My husband is a huge nerd for halo, and I’m terrible at playing games. That being said I still buy him cool sets for holidays, watch him play from time to time, and even let him explain the lore and ask him questions about it even if I already know the answer. It’s not my passion, but it’s his, and seeing him light up when he engages in it makes him even more the person I love. It’s not hard to be supportive even if it’s not a shared interest.
I agree, when you love someone you support their interests or hobbies or career choices, esp if that's what they were into when you met. As long as it's not hurting anyone, you both support each other and it's reciprocal. I can't be with someone who craps on my special interests or what I'm passionate about even if it seems silly to other people.
I broke up with a girl a while back. She said I was difficult to train but she would break me eventually. She was a bit drunk during this confession. I asked what she was training me to do. She said to do whatever the hell she says. I broke up with her right there. Nobody needs that kind of crazy.
Dang, she did the whole villain monologue revealing her evil master plan. Sometimes alcohol can be a truth serum. Glad you escaped that death trap, 007. Lol
@@sunnysied713 I never thought about it like that, but you're right lol. I got her monologuing like syndrome. I appreciate it brother. I hope you can avoid/escape it as well
That's disgusting, you aren't a dog, she didn't deserve you and she doesn't deserve to be in a relationship until she wakes up. People need to start treating others how they want to be treated I bet she would hate if a guy said that crap to her 😠
The GALL of that woman to ask "Why you not paying the bills working your 9-5?" when his passion was already doing that for them! I hope this guy finds genuine love
It all boils down to image; clearly she felt embarrassed to ever mention that her husband was making money with "childrens card game" so she wanted to change him for HER benefit, not his, fuck those people
If you guys don't know. YourYugiohChannel was a huge pillar in Yu-Gi-Oh TH-cam. Us in the community loved every video he put out and they're still classics till this day. He would frequently leave the scene in and out until he sold his channel to a friend and left completely. Years later he bought his channel back and would occasionally drop a video every blue moon. Until a few months ago he started uploading more, more vlogs than anything and that's when he dropped the bomb about his life and his current situation. The Yu-Gi-Oh community had no idea he was going through this and if we did we would've helped our brother out. (At least I'd like to believe it) Oh and how could I forget. He had to go on walks by himself to even make a video and express his emotions. He's the goat and will forever be YourYugiohChannel.
2 things. 1. I have a good STEM degree from a GREAT uni. I haven't been able to get a job in my field, which is a very popular field, while actively looking for one in over 1 year. 2. My SO plays League competitively. I hate that game with a passion. It's one of the few games I genuinely don't like. He watches competitions & videos of other pelple playing. He loves to rant about it. I don't understand half of the intricate breakdowns he rambles on about bc the closest thing I enjoy to League is Smite. But I listen to every word. I would watch with him. I cheer him on. I ask him questions about it. I love to hear him talk about it. Not bc of the content... but bc of the passion in his voice & words. Bc of the way his eyes light up & how his voice gets that excited lilt. How I can hear the physical smile while he talks & the animated hand gestures. How I can see the planning & strategizing going on in his head & how fun that is for him. I *love* seeing him love something. I love seeing him happy & love seeing him enjoy something. I'd play if he asked me to. Begrudgingly, but I would. 😅 He knows I don't enjoy it, so I think he doesn't ask bc of that. We play other things together haha. League is his thing. I cannot imagine a world in which I would be with a partner where I'd want to rip all those vibrant colours from them & leave them with a world of monotones. How awful.
Same. My husband is the entire reason I'm reconnecting with my hobbies I set aside to build our marriage and help his education. Now my husband is able to make good living off his hobby. We have hobbies we do together and separate hobbies. My husband hates himself even though I willingly have my hobbies because he says I ended up fading away. I'm taking small steps because I don't feel remotely as creative as I used to.
I ain't a Yu-Gi-Oh fan, but divorcing someone purely because of his hobby... THAT'S PAYING THE BILLS is beyond crazy. I would rather my partner find something that their passionate about that makes money at the same time, then work 8+ hours out of the house and be miserable. Hope he finds someone that truly appreciates him.
What aggravated me further was how she and her family demonized him for not having a traditional 9 to 5. Pushed him to get one, THEN she complains about him not being able to provide for the two of them. The GALL it takes to force someone to leave a well paying stint to conform to your ideas about what is and is not a well paying job and then also expecting them to pay for the two of them is ABSURD. What about her getting a job? Why is a single person expected to change everything about them to satisfy the other and then berated and make them feel incompetent about not being able to provide because that just screams toxic relationship to me. I hope this dude is in a better place now and finds someone who truly appreciates him.
She didn't respect him in the first place. Thats it. If the man was actually making a living and she still saw it as a negative, even with what he was doing not being negative in of itself, she just didn't respect him. Period.
I think lots of women instinctively get the "ick" whenever their man isn't being productive and financially gainful. In it's crassist form, it's a mentality of "your primary value is to bring in money so if you're playing video games or taking a nap on a Saturday afternoon your existence is useless." Maybe her lady brain couldn't separate the "childish card game" from the "this card game pays the bills?"
9:11 he never let yugioh take over. We saw him come to locals less and less. Eventually only seeing him at case tournaments. This hurts my heart more than ever he was such a nice person.
All Yugioh jokes aside, my heart honestly broke for this guy. Been in a similar situation and his video really resonated with me. I hope he’s doing better these days
I had a similar situation, but I wasn’t married; she was my girlfriend for 1.5 years. I used to play in a metalcore band, had lots of gigs, and really loved the culture, the music, and especially performing. However, she tried to manipulate me in a similar way. She asked me to leave the band, even though it never affected our relationship in any way. It felt like she didn’t want me to enjoy the things I loved in life. We broke up when she said she didn’t like my brother and wanted me to stop speaking to him. I don’t know what her intentions were, but it seemed like she wanted me to give up everything I cared about in life.
My ex was like this when I was a freshman in high school. I even remember stepping out of my comfort zone and going to an event that was set up for our ROTC class for her. I think it was a Ball of some kind which was a step out of my comfort zone due to how introverted I was. Fast forward to a few months, she starts making up all these lies about my friends and trying everything in her power to make me cut ties with them. She eventually broke up with me after an argument over the phone. After that, my friend invited me to play some Destiny and I told him what happened. After half an hour, I was happier again, his jokes always got a laugh outta me
I had an ex that hated me playing video games. It was like she didn't like how happy they were making me lol. She would tell me my online buddies weren't real friends (still talk to a handful of them today. We've known each other for 10 plus years) and that video games were a waste of time. Even hit me with the "you could do something so much better with your time" as i would work 10 plus hours a day so my time was already kind of limited for myself. She then would then sit on the couch, scroll refreshing Instagram while reality shows were in the background....for hours lol. Needless to say...she's an ex for a reason.
Technically, every hobby can be considered a "waste of time", but if it's something that you're passionate about, you find enjoyment out of, and its JUST a hobby and not an addiction, then I say F what the haters say. I've been gaming for as long as I can remember and I don't plan on stopping anytime soon. I'll never understand why there's some folks out there who crap on someone else's passion because THEY don't understand it.
I'm going to guess that your wife didn't like you playing video games because it took your attention away from her (regardless of what she was doing). My ex hated me reading, he said I was ignoring him. I had to wait until he was asleep & read in bed with a flashlight...because heaven forbid I didn't go to bed when he did. It isn't what we're doing that upsets these people, it's that we're doing it.
Online friends are the best, because there is no obligation to meet up and when we do it's always really exciting. I was the best man in one of my online friend's wedding and another online friend provided me with a job. No "real" friend has done shit for me, they can just keep them all to themselves 😂
Being on the yugioh side of TH-cam for the past 12 years Youryugiohchannel was so prolific and I always wondered what happened to him. I’m sad that happened to him but happy he has made a return. Thanks for covering Charlie
Btw he is one the OG yugitubers of back in the day. Dude would play yugioh and play saxophone to make money while going to college. He has probably highest respects of the yugitubers out there. Dude is an incredibly sweet guy
yea youryugioh channel was great! and it's a MELLOPHONE! I remember him doing a video about the instrument he would play, and the forest videos where he would go in the middle of the forest like some serial killer (and talk about yugioh) haha good times. He also set up Drew to be a yugituber, the "yugioh hustler", and his red eyes deck!
When i met my wife in the late 1990's, i was heavily into LARP. My wife wasn't and still isn't. But she tried it twice, went along to a "Vampire" 1-day LARP. She understood why people liked it, but it wasn't her thing. But she's supportive. Often when an event is coming up, she might remind me to check if i need to buy some new gear or something. Twice in the last 15 years i read about a new event and was hesitant about it, only for her to encourage me to at least TRY the new event once. She has her hobbies and things too, things i'm not into. But for me, i occasionally buy her something she can use or ask HER if she needs anything for her hobbies.
I’ve dated people who HATED my hobbies!( 1:12 miniatures and doll collecting) I was so miserable and anxious… thankfully my boyfriend is fantastic! He loves hearing me talk and show off my collection/ work. I do the same for him too. there is someone out there who will enjoy watching you be happy. Be alone rather than be with someone who hates a happy part of you.
My husband's not in to my hobbies(otome games and farmsims and similar) but we both game and he supports me in my love of the genres I do. He doesn't belittle me and I don't belittle him(even tho some of his games I also am meh on). And then we both are gaga over Balatro. xD Never try to ruin the spark of what makes someone themself and claim it's from love. Frick that.
The thing about partners who insist you change is that, usually, it never ends. You change one thing, and then they find something else they want to change. If they don't like the person you are, you need to find someone who does.
@Originalantithesis yeah, the nuance is super important, I'm not one for the whole "I can fix them" thing, but if your SO happens to have some problems (addiction, depression, etc...) then you should 100% do your best to help them through it.
@tiagobelo4965 yeh fr! Especially if they are wanting to change off of their own accord. They want to be better type thing. Giving them some support can make all the difference.
I was just living my life, dating a dude who seemed to like me for "me" until he started telling me how to dress. He liked how I looked until he didn't and told me to tone it down lmao. He was a fvckin loser for even suggesting that to me. To everyone reading this= never change how you express yourself! If it's harmless, and you enjoy it then keep doing you. Don't listen to others who shame you into changing.
I had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend and video games. She was the most selfish, horrible person I've ever dated. She didn't support me in what I was doing for fun despite having a full time job, spending time with her and still maintaining my responsibilities. Eventually I left and found a new relationship where my partner is similar to me and loves everything I'm into. If your partner hates your interests and wants you to change, then leave them and find someone better because you'll be happier single.
I told my wife the title of this video (we already know the story) and her response was "it wasnt about yugioh, it was about a b*tch". You don't have to share all your hobbies, but you DO need to respect each others hobbies. Nobody who cares about you should ever make you feel bad about something that makes you happy. Luckily, when I told my wife about yugioh, her response was "can we play it together?". Don't settle for "fine" my dudes. You deserve someone who gets you. 👍
I work a 9-5 job, I got a masters, and still have a second job. My girlfriend got upset due to the fact I like to play games with my siblings online and watch anime in my free time. She told me I should be learning new skills or something and I told her no. We had a healthy discussion that I enjoy what I do now. She apologized and things are good. I will never compromise my happiness to benefit other people unless it’s a future child of mine.
