Learning a language? Speak it like you’re playing a video game | Marianna Pascal | TEDxPenangRoad

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  • Marianna Pascal shows how the secret to speaking a new language with confidence is all about attitude, not ability.
    Marianna Pascal helps professionals achieve greater success in life by communicating effectively in English. Marianna began her career as an actor and performed across her native Canada in film television and on stage for 15 years. Today, Marianna improves the way employees relate to their bosses, clients, colleagues and other key stakeholders. Marianna is also the Official Communication Trainer for Miss Malaysia World.
    An award-wining speaker, Marianna is known for her humorous speech on TH-cam titled "Local English or Standard English" which has been seen by over a million people worldwide. Marianna is also the author of the best-selling book series English Fast & Easy. The most recent was #2 on Borders' Best-Selling List for non-fiction.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @xrystal89
    @xrystal89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9162

    Most people aren't even perfect in their native language but for some reason, we think we should be perfect in another one.

    • @pollyanas
      @pollyanas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

      yeah! sometimes I don't know a word in my first language (Portuguese) but I know it in English and I feel happy because I know it in the other language, but when it happens the opposite I feel frustrated.

    • @imaaniswki1288
      @imaaniswki1288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      yeah, that's true. i am fluent in english which is suppose to be my second language but idk much in my native language (urdu/hindi) and yet i wanna learn japanese (any fellow weebs/otaku here?). wow! i think i filled my plate with more than i can eat!

    • @cevcena6692
      @cevcena6692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@imaaniswki1288 Bro same, fluent in English, fairly bad in my own language (I can comprehend a lot but not speak much), and I'm learning Japanese.

    • @peter1135
      @peter1135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What the fvk is that profile picture 🤮

    • @xrystal89
      @xrystal89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@peter1135 lol it's an eye. it's just having some issues that it needs to work out

  • @user-bn5sx6eo6m
    @user-bn5sx6eo6m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10836

    Language is for using, not for being perfect. Mistakes make perfect. Keep trying.

    • @tuongvigl1987
      @tuongvigl1987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      yep. i think so too

    • @akhyar7813
      @akhyar7813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly

    • @Asma-zo8ut
      @Asma-zo8ut 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      👏

    • @lilypandey5210
      @lilypandey5210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Mistake cannot make men perfect .the correction of mistake make men perfect

    • @asasecondlanguage
      @asasecondlanguage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You're 100% correct. Keep making mistakes, keep learning, keep growing. ❤

  • @closeopen6930
    @closeopen6930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2355

    "Don't focus on yourself, focus on the results you want to achieve". It's a really good advice

    • @obodaioliver7403
      @obodaioliver7403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi

    • @shahidkhan-wq9jk
      @shahidkhan-wq9jk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it's right

    • @tobanshu
      @tobanshu ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Focus on yourself, not your results
      If you alive then your results are alive

    • @ds-fightforwin2871
      @ds-fightforwin2871 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah it is so good advice for who wants to improve their english

    • @Klinoklaz
      @Klinoklaz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's a pretty common advice for people who have social anxiety actually. it turns out that learning style in schools is merely damaging your mental health

  • @shakirhusain9095
    @shakirhusain9095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1733

    1. "Don't focus on yourself, focus on result that's you want to achieve."
    2."English not art to be masterd, English just a tool to use to get result."
    These are best advice for me to changing my English learning life.
    Thanks.

    • @Im-BAD-at-satire
      @Im-BAD-at-satire ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I should have this thought about my Japanese, once I have the opportunity to go to Japan my hopes are that I'll be in company with people who only want to communicate in Japanese. Many people in Japan like to take the chance of speaking English with foreigners.

    • @rashagamal5665
      @rashagamal5665 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with you 👌

    • @aaronburke7046
      @aaronburke7046 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the notes, very helpful

    • @nafipv5419
      @nafipv5419 ปีที่แล้ว

      Could you please help me to learn

    • @jamesmichaelpablo6757
      @jamesmichaelpablo6757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And your result depends on your mastery of the language. Don't kid yourself.

  • @andrecastanhare5872
    @andrecastanhare5872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4770

    "English is not an art to be mastered; it's just a tool to use to get a result." Perfect!

    • @afganrasulov
      @afganrasulov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I am learning English to share my knowledge worldwide

    • @rayvicious6313
      @rayvicious6313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Master anything to a point where it eventually becomes an art

    • @mathandmath.
      @mathandmath. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ngôn ngữ là cách để biểu đạt thông tin dễ hiểu nhất.

    • @vladaivankiv3111
      @vladaivankiv3111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      my English philologyst's heart is hurt🤧

    • @lllewelll
      @lllewelll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      *Every language* is just a tool of culture.

  • @mariannapascal335
    @mariannapascal335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6615

    I just wanted to say thank you to all of you for your awesome messages! The main reason I wanted to do this talk was to help you and others like you all around the world to feel the confidence you deserve to feel. I know that you've spend years and years studying English at school, and all you really wanted to do was speak, communicate, listen and understand and have others understand you. TED gave me this opportunity to tell you just trust yourself, whatever your level is, because with the right attitude you have what it takes right now. Please feel free to reach out to me if you need more support. Thank you again for watching.

    • @Paulisgazcon
      @Paulisgazcon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      I loved this talk! I’m from Argentina (Spanish is my first language). I’m a certified English teacher. So, you can imagine that, being a non-native English TEACHER, I always struggle with the feeling that I need to sound perfect and make no mistakes in English (even though I make mistakes or don’t remember words in my own language but that feels totally normal). So, whenever I have to communicate with a native English speaker, I feel anxious because I focus on how I’m supposed to perform. Now, you gave me something to think about!

    • @Salvare92
      @Salvare92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Omg huge thanks to you, I'm currently learning to speak English and I have the same problem I'm too focusing on my grammar and afraid that I will make a mistake. Then ended up not saying anything...

    • @lylytran7090
      @lylytran7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      this is the fourth time i listened to your talk. How interesting it is. i love it
      And you help me a a lot with my English . In the past i was too shy to talk in English but now I feel more confident ( i still make mistakes :< ) THANK YOU A LOT 33333
      Love from Viet Nam

    • @AdityaMishra-mu1cc
      @AdityaMishra-mu1cc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I love this ted talk video im frm india and i have been trying to get fluent in english but the fear of judgement holds me back i always get conscious about what mistake and grammatical errors im making while speaking or do i structuring the sentences in the right way coz i think im getting judged by my english vocab and all those grammatical stuff but what i need to focus on was told in this video and i think if anyone who can read and write in english can definitely be able to speak in it else they weren't been able to write or read as well so thank you for your outstanding and practical speech its sort of raised my confidence level up im extremely flattered that i found out this ted video

    • @niduprincess1310
      @niduprincess1310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hii maam,
      I need to improve my grammar. I am unable to express, wht I meant to. Please give some ideas.

