leave made enough that i had a decent car and was reasonably well off. Continued working my way up the ladder. Was head hunted as my reputation for being an absolute work horse and getting shit done got round. Became commercial manager of a holiday park in charge of retail, restaurant and bars, activities, arcade, entertainment and events. Had a daughter (partner and i together for 15 yrs now) moved to a nice 3 bed with a large garden in a really lovely neighbourhood 😊 left the holiday park for an upmarket restaurant which i managed for 2 years and did really well but didn't feel i could take it further after we won all the awards for great food, great service and excellent beer. So i left the industry during lock down and now work in social services youth support helping "bad kids" who are actually just traumatised kids acting out like i did, to become upstanding members of society. I have never been out of work aside from furlough when the pubs all got shut and not working but being paid felt like a scam to me hence the career change 🙃 always worked for my money and wasn't about to sit on my arse through lock down
Most of them are dead or in jail, just like the teachers told them they would be.
21:36 Dude freely gives strangers compliments, talks about his well-worn truck and gets a nice tip. Other dude holds on to resentment. Someone looks bad in this scenario and it’s not the grocery guy.
Out "bad kid" was sure he'd become a movie star. Last I knew he moved out to California to start his acting career and ended up doing gay-for-pay movies.
Last time I checked they were still in a gang so either moved, shot dead or in prison as far as I'm concerned.
I wasn't a bad kid at all. I was quiet and pretty shy and modest, got decent grades and never got in trouble and went to church 3 times a week and I ended up becoming a meth and heroin addict 4 months after I graduated from high-school and got myself into several seriously "bad" situations also lived in a trap house/homeless livingout of my car. Spent a brief period allegedly working for a pisa in a alleged mexican cartel moving unlabeled packages up and down the west coast. Had a baby with a POS that is 10 years older than me that robbed me and my parents then dipped out when i told him i was pregnant and got clean at 22 and now am a 23year old single mom trying to get my feet on the ground again. I was the last person people expected to be in those situations. When I started hanging out in the drug scene everyone thought I was an undercover cop because of how nerdy, quiet and out of place I was. Especially since I had since a modest background compared to everyone else. It's wild how much life can change.
Guy who tried to break my back with a hockey stick went to prison for armed Robbery. As far as I know he's still in there.
The most notorious gangster in middle school had gone to juvie and missed two years, he was forced to repeat 7th grade and that's where we met him. Within a year or so he got my crush and one of the hottest girls in school pregnant. I never saw her again but he got his crap together during the rest of high school presumably thanks to his daughter. Today he owns three barber and has two homes.
My bullies got pregnant or became mumble rappers yet I'm graduating next year because I was forced to stay back because I was bullied because I couldn't pay attention in online school thanks to the bs. When I graduate I'm becoming a successful businessman and probably laugh in the face of the flaming hot cheeto girls who got pregnant.
Isn't it amazing how many bullies end up with multiple kids, mainly out of wedlock. Being bullies wasn't enough for them, they had to be sluts as well.
You should also troll the mumble rappers saying things like “use your words”
The biggest bully of my middle school is now a bartender and practicing witch in our small town
One became an accountant of a firm who got sued recently for helping out a politician
One became a cricketer.
The others fell to crime or drugs.
The one I knew the most, who was in theater with me in middle and high school, ended up becoming a tax accountant, and she's pretty passionate about it. Came across her online a few months ago and she was genuinely glad to find someone from high school all those years ago.
In hindsight, I think she acted the way she did when she was younger because of my "hidden" mental disorders that I was trying to cope with. Of course, only the higher-ups and teachers knew what I was going through, so she had reacted assuming I was neurotypical.
Wishing her the best! :)
(As for a lot of the other bullies, they were expelled or chose to drop out before senior year. Never found out what they were up to now though.)
I was the "bad kid".
as for how I'm doing and shit? I calmed down significantly, found out I was transgender (and chilled out even more when I started hormone therapy), and I now live in an RV and work for Raising Cane's.
