After all this years now finally I understand why you left this channel so many times and get back to it again and again, I thought maybe you couldn't move on from it and you aren't brave to accept that, but boy how I was wrong! It sad because it was never you, it was her and you was trying to make your hobby and your marriage work at the same time and both suffered! But hay man I'm glad that at the end you choosed you, please be patient work hard to win back what you had and I'm pretty sure if you grind hard your channel will grow again Good luck
Don’t ever let someone change you. I cut my hair trying to impress someone. Long story short they’re no longer here. A person can change you dress you like a doll and when it’s over they’ll throw you into storage and you’re left with the damage and lack there of your identity and have to find yourself again
Yeah, but he played himself into multiple trap-like effects leading up to that point in his life before he finally realized what was going to ruin him.
@@MastaGambit from personal experience I’ve bumped my head several times before getting out of a situation. I wasn’t in the right frame of mind or had the courage to walk away. Even though I saw the signs I wanted to believe in spite of the warnings that we could make things work but in truth, I was deluding myself and was perpetuating my own suffering, and kept it going. To those that catch it and end it right there ,God bless . I after a while got to that point myself to where I can walk away once I see the bs. To the ones that haven’t yet, pray that they sooner or later get out of it. I knew a couple who couldn’t break from each other and they’ve been stuck with one another for 15+ years so I do agree that he went through it a few times and could have gotten out sooner , but there’s no set time for when a person will leave a situation or as the old saying goes “get sick and tired of being sick and tired” that’s up to that individual. But I am glad he got out of it when he did. Sooner or later rather than never. Now he can shed light on his experiences and enlighten others to avoid those same pitfalls. We can say what we’ll do at that moment, but it’s not until you’re in the thicket of it or experiencing it firsthand that you truly see what you can or will do at that time and not to mention the fact that at one point time he was in love with her. When you’re in love, you’ll do a lot of things and put up with a lot just to be with a person or at least I did, speaking for myself
I know you are in a lot of pain right now. I relate to you. I have kidney disease and other issues with my body and I am in pain everyday now. I wish you the best and hope we can connect. No diddy.
@@YourYugiohChannelthis woman was incompatible with you because she doesn’t understand you and she was more concerned with trying to control you or change you brother! I know it must be difficult to be going through the divorce, but I am incredibly proud to see that you have stood up for yourself and what is important to you! I’m certain you can find someone who shares common interests or at least understands the world of hobbies and collectibles. You are incredibly TALENTED and Driven to have been able to street perform and do TH-cam to pay your bills for a decade. That’s an accomplishment and something to be proud of, she can’t take that away from you!
@@KiokiYuudokuwell, I wouldn’t say they’re THAT far off. Let’s call a spade a spade. Women just don’t carry that same Fire for the hobbies men enjoy. But there are many(that are worth it) who do. They’re just MUCH harder to find. Harder than confidence alone will allow you to find.
@ that the thing. They don’t even have to share in the hobby. They should just respect a hobby someone has. Imaging now wanting to be with a woman because she collects flower pedals. It’s crazy
i remember watching your vids when i was 13-14 years old. im 26 now. ive lost homes, friends, family, pets and all of my yugioh cards since then but im glad to see this video you were a huge part of my childhood yugioh days. glad to see you back!
We went to school together (CSU) and every time I seen you preforming either downtown or on campus or playing Yu-Gi-oh in the lounge or plaza, you seemed so happy. College is a wonderful thing but It's really not for everyone. I'm glad your getting back into the things that make you happy!
This is my first time coming across your channel and I appreciate your honesty. Just on your account alone, I feel like she was definitely trying to turn you into the idea of you she had in her head. Me personally, I believe that in order to love someone you have to take them as who they are, knowing you can’t really change them. Only they can change themselves. I’m sorry you had to go through this but I’m glad you chose happiness. We got one life to live :)
Brother, you’re better off if they can’t accept something as simple as a hobby. Get on the grind, focus on your craft, do what you love and make it your life’s work. You’ll be far happier otherwise, especially when a true love comes around and stays around admiring you & your work. Now’s the time! Lock in!
Thank you for the support and kind words. I have no one to blame but myself I am sorry for putting you and other subscribers through my shit. I have to get on my game and grind. No excuses.
@@YourYugiohChannel sir, good sir. We gotta tap in sometime. YGO is passion for me and it’s been an incredible journey thus far. At the start, I watched you & Drew working hard. I want to see you succeed as much as I want Drew to. If you’d like, let’s talk! Would love to share what I’ve learned about the new algorithm & what not!
Anyone saying you can do something better when you are able to maintain your responsibility is not a good match. A lady should inspire you to do better in everything. You have close to 100k subs doing something you enjoy. you will grow after this
u got this bro. youryugiohchannel is the OG yugitubar ppl like me watched in high school getting into yugioh. i use too wish i could travel and play like yall and finally one day i could but ur content inspired me. nothing left to do but hit da grind and get back in business!! would love to see u at event again man
My mans just got on live to evolve to his final form and reverse sweep the entire match into submission. Excellent plays. Amazing iQ, what a flank…🔥 this meta has some new ability strat unrivaled.
I'm not even into Yu-Gi-Oh, but I'll say this, whoever your partner is, should accept you as you are, flaws and all. Sorry to hear that you went through that
Your right but you are wording it wrong, those were not flaws to begin with. So they should not have been "fixed". She just wanted to turn him into someone else, like that one song this ain't build a b...h lol
@tom79623 you're 100% correct, and I agree with what you're saying. Improving and bettering oneself is different though, I was specifically referring to being accepting of one's partner, if they truly love them and want to be with them and build with then, then they would do so flaws and all, that's what I was specifically referring to. But when it comes to bettering yourself for the sake of your partner, or your partner helping you to better yourself for your sake (or for the sake of the relationship), it's a different thing altogether. You are right, though. I definitely could have worded myself better
I’m sorry you experienced this and were treated like this so long. I can’t believe that someone would be upset that you paid bills through legitimate means, had a safe hobby, and did well for yourself all because she wasn’t into your hobby or interests. That’s horrible.
Some people (women and men) make excuses because THEY wanted out of the marriage (similar to my ex wife) and don't wanna look like the bad guy to ya'll social circles.
your one video " how to tell girls you play yugioh" has a clip of my best friend devron porreca in it. hes sadly passed away and its one of the only voice/video recordings of him left. so i occasionally come back to your channel just to watch that one video. i appreciate everything youve done for the yugioh community and i wish the best for you
@@vivanmaurya i did. Thanks for the suggestion. The correct title of the video is actually “Telling girls you play yugioh” if anyones curious its the second guy he interviews at about 26 seconds in.
I used to hide my yugioh cards from my gf of 4 years I was deeply in love with and when she saw them she immediately judged me. Went downhill from there from just poking fun at all my interests and complaining. Fast forward 4 years later I’m more happier than i’ve ever been, indulging in my interests and working in IT. I PROMISE you will be a lot more happier than you ever were with her soon. You may not be able to imagine it at the moment (as I couldn’t either) but you will be fine 🙏🏾
gotta find the right one. my ex did the same about my nerdy interests. my current gf, while not that into them, will play them with me just because she knows i enjoy them
Yeah, F*** that stupid B****!! I’m glad you left her stupid a**!!! Anyone that cannot respect what you love - doesn’t deserve you at all!! You, my friend are respected 🙌🏻 and any yu-GI-oh lover should never have to hide their cards!