  • @kimly5817
    @kimly5817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +855

    "English today is not an art to be mastered. It's just a tool to use to get a result."
    Thank you for your sharing. It's really helpful for me

  • @Emma_duhoke
    @Emma_duhoke ปีที่แล้ว +174

    English is not an art to be mastered, it’s a tool to be used . Well said 👏🏻

    • @anamat5025
      @anamat5025 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’d say it’s both 🥰 Love from Spain 💕🌷

    • @tapankumarnayak5931
      @tapankumarnayak5931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you help in learning English

  • @Ocean_Strategy
    @Ocean_Strategy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    "You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending"

  • @thirishweyee3436
    @thirishweyee3436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3028

    She is really right. Many people focus on their pronunciation and grammar. They don't focus on the listeners.
    Languages are to communicate not need to be flawless.

    • @sarahamr7874
      @sarahamr7874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      if only someone had told me that when I was in college studying Italian. I overthought everything and was too much in my head

    • @oliviawilson485
      @oliviawilson485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      But if your pronunciation is wrong , how can you make sense to the listener ? I agree that the accents and grammar is not a big deal in English or any other languages but the correct pronunciation does matter. ( Just my personal opinion )

    • @brennomartins8
      @brennomartins8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're godamm right!

    • @thirishweyee3436
      @thirishweyee3436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@oliviawilson485 yes, you are right. Your pronunciation should be correct but you don't need to be have a perfect accent. Because language are just for communicate with each other. If you have a your country's accent but your accent can communicate with people, it's ok. Right?

    • @ayshcandy7155
      @ayshcandy7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what for those who are preparing for Ielts or any English Language test??? 😕😔

  • @nguyenhien2547
    @nguyenhien2547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    10:07
    "This language belongs to you. It's not an art to master, it's just a tool for you to get the result." Amazinggg!! This idea actually changes my mindset in my journey to learn languages.

  • @thuythanh4697
    @thuythanh4697 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Iam a non-native English speaker and I am in English learning process. And this is my first video of TED helps me relize that t can fully understand without subtitle ♥️. Thanks a lot.

  • @charliestudio4630
    @charliestudio4630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1559

    awesome .. "here's the one thing you can do , when you speak, don't focus on yourself , focus on the other person and the result you want to archive"

    • @nayman2374
      @nayman2374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      *achieve

    • @alaayassin6131
      @alaayassin6131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Achieve*

    • @larsa2545
      @larsa2545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👍awesome

    • @wendelm.c.6282
      @wendelm.c.6282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It is curious that these answers reflects what was said in the vídeo. He hit the target as Faizal!

    • @Frenzy1972
      @Frenzy1972 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tuantony.nnguyenquoc1446
    @tuantony.nnguyenquoc1446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    "When speaking, don't focus on yourself, focus on another person" -> Thanks for your advice :)

    • @truongtruong817
      @truongtruong817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How long have you been learning English?

    • @BreakNAV
      @BreakNAV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@truongtruong817 maybe 10 or 15 years :))

    • @truongtruong817
      @truongtruong817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BreakNAV why do you think that?

    • @truongtruong817
      @truongtruong817 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BreakNAV ??

    • @truongtruong817
      @truongtruong817 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BreakNAV how did you improve your English skills?

  • @phuonganhpham4196
    @phuonganhpham4196 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I have learned English for 11 years, but now i cannot communicate with ppl fluently. At my school, i were taught only grammar and vocabulary, so my listening and speaking skills were so weak. As I become a freshman at a university specializing in languages, i think that i have to try my best and i'll practice English more. Thanks for your motivating speech. I love this so much!

  • @FayazAlamKhan-ib8ri
    @FayazAlamKhan-ib8ri 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "Language is not an art to be master,it's a tool to use to get result, that tool belongs to you."..we studied in linguistic that language is a means or tool of communication we express our emotions, feelings, and thoughts through it.

  • @saifonsow216
    @saifonsow216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +922

    " English is not an art to be mastered ,it's just a tool to use to get results "
    Thank you so much for this quote !

    • @motivationmotivation3004
      @motivationmotivation3004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope that you will participate in my motivational channel in English. There is a great translator in Arabic. May God reward you.

    • @mazzyalfandi326
      @mazzyalfandi326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      English is not an art to be mastered ,it 's just a tool to use toget results

    • @johnartgallery347
      @johnartgallery347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @Abu-Aley
    @Abu-Aley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    This is not about languages; this is about life attitude.

    • @user-dp5ce1og4w
      @user-dp5ce1og4w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah, this is not just about a language, it is about the key to SUCCESS, i.e. to be focused in what we want.

    • @user-ey8tu4se6f
      @user-ey8tu4se6f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i agree, sometimes we lose the main goal, and get punched by side effects, so we need to remind this video and focus on main goal! it's really important life attitude!

  • @gilmertugahan
    @gilmertugahan ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Don't focus on yourself, focus on the person you're having a conversation with. It's not about you, it's about them and the message you want to come across.

  • @woonxiaoqing7455
    @woonxiaoqing7455 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm a Malaysian English-learner, this video is really helpful for me to improve my confident ! Every time I speak English to my friends, I always like"Is my expressions well? Did I have any grammar mistakes?"I just cannot control myself to not be thinking negatively.But after watching this video ,I will definitely change myself to be a more confident . Terima kasih!

  • @nabilabouhilal607
    @nabilabouhilal607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4702

    Schools taught us alphabets
    TED is teaching us facts

  • @SUNGST4RSS
    @SUNGST4RSS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    I learned English by myself because I liked it,I didn't care about grammar or being perfect I just talked and talked until I learned it...I'm learning Korean now 😄 trust yourself I'm sure you can do it

    • @krishrajpoot8365
      @krishrajpoot8365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Where are you from

    • @user-sd6en7yb2t
      @user-sd6en7yb2t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      반갑습니다.

    • @scarletmoon95
      @scarletmoon95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is exactly how I'm learning Korean now!

    • @joaomarcossouza3822
      @joaomarcossouza3822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Korean? That's really cool, now you can explain to the korean guy that the cheese is inside the hot dog
      Just kidding😅

    • @linnshwesinoo2074
      @linnshwesinoo2074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From Myanmar?

  • @naritamalaha2133
    @naritamalaha2133 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm Narita Malaha from Indonesia, thank you for your great video and inspiring high spirits not to give up learning a foreign language easily.👏👏👏🙏👍❤️

  • @leandromorillo4405
    @leandromorillo4405 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is the natural way we need to learn English in the academy. It's hard for a student don't get bored when a teacher's speech is about grammar or theoric. So, I've been grateful to you and this channel.

