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What I'm bringing to the table is provision, stability, guidance, leadership, strength, support, discipline, and when I ask a woman what she brings I'm talking about peace, support my stress relief after dealing with the outside world trying to rip me to shreds on a daily basis. Is she the one that's going to say it's ok you got this or, am I going to come home to nothing to eat, and have my woman coming at me sideways as well?
It shows the requirements women really be having for the men they date. Then pick the men who are out in the streets expecting them to actually be the ones to fulfill those requirements, and when they don't, the rest of us get the blame for it, lol.
What’s amazing to me is when Blk women say Blk men don’t protect them. When they keep voicing and their actions keep saying they don’t want our protection.
@@R0yALtySI think his point is a lot you all act as though you don't need men. I even hear black women say it often. Not needing one leads one to think you don't need his protection.
Exactly I’m so sick of them taking about their feminity has to be brought out of them by the right man makes no sense. Women I the past generations would get offended by just saying to a girl that they weren’t feminine it was an insult to them and they would go off on you
White shirt is a feminist, middle woman said 8 words, light skin woman likes to hear her own voice cuz none of her thoughts were coherent. I'm glad they weren't ratchet bc it proves that delusion, confusion, & bitterness aren't class based. Gentleman choose carefully & wisely...SMH
@@butterflymage5623slowing down the conversation and making a concise point. This never happens here, women make asinine claims and it’s usually overlooked or breezed passed!!!
So her calling him on his platform “this nigga” over and over is considered her being respectful but him calling women who sleep with men for money “prostitutes” is disrespectful? Make that make sense please.
"I can't worry about people's feelings, especially when it comes to women because they are very emotional. I'm not the type to walk on eggshells just to protect your feelings " I felt that💯
This is why arguing with women is nonsense. They don't have the logic for it. Example: fight for the "right to make own money", begin dating a man who she THINKS she makes just as much money as, then leaves him when the feminine role and right to access masculine roles is too much but somehow doing it ALL on her own is easier than splitting the load with a decent man. How does that make sense?
The prostitution Convo was funny. How this woman going to say what those women were “ trying to say”. 😂😂😂 they said what they wanted to say. Women swear they are the most educated but can’t articulate themselves well? 😂😂😂😂 Crazy. Thank yall for standing strong and not conforming because their feelings are hurt.
Some of the dumbest things I heard women say. In addition to having ALL TYPES of excuses for those women lined up and ready. She didn't go up there in good faith to have a wholesome Convo with an exchange of opinions...she came on there to catch them slipping. You saw she had her Handy Dandy Notebook 📓 at the ready.
Had a driver, had all her bills paid, was able to save her money, never felt safer in her life and still left him and expects the same and better from the next man 😂 She hit the lottery and didn’t even realize it
A good man in the middle east comes with controlling family members you don't have the same views as your good man. unless you're willing to be treated like crap by his family and her being a black woman she probably was going through it form his family, hence her missing home part..
They literally was trying to change the words of what other women say. "Oh she didn't mean to say it that way" huh? So when she say "F love I'm looking for a bag" she meant she's looking for a masculine leader that treats her right.. these women are wild and avoid accountability.
They’re unaccountable worldly children who have no relationship with the most high. They worship the things of this world and themselves. They will not be seeing the kingdom of god the way they’re going. These fools chose 5 million dollars over being in the presence of the most high. All Jezebels.
Shout out to Eli and the gang not letting these women tone police them to death on their own podcast, because they don't like the blunt observations and conclusions men have come to due to a lot of women's behavior.
The problem with these types of conversations is that the idea of relationship is discussed from a transactional perspective and not from a doing life together with a partner. They are two very distinctive perspectives.
White shirt is a feminist. She will challenge your authority every step of the way. The narcissist manipulation would never stop. Not until the relationship breaks up
Yup she's a chameleon. She tries to talk soft to make herself seem feminine, but she masculine b/c she "thinks" she's smarter than most men. Therefore she's going to disrespect every men she comes across unless, he's a top tier guy with a PHD or making a lot of money.
@@truebengalsfan We as a people better take every one serious. They have children or will have children & they WILL put poison N theirs heads waaaay before the world gets a hold of them. They they will use the exact same language, "My DAD wasn't N my life"
So we cant call prostitute actions...prostitute? That's like saying we can't call a dude wit no place to stay homeless..critical thinking is lost amongst women in my culture and its scary. Not even thru wit the episode but i had to point this out
I met 1 high value man in my life.He loved me and treated me really good.I was from the hood and he still wanted me 😢 he did work alot but made time for me.He lifted me up and taught me all the good things i know today.Hes proud of me ,he watched me grow.I thank him still today for showing what a man is 😢 i messed it up i can admit it. Ladies, they are out here, and he hated that i wore weave and nails ( its what i done for work a stylist" 😢 i feel bad for this generation 😢we all need healing men and women ❤
I believe this is a generation thing rather than a race thing. Sooo many people of our generation no matter race are going through the same relationship issues.
Say that one more time to the black men in the front...not sure why they think relationship issues are mainly black women when we live I'm this modern world. Sometimes these black dudes sound prejudiced against their own kind
Say whatever you want Eli. Don't be afraid to hurt feelings. Kevin Samuels didn't care and you shouldn't either. Feeling sometimes need to be hurt.............AND feelings can lie to you...... so F their feelings........ Facts over feelings everyday all day.....
Right like Antwoine Daniels be saying I don’t give a damn about your feelings the facts speaks for itself. Don’t hold back on em cuz women don’t like the truth only the lies
The *ENTIRE BLACK COMMUNITY* has been hurt and is traumatized. We can no longer use our history as a shield against the recognition of our bad actions. Also, people are able to be better because of their trauma, not only worse. You can take that pain and use it to empower yourself.
@@thefirstprime0124 I haven't watched the vid yet but FACTS! Especially, the non-toxic black men we BEEN hurting since the 70s! It's slim pickings outchea. Peace to you fam!
