Dealing With NoFap Urges

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  • @scorpio3676
    @scorpio3676 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Discipline and regret both are painful. Decide what you want to live with.

    • @MattSpear99
      @MattSpear99  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That’s right bro

    • @dosomestuff1949
      @dosomestuff1949 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which ones less painful?

    • @erickchinchilla4447
      @erickchinchilla4447 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pain of discipline its temporarly getting out of your confort zone & achiving goals..pain of regret is long term , wishing u would of done something when u never tried.. I would say regret cuz its a long term situation that you can never go back,
      jst wish to go back

    • @dosomestuff1949
      @dosomestuff1949 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erickchinchilla4447 define temporary

    • @kossibwaya
      @kossibwaya 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dosomestuff1949discipline

  • @kenoman01
    @kenoman01 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    i’ve watched countless videos on nofap urges, but none explain it as well as you brother. 🔥

  • @oldsoul2560
    @oldsoul2560 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Just when I had the thought to indulge into my lust saw your video. Thank you for the reminder man, I’m still going strong!

  • @WalkIntoPower
    @WalkIntoPower ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’ve been stuck in a relapse loop lately bro, I haven’t went over a week in so long it seems. My willpower has been pretty pathetic lately. But I WILL come out on top and conquer these urges no matter the how many times I fall I WILL get up.

    • @Dudemanbro556
      @Dudemanbro556 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got this bro

    • @reverbeed
      @reverbeed 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too bro. These days the urge has hit me when I’m alr supposed to be sleeping tho. Rn, I just did it twice at around 4:40 am 😭😭☠️☠️. Idk what to do guys

    • @FrankSantos1989
      @FrankSantos1989 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reverbeedhow are you now?

    • @reverbeed
      @reverbeed 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FrankSantos1989 The days having been getting longer & although I slipped up a few times, I'm moving forward

    • @FrankSantos1989
      @FrankSantos1989 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@reverbeed that’s great to hear mate, good luck

  • @alexcorbett4364
    @alexcorbett4364 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is the start bro , I can see this channel is gonna blow up 🔥🔥

    • @MattSpear99
      @MattSpear99  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let’s gooo our brotherhood is gonna take over!!

  • @mohmoh_1998
    @mohmoh_1998 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Stumbled upon this in my recommended right before bed as I was trying hard to resist negative thoughts. Proud to say I'm within the first 60 members of your discord right now! Keep it up brother!

    • @MattSpear99
      @MattSpear99  ปีที่แล้ว

      Let’s go brother you were here first

  • @ultraninja1151
    @ultraninja1151 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks man u saved me from going to relapse I grabbed my phone and first video popped up it was this 😁

  • @Luka_Petakovic09
    @Luka_Petakovic09 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When this urge starts I hit the push-ups it actually works

  • @XYZ88723
    @XYZ88723 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have created another approach to the urges.
    It's called digital cleanup.
    When the urge comes, delete all the crap videos and pics which you never need.
    When you mindfully delete them, you allow space for new things to come in your life.

  • @heyroldjuniorcambry1991
    @heyroldjuniorcambry1991 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely right, nobody ever relapsed not entertaining the thought 👍🏽

  • @pxblx-ng-yxy
    @pxblx-ng-yxy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much. I had problems with nofap but this tipp really helps me. keep making videos like this.

    • @MattSpear99
      @MattSpear99  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For sure brother glad it helped

  • @MThomps17
    @MThomps17 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Discipline only works so often, its about building good habit that will lead us to long term successes away from porn and over sexuality

  • @mitchwall6002
    @mitchwall6002 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos saved my life

  • @kenthachosen6052
    @kenthachosen6052 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Message Brother… Keep The Videos Goin💯🔥🔥

  • @JjMc-l6w
    @JjMc-l6w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro you are speaking true facts, that energy stored up in your body, and yes you have to take cold showers because Cold showers help you step out of your comfort zone, and I noticed cold showers make you feel confident in your self, and yeah do a work out too.

  • @riccardoducci5918
    @riccardoducci5918 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One week ago I had this urge, litterally, i couldn't resist, a part of me knew that I shouldn't do that, but the other part of my brain continued saying to me that the urge won't pass and then it'll be worse. I ended up relapsing, that night i felt so guilty I did twice the exercises I do every efternoon and, in the shower, I slapped my face 27 times. From then on I didn't relapse, yesterday and today I got urges, but for now I'm able to resist, I really hope to get past like all summer whitout doing it again, I really don't want to do it. And i won't.
    Now I'm going to do some pushups, bye.
    Apologize for bad english.