  • @nvijain
    @nvijain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    She is absolutely right. Fear of being judged don't let people speak their hearts out.

    • @aydin8078
      @aydin8078 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi,my names aydin , I am from Iran, I am also learning the language, can I communicate with you? Please enter your email

  • @avidian888
    @avidian888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2085

    This can be applied to almost anything you want to learn. Don't be afraid of mistakes and have fun learning.

    • @mamafi70
      @mamafi70 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Arvid Always!

    • @eduardoarce2255
      @eduardoarce2255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Arvid Does it apply to seduce girls too?

    • @TheDisorderliness
      @TheDisorderliness 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Not exactly, especially when you're driving a car or you're a surgeon who is carrying out operation.

    • @nord198765
      @nord198765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I just get the same idea of IT coding learning.

    • @tradenowornever2858
      @tradenowornever2858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want to improve my speaking. So, looking for someone with I can speak.

  • @mustafaattia5993
    @mustafaattia5993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I can understand everything in the video without translat anything in my mind to my first language I'm so proud 🙏

    • @OdalisRivera
      @OdalisRivera 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How can I achieve it?

    • @mustafaattia5993
      @mustafaattia5993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@OdalisRivera use it a lot
      Chat with people
      Practice on TH-cam
      Listen too I think listening is the important thing and watch movies tv shows make your day just English I promise in 6 month you will understand and maybe talk without translat anything for your your first language in your head
      Try to forget your language

    • @nihatbastan5561
      @nihatbastan5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OdalisRivera my experience of achieving it was trying to defend my country's image against racists lol. I guess you achieve it by communicating

    • @alealejk
      @alealejk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same! and all thanks to yt videos🤗

    • @lanlethihong453
      @lanlethihong453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mustafa Attia v

  • @misterchamstandupcomedy5560
    @misterchamstandupcomedy5560 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I watched it like 3 years ago... and now, I am learning Japanese, I can say... this video is not about language, it's about confidence.

  • @jacklenam5777
    @jacklenam5777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1481

    I am thirty years old. From vietnam. I have been learning english for a long time. i started learning english when i am in high school. But my english was not improved very much. I have ever thought about giving up learning english. Until two years ago, i found the greatest method to learn english. My english is improving every single day. That method is to watch videos and films in english as much as possible. Today i still do not believe that i can say and listen english . that is a miracle for me.

    • @mosart7025
      @mosart7025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      You are doing well! That is a good idea. But can you find someone to speak with also?

    • @joaoeopedefeijao4166
      @joaoeopedefeijao4166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      cool man! I agree that this is a very good method. im trying to learn english too

    • @dama5682
      @dama5682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      cool. I found the method that works for me. and it's playing a game. kind of strategic game that creates stress for me to speak and write during the war. deal with people, make an agreement, etc

    • @shintadamayanti584
      @shintadamayanti584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      We are the same. I have been learning English since I was in elementary school and now I am taking English as my major in college, but I still afraid of being judge by people. I am overthinking, and afraid of my grammar, my spelling, and my pronunciation too much, so it makes me lack of practice. Since I am in holiday I try to spend my time watching video in English like talk show of Jimmy Fallon, and force my self to drop a comment in English.

    • @palestinebl7653
      @palestinebl7653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dama5682 could you provide me with more information with this game please ..I need it 😥

  • @tahirwaqas1983
    @tahirwaqas1983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Its important fact: When you speak, don't focus on yourself, focus on the other person and result from you want to achieve.

    • @MillersLanguageSchool
      @MillersLanguageSchool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you! I recommend to learn English with us.

    • @SuperEdfish
      @SuperEdfish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right, and this is true not only in connection to speaking a foreign language, but in any given context; when communicating, focus on the other person, and on the desired outcome. Not on yourself.

  • @chailand0713
    @chailand0713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a English language learners, this speech encourages us to speak in English with confidence emblem though we make mistakes.
    Thank you for your speech.

  • @DRPALAK-sn5kw
    @DRPALAK-sn5kw ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "English is not a art to master but a tool to use to get result "...👏real and true meaning of English is clearly explained..quite impressive speech ..

  • @deboranestal9597
    @deboranestal9597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3343

    English today is not an art to be mastered it's just a tool to use to get a result and that tool belongs to you. Love this. Well done!

    • @justnothing7080
      @justnothing7080 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      it's true for speaking not for writing.

    • @deboranestal9597
      @deboranestal9597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      JAMES KRAMER Exactly! I totally agree with you about writing.

    • @magedalkhrousi858
      @magedalkhrousi858 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Debora Nestal right

    • @mohammadasif6177
      @mohammadasif6177 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Debora Nestal agreed

    • @MisterKoK22
      @MisterKoK22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Во и я так же окружающим говорю, когда они начинают придираться к мелким грамматическим ошибкам и прочим неверно употребленным формам, будто они real native speakers. =)))

  • @bobaffiliate
    @bobaffiliate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +864

    I am Chinese, the same as most of other chinese students. We have learn English for more than 10 years. But we still can't speak or write Englisn. Because we are afaid of mistakes.
    Now because of the Novel Coronavirus Pneumonia, I can't go back to work. I have stay in hometown for 30 days. so I decided to catch this opportunity to improve my English reading and writing skills.
    Inspired by the Japanese friend, So I try to write down this words in English

    • @kimgiangthuyvo9334
      @kimgiangthuyvo9334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      come on you can do it🦾

    • @bobaffiliate
      @bobaffiliate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@kimgiangthuyvo9334 thank you !

    • @nicolasduqueosorio7570
      @nicolasduqueosorio7570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And speaking skills?
      what if you create a wpp group with people that wants to improve their english and don't know people to practice with? i need something like this.

    • @jee9702
      @jee9702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hi I'm Chinese too. I'm from Malaysia. I wish you all the best in the English learning and China 加油!

    • @bobaffiliate
      @bobaffiliate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nicolasduqueosorio7570 Good idea!but I don‘t know what is meaning of "wpp group"~~

  • @renezettaputri7335
    @renezettaputri7335 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    From that video i can get conclusion, if someone want to speak English language fluently don’t be afraid to show you language skill and stop worrying about how you sound. It’s okay to make a mistake, it’s makes you better when you learn it

  • @annieannie3467
    @annieannie3467 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am from Vietnam. I have listened this speech many many and many times. It is really encouraged me a lot. Thank for giving me motivation to be more confident when speaking a language is not my mother language.

    • @tapankumarnayak5931
      @tapankumarnayak5931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you help me in learning your language

    • @annieannie3467
      @annieannie3467 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tapankumarnayak5931 oh. It s ok. Are you in VN?

