it’s also your right, as is his to request to want a second wife, you can request a divorce for this reason. it’s not that you HAVE TO accept to be in this kind of marriage.
@@aglau7055 i think this is a contextual matter. plus many communities, like mine, don’t view divorced women as “used” or their lack of vito go out (or even kids) as a problem. it’s not as hard finding a husband as many it out to seem. it’s as simple as this: if my husband goes and marries someone else, i’ll pack my bags and sign the divorce papers. live my life alone if i have to. idc
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..? Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it. This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way. I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram! True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women. The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues. There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings. The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view. We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days. Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife. So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
Allahu Akbar. Masha Allah Tabaaraka Allah. This brother is on point. May Allah protect him. The truth is the truth. He told it like it is. Facts. May Allah ( SWT ) protect us and increase our iman. Allahumma Amen.
Islam also came to safe guard the rights of women and guide them.. Polygyny is allowed as it makes sure no women is not recognised with respect when she conducts a relationship with a man.. as we can see how so many women outside the Islamic understanding are not more then mistresses or just used by married men and it's problematic for the society to give a respectful standing to women who live in a society where man is allowed only one wife... Also why Islam does not allow one woman to have many husbands, imagine if the husbands wish to have many children from that one wife.. it would be disadvantageous to the woman's health
Mashallah amazing video wonderful explanation may Allah bless this brother for is honesty bravery and courage to speak about Allah s law as it is mashallah.
As much as I liked this lecture, it's amazing how it is very similar to what the Bible teaches but unfortunately Christians don't know because we don't read the Holy Book. The bible clearly teaches that you'll love the child who obeys you. Jesus Christ taught us that in Matthew. Thank you for teaching the truth.
My husband took a third wife without me to know,i agreed to be second one just couse i loved him so much and i though i do the right thing.As i found out i am the third,i was heartbrokend,he lied to me,he brought her to my home,without even asking me.I cried everyday,couse they tried to force change my mind.The woman was very offensive to me,she attacked my intimacy and my privacy in a very bad way.... I changed my mind about polygamy and i dont want never again marry a man who wants more than one wifes... This experience changed my so much that i even though to leave islam,i did not and dont will couse i know the problem are the ,,people,, not our religion... Just i will be rather single all my life as to again go through all this again... Theory is ever simpler and nicer than a practical side of a topic,every one who ist open for polygamy shot think about that to not damage lifes of others or themselfs
Yes those who disbelievers ( past Present and Future) will bear the burden of their disbelief and those have done good deed will prepare a good place in Paradise for themselves.30-44
Those who bash and criticize Islam, should look in to their own culture. Their is no concept of modesty, chastity and fidelity in these cultures. It may be shocking to know that till 1964, it was legal to swim naked in public swimming pools in US.
The envelope of All the Men of the World Why Any Man who marry 2 3 4 the Richess Man can not by what Allah have given you to Maintain such a elevation in Society.
By Allah, marriage means MONOGAMY in the Qur'an and Hadith. In the Qur'an we read, "THEN marry women of your choice, two, three, four, BUT IF you fear you cannot due justice between them, then one or what posses rightfully. ( 4:3) Notice the word is " فَإِنْ" which does not mean "but if" nor "AND if" as......there is no "if" in Arabic. If you type in فَإِنْ in the Hans Wehr dictionary, it says "and then". There is no "if" no where. This is Arabic. So it should say : Then marry women of your choice, two, three, four AND THEN fear you cannot due justice between them, then one or what posses rightfully. This is the version in ARABIC. So it means MONOGAMY. What you possess rightfully, which is "ma malakat aymanukum" is synonymous to married because it says in 4:25 to MARRY what you possess rightfully of the female servant. Not slaves. Refer to فَتَاة which says a female servant in lane's lexicon. Simply type it in Arabic. As for the Hadith, notices that nisaa means "women". Not wives. Type in نِسَائِهِ and it says women in Bukhari 1 Vol 5 Num 282. Simply go into sunnah.com and go to Bukhari under "Bathing (Ghusl). In Arabic it says women Not wives. In every Hadith, it means women. Not wives. Zawj means husband and wife and azwaj is plural for husbands and wives. It means a "pair" of masculine and feminine and in context and it relates to spouse. Hence, husband and wife. See verse 2:25. So nisaa means women and Zawj/azwaj means husband and wife or husbands and wives. So in conclusion, the Qur'an and Hadith says monogamy, meaning one husband and wife. And Allah knows best
I want to marry a Muslim I would like her keep doctrines but loose the garments in 2020 I traveled to Ugandan got married bought a 5 bdr home my wife say that I can take another bride where in africa do women have no issues with this so I may travel there ?