These women are demonstrating the exact problem with the current state of dating discourses now. The absence of shame and lack of accountability, the two girls on the ends not liking the terminology should hold they fellow girls accountable and they wouldn't seem like black women being "labeled as sex workers." She defend characters she don't even know, talk about delusional fr 😂 cuz how she know all them past women wasn't this (hypergamous) or that (bein masculine) they must be psychics too
Hearing the biracial girl speak solidify that women do not know what they want had a good man it seems like she wanted some toxicity in her life and that’s why she left smh
Here's an example of a Woman's Hypergamous nature. She's dating 2 guys, one makes 60K a year and the other makes 120K per year! She chooses, the guy that has more security than the other guy. She still exhibits single behavior, posting sexy pics on IG for attention, displays herself as single when she's alone or out with friends. She's not married yet so in her mind she's still single. Although this woman has started dating this one man exclusively, she turns down other men that doesn't exhibit the level of security her man has, until the more handsome, more wealthy, athlete pulls up in an Aston Martin and tries to get her number, and then she caves and gives him the number. She sees a guy that has far more security than her man and she doesn't turn him down. It doesn't have to be an athlete, it's just that the mext man is on a leveluch higher than the giy she's with and she continues the cycle until she reaches a level that she's comfortable with. Alot of women feels as though Men should know, expect, and be okay with this..... But don't let a man operate on his nature to want to sleep with more than one woman while dating 😂
BM…we know you don’t understand ALOT of things about how REAL men seeking POWER move in the world. I’m sure this comment will go over your head but that only explains why black men in the diaspora has allowed their own race to be where it has been for centuries
@@TheBlackGeoI thought you can tell by the energy of a woman if she's feminine. So shouldn't that be enough for you to know if she's wife material? IJS🤷♀️
It's unfortunate during this dating Era that men and women don't date exclusively for a purpose other than speed dating because if it was like the past...well, yes, men should foot the bill, but it gets really expensive if your dating 2 -3 times per day on a daily basis. Back in the day, you'd date 3 women and settle with one....in that case footing the bill ain't an issue, which it shouldn't be.
@@DailyRapUpCrewWhat is it a man needs to “stay woke” about? If as a man you are choosing a woman based upon the standards you have set for the type of partner you desire, why stay to the point that you over invest.
Super models ? Just bc they look better than the women yall are able to pull in a first world country , doesnt make them super models. And yall say women are delusional 😂
This is a lose lose situation. There's not enough time on earth to fight up stream just to find happiness with modern black women. They want everything but want to give nothing. It's not worth it. Go abroad. This is too insane
The root of the problem is both men and women don't want to put more then 50% and are ready to call it quits , because to much emotions not enough commitment.
The fact these women didn't have enough sense to realize that just bcus you're spending 5 minutes with Jesus doesn't mean you're out right dead in addition to the fact they care more about money than their immortal soul is crazy
I've been tuned into this podcast for a few months now and this is the first time I'm commenting. This was def one of y'all better episodes. Keep grinding
I feel like this is probably the worst. These women are very uneducated and didn’t pull off a good conversation to meet in the middle. Too much emotion. But these guys did stand on their toes to keep them in check
These topics are circular conversations. I tune in off and on and I noticed the hosts and their female guests cover the same topics repeatedly. They literally just parade out different women and hold the SAME conversation for each show.
Only Black History ignored by Blacks... THE NEGR0 PROJECT: *38% of Black pregnancies are aborted, over 50% in NYC. BW are by far most overweight, least married, most in debt, and 78% of their children have no Dad by DESIGN. THE NEGR0 PROJECT is now called Planned Parenthood💥 The Welfare Act finished the job of destroying the Black Family. 1854 founded to STOP SLAVERY... Republican Party 1860 founded to KEEP SLAVERY... Democrat Party Republicans literally beat the Democrats in the Civil War in 1865. "we want to exterminate the Negro population.” -Margaret Sanger, founder of THE NEGR0 PROJECT/Planned Parenthood & a Democrat. See the Democrat's plan yet?
Why is she trying to tell Eli what the saying? How to say it? This is ridiculous. This man can say what he want to say. He's a grown man. See I'm tired of women doing this foolishness. When is this going to stop?
I guess she was saying like contributing financially period …not EXACTLY 50/50 ..and theirs nothin wrong with that .. especially if it’s a chance the man probably would most likely make more than her anyway
That's cuz some women don't think bruh. A lot of women will carry this notion that women aren't supposed to work or contribute as much but all of human history will prove opposite. There is no 50/50, you contribute as much as the house and family needs.
@@radiantgoldensun6438please explain 100/100 when the man and the woman are not making the same salary? This make no sense. Your ancestors did not think like you.
Heavy on the compassion black men and women need to have grace and compassion for each other. Check yourself individually to make sure you're healed and come together and build eachother up.
I've watched about 3 of your show's i like it alot. Just because we in the comments give our opinion don't mean we didn't enjoy what your talking about, we do ❤❤❤ and ill always hit like ,these are important conversations very needed.
That Brownstowne chick is part of the problem. She doesn’t want to work but has so much to say. Women back in the day, stayed at home & understood that biting their tongue came with being taken care of.
The thing is that woman back in the day HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO OBEY A MAN. Men now a days don't understand that us woman has a choice to live the life they pleased to do!!
The differences between men and women in relationships are that women want choices to do what they want to be happy and men simply don’t have 1:18:49 choices they must provide , protect and help within the household every day regardless of his individual happiness. He is head of the household and must act accordingly to solve every problem within his family and come up with solutions to many problems for every member of his household. It’s never was a choice it’s his responsibility.
Wife duties, To be a good Wife and Mother you must listen and provide needs not wants. Non-negotiable: Respectful= prioritize him over everyone. treat him the way you would treat your grandparents. Cooperative=ask questions provide information Wife duty #1 Companion=Be a joy to spend time with
This trauma bs amongst the black community is getting old. I’m a black male attending medical school and I’m living a great life. I’m happy where I am currently. I worked hard. Trauma just seems like an excuse.