  • @brent000
    @brent000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro this deadass happened to me yesterday, I was on day 8 and started entertaining that thoughts and looked up an image. That built up a lot of sexual energy that I was sitting with the urge for 5 hours straight because it wouldn't go away😭 Very painful experience

  • @blackdeath1848
    @blackdeath1848 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is so underrated

  • @BALEVANI_
    @BALEVANI_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just dk e watching hub then i stumbled on here bro you are the best fr fr still in help cause im a simp

  • @funnyuniverse1
    @funnyuniverse1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im 33 days into my NoFap Journey and I have gone back to Pron but as soon as I got to the home page of the site I closed tab so fast.

  • @LutadorAfonso
    @LutadorAfonso ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video bro. keep the good work.

  • @Bongrad
    @Bongrad ปีที่แล้ว +3

    it's not even 10s of pleasure, that's the sad part

  • @ashfaqtahmeed194
    @ashfaqtahmeed194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tip. Use water or cream that dries skin down there and just only slwoly massage your junior. Do not rub it! Just only tap those veins and dry the skin out and focus on killing your fantasy which is at the root of this problem. Rush to your bathroom and just clean the lower part of your body with cold water soon youll get your present moment back. Then rush out pf your room and do somthing productive like exercise that tiers you up. Edging is a trap. Delay that emotion. I just had it. When your testosterone level gets to normal youll eventually get back to your normal life. Its just the withdrawal.

  • @imanghafoory588
    @imanghafoory588 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice my G❤

  • @user-tp7vk
    @user-tp7vk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    once the phone is in your hand, you're DONE

  • @erikkMX
    @erikkMX ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks bro

  • @daru5834
    @daru5834 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you.

  • @filipdulak
    @filipdulak ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Matt, I'm a fan of your youtube channel and prepared something especially for you, can i send it to you somewhere?

  • @HaedonPL
    @HaedonPL 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    7:45
    And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell. And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.(Matthew 5:29-30)

  • @thepoopcast6609
    @thepoopcast6609 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sheesh w vid let’s go

  • @Uknowjustin
    @Uknowjustin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your videos, good and funny as shit

    • @MattSpear99
      @MattSpear99  ปีที่แล้ว

      Let’s go appreciate that bro

  • @eddc1702
    @eddc1702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your prefrontal cortex deactivated and the amygdala took control... doing what it is supposed to do, instinctevly ..

    • @dosomestuff1949
      @dosomestuff1949 ปีที่แล้ว

      WHY WBY WHH WBY WHY WHY WHY THE HELL DOES TBIS HAPPEN THIS IS SO FUCKING ANNOYING EVERYTIME I GET EMOTIONAL THE AMYGDALA JUST TAKES OVER. How can I just kill it?

    • @u7wf
      @u7wf ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dosomestuff1949 gun shot

  • @an_amv6929
    @an_amv6929 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice video but It lacks some editing are you looking for a video editor? I can help

    • @gabechildress5854
      @gabechildress5854 ปีที่แล้ว

      1- That’s the point
      2- there is no way you are older than 15

  • @benjamingraham8640
    @benjamingraham8640 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I managed 16 days two weeks but no I’m struggling at an all time low not gonna do anything stupid like ending my life because I’ve come a long way I’m not gonna give up I might have the thoughts but tomorrows a new day gonna start again strong

  • @roguephilosopher2465
    @roguephilosopher2465 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You remind me of the guy from veteran tv

  • @paolo5897
    @paolo5897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What do you do if the urge hits when it’s like 2 am in the morning 😭?

  • @PhillDrakeEntertainment
    @PhillDrakeEntertainment ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's like a battle in our minds guys very fucked up situation, the Bible help here cause it's more of a spiritual battle rather being physical

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim108 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you related with Britney Spear

  • @napkin1013
    @napkin1013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    w video

  • @ilaripori6148
    @ilaripori6148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It seems that semen retention is not healthy for the prostate guys, don't over do it imo.

    • @Tr1john
      @Tr1john ปีที่แล้ว

      After like 90 days I think u should just release just not to pr0n

    • @cheesypnut9827
      @cheesypnut9827 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, release every now and then, especially when you get with a girl, that's not bad, that's good.
      Porn is the bad thing because it messes up our minds, so if you do decide to release, don't watch porn!

  • @juasmr1637
    @juasmr1637 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get a g.f bro

  • @ezelldaniels6064
    @ezelldaniels6064 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can I ask you a serious question man cause I see a lot of people lately speaking on this subject.. Do you Really feel masturbation isn't healthy? Cause I honestly feel it's perfectly normal and something most men do because it feels good. I don't think it's anything wrong with jacking off here and there for a release as long as your not doing it 2 to 5x a day.