PSA to everyone ever: if your partner ever demands that you quit a hobby or get rid of something you care about, *run.* Even if they claim it's an obsession problem, talk to a therapist first to be sure whether there is an actual problem. Abusers love to control their victims in every way possible, right down to what they do with their spare time that doesn't include them. First it'll be your youtube channel and your yu-gi-oh cards, then it might be a memorial of someone you loved who passed, or a childhood comfort item, or your favorite piece of art, or your friends, or your pets, or your family, or your privacy online, or your finances...
I needed this man. You’re 100% right. My girlfriend keeps telling me to stop doing heroin. Now I know I need to run!! She’s trying to manipulate me to giving up my favorite hobby and it’s not right.
@@MrBigbrownies That is a ridiculous extreme ofc you should quit. You are comparing a card game collection hobby vs drug addiction. Thats why he said talk to therapist first.
@@Iridxscent Ik but the things he said can eerily be said about drugs too. Yes it could be a ridiculous extreme to you but drugs are also a hobby to some people. I used to talk to a girl that vaped a lot and once i found out I kinda wanted her to quit if she wanted to be my GF. Naturally she didnt quit so maybe drugs are really hobbies to people.
Yup, I’ve been there. My ex had an issue with video games because her dad apparently used to be a game tester, would play games all the time and neglect her and her sister over it. I’m a gamer. We met and she told me she was okay with me playing video games but I “needed to tell her a time slot of each week when I could play them”. Not because I was playing video games for 12 hours straight or because she needed to plan events around it, she just wanted me to play video games for less than 2 hours a week because of her dad. I gave her what she wanted and found myself always doing her hobbies. We always got to hang out with HER friends doing HER hobbies because she wouldn’t let me do what I wanted to do. Fast forward 6 months and I was probably in the most unhappy relationship I’ve ever been in. And the worst part is I told her multiple times that I was unhappy and that I wanted to do hobbies that I liked and she kept gaslighting and manipulating me into thinking I was wrong for saying that. Dude when I broke up with her, I’ve never been happier. I’m in a relationship now where my girlfriend doesnt mind my hobby. She isn’t a gamer, she’s a girly girl. She likes makeup and styling her hair, but she still doesn’t mind if I play video games or she’ll actually play them with me. I didn’t know that’s what a normal relationship was like until I met this girl. If your girlfriend does not care for you and make you happy the majority of the time, then break up with her and get you one that will. It’s literally each of your jobs to take care and make sure the other person in your relationship is happy.
@@LobotomyGuy Outside. Or more specifically, in areas where women are likely to gather. Pick up a social hobby, go to community classes or go to social events. There's useful apps that show local things going on in your area. Google it. Don't go to meet women, but to find people with similar interests to you. There, you will find someone who you enjoy spending time with, and maybe that person will be a woman. And take it from there.
Your ex and this Yugioh guy's ex both desperately need therapy. It's not at all normal to want to have that level of control and authority over your partner's life. I'm glad you found a woman who lets you be yourself and is satisfied with the attention she gets from you.
Glad to hear that you ended your relationship with her. I like playing video games as well but now with work and everything else, maybe a couple hours a week or less. I understand that some sacrifice will come in a relationship but nothing that changes who you are or what you are passionate about.
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9 You've been spamming the same comment, how much of a loser you have to be to be looking for someone to give you the slightest bit of attention your inner kid needs.
Bro I'm pissed, I was with someone like this, I was moving into a new place and I was setting up some posters, I was putting up an AC Black Flag poster and she started crying and saying "I feel like I'm with a 7 year old!" My blood boils just thinking about it....wanted to come along and change me, but happy ending, shes long gone and my wife supports my hobbies
Same here, I used to watch this guy all the time. Hadn't seen him a long time and then this video popped up on my feed randomly. Feel really bad for him.
I can totally relate to this man. I had a relationship at the beginning of the year that didn't support me in my hobby. My passion is drawing. I've been drawing since I was five or six years old. The problem is that I have a chronic disease of the cervical spine for a few years. So if I spent a certain amount of time drawing at my regular table, I would be in pain for several days. Instead of supporting me, he told me to give up my hobby, even though there are many ways to make the drawing setup easier on my back. I stopped drawing for him, even though there were ways to continue. I was extremely unhappy. Of course, there were other factors that led to our separation, for example that he forbade me to have a pet. In my own apartment, too. We didn't live together. Now I have a back-friendly setup and two wonderful cats. I've also been doing a back rehabilitation course for a few months. I've felt so much better since then. I'd rather be single than be dictated to how I live my life. I hope he finds someone that respects him and his choises. I sincerly do!
Good for you, it amazes me how people who hate pets manage to attract decent partners. Whats a bigger red flag than being against pets without an alergy
As a fellow artist, if my man told me I could never draw, i know in my heart of hearts I’d be very unhappy. I’m really happy you’re now drawing, doing back therapy and have some kitties now! You deserve it
I shattered at 38 in COVID. I have gotten better. My hobby now generates gifts that I love creating. I just ordered 256 alcohol markers for a Christmas present. I have some Copic and Ohuhu. They are increasing in price I found a great reviewed product for £70 256 pens. My family are all putting £10 in. As you can see I'm not greedy. If someone said stop drawing I would just laugh. I have ADHD and drawing takes 100 a second to 1 every art decision “oh crap wrong colour” 💯🇬🇧❤️
I shattered at 38 in COVID. I have gotten better. My hobby now generates gifts that I love creating. I just ordered 256 alcohol markers for a Christmas present. I have some Copic and Ohuhu. They are increasing in price I found a great reviewed product for £70 256 pens. My family are all putting £10 in. As you can see I'm not greedy. If someone said stop drawing I would just laugh. I have ADHD and drawing takes 100 a second to 1 every art decision “oh crap wrong colour” 💯🇬🇧❤️
I once was with a woman who convinced me it was time to grow up and I sold my collection of games from various systems and eras, some really rare (estimated 2500 CDN) and sold it for not even enough to pay for a months rent at the time , $700 CDN . NEVER AGAIN!!! Ive unfortunately abandoned the gaming collection but do own a rare *new* 3ds XL Hyrule Edition , an official N64 wireless controller and I started new collections that are pretty admirable now like my comicbook collection, rock collection, model kit collection and power ranger collection :) Never let anyone do anything like this to you!! Let yourself be yourself !!
I sold all my figures at a yard sale in middle school for $40. Wasn’t because of a relationship but I still kinda have mixed feelings towards my mom for not being there with me to show me it’s okay to say no
It is sad that things turned out the way they did, but its time for him to heal and move on. Based on what that video said: Its was more of her image of what she wanted in her husband. She wanted her husband to provide but specifically in her way, it just felt so manipulative at times. As time passes she's forcing so many changes and he caved, to the point where things were mentally unhealthy for him. TLDR; they weren't a match for each other or things changed to the point there were no longer a match together.
Hes going to find a girl who loves Yu'Gi-Oh and be a side character to his channel and it's going to be soooo wholesome and adorable its going to make his evil crazy ex jealous and then she's going to want to start any drama she can
I had a childhood friend who was a huge nerd, he used to like anime, video games, lord of the rings, marvel/DC stuff.. He was the nicest guy I've ever met in my life! Dude was so cool people would be calling him asking to hang out daily! VERY nice guy! But then he started dating some girl back in 2006~7.. And the girl made him go to the church, made him stop watching anime and all the stuff he loved.. He couldnt even go out with his friends because she was that type that would coltrol everything about the dude... I literally just saw my friend becoming another person through the years.. Then he started getting depressed, he got skinny AF.. And when he fell ill around 2010 the girl left him.. He died in 2012.
Sorry to hear about your friend. It's infuriating to hear that someone let someone else take control of their life like that. All for the irrational fear of being alone for a little longer.
sorry about your friend but that partner was a parasite taking all his life and happiness until he has nothing left and sadly died and left him for another person to take another persons happiness.
yup people that are obsessed with optics and appearances dont do shit in their free time, its why theyre always bored and always trying to stay busy with a packed social calendar.
@ very true. My best friend would always say hes busy. In his mind he thought he was making money moves. He was just laying down in his room watching tv. Like stop fooling yourself.
My boyfriend plays Magic the Gathering. He's spent a fair amount of money on Magic the Gathering and plays frequently with friends. You know what I do? I'm right there playing with him. MTG was one of the biggest things we bonded over. Even his hobbies that I'm not super well versed in, like his Gundams, I still respect. I honestly can't imagine judging him for something that he enjoys. Plus, he puts up with my Stitch collecting and other things I've been personally judged for. He and I made out like bandits in the dating world lol
And before anyone asks, I've been playing MTG since about 2010 but lost most of my collection over the years of moving and having a lot of my things tossed. I currently run a tweaked Blood Rites deck that kicks ass70% of the time. Still a work in progress.
Yeah, why didn't she go and get the degree? Why didn't she go and bring MORE income into the household? He did work, he already provided. She just wanted to sit on her rear and play conductor for someone else's life. Typical lazy manipulative psycho.
I’d like to hear her side of the story. It’s very easy to make someone the villain when we only have one pov, maybe he’s omitting a lot of his behavior and actions. I doubt it’s that black and white.
I use to be in a relationship like this. I loved running and I would go out and hike and run all the time. My now ex hated it because she couldn't hike or run. She figured that since she can't do these things like I could, she made me feel bad for doing it. Eventually when I would go run or hike, she would do other things.. including mess around with other guys. Glad she's not in my life anymore
My husband is 33 years old, and he wants to skate again. I'm worry he is gonna get hurt? Obviously, do I really have knowledge on it? Very little because thanks to him but do I still try to support him? HELL YEAH. I help him choose the trucks for his board and we now deciding which color for wheels is gonna fit the board colors ❤
support each other's interests. Don't bash on it, or think your opinion of an interest is superior. You're doing fine, I'm sure it means the world to your husband and makes him super happy that you are partaking in his interest in some way and being ok and happy with him exploring it. This is like a man's love language. Let us pursue our interests and support us along the way.
His wife basically wanted to change his former pastimes altogether, including the game. Luckily, the heart of the cards won in the end & he's back on the grind.
Not just his pastimes but everything about him. She didn't like his interests, his education, his way of living or making money, etc. So what did she like? It just seems like their values didn't align anywhere.
I remember watching his videos when I was a teenager. Being a girl and liking Yu-Gi-Oh instead of makeup and fashion was tough. However, his videos and those of other TH-camrs were always fun. Playing on Dueling Network and meeting people who shared my hobbies was a great help, especially when I couldn’t express myself in my environment! I’m glad you’re covering this topic, Charly, and I hope anyone who can support him does so ❤️.
omg my best friend went to college with this guy !!! he was always the sweetest, definitely deserved better. i really hate to hear that this happened to him. i hope he gets that love for Yugioh back honestly. nothing worst than a partner that keeps you from the things you love. my ex would fake panic attacks to keep me from going to dance classes 🙃
Yo, he was more than just a yu-gi-oh channel too. I used to watch his videos about playing the mellophone when I was in public school. I didn’t go to a great school, so videos were my only way to tell if I was any good at my instrument, and people Like him who made that content are how I ended up as a band director. I wish for only good things for this man, his passion inspires others.
pretty illuminating that she said "why aren't you paying the bills?" but there was never any mention of her own income, her own hobbies or interests and the amount of time she was devoting to them, any suggestion that she could put a little work in herself to cover the gap...
