As an OG of talking stages, I must say that this is so spot on!!😂😂 Btw, God please! I am not a customer care representative. I don't want any more talking stages.😩🙏
There's something about PL, her charisma, soothing voice🤭, laughter and everything God bless you PL ❤️ Thank you for constantly being a blessing to us all 🤗
Hi PL, please talk about Virtual talking stages and long distance relationships. Recommended or not. How to know if its worth exploring and if you are not being deceived.
After watching this video, I just realized I was in a talking stage with somebody that didn't end well but we still talk but not like before. Like you said because a talking stage ended badly doesn't mean you should give the person attitude. And also I'm in another talking stage and I've made a lot of mistake and it hasn't gone on for long, let's say a few weeks and that's before watching this video. I just hope it's not too late to amend the mistakes.
So far this is the best video I’ve seen on “do’s and don’t in talking stage”. Everything was said on point and in detail. Definitely going to share this to ladies like myself ❤❤👏🏾👏🏾. God bless you and thank you
"I like this guy... should I ask him what we are?😅" Don't sleep with someone in a talking stage and ask what are we? My sister... we are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. Breakups are hard things, and everyone wishes to not have to go through them (I believe). Even still, people need to learn how to do them softly and not land them like bangers. Communication is very vital in talking stages and every aspect of life, so we don't just work based on assumptions. Thank you, PL
"A situationship isn't a ship, it's a Canoe"🤣🤣🤣 PL is so funny! I wish I heard these things earlier, it would have saved me a lot of stress😂🤲 Thank you so much, PL! A lot of wisdom and value gained
Wish I could give this video a double thumbs up. When I saw how long it was I wondering if I could follow through,but I did!! Thank you so much Ma. Pls I’d like you talk about age factor in relationships next 🙏 ❤
Hmm, protecting people. This is also true outside of relationships. You don’t need to let everyone know if someone hurts you or of their inadequacies. Thank you Ma. I’ve learnt from that 🙏🏽🙏🏽
This was such a nice topic PL🥹, it’d be soo nice if you can get to do ways you could recover from a failed talking stage where you over committed, how to deal with your not-so-ex and not hating them, how to move on basically, and also how we can all create a better future for ourselves by not projecting our past experiences into what God has in store for us. Basically how we can work around our past experiences from not hindering us from things God wants us to enjoy and experience.
PL..I just want you to know, I love watching you!! I love your laugh, your calm aura, and ofcourse the wisdom you share with us. Thank you for being amazing!!
I am actually shocked that people ask and exchange nude pictures...It is actually real! In a talking stage even if it is in a relationship, it is very weird and strange. Thank you so much PL for this. Very insightful and helps to be able to help others too
Thank you Pastor Laju, It is the way you laugh in between while hitting the strong points. Everything said here reminds me of 2021/22 for me. I believe my MOG is coming for me this year. Amen!
Thanks Mrs Iren for such wisdom had it been I did not further my research on such topics I would never have known what to say or where to start. Most at times as young ladies we anticipate a lot and forget that we need to learn how to talk and be addressed. Thanks so much 🙏 ❤
For someone who had flagged talking stages, i think this would have helped me more when i was in that ministry but like they say, no knowledge is a waste so i will say this was so spot on for any relationship even😅😅😅. Thanks PL for enlightening us, God bless you🙏🙌🏻❤️
I have always looked forward to knowing more about talking stage as many people disregard friendship and go all about talking stage. This is so timely🌹
This is so profound! One of the best vlogs on the internet. I just had to leave a comment. I love your sincerity and how you left no stone unturned. I really found this useful. Thanks PL for being a voice
Thank you so much maa😭🙏❤️ I wish there was a video on how to go into a talking stage if it's your first time being in a relationship. Because it's something I know if it doesn't begin with a talking stage and you just run into dating the person immediately the relationship is most likely to be unhealthy. I'd really love if you can enlighten us ma.
