It drives me crazy when mothers insist on reliving THEIR wedding day by taking away from their daughters the very freedom and choices the mother had on her day.
Not necessarily. It's usually the moms doing that back several generations. Example, the Mom, probably had her mom do the same thing to her, back in the 80s. It probably happend to the grandma, with her mom.
i hope my daughter has the wedding day i didn't get to have BECAUSE she'll be able to choose the dress that's perfect for her and make all the arrangements to her liking.
How wonderful of an experience this was! Thanks again SYTTD! We’re still happily married with 3 kids and I still adore my mom and sister!! The dress was a success! No regrets!🎉🤗
The mother got to choose her dress, why wouldn't she want her daughter to have the same experience. It's so selfish when a mother wants to re-live their wedding day through their daughter.
Mothers of the bride need to remember this: You already had your day!!! Now it is your daughter's turn. BRIDES. WANT. THEIR. OWN. DRESS. Unless they ask you for it, they do NOT want to wear your dress.
This bride could pull off any dress she put on! As for the moms petals, if they sew them onto a garter, it could be the brides "something old" if she wants to follow that tradition. She could also have them incorporated into her bouquet.
Honestly, i don't understand how a mother can consider it to be so special if her daughter wears her wedding dress or incorporates parts of her dress into her dress when the mother is DEMANDING she do it! Doesn't that take the special out of it? It's special because it's her daughters choice to do so! Its stupid!
I feel like mom could have the petal lace made into a pretty little corsage or something that could compliment the dress well and still make it suitable for the bride without it being a panel of lace somewhere. But I’m glad she stepped down and acknowledged that even though she isn’t getting what she wanted her daughter feel’s amazing anyway
Mom wanting to add peices of her dress to her daughter's wedding gown would be talking the whole day how "you see those petals, those were a part of MY wedding dress". She'd be making the day about her 🤦♀️🙄🤦♀️🙄🤦♀️🙄
I really wanted to see my baby girl in a full gown with my veil that her Grandmother and I made. That said I knew my place. She wants no veil and picked an elegant simple more evening gown style with a little lace detail on the split leg. I told her it's beautiful on her, it is, paid for with a smile and kept my opinions buttoned up. My place is to pay for stuff and be happy she is.
My mother died two weeks before my wedding. I incorporated her bible into the ceremony and my dad read scripture from that bible. I also pinned her wedding and engagement rings inside my dress up against my heart. I knew she was there 😢
I also lost my Mom two weeks before my wedding. I wore her engagement and wedding rings on my right hand. I pinned her religious medal to the left side of my bra so it was over my heart.
I understand the moms wanting to create a tradition with their gown, I have a little pair of pink Oshkosh overalls that all of my girls have worn and save them for when I have granddaughters one day. However my question would be, we’re the moms willing to use their moms dress or any part of it when they got married? If not they have no argument! Now these little petals would be very easy to incorporate into the bouquet, sew on a hankie, the ring pillow etc.
I'm all for passing a sentimental heirloom down from generation to generation. Or somehow incorporating something passed down and adding it to something new. BUT come on mom. Your child said no. Give it a rest.
2. Moms, if your daughter actually "wanted" to wear your gown, y'all would NOT be with Randy at Kleinfelds. Y'all would be at his tailor shop in that basement. That's that. Period. End. Of. Discussion.
When they're looking at dresses at the beginning and Randy pulls a blush number forward and says, "She might enjoy that..." THAT is my dress!!! And I love it!! My hear fluttered when I saw it on the screen! (Mine's currently safely tucked away in a double garment bag waiting to go to the cleaners. *^_^*)
The mother had the petals from her own wedding gown. They could be fashioned into flower blossoms to be incorporated into the bouquet. That would put the material into an area of contrast and be more evident in the photos. If they were incorporated into the gown, they would most likely be difficult to see in pictures. So, they need to see a florist, not a seamstress. Also, I feel for this bride. My mother loves everything I hate when we go clothes shopping together.