    • @tapankumarnayak5931
      @tapankumarnayak5931 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annieannie3467I am from India

    • @tapankumarnayak5931
      @tapankumarnayak5931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annieannie3467 what's your native language

    • @annieannie3467
      @annieannie3467 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tapankumarnayak5931 I am from Vietnam. So, of course, my mother language is Vietnamese. Why do you want to learn Vietnamese?

  • @syifahaninasyafanah9406
    @syifahaninasyafanah9406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    I'm from Indonesia. I learn english since i was in elementary school. I can remember a lot of words, but can't speak well. The teaching method in my school or course don't teach us how to confident to speak and write in english, they teach us how to remember a hundred words in a week and what's the grammars. Till i'm in the last year of high school, i found a course that really teach me how to speak confidently
    I also learn how to write and speak in english by give comment and watch/ listen something from internet 😂
    Sadly, my friends affraid to try. I always ask my friend to practice speak english with me when they told me they wanna improve their english but, we never do it because they too afraid that me or somebody else will judge them. I think this situation not only happen in my circle, I hope people can't stop to feel judged or judging someone who try to learn other leangue. My grandma ever said, you only practice how to speak, it can't kill you, why you being afraid 😂

    • @user-mf8hl8bk4r
      @user-mf8hl8bk4r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thanks for your comment. I am from Russia and your speech inspires me to practice my English with my friends without fear

    • @YassuYasen
      @YassuYasen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Al salam alaykum.

    • @yolandasimanjuntak7360
      @yolandasimanjuntak7360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hi im from the same country like you, may i know what course that you took?

    • @ninsophy9798
      @ninsophy9798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YassuYasen Alaykum Salam

    • @maryhaward7022
      @maryhaward7022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which app did you use

  • @yongen550
    @yongen550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    As a Malaysian, she express the accurate situation in Malaysia while speaking English, we just scare our grammar is wrong, our accent is weird, and afraid of speaking English. Now I know that I should focus on the results and effectiveness of English communication, Thanks Marianna!

    • @Adnan25048
      @Adnan25048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry to say but Malaysian need to work on pronunciation too. I faced a lot of understanding problems while speaking to most of the Malaysian.

    • @joaomarcossouza3822
      @joaomarcossouza3822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same in Brazil. Her quote was like a slap in the face of brazilian educative-system

    • @estrella9523
      @estrella9523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Adnan25048 Me, I having difficulties to understand slang from Bangladesh, India and Arab country. Im a customer service and I have to deal with customer from here

    • @hippiechick73
      @hippiechick73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, your writing is very good! I hope I can learn to write another language as well as you can.

    • @syedjafferimam5789
      @syedjafferimam5789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Adnan25048 most of Desi speakers Pronounciate so poorly. Especially those who studied from regional language medium schools.

  • @victoriangozi3602
    @victoriangozi3602 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You spoke so well, the English language is not an art to be mastered but a tool to get a result.
    Excellent line.

  • @yusrusnika5640
    @yusrusnika5640 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really appreciate of what your saying. For many years I have low confidence of speaking English to someone, just because I had fear to judged by someone who more expert than me. My ability to speak English is growing slow.. however I can understood people talk in English is pretty well 🙂

  • @naeemfaheem8806
    @naeemfaheem8806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    I studied the English language for 12 years during my whole childhood education and still I wasn't able to communicate, let alone write a single coherent sentence. It all changed when I made a friend from the UK and she kind of made me comfortable with speaking English. Before I realized it, I graduated college (Bachelor's Degree) and when I gave my interviews for Software Developer jobs (they are usually held in English), I was speaking more fluently and comfortably than my interviewer which was so surprising for me because even now, I don't know a single grammar rule and yet I can clearly process my thoughts in English. It has become more of an intuitive thing rather than something that I need to study for or something. After realizing all of this, I have decided to start learning Italian and I am going to replicate this whole process again so wish me luck xD
    PS: I have started providing English content writing services and it's been awesome since then. My clients are usually from English speaking countries and they are happy with what I provide. I never thought I would get so far in English so if you feel stuck, always remember you can do it

    • @madesriseptiani5321
      @madesriseptiani5321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wish you get it

    • @georgigeranov9778
      @georgigeranov9778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck

    • @ikafitrirohandayani2312
      @ikafitrirohandayani2312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      so perfect, i wanna speak english fluently like you

    • @Comeonyoutubeseriously
      @Comeonyoutubeseriously 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I studied Spanish my whole education (11 years, 1 year I was required to learn French). It wasn’t until after graduating with my bachelor’s degree when I started speaking with patients who spoke Spanish when I actually got to exercise speaking it with people. And speaking slang because in school you only learn what is taught in the textbook! I’m going to keep trying to get better at speaking it because it feels like a whole new world now. Though I’ve been impressed that I still know all the words I learned growing up!

    • @Comeonyoutubeseriously
      @Comeonyoutubeseriously 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So hearing that you were able to learn English makes me hopeful I can learn Spanish!

  • @thelmaspalace
    @thelmaspalace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Okay people, here is a long list of methods I've used to learn any new language. I hope this helps!
    -text/talk to any chatbot in target language(also helps if you're shy to talk to ppl)
    -Watch TH-camrs in target language
    -read in target language(books, children stories, news, poetry, quotes)
    -listen to music in target language
    -have conversation with yourself in target language
    -change phone language
    -watch cartoons in target language
    -watch tv series/ movies in target language
    -write stories in target language
    -write songs/poetry in target language
    -watch podcast in target language
    -think in target language
    -pretend to be the first humans to speak language
    (E.g. look at the clouds and pretend you gave it the name)
    -play games in target language
    -associated words with feelings
    -associate words with pictures in your head
    -watch daily conversations in target language on youtube
    -listen to songs in target language
    -apply target language to hobbies/interests(e.g workout videos in french, guided meditation in Spanish, art DIY with German instructions)
    -write journal in target language
    -use analogies
    -find interview/get to know me questions and answer in target language
    -exercise to videos in target language
    -watch tutorial videos of any kind in target language
    -use captions in target language if available.
    Good luck!!!

  • @prajwald7052
    @prajwald7052 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Until recent time I just know that English is language to communicate, but this made me realise how exactly it is a tool. Thank you.

  • @timuribrashev2189
    @timuribrashev2189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This gave me lots of confidence. Language is not about perfection, it's about communication and there's no such a thing as right language or wrong, it's all about acceptable or unacceptable.

  • @giahvyluong3104
    @giahvyluong3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1662

    Unfortunately, the IELTS examiners dont feel that way

    • @samueldavidclaro6784
      @samueldavidclaro6784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      True

    • @NhuNhu90
      @NhuNhu90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Ielts is use for a original english speaker like Britain, the lady in this video want everyone know how important to use English in proper way and flexible way. Not just using english like the way you study at school. It’s important “how much you know English”, it’s more important “how much you know others English “.

