39:44 Christy Wright has a great quote that says “life balance isn’t about doing everything for an equal amount of time. It’s about doing the right things at the right time”
The 2nd call has me sobbing. My mom is an alcoholic and I’ve let go of that and forgiven her but I don’t think I ever told little me that it was never my fault. So I’ll be over here crying. 😂
Yeah this show has me realizing I need to make contact with the little kid inside who is just so hurt and confused and angry even though now I'm probably one of the most chill, laid back people know now.
I resonate with the lady that called in regarding her husband not showing gratitude.It’s hard to live in that space and not be able to do anything directly to change it. But again it’s clear that we only have power to change ourselves and come alongside others as they allow. I pray they will find the healing and her husband especially.
When that last caller said they love their body now I just imagined what my life would be like if I loved my body I would be so much happier that's definitely the motivation I need to continue my weight loss.
Last caller~ this is hard 😢 My ex was always negative, complaining all the time. He refused to get help and his attitude was crushing me. I tried getting him to go to counseling with me, he laughed in my face and said therapy was hogwash. I ended up leaving because it was the best thing for me physically, emotionally, mentally & spiritually. I had to realize I could not save him, fix him nor help him because he believed he was fine the way he was. 😢 I hurt for him and that's why I stayed as long as I did. I felt so responsible for his well-being, but I was ignoring my own. I ended up having to choose my own safety and leave. (He was abusive, covertly) I was a sunshine girl, too. And unfortunately I married someone who seemed hell bent on snuffing out my light. It almost happened....but I left. I hope this guy sees how much he's loved and sees his worth enough to get himself help. ❤
I can relate to the 2nd caller other than his dad not being in his life. Work life balance is real and I hardly get time to be with my family or build a community since I’m a truck driver
For the food in the teeth thing - be proactive: Take a flask of mouthwash and a travel toothbrush or a small box of toothpicks in your jacket pocket and use it in the bathroom just before leaving the restaurant. A gentleman comes prepared for anything. He always goes the extra mile to impress. If she’s worth it.
2nd caller - Johns advice about writing a letter is spot on, before chasing all the other goals there are basics that need to be dealt with, first is to love yourself….finding compassion in place of judgement. Once these things started in motion for myself, it was the single thing that enabled me to improve so many other areas of my life. It takes a mindset change and removing the default thoughts. It’s changed my life in so many ways that I never knew it could.
Kissing after food: It depends on what you just ate but even more. It's about if Partners are on equals status... Either we've both brushed or neither of us have brushed... Either way it's fine as long as the mouth is of equal "dirtiness"...
You: Thank you for mowing the yard, it looks nice. Him: You don’t have to thank me. It’s my job. You: You might think it is but I still want you to know I think it looks nice. 😊
Sounds like Salem needs some wins and focus on just three things that will have the quickest gains in his life and just take small bites to get where he wants to be, he’s doesn’t need to do it all right now. He has 40-50 more years to practice and gets things right. Baby steps and snowballing your life applies to more then money.
3:15 I'm wondering why you assume there has to be tounge action???? You can just do some lip kissing??? Frankly I do not want someone sticking their tounge in my mouth in public or a first date!! Lip kissing is with no tounge is very romantic!! You guys crack me up!!!
57:49 get his testosterone checked. It could REALLY help with emotional stability & coping. He might be low or under-oprimized for decades. I've seen proper for the individual test levels CHANGE LIVES. Just that simple change could relieve depression, anxiety, self worth, work ethic and more. Of course bonding within the relationship! Therapy in tandem could be phenomenal.
On my parent's first date (when they were teenagers), after they ate Arby's, my dad pulled out a pack of gum and handed a piece to my mom. He wouldn't kiss her until she chewed the gum first. 😆
Oh please! I’m older & I’ve never heard of anyone having to brush their teeth before kissing! Having a mint is a great idea, but we didn’t do that 50 years ago!!! People now a days are so weird about germs. Our kids won’t even let their kids play in a sand box!!
