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Hello serpentza, thank you for illuminating these problems. I have a question what is the hierarchy of discrimination in china? Who's the best and who's the worst and who's in between in china?
I'm kind of glad I live in Japan instead...the respect culture gets a bit exhausting but you don't run into this nonsense very often. And we have actual social security systems here.
This is Chinese CULTURE we're talking about. Where there a saying that "if you can cheat, cheat," with Chinese international students being kicked out of schools en masse.
@kevg1617 This is happening everywhere. In America, my son HAD A FRIEND (both about 9 yrs old) who was half Chinese (the mother was from China) and half White (the father from the USA). This child would not listen to the rules, disobeyed constantly, was rude, smarted mouthed, lied, was overly aggressive and disrespectful to my child and to me. His mother believed every lie her son uttered and was definitely raising him to be a LITTLE EMPEROR. I finally had to put an end to the friendship because he was a terror. This behavior will not serve him well in college nor the business world. Others will just not put up with it!
Because the parent does not know who to explain her chills disability to others. Think autism like. Further scolding the and spanking the child the child just learn that is normal behavior to expect from others and does not draw the conclusion of how that behavior came to be from other people. It is disconnected. When she is saying he is only 13, she is trying to say , please calm down. he has a disability that going to set him off further, which is what happened.
@@SoIAm1968 she then should have apologised and said its a disability not got belligerent. And if he has a disability she needs to seat him away from other people, on her other side, to minimise such interactions. It's her responsibility that her kids does not create a nuisance to others, since she already knows he has a disability and the others don't
@@SoIAm1968 I have autism and when I was 13 I wasn't acting like this. Having a disability does not give you a permit to be a douche, and disabled people are fully capable of being functioning members of society, and when you say that that sort of behaviour to you implies autism, it makes me think you view autistic people as idiots incapable of self-reflection. If the kid was having an autistic meltdown which could be caused by overstimulation or similar factors, it's still up to the mother to take the kid somewhere safe so he can calm down and feel better without strangers staring at him. But he wasn't having a meltdown cause meltdowns aren't kicking other children and destroying other people's property - those are deliberate actions caused by a deliberate desire to bully and assert dominance. Autistic meltdowns are caused by panic, overwhelm, and the last thing someone who's going through a meltdown wants is more attention. I've never kicked anyone or tried to break someone's phone during a meltdown, and I'm sure a lot of other autistic people will attest to the same. If the child's disability was so severe he really didn't know kicking other people was bad, his mother should've taken him to a restaurant more suited to his needs. If your child is disabled you don't drag them into places where they feel overwhelmed and anxious.
Honestly, in this day and age, growing up on the coast/in the countryside would probably be a luxury compared to this. As someone who goes back to my rural family home in between uni semesters in the city, it's night and day.
@@discipleofdagon8195 hell nah definitely not most of the countrysides, unless you are talking about the top 3% or so then maybe (refer to Suzhou countrysides, for example)
that was so weird lol I'd assume as it happens basically everywhere that living next to the sea is usually more linked to prosperity than living further from it inland...
Imagine how abusive and cruel these boys will be when they're adults and taking care of their elderly parents. Parents beware----you are training your sons how to treat you when you are old and unable to defend yourself.
Chances are, the mom and her family will end up blaming that dude. Take it from me, somehow this act of good intentions will get twisted by father dearest and the grandparents.
Sounds like he is a Traditional Chinese because it is impossible for any normal Communist influenced Chinese to break the same CCP Society character and actually step in a roadside matter and try to solve it.
Yeah throughout my whole childhood I got slappee like 3 times I dont even know for what anymore but if I did this Im 100% sure it would have been number 4 😂
Way different generations these days! It's really alarming the way some kids act these days! At least I know my grandkids will be raised the right way! They won't be a statistic!
This makes some sense to me, a few years back when in Cebu Philippines. Im Australian. A young Chinese boy was rude to me when getting into a hotel lift, pushing in front, and spitting upon my shoes! Another time at a breakfast buffet, a boy simply put ALL of the eggs onto his plate to prevent the foreigner getting just one. I was horrified at this rude attitude, and it was scoffed at and encouraged by both parents.
There are some people who have kids because they want to and then there are those that have them because its expected or to fit in. I too have had similar experiences .
This is what happens when their mom is a pickme. It's no different from the "boy mom" epidemic in the west. Of course the boy will think he's a god. As much as I didn't want to put the blame mostly on women, most DO worship their sons. Even when they're not neglected by their husband. My aunt worships her son when my uncle has always catered to her. These women create the monsters they later complain about. People aren't ready for this conversation.
This is why mainland chinese tourists are detested so much in pretty much every country they visit in, because of these kinds of behaviour they show very predatory to opportunity (or greedy). Its in their very culture now they're becoming very privileged, entitled and rude to the core, kinda like US tourists but slightly worst. This is why when you go to china just visit the provinces avoid the cities if you want to meet people. Also it gets worst if you can't speak/comprehend their language as well, they will be little you because you can't speak their "superior language".
Actually it's not surprising one bit. And where do you think the little punk learned his contempt for foreigners? None other than good ol' mom and dad.
"He is only 8!" "He is only 13!" "He is only 22!" "He is only 31!" The mother will never realise she had created a monster. In China, however, things are much worse, because class and social status play a crucial role in the society. The mother thinks her child is better and innocent, because she thinks she is better than the other family, and this is because her husband apparently has a higher social status, which she actually tried to use by stating "Do you know who my husband is?". If you think Karens in the US, UK and Australia are bad, you know nothing.
so true!!! there is NOTHING worse than chinese karens, every karens version in every country i can think of, chinese is the worst and theyre everywhere....
Not limited to China. But yes majority are from China. And parents who treated their children like princess. When they grow up they will realized that the boy or girl became a Queen that they themselves became the slave. *the queen are always right attitude
MEN IN THESE COUNTRIES NEED TO MARRY THESE VICIOUS WOMEN AND CAN;'T BLAME WOMEN FOR DOING SO , BUT ONCE GET HERE , YOU CAN LEAVE THAT HORRID MAN FROM USA AND WE WILL ALLOW YOU DO LEAVE THE OAF !!
I’m in Canada & I literally saw this scenario play out where a little Chinese boy walked onto a bike path with tons of bicycles riding from both directions & ofcourse got bumped into by a woman on her bicycle. The woman on the bike stopped & the boy fell over and started to cry while is mother (who saw it all play out) came running over to coddle him. The bicycle woman said “I’m sorry he walked infront of me is he ok?”, and the mother just reacted angrily in defence saying “you hit him, I saw you did it on purpose it’s your fault!!”. The bike lady just shook her head & said “whatever lady” & lost all empathy in that moment & made the right decision to continue riding on.
When a person start saying stuff like "Do you know who my husband is?" or who my family is?" anything on the line, already means that person is ignorant, bad manner, dirty as well.
🇨🇦 I worked at Costco for many years. I’ll never forget this. A Chinese boy about 8 or 9 years old struck his older sister in the face. Really hard. I could see the marks. I remember being frozen in my steps. The parents didn’t do or say anything. I sure did. I reamed out this boy while he stared in shock and confusion. Afterwards, no one said anything. I thought I would lose my job, but at that point I didn’t care. The good thing that came out of it was that the boy did look a little ashamed. The parents didn’t, they just looked like they wanted to be somewhere else It won’t go well for this boy in Canada because people speak up in situations like this. It’s not tolerated.
Nah , Canada has fallen like the rest of the west , stupid frozen people who prefer men on skates being needlessly violent toward each other. Meanwhile some commie traitor political dynasty led by third gen Castreau has sold out the country to exactly this other country in question , ( but also at least like half a dozen other undesirable hostile nations ) How did the trucker protests go? Nobody did jack sh.t! You're doomed just like the rest of us , most of Vancouver already belongs to the CCP.
Lol. Sure, Canadians can speak up all they like, but nothing will be done. Sharia law is being practiced in more and more places, and soon? Canada will be a Muslim majority and become Afghanistan 2.0 on ice.
Based of that sentence alone, I’d assume never. Any child with decent parents knows that that’s never a good thing to do to someone by the age of 6, hell, maybe younger
I've ran into many Chinese tourists here over the years, I really don't think those people are brought up to understand much of anything. They just do what they want.
Except IRL Crows and Ravens are Friendly and Diehard Loyals if you take care of them. Scorpions and Snakes are Good examples because no matter what Good you do to them , since they are inherently filled with Venom , all they with do is either sting you or bite you to give you the Venom.
@@patriotenfield3276 It´s a inbuilt instinct, a considerable amount of scorpions and snake species are supposed to live in harsh desert environments, the venom is to make dealing with prey efficient and help in their survival, that helps explain why they cant be tamed, they´ll always be wild and out for themselves. Dogs for instance can be tamed because they lived in more proper environments and devellopped to work alongside man as it´s best friend.
I went to a dinner party and had the 'pleasure' of sitting next to 3 kids. A 15 year old, a 12, and 9 year old. Brothers. This is an 80th birthday party for their grandmother. There two parents are the table. they all have recently moved back to Canada. The kids grew up in China.I sit at the last spot available, flanked by the kids. I say 'Hi'.. nothing. They are on their phones. I say hi louder, nothing. Again... nothing. Finally thier dad goes "He's talking to you guys." Nothing. The parents had some control so they put their phones down and said hi eventually and started talking a bit. Long story short the kids were on their phones the whole time whilst the parents tried to convince them to keep putting them away. Eventually they gave up. I was shocked by these kids behaviour, still am.
@@Mrnatox and the worst part about a lot of this is people with that type of mentality you can't tell them anything. You can't joke with them or be genuine about anything because they constantly view themselves as morally superior to everybody else. In their mind everybody else is insecure as they walk around being heavily disrespectful to everyone. I had a friendship become severely damaged because I knew a person that just could not let it go. They put everybody on edge Go out of their way to be as unlikable as possible and then wonder why nobody's happy. If they can't find something negative about a person they'll just make something up and constantly weaponize anything that person says or likes. I had to deal with so many people across the board that act this way. I pretty much just keep to myself.
It's worse. She actually also said: "Other 13 y/o's who kill people don't even go to prison but now it's just him throwing a phone, I'll just pay for your stupid phone." The hero more accurate said: "A child being paired with a mother like you is bound to become a waste of space."
When you constantly give your son or daughter everything and do not setup any rules this makes you the servant and someone beneath them.... and later in life they will not be interested in helping someone who they feel is beneath them.
I encountered similar behavior in South Korea about 20 years ago. One older child was kicking was every other child that was going down the slide. I went over and stopped him from kicking my 3 or 4 year old nephew by placing my arm in the way of the kick. The mother came over, hugged her 'little kicker' and accused me of hurting him. I had about 3 experiences like that in public places. I can see such kids growing up to be potentially dangerous sociopaths.
It's for this very reason I keep to myself. I caught quite a few people especially mothers raising their children like this and the only thing that's going to do is make people not want to help them or those kids.
Salvador used to have an issue with Gang violence and people were unsafe before the new president came and locked them all up. Their mothers came to their defense. These people committed horrible crimes. These women raise dangerous criminals that only care about themselves.
Salvador used to have an issue with Gang violence and people were unsafe before the new president came and locked them all up. Their mothers came to their defense. These people committed horrible crimes. These women raise dangerous criminals that only care about themselves.
My wife had a job watching a “little emperor” in our city and the kid attacked his mom with a knife and when my wife intervened she was stabbed repeatedly in the hands fending off the attack! My wife was a 17 year veteran police officer in Guangzhou, but the mother still stood up for her child!
In Asia, I saw a mother and her son and daughter walking down the street, the boy was probably around 7 and the little girl was no more than 4. She ran up and said "I love you brother!" and hugged him. He got angry and pushed her down, she fell on her butt and started crying. The mother rushed over and started scolding the daughter and slapping her wrist for bothering her brother. That was the first time I saw that sort of thing and I was dumbfounded by it. I found out that it was all too common.
Yep !! In asian culture a boy is much better than a girl , plus i see parents taking up seat in trains to make their kids sit when elderies and other in need people are standing , when i told my wife (she is asian btw) why they so spoiling of kids like that , she said they give them seats and stand next to them so they dont fall 😂 cmon now a 10 year old can climb the damn train from outside
No see… I wouldn’t be able to hold back and the mom and the boy would have gotten a smack down… I hope the little black hearted tyrant never finds a bride.
Just like in 1984 with Parsons being reported by their child to the police for thoughtcrime in his sleep. No mention of +1000 social credit points for doing so, but no doubt they were rewarded officially...
I worked in retail and have always seen Chinese kids often misbehaving and causing troubles in public. It's something inherently present in their DNA. You will always see Chinese tourists creating ruckus in airports and public places in foreign countries. This is why they can only be disciplined by communist dictatorship. And even their communist govt is a bully to the world, illegally occupying lands or claiming them, infecting the whole world population with diseases and getting away.
ONE time in my life I was hanging with my friends in my room at around 12 years of age, mom comes in and tells me enough with playing games you have cleaning chores and homework. I called her a crack head thinking I was gangsta and my friends started laughing. She smacked me over the head the way only a loving mother could do and she forced me and my friends to remove my PC, TV and games from my room. Made us clean the whole place and then we where sent out with no dinner that Saturday 🤣. I swear I loved that woman😄
why would you call anyone a crackhead? thats just dumb - and you got less than you deserved. as a Black Mom I would have sent you to bed with a whole lot less than no supper. Respect is Due to the people who provide for you and who actually Made YOU
mine burned part of my hand when i was 5 or 6 with a hot iron and looked deadazz into my eyes while doing that - it worked yo x) I still got a lil burn mark (cause apparently i was constantly reaching towards the clothes she was ironing and she said several times to me to stop)
To call people a waste of space is very immature and you must really think that you have some sort of authority and that you are deserving of everything good and you have to be pretty self-centered and really only care about yourself to say things like that. I would say that's a pretty big waste of your potential to make people good cuz that's not making people good that's just telling people that they're a waste of space and making them hate you. So congratulations you brought more hate into the world you did such a good job at fixing the world's problems by causing them.
@@stratejic1020it's quite likely that this was just the most similar English translation though, different languages rarely have the same expressions. He may have said something along the lines of the kid becoming useless in society, which is fair tbh.
'You're scaring my child by being so loud' ?!?! !??!! The MOTHER is the psychopath... That psychotic little emperor bully is ANYTHING BUT scared! He is the MOST CALM of everyone there!
