Thank you for your videos. At 73 years old I FINALLY found someone who I can relate to. I’ve also been a messy person and felt really bad about it my whole life. I lost my husband of 50 years 3 years ago and things have gotten even worse due to depression. I’m moving into a new place (first time on my own) and I am determined to keep this place uncluttered and clean. I understand that it will be a hard task for me, but I’m definitely eager to do it. You have been so inspiring and I love your honesty. Thank you
I can so relate. My husband had 2 strokes 3 years ago. He survived and I am his only caretaker. Everything he used to do he can no longer do and it’s all on me. I am 78 and work like I never did. I am overwhelmed but I do what I can. People say mean things and it’s heartbreaking but they don’t know what it’s like. Please people be kind. Love to all facing difficult times. You never know when bad things will happen
Bonnie, I relate so much to your story, since my husband passed my untidiness has become much worse. I’m moving as well. I’m only taking what I need, I’m taking things I use, not things I may use. I’m planning on keeping it simple, no clutter less is best so they say 🤷♀️ That way I may find it much easier to clean. I love Remi,she is who she, Remi is so honest.
And a big hug to Tenunsa and Wendy too❤ Caregivers at any age struggle to stay afloat and it's even harder once older because the physical body says no more frequently.
I can tell you aren’t messing your place up just to make content, I can tell because I’ve seen that same mess grow organically at my house. I just discovered you today and I’m binge watching. I feel like you are describing me when you talk about your struggles with clean and tidy. Thank you for making these videos.
Thank you! I’m a single man in a small house with several cats and a bird. It’s overwhelming trying to keep things up. I can’t imagine what you go through with children. You have given me hope and inspiration. I have trouble just doing my dishes for one.
Your voice is comforting. You also are a real person, with real life issues. It is comforting to know there is someone out there going through the mental struggles I go through. I don't have kids in the house anymore, but even without them here, it is about me getting motivated to do the house work. Thank you for helping me look at life a bit differently and motivating me. Don't pay those haters any mind. You are such an amazing lady.
i really like hearing you chattering on, please don’t stop. Those haters stating you mess things up on purpose, should walk into my house unannounced, maybe then they would see these things happen
Haters will always hate. Their reactions say more about their own struggles, than about you. What you're doing in your videos is awesome. So, whilst you're enjoying making them, we'll keep enjoying them. ❤
Oh it definitely does me too!! But sometimes when you’re doing it over and over again and you know it will be messy again very soon, you’re just like UGH, nope! 🤦🏻♀️
I love your videos especially the talking side to it!! Your home is refreshing to see that your actually cleaning it when it’s dirty and untidy. Keep these long talking videos coming I love them!! Xx
I love the way you talk all the way through them too. I imagine that's more work than sticking some music on, so thank you so much for making the effort to voice them 😊
"So I thought, d'ya know what..? - I've had my nap, I've had my sulk, and now I'm gonna get my bum up..." LOVE IT 😅❤ I've spent the morning in bed, I've been sulking and feeling sorry for myself too. Time for me to get my bum up too. Thank you so much for the motivation. We CAN do this 😊💪🙏💕
You are my type, sweet girl! I LOVE your chatting and thoroughly enjoy your voice over, good common sense and wise advice for people struggling to find balance. You keep being YOU and those of us who appreciate you will keep coming back to encourage each other. Big hug from an older mum who sees what a WONDERFUL job you're doing. 🥰
Your a brilliant mum. From one to another. You’ve really helped me. Especially repetitive cleaning every single day it’s so draining 🥰 I watch you and do it too. ❤
Same when I watch the videos I get up half way threw qnd start it's refreshing to see a video we can relate to not a show house love remi.. ❤❤ keep your videos coming especially the mental health one ❤
I LOVE your channel cause you mirror me. You have a very healthy acceptance of who and how you are. Unfortunately it took me 50+ years to come to that acceptance and be good with it.
Just wanted to boost your engagement because I find your long-form videos really comforting and motivating. Even though I live alone, I often look around at my space and wonder "what happened??" because it gets messy so quickly, and your blame-free approach is really helpful
We're definitely comforted and inspired by your videos! I watch them for motivation to clean and tidy up.Your voice and stories are awesome. Don't stop talking!!!
As a mum of a 2 year old girl, a very energetic jack russell and a newborn coming soon, ive just discovered your channel and i feel so encouraged watching the videos:) thank you for being so reslsitic and down to earth about what its like trying to keep a house running when there are several little beings wanting your attention all the time! Xx
Ive just found your account and been binge watching it while doing some cleaning and cooking dinner this evening. And I LOVE that you talk all through your videos! That is what I find motivational and uplifting. If I just wanted background music I could turn on spotify 😉 And it is so refreshing to see real people sharing real life messes and ways to tackle them on social media. My house is messy 90% of the time... no matter how much I clean and tidy! Watching your channel and listening to your stories makes me feel so much more accepting of myself. Im really glad I've found you on here! X
I have been watching your videos since I ran across you, I think 4 days ago..thing is, I LOVE your chats because for your relative youth, you display a vast amount of wisdom, you have a soothing voice and although I know nothing of you, your patience and compassion comes through in your voice over..and in the last four days because of the video where you make the list as you go, I’ve taken that list onboard and oh the difference to me! I went through the house just picking up cloths and getting them washed and managed the first three items on that list, at the end of the day the improvement to my home was massive! The second day I did the bins and hoovered and the house became manageable because for me then all that was left was the specifics; cleaning fixtures and wiping down cabinets..four days on my house has stayed clean and I’ve been able to focus on arranging the pantry.. My gratitude for you and your video content is SO much more than words could express.. Thank you!