Funny how most men live on their own. Pay their own bills. And provide their own meals and clean their homes. But we still aren't doing enough for our women. Lol😅
@@Maryland-Man-Son the way she was disagreeing to me wasn't a genuine "ok I see where your coming from" but more of a "passive aggressive" stand point. I don't have a problem with people disagreeing but the way she was doing it was moreso to gain control over what was said, how it should be said, and how she feels. Throughout the whole Convo she's (women with white T) is trying to make all these excuses for the women but yet it's a definitive thing with the Men. For instance the very beginning she was trying to control the flow of the Convo and dictate what feminine vs masculine was (which was flat out wrong) and then later on say "we explained what this particular thing is" when everyone as a collective didn't do that, she by herself did. Then multiple times when Eli explained something she would quickly try to rearrange what was being talked about. Even when she told Eli to his face "you need to be careful on what you say on your platform" at face value it may have looked sincere but it was very much so a hidden undertone of "stop talking about it like that and now specifically about Black Women". Through the whole thing it was clear to me she wasn't there for a genuine Convo but to catch Eli slipping so she can correct. It's the same thing that other women tried with Kevin Samuel's but tried to play sweet and koi
The counter argument for not successful yet vs not emotionally ready is that not being successful yet doesn’t mean you are bringing potential harm to the relationship. Not being emotionally ready can and will bring harm to the relationship.
"True, no discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but it is painful." That quote is from one of the most excellent teachers to ever live. People have gotten so soft that they can't stand the sting of truth. Sometimes what you want to hear isn't what you need to hear.
She is low-key in her feelings. Like how you going to come on somebody else's platform and tell them how they should be careful with their delivery I mean at the end of the day you can't care about people's feelings because it is what it is.
All 3 ladies on this episode showed once again why men are single and childless, why men are not get into relationships and marriages in America, why men are giving up and why men are leaving America to find women and make better lives for themselves
@@coreythomas3633 Why do black men think being masculine is only have “BBC” ? I’ve never heard my brothers or cousins say that having money is not important for masculinity, this is why I stay away from this manosphere space , plus I have a wife so advice on how to pick up women is irrelevant
I hate when woman try to defy what a high value man is without being checked… I liked how KS would explain the difference between high value man and a man of value… it’s the reality of the world
33:40 HYPERGAMY- the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background... LADIES WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHY WOMEN WANT A SUCCESSFUL MAN, HOWEVER MOST WOMEN DONT QUALIFY THE HIGH VALUE MEN YALL SEEK.
They dont even want successful men. They want HYPER successful men. If she making 40k and i make 80k, im more successful than her yet im broke to alot of women
@stacih1025 in reality most BW do Pratice hypergamy. That's the reason is so many bby mommas. We prioritize only finances and status vs character and morals. If BW PRIORITIZE TANGIBLE THINGS THEY WOULD HAVE BETTER AND LONGER LASTING RELATIONSHIPS.
We quick to but(t) heads cause we all hurt. Our community been thru too much recently (and still is currently) and the only thing we do is soldier on. When all humans need to rest their Mind, Body, and Soul occasionally for more positivity and productivity outputs, it is simply a law of nature.
These women are so traumatized they complain for the finer things in life they get it, then sabotage their own relationships. They need to struggle in life or relationship
That shit really ain't true....just people in large metro areas, mainly coastal..have a warped idea of what the world really is. Yall been trained to "need" certain things and to be in certain places.
I recently had to teach a foreign black lady what products to buy. People made a complaint about the smell in the supervisors embarrassed her in front of everybody. I felt it was disrespectful how they went about telling her. I asked myself if I if I came from another country how would I know what to buy. I got her some cocoa butter, pink oil moisturizer, and some Blue Magic. A couple weeks later she asked me to show her what I bought and that her husband loves it. Before that she was going to quit over the embarrassment.... last week she started greasing her scalp... it's easier for us because we grew up knowing what to buy
This be my problem with most women 1:04:15 the light skin woman just said most men don't provide or give that security for a woman to feel like she can just be a housewife and how other races got that then in the same breath say she had a good man that did everthing but she didn't want to be a housewife because she wanted more freedom and didn't want no kids or stay home lol I say this all the time most women are just looking for a good time not a long term relationship the age gap play apart but that's why it's funny when girls get mad at men dating younger women but it's cool for younger women to pursue older man for their resources lol 😂 the way some think is so backwards
MOST BLACK MEN say out of their oen mouths that they dont want to get married. Alot of women say out of their own mouths that men are telling them they arent looking for relationships. Its men who dont want to commit. If you think women dont want to commit, it must be because you dont have any options.
@@soundsaboutright--- everything she said was contradictory, she wants the freedom to do what she wants to do at the same time want a man to play his part and not hold her to her part, sounds like a contradiction to me and that most women nowadays. It annoying that our roles as man is i have to provide and protect but at the same i should allow my women to be free to do what she wants and i shouldnt make adhere to her role as women and also be ok with her leaving me coz she doesn't want to feel tied down, yeah i think us men need to change our roles since it become negotiable
@stacih1025 and most women aint wife able enough to be provided for. We can do this all day but what i said stands " one rule for you but not for me" that how most women move nowadays and to say otherwise is just being disingenuous
@22:00 - 22:15 when she said “thats not my job” that is a HUGE turn off for men. Why? Bc if masculinity is action and femininity is emotion, then the greatest qualities of masculinity are courage, bravery, etc; all things that preceed the greatest actions. What is the highest form of emotion?-EMPATHY. So to hear a “feminine” woman say “thats not my problem” about how a man feels is a HUGE RED FLAG when it comes to dating!
1:28:00 Spousal support ends when one partner dies, or receiving partner remarries. But also when receiving partner is cohabitating with a romantic partner , typically as man and wife. Laws differ per state. See an attorney to see what is defined as cohabitation (and length of tme) in your state. And if your case has merit. And for God's sake, don't let your ex know you are considering terminating spousal support! You are still on the hook for child support, unless they arent yours...if you have doubts, talk to your attorney about this too.