"He's only 13 years old, he doesn't know anything" Well pretty sure when I'm 13 I don't just randomly kick a 3 year old, let alone rubbing ice cream around someone's phone
Some time ago, the culture in China was that children are raised with very high expectation of respect and service toward their families. They were expected to study for 16 hours per day so that they can go to engineering school and get a big job in the city, then take care of their parents. But the culture has kind of flipped due to the one child policy. The kids are practically worshipped by parents and grandparents that spare no expense for their children. They pay huge fees for after-school English and math tutors for their kids. They buy any supplies, computers, etc. that the kid needs even though the family can't afford it. The kids know that they're the most important person in the room and they are entitled to whatever they want, so they walk all over their parents. Totally different to how it was 40 years ago.
china is a civilization in decline. sure their willingness to be the cheapest production option gave them a little economic bump in the grand scheme of things (and companies are moving to india and africa now that chinas becoming more expensive) but none of that money went to the people, it all went to the top 1%. none of it went back to infrastructure or the future. just the CCP's greedy goblin hands. the cultural revolution eradicated all of their culture and history. the CCP destroyed any chance of recovering that history and developing real culture. the one child policy ensured their rapid population decline. they're self-imploding and we're just watching it in real time.
While I lived in China, there was a news report of some rich guy's son, he hit a woman riding a scooter with her child. He only knocked her down. She wasn't even hurt very badly. He got out of his car and strangled the woman to death. He did this because he didn't want the hassle of her suing him for hitting her. When he was picked up by the police, he said something about not wanting to be inconvenienced by a mere peasant. I'm certain he was sentenced to death for the crime, but I don't know if the sentence has been carried out or if he's still alive.
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@@crypterion_moonmoney wouldn't work in China in these cases either he will rot in jail or die. That is why people in china try maximum not to go in jail
I've worked in law enforcement for the past 23 years, and I've seen the results of an entire generation of parental malpractice. I've had a front row seat. I've _never_ seen kids who were spoiled like this turn out well, but what I have seen a _lot_ of is how terribly these kids, as teenagers and adults treat the parents who let them get away with anything when they were younger. I've seen more mothers than I could shake a stick at who were genuinely _afraid_ of their teenage or young adult sons -- sons to whom they never said "no" when they were little, and who thus developed a spoiled, entitled attitude, and reacted angrily to ever being told "no" when they were older. If the parents of these unspeakable little brats are going to count on those same boys taking care of them when they are old and retired... Well, I think they are going to be in for an eye-opening experience when they find out what it's like to be dependent on selfish monsters like the ones they created.
Thank you for your service!! 🫡🚔🚨 Prayers & protection your way, people have lost their marbles. My former BIL of 18 years is a police chief in another state, and one of my best friends was a K-9 detective for 15 years. He unfortunately retired due to PTSD. The stories I heard between the two were insane. I had the honor of raising two boys who are both in their mid twenties now. The good Lord spared me with my first born lol but my second was wild & strong willed haha Needless to say, he got popped in the rear a handful of times, with a fly-swatter. No marks lasted longer than 5 mins. After the 5th time all I had to do was give him “the look” 👀 and oooh it works Lolol - I know, I have a Latin Mother that I’m still a little scared of. Now she used to literally whip my……South American Mothers don’t play. I’ve never seen anything like this before. I’m grateful my Sons have morals, integrity & compassion. But PARENTS have to teach their children!!! They actually thanked me for many things recently. One was not making them into entitled rude spoiled brats. They both are kind & have good hearts. In all seriousness though, this video is really sad & disturbing to me. Something radically needs to change. Wow
couldnt have said it better myself. At one point in time people forgot how to actually parent a child and this is the inevitable result, and why im deciding not to have kids myself either. Why would i willingly bring another life into this world when these are the kinds of people who will be their peers and coworkers as they grow up? Unfortunately i get why its a larger problem in China because of their work culture, parents dont have much time to spend with their kids even if they wanted to, but the west is also starting to see children like this especially here in parts of America. Really dismal stuff, I hope now that people are waking up to this they’ll start disciplining their children more, but thats all dependent on the parents actually caring.
@@Samookely- You’re an intelligent person, and always trust your instincts/intuition. What you said I’ve thought about. I feel horrible in a way for saying this but bc the way our entire world is and especially the west (where I am) I don’t want my boys to have children. 😔 I got hell for becoming a Mother at 19 in 1997 but now I’m glad I did over this mess. Breaks my heart. Much peace & love your way!
"the way I raise my kid is none of your business" not a single adequate and competent parent has ever uttered such a line. an incompetent parent will have idiot children. "do you have any idea who my husband is" a failed father and a parody of a man
@@mondop5270if those kids are growing up to be violent, destrtuctive, and rude, and they're in the same society as children I, or others alike to me have raised in ways that haven't resulted in children like that. Then it is someone else's business, what if these children take out their violent tendencies on children who aren't raised to accept violence? THAT is our business. THAT is a society of civilised, compassionate, and growthful behaviour.
@mondop5270 "everyone should be allowed to do whatever they want. You seriously care what other ppl do?! our ancestors were Karens, we should not enforce social norms or anything like they did"
I saw those boys 20 years ago already in Beijing. I talked to our tour guide about it and he agreed, he said it will be "problematic". There are tons of those coming here to Canada, it will be a lot of fun.
We have a 7 year old kid from China, a son from a woman in a group I'm in. He is the absolute worst behaved kid I've ever seen. He will actually hit his mother, scream at the top of his lungs, etc. and she does nothing about it. She also has a 17 year old daughter who is somehow extremely considerate, the complete opposite of her brother.
Chinese people wanted sons to pass on their family name and possessions. With one child policy the parent became the servants and go to the extreme to protect and to coddle their one and only son.
@RustyShakleford1 I think it's actually the opposite. The daughter seems to have been taught the word "no" before, and the son has seemingly never heard it from his parents. Everything was always allowed, so when he finally had restrictions, he acted out. He is used to the world belonging to him, and cant handle the fact that ourside of his parents, it doesnt.
My GF asked a kid to stop bringing his dog to do it's business on our clothes drying area. The following day the mother started shouting at us for saying anything to the kid. I think I'm saying that we have little horrors too.
My late Mum once took on a Chinese student here in the UK, he lived with my parents to learn about UK culture and attended a private international college for overseas students. Anyway this kid was a nightmare, he would shout in Chinese at my parents. He sh$t on the bathroom floor and left it there, and finally one day he randomly slapped my mum. That was the end of it, my Dad called the police and he was arrested for assault. His parents actually flew over to collect him a few days later and take him back.
Lucky your parents had control of their temper and just called the police... personally, I would have probably hurt him with way more force than he used on my mother.
My co-worker and casual friend is a half-Chinese half-white only son to a Chinese mother. At 28, his parents bought him a newly built single family house in the suburbs of San Diego, pricey home. But that was not the problem. At 28, his mother also came over to cook, clean, and do his laundry! He had a girlfriend that was also my friend. One day he asks her to marry him and she smartly said NO. The guy is actually a normal behaving dude (not mean or rude) but his girlfriend said that he does absolutely NOTHING at home, expected her to serve him like his mother served him. She didn't want to become his "new" mother so backed out of the entire relationship. His Chinese mother basically ruined him for all women.
I know of sons who were raised to be independent who cook, clean, iron and are decent human beings but they married women who are lazy, can’t cook, entitled, spent most of their time on grooming and shopping; do nothing in the home. The men are now the emasculated ones. Just saying - every child needs to be raised to be able to live independently. No one owes them a living
I have seen this in some families. Kids are 25 and 22 and they dont do one small thing. Me and my wife got so mad since we came from struggle and we never seek anything from our family member.
My sons are birracial and they were bullied at school for being black. My elder son was bullied in a class to the extent he didn’t want to go to school. I tried to talk to him and he came clean saying there is a boy in his class who bullies him. I stopped my kids from fighting at school and I taught them manners from home. Being silent made that bullu feeo empowered. I added his mother’s contact from the group chat and tried to talk to her explaining what her son did to my son and showed her the bruise my son got on his face from her son’s actions. The mother didn’t even want to talk to her son she asked me a question what if my son is lying? She continued to defend her son saying her son can’t do such a thing. I got angry and I told her if you can’t teach your son manners my son will teach him. I hanged up the phone and I told my son to beat that boy next time he tried to bully him. It took only three days the boy tried again his gave and my son gave him the african slap he tried to fight back but my son is very strong he defeated him in a fight. From that day he wasn’t bullied again at school and he is now on 5th grade protecting his younger brother too. This little emperor syndrom really piss me off. Looking at adults beating up their old parents because they blame them for their own failure in life really shows the outcome of how they raise their kids. My boys are raised well and I discipline them when they misbehave. I’m the onoy daughter in my family I have four brothers but my parents didn’t treat me like a special child. I was raised the same way my brothers were, and I have two sons that know how to do house chores and cook simple dishes because I want them to be responcible adults.
Very smart for introducing your boys to the kitchen and other parts of the house. Our two boys are in their late 30's now, but believe you me, when they were big enough to stand on a step-stool, they were loading their own laundry in the washer; same step stool for the kitchen sink to rinse dishes; same step stool to get linens out of the closet to change their sheets. Likewise, their older sister was out in the driveway with me showing her how to change a tire and start the lawnmower!
@@r.f.pennington746It’s good to introduce chores at the young age.They’ll grow up to be responcible. My husband cooks and cleans. When I cook he washes dishes and we help each other to clean the house. The boys have grown now they clean their own room and they help with dishes and dusting.
"How I raise my child is none of your business" You take a shit in your toilet at home, then it's none of my business. You bring that shit to a the restaurant I'm eating at, and it becomes my business.
I once read an editorial where someone said something along the lines of "children are nothing more than uncivilized little barbarians that care for nothing but themselves and their own needs and wants. It's the job of the parents to drag them into civilization and teach them how to become civilized themselves."
Actually children do have an innate sense of morality, kindness, and fairness (apart from the few who are born psychopaths). They have to live in an incredibly abusive or permissive family, and often culture too, to make them into real barbarians.
Do as your Mother/Father-land says! (USSR/Beijing - version) Similar words but has a very different meaning compare to the European/more democratic version / also vastly different in peace/war time.
My mother and I were visiting a family friend in Tokyo. We went to have lunch in at the Tokyo Sky Tree. At a table next to us sat a family with three children. The children were WILD. Yelling, screaming, and hitting each other. Our friend said to us that you can tell that they’re Chinese by their behavior, before they speak😅
I was in the Philippines playing golf in Davao and I experienced the Japanese men as very polite and calm and the chinese men were utterly obnoxious, full of themselves and believing their kungfu was more powerful than my Texas Right Hook Hammer and my Georgia southpaw Liver killer...lol. All they could do was mutter in Chinese while I stared them down... Just Rude. But Communism BREADS superiority complexes. Marxism does the same and why we are seeing it in our youth in America today..
What these parents can't understand is, if you don't raise your kids at home, someone WILL do it on the streets. If your kid comes like that (the restaurant bit) at me and mine, your kid will FLY over the table. I quarantee it.
What you don't understand is that this is how socialism and aristocracy works. West is the anomaly the socialists and aristocrats are trying to destroy.
Where I come from if you touch a kid, never mind so forcefully he flies over a table, you're going to jail. I guarantee it. There is no excuse for that behavior. If you have a problem with a child's actions you take it up with his father. Be a man, not a cowardly bully.
@@Cujo5 the borg are a race of people where there is a hivemind controls what all the individuals do. If someone is part of a borg they are in a collective where they don't think for themselves and don't act as individuals.
I was with a group of friends at a Chinese restaurant at Thornliegh in Sydney Australia, and most of us speak Chinese. A neighbouring table had two kids running around the restaurant and generally making a bloody nuisance of themselves. This rising annoyance in us lead to me bellowing at the children to stop and sit down (in English) almost simultaneously another of my friends chimed in and berated the littles brats, then his wife in Chinese ripped the parents in Chinese , the restaurant manager made herself known to the table of problems and asked them to leave. So they are bringing that crap here to Oz as well.
@@rh906 Indeed. The Chinese Cultural Revolution (or should be say, total cultural destruction), was something even Stalin didn't and would have never done. Ironically PRC parted even with the USSR after the latter condemned Stalin.
When i was 13 i was mowing lawns for old neighbors for money or free . And making money doing a paper run. And had respect for others. At 16 working at a steel fab factory ,Cheers from Australia
Hi mate, that is the normal.... Greetings from Hungary. I even got a slap from my parents if I behaved badly. I grew up successfully and did not become violent. I also did student work from the age of 14, even during school/learning.
Yes, the previous generation of Chinese were working at a steel fab factory at 16. I'm talking about during Deng Xiaoping. When all the famous photos were taken.
I am a Singaporean Chinese. When I was young, my parents ever said this to me, "Should I ever become a terror to society, they will kill me themselves". I'm so glad I turned out decent.
In the US, I've heard moms say with a slightly joking but very stern voice, "I brought you into this world, I can take you out of it!" Parenting techniques are hardly one-size-fits-all, but do what is most effective to love your kid with hard boundaries where it matters. No boundaries means you aren't protecting them from themselves.
yeah, that really bugged me - not very good parents either if you ask me. very young family though, so i guess they haven't yet met the monsters of this world.
I remember seeing a documentary where a doctor in Syria was explaining how heart broken she was every time she delivered a girl because she knew what life had in store for her as she was choking back tears. I grew up extremely religious (Pentecostal) and for as long as I can remember, I wished I was born a boy. Not in a transgender sense at all, I never *felt* like a boy or that I should have been a boy, but that simply I wished I wasn’t the origin of sin and that I could have a say in my life and choices. I am not religious anymore and have done lots of therapy to help me heal from that shit.
This video explains an incident I encountered at Shanghai Airport and never understood. I had a long stopover and used some points on my credit card to spend a couple of hours in an airport lounge. Towards the end of my two hours, a Chinese couple in their late 30s came in with not one, but two young boys, aged about eight and ten. The boys ran totally amok yelling and screaming at the tops of their voices. It was a quiet space with only adults eating or tapping away on their laptops. Surely I thought, the parents will tell their kids to behave. Nope. They just carried on being little shits and the parents completely ignored them and their awful behaviour. The boys started throwing food from the buffet around and no-one did or said anything. The lounge attendants just cleaned up the mess and carried on as if this was completely normal. No-one even looked up from their laptops or said a word. This incident stuck in my mind as some of the worst, most selfish behaviour I'd ever experienced. I wondered if all Chinese parents were like this. I finally understand what was going on that day.
They must have been to Otago University to learn from some of the students behavioural issues where in Dunedin the university just accommodate this for better or worse. It's hopefully just a minority in this instance otherwise we're in for a hiding to nowhere.