Every community has surplus number of females, who are widows, divorcees and girls who have passed the prime age and nearing menopause and some not so attractive. And nearly every female wants to have a family. How they can they have a family ?What is the solution for them? IF NOT POLYGAMY, THEN WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE?
Allah said: And you will never be able to be equal between wives, even if you should strive [to do so].} [Quran 4:129] Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law. "I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, 'Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me.'" (Bukhari, No. 4887)
I don't know maybe providing for themselves instead of looking up to a man. Thanks to technology women are able to have children without male intervention so if she wants a family she can still have 1
@@cocobootii7881 no ma, it is not evil for a man to marry more than one wife, listen to the speaker with an open mind, and ruminate the verses with an open mind as well. May Allah grant us Victory over our soul
Not for Lust ( so it is not for sex because that part might not even happened ( perhaps just a test of motive) so giving g a married man the benefit that he means good that should help the wife or wives that he is taking on a Job with lots of work
S-62 warn Children could have you become a lover so Sis we have to think and say when first hit another wife from Allah we come and to Allah we return perhaps it will help yes who else we going to want all the love kindness hugs from other then husband our test being like Lut and Nuh wives or The patience of the other 2 women or the women it is said Allah knows best if said you women are like the women of Yusuf
Prophet Mohammad was the only ancient Philosopher who dissected marriage using HIS GOD GIVEN WISDOM. Those days men lived upto age of about 50 years. Prophet Mohammad well knew that the chances of A marriage working was no more than one in ten in those times.So if man was allowed to marry 4 times he would have at least 40 percent chance of being happy on this earth after the fourth marriage. In present day and age the chance of marriage working is about one in A hundred in the EAST, & about one in A million in the WEST. Great actress Audrey Hepburn put her wisdom in one line "May be men & women were not made to live under the same roof ,they should live nearby & visit each other once in A while" MODERN SOLUTION--- Let some country in the middle east OR far east make A special City state on the oceanfront, called "Jannat" where all the rich & powerful men of this earth can move to--where A man could marry A million times if he has enough money & strength to do so. Let him be happy & let the rich trappings flow to the rest of the society.Educated Men with biggest palaces & Harems be chosen for city council/judges.Make value added sales tax high like 20% so that state can collect some wealth and spread that wealth to the common man workers.City state be located on the oceanfront OR be an island by itself but part of the country.MAKE beauty A GODLY CREATION & A VIRTUE OF HIGHEST ORDER & let them spend at the speed of light so that money spreads to the common man workers for social justice in the city state. Allow freedom of religion, reduce taxes,No drugs, make it A DEMOCRACY WITH IN CITY STATE--and pretty soon THAT PLACE WOULD HAVE HIGHEST PER CAPITA INCOME ON EARTH AND HAPPY UNIONS.EVEN Russians would move to that city state. After the oil wells run dry that city state would be the only CITY WITH MONEY LEFT WITH THE EXPRESS BLESSINGS OF THE ALMIGHTY. That city state would outlast all other countries with atomic bombs.Next world war should be fought only with sticks & stones so that MANKIND SURVIVES.
Completely untrue the claim that swimming without clothes was ever permitted in public schools in the west. Islam is never promoted by stating untruth.
The Men must read about Lust secret interludes and S-60 and who can beyond a man to the fire Satan use disbelieving women so taking Shahada for Intended wife as well as intended Husband s so at least it was witness they made a claime of faith and say they never said they were Muslim
Firstly : Allah says in The Holy Qur'an : "...Marry who seems good to you from THE WOMEN two and three and four and if you feared that you cannot be just then only one..." 4:3 So, clearly we can see here that Allah commands us to marry two and three and four women and if we fear that we cannot be just then only one. This is the evidence for having four wives and no more. Secondly : There are hadith which inform us regarding Fatimah the daughter of The Prophet, Peace be upon him. Fatimah married Ali, Allah was pleased about them. The Prophet said "Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have asked permission in respect that they marry their daughter to Ali Ibn Abu Talib and I do not permit and then I do not permit and then I do not permit except if Ali Ibn Abu Talib wishes to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter and she is only a part of me it agitated me what agitated her it harms me what harmed her" (Rough translation) Sahih al-Bukhari 5230 So from this hadith we notice that if it agitates her or harms her it is not permitted to take a second, third or fourth wife. There are other hadith. The first wife can simply object by saying "No" I don't agree to polygamy or it could be obvious to the husband that she would be agitated or harmed by it so as to make it impermissible. Also from the verse of The Holy Quran above all wives must be treated with justice, if it is feared that cannot be done then only one. It is interesting to note that this becomes a mutual agreement between the first wife and her husband of subsequent wives and so on and not just a case of a man marrying four wives. This is due to having the consent of each wife for a subsequent wife or subsequent wives. Also as Allah has not permitted the woman to have four husbands and the wife has the right not to allow her husband four wives.