Women crave love drama bro so she had to create it from somewhere especially if she seen how those things made him happy while she was unhappy with herself triggered it more lol as u can see with him giving up everything to her liking and still was unhappy because she had no more room to create drama lol
@@Wunounoit’s not women. It’s controlling and manipulative people in general. I’m a card collector and content creator and almost all of my free time goes toward that. My wife has no interest in cards but fully supports me, rips cards with me time to time and doesn’t make me feel bad about it. It’s not a gender thing and that’s not what Charlie is trying to say either
As that user in Charlie's stream said "I would cry tears of my joy if my partnered loved their job", and this is quite true. My boyfriend is a plumber/pipefitter and he loves his work. He always gets so happy when he talks about his work. Sure I can't make sense of the stuff he's saying but it's great that he has found a career that he likes and enjoys and it is benefitting others as well.
@@samjones9600 It's literally not even like that. It's about control of your presentation not about taking things from you. She doesn't want to date someone that will make her look bad. She likes you but she doesn't like what you're into or your personality. So she wants you to get rid of that
I always hated the "You can do better in life" because no... not everyone can do better and not everyone's "better" is the same as yours. This dude was doing better than most folks, he could pay for the bills, food, entertainment around the house and be home with the biggest smile on his face and social battery ready to spend on his OS. There are so many couples that wish they can afford just HALF of those things, couples who wish their overworked OS could home with a smile and want to spend the rest of the day with them. If she couldn't see how good she had it then she's in for a rude wake up call when she realizes a man that works 9 to 5 to pay for everything means she get's less of his affection because the hours home are spent on making sure he eats, showers, and get's enough sleep for another soul sucking day at work. Away from her.
I had this issue with an ex who saw my comic collection and first response was "When I move in we can get rid of all this, the library has all the books you need." Yeah I made up my mind pretty much then.
It's wild how narrow-minded and clueless some people are about various hobbies. They see comics and think "oh those are just books, like any book", and assume that both you and the hobby are that shallow and a library is all you need. That's like telling your SO who likes to cook that they don't need a stove or cookware because McDonald's is around the corner; it totally misses the point. Glad you dodged that bullet.
@@fungisrock8955 Tbf I did have a collection of books as well, just not as much as comics, but yeah she never truly understood that it was my hobby, I brought it up later and I told her I hoped she was joking about getting rid of my collection, cause it was important to me. I told her I attach a lot of memories to each thing I read, my dad bought me some of the books in my collection and the comics I got were at different periods of growth in my life. Its kinda a physical reminder of my personal life for me. She thought that was silly and it pretty much put a nail in any future together. Yeah I love cooking as well and have had a situation like that arise as well 🤣, I genuinely like to eat for enjoyment, not just sustenance and I like being creative with cooking.
Never accept people in your life who ridicule and deride you endlessly. It's one thing to tell an occasional joke on someone once you are close and have an understanding, but straight up shitting on someone is never acceptable.
When the way he said he'd just hop on a 20 minute bus to get to where he busks, gave the feeling that he was very content with how his life was. Doing things he loved earning money from home with a game he loves. He was so content in his life and then his (thankfully) now ex-wife just blew it all up Weirdly it's like he wasn't a "real" man? Because his hobbies were "childish" and he was happy.
Crazy. I am into martial arts and imagine if I turned a girl down just because she was strong or her hobby wasn’t “girly.” Many people, men and women, sabotage their own blessings. But from my perspective, it seems women do it a loooooot more. Psalms 9:21
i once dated a person who hated everything i was into except metal music. it is the most soul crushing experience. keeping everything to yourself when you wanna share it with the person you love is frustratingly sad to deal with
Question: did you guys sit down and get to know each other before making it official? That should have been when you find out that the other person doesn’t like the same things as you…. So I’m confused as to how you would even date that person anyway..
I used to watch youryugiohchannel as a kid. I’m pretty sure we live in the same state. In old videos I’ve seem him & some other youtubers @ what looks like a locals that I went to like twice. I haven’t played YGO since pendulums came out & scared me away but this man has been a big part of my childhood
Man, this hits right at home. I hate working regular jobs, and I love doing food delivery through DoorDash and Uber eats. I actually make on average a little over $1000 a week profit minus taxes and expenses. Not to mention what I make from web and graphic design. My wife is constantly telling me to get a "real job" when I know for a fact a "real job" would pay less. Everyone assumes I don't make enough money when I tell them what I do. Yet, the web and graphic design alone pays all my bills and living expenses. Its really tiering...
That sucks man and I hope things work out for you I don't understand why people act like some jobs aren't "real jobs" As far as I'm concerned if you make money it's a job
I seriously feel for this guy. I just got divorced after barely a year of marriage and not even after my son turned 1. DO NOT let anyone control you. 10yr relationship, 1yr of marriage and not even a year after my son was born and tried to control my life and my interests and hobbies.
A lot of the times it’s the girls friends telling the wife or girlfriend he’s not enough cause they compare guys based off their relationships or online relationships. My buddy broke up with his girl cause the girlfriend didn’t like he worked at a convenience store which he owned. He’s Indian and all her friends made fun of him being Indian and going the stereotype route. What’s funny is he’s the most wealthy out of all her friends but all they see is a man taking orders from customers. She regrets it now cause he owns 4 liquor stores with slots plus 2 franchise subways. Also he has full custody of the kid they had. After they broke up she ended up marrying a wanna be rich guy that was selling meth
My best friend and his wife were together for awhile as well had a kid together she's like 6 I think now but they got married last year and I won't go into details but to sum it up my buddy told me "this has been the worst year of my life" and the sad part is he loves his wife and loves family life. But after they got married she started acting waaaaaay different.
This is why I choose to be single and rejected by women instead of finding validation. For example, women finds men unattractive or.. dislikes men when they wear cartoon t-shirts or any other TV shows. Are you kidding me?!?!? What attracts women are stuff that doesn't attract men's interests. That's the problem.
11:30 I'm sorry what? He had a job that he enjoyed doing and paid the bills for the both of them, yet he was forced to give it up and work for a career he didn't want because his SO didn't like his work? And then they wonder why he can't pay the bills? If that's true, this relationship wasn't just toxic. It was radioactive.
my bf is massively into dnd and i could never imagine asking him to give that up i watch him play and have him tell me all the lore because i love the way he lights up when he explains it *thats* love accepting and appreciating someone for who they are not trying to change them
i actually love that (at least in these clips) he never talks shit about his ex wife. it would have been easy to call her names, disrespect her, but hes just honestly saying how he feels without attacking her. very mature of him
It's sad that people buy into this story hook line and sinker while clearly hearing only one side of the story. He could be 100% truthful but we don't actually know that...
@@Uragaan1 I mean... yeah, that's probably fair. I don't see any good reason to think he's lying, but that also doesn't mean there isn't another side to it.
girl saw tall, handsome and passionate and thought "i can fix his yu-gi-oh childish fad" she didn't marry him, she married what she thought she could turn him into...
@@cagethelonewolf he did that. once he did what she wants, he earned less. i suspect it was the disparity from her fantasy image and factual state of reality. she wanted something that doesn't exist. but that is all mute now. she is gone and should stay away. we just need to support him so he can get over this heartbreak as fast and without scars as it can be done.
same reason I gave up streaming 8 years ago right as I started picking up momentum. GF at the time said "Me or the stream" and I quit overnight, dedicated all my time to her and then she cheated and left me 2 years later. Do Your Thing and if your partner doesn't support it, get a new partner
it's so hard to look back at the time wasted on wrong priorities. to think of how i have cut out interests over partners distain/disapproval. choosing your own self worth over someone else's opinion is so much better but it's difficult when you believe they love you and you love them
I remember this guy. I used to watch his videos alongside my friends all the way back in 2009-2012 if I'm not mistaken. Good times and tough that he's gone through all of this.
I experienced this with my own wife, but with a different hobby. I was into working on cars after work and my wife HATED it. She didn’t want me focusing my time on something that wasn’t her. I ended up paying for my wife to get therapy because she realized she was insecure in the marriage and wanted constant validation and attention from me. Now she understands that hobbies are important and she has her own hobbies now too besides just focusing on me.
Yeah, well, for a while, my dad was into working on cars, and it was destroying the family's finances and consuming all of his time. I finally told him that he had 30 days to give up all the cars, or I was going to go to school and tell my teachers that he was abusing me. Hey, it worked.
"If you're embarrassed of your significant other, why are you with them in the first place?" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK, this is so important!!
Woah was not expecting these worlds to collide, been watching youryugioh channel and Charlie for years and its true the guy was pretty big in the Yu-Gi-Oh scene back in the day with a couple viral clips also. Baltimore yugioh scene is hilarious from his perspective and his channel was always a fun watch. Shame things went how they did, hopefully he can get a bigger audience again
A terrible side effect of this is it wasn't just _her_ opinion of him that was low, in forcing him to go back to school when he kept failing no matter how many semesters he paid for, friends started to look at him as if he were just lazy. He got a full 9-5 taking a _paycut_ and spent years trying to get his degree to make her happy, but people only saw his failure and assumed he had poor work ethic and just didn't care.
@@dubbyplays Forcing school on people who don't want to do school should be a crime. Some people on the spectrum go just fine in school, and some really do enjoy school. Some people who aren't on the spectrum DON'T do just fine in school. This isn't about your degree of neurodevelopment, this is your degree of personal wants in life.
@@Пинагод I'm referring to people who have struggles or neurodivergences that makes school a nightmare. Schools can't adapt to some people with specific issues, and forcing them to study even if they can't no matter what or force people to return to school when they were doing just fine without and had jobs, this is wrong. I am in the spectrum and school has been only trauma for me
@@thorodinsson4752 it is if you have my condition. Imagine studying for 8 hours and forgetting everything the next day. Imagine studying and understanding what you're reading but being unable to explain it and teachers will act as if you didn't study and don't know even if you do. ADHD is the worse enemy for studying. If someone has adhd and can still study and remember and focus on what he reads without getting lost in hundred other thoughts, then either they don't have adhd or it's not as worse as others. People also don't recognize the difference between Attention Deficit and Lower Attention Span, similar but so different. And many thinks to have adhd when they don't
It's depressing she seemingly wanted him to be "normal". Normal job, normal transportation, normal appearance in general. It probably looked wrong to her him making money through a card game and preforming on the street. He was happier and financially better off before being forced into this normality. But seeing him happy wasn't good enough. That's a major red flag.
@@Nickel1768 What's super weird to me is car fixation. Cars are objectively horrible investments because they never appreciate. The only exception is if you get extremely lucky and buy a vehicle that is now considered a classic, and can find a collector to sell it to, after constantly maintaining it and making sure it doesn't seize up for decades. His wife didn't care about any form of wellness, including financial. She wanted a husband that she could parade around as a status symbol and nothing more.
@@Nickel1768 It's probably a fixation on social status. She wants somebody that will impress people for her, and his nerdy hobby was at odds with that.
@@alliinase9076 thats facts some women want to flex their husbands status to their friends and social media those people are major red flags, we live to live not to impress.
I was in a similar situation a few years ago, but wirh my mom: she kinda disliked that I played video games, even if when I was a child, she had nothing against me owning a computer, but as an adult, she would always complain that I should start looking for a serious job and that "video games are a bad hobby". Needless to say, I got hired in the video game industry and it's a bit funny to hear my mother talk now
My mom hates that Im into nerd culture and accepting of other views and hobbies. She always tore me down and said I could be putting that energy to better use. Difference is my mom just hates me and doesnt like my career choices either. We are NC now
I know this guy. Met him a handful of times at yugioh conventions spanning the last 15+ Years, he was doing content on yugioh way before “influencers” and “content creators” were even phrases/words we used. He was here before all the guys you can think of. Ironically he’s more popular now than before hopefully he makes a return
My ex was genuinely pissed i told her if i had kids id let them watch spongebob. She watched spongebob as a kid too but completely cut it out of her life when she saw the spongebob 7 deadly sins theory she saw online and took it like she read it in the bible.... i told her we wouldnt be compatible if she was gonna be this heated over a childrens cartoon because someone made a fan theory over 10 years ago at least because the show overexagerates characteristics for a childrens cartoon.