My mum would have grabbed me by my ear til it nearly ripped off or put the plate of food in my face, you only have to try that kind of thing twice in your whole life, then never again, same with pets, same with women.
In schools and stuff (just speaking from the west) I remember we would always kinda have how to be an upstanding citizen types of classes and assignments to do. is that a bit more uncommon in china?
Thank you I'm Ukrainian and thank you for sharing your story. I struggle with standing up, but your videos make me believe it's really possible to stand up in different situations
I generally agree with the sentiment, "How I raise my child is none of your business." However, when your child is wreaking havoc on other people and doing stuff like that, then your child's behavior becomes other peoples business.
That kid will be punished for his actions. It's up to the parents to decide if they determine the punishment or leave it up to some random (probably drunk) person to dish out.
I disagree. How children are raised IS everyone’s business. I raise my child to become a considerate and functioning member of society. Nothing short of this is acceptable.
Seeing this just made me miss my dad, he’s dead now but he was a good solid single dad for 18 years of my life. He raised me so good and always taught me everything. He showed me to be kind, respectful, to be thoughtful, to help people whenever an opportunity arises, how to have empathy, and to be honest. I feel bad for kids raised by people that don’t love them, and i mean truly love them.
@@agata3958It’s alright buddy, He’s in a better place now… He fell ill in my senior year of highschool with the disease of addiction. Dad was extremely good at hiding it aswell, but that didn’t last. Fentanyl is what said killed him on his autopsy report but he was a crack addict.
I read Dear Leader, a book about an important upper level North Korean, Jang Jin-Sung, who escaped to China and ended up living briefly with a wealthy Chinese family who had a teen age son. This spoiled only son was allowed to do whatever he wanted and even though they all hated it they never punished him for anything. Jang, who was staying with them tried to correct the teen. The teen, furious at being thwarted, turned the entire family into the Chinese government for harboring this man who was hiding out from the North Korean government. I suspect that this is a tale repeated many times over in China these days. These boys, now men, have been trained for their lifetime to be narcissistic, spoiled, selfish and completely callous towards others; little sociopaths. The boy in the video reminded me of how they became what they now are.
Just like in the Soviet Union. People were so indoctrinated by the system that children informed on their parents and neighbors informed on each other. Communism turns everybody into a selfish individualist doing everything they can to climb up the social ladder in a system where everything is supposed to belong to everybody equally and that everybody was 100% equal to their peers.
I was raised by my grandfather. Just thinking about child me behaving like this still scares me, and I'm 49. There is no way I would even have thought to behave like this.
My wife and I once fostered 2 "little emperors". It was such a battle to get them to behave but in the end they loved us for it. The little boys came to appreciate that we disciplined them because we cared enough to do it. Their parents were in complete shock when they received their well mannered children.
@@WythenshawePhilIt never happened. Little Emperors are a result of mothers spoiling them so I very much doubt kids in care would behave the same way.
@@entropy5431yes.. in the West the coddling of boys turns them into weak gays or trans, in China it turns them into overly toxic masculine males 😂 funny that
@@entropy5431kids are actually very malleable and will test the boundaries of each new adult that comes into their lives, which is why some behave for one parent and not the other, or are angels in one classroom but hellions in another. Put them into an environment where the expectations are clearly communicated and boundaries are consistently enforced, and even the worst kids, even ones who are almost adults, as I found teaching high school, will fall in. I was once told by a student that he loved having me because even though I called him out regularly for his 💩, (his words) I did so fairly and also recognized when he was doing something good, and never said he was a bad person, just his behavior.
@@piaz2023 actually you’re right! Most of the time it is the daughter in law that take care of the elderly at home. Happened and expected in most of Asia.
Either watching you and Laowhy86 on the videos covering these issues together or by yourself is definitely interesting. Salute to you guys bringing us hot topics.
When I was a postgrad uni student in the UK, I went on a visit to London with my colleague from mainland China. The guy just turned 40., and we were discussing girls and dating. Since he was older than me, I asked him if he was planning to get married and have kids. He gave me a look of complete shock and said....noooo, I am far too young for that...later, maybe in 5 to 10 years...He then proceeded to have a 40-minute phone conversation with his mother telling her that he was having a great time in London, every minor detail included😆 I have never been so weirded out in my life. These people are so delusional they think the limitations of time and biology don't apply to them😂🤣
They are fully aware. It's just they have no empathy for their young, or wives. Dude probably planed to buy some poor girl off of some poor lower class family and make her raise his crotch goblins. Men have no biological clock for fertility. There is no menopause for men. Dude could just knock up some women and then die before his kids even utter their first words. No Chinese "parents" would ever raise their child if they can afford to pay someone else to deal with it.
I know that u know all of this but i still can't help but write all of this so excuse me. Once he turn 50 if he is not rich enough no girl in right mind will look at him. Which is a recipe for disaster. 🫠🫠🫠 Imagine having kids at that age as well. Having to take care of children at such old age and dying much before than them. I know it is excessive detail but... "mama 's boy" type of guys aren't appealing for most ppl, in fact its a instant turn off. That is a type of guy who will die alone or have a mistress who charges per hour.🫠🫠🫠
It strikes me that the Chinese military will never be a real threat. In the military individuals need to be ready to do the hard things. Little emperors will never make the necessary sacrifices..
It seems a disproportionate amount of Chinese military recruitts struggle with the mental and physical demands of intensive combat training. Nothing new, been like that for a while
Also the lack of specialists as well, a lot of countries have this problem like the US but it’s far worse in China, especially now when they are focusing on upgrading the technology in the army, who’s gonna operate the fancy high tech equipment that needs years of training like an aircraft carrier. Anyone who has any talent would definitely make 5x more money in the civilian sector than joining the military.
I grew up in the most Chinese part of the most Asian city in Canada and this is nothing new. It was disgusting then and it's disgusting now. I've also been there when a few of these problems got a full dose of the real world and the look on their face when they can't comprehend what's happening is priceless.
@tonytu3913 In my experience they don't. They live in bubbles where their abhorrent behavior is not only tolerated but common and accepted. At least in the areas I'm familiar with there are large enough communities of Chinese immigrants that they don't have to (or have any desire to) interact with anyone outside of that community except on incredibly rare occasions.
This is not at all a surprise to me - being married to a Chinese woman (who has her head on straight) and trying to raise our children, it quickly became clear to me that none of the inlaws really understand what it means to raise children, to teach them discipline, responsibility, empathy, self awareness, and an understanding of how reality works (cause/effect/consequence). Wife and I have had to limit contact between the kids and her extended family because they're just such bad influences, and despite having good intentions, actively undermine our parenting. No mater how many times we have explained, for example, why it's is a bad thing to reward bad behavior, they just don't seem to be able to comprehend anything other than, 'the kid is unhappy so give them whatever they want until they're happy' and refuse to enforce any of the rules, restrictions, consequences, etc. we have put in place. On the one hand it's amusing to see grown adults so completely and effectively manipulated by children, but on the other hand it's maddening that grown adults can't seen to grasp the basic necessity of needing to tell kids "no" sometimes. We ultimately had to make the decision that the extended family don't get unsupervised time around the kids until they respect our rules (and again they seen completely unable to comprehend this basic boundary). Family is family, but parental responsibility to raise our children to be functional, responsible, healthy adults, trumps all. And so it goes.
This! I see so many clueless, ignorant parents that let the grandparents raise their kids even if they have no education or even the energy to do so. No reading parenting books or making sacrifices for them. Child free overseas trips, yip. Screen time? Not a thing. Child car seats? Naaa.
Aku juga, aku dari Indonesia, tepatnya pulau Bali. Setiap aku main ometv dan mencoba server barat yaitu amerika, mereka selalu menyipit kan mata mereka menggunakan jarinya, dan selalu mengatakan cingcong cingcong, padahal aku tidak berbahasa china😅, aku berbahasa Bali dan Indonesia, aku main ometv untuk menambah teman dari luar negeri dan sambil belajar bahasa inggris, tapi setelah itu aku langsung trauma dan malu untuk main ometv server barat lagi, padahal saat itu umurku baru 18 tahun 😅, aku main pas jaman covid masih sangat banyak terjadi
am Chinese, I can definitely see how the Chinese grandparents and older relatives will, most definitely ruin your child's everything if you or your partner let them have their way with your child. Good job being a responsible parent, keeping them stupid, and enabling "relativities" out of your child's life, there is no place for such idiocy in this modern world
Good man ⭐ My mother was a narcissist, as was her father, and my sister was created a monster from the same mould under my mother's toxic influence. Don't trust anyone around your children. Narcissists are all ab_sers sooner or later and s-xual ab_se is common. A narcissist child's dysfunctional attitude and personality disorder is already set in stone by their teenager years. They're entitled, addicted to power and control over everyone, addicted to attention and creating drama, are manipulative, pathological liars, self-serving and devoid of empathy. Watch for the smug smirk of schadenfreude on the narcissist's face, it's a de@d giveaway of the personality disorder. My brother and I are only now talking honestly about our dysfunctional family, and the lifelong impacts that toxic people have on children growing up trapped with them. I've had to cut my narcissist sister out of my life too, because she made me her permanent scapegoat, and even after that she was stalking me using her husband to do it. My father has remained wilfully blind to it to stay married to my mother, and let her treat my brother with unwavering vitriol and antagonism -- he was her permanent scapegoat. I told my father that my sister had been stalking me and that it's a jailable crime, and he just sat there indifferent to it. He's been warped and twisted by relationship with narcissists in our family. I won't say anymore about my family, but again I express my respect for you as a protective, insightful Dad and husband. Every child should have a Dad like you. May the Lord God bless you and your wife and children.🇦🇺
Acting like that at 13!!? I was going on movie dates at 13, riding dirt bikes, cutting grass, sports. This summarizes china up a lot more than people realize. Excellent, excellent video Winston. I love this topic. I think it helps people understand what we’re dealing with. Keep up the great work.
We had a situation not too long ago, where we had a Little Emperor come to the states to visit us, and he played with my niece, who is Asian-American, and she's extremely confident by nature. More so than even your average kid. You can imagine how that went...it was a nightmare. She wasn't having any of it. I actually felt sorry for the boy because he is still young, and his situation could be turned around if the parents changed their approach now, but they won't. He would yell at his mom and say stuff like "you need to say sorry to me NOW!!!!!", and his mom would start crying and run away. She had lost all control, and just let him dictate how everything would go. He was generally destructive with our belongings in the house, rude, and when we finally dropped them off at a hotel, he started rearranging all the furniture in the lobby and laughing. The mom did nothing to chastise the kid or put the furniture back, so I did. I apologized for the behavior to the hotel clerk. It was just ridiculous. But nothing can change, because parents will coddle these types of kids, until it's just too late to reverse the damage. It happens all over the world, but your right there's a bigger problem of it in China. From my observation there, parents would sometimes say "oh he's just a child" if a boy did something wrong, but really get upset with a daughter if she misbehaves. The other thing that used to kill me was watching grandparents spoon feed the boys until they were like 10 or just generally just too old to be fed by another person. I never noticed that behavior, at least as extreme, with girls. It was, and sounds like it still is, quite inbalanced.
that sounds like me. I try to spoon feed my son every chance I get until one day when he is about 8 he told me : "mom I am not a baby" but yet i still push my luck to spoon feed him but just not successful. I am a mom for only once but the baby grew up too fast :D
I have noticed in SE Asia, that tourists from mainland China, have only one volume when speaking even when standing beside the listeners; extremely loud.
@@robertsmart5600 Americans are bad travellers (or were) followed by the Israelis and Russians then the Chinese, and one thing they all have in common is that out of all the nations these are the ones whose politics are not up for discussion, the worse and loudest are the thinnest skinned.
@@robertsmart5600you are going to treat a nation of immigrants that covers 6 time zones as a monolith of national identity? Hmmm, sounds like you are either triggered or a troll.
I live near LA and about half of my complex is Asian. I was working from home and went into our lounge so I could work undistracted by my pile of laundry to be folded😂, and about 5 minutes into my work, here comes some chick. It’s a common area so I didn’t think anything of it until she started screaming “Nihao”. I politely went over after about 20 mins, when I could no longer tolerate it and had to wave at her to get her attention. I asked her, again politely, if she could just keep her volume a little lower as she was very distracting and went back to my work. She finished what she was doing and then left. Came back ten minutes later screaming at me about how she was sick and her boss yelled at her and how I should’ve just let her finish her class. First, I’m thinking what the heck are you doing in a common area sick and then why is she screaming at me? She was loud enough that property staff came to check on me so I explained, in case she tried to make a complaint. So, it’s not just the boys apparently. Wild!
I have seen first hand the total lack of responsibility of chinese parents with their child. I saw how a small boy was allowed to take a dump right in the aisle of a shop in the Bicester Village retail park. His parents just walked off and left it there for people to step in. Down right disgusting.
I've seen two instances of young boys wildly berating their Chinese mothers in public in Manhattan. I was appalled, especially at how their mothers said and did nothing. They have no prospect of being good men
You are really disrespecting two little boys who dont know better and were not properly taught. If they were then theyll act better. Alot bad boys become men in prison. Look at the men in AA community
Oh man, as I was watching that, I was just thinking: "My mom would have, *_Kicked. My. Ass._* right then and there in the restaurant if I behaved like that; and that would have just been the preview for when we got home." Now that I am much older and in my late thirties, I can look back and truly appreciate my mom for being both strict, firm and making us take responsibility for our actions as kids, while also rewarding good behavior; as we all turned out all the better for it. Because patience and discipline is something that is taught by the parents to their children. If the parents are impatient and undisciplined, it rubs off onto their children, with this mother and child being an excellent example of this. I recall a time back when I was probably 6 or 7. I threw a fit at a store because I wanted something and didn't have enough allowance to afford it, and I accidently knocked over a display of cans in the process. Which was *really* loud, so it drew the attention of more or less everyone in the general area in the store. My mom didn't move an inch until I picked up every can and put the one's undamaged back while everyone was watching, and then she bought the damaged ones... which came out of my allowance for the next three months. Suffice it to say... I never did anything like that, *_ever_* again. XD
it was inconsiderate of the parent to allow it in the first place. At least we know where the kid gets it. The parents do not care, why would the child? Her excuse is he doesn't know any better, and the question then why doesn't she teach him?
I'm not sure, maybe to do with Cantonese people? After all they were all called Nanman (savages) because no one dared to live in the wild Canton in the early days.
It's a reference to the rich spoiled Chinese coastal elites, who live in places like Shanghai and Hong Kong. Similar to how in the United States internal residents have contempt to coastal people, to call people as "left coasters" or "soy boys".