Life is good.
Most of the really bad kids from my school are dead or jailed for various reasons. Varying from petty legal problems like theft all the way up to pedo rings.
Ran into my bully who I had actually punched in the face and screwed up his jaw. He saw me at a bar and said, "hey do you remember me?" I said, "yes weren't you a dick?" He told me yes and he was very sorry and asked to buy me a drink. I told him to keep them coming, which he did and then I left. He ended up working at the sprouts at the mall I did security for and ran out the door all the time to wave to me.
No idea. As soon as I could escape that Hell hole I did. Don't remember the names of anyone in high school other than the couple friends I had.
I sod@mized him when he wasn't looking. 😂😂😂😂 True story! 😂😂😂
Told my mom's boyfriend that I was getting bullied by this kid and he made fun of me for it and told me not to worry about that kid. Few years later the kid and a couple of his friends went to look at a ring that was posted on Craigslist, he killed the dude's son in front of the dude after tying everybody up and robbing them. He laughed at the family in court...
He's married, dad of three kids and I'm happy for him.
You must have a very forgiving nature. I wish all the scum that bullied me all the torments of hell.
"That's brilliant and all but we're here for stories" 🤣🤣🤣
The Offspring reference was fitting.
11:46 The Kids Aren't All Right by The Offspring
The school bully is homeless now, idk if I'm supposed to be happy or not
It's lovely to read how many bullies died or got their comeuppance one way or another. I wonder what happened to the kids who picked on me during my adolescence. Very bad things, I hope.
There was a boy who lived in our neighborhood. Son of a single mom, his home life wasn't good. She wasn't a good mother. He's probably 14 now. Has a hearing problem, but didn't wear hearing aids, I imagine because the other kids teased him. So the teachers probably thought he was stupid. He's really very smart, from what little interaction I ever had with him. He was always hanging out with a sketchy crowd. My car was vandalized on the 4th of July last year. I suspect it was him. They moved away last year. I heard he's in juvenile detention. I don't know how he'll turn out, but he's not doing well so far.
Im currently cleaning up my act and on the road to being a good person
Dead, prison, alcoholics, parolees. At one point, I could take the yearbook, get on IDOC’s website, and just type in names. At first it was funny (karma’s a mf). Then it was OMG, really? Then it was sad. It’s been almost 30 years since high school, now folks are dying from illnesses (which is also very sad).
What kind of illnesses?
Some died, some got knocked up in HS by deadbeats, some became tax payers and some are still hedious. Meh.
Heinous?
My elementary school bully is serving a life sentence for murdering a 14 year old girl in 2000.
The guy who made that cop quadraplegic and managed not to kill him fucking scares me
Me : 1:18 that's an the offspring song .. .. oh wait, there was more .
3:35 Wonder if she was an inspiration for Brooke shields character on the show The Middle. The only difference is on the show its three crappy kids instead of one.
I knew nobody when I went to secondary school. I knew the faces of the bad ones. But, I never bothered to learn anybody's names, whether good person or bad person. Why bother to learn the names of anybody that you will only know for four school years? That is only 36 months with enormous gaps of not seeing the other students. Nobody keeps contact with secondary school students that were students while they were in school. I knew I would never see any of the other students once out of secondary school. I am glad I never bothered to know anybody.
He ended up doing jail time by his early twenties. Don't know after that.
0:22 the response-
Joined a gang. Now living it up in jail getting ass pumped
With internet access?
@@AkameGaKillfan777 given this it's in New Zealand. Yeah. He probably does.
@@mvb88 Yeah, I've seen a few different prison systems in different countries. Switzerland I think was like traveling to a fancy hotel for a business meeting.
the mom at 5:21 definitely had something to do with it
All the ones from my school are either in prison o homeless drug addicts o passed away from over doses
Was there an intense drug problem there?
They got married and lived fruitful and successful lives.