Bringing yourself to ask the what are we question, when you aren’t even sure whether that’s the case is sometimes a problem. The thought of a negative answer is scary oo. Make I just dey my dey😂
PL thank you for always taking out the time to teach us so lovingly! This actually got me thinking about my own choices as well😊 Thank you PL! We love you❤
I was just listening and had to pause the video the moment I heard Chidinma! Ah, for one second, I thought PL was in my sitting room. That was a hilarious moment 😅😅
👌🏾Atttack and retreat, toxic non -relationship, love you love you…then ghost for a period then show up and tell you how they were going through a lot👌🏾……very true
I just subscribed... A lot to learn from this space with plenty laughter as bonus 😅
Courtship is a time for interview, not intercourse📌
"Jesus is coming soon, don't waste your life." 😂😂 funny, yet true.
‘They might not be your spouse but their brother might be “ . Facts 1000%
"You are a Christian, behave like one" .. I love this woman
"Getting to know the person as a friend without the pressure of a relationship" Golden wisdom in this statement.
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This can be challenging oh. More like you have a foresight of where you are headed, but let it not cloud my reasoning.
It's the way PL jokingly reminds us that Jesus is coming soon. Thank you ma ❤
I laughed out loud when she said Jesus is Coming Soon 😅😅😅
“What are you wearing?”
The full armor of God 🤲🏾
PL said she's wearing cloth😂😂
As an OG of talking stages, I must say that this is so spot on!!😂😂
Btw, God please! I am not a customer care representative. I don't want any more talking stages.😩🙏
😂😂 this year receive your husband amen!!
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@@T.ERYILA amen oo.😂🙏
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PL, I will remind you every single chance I get. YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!!! Jeeeeez!😩❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Her voice is something else 😩❤️
@@blessedchidera601 it really is!!!
There's something about PL, her charisma, soothing voice🤭, laughter and everything
God bless you PL ❤️
Thank you for constantly being a blessing to us all 🤗
Listening to her for the first time and this is exactly what jumped at me. She sounds like a breath of fresh air.
Listening to her for the first time, it's been amazing here so far. Thank you Ma🙏
‘..Even if people want to be taken advantage of, we can protect them’.
That’s so wise PL✍️
Heyy
"you are reward enough, value yourself!". highlight😍
What are we??"we're human beings".Got me rolling😂😂😂
Is it just me, or it's the way she laughs 😂. Cracks me up everytime 😂
You're a beautiful woman, a woman of wisdom and virtue
Behave like a Christian!!!...Thanks for the constant reminder ma ❤
I love how she always spikes her talking with a laugh.
Yeah❤
This is lovely .. I’m just tired of talking this year it’s marriage straight after getting our values straight
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PL is too fine... Whooosh 🥰🥰🥰
This lady is soooo beautiful
😂😂 I love how she laughs and her confidence ❤
Apostle Emmanuel Iren's wife be that.
First time seeing this channel, subscribed.This was very nice.
Hi PL, please talk about Virtual talking stages and long distance relationships. Recommended or not. How to know if its worth exploring and if you are not being deceived.
I concur
I agree
So soothing ❤❤❤ I pray the Holy Spirit spirit leads me in the right path to marriage 🙏
After watching this video, I just realized I was in a talking stage with somebody that didn't end well but we still talk but not like before. Like you said because a talking stage ended badly doesn't mean you should give the person attitude.
And also I'm in another talking stage and I've made a lot of mistake and it hasn't gone on for long, let's say a few weeks and that's before watching this video. I just hope it's not too late to amend the mistakes.
I’m on this table too
“Walk away determined not to hurt them back”
Thank you ma.
Only if I saw this video sometime earlier I for don run. My own talking stage got married and all this flags were there, we thank God for deliverance.
This is the kind of thing I am in atm. 9 months of talking stage when I am not a pregnant woman 😅😅
😂😂 even a pregnant woman go don born. Don't worry. God's got you!🙏@@adeolasegun-peter4541
It's the "comprends oui" for me
After 2 weeks talking stage.