This debate is useless, the women in white was simply arguing; “BUT THE MEN ALSO”🥴 its like BW can’t be criticized unless BM are mentioned or criticized too. In her mind women are only gonna be submissive/feminine when men start becoming masculine, the men are saying we won’t date/marry you if you don’t start as a feminine/submissive woman. logically it has to start from the women, cus women are the gatekeepers of sex, since relationships start first with sex then commitment. She has to make the first sacrifice otherwise that VALUABLE man won’t date/marry her, then after she proves to him, he will prove to her why she should date him too, by courting her. After the relationship is solidified. She has to keep him, cus he can go find another one. Men’s standards aren’t as high as females, so he can replace you faster
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What I'm bringing to the table is provision, stability, guidance, leadership, strength, support, discipline, and when I ask a woman what she brings I'm talking about peace, support my stress relief after dealing with the outside world trying to rip me to shreds on a daily basis. Is she the one that's going to say it's ok you got this or, am I going to come home to nothing to eat, and have my woman coming at me sideways as well?
These chicks had more excuses than a pregnant 🤰🏽 nun. 🤦🏽♂️
They will be working until retirement with this mindset
😂😂😂
These females have more excuses than Bruce Jenner when he killed that white girl in a Mercedes with his Hummer.
😂
😆 😂😂
“I want him to help me focus on myself”😂😂😂😂 if that’s not the most narcissistic thing I’ve heard all year I don’t know😮
This is exactly the reason not to get into a relationship lmaoo
Yeah that shit was wild
It shows the requirements women really be having for the men they date. Then pick the men who are out in the streets expecting them to actually be the ones to fulfill those requirements, and when they don't, the rest of us get the blame for it, lol.
@@BLee09lmaooo
we really gotta retire the word narcissistic. Especially when it's used wrong.
What’s amazing to me is when Blk women say Blk men don’t protect them. When they keep voicing and their actions keep saying they don’t want our protection.
Pawns of feminism aren't B1...
I never heard a woman say she doesn't want a man's protection
We do want to be protected 😢
@@R0yALtySI think his point is a lot you all act as though you don't need men. I even hear black women say it often. Not needing one leads one to think you don't need his protection.
It's all about what they want IN THE MOMENT. give them everything they ask for and they'll desire something else.
💯
Black women will never run out of excuses.
For real, dam its annoying, you can't find common ground like that
N don't grow out of it
I need y’all to start checking these women, femininity is non negotiable
Exactly I’m so sick of them taking about their feminity has to be brought out of them by the right man makes no sense. Women I the past generations would get offended by just saying to a girl that they weren’t feminine it was an insult to them and they would go off on you
They do 😂. Some of these women just excel at verbal gymnastics and dodging the topics by subverting the conversation.
White shirt is a feminist, middle woman said 8 words, light skin woman likes to hear her own voice cuz none of her thoughts were coherent. I'm glad they weren't ratchet bc it proves that delusion, confusion, & bitterness aren't class based. Gentleman choose carefully & wisely...SMH
What does checking look like to you?
@@butterflymage5623slowing down the conversation and making a concise point. This never happens here, women make asinine claims and it’s usually overlooked or breezed passed!!!
Eli’s breakdown on the reasoning of “what you bring to the table?” deserves a gold plaque.
Only BM….smh
@@jmjenkins97 it’s not only black men. You clearly didn’t listen to what I’m referring to. Why would you disagree with it?
Some black women can't admit to just being a bad deal in relationships that they claim had to leave to work on themselves ⚠️
Agreed
So her calling him on his platform “this nigga” over and over is considered her being respectful but him calling women who sleep with men for money “prostitutes” is disrespectful? Make that make sense please.
Black people don’t care about the n word being used between other black ppl so stop it lol
One way aggression is acceptable
They gotta pin this comment
White top is the worst type of black woman
You can't. Clearly they want things to benefit them and be as harsh to men as possible.
"I can't worry about people's feelings, especially when it comes to women because they are very emotional. I'm not the type to walk on eggshells just to protect your feelings " I felt that💯
😂😂 she said she wants him to pay and work to take care of the house so she can focus on her business and grow her business 😂😂 these women are WILD
Behind WILD family 😂
This is why arguing with women is nonsense. They don't have the logic for it. Example: fight for the "right to make own money", begin dating a man who she THINKS she makes just as much money as, then leaves him when the feminine role and right to access masculine roles is too much but somehow doing it ALL on her own is easier than splitting the load with a decent man.
How does that make sense?
It doesn't... it's female nature...
It's greed/Hypergamy at it finest.
The prostitution Convo was funny. How this woman going to say what those women were “ trying to say”. 😂😂😂 they said what they wanted to say. Women swear they are the most educated but can’t articulate themselves well? 😂😂😂😂 Crazy. Thank yall for standing strong and not conforming because their feelings are hurt.
I was thinking the same lmao I was like so now college educated women can’t articulate their points? Give me your whole degree ma’am 🤣
Some of the dumbest things I heard women say. In addition to having ALL TYPES of excuses for those women lined up and ready. She didn't go up there in good faith to have a wholesome Convo with an exchange of opinions...she came on there to catch them slipping. You saw she had her Handy Dandy Notebook 📓 at the ready.
@@malik5531 😂😂😂. Yeah we gonna need that back. That education didnt earn you the degree for real 😂😂
@@kaimobley5324 at the ready 😂😂😂
This is why they got rid of “affirmative action” … the education ain’t translating to intelligence lol
She reaally justified leaving a good man ...delusion is incredible.
Had a driver, had all her bills paid, was able to save her money, never felt safer in her life and still left him and expects the same and better from the next man 😂 She hit the lottery and didn’t even realize it
@@malik5531 it's crazy
You can’t make this shit up
A good man in the middle east comes with controlling family members you don't have the same views as your good man. unless you're willing to be treated like crap by his family and her being a black woman she probably was going through it form his family, hence her missing home part..