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this today. My baby hasn't stopped crying all day except when she crashed put for an hour this morning and I took the chance for a sleep whilst my other 3 were at school. The house is a huge mess. My stairs look just like yours too. Managed to get the washing up done and I already feel so much better for it so I completely relate to how your mood changed. Your the most relatable youtuber I've come across because your so real and honest and it honestly nearly made me cry today because I felt understood, all be it by someone who doesn't know me. Thank you so much. And ignore the haters, why bother hating on someone, just watch a different video and move on.
You are amazing Remi, I used to watch your videos, here and TikTok before doing cleaning to motivate myself. This time I thought I'd try having you on in the background while I was cleaning and wow, it almost felt like you were here as a friend spurring me on as you were doing yours. Will definitely be doing that again!!
Hello there! As a wife to a husband with ADHD and 2 kids having the same, I can tell you that you are not alone. I live in a neuroatypical bubble and lots of my friends are talking about the same issues you experienced. People who think you mess things up on purpose can't imagine how distracted someone can really become, and that what you show could possibly be real! I live with 3 messy people and can swear our house looks the same as yours often, and I can't tidy up all the time. Being messy doesn't make you a failure and people with this mindset need to get their priorities straight. You overcame executive dysfunction and tiredness today to get things done, and I am proud of you for putting in the effort!!! Greetings from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
Bloodliriel- OMG same here! I have an ex- husband with ADHD and my two kids both inherited it. I don't know anyone else with two kids who both have it, so I was surprised to see your comment. Also some of my ancestors are from Luxembourg! 😂 Greetings from Arizona, USA
The people that say it's staged either haven't had kids, they're Mary Poppins, or just plain rude! Love your channel and your voice-overs are better than the constantly interrupted music voice-overs!
I love how much you talk in your videos! Thank you for representing all of us out here who struggle with the same issues. I've used your vids to help motivate me to tidy up several times now after just finding your channel recently and I appreciate all you do!
Hi Remi, thank you for your honesty, authenticity and humor. You are an amazing mom. I know what a struggle it can be to clean with little kids around. You clean, you turn your back, and it's dirty again 😅
Remi, I can’t tell you what a blessing you are with your videos❗️ I have shared them with my daughter and we both find you to be so authentic and it’s so helpful for us who have the same problems as you with clutter and not be able to keep everything together all times. (Understatement ) ❤❤❤
I love cleaning and organizing and when I came across ur channel I really enjoy how ur videos are different because u actually talk through them instead of music. I like to hear what u have to say and all the encouragement u give to others.
I just discovered your videos today, and I just want to say thank you thank you. I love your honesty, your chat, and your refreshing attitude. So glad I found you today - you helped me tackle some jobs in the house I’d been putting off and they had really been getting me down. You’re an inspiration, thank you
I love that you talk for the videos. I can’t clean to the music cleaning ones. I prefer the talking videos because I feel like I’m cleaning along with you rather than cleaning alone. I struggle at motivating myself but talking videos keep my going!
You're a lovely person and I think you're not talking too much. You're so wise in what you say and not just blabbering away..! I'm 64 now and I'm still learning ...from you! Keep up the good work dear Remy! Watching you from the Netherlands😊
I grew up in a messy house and I struggle with self judgement and the judgement of others who I let in my house. I’m trying really hard to get into a routine which I struggle with. I think you’re doing a great job and I find these videos really motivating. Don’t let the haters get you down.
Remi, Life takes balance. We definitely need to prioritize our family time. You are a great mother and spouse. I don’t understand the need that people have to criticize other people. You are awesome! Don’t let the hateful comments get you down. I love watching your videos. It reminds me of when I was a young mother raising a family and trying to keep up with everything. Don’t be hard on yourself. ❤❤❤❤
Your doing great, I'm on my own with a teenager and a two year old both being diagnosed with Autism and sometimes it were so overwhelming that I would just throw up! I have started to make mini task lists with 2 or 3 jobs to complete each day and try to add or subtract tasks according to my energy levels and how the kids are doing on the day! I have stopped guilt tripping myself for not having a shining sparkling house 24 7 it's just never gonna happen. I try to get out to the park each day to get fresh air and reset this massively helps my mind and is great for the kids.
Thank you so much, Remi! I love hearing you talk and share during your videos. I feel like you're telling my story. I'm struggling right now with cleaning and mental health. I've been trying to remind myself to do what a can every day, even if it's a little bit. And not assign judgement to myself because of the clutter in my house and how long it's been there. I'm not a bad person. So watching your vids give me hope.
Please let yourself know the haters are not worth your time. Ran across this comment recently….. Don’t pay attention to advise from those you would not go to for advice… Says it all. Gentle Hugs💕 from an 83 yr old grandmother. You are doing fine…you can’t know the good you are doing for so many folks dealing with so much. Thank you dear.
I have just come across your video’s am 63 and discovered Utube during lockdown I have watched quite a few cleaning videos both American and Uk ones and in my opinion yours is the one I have found to be down to earth and what you see is what you get good on ya lass anyone with any sense can see the mess is real you just keep on doing what you are doing when you can good on ya xx😊😊
You are amazing! Your video's really help me to pick myself up and do what I need to do. Sometimes I hate it and you know, I sometimes just don't know were to put things. My daughter is the same, so I shared your channel with her. Maybe it also helps her. It helps to know that there is someone out there who really understands the guilt you feel because you don't seem to be able to do what others find a normal daily task. There will always be people who don't understand. It took me for ever to understand me myself. It is you who made me feel less hard on myself. That only happend about two month ago, and I'm 63. So, for the coming years..thank you for bringing light to me and my house❤
I love your chatty videos 🥰 you are amazing. Being an adult is definitely extremely hard. Getting a balance is so hard. I was so happy to find one of your videos that I haven’t seen before. Perfect motivation while my kids are at their dads xx
You do not talk too much. I love hearing you talk while you clean. Better than listening to music while someone cleans the tub that looks clean to start with! -Your videos are way better and more motivating. You keep it real. Keep right on being you!! Glad your little one felt better after a bad night.