She: “What are we?”
Me: “We are celebration church.
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In Christ, for Christ, with joy! 😂
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So far this is the best video I’ve seen on “do’s and don’t in talking stage”. Everything was said on point and in detail. Definitely going to share this to ladies like myself ❤❤👏🏾👏🏾. God bless you and thank you
PL really said a situationship is not a ship. It’s a canoe.
Falls on the floor in laughter😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"I like this guy... should I ask him what we are?😅"
Don't sleep with someone in a talking stage and ask what are we? My sister... we are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator.
Breakups are hard things, and everyone wishes to not have to go through them (I believe). Even still, people need to learn how to do them softly and not land them like bangers.
Communication is very vital in talking stages and every aspect of life, so we don't just work based on assumptions.
Thank you, PL
Pencils in the hands of the creator😂😂😂
Conductor ran away with my change and i pursued him 😂😂😂😂 what's that nau 😂😂
It's the way mama laughs for me. Thank you for these tips❤
Thank you so much for this beautiful one ma.
I gained lots of insight. Its also my first time coming across your you tube channel.
Attack and retreat is soo real😂
"My dear you're in a toxic non relationship" got me😭
"A situationship isn't a ship, it's a Canoe"🤣🤣🤣 PL is so funny!
I wish I heard these things earlier, it would have saved me a lot of stress😂🤲
Thank you so much, PL! A lot of wisdom and value gained
Honestly
After 2 weeks talking stage.
She: “What are we?”
Me: “We are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator 🤲”
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We are a chosen generation 😭
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People that are not stable are not stable o. Don’t make excuses for them.
Wish I could give this video a double thumbs up.
When I saw how long it was I wondering if I could follow through,but I did!!
Thank you so much Ma.
Pls I’d like you talk about age factor in relationships next 🙏 ❤
Hmm, protecting people.
This is also true outside of relationships. You don’t need to let everyone know if someone hurts you or of their inadequacies. Thank you Ma. I’ve learnt from that 🙏🏽🙏🏽
‘Thief and non-thief’ had me rotfl 🤣😂
My first time seeing her video. She made so much sense😊. I like her sense of humour too. God bless you Ma PL
You are a witch, hahaha
You are not a witch you are just behaving like one 😭😭😭😭😭😭😜😜😜
I just love your sense of humor.
Thank you PL
I already subscribed and liked the video beforehand. This has to work! 🤭
No more “Have you eat?” every two market days.
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If it doesn’t end in a relationship,it’s okay
There’s no need to hate them 📌📌📌
As a Chairman and Executive in the talking stage i totally agree with everything you have said Ma. Thank you
This was such a nice topic PL🥹, it’d be soo nice if you can get to do ways you could recover from a failed talking stage where you over committed, how to deal with your not-so-ex and not hating them, how to move on basically, and also how we can all create a better future for ourselves by not projecting our past experiences into what God has in store for us. Basically how we can work around our past experiences from not hindering us from things God wants us to enjoy and experience.
I need this too
Emphasis on how not to let it affect our God-created future
I'll love that too please. It's been a struggle.
PL..I just want you to know, I love watching you!! I love your laugh, your calm aura, and ofcourse the wisdom you share with us. Thank you for being amazing!!
“Courtship is a time for interview not intercourse”
I am actually shocked that people ask and exchange nude pictures...It is actually real! In a talking stage even if it is in a relationship, it is very weird and strange.
Thank you so much PL for this. Very insightful and helps to be able to help others too
I like the way you laugh. Dating intelligently blessed be so much as a teen and contributed immensely to my watch. Thank you.
Thank you Pastor Laju, It is the way you laugh in between while hitting the strong points.
Everything said here reminds me of 2021/22 for me.
I believe my MOG is coming for me this year. Amen!
A situationship is not a ship😂😂it is a canoe😂😂
😂😂😂this got me.