She wanted power and she’s definitely not submissive she’s just fronting
The fact that she started off telling people how to perceive her was ironically masculine as hell😂😂
Yep these shows help me to rethink about relationships period it's gonna be a lot of call girls in the future
“I want him to pay for me to focus on myself” stay single
Lmaooo
That was fuckin wyld 😂
Man. Let them talk long enough and they’ll tell u everything u need to know!!
@@jhermaineharris2142it never fails.
So basically pay u to sit at home. This is wild. No way would I touch these selfish ass chicks
These ladies didn't acknowledge any statements made by other women. It was always “that's other women not us.”
They literally was trying to change the words of what other women say. "Oh she didn't mean to say it that way" huh? So when she say "F love I'm looking for a bag" she meant she's looking for a masculine leader that treats her right.. these women are wild and avoid accountability.
Women generalize men in situations but when it's something bad on women they single themselves out
i always say , pay attention to those women who say “ i can’t speak for all women “.
“That’s other men, not me”
“Not all men are the same”
“You should’ve chose better”
🤷🏽♂️
They’re unaccountable worldly children who have no relationship with the most high. They worship the things of this world and themselves. They will not be seeing the kingdom of god the way they’re going. These fools chose 5 million dollars over being in the presence of the most high. All Jezebels.
One of the very few groups that actually make sense when they talk. Keep up the work
Shout out to Eli and the gang not letting these women tone police them to death on their own podcast, because they don't like the blunt observations and conclusions men have come to due to a lot of women's behavior.
This nigga feminine bro stop it he lame just like ya.
Spot on 💯
@@rodm49 he soft and feminine ya INCELS are mad because these women dont respect ya. AND THEY SHOULDN'T SUBMIT TO YA.
Eli be projecting mad heavy in these podcasts
@@morganyu812no he doesn't
We need to stop trying to negotiate with modern women.
Exactly. Satan has them wrapped around his finger. These Jezebels are not worth the time & energy.
Exactly! Don't go back and forth with women. Either they're on your program or tell them to kick rocks.
Yeah like why do that?
Big boy facts I'm getting straight to the point every trip .
The problem with these types of conversations is that the idea of relationship is discussed from a transactional perspective and not from a doing life together with a partner. They are two very distinctive perspectives.
I’m so tired of women saying “Real Man” or “Real Woman”. I have yet to see AI out in the real world dating.
White shirt is a feminist. She will challenge your authority every step of the way. The narcissist manipulation would never stop. Not until the relationship breaks up
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Yup she's a chameleon. She tries to talk soft to make herself seem feminine, but she masculine b/c she "thinks" she's smarter than most men. Therefore she's going to disrespect every men she comes across unless, he's a top tier guy with a PHD or making a lot of money.
Don't take the woman who come on this show serious they are modern
@@truebengalsfan We as a people better take every one serious. They have children or will have children & they WILL put poison N theirs heads waaaay before the world gets a hold of them. They they will use the exact same language, "My DAD wasn't N my life"
A man that expect a woman to go 50/50 is a feminist smh
So we cant call prostitute actions...prostitute? That's like saying we can't call a dude wit no place to stay homeless..critical thinking is lost amongst women in my culture and its scary. Not even thru wit the episode but i had to point this out
I met 1 high value man in my life.He loved me and treated me really good.I was from the hood and he still wanted me 😢 he did work alot but made time for me.He lifted me up and taught me all the good things i know today.Hes proud of me ,he watched me grow.I thank him still today for showing what a man is 😢 i messed it up i can admit it. Ladies, they are out here, and he hated that i wore weave and nails ( its what i done for work a stylist" 😢 i feel bad for this generation 😢we all need healing men and women ❤
I believe this is a generation thing rather than a race thing. Sooo many people of our generation no matter race are going through the same relationship issues.
Say that one more time to the black men in the front...not sure why they think relationship issues are mainly black women when we live I'm this modern world. Sometimes these black dudes sound prejudiced against their own kind
I hate the whole race thing, they really act like black folks are the only ones who have dating troubles nowadays
True. Yt women are the most dangerous
Good point 🍁
“If your body is your highest asset, you will do some hoe shit”- 50 cent
Say whatever you want Eli. Don't be afraid to hurt feelings. Kevin Samuels didn't care and you shouldn't either. Feeling sometimes need to be hurt.............AND feelings can lie to you...... so F their feelings........ Facts over feelings everyday all day.....
Facts I need someone to summon godfather energy
It’s truth in this message
Right like Antwoine Daniels be saying I don’t give a damn about your feelings the facts speaks for itself. Don’t hold back on em cuz women don’t like the truth only the lies
These chicks were in their feelings playing mental gymnastics contradicting everything they said. SMH ridiculous 🤦🏽♂️
Well keep that same energy with ALL modern women, not just black women...you men sound prejudiced against your own kind!
Conversations like this is why I feel zero guilt when I pump in dump these women.
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The more you listen to these podcast. I see why men don't want to be in relationship anymore. It's better to just buy the cheeks and keep it moving.
The *ENTIRE BLACK COMMUNITY* has been hurt and is traumatized. We can no longer use our history as a shield against the recognition of our bad actions. Also, people are able to be better because of their trauma, not only worse. You can take that pain and use it to empower yourself.
Some black people want to be a forever victim
Bro that whole part was pissing me off I'm tired of hearing but " black women are soo hurt " so Is black men stop using that damn excuse
@@thefirstprime0124 I haven't watched the vid yet but FACTS! Especially, the non-toxic black men we BEEN hurting since the 70s! It's slim pickings outchea. Peace to you fam!
@kwaku9953 you feel me bro like wtf, like I get it that's we gotta heal together or on journey try to heal stop feeling sorry for ya damn self
@@truebengalsfanfacts
These women are demonstrating the exact problem with the current state of dating discourses now. The absence of shame and lack of accountability, the two girls on the ends not liking the terminology should hold they fellow girls accountable and they wouldn't seem like black women being "labeled as sex workers." She defend characters she don't even know, talk about delusional fr 😂 cuz how she know all them past women wasn't this (hypergamous) or that (bein masculine) they must be psychics too
These hoes are lost.