You are doing great! As mom of 3 boys that mess is absolutely organic. It's a home full of love. I love how you let your kids be kids and just pick up when they are done. And I could listen to you talk all day.
Balance helper: Have your kids help you . Your older boy can help you. I was a single mom of 4 and worked full time. They all had chores to do on the weekend (By Thursday our house was trashed!). When they were young they had chores like putting silverware away, cleaning appliance doors (fridge, microwave etc) pick up garbage, wipe off tables and toys away, help set table. My kids are adults now and laugh about the "chorelist". They all keep nice neat homes. Give yourself the gift of help and give your kids the gift of learning how to help. Have a fabulous day and thank you for your transparency!
@@TT-yv3dw she's not talking about turning them into full-time slaves. She's talking about giving them each age appropriate jobs that would take maybe 15 or 20 minutes a day. The children learn discipline and tidiness and these really help when they come to leave home. My mum didn't teach me anything. I left home unable to clean, cook, do laundry. It was hard.
I'm a mom of 3. I had 3 kids by the time I was 23. I am early 40s now. Its can be so hard to juggle everything. My suggestion to people is always remember whenever you say yes to one thing you say no to something else. An example might be if you say yes to cleaning house you will be saying no to playing a card game with children. If no to cleaning house you may be saying yes to mental breakdowns. Gauge where you are at and choose the yes and no wisely depending on the day's situation. God does not call us to worry about tomorrow nor does he want us heaped with guilt from yesterday. He wants us living in the moment and giving it our best. It's ok to plan for the future but we must flexible for the moment we are in. I love your channel. Be blessed!❤
Today was not a good day. I needed to hear someone who understands that cleaning up my mess can improve my mood & spin the day into at least more functional and less chaotic one ❤ thank you for being authentic and helping me feel less alone. It’s like you’re calm in a storm
For the past 18 mos l was only functional in what l was doing. I took care of my Mom for 5 yrs after my Dad passed. Them 18 mos ago she went to join him. But watching you has helped me get moving and thinking about my home. Took me 3 days just reorganize my kitchen, got a donation box made from the kitchen. Then today it took me all day just cleaning my livingroom. Had planned to shampoo the carpet. But was to chilly and damp to do it today. And got another donation box made up. Shredded a lot of paperwork that needed to be done.
I enjoy listening to your videos while I tidy up. Cleaning is overwhelming sometimes and you’re really inspiring and calming. Thank you for all you do! ❤
Clearly, the people that think you mess your house up on purpose keep a perfectly tidy house 100% of the time and are afraid to sneeze or do anything in their own home. My house is exactly like this every day and I am very anxious about trying to keep it ““ picture perfect“ your videos have actually helped me a lot to let go of that, and spend more much-needed family time together.
Your videos are so good, and I love to hear you chat to us. Anyone who says negative things to you hates themselves, and needs for everyone to feel the same way. Ignore them. Don't read that crap. Read our comments. You are awesome!❤
I love your videos. I only found you 2 days ago and I'm binge watching. You're so relatable. My house looks like you're house! And you motivated me to get moving! And when you just said when you was off school poorly you had tomato soup and a crisp sandwich snd watched the sound of music... so did I, with my nan! Exactly the same! 🥲
Oh this is just so cute that we had the same childhood experience! 🥺 I’m SO pleased that you’re enjoying the videos and they’ve motivated you a bit! ☺️ x
I love listening to you talk, it's like we're sitting together having a cup of tea & then doing some work on our houses together. As for people who think you create a mess to tidy up - well, I think they've lived very sheltered lives if they think none of us have messy houses! They've certainly never been to my house. And deciding that they can judge others for having different lives from their own is just sad.
I’m in love with you Remi!! Thank you thank you thank you for all your videos! I’m 46 and never thought people like me existed I thought I was alone in my messy misery. I’m not diagnosed with anything but I suspect something makes me different. No one in my friends or family understands my mess , so thank you for making me feel like I’m not alone 😊
I've just found your channel recently & i feel like I've found another me. Your difficulties are so similar to mine. I can relate on every level. My house is often like a bomb has hit it & people criticize me for how long it takes me to clean up. I've now learnt there is a difference between tidying & organizing & one takes a lot longer for me than the other! I'm from South Africa & love your accent & absolutely love your chattiness...it's just so comforting. Keep doing you & try not to let the haters get into your head. You're awesome ❤
Oh my goodness Remi, give yourself a bresk. Work a job, have a house to do, cleaning, cooking, 2 children and my personal favorite, nursing a baby!!!!!!!!$-$-&&. You are precious ❤️ no more guilt, you do it all in a normal world. Much love to you and family🎉
It made me laugh that you get comments saying ‘there’s no way your house gets like that organically!’. 😮 I on the other hand find it perfectly easy to understand how your house gets like that. I have 4 pets and 3 teenagers and a job, and motivational issues. Those people ought to have a look round my place. 😅
I love that you talk in your videos. I listen while I clean so I like the conversation. Many cleaning channels play music so if you are listening while cleaning rather than watching then one may as well listen to the radio. So I appreciate that you talk.
I love that you talk the entire time. I watch alot of cleaning videos and I would rather hear the person talking than some of the music some play. So I absolutely love yours. Im so glad I happened across your videos. Not to mention I just feel you are realistic for all moms out there trying to do their best everyday. Thank you for being so refreshing everytime.
I am surprised people criticise you. Don't people know that if they don't gel with something they can just stop and move on? I really enjoy your chats as you clean. Thanks for sharing xo
I am a messy person too - thanks for setting yourself out here for others to be encouraged not to give up. I do training and I do cover the difference between messy people and neat people - we do not understand each other. Those that accuse you of doing this deliberately is obviously neat people and have never faced a messy person challenges. Be encouraged that you are helping others and your monologue helps us understand what is running through your mind - to few people actually are aware of their inner voice until the wheels come off.
