girl 😭 it really is terrible. the one girl in the middle even tried to refer to racial profiling to prove her own delusion & be right even tho it did not correlate or make sense. “it’s giving some one hurt me and i’m bitter” ... they are so mean & ugly. complete insanity from all of them . no lie its creepy.
Sorry to say it but the hypocrisy is very real. The women expect a standard but don't want to play within the parameters they set. This is why men ask the questions they are nowadays.. don't stop asking either! Every female has a vagina, it's not enough anymore.
@Louis Vanguard Thank you! the 2019 American Community Survey, notes that men are now more likely to be single than women, which was not the case 30 years ago. Black people are much more likely to be single (59%) than any other race, and Black women (62%) are the most likely to be single of any sector. Asian people (29%) are the least likely to be single, followed by whites (33%) and Hispanics (38%).
@@demoney6199 Don't worry those numbers will rocket up, shit is fucked up I see those numbers going up to 60% for whites and about 70 % for blacks, Asians and Hispanics have stronger cultural values so those will probably peak at 45% , but shits fucked up and only getting worse
I'm a woman and I encourage men to RUN from these women. I also encourage these men on the show to bring feminine and respectful women to join the show because these females were rude.
Please please please, don’t bring ignorant women on anymore!!! This was sad to WATCH as a BLACK WOMAN. And the trip part is they don’t see anything wrong. This shouldn’t be the norm..
Honestly, I don't see that as the main problem... I think they should really just take the Fresh n Fit approach and shutdown the disrespect. They kept trying to speak over them and being disrespectful off rip.
@@notmyregret Fresh and fit aint it lol... those dweebs don't know anything about women... It's entertaining to watch, but it's not realistic. Those women on their show are those lil city girls twerking on Instagram type. They'll accept any sort of treatment to get on that show and get a couple likes on tiktok or whatever as a result of it. Trust me that they dont speak to women like that outside of their podcast. ... and even if they did ... its not right. Im not saying to accept disrespect from anyone especially a woman, as a man ... but there's ways to put them in check without throwing a whole temper tantrum and going into a whole other pretend persona and all that loud scenery.
Women and men think differently in general, and he asked the question. Why they get offended with the table question and she answered. Asking that question only sets you up to be lied to, once women figure out the “right” answers. They will play the role and eventually switch up. This is known to the older generation but modern men seem to be going back to that way of thinking. Women generally aren’t logical planners in nature.
@@brayon7ook But that's the PROBLEM...this type of woman is not the exception. It is extremely common and they are too proud, obstinate, masculine, and yes vain to be told anything. Black women more than any other group act as if they are above critique. You can't tell them ANYTHING. Nothing. Everything is a requiem for a fight or argument. So the real question is, why bother?
As a woman this was painful to watch. I am a stay at home mum of 2 small children and my husband provides a very comfortable life for us. So I can stay at home with our children and he goes above and beyond for us.. how are you gonna tell me THAT isn't the real definition of a prize? He never asked me about money. (I was a student when we met and he was working) I am truly blessed and knowing his personality if I was as combative and exhausting as these women he would have ghosted me within a week of us dating. Peace is crucial in a successful relationship.
Let us all pray that you never change, and he remains able to support you in the lifestyle which you've become accustomed. Because if you ever decide that you aren't happy and want s divorce, you will destroy him. And with this in mind, I don't see you lobbying to remove the unbalanced advantages that women enjoy when relationships end, then consider that you are doing the future a disservice by removing the incentive for men to engage with you in the beginning.
@Nel G Lol.. clearly you missed the part where I said I raise our children and take care of our home which is a full time job. We take care of each other in opposite ways but that's our business. I don't owe a random stranger on the internet an explanation of my marriage.
@@kikim9231 I see what you mean, but you didn’t answer the question. Let’s say he asked that because something happened to his friend, and wants to make his heart feel at ease. Would you nag him and take offense or would you do it to make him feel at ease? Besides, I know Muslim women who cheated and had kids from different men who weren’t their husbands.
I'm a woman and sheesh this was hard to watch. These women were annoying. It was like listening to a heckler at a comedy show. Like just calm down and listen
And what are good women doing to actively correct these women? How many women are lobbying to disarm the laws which punish men for engaging with women? Because women who complain, but do nothing to change the situation are a part of the problem, not the solution.
Look at the confidence they display, because in their minds they are in high demand, and they are winning in life. This is exactly like the guy who decides to sprint out the box as fast as he can while running a marathon, thinking to himself he got this because he is blocks ahead of the rest! Watch how bitter and mad they will become once they hit the wall and they no longer have a body to offer the world.
I am trying to get through this to truly find some type of understanding, inner standing and 🤷🏾♀️🥴🤦🏾♀️ as a black women, I feel so sorry for you men who deal with this….I tell my brothers all the time to just stay on their purpose because this dating scene rn is 🥴🫠 these women don’t even understand themselves🤦🏾♀️nor want to…
🤦🏾♀️They just want to argue an opposite point. They can't even stick with a solid POV without instantaneous switching sides only for the sake of right-fighting. These women can talk in circles until they pass out.
Relationships are reciprocal, we both must bring value so that we are not leeching off the other person. Especially when you are considering a long term relationship ❤️
Bro the girl in the middle contradicted herself SO MUCH LOL. She said that she looks for a man to reciprocate at least the same level as her but then goes on to say she can be selectively traditional while her man ALWAYS has to be traditional 🤦🏽♂️
Middle Girl " Take your time and get to know me and FIGURE OUT what it is I bring " lol oh so its like a mystery? I have to figure it out . When she said " we dont want to answer it" she's definitely telling you what she brings to the table. Conflict, uncooperativeness, deflection, and contention lol . It's a buffet really. Great composure to the gentlemen.
