My rules on buying luxury item is always this: if I can't afford to buy 3 of them, that means I can't afford it at all. Hope that helps ☺️☺️ as it always stays on the back of my mind.
PrincessSakuno I think what she meant is: she will buy an item, only if she can afford to pay the prices of three of them. It means after paying for one of your dream item, you still own extra money as much as double price of that item. In number: pay for a bag that cost 1000£, but you still own 2000£ in your bank account (untouched)
100% agree about not getting caught up in the blogger/Instagram wish list. I'm being realistic, I wouldn't want to spend too much on a single designer item. Plus most of the bloggers hire or borrow from brands to promote.
I agree completely. People mostly forget that bloggers/instagramers don't own more than half of their pieces. They are just walking mannequins for the brands and even if they aren't borrowing, they are shopping with really big discounts. On the other hand, I really appreciate seeing items in more "real" environment, and on real people, than classic models and commercials.
Pixel Inch ... also I think a lot of you tubers get in the habit of buying luxury bags at an excessive rate and then do a video on it and then return the bag. I notice that this method boosts their following as well.
My shopping rules 1. no more high street store except I make an occasional exception for zara (the real human and environmental cost of the clothes are too high. 2. I can pick two trends per 6 months and buy one to two pieces for that trend and that's it. 3. No more "branching out" I wear black, white, grey, maroon and emerald green. That's just the way it is. Every time I try to "branch out" and buy a different color. I never wear it. So no more of that.
Keely Nelsen We have the same rule number 1! I'm glad to find people who cares about the environment and also the humans who are making the clothes we wear! I buy less items but of a higher quality.... classic... and if I can I also buy from the locals wherever I am :)
filosofis26 Exactly! That's what I did too! My breaking point was when I bought a high street shirt and I wore it once to an event where I sat down the whole time and it was trashed when I got home. It was literally falling apart just from sitting. I couldn't believe it and clearing out my closet to take things to the thrift store twice a year. There was so much. It just really made me think. I slowly overhauled my closet with nicer classics. I don't judge others who don't follow my philosophy, but for me personally I just needed to stop the waste and the oppression of people that goes along with it.
Andrea, if you're interested and haven't read it already, there is a book called "Deluxe-how luxury lost it's luster" it's very well written and it goes into the general exploitation of all of us through the fashion industry. It's a bit dated now I think it's from 2009, but still really good. They briefly go into fast fashion at the very end.
Very useful video, I bookmark anything I want to buy on my Phone, look at it constantly for a couple of months and then place a big order of all the items that I'm still in to and only choose one item from each category, works wonders because most things last a week before I get bored of them
YESSS! This is such a good realistic reminder of items! The Instagram one is so relatable, especially with the big hype around popular products nowadays. And uncomfortable shoes, oh the amount of pairs i've brought home...
When it comes to designer handbags I only allow myself to buy classic ones, that never go out of style. The same when it comes to high end shoes and boots. And I need feel they are "me" and that I will be using them a lot. But i do buy less expensive shoes and boots as well. My clothing is usually high street but I allow myself to get a few more expensive pieces, because of the better quality and often better comfort. Like my coat from Acne that I will use for the 3rd fall and winter. Btw I often try to use what I already have in my closet instead of buying new all the time. :-) Great topic Amy, I loved watching your video. xx
Amie, please please please do a video about return policy and guarantee for luxury items, specially leather goods. It would be a very good help to know how different is the luxury market and brands from the regular return and guarantee
@Alvaro Ibacache S. Hello from NYC. I can tell you that contrary to popular belief, there is no Louis Vuitton "1-year guarantee" anywhere on the books -- their liability is 100% discretionary -- you are guaranteed nothing. Not a free repair and certainly not a replacement. In fact, employees are specifically trained on how to deter returns, refunds and repairs when possible. Google "Louis Vuitton customer complaints" for some very interesting and detailed accounts. Yes I do buy LV but with eyes.wide.open. LV cust svc is inconsistent and cannot be relied upon for excellence. Just sayin. 👛 xx
Thanks for sharing. I'm going to write a list now. One of mine is don't buy another pair of black shoes Until the one I already own are worn and unwearable. I have far too many. Another is I only need two winter coats one smart and one casual.
Enjoy watching all of your videos! Please upload often:) Also would love to see an update of your LV neverfull azur. Any tips on even patina, protecting the light canvas, and the interior? Looking forward to all of your further vids! Thank you:)
I also stop myself from buying bags without long/comfortable shoulder straps. Very practical for daily use and I always regretted it when I overlooked this rule. I buy all my stockings and hosiery from Le Bourget and they are quite resistant and last a very long time. I know what to look for and never buy anything with less 40 deniers. They are expensive but I only buy from them on sale once a year or every two years. What I do is instead of going crazy and looking for good deals everywhere, I go strait to my go-to online store and buy what I actually need for a cheaper price. It's nice having you back, thanks for the video.
Blogger-recommended skincare. Not at least without trying a sample first. I got burned so many times, and then I realised not everything they recommend they seem to use as part of their actual routines. Also eyeshadow palettes - makes no sense for me. I gave away my Naked 3 because I was only using half of it, if that.
All great points. I try to buy less 'cheap' fashion - occasional Zara spurge is allowed to try the trends. I usually do think out and really get good value from expensive luxury purchases but buy 'cheaper' high street items on impulse without thinking and they really mount up and are frequently worn once or not at all.
Amie, I will suggest you also buy a pair of gloves for those expensive tight (mostly you will find them in the same store). I have tights in all range of prices, but those which quite pricy are actually look different and feeling different on your legs! But yes it's true to be super super careful putting on and off.
Your videos are awesome:). After getting caught up in the blogger hype, I've learned it's crazy. I don't live that jet set life, lol. I'll splurge on an everyday Gucci loafer, or designer everyday bag/tote, but not on trendy items, and everything must be comfortable from day one!! 😘
I definitely agree with all of these rules. I'm always lured in by limited edition, I've had to work on that. I'm good with cosmetics, because those will get used up, but it's still hard with handbags and shoes lol. Ted Baker is always a challenge because every season is a limited print. I pretty much allow myself only one thing from them each season lol.