These women have no relationship experience..pooky and ray ray types mindset they will pick.😅😅😅
The lady in the black was treated like a queen in she still found an excuse to leave 😂😂
Duty and sacrifice vs it's about feelings
And she acts like she knows everything when her mouth opens you see she knows nothing
Hearing the biracial girl speak solidify that women do not know what they want had a good man it seems like she wanted some toxicity in her life and that’s why she left smh
Here's an example of a Woman's Hypergamous nature. She's dating 2 guys, one makes 60K a year and the other makes 120K per year! She chooses, the guy that has more security than the other guy. She still exhibits single behavior, posting sexy pics on IG for attention, displays herself as single when she's alone or out with friends. She's not married yet so in her mind she's still single. Although this woman has started dating this one man exclusively, she turns down other men that doesn't exhibit the level of security her man has, until the more handsome, more wealthy, athlete pulls up in an Aston Martin and tries to get her number, and then she caves and gives him the number. She sees a guy that has far more security than her man and she doesn't turn him down.
It doesn't have to be an athlete, it's just that the mext man is on a leveluch higher than the giy she's with and she continues the cycle until she reaches a level that she's comfortable with. Alot of women feels as though Men should know, expect, and be okay with this..... But don't let a man operate on his nature to want to sleep with more than one woman while dating 😂
I'll never forget I curved an athlete for my boyfriend who ended up cheating on me. Don't ever go against your nature. Level up.
It is always odd to me that during the dating phase men are to watch and observe while also footing the bill
Stay woke lol
BM…we know you don’t understand ALOT of things about how REAL men seeking POWER move in the world. I’m sure this comment will go over your head but that only explains why black men in the diaspora has allowed their own race to be where it has been for centuries
@@TheBlackGeoI thought you can tell by the energy of a woman if she's feminine. So shouldn't that be enough for you to know if she's wife material? IJS🤷♀️
It's unfortunate during this dating Era that men and women don't date exclusively for a purpose other than speed dating because if it was like the past...well, yes, men should foot the bill, but it gets really expensive if your dating 2 -3 times per day on a daily basis. Back in the day, you'd date 3 women and settle with one....in that case footing the bill ain't an issue, which it shouldn't be.
@@DailyRapUpCrewWhat is it a man needs to “stay woke” about? If as a man you are choosing a woman based upon the standards you have set for the type of partner you desire, why stay to the point that you over invest.
59:59 he paid all the bills, gave her the option to work and it still wasnt enuff, the women are far beyond repair
These conversations are not going anywhere. Either they are pure comedy or frustration to the fullest. 😂😂😂
exactly waits of time just take it as entertainment at this point bro
I only tune I when I need a good laugh, or to refuel my cynic gague.. these type of videos nd convos are actaully sad
Men can make 30k a year and go overseas and date a super model
Super models ? Just bc they look better than the women yall are able to pull in a first world country , doesnt make them super models. And yall say women are delusional 😂
This is a lose lose situation. There's not enough time on earth to fight up stream just to find happiness with modern black women. They want everything but want to give nothing. It's not worth it. Go abroad. This is too insane
This is American western culture. BW are just upfront with the feminist idealogy
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Go Africa ! Game changer
Any logical man can see they're a absolute waste of time, money, mental, and physical energy.
"So you saying being feminine should be natural".....aaaaaa duhhhhhh!
The root of the problem is both men and women don't want to put more then 50% and are ready to call it quits , because to much emotions not enough commitment.
The fact these women didn't have enough sense to realize that just bcus you're spending 5 minutes with Jesus doesn't mean you're out right dead in addition to the fact they care more about money than their immortal soul is crazy
Exactly... I choose Jesus
Super crazy😂
Thank you. It can't b just me
I've been tuned into this podcast for a few months now and this is the first time I'm commenting. This was def one of y'all better episodes. Keep grinding
I feel like this is probably the worst. These women are very uneducated and didn’t pull off a good conversation to meet in the middle. Too much emotion. But these guys did stand on their toes to keep them in check
These topics are circular conversations. I tune in off and on and I noticed the hosts and their female guests cover the same topics repeatedly. They literally just parade out different women and hold the SAME conversation for each show.
I genuinely don’t understand comments like this the podcast is about relationships between men and women. What else could they talk about
This was a good podcast. Ms. Brownstone, you did your thing once again. Shoutout the everyone on this podcast as well , it was a good conversation.
Only Black History ignored by Blacks...
THE NEGR0 PROJECT:
*38% of Black pregnancies are aborted, over 50% in NYC. BW are by far most overweight, least married, most in debt, and 78% of their children have no Dad by DESIGN.
THE NEGR0 PROJECT is now called Planned Parenthood💥 The Welfare Act finished the job of destroying the Black Family.
1854 founded to STOP SLAVERY...
Republican Party
1860 founded to KEEP SLAVERY...
Democrat Party
Republicans literally beat the Democrats in the Civil War in 1865.
"we want to exterminate the Negro population.”
-Margaret Sanger, founder of THE NEGR0 PROJECT/Planned Parenthood & a Democrat.
See the Democrat's plan yet?
Why is she trying to tell Eli what the saying? How to say it? This is ridiculous. This man can say what he want to say. He's a grown man. See I'm tired of women doing this foolishness. When is this going to stop?
Hyena mindset isn't about being a helpmeet...it's nit going to stop in a enabling environment
How can it be 50/50 if the man pays the mortgage (the biggest bill) and the women pays the smaller bills? 😂😂
good point
I guess she was saying like contributing financially period …not EXACTLY 50/50 ..and theirs nothin wrong with that .. especially if it’s a chance the man probably would most likely make more than her anyway
That where relationships go wrong. It’s never 50/50. It’s either 100/100 or nothing at all. Both parties should be giving their all, period. 🤷🏽♂️
That's cuz some women don't think bruh. A lot of women will carry this notion that women aren't supposed to work or contribute as much but all of human history will prove opposite. There is no 50/50, you contribute as much as the house and family needs.
@@radiantgoldensun6438please explain 100/100 when the man and the woman are not making the same salary? This make no sense. Your ancestors did not think like you.