Mystery? Isn't that the point in getting to know someone, going on dates and collecting 'data'. Both women and men can evaluate each other with conversation and have the right to decide if that person is right for them. I do agree that she was combative but actions and patterns will always speak louder than asking someone what they bring to the table.
@@relleyy It is . ( the point in getting to know someone) I agree. I assure you its not a willful or legitimate 'dense' as it is me being facetious or sarcastic. I thought an "lol" at the beginning of it would signal in that direction but thats on me . To be fully serious, I think we (society) in our actual dating situations , it is highly unlikely that "what do you bring to the table?" is a persons opening line to someone who they had an initial attraction to. I think the guys were inferring the question more in the social discourse context of men and women in the public forum of dating topics. I dont think a woman sits down and asks " So do you make 6 figures and have good benefits ? " either. The question really is " what qualities do you think you possess that a man would see you as an asset ?" Thats the podcast question . But I agree w/ everything you said
She wants you to find out what she brings too late and way into already investing in her to want to walk away. How the hell can you fast track the getting to know process. Wtf do they thing questions are? If that's the case, you can wait for almost anything to come up in conversation over the years without asking on a date, WHICH IS A DAMN INTERVIEW TO BEGIN WITH.
This is the most annoying thing about talking with certain women...Instead of just addressing the question and answering rationally. They just respond in the most nonsensical way... Just for the sake of responding and trying to be right 🤦🏾♂️
I'm a woman myself and this group of women were just on a level that was just too much and embarrassing. Their personalities were very unattractive, I can see what men mean. I think it's because they are all friends, so they have the same mindset. Not all women are like this fellas 😂😁
I know all of you aren't like this. In the same way we men need to hold other men accountable, y'all need to do the same. Especially since it's so triggering when we attempt to. Can't even ask simple questions.
I found your show today and have been watching it for hrs. I love the topics. This specific ep was not straight forward enough. That bring to the table question shouldn’t be that difficult to answer. This is a table talk with open conversation. Come one ladies
Asking a man what kind of work he does is asking him what he brings to the table' but men gotta waist his time ,resources and sanity to get to know what you bring to the table. ITS A SOLID NO FOR ME!!
The question went over their heads! The men weren’t asking them what do they themselves bring to the table, they asked “why do most women get upset when asked that question” but in their brain, because women only hear what they want to hear, all they heard was “what do you bring to the table” and based on that got triggered!
Topic husband: She said a woman can find a man anywhere. He didn't reference any man. He referenced a husband. She didn't get it. Now I know why I am single & make my own money. "I don't negotiate with terrorists" 🤣😂
Girl I was like all these girls are slow. How you willingly took care of a "bum nigga" and then blame him, sis you know you could leave right, your not held hostage.
@@MexIndio1 facts, thing is she the type to completely switch up her attitude for a bum nigga that hit it right. And she think men ain't shit cause none of them stay the night.
This is a prime example of only listening to respond. Cudos to all three men having damn near an hour worth of patience dealing with these type of women. Lord help us all lol
After they hit the wall and tell the story, they will paint it as guys using them for their pussy but not wanting to marry them. Not realizing that all high value men who see them would stay clear away from them.
Man: When should a woman start paying for dates? Woman: Do you want a traditional relationship Man: Are you a virgin Woman: No Man: Sorry you don't qualify for the traditional relationship package! 🤣🤣🤣
I wish I was skilled in dodging questions effectively while also shaming the person asking the question, it’s a true gift of being single and having a 25-26% marriage rate
Man! You guys have some super saiyan patience! These females we’re doing some record breaking mental gymnastics!! The delusion and deflection were strong!!!
I’m so grateful we’ve got to experience Kevin Samuels for the short amount of time we’ve had him. Everything in this video are things he’s already exposed us to, broken it down and shows us how to avoid these types of women. He’s unveiled an ugly truth about modern Black Women. Any man who’s willing to date or procreate with women like this are absolute fools and whatever they have to deal with you deserve it. You’ve been warned. You’ve seen the danger. You know the red flags when you see it. It’s your legacy. It’s your life. Choose wisely.
These girls were all 🧢 it was so frustrating and cringe to see all the deflections and lack of accountability. At times it was hard to listen to when everyone was talking over each other. Besides that, this was an entertaining show
@@ageofechochambers9469 Definitely. I've asked this question in a past relationship and got the exact same style of answering. But they swear theyre sooo "oppressed and exhausted" like alright exhausted....from existing I guess 😂
I think that they bring up a valid point, if you are being triggered by the question “ what do you bring to the table” you should self reflect. I think that accountability brings you many things, like the opportunity to leave the situation for one. The thing is it may not mean nothing to her because she may have attachment issues.
I absolutely love how women use the "YOU asked me/YOU approached me" reply when said women know the game is rigged/rarely approach men.... yet now, we see numerous women make complaints about how men no longer approach or even demand that men ask them out and approach. Perfect example of vacillation of either point that garners the most power.