Great video! This is some very well-thought advice and I agree with most of them, especially the rule about uncomfortable shoes. I've been keeping an extra shoe stash at work for them just so they could get some use!
Agree with everything but the light lambskin, I have a beige classic flap in lambskin which was gifted from my Mum that's from the early 90s and whilst I don't wear it everyday, it's so lovely and is on such good condition. I do avoid with denim though. Love your work!!
Shoes are my biggest regret too . I have so many that I still haven't worn once . Also totally agree with the blogger thing, I m so tempted to get so many items that are cool but do not fit in my life style . I would add to your list also make up , with so much bombarding on intaagram it's easy to feel pressure to buy the latest palette or product and to just use it a couple of times and then move to another trend . It all piles up . Now with Christmas it's even worse with the whole limited edition palettes .
Omg yes! I used to watch a lot of beauty videos and my collection grew from one makeup bag to several drawers full... I try and reign myself in now, I'm not the most experimental with makeup so it's often a waste of money!
I agree with everything you mentioned, especially the last part about the bloggers and IG. I feel like that will push me over the edge with spending. Horrible! It's like, everything I see on them I have the urge to buy and sometimes spend hours just looking what they wear. As much as I looove IG, I wish I don't have it anymore...lol
Hi Amie, because you mentioned the tights: what's worth the splurge is Wolford tights (especially the higher DEN ones). My stockings are really old (for silk stockings), have been washed in the washing machine countless times and keep on holding. Really great quality 😊!
I agree with ur list. 👍🏻 No light colored bags cuz of color transfer, no fancy wild colored seasonal stuff or super high 1 hr heels. Have a fab fab weekend momma! 😘😘😘 Sandy
Great video ... useful for the rest of us who lead normal lives and not that of a blogger... I bought 3 pairs of aquazzuras because it was all the rage then but I had hardly worn them ... should absolutely start a list and remind myself of my past mistakes too !
Thanks for your thoughtful video. You offer some great ideas. I have established two additional rules that work well for me. I plan my wardrobe carefully and shop from a list. The first rule is: if I find something that I love that is not on my wardrobe shopping list, I must wait to purchase it. I give myself a mandatory cooling off period. Then, I assess whether it fits into my wardrobe and lifestyle. Often, I realize that the item, though beautiful, is not a good fit, or that it is very similar to something I already own and won't add anything new to my wardrobe. If the item is a good fit and I can afford it, then I buy it. (On occasion, I have bought something that I know won't be there if I wait too long. However, I leave it in the shopping bag or box with the tags on for at least a day or two before I take it out and consider it carefully. I return it if it turns out not to be a good fit for me.) My second rule is that I will not buy anything I have to talk myself into (or that a friend is trying to convince me to buy). That's how I avoid buying items that are uncomfortable or that are a steal but that don't work with my wardrobe and lifestyle.
Good list! I do have rules but I usually break them. One item is to be more disciplined and read the list. LOL I don't know about you, or if I am in a different category, but when I want something I become obsessed and my stomach burns with anticipation. I know this is not right, not healthy, not normal, so truly, a great list would be one that I can use as a tool with helpful and supportive quotations on it to remind me of the end game. To stay away from, for me, is makeup just because. I have wasted so much money on in the moment lipstick and lip liner purchases. I need to just stay out of drugstores when I am bored. Also, no new books. I have an entire library and a credit at a used book store but out of boredom I do peruse Chapters and there I find other new books to read. No magazines. Really that is a waste if you have Pinterest. I used to also collect magazines, man that took up a lot of space. Stay out of the mall if I feel spendy or vulnerable. I used to tell myself I will just go the theatre beside the mall but I usually arrived early for the show and did a little shopping too. It can be expensive. The more often you say no, the easier it gets I find - and the more redirection of one's compulsions in less time. I'm a work in progress. LOL Great vid. Take care. c
c sikomas I am the exact same way! I will be thinking about an item I fall in love with 24/7. And I cant think clearly, or think about anything else. I cant talk myself out of much either so it's best for me to just avoid shopping or mindless perusing because I will definitely wanna buy smth
I have two main rules. Save up for it. If I still want it by the time i have the money for it, then go on at get it. And only buy things with guld hardware.
I can so relate to your list. I have one in my head: Eye shadow palettes. The look amazing, relatively inexpensive, blogger inspired but I'll use and not like my eyes with the shadow on. I think they look bruised. Expensive tights. I obsessed about the spotty tights too. Marks and Spencer's had some on a model dummy and never in my size. Wolford tights look amazing too, but £40 ! No m&s for me. SLGs. I have a few Louis Vuitton handbags and like a wallet or small purse to match, but have a joint account with my husband and am now saving for kitchen renovation. He hates my LV love. Impractical shoes. Again I love shoes and always try them on in the shop or around the house before sending back. Hubby gets fed up if I complain about blisters or am walking 10 meters behind him. Primark stuff. We don't have one near us but I went to Guildford with my sister and I was so excited picking up loads of stuff. She just gave me this look and said she was going to Kurt Geiger to look at shoes and it made me think her posh'o' meter was going through the roof ! I put it all back. The stuff does not last very well and it's nice to wear nicer stuff with a very expensive bag. Red lipstick, bags shoes etc... Am drawn to red but feel very self conscious wearing it so end up not wearing it.
I love this list Amie! I can relate to a few of these like comfortable shoes and that applies to clothes too! I've definitely purchased clothing a size too small or large just because it was on sale and I "just had to buy it" or "I'll take it to a tailor to get it to fit better" when that's NEVER happened. About the special occasion dresses, is there a version of Rent the Runway in the UK? It's an absolute wallet-saver for me whenever I have to go to a formal event.
I don't think there is but there definitely needs to be. It's such a clever idea! And I hear you about sale stuff - so easy to justify things when they're discounted even though they may not be quite right!