    • @ravimn4637
      @ravimn4637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @remyarethnan6643
      @remyarethnan6643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @bencyber8595
      @bencyber8595 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cindy. ...
      are you from Hanoi !

  • @Scandalizei
    @Scandalizei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    I'm Brazilian and I live in the United States, after this video, I will never be afraid to speak english, she's right what is most important is to be understood, the result of what you want to achieve.
    Thank you for this great video!

    • @isabellima3495
      @isabellima3495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seu inglês era +- do básico?
      Pq tô pensando em ir para a Austrália passar 1 mês estudando , but tenho medo de não me dar bem.
      *Eu tenho uma noção do inglês* mas n muita...

    • @Scandalizei
      @Scandalizei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Isabel Lima My English was intermediate, I was able to speak a little.
      But don’t be afraid just go! Good luck!

    • @italianatoli4553
      @italianatoli4553 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good.. i agree !

    • @TadeuCostadeOliveira
      @TadeuCostadeOliveira 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@isabellima3495 se joga! Tendo alguma noção sua adaptação vai ser muito boa, estudando 1 mês imersa no idioma vai te ajudar muito a absorver mais o inglês. Quando estiver nas ruas da Austrália presta bem atenção no povo nas ruas falando, você vai aprender algumas expressões típicas de lá. Vê como a pessoa da sua frente na fila pede comida quando for num restaurante, como o atendente responde, essas coisas. Boa sorte

    • @alaayassin6131
      @alaayassin6131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My friend is Brazilian too and we communicate in English our levels are not that good but we still understand each other (the language is a tool for communication )

  • @douglasmenezesdesouza9485
    @douglasmenezesdesouza9485 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That is so true Marianna Pascal, thank you for your beautiful speech. 6 years ago, I was struggling to learn English, and unfortunately, I didn't have money to study it before. After college, I started studying English, but the pandemic came and I had to change some techniques to keep learning it. So, basically, I put everything in my life into English, it wasn't a problem for not understanding 100%, I was virtually doing my exchange program, focusing only to increase my vocabulary and being in touch with someone in English. The results still coming and I still practice English every day by listening to USA radio, podcasts, music, playing guitar and following the lyrics, and so much more things that I love using English as a tool. I know that I have so much to learn but this is something amazing to keep in touch and learn from different cultures.

  • @cathyliu470
    @cathyliu470 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have to say thanks to Marianna who inspires me to speak English more confident ....Before , I was the one who had around 8000 English words in my mind .but I was brought up with the traditional idea ,,there is always a bigger fish ...you are just plain girl ......I wa afraid to be laughed at while I made a mistake .......now , I totally agree with this idea ....Speak English like a too ,...like playing piano ...and focus on the other and the result I want to achieve but not just focus on me and mistakes i would make .....thx for your wonderful presentation.....

  • @fatimamona2297
    @fatimamona2297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    "English is not an art to be mastered; it's just a tool to use to get a result."
    schools: I will ignore that

  • @corgisrule21
    @corgisrule21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    She’s describing Jackson from GOT7...people say it doesn’t matter that he makes mistakes when he’s speaking Korean because his attitude is just “whatever” and he’s not afraid of speaking. He also has no problem getting his point across. I admire that so much and its a goal for me😂

    • @angelinaayu7588
      @angelinaayu7588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      And ..me: want to know the first word he learn
      💚😆

    • @pastelpeach6342
      @pastelpeach6342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg ahgase💚🥺 same here with me!! I wanna follow his steps, don't be afraid of making mistakes and try not to take it too seriously when it happens, makes the experience more enjoyable 💚

    • @maroua9279
      @maroua9279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yesss
      He keeps saying I'm not fluent at any of the languages i know, i just know as much as i need to make people understand what I'm talking about
      And that's what it's all about

    • @aydin8078
      @aydin8078 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi,my names aydin , I am from Iran, I am also learning the language, can I communicate with you? Please enter your email

    • @abduwalimuse7482
      @abduwalimuse7482 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aydin8078 hello i noticed that you are in a lot of replies, are you needing help with english or something? آیا شما نیاز به کمک با زبان انگلیسی؟

  • @claudia4762
    @claudia4762 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have been an English teacher here in Brazil for over 20 years, and I have always been very hard on myself. I taught for many years without being fluent. Seeking fluency was one of the biggest demands in my life. Nowadays, I still put a lot of pressure on myself and feel that I am not 100% there yet, even though I understand English well. Sometimes, I berate myself for not remembering many words. This can sometimes trip me up, but I have been trying to overcome it in my life. I hold myself to high standards! However, one of the things that I am most proud of is that wherever I go and even though I am still working on it, I receive nothing but praise.

  • @khawla2203
    @khawla2203 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you very much, your video was a treasure form me because I have a low level English and usually I avoid to talk with native speaker even to non native do not judge my level.❤

  • @chandralekhak3360
    @chandralekhak3360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    She's exactly right
    Communicate with confidence,dont be afraid of being judged

    • @hassanabdulrahman9124
      @hassanabdulrahman9124 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree, and the way to get that is to try and try and do not be sad of failure

    • @e-education4582
      @e-education4582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi bro

    • @Dreamer_121
      @Dreamer_121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Easy to say "Don't be afraid"..🤣🤣 There is only one Thing to master, how even to lose this fearnes (?)

  • @konica_planet03
    @konica_planet03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Thank you for letting me realize the important things :)
    I'm Japanese, and I'm abroad in Australia now to study English!
    I'm still learning English every day.
    Recently, I lost my confidence because I sometimes can't understand what the people are saying clearly. Also, I embarrassed when I couldn't say what I'm thing in proper English :( Then, I thought my English level is very very terrible.
    However, I realized that English is just a tool to communicate, when I watched the video. I realized how nice to communicate in English with foreigners who live in all over the world !
    In the future, I have to totally focus on the person who I'm talking to.
    Just believe in myself:) Just speak!Have a go!

    • @tpsam
      @tpsam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The improvement is inevitable as long as you keep trying
      Like the river that flows everyday after years it makes the rocks smooth and round
      The mistakes will slowly disappear
      All you have to do is keep using English everyday

    • @beni8091
      @beni8091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was just started to learn 日本語 to study abroad in 日本!

    • @AlanYoung-nr6sg
      @AlanYoung-nr6sg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      great wrok!

    • @user-bf8rc1fp9t
      @user-bf8rc1fp9t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im korean, Im also language learner like you.
      I think I`ve got a problem sth like you these days.
      Sometimes It can discourage me but all we have to do is just keep trying everyday.
      We can do it!
      Please don`t give up !