I'm a relatively new fan. I love your comments and cute accent. I learn something new about cleaning, clearing & life in general with each vlog. Keep up your important life's work. ❤️
I can't believe someone complained that you talk too much! I love listening to you; it really is like listening to a friend vent & chat. Please, keep up the conversations :-)
Sounds like you're a great mother, full of concern when needed. Maybe the Lord was giving you a little grace by letting the smallest one sleep. God bless you all! Though I'm much older than you I have the same struggles with my home. You inspire me to get it done!
You are talking is just fine. It adds to the video as it tells us what you’re thinking, how you are feeling, and helps us to relate to what you’re going through. We might be going through the same thing in our own lives. Right now, after two back surgeries and a third one coming up soon, my husband of 40 years is trying to learn how to clean the house. He has never done it and it is driving me crazy. I am OCD, so it is either my way or don’t do it at all. that poor man is doing his best.
We all have a choice to be positive or negative, you have chosen the better of the two. Let’s all pray for those who see things so poorly, it must me an awful life. You are truly connecting with people.
I love your accent and everything you talk about. Your voice is so soothing, comforting, and interesting and you are so encouraging to every mom struggling to make it through the day. Screw your naysayers. Keep making more videos!! You are refreshing and REAL!
Oh Remi! How much I needed that video today 🥰 I'm absolutely exhausted! Had a stomach bug here. My 10 years old started on Sunday 🤮🤮 and then my 6 years old started Monday afternoon and all night couldn't hold down a sip of water 😩 and on top of that we were away with our caravan so home is one big disaster when we come back, had so many things to put away 🤯 but I'm going to move my 3 letters and I'll sort that now, as best as I can! I'm like you hun, and my husband can't understand why I can't get be bothered very often 🫣 but to be honest it really feels amazing to have tidy house 😅 Don't listen to people talking rubbish! You have many people who really need you in their lives! ❤❤❤❤
Oh bless you, I hope you’re all feeling better now! There’s honestly nothing worse than a sickness bug, especially when you’re trying to care for sick kiddos when you’re sick yourself! But I totally agree, it makes you feel so much better when you’ve got a tidy home! X
Love that u chat through your videos as music ones bore me and nices feels like I with you while your cleaning such lovely kids too your doing amazing never forget that xx
Were have you been my whole life..lol. I thought I was the only one who lived like this. Just watching you gives me great hope with my mess. You have no clue how much this helps.
A house can get super messy in a day even after a deep clean. I do a thorough clean on Sundays and by Monday night it's back to needing the deep clean again but itll have to wait til next Sunday when I'm off work again. When you have kids it's just how it goes! Also I love your talking, it's literally why I click on your videos because you're so realistic and it's so comforting
How ridiculous that you would mess up your house to make videos! I raised 6 children and know how quickly a house can get messed up. Its very satisfying to see your home come together. I love your talk overs . You say so many things that resonate with me. Keep up the good fight. Your awesome! ❤
100% get how a house can get so messy in so little time. There is never a day when every single room in my house is clean at the same time. I can get half of the house clean and the other half is still messy. And I just have to alternate which half is clean. And that’s as good as it gets. ❤
Hi Remi, I would like to thank you for your honesty, motivation and putting yourself out there. I am one of the people out there that completely understands you and now also understands myself so much more. You say in this video people have said "you talk too much", everyone is entitled to their opinion but .... I LOVE what you have to say. Listening to your point of view and how you process things is exactly what I enjoy .. so keep talking, keep going and thank you for all you do,😊
Thank you for your videos. At 73 years old I FINALLY found someone who I can relate to. I’ve also been a messy person and felt really bad about it my whole life. I lost my husband of 50 years 3 years ago and things have gotten even worse due to depression. I’m moving into a new place (first time on my own) and I am determined to keep this place uncluttered and clean. I understand that it will be a hard task for me, but I’m definitely eager to do it. You have been so inspiring and I love your honesty. Thank you
I can so relate. My husband had 2 strokes 3 years ago. He survived and I am his only caretaker. Everything he used to do he can no longer do and it’s all on me. I am 78 and work like I never did. I am overwhelmed but I do what I can. People say mean things and it’s heartbreaking but they don’t know what it’s like. Please people be kind. Love to all facing difficult times. You never know when bad things will happen
Bonnie, I relate so much to your story, since my husband passed my untidiness has become much worse. I’m moving as well. I’m only taking what I need, I’m taking things I use, not things I may use. I’m planning on keeping it simple, no clutter less is best so they say 🤷♀️ That way I may find it much easier to clean. I love Remi,she is who she, Remi is so honest.
Big hug, Bonnie ❤
And a big hug to Tenunsa and Wendy too❤ Caregivers at any age struggle to stay afloat and it's even harder once older because the physical body says no more frequently.
I hear ya sister. Getting old ain’t for sissies.
I can tell you aren’t messing your place up just to make content, I can tell because I’ve seen that same mess grow organically at my house. I just discovered you today and I’m binge watching. I feel like you are describing me when you talk about your struggles with clean and tidy. Thank you for making these videos.
Exactly the same thoughts here!
So yes, the people whom you are doing it for, they know it's real, because they've seen it 'organically grow' into it.
Thank you! I’m a single man in a small house with several cats and a bird. It’s overwhelming trying to keep things up. I can’t imagine what you go through with children. You have given me hope and inspiration. I have trouble just doing my dishes for one.