Great advice! I have pale pink Miss Dior bag and I baby it so much! Also, I can't stop thinking about your miu miu coat from another video, it's so, so beautiful. Especially the leopard sleeves! Are you planning on selling it eventually? I'm a hardcore miu miu fan and was searching for a coat like this for ages!
I know this might sound strange, but your voice is so comfortable to listen to! Maybe it's just me having sensitive ears but I find your voice very soothing. Ofcourse I love your videos as well but this really makes it even more enjoyable to watch! xx
The older I get, and the more financially independent I become, I see my list of things not to buy definitely growing! I try not to buy trendy items (if I do they are usually the cheaper alternatives). I also realize the more I learn my personal style, the less I get wrapped up in trends and what's hot right now. I'm more of an edgy prep, and I love your videos because you seem to have my style too! I also try to only buy one piece that is good quality and will last a long time, instead of buying multiple lesser quality things that seem to just clutter my closet
I started doing that a while ago too - less so with casual clothes but with more 'classic' pieces like coats, dresses etc. I try to buy quality over quantity. From a space perspective, this is a life-saver!
I'm a sucker for sale stuff . usually i buy it bec it's pretty and sale but never wear it. reading all the comment down here really a reminder for me. luv amie' subby , all are very chic....xoxo
after watching your videos, i went for the plunge and bought my very first LV neverfull in damier ebene and I am absolutely OBSESSED! Thank you for your extremely helpful videos!
Thank you for the video. How ever it made me curious as to which types of leather you would buy in light colour tones? What is your thoughts on saffiano skin?
Great idea for a video! I should lay some ground rules for myself in terms of shopping. Firstly, I should actually budget and stick to it. Also I've learned that heels just take up space in my closet and that I mostly don't feel comfortable wearing loud clothes, despite that I'm drawn to them like a magpie. I should also stop buying loafers...well, just one more pair...
Love this video! you give some great advice on your channel! My shopping rule is only buying things if I've researched it and revisited numerous times with no change in feelings. I've stopped instant buying even though it's difficult especially if you love it and it's the last one left. My Louboutin purse was an instant buy but I have no regrets especially when I had researched many other designer purses and didn't like any of them.
The 15 cm pumps I wore on my wedding day became a very cute decorative item on my desk shelf so I guess am still getting "use out of them..for the rest I am just happy I managed to not trip over on that day!Tracking down past LV limited edition items has become somewhat of a hobby of mine...lots of "unicorn" items on my wishlist...But it's a kind of fun hobby to have!
I agree with your list; I feel the same way! For clothes, I am not buying wool anymore; Too itchy for me. I have this beautiful designer 100% wool coat that I have to try and sell now because it is too uncomfortable for me to wear!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic! It's interesting you mentioned event dresses... I'm getting married next June 2017 and I already bought my wedding dress (it's beautiful and I feel great and comfortable in it but definitely not expensive and not very 'bridal' based on current standard style). The dress is from Tadashi Shoji and it's this beautiful high neck ivory gown (marketed more as a prom dress than a wedding dress). But now I'm regretting my decision... I feel like I should invest more money into THIS one dress, but I also know I cannot justify paying so much money for a dress that I only get to wear once. As you said, cost per wear is so important. I'm still undecided... but every time I ask my fiancé what his thoughts are about what I'll be wearing that day, he always tells me I'm more important than what I wear on our wedding day. When I walk down the aisle, it's me that he sees... I wish I don't feel this social pressure to spend a ton of money on the dress!
First up, congratulations! How exciting! :) Secondly, I would say a wedding dress probably escapes the rule of normal shopping being a hopefully-once-in-a-lifetime thing! That said, spend what you're comfortable with! I constantly hear from just-married brides that they were surprised how quickly the day went by which might make any over-spending on a dress even more painful! Also keep in mind though, you could always sell the dress after, recouping some of your money :)
Tina S totally agree with Amie. this is also my confusion at the moment. but this stuff happen to us once in a lifetime , we will want to look at our picture 10 years later and said we look good.
Reminding myself that im having a different lifestyle with those gorgeous bloggers and even really famous youtubers, is really what I have to focus on. And I am happy to hear that you have the same thoughts and in the same page :)
Great vid. And very importen message👍 i too write down what i wish and look at the list for a time. Often i cross out and can nail it down after i had written it down on paper, if that makes sens😉 Have a wonderful Monday Amy
Amie, you are so real and is one of the reasons I subscribed to your channel. I am not on any social media but I understand what you say about the blogger they have a different life you are amazing keep it up I love watching your videos!
I agree with your comment, " I am not a blogger" I love so many things that I see, but wonder, how does it fit into my lifestyle???? Most regrettable purchase is an 900$ pair of Jimmy Choo shoes I purchased 2 years ago, and still have not worn!!
shopping for my lifestyle is definitely helping me. I no longer buy shoes higher than 4 inches, unless I am obsessed with it. But it's not part of my normal life
great video!! you covered quite a lot of things i would have put on my list.. but my top rule is.. dont spend over 3k for a handbag.. its hard but that is my limit .. ☺️
Yes I have also rules & amounts otherwise I can go crazy with things that I already have or that I don't use only because They look amazing or look luxurious
Do you guys have Rent the Runway in the UK yet or something similar? It's definitely a saver for event dresses, though TBH, sometimes I find an excellent deal on an event dress at Nordstrom Rack or Saks Off 5th and decide to buy vs. rent. Also, totally agree on the uncomfy shoes. Sigh, been down that road many times. xo
Great rules! Mine are that I have to sleep on things before making big purchases ; at least 3 or 4 days. I too get suckered in by IG and YT and suddenly have a wishlist of things I don't need 😂 so I force myself to sleep on it before adding them to cart to avoid impulse purchases. I also ask myself whether I see myself using/wearing the item at least 30 times or is it something I am likely to purge from my wardrobe in 18 months - this helps me trim down purchases to items that will really have longevity ( and is better from a sustainability point of view too!)