I could see not wanting to show a kid SpongeBob till they were around 6 but that's just cause SpongeBob is annoying and I wouldn't want my kid imitating those behaviors. By the time they're in school social pressure should somewhat mollify the worse parts of those behaviors.
@HeartReeves literally my mom wouldn't allow us to watch spongebob when she was home solely because the show annoyed her. She didn't make this entire excuse because she saw a creepy pasta theory to hide it away from me and my sisters.
I understand this guy so much! My ex hated everything I did. I always needed a better job, needed to dress better, needed to do more around the apartment, needed to learn to cook better, the list goes on and ON. It’s not just your hobby, these types of people tear every unique piece of you apart so they can try to mold you into what they are looking for. They don’t want to find someone for them, they just need to find someone to put up with them and then change them into what they want. The relief I feel now being with someone who doesn’t try to change me is life changing. I hope this man finds someone that supports him in his life.
Man I genuinely cannot imagine doing something like that. I dont know much about yugioh but I have played magic since middle school and I would never give up my collection. Its not just money its years of memories and friends and experiences all tied to the game, even if you ignore the finances I dont think I could ever emotionally recover
YourYugiohChannel filmed one of the most popular yugioh memes. (It's a dude in a sleeveless shirt acting hurt and doing the 'dingdingdingdingdiing' life point sound). This dude makes cool content.
Like for real, a woman having a complaint over how her man makes money and then degrades him by doing it is not a woman you should be sharing your life with. She was a real Continuous Trap Card and costed him 2000 Life Points every turn.
i would be buying the cards for him, i’d watch him play while he was recording , shiiiid id join him in a game or 2!!! becoming profitable online is not easy n she passed up one that was successful enough to maintain the home financially while doing what he loves to do??!!!??? man oh man
I had to come back on my second a ccount!!! we really try to go above and beyond for our person but when you have to change everything, thats how you know they are not for you!!
I hope he finds a woman who loves HIM and not herself, who doesn't want to change him for the worst when he's happy with himself. He deserves someone like that.
the main reason i as a gamer wife cant make other female friends is because alot of women truly see me as a child. they think me playing games like red dead instead of watching the sopranos on my ass all day makes me childish. i cant imagine how they feel about men
yeah, its hard out here, we are not even allowed to have hobbies, such as playing video games, otherwise we need to find something that isn't "childish"
Kinda has me scared being 20yo and a guy. Especially since my family is so dead set on me getting a degree at college *despite the fact I suffered major burnout and a near dip in mental sanity* and having just a small bit of fun with games is an issue. Makes me wonder if that's going to get far worse when the time comes that I meet someone...
I am glad I feel like for people a tiny bit younger now like me at 22 it's way more accepted now regardless of gender. My friends regardless of if they are boy or girl there's usually plenty of games or other stuff we can do and just have fun. Same as no one has ever seen my girlfriend playing games as weird, it's just normal nowadays at least where I live
I promise you there are A LOT of girls who also play video games as a hobby all over the place. :) If you keep running into folk who think you're childish for enjoying a legitimate hobby, they not your people. There's guys and gals out there that only know how to tear down, not build up. You'll find your people soon!
My boyfriend is into LoL, like a nerd degree. I always watch him play and listen to him when he explains stuff and lore. honestly, I don’t understand how some people can’t just support their partners😭
@@michelle7455 Idk, if he's stuck with league as it has progressively gotten worse with each update for a decade and a half, he'll probably stick with you through anything. If anything it seems like a green flag to me.
My husband is a huge nerd for halo, and I’m terrible at playing games. That being said I still buy him cool sets for holidays, watch him play from time to time, and even let him explain the lore and ask him questions about it even if I already know the answer. It’s not my passion, but it’s his, and seeing him light up when he engages in it makes him even more the person I love. It’s not hard to be supportive even if it’s not a shared interest.
That’s everything a spartan could want
I agree, when you love someone you support their interests or hobbies or career choices, esp if that's what they were into when you met. As long as it's not hurting anyone, you both support each other and it's reciprocal. I can't be with someone who craps on my special interests or what I'm passionate about even if it seems silly to other people.
same with me and my husband's lego obsession. i feel so happy to see him enjoy things, why would someone not like seeing their partner love things
@@Mymusicandsht And you’re a low effort troll. How pathetic.
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Yu-Gi-Oh did not make that crazy lady cry. She made herself cry in an attempt to emotionally manipulate him.
@@eh1176 fact
Preach!
"I didn't make Gordan Ramsay cry. He made himself cry. It was his choice." - Michael Pierre White
If I told my wife I was paying bills by sitting at home talking and trading children’s cards she would be so happy lol
Hit the nail on the head
I broke up with a girl a while back. She said I was difficult to train but she would break me eventually. She was a bit drunk during this confession. I asked what she was training me to do. She said to do whatever the hell she says. I broke up with her right there. Nobody needs that kind of crazy.
Dang, she did the whole villain monologue revealing her evil master plan. Sometimes alcohol can be a truth serum. Glad you escaped that death trap, 007. Lol
@@sunnysied713 I never thought about it like that, but you're right lol. I got her monologuing like syndrome. I appreciate it brother. I hope you can avoid/escape it as well
That's disgusting, you aren't a dog, she didn't deserve you and she doesn't deserve to be in a relationship until she wakes up. People need to start treating others how they want to be treated I bet she would hate if a guy said that crap to her 😠
slide that on over here little bro (*joke)
oh god that's psycho behaviour
I'll never understand people who belittle or make fun of someone's simple happiness. Hobbies and passion are what drives most of us to keep living.
Exactly, and those people who belittle others don’t have a passion of their own. They’re jealous and putting others down becomes their passion.
@@ChannelCreator Exactly
The GALL of that woman to ask "Why you not paying the bills working your 9-5?" when his passion was already doing that for them! I hope this guy finds genuine love
It all boils down to image; clearly she felt embarrassed to ever mention that her husband was making money with "childrens card game" so she wanted to change him for HER benefit, not his, fuck those people
Nah he’s a lame. A yugioh player 😂
Nobody respond to the person above me, they thrive off online arguments.
@@malfaroangel3896 and here you are, watching a video about a video of a guy that plays yugioh. That puts you multiple levels below him
@@malfaroangel3896 I'm laughing at you not with you
It she can't love you at Kuriboh, she doesn't deserve you at your Dark magician
Correct @Ronnie_mcfloyd9
Lmao
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Bwahhahaha😂
you stole this comment
If you guys don't know. YourYugiohChannel was a huge pillar in Yu-Gi-Oh TH-cam. Us in the community loved every video he put out and they're still classics till this day. He would frequently leave the scene in and out until he sold his channel to a friend and left completely. Years later he bought his channel back and would occasionally drop a video every blue moon. Until a few months ago he started uploading more, more vlogs than anything and that's when he dropped the bomb about his life and his current situation. The Yu-Gi-Oh community had no idea he was going through this and if we did we would've helped our brother out. (At least I'd like to believe it)
Oh and how could I forget. He had to go on walks by himself to even make a video and express his emotions. He's the goat and will forever be YourYugiohChannel.
Yall find him a wife from the fandom!
Thank you for this awesome summary ❤❤
@@OVOJacob3imagine being negative in every single aspect in your life including something small like a TH-cam comment 😭😭
@@YourYugiohChannel hi
@@OVOJacob3 if only you could read...
2 things.
1. I have a good STEM degree from a GREAT uni. I haven't been able to get a job in my field, which is a very popular field, while actively looking for one in over 1 year.
2. My SO plays League competitively. I hate that game with a passion. It's one of the few games I genuinely don't like. He watches competitions & videos of other pelple playing. He loves to rant about it. I don't understand half of the intricate breakdowns he rambles on about bc the closest thing I enjoy to League is Smite. But I listen to every word. I would watch with him. I cheer him on. I ask him questions about it. I love to hear him talk about it. Not bc of the content... but bc of the passion in his voice & words. Bc of the way his eyes light up & how his voice gets that excited lilt. How I can hear the physical smile while he talks & the animated hand gestures. How I can see the planning & strategizing going on in his head & how fun that is for him. I *love* seeing him love something. I love seeing him happy & love seeing him enjoy something. I'd play if he asked me to. Begrudgingly, but I would. 😅 He knows I don't enjoy it, so I think he doesn't ask bc of that. We play other things together haha. League is his thing. I cannot imagine a world in which I would be with a partner where I'd want to rip all those vibrant colours from them & leave them with a world of monotones. How awful.
You sound like an awesome human. Blessings to you and your man!!
Same.
My husband is the entire reason I'm reconnecting with my hobbies I set aside to build our marriage and help his education.
Now my husband is able to make good living off his hobby. We have hobbies we do together and separate hobbies.
My husband hates himself even though I willingly have my hobbies because he says I ended up fading away.
I'm taking small steps because I don't feel remotely as creative as I used to.
You said smite and I liked the post ♥️
Well said.
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Honestly, if your significant other doesn’t support your personal interests then you weren’t compatible to begin with.
Not the bots again
My personal interest is gambling my son's college fund
@@giovanniruffinoni4832don't give up brother, you know what they say about 99% of gamblers 💪
Thats not a "personal interest" thats something you called addiction which is completely different. @@giovanniruffinoni4832
@@4head992 99% of gamblers quit right before they hit big!
I ain't a Yu-Gi-Oh fan, but divorcing someone purely because of his hobby... THAT'S PAYING THE BILLS is beyond crazy. I would rather my partner find something that their passionate about that makes money at the same time, then work 8+ hours out of the house and be miserable. Hope he finds someone that truly appreciates him.
What aggravated me further was how she and her family demonized him for not having a traditional 9 to 5. Pushed him to get one, THEN she complains about him not being able to provide for the two of them.
The GALL it takes to force someone to leave a well paying stint to conform to your ideas about what is and is not a well paying job and then also expecting them to pay for the two of them is ABSURD. What about her getting a job? Why is a single person expected to change everything about them to satisfy the other and then berated and make them feel incompetent about not being able to provide because that just screams toxic relationship to me. I hope this dude is in a better place now and finds someone who truly appreciates him.
I'm glad my girlfriend is able to provide for the both of us working for OF
At the end of the day it sounds like they got divorced cos they did t like eachother
i was looking at your channel and idk if you noticed but your last video is muted
@@67877hh OMG. Thank you for telling me. I'm gonna fix it right away!
She didn't respect him in the first place. Thats it. If the man was actually making a living and she still saw it as a negative, even with what he was doing not being negative in of itself, she just didn't respect him. Period.
Excatly shes just dosrespectful and evil for making him drop his hobby
This don’t if your love it and making money. She definitely didn’t need to be there ever.
I think lots of women instinctively get the "ick" whenever their man isn't being productive and financially gainful. In it's crassist form, it's a mentality of "your primary value is to bring in money so if you're playing video games or taking a nap on a Saturday afternoon your existence is useless." Maybe her lady brain couldn't separate the "childish card game" from the "this card game pays the bills?"