Your voice is comforting. You also are a real person, with real life issues. It is comforting to know there is someone out there going through the mental struggles I go through. I don't have kids in the house anymore, but even without them here, it is about me getting motivated to do the house work. Thank you for helping me look at life a bit differently and motivating me. Don't pay those haters any mind. You are such an amazing lady.
i really like hearing you chattering on, please don’t stop. Those haters stating you mess things up on purpose, should walk into my house unannounced, maybe then they would see these things happen
Haters will always hate. Their reactions say more about their own struggles, than about you. What you're doing in your videos is awesome. So, whilst you're enjoying making them, we'll keep enjoying them. ❤
Love the "woffle" and the sound of your voice
I find that a clean house helps my anxiety but sometimes it is so hard to get motivated. Great job!!!
Oh it definitely does me too!! But sometimes when you’re doing it over and over again and you know it will be messy again very soon, you’re just like UGH, nope! 🤦🏻♀️
I love your videos especially the talking side to it!! Your home is refreshing to see that your actually cleaning it when it’s dirty and untidy. Keep these long talking videos coming I love them!! Xx
Thank you so much!! This has made my day! 🥰 xx
Ditto! And I love the accent!
I love the way you talk all the way through them too. I imagine that's more work than sticking some music on, so thank you so much for making the effort to voice them 😊
I love that you talk through you videos. I can listen even when I'm out on a walk x
"So I thought, d'ya know what..? - I've had my nap, I've had my sulk, and now I'm gonna get my bum up..." LOVE IT 😅❤
I've spent the morning in bed, I've been sulking and feeling sorry for myself too. Time for me to get my bum up too. Thank you so much for the motivation. We CAN do this 😊💪🙏💕
Tbh I find your voice and videos very comforting! You keep doing you
I’m so pleased, thank you ☺️
You are my type, sweet girl! I LOVE your chatting and thoroughly enjoy your voice over, good common sense and wise advice for people struggling to find balance. You keep being YOU and those of us who appreciate you will keep coming back to encourage each other. Big hug from an older mum who sees what a WONDERFUL job you're doing. 🥰
Your a brilliant mum. From one to another. You’ve really helped me. Especially repetitive cleaning every single day it’s so draining 🥰 I watch you and do it too. ❤
Honestly this makes me so happy, I’m so pleased to be able to help ☺️
Same at least starting to get motivated so excited for newer beginnings. 😊
Same when I watch the videos I get up half way threw qnd start it's refreshing to see a video we can relate to not a show house love remi.. ❤❤ keep your videos coming especially the mental health one ❤
I LOVE your channel cause you mirror me. You have a very healthy acceptance of who and how you are. Unfortunately it took me 50+ years to come to that acceptance and be good with it.
Just wanted to boost your engagement because I find your long-form videos really comforting and motivating. Even though I live alone, I often look around at my space and wonder "what happened??" because it gets messy so quickly, and your blame-free approach is really helpful
We're definitely comforted and inspired by your videos! I watch them for motivation to clean and tidy up.Your voice and stories are awesome. Don't stop talking!!!
As a mum of a 2 year old girl, a very energetic jack russell and a newborn coming soon, ive just discovered your channel and i feel so encouraged watching the videos:) thank you for being so reslsitic and down to earth about what its like trying to keep a house running when there are several little beings wanting your attention all the time! Xx
Ive just found your account and been binge watching it while doing some cleaning and cooking dinner this evening. And I LOVE that you talk all through your videos! That is what I find motivational and uplifting. If I just wanted background music I could turn on spotify 😉 And it is so refreshing to see real people sharing real life messes and ways to tackle them on social media. My house is messy 90% of the time... no matter how much I clean and tidy! Watching your channel and listening to your stories makes me feel so much more accepting of myself. Im really glad I've found you on here! X
I have been watching your videos since I ran across you, I think 4 days ago..thing is, I LOVE your chats because for your relative youth, you display a vast amount of wisdom, you have a soothing voice and although I know nothing of you, your patience and compassion comes through in your voice over..and in the last four days because of the video where you make the list as you go, I’ve taken that list onboard and oh the difference to me! I went through the house just picking up cloths and getting them washed and managed the first three items on that list, at the end of the day the improvement to my home was massive! The second day I did the bins and hoovered and the house became manageable because for me then all that was left was the specifics; cleaning fixtures and wiping down cabinets..four days on my house has stayed clean and I’ve been able to focus on arranging the pantry..
My gratitude for you and your video content is SO much more than words could express..
Thank you!
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this today. My baby hasn't stopped crying all day except when she crashed put for an hour this morning and I took the chance for a sleep whilst my other 3 were at school. The house is a huge mess. My stairs look just like yours too. Managed to get the washing up done and I already feel so much better for it so I completely relate to how your mood changed. Your the most relatable youtuber I've come across because your so real and honest and it honestly nearly made me cry today because I felt understood, all be it by someone who doesn't know me. Thank you so much.
And ignore the haters, why bother hating on someone, just watch a different video and move on.
What a lovely kind thing to say, Natalie.
You are amazing Remi, I used to watch your videos, here and TikTok before doing cleaning to motivate myself. This time I thought I'd try having you on in the background while I was cleaning and wow, it almost felt like you were here as a friend spurring me on as you were doing yours. Will definitely be doing that again!!
Oh this makes me so so happy! 🥺🥰 I’m sorry I didn’t see this comment until now! Thank you! X
I love your chatty videos. They're so wholesome and comforting. Thank you.
Remi, you inspire me. Thanks for all your kindness and positivity. Just lovely
Hello there! As a wife to a husband with ADHD and 2 kids having the same, I can tell you that you are not alone. I live in a neuroatypical bubble and lots of my friends are talking about the same issues you experienced. People who think you mess things up on purpose can't imagine how distracted someone can really become, and that what you show could possibly be real! I live with 3 messy people and can swear our house looks the same as yours often, and I can't tidy up all the time. Being messy doesn't make you a failure and people with this mindset need to get their priorities straight. You overcame executive dysfunction and tiredness today to get things done, and I am proud of you for putting in the effort!!! Greetings from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
Bloodliriel- OMG same here! I have an ex- husband with ADHD and my two kids both inherited it. I don't know anyone else with two kids who both have it, so I was surprised to see your comment. Also some of my ancestors are from Luxembourg! 😂 Greetings from Arizona, USA
@@customer5032 oh wow, what a coincidence! Greetings back!