One of the most stunning brides! LOVE the dress she chose at the end it felt rlly timeless. Also maybe they could have incorporated the petal on the veil?
I let my daughters make there own choices in their wedding dress. My youngest got married last year. The oldest will get married in 2024, couldn't have been prouder, is thier day not mines, we should just support them on thier big day😊
She looked gorgeous in EVERYTHING that she put on!!! She could have worn any one of those dresses and looked beautiful on her wedding day. The dress she picked is definitely a head-turner. And I'm glad mom finally gave up on the petals. That was tacky. I would have NEVER tried to pawn my 1980 or 1996 wedding gowns off on my daughters. It was never even a thought so I don't get why a mom would think her daughter would want to wear her out of style wedding gown. The only exception would be if it was vintage couture.
If I had a daughter (I have sons, but anyway), they wouldn't be able to wear my wedding dress because I chopped it up, dyed it and made it into a more functional dress. I asked my husband first of her minded and he didn't!
I can't stand when moms an family members try to take control of the dress appointment 🤦🏽♀️ .... its not your day! Its the bride's wedding 💍 let her get what she wants! Ladies please save your money and buy your own dress an get what you want !! dont let anybody take control over your big day !
How about this one take the petals incorporated somehow in a picture frame with the wedding picture. Give it to mom as a gift. Something she can show case in her house.
I would say this. Mom has to have some jewelry that you like and can wear on that day. Just let her know how much it would mean to you to wear something of hers on that day. She needs to add something to mom's. Everyone that has a great mom has to remember not everyone is so lucky to have that in life. So adding something to also make her happy would be nice. If not at the wedding at least the wedding party. But I believe my picture frame idea is the best way of going about it. Or take one pic with the pedal just for her to have 😶
I saved some lace from my wedding gown, 1981. When my daughter got married, I designed a lace bracelet and incorporated Swavorski crystals and simulated pearls on the lace for some bling. My daughter is very picky, but she loved the bracelet and wore it with her wedding dress.. I was recovering from a double mastectomy and chemo and I cried while making the bracelet.
this daughter and every daughter needs to keep in mind that if God forbid something were to happen to her mom before her wedding she should respect moms request to at least have something from moms dress on to hers
My daughter had a brooch that was given to her by her late grandfather. The grandmother wanted the brooch to feature on the dress. So my sister, a dressmaker, who was also making the veil, attached the brooch to the veil right at the tip as part of the train. And everyone was happy.
I saw a YT video in which a mothers 80's wedding dress was completely dismantles and redesigned into another dress for her daughter and it turned out beautiful.
Yeah, that’s a big ass assumption. Anyone that actually thinks that nonsense happens now is watching too many movies. Styles change, people have different wants and none of the “ fashion” from the eighties was beautiful or timeless. It was gaudy, tacky overfrilled garbage and belongs in the past.
I think any year a bride gets to wear a beautiful dress is wonderful and have a beautiful wedding. Not every woman gets that experience. I think a compromise sometimes is needed with daughters and mother's to a small amount. If possible But no the mother shouldn't be demanding on her daughter with the decision. I'm 62 never got to have such a beautiful experience with a wedding. But my first lasted not even 2 yrs. So I'm grateful. My second almost 40 yrs. It sure is fun seeing others go thru such beautiful wedding dresses. So many choices 😊
I could never have worn my mum's wedding dress. She would never have even thought about it as I am a good five inches taller than she was, and two dress sizes bigger. However the question didn't arise as my parents married right after the end of the second World War when rationing was still a thing in the UK and frivolous things like wedding dresses and the materials to make them were simply not available. She was married in her best work suit. She made my wedding dress as we had a budget wedding and got a down payment on a house instead of a big wedding.
She's being very insensitive to her mother. Surely the petals could go somewhere that can be tucked away and make her mom happy. I love the idea of wearing mom's dress for the rehearsal, either as is or modified.