Exactly but she probably the type of woman to praise a woman making a living on Onlyfans.
She was probably embarrassed of him. Her friends probably made comments about how her husband looks childish and weak.
9:11 he never let yugioh take over. We saw him come to locals less and less. Eventually only seeing him at case tournaments. This hurts my heart more than ever he was such a nice person.
All Yugioh jokes aside, my heart honestly broke for this guy. Been in a similar situation and his video really resonated with me. I hope he’s doing better these days
Hope you're doing better these days too bro x
You also plat shitty card games and peiple told you to stop?
Was your's Pokeman cards?
i also hope you're doing better ^_^
Yeah he seems like a pretty cool dude
I had a similar situation, but I wasn’t married; she was my girlfriend for 1.5 years. I used to play in a metalcore band, had lots of gigs, and really loved the culture, the music, and especially performing. However, she tried to manipulate me in a similar way. She asked me to leave the band, even though it never affected our relationship in any way. It felt like she didn’t want me to enjoy the things I loved in life.
We broke up when she said she didn’t like my brother and wanted me to stop speaking to him.
I don’t know what her intentions were, but it seemed like she wanted me to give up everything I cared about in life.
Sounds like she was a legit psycho. Good on you for leaving that behind
You made a good decision to leave her. Sounds like she wanted to isolate you from any sense of community
My ex was like this when I was a freshman in high school. I even remember stepping out of my comfort zone and going to an event that was set up for our ROTC class for her. I think it was a Ball of some kind which was a step out of my comfort zone due to how introverted I was.
Fast forward to a few months, she starts making up all these lies about my friends and trying everything in her power to make me cut ties with them. She eventually broke up with me after an argument over the phone.
After that, my friend invited me to play some Destiny and I told him what happened. After half an hour, I was happier again, his jokes always got a laugh outta me
Never break up a band over a girl
Glad you broke up with her and still have your passions.
I had an ex that hated me playing video games. It was like she didn't like how happy they were making me lol. She would tell me my online buddies weren't real friends (still talk to a handful of them today. We've known each other for 10 plus years) and that video games were a waste of time. Even hit me with the "you could do something so much better with your time" as i would work 10 plus hours a day so my time was already kind of limited for myself.
She then would then sit on the couch, scroll refreshing Instagram while reality shows were in the background....for hours lol.
Needless to say...she's an ex for a reason.
Technically, every hobby can be considered a "waste of time", but if it's something that you're passionate about, you find enjoyment out of, and its JUST a hobby and not an addiction, then I say F what the haters say.
I've been gaming for as long as I can remember and I don't plan on stopping anytime soon.
I'll never understand why there's some folks out there who crap on someone else's passion because THEY don't understand it.
Of all hobbies tbf gaming is cheapest 😂 kinda. She'd really have something to bitch about if it was fishing cause that is not a cheap hobby
I'm going to guess that your wife didn't like you playing video games because it took your attention away from her (regardless of what she was doing). My ex hated me reading, he said I was ignoring him. I had to wait until he was asleep & read in bed with a flashlight...because heaven forbid I didn't go to bed when he did. It isn't what we're doing that upsets these people, it's that we're doing it.
Living itself is wasting time if we boil it down.
Online friends are the best, because there is no obligation to meet up and when we do it's always really exciting.
I was the best man in one of my online friend's wedding and another online friend provided me with a job. No "real" friend has done shit for me, they can just keep them all to themselves 😂
I play pot of greed which allows me to draw the divorce papers from my deck
Ahhh I see what you did.
Being on the yugioh side of TH-cam for the past 12 years Youryugiohchannel was so prolific and I always wondered what happened to him. I’m sad that happened to him but happy he has made a return. Thanks for covering Charlie
He's come back to making videos again which is great
Surprisingly, I hadn't heard of him despite 9 years in the community, but he has my attention.
I really hope he is able to do what he loves now. That sort of mental beatdown is awful.
Btw he is one the OG yugitubers of back in the day. Dude would play yugioh and play saxophone to make money while going to college. He has probably highest respects of the yugitubers out there. Dude is an incredibly sweet guy
yea youryugioh channel was great! and it's a MELLOPHONE! I remember him doing a video about the instrument he would play, and the forest videos where he would go in the middle of the forest like some serial killer (and talk about yugioh) haha good times. He also set up Drew to be a yugituber, the "yugioh hustler", and his red eyes deck!
I know nothing about Yougioh but the name “Yugitubers” is amazing
I didn't even know who he was but someone mentioned that he has been around for 15 years so I imagine he is extremely established.
He's a prime example of how some women are very very very bad for you
When i met my wife in the late 1990's, i was heavily into LARP. My wife wasn't and still isn't.
But she tried it twice, went along to a "Vampire" 1-day LARP.
She understood why people liked it, but it wasn't her thing.
But she's supportive.
Often when an event is coming up, she might remind me to check if i need to buy some new gear or something.
Twice in the last 15 years i read about a new event and was hesitant about it, only for her to encourage me to at least TRY the new event once.
She has her hobbies and things too, things i'm not into.
But for me, i occasionally buy her something she can use or ask HER if she needs anything for her hobbies.
Man. I want that so bad
You’re a very rich man ❤
dam ur old
based
@@iamewptime flies, your generation has an unhealthy obsession with age, you will be “old” in a few weeks with that logic
Vampire the masquerade? Nice
I’ve dated people who HATED my hobbies!( 1:12 miniatures and doll collecting) I was so miserable and anxious… thankfully my boyfriend is fantastic! He loves hearing me talk and show off my collection/ work. I do the same for him too. there is someone out there who will enjoy watching you be happy. Be alone rather than be with someone who hates a happy part of you.
My husband's not in to my hobbies(otome games and farmsims and similar) but we both game and he supports me in my love of the genres I do. He doesn't belittle me and I don't belittle him(even tho some of his games I also am meh on). And then we both are gaga over Balatro. xD
Never try to ruin the spark of what makes someone themself and claim it's from love. Frick that.
As a new Yugioh fan, I feel so sorry for this guy.
The wife really sent their marriage to the shadow realm
I second that notion, though it's more as a returning Yu-Gi-Oh! fan of sorts myself.
You learn fast
Modern Women are Zorc
😂 I see we have someone of culture in the comments 😂
wow you said the thing bravo!
The thing about partners who insist you change is that, usually, it never ends. You change one thing, and then they find something else they want to change. If they don't like the person you are, you need to find someone who does.
Changing shit behaviours = yes
Changing someone's hobbies (cos u don't like them) = GTFO HERE
@Originalantithesis yeah, the nuance is super important, I'm not one for the whole "I can fix them" thing, but if your SO happens to have some problems (addiction, depression, etc...) then you should 100% do your best to help them through it.
@tiagobelo4965 yeh fr! Especially if they are wanting to change off of their own accord. They want to be better type thing. Giving them some support can make all the difference.
I was just living my life, dating a dude who seemed to like me for "me" until he started telling me how to dress. He liked how I looked until he didn't and told me to tone it down lmao. He was a fvckin loser for even suggesting that to me. To everyone reading this= never change how you express yourself! If it's harmless, and you enjoy it then keep doing you. Don't listen to others who shame you into changing.
Sometimes, they provoke in attempts to end a relationship.
I had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend and video games. She was the most selfish, horrible person I've ever dated. She didn't support me in what I was doing for fun despite having a full time job, spending time with her and still maintaining my responsibilities. Eventually I left and found a new relationship where my partner is similar to me and loves everything I'm into. If your partner hates your interests and wants you to change, then leave them and find someone better because you'll be happier single.
glad you're doing better with someone real
💯
Why date someone who's selfish, horrible, hates you and what you like to do.
I told my wife the title of this video (we already know the story) and her response was "it wasnt about yugioh, it was about a b*tch".
You don't have to share all your hobbies, but you DO need to respect each others hobbies. Nobody who cares about you should ever make you feel bad about something that makes you happy.
Luckily, when I told my wife about yugioh, her response was "can we play it together?". Don't settle for "fine" my dudes. You deserve someone who gets you. 👍
I work a 9-5 job, I got a masters, and still have a second job. My girlfriend got upset due to the fact I like to play games with my siblings online and watch anime in my free time. She told me I should be learning new skills or something and I told her no. We had a healthy discussion that I enjoy what I do now. She apologized and things are good. I will never compromise my happiness to benefit other people unless it’s a future child of mine.
What if your clone appears and asks you for help with their child?
You got a second job and still have enough time to play video games? Hell yeah bro. Nice
@@SpectraVoidbornthank you for your contribution here in the search for philosophical truth
incel
People don't simply change because you explained it to her. She still hates what you do and has no respect for you. Eventually it will come out again.
PSA to everyone ever: if your partner ever demands that you quit a hobby or get rid of something you care about, *run.* Even if they claim it's an obsession problem, talk to a therapist first to be sure whether there is an actual problem. Abusers love to control their victims in every way possible, right down to what they do with their spare time that doesn't include them. First it'll be your youtube channel and your yu-gi-oh cards, then it might be a memorial of someone you loved who passed, or a childhood comfort item, or your favorite piece of art, or your friends, or your pets, or your family, or your privacy online, or your finances...
I needed this man. You’re 100% right. My girlfriend keeps telling me to stop doing heroin. Now I know I need to run!! She’s trying to manipulate me to giving up my favorite hobby and it’s not right.
what about drugs
@@MrBigbrowniesdepends who you've been with longer, the drugs or the girl
@@MrBigbrownies That is a ridiculous extreme ofc you should quit. You are comparing a card game collection hobby vs drug addiction. Thats why he said talk to therapist first.
@@Iridxscent Ik but the things he said can eerily be said about drugs too. Yes it could be a ridiculous extreme to you but drugs are also a hobby to some people. I used to talk to a girl that vaped a lot and once i found out I kinda wanted her to quit if she wanted to be my GF. Naturally she didnt quit so maybe drugs are really hobbies to people.
Yup, I’ve been there. My ex had an issue with video games because her dad apparently used to be a game tester, would play games all the time and neglect her and her sister over it. I’m a gamer. We met and she told me she was okay with me playing video games but I “needed to tell her a time slot of each week when I could play them”. Not because I was playing video games for 12 hours straight or because she needed to plan events around it, she just wanted me to play video games for less than 2 hours a week because of her dad. I gave her what she wanted and found myself always doing her hobbies. We always got to hang out with HER friends doing HER hobbies because she wouldn’t let me do what I wanted to do. Fast forward 6 months and I was probably in the most unhappy relationship I’ve ever been in. And the worst part is I told her multiple times that I was unhappy and that I wanted to do hobbies that I liked and she kept gaslighting and manipulating me into thinking I was wrong for saying that.
Dude when I broke up with her, I’ve never been happier. I’m in a relationship now where my girlfriend doesnt mind my hobby. She isn’t a gamer, she’s a girly girl. She likes makeup and styling her hair, but she still doesn’t mind if I play video games or she’ll actually play them with me. I didn’t know that’s what a normal relationship was like until I met this girl. If your girlfriend does not care for you and make you happy the majority of the time, then break up with her and get you one that will. It’s literally each of your jobs to take care and make sure the other person in your relationship is happy.
Where did you go to meet women?
@@LobotomyGuy Outside.
Or more specifically, in areas where women are likely to gather. Pick up a social hobby, go to community classes or go to social events. There's useful apps that show local things going on in your area.
Google it.