    • @user-bf8rc1fp9t
      @user-bf8rc1fp9t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tpsam Your saying gives me a lot of energy thank you!
      I will keep that in mind!

  • @narumonnevala2785
    @narumonnevala2785 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your speech 💬 it's very useful 😊.
    not only how to speak english effectively but your speech help me to understand why I miss an opportunity a got job yesterday, even i though that the job interview goes as well. Now I learn by mistake, that i should focus on the important things not only avoid Gramma mistake and don't try to be perfect ( Finnish language ) and next interview i will focus on the think that i should focus. So please all you guys pray 🙏 for me too.
    Have a nice day every body

  • @akivaraza946
    @akivaraza946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The speaker is amazing. I just watched the whole video to hear her. The message was clear from the very beginning but I still kept on listening because I just wanted to listen to her telling the stories and narrating her thoughts. And I am a very impatient person.

  • @stranger9774
    @stranger9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "your brain ok or not?"
    very inspirational quote :)

  • @user-dm8bt2wr5k
    @user-dm8bt2wr5k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I'm Russian
    I understood her speech 😅she is so right
    she is amazing and funny person !

    • @harshkaushik8064
      @harshkaushik8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey

    • @temuulend6003
      @temuulend6003 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im Mongolian and we are working relly great to be good english speaker. keep going guys

    • @YassuYasen
      @YassuYasen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup but try to connect phrases more
      Like hi I'm from mother Russia ,her speech was so amazing, so inspirating
      I enjoyed it, keep going
      Putin with u, Russians are with u
      😂😂

    • @caross844
      @caross844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I learn Russian. That is a hard one to learn! But the principles still apply. I visited Moscow speaking maybe 10 phrases and had lots of fun communicating in Russian. It also gets easier the more languages you speak

    • @jale4483
      @jale4483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too & im from azerbaijan but here is the problem :) i can't write and speak good enaough in english :p

  • @jessicacat1206
    @jessicacat1206 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm very high level in English and I'm always confident speaking to native English speakers. Actually, I LOVE it.

    • @user-td6wx2bg1q
      @user-td6wx2bg1q ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Jessica,I'm Omurgul,help me please to learn English,if you have free time

    • @Luv-dq5th
      @Luv-dq5th ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-td6wx2bg1q you'll have better luck using an app such as "duolingo" or something similar then asking someone on youtube

  • @AJisdabombsauce
    @AJisdabombsauce 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Amazing stage presence and oratory skills…truly shows that she practices what she preaches. She is not afraid to make mistakes when communicating with others (in fact, I didn’t notice a single stutter or mistake in her speaking!), and in turn, her public speaking is immaculate.
    Amazing presentation❤

  • @angelinarenae
    @angelinarenae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    This is called the Growth Mindset, the focus is on progress rather than perfection 😁 Thanks for sharing!

  • @Mazzah_cooking
    @Mazzah_cooking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    English isn’t an art to be mastered, it’s a tool to use to get the result. 👌👌☺️👍👍beautiful

  • @user-hc7sr1tl5g
    @user-hc7sr1tl5g ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can totally relate to what you say! You just blew my mind! ‘English is not an art to be mastered, it’s just a tool to get a result’, this is so powerful. I need the confidence like Faizal has, and I’ll try to do my best working on it. Thank you for sharing!

  • @smithjenny8832
    @smithjenny8832 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very impressive! I have been learning English since I was 7 years old, yet I'm still really anxious whenever communicating in English. Surprisingly, this speech gives a whole new perspective about speaking and using English. thank u for this precious advice

  • @MadePramana
    @MadePramana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    I love this talk. I agree, learning English should be fun. It’s okay if it’s not perfect. I love English and I learn it not for the perfection, but for the human interaction.

  • @sldu2u2
    @sldu2u2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    I watched from Japan.
    I hated English because learned academic English.
    I will learn conversation English from now.
    Thank you grate video!

    • @user-mz9rq3el4i
      @user-mz9rq3el4i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thing with French

    • @rubikashree7724
      @rubikashree7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wait do you wanna learn English !?

    • @rubikashree7724
      @rubikashree7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I want to learn Japanese, and I am an English speaker

    • @rubikashree7724
      @rubikashree7724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe we could share our language knowledge, what do you think?

    • @ayushdas6523
      @ayushdas6523 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wanna learn Japanese ❤️ m from Nepal 🇳🇵 love Japan and Japanese people! Cam u help me?

  • @eliamaravidal6733
    @eliamaravidal6733 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The best video ever. I think it was to me. That's because I'm always worry about to speak perfectly, and I lost my time just thinking about what I'm going to answer. Sometimes I know the words but I can't use. Thank you a lot!

  • @weamelbasuny8466
    @weamelbasuny8466 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this beautiful lecture♥️
    I have just learned not to focus on your self just focus on the other person and part your mistakes away

  • @feliipe2935
    @feliipe2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    That's a fact. When I talk to someone without doing something else at the same time, i get nervous, I'm afraid of making mistakes. But whenever i talk to someone while i play, i don't care about my mistakes, i don't care, i just talk and i can see I'm much better at talking when I'm playing than normally.

  • @sinthiafs
    @sinthiafs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    The higher your level in any language the higher your concern and need to speak it flawless. When you know your level is low you know the other person is not expecting much from you...

    • @apoy4630
      @apoy4630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is true and I agree with you.

    • @thientanhoang6045
      @thientanhoang6045 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You’re so wrong. Just keep that attitude and you will feel how harsh life is.

  • @thuyentran9144
    @thuyentran9144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really appreciate this speech. It's very helpful for me. Special thanks to Ms. Marianna Pascal and TED to record it!

  • @learningbuzzwhannah
    @learningbuzzwhannah ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing speech! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts about speaking in English. Now it makes me change my attitude towards English a lot. I used to focus on myself too often, which led to a lack of confidence when I spoke with native speakers. Fortunately, just after listening to this video, I learn how to make English as it is interesting and enjoyable, not in the old and forceful way!

  • @Polyz380
    @Polyz380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I speak 5 native Indian languages. Whilst in the learning process, a lot of people laughed, mocked, even ridiculed me for not using the grammar, the tune, expressions, so on and so forth. But in time within a few years, i was able to interpret, translate and even make business deals with people. And when these once critics saw me doing all well, they're speechless and hiding in pure jealousy. What I'm trying to say is that learning a language is all about mistakes and confidence. And yes, Ma'am just pointed out the importance of focusing on that person whom we're talking to. That added, you'll fare in learning a new language. People will judge you and that's okay. All the best. Thank you for your time reading this.

    • @hellokids5054
      @hellokids5054 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are you from am from india

    • @erturtemirbaev5207
      @erturtemirbaev5207 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which of them? What are the languages? You speak Naga, Kashmiri, etc?