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The mother should incorporate her petals into her own mother-of-the-bride dress! That would be beautiful 🤍
oh yeah, especially if they're having a black & white theme! she can take a black dress and add the white petals on and it would look lovely!
That is a lovely idea!
And I’ll bet no one thought of that! Great idea!!
creative thinking! 👍
Such a sweet thought ❤that is a great idea
It drives me crazy when mothers insist on reliving THEIR wedding day by taking away from their daughters the very freedom and choices the mother had on her day.
Perfectly said
Yep
What is it about their daughters getting married that turns mothers into absolute nightmares
Not necessarily. It's usually the moms doing that back several generations. Example, the Mom, probably had her mom do the same thing to her, back in the 80s. It probably happend to the grandma, with her mom.
i hope my daughter has the wedding day i didn't get to have BECAUSE she'll be able to choose the dress that's perfect for her and make all the arrangements to her liking.
How wonderful of an experience this was! Thanks again SYTTD! We’re still happily married with 3 kids and I still adore my mom and sister!! The dress was a success! No regrets!🎉🤗
Yaye!
Your mum made me laugh with her petals and pouting. Love her! I loved your final dress too, definitely the right choice. ❤
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ur literally so gorgeous 😭
How wonderful to hear from a client. You were beautiful. And 3 children now! Congratulations to you!
The mother got to choose her dress, why wouldn't she want her daughter to have the same experience. It's so selfish when a mother wants to re-live their wedding day through their daughter.
Exactly well said
Mothers of the bride need to remember this: You already had your day!!! Now it is your daughter's turn. BRIDES. WANT. THEIR. OWN. DRESS. Unless they ask you for it, they do NOT want to wear your dress.
This bride could pull off any dress she put on! As for the moms petals, if they sew them onto a garter, it could be the brides "something old" if she wants to follow that tradition. She could also have them incorporated into her bouquet.
I love the bouquet idea. That mom was intent on having her petals front and center.
That's what I was just thinking - incorporate them into her bouquet somehow.
Wedding was in 2012. Has two kids now and husband is retired from football. Continued success!
Glad to hear that ❤❤❤
3 kids now
Three-kids,-per-the-bride's-statement-of-four-months-ago.
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Give it up mom, let your daughter have her choice, you had yours.
Maybe she didn't! 😂. But I agree 💯.
Honestly, i don't understand how a mother can consider it to be so special if her daughter wears her wedding dress or incorporates parts of her dress into her dress when the mother is DEMANDING she do it! Doesn't that take the special out of it? It's special because it's her daughters choice to do so! Its stupid!
It's not the dress that makes the wedding special! It's two people coming together as one that makes it special
@@j.i.r608shut up pick me
I wonder if anyone considered incorporating mom’s flowers in her bouquet 🤷♀️
I feel like mom could have the petal lace made into a pretty little corsage or something that could compliment the dress well and still make it suitable for the bride without it being a panel of lace somewhere. But I’m glad she stepped down and acknowledged that even though she isn’t getting what she wanted her daughter feel’s amazing anyway
My thoughts exactly!
Or maybe somehow in the bride's bouquet (depending on the style).
Mom wanting to add peices of her dress to her daughter's wedding gown would be talking the whole day how "you see those petals, those were a part of MY wedding dress". She'd be making the day about her 🤦♀️🙄🤦♀️🙄🤦♀️🙄
That’s a far stretch of the truth. Someone has mommy issues
@@phantomblacklove nope, just watched a lot of these videos and that's what often happens. Nice try at the keyboard psychology don't quit your day job
@@melrobertson2743 maybe you should be get a job instead of wasting time watching marathon TH-cam videos. Probably out of shape too
I really wanted to see my baby girl in a full gown with my veil that her Grandmother and I made. That said I knew my place. She wants no veil and picked an elegant simple more evening gown style with a little lace detail on the split leg. I told her it's beautiful on her, it is, paid for with a smile and kept my opinions buttoned up. My place is to pay for stuff and be happy she is.