It's a simple list..men don't require much... NUMBER 1 RULE: DON'T BE A HEADACHE 😩😤!!! The world is on his shoulders, be his peace 😌of mind when he comes around/home...greet your man EVERYTIME he walks through that door!!! Ask him about his day(don't nag about your BS )... I'll ask my man, "you want me to run your shower bae?...You want me to go ahead and have your plate ready when you get out or you wna chill and settle a bit?"...Labor job working man, RUB HIS FEET AND LISTEN TO HIM ABOUT HIS DAY AND PASS THE REMOTE.... ONCE THAT'S DONE, GO OFF AND LET HIM HAVE HIS BREATHING ROOM ALONE...DONT CUDDLE, HE WNA CHILL...THANK HIM FROM TIME TO TIME FOR BEING A GOOD MAN TO YOU (NOT JUST WHEN YOU'RE RECEIVING GIFTS😒)... PLEASING HIM IS A MUST (SURPRISE HIM, CANDLES...GREET HIM AT THA DOOR IN SMTG VICTORIA SECRET).. BE HIS BEST FRIEND (GOTTA KNKW HOW TO HAVE FUN) JUST BE LADY AT ALL TIMES, HOW YOU GOT HIM IS HOW YOU KEEP HIM (MEN HATE BONNETS😣, SO SNEEK DAT ISH ON WHEN HE SLEEP, BUT IN THA A.M, SNATCH IT OFF!!). BOTTOM LINE LEARN WHATCHA MAN LIKE, BUT MOST LIKE THA SAME THING🤷🏽♀️
The fact that they can't even answer the question shows you exactly what they going to bring to the table once you get past the physical attraction attitude and frustration is all you will receive out of women like this once you get past the physical attraction and then been there and done that they have absolutely nothing to bring to the table even if they do have money and status
I don’t think the women realized the fellas were having a discussion based around MARRIAGE. They answered everything based on basic boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.
My version: "What are a few things that make you stand out from other women?" 90% deflect with - "Get to know me and find out." or "What do you have to offer?" When I press it back and they try to debate me like these women here, my response is : "Say I'm car shopping. One may catch my eye. But I can't buy until I know what bonus features it has right?" ***The harsh reality is most women get triggered because deep down they know they get by on looks and sexual access. Even these women here tried to frame it with "You liked what you saw so why do you need to know?"
And that’s the bottom line. These women don’t know how to be wives. They believe that they are the prize, specifically their vagina. And they believe that because they have been raised to believe that all men care about is sexual gratification and physical beauty.
Words are useful when thoughtful. When having such discussions, I think it vital to lay out the ground rules for the platform. The ladies on the panel couldn't concede that the point of the panel was for the benefit of the majority which is obtained through generalization. Even if these ladies were celebrities which they aren't why would the questions be about their anecdotal opinions based on individual experiences. Everybody who has struggle feels the depth of their own despair.
Sad thing about this is that it’s not just American women who think this way…I don’t live in America and there’s a struggle in my country with these type of woman as well it seems to be a new age thing were women want everything and have nothing to offer and think they are the prize because they have a nice body good looks…I love my black women always have always will but digging through the dirt to find a gem is tiresome…broke women calling men who have a decent job but not the flashy lifestyle bums because he can’t proved the things for her that she can’t even provide for herself
Based off the logic the ladies gave about men lying about what they bring to the table tells me women don’t like the question because that comes wit some accountability and some women don’t like accountability
To the girl in the middle talking bout being poised, it’s feels like she “acts poised” but really ain’t, it’s like a “humble” person who constantly tells people that they are humble
1)As a female(btdubz some prefer the bio title)... Total headcanon on my part lol but to answer the first question(Why do women get offended at the "what do you bring to the table?")...I dnt think women are offended by the question... I think the idea men now are actually questioning things and or wanting the basic things some claim to want as a woman, is offensive to them.. Like how dare they question a person they're interested in the same way you do? 🤔 2) Homegirl in the middle was conflating the whole table and bed thing nd I think she was takin literally while not really answering the question Lastly, would love to see some women on these podcasts with some type of self awareness nd nuance to bring to these convos.. Most the time its jst the women either conflating points, straight up not listening to the question... or saying they dnt "personally" do the things they perpetuate 🤦🏾♀️
This was one of not the worst set of females y'all had on this podcast. No accountability, the need to be right, too much attitude, regurgitated remarks, insults, deflection, moving goal post, cutting off and talking over y'all.... Damn near everything that a male would usually shut down or go off on.
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On behalf of Black women with sense… I’m sorry y’all 😔💔 I didn’t realize how rough it was for men to deal with some women
This is amazing for real. I'm glad in my real life women like this might get a 5 min convo then I would notice all this bs lol.
Agreed. It was awful. Like watching a car wreck. You're sickened and watch anyway.
Hope is still alive thank you 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@Sherainne what do you bring to the table?
girl 😭 it really is terrible. the one girl in the middle even tried to refer to racial profiling to prove her own delusion & be right even tho it did not correlate or make sense. “it’s giving some one hurt me and i’m bitter” ... they are so mean & ugly. complete insanity from all of them . no lie its creepy.
They fully showed what they bring to the table. STRESS.
Exactly
I DONT WANT PEACE, I WANT PROBLEMS
And anxiety…
Factzzzzzz
Very much so . They all under 5 and sound like that . Good luck 🤣
Kevin Samuels: shame, insult, guilt and the need to be right. Smh
Deadass
🎯
💯% accuracy!!
Facts
Happens every time.
The middle woman is a perfect example of what you don’t wanna get yourself into❗️❗️
I was thinking the same thing! 🤦🏿
@@cane.d6589 real fucking weirdo fasho
I would love to see a 10 year update on theses ladies to see where they are in life.