I used to be terrified of sharing my hobbies (anime/gaming) with people for fear of being judged/disliked. Eventually I realized that hiding/being ashamed of who you are is pointless. Just be yourself and let those who don't like you leave.
Guys, if ur partner doesnt approve of ur hobbies, ur interests, what u like to do to have fun (as long as it isnt self destructive), shes not the one. Im sorry Japheth u had to learn the hard way, but let this be a critical lesson to every man that we meed to both accept her interests and have our interests accepted as well.
@@Geezanga Childish? It has tournament all over the world how is that childish lol its more childish if you saw him playing uno cards instead of yugioh
@@k-BlazeW.W30 I quit yugioh myself recently, I get it the game has huge tournaments. But the company doesn’t care much about the player base and still no cash prize incentives for the 1k plus meta decks we buy to play/win. Feels a bit more lackluster now
I stumbled across this video by accident. As a woman myself, I love my man to have passion for what they love even if I don't get it. My ex was really into horror movies and I didn't like them but I want my man to be happy. I didn't get involved too much as I am screamish but watching these films and everything around it made him very happy. When he was happy, I was happy and when he made time for me vice-versa it was special compared to when he was sad. I do feel you do have what I have, ADHD which makes learning really hard for myself personally. Something worth checking out if you ever get the opportunity. I'm glad you're talking about your feelings, honestly more men should. I have selective mutism so I struggle speaking myself and have to use sign language to communicate so I really admire you being able to do YouTubing and talk in front of a camera. Wish you well for the future ^^.
@@YourYugiohChannel I also am a YuGiOh lover-hater (it's complicated) and I always had ADHD but people just told me I was lazy or weird. I could relate a lot in many of your words, especially on the studying part. ADHD is also a creative neurodivergence and what you said checks a lot with how ADHD works. I'm pretty sure you may have it.
Thank you for being open and sharing your personal life with us. I know it's not easy being this vulnerable, but giving your community this kind of insight allows for healing all around. I wish you the best of luck on your journey forward! From looking at the comment section, I see that your community is definitely standing behind you! You got this 💯
Sorry to hear that your marriage didn't work out man! You were one of the first youtube channels I came across over 13 years ago when I had first started doing youtube as a Yugituber. Hoping for the best in your upcoming journeys!!
I remember as a kid finding your channel as i was learning the ways of yugioh, eventually I dropped it and went thru a period without it. Just recently came back to it and found your video... sad to hear it all ended that way. keep your chin up bro. you got this.
You weren't born to be a boring subservient person, you're on you're own path, very different from many overly trodden paths, forge on with YOURE PATH , many won't understand it, they don't need to, they can't do the things you can do, so just keep working on all you're unique skills, keep you're social pool small and only with trust worthy /LIKE MINDED people and you'll do just fine! Peace bro
This dude sounds like my future self from an alternate time line sending this video back to me to warn me about women that do this. I'm subbing to your Yu-Gi-Oh channel bro, you dodged a bullet with that one. Edit : holy shit, I swear I'm not making this up, mine just literally stone walled and ghosted me at the first false sign of financial trouble
Yeah, it could always be worse, you could have been with your mistake for 9 years, had 3 kids with her, and spent $10,000 on a home she promptly then kicks you out of. Fun times.
Dude, thank you for opening up to us. I’m glad you’re doing what makes you happy. You avoided a situation where you would have spent the rest of your life miserable.
School isn't for everyone. There's only a handful of degrees out there that can guarantee you a job like being a doctor, engineer, accountant, computer science, or nursing. Other degrees are simply debt traps for the average person. One thing to look for if school isn't your thing is to get a trade. Plumbers, electricians, HVAC technicians all bank 10k and are recession proof.
Even doctor, engineer or accountant degree won't guarantee anymore now, because everything is already filled up, and even so, the boomers will ask you for 20 years of experience while being 15.
@danielhicks1824 You're 100% correct. The degree is only 40% of the equation to getting into a career. I went through hell to get my bachelor's degree in Mechanical Engineering. Even though I was good at math and science and got good grades, I really struggled to narrow down where I wanted to focus my attention. I also didn't spend as much time as I should have networking. I got lucky and landed a job in my field 3 months after graduation, but during 90% of my bachelor's degree, I had so much uncertainty with how things would play out. I would have been so much more confident if I started heavily investing time in my career-related hobbies and had a job during highschool.
@@f.e.a.rsarge840Doesn't seem like that's the case here. If you paid close attention, you'd tell that woman didn't love him for him and tried to fit him into a mold for her instead of supporting something he's always been passionate about. Also, he was making money off of it.
@@f.e.a.rsarge840Low key, this guy should've moved to Master Duel. Way more popular, easier to manage, and less expensive. His channel would've been more alive.
Dude.. That whole part about you talking about your experience going to school was like staring in a mirror and listening to myself talk myself through my own failures. For some reason, I couldn't do it either. spent 15 hours a day 7 days a week trying to study and getting failing grades. Always felt defective for that reason. Always failed or at least greatly struggled academically. Like you music and my 'nerdy hobbies' are the only places where all my creative process happens and where I can implement any talent I may have. I was saddened when you retired for the past few years along with other major members of the community like GalacticGod. Listening to your story, You are much better off with the decision you have made imo and although is an extremely difficult loss to process, I believe it is a necessary one to restore you to a path of happiness and stable mental health. I wish you all the best, and although I stopped playing 'modern' yugioh for many years now, I still enjoy the occasional time wizard format game and check in on the channels I used to follow closely during my more active yugioh years. Your channel always seemed to have a little content for everyone, even a casual player like me. Take care of yourself, and yourself will take care of you!
Numerous times, people have said schools were no longer designed for teaching boys and I'm sure it's as efficient for men. You probably learn what your working on but you need to find another route of learning it
@@dubbyplays I have no idea what that is. if he used it to buy some chic Fil a, I'll be cool. if rent wasn't around the corner, I might have gave him 50.
Nah he should have throw her ass out the door at the very seconds she began to act like a biatch. He lets her step her gnarly foot on his face. He has a talent, and should prioritize on it. You can't live for unskilled npc, wife or not.
Praying for you bro. This has been one of the realest videos from a yugituber I've seen! Thank you. Behind every player, there is a real person with their own struggles.
Cut contact completely, slowly rebuild, take life slow, and don’t let someone less intelligent than you control your life. Bish prolly plays Beaver Warrior .
This is so important. If you don't have kids, friends, or property together there's no reason to associate with her anymore. You can't fully move on unless you leave the past behind.
Brother, I gave up my playing sports and the gym to appease my woman and it almost killed me. Got depressed, ballooned to almost 300 pounds. Now divorced. I feel your pain. I will follow you and support you. Keep going. I started doing music and the gym. Back to being fit and happy. Accountability... It was totally my fault for giving up what made me happy. Respect for your accountability.
I found you through my very best friend, and it started with the story about the Six Samurai deck. I still love to listen to it to this day. I enjoy your channel a lot.
Ready to watch all your uploauds even though i don't play yugioh for like 6 years now. You and me might had some ADHD and it makes living in this society rough.
I got checked for ADHD and believe me it is expensive to get checked but I got checked and got on some medication and my world changed completely. I am more focused and locked in more than ever, it seems like it would benefit you.