You’re a good mom, and you never know, maybe if she had daughters they might fall in love with the veil.
My mother died two weeks before my wedding. I incorporated her bible into the ceremony and my dad read scripture from that bible. I also pinned her wedding and engagement rings inside my dress up against my heart. I knew she was there 😢
I also lost my Mom two weeks before my wedding. I wore her engagement and wedding rings on my right hand. I pinned her religious medal to the left side of my bra so it was over my heart.
So sorry for your losses 🙏🏽🕊️🕊️
I understand the moms wanting to create a tradition with their gown, I have a little pair of pink Oshkosh overalls that all of my girls have worn and save them for when I have granddaughters one day. However my question would be, we’re the moms willing to use their moms dress or any part of it when they got married? If not they have no argument! Now these little petals would be very easy to incorporate into the bouquet, sew on a hankie, the ring pillow etc.
I agree, incorporate the petals in the bouquet, or other accessory.
@@bjones65379
That gorgeous bride would have looked great in a paper bag.
I'm all for passing a sentimental heirloom down from generation to generation. Or somehow incorporating something passed down and adding it to something new. BUT come on mom. Your child said no. Give it a rest.
That last dress was perfect on her! Not all brides could pull off that style.
“Randy wants to hide my petals!” Priceless!
I would have put the petals on the veil somewhere near the bottom so they peep out every now and again. Bless her mum.
2. Moms, if your daughter actually "wanted" to wear your gown, y'all would NOT be with Randy at Kleinfelds. Y'all would be at his tailor shop in that basement. That's that.
Period. End. Of. Discussion.
Lol good point. 😂
The mom needs to get over herself, it's not her wedding. The bride is lovely.
When they're looking at dresses at the beginning and Randy pulls a blush number forward and says, "She might enjoy that..." THAT is my dress!!! And I love it!! My hear fluttered when I saw it on the screen! (Mine's currently safely tucked away in a double garment bag waiting to go to the cleaners. *^_^*)
Wow such an Interesting episode
Randy calling out the 80's style is so funny 🤣💙
Add the petals into the bouquet or garter. Not a huge deal
There must be a hundred ways to use those little petals. It’s an easy compromise.
In the tail of tne veil or in head piece, or bouquet
yes but shes still entitled to say no if shes not feeling it or it doesnt really match what shes going for
Dear mom please remember that your daughter is a whole different human being from you 😅
Incorporate the petals in the buquet... Something Old 🤷♀️
Or in the headpiece somehow
or something borrowed if she gives them back when shes done with them
The mother had the petals from her own wedding gown. They could be fashioned into flower blossoms to be incorporated into the bouquet. That would put the material into an area of contrast and be more evident in the photos. If they were incorporated into the gown, they would most likely be difficult to see in pictures. So, they need to see a florist, not a seamstress.
Also, I feel for this bride. My mother loves everything I hate when we go clothes shopping together.
The mom is crazy. Its your daughter's day. Not your's.
yours (no apostrophe)--it's a pronoun like his and hers
She chose wisely that definitely is her dress ❤❤❤
One of the most stunning brides! LOVE the dress she chose at the end it felt rlly timeless. Also maybe they could have incorporated the petal on the veil?
I let my daughters make there own choices in their wedding dress. My youngest got married last year. The oldest will get married in 2024, couldn't have been prouder, is thier day not mines, we should just support them on thier big day😊
The bride is lovely. That dress is lovely - the combination made both even more lovely!
Mom is nuts!
This mother NEEDS TO STOP!!!!
Any of those dresses looked beautiful on her.
Mom, if you got to choose your wedding dress, your daughter should, too.
💀😂 at the description of the sequin dress at 3:56 and her mom coming in and immediately liking it
Have a florist tuck the lace petals into her bouquet. 💐😊✌️❤️🦋🙏
That would be so sweet! Mom's beloved petals would be incorporated into her daughter's wedding without being overpowering.