Me & my mum were on a flight to Beijing from Kota Kinabalu (in 2018), and a little kid (about 5-6 y/o) was sitting behind my mum, the kid's mother sitting right next to her (I know she's the mother because the kid calls her "mama"). The kid kept kicking the back of my mum's seat and the mother just lets her. I kept looking back and gave the kid and her mother scathing looks, while my mum just sat quietly, but I could see that my mum was highly uncomfortable but she doesn't want to say anything. The kid's mother acted like she didn't see me throwing her dirty looks. For context, I'm Malaysian, from Sabah to be exact. I look nothing like a Chinese person (I'm a native Borneo tribe), but I'm fluent in Mandarin because I attended a Chinese school in Malaysia. Finally, I've had enough of the kid's shenanigans so I stood up and turned to look at the mother, and warned her that if she doesn't stop her kid from being obnoxious, I'm gonna switch places with my aunt (who conveniently sat behind the kid's mother) and start kicking *her* seat. More than anything, the kid's mother was so shocked to hear me speak in Mandarin that it took her a while to actually process what I said to her. I bet she never expected someone who looks like me (a typical native Borneo look - dark skinned, short & stocky build a.k.a "pindik tagap" in our local language) could speak Mandarin flawlessly. When she came to her senses, thankfully she heeded my warning and scolded her kid. The kid sat quietly (or at least as quiet as a kid could be, she did whine and cry here and there, but she never kicked my mum's seat again) for the rest of the 7-hour flight.
I lived on-and-off in Sabah from 2008-2015 and speak decent Mandarin, having previously lived in Taiwan. I was quite concerned to see the drastic increase in self-entitled Chinese tourists there during that period.
i am a chinese person and i immediately married my husband who is a native Sabahan (sino Kadazan) once i found out he could speak mandarin because I knew he would be earning alot of money after we graduated, plus sino Kadazans tend to be very good looking. True enough he now earns alot of money :D:D
I love how that guy was like "do you live on a deserted island? He's going to grow up to be a waste of space." Tbh I feel more sorry for the child, she raised him to be this way.
I grew up under an unmedicated schizophrenic farther and I remember getting my ass beat for getting 299/300 across 3 exams combined. I am always shocked at how differently people are treated in different families.
I had a Vietnamese friend whose parents were like that. I thought that was just normal for Asian parents. It'd explain why Asian kids always do well in school and are so disciplined. But there are extremes in every direction. I got whippings too. But usually it was for something serious, usually life threatening or disrespectful I did. Using the same punishment for every infraction is abuse.
I've experienced this in the UK at a Santa's grotto - a Chinese family burst in & ran around destroying everything, knocked over the tree, stole presents laughing and filming each other. We eventually managed to get them out. It was weird most Chinese people are so polite. They were just so entitled and didn't care.
As a Vietnamese, we have a similar issues with little emperors and their parents that got memeified on the web, albeit less egregious. In their memeified representation, spoilt kids are depicted either abusing pets (with FAFO depending on the abused animal) or damaging mecha/anime figures and even expensive PC rigs. The latter case, and the more popular in particular, would get dismissed by the parent of the little emperor, often with a dash of victimblaming for not safeguarding the property or, even ad hominem towards the victim being a "manchild" for owning figures (still widely perceived as toys and not worth bringing up for compensation). To add salt to injury, the victim would also be pressured by their own family to sweep the matter under the rug instead of pressing for compensation due to the LE's parents being a family friend/business partner, etc.
u never lived in vietnam so u shouldn't be talking dude, in vietnam i seen parent beat the living sh!t of their kids, vietnamese parent are known to beat their kids
When I lived in Shanghai, our apartment manager organized a Halloween event where the children could do trick-or-treat. At each residence, the children were told to take only one or two candies. But most Chinese children grabed two fistfulls of candy, and they were encouraged to do this by their grandparents. So, I do understand Chinese culture, it is to lie, cheat, grab and steal as long as you can get away with it.
Yes! I witnessed that also as I currently live in Shanghai. But that also happens in America. There are ring videos showing grown adults taking the whole bowl of large candy into their own candy bags with their kids present. It all comes down to the parents and how they raise them. So sad.
I wouldn´t say chinese Culture but Maoist Culture. Taiwanese are Han-Chinese too and they know how to behave most of the Time. Same with Hong Kong until recently.
Unfortunately we also have kids like this in the UK, kids that have never heard the word "No" who have parents (or more usually a parent) that give them whatever they want and defend or make excuses for whatever appalling behaviours they display.
Lazy parenting. I work with those kids often, a lot of them come from backgrounds where the parents don't give a shit about them, so my colleagues and I have to pick up the slack.
@@Deepak_Arya yeah, but the difference is that in China society can’t intervene without severe consequences like the western societies can. Communism 🤡
My daughter got involved with a south Korean guy several years ago, his dad was American, mom SK. She (they) raised him the same way, he was in and out of prison, nothing but trouble, still is, living with dad. She is long out of it now and lesson learned, Amen.
I disagree. Children need structured environments with limits and an understanding of why etc, but also need unstructured periods. Without the latter, they won't learn self sufficiency, self control, self organization. Someone I knew talked about growing up, leaving home after breakfast on non school days, playing in the mountains with friends all day, all fine if she was back 15 minutes before dinner. She grew up to be a stable, sensible, productive adult with a good job and sensible, stable children. Another person that I knew, clearly only given structured time, struggled a bit when outside that. Still a nice person, but a less healthy situation, more struggle than necessary. Children need both to become ready for adulthood. My 2c.
@bearcubdaycare 💯 I had all work no play as a child and it ruined me. You need unstructured play and alot of social interaction I was ignored nit spoked to much and given sports to play year round it really ruined me
Don't be ridiculous, little emperors won't have to face war or go into a real battle because their parents will pay someone high up off. So they either wont have to be enlisted, or even if they are a low ranking soldier they will be given some type soft easy position that's no where near any of the fighting going on.
Instead of putting her small daughter behind her she continues to keep her in front of her while having the argument. It was very dangerous and irresponsible.
Lil demon rubs his ice cream all over the dad’s phone and then the demon’s mother says “you’re scaring my child by being so loud”. Ummmmm… scared little children don’t just destroy other people’s property (clearly) intentionally!!! A scared little child wouldn’t just take the same phone out of the stranger’s hand and throw it into soup!!!
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Hello serpentza, thank you for illuminating these problems.
I have a question what is the hierarchy of discrimination in china?
Who's the best and who's the worst and who's in between in china?
@@Afsancodamn that place sounds like Southern California
The emperor has no clothes
I'm kind of glad I live in Japan instead...the respect culture gets a bit exhausting but you don't run into this nonsense very often. And we have actual social security systems here.
"The kid is growing up to be a waste of space" the dude that said that phrase is a real one, props to him.
And That boys and girls is why you go to Japan instead.
No, he is not a real one.
@@detective2221 nah hes def THE real one
@@Fakemarcel He does not know the future.
@@detective2221 doesn't take a crystal ball to see the future of that child
The irony of thinking that after raising a narcissistic sociopath, he will care about taking care of you in your old age.
Yup, the ole 'goes around, comes around' dictum.
Right. Ugly little monsters.
This is Chinese CULTURE we're talking about. Where there a saying that "if you can cheat, cheat," with Chinese international students being kicked out of schools en masse.
Here is your fish head for the week, now shut up mom.
@kevg1617 This is happening everywhere. In America, my son HAD A FRIEND (both about 9 yrs old) who was half Chinese (the mother was from China) and half White (the father from the USA). This child would not listen to the rules, disobeyed constantly, was rude, smarted mouthed, lied, was overly aggressive and disrespectful to my child and to me. His mother believed every lie her son uttered and was definitely raising him to be a LITTLE EMPEROR. I finally had to put an end to the friendship because he was a terror. This behavior will not serve him well in college nor the business world. Others will just not put up with it!
How can you excuse his behavior by saying "He's only 13 years old!" when the 3 year old next to him is more well behaved
Difference between sons and daughters
Because the parent does not know who to explain her chills disability to others. Think autism like. Further scolding the and spanking the child the child just learn that is normal behavior to expect from others and does not draw the conclusion of how that behavior came to be from other people. It is disconnected. When she is saying he is only 13, she is trying to say , please calm down. he has a disability that going to set him off further, which is what happened.
@@SoIAm1968 she then should have apologised and said its a disability not got belligerent. And if he has a disability she needs to seat him away from other people, on her other side, to minimise such interactions. It's her responsibility that her kids does not create a nuisance to others, since she already knows he has a disability and the others don't
@@SoIAm1968well she did a shit job of explaining
@@SoIAm1968 I have autism and when I was 13 I wasn't acting like this. Having a disability does not give you a permit to be a douche, and disabled people are fully capable of being functioning members of society, and when you say that that sort of behaviour to you implies autism, it makes me think you view autistic people as idiots incapable of self-reflection. If the kid was having an autistic meltdown which could be caused by overstimulation or similar factors, it's still up to the mother to take the kid somewhere safe so he can calm down and feel better without strangers staring at him. But he wasn't having a meltdown cause meltdowns aren't kicking other children and destroying other people's property - those are deliberate actions caused by a deliberate desire to bully and assert dominance. Autistic meltdowns are caused by panic, overwhelm, and the last thing someone who's going through a meltdown wants is more attention. I've never kicked anyone or tried to break someone's phone during a meltdown, and I'm sure a lot of other autistic people will attest to the same. If the child's disability was so severe he really didn't know kicking other people was bad, his mother should've taken him to a restaurant more suited to his needs. If your child is disabled you don't drag them into places where they feel overwhelmed and anxious.
"do you live next to the sea" lol is that the Chinese version of "did you grow up in a barn?"
Honestly, in this day and age, growing up on the coast/in the countryside would probably be a luxury compared to this. As someone who goes back to my rural family home in between uni semesters in the city, it's night and day.
@@discipleofdagon8195how is life near the beach?
@@tictactoe101 if it's a poor industrial zone then not as pleasant
@@discipleofdagon8195 hell nah definitely not most of the countrysides, unless you are talking about the top 3% or so then maybe (refer to Suzhou countrysides, for example)
that was so weird lol I'd assume as it happens basically everywhere that living next to the sea is usually more linked to prosperity than living further from it inland...
Imagine how abusive and cruel these boys will be when they're adults and taking care of their elderly parents. Parents beware----you are training your sons how to treat you when you are old and unable to defend yourself.
Wives beware, can you imagine how bad those little shits will be as adult men....
Imagine how abusive spoiled husband and his parents will be to new wife. If I were female Ch!nese, I would leave the country.
Imagine how abusive the husband and his parents will be to the new wife.
👏👏👏 hear hear
@@kathymc234It's not so easy to just leave the country. You have to be allowed to do that...
Props to that dude for stepping up and dealing with that out of control child. That’s incredibly rare in China.
Chances are, the mom and her family will end up blaming that dude. Take it from me, somehow this act of good intentions will get twisted by father dearest and the grandparents.
Sounds like he is a Traditional Chinese because it is impossible for any normal Communist influenced Chinese to break the same CCP Society character and actually step in a roadside matter and try to solve it.
Thats no child, thats a demon spawn.
its men, as always, blame yourselves
@@theandroids And guess who made that demon ?
"He's only 13 years old"
If I'd have done that in front of my mother, at 13, the police would have never found my body.
100%
imagine a child protests
and the child are immune to jails making a family vulnerable
imagine a orphan protests
The product of prosperity: spoilt sh!ts.
Yeah throughout my whole childhood I got slappee like 3 times I dont even know for what anymore but if I did this Im 100% sure it would have been number 4 😂
Way different generations these days! It's really alarming the way some kids act these days! At least I know my grandkids will be raised the right way! They won't be a statistic!
This makes some sense to me, a few years back when in Cebu Philippines. Im Australian. A young Chinese boy was rude to me when getting into a hotel lift, pushing in front, and spitting upon my shoes! Another time at a breakfast buffet, a boy simply put ALL of the eggs onto his plate to prevent the foreigner getting just one. I was horrified at this rude attitude, and it was scoffed at and encouraged by both parents.
yeah everyone of us in the Philippines secretly knows Chinese are jerks no matter the race.
There are some people who have kids because they want to and then there are those that have them because its expected or to fit in. I too have had similar experiences .
This is what happens when their mom is a pickme. It's no different from the "boy mom" epidemic in the west. Of course the boy will think he's a god. As much as I didn't want to put the blame mostly on women, most DO worship their sons. Even when they're not neglected by their husband. My aunt worships her son when my uncle has always catered to her. These women create the monsters they later complain about. People aren't ready for this conversation.
This is why mainland chinese tourists are detested so much in pretty much every country they visit in, because of these kinds of behaviour they show very predatory to opportunity (or greedy). Its in their very culture now they're becoming very privileged, entitled and rude to the core, kinda like US tourists but slightly worst. This is why when you go to china just visit the provinces avoid the cities if you want to meet people. Also it gets worst if you can't speak/comprehend their language as well, they will be little you because you can't speak their "superior language".
Actually it's not surprising one bit. And where do you think the little punk learned his contempt for foreigners? None other than good ol' mom and dad.
"He is only 8!"
"He is only 13!"
"He is only 22!"
"He is only 31!"
The mother will never realise she had created a monster.
In China, however, things are much worse, because class and social status play a crucial role in the society. The mother thinks her child is better and innocent, because she thinks she is better than the other family, and this is because her husband apparently has a higher social status, which she actually tried to use by stating "Do you know who my husband is?".
If you think Karens in the US, UK and Australia are bad, you know nothing.
He will outgrow it if the adults stay calm and modal their best behaviors. Autism like oppositional defiant disorder.
so true!!! there is NOTHING worse than chinese karens, every karens version in every country i can think of, chinese is the worst and theyre everywhere....
Not limited to China. But yes majority are from China. And parents who treated their children like princess. When they grow up they will realized that the boy or girl became a Queen that they themselves became the slave. *the queen are always right attitude
MEN IN THESE COUNTRIES NEED TO MARRY THESE VICIOUS WOMEN AND CAN;'T BLAME WOMEN FOR DOING SO , BUT ONCE GET HERE , YOU CAN LEAVE THAT HORRID MAN FROM USA AND WE WILL ALLOW YOU DO LEAVE THE OAF !!
He's 70 years old. He doesn't mean harm.