Ok heres something funny i was a kid not knowing much stuff and back then i had gfs when i was young which idk what was going on with that lol but kids called me gay because i was nice and did stuff that was stupid like kids do and as soon as high school started i got one in trouble with his probation officer one was r*d and had a kid with another kid on the way and the rest became outcasts and moved i think i never see them i just know people stopped trying to start drama nearly forgot to mention i got rock n roll actually in my blood so that does help people see I'm straight but since i had nowhere to go i hung out with the "losers" weebs furies and the ones i got along the best with the emos and idk what the hate is about its just the people that act like they are one you gotta worry about like i hate anime but the weebs still accept me my bestest friend which i see as my sister is a weeb like that proves they are good humans the popular kids now they are the ones you gotta be scared of tbh and the people that are like OH look they got scars or they want to yk that people should do they wont do it its the quiet one's that will do that stuff
HalfNatty is saying that this guy's Regina George was the sister of his best friend, and didn't think to mention that to the guy that best friend introduced to him? Seems fishy.
11:51 - the kids arent alright
One committed a murder suicide on Christmas in front of his kids.
TW: church, CSA
The uptight, holier than thou, golden child I went to youth group with ended up going to jail for having relations with a minor. Bet his parents don’t worship him anymore.
We all knew he was a terrible person (especially his brother who was actually a decent guy but constantly ignored/berated by his parents), but he knew Bible verses and wanted to go into ministry so he was obviously flawless and the rest of us were heathens.
I may have skipped youth group a few times to do homework(yes, he actually tried to shit talk me for that), but at least I’m not a predator.
One of the lads who bullied me at school is a sex offender. And not for pissing in public but for the worst kinda stuff against children. The other is a murder in prison he claims to be a cereal killer. The school hot girl is now ugly and school ugly girls now hot. I was one of the bad kids but turned my life around.
They should do the opposite what happened to cool/popular kids next.
That was exactly like a high school buddy of mine.
Smoked himself to the point of glimpsed heaven itself, but aced every test he ever took, to include the SAT and ASVAB.
Goon could not hold a job to save his life. To be honest, one could probably count the number of days he worked in his life on one hand. All I know is that he's on welfare (No surprises here) and has four kids.
Meanwhile, I was always the "good son", did my chores, homework, and gotten decent grades. Yet, had to take the SAT twice, just to break 1,000 for a score, and work my entire life.
What a world we life in.
Mine hasn't been in school for about 2 weeks and there are rumors he was sent to military school.
I never kept in touch with anyone. Honestly cannot remember most of their names or faces.
Well after the gun shoot out in the meth lab they are all dead or in jail. The 2 that did not go to jail or die from that encounter with police there is also the black girl and her boyfriend who shot a police officer and stole a police car and slammed the police car into a police station all while using racist slurs against white people and then she tried to attack the judge and threatened to kill the judge and his family and was sentenced the 3,000 years in prison for her acts of racism and blatant murder and attacking a police station. In middle school there was a Hispanic kid who attacked a girl with a knife when she refused to have sex with him which they were in 7th grade so it was already stupid. Then when the police came to arrest the kid the mother of the Hispanic kid who was a teacher at the school pulled one of the cops guns out of the holster and shot at police and other students before she got shot by police. No one died but the girl had to go to the hospital because her throat was cut open but she lived. Apparently during the trial the mother who was a teacher went bat shit crazy and had to be put into a well the secure strap system that Hannibal Lector was put in when he was arrested so that she would stop trying to bite people. She was sentenced to 36,000 years in prison and her son was given a bit lighter of a sentence of 158 years in prison. A wise idea is to not threaten to kill the families of the judge, jury, and everyone else. Also it is wise to not attack your own defense lawyer. If you are stupid enough to attack your defense lawyer you may not be able to get another lawyer and if no lawyer wants to defend you then you basically get max sentences and are more likely to be put in the worst place possible for much longer than if you do not go threw a violent actions.
Uh...
Dropped out in year 10 to work full time at our local coles store (we’re Australian) where his dad works
Prison
0:22 Well yes, he went to catholic school.