Frfr
Living in the streets...trying to get that 20 bucks from you again
no fuking where just fatter with more kids and more baby daddies.
😂😂😂😂😂😂i sure would
This is it
Home girl in the middle: Don't ask me what I bring to the table
5 mins later: Do you have a job?
And a million more questions
Right! The hypocrisy is real!
After she contradicted her stance of women shouldn't pay for first dates with women are risking their finances XD
2mins 45seconds in and a woman has already summed up female value as purely sexual.
😂😂
The women literally listened just to respond and fight every question.
No accountability smh every question has been a fight
@@joaquinnelson4976 I love black women but they're not helping the case lol
@@JanuaryXVII lol I’m still listening but it’s the one in the middle doing a lot lol
@@JanuaryXVII you notice their response everytime was some type of shaming language to shit on men
Sorry to say it but the hypocrisy is very real. The women expect a standard but don't want to play within the parameters they set. This is why men ask the questions they are nowadays.. don't stop asking either! Every female has a vagina, it's not enough anymore.
Wow!!
I’m so sorry that our true black kings have to deal with this.
Kudos to you guys for holding it down.
Thank you.
And we apologize to our black queens they have to deal with fuckboys and bums. Best we can fo is avoid these scumbags together
Appreciate you this is really annoying and irritating
“My character flaw is that I’m too nice”
-Female accountability in 2022 😂😂
There's a reason why so many Black Women never get chosen by men
Facts…data says they’re the most single in America
There are so many good black women out there. Don’t let these women ruin your perception by fellas.
@Louis Vanguard Thank you!
the 2019 American Community Survey, notes that men are now more likely to be single than women, which was not the case 30 years ago. Black people are much more likely to be single (59%) than any other race, and Black women (62%) are the most likely to be single of any sector. Asian people (29%) are the least likely to be single, followed by whites (33%) and Hispanics (38%).
@@TheMainMan364 bruhh i definitely agree with you 💯
@@demoney6199 Don't worry those numbers will rocket up, shit is fucked up I see those numbers going up to 60% for whites and about 70 % for blacks, Asians and Hispanics have stronger cultural values so those will probably peak at 45% , but shits fucked up and only getting worse
I'm a woman and I encourage men to RUN from these women. I also encourage these men on the show to bring feminine and respectful women to join the show because these females were rude.
MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY. DON'T ENTERTAIN STUPIDITY.
Literally run!!!
Extremely rude
Thank you, you give men hope.
@@SweetJoye I agree girl, I don’t see the problem with the question, you can ask it back lol.
Very painful conversation 🥲
Shoutout to you guys! I would’ve cut it short.
I sincerely applaud yall
They gone get they money outta these ones lol
Boy ain't no way...Bless y'all heart brothers for lasting this long.
Please please please, don’t bring ignorant women on anymore!!! This was sad to WATCH as a BLACK WOMAN. And the trip part is they don’t see anything wrong. This shouldn’t be the norm..
Unfortunately Black men see this as the norm, which is why they turn to other races.
Honestly, I don't see that as the main problem... I think they should really just take the Fresh n Fit approach and shutdown the disrespect. They kept trying to speak over them and being disrespectful off rip.
Lol this is about 99% of them man.
@@notmyregret Fresh and fit aint it lol... those dweebs don't know anything about women... It's entertaining to watch, but it's not realistic. Those women on their show are those lil city girls twerking on Instagram type. They'll accept any sort of treatment to get on that show and get a couple likes on tiktok or whatever as a result of it. Trust me that they dont speak to women like that outside of their podcast. ... and even if they did ... its not right. Im not saying to accept disrespect from anyone especially a woman, as a man ... but there's ways to put them in check without throwing a whole temper tantrum and going into a whole other pretend persona and all that loud scenery.
@@501Labsmusic putting someone in their place and telling them to stfu when they being rude is not a temper tantrum. It's an assertion.
My mouth dropped open when she asked "are you poor?" Lol girl what. He asked a question and she couldn't answer it. Stop deflecting lol
Stop being a pick me
@@BREASHONTELLhow many pets you got?
"I do not want peace!" "I want problems, ALWAYS"
Ultimately the issue with conversations like this? Is that the women don't have the integrity to answer straight up questions.
Women and men think differently in general, and he asked the question. Why they get offended with the table question and she answered. Asking that question only sets you up to be lied to, once women figure out the “right” answers. They will play the role and eventually switch up. This is known to the older generation but modern men seem to be going back to that way of thinking. Women generally aren’t logical planners in nature.
@@sblack122 You ain't never lie on that
Exactly so much dancing around and saying a lot without saying anything
these women are just very immature in thinking and see every question as something they have to win over them not even having a sense of logic in it
@@brayon7ook But that's the PROBLEM...this type of woman is not the exception. It is extremely common and they are too proud, obstinate, masculine, and yes vain to be told anything. Black women more than any other group act as if they are above critique. You can't tell them ANYTHING. Nothing. Everything is a requiem for a fight or argument. So the real question is, why bother?
These are literally the women that don't bring anything to the table
Question asked is a question asked back. No answers. Bring absolutely nothing to the table
lol And that’s the bottom line.
We get shunned for not wanting to deal with this level of stress at home.
I really do appreciate this show because these guys be asking the right questions and calling BS.