Don't go to meet women, but to find people with similar interests to you. There, you will find someone who you enjoy spending time with, and maybe that person will be a woman. And take it from there.
Your ex and this Yugioh guy's ex both desperately need therapy. It's not at all normal to want to have that level of control and authority over your partner's life. I'm glad you found a woman who lets you be yourself and is satisfied with the attention she gets from you.
Glad to hear that you ended your relationship with her. I like playing video games as well but now with work and everything else, maybe a couple hours a week or less. I understand that some sacrifice will come in a relationship but nothing that changes who you are or what you are passionate about.
@@LobotomyGuy The fuc is this question
"Its me or the _"
Always choose the _.
fent
DO IT YUGI, SEND HER THE ALIMONY
@Burneraccount-m3l We couldn't care less
Monsta cardo!!!
No kid
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9womp womp
@@geptow_2005thats a bot you just replied to
The divorce was a trap card
More like the marriage was the trap card 😂😉
Lmao best comment 😂
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9shut up Floyd
If anything, a blessing.
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9 You've been spamming the same comment, how much of a loser you have to be to be looking for someone to give you the slightest bit of attention your inner kid needs.
at least he got his priorities straight🤷♂️
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9bro is multiverse george floyd
@@OVOJacob3
No way you're always coming back just to insult some random person on Charlie's Comments 24/7
@@DanielArtsAlt-726It's just a bot, report it
@@David.77 Not quite, they will say something different just about each time, and it's some kid trying to be annoying to just get some attention
Unlike his ex and her family😂😂
Bro I'm pissed, I was with someone like this, I was moving into a new place and I was setting up some posters, I was putting up an AC Black Flag poster and she started crying and saying "I feel like I'm with a 7 year old!" My blood boils just thinking about it....wanted to come along and change me, but happy ending, shes long gone and my wife supports my hobbies
She must've been upset they weren't dark souls or Witcher posters
@@mactallica9293 i mean you say that as if black flag isn't a great game with great aesthetics, it's in the same ball park.
I used to watch Your Yu-Gi-Oh Channel all the time back in Middle School. Sad to hear what he went through
Same here, I used to watch this guy all the time. Hadn't seen him a long time and then this video popped up on my feed randomly. Feel really bad for him.
@Burneraccount-m3l. No
Dang, so he could’ve been a CoryKenshin for the yugioh community if he had left her earlier?
I can totally relate to this man. I had a relationship at the beginning of the year that didn't support me in my hobby. My passion is drawing. I've been drawing since I was five or six years old. The problem is that I have a chronic disease of the cervical spine for a few years. So if I spent a certain amount of time drawing at my regular table, I would be in pain for several days. Instead of supporting me, he told me to give up my hobby, even though there are many ways to make the drawing setup easier on my back. I stopped drawing for him, even though there were ways to continue. I was extremely unhappy. Of course, there were other factors that led to our separation, for example that he forbade me to have a pet. In my own apartment, too. We didn't live together. Now I have a back-friendly setup and two wonderful cats. I've also been doing a back rehabilitation course for a few months. I've felt so much better since then. I'd rather be single than be dictated to how I live my life. I hope he finds someone that respects him and his choises. I sincerly do!
Good for you, it amazes me how people who hate pets manage to attract decent partners.
Whats a bigger red flag than being against pets without an alergy
As a fellow artist, if my man told me I could never draw, i know in my heart of hearts I’d be very unhappy. I’m really happy you’re now drawing, doing back therapy and have some kitties now! You deserve it
I shattered at 38 in COVID. I have gotten better. My hobby now generates gifts that I love creating. I just ordered 256 alcohol markers for a Christmas present. I have some Copic and Ohuhu. They are increasing in price I found a great reviewed product for £70 256 pens. My family are all putting £10 in. As you can see I'm not greedy.
If someone said stop drawing I would just laugh. I have ADHD and drawing takes 100 a second to 1 every art decision “oh crap wrong colour” 💯🇬🇧❤️
I shattered at 38 in COVID. I have gotten better. My hobby now generates gifts that I love creating. I just ordered 256 alcohol markers for a Christmas present. I have some Copic and Ohuhu. They are increasing in price I found a great reviewed product for £70 256 pens. My family are all putting £10 in. As you can see I'm not greedy.
If someone said stop drawing I would just laugh. I have ADHD and drawing takes 100 a second to 1 every art decision “oh crap wrong colour” 💯🇬🇧❤️
@@bubbadumps3747 I love my cats but I get it. They knock stuff over and track litter around. Some people don’t want to deal with that 🤷♀️
I once was with a woman who convinced me it was time to grow up and I sold my collection of games from various systems and eras, some really rare (estimated 2500 CDN) and sold it for not even enough to pay for a months rent at the time , $700 CDN .
NEVER AGAIN!!! Ive unfortunately abandoned the gaming collection but do own a rare *new* 3ds XL Hyrule Edition , an official N64 wireless controller and I started new collections that are pretty admirable now like my comicbook collection, rock collection, model kit collection and power ranger collection :)
Never let anyone do anything like this to you!! Let yourself be yourself !!
Is the 3DS actually that rare? I have the same one.
@LycanKai14 well I have it with original box and it's in pristine condition- but ya the system alone I believe sells for like $600 CDN
I sold all my figures at a yard sale in middle school for $40. Wasn’t because of a relationship but I still kinda have mixed feelings towards my mom for not being there with me to show me it’s okay to say no
It is sad that things turned out the way they did, but its time for him to heal and move on. Based on what that video said: Its was more of her image of what she wanted in her husband. She wanted her husband to provide but specifically in her way, it just felt so manipulative at times. As time passes she's forcing so many changes and he caved, to the point where things were mentally unhealthy for him. TLDR; they weren't a match for each other or things changed to the point there were no longer a match together.
Tom?
Hes going to find a girl who loves Yu'Gi-Oh and be a side character to his channel and it's going to be soooo wholesome and adorable its going to make his evil crazy ex jealous and then she's going to want to start any drama she can
Thats the W we all hoping for!
Imagine how CUTE though, and how happy he'll be!
Honestly I hope his channel blows up and he does find a partner who also loves yugioh so they can be happy together. Thatll be a big W for him
Are you writing a fanfiction for this guy? lmao
That'd be incredible they could even couple collab with Susu and Jen from HeadtoHead Battles :3
I had a childhood friend who was a huge nerd, he used to like anime, video games, lord of the rings, marvel/DC stuff.. He was the nicest guy I've ever met in my life! Dude was so cool people would be calling him asking to hang out daily! VERY nice guy!
But then he started dating some girl back in 2006~7.. And the girl made him go to the church, made him stop watching anime and all the stuff he loved.. He couldnt even go out with his friends because she was that type that would coltrol everything about the dude... I literally just saw my friend becoming another person through the years..
Then he started getting depressed, he got skinny AF.. And when he fell ill around 2010 the girl left him.. He died in 2012.
Sorry to hear about your friend. It's infuriating to hear that someone let someone else take control of their life like that. All for the irrational fear of being alone for a little longer.
He got ill because of her I'm sure as heck she contributed a lot in his malaise. She's indirectly responsible of his death
sorry about your friend but that partner was a parasite taking all his life and happiness until he has nothing left and sadly died and left him for another person to take another persons happiness.
sad to hear
This is just such a sad tale.
2:33 I bet she didn’t have any hobbies…
Tbh most girls these days dont have hobbies at all. They think doing makeup and drinking count as hobbies
The old classic "I like to travel" lol
@ not even an exaggeration
yup people that are obsessed with optics and appearances dont do shit in their free time, its why theyre always bored and always trying to stay busy with a packed social calendar.
@ very true. My best friend would always say hes busy. In his mind he thought he was making money moves. He was just laying down in his room watching tv. Like stop fooling yourself.
My boyfriend plays Magic the Gathering. He's spent a fair amount of money on Magic the Gathering and plays frequently with friends. You know what I do? I'm right there playing with him. MTG was one of the biggest things we bonded over. Even his hobbies that I'm not super well versed in, like his Gundams, I still respect. I honestly can't imagine judging him for something that he enjoys. Plus, he puts up with my Stitch collecting and other things I've been personally judged for. He and I made out like bandits in the dating world lol
And before anyone asks, I've been playing MTG since about 2010 but lost most of my collection over the years of moving and having a lot of my things tossed. I currently run a tweaked Blood Rites deck that kicks ass70% of the time. Still a work in progress.
Hello! 👋🏻 part of the yugioh community here; this video legit blew our minds for about a week and a half…. So happy to see him back on his feet
Cringe
@@indymaximus1566”cringe” - 🤓
Yeah, why didn't she go and get the degree? Why didn't she go and bring MORE income into the household? He did work, he already provided. She just wanted to sit on her rear and play conductor for someone else's life. Typical lazy manipulative psycho.
@@indymaximus1566 so?
@@indymaximus1566 are you aware of your profile picture my guy?
If she dont respect your hobbies, she aint worth it
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9Are you George reincarnated?
She didn't respect him.
Absolutely 💯
I’d like to hear her side of the story. It’s very easy to make someone the villain when we only have one pov, maybe he’s omitting a lot of his behavior and actions. I doubt it’s that black and white.
@@DLA. Victim blaming
I use to be in a relationship like this. I loved running and I would go out and hike and run all the time. My now ex hated it because she couldn't hike or run. She figured that since she can't do these things like I could, she made me feel bad for doing it. Eventually when I would go run or hike, she would do other things.. including mess around with other guys. Glad she's not in my life anymore
sounds like u dogded a bullet my friend :) Hope u are doing better then ever
Instead of dodged he 'ran away' from that bullet 😂
@@Nakul22099 🤣🤣
It’s ok Luna. Good riddance
what an absolute disgusting loser your ex was.
My husband is 33 years old, and he wants to skate again. I'm worry he is gonna get hurt? Obviously, do I really have knowledge on it? Very little because thanks to him but do I still try to support him? HELL YEAH. I help him choose the trucks for his board and we now deciding which color for wheels is gonna fit the board colors ❤
support each other's interests. Don't bash on it, or think your opinion of an interest is superior. You're doing fine, I'm sure it means the world to your husband and makes him super happy that you are partaking in his interest in some way and being ok and happy with him exploring it.
This is like a man's love language. Let us pursue our interests and support us along the way.
His wife basically wanted to change his former pastimes altogether, including the game. Luckily, the heart of the cards won in the end & he's back on the grind.
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9 who are you
Not just his pastimes but everything about him. She didn't like his interests, his education, his way of living or making money, etc. So what did she like? It just seems like their values didn't align anywhere.
@@Jay-mt6nu A Bot
She went into a loaded save and tried to restart it all
@@Jay-mt6nu it’s a bot ignore and report
In his wife's defense.
I can't imagine how worried I would be if my partner's hobby could result in them being sent to the Shadow Realm.
LOL
He would be fine if he had Stardust Dragon protecting him from destruction once per engagement
@@dubbyplaysIf he pendulum himself, he could come back next turn lol
@@HyperFire16you guys are just ruining a great comment with your Marshmallon jokes
not gunna lie but as a man. If a girl gives you an ultimatum. tell her to kick bricks and go somewhere else. Girls these days addicted to attention.