@@oladimejilateefat9633 that doesn’t change anything because Allah also permits muslim men to marry non Muslim women so if saying no to more wife’s is a sin then saying no to marrying a non Muslim woman is also a sin because you are basically denying her the opportunity to accept Islam. The truth is based on this Hadith a woman can say no to her husband.
@@oladimejilateefat9633 when did I say it’s not in Quran all am saying is people need to stop judging, shaming and using emotional blackmail on women who say no because it’s also a fact that the Prophet’s daughter who knows the Quran way better than most of us also wasn’t comfortable with the idea. People just expect all women to accept it and smilie because it’s in the Quran well it’s stated in the Quran as an option not a must so therefore a woman can also say no just as a man can say yes.
@@oladimejilateefat9633 if it’s was a must for men to marry more than one wife then Allah would not have included a clause and punishment for men that do it wrongly. There are so many men of God who don’t want more than one wife and that’s okay because monogamy is also an option in Islam. To each his own may Allah continue to guide us and give us the strength to face such challenges as women because the honest truth is it’s not easy and especially in Africa a lot of men handle it very very badly and ruin the lives of wives and kids in the process.
Allah said: And you will never be able to be equal between wives, even if you should strive [to do so].} [Quran 4:129] Allah said Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded. Surat An-Nahl 16:90 And Allah says O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do. Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8 “A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196) A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to. It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it. No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter. By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law. "I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, 'Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me.'" (Bukhari, No. 4887)
@@JahannamHellfire thank you they never talk about the daughter of the prophet peace be upon him also saying no and the prophet accepted and supported her answer. Now if a woman says no she’s been shamed, then emotionally and religiously blackmailed into saying yes. Very few sheikhs actually speak in favour of women most only think about the men.
1 Corinthians 7:2-5 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
I only clicked for the sister's lovely smile. Allah knows best
Masha Allah, we must obey the rules of Allah. As women, may Allah make it easy for us
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it’s also your right, as is his to request to want a second wife, you can request a divorce for this reason. it’s not that you HAVE TO accept to be in this kind of marriage.
@@aglau7055 i think this is a contextual matter. plus many communities, like mine, don’t view divorced women as “used” or their lack of vito go out (or even kids) as a problem. it’s not as hard finding a husband as many it out to seem. it’s as simple as this: if my husband goes and marries someone else, i’ll pack my bags and sign the divorce papers. live my life alone if i have to. idc
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..?
Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it.
This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way.
I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram!
True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women.
The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues.
There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings.
The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view.
We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days.
Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife.
So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
I had a question, do all Muslim men marry 2nd time ??
A serious Responsibility of taking care of women and told tteat them well
Allahu Akbar. Masha Allah Tabaaraka Allah. This brother is on point. May Allah protect him. The truth is the truth. He told it like it is. Facts.
May Allah ( SWT ) protect us and increase our iman. Allahumma Amen.
Allahumo Aameen
Islam also came to safe guard the rights of women and guide them..
Polygyny is allowed as it makes sure no women is not recognised with respect when she conducts a relationship with a man.. as we can see how so many women outside the Islamic understanding are not more then mistresses or just used by married men and it's problematic for the society to give a respectful standing to women who live in a society where man is allowed only one wife...
Also why Islam does not allow one woman to have many husbands, imagine if the husbands wish to have many children from that one wife.. it would be disadvantageous to the woman's health
Mashallah amazing video wonderful explanation may Allah bless this brother for is honesty bravery and courage to speak about Allah s law as it is mashallah.
Masha Allah love from India
This is a smooth Nigerian Brother. 👌
Masha Allah. Very inspiring speach.
As much as I liked this lecture, it's amazing how it is very similar to what the Bible teaches but unfortunately Christians don't know because we don't read the Holy Book.
The bible clearly teaches that you'll love the child who obeys you. Jesus Christ taught us that in Matthew.
Thank you for teaching the truth.