Hi Amie! I've been following your chanel from a while back. I love your videos. I look forward to Tuesdays. By the way, you talked about online ebates program that you use before on of your hauls. Can you do a video on that? Does that really work? With the holidays coming up I'd like to think of ways to maximize the budget. :)
Granny tip! (from someone in her 20s) I buy myself one pair of Wolford tights a year and they last me 5 yrs+. I have quite the collection of their velvet deluxe tights these days. They last soooo much longer than a cheap pair, are comfortable and wash really well. But yes they are a bit pricy (~$50). I get what you are saying though, for the ultra fine ones I'll turn to H&M and find a pair I won't feel bad if they break on first wear:)
When tempted by a pricey purchase I imagine I am in a lower cost store, such as Kmart/Target/Asda; would I still purchase the item or am I getting caught up in the feel-good factor of shopping in a nice store? I like it because it's LV or Chanel etc., but would I like it just as much if it was a home brand or in the chemist/drugstore? I'd say 4 out of 5 times I leave without buying. Also I put things on 'lay-by' in my head for 3-4 days and if I really can't stop thinking about it or regret not buying it, I will go back. Most times, once I am home I am satisfied I didn't make a purchase.
I have similar opinion about heavy tote bags. Because I have very weak arms, Having tote bags makes even putting something in my bag. So little bit annoyed carrying in small crossbags, I rather prefer that. Our shoulder is one and only thing we can never buy!
Amazing. I was watching this and thinking "that's a really pretty top. Looks like the one I have on my wishlist." And it is! Haha ~ definitely gonna get it now ;)
My rule is one in- one out. If I buy something, then I have to either donate or sell an item- or gift it to someone I know would love it. I needed to radically downsize before a move and it does make you wince when there are items with tags that were bought on a whim and never worn
I love your videos! And I feel exactly the same as you. I NEED straps and comfortable bags. On the rights I am torn because my mum has a boutique and sells "high end" tights so that's what I grew up with but also always got a fat discount haha
I always need to remind myself not to buy lambskin because I am so careless with my bags! But lambskin is sooo beautiful. I love your top & you're gorgeous as always 💕
Great video! Thanks so much for sharing! I think for me a shopping rule might include staying away from Burberry. I have seen so many folks investing in Burberry scarves and I jumped on the bandwagon and have purchased three! But i am just not a scarf person. Never have been! I was simply swayed by what I've seen on instagram and youtube. No more!!! #staytruetoself!
Hi Amie.. Thks for sharing very helpful information totally agree with you.. could you kindly share your thoughts on Gucci dionysus bag and Celine belt bag.. I'm kind of obsessed with the bags.. half hearted 😊
Great video! Do they have renttherunway in the UK? If so, that could solve your issue with fancy event dresses :) I'm always such a big fan of your blog and videos!
I know it's on your list of things to not allow yourself to purchase, but I have had the opposite experience with tights: Wolford tights are insaaaanely beautiful. The quality is incredible, they wear beautifully, and they absolutely do not rip (I've had the same experience as you). If you can find a pair on sale, I'd urge you to test your rule once more and see what you think! :-) Perhaps I'll send you a pair if you tell me what kind of tights you like!
love your videos! Not sure if youve talked about this before. what are ur opinions on the Gucci Dionysus bag. I really like it but afraid it might be a trend bag... 😩
I think I'm going to chat about this in an upcoming video! I like the style but it is a bit of a trend bag I think. That said, if you love it, go for it! Important to go for what you like rather than solely what you think is the best investment IMO
Hi Amie. How about your baby pink Cluny BB? Does it have color transfer problems? I am thinking about getting a light pink Epi leather Alma BB from LV.
My rules on buying luxury item is always this: if I can't afford to buy 3 of them, that means I can't afford it at all. Hope that helps ☺️☺️ as it always stays on the back of my mind.
atie pie that's a great rule
Love this rule!
LOL that means i definitely shouldnt even try buying anything
PrincessSakuno I think what she meant is: she will buy an item, only if she can afford to pay the prices of three of them. It means after paying for one of your dream item, you still own extra money as much as double price of that item. In number: pay for a bag that cost 1000£, but you still own 2000£ in your bank account (untouched)
It’s true! Good idea👍🏻
My rules are:
1. Buy only what I love.
2. Quality is worth the price tag.
3. Practical, I can see myself using it plenty of times.
100% agree about not getting caught up in the blogger/Instagram wish list. I'm being realistic, I wouldn't want to spend too much on a single designer item. Plus most of the bloggers hire or borrow from brands to promote.
I agree completely. People mostly forget that bloggers/instagramers don't own more than half of their pieces. They are just walking mannequins for the brands and even if they aren't borrowing, they are shopping with really big discounts.
On the other hand, I really appreciate seeing items in more "real" environment, and on real people, than classic models and commercials.
Pixel Inch ... also I think a lot of you tubers get in the habit of buying luxury bags at an excessive rate and then do a video on it and then return the bag. I notice that this method boosts their following as well.
Mina O Yes, noticed that trend also...
Mina O this is TRUE!
My rule is not to buy something only because it's on sale.
yes ! totally agree!
oh gosh i need to set up this rule for myself! today i bought clothing hangers because they were on sale...flippin HANGERS! haha
Kadelle no now that is reasonable. I run through those like crazy.
Don't buy anything on sale unless you would buy it full price 😉
My shopping rules 1. no more high street store except I make an occasional exception for zara (the real human and environmental cost of the clothes are too high. 2. I can pick two trends per 6 months and buy one to two pieces for that trend and that's it. 3. No more "branching out" I wear black, white, grey, maroon and emerald green. That's just the way it is. Every time I try to "branch out" and buy a different color. I never wear it. So no more of that.
Oh wow, you are super disciplined! Love your trend rule!
Keely Nelsen We have the same rule number 1! I'm glad to find people who cares about the environment and also the humans who are making the clothes we wear!