    • @elvichotevicente
      @elvichotevicente 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are a god

  • @joshuabarrios2789
    @joshuabarrios2789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    *I do speak 5 languages.*
    And I couldn't help myself from relating to this video on everything she said...
    While learning all of the languages that I do speak today, I had the same fear she's talking about every single time, but eventually I overcame it.
    What I did in order to do so was to find my self a friend that was native on that certain language that I was aiming to learn (I found myself using this tactic more than ever especially with English) and just talk to them about anything that came to my mind at the time.
    In the beginning like any other beginning it was always difficult, but I knew that they wouldn't judge me for trying, so I kept going, until eventually I gained the sufficient confidence and courage to the point that I didn't even cared anymore if I committed any mistakes or not.
    And from that point on, there is only one way to go, and that's improvement!
    Turns out I already had the vocabulary and the knowledge but I was lacking the confidence.
    I made a major improvement in these last few months and the video on my channel is a prove of that, in case any of whom might read this comment want to check how bad my English used to be and compare it to this comment which took me like 3 minutes to write.

  • @indriboentaran1196
    @indriboentaran1196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Very insightful. Thank you Marianna. Perfection vs effectiveness, focus on how to understand vs to be understood. I think these principles apply basically in all languages.

  • @BahasaLanguageAcademy
    @BahasaLanguageAcademy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I once heard a Malaysian kid asking his dad in Malay, "Dad, what does "a" mean?"
    "It means 'one', son," replied his Dad. I snickered a little to myself at that definition- That's not how we native-English speakers would define it at all! But then I realized that the father's definition was very practical - Unlike English, the Malay language does not have any articles (a, an, the). Defining "a" as "one", however imprecise, was really all his son was needed to get by.
    It made me realize that languages are just a tool; being practical and functional is much more important than being 100% grammatically correct.

    • @tee_1999
      @tee_1999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The dad was so clever! Like “a book” DOES mean “one book.” I’ve never thought about it that way before 😦 (Although “one, unspecified [book]” would be more accurate because if I knew which book/I was referring to a specific book, I wouldn’t say “a book.” But that’s unnecessary information to start with)
      Thanks for sharing!!

  • @victherocker
    @victherocker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    One more tip I would like to give off. Don't try to sound like a native speaker if you know that you cannot because if you try so hard, maybe you'll end up making no sense at all. I am not a native speaker and I notice this a lot from me myself. Whenever I communicate with my friends who are natives or whenever I struggle to write an essay or a report, I always want to sound as native as possible. I may want to use a lot of slangs, expressions, idioms, everything that could make me sound like a native speaker. However, after I've finished my talking/text and I reflect/look back at it, I realize that I don't even understand the information that I have given off and I end up re-explaining the idea in simpler language. "Cố quá thành quá cố", an expression in Vietnamese, my mother tongue :), that explains these situations.
    However, this doesn't mean that you could slack off and not try to improve your English, especially if you're surrounded by an English-native-speaking community like the one I'm in now (and I'm still struggling with my daily conversation in English).
    So, try your best, try your hardest, but not to hard or you'll end up making no sense.

    • @Tamaresque
      @Tamaresque 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You certainly write the language really well. No-one would know from your writing that you're not a native speaker.

    • @ngotoanthang
      @ngotoanthang 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's right! I am strong agree with you! So it's waste time when try to speak like native English!

    • @thaota179
      @thaota179 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Victor Nguyen thank you!

    • @DangAn2022
      @DangAn2022 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cố quá thành quá cố. Hihi

    • @Lenron-B06
      @Lenron-B06 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I must agree you’re writing is pretty good for not being a native English speaker

  • @amirsyafrudin
    @amirsyafrudin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Focus on the person you're speaking to. Focus on clarity. Don't worry too much about the mistakes you've made or you'll make. Treat English like a tool. As long as you can use the tool right, don't worry about mastering it.

  • @anamakesthings
    @anamakesthings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I really love the message of this talk. That being said, I think it's also worth mentioning that there's a segment of the population for whom doing anything they're bad at is very very hard. To use the video game analogy: if they had been playing this game for a while and they keep being bad at it, they will stop because they don't have the capacity or the tools to deal with failure. If your self-worth is *wrongly* tied with what you produce, you will feel terrible being bad at a video game or speaking a language. Unless this is addressed or, at least, acknowledged, no amount of uplifting ted talks will make someone change their attitude towards long-term progress vs. chasing the instant gratification of doing something right this one time.

    • @livvyshin
      @livvyshin ปีที่แล้ว

      Good point!

  • @7universe
    @7universe ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A while ago I was looking for how to speak well, I searched books and everywhere and here I am finally finding the answer,Thank you

  • @LJWheels
    @LJWheels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    As an English professor teaching ESL at the high school level for the first time, well, you just blew my mind with this. You NAILED it!!! I cannot WAIT to share this with my students, and to figure out ways that we, together, can speak English/Spanish like we are playing a video game...Fearlessly and focused on the recipient, not ourselves. My students are practicing English and I'm practicing Spanish and this video, your ideas, are a game-changer. THANK YOU Marianna Pascal!!

    • @rodrigomontero8258
      @rodrigomontero8258 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You might find very useful Italiano Automatico, by Alberto Arrighini. He also mentions quite frequently Stephen Krashen's theories about learning languages naturally, not by getting bored to death with grammar.

    • @gisellesuarez6893
      @gisellesuarez6893 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rodrigomontero8258 Well, grammar is natural and important...Maybe you mean about the standardized tests that we have to take

    • @alexanderhammer688
      @alexanderhammer688 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rodrigomontero8258 , best natural system is Berlitz.

    • @akpoderieedenedo6237
      @akpoderieedenedo6237 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

  • @freedomfighter6200
    @freedomfighter6200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I got the point, When u speaking English "don't focus on yourself but focus on listener"
    *Noted*

  • @jennerhamma97
    @jennerhamma97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Omg! She's read my mind! I've always been afraid to have a conversation in English with others.. I'm afraid of making mistakes like grammar mistakes that might let people notice my actual english level is low..as she said,i always focus on myself for pretending like a English native speaker.. Excellent talk! It's really inspired me a lot! Much appreciated!

  • @johnhe752
    @johnhe752 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a great speech. Treating language as a tool and not something to master. Focusing on using it, not not trying to mess up. Brilliant! 🔥

  • @tonykhong
    @tonykhong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    What an encouraging speech. I've been learning Mandarin from about 5 months and was inhibited to speak it with native speakers. Immediately after listening to this talk, I called up two native speakers from China via WeChat and I spoke with them the first time in Mandarin. I did a pretty good job. :)

    • @ainistirman
      @ainistirman ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it's been a year, so how about your mandarin?

    • @nafipv5419
      @nafipv5419 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could you help me to learn english ?