Dude wants to work less and support his family. John missed the mark on that one he needs to figure out how to get to school and then get through the next fours years until he gets a degree. Also a good lawyer because his baby mama won't let him see his kid. John was trying so hard to be right not everyone's issue is there dad left them when they were 7.
🇩🇰🇩🇰 From Denmark with ❤❤ Wow!!!!! You can't be serious??? .. first time with a comment 😂 .. Kissing and food .. food is the cleanest part of kissing! I know we have different cultures, but didnt know it was to an extend that in the US, you have to put kissing "in the calender" Wow!! 😂 Greatings from a 62 years old Dane, I'm a huge fan ❤
Katie is like my fiance. Forcing me out and wondering why I'm not having fun. It's exhausting. Then dragging me with his family, makes feel even more defective and hope I can just go home and take off this mask that feels like acid. Let me go at my own pace.
7:37 You want me to start going on awesome dates once a month! Plan getting out of town and leaving the kids with somebody . Once a month we'll manage the costs but also get you in a routine of letting your hair down and not being in Mom mode 24/7. And he can step up to treat you like the woman he married and have fun! GIRL!! If your husband would be happy with you just getting out of goddamn board game, You can do this! Now I would absolutely hate a board game, but it's the point of the matter 🤣🤣
If you’re on a date and you’re ready to kiss your mind is not on the food or the bacteria in the other person’s mouth you just want to wholeheartedly KISS them 🔥
Basically John is saying.... If she doesn't live-in up this relationship, He's going to find someone that does imho... Her husband might really be trying to communicate this to her & give her a chance to. Hopefully that's the case.
He said they both need to have fun and find things that are just for them that make them happy and not revolve their lives around the kids and how they both can work towards a life they love.
I agree so much with his advice on this. Marriage is a partnership. If anything causes you to not pour into that partnership, even kids, you should evaluate that partnership
I love kissing but I can't kiss my boyfriend if we haven't both brushed our teeth. Good hygiene is really important to me. I never listen to John and his coworkers conversations, I fast forward through that and the advertisement. I like to get right to the callers. The first caller sounds like a stick in the mud. She definitely needs to lighten up.
"We marry our unfinished business." I never heard it that way before and it resonates with me instantly.
Anyone else binge this show while their other half is in the room, hoping john will say something that grabs their attention and gets them thinking?
39:44 Christy Wright has a great quote that says “life balance isn’t about doing everything for an equal amount of time. It’s about doing the right things at the right time”
I LOVE that! 💯❤️
First caller- when you and your husband have different ideas about what is fun and not boring then you'll drift even further away.
The 2nd call has me sobbing. My mom is an alcoholic and I’ve let go of that and forgiven her but I don’t think I ever told little me that it was never my fault. So I’ll be over here crying. 😂
Yeah this show has me realizing I need to make contact with the little kid inside who is just so hurt and confused and angry even though now I'm probably one of the most chill, laid back people know now.
I resonate with the lady that called in regarding her husband not showing gratitude.It’s hard to live in that space and not be able to do anything directly to change it. But again it’s clear that we only have power to change ourselves and come alongside others as they allow. I pray they will find the healing and her husband especially.
When that last caller said they love their body now I just imagined what my life would be like if I loved my body I would be so much happier that's definitely the motivation I need to continue my weight loss.
Last caller~ this is hard 😢 My ex was always negative, complaining all the time. He refused to get help and his attitude was crushing me. I tried getting him to go to counseling with me, he laughed in my face and said therapy was hogwash.
I ended up leaving because it was the best thing for me physically, emotionally, mentally & spiritually. I had to realize I could not save him, fix him nor help him because he believed he was fine the way he was. 😢
I hurt for him and that's why I stayed as long as I did. I felt so responsible for his well-being, but I was ignoring my own.
I ended up having to choose my own safety and leave. (He was abusive, covertly)
I was a sunshine girl, too. And unfortunately I married someone who seemed hell bent on snuffing out my light. It almost happened....but I left.