I’m in Canada & I literally saw this scenario play out where a little Chinese boy walked onto a bike path with tons of bicycles riding from both directions & ofcourse got bumped into by a woman on her bicycle. The woman on the bike stopped & the boy fell over and started to cry while is mother (who saw it all play out) came running over to coddle him. The bicycle woman said “I’m sorry he walked infront of me is he ok?”, and the mother just reacted angrily in defence saying “you hit him, I saw you did it on purpose it’s your fault!!”. The bike lady just shook her head & said “whatever lady” & lost all empathy in that moment & made the right decision to continue riding on.
insurance scam running in their dna
Sounds about right.
Eh.
It's NOT just china !!!
@@countrysideservicesllc6983 Noo laaa!
When a person start saying stuff like "Do you know who my husband is?" or who my family is?" anything on the line, already means that person is ignorant, bad manner, dirty as well.
I suspect her husband is a party member!
That’s how gangsters think. They’re making little psychos
Chinese mentality
@@some1intheworld No, it's the government's fault.
@@detective2221 Yeah, during the Mao era. Nearly a century has passed . People have minds of their own.
Shout out to the guy who said he’s gonna grow up and be a waste of space I started cracking up 😭😭😭
🇨🇦 I worked at Costco for many years. I’ll never forget this. A Chinese boy about 8 or 9 years old struck his older sister in the face. Really hard. I could see the marks. I remember being frozen in my steps. The parents didn’t do or say anything. I sure did. I reamed out this boy while he stared in shock and confusion. Afterwards, no one said anything. I thought I would lose my job, but at that point I didn’t care. The good thing that came out of it was that the boy did look a little ashamed. The parents didn’t, they just looked like they wanted to be somewhere else It won’t go well for this boy in Canada because people speak up in situations like this. It’s not tolerated.
Nah , Canada has fallen like the rest of the west , stupid frozen people who prefer men on skates being needlessly violent toward each other.
Meanwhile some commie traitor political dynasty led by third gen Castreau has sold out the country to exactly this other country in question , ( but also at least like half a dozen other undesirable hostile nations )
How did the trucker protests go? Nobody did jack sh.t!
You're doomed just like the rest of us , most of Vancouver already belongs to the CCP.
Good on you for speaking up. Well done.
Lol. Sure, Canadians can speak up all they like, but nothing will be done. Sharia law is being practiced in more and more places, and soon? Canada will be a Muslim majority and become Afghanistan 2.0 on ice.
You're brave!
@@bchompoo I don’t think so. You would probably do the same thing I think most people would. It’s just plain wrong.
"He's 13 y.o. and he doesn't understand anything". At what age do they start understanding in China? 🤣
Probably at age 99.
Based of that sentence alone, I’d assume never. Any child with decent parents knows that that’s never a good thing to do to someone by the age of 6, hell, maybe younger
Only after reaching few meters below the ground.
I've ran into many Chinese tourists here over the years, I really don't think those people are brought up to understand much of anything. They just do what they want.
Not even at the age of 8964
Od Spanish saying; "raise crows and they will peck out your eyes"
That’s an awesome saying.
There's a movie named after that saying, "Cria cuervos"
Except IRL Crows and Ravens are Friendly and Diehard Loyals if you take care of them.
Scorpions and Snakes are Good examples because no matter what Good you do to them , since they are inherently filled with Venom , all they with do is either sting you or bite you to give you the Venom.
@@patriotenfield3276 It´s a inbuilt instinct, a considerable amount of scorpions and snake species are supposed to live in harsh desert environments, the venom is to make dealing with prey efficient and help in their survival, that helps explain why they cant be tamed, they´ll always be wild and out for themselves.
Dogs for instance can be tamed because they lived in more proper environments and devellopped to work alongside man as it´s best friend.
Crows are definitely far better and more intelligent than those spoiled kids.
I went to a dinner party and had the 'pleasure' of sitting next to 3 kids. A 15 year old, a 12, and 9 year old. Brothers. This is an 80th birthday party for their grandmother. There two parents are the table. they all have recently moved back to Canada. The kids grew up in China.I sit at the last spot available, flanked by the kids. I say 'Hi'.. nothing. They are on their phones. I say hi louder, nothing. Again... nothing. Finally thier dad goes "He's talking to you guys." Nothing. The parents had some control so they put their phones down and said hi eventually and started talking a bit. Long story short the kids were on their phones the whole time whilst the parents tried to convince them to keep putting them away. Eventually they gave up. I was shocked by these kids behaviour, still am.
Things aren't the way they used to be i would of gotten a beat down if i did something like that .
The sad part, is when they finally hit a wall in life, they will blame everyone else - despite all the consequences can be locked to their actions.
@@Mrnatox and the worst part about a lot of this is people with that type of mentality you can't tell them anything. You can't joke with them or be genuine about anything because they constantly view themselves as morally superior to everybody else. In their mind everybody else is insecure as they walk around being heavily disrespectful to everyone.
I had a friendship become severely damaged because I knew a person that just could not let it go. They put everybody on edge Go out of their way to be as unlikable as possible and then wonder why nobody's happy. If they can't find something negative about a person they'll just make something up and constantly weaponize anything that person says or likes.
I had to deal with so many people across the board that act this way. I pretty much just keep to myself.
"This kid is going to grow up to be a waste of space" haha great call
But that kid was a waste of space from birth
green text guy was incredibly based lmao
low tier god moment
Under the rules of ccp that sentence alone will cost him a prison for life.
Western Taiwan is almost a total waste of space though... 😏👆
It's worse. She actually also said: "Other 13 y/o's who kill people don't even go to prison but now it's just him throwing a phone, I'll just pay for your stupid phone."
The hero more accurate said: "A child being paired with a mother like you is bound to become a waste of space."
So what punishment a 13 years old killer will have in your country?
@@Philip894 jail..duh
@@Philip894Juvenile Detention.
@@Philip894death sentence.
@@Philip894 you know it's not about that. As if it's fine to do anything as long as it is not murder.
Those little demons won't take care of their parents when they get old. Karma.
Their parents will pay the price! These boys when they are adults WILL NOT LOOK AFTER HIS PARENTS!
Probably steal their parent’s money and assets!
They expect the daughters to do that.
When you constantly give your son or daughter everything and do not setup any rules this makes you the servant and someone beneath them.... and later in life they will not be interested in helping someone who they feel is beneath them.
They won't. One child policy was a big flop.
I encountered similar behavior in South Korea about 20 years ago. One older child was kicking was every other child that was going down the slide. I went over and stopped him from kicking my 3 or 4 year old nephew by placing my arm in the way of the kick. The mother came over, hugged her 'little kicker' and accused me of hurting him. I had about 3 experiences like that in public places. I can see such kids growing up to be potentially dangerous sociopaths.
It's for this very reason I keep to myself. I caught quite a few people especially mothers raising their children like this and the only thing that's going to do is make people not want to help them or those kids.
Salvador used to have an issue with Gang violence and people were unsafe before the new president came and locked them all up. Their mothers came to their defense. These people committed horrible crimes. These women raise dangerous criminals that only care about themselves.
Salvador used to have an issue with Gang violence and people were unsafe before the new president came and locked them all up. Their mothers came to their defense. These people committed horrible crimes. These women raise dangerous criminals that only care about themselves.
My wife had a job watching a “little emperor” in our city and the kid attacked his mom with a knife and when my wife intervened she was stabbed repeatedly in the hands fending off the attack! My wife was a 17 year veteran police officer in Guangzhou, but the mother still stood up for her child!
thats crazy. Did the mom not have common sense or want to be stabbed?
OMG, what happened to this little emperor brat afterward was he charged or reprimanded in any way?
😮😮😮
And his mom as well. F that.
If only post-natal abortions were allowed for *special* cases like that
In Asia, I saw a mother and her son and daughter walking down the street, the boy was probably around 7 and the little girl was no more than 4. She ran up and said "I love you brother!" and hugged him. He got angry and pushed her down, she fell on her butt and started crying. The mother rushed over and started scolding the daughter and slapping her wrist for bothering her brother. That was the first time I saw that sort of thing and I was dumbfounded by it. I found out that it was all too common.
Oh my God 😢the poor little girl. She just wanted to be nice😢 so heartbreaking 😢thats terrible.
In which part of Asia?
Yep !! In asian culture a boy is much better than a girl , plus i see parents taking up seat in trains to make their kids sit when elderies and other in need people are standing , when i told my wife (she is asian btw) why they so spoiling of kids like that , she said they give them seats and stand next to them so they dont fall 😂 cmon now a 10 year old can climb the damn train from outside
Oh Lord, that's trauma on the build up.
No see… I wouldn’t be able to hold back and the mom and the boy would have gotten a smack down… I hope the little black hearted tyrant never finds a bride.
Next generation of CCP members
doubt it, unless those grand children of CCP members
china's ciunts party
@@gamerxplanetx8637
Okay, in that case cannon fodder
Just like in 1984 with Parsons being reported by their child to the police for thoughtcrime in his sleep.
No mention of +1000 social credit points for doing so, but no doubt they were rewarded officially...
I worked in retail and have always seen Chinese kids often misbehaving and causing troubles in public. It's something inherently present in their DNA. You will always see Chinese tourists creating ruckus in airports and public places in foreign countries. This is why they can only be disciplined by communist dictatorship. And even their communist govt is a bully to the world, illegally occupying lands or claiming them, infecting the whole world population with diseases and getting away.
ONE time in my life I was hanging with my friends in my room at around 12 years of age, mom comes in and tells me enough with playing games you have cleaning chores and homework. I called her a crack head thinking I was gangsta and my friends started laughing. She smacked me over the head the way only a loving mother could do and she forced me and my friends to remove my PC, TV and games from my room. Made us clean the whole place and then we where sent out with no dinner that Saturday 🤣. I swear I loved that woman😄
why would you call anyone a crackhead? thats just dumb - and you got less than you deserved. as a Black Mom I would have sent you to bed with a whole lot less than no supper. Respect is Due to the people who provide for you and who actually Made YOU
mine burned part of my hand when i was 5 or 6 with a hot iron and looked deadazz into my eyes while doing that - it worked yo x)
I still got a lil burn mark (cause apparently i was constantly reaching towards the clothes she was ironing and she said several times to me to stop)
@@IceBioshock Haha that was a hard one 🤣
Oh my God, I'm so sorry you had to go through that, she sounds like a horrible mom
@@IceBioshockoh my God are you ok, I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
I do like how direct the Chinese are. "Your child is going to grow up to be a waste of space."
Yup! That's about it!
I was looking for this comment
Awesome restaurant owner.
To call people a waste of space is very immature and you must really think that you have some sort of authority and that you are deserving of everything good and you have to be pretty self-centered and really only care about yourself to say things like that.
I would say that's a pretty big waste of your potential to make people good cuz that's not making people good that's just telling people that they're a waste of space and making them hate you.
So congratulations you brought more hate into the world you did such a good job at fixing the world's problems by causing them.
@@stratejic1020it's quite likely that this was just the most similar English translation though, different languages rarely have the same expressions. He may have said something along the lines of the kid becoming useless in society, which is fair tbh.
@@cractus5137 now that's a fair point see I was entirely expecting a response from somebody with a huge ego.
Good man
'You're scaring my child by being so loud' ?!?! !??!!
The MOTHER is the psychopath... That psychotic little emperor bully is ANYTHING BUT scared! He is the MOST CALM of everyone there!
Education and discipline come from home
@@randomcamus9445
In Viet Nam my country ...The children of the UPPER class usually used these Words: "DO YOU KNOW WHO AM I ???"...
"He's only 13 years old, he doesn't know anything"
Well pretty sure when I'm 13 I don't just randomly kick a 3 year old, let alone rubbing ice cream around someone's phone
that's beyond worse than ipad kids skibidi syndrome brainrot
If your 13 year old doesn't know better, there is legitimately something wrong with it 😂
and if I had a 13yo child, and they did that, I'd scream at my kid myself SO hard, that even the victim's parents would be like "Damn..."
yeah when you're 13 you should already be self aware about a lot of things
Don’t forget the double-flip-off hand gestures. Where does he get these things. From the absentee commie party father?
Some time ago, the culture in China was that children are raised with very high expectation of respect and service toward their families. They were expected to study for 16 hours per day so that they can go to engineering school and get a big job in the city, then take care of their parents. But the culture has kind of flipped due to the one child policy. The kids are practically worshipped by parents and grandparents that spare no expense for their children. They pay huge fees for after-school English and math tutors for their kids. They buy any supplies, computers, etc. that the kid needs even though the family can't afford it. The kids know that they're the most important person in the room and they are entitled to whatever they want, so they walk all over their parents. Totally different to how it was 40 years ago.
china is a civilization in decline. sure their willingness to be the cheapest production option gave them a little economic bump in the grand scheme of things (and companies are moving to india and africa now that chinas becoming more expensive) but none of that money went to the people, it all went to the top 1%. none of it went back to infrastructure or the future. just the CCP's greedy goblin hands. the cultural revolution eradicated all of their culture and history. the CCP destroyed any chance of recovering that history and developing real culture. the one child policy ensured their rapid population decline. they're self-imploding and we're just watching it in real time.
While I lived in China, there was a news report of some rich guy's son, he hit a woman riding a scooter with her child.
He only knocked her down. She wasn't even hurt very badly.
He got out of his car and strangled the woman to death.
He did this because he didn't want the hassle of her suing him for hitting her.
When he was picked up by the police, he said something about not wanting to be inconvenienced by a mere peasant.
I'm certain he was sentenced to death for the crime, but I don't know if the sentence has been carried out or if he's still alive.
oh really😂😂
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@@amiigoseThe fuck does that have to do with his story?
that's some villian plot from a movie and everyone would say it's written super bad lmao, imagine someone says that about your character
Certain? Nah, not if his father can pay off the judge he wouldn't have been sentenced to death
@@crypterion_moonmoney wouldn't work in China in these cases either he will rot in jail or die. That is why people in china try maximum not to go in jail
I've worked in law enforcement for the past 23 years, and I've seen the results of an entire generation of parental malpractice. I've had a front row seat. I've _never_ seen kids who were spoiled like this turn out well, but what I have seen a _lot_ of is how terribly these kids, as teenagers and adults treat the parents who let them get away with anything when they were younger. I've seen more mothers than I could shake a stick at who were genuinely _afraid_ of their teenage or young adult sons -- sons to whom they never said "no" when they were little, and who thus developed a spoiled, entitled attitude, and reacted angrily to ever being told "no" when they were older.
If the parents of these unspeakable little brats are going to count on those same boys taking care of them when they are old and retired... Well, I think they are going to be in for an eye-opening experience when they find out what it's like to be dependent on selfish monsters like the ones they created.
Thank you for your service!! 🫡🚔🚨 Prayers & protection your way, people have lost their marbles.