@@YourYugiohChannel nothing wrong with you. You are a man with a purpose and that purpose is not the normal life that people live. Don't feel bad for not being able to do school. Focus on your strengths and you will succeed.
maaaaaaan i clicked cuz the title sounded insane but i feel for ya man this sounds so tough to go through. As a musician who isnt too good at focusing on much besides stuff i get passionate about. It can hurt a lot when people you love arent understanding of your interests. Im so sorry this happened man, heres to the future you got this!
I appreciate your vulnerability here man. Thinking you’re in love can make a man do some crazy things to abandon their own identity, I’ll hope that you can succeed in finding yourself again and wish you success in your future following your own path
3:13 literally is what I've dealt with my whole life, minus the man part. Sometimes I feel like these people don't care what I have to say and think I'm all about excuses. Its infuriating, so I feel for you. I'm a first-time viewer and I just subscribed! look forward to seeing your content💜
Rediscovered you again after like 7 years today wow. Just got back into the game a few weeks ago with locals. Sorry to hear about your problems man good luck on your journey youll do great dude live the live you want to live💜
I’m a musician and I wish I had your old life too. I’m stuck having to work even though I play three instruments and have music on Spotify. I hope you get you life back and I hope I can find the same 😭
I feel for you! I finally learned about your channel during that phase where you disappeared, your channel was ahead of its time back then, the whole shorts phase of TH-cam, your White Background videos! Sorry to hear about what happened / caused your hiatus. When she tried to change who you are, sculpt you into traditional mold, it was sapping away at what made you happy. I sounded like whatever that made you two initially spark, eventually faded, at least that is behind you know and you have a more to look forward to.
This video really helped me out i used to watch you a lot back in the day and i also feel like i’m “into it” with a woman who wants to change me. She refuses to get a job and doesn’t want to support me in my dream of youtube, this morning i just woke up crying cause i feel so trapped misunderstood and alone i’m in a situation of trying to support her lifestyle and my own off of one jobs income and i’m sorry if im complaining or maybe i’m just ungrateful but i don’t want this life, i want to be able to do youtube and interact with the world i love so much i never had friends growing up but i have a few good ones now and it’s never been about the money for me i wanna make a community i can be apart of and the only things that’s ever given me that was TH-cam and anime so i wanna be able to be a beacon for people like me who need a community to be a part just to feel like they’re more than the all the blood sweat tears and pain they put in day in and day out, a place you can go after you’ve payed your dues and made your bed to lie in so you can relax laugh and make it though another day i know no one will read this but i really just needed to say it.
I read it. That was my situation. I dont mind being "the man" and taking care of tbe "house" but sometimes people can achieve those thing via a different route. I am glad I could help because I care about you and other people.
I read everything. If you feel trapped, sad and unhappy, then why are you still with her? Time to grow a pair and have some backbone and dump her. Trust me if she would be unhappy she would have dumped you in a heartbeat. Accept that she's not for you.
Bro I respect you as a person for trying to make someone else happy while being selfless and trying to give up things you loved to help her happiness. The issue she tried to take away your solace and decompression and what made you happy is never okay. It brought you comfort and it brought you love for something you had your heart into. You were never lazy, and honestly your heart wasn’t in the school thing. I can 100% understand where you’re coming from. I have lived with this before and know exactly how it feels. You’re an amazing person and you will do great things for this world. I promise you will get your answers and solace you seek for those dreams.
I met my wife from Yugioh so it makes me sad to see this happen. Becoming a couple means bending a bit for each other, but not breaking who we really are. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you find someone that both supports what you do and helps make you stronger in any ways you feel could be improved. Because that's what true love can accomplish.
That's awesome. I met a girl I dated through Yu-Gi-Oh too. Sadly it didn't work out because I quickly discovered she was shady. Finding a fine woman that likes Yu-Gi-Oh/Anime is hard.
I saw this video and had to watch. Speaking as someone who wants to mentor others, no one is the same. What works for someone doesnt work for another. You didnt fail at school. The scholl failed you to be honest. They should seek how to help you and help you grow. You know yourself so dont ever let someone say you are not trying or you need to try harder. School isnt for everyone and im happy you know that. If people dont wanna hear you out then they probably arent worth your time or energy. Also good luck with growing this channel. Im sure itll explode so long as you do you and put your passion into it bud.
0:23 This was a red flag from the start and you shouldn't have caved in just for them to love you in return. That was your first mistake. Never change who you are for someone else. Love is a battlefield and you have to fight for it. In your case, you surrendered and suffered the price for it. If someone doesn't appreciate your hobbies or even your creativity, they are not the one. A lover or soulmate supports and elevates you, not drag you down to their standards or level.
Powerful video you wouldn't expect to get from a Yu gi oh channel, but it's the man that passes on the wisdom not the wisdom itself. God bless you brother, you faced trials and you triumphed through it. God will bless you someone in your life who loves you, and appreciates you for who you are, and that is the true blessing. Never dread over the leaves that ripen your tree every season, rejoice in those lessons and let them make you become a greater person.
I started watching your channel when I was 15/16, and now I’m 28. I haven’t played Yugioh in a while, but I still watch Yugioh content and revisit your old videos from time to time. The algorithm is really working in your favor right now, so stay strong and keep going. 👊🏾
Love you bro. Some of the most legendary moments from the yugioh community have come from your channel. Its a pleasure to watch your videos. Much love. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being vulnerable. God bless
Wishing you all the best on your journey man. I’m glad you have your life back and don’t let anyone else try to take it back from you. You know what’s best for your life don’t ever forget that
Longtime fan. It's great to hear your very distinct voice once again, which is actually a perk that makes you more relatable and separates you from the crowd. I think many people are in similar boats. I think in an ideal world we have to enjoy our work at least in some way, otherwise it is very difficult to be motivated to excell. The same for school and relationships (which are a bit over-rated and engrained by us to sacrifice everything for one person we cannot control that will most likely never be satisfied). Most couples that last have a very good understanding and symbiotic relationship, but it more rare because most people are raised to be selfish or just aren't disciplined and taught to have unrealistic expectations. It's very hard to just wing it for all of these things by going into something you don't really care about. Also, some things have higher ceilings and less limitations, so I think TH-cam is one where the sky is basically the limit once you find your groove, and it is certainly more special than most jobs. For example, anywhere with internet connection, you can just pull up all of your work like you are some kind of celebrity. Since the world is watching, there is a huge audience, whereas at a normal 9-5 job, your are practically invisible like a cog in a machine. Also, making real friends as an adult is very difficult. You don't have enough time to get to know them, and they most likely are very busy as well, whereas the friends from your childhood you already have that bond and those experiences, and they aren't really replaceable. So yes, you have to surround yourself with better people. Never take your friends for granted. If they are still your friends, then that means they will probably be your friends for life. Our childhood is very special, and we learned a lot like a sponge, whereas learning something new like a language is extremely difficult as an adult because we no longer have infinite energy and are spinning a bunch of plates. Maybe there will be opportunities in the future for anything, but if you know it works, do what works.