I remember watching his videos when I was a teenager. Being a girl and liking Yu-Gi-Oh instead of makeup and fashion was tough. However, his videos and those of other TH-camrs were always fun. Playing on Dueling Network and meeting people who shared my hobbies was a great help, especially when I couldn’t express myself in my environment! I’m glad you’re covering this topic, Charly, and I hope anyone who can support him does so ❤️.
omg my best friend went to college with this guy !!! he was always the sweetest, definitely deserved better. i really hate to hear that this happened to him. i hope he gets that love for Yugioh back honestly. nothing worst than a partner that keeps you from the things you love. my ex would fake panic attacks to keep me from going to dance classes 🙃
1:26 Cartoon character getting electrocuted sound
LMAOOOOOO
Underrated comment
What the hell
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
Yo, he was more than just a yu-gi-oh channel too. I used to watch his videos about playing the mellophone when I was in public school. I didn’t go to a great school, so videos were my only way to tell if I was any good at my instrument, and people
Like him who made that content are how I ended up as a band director. I wish for only good things for this man, his passion inspires others.
“Marrying your number one hater” is madness
Your hilarious buddy😭
😂
@Ronnie_mcfloyd9 when you say NOBODY...how many you speak for
@@Jay-mt6nu it's a bot, don't reply to it and just report the comment/channel.
@@Gabeishim123 Madness?
THIS. IS. YUGIOOOOOO!!!
Which way to the door?
BRUH I REMEMBER THIS GUY'S CHANNEL HOLY SHIT. I was subscribed to YourYugiohChannel!
"Hey, get a hobby!"
"ok"
"No wait, not THAT hobby!"
@13:30 the fucking irritation i had hearing him describe her ASKING HIM TO GET A HOBBY WHEN SHE STOL- i'm happy he's free of her.
When I heard that from this video I was so pissed off so bad I almost punched something in my room
pretty illuminating that she said "why aren't you paying the bills?" but there was never any mention of her own income, her own hobbies or interests and the amount of time she was devoting to them, any suggestion that she could put a little work in herself to cover the gap...
The classic, what's yours is ours and what's mine is mine. Except for the fact that she didn't have anything to bring to the table to begin with.
Typical feminists
Women crave love drama bro so she had to create it from somewhere especially if she seen how those things made him happy while she was unhappy with herself triggered it more lol as u can see with him giving up everything to her liking and still was unhappy because she had no more room to create drama lol
@@Wunounoit’s not women. It’s controlling and manipulative people in general. I’m a card collector and content creator and almost all of my free time goes toward that. My wife has no interest in cards but fully supports me, rips cards with me time to time and doesn’t make me feel bad about it. It’s not a gender thing and that’s not what Charlie is trying to say either
@@Wunouno idk why ur adding gender into it, i've seen many men act the exact same way.
As that user in Charlie's stream said "I would cry tears of my joy if my partnered loved their job", and this is quite true. My boyfriend is a plumber/pipefitter and he loves his work. He always gets so happy when he talks about his work. Sure I can't make sense of the stuff he's saying but it's great that he has found a career that he likes and enjoys and it is benefitting others as well.
7:13 HEY! do not slander us Digimon fans like that! We're way more accepting towards other monster franchise fans than this woman!
I can second that!
yeah, that came out of nowhere. Is that a stereotype I didn't know about or something?
Yeah! Don't slander the Digimon fans, all three are right here!
@@Flairway00 pretty sure it was a callback to back when pokemon and digimon fans had a "fued" on the net about which was better, or something.
Make that four
"So what do you like to do?"
I play yugioh and music😊
"And what do you do for a living?"
I play yugioh and music😊
"...Not Anymore."
To the Shadow Realm with her
It's always "you can do better with your life" but never "I can look at what I could do with myself to not get upset with what he's doing"
Parasites gotta parasite.
@@samjones9600 It's literally not even like that. It's about control of your presentation not about taking things from you. She doesn't want to date someone that will make her look bad. She likes you but she doesn't like what you're into or your personality. So she wants you to get rid of that
I always hated the "You can do better in life" because no... not everyone can do better and not everyone's "better" is the same as yours. This dude was doing better than most folks, he could pay for the bills, food, entertainment around the house and be home with the biggest smile on his face and social battery ready to spend on his OS. There are so many couples that wish they can afford just HALF of those things, couples who wish their overworked OS could home with a smile and want to spend the rest of the day with them. If she couldn't see how good she had it then she's in for a rude wake up call when she realizes a man that works 9 to 5 to pay for everything means she get's less of his affection because the hours home are spent on making sure he eats, showers, and get's enough sleep for another soul sucking day at work. Away from her.
100% chance this guy’s church leadership had a hand in this.
100%
I had this issue with an ex who saw my comic collection and first response was
"When I move in we can get rid of all this, the library has all the books you need."
Yeah I made up my mind pretty much then.
smart move
Absolutely not, lol. Good dodge, bro
It's wild how narrow-minded and clueless some people are about various hobbies. They see comics and think "oh those are just books, like any book", and assume that both you and the hobby are that shallow and a library is all you need. That's like telling your SO who likes to cook that they don't need a stove or cookware because McDonald's is around the corner; it totally misses the point. Glad you dodged that bullet.
@@fungisrock8955 Tbf I did have a collection of books as well, just not as much as comics, but yeah she never truly understood that it was my hobby, I brought it up later and I told her I hoped she was joking about getting rid of my collection, cause it was important to me. I told her I attach a lot of memories to each thing I read, my dad bought me some of the books in my collection and the comics I got were at different periods of growth in my life. Its kinda a physical reminder of my personal life for me. She thought that was silly and it pretty much put a nail in any future together. Yeah I love cooking as well and have had a situation like that arise as well 🤣, I genuinely like to eat for enjoyment, not just sustenance and I like being creative with cooking.
@@Ashguy733 what kind of home she grow up in to be so Hostile to Books lol.
Never accept people in your life who ridicule and deride you endlessly. It's one thing to tell an occasional joke on someone once you are close and have an understanding, but straight up shitting on someone is never acceptable.
He should’ve said “the day you beat me in a duel, is the day I quit.” If he gets lucky, she falls in love with the game
When the way he said he'd just hop on a 20 minute bus to get to where he busks, gave the feeling that he was very content with how his life was. Doing things he loved earning money from home with a game he loves. He was so content in his life and then his (thankfully) now ex-wife just blew it all up
Weirdly it's like he wasn't a "real" man? Because his hobbies were "childish" and he was happy.
"Be obsessed with football like a REAL man, so I can complain about that too!"
Crazy. I am into martial arts and imagine if I turned a girl down just because she was strong or her hobby wasn’t “girly.” Many people, men and women, sabotage their own blessings. But from my perspective, it seems women do it a loooooot more. Psalms 9:21
i once dated a person who hated everything i was into except metal music. it is the most soul crushing experience. keeping everything to yourself when you wanna share it with the person you love is frustratingly sad to deal with
Question: did you guys sit down and get to know each other before making it official? That should have been when you find out that the other person doesn’t like the same things as you…. So I’m confused as to how you would even date that person anyway..
I would totally divorce someone for liking metal. I would rather be married to a serial killer than a metal head
What are these replies😭
@@janeeyx5672 long story short, her true feelings on topics were kept hidden till we were a good bit in. “Not who I thought you were” type shit lol
@@ArmedandDangerous918 👌
I used to watch youryugiohchannel as a kid. I’m pretty sure we live in the same state. In old videos I’ve seem him & some other youtubers @ what looks like a locals that I went to like twice. I haven’t played YGO since pendulums came out & scared me away but this man has been a big part of my childhood
Pendulums scared you away? check out links
Man, this hits right at home. I hate working regular jobs, and I love doing food delivery through DoorDash and Uber eats. I actually make on average a little over $1000 a week profit minus taxes and expenses. Not to mention what I make from web and graphic design. My wife is constantly telling me to get a "real job" when I know for a fact a "real job" would pay less. Everyone assumes I don't make enough money when I tell them what I do. Yet, the web and graphic design alone pays all my bills and living expenses. Its really tiering...
That sucks man and I hope things work out for you I don't understand why people act like some jobs aren't "real jobs" As far as I'm concerned if you make money it's a job
I seriously feel for this guy. I just got divorced after barely a year of marriage and not even after my son turned 1. DO NOT let anyone control you. 10yr relationship, 1yr of marriage and not even a year after my son was born and tried to control my life and my interests and hobbies.
A lot of the times it’s the girls friends telling the wife or girlfriend he’s not enough cause they compare guys based off their relationships or online relationships. My buddy broke up with his girl cause the girlfriend didn’t like he worked at a convenience store which he owned. He’s Indian and all her friends made fun of him being Indian and going the stereotype route. What’s funny is he’s the most wealthy out of all her friends but all they see is a man taking orders from customers. She regrets it now cause he owns 4 liquor stores with slots plus 2 franchise subways. Also he has full custody of the kid they had. After they broke up she ended up marrying a wanna be rich guy that was selling meth
My best friend and his wife were together for awhile as well had a kid together she's like 6 I think now but they got married last year and I won't go into details but to sum it up my buddy told me "this has been the worst year of my life" and the sad part is he loves his wife and loves family life. But after they got married she started acting waaaaaay different.
Well the first year your child is born is an extremely important time to be present for your partner and baby instead of focusing on yourself
This is why I choose to be single and rejected by women instead of finding validation.
For example, women finds men unattractive or.. dislikes men when they wear cartoon t-shirts or any other TV shows. Are you kidding me?!?!?
What attracts women are stuff that doesn't attract men's interests.
That's the problem.
Wanted you to babysit, didn't she?
Bro really said it's time to D-D-D-D- D-D-D-D-D-D-D-D-D-D -- DIVORCE!!!
UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
11:30 I'm sorry what? He had a job that he enjoyed doing and paid the bills for the both of them, yet he was forced to give it up and work for a career he didn't want because his SO didn't like his work? And then they wonder why he can't pay the bills?
If that's true, this relationship wasn't just toxic. It was radioactive.
She stayed because she thought she could change him but after a certain point he took back control
fallout 4 levels of radioactive
Yeah it’s very backwards I’m afraid to say that she might’ve been embarrassed of his hobbies
my bf is massively into dnd and i could never imagine asking him to give that up i watch him play and have him tell me all the lore because i love the way he lights up when he explains it *thats* love accepting and appreciating someone for who they are not trying to change them
i actually love that (at least in these clips) he never talks shit about his ex wife. it would have been easy to call her names, disrespect her, but hes just honestly saying how he feels without attacking her. very mature of him
Y'all kill me 😂💀🙄
She said “I can fix him” about a man who was where he wanted to be in life fr
And also didn't need to be fixed
Let me correct your sentence:
_I can mold him_
It's sad that people think it's ok to police your loved ones interests and jobs when they are harmless.
It's sad that people buy into this story hook line and sinker while clearly hearing only one side of the story. He could be 100% truthful but we don't actually know that...
@@Uragaan1 I mean... yeah, that's probably fair. I don't see any good reason to think he's lying, but that also doesn't mean there isn't another side to it.
@@Uragaan1 do you know he's lying? oh, you don't actually know that either.
@@Uragaan1 Typical Uragaan move, rolls into a discussion and drops his bundles of explosive shit everywhere.
@@CrizzyEyes lmao
“Not so fast, KAIBA. 😠 You don’t realize that I’ve already won! I summon to court, EX-WIFIA!!!”
girl saw tall, handsome and passionate and thought "i can fix his yu-gi-oh childish fad"
she didn't marry him, she married what she thought she could turn him into...
Once changed ,outcome will still be the same
Nah she wanted soneon to pay all the bills
@@LOUamber-n9l unfortunately it is likely. such a man will lose his passion, that spark that was attractive.