The people that say it's staged either haven't had kids, they're Mary Poppins, or just plain rude! Love your channel and your voice-overs are better than the constantly interrupted music voice-overs!
I've watched cleaning videos for a while now and you are THE most relatable! It's so reassuring I can't tell you!! Thankyou for doing this for us!! X
I love how much you talk in your videos! Thank you for representing all of us out here who struggle with the same issues. I've used your vids to help motivate me to tidy up several times now after just finding your channel recently and I appreciate all you do!
Hi Remi, thank you for your honesty, authenticity and humor. You are an amazing mom. I know what a struggle it can be to clean with little kids around. You clean, you turn your back, and it's dirty again 😅
Remi, I can’t tell you what a blessing you are with your videos❗️ I have shared them with my daughter and we both find you to be so authentic and it’s so helpful for us who have the same problems as you with clutter and not be able to keep everything together all times. (Understatement ) ❤❤❤
I love cleaning and organizing and when I came across ur channel I really enjoy how ur videos are different because u actually talk through them instead of music. I like to hear what u have to say and all the encouragement u give to others.
Oh this makes me so happy, thank you! 😊
I just discovered your videos today, and I just want to say thank you thank you. I love your honesty, your chat, and your refreshing attitude. So glad I found you today - you helped me tackle some jobs in the house I’d been putting off and they had really been getting me down.
You’re an inspiration, thank you
I love that you talk for the videos. I can’t clean to the music cleaning ones. I prefer the talking videos because I feel like I’m cleaning along with you rather than cleaning alone. I struggle at motivating myself but talking videos keep my going!
You're a lovely person and I think you're not talking too much. You're so wise in what you say and not just blabbering away..! I'm 64 now and I'm still learning ...from you! Keep up the good work dear Remy! Watching you from the Netherlands😊
I love your chatting! Don't stop! Your voice and descriptions make your videos! Don't let anyone tell you different ❤️
I love your chatting while I watch you clean. I find it comforting.
I grew up in a messy house and I struggle with self judgement and the judgement of others who I let in my house. I’m trying really hard to get into a routine which I struggle with. I think you’re doing a great job and I find these videos really motivating. Don’t let the haters get you down.
Remi, Life takes balance. We definitely need to prioritize our family time. You are a great mother and spouse.
I don’t understand the need that people have to criticize other people. You are awesome! Don’t let the hateful comments get you down. I love watching your videos. It reminds me of when I was a young mother raising a family and trying to keep up with everything. Don’t be hard on yourself. ❤❤❤❤
You are not too chatty. I love the conversation. It really helps me knowing we think a lot alike and I’m not alone in those thoughts 🥰
Your doing great, I'm on my own with a teenager and a two year old both being diagnosed with Autism and sometimes it were so overwhelming that I would just throw up! I have started to make mini task lists with 2 or 3 jobs to complete each day and try to add or subtract tasks according to my energy levels and how the kids are doing on the day! I have stopped guilt tripping myself for not having a shining sparkling house 24 7 it's just never gonna happen.
I try to get out to the park each day to get fresh air and reset this massively helps my mind and is great for the kids.
Thank you so much, Remi! I love hearing you talk and share during your videos. I feel like you're telling my story. I'm struggling right now with cleaning and mental health. I've been trying to remind myself to do what a can every day, even if it's a little bit. And not assign judgement to myself because of the clutter in my house and how long it's been there. I'm not a bad person. So watching your vids give me hope.
You have really inspired me. I have learned i am not alone. Thank you for your narration and honesty.
Keep it up
A memory of tomato soup, chip sandwich and the sound of music at your grandma's house...it's truly something money just can't buy!
Please let yourself know the haters are not worth your time.
Ran across this comment recently….. Don’t pay attention to advise from those you would not go to for advice…
Says it all.
Gentle Hugs💕 from an 83 yr old grandmother. You are doing fine…you can’t know the good you are doing for so many folks dealing with so much. Thank you dear.
I have just come across your video’s am 63 and discovered Utube during lockdown I have watched quite a few cleaning videos both American and Uk ones and in my opinion yours is the one I have found to be down to earth and what you see is what you get good on ya lass anyone with any sense can see the mess is real you just keep on doing what you are doing when you can good on ya xx😊😊
You are amazing! Your video's really help me to pick myself up and do what I need to do. Sometimes I hate it and you know, I sometimes just don't know were to put things.
My daughter is the same, so I shared your channel with her. Maybe it also helps her. It helps to know that there is someone out there who really understands the guilt you feel because you don't seem to be able to do what others find a normal daily task. There will always be people who don't understand. It took me for ever to understand me myself. It is you who made me feel less hard on myself. That only happend about two month ago, and I'm 63. So, for the coming years..thank you for bringing light to me and my house❤
I love your chatty videos 🥰 you are amazing. Being an adult is definitely extremely hard. Getting a balance is so hard. I was so happy to find one of your videos that I haven’t seen before. Perfect motivation while my kids are at their dads xx
You do not talk too much. I love hearing you talk while you clean. Better than listening to music while someone cleans the tub that looks clean to start with! -Your videos are way better and more motivating. You keep it real. Keep right on being you!! Glad your little one felt better after a bad night.
I find you so enjoyable, honest, and incredibly refreshing, never change.😊
"It's the best feeling when the sink's all nice and shiny - doesn't last five seconds, but still" - aaaah, spoken directly from my heart🥰
You are doing great! As mom of 3 boys that mess is absolutely organic. It's a home full of love. I love how you let your kids be kids and just pick up when they are done. And I could listen to you talk all day.