When I briefly met you at locals, you seemed like a reserved chill dude and you seemed to be enjoying yourself. Life is too short, so I say do whatever makes you happy. If this hobby and music is what you love, then stick with it. Someone will come into your life and will appreciate and love the kind of person you are. As a guy in his early 30s with no degree and just working his 40 hours, I was able to find someone who accepts me and also allows me to enjoy my hobbies, even yugioh! Keep your head up high king, you deserve to have a love life AND enjoy your hobbies. 😊
I am sorry you had to experience that situation. Despite all the negativity, I am glad you are returning and regained the strength to be your true self again. Just remember everything happens for a reason. This was a lesson learned, and your blessing will be 10 fold. Your person is out there and will accept and acknowledge everything that makes you who you truly are. Good Luck to you!
Yugioh fan here Title got me interested and listened to your struggle Im glad you coming back to your passion I hope you prosper further then you did before! A Kuriboh Got his wings today boys!
I always knew since I was a child that I thought different than anyone else, people were just annoyed by studying while to me it was literal HELL. Nobody believed me. Turns out I am the most TEXTBOOK DEPICTION of an ADHD. It took just 2 decades to make some psychologist fkin care enough to learn about that .
This video right here earned you a subscriber. We would love to see a comeback and maybe incorporate vlogs with a mix of yugioh, like how’s it going after the divorce. And then ending the vlog with some yugioh stuff or something like that
Are you going to go back to your own place and get back on to street performing? You have talents and gifts and also a great hobby! Yugioh is one of my favourite hobbies and I’ve enjoyed watching your content over the years. I really hope it all works out for you and do update us in 2 weeks when you move out
I don't play Yu-Gi-Oh anymore but when I did I used to watch your channel. You're a legend man, it would be cool to see you upload new videos again. Your Yu-Gi-Oh content was unique and great
Holy shit. I am sorry to admit that even though I fondly remember my YuGiOh times back from 2007 to circa 2011, 2012 and even some YuGiOh related channels, I completely forgot about this channel and you, man. What a blast from the past.
I totally get it man! I went to something similar to this. With my ex-wife I gave up everything for her. I just want to make her happy by giving up on everything from my art to my career. Its been 7 years and I been able to be debt free, saving for an house, go trips, found an new amazing person and now she is my wife and I rediscover my love for my art. It will be an amazing journey man! If you ever need some art work for your channel, I will gladly help! I hope you well and all your dreams come true! Enjoy this new journey man!
Hey man. I have been following your channel over 10 years now. Keep your head up dude. Just letting you know you are not alone and I hope you heal in due time. Love you man
After all this years now finally I understand why you left this channel so many times and get back to it again and again, I thought maybe you couldn't move on from it and you aren't brave to accept that, but boy how I was wrong!
It sad because it was never you, it was her and you was trying to make your hobby and your marriage work at the same time and both suffered! But hay man I'm glad that at the end you choosed you, please be patient work hard to win back what you had and I'm pretty sure if you grind hard your channel will grow again
Good luck
Instead of school, pick a trade. Trades are quicker that makes much more sense.
I havent seen this dude since I used to play tcg in 2014, the algorithm at work i guess lol
I didn’t get see your old videos as I started TCG in 2021. Much respect and ur a real OG.
@@handsanitizer2457 or get into insurance, i went from being a bum living with my mom to getting my own place and making over 60k a year.
@@handsanitizer2457 never went to college and am making more than most college grads
You avoided the biggest trap card of your life
Don’t ever let someone change you. I cut my hair trying to impress someone. Long story short they’re no longer here. A person can change you dress you like a doll and when it’s over they’ll throw you into storage and you’re left with the damage and lack there of your identity and have to find yourself again
@@HeemzCastGaming Well played
Yeah, but he played himself into multiple trap-like effects leading up to that point in his life before he finally realized what was going to ruin him.
@@MastaGambit from personal experience I’ve bumped my head several times before getting out of a situation. I wasn’t in the right frame of mind or had the courage to walk away. Even though I saw the signs I wanted to believe in spite of the warnings that we could make things work but in truth, I was deluding myself and was perpetuating my own suffering, and kept it going. To those that catch it and end it right there ,God bless . I after a while got to that point myself to where I can walk away once I see the bs. To the ones that haven’t yet, pray that they sooner or later get out of it. I knew a couple who couldn’t break from each other and they’ve been stuck with one another for 15+ years so I do agree that he went through it a few times and could have gotten out sooner , but there’s no set time for when a person will leave a situation or as the old saying goes “get sick and tired of being sick and tired” that’s up to that individual. But I am glad he got out of it when he did. Sooner or later rather than never. Now he can shed light on his experiences and enlighten others to avoid those same pitfalls. We can say what we’ll do at that moment, but it’s not until you’re in the thicket of it or experiencing it firsthand that you truly see what you can or will do at that time and not to mention the fact that at one point time he was in love with her. When you’re in love, you’ll do a lot of things and put up with a lot just to be with a person or at least I did, speaking for myself
I wouldn't say avoided at all... More like he played right into it and found a way to play around it.
If she doesn't love you at your Kuriboh, then she don't deserve you at your Dark Magician.
Bruh what
@@Zenbon111
Just keep thinking about it.
@@Zenbon111 if she doesnt love him at his lowest then she doesnt deserve him at his best.
cringe
@TheGeoXWar
Yeah, you are.
“She told him, ‘It’s either me or Yu-Gi-Oh!’
He activated Mystical Space Typhoon to negate the marriage contract.”
Mst doesnt negate.
@@5starviewultimatums are continuous spells
@mohamedkoblawi4175 touché
Underrated comment lol
@@5starview it does when me and the boys play the real way , we had our own agreed affects for the cards to make it more fun and less bs
She didn’t support you in your journey but we will. New subscriber 😄
just came from MTR channel im rooting for your happiness and success
Sorry to hear that you were in a miserable relationship. Wishing you all the best on your new journey!
I know you are in a lot of pain right now. I relate to you. I have kidney disease and other issues with my body and I am in pain everyday now. I wish you the best and hope we can connect. No diddy.
@@YourYugiohChannelbruh really threw Diddy in there for no reason 😶. Kaiba dissing Joey for no reason esque
@YourYugiohChannel unsolved big issues are really the worst for health so maybe this will improve too. Im rooting for you 👍✌️
@@YourYugiohChannelthis woman was incompatible with you because she doesn’t understand you and she was more concerned with trying to control you or change you brother! I know it must be difficult to be going through the divorce, but I am incredibly proud to see that you have stood up for yourself and what is important to you! I’m certain you can find someone who shares common interests or at least understands the world of hobbies and collectibles. You are incredibly TALENTED and Driven to have been able to street perform and do TH-cam to pay your bills for a decade. That’s an accomplishment and something to be proud of, she can’t take that away from you!
get well soon man, hang in there.
Sounds like she was trying to turn you into the trophy man of her fantasys instead of her helping you become a better version of the man you are.
Exactly this
Most women have a problem with that. My entire thing with my wife was, you want someone different, go get them.
Soon as she said “get rid of the cards” I would not have married her.
Sadly that's probably cutting 60-70% of all women from the get go
@ actually no. You would be surprised. You just have to be confident in who you are.
@@KiokiYuudokuwell, I wouldn’t say they’re THAT far off. Let’s call a spade a spade. Women just don’t carry that same Fire for the hobbies men enjoy. But there are many(that are worth it) who do. They’re just MUCH harder to find. Harder than confidence alone will allow you to find.