I buy less items but of a higher quality.... classic... and if I can I also buy from the locals wherever I am :)
filosofis26 Exactly! That's what I did too! My breaking point was when I bought a high street shirt and I wore it once to an event where I sat down the whole time and it was trashed when I got home. It was literally falling apart just from sitting. I couldn't believe it and clearing out my closet to take things to the thrift store twice a year. There was so much. It just really made me think. I slowly overhauled my closet with nicer classics. I don't judge others who don't follow my philosophy, but for me personally I just needed to stop the waste and the oppression of people that goes along with it.
filosofis26 me too, I haven't seen the documentary true cost but the trailer is enough to make me think twice.
Andrea, if you're interested and haven't read it already, there is a book called "Deluxe-how luxury lost it's luster" it's very well written and it goes into the general exploitation of all of us through the fashion industry. It's a bit dated now I think it's from 2009, but still really good. They briefly go into fast fashion at the very end.
Very useful video, I bookmark anything I want to buy on my Phone, look at it constantly for a couple of months and then place a big order of all the items that I'm still in to and only choose one item from each category, works wonders because most things last a week before I get bored of them
YESSS! This is such a good realistic reminder of items! The Instagram one is so relatable, especially with the big hype around popular products nowadays. And uncomfortable shoes, oh the amount of pairs i've brought home...
#5 (shoes you can't walk in) has been really hard for me in the past, but I've gotten much better with that.
I think relationships with SAs are a lethal way to erode your bank balance!
When it comes to designer handbags I only allow myself to buy classic ones, that never go out of style. The same when it comes to high end shoes and boots. And I need feel they are "me" and that I will be using them a lot. But i do buy less expensive shoes and boots as well. My clothing is usually high street but I allow myself to get a few more expensive pieces, because of the better quality and often better comfort. Like my coat from Acne that I will use for the 3rd fall and winter. Btw I often try to use what I already have in my closet instead of buying new all the time. :-)
Great topic Amy, I loved watching your video. xx
Amie, please please please do a video about return policy and guarantee for luxury items, specially leather goods. It would be a very good help to know how different is the luxury market and brands from the regular return and guarantee
Alvaro Ibacache S. It really depends on what country you're from, and where you buy it. :)
@Alvaro Ibacache S. Hello from NYC. I can tell you that contrary to popular belief, there is no Louis Vuitton "1-year guarantee" anywhere on the books -- their liability is 100% discretionary -- you are guaranteed nothing. Not a free repair and certainly not a replacement. In fact, employees are specifically trained on how to deter returns, refunds and repairs when possible. Google "Louis Vuitton customer complaints" for some very interesting and detailed accounts. Yes I do buy LV but with eyes.wide.open. LV cust svc is inconsistent and cannot be relied upon for excellence. Just sayin. 👛 xx
Thanks for sharing. I'm going to write a list now. One of mine is don't buy another pair of black shoes Until the one I already own are worn and unwearable. I have far too many. Another is I only need two winter coats one smart and one casual.
Enjoy watching all of your videos! Please upload often:) Also would love to see an update of your LV neverfull azur. Any tips on even patina, protecting the light canvas, and the interior? Looking forward to all of your further vids! Thank you:)
I share an update on my neverfull in my 'Recent Purchases Update ' video :)
I also stop myself from buying bags without long/comfortable shoulder straps. Very practical for daily use and I always regretted it when I overlooked this rule. I buy all my stockings and hosiery from Le Bourget and they are quite resistant and last a very long time. I know what to look for and never buy anything with less 40 deniers. They are expensive but I only buy from them on sale once a year or every two years. What I do is instead of going crazy and looking for good deals everywhere, I go strait to my go-to online store and buy what I actually need for a cheaper price. It's nice having you back, thanks for the video.
Blogger-recommended skincare. Not at least without trying a sample first. I got burned so many times, and then I realised not everything they recommend they seem to use as part of their actual routines. Also eyeshadow palettes - makes no sense for me. I gave away my Naked 3 because I was only using half of it, if that.
All great points. I try to buy less 'cheap' fashion - occasional Zara spurge is allowed to try the trends. I usually do think out and really get good value from expensive luxury purchases but buy 'cheaper' high street items on impulse without thinking and they really mount up and are frequently worn once or not at all.
Amie, I will suggest you also buy a pair of gloves for those expensive tight (mostly you will find them in the same store). I have tights in all range of prices, but those which quite pricy are actually look different and feeling different on your legs! But yes it's true to be super super careful putting on and off.
Your videos are awesome:). After getting caught up in the blogger hype, I've learned it's crazy. I don't live that jet set life, lol. I'll splurge on an everyday Gucci loafer, or designer everyday bag/tote, but not on trendy items, and everything must be comfortable from day one!! 😘
My criteria: would Audrey Hepburn wear them?
I definitely agree with all of these rules. I'm always lured in by limited edition, I've had to work on that. I'm good with cosmetics, because those will get used up, but it's still hard with handbags and shoes lol. Ted Baker is always a challenge because every season is a limited print. I pretty much allow myself only one thing from them each season lol.
I blame those sneaky marketers with their limited editions! ;)
Great video! This is some very well-thought advice and I agree with most of them, especially the rule about uncomfortable shoes. I've been keeping an extra shoe stash at work for them just so they could get some use!
Great video, very thought provoking. Going to sit down readdress my hit list as Christmas approaches. Have a great weekend xx
Agree with everything but the light lambskin, I have a beige classic flap in lambskin which was gifted from my Mum that's from the early 90s and whilst I don't wear it everyday, it's so lovely and is on such good condition. I do avoid with denim though. Love your work!!
Vintage Chanel is the best - amazing quality!
Shoes are my biggest regret too . I have so many that I still haven't worn once . Also totally agree with the blogger thing, I m so tempted to get so many items that are cool but do not fit in my life style . I would add to your list also make up , with so much bombarding on intaagram it's easy to feel pressure to buy the latest palette or product and to just use it a couple of times and then move to another trend . It all piles up . Now with Christmas it's even worse with the whole limited edition palettes .
Omg yes! I used to watch a lot of beauty videos and my collection grew from one makeup bag to several drawers full... I try and reign myself in now, I'm not the most experimental with makeup so it's often a waste of money!