My husband took a third wife without me to know,i agreed to be second one just couse i loved him so much and i though i do the right thing.As i found out i am the third,i was heartbrokend,he lied to me,he brought her to my home,without even asking me.I cried everyday,couse they tried to force change my mind.The woman was very offensive to me,she attacked my intimacy and my privacy in a very bad way.... I changed my mind about polygamy and i dont want never again marry a man who wants more than one wifes... This experience changed my so much that i even though to leave islam,i did not and dont will couse i know the problem are the ,,people,, not our religion... Just i will be rather single all my life as to again go through all this again... Theory is ever simpler and nicer than a practical side of a topic,every one who ist open for polygamy shot think about that to not damage lifes of others or themselfs
Salaam alaykum dear sister.i feel your pain.
Allah I'd sufficient for us
Yes those who disbelievers ( past Present and Future) will bear the burden of their disbelief and those have done good deed will prepare a good place in Paradise for themselves.30-44
Those who bash and criticize Islam, should look in to their own culture. Their is no concept of modesty, chastity and fidelity in these cultures. It may be shocking to know that till 1964, it was legal to swim naked in public swimming pools in US.
MASHA ALLAH
Treating with respect helping yourself doing the Husband even if meet all the ways the hadiths said the women discussed about their Husband's
MashaAllah. Allahu Akbar.
The envelope of All the Men of the World Why Any Man who marry 2 3 4 the Richess Man can not by what Allah have given you to Maintain such a elevation in Society.
And if we read a bag of Beans rice a place to live vegetables .
Perhaps it is A job taken on A Man that understood the Prophets and the seal of Prophets pbuthem All
By Allah, marriage means MONOGAMY in the Qur'an and Hadith. In the Qur'an we read,
"THEN marry women of your choice, two, three, four, BUT IF you fear you cannot due justice between them, then one or what posses rightfully. ( 4:3)
Notice the word is " فَإِنْ" which does not mean "but if" nor "AND if" as......there is no "if" in Arabic. If you type in فَإِنْ in the Hans Wehr dictionary, it says "and then". There is no "if" no where. This is Arabic. So it should say :
Then marry women of your choice, two, three, four AND THEN fear you cannot due justice between them, then one or what posses rightfully.
This is the version in ARABIC. So it means MONOGAMY. What you possess rightfully, which is "ma malakat aymanukum" is synonymous to married because it says in 4:25 to MARRY what you possess rightfully of the female servant. Not slaves. Refer to فَتَاة which says a female servant in lane's lexicon. Simply type it in Arabic.
As for the Hadith, notices that nisaa means "women". Not wives. Type in نِسَائِهِ and it says women in Bukhari 1 Vol 5 Num 282. Simply go into sunnah.com and go to Bukhari under "Bathing (Ghusl). In Arabic it says women Not wives. In every Hadith, it means women. Not wives. Zawj means husband and wife and azwaj is plural for husbands and wives. It means a "pair" of masculine and feminine and in context and it relates to spouse. Hence, husband and wife. See verse 2:25. So nisaa means women and Zawj/azwaj means husband and wife or husbands and wives.
So in conclusion, the Qur'an and Hadith says monogamy, meaning one husband and wife.
And Allah knows best
You're talking out of point my brother
@@gbadeboidris1428 Arabic confirmed it as truth
Are you serious?
@@maryamabdullahi8357 Are you a Muslim?
I am a Muslim and it says one wife. Not wives.
I want to marry a Muslim I would like her keep doctrines but loose the garments in 2020 I traveled to Ugandan got married bought a 5 bdr home my wife say that I can take another bride where in africa do women have no issues with this so I may travel there ?
Can someone kindly tell me is this place Ghana or Nigeria.
Nigeria
Is there a concluding part to this particular lecture ? If so, please can you upload it ? JZH .
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We can not have only One Husband and become helpers in the Umma a job
Every community has surplus number of females, who are widows, divorcees and girls who have passed the prime age and nearing menopause and some not so attractive.
And nearly every female wants to have a family. How they can they have a family ?What is the solution for them? IF NOT POLYGAMY, THEN WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE?
Marry outside the community because there’s a surplus of males.