These kinds of woman need a convo with the last people that were interviewd. The married couples. Wanna see how that goes.
Heavy on the compassion black men and women need to have grace and compassion for each other. Check yourself individually to make sure you're healed and come together and build eachother up.
The woman in the blue shirt will make a man stay in his car a extra hour in the driveway smh
lmao
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I've watched about 3 of your show's i like it alot. Just because we in the comments give our opinion don't mean we didn't enjoy what your talking about, we do ❤❤❤ and ill always hit like ,these are important conversations very needed.
Thanks for your support and kind words! I'm glad you're enjoying the content.
That Brownstowne chick is part of the problem. She doesn’t want to work but has so much to say. Women back in the day, stayed at home & understood that biting their tongue came with being taken care of.
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The thing is that woman back in the day HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO OBEY A MAN. Men now a days don't understand that us woman has a choice to live the life they pleased to do!!
Didn’t understand what Kevin Samuels mean when he said modern women are lazy…. And now I do…. Plus delusional with expectations
This is probably one of the most productive discussions I have seen on this channel
That mean you ain’t watching enough episodes lol nah appreciate you tuning in
The differences between men and women in relationships are that women want choices to do what they want to be happy and men simply don’t have 1:18:49 choices they must provide , protect and help within the household every day regardless of his individual happiness. He is head of the household and must act accordingly to solve every problem within his family and come up with solutions to many problems for every member of his household. It’s never was a choice it’s his responsibility.
Good conversation fellas keep representing the bros well
Wife duties, To be a good Wife and Mother you must listen and provide needs not wants.
Non-negotiable:
Respectful= prioritize him over everyone. treat him the way you would treat your grandparents.
Cooperative=ask questions provide information
Wife duty #1
Companion=Be a joy to spend time with
Shorty’s example of feminine energy was wild.
It was nonsense
This trauma bs amongst the black community is getting old. I’m a black male attending medical school and I’m living a great life. I’m happy where I am currently. I worked hard. Trauma just seems like an excuse.
Interesting, are u in therapy or counseling ??
Funny how most men live on their own. Pay their own bills. And provide their own meals and clean their homes. But we still aren't doing enough for our women. Lol😅
She played that nigga lmfao all you gotta do is listen fellas these women be lying with a straight face. Talking about they want a provider 😂 😂
Yo that light skin chick is a smart ass 😂
I thought it was just me. She sounds smart but ain’t really sayin shit
Bi racial are problematic
I don’t even look at conventionally attractive women the same way I did the more they reveal themselves
Ms.Brownstone is the voice I’ve been wanting to hear to represent women in these settings. Def subscribed and followed after this
Basically They Want A Man To Come In and get on Their Program and Sponsor Them
Yep you got it lol
I love the way she disagrees. Her tone is not aggressive or combative
which woman are you referring to?
@DailyRapUpCrew the one on the left.
@@Maryland-Man-SonThis is sarcasm right?
@@kaimobley5324 Explain friend...what's on your mind
@@Maryland-Man-Son the way she was disagreeing to me wasn't a genuine "ok I see where your coming from" but more of a "passive aggressive" stand point. I don't have a problem with people disagreeing but the way she was doing it was moreso to gain control over what was said, how it should be said, and how she feels.
Throughout the whole Convo she's (women with white T) is trying to make all these excuses for the women but yet it's a definitive thing with the Men. For instance the very beginning she was trying to control the flow of the Convo and dictate what feminine vs masculine was (which was flat out wrong) and then later on say "we explained what this particular thing is" when everyone as a collective didn't do that, she by herself did. Then multiple times when Eli explained something she would quickly try to rearrange what was being talked about. Even when she told Eli to his face "you need to be careful on what you say on your platform" at face value it may have looked sincere but it was very much so a hidden undertone of "stop talking about it like that and now specifically about Black Women".
Through the whole thing it was clear to me she wasn't there for a genuine Convo but to catch Eli slipping so she can correct. It's the same thing that other women tried with Kevin Samuel's but tried to play sweet and koi
Shawty came out the gate sounding stupid with that question lmao
The counter argument for not successful yet vs not emotionally ready is that not being successful yet doesn’t mean you are bringing potential harm to the relationship. Not being emotionally ready can and will bring harm to the relationship.
These women will literally find any excuse to blame men for anything instead of sticking to the topic and being held accountable which is sad.
Shawty came wit an agenda… SIGN language..
"True, no discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but it is painful." That quote is from one of the most excellent teachers to ever live. People have gotten so soft that they can't stand the sting of truth. Sometimes what you want to hear isn't what you need to hear.
crazy how they made it out to be how you deliver the message rather then what the message actually says.
Facts
She is low-key in her feelings. Like how you going to come on somebody else's platform and tell them how they should be careful with their delivery I mean at the end of the day you can't care about people's feelings because it is what it is.
These women are using outliers as regular talking points.
All women do that.
All 3 ladies on this episode showed once again why men are single and childless, why men are not get into relationships and marriages in America, why men are giving up and why men are leaving America to find women and make better lives for themselves
I LOVE when yall guys stand your ground.
1:17:09 they're really trying to equate NATURAL femininity to making an extraordinary amount of money as a black man in America. 😂
Black men arè feminine they no that that why they dont respect ya.
Yeah Bc masculinity is being a provider
@@really8704 EXACTLY THEY DON'T GET IT.
Making a lot of money is equivalent to being a natural leader and ambitious, natural qualities of a good man 🤷🏽♂️
@@coreythomas3633 Why do black men think being masculine is only have “BBC” ? I’ve never heard my brothers or cousins say that having money is not important for masculinity, this is why I stay away from this manosphere space , plus I have a wife so advice on how to pick up women is irrelevant
All I'm hearing is well not all women or everyone is different and it's not about this and that, smh.
Thank you !!!!!