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Thanks Mrs Iren for such wisdom had it been I did not further my research on such topics I would never have known what to say or where to start. Most at times as young ladies we anticipate a lot and forget that we need to learn how to talk and be addressed. Thanks so much 🙏 ❤
Really glad I saw this video 😅 God forbid fruitless talking stages 😂😂😂
Thank you Ma, it will be good to have this on spotify as well, so that we can listen on the go!
Oh I love pst Laju, especially her sense of humor 😂😂😂
PL!
This was too good.
Timely and profound.
I like how relatable it was as well.
Thank you so much. ❤️
See the way I am happy because your video popped on my screen❤❤
For someone who had flagged talking stages, i think this would have helped me more when i was in that ministry but like they say, no knowledge is a waste so i will say this was so spot on for any relationship even😅😅😅.
Thanks PL for enlightening us, God bless you🙏🙌🏻❤️
Why do I love this lady so much 🥰❤️
I have always looked forward to knowing more about talking stage as many people disregard friendship and go all about talking stage.
This is so timely🌹
This is me commenting so I can move from talking stage 😂🙏🏽
I like your smile,your voice and sense of humor
It's the attack and retreat for me.. I can relate
PL has the cutest laugh 😍🥺
It’s always PL’s laughter for me😂❤
Thanks for this ma 😊🙏🏽
It’s so beautiful and therapeutic to watch you ma❤
You're right, not every relationship must be a dating relationship. One can keep reponsible friends of the opposite sex too, even when married
I think PL and I are in the spirit 😂😂cos I literally said Hadiza before she did😂😭😭
Her sense of humor😂😂❤❤
I love you
"When it comes to a talking stage, talk." This is good PL.
This is so profound! One of the best vlogs on the internet. I just had to leave a comment. I love your sincerity and how you left no stone unturned. I really found this useful. Thanks PL for being a voice
You are reward enough, value yourself!!
Am in love with you Ma...
I love the way you dealt with this matter. So lively
This was really helpful and informative…thank you 😊
I can confidently say Pst Iren is in the background because this laughter is so cute. ❤😂
Great content PL🔥. By the way, the background music is just spot on
Thank you so much maa😭🙏❤️
I wish there was a video on how to go into a talking stage if it's your first time being in a relationship. Because it's something I know if it doesn't begin with a talking stage and you just run into dating the person immediately the relationship is most likely to be unhealthy. I'd really love if you can enlighten us ma.
"Because a situationship ends"😂😂😂😂😂
I am reward enough.... I should value myself
Bringing yourself to ask the what are we question, when you aren’t even sure whether that’s the case is sometimes a problem.
The thought of a negative answer is scary oo. Make I just dey my dey😂
This a wholesome video. 🫂♥
It's the way I smiled and said AMEN
Coming out from a talking stage that didn't work, this video really bless me .
Thank you PL!❤
As for me, I love this video ❤️. This video and the aesthetics is so beautiful 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. God bless you 🙏🏿🤗
What are we? "We are human beings" 😂😂😂
Thanks mama💖💖... Feels like I'm having a gist with you.
PL thank you for always taking out the time to teach us so lovingly! This actually got me thinking about my own choices as well😊
Thank you PL! We love you❤
The video didn't have to end 😪. Thank you PL! 😊 ❤
Honestly !!
I love PL's response to that silly question "What are you wearing?"😂
Ofcourse it's cloth, what else!😂🤲🏼
I needed to hear this..Thank you PL.
I'm sha tired of talking stages Lord..This year 🙏🙏This year will not pass me by.
I was just listening and had to pause the video the moment I heard Chidinma! Ah, for one second, I thought PL was in my sitting room. That was a hilarious moment 😅😅
Like!!!😂😂
👌🏾Atttack and retreat, toxic non -relationship, love you love you…then ghost for a period then show up and tell you how they were going through a lot👌🏾……very true
Truth everywhere.
Thank you Pastor Laju for this 🙌, I learnt a lotttttttt 🤭. And i love the vibes too, i was just laughing while watching 😂🥰.
I LOVE THIS ONE 👍