@@cagethelonewolf he did that. once he did what she wants, he earned less.
i suspect it was the disparity from her fantasy image and factual state of reality. she wanted something that doesn't exist.
but that is all mute now. she is gone and should stay away.
we just need to support him so he can get over this heartbreak as fast and without scars as it can be done.
Handsome???
the way she told him to "Find a hobby" after forcing him to drop his hobbies made my facepalm so hard
what a manace
same reason I gave up streaming 8 years ago right as I started picking up momentum.
GF at the time said "Me or the stream" and I quit overnight, dedicated all my time to her and then she cheated and left me 2 years later.
Do Your Thing and if your partner doesn't support it, get a new partner
Big fumble you were probably going to be as big as Kai cenat or moist critikal
I was there, I remember the streams
@@jetseal8437 i remember the time you gave 10 gifted, that was legendary mate
That’s on you. Sad you didn’t value the things you enjoyed enough.
it's so hard to look back at the time wasted on wrong priorities. to think of how i have cut out interests over partners distain/disapproval. choosing your own self worth over someone else's opinion is so much better but it's difficult when you believe they love you and you love them
I remember this guy.
I used to watch his videos alongside my friends all the way back in 2009-2012 if I'm not mistaken.
Good times and tough that he's gone through all of this.
I experienced this with my own wife, but with a different hobby. I was into working on cars after work and my wife HATED it. She didn’t want me focusing my time on something that wasn’t her. I ended up paying for my wife to get therapy because she realized she was insecure in the marriage and wanted constant validation and attention from me. Now she understands that hobbies are important and she has her own hobbies now too besides just focusing on me.
Yeah, well, for a while, my dad was into working on cars, and it was destroying the family's finances and consuming all of his time. I finally told him that he had 30 days to give up all the cars, or I was going to go to school and tell my teachers that he was abusing me. Hey, it worked.
Well, that's... Unexpected turn of events, but very cool to be honest!
Wish you best luck in your family and your hobby!
@@sarah2.017youre a pos and i have no doubt youve already falsely accused someone of that.
@@sarah2.017lmao oh you're a troll
Hey, that’s awesome that you sought out therapy and she did the work to become a better person.
"If you're embarrassed of your significant other, why are you with them in the first place?" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK, this is so important!!
I watched this a couple weeks ago. Didn’t expect to see it here. Hopefully this gets him better exposure.
Woah was not expecting these worlds to collide, been watching youryugioh channel and Charlie for years and its true the guy was pretty big in the Yu-Gi-Oh scene back in the day with a couple viral clips also. Baltimore yugioh scene is hilarious from his perspective and his channel was always a fun watch. Shame things went how they did, hopefully he can get a bigger audience again
A terrible side effect of this is it wasn't just _her_ opinion of him that was low, in forcing him to go back to school when he kept failing no matter how many semesters he paid for, friends started to look at him as if he were just lazy. He got a full 9-5 taking a _paycut_ and spent years trying to get his degree to make her happy, but people only saw his failure and assumed he had poor work ethic and just didn't care.
Forcing school on ADHD affected people should be a crime
@@dubbyplays You kinda make that sound like adhd make you unable to get through school or collage.
@@dubbyplays Forcing school on people who don't want to do school should be a crime. Some people on the spectrum go just fine in school, and some really do enjoy school. Some people who aren't on the spectrum DON'T do just fine in school. This isn't about your degree of neurodevelopment, this is your degree of personal wants in life.
@@Пинагод I'm referring to people who have struggles or neurodivergences that makes school a nightmare. Schools can't adapt to some people with specific issues, and forcing them to study even if they can't no matter what or force people to return to school when they were doing just fine without and had jobs, this is wrong.
I am in the spectrum and school has been only trauma for me
@@thorodinsson4752 it is if you have my condition. Imagine studying for 8 hours and forgetting everything the next day. Imagine studying and understanding what you're reading but being unable to explain it and teachers will act as if you didn't study and don't know even if you do.
ADHD is the worse enemy for studying. If someone has adhd and can still study and remember and focus on what he reads without getting lost in hundred other thoughts, then either they don't have adhd or it's not as worse as others. People also don't recognize the difference between Attention Deficit and Lower Attention Span, similar but so different. And many thinks to have adhd when they don't
It's depressing she seemingly wanted him to be "normal". Normal job, normal transportation, normal appearance in general. It probably looked wrong to her him making money through a card game and preforming on the street. He was happier and financially better off before being forced into this normality. But seeing him happy wasn't good enough. That's a major red flag.
It's such a weird response to see someone with a peaceful, humble life and want to "fix" them. The only thing I could think of is jealousy.
@@Nickel1768 What's super weird to me is car fixation. Cars are objectively horrible investments because they never appreciate. The only exception is if you get extremely lucky and buy a vehicle that is now considered a classic, and can find a collector to sell it to, after constantly maintaining it and making sure it doesn't seize up for decades. His wife didn't care about any form of wellness, including financial. She wanted a husband that she could parade around as a status symbol and nothing more.
@@Nickel1768 It's probably a fixation on social status. She wants somebody that will impress people for her, and his nerdy hobby was at odds with that.
His lifestyle sounds too tier tbh seems healthier mentally especially ❤
@@alliinase9076 thats facts some women want to flex their husbands status to their friends and social media those people are major red flags, we live to live not to impress.
I was in a similar situation a few years ago, but wirh my mom: she kinda disliked that I played video games, even if when I was a child, she had nothing against me owning a computer, but as an adult, she would always complain that I should start looking for a serious job and that "video games are a bad hobby". Needless to say, I got hired in the video game industry and it's a bit funny to hear my mother talk now
My mom hates that Im into nerd culture and accepting of other views and hobbies. She always tore me down and said I could be putting that energy to better use. Difference is my mom just hates me and doesnt like my career choices either. We are NC now
I know this guy. Met him a handful of times at yugioh conventions spanning the last 15+ Years, he was doing content on yugioh way before “influencers” and “content creators” were even phrases/words we used.
He was here before all the guys you can think of.
Ironically he’s more popular now than before hopefully he makes a return
Wife summoned pot of greed to draw 3 additional cards and take 50% of assets!
Pot of feminism
I don’t know what that card does
uhm, actually pot of greed lets you draw only 2 cards ☝️
@@youtube_deletes_comments "it does what it do, Yuug"
My ex was genuinely pissed i told her if i had kids id let them watch spongebob. She watched spongebob as a kid too but completely cut it out of her life when she saw the spongebob 7 deadly sins theory she saw online and took it like she read it in the bible.... i told her we wouldnt be compatible if she was gonna be this heated over a childrens cartoon because someone made a fan theory over 10 years ago at least because the show overexagerates characteristics for a childrens cartoon.
That's crazy dude haha, that's absolutely mental
this is genuinely one of the funniest things i've heard in a while
I could see not wanting to show a kid SpongeBob till they were around 6 but that's just cause SpongeBob is annoying and I wouldn't want my kid imitating those behaviors. By the time they're in school social pressure should somewhat mollify the worse parts of those behaviors.
@HeartReeves literally my mom wouldn't allow us to watch spongebob when she was home solely because the show annoyed her. She didn't make this entire excuse because she saw a creepy pasta theory to hide it away from me and my sisters.
pov: confirmation bias
I understand this guy so much! My ex hated everything I did. I always needed a better job, needed to dress better, needed to do more around the apartment, needed to learn to cook better, the list goes on and ON. It’s not just your hobby, these types of people tear every unique piece of you apart so they can try to mold you into what they are looking for. They don’t want to find someone for them, they just need to find someone to put up with them and then change them into what they want. The relief I feel now being with someone who doesn’t try to change me is life changing. I hope this man finds someone that supports him in his life.
Man I genuinely cannot imagine doing something like that. I dont know much about yugioh but I have played magic since middle school and I would never give up my collection. Its not just money its years of memories and friends and experiences all tied to the game, even if you ignore the finances I dont think I could ever emotionally recover
0:21 Called by the grave
Bro now I gotta crop it in the card
Lmaoo
😂😂
"Your ash is banished and negated.."😅😂
Chain Crossout
YourYugiohChannel filmed one of the most popular yugioh memes. (It's a dude in a sleeveless shirt acting hurt and doing the 'dingdingdingdingdiing' life point sound). This dude makes cool content.
Battlin boxer guy.
Breakdown of the video; “My wife divorced me because I was happy and made money with my hobby”
Like for real, a woman having a complaint over how her man makes money and then degrades him by doing it is not a woman you should be sharing your life with. She was a real Continuous Trap Card and costed him 2000 Life Points every turn.
@@EdwinWade She was a gold digger.
@@Xander712670/10 rage bait
The dark souls sitting on the desk is a subtle flex
i would be buying the cards for him, i’d watch him play while he was recording , shiiiid id join him in a game or 2!!! becoming profitable online is not easy n she passed up one that was successful enough to maintain the home financially while doing what he loves to do??!!!??? man oh man
I had to come back on my second a ccount!!! we really try to go above and beyond for our person but when you have to change everything, thats how you know they are not for you!!
I hope he finds a woman who loves HIM and not herself, who doesn't want to change him for the worst when he's happy with himself. He deserves someone like that.
Ikr? Ppl are just... unique...
Hit him up lol
Girlll frrr
Kinda shocked Charlie doesn't know this youtuber. Definitely one of the biggest YuGitubers back in the day
I mean, he now knows him. Better late than never.
Girl's parents: "Don't marry him! He doesn't' have 100k in collage debt!"
College*
Seems like you don't have any "collage" debt either.
@@myoldvan119 Thanks. I'm not going to fix it though.
the main reason i as a gamer wife cant make other female friends is because alot of women truly see me as a child. they think me playing games like red dead instead of watching the sopranos on my ass all day makes me childish. i cant imagine how they feel about men
yeah, its hard out here, we are not even allowed to have hobbies, such as playing video games, otherwise we need to find something that isn't "childish"
Kinda has me scared being 20yo and a guy. Especially since my family is so dead set on me getting a degree at college *despite the fact I suffered major burnout and a near dip in mental sanity* and having just a small bit of fun with games is an issue. Makes me wonder if that's going to get far worse when the time comes that I meet someone...
I am glad I feel like for people a tiny bit younger now like me at 22 it's way more accepted now regardless of gender. My friends regardless of if they are boy or girl there's usually plenty of games or other stuff we can do and just have fun. Same as no one has ever seen my girlfriend playing games as weird, it's just normal nowadays at least where I live
I promise you there are A LOT of girls who also play video games as a hobby all over the place. :) If you keep running into folk who think you're childish for enjoying a legitimate hobby, they not your people. There's guys and gals out there that only know how to tear down, not build up. You'll find your people soon!
I've heard so many stories of people finding their lifelong partners in games, it's the most wholesome stories out there in my opinion
My boyfriend is into LoL, like a nerd degree. I always watch him play and listen to him when he explains stuff and lore. honestly, I don’t understand how some people can’t just support their partners😭
All jokes aside, LoL is a massive red flag. Tread with caution and don't let infatuation blind you
@@KkJj-j9mI’ve heard this before but I’ve never seen it explained. Why is league a red flag?
League is toxic and fun
At least you know he won’t give up on the relationship if things get toxic
@@michelle7455 Idk, if he's stuck with league as it has progressively gotten worse with each update for a decade and a half, he'll probably stick with you through anything. If anything it seems like a green flag to me.