+Chase Amie same . It's so hard .
I agree with everything you mentioned, especially the last part about the bloggers and IG. I feel like that will push me over the edge with spending. Horrible! It's like, everything I see on them I have the urge to buy and sometimes spend hours just looking what they wear. As much as I looove IG, I wish I don't have it anymore...lol
I really appreciate you for being real in your videos. I have to remind myself very often about those bloggers, too. :)
Hi Amie, because you mentioned the tights: what's worth the splurge is Wolford tights (especially the higher DEN ones). My stockings are really old (for silk stockings), have been washed in the washing machine countless times and keep on holding. Really great quality 😊!
I agree with ur list. 👍🏻 No light colored bags cuz of color transfer, no fancy wild colored seasonal stuff or super high 1 hr heels. Have a fab fab weekend momma! 😘😘😘 Sandy
Thanks for sharing your fun list. Great reminders. I'm a sucker for last one in stock. Lol...
Great video ... useful for the rest of us who lead normal lives and not that of a blogger... I bought 3 pairs of aquazzuras because it was all the rage then but I had hardly worn them ... should absolutely start a list and remind myself of my past mistakes too !
Thanks for your thoughtful video. You offer some great ideas. I have established two additional rules that work well for me. I plan my wardrobe carefully and shop from a list. The first rule is: if I find something that I love that is not on my wardrobe shopping list, I must wait to purchase it. I give myself a mandatory cooling off period. Then, I assess whether it fits into my wardrobe and lifestyle. Often, I realize that the item, though beautiful, is not a good fit, or that it is very similar to something I already own and won't add anything new to my wardrobe. If the item is a good fit and I can afford it, then I buy it. (On occasion, I have bought something that I know won't be there if I wait too long. However, I leave it in the shopping bag or box with the tags on for at least a day or two before I take it out and consider it carefully. I return it if it turns out not to be a good fit for me.) My second rule is that I will not buy anything I have to talk myself into (or that a friend is trying to convince me to buy). That's how I avoid buying items that are uncomfortable or that are a steal but that don't work with my wardrobe and lifestyle.
you are so honest and down to earth Amie, I really admire you 😊👍❤👏
Great tips! It is hard to resist "limited" edition. Such a marketing tactic! But it works... I like the practical advice.
Good video! I also decided not to spend a lot of money in event dresses. I rather save that money for a new bag because I will use it more.
Good list! I do have rules but I usually break them. One item is to be more disciplined and read the list. LOL I don't know about you, or if I am in a different category, but when I want something I become obsessed and my stomach burns with anticipation. I know this is not right, not healthy, not normal, so truly, a great list would be one that I can use as a tool with helpful and supportive quotations on it to remind me of the end game. To stay away from, for me, is makeup just because. I have wasted so much money on in the moment lipstick and lip liner purchases. I need to just stay out of drugstores when I am bored. Also, no new books. I have an entire library and a credit at a used book store but out of boredom I do peruse Chapters and there I find other new books to read. No magazines. Really that is a waste if you have Pinterest. I used to also collect magazines, man that took up a lot of space. Stay out of the mall if I feel spendy or vulnerable. I used to tell myself I will just go the theatre beside the mall but I usually arrived early for the show and did a little shopping too. It can be expensive. The more often you say no, the easier it gets I find - and the more redirection of one's compulsions in less time. I'm a work in progress. LOL Great vid. Take care. c
c sikomas I am the exact same way! I will be thinking about an item I fall in love with 24/7. And I cant think clearly, or think about anything else. I cant talk myself out of much either so it's best for me to just avoid shopping or mindless perusing because I will definitely wanna buy smth
So refined and refreshing--I am enjoying every single one of your videos.
I have two main rules. Save up for it. If I still want it by the time i have the money for it, then go on at get it. And only buy things with guld hardware.
I can so relate to your list. I have one in my head:
Eye shadow palettes. The look amazing, relatively inexpensive, blogger inspired but I'll use and not like my eyes with the shadow on. I think they look bruised.
Expensive tights. I obsessed about the spotty tights too. Marks and Spencer's had some on a model dummy and never in my size. Wolford tights look amazing too, but £40 ! No m&s for me.
SLGs. I have a few Louis Vuitton handbags and like a wallet or small purse to match, but have a joint account with my husband and am now saving for kitchen renovation. He hates my LV love.
Impractical shoes. Again I love shoes and always try them on in the shop or around the house before sending back. Hubby gets fed up if I complain about blisters or am walking 10 meters behind him.
Primark
stuff. We don't have one near us but I went to Guildford with my sister and I was so excited picking up loads of stuff. She just gave me this look and said she was going to Kurt Geiger to look at shoes and it made me think her posh'o' meter was going through the roof ! I put it all back.
The stuff does not last very well and it's nice to wear nicer stuff with a very expensive bag.
Red lipstick, bags shoes etc... Am drawn to red but feel very self conscious wearing it so end up not wearing it.
I love this list Amie! I can relate to a few of these like comfortable shoes and that applies to clothes too! I've definitely purchased clothing a size too small or large just because it was on sale and I "just had to buy it" or "I'll take it to a tailor to get it to fit better" when that's NEVER happened. About the special occasion dresses, is there a version of Rent the Runway in the UK? It's an absolute wallet-saver for me whenever I have to go to a formal event.
I don't think there is but there definitely needs to be. It's such a clever idea! And I hear you about sale stuff - so easy to justify things when they're discounted even though they may not be quite right!
Great advice! I have pale pink Miss Dior bag and I baby it so much! Also, I can't stop thinking about your miu miu coat from another video, it's so, so beautiful. Especially the leopard sleeves! Are you planning on selling it eventually? I'm a hardcore miu miu fan and was searching for a coat like this for ages!
I know this might sound strange, but your voice is so comfortable to listen to! Maybe it's just me having sensitive ears but I find your voice very soothing. Ofcourse I love your videos as well but this really makes it even more enjoyable to watch! xx
Everything looks good on Instagram.