@ that the thing. They don’t even have to share in the hobby. They should just respect a hobby someone has. Imaging now wanting to be with a woman because she collects flower pedals. It’s crazy
@@kingrobotnik6950 I really don’t agree here. Women have hobbies too, silly to think otherwise. You’re on some weird sexist ish.
i remember watching your vids when i was 13-14 years old. im 26 now. ive lost homes, friends, family, pets and all of my yugioh cards since then but im glad to see this video you were a huge part of my childhood yugioh days. glad to see you back!
We went to school together (CSU) and every time I seen you preforming either downtown or on campus or playing Yu-Gi-oh in the lounge or plaza, you seemed so happy. College is a wonderful thing but It's really not for everyone. I'm glad your getting back into the things that make you happy!
That couch looks mad comfy ngl
It is the couch ive been sleeping on lol
I was just about to type this
@@YourYugiohChannel 😭😭
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@@YourYugiohChannel
At least you can roll over. I hope things get better for you.
It's always wild when a video title like this isn't clickbait. From one divorced man to another, I am sorry to hear you two weren't a match.
I hate clickbait. 😂
Im sorry man but im 30 and i still play master dual@YourYugiohChannel
@@YourYugiohChannelI would have reminded her of Pegasus' blank cards. 😁🃏😈
@@YourYugiohChannel, good man.
RIP to our marriages. If it weren't for my 3 babies, I'd wanna forget the woman ever existed.
Bro, you just got a new subscriber. Thank you for standing on business.
This is my first time coming across your channel and I appreciate your honesty. Just on your account alone, I feel like she was definitely trying to turn you into the idea of you she had in her head.
Me personally, I believe that in order to love someone you have to take them as who they are, knowing you can’t really change them. Only they can change themselves.
I’m sorry you had to go through this but I’m glad you chose happiness. We got one life to live :)
Brother, you’re better off if they can’t accept something as simple as a hobby.
Get on the grind, focus on your craft, do what you love and make it your life’s work. You’ll be far happier otherwise, especially when a true love comes around and stays around admiring you & your work.
Now’s the time! Lock in!
Thank you for the support and kind words. I have no one to blame but myself I am sorry for putting you and other subscribers through my shit. I have to get on my game and grind. No excuses.
@@YourYugiohChannel sir, good sir. We gotta tap in sometime. YGO is passion for me and it’s been an incredible journey thus far. At the start, I watched you & Drew working hard. I want to see you succeed as much as I want Drew to. If you’d like, let’s talk! Would love to share what I’ve learned about the new algorithm & what not!
Anyone saying you can do something better when you are able to maintain your responsibility is not a good match. A lady should inspire you to do better in everything. You have close to 100k subs doing something you enjoy. you will grow after this
@@YourYugiohChannel Never blame yourself. a woman will blame you till the end of time.
@@mroblige1018Facts no matter what it’s always our fault.
u got this bro. youryugiohchannel is the OG yugitubar ppl like me watched in high school getting into yugioh. i use too wish i could travel and play like yall and finally one day i could but ur content inspired me. nothing left to do but hit da grind and get back in business!! would love to see u at event again man
I watch your vids and you do excellent. I am planning on going to ycs orlando.
My mans just got on live to evolve to his final form and reverse sweep the entire match into submission. Excellent plays. Amazing iQ, what a flank…🔥 this meta has some new ability strat unrivaled.
Better than the new trash channels for sure
real squidd
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She didn’t cry because of the cards…she cried because she lost her control over you..your free now my guy 😁
I'm not even into Yu-Gi-Oh, but I'll say this, whoever your partner is, should accept you as you are, flaws and all.
Sorry to hear that you went through that
Your right but you are wording it wrong, those were not flaws to begin with. So they should not have been "fixed". She just wanted to turn him into someone else, like that one song this ain't build a b...h lol
Working on real flaws and bettering one self is not bad. But changing who you are for someones whims is.
@tom79623 you're 100% correct, and I agree with what you're saying. Improving and bettering oneself is different though, I was specifically referring to being accepting of one's partner, if they truly love them and want to be with them and build with then, then they would do so flaws and all, that's what I was specifically referring to. But when it comes to bettering yourself for the sake of your partner, or your partner helping you to better yourself for your sake (or for the sake of the relationship), it's a different thing altogether. You are right, though. I definitely could have worded myself better
No one needs to accept anyone. It was her mistake to not identify this earlier, and then it was really shame on her for trying to change him
I wonder how you ended up here lol
I’m sorry you experienced this and were treated like this so long.
I can’t believe that someone would be upset that you paid bills through legitimate means, had a safe hobby, and did well for yourself all because she wasn’t into your hobby or interests. That’s horrible.
Some people (women and men) make excuses because THEY wanted out of the marriage (similar to my ex wife) and don't wanna look like the bad guy to ya'll social circles.
your one video " how to tell girls you play yugioh" has a clip of my best friend devron porreca in it. hes sadly passed away and its one of the only voice/video recordings of him left. so i occasionally come back to your channel just to watch that one video. i appreciate everything youve done for the yugioh community and i wish the best for you
this channel means the world to me and my friends
i would recommend you to download it just in case as well, for preservation purposes in case the unforeseen happens
@@vivanmaurya this x1000
That's a wild story wtf
@@vivanmaurya i did. Thanks for the suggestion. The correct title of the video is actually “Telling girls you play yugioh” if anyones curious its the second guy he interviews at about 26 seconds in.
I used to hide my yugioh cards from my gf of 4 years I was deeply in love with and when she saw them she immediately judged me. Went downhill from there from just poking fun at all my interests and complaining. Fast forward 4 years later I’m more happier than i’ve ever been, indulging in my interests and working in IT. I PROMISE you will be a lot more happier than you ever were with her soon. You may not be able to imagine it at the moment (as I couldn’t either) but you will be fine 🙏🏾
gotta find the right one. my ex did the same about my nerdy interests. my current gf, while not that into them, will play them with me just because she knows i enjoy them
Yeah, F*** that stupid B****!! I’m glad you left her stupid a**!!! Anyone that cannot respect what you love - doesn’t deserve you at all!! You, my friend are respected 🙌🏻 and any yu-GI-oh lover should never have to hide their cards!
I used to be terrified of sharing my hobbies (anime/gaming) with people for fear of being judged/disliked. Eventually I realized that hiding/being ashamed of who you are is pointless. Just be yourself and let those who don't like you leave.
Guys, if ur partner doesnt approve of ur hobbies, ur interests, what u like to do to have fun (as long as it isnt self destructive), shes not the one. Im sorry Japheth u had to learn the hard way, but let this be a critical lesson to every man that we meed to both accept her interests and have our interests accepted as well.
A lot of people have been telling me this before I got married and I choose to ignore it. I have truly learned the hard way...
@@YourYugiohChannelHere's my take:
If she can't handle me at my geeky, she don't deserve me at my freaky.
@@mister-zen8491 legendary comment my bro
@@mister-zen8491universe forming IQ
Exactly bruh, find you a girl just as nerdy as you are, plenty are out there don't get discouraged.
That's a narcissist, my friend and therapist can't fix those people. RUN
Everything about this video spoke to me. I'm glad I watched it. People clowning on it but they just don't get it.
Stay strong bro!
I’m proud of you dude. You’re making yourself happy. Keep that energy and don’t let anyone take that from you. You’re a special man.
Thank you very much.
@@YourYugiohChannelwas it in a Godly propesctive? Or just in a sense of she just felt it was a childish hobby?
@@Geezanga Childish?