@@Cookie20244 : A believing Muslim lady must marry only a believing Muslim man
Check with Chapter No. 2 verse No. 221 of the Quran and then check with Chapter No. 4 Verse No. 3 of the Quran
Allah said: And you will never be able to be equal between wives, even if you should strive [to do so].} [Quran 4:129]
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
"I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, 'Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me.'" (Bukhari, No. 4887)
I don't know maybe providing for themselves instead of looking up to a man. Thanks to technology women are able to have children without male intervention so if she wants a family she can still have 1
Some of us are good wives some of us are bad some man are good some are bad
So a woman can have more than one man? Just asking
No sister.. there are some cultures in certain part of the world practice. Islam does not Allow such EVIL act.
If that's evil then why can husbands have many wives? Isnt that evil too
@@cocobootii7881 no ma, it is not evil for a man to marry more than one wife, listen to the speaker with an open mind, and ruminate the verses with an open mind as well. May Allah grant us Victory over our soul
@@oladimejilateefat9633 Explain to me why ? How is it fair for a man to have multiple and not a woman?
@@cocobootii7881 a woman is like farm and as you know the farm can only be owned by 1 man and not many.A farmer can have many farms .
Not for Lust ( so it is not for sex because that part might not even happened ( perhaps just a test of motive) so giving g a married man the benefit that he means good that should help the wife or wives that he is taking on a Job with lots of work
S-62 warn Children could have you become a lover so Sis we have to think and say when first hit another wife from Allah we come and to Allah we return perhaps it will help yes who else we going to want all the love kindness hugs from other then husband our test being like Lut and Nuh wives or The patience of the other 2 women or the women it is said Allah knows best if said you women are like the women of Yusuf
Prophet Mohammad was the only ancient Philosopher who dissected marriage using HIS GOD GIVEN WISDOM. Those days men lived upto age of about 50 years. Prophet Mohammad well knew that the chances of A marriage working was no more than one in ten in those times.So if man was allowed to marry 4 times he would have at least 40 percent chance of being happy on this earth after the fourth marriage. In present day and age the chance of marriage working is about one in A hundred in the EAST, & about one in A million in the WEST. Great actress Audrey Hepburn put her wisdom in one line "May be men & women were not made to live under the same roof ,they should live nearby & visit each other once in A while" MODERN SOLUTION--- Let some country in the middle east OR far east make A special City state on the oceanfront, called "Jannat" where all the rich & powerful men of this earth can move to--where A man could marry A million times if he has enough money & strength to do so. Let him be happy & let the rich trappings flow to the rest of the society.Educated Men with biggest palaces & Harems be chosen for city council/judges.Make value added sales tax high like 20% so that state can collect some wealth and spread that wealth to the common man workers.City state be located on the oceanfront OR be an island by itself but part of the country.MAKE beauty A GODLY CREATION & A VIRTUE OF HIGHEST ORDER & let them spend at the speed of light so that money spreads to the common man workers for social justice in the city state. Allow freedom of religion, reduce taxes,No drugs, make it A DEMOCRACY WITH IN CITY STATE--and pretty soon THAT PLACE WOULD HAVE HIGHEST PER CAPITA INCOME ON EARTH AND HAPPY UNIONS.EVEN Russians would move to that city state. After the oil wells run dry that city state would be the only CITY WITH MONEY LEFT WITH THE EXPRESS BLESSINGS OF THE ALMIGHTY. That city state would outlast all other countries with atomic bombs.Next world war should be fought only with sticks & stones so that MANKIND SURVIVES.
Best 234 wives wether poor or Rich If you Marry what happend s ? Your a duty of Manlyness
No
Completely untrue the claim that swimming without clothes was ever permitted in public schools in the west.
Islam is never promoted by stating untruth.
Without clothes and naked two different words
In West inner wear is called dress
The Men must read about Lust secret interludes and S-60 and who can beyond a man to the fire Satan use disbelieving women so taking Shahada for Intended wife as well as intended Husband s so at least it was witness they made a claime of faith and say they never said they were Muslim
Firstly :
Allah says in The Holy Qur'an :
"...Marry who seems good to you from THE WOMEN two and three and four and if you feared that you cannot be just then only one..." 4:3
So, clearly we can see here that Allah commands us to marry two and three and four women and if we fear that we cannot be just then only one.
This is the evidence for having four wives and no more.
Secondly :
There are hadith which inform us regarding Fatimah the daughter of The Prophet, Peace be upon him.
Fatimah married Ali, Allah was pleased about them.
The Prophet said
"Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have asked permission in respect that they marry their daughter to Ali Ibn Abu Talib and I do not permit and then I do not permit and then I do not permit except if Ali Ibn Abu Talib wishes to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter and she is only a part of me it agitated me what agitated her it harms me what harmed her" (Rough translation)
Sahih al-Bukhari 5230
So from this hadith we notice that if it agitates her or harms her it is not permitted to take a second, third or fourth wife. There are other hadith.
