What having Affairs with Older Married Men taught me about Human Nature
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- What having affairs with older married men as a 20yr-old with deep seated self esteem issues taught me about the human condition, and nature.
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please reevaluate, you're still victimising yourself and you don't see anything wrong with what you've done.
Ngl you do sound kinda crazy to me at some points but then there's also powerful messages and wisdom throughout your whole story. Big sorcerer energy ❤
It's because she is crazy
@@joshb7326 maybe. Can she not be crazy and wise at the same time?
@@danethenice maybe, I'm not denying that. You just said "kinds sounds crazy" and I'm just confirming it that's all
So often we want to be higher in a social hierarchy so we can feel valuable. It's invaluable when we learn we do not need to climb a hierarchy to be valuable and it doesn't matter if people see our value or not - Our value is innate and inherent and there is nowhere to look and nothing to gain. We are lovable as we are.🙂
Having affairs is disgusting and pathetic. Please don't use self esteem as an excuse or reason to placate yourself. The only ppl who deserve sympathy are the victims who get cheated on
honestly and she's calling herself a victim bc that man didn't love her... the only victim here is the wife and kids
@@mary._.2859 I know, it's freaking hilarious tho, but I hope I never meet someone like this in real life, they would suck the soul out of me like a dementor from Harry Potter
@@joshb7326 true. I thought the same thing when she said that. It's not an excuse. I think she should've been more clear about the consequences of her actions and take responsibility. It is very insightful to hear her reasoning and emotional motivations behind her actions though.
Shouldn’t the men take most of the responsibilities? They are married. They are older. And they happily engaged in the affairs. Most often the are taking advantage of the young girls
@@echoinsahara the man should take responsibility for everything he has done, but that doesn't mean she's a victim. Many women enjoy breaking up other people's relationships
I'm living for your chaotic energy HAHAHAH! And thank you for your words of truth.
so many of these comments are projecting anger, you can’t understand a position you’ve never been in and virtue signaling is too easy. her reality and her experiences are her own to comment and reflect on, everyone else here is riding on second hand smoke. pause the chatter, and listen. otherwise watch something else.
i do admire how she liked all of your mean comments. almost responding with an abundance of love she has that you or I may be scarce in.
dear lady, you are possessed, you allowed an 'angel of light' to live through your body
good job girl 💖
This young woman is DEEP! All y’all shaming her for cheating is playing checkers while she’s play chess.
But yes, at the pedestrian level, what people are willing to give to you in energetic exchange is the quickest way of knowing what you are worth to someone. More people should ask for money or equivalent as to stop wasting their life force.
So here’s a little something somethin’ to express my appreciation. The algorithm (🙏🏼lol) brought you to me and I look forward to catching up on your videos, especially to know how you came from all that chaos to such a beautiful and surely expensive living situation in London (?).
Thank you lovely! ✨🪷🕊️
Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom
Please know that its condescending to say to your audience what they can and cannot imagine... maybe you still can not see yourself clearly since the light you posess also attracts like light minded people.
I did not expect this to be so enlightening
Thank you for sharing
Admirable demonstration of courage, vulnerability and wisdom. I do want to point out that a young person's desire of being romantically involved with an older person is not necessarily a trauma response.
It cannot necessarily be, but I believe it could be more of a self fulfilling prophecy
Mm 9.9 times out of 10 it is or it's the want for material things/money because older men will almost always put out for a younger girl. it is never just out of pure curiosity or genuine interest. hope this helps
@@user-th3ez5sj9y blaming the trauma is removing responsibility from the person.
im going to be honest but you said you felt that you deserved something in return for sending photos of yourself to the man you having an affair with whether that was money for food or anything for that matter but quite frankly, you really did not deserve anything. you knew the man was in a married relationship and you seemed to be fully aware you were having an affair with him, yet felt you deserved something in return for actively participating in the affair? fundamentally, no one deserves anything or should expect anything in return in an affair. you may have thought you were only hurting yourself by giving yourself up but that seems to completely ignore the fact that this man had a wife whom you were actively having an affair against, yet felt you were the only one being hurt. its giving narcissism that you feel you deserve things like this and honestly sounds condescending throughout the whole video the way you talk about these things and present yourself to the audience
She was upset that he didn’t respect her enough to consider her a prostitute.
She comes across as intolerable. Can't lie, I think you made a hella good point.
@@violets-for-roses she sounded narcissistic and condescending throughout the whole thing. not to mention the weird laugh at 18:03 like wtf??
@@gocoherping4258 Yup, very condescending. The lack of accountability is truly narcissistic. The laughter though? Creepy and full of arrogance. Like she's mad at the guys for not picking her over their wives and talked about the guys having issues when she's the one doing the worst. The message didn't feel heartfelt. More like a way to generate clicks for her artsy stuff.
@@violets-for-roses she might have borderline personality disorder (BPD)
You are full of wisdom sister. Thank you :(
thanks for sharing your experience - understanding the impact of childhood wounds on lifelong patterns in invaluable. your confidence is beautiful and you've obviously learned so much, but make sure you stay open to change. the older i get and the better my self esteem becomes, the more i realize that life is grey, not black and white, and I don't have to hold so tightly onto my own story/perspective 💚
I wish I found you sooner. You are the most relevant to my life
Thanks for sharing. very wise!
Or "how intro to psychology taught me how to think about my life experiences"
thank you for your vulnerability and humanity. Love you.
came across similar events that I feel most ashamed of myself. and your video gave shed light on it
WoW Most Beaux-Art vid ive seen on Yt hahaa - greetings from fine art student in Zürich, wish u all the best my liege x
I stumbled upon this video in my flat this morning and you have not only spoken to me, but I have heard your words. Thank you 💜
Best video title ever!
Such nonsense. You took someone else's man; knowingly. I am so disgusted and then you say not "affair" but "affairs". What a dirty, dirty thing to do. You do know that Karma will return the favour someday.
Really enjoyed listening to this. thank you!!!
wow randomly came across this but really good insights
Many won't understand you and judge you ,but it is good that you overcame these and are brave enough to share
idk even know what your about t say but full body yes
Thanks a lot! Very courageous of you🙏🏻❤️
thank you for sharing
Love your energy
Thank you so much
Whether you say healing or empowerment isn't that much different considering that woundedness and disempowerment are equitable
This feels so Lynchian
Not really
Uncanny valley
I think you need Jesus, no offense.
And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. 2 Corinthians 11:14.
For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. Romans 10:11.
For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. 1 Timothy 2:5.
Blessings ✌️
She's basically a little asian angel
Who was making noises the whole time😢?