It has tournament all over the world how is that childish lol its more childish if you saw him playing uno cards instead of yugioh
@@k-BlazeW.W30 I quit yugioh myself recently, I get it the game has huge tournaments. But the company doesn’t care much about the player base and still no cash prize incentives for the 1k plus meta decks we buy to play/win. Feels a bit more lackluster now
Your hobbies are a part of you. If she can't accept your hobbies, somebody else who does will find you. Keep your head up 👑
I stumbled across this video by accident.
As a woman myself, I love my man to have passion for what they love even if I don't get it. My ex was really into horror movies and I didn't like them but I want my man to be happy. I didn't get involved too much as I am screamish but watching these films and everything around it made him very happy. When he was happy, I was happy and when he made time for me vice-versa it was special compared to when he was sad. I do feel you do have what I have, ADHD which makes learning really hard for myself personally. Something worth checking out if you ever get the opportunity. I'm glad you're talking about your feelings, honestly more men should. I have selective mutism so I struggle speaking myself and have to use sign language to communicate so I really admire you being able to do YouTubing and talk in front of a camera.
Wish you well for the future ^^.
Thank you. I will get checked out soon. I need answers and I am tired of not knowing if I have ADHD or not.
If you can get diagnosed, medicine and therapy help tremendously. It's never too late. Keep your head up brotha.
@@YourYugiohChannel I also am a YuGiOh lover-hater (it's complicated) and I always had ADHD but people just told me I was lazy or weird. I could relate a lot in many of your words, especially on the studying part. ADHD is also a creative neurodivergence and what you said checks a lot with how ADHD works. I'm pretty sure you may have it.
Thank you for being open and sharing your personal life with us. I know it's not easy being this vulnerable, but giving your community this kind of insight allows for healing all around. I wish you the best of luck on your journey forward! From looking at the comment section, I see that your community is definitely standing behind you! You got this 💯
Sorry to hear that your marriage didn't work out man! You were one of the first youtube channels I came across over 13 years ago when I had first started doing youtube as a Yugituber. Hoping for the best in your upcoming journeys!!
I remember as a kid finding your channel as i was learning the ways of yugioh, eventually I dropped it and went thru a period without it. Just recently came back to it and found your video... sad to hear it all ended that way. keep your chin up bro. you got this.
Welcome back!
You weren't born to be a boring subservient person, you're on you're own path, very different from many overly trodden paths, forge on with YOURE PATH , many won't understand it, they don't need to, they can't do the things you can do, so just keep working on all you're unique skills, keep you're social pool small and only with trust worthy /LIKE MINDED people and you'll do just fine! Peace bro
This is a good lesson to learn. Never change for someone that doesn't care about you
Very true.
This dude sounds like my future self from an alternate time line sending this video back to me to warn me about women that do this.
I'm subbing to your Yu-Gi-Oh channel bro, you dodged a bullet with that one.
Edit : holy shit, I swear I'm not making this up, mine just literally stone walled and ghosted me at the first false sign of financial trouble
Stay strong bro
@Tetragramz Thanks bro, had to end it, thing Was painful as heck too... Plus I just couldn't trust her after that.
Nah he took the hit. He just fixed the would before he bled out further.
@@leonard9636 So long as you got your head held high, you aint lost nothing bruv.
Yeah, it could always be worse, you could have been with your mistake for 9 years, had 3 kids with her, and spent $10,000 on a home she promptly then kicks you out of. Fun times.
Dude, thank you for opening up to us. I’m glad you’re doing what makes you happy. You avoided a situation where you would have spent the rest of your life miserable.
School isn't for everyone. There's only a handful of degrees out there that can guarantee you a job like being a doctor, engineer, accountant, computer science, or nursing. Other degrees are simply debt traps for the average person.
One thing to look for if school isn't your thing is to get a trade. Plumbers, electricians, HVAC technicians all bank 10k and are recession proof.
Straight facts. People really underestimate trades, but they are a great way to go.
Even doctor, engineer or accountant degree won't guarantee anymore now, because everything is already filled up, and even so, the boomers will ask you for 20 years of experience while being 15.
Lot of other random things that are pretty good but yeah, have a clear plan. 90% of the time a degree alone is not enough.
uhh, computer science is also debt trap and is not going to get you a job ever
@danielhicks1824
You're 100% correct. The degree is only 40% of the equation to getting into a career. I went through hell to get my bachelor's degree in Mechanical Engineering. Even though I was good at math and science and got good grades, I really struggled to narrow down where I wanted to focus my attention. I also didn't spend as much time as I should have networking.
I got lucky and landed a job in my field 3 months after graduation, but during 90% of my bachelor's degree, I had so much uncertainty with how things would play out. I would have been so much more confident if I started heavily investing time in my career-related hobbies and had a job during highschool.
She wasn't right for you then. Theres nothing wrong with having hobbies. You did all you could. This is icarly's I date a bad boy all over again.
It is if it's effecting your personal life.
Then it's probably more like an addiction/obsession rather than hobby @@f.e.a.rsarge840
@@f.e.a.rsarge840Doesn't seem like that's the case here. If you paid close attention, you'd tell that woman didn't love him for him and tried to fit him into a mold for her instead of supporting something he's always been passionate about. Also, he was making money off of it.
@@f.e.a.rsarge840Low key, this guy should've moved to Master Duel. Way more popular, easier to manage, and less expensive. His channel would've been more alive.
Cope
Dude.. That whole part about you talking about your experience going to school was like staring in a mirror and listening to myself talk myself through my own failures. For some reason, I couldn't do it either. spent 15 hours a day 7 days a week trying to study and getting failing grades. Always felt defective for that reason. Always failed or at least greatly struggled academically. Like you music and my 'nerdy hobbies' are the only places where all my creative process happens and where I can implement any talent I may have. I was saddened when you retired for the past few years along with other major members of the community like GalacticGod. Listening to your story, You are much better off with the decision you have made imo and although is an extremely difficult loss to process, I believe it is a necessary one to restore you to a path of happiness and stable mental health. I wish you all the best, and although I stopped playing 'modern' yugioh for many years now, I still enjoy the occasional time wizard format game and check in on the channels I used to follow closely during my more active yugioh years. Your channel always seemed to have a little content for everyone, even a casual player like me. Take care of yourself, and yourself will take care of you!
Thank you. I am a casual player and just play for the love of the game.
Numerous times, people have said schools were no longer designed for teaching boys and I'm sure it's as efficient for men. You probably learn what your working on but you need to find another route of learning it
You got my support and a new subscriber brother stay strong keep following your heart - you were already winning.
Not much but I hope things turn out for the better. I can sort of relate.
You gifted him a 25th anniversary rarity collection 2 booster pack, that's so nice!
Or could be a Structure/Starter Deck
@@dubbyplays I have no idea what that is. if he used it to buy some chic Fil a, I'll be cool. if rent wasn't around the corner, I might have gave him 50.
@@nathanlamont9920 You're a nice person. They're YuGiOh stuff, ignore it. I'm sure he will use them wisely.
as a 35 year old yugioh player, brother do whats best for you and what makes YOU happy. Glad this community is showing you love and support
Thats not a partner, a partner respect each other and their hobbies. Stay strong.
Yep, I would never change my partner for anything.
That’s not cool man she should accept you for you and that’s how it should be
Agreed. Major red flags
Someone tells me to stop building gundams
....