I hope this guy sees how much he's loved and sees his worth enough to get himself help. ❤
Beautifully said. Thank you ❤. I am there right now and just about out of gas.
Ditto @@AM-nd9nl
“Are you a veteran”
“uhhh… yeah.”
John: 😀
I laughed out loud 😂😂😂 I love Dr. John so much. I related to (probably to the wife of) that caller so much.
I did too!! 😂😂
I can relate to the 2nd caller other than his dad not being in his life. Work life balance is real and I hardly get time to be with my family or build a community since I’m a truck driver
The lady that lost weight brought tears to my eyes. Loving herself now is is amazing, I wish I could do the same. Inspiring to say the least!! ❤️❤️❤️
I think he hit the nail on the head with that first call.
For the food in the teeth thing - be proactive:
Take a flask of mouthwash and a travel toothbrush or a small box of toothpicks in your jacket pocket and use it in the bathroom just before leaving the restaurant.
A gentleman comes prepared for anything. He always goes the extra mile to impress. If she’s worth it.
Flossing and using a water pik at night or in the morning is key. And making sure you go to the dentist regularly.
2nd caller - Johns advice about writing a letter is spot on, before chasing all the other goals there are basics that need to be dealt with, first is to love yourself….finding compassion in place of judgement. Once these things started in motion for myself, it was the single thing that enabled me to improve so many other areas of my life.
It takes a mindset change and removing the default thoughts. It’s changed my life in so many ways that I never knew it could.
Kissing after food: It depends on what you just ate but even more. It's about if Partners are on equals status... Either we've both brushed or neither of us have brushed... Either way it's fine as long as the mouth is of equal "dirtiness"...
You: Thank you for mowing the yard, it looks nice.
Him: You don’t have to thank me. It’s my job.
You: You might think it is but I still want you to know I think it looks nice. 😊
Did Deloney mumble an F bomb on air at 5:50!? Haha!
Yep 😂
Thank you for reminding me to apply for Bake Off :)
Sounds like Salem needs some wins and focus on just three things that will have the quickest gains in his life and just take small bites to get where he wants to be, he’s doesn’t need to do it all right now. He has 40-50 more years to practice and gets things right. Baby steps and snowballing your life applies to more then money.
YES!
I agree with Nate in that preamble about kissing 😅
3:15 I'm wondering why you assume there has to be tounge action???? You can just do some lip kissing??? Frankly I do not want someone sticking their tounge in my mouth in public or a first date!! Lip kissing is with no tounge is very romantic!! You guys crack me up!!!
John, that’s why, as a teenager, I carried gum-for after.
57:49 get his testosterone checked. It could REALLY help with emotional stability & coping. He might be low or under-oprimized for decades. I've seen proper for the individual test levels CHANGE LIVES. Just that simple change could relieve depression, anxiety, self worth, work ethic and more. Of course bonding within the relationship!
Therapy in tandem could be phenomenal.
Salem's story is a story I know too well with myself.
Dude, me too. I just signed up for BetterHelp because of it
A guy who tells his wife she is boring probably is an incredible bore himself (and a boar).
On my parent's first date (when they were teenagers), after they ate Arby's, my dad pulled out a pack of gum and handed a piece to my mom. He wouldn't kiss her until she chewed the gum first. 😆
Same as a teenager
Oh please! I’m older & I’ve never heard of anyone having to brush their teeth before kissing! Having a mint is a great idea, but we didn’t do that 50 years ago!!!
People now a days are so weird about germs. Our kids won’t even let their kids play in a sand box!!
I won't allow my kids in sandboxes either because I am not trying to clean sand out of my house and car not necessarily due to germs.
To the second caller, sometimes we need to get what we think we want to realize it’s not what we wanted.
Dude wants to work less and support his family. John missed the mark on that one he needs to figure out how to get to school and then get through the next fours years until he gets a degree. Also a good lawyer because his baby mama won't let him see his kid. John was trying so hard to be right not everyone's issue is there dad left them when they were 7.