    • @thebritishenglishteacher
      @thebritishenglishteacher 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m in the same position with Japanese. I just arranged my first language exchange for next week because I know the language won’t stick in my head unless I practice!

  • @martinasihombing9781
    @martinasihombing9781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i was learn english about 10 years but until right now. I don't know how to start speak english. I always dread to start and waiting to be a master. But, today I realize I was wrong. English is tool to communicate and focus on other people to get result. I think my english so bad, but in this time I don't want to apologize because I just want to talk with you. Thank you Marianna, this video is very good.

  • @aprendiendoaaprenderingles8958
    @aprendiendoaaprenderingles8958 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This's a wonderful truth! I loved this message. I applied it in my learning process and I understand why it's working. Thanks!!!

  • @fyuxchj3824
    @fyuxchj3824 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What an awesome message that Mariana delivered with her experience ❤️

  • @maivantung1945
    @maivantung1945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I'm a medical student in Viet Nam. I've studied English since I was 9. But day in and day out, my English level isn't improves. It stuck at a very low level. I'm so shy, extreme fear, and sold on.
    When I take part in some social activities at my university, I realize that I would improve my English, and I believe I can do it. I try to a lot of methods to do that. And when I watch this video, I really understand what she said, It gives me a lot of movitations, a lot of confidence. I practice every day, listening, speaking, writing, all over the day, all the time. it become my hobbies, it become to a part of me life. I've never been better. Thank you very much

    • @quangtruongluu9523
      @quangtruongluu9523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice bro, keep going!

    • @Lodosssc
      @Lodosssc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good luck

    • @phamvanhan7037
      @phamvanhan7037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mistakes make perfect! :) You should keep trying.

    • @quocvietphan6211
      @quocvietphan6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you have been doing a great job

  • @deboranestal9597
    @deboranestal9597 6 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Excellent speech. A big clap to her. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 She talks about what happens in a real world. She is a natural speaker. I could understand her perfectly.

  • @origin6519
    @origin6519 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will definitely share this video to my friends and younger ones who treat me as their older sister. The speaker literally describes me. The moment my brain shutdown I cannot think anymore. I get nervous and anxious as I think people judge me. My english in my mind is almost perfect but I can't even say it loud. I am not Malaysian but still part of SouthEast. Most, if not all teachers, taught us grammar first before speaking and listening. Thank you for this video.

  • @parvygovil296
    @parvygovil296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the BEST TED TALK EVER on how to learn language. Thanks, Marianna. You really solved one of my biggest challenges that I face while speaking and the ones that bring my confidence down. I watched this talk 4 times in a row to absorb each and every hack that you shared towards the end. I was actually looking for an answer to the question in my head, that was, why in the world do I start feeling nervous at a point into any conversation, no matter who is in front.I unlocked the answer today. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

  • @ecesimge
    @ecesimge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I'm a TED university student in Turkey and I feel under pressure in school because of my teachers. They judge us a lot so I am afraid of to speak english but after this video, I'll try to speak more English. Thank you 💙

    • @theunboxingboy7828
      @theunboxingboy7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rose I'm prashant from India I'm English lecturer, don't afraid English, its speak like our mothertoung,my what's up 7020098877 ,I will help u fraind

    • @ShashipRai
      @ShashipRai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello. I'm from India.. I want become fluent in english.. I can't speak good English.. How can i improve

    • @yosihabloespanol
      @yosihabloespanol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am an English teacher and i hate that kind of teacher.
      Go ahead no matter what. Nobody is perfect and you'll learn English making mistakes.

    • @aahhanimovic9061
      @aahhanimovic9061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bende ankaradayim malezyaliyim ingilizce praktik yapariz😊

    • @arwahsapi
      @arwahsapi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I didn't know TED had a university

  • @martacz.4794
    @martacz.4794 6 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    This speech is going to change the way I teach my students. Thank you so much!

  • @vaibhavlohakare8447
    @vaibhavlohakare8447 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't focus on yourself ,focus on your results that's you want to achieve.
    What a beautiful line that's brought me near to my dream.
    Some thoughts are always help to keep us on track to our dream.

  • @J-jl2ec
    @J-jl2ec 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was introduced this video through some unexpected algorithm of TH-cam, and I totally agree with her!! I am also a non-native speaker, who is using English in many aspect in my life, and I always feel languages are just kinds of tools for communication between people, not an art.
    In fact, that 'art level' is not easy for everyone. And there is only few job in Earth planet need that kinds of attribute compare to the whole jobs we can see.
    We don't all have to be literature, artists, and journalists (language ability really matters in these fields, actually). Indeed, doing these jobs is hard enough even if you can do in your mother tongue. Why should we set a difficult goal?

  • @SB-lc5qg
    @SB-lc5qg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    As someone from the US, this is true! Every immigrant and international student I know who puts aside shame and speaks up manages to communicate effectively. Those who befriend natives wind up learning "correct" speech naturally anyhow. This TED talk also applies to my own studies in Spanish and French... I have force myself to speak when I have the chance or I'll lose both the chance and the ability!

    • @rocknroll909
      @rocknroll909 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In America you really have to keep yourself focused when learning a language; there isn't as much of a "need" to learn a different language because English is so widespread. You really have to force yourself out of your comfort zone and connect with why you love the language you're learning to stay committed and make progress.

  • @RoberioCordeiro
    @RoberioCordeiro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    It's so like it in Brazil!
    When I saw this video I set a goal in my life: "Even though my English isn't that good, I hope one day I'll make some videos to help Brazilians with this amazing knowledge." After almost 3 years I came back to watch this video and to let you know that I've started my channel less than a week ago!
    We study English in Brazil for about 7 years before university, basically just the "verb to be" , and we enter in the University not knowing even that. Some people study in private schools up to ten years and still can't have a natural conversation in English. Only 3% of the entire population can speak English. I wanna make some "Faizals" here and hopefully one day this numbers are going to be different. Thank you so much for this exceptional inspiration Marianna Pascal :)

    • @majidaaldallal4216
      @majidaaldallal4216 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully we will be waiting. Good luck!

    • @tpsam
      @tpsam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so strange
      I had no idea that Brazil or portuguese speakers struggle so much with learning English
      Putting emphasis on how both culture love football should already help a lot

  • @holybreakingbad
    @holybreakingbad หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    really really correct, most importantly, learning English or other languages is to use as much as you could,it's just a tool to get what you want, not like a subject or art to master. thank you the speaker.

  • @thiagojoao167
    @thiagojoao167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So good! I can say that i understood the meaning she saids in the video. Sometimes, i've being shy to talk with the strangers people, because the confidence fault. But I'm finding courage to express, same with very difficult, with anothers. The English is a tool not an art.