Girl bye 👋
Nah he should have throw her ass out the door at the very seconds she began to act like a biatch.
He lets her step her gnarly foot on his face. He has a talent, and should prioritize on it. You can't live for unskilled npc, wife or not.
Keep in mind she didn’t like what he did when he met her. Dude should have just kept it moving instead of getting rid of what he loved.
That's a tough scenario to be in. Someone who truly loves you would want you to do what you're passionate about.
Praying for you bro. This has been one of the realest videos from a yugituber I've seen! Thank you. Behind every player, there is a real person with their own struggles.
Cut contact completely, slowly rebuild, take life slow, and don’t let someone less intelligent than you control your life.
Bish prolly plays Beaver Warrior .
This is so important. If you don't have kids, friends, or property together there's no reason to associate with her anymore. You can't fully move on unless you leave the past behind.
Im so proud of you for standing up for yourself bro bro been watching youryugiohchannel since 2008 also same with drew p. 💯
Thank you after all this time lol. We are grown and getting old now.
Marriage is about accepting each part of you not trying to forcefully change you you made the right decision ❤️
Brother, I gave up my playing sports and the gym to appease my woman and it almost killed me. Got depressed, ballooned to almost 300 pounds. Now divorced. I feel your pain. I will follow you and support you. Keep going. I started doing music and the gym. Back to being fit and happy. Accountability... It was totally my fault for giving up what made me happy. Respect for your accountability.
I found you through my very best friend, and it started with the story about the Six Samurai deck. I still love to listen to it to this day. I enjoy your channel a lot.
Ready to watch all your uploauds even though i don't play yugioh for like 6 years now. You and me might had some ADHD and it makes living in this society rough.
Everyone keeps telling me that. My insurance won't let me get checked for it. I truly want to know what is wrong with me.
I got checked for ADHD and believe me it is expensive to get checked but I got checked and got on some medication and my world changed completely. I am more focused and locked in more than ever, it seems like it would benefit you.
@@YourYugiohChannel nothing wrong with you. You are a man with a purpose and that purpose is not the normal life that people live. Don't feel bad for not being able to do school. Focus on your strengths and you will succeed.
@@YourYugiohChannel My doctor told me that trying the medication anyway is just as useful as getting diagnosed. If it works, you probably have it.
Yup, adhd, I’m the EXACT SAME WAY
Never change yourself or compromise yourself for a women. They aren’t lovable. They’re leavable. -Patrice O’Neal
maaaaaaan i clicked cuz the title sounded insane but i feel for ya man this sounds so tough to go through. As a musician who isnt too good at focusing on much besides stuff i get passionate about. It can hurt a lot when people you love arent understanding of your interests. Im so sorry this happened man, heres to the future you got this!
I appreciate your vulnerability here man. Thinking you’re in love can make a man do some crazy things to abandon their own identity, I’ll hope that you can succeed in finding yourself again and wish you success in your future following your own path
Went through the same thing last year bro but I'm happier now wish you the best and hold your head up
We, your subcribers will always be here to support you and your choices.
3:13 literally is what I've dealt with my whole life, minus the man part. Sometimes I feel like these people don't care what I have to say and think I'm all about excuses. Its infuriating, so I feel for you. I'm a first-time viewer and I just subscribed! look forward to seeing your content💜
Sorry you had to go through that brother, stay strong.
Thank you.
Rediscovered you again after like 7 years today wow. Just got back into the game a few weeks ago with locals. Sorry to hear about your problems man good luck on your journey youll do great dude live the live you want to live💜
I’m a musician and I wish I had your old life too. I’m stuck having to work even though I play three instruments and have music on Spotify.
I hope you get you life back and I hope I can find the same 😭
I feel for you! I finally learned about your channel during that phase where you disappeared, your channel was ahead of its time back then, the whole shorts phase of TH-cam, your White Background videos! Sorry to hear about what happened / caused your hiatus. When she tried to change who you are, sculpt you into traditional mold, it was sapping away at what made you happy. I sounded like whatever that made you two initially spark, eventually faded, at least that is behind you know and you have a more to look forward to.
She need a change of heart 😏
she was unaffecteed.
@@YourYugiohChannelthen mind control and brain control 🫡
Nah, she needs a dark hole haha. I'm kidding... 😅
@@YourYugiohChannel well at least now it's dark ruler no more!!!!
Bro she activated forbidden lance 😂
This video really helped me out i used to watch you a lot back in the day and i also feel like i’m “into it” with a woman who wants to change me.
She refuses to get a job and doesn’t want to support me in my dream of youtube, this morning i just woke up crying cause i feel so trapped misunderstood and alone i’m in a situation of trying to support her lifestyle and my own off of one jobs income and i’m sorry if im complaining or maybe i’m just ungrateful but i don’t want this life, i want to be able to do youtube and interact with the world i love so much i never had friends growing up but i have a few good ones now and it’s never been about the money for me i wanna make a community i can be apart of and the only things that’s ever given me that was TH-cam and anime so i wanna be able to be a beacon for people like me who need a community to be a part just to feel like they’re more than the all the blood sweat tears and pain they put in day in and day out, a place you can go after you’ve payed your dues and made your bed to lie in so you can relax laugh and make it though another day i know no one will read this but i really just needed to say it.
I read it. That was my situation. I dont mind being "the man" and taking care of tbe "house" but sometimes people can achieve those thing via a different route. I am glad I could help because I care about you and other people.
@@YourYugiohChannel Thanks man you’ve made my whole world with this i appreciate your wisdom. 🙏🏽
I read everything. If you feel trapped, sad and unhappy, then why are you still with her? Time to grow a pair and have some backbone and dump her. Trust me if she would be unhappy she would have dumped you in a heartbeat. Accept that she's not for you.
Bro I respect you as a person for trying to make someone else happy while being selfless and trying to give up things you loved to help her happiness. The issue she tried to take away your solace and decompression and what made you happy is never okay. It brought you comfort and it brought you love for something you had your heart into. You were never lazy, and honestly your heart wasn’t in the school thing. I can 100% understand where you’re coming from. I have lived with this before and know exactly how it feels. You’re an amazing person and you will do great things for this world. I promise you will get your answers and solace you seek for those dreams.
What a crazy story, im glad you realized your worth and best wishes moving forward my G🖖🏿✌🏿
This new chapter of your life is going to be AMAZING! Do not think about it too hard. She wasn’t your match at all. Now it’s time to shine!
I met my wife from Yugioh so it makes me sad to see this happen. Becoming a couple means bending a bit for each other, but not breaking who we really are. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you find someone that both supports what you do and helps make you stronger in any ways you feel could be improved. Because that's what true love can accomplish.
That's awesome. I met a girl I dated through Yu-Gi-Oh too. Sadly it didn't work out because I quickly discovered she was shady. Finding a fine woman that likes Yu-Gi-Oh/Anime is hard.
@@DemetriT1 It kinda makes sense, the same way women can't easily find men interested in fashion and glamour
@dubbyplays but to disrupt his bag is selfish
F that. If she ain’t down to duel , she a damn fool.
Galatians 6:17
#Austin 3:16!!!
I saw this video and had to watch. Speaking as someone who wants to mentor others, no one is the same. What works for someone doesnt work for another. You didnt fail at school. The scholl failed you to be honest. They should seek how to help you and help you grow. You know yourself so dont ever let someone say you are not trying or you need to try harder. School isnt for everyone and im happy you know that. If people dont wanna hear you out then they probably arent worth your time or energy. Also good luck with growing this channel. Im sure itll explode so long as you do you and put your passion into it bud.