As a woman this was painful to watch. I am a stay at home mum of 2 small children and my husband provides a very comfortable life for us. So I can stay at home with our children and he goes above and beyond for us.. how are you gonna tell me THAT isn't the real definition of a prize? He never asked me about money. (I was a student when we met and he was working) I am truly blessed and knowing his personality if I was as combative and exhausting as these women he would have ghosted me within a week of us dating. Peace is crucial in a successful relationship.
Let us all pray that you never change, and he remains able to support you in the lifestyle which you've become accustomed. Because if you ever decide that you aren't happy and want s divorce, you will destroy him.
And with this in mind, I don't see you lobbying to remove the unbalanced advantages that women enjoy when relationships end, then consider that you are doing the future a disservice by removing the incentive for men to engage with you in the beginning.
@Nel G Lol.. clearly you missed the part where I said I raise our children and take care of our home which is a full time job. We take care of each other in opposite ways but that's our business. I don't owe a random stranger on the internet an explanation of my marriage.
Would you be offended if he asks for a paternity test?
@@MaSa-bp5qe We're Muslim and our kids look just like him so that's not even a question. The mere insinuation is gross.
@@kikim9231 I see what you mean, but you didn’t answer the question. Let’s say he asked that because something happened to his friend, and wants to make his heart feel at ease. Would you nag him and take offense or would you do it to make him feel at ease? Besides, I know Muslim women who cheated and had kids from different men who weren’t their husbands.
“Don’t fast track the process” translation: Keep wasting your money and time on me until you find out that I was not worth that time and money.
Big facts
😂😂😂
Damn
That's as succinct as it gets. I wish it wasn't.
Crazy as fukk lol
They answered every question with a question 🤣🤣
3 minutes in and I can’t listen to this anymore. Good luck y’all 👍🏾
I'm a woman and sheesh this was hard to watch. These women were annoying. It was like listening to a heckler at a comedy show. Like just calm down and listen
Lmao 🤣 that’s a good analogy
Facts
And what are good women doing to actively correct these women? How many women are lobbying to disarm the laws which punish men for engaging with women? Because women who complain, but do nothing to change the situation are a part of the problem, not the solution.
BW DELUSION AT IT FINEST 🤦🏽♂️😓
Ong
I’m done with those moths. If I ever see one getting harmed on the street ima keep walking. 🚶♂️
Look at the confidence they display, because in their minds they are in high demand, and they are winning in life.
This is exactly like the guy who decides to sprint out the box as fast as he can while running a marathon, thinking to himself he got this because he is blocks ahead of the rest!
Watch how bitter and mad they will become once they hit the wall and they no longer have a body to offer the world.
Not all black women! The stupid chicks in this video can't speak for me.
@@urather2207 yes, God bless bw like u
I am trying to get through this to truly find some type of understanding, inner standing and 🤷🏾♀️🥴🤦🏾♀️ as a black women, I feel so sorry for you men who deal with this….I tell my brothers all the time to just stay on their purpose because this dating scene rn is 🥴🫠 these women don’t even understand themselves🤦🏾♀️nor want to…
The Sisterhood is strong and keeping alot of them "single" 🤦🏿♂️
The fattest one is the the whole issue, she acts poise but overly dramatic.
Poise” had to b the word of the day for her ass😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dennis Rodman didn't say much.
@@C5rrr lol damn it which one is Dennis?
@@JM_TU you have to ask?
@@C5rrr bruh lol, I'm not sure if you were referring to facial structure or the one with the best defenses
Watching this makes me appreciate the Wife I have…I feel bad for my kids and the world they’re set to inherit
My hubs and I said the exact same thing about our kids!
You and your wife will be there to guide them. They will find a wife/husband in the future.
Facts
Dude I was thinking the same damn thing 😂😂😂😂😂
🤦🏾♀️They just want to argue an opposite point. They can't even stick with a solid POV without instantaneous switching sides only for the sake of right-fighting. These women can talk in circles until they pass out.
Relationships are reciprocal, we both must bring value so that we are not leeching off the other person. Especially when you are considering a long term relationship ❤️
Bro the girl in the middle contradicted herself SO MUCH LOL. She said that she looks for a man to reciprocate at least the same level as her but then goes on to say she can be selectively traditional while her man ALWAYS has to be traditional 🤦🏽♂️
She’s probably going to end up single for the rest of her life and with a dog
Lol she said he could be a remix too
Too many people say things because it sounds good. They don't think.
That’s why she single lol
@@Kingchris0489 the dog would probably die. I’d suggest a cat tbh💀
Middle Girl " Take your time and get to know me and FIGURE OUT what it is I bring " lol oh so its like a mystery? I have to figure it out . When she said " we dont want to answer it" she's definitely telling you what she brings to the table. Conflict, uncooperativeness, deflection, and contention lol . It's a buffet really. Great composure to the gentlemen.
Mystery? Isn't that the point in getting to know someone, going on dates and collecting 'data'. Both women and men can evaluate each other with conversation and have the right to decide if that person is right for them. I do agree that she was combative but actions and patterns will always speak louder than asking someone what they bring to the table.
@@relleyy It is . ( the point in getting to know someone) I agree. I assure you its not a willful or legitimate 'dense' as it is me being facetious or sarcastic. I thought an "lol" at the beginning of it would signal in that direction but thats on me . To be fully serious, I think we (society) in our actual dating situations , it is highly unlikely that "what do you bring to the table?" is a persons opening line to someone who they had an initial attraction to. I think the guys were inferring the question more in the social discourse context of men and women in the public forum of dating topics. I dont think a woman sits down and asks " So do you make 6 figures and have good benefits ? " either. The question really is " what qualities do you think you possess that a man would see you as an asset ?" Thats the podcast question . But I agree w/ everything you said
And hypertension
She wants you to find out what she brings too late and way into already investing in her to want to walk away. How the hell can you fast track the getting to know process. Wtf do they thing questions are? If that's the case, you can wait for almost anything to come up in conversation over the years without asking on a date, WHICH IS A DAMN INTERVIEW TO BEGIN WITH.