My daughter redid my Vail and is wearing it on her wedding day you can't expect your daughter to want what you had
She looked gorgeous in EVERYTHING that she put on!!! She could have worn any one of those dresses and looked beautiful on her wedding day. The dress she picked is definitely a head-turner. And I'm glad mom finally gave up on the petals. That was tacky. I would have NEVER tried to pawn my 1980 or 1996 wedding gowns off on my daughters. It was never even a thought so I don't get why a mom would think her daughter would want to wear her out of style wedding gown. The only exception would be if it was vintage couture.
I like the idea of secreting away the petals in the dress somehow but not out in the open unless it is the brides idea.
Maybe the petal could have been incorporated somewhere on the bouquet?
Perhaps moms petals could have been incorporated into the bouquet or appliqued onto a handkerchief
If I had a daughter (I have sons, but anyway), they wouldn't be able to wear my wedding dress because I chopped it up, dyed it and made it into a more functional dress. I asked my husband first of her minded and he didn't!
They could have incorporated the petals into the bouquet.
A girl deserves to have the dress she wants. Mom needs to butt out. She could let her use a piece of her jewelry on her special day.
I can't stand when moms an family members try to take control of the dress appointment 🤦🏽♀️ .... its not your day! Its the bride's wedding 💍 let her get what she wants! Ladies please save your money and buy your own dress an get what you want !! dont let anybody take control over your big day !
Wow this bride is gorgeous!!
Depending on the bouquet-attach the "petals" to ribbon wrapped around the stems of it. It's not mom's wedding-please respect that..
How about this one take the petals incorporated somehow in a picture frame with the wedding picture. Give it to mom as a gift. Something she can show case in her house.
Randi was absolutely right about the 80’s fashion. It was DREADFUL!
how about using the petals on the bouquet....i have also seen a bride have a piece underneath....in tribute
The petals could become the bouquet wrap.
What is matter with these Moms? THEY ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED!!
that girl can pull off anything…. STUNNING
Lol could of just added the petals to the vail
Mix the petals into the ribbon on the flowers the bride and bride maids carry, if Mom really needs them in the daughter’s wedding.
It’s not your wedding mom. Do your job and lovingly support your daughter in her decisions.
My little sister was born in 1984. My parents were married in 1977. The 70s and 80s were not decades for wedding fashion.
There's no way that I could wear her high neck wedding dress. I can't wear high neck lines.
Such a beautiful family and the bride looks great in every dress, Mum should have focused more on her daughter's wishes
her eyes are gorgeous!!
I would say this. Mom has to have some jewelry that you like and can wear on that day. Just let her know how much it would mean to you to wear something of hers on that day. She needs to add something to mom's. Everyone that has a great mom has to remember not everyone is so lucky to have that in life. So adding something to also make her happy would be nice. If not at the wedding at least the wedding party. But I believe my picture frame idea is the best way of going about it. Or take one pic with the pedal just for her to have 😶
I saved some lace from my wedding gown, 1981. When my daughter got married, I designed a lace bracelet and incorporated Swavorski crystals and simulated pearls on the lace for some bling. My daughter is very picky, but she loved the bracelet and wore it with her wedding dress.. I was recovering from a double mastectomy and chemo and I cried while making the bracelet.
Mummy mummy Stop, you’ve had your Wedding let your daughter have hers
The bride chose well, that was the best dress!
She (the bride) is GORGEOUS!
Let the bride have her day the way she wanrs
I donated my dress to charity after my wedding. There are so many brides that can’t afford nice dresses.
Mom is being ridiculous with those damn petals.
Omg...just got to see this in my recommendations...I am a huge Gator fan and to see he has a beautiful love is awesome!
What an ignorant selfish mom! Good grief! So incredibly sad when a mom can’t place her daughter above herself!!! 🤦🏽♀️
She could hv made earings out of those petals...sometimes making mother happy..by a small thing..can make things even more beautiful..