My problem is that I'm a huge impulse buyer. If I want something super expensive, I make myself wait at least a month before pulling the plug.
Emma Shouse this has saved saves me so many times! Depending on the amount I wait 3+ months
Emma Shouse i have that problem too..😩
This is a great idea, I need to implement this!
Emma Shouse this works for me too! I wait at least 3 months... if it’s more expensive I wait 6. Even though the funds are available I need to be sure!
The older I get, and the more financially independent I become, I see my list of things not to buy definitely growing! I try not to buy trendy items (if I do they are usually the cheaper alternatives). I also realize the more I learn my personal style, the less I get wrapped up in trends and what's hot right now. I'm more of an edgy prep, and I love your videos because you seem to have my style too! I also try to only buy one piece that is good quality and will last a long time, instead of buying multiple lesser quality things that seem to just clutter my closet
I started doing that a while ago too - less so with casual clothes but with more 'classic' pieces like coats, dresses etc. I try to buy quality over quantity. From a space perspective, this is a life-saver!
I'm a sucker for sale stuff . usually i buy it bec it's pretty and sale but never wear it.
reading all the comment down here really a reminder for me. luv amie' subby , all are very chic....xoxo
after watching your videos, i went for the plunge and bought my very first LV neverfull in damier ebene and I am absolutely OBSESSED! Thank you for your extremely helpful videos!
Ah congrats on your new bag! The Neverfull is the best!
Thank you for the video.
How ever it made me curious as to which types of leather you would buy in light colour tones?
What is your thoughts on saffiano skin?
Great idea for a video! I should lay some ground rules for myself in terms of shopping. Firstly, I should actually budget and stick to it. Also I've learned that heels just take up space in my closet and that I mostly don't feel comfortable wearing loud clothes, despite that I'm drawn to them like a magpie. I should also stop buying loafers...well, just one more pair...
haha this made me laugh :) We all have our weaknesses!
Chase Amie 😊
Love this video! you give some great advice on your channel!
My shopping rule is only buying things if I've researched it and revisited numerous times with no change in feelings. I've stopped instant buying even though it's difficult especially if you love it and it's the last one left. My Louboutin purse was an instant buy but I have no regrets especially when I had researched many other designer purses and didn't like any of them.
A great video! Very practical advise to be mindful of ones lifestyle.🤗
Very good video! I have some of the same rules when shopping also lol Glad im not the only one with rules!
The 15 cm pumps I wore on my wedding day became a very cute decorative item on my desk shelf so I guess am still getting "use out of them..for the rest I am just happy I managed to not trip over on that day!Tracking down past LV limited edition items has become somewhat of a hobby of mine...lots of "unicorn" items on my wishlist...But it's a kind of fun hobby to have!
You need to make more videos!!! Me encantan. I really appreciate your honesty
thanks for sharing Amie - really very helpful
I'd only buy cheap fancy tights but you can't go past Wolford for plain black ones ! I've still got mine from 5 years ago and it hasn't ripped !
Thank you it is very useful! Love to see ur vid back in the subscription box again! :)
I agree with your list; I feel the same way! For clothes, I am not buying wool anymore; Too itchy for me. I have this beautiful designer 100% wool coat that I have to try and sell now because it is too uncomfortable for me to wear!
love the way you talk, very sympathetic and comforting:) and also nice advises:)
thank you for making this video!! you inspired me to make my own shopping rules!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic! It's interesting you mentioned event dresses... I'm getting married next June 2017 and I already bought my wedding dress (it's beautiful and I feel great and comfortable in it but definitely not expensive and not very 'bridal' based on current standard style). The dress is from Tadashi Shoji and it's this beautiful high neck ivory gown (marketed more as a prom dress than a wedding dress). But now I'm regretting my decision... I feel like I should invest more money into THIS one dress, but I also know I cannot justify paying so much money for a dress that I only get to wear once. As you said, cost per wear is so important. I'm still undecided... but every time I ask my fiancé what his thoughts are about what I'll be wearing that day, he always tells me I'm more important than what I wear on our wedding day. When I walk down the aisle, it's me that he sees... I wish I don't feel this social pressure to spend a ton of money on the dress!
If it is beautiful and makes you feel great, it sounds like the perfect dress. When you wear it, own it.
First up, congratulations! How exciting! :) Secondly, I would say a wedding dress probably escapes the rule of normal shopping being a hopefully-once-in-a-lifetime thing! That said, spend what you're comfortable with! I constantly hear from just-married brides that they were surprised how quickly the day went by which might make any over-spending on a dress even more painful! Also keep in mind though, you could always sell the dress after, recouping some of your money :)
Tina S totally agree with Amie.
this is also my confusion at the moment. but this stuff happen to us once in a lifetime , we will want to look at our picture 10 years later and said we look good.
I agree! Thanks for the advice :)
True, thanks for the advice! :)
I come cross your channel and really like it!! Keep doing what you are doing. It is amazing!
your hair always look so soft, smooth and shining. so jealous!!
Reminding myself that im having a different lifestyle with those gorgeous bloggers and even really famous youtubers, is really what I have to focus on. And I am happy to hear that you have the same thoughts and in the same page :)
Great vid. And very importen message👍 i too write down what i wish and look at the list for a time. Often i cross out and can nail it down after i had written it down on paper, if that makes sens😉 Have a wonderful Monday Amy
sorry 🙄 Amie
love love this video dear ! some how, when you think over, with the money we saved, we can do so much more !! love it !!
Amie, you are so real and is one of the reasons I subscribed to your channel. I am not on any social media but I understand what you say about the blogger they have a different life you are amazing keep it up I love watching your videos!
I agree with your comment, " I am not a blogger" I love so many things that I see, but wonder, how does it fit into my lifestyle???? Most regrettable purchase is an 900$ pair of Jimmy Choo shoes I purchased 2 years ago, and still have not worn!!
shopping for my lifestyle is definitely helping me. I no longer buy shoes higher than 4 inches, unless I am obsessed with it. But it's not part of my normal life
great video!! you covered quite a lot of things i would have put on my list.. but my top rule is.. dont spend over 3k for a handbag.. its hard but that is my limit .. ☺️
Thank you for being so honest. Love your videos.