My former BIL of 18 years is a police chief in another state, and one of my best friends was a K-9 detective for 15 years. He unfortunately retired due to PTSD. The stories I heard between the two were insane. I had the honor of raising two boys who are both in their mid twenties now. The good Lord spared me with my first born lol but my second was wild & strong willed haha Needless to say, he got popped in the rear a handful of times, with a fly-swatter. No marks lasted longer than 5 mins. After the 5th time all I had to do was give him “the look” 👀 and oooh it works Lolol - I know, I have a Latin Mother that I’m still a little scared of. Now she used to literally whip my……South American Mothers don’t play. I’ve never seen anything like this before. I’m grateful my Sons have morals, integrity & compassion. But PARENTS have to teach their children!!! They actually thanked me for many things recently. One was not making them into entitled rude spoiled brats. They both are kind & have good hearts.
In all seriousness though, this video is really sad & disturbing to me. Something radically needs to change. Wow
couldnt have said it better myself. At one point in time people forgot how to actually parent a child and this is the inevitable result, and why im deciding not to have kids myself either. Why would i willingly bring another life into this world when these are the kinds of people who will be their peers and coworkers as they grow up? Unfortunately i get why its a larger problem in China because of their work culture, parents dont have much time to spend with their kids even if they wanted to, but the west is also starting to see children like this especially here in parts of America. Really dismal stuff, I hope now that people are waking up to this they’ll start disciplining their children more, but thats all dependent on the parents actually caring.
Yet, I'm sure you won't talk about how a certain 13% of the population is 90% of the problems.
@@Samookely- You’re an intelligent person, and always trust your instincts/intuition. What you said I’ve thought about. I feel horrible in a way for saying this but bc the way our entire world is and especially the west (where I am) I don’t want my boys to have children. 😔 I got hell for becoming a Mother at 19 in 1997 but now I’m glad I did over this mess. Breaks my heart. Much peace & love your way!
Did you say hogdonald tramp?
"the way I raise my kid is none of your business"
not a single adequate and competent parent has ever uttered such a line. an incompetent parent will have idiot children.
"do you have any idea who my husband is"
a failed father and a parody of a man
How people raise their kids IS none of your business but ..
@@mondop5270That's only until they involve me or my children
@@mondop5270if those kids are growing up to be violent, destrtuctive, and rude, and they're in the same society as children I, or others alike to me have raised in ways that haven't resulted in children like that. Then it is someone else's business, what if these children take out their violent tendencies on children who aren't raised to accept violence? THAT is our business. THAT is a society of civilised, compassionate, and growthful behaviour.
@@mondop5270up until they destroy your property? Stab someone? Steal stuff? When would *you* draw the line?
@mondop5270 "everyone should be allowed to do whatever they want. You seriously care what other ppl do?! our ancestors were Karens, we should not enforce social norms or anything like they did"
I saw those boys 20 years ago already in Beijing. I talked to our tour guide about it and he agreed, he said it will be "problematic". There are tons of those coming here to Canada, it will be a lot of fun.
We have a 7 year old kid from China, a son from a woman in a group I'm in. He is the absolute worst behaved kid I've ever seen. He will actually hit his mother, scream at the top of his lungs, etc. and she does nothing about it. She also has a 17 year old daughter who is somehow extremely considerate, the complete opposite of her brother.
Because the son is ignored completely probably reminds her of husband and the daughter is doted on and spoken to
Chinese people wanted sons to pass on their family name and possessions. With one child policy the parent became the servants and go to the extreme to protect and to coddle their one and only son.
@RustyShakleford1 I think it's actually the opposite. The daughter seems to have been taught the word "no" before, and the son has seemingly never heard it from his parents. Everything was always allowed, so when he finally had restrictions, he acted out. He is used to the world belonging to him, and cant handle the fact that ourside of his parents, it doesnt.
Exactly same as american children.
seems like just the average karen's son, except instead of hitting his mother, he does to other people
When I was 13 there was this idea that older men/boys would beat me the fuck up if I did something outrageous.
Same here. Kids arent afraid of anything because they dont have a reason to be.
like being gay?
@@Simon-sw4ov for asking dumb questions
@@IdeI2StOnEd 😂😂🤣🤣
@@IdeI2StOnEd Are you implying that regarding my question?
My Chinese friend who’s a lawyer in China and US told me this would happen 20 years ago, now here we are.
Perhaps because it was already happening, but I wouldn't know
Obviously a man with foresight. We assume all are like this but are sadly let down.
This has already been going on for centuries. Same thing over and over.
@jennaeveliina313 not to this extent. The spoiled way kids respond today is like nothing i ever saw growing up.
Happening in the states too
My GF asked a kid to stop bringing his dog to do it's business on our clothes drying area. The following day the mother started shouting at us for saying anything to the kid. I think I'm saying that we have little horrors too.
My late Mum once took on a Chinese student here in the UK, he lived with my parents to learn about UK culture and attended a private international college for overseas students. Anyway this kid was a nightmare, he would shout in Chinese at my parents. He sh$t on the bathroom floor and left it there, and finally one day he randomly slapped my mum. That was the end of it, my Dad called the police and he was arrested for assault. His parents actually flew over to collect him a few days later and take him back.
wow, thats shocking. your poor mom.
Lucky your parents had control of their temper and just called the police... personally, I would have probably hurt him with way more force than he used on my mother.
Should have deported him at the first bad behaviour.
Ker-ist ! Shocking. A grown up boy.
My parents had a similar experience. He did not slap though but behaved out of control
The little emperor’s will preside over the collapse of Chinese society
There is one doing it as we speak
xDDDDDDDDDDDD
and probably end up as a victim when the rest of the people have had enough of the arrogance.
They are the future alpha males who conquer for China.
Chinese society reverts to its historic form: imperial corruption and brutality towards peasants
My co-worker and casual friend is a half-Chinese half-white only son to a Chinese mother. At 28, his parents bought him a newly built single family house in the suburbs of San Diego, pricey home. But that was not the problem. At 28, his mother also came over to cook, clean, and do his laundry! He had a girlfriend that was also my friend. One day he asks her to marry him and she smartly said NO. The guy is actually a normal behaving dude (not mean or rude) but his girlfriend said that he does absolutely NOTHING at home, expected her to serve him like his mother served him. She didn't want to become his "new" mother so backed out of the entire relationship. His Chinese mother basically ruined him for all women.
I know of sons who were raised to be independent who cook, clean, iron and are decent human beings but they married women who are lazy, can’t cook, entitled, spent most of their time on grooming and shopping; do nothing in the home. The men are now the emasculated ones. Just saying - every child needs to be raised to be able to live independently. No one owes them a living
I have seen this in some families. Kids are 25 and 22 and they dont do one small thing. Me and my wife got so mad since we came from struggle and we never seek anything from our family member.
Yes, there are mothers out here like this. Some mothers with sons are terrible, coddling their sons to adulthood.
that ain't endemic to Chinese culture, that's a human thing...
Turning them into Son Husbands...never a good thing
My sons are birracial and they were bullied at school for being black. My elder son was bullied in a class to the extent he didn’t want to go to school. I tried to talk to him and he came clean saying there is a boy in his class who bullies him. I stopped my kids from fighting at school and I taught them manners from home. Being silent made that bullu feeo empowered. I added his mother’s contact from the group chat and tried to talk to her explaining what her son did to my son and showed her the bruise my son got on his face from her son’s actions. The mother didn’t even want to talk to her son she asked me a question what if my son is lying? She continued to defend her son saying her son can’t do such a thing. I got angry and I told her if you can’t teach your son manners my son will teach him. I hanged up the phone and I told my son to beat that boy next time he tried to bully him. It took only three days the boy tried again his gave and my son gave him the african slap he tried to fight back but my son is very strong he defeated him in a fight. From that day he wasn’t bullied again at school and he is now on 5th grade protecting his younger brother too. This little emperor syndrom really piss me off. Looking at adults beating up their old parents because they blame them for their own failure in life really shows the outcome of how they raise their kids. My boys are raised well and I discipline them when they misbehave. I’m the onoy daughter in my family I have four brothers but my parents didn’t treat me like a special child. I was raised the same way my brothers were, and I have two sons that know how to do house chores and cook simple dishes because I want them to be responcible adults.
Very smart for introducing your boys to the kitchen and other parts of the house. Our two boys are in their late 30's now, but believe you me, when they were big enough to stand on a step-stool, they were loading their own laundry in the washer; same step stool for the kitchen sink to rinse dishes; same step stool to get linens out of the closet to change their sheets. Likewise, their older sister was out in the driveway with me showing her how to change a tire and start the lawnmower!
@@r.f.pennington746It’s good to introduce chores at the young age.They’ll grow up to be responcible. My husband cooks and cleans. When I cook he washes dishes and we help each other to clean the house. The boys have grown now they clean their own room and they help with dishes and dusting.
this warms my heart thank you for sharing this experience blessings to you and your fam
Your kids are not bullied because of their skin color, they are probably just disliked. Quit trying to bs.
"How I raise my child is none of your business"
You take a shit in your toilet at home, then it's none of my business. You bring that shit to a the restaurant I'm eating at, and it becomes my business.
Well said!
Well said 💯👏
Totally
In the military, we call the wives who say "do you know who my husband is?" as "dependapotomus" or "tricareatops"
Dependapotomous 😂😂😅😅
Best job in the military, dependent. 😂
👏🏻🫂
haha, priceless!
I once read an editorial where someone said something along the lines of "children are nothing more than uncivilized little barbarians that care for nothing but themselves and their own needs and wants. It's the job of the parents to drag them into civilization and teach them how to become civilized themselves."
Sounds like ben shapiro, not sure if he got it elsewhere.
Actually children do have an innate sense of morality, kindness, and fairness (apart from the few who are born psychopaths). They have to live in an incredibly abusive or permissive family, and often culture too, to make them into real barbarians.
@@cosmicmuffin322 bro, have you seen children!?
i think thats thomas sowell, although it may be apocryphal
Do as your Mother/Father-land says! (USSR/Beijing - version)
Similar words but has a very different meaning compare to the European/more democratic version / also vastly different in peace/war time.
That "listen biach" part had me rolling man!
My mother and I were visiting a family friend in Tokyo. We went to have lunch in at the Tokyo Sky Tree. At a table next to us sat a family with three children. The children were WILD. Yelling, screaming, and hitting each other. Our friend said to us that you can tell that they’re Chinese by their behavior, before they speak😅
I was in the Philippines playing golf in Davao and I experienced the Japanese men as very polite and calm and the chinese men were utterly obnoxious, full of themselves and believing their kungfu was more powerful than my Texas Right Hook Hammer and my Georgia southpaw Liver killer...lol. All they could do was mutter in Chinese while I stared them down... Just Rude. But Communism BREADS superiority complexes. Marxism does the same and why we are seeing it in our youth in America today..
could have been Japanese too
Yes. I live in Japan and one can always tell a mainland Chinese by their behavior. It is embarrassing.
Japanese people have manners@persasrho4799
@@persasrho4799 Been to Japan many times. NEVER seen ANY child act up like that, EVER.
What these parents can't understand is, if you don't raise your kids at home, someone WILL do it on the streets.
If your kid comes like that (the restaurant bit) at me and mine, your kid will FLY over the table. I quarantee it.
On the street… or in prison
Agreed. Look at any ghetto anywhere round the world.
Wait, you people try to tell the Chinese how to raise their kids?😂😂😂
What you don't understand is that this is how socialism and aristocracy works. West is the anomaly the socialists and aristocrats are trying to destroy.
Where I come from if you touch a kid, never mind so forcefully he flies over a table, you're going to jail. I guarantee it.
There is no excuse for that behavior. If you have a problem with a child's actions you take it up with his father.
Be a man, not a cowardly bully.
China is weird, I was there for six months 10 years ago, I've never seen a culture that more resembles the borg than the Chinese culture.
Borg?
@@andreacalante Startrek Cyborg race
I don't get the connection. Are you saying they only do what they're told or something?
@@Cujo5same haircut
@@Cujo5 the borg are a race of people where there is a hivemind controls what all the individuals do. If someone is part of a borg they are in a collective where they don't think for themselves and don't act as individuals.
There is a mistranslated line said by the 13 year old's mother:
"There is this other 13 year old who haven't gone to jail for murder!"
I was with a group of friends at a Chinese restaurant at Thornliegh in Sydney Australia, and most of us speak Chinese. A neighbouring table had two kids running around the restaurant and generally making a bloody nuisance of themselves. This rising annoyance in us lead to me bellowing at the children to stop and sit down (in English) almost simultaneously another of my friends chimed in and berated the littles brats, then his wife in Chinese ripped the parents in Chinese , the restaurant manager made herself known to the table of problems and asked them to leave. So they are bringing that crap here to Oz as well.
Too bad for them that rest of the world is actually better in martial arts.
Ausdroolia is libtarded.
@@rh906 Indeed. The Chinese Cultural Revolution (or should be say, total cultural destruction), was something even Stalin didn't and would have never done. Ironically PRC parted even with the USSR after the latter condemned Stalin.
don’t worry China will soon sneakily own Australia
@@piotrmalewski8178 so interesting about this..
When i was 13 i was mowing lawns for old neighbors for money or free . And making money doing a paper run.
And had respect for others. At 16 working at a steel fab factory ,Cheers from Australia
Hi mate, that is the normal.... Greetings from Hungary.
I even got a slap from my parents if I behaved badly. I grew up successfully and did not become violent.
I also did student work from the age of 14, even during school/learning.
There are muslims in Australia...
Same here
Yes, the previous generation of Chinese were working at a steel fab factory at 16. I'm talking about during Deng Xiaoping. When all the famous photos were taken.
Yeah working at 14 ..commercial artwork. Can't imagine bullying a kid😮
I am a Singaporean Chinese. When I was young, my parents ever said this to me, "Should I ever become a terror to society, they will kill me themselves". I'm so glad I turned out decent.
That's very relatable. I am Indian and my dad something in the similar lines like "if you behave like a dog I will put you down like one". 🤣🤣🤣
@@aritrachatterjee87 Your dad sounds awesome.
OMG, why are your parents so awesome! This should be on the manual.
In the US, I've heard moms say with a slightly joking but very stern voice, "I brought you into this world, I can take you out of it!" Parenting techniques are hardly one-size-fits-all, but do what is most effective to love your kid with hard boundaries where it matters. No boundaries means you aren't protecting them from themselves.
Guys, threatening a child's life if they misbehave is not good parenting. Even if it's in a joke. Jeez. It's the easy way, not the right way.
I like how they kept the little girl and the phone in reach of the hell child the whole time
yeah, that really bugged me - not very good parents either if you ask me.
very young family though, so i guess they haven't yet met the monsters of this world.