@@Wgz945 yooooooo relaxxxx 🤣🤣🤣 😭😭💀💀💀 . That was good
Instead of asking, “What do you bring to the table,” ask, “What would you add to the life of your ideal candidate who has everything?”
Excellent way to reframe this question
If she's smart she'll still see it as "What do you bring to the table".
This is the most annoying thing about talking with certain women...Instead of just addressing the question and answering rationally. They just respond in the most nonsensical way... Just for the sake of responding and trying to be right 🤦🏾♂️
I'm a woman myself and this group of women were just on a level that was just too much and embarrassing. Their personalities were very unattractive, I can see what men mean. I think it's because they are all friends, so they have the same mindset. Not all women are like this fellas 😂😁
I second this statement lol !
I know all of you aren't like this. In the same way we men need to hold other men accountable, y'all need to do the same. Especially since it's so triggering when we attempt to. Can't even ask simple questions.
@@misterwoosah5862 she is tho.
Most are.
Oh we know y'all out here but these kinda women are out here also.
they fully demonstrated what they bring to the table: stress; deflection; combativeness and inflated egos.
Not even sure where the egos come from, they are Arkansas 2s at best
@@thee_morpheus THIS IS FUNNER BECAUSE I GOT FAMILY IN ARKANSAS 😂
And the men bring narcissitic behavior to the table
@@GGtheRealest okay narcissist
Facts
A man asked me what I bought to the table I was in complete shock and I answered I can show you better then I can tell you. He ran away lol
I found your show today and have been watching it for hrs. I love the topics. This specific ep was not straight forward enough. That bring to the table question shouldn’t be that difficult to answer. This is a table talk with open conversation. Come one ladies
You guys went an hour with these chicks, after five minutes I would of smashed the table over my head.😂 Great channel btw
Because they withstood it I wanted to respect them and watch too
Smashed it over THEIR heads 💥
Bro I was annoyed after the first min..
These women are useless
Slam them through the table straight up Dudley Boyz style lol
Chick in the middle should start picking out dog names asap
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She could find a beta male provider and cheat though tbh 🤷🏾♂️
@@Hyrulerr Rasputia LOLOLOLOL!!
She’s the fun girl at 300am you don’t want your homeboy to know you been over there wit
🎯 that part .
Yep this is crazy that asking questions to get to know someone gets this much anger
Asking a man what kind of work he does is asking him what he brings to the table' but men gotta waist his time ,resources and sanity to get to know what you bring to the table. ITS A SOLID NO FOR ME!!
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Can we have a real conversation about toxic feminity in the black community.
It’s not even feminity, it’s complete bullshit
It's toxic feminism is what it is
The community is a matriarchal until that fully stop that conversation won't happen
I think the problem is alot of black women put out more of a masculine energy. Men don't want a woman that.
Seriously. It’s toxic femininity
The question went over their heads! The men weren’t asking them what do they themselves bring to the table, they asked “why do most women get upset when asked that question” but in their brain, because women only hear what they want to hear, all they heard was “what do you bring to the table” and based on that got triggered!
Topic husband: She said a woman can find a man anywhere. He didn't reference any man. He referenced a husband. She didn't get it. Now I know why I am single & make my own money. "I don't negotiate with terrorists" 🤣😂
They half ass listening to just have a comeback. Tryna be combative to seem different
Middle Girl: “It’s giving someone hurt me and I’m bitter..”
Dude : I’m asking the right questions that’s what it’s Giving🤣🤣
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The middle woman is finished
She's not been hurt ,She's a brainwashed feminist' That reached her highest level of masculinity and has no femininity left.
9:10 lol
I stumbled across this video. That middle chic is MISERABLE and super LONELY! Lol
AND BITTER AF! WHEW CHILE I CAN'T WITH HER!
@@newdayz715, I can always tell when a woman is unintentionally not getting vitamin D.🤣
Girl I was like all these girls are slow. How you willingly took care of a "bum nigga" and then blame him, sis you know you could leave right, your not held hostage.
@@MexIndio1 facts, thing is she the type to completely switch up her attitude for a bum nigga that hit it right. And she think men ain't shit cause none of them stay the night.
Obesity and unattractive is what she brings
This is a prime example of only listening to respond. Cudos to all three men having damn near an hour worth of patience dealing with these type of women. Lord help us all lol
Shawty in the middle learned the word “Poised” that same week. She was abusing that word even out of context at times 🤣🤣
So basically these women just want to continue to finesse men for all they can get with nothing to offer. Noted.
Correct.
After they hit the wall and tell the story, they will paint it as guys using them for their pussy but not wanting to marry them. Not realizing that all high value men who see them would stay clear away from them.
Exactly
Exactly.
Pretty much
Man: When should a woman start paying for dates?
Woman: Do you want a traditional relationship
Man: Are you a virgin
Woman: No
Man: Sorry you don't qualify for the traditional relationship package! 🤣🤣🤣
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I knew my woman was a real one when she told me what she brought to the table without me having to ask.