PIVOTING AND DEFLECTING AS USUAL
We still having these conversations
I hate when woman try to defy what a high value man is without being checked… I liked how KS would explain the difference between high value man and a man of value… it’s the reality of the world
This your daughter? You raised a str8 dummy
Shout out to the ladies for not being ratchet
Truth 🔥
Ikr but what does that say about how low the bar is when we have to give props to women for not conducting themselves as ratchets.
@@jasonwolfe3252 the bar is low. Okay now let’s move forward
It was getting there 😅
@@themajorminoritieslol the bar is on the ground
Bruh home girl in the white specifically came on the podcast for Eli 😂
1:19:20 the way I had the same physical reaction as all the other guys says all we need to know 😂
😂🤣😂🤣😂 they was done after that
Remember it's not all about your money, but it's about money.
33:40 HYPERGAMY- the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background... LADIES WE CAN UNDERSTAND WHY WOMEN WANT A SUCCESSFUL MAN, HOWEVER MOST WOMEN DONT QUALIFY THE HIGH VALUE MEN YALL SEEK.
Exactly
They dont even want successful men. They want HYPER successful men. If she making 40k and i make 80k, im more successful than her yet im broke to alot of women
The reality is most bw aren't actually practicing hypergamy. They never really have. If they didn't most bm would never even get a date.
Thats valid. Just like BW wouldn't stand a chance if BM werent willing to be 'stepdads'
@stacih1025 in reality most BW do Pratice hypergamy. That's the reason is so many bby mommas. We prioritize only finances and status vs character and morals. If BW PRIORITIZE TANGIBLE THINGS THEY WOULD HAVE BETTER AND LONGER LASTING RELATIONSHIPS.
These women need to marry each other, maybe then they can see how ridiculous they sound…….
We quick to but(t) heads cause we all hurt. Our community been thru too much recently (and still is currently) and the only thing we do is soldier on. When all humans need to rest their Mind, Body, and Soul occasionally for more positivity and productivity outputs, it is simply a law of nature.
Feminine energy is breathing life into something, masculine energy is sustaining life
These women are so traumatized they complain for the finer things in life they get it, then sabotage their own relationships. They need to struggle in life or relationship
Bro In the time we are living One Income is not enough anymore u need to have two incomes
That shit really ain't true....just people in large metro areas, mainly coastal..have a warped idea of what the world really is. Yall been trained to "need" certain things and to be in certain places.
That opening conversation I’ve been in that situation, and the female will always leave even if you proved yourself before getting down on your luck.
I recently had to teach a foreign black lady what products to buy. People made a complaint about the smell in the supervisors embarrassed her in front of everybody. I felt it was disrespectful how they went about telling her.
I asked myself if I if I came from another country how would I know what to buy. I got her some cocoa butter, pink oil moisturizer, and some Blue Magic. A couple weeks later she asked me to show her what I bought and that her husband loves it. Before that she was going to quit over the embarrassment.... last week she started greasing her scalp... it's easier for us because we grew up knowing what to buy
Very good episode per usual. Keep these topics going. I love the delivery.
More to come!
This be my problem with most women 1:04:15 the light skin woman just said most men don't provide or give that security for a woman to feel like she can just be a housewife and how other races got that then in the same breath say she had a good man that did everthing but she didn't want to be a housewife because she wanted more freedom and didn't want no kids or stay home lol
I say this all the time most women are just looking for a good time not a long term relationship the age gap play apart but that's why it's funny when girls get mad at men dating younger women but it's cool for younger women to pursue older man for their resources lol 😂 the way some think is so backwards
Nothing she said was contradictory. Even though sure may not aspire to stay at home, most black men can't provide that type of lifestyle anyway
MOST BLACK MEN say out of their oen mouths that they dont want to get married. Alot of women say out of their own mouths that men are telling them they arent looking for relationships. Its men who dont want to commit. If you think women dont want to commit, it must be because you dont have any options.
@@soundsaboutright--- everything she said was contradictory, she wants the freedom to do what she wants to do at the same time want a man to play his part and not hold her to her part, sounds like a contradiction to me and that most women nowadays. It annoying that our roles as man is i have to provide and protect but at the same i should allow my women to be free to do what she wants and i shouldnt make adhere to her role as women and also be ok with her leaving me coz she doesn't want to feel tied down, yeah i think us men need to change our roles since it become negotiable
@@cett4scorpio973 most men not being able to afford a housewife is separate of her personal desire to be a housewife
@stacih1025 and most women aint wife able enough to be provided for. We can do this all day but what i said stands " one rule for you but not for me" that how most women move nowadays and to say otherwise is just being disingenuous
@22:00 - 22:15 when she said “thats not my job” that is a HUGE turn off for men. Why? Bc if masculinity is action and femininity is emotion, then the greatest qualities of masculinity are courage, bravery, etc; all things that preceed the greatest actions. What is the highest form of emotion?-EMPATHY. So to hear a “feminine” woman say “thats not my problem” about how a man feels is a HUGE RED FLAG when it comes to dating!
1:28:00 Spousal support ends when one partner dies, or receiving partner remarries.
But also when receiving partner is cohabitating with a romantic partner , typically as man and wife.
Laws differ per state.
See an attorney to see what is defined as cohabitation (and length of tme) in your state. And if your case has merit.
And for God's sake, don't let your ex know you are considering terminating spousal support!
You are still on the hook for child support, unless they arent yours...if you have doubts, talk to your attorney about this too.
This debate is useless, the women in white was simply arguing; “BUT THE MEN ALSO”🥴 its like BW can’t be criticized unless BM are mentioned or criticized too. In her mind women are only gonna be submissive/feminine when men start becoming masculine, the men are saying we won’t date/marry you if you don’t start as a feminine/submissive woman. logically it has to start from the women, cus women are the gatekeepers of sex, since relationships start first with sex then commitment. She has to make the first sacrifice otherwise that VALUABLE man won’t date/marry her, then after she proves to him, he will prove to her why she should date him too, by courting her. After the relationship is solidified. She has to keep him, cus he can go find another one. Men’s standards aren’t as high as females, so he can replace you faster
Environment in the mainstream doesn't critique women.....that breeds entitlement and a beyond reproach mindset