Little emperors are a symptom of a greater problem... spoiling sons and abusing daughters
Don't worry. The women there are just as bad or worse because western ideals are bleeding over. So everyone is terrible!
Lots of luck reproducing.
Agreed.
I remember seeing a documentary where a doctor in Syria was explaining how heart broken she was every time she delivered a girl because she knew what life had in store for her as she was choking back tears.
I grew up extremely religious (Pentecostal) and for as long as I can remember, I wished I was born a boy. Not in a transgender sense at all, I never *felt* like a boy or that I should have been a boy, but that simply I wished I wasn’t the origin of sin and that I could have a say in my life and choices. I am not religious anymore and have done lots of therapy to help me heal from that shit.
I agree. How does the bad mother expect to be treated by her son in her old age?
This video explains an incident I encountered at Shanghai Airport and never understood. I had a long stopover and used some points on my credit card to spend a couple of hours in an airport lounge. Towards the end of my two hours, a Chinese couple in their late 30s came in with not one, but two young boys, aged about eight and ten. The boys ran totally amok yelling and screaming at the tops of their voices. It was a quiet space with only adults eating or tapping away on their laptops. Surely I thought, the parents will tell their kids to behave. Nope. They just carried on being little shits and the parents completely ignored them and their awful behaviour. The boys started throwing food from the buffet around and no-one did or said anything. The lounge attendants just cleaned up the mess and carried on as if this was completely normal. No-one even looked up from their laptops or said a word. This incident stuck in my mind as some of the worst, most selfish behaviour I'd ever experienced. I wondered if all Chinese parents were like this. I finally understand what was going on that day.
Interesting. Thanks for sharing. Very odd this behavour is tolerated.
They must have been to Otago University to learn from some of the students behavioural issues where in Dunedin the university just accommodate this for better or worse.
It's hopefully just a minority in this instance otherwise we're in for a hiding to nowhere.
My mum would have grabbed me by my ear til it nearly ripped off or put the plate of food in my face, you only have to try that kind of thing twice in your whole life, then never again, same with pets, same with women.
In schools and stuff (just speaking from the west) I remember we would always kinda have how to be an upstanding citizen types of classes and assignments to do. is that a bit more uncommon in china?
Because they were boys, look how useful they are
When the mother said "did you hurt your hand my little prince?!" right after he threw the phone into the hot pot, my jaw dropped 😮
That is the only possible translation huh? I only ask, because it really does just seem completely insane.
I was shocked after all this little devil has done, that the father of the girl let him just take the phone out of his hand without any resistance.
@@infasisActually it can be translated into: Is ur hand okay? Did u burn ur hand?
@@dreamerno.3175 I mean, the "my little prince" part in particular
@@infasis no she didn’t say my little prince, but ig this phase has been added by the video editor meaning she showing care to the evil emperor
Thank you
I'm Ukrainian and thank you for sharing your story. I struggle with standing up, but your videos make me believe it's really possible to stand up in different situations
I generally agree with the sentiment, "How I raise my child is none of your business." However, when your child is wreaking havoc on other people and doing stuff like that, then your child's behavior becomes other peoples business.
That kid will be punished for his actions. It's up to the parents to decide if they determine the punishment or leave it up to some random (probably drunk) person to dish out.
I disagree. How children are raised IS everyone’s business.
I raise my child to become a considerate and functioning member of society. Nothing short of this is acceptable.
@@DrinkyMcBeer That will not happen due to how things are in China.
@@stuartmc18 No, that's not true. Others do not raise your child. You raise your child. How you raise your child is no one else's business.
It's none of their business, that is true. Until it becomes their problem as well.
Seeing this just made me miss my dad, he’s dead now but he was a good solid single dad for 18 years of my life.
He raised me so good and always taught me everything. He showed me to be kind, respectful, to be thoughtful, to help people whenever an opportunity arises, how to have empathy, and to be honest.
I feel bad for kids raised by people that don’t love them, and i mean truly love them.
I agree. Bad parents raise bad citizens. A good parent, like you were blessed with, raised a wonderful man.
I'm really sorry that you lost your dad so young
@@agata3958It’s alright buddy, He’s in a better place now…
He fell ill in my senior year of highschool with the disease of addiction. Dad was extremely good at hiding it aswell, but that didn’t last.
Fentanyl is what said killed him on his autopsy report but he was a crack addict.
I read Dear Leader, a book about an important upper level North Korean, Jang Jin-Sung, who escaped to China and ended up living briefly with a wealthy Chinese family who had a teen age son. This spoiled only son was allowed to do whatever he wanted and even though they all hated it they never punished him for anything. Jang, who was staying with them tried to correct the teen. The teen, furious at being thwarted, turned the entire family into the Chinese government for harboring this man who was hiding out from the North Korean government. I suspect that this is a tale repeated many times over in China these days. These boys, now men, have been trained for their lifetime to be narcissistic, spoiled, selfish and completely callous towards others; little sociopaths. The boy in the video reminded me of how they became what they now are.
Just like in the Soviet Union. People were so indoctrinated by the system that children informed on their parents and neighbors informed on each other. Communism turns everybody into a selfish individualist doing everything they can to climb up the social ladder in a system where everything is supposed to belong to everybody equally and that everybody was 100% equal to their peers.
I was raised by my grandfather. Just thinking about child me behaving like this still scares me, and I'm 49. There is no way I would even have thought to behave like this.
If I had behaved like that at 13, my arse would still be bruised 50 years later,
will now everything is considered abuse in most countries lol
Imagine being proud that your parents beat the shit out of you
@@portanrayken3814 Ass don't bruise. No proof no problem 🤣
My ass was no stranger to backscratchers before I was even 10.
And I do not mean getting my butt scratched.
@@portanrayken3814All by design. This whole society all over the world is by design
My wife and I once fostered 2 "little emperors". It was such a battle to get them to behave but in the end they loved us for it. The little boys came to appreciate that we disciplined them because we cared enough to do it. Their parents were in complete shock when they received their well mannered children.
How long did you foster them for?
@@WythenshawePhilIt never happened. Little Emperors are a result of mothers spoiling them so I very much doubt kids in care would behave the same way.
@@entropy5431yes.. in the West the coddling of boys turns them into weak gays or trans, in China it turns them into overly toxic masculine males 😂 funny that
@@entropy5431 maybe hard to believe, but even kids in care were once born and a mother may have tried to start raising/spoiling them.
@@entropy5431kids are actually very malleable and will test the boundaries of each new adult that comes into their lives, which is why some behave for one parent and not the other, or are angels in one classroom but hellions in another. Put them into an environment where the expectations are clearly communicated and boundaries are consistently enforced, and even the worst kids, even ones who are almost adults, as I found teaching high school, will fall in. I was once told by a student that he loved having me because even though I called him out regularly for his 💩, (his words) I did so fairly and also recognized when he was doing something good, and never said he was a bad person, just his behavior.
They expect their sons to take care of them later in life, when they don’t teach them to care for anybody?
Doesn’t sound like a plan.
sounds like they are bringing up just the kind of person who will abandon their familial duty...I would count on the kid taken care of them.
I’m guessing they’re expecting their son’s future wife to take care of them. Poor girl.
@@piaz2023yeah the sun beats down the wife till the point she's a slave for the whole family... checks out
@@piaz2023 actually you’re right! Most of the time it is the daughter in law that take care of the elderly at home. Happened and expected in most of Asia.
@@andromedamessier3176 how they going to find one with china being one of the countries in the world where men out number women?
Either watching you and Laowhy86 on the videos covering these issues together or by yourself is definitely interesting. Salute to you guys bringing us hot topics.
When I was a postgrad uni student in the UK, I went on a visit to London with my colleague from mainland China. The guy just turned 40., and we were discussing girls and dating. Since he was older than me, I asked him if he was planning to get married and have kids. He gave me a look of complete shock and said....noooo, I am far too young for that...later, maybe in 5 to 10 years...He then proceeded to have a 40-minute phone conversation with his mother telling her that he was having a great time in London, every minor detail included😆 I have never been so weirded out in my life. These people are so delusional they think the limitations of time and biology don't apply to them😂🤣
They are fully aware. It's just they have no empathy for their young, or wives. Dude probably planed to buy some poor girl off of some poor lower class family and make her raise his crotch goblins. Men have no biological clock for fertility. There is no menopause for men. Dude could just knock up some women and then die before his kids even utter their first words. No Chinese "parents" would ever raise their child if they can afford to pay someone else to deal with it.
I know that u know all of this but i still can't help but write all of this so excuse me.
Once he turn 50 if he is not rich enough no girl in right mind will look at him. Which is a recipe for disaster. 🫠🫠🫠
Imagine having kids at that age as well. Having to take care of children at such old age and dying much before than them.
I know it is excessive detail but... "mama 's boy" type of guys aren't appealing for most ppl, in fact its a instant turn off.
That is a type of guy who will die alone or have a mistress who charges per hour.🫠🫠🫠
There is a saying “If you don’t teach your kids well, others or society will.”
really depends on the society
will they? these kids lives in a country full of sheeps
@@midoribookstore an armed society is a polite society. ?
@@mountainjeff yep
It strikes me that the Chinese military will never be a real threat. In the military individuals need to be ready to do the hard things. Little emperors will never make the necessary sacrifices..
It seems a disproportionate amount of Chinese military recruitts struggle with the mental and physical demands of intensive combat training. Nothing new, been like that for a while
So then they'd be about the same threat as the US military will be in 15 years. Weak, stupid, useless and Trans.
It’s going to be drones and AI, like now in Israel with Lavender and Daddy’s home.
Exactly
Also the lack of specialists as well, a lot of countries have this problem like the US but it’s far worse in China, especially now when they are focusing on upgrading the technology in the army, who’s gonna operate the fancy high tech equipment that needs years of training like an aircraft carrier. Anyone who has any talent would definitely make 5x more money in the civilian sector than joining the military.
Winston, I love the way that you tell your stories and express what China is really like. May God be with you and your family.
I grew up in the most Chinese part of the most Asian city in Canada and this is nothing new. It was disgusting then and it's disgusting now. I've also been there when a few of these problems got a full dose of the real world and the look on their face when they can't comprehend what's happening is priceless.
Please tell more. Im very curiose about how they compete in real life.
@tonytu3913 In my experience they don't. They live in bubbles where their abhorrent behavior is not only tolerated but common and accepted. At least in the areas I'm familiar with there are large enough communities of Chinese immigrants that they don't have to (or have any desire to) interact with anyone outside of that community except on incredibly rare occasions.
Markham?
shut the hell up you are not chinese
😂🎯
This is not at all a surprise to me - being married to a Chinese woman (who has her head on straight) and trying to raise our children, it quickly became clear to me that none of the inlaws really understand what it means to raise children, to teach them discipline, responsibility, empathy, self awareness, and an understanding of how reality works (cause/effect/consequence). Wife and I have had to limit contact between the kids and her extended family because they're just such bad influences, and despite having good intentions, actively undermine our parenting. No mater how many times we have explained, for example, why it's is a bad thing to reward bad behavior, they just don't seem to be able to comprehend anything other than, 'the kid is unhappy so give them whatever they want until they're happy' and refuse to enforce any of the rules, restrictions, consequences, etc. we have put in place. On the one hand it's amusing to see grown adults so completely and effectively manipulated by children, but on the other hand it's maddening that grown adults can't seen to grasp the basic necessity of needing to tell kids "no" sometimes. We ultimately had to make the decision that the extended family don't get unsupervised time around the kids until they respect our rules (and again they seen completely unable to comprehend this basic boundary). Family is family, but parental responsibility to raise our children to be functional, responsible, healthy adults, trumps all. And so it goes.
This! I see so many clueless, ignorant parents that let the grandparents raise their kids even if they have no education or even the energy to do so. No reading parenting books or making sacrifices for them. Child free overseas trips, yip. Screen time? Not a thing. Child car seats? Naaa.
Good luck with your fight in bringing your child into socially acceptable manhood/womanhood.
Aku juga, aku dari Indonesia, tepatnya pulau Bali. Setiap aku main ometv dan mencoba server barat yaitu amerika, mereka selalu menyipit kan mata mereka menggunakan jarinya, dan selalu mengatakan cingcong cingcong, padahal aku tidak berbahasa china😅, aku berbahasa Bali dan Indonesia, aku main ometv untuk menambah teman dari luar negeri dan sambil belajar bahasa inggris, tapi setelah itu aku langsung trauma dan malu untuk main ometv server barat lagi, padahal saat itu umurku baru 18 tahun 😅, aku main pas jaman covid masih sangat banyak terjadi
am Chinese, I can definitely see how the Chinese grandparents and older relatives will, most definitely ruin your child's everything if you or your partner let them have their way with your child. Good job being a responsible parent, keeping them stupid, and enabling "relativities" out of your child's life, there is no place for such idiocy in this modern world
Good man ⭐
My mother was a narcissist, as was her father, and my sister was created a monster from the same mould under my mother's toxic influence.
Don't trust anyone around your children.
Narcissists are all ab_sers sooner or later and s-xual ab_se is common.
A narcissist child's dysfunctional attitude and personality disorder is already set in stone by their teenager years. They're entitled, addicted to power and control over everyone, addicted to attention and creating drama, are manipulative, pathological liars, self-serving and devoid of empathy.
Watch for the smug smirk of schadenfreude on the narcissist's face, it's a de@d giveaway of the personality disorder.
My brother and I are only now talking honestly about our dysfunctional family, and the lifelong impacts that toxic people have on children growing up trapped with them.
I've had to cut my narcissist sister out of my life too, because she made me her permanent scapegoat, and even after that she was stalking me using her husband to do it.
My father has remained wilfully blind to it to stay married to my mother, and let her treat my brother with unwavering vitriol and antagonism -- he was her permanent scapegoat.
I told my father that my sister had been stalking me and that it's a jailable crime, and he just sat there indifferent to it. He's been warped and twisted by relationship with narcissists in our family.
I won't say anymore about my family, but again I express my respect for you as a protective, insightful Dad and husband.
Every child should have a Dad like you.
May the Lord God bless you and your wife and children.🇦🇺
Acting like that at 13!!? I was going on movie dates at 13, riding dirt bikes, cutting grass, sports. This summarizes china up a lot more than people realize. Excellent, excellent video Winston. I love this topic. I think it helps people understand what we’re dealing with. Keep up the great work.
Yet they somehow make you believe that they are superior in everything.
@@filipstojkovic1744 You can't disprove them.
Not China, but the spoiled kids of the Modern Chinese coastal elites.