0:23 This was a red flag from the start and you shouldn't have caved in just for them to love you in return. That was your first mistake. Never change who you are for someone else. Love is a battlefield and you have to fight for it. In your case, you surrendered and suffered the price for it. If someone doesn't appreciate your hobbies or even your creativity, they are not the one. A lover or soulmate supports and elevates you, not drag you down to their standards or level.
i enjoy your introspection. you live and you learn. keep grinding
I will and I am happy again.
My wife loves me just as I am
I ❤ Yu-Gi-Oh!
It’s all about finding love and balance 😊
You shouldn’t change for nobody 💯
My last relationship was like that. Some people will just take you apart piece by piece and never appreciate you
been watching you for the past 10+ years, love your true self, keep it up
Powerful video you wouldn't expect to get from a Yu gi oh channel, but it's the man that passes on the wisdom not the wisdom itself. God bless you brother, you faced trials and you triumphed through it. God will bless you someone in your life who loves you, and appreciates you for who you are, and that is the true blessing. Never dread over the leaves that ripen your tree every season, rejoice in those lessons and let them make you become a greater person.
I started watching your channel when I was 15/16, and now I’m 28. I haven’t played Yugioh in a while, but I still watch Yugioh content and revisit your old videos from time to time. The algorithm is really working in your favor right now, so stay strong and keep going. 👊🏾
It’s ok fam she was like a temporary tag your real tag comes later on in life
Your channel was one of my favorite channels
Keep doing what you love and I will stay subscribed.
Also you didn't end your turn. You still in main phase one.
Make me wait and I will call the judge for slow content
@@keenanfranzoni8384 I am entering the battlephase. Response?
Subscribed for your Journey. Stay strong n get back to you sir!
As a fellow Duelist, I feel your pain...in loosing your deck of course.
Love you bro. Some of the most legendary moments from the yugioh community have come from your channel. Its a pleasure to watch your videos. Much love. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being vulnerable. God bless
I appreciate that!
i feel this on a personal level but it's not worth giving up parts of yourself for someone else, good luck we're all still here for you
Wishing you all the best on your journey man. I’m glad you have your life back and don’t let anyone else try to take it back from you. You know what’s best for your life don’t ever forget that
Bro has 100k+ subscribers on TH-cam and she told him to “do something with his life” CRAZY
Longtime fan. It's great to hear your very distinct voice once again, which is actually a perk that makes you more relatable and separates you from the crowd.
I think many people are in similar boats. I think in an ideal world we have to enjoy our work at least in some way, otherwise it is very difficult to be motivated to excell. The same for school and relationships (which are a bit over-rated and engrained by us to sacrifice everything for one person we cannot control that will most likely never be satisfied). Most couples that last have a very good understanding and symbiotic relationship, but it more rare because most people are raised to be selfish or just aren't disciplined and taught to have unrealistic expectations.
It's very hard to just wing it for all of these things by going into something you don't really care about. Also, some things have higher ceilings and less limitations, so I think TH-cam is one where the sky is basically the limit once you find your groove, and it is certainly more special than most jobs. For example, anywhere with internet connection, you can just pull up all of your work like you are some kind of celebrity. Since the world is watching, there is a huge audience, whereas at a normal 9-5 job, your are practically invisible like a cog in a machine.
Also, making real friends as an adult is very difficult. You don't have enough time to get to know them, and they most likely are very busy as well, whereas the friends from your childhood you already have that bond and those experiences, and they aren't really replaceable. So yes, you have to surround yourself with better people. Never take your friends for granted. If they are still your friends, then that means they will probably be your friends for life. Our childhood is very special, and we learned a lot like a sponge, whereas learning something new like a language is extremely difficult as an adult because we no longer have infinite energy and are spinning a bunch of plates.
Maybe there will be opportunities in the future for anything, but if you know it works, do what works.
WELCOME BACK!!
When I briefly met you at locals, you seemed like a reserved chill dude and you seemed to be enjoying yourself. Life is too short, so I say do whatever makes you happy. If this hobby and music is what you love, then stick with it. Someone will come into your life and will appreciate and love the kind of person you are. As a guy in his early 30s with no degree and just working his 40 hours, I was able to find someone who accepts me and also allows me to enjoy my hobbies, even yugioh! Keep your head up high king, you deserve to have a love life AND enjoy your hobbies. 😊
I am sorry you had to experience that situation. Despite all the negativity, I am glad you are returning and regained the strength to be your true self again. Just remember everything happens for a reason. This was a lesson learned, and your blessing will be 10 fold. Your person is out there and will accept and acknowledge everything that makes you who you truly are. Good Luck to you!
Yugioh fan here Title got me interested and listened to your struggle Im glad you coming back to your passion I hope you prosper further then you did before! A Kuriboh Got his wings today boys!
I found out late in life i had ADHD/dyslexia. I had the same problems as you with school. Knowing what i know now i finally understand everything.
I always knew since I was a child that I thought different than anyone else, people were just annoyed by studying while to me it was literal HELL.
Nobody believed me. Turns out I am the most TEXTBOOK DEPICTION of an ADHD. It took just 2 decades to make some psychologist fkin care enough to learn about that
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Glad to have you back! Always been a fan! Hope everything works out for you
This video right here earned you a subscriber. We would love to see a comeback and maybe incorporate vlogs with a mix of yugioh, like how’s it going after the divorce. And then ending the vlog with some yugioh stuff or something like that
Are you going to go back to your own place and get back on to street performing? You have talents and gifts and also a great hobby! Yugioh is one of my favourite hobbies and I’ve enjoyed watching your content over the years. I really hope it all works out for you and do update us in 2 weeks when you move out
I am going back to street performing full time. I still do it but only 3 to 6 hours a week. When I was full time I did it 36 hours a week.
@YourYUGIOHChannel I love ❤️ you're channel back in the day I'm glad you came back
I don't play Yu-Gi-Oh anymore but when I did I used to watch your channel. You're a legend man, it would be cool to see you upload new videos again. Your Yu-Gi-Oh content was unique and great
Holy shit. I am sorry to admit that even though I fondly remember my YuGiOh times back from 2007 to circa 2011, 2012 and even some YuGiOh related channels, I completely forgot about this channel and you, man. What a blast from the past.
I seriously thought this was clickbait but but MAN was I wrong NEW SUB!! Don't ever and I say EVER trade your dream are you likeliness for a woman
I totally get it man! I went to something similar to this. With my ex-wife I gave up everything for her. I just want to make her happy by giving up on everything from my art to my career. Its been 7 years and I been able to be debt free, saving for an house, go trips, found an new amazing person and now she is my wife and I rediscover my love for my art. It will be an amazing journey man!
If you ever need some art work for your channel, I will gladly help! I hope you well and all your dreams come true! Enjoy this new journey man!
This is the first video I have ever seen on this channel but now it wont be the last. Best of luck, I will be cheering from the sidelines.
Hey man. I have been following your channel over 10 years now. Keep your head up dude. Just letting you know you are not alone and I hope you heal in due time. Love you man
Same
Wishing you the best man. Life is full of ups and downs
You are amazing 👏 thank you for opening up and keep doing what you love, NEVER GIVE UP!