These women bring stress, pain, combativeness, stupidity, ignorance, deflection, childishness, SIGN language and strife to the table.
Major props to the dude that caught the false equivalency and called that shit out on the spot. Dope ass episode. Subbed.
No rings on the they fingers but mad aggressive at the question they asking they got all the answers but single
FACTS!!!
19:31 "ok alright u can do that whispering stuff w.e that's coo" TALK TO EM 😂😂🗣️💯
They behaving the same way those non black women were from the other podcast. This is an American mentality thing not just a race thing.
I wish I was skilled in dodging questions effectively while also shaming the person asking the question, it’s a true gift of being single and having a 25-26% marriage rate
Couldn’t say it better 💫
Man! You guys have some super saiyan patience! These females we’re doing some record breaking mental gymnastics!! The delusion and deflection were strong!!!
Yo big ups to you guys fr fr ✊🏾
I’m 22 minutes in and my blood pressure is tooooo fucking high 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
This was one of the best shows I seen yet! I missed this one 🤣 I love the middle lady in the white she was hilarious!
"Yall picked the wrong ppl to be on this podcast" was the smartest thing the phat one said so far
“You know what could have prevented that, had you asked him what he brings to the table“ 😂 almost took me out of here
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I've rewinded that to that part at least 50 times
@@mackbigtmack Where is it? Lol
@@lifestraight 15:22
This conversation breaks my heart. I couldn't even watch the whole thing 😢😓😔
I’m so grateful we’ve got to experience Kevin Samuels for the short amount of time we’ve had him. Everything in this video are things he’s already exposed us to, broken it down and shows us how to avoid these types of women. He’s unveiled an ugly truth about modern Black Women. Any man who’s willing to date or procreate with women like this are absolute fools and whatever they have to deal with you deserve it. You’ve been warned. You’ve seen the danger. You know the red flags when you see it. It’s your legacy. It’s your life. Choose wisely.
It's crazy ya'll needed Samuels to expose this. Been known this about these women even before he came around
These girls were all 🧢 it was so frustrating and cringe to see all the deflections and lack of accountability. At times it was hard to listen to when everyone was talking over each other. Besides that, this was an entertaining show
These women were doing the most very aggressive unable to answer any questions directly it was very hard to watch and listen too
Lol 😆 and they wonder y men wont date then or just stay single
I would have been flaming them in the live chat Imma start tuning in to these shows
These are your quintessential black women nowadays so sad can’t ask a direct question & get a direct answer nothing but deflection
I applaud you dudes for remaining composed dealing wit these chicks👏🏿👏🏿
You guys bought the most ratchet chicks and expected a well mannered conversation
This is a accurate example of women in modern day society
@@ageofechochambers9469 Definitely. I've asked this question in a past relationship and got the exact same style of answering. But they swear theyre sooo "oppressed and exhausted" like alright exhausted....from existing I guess 😂
To be fair the men started over talking and interrupting first and continued throughout the conversation. Be objective
She'd eat the table...
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Glad someone finally said it
Right. 🍟🍟 lil norbit
Exactly especially the one in the middle
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 get in my belly
I think that they bring up a valid point, if you are being triggered by the question “ what do you bring to the table” you should self reflect.
I think that accountability brings you many things, like the opportunity to leave the situation for one. The thing is it may not mean nothing to her because she may have attachment issues.
Ain’t no way in hell I would have continue this podcast with these unruly ass wrenches. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
“If a robber come in here right now…”
“I have a taser in my bag”
Bih what?!🤦🏿♂️😂🤣😭
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Probably Would of got shot or got her taser taken and tased with it
Her big ass would’ve been long dead before she got the tazer out her bag and stood up
The phat one in the middle was the most ignorant 🤦🏾♂️
Insert Tekashi 69 “stoopid” sound bite here for her!
The worst part is their need to insult at every possible turn. Definition of being wrong & strong
I absolutely love how women use the "YOU asked me/YOU approached me" reply when said women know the game is rigged/rarely approach men.... yet now, we see numerous women make complaints about how men no longer approach or even demand that men ask them out and approach. Perfect example of vacillation of either point that garners the most power.
I appreciate the crew committing to the discussions regardless of the shaming, disrespect, attitude, and just general arrogance.
Yea I would have kicked them off the show. The disrespect became too much.
I feel like the miss in the middle was too aggressive. Have great convo w/o being so defensive and argumentative. Great questions though!
Sounds like we need you on the show instead lol
@@DailyRapUpCrew sounds like it!
Umm some modern American black women
Please don't allow these nothing's back on the show.
'but she poised' haha
Idk how y’all kept this conversation going, first 5 minutes I would’ve said y’all can go
"What do you bring to the table" is another way of asking "who are you and what do you offer to a man" in a relationship.
This is precisely why I appreciate Kevin Samuels. I cant stomach any woman with a combative attitude and the need to run her mouth.
PATRICE O'NEAL!!!
IS the GOAT!
Kevin Samuels is a clown frfr 💯.
PLEASE 🙏 Listen to Patrice O'Neal!