The first wife can simply object by saying "No" I don't agree to polygamy or it could be obvious to the husband that she would be agitated or harmed by it so as to make it impermissible.
Also from the verse of The Holy Quran above all wives must be treated with justice, if it is feared that cannot be done then only one.
It is interesting to note that this becomes a mutual agreement between the first wife and her husband of subsequent wives and so on and not just a case of a man marrying four wives. This is due to having the consent of each wife for a subsequent wife or subsequent wives.
Also as Allah has not permitted the woman to have four husbands and the wife has the right not to allow her husband four wives.
The lady Ali wanted to marry that agitated Fatimah was a non-muslim, you omitted that VERY important part
@@oladimejilateefat9633 that doesn’t change anything because Allah also permits muslim men to marry non Muslim women so if saying no to more wife’s is a sin then saying no to marrying a non Muslim woman is also a sin because you are basically denying her the opportunity to accept Islam. The truth is based on this Hadith a woman can say no to her husband.
@@Me4003 and where do you want to put Qur'an 2 verse 221, it is a command from Allah, not a conditional statement Sir/Ma
@@oladimejilateefat9633 when did I say it’s not in Quran all am saying is people need to stop judging, shaming and using emotional blackmail on women who say no because it’s also a fact that the Prophet’s daughter who knows the Quran way better than most of us also wasn’t comfortable with the idea. People just expect all women to accept it and smilie because it’s in the Quran well it’s stated in the Quran as an option not a must so therefore a woman can also say no just as a man can say yes.
@@oladimejilateefat9633 if it’s was a must for men to marry more than one wife then Allah would not have included a clause and punishment for men that do it wrongly. There are so many men of God who don’t want more than one wife and that’s okay because monogamy is also an option in Islam. To each his own may Allah continue to guide us and give us the strength to face such challenges as women because the honest truth is it’s not easy and especially in Africa a lot of men handle it very very badly and ruin the lives of wives and kids in the process.
Blah blah blah men can have it all and women must shut up and obey. We get it
What truth will set you free?
Allah said: And you will never be able to be equal between wives, even if you should strive [to do so].} [Quran 4:129]
Allah said
Verily, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and he forbids immorality and bad conduct and transgression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded.
Surat An-Nahl 16:90
And Allah says
O you who believe, be persistently standing firm for Allah as witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just, for that is nearer to righteousness. Fear Allah, for Allah is aware of what you do.
Surat Al-Ma’idah 5:8
“A man who has two wives and who is completely inclined to one and who ignores the other emerges with one side of his body paralysed in the Day of Judgment.” (Hadith; Ibn Majah, Nikah, 47; Mishkat al-masabih, 2/196)
A woman does not consent to share her husband with another woman under normal circumstances, and no woman would like to marry a married man unless she has to.
It is a necessity of belief that polygamy is right. However, to believe it does not necessarily mean for a woman to consent to the second wife and approve it.
No believer father would like his son-in-law to marry a second, third or fourth woman along with his daughter. The jealous nature of the woman and the affection of the father for his daughter disapproves this. As a matter of fact, the daughter of our beloved Prophet, Sayyidah Fatima, objected to her husband, Ali’s marrying of a second woman. If it weren’t permissible to object, Sayyidah Fatima, who was brought up by our Prophet, would not have objected. The Messenger of Allah would have warned her and ordered her to consent to her husband’s wish. However, it did not take place like that. On the contrary, the Messenger of Allah, who saw that his daughter was worried, asked Ali to give up his wish and told him that if he did not give it up, he could marry another woman after divorcing Sayyidah Fatima. He did not consent to Ali’s second marriage to depress his daughter.
By considering that act of the Messenger of Allah, it can be stated that Muslim daughters and fathers may object to the second marriage of their husband or son-in-law.
"I heard Allah's Apostle who was on the pulpit, saying, 'Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to Ali bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me.'" (Bukhari, No. 4887)
@@JahannamHellfire thank you they never talk about the daughter of the prophet peace be upon him also saying no and the prophet accepted and supported her answer. Now if a woman says no she’s been shamed, then emotionally and religiously blackmailed into saying yes. Very few sheikhs actually speak in favour of women most only think about the men.
He conveniently left out what the New Testament teaches about marriage.
1 Corinthians 7:2-5
But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Genesis 2:24
Masha ALLAH