Balance helper: Have your kids help you . Your older boy can help you. I was a single mom of 4 and worked full time. They all had chores to do on the weekend (By Thursday our house was trashed!). When they were young they had chores like putting silverware away, cleaning appliance doors (fridge, microwave etc) pick up garbage, wipe off tables and toys away, help set table. My kids are adults now and laugh about the "chorelist". They all keep nice neat homes. Give yourself the gift of help and give your kids the gift of learning how to help. Have a fabulous day and thank you for your transparency!
Let them be children pls! 🙏
@@TT-yv3dw she's not talking about turning them into full-time slaves. She's talking about giving them each age appropriate jobs that would take maybe 15 or 20 minutes a day. The children learn discipline and tidiness and these really help when they come to leave home. My mum didn't teach me anything. I left home unable to clean, cook, do laundry. It was hard.
I'm a mom of 3. I had 3 kids by the time I was 23. I am early 40s now. Its can be so hard to juggle everything. My suggestion to people is always remember whenever you say yes to one thing you say no to something else. An example might be if you say yes to cleaning house you will be saying no to playing a card game with children. If no to cleaning house you may be saying yes to mental breakdowns. Gauge where you are at and choose the yes and no wisely depending on the day's situation. God does not call us to worry about tomorrow nor does he want us heaped with guilt from yesterday. He wants us living in the moment and giving it our best. It's ok to plan for the future but we must flexible for the moment we are in. I love your channel. Be blessed!❤
Today was not a good day. I needed to hear someone who understands that cleaning up my mess can improve my mood & spin the day into at least more functional and less chaotic one ❤ thank you for being authentic and helping me feel less alone. It’s like you’re calm in a storm
You talk exactly the amount you need to. Your words are meaningful and your words are inspirational because you're so hopeful.
Hi, I love your videos just becouse you talking a lot through it.Nothing worse than boring cleaning videos.
Keep doing your amazing work.xx
For the past 18 mos l was only functional in what l was doing. I took care of my Mom for 5 yrs after my Dad passed. Them 18 mos ago she went to join him. But watching you has helped me get moving and thinking about my home. Took me 3 days just reorganize my kitchen, got a donation box made from the kitchen. Then today it took me all day just cleaning my livingroom. Had planned to shampoo the carpet. But was to chilly and damp to do it today. And got another donation box made up. Shredded a lot of paperwork that needed to be done.
I think you chat the perfect amount! You are lovely to listen to. So encouraging and real.
I enjoy listening to your videos while I tidy up. Cleaning is overwhelming sometimes and you’re really inspiring and calming. Thank you for all you do! ❤
Clearly, the people that think you mess your house up on purpose keep a perfectly tidy house 100% of the time and are afraid to sneeze or do anything in their own home. My house is exactly like this every day and I am very anxious about trying to keep it ““ picture perfect“ your videos have actually helped me a lot to let go of that, and spend more much-needed family time together.
Your videos are so good, and I love to hear you chat to us. Anyone who says negative things to you hates themselves, and needs for everyone to feel the same way. Ignore them. Don't read that crap. Read our comments. You are awesome!❤
I’m here to hear you “chatter on and on”. That’s why I love your channel! I’m so glad I found you!❤
Thank you so so much! 🥺❤️
I love your videos. I only found you 2 days ago and I'm binge watching. You're so relatable. My house looks like you're house! And you motivated me to get moving! And when you just said when you was off school poorly you had tomato soup and a crisp sandwich snd watched the sound of music... so did I, with my nan! Exactly the same! 🥲
Oh this is just so cute that we had the same childhood experience! 🥺 I’m SO pleased that you’re enjoying the videos and they’ve motivated you a bit! ☺️ x
I love listening to you talk, it's like we're sitting together having a cup of tea & then doing some work on our houses together.
As for people who think you create a mess to tidy up - well, I think they've lived very sheltered lives if they think none of us have messy houses! They've certainly never been to my house. And deciding that they can judge others for having different lives from their own is just sad.
The fact you talk is what has drawn me to your videos. This is what I’ve been searching for to help motivate me. Thank you so much!!!
I’m in love with you Remi!! Thank you thank you thank you for all your videos! I’m 46 and never thought people like me existed I thought I was alone in my messy misery. I’m not diagnosed with anything but I suspect something makes me different. No one in my friends or family understands my mess , so thank you for making me feel like I’m not alone 😊
I've just found your channel recently & i feel like I've found another me. Your difficulties are so similar to mine. I can relate on every level. My house is often like a bomb has hit it & people criticize me for how long it takes me to clean up. I've now learnt there is a difference between tidying & organizing & one takes a lot longer for me than the other! I'm from South Africa & love your accent & absolutely love your chattiness...it's just so comforting. Keep doing you & try not to let the haters get into your head. You're awesome ❤
Oh my goodness Remi, give yourself a bresk. Work a job, have a house to do, cleaning, cooking, 2 children and my personal favorite, nursing a baby!!!!!!!!$-$-&&. You are precious ❤️ no more guilt, you do it all in a normal world. Much love to you and family🎉
Love the title of your video post .. organising is so peaceful and removing the clutter lifts the spirit ..❤
I listen while I clean and I really appreciate the positive messages and motivation. Don’t let the haters get you down you truly help so many of us
It made me laugh that you get comments saying ‘there’s no way your house gets like that organically!’. 😮 I on the other hand find it perfectly easy to understand how your house gets like that. I have 4 pets and 3 teenagers and a job, and motivational issues. Those people ought to have a look round my place. 😅
I love that you talk in your videos. I listen while I clean so I like the conversation. Many cleaning channels play music so if you are listening while cleaning rather than watching then one may as well listen to the radio. So I appreciate that you talk.