@@liveelbaraka3371 lol this aged like milk
@@anubisthacutest4752 You make no sense
Hearing that woman repeatedly say “fast track the process” just means she wants to waste your time
It's a simple list..men don't require much... NUMBER 1 RULE: DON'T BE A HEADACHE 😩😤!!! The world is on his shoulders, be his peace 😌of mind when he comes around/home...greet your man EVERYTIME he walks through that door!!! Ask him about his day(don't nag about your BS )... I'll ask my man, "you want me to run your shower bae?...You want me to go ahead and have your plate ready when you get out or you wna chill and settle a bit?"...Labor job working man, RUB HIS FEET AND LISTEN TO HIM ABOUT HIS DAY AND PASS THE REMOTE.... ONCE THAT'S DONE, GO OFF AND LET HIM HAVE HIS BREATHING ROOM ALONE...DONT CUDDLE, HE WNA CHILL...THANK HIM FROM TIME TO TIME FOR BEING A GOOD MAN TO YOU (NOT JUST WHEN YOU'RE RECEIVING GIFTS😒)... PLEASING HIM IS A MUST (SURPRISE HIM, CANDLES...GREET HIM AT THA DOOR IN SMTG VICTORIA SECRET).. BE HIS BEST FRIEND (GOTTA KNKW HOW TO HAVE FUN) JUST BE LADY AT ALL TIMES, HOW YOU GOT HIM IS HOW YOU KEEP HIM (MEN HATE BONNETS😣, SO SNEEK DAT ISH ON WHEN HE SLEEP, BUT IN THA A.M, SNATCH IT OFF!!). BOTTOM LINE LEARN WHATCHA MAN LIKE, BUT MOST LIKE THA SAME THING🤷🏽♀️
The fact that they can't even answer the question shows you exactly what they going to bring to the table once you get past the physical attraction attitude and frustration is all you will receive out of women like this once you get past the physical attraction and then been there and done that they have absolutely nothing to bring to the table even if they do have money and status
I don’t think the women realized the fellas were having a discussion based around MARRIAGE. They answered everything based on basic boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.
OMG THANK YOU! GEEZUS! Like, how the hell did they miss that!? This was so embarrassing to watch like seriously. My brain hurts!
That shows where their maturity level is at.
I see 6 men having a polite masculine conversation
Me too
Damn that’s tuff
Basically
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My version: "What are a few things that make you stand out from other women?" 90% deflect with - "Get to know me and find out." or "What do you have to offer?"
When I press it back and they try to debate me like these women here, my response is : "Say I'm car shopping. One may catch my eye. But I can't buy until I know what bonus features it has right?"
***The harsh reality is most women get triggered because deep down they know they get by on looks and sexual access. Even these women here tried to frame it with "You liked what you saw so why do you need to know?"
And that’s the bottom line. These women don’t know how to be wives. They believe that they are the prize, specifically their vagina. And they believe that because they have been raised to believe that all men care about is sexual gratification and physical beauty.
Exactly y I hit and quit they can't even come up with a logic answer of wat do u bring to the table then answer the question wit a question 😮
Words are useful when thoughtful. When having such discussions, I think it vital to lay out the ground rules for the platform. The ladies on the panel couldn't concede that the point of the panel was for the benefit of the majority which is obtained through generalization. Even if these ladies were celebrities which they aren't why would the questions be about their anecdotal opinions based on individual experiences. Everybody who has struggle feels the depth of their own despair.
These ladies are contradictory, disingenuous, combative, and NEED TO BE RIGHT.
DISINGENUOUS 100%.
100% disingenuous.
My condolences go out to my american brothers and their lack of options
We got escorts pimp it'll be ok
Sad thing about this is that it’s not just American women who think this way…I don’t live in America and there’s a struggle in my country with these type of woman as well it seems to be a new age thing were women want everything and have nothing to offer and think they are the prize because they have a nice body good looks…I love my black women always have always will but digging through the dirt to find a gem is tiresome…broke women calling men who have a decent job but not the flashy lifestyle bums because he can’t proved the things for her that she can’t even provide for herself
@@MrRockFish insanity man I know
Lmao
😂😂😂
I wish I can be apart of these panel of discussion!! I would have SO MUCH to say.
Based off the logic the ladies gave about men lying about what they bring to the table tells me women don’t like the question because that comes wit some accountability and some women don’t like accountability
To the girl in the middle talking bout being poised, it’s feels like she “acts poised” but really ain’t, it’s like a “humble” person who constantly tells people that they are humble
Bitch is poised to eat the table.
1)As a female(btdubz some prefer the bio title)... Total headcanon on my part lol but to answer the first question(Why do women get offended at the "what do you bring to the table?")...I dnt think women are offended by the question... I think the idea men now are actually questioning things and or wanting the basic things some claim to want as a woman, is offensive to them.. Like how dare they question a person they're interested in the same way you do? 🤔
2) Homegirl in the middle was conflating the whole table and bed thing nd I think she was takin literally while not really answering the question
Lastly, would love to see some women on these podcasts with some type of self awareness nd nuance to bring to these convos.. Most the time its jst the women either conflating points, straight up not listening to the question... or saying they dnt "personally" do the things they perpetuate 🤦🏾♀️
You hit all points
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Bless you. Now I don't have to type this out. Also really happy it's not just us men catching that stuff
Facts we were raised to accept black women as they are flaws and everything and when you question that you’re out of pocket
Being a “good man” or “good woman” isn’t always being able you pay for something 🤦🏼♂️
Bro this is what modern dating has relegated to. Dating is looked at as a money making opportunity or come up. 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️💯
This was one of not the worst set of females y'all had on this podcast. No accountability, the need to be right, too much attitude, regurgitated remarks, insults, deflection, moving goal post, cutting off and talking over y'all.... Damn near everything that a male would usually shut down or go off on.
"You're fast tracking the process" is womanese for I want to extract as much as I can from you before I have to be accountable for anything.