I have the feeling that if you give this mother an inch, she will try to take a mile. She is a narcissist and has to make the dress all about her.
Incorporating something into a dress from a loved one is usually done regarding people who have passed away. So they can still "be" there with you.
Great choice!
Jeez, mom was acting like she had to lay claim to her daughter by marking her. Bizarre.
this daughter and every daughter needs to keep in mind that if God forbid something were to happen to her mom before her wedding she should respect moms request to at least have something from moms dress on to hers
My daughter had a brooch that was given to her by her late grandfather. The grandmother wanted the brooch to feature on the dress. So my sister, a dressmaker, who was also making the veil, attached the brooch to the veil right at the tip as part of the train. And everyone was happy.
Put the petals in wedding bouquet
Mothers lace choice was beautiful
ok but to be fair, mom's dress is so chic. also I think she was one of the most stunning brides I've ever seen on this show.
I saw a YT video in which a mothers 80's wedding dress was completely dismantles and redesigned into another dress for her daughter and it turned out beautiful.
I'm sure there was enough fabric and lace in an 80's gown to make just about any fashionable gown in this day and age.
Randy forgets that it's every mom's dream that her daughter wears her wedding gown. That why she spends a lot of money to prserve it.
Yeah, that’s a big ass assumption. Anyone that actually thinks that nonsense happens now is watching too many movies. Styles change, people have different wants and none of the “ fashion” from the eighties was beautiful or timeless. It was gaudy, tacky overfrilled garbage and belongs in the past.
Why would any woman want her daughter to wear her dress? My mom would never )))
I love say yes to the dress ❤
Adding something special in the bouquet is nice
I think any year a bride gets to wear a beautiful dress is wonderful and have a beautiful wedding. Not every woman gets that experience. I think a compromise sometimes is needed with daughters and mother's to a small amount. If possible But no the mother shouldn't be demanding on her daughter with the decision. I'm 62 never got to have such a beautiful experience with a wedding. But my first lasted not even 2 yrs. So I'm grateful. My second almost 40 yrs. It sure is fun seeing others go thru such beautiful wedding dresses. So many choices 😊
I could never have worn my mum's wedding dress. She would never have even thought about it as I am a good five inches taller than she was, and two dress sizes bigger. However the question didn't arise as my parents married right after the end of the second World War when rationing was still a thing in the UK and frivolous things like wedding dresses and the materials to make them were simply not available. She was married in her best work suit. She made my wedding dress as we had a budget wedding and got a down payment on a house instead of a big wedding.
The brides in our family have all carried or had my Mother's wedding gloves pinned to their dress or petticoat at their weddings.
They could have made a bouquet wrap with her petals. So she would have been carrying them
That mom was annoying 😂
I'm so glad my mom has more sense than to try to be like that. I would have gotten really disrespectful really fast during the appointment.
The pedals would be easy…. Incorporate into her bouquet
Why is Randy trying to please the mother?? It's not her wedding!!
Give the mom a break, she wasn't pushy or obnoxious about her request. 😮😮
She was mentioning the petals and positioning it in different places with every dress she tried on.
No, she just pestered, whined and pouted.
What a nightmare mother. Leave her at the door.
She did wear the dress, in 2012 or so. They have three kids.
These mothers need to remember that it’s not their wedding and stop pushing their daughters to what they want instead of what their daughter wants.
So this was before she was on Wags Atlanta. She was always going to be on TV 🎉
She's being very insensitive to her mother. Surely the petals could go somewhere that can be tucked away and make her mom happy. I love the idea of wearing mom's dress for the rehearsal, either as is or modified.
Or the mother is being insensitive to her.
Mom wants her daughter to wear her dress and is still pushing the petals after being told no in no uncertain terms.
It would please her mum if she incorporated the petals in her dress it would make mum happy.