@@detective2221 But at the end, stuff like that shows a lot about the state of their country.
Your work is absolutely eye opening in regards. Thank you for the uploads.
I was a science teacher in the UK for 40 years. I had my share of Little Emperors. Well done in your practical teaching practises.
We had a situation not too long ago, where we had a Little Emperor come to the states to visit us, and he played with my niece, who is Asian-American, and she's extremely confident by nature. More so than even your average kid. You can imagine how that went...it was a nightmare. She wasn't having any of it. I actually felt sorry for the boy because he is still young, and his situation could be turned around if the parents changed their approach now, but they won't. He would yell at his mom and say stuff like "you need to say sorry to me NOW!!!!!", and his mom would start crying and run away. She had lost all control, and just let him dictate how everything would go. He was generally destructive with our belongings in the house, rude, and when we finally dropped them off at a hotel, he started rearranging all the furniture in the lobby and laughing. The mom did nothing to chastise the kid or put the furniture back, so I did. I apologized for the behavior to the hotel clerk. It was just ridiculous.
But nothing can change, because parents will coddle these types of kids, until it's just too late to reverse the damage. It happens all over the world, but your right there's a bigger problem of it in China. From my observation there, parents would sometimes say "oh he's just a child" if a boy did something wrong, but really get upset with a daughter if she misbehaves. The other thing that used to kill me was watching grandparents spoon feed the boys until they were like 10 or just generally just too old to be fed by another person. I never noticed that behavior, at least as extreme, with girls. It was, and sounds like it still is, quite inbalanced.
So China is a misogynistic society where males are venerated?
Let me introduce the Angry Cop Drill Instructor.
that sounds like me. I try to spoon feed my son every chance I get until one day when he is about 8 he told me : "mom I am not a baby" but yet i still push my luck to spoon feed him but just not successful. I am a mom for only once but the baby grew up too fast :D
"Never trust a coward, they'll always sell you out to save their own hides..."
My mother would have put me in a full body cast if I even thought about doing some shit like this.
I have noticed in SE Asia, that tourists from mainland China, have only one volume when speaking even when standing beside the listeners; extremely loud.
Like Americans in the old days who thought everyone should speak English and serve burgers and coke.
@@robertsmart5600 Bless your heart.
@@robertsmart5600 Americans are bad travellers (or were) followed by the Israelis and Russians then the Chinese, and one thing they all have in common is that out of all the nations these are the ones whose politics are not up for discussion, the worse and loudest are the thinnest skinned.
@@robertsmart5600you are going to treat a nation of immigrants that covers 6 time zones as a monolith of national identity? Hmmm, sounds like you are either triggered or a troll.
I live near LA and about half of my complex is Asian. I was working from home and went into our lounge so I could work undistracted by my pile of laundry to be folded😂, and about 5 minutes into my work, here comes some chick. It’s a common area so I didn’t think anything of it until she started screaming “Nihao”. I politely went over after about 20 mins, when I could no longer tolerate it and had to wave at her to get her attention. I asked her, again politely, if she could just keep her volume a little lower as she was very distracting and went back to my work. She finished what she was doing and then left. Came back ten minutes later screaming at me about how she was sick and her boss yelled at her and how I should’ve just let her finish her class. First, I’m thinking what the heck are you doing in a common area sick and then why is she screaming at me? She was loud enough that property staff came to check on me so I explained, in case she tried to make a complaint. So, it’s not just the boys apparently. Wild!
I have seen first hand the total lack of responsibility of chinese parents with their child. I saw how a small boy was allowed to take a dump right in the aisle of a shop in the Bicester Village retail park. His parents just walked off and left it there for people to step in. Down right disgusting.
Maybe they're racing against the kids in some of the liberal American cities to see who can become uncivilized the quickest.
Omg that is filthy
I've seen two instances of young boys wildly berating their Chinese mothers in public in Manhattan. I was appalled, especially at how their mothers said and did nothing. They have no prospect of being good men
They brought it on themselves........
Why tf didn't you call the police. That may fly in china, but its ILLEGAL in the US.
@@will7itsI agree they went for a materially wealthy man instead of a well developed internally happy man. .materialism is a death cult
@@RustyShakleford1 Most are single now too.....
You are really disrespecting two little boys who dont know better and were not properly taught. If they were then theyll act better. Alot bad boys become men in prison. Look at the men in AA community
That happens when you send kids to factories instead of school😢😢😢
Oh man, as I was watching that, I was just thinking: "My mom would have, *_Kicked. My. Ass._* right then and there in the restaurant if I behaved like that; and that would have just been the preview for when we got home."
Now that I am much older and in my late thirties, I can look back and truly appreciate my mom for being both strict, firm and making us take responsibility for our actions as kids, while also rewarding good behavior; as we all turned out all the better for it. Because patience and discipline is something that is taught by the parents to their children. If the parents are impatient and undisciplined, it rubs off onto their children, with this mother and child being an excellent example of this.
I recall a time back when I was probably 6 or 7. I threw a fit at a store because I wanted something and didn't have enough allowance to afford it, and I accidently knocked over a display of cans in the process. Which was *really* loud, so it drew the attention of more or less everyone in the general area in the store. My mom didn't move an inch until I picked up every can and put the one's undamaged back while everyone was watching, and then she bought the damaged ones... which came out of my allowance for the next three months.
Suffice it to say... I never did anything like that, *_ever_* again. XD
it was inconsiderate of the parent to allow it in the first place. At least we know where the kid gets it. The parents do not care, why would the child? Her excuse is he doesn't know any better, and the question then why doesn't she teach him?
reminds me of south park when cartman wanted to buy ipad lol
Did you ever hate your mom growing up?
4:23 I absolutely need to know the meaning of "Do you live next to the sea?" It sounds like a wicked insult. I'm going to start using it.
2nd that
I'm not sure, maybe to do with Cantonese people? After all they were all called Nanman (savages) because no one dared to live in the wild Canton in the early days.
It's a reference to the rich spoiled Chinese coastal elites, who live in places like Shanghai and Hong Kong. Similar to how in the United States internal residents have contempt to coastal people, to call people as "left coasters" or "soy boys".
“Hey u! Do u live next to the sea???” 😂😂
Me & my mum were on a flight to Beijing from Kota Kinabalu (in 2018), and a little kid (about 5-6 y/o) was sitting behind my mum, the kid's mother sitting right next to her (I know she's the mother because the kid calls her "mama"). The kid kept kicking the back of my mum's seat and the mother just lets her. I kept looking back and gave the kid and her mother scathing looks, while my mum just sat quietly, but I could see that my mum was highly uncomfortable but she doesn't want to say anything. The kid's mother acted like she didn't see me throwing her dirty looks.
For context, I'm Malaysian, from Sabah to be exact. I look nothing like a Chinese person (I'm a native Borneo tribe), but I'm fluent in Mandarin because I attended a Chinese school in Malaysia.
Finally, I've had enough of the kid's shenanigans so I stood up and turned to look at the mother, and warned her that if she doesn't stop her kid from being obnoxious, I'm gonna switch places with my aunt (who conveniently sat behind the kid's mother) and start kicking *her* seat. More than anything, the kid's mother was so shocked to hear me speak in Mandarin that it took her a while to actually process what I said to her. I bet she never expected someone who looks like me (a typical native Borneo look - dark skinned, short & stocky build a.k.a "pindik tagap" in our local language) could speak Mandarin flawlessly. When she came to her senses, thankfully she heeded my warning and scolded her kid. The kid sat quietly (or at least as quiet as a kid could be, she did whine and cry here and there, but she never kicked my mum's seat again) for the rest of the 7-hour flight.
Wow, plot twists, karmic justice, what a great story!
I lived on-and-off in Sabah from 2008-2015 and speak decent Mandarin, having previously lived in Taiwan. I was quite concerned to see the drastic increase in self-entitled Chinese tourists there during that period.
i am a chinese person and i immediately married my husband who is a native Sabahan (sino Kadazan) once i found out he could speak mandarin because I knew he would be earning alot of money after we graduated, plus sino Kadazans tend to be very good looking. True enough he now earns alot of money :D:D
@@asherslife9400 getting married for money just sounds embarassing for you.
I love how that guy was like "do you live on a deserted island? He's going to grow up to be a waste of space."
Tbh I feel more sorry for the child, she raised him to be this way.
I grew up under an unmedicated schizophrenic farther and I remember getting my ass beat for getting 299/300 across 3 exams combined. I am always shocked at how differently people are treated in different families.
Yes, I've heard of Chinese parents being very strict and demanding with their children. Especially the previous generations.
I had a Vietnamese friend whose parents were like that. I thought that was just normal for Asian parents. It'd explain why Asian kids always do well in school and are so disciplined. But there are extremes in every direction. I got whippings too. But usually it was for something serious, usually life threatening or disrespectful I did. Using the same punishment for every infraction is abuse.
@@rayfish007 Using the same punishment for every infraction is abuse.
It is. Especially if an explanation would be sufficient.
I've experienced this in the UK at a Santa's grotto - a Chinese family burst in & ran around destroying everything, knocked over the tree, stole presents laughing and filming each other. We eventually managed to get them out. It was weird most Chinese people are so polite. They were just so entitled and didn't care.
The richest of the Chinese elites.
So did you guys beat the crap out of them and call the police to do clean up? Or what?
Sounds like typical unhinged Chinese tourist behaviour ngl. The same who go around seafood buffets and hog all the prawns
@@imperialgamer1667 Spot on. I lived and worked in China for many years. It's rich families and their kids.
They were probably from the Falun Gong cult trying to make Chinese look bad because they think they should be ruling China.
As a Vietnamese, we have a similar issues with little emperors and their parents that got memeified on the web, albeit less egregious.
In their memeified representation, spoilt kids are depicted either abusing pets (with FAFO depending on the abused animal) or damaging mecha/anime figures and even expensive PC rigs.
The latter case, and the more popular in particular, would get dismissed by the parent of the little emperor, often with a dash of victimblaming for not safeguarding the property or, even ad hominem towards the victim being a "manchild" for owning figures (still widely perceived as toys and not worth bringing up for compensation). To add salt to injury, the victim would also be pressured by their own family to sweep the matter under the rug instead of pressing for compensation due to the LE's parents being a family friend/business partner, etc.
u never lived in vietnam so u shouldn't be talking dude, in vietnam i seen parent beat the living sh!t of their kids, vietnamese parent are known to beat their kids
Sounds about right as a vn myself. I wholeheartedly despises other vns on the internet.
10:15
"There is a lot of decent people in china"
Man in background proceeds to walk half shirtless in public
Think one of these little emperors will be a soldier, police, doctor, judge, lawyer etc in the future ☠️
They already are. It's a nation of little emperors all grown up now. They're already there.
Military commander.......
No, they won't. Waste of space is giving that brat more credit than he is worth.
I was watching the boy on the sofa and thought, Engineer.
@@peoplez129 No little emperors came into existence after One Child Policy, So they will be in the next few years
When I lived in Shanghai, our apartment manager organized a Halloween event where the children could do trick-or-treat. At each residence, the children were told to take only one or two candies. But most Chinese children grabed two fistfulls of candy, and they were encouraged to do this by their grandparents. So, I do understand Chinese culture, it is to lie, cheat, grab and steal as long as you can get away with it.
Yes! I witnessed that also as I currently live in Shanghai. But that also happens in America. There are ring videos showing grown adults taking the whole bowl of large candy into their own candy bags with their kids present. It all comes down to the parents and how they raise them. So sad.
Just like the Chinese government.
This is why the majority of cheaters in western online games are Chinese.
I wouldn´t say chinese Culture but Maoist Culture. Taiwanese are Han-Chinese too and they know how to behave most of the Time. Same with Hong Kong until recently.
Thank you so much sir, you took the words right out of my mouth. I lived in Jinan for six years and that is exactly how the Chinese are.
Unfortunately we also have kids like this in the UK, kids that have never heard the word "No" who have parents (or more usually a parent) that give them whatever they want and defend or make excuses for whatever appalling behaviours they display.
Lazy parenting. I work with those kids often, a lot of them come from backgrounds where the parents don't give a shit about them, so my colleagues and I have to pick up the slack.
This is universal.......not about China or UK or anywhere else.........
@@Deepak_Arya yeah, but the difference is that in China society can’t intervene without severe consequences like the western societies can. Communism 🤡
My daughter got involved with a south Korean guy several years ago, his dad was American, mom SK. She (they) raised him the same way, he was in and out of prison, nothing but trouble, still is, living with dad. She is long out of it now and lesson learned, Amen.
Oh wow I never realized flipping the bird is so universal.
in some places they use different fingers but with the internet its probably going to become a universal symbol across the globe.
He learned it without the American version of TikTok.
Really? Lol
It's been universal for a long time. I guess you haven't been paying attention
swearing brings us together
Children need structured environments with limits and understanding of such and why.
I disagree. Children need structured environments with limits and an understanding of why etc, but also need unstructured periods. Without the latter, they won't learn self sufficiency, self control, self organization. Someone I knew talked about growing up, leaving home after breakfast on non school days, playing in the mountains with friends all day, all fine if she was back 15 minutes before dinner. She grew up to be a stable, sensible, productive adult with a good job and sensible, stable children. Another person that I knew, clearly only given structured time, struggled a bit when outside that. Still a nice person, but a less healthy situation, more struggle than necessary. Children need both to become ready for adulthood. My 2c.
@bearcubdaycare 💯 I had all work no play as a child and it ruined me. You need unstructured play and alot of social interaction I was ignored nit spoked to much and given sports to play year round it really ruined me
If they try to conquer Taiwan, imagine an army of Little Emperors in battle.
Pity is, they won’t be the ones they send to battle.
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah and they will stub their toe and then lose their shit trying to blame it on their superior..😂
Don't be ridiculous, little emperors won't have to face war or go into a real battle because their parents will pay someone high up off. So they either wont have to be enlisted, or even if they are a low ranking soldier they will be given some type soft easy position that's no where near any of the fighting going on.
They'll all be too busy arguing with each other to get anything done!
Thank you very much for the incogni info.ℹ️ 👍👍
Instead of putting her small daughter behind her she continues to keep her in front of her while having the argument. It was very dangerous and irresponsible.
"Your talking non sense! Do you live next to the sea?" 😂😂😂
Dialogue straight from a Jackie Chan movie
Lil demon rubs his ice cream all over the dad’s phone and then the demon’s mother says “you’re scaring my child by being so loud”. Ummmmm… scared little children don’t just destroy other people’s property (clearly) intentionally!!! A scared little child wouldn’t just take the same phone out of the stranger’s hand and throw it into soup!!!