Yes I have also rules & amounts otherwise I can go crazy with things that I already have or that I don't use only because They look amazing or look luxurious
Do you guys have Rent the Runway in the UK yet or something similar? It's definitely a saver for event dresses, though TBH, sometimes I find an excellent deal on an event dress at Nordstrom Rack or Saks Off 5th and decide to buy vs. rent. Also, totally agree on the uncomfy shoes. Sigh, been down that road many times.
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Great rules! Mine are that I have to sleep on things before making big purchases ; at least 3 or 4 days. I too get suckered in by IG and YT and suddenly have a wishlist of things I don't need 😂 so I force myself to sleep on it before adding them to cart to avoid impulse purchases. I also ask myself whether I see myself using/wearing the item at least 30 times or is it something I am likely to purge from my wardrobe in 18 months - this helps me trim down purchases to items that will really have longevity ( and is better from a sustainability point of view too!)
Love the 30 times/ 18 months rule. I might start using that one myself!
Hi Amie! I've been following your chanel from a while back. I love your videos. I look forward to Tuesdays. By the way, you talked about online ebates program that you use before on of your hauls. Can you do a video on that? Does that really work? With the holidays coming up I'd like to think of ways to maximize the budget. :)
Granny tip! (from someone in her 20s) I buy myself one pair of Wolford tights a year and they last me 5 yrs+. I have quite the collection of their velvet deluxe tights these days. They last soooo much longer than a cheap pair, are comfortable and wash really well. But yes they are a bit pricy (~$50).
I get what you are saying though, for the ultra fine ones I'll turn to H&M and find a pair I won't feel bad if they break on first wear:)
Great video! Have you done a video on buying pre loved? I'd love to hear your experiences and your rules on that!
When tempted by a pricey purchase I imagine I am in a lower cost store, such as Kmart/Target/Asda; would I still purchase the item or am I getting caught up in the feel-good factor of shopping in a nice store? I like it because it's LV or Chanel etc., but would I like it just as much if it was a home brand or in the chemist/drugstore? I'd say 4 out of 5 times I leave without buying. Also I put things on 'lay-by' in my head for 3-4 days and if I really can't stop thinking about it or regret not buying it, I will go back. Most times, once I am home I am satisfied I didn't make a purchase.
I have similar opinion about heavy tote bags. Because I have very weak arms, Having tote bags makes even putting something in my bag. So little bit annoyed carrying in small crossbags, I rather prefer that. Our shoulder is one and only thing we can never buy!
I really like your top, where did you get it?
Ivy Nguyen I second this question! So pretty!
I think it is from topshop!
The power of community. Top shop is right! You guys are awesome, thanks!! 🙏🏼
Everyone beat me! It is from Topshop :)
Amazing. I was watching this and thinking "that's a really pretty top. Looks like the one I have on my wishlist." And it is! Haha ~ definitely gonna get it now ;)
hehe very useful video Amie, I do not have a list per se but I agree with every single point you've made
My rule is one in- one out. If I buy something, then I have to either donate or sell an item- or gift it to someone I know would love it. I needed to radically downsize before a move and it does make you wince when there are items with tags that were bought on a whim and never worn
I love your videos! And I feel exactly the same as you. I NEED straps and comfortable bags.
On the rights I am torn because my mum has a boutique and sells "high end" tights so that's what I grew up with but also always got a fat discount haha
great advices for a luxury shopping starter like me lol
I always need to remind myself not to buy lambskin because I am so careless with my bags! But lambskin is sooo beautiful. I love your top & you're gorgeous as always 💕
I know! It's such a beautiful leather!
I have medium beige flap and I’m scared of colour transfer so I don’t wear it.
Great video! Thanks so much for sharing! I think for me a shopping rule might include staying away from Burberry. I have seen so many folks investing in Burberry scarves and I jumped on the bandwagon and have purchased three! But i am just not a scarf person. Never have been! I was simply swayed by what I've seen on instagram and youtube. No more!!! #staytruetoself!
Totally on point with the last one!!!! That is so me
I know this is not related to the topic of your video but I just love your polish color and I've seen you wear it before! What brand and color is it?
Great video that I completely agree with. I should copy down your list!
Hi Amie.. Thks for sharing very helpful information totally agree with you..
could you kindly share your thoughts on Gucci dionysus bag and Celine belt bag..
I'm kind of obsessed with the bags.. half hearted 😊
Great video! Do they have renttherunway in the UK? If so, that could solve your issue with fancy event dresses :)
I'm always such a big fan of your blog and videos!
they don't! I wish they did!
I know it's on your list of things to not allow yourself to purchase, but I have had the opposite experience with tights: Wolford tights are insaaaanely beautiful. The quality is incredible, they wear beautifully, and they absolutely do not rip (I've had the same experience as you). If you can find a pair on sale, I'd urge you to test your rule once more and see what you think! :-) Perhaps I'll send you a pair if you tell me what kind of tights you like!
love your videos! Not sure if youve talked about this before. what are ur opinions on the Gucci Dionysus bag. I really like it but afraid it might be a trend bag... 😩
I think I'm going to chat about this in an upcoming video! I like the style but it is a bit of a trend bag I think. That said, if you love it, go for it! Important to go for what you like rather than solely what you think is the best investment IMO
Love your videos! Can you recommend any good SAs at the Chanel boutiques in London?
I definitely need to make a list like this ;) Great idea
Great list Hun.. I get sucked in to the Instagram blogger pics.. normally I want everything... 😂😂
Not really related to this video but since it's Autumn/winter please do a video on all your boots and coats and how you style them etc💜
Hi Amie. How about your baby pink Cluny BB? Does it have color transfer problems? I am thinking about getting a light pink Epi leather Alma BB from LV.
Love ur videos. Where do you purchase your preloved items or sell yours?
I have the same rule for tights! The expensive ones are no better than the 'regular' - stick with the regular kind!