I love that you talk the entire time. I watch alot of cleaning videos and I would rather hear the person talking than some of the music some play. So I absolutely love yours. Im so glad I happened across your videos. Not to mention I just feel you are realistic for all moms out there trying to do their best everyday. Thank you for being so refreshing everytime.
You are MY type of people! Love your posts!!
Oh this makes me so happy! Thank you so much 😁
I am surprised people criticise you. Don't people know that if they don't gel with something they can just stop and move on? I really enjoy your chats as you clean. Thanks for sharing xo
I love your videos, they bring me such joy and comfort. I love that you speak to us so please never stop, thank you
5 stars to you for getting yourself motivated after a sleepless night and with 2 young children at home.!!!!!!
The little one is like your shadow. He really loves your attention. I don’t know how you get so much done!
I am a messy person too - thanks for setting yourself out here for others to be encouraged not to give up.
I do training and I do cover the difference between messy people and neat people - we do not understand each other.
Those that accuse you of doing this deliberately is obviously neat people and have never faced a messy person challenges.
Be encouraged that you are helping others and your monologue helps us understand what is running through your mind - to few people actually are aware of their inner voice until the wheels come off.
I find your videos easier to relate to than people posting from my own country. Thanks for being you. 😊
I like your chatting on the videos,I am 52 and I have a 8 yr old with Autism, I really struggle to keep house clean as I just want to chill out.
I'm a relatively new fan. I love your comments and cute accent. I learn something new about cleaning, clearing & life in general with each vlog. Keep up your important life's work. ❤️
I can't believe someone complained that you talk too much! I love listening to you; it really is like listening to a friend vent & chat. Please, keep up the conversations :-)
So glad I found your videos. I share them with my grand daughter who can relate with you. So Thank You. From America.
I think youre doing a great job ! Your children look happy and healthy. Everything cant be picture perfect all the time
Sounds like you're a great mother, full of concern when needed. Maybe the Lord was giving you a little grace by letting the smallest one sleep. God bless you all!
Though I'm much older than you I have the same struggles with my home. You inspire me to get it done!
I just found your channels - and am really enjoying your cheerful attitude ! I need all the motivation I can get. Thank you
I LOVE your voiceovers I literally just listen to the video I barely watch but I like your voice and stories and your positivity!!
You are talking is just fine. It adds to the video as it tells us what you’re thinking, how you are feeling, and helps us to relate to what you’re going through. We might be going through the same thing in our own lives. Right now, after two back surgeries and a third one coming up soon, my husband of 40 years is trying to learn how to clean the house. He has never done it and it is driving me crazy. I am OCD, so it is either my way or don’t do it at all. that poor man is doing his best.
Thank you, Remi. Always feel better after one of your videos.😊
We all have a choice to be positive or negative, you have chosen the better of the two. Let’s all pray for those who see things so poorly, it must me an awful life. You are truly connecting with people.
I love your accent and everything you talk about. Your voice is so soothing, comforting, and interesting and you are so encouraging to every mom struggling to make it through the day. Screw your naysayers. Keep making more videos!! You are refreshing and REAL!
Oh Remi! How much I needed that video today 🥰 I'm absolutely exhausted! Had a stomach bug here. My 10 years old started on Sunday 🤮🤮 and then my 6 years old started Monday afternoon and all night couldn't hold down a sip of water 😩 and on top of that we were away with our caravan so home is one big disaster when we come back, had so many things to put away 🤯 but I'm going to move my 3 letters and I'll sort that now, as best as I can! I'm like you hun, and my husband can't understand why I can't get be bothered very often 🫣 but to be honest it really feels amazing to have tidy house 😅
Don't listen to people talking rubbish! You have many people who really need you in their lives! ❤❤❤❤
Oh bless you, I hope you’re all feeling better now! There’s honestly nothing worse than a sickness bug, especially when you’re trying to care for sick kiddos when you’re sick yourself! But I totally agree, it makes you feel so much better when you’ve got a tidy home! X
You're my kind of people! I love watching and listening it gives me motivation too.
Thank you so much! 🥰
Love this ❤ Thank you so much for sharing all these videos with us. Your talking is THE BEST part 😄 xx
Love that u chat through your videos as music ones bore me and nices feels like I with you while your cleaning such lovely kids too your doing amazing never forget that xx
Were have you been my whole life..lol.
I thought I was the only one who lived like this. Just watching you gives me great hope with my mess. You have no clue how much this helps.
A house can get super messy in a day even after a deep clean. I do a thorough clean on Sundays and by Monday night it's back to needing the deep clean again but itll have to wait til next Sunday when I'm off work again. When you have kids it's just how it goes! Also I love your talking, it's literally why I click on your videos because you're so realistic and it's so comforting
I see you girl ❤ You are such a beautiful motivating woman I could listen to you all day. Btw you’re a wonderful mother 👏❤️❤️❤️❤️
How ridiculous that you would mess up your house to make videos! I raised 6 children and know how quickly a house can get messed up. Its very satisfying to see your home come together. I love your talk overs . You say so many things that resonate with me. Keep up the good fight. Your awesome! ❤
100% get how a house can get so messy in so little time. There is never a day when every single room in my house is clean at the same time. I can get half of the house clean and the other half is still messy. And I just have to alternate which half is clean. And that’s as good as it gets. ❤
You are perfect the way you are.
You are real, honest and no false pretenses. Thank you for helping me.
Hi Remi, I would like to thank you for your honesty, motivation and putting yourself out there. I am one of the people out there that completely understands you and now also understands myself so much more. You say in this video people have said "you talk too much", everyone is entitled to their opinion but .... I LOVE what you have to say. Listening to your point of view and how you process things is exactly what I enjoy .. so keep talking, keep going and thank you for all you do,😊