I would be cautious if this goes on too long . he could be looking elsewhere just be cautious
Shoutout to mount olive from Hackettstown!
If you both eat something garlicky it cancels each other out everyone knows that 😆
🇩🇰🇩🇰 From Denmark with ❤❤
Wow!!!!! You can't be serious??? .. first time with a comment 😂 .. Kissing and food .. food is the cleanest part of kissing!
I know we have different cultures, but didnt know it was to an extend that in the US, you have to put kissing "in the calender"
Wow!! 😂
Greatings from a 62 years old Dane, I'm a huge fan ❤
Not 🚫 a factor of out of sight out of mind folks topics, branding lol
Kissing is great! Romantic, and spontaneous kissing even better! Turkey 🦃 day or not!😂
My hubby and I will kiss WITH food still in our mouths! 😂😂 Not open mouth...ew....just pecks! LOL
Katie is like my fiance. Forcing me out and wondering why I'm not having fun. It's exhausting. Then dragging me with his family, makes feel even more defective and hope I can just go home and take off this mask that feels like acid. Let me go at my own pace.
😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂
"I GUESS we could exchange food particles..."
😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂
This woman IS boring. 25 seconds in and I heard what he's hearing. She's being warned. He wants more. Make changes now.
i feel like the first lady absorbed absolutely nothing......
That first caller did really sound boring. Undeveloped and hard to talk to, has lots of trouble expressing her situation and feelings.
Pick me up
Oh wow. You sound like fun to be with?!
I think you can kiss after eating as long as what you each ate complements
Uuuuuuhhh.... sponsored commercials. Fine. Whatever. But I'm not sitting through 11 minutes of Chuck Norris. 😢
7:37 You want me to start going on awesome dates once a month! Plan getting out of town and leaving the kids with somebody . Once a month we'll manage the costs but also get you in a routine of letting your hair down and not being in Mom mode 24/7. And he can step up to treat you like the woman he married and have fun!
GIRL!! If your husband would be happy with you just getting out of goddamn board game, You can do this! Now I would absolutely hate a board game, but it's the point of the matter 🤣🤣
My boyfriend calls me sunshine because I’m always brightening his days! Especially when he is sad 😊
trying out for sound garden 💀
If you’re on a date and you’re ready to kiss your mind is not on the food or the bacteria in the other person’s mouth you just want to wholeheartedly KISS them 🔥
Basically John is saying.... If she doesn't live-in up this relationship, He's going to find someone that does imho... Her husband might really be trying to communicate this to her & give her a chance to. Hopefully that's the case.
Being unlively is no reason for cheating.
He said they both need to have fun and find things that are just for them that make them happy and not revolve their lives around the kids and how they both can work towards a life they love.
I agree so much with his advice on this. Marriage is a partnership. If anything causes you to not pour into that partnership, even kids, you should evaluate that partnership
@@blueseptember2174 I totally agree with you!
Unfortunately these things do happen... John knows as well, that's why he mentioned it
If playing a board game is to much to ask then yes you are super boring.
the spoonman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow way to make the second guy fell like cap
Looks like, for the second caller, John misunderstood "curt" to be "terse". One can be terse but curt has a rude connotation and is not okay.
I love kissing but I can't kiss my boyfriend if we haven't both brushed our teeth. Good hygiene is really important to me. I never listen to John and his coworkers conversations, I fast forward through that and the advertisement. I like to get right to the callers. The first caller sounds like a stick in the mud. She definitely needs to lighten up.
Kiss kiss 💋 hug kiss 💋
Wait a second, why didn't you ask the guy with the baseball cap between Jenna and Kelly, his feelings about kissing? Not nice 😉
Love you John but how can hunting something make you feel alive ????
You’re KILLING
Im vegan so my partner has to wait to kiss me after eating meat🤮🤢
Jajajajajaja super least romantic group jajajajajaja
Ok, now you're married. Are you brushing your teeth every time you kiss? I don't think it's practical.
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